We're here. I'm late. I was okay, well I haven't had a
chance to say sorry, it's been we have to like figure out times to
record the podcast. And by the way, thank you for listening. It's
I'm still fun with Alan and Jenny and so Jenny obviously gets off at off
the air at ten, so but I don't come in for my show till
usually one. So we've been trying to like do noon. But then last
week you had something, so yeah, I had to leave early. Well,
we were supposed to go golfing as the morning, like the morning show
people, and then that ended up getting canceled. But you came in early
to like accommodate for me having a tea time at like twelve thirty or something,
and then and then next week I have to do the highway clean up.
Yeah. But also I was going to ask, because you start the
Jason Show, is that going to affect things now too, Like I don't
know if we actually meet at noon, okay, if we change the time
again, that it will affect yeah, because like I yeah, I'm like,
for me, noon is like definitely easiest because when you leave, I
am here for like almost two hours. Yeah, And I have like maybe
thirty minutes of work to do. Zach does not come in for our show
until like, I mean, maybe thirty minutes before it, and nobody's in
our building anymore. So I literally sit around for like an hour and a
half, two hours, and I'm like this sucks. And I was like,
I know, this is like such a whiny baby thing, because like
we have great jobs. But Friday I came in and there wasn't a single
person in the building. Not a single person, yeah, I not even
managers. Every door was closed, And I was like, I know for
a fact, I mean, I don't no one's working right, And I'm
like I got a little salty. I'm like, God, it must be
nice to work remote on Fridays and kind of do like the move my mouse
around a little bit. Yeah, means that you're like, are supposed to
be on but like, who knows what else. I mean, I truly
don't know what any one in the other departments do when they work from home.
No, I'm sure they do have some meetings here and there, but
this past Friday, nobody else in the building. Well so in the morning,
and you can always tell when people are going to be in the office
for the day because the lights are on in the main lobby area, and
like I'll go to the bathroom throughout the show whatever, and I can always
tell like usually Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday lights are on a little bit earlier.
Mondays and Fridays, though, I could go to the bathroom at like
nine am and lights are still not really on in the main areas. And
I was like, I don't think a lot of people are coming into work
today, Like, even though I think most of our office is supposed to
be in most days of the week, I think they think it'll be like
three days a week. Yeah, I don't know, but I mean I
know it's like whatever. I was just me being salty on Friday, But
it was a pretty good weekend I think. I mean, I went home
Friday. I got off at six now, so I just went home.
But I never did anything really on Fridays anyway, unless I had an event
because I was tired from the morning show. Yeah, did you do anything?
No, not really, because I had a lot that was supposed to
be going on all weekend, and like some of it got changed just because
of well the marathon basically being canceled, but no Fridays. I don't typically
sign myself up for anything anymore. It's a very spur of the moment.
If I feel like doing something, I will. So what I did was
I made these cookies that take a really long time for the party that we
had on Saturday. And that was my Friday night, and I went to
bed and got a decent amount of sleep. Friday night. Yeah, Saturday,
Jenny and I we saved a video to post that will post on our
social Yeah, but we went to our mutual friend Tom, which we're both
friends with Tom because of Tina, and he, you know, makes the
joke these infiltrated Tina's friend group and now we're closer to him than Tina.
But he had like a it was homecomings. Yeah, it was the Gopher
homecoming game. Everyone's like, why are you going to tom Stair a part?
I go, I think there's a football thing going on because I didn't
watch a single second of football. Well when I walked in, they didn't
even have the Gopher game on and they're like, Gophers are trash, and
I was like, I'm confused, Like I thought this was a game party.
And then they were winning, and I think that they won, But
now that I think about it, I don't know. Because me, you
and Tina sat in a corner that we couldn't even see the TV, you
know, most, and I think we were honestly annoying the people, the
guys that were on the couch, because we were so loud. A couple
times I looked over when we were laughing and they were like, God,
I think we're just too loud for him. But they had canes and it
was like such a hot day, I didn't want to be outside, but
we did play a round of beer pong. And I swear they have added
the youths you and I'm including you, Jenny, and youths even though you're
not even youths anymore, had added all these fucking rules to beer pong.
