WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:04.440 We're here. I'm late. I was okay, well I haven't had a 2 00:00:04.519 --> 00:00:09.240 chance to say sorry, it's been we have to like figure out times to 3 00:00:09.279 --> 00:00:12.359 record the podcast. And by the way, thank you for listening. It's 4 00:00:12.400 --> 00:00:18.160 I'm still fun with Alan and Jenny and so Jenny obviously gets off at off 5 00:00:18.199 --> 00:00:22.120 the air at ten, so but I don't come in for my show till 6 00:00:22.199 --> 00:00:26.199 usually one. So we've been trying to like do noon. But then last 7 00:00:26.199 --> 00:00:29.280 week you had something, so yeah, I had to leave early. Well, 8 00:00:29.280 --> 00:00:31.839 we were supposed to go golfing as the morning, like the morning show 9 00:00:31.879 --> 00:00:35.920 people, and then that ended up getting canceled. But you came in early 10 00:00:36.079 --> 00:00:40.359 to like accommodate for me having a tea time at like twelve thirty or something, 11 00:00:40.560 --> 00:00:44.600 and then and then next week I have to do the highway clean up. 12 00:00:44.759 --> 00:00:46.840 Yeah. But also I was going to ask, because you start the 13 00:00:46.960 --> 00:00:50.560 Jason Show, is that going to affect things now too, Like I don't 14 00:00:50.560 --> 00:00:53.799 know if we actually meet at noon, okay, if we change the time 15 00:00:53.840 --> 00:00:57.560 again, that it will affect yeah, because like I yeah, I'm like, 16 00:00:58.200 --> 00:01:03.640 for me, noon is like definitely easiest because when you leave, I 17 00:01:03.679 --> 00:01:07.760 am here for like almost two hours. Yeah, And I have like maybe 18 00:01:07.799 --> 00:01:10.799 thirty minutes of work to do. Zach does not come in for our show 19 00:01:10.879 --> 00:01:15.319 until like, I mean, maybe thirty minutes before it, and nobody's in 20 00:01:15.359 --> 00:01:18.519 our building anymore. So I literally sit around for like an hour and a 21 00:01:18.519 --> 00:01:21.280 half, two hours, and I'm like this sucks. And I was like, 22 00:01:21.719 --> 00:01:23.480 I know, this is like such a whiny baby thing, because like 23 00:01:23.719 --> 00:01:30.159 we have great jobs. But Friday I came in and there wasn't a single 24 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:34.920 person in the building. Not a single person, yeah, I not even 25 00:01:34.959 --> 00:01:38.799 managers. Every door was closed, And I was like, I know for 26 00:01:38.840 --> 00:01:42.920 a fact, I mean, I don't no one's working right, And I'm 27 00:01:42.920 --> 00:01:46.480 like I got a little salty. I'm like, God, it must be 28 00:01:46.599 --> 00:01:49.879 nice to work remote on Fridays and kind of do like the move my mouse 29 00:01:49.959 --> 00:01:55.640 around a little bit. Yeah, means that you're like, are supposed to 30 00:01:55.640 --> 00:01:57.799 be on but like, who knows what else. I mean, I truly 31 00:01:57.840 --> 00:02:01.840 don't know what any one in the other departments do when they work from home. 32 00:02:01.959 --> 00:02:05.159 No, I'm sure they do have some meetings here and there, but 33 00:02:05.359 --> 00:02:10.479 this past Friday, nobody else in the building. Well so in the morning, 34 00:02:10.479 --> 00:02:14.400 and you can always tell when people are going to be in the office 35 00:02:14.400 --> 00:02:16.560 for the day because the lights are on in the main lobby area, and 36 00:02:16.599 --> 00:02:20.560 like I'll go to the bathroom throughout the show whatever, and I can always 37 00:02:20.560 --> 00:02:23.520 tell like usually Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday lights are on a little bit earlier. 38 00:02:23.680 --> 00:02:25.240 Mondays and Fridays, though, I could go to the bathroom at like 39 00:02:25.360 --> 00:02:30.000 nine am and lights are still not really on in the main areas. And 40 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:31.120 I was like, I don't think a lot of people are coming into work 41 00:02:31.240 --> 00:02:35.639 today, Like, even though I think most of our office is supposed to 42 00:02:35.680 --> 00:02:38.719 be in most days of the week, I think they think it'll be like 43 00:02:38.800 --> 00:02:43.080 three days a week. Yeah, I don't know, but I mean I 44 00:02:43.159 --> 00:02:46.360 know it's like whatever. I was just me being salty on Friday, But 45 00:02:46.759 --> 00:02:51.000 it was a pretty good weekend I think. I mean, I went home 46 00:02:51.039 --> 00:02:52.879 Friday. I got off at six now, so I just went home. 47 00:02:52.960 --> 00:02:54.879 But I never did anything really on Fridays anyway, unless I had an event 48 00:02:54.919 --> 00:02:58.840 because I was tired from the morning show. Yeah, did you do anything? 49 00:02:58.960 --> 00:03:00.960 No, not really, because I had a lot that was supposed to 50 00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:05.319 be going on all weekend, and like some of it got changed just because 51 00:03:05.360 --> 00:03:08.639 of well the marathon basically being canceled, but no Fridays. I don't typically 52 00:03:08.680 --> 00:03:12.680 sign myself up for anything anymore. It's a very spur of the moment. 53 00:03:12.719 --> 00:03:15.439 If I feel like doing something, I will. So what I did was 54 00:03:15.479 --> 00:03:17.360 I made these cookies that take a really long time for the party that we 55 00:03:17.400 --> 00:03:21.960 had on Saturday. And that was my Friday night, and I went to 56 00:03:22.000 --> 00:03:24.560 bed and got a decent amount of sleep. Friday night. Yeah, Saturday, 57 00:03:24.639 --> 00:03:28.520 Jenny and I we saved a video to post that will post on our 58 00:03:28.560 --> 00:03:32.360 social Yeah, but we went to our mutual friend Tom, which we're both 59 00:03:32.400 --> 00:03:37.719 friends with Tom because of Tina, and he, you know, makes the 60 00:03:37.800 --> 00:03:40.120 joke these infiltrated Tina's friend group and now we're closer to him than Tina. 61 00:03:40.840 --> 00:03:46.319 But he had like a it was homecomings. Yeah, it was the Gopher 62 00:03:46.360 --> 00:03:49.680 homecoming game. Everyone's like, why are you going to tom Stair a part? 63 00:03:49.719 --> 00:03:51.960 I go, I think there's a football thing going on because I didn't 64 00:03:52.000 --> 00:03:54.280 watch a single second of football. Well when I walked in, they didn't 65 00:03:54.280 --> 00:03:57.840 even have the Gopher game on and they're like, Gophers are trash, and 66 00:03:57.879 --> 00:04:00.800 I was like, I'm confused, Like I thought this was a game party. 67 00:04:00.879 --> 00:04:02.159 And then they were winning, and I think that they won, But 68 00:04:02.199 --> 00:04:03.840 now that I think about it, I don't know. Because me, you 69 00:04:03.840 --> 00:04:06.199 and Tina sat in a corner that we couldn't even see the TV, you 70 00:04:06.240 --> 00:04:10.039 know, most, and I think we were honestly annoying the people, the 71 00:04:10.080 --> 00:04:12.919 guys that were on the couch, because we were so loud. A couple 72 00:04:12.919 --> 00:04:15.360 times I looked over when we were laughing and they were like, God, 73 00:04:15.439 --> 00:04:18.000 I think we're just too loud for him. But they had canes and it 74 00:04:18.079 --> 00:04:20.720 was like such a hot day, I didn't want to be outside, but 75 00:04:20.759 --> 00:04:26.720 we did play a round of beer pong. And I swear they have added 76 00:04:26.759 --> 00:04:30.399 the youths you and I'm including you, Jenny, and youths even though you're 77 00:04:30.399 --> 00:04:33.360 not even youths anymore, had added all these fucking rules to beer pong. 78 00:04:33.399 --> 00:04:38.040 It used to be such a simple, just a classic game of you either 79 00:04:38.079 --> 00:04:40.399 get your ball in or not. You could do a re rack. That 80 00:04:40.560 --> 00:04:44.360 was a thing, but Island never heard of that. My fucking life. 81 00:04:44.519 --> 00:04:48.319 Balls back like the and I don't think anyone bounced it when I was in 82 00:04:48.399 --> 00:04:53.279 school, so there was never like an option to slap the ball. Yeah, 83 00:04:53.319 --> 00:04:56.000 and there's fingering and blowing it and I freaked out at fouling because she 84 00:04:56.000 --> 00:04:57.839 didn't blow the ball, and I was like, what are you doing? 