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Made a decision A face sunny sumord on iheturdasione 10 00:00:53,719 --> 00:01:02,520 nice? What's up everybody? Thank you for tuning in on our Memorial Day, 11 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,280 for going out loud. Yeah, even though you guys are at barbecues 12 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:11,359 and we are slaving away in the studio. Our job is so hard. 13 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,879 Why do we have to work so hard? We never really miss a holiday? 14 00:01:18,239 --> 00:01:21,159 You know what I mean? I said that I've been about of ourselves 15 00:01:21,239 --> 00:01:23,840 but we are pretty we have a good work ethic when it comes to this 16 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,280 show. Yeah, I think we do pretty well. Like I was thinking 17 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:30,400 about it this morning, and I always forget. Every Memorial Day in our 18 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:36,760 neighborhood, there's a parade and I have to go around and out of my 19 00:01:36,879 --> 00:01:38,640 way. Although this time, and I was still late this morning, and 20 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,280 I'll tell you why. But this time I'm my new neighborhood. Where I'm 21 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:46,239 at, I don't have to there's still the parade, but I'm on the 22 00:01:46,239 --> 00:01:52,840 other I'm by the freeway, so dam a problem. As I would say, 23 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,959 go to Patreon. Yeah, if you want to know more about that. 24 00:01:56,159 --> 00:01:59,200 Yeah, yeah, so that's good. Yeah, you're able to just 25 00:01:59,239 --> 00:02:01,480 hop on the yes. Just yeah, easy to get on the freeway this 26 00:02:01,599 --> 00:02:08,960 morning. Though spoiler alert, Phil's got ailments once again. Now he had 27 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:13,639 to have surgery. I think I told you last week. But one thing 28 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,719 I didn't I forgot to mention is in our new backyard, we have like 29 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:22,560 a lot of grass, but then there's a big area and then there's a 30 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:30,319 dog run of woodchips. Well guess what. Phil loves to eat woodchips and 31 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:35,840 guess what is can be fatal for a dog woodschips. Yeah, that's crazy. 32 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,360 What did you do? Did you so? Well? What I did? 33 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:44,719 At first, I was trying to Okay, so it's a pretty decent 34 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:49,039 size area of woodschips, and at first I was like, okay, do 35 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,719 I fence it off? But then I'm like, you know, there is 36 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,439 a way he could get around the fence. It's hard. We're on a 37 00:02:55,520 --> 00:03:00,240 slope and there's a concrete wall, but it's like waist high and he could 38 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:06,240 there's ways. It goes high and then it goes lower, you know, 39 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,319 it goes down to like knee high where he can just jump up and go 40 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:13,960 around anyway. Basically, oh boory you with the details. But I decided 41 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,879 to put up a fence, and so we put up a temporary fence to 42 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:24,319 keep to separate fill from the wood chips. Okay. So then he has 43 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:30,240 his surgery the other day and he had this thing on his eye removed. 44 00:03:30,599 --> 00:03:37,159 He had a he has a couple lumps that are not tumorous, and they 45 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,879 I thought they were gonna drain it, but they had to cut it out 46 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:45,199 instead. But they didn't get all of them because he was under anesthesia for 47 00:03:45,199 --> 00:03:49,520 like two hours. Because he also had that infected molar. So he's a 48 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:53,400 mess. He's a hot mess, and he's got his handsmade tail hat on. 49 00:03:53,919 --> 00:03:57,879 It goes, you know, it's what he looks like. It's, 50 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,120 you know, the big cone of shame. And I want, you know, 51 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,360 I wanted to get him one of those flop I think I'm gonna get 52 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,479 him the floppy ones. I got him the I've had it from other surgeries, 53 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:11,879 the inflatable yea thing. I like that. And I asked the doctor 54 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,360 can I put that on him? And she said no, it's best to 55 00:04:15,439 --> 00:04:19,000 just keep this on because he could probably you know, get to one of 56 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:24,480 his stitches. Yeah, because he's got stitches on his side his and then 57 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,600 