It used to be such a simple, just a classic game of you either
get your ball in or not. You could do a re rack. That
was a thing, but Island never heard of that. My fucking life.
Balls back like the and I don't think anyone bounced it when I was in
school, so there was never like an option to slap the ball. Yeah,
and there's fingering and blowing it and I freaked out at fouling because she
didn't blow the ball, and I was like, what are you doing?
You have to blow because I was grabbing a different ball so that Andrew wouldn't
get it back. What am I supposed? And so I run back to
the table and it's still circling in the cups. So I put my head
and start blowing. And now I was like, what is this? She
starts a bish and she's like, I don't know any of these rules.
Else I prefer a classic time aye, and they didn't. You guys,
nobody pours beer in the cups. It's water and then you just drink your
drink. I mean, we almost never actually played it with beer in college.
It was always disgusting college basement like cement floors that the ball was bouncing
on and there's mud everywhere, and so we didn't want to throw the ball.
Then some beer, there was a water cup you would dip it in
before I re tossed it. But I think it was just like everyone got
to the point where they're like, yeah, just like drink as you're supposed
to drink and take happen when you were like twenty nine and you started getting
standards. We did it in college already, I start. I mean,
I definitely still played my fair share of games or whether the actually are beer,
you definitely get more intoxicated when there's beer in the cups because you're forced
to drink it in that moment where it's like I'm just casually taking a couple
of SIPs when I have to pull a cup away. Doesn't like cops as
much. But yeah, we definitely got our asses kick. We did.
Yeah, Andrew and Tina's boyfriend Trevor beat us. And so the video that
I found I was talking about will post when we released this episode is of
us doing a double beer bomb, which I was not going to do when
I got to hear pressure, like fine whatever, I know when I look
back at that, and I'm like, Jenny, you are thirty three years
old, stop fucking peer pressuring people to do I just do it. I
was like, it's only gonna be half of beer for you. And I
don't even know how how would equated out. It was whoever sucked faster that
probably got the beer more beer. And anyways, so there's a video of
us of us doing a double beer bomb. But then I went out later
that night and did a shot right more because there was like a block party
my friends had in their neighborhood, which is really fun. This two guy
band, older guys. She just fucking killing it. And Jake's like,
that's my dream when I'm retired, us want to be like a two person
band like that, just killing block parties. And I'm like, honestly,
to be hot. What would Jake play? He plays, some plays drums,
Okay, he can play guitar, but not well like he would I
think he could learn. Jake is an annoying person that can easily pick up
almost anything, especially I think musically, probably other languages. He can quickly
understand them, yeah, and figure them out and figure out how to do
like short sentences with other it's it's honestly really impressive. Yeah, but not
sports though, that's just terrible. Oh I saw your tik tak of them
playing basketball. That shit was so funny. Where is it just a two
of them at the gym? And then get this one, get this one?
And yeah, it's an endless joke in our family because they came home
making fun of themselves three or so years ago how they tried to play horse
but they couldn't even play horse because they spent thirty minutes just not making shots
and it got so embarrassing they finally left, and so I just we make
fun of each other. I mean, I'm not good at basketball either,
but I don't go try to shoot hoops at lifetime. And so Ja was
like, all right, Falan, I got some videos. You're gonna want
to put together a video because it's pretty funny. And I was like,
okay, But the last layup he did where it wasn't even near anything,
I'm like, people are gonna think it's fake. Let me confirm it is
not. It is so bad, he's gotta go him and Dylan Ney to
go hang out with Andrew because him and some guys from our kickball team,
we're not playing kickball this ball. So some of the guys were like,
let's play a five on five league for basketball, and they signed up too
late, so they're on a waiting list at like twenty five. People definitely
aren't getting in. So he went shot around with one of the guys last
week, and now every day he's been going to this court near our house
and shooting around. He's like, I just gotta get better. I gotta
get better. And so now like that's his new thing that he's honed in
on. Andrew likes to hone in on things. Last period of the team
before it was mountain biking. Well, and he did mountain bike like a
lot this summer, but not as much as he has in the past because
he likes to go with people, and just a lot of the people that
he normally goes with weren't as available this summer. I feel like, so
he's still in the mountain biking. He also, I want to say,
he talked out this with you guys. He wants to get into some like
intense kayaking, not just like your casual kayaking. I'm talking about like over
rapids, and Jake about it, but not me. I was gonna say.