85 00:04:57.879 --> 00:05:00.000 You have to blow because I was grabbing a different ball so that Andrew wouldn't 86 00:05:00.040 --> 00:05:04.000 get it back. What am I supposed? And so I run back to 87 00:05:04.000 --> 00:05:06.360 the table and it's still circling in the cups. So I put my head 88 00:05:06.399 --> 00:05:10.480 and start blowing. And now I was like, what is this? She 89 00:05:10.639 --> 00:05:13.160 starts a bish and she's like, I don't know any of these rules. 90 00:05:13.160 --> 00:05:15.240 Else I prefer a classic time aye, and they didn't. You guys, 91 00:05:15.279 --> 00:05:18.399 nobody pours beer in the cups. It's water and then you just drink your 92 00:05:18.480 --> 00:05:24.120 drink. I mean, we almost never actually played it with beer in college. 93 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:28.839 It was always disgusting college basement like cement floors that the ball was bouncing 94 00:05:28.879 --> 00:05:30.720 on and there's mud everywhere, and so we didn't want to throw the ball. 95 00:05:30.759 --> 00:05:34.000 Then some beer, there was a water cup you would dip it in 96 00:05:34.399 --> 00:05:38.839 before I re tossed it. But I think it was just like everyone got 97 00:05:38.879 --> 00:05:41.879 to the point where they're like, yeah, just like drink as you're supposed 98 00:05:41.879 --> 00:05:45.199 to drink and take happen when you were like twenty nine and you started getting 99 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:47.519 standards. We did it in college already, I start. I mean, 100 00:05:47.560 --> 00:05:50.959 I definitely still played my fair share of games or whether the actually are beer, 101 00:05:51.319 --> 00:05:56.040 you definitely get more intoxicated when there's beer in the cups because you're forced 102 00:05:56.079 --> 00:05:58.680 to drink it in that moment where it's like I'm just casually taking a couple 103 00:05:58.680 --> 00:06:00.800 of SIPs when I have to pull a cup away. Doesn't like cops as 104 00:06:00.879 --> 00:06:03.519 much. But yeah, we definitely got our asses kick. We did. 105 00:06:03.839 --> 00:06:08.639 Yeah, Andrew and Tina's boyfriend Trevor beat us. And so the video that 106 00:06:08.639 --> 00:06:12.759 I found I was talking about will post when we released this episode is of 107 00:06:12.839 --> 00:06:15.600 us doing a double beer bomb, which I was not going to do when 108 00:06:15.600 --> 00:06:18.639 I got to hear pressure, like fine whatever, I know when I look 109 00:06:18.720 --> 00:06:20.759 back at that, and I'm like, Jenny, you are thirty three years 110 00:06:20.759 --> 00:06:26.879 old, stop fucking peer pressuring people to do I just do it. I 111 00:06:26.920 --> 00:06:29.759 was like, it's only gonna be half of beer for you. And I 112 00:06:29.800 --> 00:06:32.160 don't even know how how would equated out. It was whoever sucked faster that 113 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:36.480 probably got the beer more beer. And anyways, so there's a video of 114 00:06:36.600 --> 00:06:41.000 us of us doing a double beer bomb. But then I went out later 115 00:06:41.040 --> 00:06:44.639 that night and did a shot right more because there was like a block party 116 00:06:44.680 --> 00:06:47.279 my friends had in their neighborhood, which is really fun. This two guy 117 00:06:47.319 --> 00:06:51.680 band, older guys. She just fucking killing it. And Jake's like, 118 00:06:51.800 --> 00:06:55.920 that's my dream when I'm retired, us want to be like a two person 119 00:06:56.000 --> 00:06:58.959 band like that, just killing block parties. And I'm like, honestly, 120 00:06:59.040 --> 00:07:01.279 to be hot. What would Jake play? He plays, some plays drums, 121 00:07:01.360 --> 00:07:03.879 Okay, he can play guitar, but not well like he would I 122 00:07:03.920 --> 00:07:09.279 think he could learn. Jake is an annoying person that can easily pick up 123 00:07:09.439 --> 00:07:15.759 almost anything, especially I think musically, probably other languages. He can quickly 124 00:07:15.360 --> 00:07:19.279 understand them, yeah, and figure them out and figure out how to do 125 00:07:19.360 --> 00:07:26.439 like short sentences with other it's it's honestly really impressive. Yeah, but not 126 00:07:26.519 --> 00:07:30.399 sports though, that's just terrible. Oh I saw your tik tak of them 127 00:07:30.399 --> 00:07:33.319 playing basketball. That shit was so funny. Where is it just a two 128 00:07:33.319 --> 00:07:38.000 of them at the gym? And then get this one, get this one? 129 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:42.920 And yeah, it's an endless joke in our family because they came home 130 00:07:42.959 --> 00:07:46.920 making fun of themselves three or so years ago how they tried to play horse 131 00:07:46.920 --> 00:07:49.519 but they couldn't even play horse because they spent thirty minutes just not making shots 132 00:07:49.519 --> 00:07:54.720 and it got so embarrassing they finally left, and so I just we make 133 00:07:54.759 --> 00:07:57.040 fun of each other. I mean, I'm not good at basketball either, 134 00:07:57.040 --> 00:08:00.240 but I don't go try to shoot hoops at lifetime. And so Ja was 135 00:08:00.279 --> 00:08:01.279 like, all right, Falan, I got some videos. You're gonna want 136 00:08:01.279 --> 00:08:03.560 to put together a video because it's pretty funny. And I was like, 137 00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:07.480 okay, But the last layup he did where it wasn't even near anything, 138 00:08:09.439 --> 00:08:11.560 I'm like, people are gonna think it's fake. Let me confirm it is 139 00:08:11.639 --> 00:08:15.240 not. It is so bad, he's gotta go him and Dylan Ney to 140 00:08:15.240 --> 00:08:18.759 go hang out with Andrew because him and some guys from our kickball team, 141 00:08:18.800 --> 00:08:20.839 we're not playing kickball this ball. So some of the guys were like, 142 00:08:20.879 --> 00:08:26.160 let's play a five on five league for basketball, and they signed up too 143 00:08:26.240 --> 00:08:28.000 late, so they're on a waiting list at like twenty five. People definitely 144 00:08:28.000 --> 00:08:31.080 aren't getting in. So he went shot around with one of the guys last 145 00:08:31.080 --> 00:08:35.440 week, and now every day he's been going to this court near our house 146 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:37.720 and shooting around. He's like, I just gotta get better. I gotta 147 00:08:37.720 --> 00:08:41.360 get better. And so now like that's his new thing that he's honed in 148 00:08:41.440 --> 00:08:43.080 on. Andrew likes to hone in on things. Last period of the team 149 00:08:43.120 --> 00:08:46.600 before it was mountain biking. Well, and he did mountain bike like a 150 00:08:46.679 --> 00:08:50.240 lot this summer, but not as much as he has in the past because 151 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:52.279 he likes to go with people, and just a lot of the people that 152 00:08:52.279 --> 00:08:56.519 he normally goes with weren't as available this summer. I feel like, so 153 00:08:56.679 --> 00:08:58.440 he's still in the mountain biking. He also, I want to say, 154 00:08:58.480 --> 00:09:01.519 he talked out this with you guys. He wants to get into some like 155 00:09:01.639 --> 00:09:07.360 intense kayaking, not just like your casual kayaking. I'm talking about like over 156 00:09:07.559 --> 00:09:09.320 rapids, and Jake about it, but not me. I was gonna say. 157 00:09:09.360 --> 00:09:13.320 It all started happening around like the time of e White's wedding, so 158 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:15.320 I didn't know if it was brought up to some of the guys over that 159 00:09:15.360 --> 00:09:18.320 weekend. But now that's like his new thing he wants to get into. 160 00:09:18.440 --> 00:09:20.360 And he asked me if I wanted to, and I was like, I'm 161 00:09:20.360 --> 00:09:22.840 sorry, I'm not going to drown. That's not how I'm going to die. 162 00:09:22.919 --> 00:09:26.200 Okay, there are multiple ways that I could see myself dying. But 163 00:09:26.200 --> 00:09:30.600 I'm not going to deliberately put myself into the list of those, like a 164 00:09:30.639 --> 00:09:33.639 list of laz you're gonna go. I mean, probably just something super clutzy, 165 00:09:33.799 --> 00:09:37.080 like falling off the side of a must Yeah, like when I hike 166 00:09:37.200 --> 00:09:41.120 or something, I will take a wrong step and I'll start falling. I 167 00:09:41.120 --> 00:09:43.480 am I'm not like a super clutzy person. But we know that I'm injury 168 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:46.600 prone. You are injury prone. I think I'll die choking on something. 169 00:09:46.879 --> 00:09:50.200 Yeah, Like it'll be some like a chicken wing or something. I don't 170 00:09:50.200 --> 00:09:52.399 know. It's give me some kind of food. I think when you have 171 00:09:52.440 --> 00:09:54.320 a chicken wing, do you put the whole thing in your mouth? And 172 00:09:54.360 --> 00:09:58.679 then Okay? Now, man, people like that. You guys are filthy, 173 00:09:58.720 --> 00:10:01.919 but also talented, very talented, like spread out clean. That's in 174 00:10:01.960 --> 00:10:07.320 a whole level of sick. But also I do prefer boning. A lot 175 00:10:07.320 --> 00:10:09.519 of people don't bone. List are just like nothing but the briding. These 176 00:10:09.600 --> 00:10:13.639 days, I can't get into it. I've gotten a little bit more likeness 177 00:10:13.720 --> 00:10:18.960 towards wings. It's never been my favorite kind of food, so I don't 178 00:10:18.080 --> 00:10:22.039 think I have a preference. I will pretty much only eat it if it's 179 00:10:22.080 --> 00:10:24.279 the only other like appetizer at the table that I am okay with, like 180 00:10:24.320 --> 00:10:26.679 if there's nothing else I care to eat. But wings are not my thing. 181 00:10:26.720 --> 00:10:30.759 Period. You did you booked your trip though? Right? Oh yes 182 00:10:30.879 --> 00:10:33.960 I did. It's okay. So now that Fund's not on the Morning show, 183 00:10:35.000 --> 00:10:37.080 it's been like kind of streussful the rest of us trying to plan vacations 184 00:10:37.120 --> 00:10:39.720 because now we're down another person. Then if someone takes a vacation, we're 185 00:10:39.720 --> 00:10:43.799 down yet another person. And I know Flin and Zach probably have their own 186 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:48.279 conflicts with vacation themselves. We all how to deal with it yet because we 187 00:10:48.440 --> 00:10:52.240 it's funny we both have the exact amount of days left. I think I 188 00:10:52.240 --> 00:10:58.240 have one more than Zach. And also like we're definitely both going to take 189 00:10:58.240 --> 00:11:01.600 off the same days over Christmas, so that's going to be like four of 190 00:11:01.639 --> 00:11:03.720 the days. Yeah. And so Zach has two others and I have three 191 00:11:03.759 --> 00:11:07.440 others. Yeah. So I just for this year, I don't think it's 192 00:11:07.440 --> 00:11:11.960 going to affect us very much. Yeah. Well, so I originally wanted 193 00:11:11.000 --> 00:11:15.679 to do a fall leaf peeping tour and the plan was to literally be off 194 00:11:15.759 --> 00:11:18.720 this week. This current week that I'm talking about that we're doing this podcast 195 00:11:18.000 --> 00:11:22.960 today is October second. This will get released on the third. And then 196 00:11:22.000 --> 00:11:26.120 I got someone for jury duty for October second, so I was like, 197 00:11:26.159 --> 00:11:28.679 well, I can't plan this trip anymore. So then looking out with like 198 00:11:28.759 --> 00:11:33.720 events coming up and family stuff, the next available time for me to plan 199 00:11:33.759 --> 00:11:35.759 a trip was basically like Thanksgiving time. That's when you guys took off last 200 00:11:35.799 --> 00:11:39.799 year. We did. We went to Thailand last year because it is a 201 00:11:39.919 --> 00:11:41.879 very long travel day to get to Thailand. It's like two days there, 202 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:45.960 one day back because of time differences and stuff, so you're it's just a 203 00:11:46.000 --> 00:11:48.600 lot of traveling. So I wanted to have a decent amount of time and 204 00:11:48.679 --> 00:11:50.519 foul and I've probably talked about this before. We're only allowed to take five 205 00:11:50.600 --> 00:11:54.080 days off at a time, so we can't go for two weeks. If 206 00:11:54.080 --> 00:11:56.559 we have two weeks at vacation, we can't do that. So I did 207 00:11:56.600 --> 00:12:01.720 over Thanksgiving because I could bank those extra couple days with Thanksgiving him like Black 208 00:12:01.759 --> 00:12:05.000 Friday. But Andrew really didn't want to miss Thanksgiving again this year, so 209 00:12:05.039 --> 00:12:09.360 we compromised and we're still heading out. We're going to Tahiti. I guess 210 00:12:09.360 --> 00:12:13.440 I could have started with that. And we're heading out the Friday after Thanksgiving, 211 00:12:13.519 --> 00:12:18.000 so we'll still be able to celebrate Thanksgiving with his family and we're not 212 00:12:18.039 --> 00:12:20.279 going to do it with mine. But I want to be home for Christmas, 213 00:12:20.320 --> 00:12:24.360 even Christmas Day and all that stuff, because we missed that last year 214 00:12:24.399 --> 00:12:28.159 with my family. We went home a couple of weeks early because of a 215 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:31.320 different trip we had planned. So yes, we're heading to Tahiti. We 216 00:12:31.360 --> 00:12:35.120 haven't booked anything besides the flight so far because I'm just like trying to make 217 00:12:35.120 --> 00:12:39.279 sure I have a really good grasp on what we want to do in the 218 00:12:39.279 --> 00:12:43.519 best places to stay. I was so aggressively researching for like five days in 219 00:12:43.519 --> 00:12:46.600 a row that I haven't looked at anything for probably four days, and I 220 00:12:46.639 --> 00:12:50.519 had to take a break, and I was so overstimulated with information. It 221 00:12:50.600 --> 00:12:54.240 was like psychotic how much I was researching stuff. And I was like, 222 00:12:54.279 --> 00:12:56.320 oh, my gosh, Jenny, Yes, they're islands, and we're also 223 00:12:56.360 --> 00:13:01.120 staying. There's an island called Matarea, which is like thirty minutes of ferry 224 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:05.559 ride away from the island of Tahiti, so we're mostly staying on that one. 225 00:13:05.600 --> 00:13:07.399 We're doing a couple of days in Tahiti. And if you don't know, 226 00:13:07.440 --> 00:13:11.559 the French Polynesian Islands is where like Bora Bora is that shit is so 227 00:13:11.679 --> 00:13:16.879 expensive Bora Bora. I am just it's an extra like four hundred dollars plane 228 00:13:16.960 --> 00:13:20.320 ride to get to Bora Bora from Tahiti and then just like the lodging and 229 00:13:20.399 --> 00:13:24.279 because of the way that that island is built it's called like a motu and 230 00:13:24.320 --> 00:13:26.919 I'm probably pronouncing it wrong, but you have to take like different kinds of 231 00:13:26.960 --> 00:13:31.960 transportation and boats to get to have this shit, So that's more added expenses. 