he's got to eat soft food, which is fine. I mean I can 58 00:04:28,639 --> 00:04:31,759 soak his food. And then I have to put the eye drops in it's 59 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,879 just a hole. And then this yeah, and then this morning. The 60 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:43,680 thing with Phil is he's got that cone on and he goes into like you 61 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,399 know, if he's outside, he goes sniffing around the bushes. He gets 62 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:51,319 leaves stuck in there and then he drools so his it's like all of his 63 00:04:51,439 --> 00:04:56,560 hair is stuck into it. Like I'm constantly just putting it in the sink 64 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,920 and washing it down, and then five ten minutes later, all hair because 65 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,519 he's drooling, and you know, as long as you have to wear it 66 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:11,199 two freaking weeks. So I got to admit with Pepo, we did the 67 00:05:11,199 --> 00:05:14,800 inflatable one. But then also like I would just take it off when I 68 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:16,680 was with her, I would just take it off and make sure that's what 69 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,680 I did, because I just couldn't take it. I used to do. 70 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,040 I know, I used to do that, but this time around, I'm 71 00:05:24,079 --> 00:05:26,720 like, and then I would leave it on at night when she went to 72 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,079 sleep, Yeah, and then I would take it and then when she woke 73 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:31,199 up in the morning, I would take it back. When I was watching 74 00:05:31,199 --> 00:05:34,079 her, yeah, I would take it off. Yeah. The thing is 75 00:05:34,079 --> 00:05:38,480 with him is he's got a couple areas that he could get at in a 76 00:05:38,879 --> 00:05:41,959 second, right, So I'm just like, I'm just leaving this thing on 77 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,680 him. All the kids had their friends over. They signed it like a 78 00:05:44,759 --> 00:05:49,040 cast. Get well, get well, get well soon, Phil, have 79 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:54,680 a great summer, see you next fall. It's really funny. But yeah, 80 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,439 it's just he's just uh, yeah, he's a full time And then 81 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,240 today I wasn't gonna be home right after I left here, so I didn't 82 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,639 want to love him be in the house. I took him on a little 83 00:06:02,639 --> 00:06:08,199 walk this morning, got him his exercise, but you know, the kids 84 00:06:08,199 --> 00:06:12,199 are gone today all day, so I didn't want him hanging around by himself. 85 00:06:12,319 --> 00:06:15,040 I wish I could to bring him here. You should have, I 86 00:06:15,079 --> 00:06:15,800 know, I was thinking, like, you know, it'd be nice. 87 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,279 I don't. I don't want to do that to Patrick, but you know'd 88 00:06:18,319 --> 00:06:21,040 be fun as if, like if you you know, we could have like 89 00:06:21,079 --> 00:06:27,040 a doggy play date once a week. People not great with that, right 90 00:06:27,519 --> 00:06:32,879 with other dogs in a place. Probably if we left them like in the 91 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:38,560 yard, they'd be okay, they should be fine. But she gets territorial. 92 00:06:38,639 --> 00:06:41,959 So what she would do is she would jump up on the couch and 93 00:06:42,079 --> 00:06:44,759 have to sit next to me, and if if Phil came over to me, 94 00:06:44,879 --> 00:06:46,720 she would get mad. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I could 95 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,439 see that. It's a quirk. Yeah, that's like why try to train 96 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:53,079 it out of her? I just like we just don't have people bring their 97 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,439 dogs to our house. Yeah, yeah, I wish Phil would get a 98 00:06:56,439 --> 00:07:01,439 little more territorial with me, Like you know, walking at night and stuff. 99 00:07:01,519 --> 00:07:04,800 You know, he just wants to talk to everybody, wagging that tail. 100 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:10,199 Well, Penelope's like that too. When people, oh, forget about 101 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,480 it. She know, she'll just walk up to She has to stop by 102 00:07:13,519 --> 00:07:17,000 every person, and sometimes it's kind of embarrassing. It's just like some random 103 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:23,120 guy that right. I know, we just keep walking, keep walking, 104 00:07:23,199 --> 00:07:27,240 and she's like has to walk over and start sniffing their legs. And you 105 00:07:27,279 --> 00:07:30,120 know, nine times out of ten they'll just be like, oh, hello 106 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:31,759 there, and and I'm like, sorry, she's pay attention. Horror, 107 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,800 Gotta gotta gotta say hi to her. And they'll be like, no problem. 