It all started happening around like the time of e White's wedding, so
I didn't know if it was brought up to some of the guys over that
weekend. But now that's like his new thing he wants to get into.
And he asked me if I wanted to, and I was like, I'm
sorry, I'm not going to drown. That's not how I'm going to die.
Okay, there are multiple ways that I could see myself dying. But
I'm not going to deliberately put myself into the list of those, like a
list of laz you're gonna go. I mean, probably just something super clutzy,
like falling off the side of a must Yeah, like when I hike
or something, I will take a wrong step and I'll start falling. I
am I'm not like a super clutzy person. But we know that I'm injury
prone. You are injury prone. I think I'll die choking on something.
Yeah, Like it'll be some like a chicken wing or something. I don't
know. It's give me some kind of food. I think when you have
a chicken wing, do you put the whole thing in your mouth? And
then Okay? Now, man, people like that. You guys are filthy,
but also talented, very talented, like spread out clean. That's in
a whole level of sick. But also I do prefer boning. A lot
of people don't bone. List are just like nothing but the briding. These
days, I can't get into it. I've gotten a little bit more likeness
towards wings. It's never been my favorite kind of food, so I don't
think I have a preference. I will pretty much only eat it if it's
the only other like appetizer at the table that I am okay with, like
if there's nothing else I care to eat. But wings are not my thing.
Period. You did you booked your trip though? Right? Oh yes
I did. It's okay. So now that Fund's not on the Morning show,
it's been like kind of streussful the rest of us trying to plan vacations
because now we're down another person. Then if someone takes a vacation, we're
down yet another person. And I know Flin and Zach probably have their own
conflicts with vacation themselves. We all how to deal with it yet because we
it's funny we both have the exact amount of days left. I think I
have one more than Zach. And also like we're definitely both going to take
off the same days over Christmas, so that's going to be like four of
the days. Yeah. And so Zach has two others and I have three
others. Yeah. So I just for this year, I don't think it's
going to affect us very much. Yeah. Well, so I originally wanted
to do a fall leaf peeping tour and the plan was to literally be off
this week. This current week that I'm talking about that we're doing this podcast
today is October second. This will get released on the third. And then
I got someone for jury duty for October second, so I was like,
well, I can't plan this trip anymore. So then looking out with like
events coming up and family stuff, the next available time for me to plan
a trip was basically like Thanksgiving time. That's when you guys took off last
year. We did. We went to Thailand last year because it is a
very long travel day to get to Thailand. It's like two days there,
one day back because of time differences and stuff, so you're it's just a
lot of traveling. So I wanted to have a decent amount of time and
foul and I've probably talked about this before. We're only allowed to take five
days off at a time, so we can't go for two weeks. If
we have two weeks at vacation, we can't do that. So I did
over Thanksgiving because I could bank those extra couple days with Thanksgiving him like Black
Friday. But Andrew really didn't want to miss Thanksgiving again this year, so
we compromised and we're still heading out. We're going to Tahiti. I guess
I could have started with that. And we're heading out the Friday after Thanksgiving,
so we'll still be able to celebrate Thanksgiving with his family and we're not
going to do it with mine. But I want to be home for Christmas,
even Christmas Day and all that stuff, because we missed that last year
with my family. We went home a couple of weeks early because of a
different trip we had planned. So yes, we're heading to Tahiti. We
haven't booked anything besides the flight so far because I'm just like trying to make
sure I have a really good grasp on what we want to do in the
best places to stay. I was so aggressively researching for like five days in
a row that I haven't looked at anything for probably four days, and I
had to take a break, and I was so overstimulated with information. It
was like psychotic how much I was researching stuff. And I was like,
oh, my gosh, Jenny, Yes, they're islands, and we're also
staying. There's an island called Matarea, which is like thirty minutes of ferry
ride away from the island of Tahiti, so we're mostly staying on that one.
We're doing a couple of days in Tahiti. And if you don't know,
the French Polynesian Islands is where like Bora Bora is that shit is so
expensive Bora Bora. I am just it's an extra like four hundred dollars plane
ride to get to Bora Bora from Tahiti and then just like the lodging and
because of the way that that island is built it's called like a motu and
I'm probably pronouncing it wrong, but you have to take like different kinds of
transportation and boats to get to have this shit, So that's more added expenses.