232 00:13:31.000 --> 00:13:35.559 And I'm like, honestly, Borabora is like your honeymoon destination. It's 233 00:13:35.600 --> 00:13:39.080 absolutely beautiful in everything, there's not like a whole ton to do, Whereas 234 00:13:39.120 --> 00:13:41.960 the island that we're mostly going to stay on is still gorgeous and has like 235 00:13:43.000 --> 00:13:46.519 the same things that Borabora has, but it has much more to offer and 236 00:13:46.639 --> 00:13:48.799 is bigger and stuff. Why did you choose that instead of Norway, which 237 00:13:48.840 --> 00:13:52.799 is what has been on your list? Because I want to do Norway when 238 00:13:52.799 --> 00:13:54.840 it's nice out, okay, so I want to be able to go They 239 00:13:56.120 --> 00:14:01.399 basically and much harsher in the winter, so I assume Norway had snow for 240 00:14:01.480 --> 00:14:05.679 sure, But yeah, no, I was originally trying to look if we 241 00:14:05.720 --> 00:14:09.279 could figure out something like a few months ago. I was seeing if we 242 00:14:09.320 --> 00:14:13.120 could go in October still or like end of September, but it was already 243 00:14:13.159 --> 00:14:16.039 going to be too cold for what I was liking. Because I want to 244 00:14:16.080 --> 00:14:18.799 be able to hike one of the main hikes. You have to have a 245 00:14:18.799 --> 00:14:22.279 guide past like mid September, I think, and I never I didn't know 246 00:14:22.320 --> 00:14:24.600 if I wanted to do that kind of a hike. I wanted Andrew and 247 00:14:24.600 --> 00:14:28.960 I to do it on our own. So I just wanted to say that 248 00:14:28.000 --> 00:14:31.679 for next summer so that it like Andrew and I are not good at planning 249 00:14:31.720 --> 00:14:35.919 trips because of our opposite schedules. His is a I want to plan something 250 00:14:35.000 --> 00:14:37.559 last minute because I'm not busy right now, and mine is I need to 251 00:14:37.600 --> 00:14:41.039 plan at least three months in advance because we have to figure out what we're 252 00:14:41.039 --> 00:14:43.200 going to do on the morning show. Yeah, so it's been kind of 253 00:14:43.240 --> 00:14:46.919 a hard thing, not like an argumentative thing, it's just been a hard 254 00:14:46.919 --> 00:14:50.039 thing in our relationship to plan trips. But I did tell them that I 255 00:14:50.080 --> 00:14:54.279 want to do Norway next summer. I'm going to literally start planning this trip 256 00:14:54.399 --> 00:15:01.440 like soon, yeah, realistically, but Tahiti was really just like something a 257 00:15:01.440 --> 00:15:03.440 little more unique, I feel like to me that I wanted to do, 258 00:15:03.600 --> 00:15:09.519 but also like decently priced flights, like a lot of flights weren't as cheap, 259 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:16.120 or like layovers were really long. The Galapago Islands was like intriguing to 260 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:18.120 me because I heard there was really good snorkeling. I don't know if it's 261 00:15:18.120 --> 00:15:22.519 just because it was like so last minute. It was literally like three layovers. 262 00:15:22.720 --> 00:15:26.120 Everything I was looking at was like three different layovers. To think, 263 00:15:26.159 --> 00:15:28.480 it's not the easiest place to get too, so that's not surprising to hear. 264 00:15:28.519 --> 00:15:33.399 Actually, So that was just I asked that super quickly. But I 265 00:15:33.399 --> 00:15:37.080 don't know. I just tried to find something that Andrew was down for. 266 00:15:37.519 --> 00:15:41.600 And when it comes to be at wintertime, usually it's snowboarding and snowboarding and 267 00:15:41.600 --> 00:15:43.360 snowboarding, and I was like, you know, I love too, but 268 00:15:43.559 --> 00:15:46.759 I also want to see the world and I don't only want to go snowboarding 269 00:15:46.799 --> 00:15:52.120 on every trip that we do. We did like because Zach's never been out 270 00:15:52.159 --> 00:15:54.200 of the country. Oh yeah, and we did that topically if you've never 271 00:15:54.200 --> 00:16:00.759 been out of the country or whatever, and why and so many people want 272 00:16:00.799 --> 00:16:03.480 to, but they do the same thing every single year. And that's exactly 273 00:16:03.480 --> 00:16:07.519 what my sister does. Before they moved to Florida, they would go to 274 00:16:07.519 --> 00:16:15.279 Florida every year and they would do like things like Bahamas or kind of stuff 275 00:16:15.320 --> 00:16:19.919 like that close close the Caribbean stuff. And so when I took her kids 276 00:16:21.000 --> 00:16:26.399 on a trip this year, she was very frustrated because not at me, 277 00:16:26.960 --> 00:16:32.039 she was really upset with the fact that they've never done something. And I 278 00:16:32.039 --> 00:16:36.759 don't get why they don't because I'm like, if you want to, it's 279 00:16:36.840 --> 00:16:40.799 not that much more expensive than what you were paying to go to probably like 280 00:16:40.919 --> 00:16:44.320 an expensive Bahamas trip, and you can do Bahamas cheap. But I don't 281 00:16:44.399 --> 00:16:48.799 think they did. And I'm like, that's on you. You have to, 282 00:16:48.840 --> 00:16:51.240 Like Kara, you have to, because she was like, I can't 283 00:16:51.279 --> 00:16:53.159 believe my kids are going to see like Paris before me. And I was 284 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:56.840 like, I think a lot of people are experiencing that because younger people are 285 00:16:56.879 --> 00:17:00.639 traveling more. But yeah, so I get like, if Jake wanted to 286 00:17:00.679 --> 00:17:04.039 go like just snowboarding every year, I'd be like, no, we have 287 00:17:04.119 --> 00:17:07.160 to, like, I gotta do something that. First of all, I 288 00:17:07.200 --> 00:17:10.440 don't snowboards, especially what affected me that I would like, Yeah, I 289 00:17:10.480 --> 00:17:14.759 want to do other things. So I get that. But we do have 290 00:17:14.799 --> 00:17:18.839 a couple of messages I wanted to get to also. I took a screenshot 291 00:17:18.839 --> 00:17:26.200 of one, so hopefully I can find it quickly. Falon and Jenny wanted 292 00:17:26.200 --> 00:17:29.359 to start by saying congrats on the new podcast. I loved listening to your 293 00:17:29.359 --> 00:17:33.119 first episode hilarious and love hearing you two back together. I feel like all 294 00:17:33.160 --> 00:17:37.119 the podcast stars aligned for me today. And here's why. I listened to 295 00:17:37.160 --> 00:17:41.200 your first episode this morning and was dying at Jenny's butt eating the laser hair 296 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:45.519 removal machine. Wonderful. Fast forward to this afternoon, I'm listening to old 297 00:17:45.599 --> 00:17:49.799 episodes of the Minnesota Goodbye. An episode from March twenty twenty one starts playing, 298 00:17:51.240 --> 00:17:53.720 and what is the topic, Laser hair removal on the butt? Lol. 299 00:17:53.920 --> 00:17:57.319 In the episode, Jenny says she can't imagine getting laser hair removal on 300 00:17:57.319 --> 00:18:02.039 her butt because she doesn't know how she could hold her cheeks apart for the 301 00:18:02.440 --> 00:18:04.599 for that long, since they're so big and in my mind. All I 302 00:18:04.599 --> 00:18:07.599 could think of is, girl, I know your future in this situation, 303 00:18:07.640 --> 00:18:11.799 and you're right, it doesn't turn out well. I just wanted to let 304 00:18:11.799 --> 00:18:15.720 you both in on the time machine experience I had today because what are the 305 00:18:15.799 --> 00:18:18.000 odds? And that was from Courtney so, oh my god, it's so 306 00:18:18.039 --> 00:18:23.759 funny. I can't even remember talking about it. I think we had one 307 00:18:23.799 --> 00:18:26.599 more email too that we didn't get you last week. I was going to 308 00:18:26.680 --> 00:18:32.920 pull up Okay, I've listened to the first two episodes. This is from 309 00:18:32.960 --> 00:18:34.240 a guy, by the way. The first one caught me off guard. 