108 00:07:35,879 --> 00:07:41,240 You know, she won't keep walking. I'm like, not that one. 109 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,800 She's like nope, nope, you'd think she was starved from it in 110 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:51,199 our house. That's cute though. I love dogs. And then Phil got 111 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,720 out. The other we thought Phil got out. I don't know what happened, 112 00:07:55,759 --> 00:08:00,360 but like I the garage door was open and I was closing up the 113 00:08:00,399 --> 00:08:05,639 house and it was, you know, like ten o'clock at night, eleven 114 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:09,360 ten thirty, eleven o'clock. Stephanie's trying to tell you it's fixed the time 115 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:16,480 or Kalen and uh It's like ten thirty and I'm closing up and I'm like 116 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,120 calling for Phil and I'm like where I'm whistling for him. There's not a 117 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:24,319 lot of places he can go, and in the dark in the backyard is 118 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:30,800 pretty like that have motion sensor lights come on, but but there's a certain 119 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,000 part of the area that's dark. And I'm calling for him, looking for 120 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:37,960 him, asking Sonny like is Phil with you? No, Like, can't 121 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:39,679 find him. I go, well, now Phil's out. How did he 122 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,559 get out? I don't know. I was I was taking the trash out 123 00:08:45,039 --> 00:08:48,759 and the door was like once in a while he'll follow me outside, but 124 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,879 he doesn't really go much. I mean, he stays, but I could 125 00:08:50,879 --> 00:08:54,200 not find him. I was like locking up the house, getting ready go 126 00:08:54,279 --> 00:08:58,480 to bed. So I get in the car. I start going, like 127 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:03,080 Sonny gets in his We're driving around the neighborhood like whistling for him. It's 128 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,559 it's dark, he's black, it's hard to see him, you know, 129 00:09:07,279 --> 00:09:09,840 screaming like where's calling for him and stuff, and it's also quiet, like 130 00:09:09,879 --> 00:09:13,320 you don't want to be like yelling his name. At eleven o'clock, I 131 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,240 don't know. We were looking for and then I called study. I go 132 00:09:16,399 --> 00:09:20,000 nothing, and he's like no. And then I go back to the house 133 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:24,919 and I'm like where, like, is he in the bushes somewhere? And 134 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:31,679 he's stuck behind the fence I just built. Oh no, he was behind 135 00:09:31,279 --> 00:09:35,240 like I said, that wall, he got up, he went around and 136 00:09:35,279 --> 00:09:39,799 he got behind eating and then he was probably he was probably eating. I 137 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:43,279 didn't see it, but he was probably there for a while eating wood chips. 138 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,960 But luckily it was the night before his surgery. So I told the 139 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,679 doctors and they're like, all right, we'll check him. But yeah, 140 00:09:48,799 --> 00:09:54,799 he's just it's he's a full time job. Wow h Yeah. Does Adam 141 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:58,720 ever want like her? Well, he's parcial custody. He wanted to see 142 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:03,440 him today because today is Adam's birthday and the kids are with him today and 143 00:10:03,519 --> 00:10:07,559 he wanted them to bring Phil. But I'm like, he's a mess, 144 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,120 Like, yeah, you know the doctor. I mean, this is just 145 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,919 days after surgery. Yeah, he's got a red cone head. He's a 146 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:18,440 conehead. Yeah, he got his hat on. Anyway, did I ever 147 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:22,879 tell you about the time that this somebody insisted on bringing their dog to my 148 00:10:22,919 --> 00:10:28,399 house? And that's weird when people do this. I was doing a thing 149 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,480 with this person. This was years ago, and they were like, yeah, 150 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:35,720 I need to bring my dog over because my dog is like old and 151 00:10:35,759 --> 00:10:39,720 blind and deaf and I can't leave him alone for too long. But I 152 00:10:39,759 --> 00:10:46,240 was like, well you can't though, because my dog is just very weird 153 00:10:46,279 --> 00:10:52,600 about other dogs being in space. And she's like, well, is he 154 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:58,000 gonna like is she? And I'll be sorry, I just misgendered my own 155 00:10:58,039 --> 00:11:01,200 dog. Is she gonna like attack or whatever? And I said, honestly, 156 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:05,639 she's just kind of unpredictable, Like she's a really