And I'm like, honestly, Borabora is like your honeymoon destination. It's
absolutely beautiful in everything, there's not like a whole ton to do, Whereas
the island that we're mostly going to stay on is still gorgeous and has like
the same things that Borabora has, but it has much more to offer and
is bigger and stuff. Why did you choose that instead of Norway, which
is what has been on your list? Because I want to do Norway when
it's nice out, okay, so I want to be able to go They
basically and much harsher in the winter, so I assume Norway had snow for
sure, But yeah, no, I was originally trying to look if we
could figure out something like a few months ago. I was seeing if we
could go in October still or like end of September, but it was already
going to be too cold for what I was liking. Because I want to
be able to hike one of the main hikes. You have to have a
guide past like mid September, I think, and I never I didn't know
if I wanted to do that kind of a hike. I wanted Andrew and
I to do it on our own. So I just wanted to say that
for next summer so that it like Andrew and I are not good at planning
trips because of our opposite schedules. His is a I want to plan something
last minute because I'm not busy right now, and mine is I need to
plan at least three months in advance because we have to figure out what we're
going to do on the morning show. Yeah, so it's been kind of
a hard thing, not like an argumentative thing, it's just been a hard
thing in our relationship to plan trips. But I did tell them that I
want to do Norway next summer. I'm going to literally start planning this trip
like soon, yeah, realistically, but Tahiti was really just like something a
little more unique, I feel like to me that I wanted to do,
but also like decently priced flights, like a lot of flights weren't as cheap,
or like layovers were really long. The Galapago Islands was like intriguing to
me because I heard there was really good snorkeling. I don't know if it's
just because it was like so last minute. It was literally like three layovers.
Everything I was looking at was like three different layovers. To think,
it's not the easiest place to get too, so that's not surprising to hear.
Actually, So that was just I asked that super quickly. But I
don't know. I just tried to find something that Andrew was down for.
And when it comes to be at wintertime, usually it's snowboarding and snowboarding and
snowboarding, and I was like, you know, I love too, but
I also want to see the world and I don't only want to go snowboarding
on every trip that we do. We did like because Zach's never been out
of the country. Oh yeah, and we did that topically if you've never
been out of the country or whatever, and why and so many people want
to, but they do the same thing every single year. And that's exactly
what my sister does. Before they moved to Florida, they would go to
Florida every year and they would do like things like Bahamas or kind of stuff
like that close close the Caribbean stuff. And so when I took her kids
on a trip this year, she was very frustrated because not at me,
she was really upset with the fact that they've never done something. And I
don't get why they don't because I'm like, if you want to, it's
not that much more expensive than what you were paying to go to probably like
an expensive Bahamas trip, and you can do Bahamas cheap. But I don't
think they did. And I'm like, that's on you. You have to,
Like Kara, you have to, because she was like, I can't
believe my kids are going to see like Paris before me. And I was
like, I think a lot of people are experiencing that because younger people are
traveling more. But yeah, so I get like, if Jake wanted to
go like just snowboarding every year, I'd be like, no, we have
to, like, I gotta do something that. First of all, I
don't snowboards, especially what affected me that I would like, Yeah, I
want to do other things. So I get that. But we do have
a couple of messages I wanted to get to also. I took a screenshot
of one, so hopefully I can find it quickly. Falon and Jenny wanted
to start by saying congrats on the new podcast. I loved listening to your
first episode hilarious and love hearing you two back together. I feel like all
the podcast stars aligned for me today. And here's why. I listened to
your first episode this morning and was dying at Jenny's butt eating the laser hair
removal machine. Wonderful. Fast forward to this afternoon, I'm listening to old
episodes of the Minnesota Goodbye. An episode from March twenty twenty one starts playing,
and what is the topic, Laser hair removal on the butt? Lol.