310 00:18:34.279 --> 00:18:37.319 I was thinking to myself, maybe this podcast is only for women, but 311 00:18:37.440 --> 00:18:41.359 I kept listening because it was hilarious. Well, I'm a dude, and 312 00:18:41.400 --> 00:18:44.440 I have some questions for you too, and maybe for the listeners. My 313 00:18:44.480 --> 00:18:48.039 wife every time before we do it, she always wants us to wash up 314 00:18:48.079 --> 00:18:49.359 first. I mean, I don't mind, but it's a bit of a 315 00:18:49.359 --> 00:18:52.880 hassle and sometimes it takes you out of the mood, doesn't it Does anyone 316 00:18:52.920 --> 00:18:57.359 else's spouse or partner also do this only if they're super stinky? Yeah, 317 00:18:57.759 --> 00:19:02.759 I was gonna say there, I don't want to put him on blast. 318 00:19:02.799 --> 00:19:06.680 But Andrew doesn't shower every day. He goes like a day or two sometimes, 319 00:19:07.039 --> 00:19:08.960 and he really doesn't stink. But I can tell some days where I'm 320 00:19:08.960 --> 00:19:14.079 like, bro, you clean up. So maybe in certain instances like that, 321 00:19:14.119 --> 00:19:18.079 but if we're like getting into it right away, I'm not. I 322 00:19:18.079 --> 00:19:21.359 don't know, Like if we just started kissing and I smelt like a little 323 00:19:21.400 --> 00:19:23.000 bo or something, I would get over it. Yeah, me too. 324 00:19:23.079 --> 00:19:27.319 But I think everyone's defeat their own and I definitely have had moments where I 325 00:19:27.359 --> 00:19:32.599 have not felt clean down in that area and I have been like, pause, 326 00:19:32.720 --> 00:19:33.559 yeah, I'm want to run to the bathroom real quick. I'll be 327 00:19:33.599 --> 00:19:37.240 right back. I feel like there's an episode of Sex and the City or 328 00:19:37.279 --> 00:19:41.480 something where the guy has to shower every time before after he has sex with 329 00:19:41.519 --> 00:19:45.319 Miranda or something, and she's like, I can't do this anymore. Second 330 00:19:45.400 --> 00:19:48.839 question, Me and my wife have been married fifteen years now. The first 331 00:19:48.839 --> 00:19:52.519 two years, especially before we had our daughter, we did normal sexual things 332 00:19:52.000 --> 00:19:56.279 will normal to me, like sixty nine. Now not so much or almost 333 00:19:56.319 --> 00:19:59.200 never. She also is a log in the bed and doesn't really do anything. 334 00:19:59.200 --> 00:20:00.480 It reminds me of foul and saying she's a starfish in the bed up, 335 00:20:00.599 --> 00:20:03.160 laugh, cry emoji? What can I do for me? It's a 336 00:20:03.160 --> 00:20:10.119 big part of a sexual relationship. Oh, it's hard to say what to 337 00:20:10.160 --> 00:20:14.680 do because again I think every okay, well let's put into it. I 338 00:20:14.720 --> 00:20:19.079 guess it probably depends on the situation. And what I mean is, are 339 00:20:19.079 --> 00:20:23.680 you trying to like do four play with her when in sixty nine after she 340 00:20:23.720 --> 00:20:27.480 had a really fucking long day with the kid, and she's exhausted and she's 341 00:20:27.519 --> 00:20:32.039 so annoyed, and maybe you didn't even help her clean up after dinner and 342 00:20:32.160 --> 00:20:36.279 she's like sitting there thinking, you think I'm gonna spend twenty minutes doing this? 343 00:20:36.440 --> 00:20:38.599 Yeah, I mean, honestly, that's that could be something like that, 344 00:20:38.680 --> 00:20:42.559 right, it could be very circumstantial. Like it's hard for me to 345 00:20:42.599 --> 00:20:47.400 relate with like a kid's situation. But I totally understand that you're probably exhausted. 346 00:20:47.480 --> 00:20:52.000 But like I was trying to take a nap the other day, and 347 00:20:52.000 --> 00:20:55.200 Andrew had come upstairs and was like bugging me and stuff, and I was 348 00:20:55.279 --> 00:20:59.559 like, I am tired, Okay, I just want to take this nap. 349 00:20:59.599 --> 00:21:00.880 I have a free afternoon for once. I want to take a nap. 350 00:21:02.240 --> 00:21:06.079 But like then he just started doing stuff and eventually I got going. 351 00:21:06.079 --> 00:21:10.319 So it happened, but I wasn't like prime time, Like I was very 352 00:21:10.359 --> 00:21:14.720 annoyed at first. So I think maybe there, if she seems like a 353 00:21:14.759 --> 00:21:17.559 log in the sense that she's tired, maybe you need to have a conversation 354 00:21:17.599 --> 00:21:21.000 of like, hey, is there like times that work better for you, 355 00:21:21.279 --> 00:21:23.440 because truthfully, life gets so busy. I mean, Andrew and I have 356 00:21:23.480 --> 00:21:26.480 only been together for three and a half years, and we don't have any 357 00:21:26.559 --> 00:21:32.200 kids, but yet I don't feel like we take the time to like have 358 00:21:32.480 --> 00:21:36.039 as good of a sexual relationship as we used to, and so now it's 359 00:21:36.039 --> 00:21:37.759 gotten to the point where some days I'll be like, we should probably have 360 00:21:37.839 --> 00:21:42.000 sex in the next couple of days. And so I think that you have 361 00:21:42.079 --> 00:21:47.240 to have those conversations. But in terms of her, I don't know. 362 00:21:47.440 --> 00:21:49.359 He didn't say it was like always like that. It seems like as of 363 00:21:49.480 --> 00:21:56.240 recent Yeah, I would say a couple of things. I would say, 364 00:21:56.680 --> 00:22:00.519 I don't think it's abnormal, So I'll start with that. Maybe I think 365 00:22:00.559 --> 00:22:03.519 that's very common, like the longer you're together, and then some couples, 366 00:22:03.640 --> 00:22:07.119 like we still have sex five times a week, they are the exception, 367 00:22:07.160 --> 00:22:08.160 they're not the rule. I don't think that's as common. So if you 368 00:22:08.240 --> 00:22:15.519 are that exception, good for you. I also think like it's kind of 369 00:22:15.559 --> 00:22:19.359 like are you how are you trying? How are you starting it? Because 370 00:22:19.519 --> 00:22:22.680 I have gotten annoyed with Jake in the past when he's just like rolled over 371 00:22:23.640 --> 00:22:26.279 and put his boner on my back and I'm like, fuck off, dude, 372 00:22:26.319 --> 00:22:30.559 Like that doesn't turn me on. You gotta put a little effort into 373 00:22:30.599 --> 00:22:33.160 for me to want to put in a little effort, And he's like, 374 00:22:33.200 --> 00:22:36.519 Okay, good note taken. You know what I mean? Yeah, Kad, 375 00:22:36.519 --> 00:22:37.960 there was something else I was gonna about, Like I would say that 376 00:22:38.119 --> 00:22:44.519 sometimes also was sex. Like love languages can come into this, so like 377 00:22:44.720 --> 00:22:48.400 if it is like you know she likes acts of service, well did you 378 00:22:48.440 --> 00:22:52.759 go do the laundry and clean out the dishwasher and do all that kind of 379 00:22:52.759 --> 00:22:56.240 stuff, because that stuff is just like super helpful for someone's like attraction to 380 00:22:56.279 --> 00:23:00.039 their partner if that's their love language. So I don't