really sweet dog, 157 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:09,519 but she just acts gets weird when another dog is in her space, and 158 00:11:09,639 --> 00:11:13,519 I can't be We were going to be basically teaching a class, and I 159 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,480 was like, I can't be like having a monitor, right, you know. 160 00:11:16,879 --> 00:11:22,879 She was like okay, brings her dog anyway, and she was like 161 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:24,679 I'm sorry. There was nothing I could do. I didn't have anybody to 162 00:11:24,879 --> 00:11:30,279 watch him. And I was like, well, I mean, what do 163 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,480 you say? I know, and I was like, well, do you 164 00:11:33,519 --> 00:11:35,639 want to put She's like, can you put your dog in the backyard? 165 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,120 Oh? Please? I'm like, so I'm going to put my dog in 166 00:11:39,159 --> 00:11:43,960 the backyard. Who's then going to be pawing at the door and crying outside? 167 00:11:45,799 --> 00:11:48,039 And I was like that, and she's like, well, I can't 168 00:11:48,039 --> 00:11:50,960 put my dog in the backyard because he's blind and you know, in a 169 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:56,559 strange place. So basically, well, chasing her dog around the house, 170 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,320 tried to corner her dog, and she had the whole time, had to 171 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,240 be like I forgot my dog's name, right, you know, Stanley, 172 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,320 you know, you know the whole time. And I was like, bitch, 173 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,559 I told you not to bring your like, I know, I don't 174 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,039 get it. It's so crazy. And I had to feel bad because Penelope 175 00:12:15,159 --> 00:12:18,320 was acting like an asshole, yeah, and being a bully. Well but 176 00:12:18,799 --> 00:12:22,559 yeah, gave her fair warning. I sure did. I literally made a 177 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,120 boundary and said don't please don't because here's the problem. And she did. 178 00:12:26,159 --> 00:12:31,120 Anyway, Yeah, I don't know what's up with the people people I know? 179 00:12:31,799 --> 00:12:37,919 Anyway. Wow, that's hot dog talk, so uh this weekend? 180 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,279 Yes, well okay, first of all, let me start with this today. 181 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,440 I'm going to be going to speaking of dogs. Yes, I'll get 182 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:52,360 to I'm going to a party. Like, don't get too excited. It's 183 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:56,080 not like you know, a rager. But I'm going to a friend's house 184 00:12:56,159 --> 00:13:01,240 for a Memorial Day like barbecue, you know. But like she asked me, 185 00:13:01,279 --> 00:13:05,000 if I could make this pasta salad that I make Oka you have told 186 00:13:05,039 --> 00:13:09,000 you about this pasta salad before. I'm getting a little famous for it. 187 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:13,240 I think I know. Can I say? Yeah? It's like the squiggly 188 00:13:13,279 --> 00:13:22,639 pasta And it's got the mozzarella ball pearlsza and the pearl tomatoes, pearl tomatoes, 189 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,159 cucumber, Oh, cucumber, Okay, mozzarella balls, yeah, mozzarella 190 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:31,440 balls, mozzarella and uh yeah. And I put some pasta and then I 191 00:13:31,519 --> 00:13:35,919 put lemon juice and vinegar and olive oil and salt, pepper, and it's 192 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:43,879 really good. Nice. So except that I love it, John wants there 193 00:13:43,919 --> 00:13:46,600 to be a protein in it. I'm like, hi, it's called cheese, 194 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,679 right. He likes there to be chicken or something like the cubes don't 195 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,200 want chicken in it. So then it turns into like a fucking taco bar 196 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:58,039 where I'm like, Okay, here's some cube chicken, here's this on the 197 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,919 side, here's that on the side. You know, I have my own, 198 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,200 little, uh salady thing. But I didn't I didn't put it was 199 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:13,759 it's more like a I put avocado and the mozzarella and balsamaic and olive oil 200 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:18,080 and oh and basil. Like that's that's the kind of salad like I'll make. 201 00:14:18,159 --> 00:14:22,279 But you're making a pasta salad, which is different. Yeah, which 202 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:26,080 original The original recipe was my friend Cecily's, and she didn't do it with 203 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:33,039 pasta in it. It was just it was just the mazzarella and the tomato 204 00:14:33,679 --> 00:14:37,799 and the cucumber. Yeah, which is great, but it's very dense, 205 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,840 and you have to have a lot to make a lot. And I'm like, 206 00:14:39,879 --> 00:14:43,320 well, I got five people to feed, so I'm going to add 207 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,720 pasta to it to fill it out a little any more. Right, Okay, 208 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:52,120 so this but here's the problem. What's the problem. This morning? 