In the episode, Jenny says she can't imagine getting laser hair removal on
her butt because she doesn't know how she could hold her cheeks apart for the
for that long, since they're so big and in my mind. All I
could think of is, girl, I know your future in this situation,
and you're right, it doesn't turn out well. I just wanted to let
you both in on the time machine experience I had today because what are the
odds? And that was from Courtney so, oh my god, it's so
funny. I can't even remember talking about it. I think we had one
more email too that we didn't get you last week. I was going to
pull up Okay, I've listened to the first two episodes. This is from
a guy, by the way. The first one caught me off guard.
I was thinking to myself, maybe this podcast is only for women, but
I kept listening because it was hilarious. Well, I'm a dude, and
I have some questions for you too, and maybe for the listeners. My
wife every time before we do it, she always wants us to wash up
first. I mean, I don't mind, but it's a bit of a
hassle and sometimes it takes you out of the mood, doesn't it Does anyone
else's spouse or partner also do this only if they're super stinky? Yeah,
I was gonna say there, I don't want to put him on blast.
But Andrew doesn't shower every day. He goes like a day or two sometimes,
and he really doesn't stink. But I can tell some days where I'm
like, bro, you clean up. So maybe in certain instances like that,
but if we're like getting into it right away, I'm not. I
don't know, Like if we just started kissing and I smelt like a little
bo or something, I would get over it. Yeah, me too.
But I think everyone's defeat their own and I definitely have had moments where I
have not felt clean down in that area and I have been like, pause,
yeah, I'm want to run to the bathroom real quick. I'll be
right back. I feel like there's an episode of Sex and the City or
something where the guy has to shower every time before after he has sex with
Miranda or something, and she's like, I can't do this anymore. Second
question, Me and my wife have been married fifteen years now. The first
two years, especially before we had our daughter, we did normal sexual things
will normal to me, like sixty nine. Now not so much or almost
never. She also is a log in the bed and doesn't really do anything.
It reminds me of foul and saying she's a starfish in the bed up,
laugh, cry emoji? What can I do for me? It's a
big part of a sexual relationship. Oh, it's hard to say what to
do because again I think every okay, well let's put into it. I
guess it probably depends on the situation. And what I mean is, are
you trying to like do four play with her when in sixty nine after she
had a really fucking long day with the kid, and she's exhausted and she's
so annoyed, and maybe you didn't even help her clean up after dinner and
she's like sitting there thinking, you think I'm gonna spend twenty minutes doing this?
Yeah, I mean, honestly, that's that could be something like that,
right, it could be very circumstantial. Like it's hard for me to
relate with like a kid's situation. But I totally understand that you're probably exhausted.
But like I was trying to take a nap the other day, and
Andrew had come upstairs and was like bugging me and stuff, and I was
like, I am tired, Okay, I just want to take this nap.
I have a free afternoon for once. I want to take a nap.
But like then he just started doing stuff and eventually I got going.
So it happened, but I wasn't like prime time, Like I was very
annoyed at first. So I think maybe there, if she seems like a
log in the sense that she's tired, maybe you need to have a conversation
of like, hey, is there like times that work better for you,
because truthfully, life gets so busy. I mean, Andrew and I have
only been together for three and a half years, and we don't have any
kids, but yet I don't feel like we take the time to like have
as good of a sexual relationship as we used to, and so now it's
gotten to the point where some days I'll be like, we should probably have
sex in the next couple of days. And so I think that you have
to have those conversations. But in terms of her, I don't know.