know. I do 381 00:23:00.119 --> 00:23:03.920 think that love language is our kind of important in your bedroom on top of 382 00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:07.279 a great relationship in general. And if you don't know what that is, 383 00:23:07.279 --> 00:23:10.519 you can just literally google love languages it, I'll tell you, but maybe 384 00:23:10.519 --> 00:23:12.079 she would enjoy you. Do you guys both taking the quiz to see what 385 00:23:12.079 --> 00:23:17.119 your love languages are? Maybe they'd be a fun activity. Also, we 386 00:23:17.240 --> 00:23:19.799 talked about this this weekend because I jokingly said, don't you guys love because 387 00:23:19.799 --> 00:23:22.039 I heard it on a podcast if you wake up in the middle of the 388 00:23:22.119 --> 00:23:25.640 night and like you both like just know you're gonna do it, and like 389 00:23:25.640 --> 00:23:26.839 you just do it in the middle of the night, And we were talking 390 00:23:26.839 --> 00:23:30.200 about our favorite time of day to do it. My least favorite is at 391 00:23:30.359 --> 00:23:33.720 night, which seems like it would be the most convenient because you're both in 392 00:23:33.759 --> 00:23:37.200 bed at the same time. Usually that's my least favorite. Maybe we went 393 00:23:37.240 --> 00:23:41.839 out for a date and we were drinking and stuff that would work. I'm 394 00:23:41.880 --> 00:23:47.400 more of like morning or kind of which the middle of the night that rarely 395 00:23:47.400 --> 00:23:52.400 happens because we both sleep like logs usually. Yeah. See, I think 396 00:23:52.720 --> 00:23:56.400 we are really kind of random with our times now because we don't really do 397 00:23:56.440 --> 00:23:59.720 the night stuff anymore because we aren't usually in bed a lot of times at 398 00:23:59.720 --> 00:24:03.160 the same time. But the morning has become difficult too, because I've become 399 00:24:03.160 --> 00:24:07.440 a freak and on weekend, like obviously during the week I'm up and out 400 00:24:07.480 --> 00:24:10.920 of bed and I'm going to work. And on weekends now I have started 401 00:24:10.920 --> 00:24:14.240 to get up and like just get out of bed and start my day or 402 00:24:14.599 --> 00:24:17.319 I go to the gym or something. And Andrew sleeps in a little bit 403 00:24:17.400 --> 00:24:18.839 later, like he used to be the one that was up super early, 404 00:24:18.880 --> 00:24:22.359 and we kind of switched those roles in the last year and a half. 405 00:24:22.559 --> 00:24:25.839 Yea, so we're never really in bed at the same time in the morning, 406 00:24:25.880 --> 00:24:30.279 but morning was definitely more of our thing until it just like wasn't the 407 00:24:30.319 --> 00:24:33.880 same. So it really has super random times for us now, I think 408 00:24:34.119 --> 00:24:38.480 for you at the end of the day, these are phases of life and 409 00:24:38.480 --> 00:24:44.440 what I've learned too in past relationships, the more you say no, the 410 00:24:44.519 --> 00:24:47.920 more likely you are going to say no because it's easier to say no. 411 00:24:48.599 --> 00:24:51.720 Like if I've gone, like in a past relationship, a long streak where 412 00:24:51.720 --> 00:24:53.319 I've just said no, no, no, no, no, and then 413 00:24:53.359 --> 00:24:56.240 i have sex, I'm like, oh, I enjoyed this, and then 414 00:24:56.240 --> 00:24:59.359 we do it again a couple of days later. It's like if you stay 415 00:24:59.559 --> 00:25:03.839 I find the longer you say no, the longer you're going to say no. 416 00:25:03.960 --> 00:25:11.000 So I think making sure she is pleasured and not fake pleasured yep is 417 00:25:11.039 --> 00:25:18.480 one thing. Yep. And then just figuring out maybe having the conversation what 418 00:25:18.519 --> 00:25:21.920 time of day is better for you. Maybe it's you do have to start 419 00:25:22.000 --> 00:25:26.000 kind of scheduling it a little bit to get it into a more routine thing. 420 00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:29.480 And I also do that. And it's not like I don't look down 421 00:25:29.519 --> 00:25:32.480 the relationship. They have sex more than we do sometimes because of their weekly 422 00:25:32.680 --> 00:25:37.160 hook up, you know. Yeah. And I think also, like you, 423 00:25:37.640 --> 00:25:40.680 I don't know if you have like a little rut in your relationship right 424 00:25:40.720 --> 00:25:44.839 now. It's just like life is happening now, and it is hard to 425 00:25:44.880 --> 00:25:48.559 like help you with the situation of if your wife's not doing like anything in 426 00:25:48.559 --> 00:25:52.119 the bedroom, because that's that is unfair to you. But once again, 427 00:25:52.160 --> 00:25:55.880 it's very circumstantial of like, we don't know if she's so tired, it's 428 00:25:55.920 --> 00:25:57.839 just not in the mood at that time. One more thing I'll add in 429 00:25:59.039 --> 00:26:02.200 with the joking of her laying there like a log. She might also be 430 00:26:02.240 --> 00:26:06.839 insecure about her body since having a kid. And when you're insecure about your 431 00:26:06.880 --> 00:26:08.799 body, I realized that guys will be like, oh my god, like 432 00:26:10.359 --> 00:26:12.759 I am not looking at like your stomach when you're on top, it's so 433 00:26:12.799 --> 00:26:17.759 hot, blah blah blah. But we are thinking about it and it's our 434 00:26:17.799 --> 00:26:21.640 insecurity, so maybe that goes into it a little bit as well. So 435 00:26:22.079 --> 00:26:26.160 I don't know if that helped, but I would say we've covered every possible 436 00:26:26.200 --> 00:26:30.200 aspect. I don't know. And Jenny, I wanted to. I know 437 00:26:30.240 --> 00:26:33.839 you said you're gonna do You're trying to do sober October. Okay, So 438 00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:34.799 Andrew brought this up a few weeks ago. He's like, do you want 439 00:26:34.799 --> 00:26:37.000 to do sober October? And I go sure, and he goes, yeah, 440 00:26:37.079 --> 00:26:40.519 so like no caffeine, no sugar. I know, I was the 441 00:26:40.559 --> 00:26:42.240 hell and I go, so, no life, and I go, hold 442 00:26:42.240 --> 00:26:47.119 on us, I can't let us relid. So he starts listening these things 443 00:26:47.119 --> 00:26:48.359 and he brings it up like a few weeks ago. Then like a week 444 00:26:48.400 --> 00:26:51.960 ago he's like, all right, so we're October, and I was like, 445 00:26:52.079 --> 00:26:55.039 list the things again. He goes, okay, no alcohol, no 446 00:26:55.680 --> 00:26:59.480 caffeine, no sugar. He's like, no video games for me, And 447 00:26:59.559 --> 00:27:00.880 it kind of left it like there were supposed to be something else and he 448 00:27:00.920 --> 00:27:04.799 stopped and I go, no, weed was that? That was on the 449 00:27:04.839 --> 00:27:08.400 list a few weeks ago? And he goes and I was like, all 450 00:27:08.480 --> 00:27:12.119 right, hold on seconds, because we doesn't affect me. I don't smoke, 451 00:27:12.720 --> 00:27:18.000 and I don't care if you do or not. But that was on 452 00:27:18.039 --> 00:27:19.519 the list. And he goes, well, I don't know. I don't 453 00:27:19.559 --> 00:27:22.440 go well, but we had this one to the list, no masturbating, 454 00:27:22.839 --> 00:27:26.960 and he goes, well, then we're gonna have to start having sex more 455 00:27:26.039 --> 00:27:29.839 then, and I go, okay, we gotta pick a couple of things, 456 00:27:29.880 --> 00:27:32.920 but yeah, we were going to do it. And I asked him 457 00:27:32.920 --> 00:27:34.240 truthfully, I was like, why do you want to do this? Yeah, 458 00:27:34.319 --> 00:27:37.680 honestly, why do you want to do it? And he goes to 459 00:27:37.759 --> 00:27:40.880 be the