He didn't say it was like always like that. It seems like as of
recent Yeah, I would say a couple of things. I would say,
I don't think it's abnormal, So I'll start with that. Maybe I think
that's very common, like the longer you're together, and then some couples,
like we still have sex five times a week, they are the exception,
they're not the rule. I don't think that's as common. So if you
are that exception, good for you. I also think like it's kind of
like are you how are you trying? How are you starting it? Because
I have gotten annoyed with Jake in the past when he's just like rolled over
and put his boner on my back and I'm like, fuck off, dude,
Like that doesn't turn me on. You gotta put a little effort into
for me to want to put in a little effort, And he's like,
Okay, good note taken. You know what I mean? Yeah, Kad,
there was something else I was gonna about, Like I would say that
sometimes also was sex. Like love languages can come into this, so like
if it is like you know she likes acts of service, well did you
go do the laundry and clean out the dishwasher and do all that kind of
stuff, because that stuff is just like super helpful for someone's like attraction to
their partner if that's their love language. So I don't know. I do
think that love language is our kind of important in your bedroom on top of
a great relationship in general. And if you don't know what that is,
you can just literally google love languages it, I'll tell you, but maybe
she would enjoy you. Do you guys both taking the quiz to see what
your love languages are? Maybe they'd be a fun activity. Also, we
talked about this this weekend because I jokingly said, don't you guys love because
I heard it on a podcast if you wake up in the middle of the
night and like you both like just know you're gonna do it, and like
you just do it in the middle of the night, And we were talking
about our favorite time of day to do it. My least favorite is at
night, which seems like it would be the most convenient because you're both in
bed at the same time. Usually that's my least favorite. Maybe we went
out for a date and we were drinking and stuff that would work. I'm
more of like morning or kind of which the middle of the night that rarely
happens because we both sleep like logs usually. Yeah. See, I think
we are really kind of random with our times now because we don't really do
the night stuff anymore because we aren't usually in bed a lot of times at
the same time. But the morning has become difficult too, because I've become
a freak and on weekend, like obviously during the week I'm up and out
of bed and I'm going to work. And on weekends now I have started
to get up and like just get out of bed and start my day or
I go to the gym or something. And Andrew sleeps in a little bit
later, like he used to be the one that was up super early,
and we kind of switched those roles in the last year and a half.
Yea, so we're never really in bed at the same time in the morning,
but morning was definitely more of our thing until it just like wasn't the
same. So it really has super random times for us now, I think
for you at the end of the day, these are phases of life and
what I've learned too in past relationships, the more you say no, the
more likely you are going to say no because it's easier to say no.
Like if I've gone, like in a past relationship, a long streak where
I've just said no, no, no, no, no, and then
i have sex, I'm like, oh, I enjoyed this, and then
we do it again a couple of days later. It's like if you stay
I find the longer you say no, the longer you're going to say no.
So I think making sure she is pleasured and not fake pleasured yep is
one thing. Yep. And then just figuring out maybe having the conversation what
time of day is better for you. Maybe it's you do have to start
kind of scheduling it a little bit to get it into a more routine thing.
And I also do that. And it's not like I don't look down
the relationship. They have sex more than we do sometimes because of their weekly
hook up, you know. Yeah. And I think also, like you,
I don't know if you have like a little rut in your relationship right
now. It's just like life is happening now, and it is hard to
like help you with the situation of if your wife's not doing like anything in
the bedroom, because that's that is unfair to you. But once again,
it's very circumstantial of like, we don't know if she's so tired, it's
just not in the mood at that time. One more thing I'll add in
with the joking of her laying there like a log. She might also be
insecure about her body since having a kid. And when you're insecure about your
body, I realized that guys will be like, oh my god, like
I am not looking at like your stomach when you're on top, it's so
hot, blah blah blah. But we are thinking about it and it's our
insecurity, so maybe that goes into it a little bit as well. So
I don't know if that helped, but I would say we've covered every possible
aspect. I don't know. And Jenny, I wanted to. I know
you said you're gonna do You're trying to do sober October. Okay, So
Andrew brought this up a few weeks ago. He's like, do you want
to do sober October? And I go sure, and he goes, yeah,
so like no caffeine, no sugar. I know, I was the
hell and I go, so, no life, and I go, hold
on us, I can't let us relid. So he starts listening these things
and he brings it up like a few weeks ago. Then like a week
ago he's like, all right, so we're October, and I was like,
list the things again. He goes, okay, no alcohol, no
caffeine, no sugar. He's like, no video games for me, And
it kind of left it like there were supposed to be something else and he
stopped and I go, no, weed was that? That was on the
list a few weeks ago? And he goes and I was like, all
right, hold on seconds, because we doesn't affect me. I don't smoke,
and I don't care if you do or not. But that was on
the list. And he goes, well, I don't know. I don't
go well, but we had this one to the list, no masturbating,
and he goes, well, then we're gonna have to start having sex more
then, and I go, okay, we gotta pick a couple of things,
but yeah, we were going to do it. And I asked him
truthfully, I was like, why do you want to do this? Yeah,
honestly, why do you want to do it? And he goes to
be the best I can be was his answer, and I go, God,
you're such a fucking He follows David Goggins if you know who that is.
He is this like insane athlete and he is very motivational. You'll see
his quotes on like gems all over the place. And I do like David
Goggins, but David Goggins is not human. What he does with his life
is not human. Most people can not do what he does. And Andrew
always just like, here's these podcasts, listens to so many podcasts and strives
to be like those people. And so that Sober October would have started Sunday,
October one. What did your girl do Sunday morning? Get hers up
a coffee? Oh so there goes caffeine out the door already. That's really
hard to get as a morning person. I was gonna say, I do
coffee two to three times a week. I stopped bringing I used to do
coffee every single day. I stopped bringing it in because I have stomach issues
and I felt like coffee was not helping me. But Friday mornings, I've
always treated myself to Cariboo, and it's like one of the number one things
I look for every single week, and then also on weekends. It's a
fun thing for if Andrew and I are both free on a Saturday morning to
go get coffee together. Yeah. So I don't always use coffee to energize
me, but there are some mornings I come in where I'm like, put
a fucking ivy drip in my veins. I need all the coffee in the
world. I am so tired today, So I kind of assumed I wouldn't
do the coffee portion. I would love to do the sugar. But guess
who just have bite of a cake this morning that God dropped off me.
I have some fucking cake this morning. So now at this point, the
only thing left is alcohol. Yea, I did say no to mimosas for
the Twin Cities Marathon party thing that I went to, and I do intend
on not drinking. I have like an apple orchard winery day plan with girlfriends
this coming weekend, and I just plan on like hanging and catching up with
everyone, and I don't plan on drinking. The only thing that's going to
be tempting. Let's see, this comes out Tuesday, so hopefully well,
well we've already talked about this boobash is happening, and so that'll be happening
in the month of October. Yeah, and so I think it'll be a
little bit hard for me to not drink at that one. It's like,
it's just really fun to hang out with everyone that comes to that and like
and also it's the easiest way for me to ever get drunk because everyone's buying
me shots. That is for your girl will be tempted, So I don't
know. I think I'm gonna just do stop sober October alcohol wise until I
can't. Yeah, And like I said, I don't plan on drinking.
Like I'm not a casual drinker anyways. I really only drink if there's like
something fun going on. So I don't know what Andrew's gonna do yet.
I don't. I mean, he definitely already had coffee, so he's broke
the caffeine part. Yeah, And I'm trying to think if he had any
sugar yesterday. I'm not entirely sure what he all snatched from you a base.
He literally like bought a pack of Reesas cups a couple of weeks ago.
And then he also like forgot I had this bag of popcorn that's like
a sweeter popcorn or something, and he went and he started eating that.
He started eating the Reesa's cups because he forgot he had had them in the
basement. And then there was one other thing I can't think of right now,
and so he goes to bed. This is all on a Friday night.
I went to bed before him, and I wake up in the morning
He's like, oh, I feel so bad and I was like, what
happened last night? So I made half the bag of those reas. Hate
that popcorn. I hate this and I'm like, man, you I don't
know if you're going to be able to make it through Sober October. No,
he's weak. Yeah, Drake said he was doing sober October with no
ordering food. Yes, he did say that because we thought we talked about
on the show and he said he started like two weeks ago already, So
is that not true? I don't know. I feel like I've seen some
debrian stuff in there by. Also I don't know if it was his,
and I don't even remember with the past two weeks, so I don't know.
He is more so doing it though, because he needs to save money.
He does. I just like, listen, I was twenty two before
also, okay, so like I don't care what he eats, but I
don't know how he affords to eat what he eats because I also made twenty
two year old money back in the day, and I was like, I
could not have ate out more than like once a week maybe yeah, And
he just like loves to get too, so it's even more offensive. I'm
just doing I'm not doing any sober or anything. But I'm just cleaning it
up. So we started. I started like a peloton challenge yesterday for October,
and so tomorrow there's no chance. I'm probably going to ride the bike
because I have the most chaotic day. I start the Jason Show. Then
I'm Jake and I are going to do something thing at like noon. Then
I have to go here do the show. I have to leave the show
a little bit early actually to go to Ovo Lacing and Lens. I'm there
until six, okay, and then at six I have to floor it to
the Mall of America for a women's event I'm hosting until like eight pm.