best I can be was his answer, and I go, God, 460 00:27:40.920 --> 00:27:44.359 you're such a fucking He follows David Goggins if you know who that is. 461 00:27:44.400 --> 00:27:48.079 He is this like insane athlete and he is very motivational. You'll see 462 00:27:48.119 --> 00:27:53.359 his quotes on like gems all over the place. And I do like David 463 00:27:53.400 --> 00:27:57.400 Goggins, but David Goggins is not human. What he does with his life 464 00:27:57.480 --> 00:28:00.720 is not human. Most people can not do what he does. And Andrew 465 00:28:00.720 --> 00:28:04.079 always just like, here's these podcasts, listens to so many podcasts and strives 466 00:28:04.119 --> 00:28:08.480 to be like those people. And so that Sober October would have started Sunday, 467 00:28:08.519 --> 00:28:12.559 October one. What did your girl do Sunday morning? Get hers up 468 00:28:12.599 --> 00:28:18.599 a coffee? Oh so there goes caffeine out the door already. That's really 469 00:28:18.599 --> 00:28:22.079 hard to get as a morning person. I was gonna say, I do 470 00:28:22.240 --> 00:28:25.440 coffee two to three times a week. I stopped bringing I used to do 471 00:28:25.440 --> 00:28:27.519 coffee every single day. I stopped bringing it in because I have stomach issues 472 00:28:27.559 --> 00:28:30.720 and I felt like coffee was not helping me. But Friday mornings, I've 473 00:28:30.720 --> 00:28:34.480 always treated myself to Cariboo, and it's like one of the number one things 474 00:28:34.519 --> 00:28:37.279 I look for every single week, and then also on weekends. It's a 475 00:28:37.319 --> 00:28:40.960 fun thing for if Andrew and I are both free on a Saturday morning to 476 00:28:41.039 --> 00:28:45.880 go get coffee together. Yeah. So I don't always use coffee to energize 477 00:28:45.920 --> 00:28:48.079 me, but there are some mornings I come in where I'm like, put 478 00:28:48.079 --> 00:28:51.880 a fucking ivy drip in my veins. I need all the coffee in the 479 00:28:51.920 --> 00:28:55.680 world. I am so tired today, So I kind of assumed I wouldn't 480 00:28:55.720 --> 00:28:59.359 do the coffee portion. I would love to do the sugar. But guess 481 00:28:59.400 --> 00:29:03.319 who just have bite of a cake this morning that God dropped off me. 482 00:29:03.880 --> 00:29:07.920 I have some fucking cake this morning. So now at this point, the 483 00:29:07.960 --> 00:29:11.200 only thing left is alcohol. Yea, I did say no to mimosas for 484 00:29:11.240 --> 00:29:15.880 the Twin Cities Marathon party thing that I went to, and I do intend 485 00:29:15.920 --> 00:29:19.000 on not drinking. I have like an apple orchard winery day plan with girlfriends 486 00:29:19.000 --> 00:29:22.319 this coming weekend, and I just plan on like hanging and catching up with 487 00:29:22.359 --> 00:29:26.480 everyone, and I don't plan on drinking. The only thing that's going to 488 00:29:26.519 --> 00:29:30.640 be tempting. Let's see, this comes out Tuesday, so hopefully well, 489 00:29:30.720 --> 00:29:33.799 well we've already talked about this boobash is happening, and so that'll be happening 490 00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:37.720 in the month of October. Yeah, and so I think it'll be a 491 00:29:37.720 --> 00:29:41.519 little bit hard for me to not drink at that one. It's like, 492 00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:44.759 it's just really fun to hang out with everyone that comes to that and like 493 00:29:45.079 --> 00:29:48.359 and also it's the easiest way for me to ever get drunk because everyone's buying 494 00:29:48.359 --> 00:29:52.039 me shots. That is for your girl will be tempted, So I don't 495 00:29:52.039 --> 00:29:56.559 know. I think I'm gonna just do stop sober October alcohol wise until I 496 00:29:56.599 --> 00:30:00.480 can't. Yeah, And like I said, I don't plan on drinking. 497 00:30:00.559 --> 00:30:03.799 Like I'm not a casual drinker anyways. I really only drink if there's like 498 00:30:03.839 --> 00:30:07.559 something fun going on. So I don't know what Andrew's gonna do yet. 499 00:30:07.599 --> 00:30:11.039 I don't. I mean, he definitely already had coffee, so he's broke 500 00:30:11.079 --> 00:30:12.599 the caffeine part. Yeah, And I'm trying to think if he had any 501 00:30:12.599 --> 00:30:15.960 sugar yesterday. I'm not entirely sure what he all snatched from you a base. 502 00:30:18.039 --> 00:30:23.400 He literally like bought a pack of Reesas cups a couple of weeks ago. 503 00:30:23.839 --> 00:30:29.079 And then he also like forgot I had this bag of popcorn that's like 504 00:30:29.119 --> 00:30:32.960 a sweeter popcorn or something, and he went and he started eating that. 505 00:30:33.119 --> 00:30:34.640 He started eating the Reesa's cups because he forgot he had had them in the 506 00:30:34.680 --> 00:30:37.640 basement. And then there was one other thing I can't think of right now, 507 00:30:37.880 --> 00:30:41.079 and so he goes to bed. This is all on a Friday night. 508 00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:42.200 I went to bed before him, and I wake up in the morning 509 00:30:42.279 --> 00:30:45.240 He's like, oh, I feel so bad and I was like, what 510 00:30:45.440 --> 00:30:48.720 happened last night? So I made half the bag of those reas. Hate 511 00:30:48.720 --> 00:30:52.799 that popcorn. I hate this and I'm like, man, you I don't 512 00:30:52.799 --> 00:30:55.319 know if you're going to be able to make it through Sober October. No, 513 00:30:55.839 --> 00:30:59.799 he's weak. Yeah, Drake said he was doing sober October with no 514 00:31:00.119 --> 00:31:03.720 ordering food. Yes, he did say that because we thought we talked about 515 00:31:03.759 --> 00:31:06.839 on the show and he said he started like two weeks ago already, So 516 00:31:07.720 --> 00:31:10.160 is that not true? I don't know. I feel like I've seen some 517 00:31:10.240 --> 00:31:12.880 debrian stuff in there by. Also I don't know if it was his, 518 00:31:14.160 --> 00:31:15.920 and I don't even remember with the past two weeks, so I don't know. 519 00:31:17.160 --> 00:31:19.359 He is more so doing it though, because he needs to save money. 520 00:31:19.400 --> 00:31:23.720 He does. I just like, listen, I was twenty two before 521 00:31:23.880 --> 00:31:26.480 also, okay, so like I don't care what he eats, but I 522 00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:30.960 don't know how he affords to eat what he eats because I also made twenty 523 00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:33.400 two year old money back in the day, and I was like, I 524 00:31:33.440 --> 00:31:37.480 could not have ate out more than like once a week maybe yeah, And 525 00:31:37.079 --> 00:31:42.240 he just like loves to get too, so it's even more offensive. I'm 526 00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:45.519 just doing I'm not doing any sober or anything. But I'm just cleaning it 527 00:31:45.559 --> 00:31:49.519 up. So we started. I started like a peloton challenge yesterday for October, 528 00:31:51.119 --> 00:31:53.319 and so tomorrow there's no chance. I'm probably going to ride the bike 529 00:31:53.400 --> 00:31:57.359 because I have the most chaotic day. I start the Jason Show. Then 530 00:31:57.400 --> 00:32:00.759 I'm Jake and I are going to do something thing at like noon. Then 531 00:32:00.880 --> 00:32:06.799 I have to go here do the show. I have to leave the show 532 00:32:06.839 --> 00:32:09.039 a little bit early actually to go to Ovo Lacing and Lens. I'm there 533 00:32:09.680 --> 00:32:13.960 until six, okay, and then at six I have to floor it to 534 00:32:13.960 --> 00:32:17.400 the Mall of America for a women's event I'm hosting until like eight pm. 535 00:32:17.519 --> 00:32:22.000 Jeez, you need an ivy drip of coffee. Tomorrow. Tomorrow is gonna 536 00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:23.759 be so kay, there's no and I don't want to get sweaty and gross 537 00:32:23.799 --> 00:32:28.440 before I have to go do the first show appearance. So I did yesterday 538 00:32:28.559 --> 00:32:30.720 like a forty five minute ride. To date it like a thirty five minute 539 00:32:30.799 --> 00:32:34.279 ride, and so I'm like it'll be good. I'm but I'm just like, 540 00:32:34.319 --> 00:32:37.960 also, just pull them back. So like on the bow yesterday, 541 00:32:37.039 --> 00:32:40.920 I had strawberries, even though everyone else had fucking chips and dip. The 542 00:32:42.000 --> 00:32:45.559 little sacrifice is Jenny. You know, do I want an entire cake right 543 00:32:45.599 --> 00:32:47.000 now? Sure? Yeah I do. There was a point in my life 544 00:32:47.039 --> 00:32:51.680 where I dated someone who was very healthy and very into working out, and 545 00:32:51.920 --> 00:32:55.599 I back then was such a fucking dumpster of crap, like I ate everything 546 00:32:55.640 --> 00:32:59.720 in the world, I drink all the time, whatever, and somehow I 547 00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.359 a lot of metabolism that kept me somewhat thin, ye like, and I 548 00:33:02.440 --> 00:33:06.440 remember just being like, God, you live such a miserable life, like 549 00:33:06.519 --> 00:33:08.839 you don't have any joy. And now I'm like, it probably would be 550 00:33:08.880 --> 00:33:13.079 good to be around someone like that, because then I would have less temptation. 551 00:33:13.799 --> 00:33:17.240 Like I love Andrew, and I have no problem with him eating whatever 552 00:33:17.279 --> 00:33:21.720 he wants to eat. But the problem is me not being able to control 553 00:33:21.799 --> 00:33:24.519 myself when something's in the house. And usually when I live by myself, 554 00:33:24.559 --> 00:33:28.960 nothing would be in the house that wasn't super unhealthy besides brown sugar that I 555 00:33:29.039 --> 00:33:32.759 eat in the middle of the night sometimes. So I just have a problem 556 00:33:32.839 --> 00:33:36.599 with controlling myself. So I am proud of you that you're on a boat 557 00:33:36.640 --> 00:33:40.559 with people yesterday, but still it's so hard to be out enjoying things like 558 00:33:40.599 --> 00:33:44.960 that. And everyone else is hammering delicious food and you're like, well, 559 00:33:45.000 --> 00:33:47.440 I'm gonna really try to find joy in these strawberries. Well, the thing 560 00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:52.920 is is that this is not like I'm just trying to moderately clean it up. 561 00:33:52.119 --> 00:33:54.000 Like, first of I'm going to Indiana, it's going to be a 562 00:33:54.000 --> 00:33:59.240 ship show there. But I'm also I told Zach this other day because he 563 00:33:59.279 --> 00:34:00.880 was like, oh, are you look on weight loss thing? And I 564 00:34:00.920 --> 00:34:05.400 was like, no, I am done with those days. I will never 565 00:34:05.480 --> 00:34:07.840 do a strict weight loss thing again in my life unless I am forced to 566 00:34:07.920 --> 00:34:14.599 buy a doctor because of health reasons. Yeah, because I do not give 567 00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:19.679 a fuck what other people are going to think of me like I used to. 568 00:34:20.199 --> 00:34:22.360 Because I used to be so obsessed with any picture that was posted of 569 00:34:22.400 --> 00:34:27.400 me on our websites and social media. I do not care. Now I'll 570 00:34:27.400 --> 00:34:30.159 see it. I'm like, oh that looks ruffill, good fuck it, 571 00:34:30.880 --> 00:34:32.719 because if I have the choice, I'll post the one where I look the 572 00:34:32.719 --> 00:34:37.039 best, for sure. But like, I am not going to sit around 573 00:34:37.519 --> 00:34:40.960 at all OF's birthday party and not have cake. I'm not going to sit 574 00:34:40.960 --> 00:34:44.960 around on Christmas and have carrot sticks. I'm not gonna do it on a 575 00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:47.480 random Saturday either, like I'm going to live my life. But I do 576 00:34:47.519 --> 00:34:52.880 think that there is like there are times I've gone a little too aggressive on 577 00:34:52.000 --> 00:34:54.639 things most of my life, so I can pull back a little bit. 578 00:34:54.719 --> 00:34:59.800 So I'm not depriving myself and I am not counting calories or anything like that. 579 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.920 I'm just trying to make better choices, is all I'm doing. I 580 00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:07.840 know. And I like went through a period of time when I started training 581 00:35:07.920 --> 00:35:10.880 and I was working with someone else also with like my eating, and I 582 00:35:10.920 --> 00:35:15.639 probably developed a little bit of like an eating disorder during that time because I 583 00:35:15.760 --> 00:35:20.280 was eating like the amount that I should have been eating, but really bland 584 00:35:20.360 --> 00:35:24.159 food that then made me have such a bad relationship with having a cookie or 585 00:35:24.199 --> 00:35:29.480 something. So I kind of fell off of that and I'm okay with that. 586 00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:31.760 But I did recently start wearing my fitbit again, and I had not 587 00:35:31.800 --> 00:35:35.559 warned that for a while because I felt like I was getting a really unhealthy 588 00:35:35.559 --> 00:35:39.679 relationship with my fitbit. But I realized that like I like to be able 589 00:35:39.679 --> 00:35:44.599 to track what I do. Yeah, And so like yesterday I did not 590 00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:47.039 work out. I was one with the couch. I fucking watched Love is 591 00:35:47.079 --> 00:35:52.400 blind for you. I mean I did go and like do a Twin Cities 592 00:35:52.400 --> 00:35:55.000 marathon event thing, so I did do other things, but like I felt 593 00:35:55.119 --> 00:35:59.000 like such a bum and I looked at my calories burn and how many steps 594 00:35:59.000 --> 00:36:00.920 I did and I didn't give a But I liked that I was able to 595 00:36:00.920 --> 00:36:04.960 see where I was at because there are certain days where I'm like, I 596 00:36:04.960 --> 00:36:07.719 can tell my mental health is like down a little bit, and if I 597 00:36:07.800 --> 00:36:08.960 look and I'm like, well, you know, if you moved your body 598 00:36:09.000 --> 00:36:13.760 a little bit right now, it'd be helpful for you. So that's kind 599 00:36:13.760 --> 00:36:16.480 of why I just started doing the fitbit again, because I don't want to 600 00:36:16.519 --> 00:36:20.800 be like obsessing over how many calories I burned, and I don't because I 601 00:36:20.840 --> 00:36:22.519 don't hit my goal most of the days. Honestly, even when I do 602 00:36:22.639 --> 00:36:27.239 a really hard workout, I don't hit my goal sometimes. Yeah, So 603 00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:31.400 yeah, it's all about balance. I'm never going to find a balance and 604 00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:35.880 that is okay with me. I don't know. But anyway, well, 605 00:36:36.039 --> 00:36:37.239 we've gone over again. Today. We're gonna go like thirty minutes. We 606 00:36:37.239 --> 00:36:42.159 went over last week too, I know, just giving we're having a group 607 00:36:42.360 --> 00:36:45.880 of ladies. Now we're going to need to take and what I mean is 608 00:36:45.039 --> 00:36:50.000 take us out for a drink. Now, I'm just kidding. Thank you 609 00:36:50.039 --> 00:36:52.440 for listening, and have a great day.