Jeez, you need an ivy drip of coffee. Tomorrow. Tomorrow is gonna
be so kay, there's no and I don't want to get sweaty and gross
before I have to go do the first show appearance. So I did yesterday
like a forty five minute ride. To date it like a thirty five minute
ride, and so I'm like it'll be good. I'm but I'm just like,
also, just pull them back. So like on the bow yesterday,
I had strawberries, even though everyone else had fucking chips and dip. The
little sacrifice is Jenny. You know, do I want an entire cake right
now? Sure? Yeah I do. There was a point in my life
where I dated someone who was very healthy and very into working out, and
I back then was such a fucking dumpster of crap, like I ate everything
in the world, I drink all the time, whatever, and somehow I
a lot of metabolism that kept me somewhat thin, ye like, and I
remember just being like, God, you live such a miserable life, like
you don't have any joy. And now I'm like, it probably would be
good to be around someone like that, because then I would have less temptation.
Like I love Andrew, and I have no problem with him eating whatever
he wants to eat. But the problem is me not being able to control
myself when something's in the house. And usually when I live by myself,
nothing would be in the house that wasn't super unhealthy besides brown sugar that I
eat in the middle of the night sometimes. So I just have a problem
with controlling myself. So I am proud of you that you're on a boat
with people yesterday, but still it's so hard to be out enjoying things like
that. And everyone else is hammering delicious food and you're like, well,
I'm gonna really try to find joy in these strawberries. Well, the thing
is is that this is not like I'm just trying to moderately clean it up.
Like, first of I'm going to Indiana, it's going to be a
ship show there. But I'm also I told Zach this other day because he
was like, oh, are you look on weight loss thing? And I
was like, no, I am done with those days. I will never
do a strict weight loss thing again in my life unless I am forced to
buy a doctor because of health reasons. Yeah, because I do not give
a fuck what other people are going to think of me like I used to.
Because I used to be so obsessed with any picture that was posted of
me on our websites and social media. I do not care. Now I'll
see it. I'm like, oh that looks ruffill, good fuck it,
because if I have the choice, I'll post the one where I look the
best, for sure. But like, I am not going to sit around
at all OF's birthday party and not have cake. I'm not going to sit
around on Christmas and have carrot sticks. I'm not gonna do it on a
random Saturday either, like I'm going to live my life. But I do
think that there is like there are times I've gone a little too aggressive on
things most of my life, so I can pull back a little bit.
So I'm not depriving myself and I am not counting calories or anything like that.
I'm just trying to make better choices, is all I'm doing. I
know. And I like went through a period of time when I started training
and I was working with someone else also with like my eating, and I
probably developed a little bit of like an eating disorder during that time because I
was eating like the amount that I should have been eating, but really bland
food that then made me have such a bad relationship with having a cookie or
something. So I kind of fell off of that and I'm okay with that.
But I did recently start wearing my fitbit again, and I had not
warned that for a while because I felt like I was getting a really unhealthy
relationship with my fitbit. But I realized that like I like to be able
to track what I do. Yeah, And so like yesterday I did not
work out. I was one with the couch. I fucking watched Love is
blind for you. I mean I did go and like do a Twin Cities
marathon event thing, so I did do other things, but like I felt
like such a bum and I looked at my calories burn and how many steps
I did and I didn't give a But I liked that I was able to
see where I was at because there are certain days where I'm like, I
can tell my mental health is like down a little bit, and if I
look and I'm like, well, you know, if you moved your body
a little bit right now, it'd be helpful for you. So that's kind
of why I just started doing the fitbit again, because I don't want to
be like obsessing over how many calories I burned, and I don't because I
don't hit my goal most of the days. Honestly, even when I do
a really hard workout, I don't hit my goal sometimes. Yeah, So
yeah, it's all about balance. I'm never going to find a balance and
that is okay with me. I don't know. But anyway, well,
we've gone over again. Today. We're gonna go like thirty minutes. We
went over last week too, I know, just giving we're having a group
of ladies. Now we're going to need to take and what I mean is
take us out for a drink. Now, I'm just kidding. Thank you
for listening, and have a great day.