209 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,480 I have to come here first. I get to come here first. Let's 210 00:14:56,480 --> 00:15:01,480 give it a little gratitude, and then the I'm already gonna be late for 211 00:15:01,519 --> 00:15:03,039 this party because the party starts at twelve thirty. We're not going to be 212 00:15:03,039 --> 00:15:07,320 out of here until at least like until noon, so then I have to 213 00:15:07,399 --> 00:15:09,279 run home. I'm like, well, now I have to make a pasta 214 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:13,759 salad. You would think that when I say to John also, but then 215 00:15:13,799 --> 00:15:20,360 I so I can get up early, which I did, but I also 216 00:15:20,399 --> 00:15:22,759 have to walk the dog. Yeah you think that John would be like, 217 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,600 wow, that sounds like a lot. And I just get to just wake 218 00:15:26,679 --> 00:15:30,480 up whenever and go to a barbecue at twelve. Let me walk the dog. 219 00:15:30,799 --> 00:15:33,799 No, not so much. Not no offer there, no so and 220 00:15:33,879 --> 00:15:37,879 I don't like to just be like John, get your ass out of bed 221 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:41,879 and offer to walk the dog. So because I'm like, well, you 222 00:15:41,919 --> 00:15:45,840 know what the dog walking part is the part I like exactly when I get 223 00:15:45,879 --> 00:15:48,759 to go roll calls and like get some exercise. So I'm like, so 224 00:15:50,279 --> 00:15:52,039 how do I get hurt? Like I got to give him the good job? 225 00:15:52,279 --> 00:15:56,360 So like I'm like, you know what I'm gonna do is when we 226 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,440 go to record our last show and be like I need you to make the 227 00:15:58,519 --> 00:16:02,960 pasta Yes, so I got up early, cut up all the tomatoes, 228 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,320 cut up the cuecum you know, did you cut the cue? Did all 229 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:10,759 the prep which is like a lot. But the whole time I'm like cursing, 230 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:14,720 like why did I fucking agree to bring this past salad? Why didn't 231 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,639 I just buy something? Yeah? Well because you're afraid to bring the cookies, 232 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,679 like because this this mom that's invited me over was like, hey, 233 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,840 do you mind making your salad? And I said, of course, right, 234 00:16:26,039 --> 00:16:29,679 I didn't think of how labor intensive it was and what I had to 235 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:32,240 do in the morning, right right, Yeah, no, I know, 236 00:16:32,879 --> 00:16:36,480 well, at least you got invited to a barbecue. Yeah, I have 237 00:16:36,559 --> 00:16:41,480 something that I have nothing, but I have a lot. Actually, you 238 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,919 know, I'm still like, I'm like in the phase what are you doing 239 00:16:44,919 --> 00:16:48,720 today, Klin? I am doing well. One of Amy's friends is having 240 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:49,679 a little party, but I don't think we're gonna go to that. So 241 00:16:49,879 --> 00:17:00,919 nothing that's work taking kids over there. My god, you are in the 242 00:17:00,159 --> 00:17:06,559 throws of it right now. This age is like horrendously hard as far as 243 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:11,720 like planning things. Mm hmmm, nap schedules, You got to think about 244 00:17:11,799 --> 00:17:15,240 food, you got to you got to you got to think about their moods. 245 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,400 Yeah, it, it definitely gets there. But you know, we 246 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,079 went to the beach on Saturday and that was really nice, and we kind 247 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:27,240 of underprepared for that one, but you did well. Well, there's a 248 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,920 there's a like a Mexican place that we like to go to sort of like, 249 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,160 let's go get lunch there and then maybe we'll just pop by. The 250 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:34,880 beach is supposed to be cloudy, so maybe we'll just walk along. But 251 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:37,920 then you know, Andy brought a couple of toys. Well, we have 252 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,880 lunch, we get to the beach and it's beautiful. It's not cloudy at 253 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:45,000 all. It's totally sunny out. So like we still had towels and toys. 254 00:17:45,039 --> 00:17:48,920 But the kids weren't wearing bathing suits. Oh so I was like, 255 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:52,519 well, I guess we'll just trash their clothes then, so they just got 256 00:17:52,519 --> 00:17:53,880 all wet and muddy and sandy, and like we still had fun, but 257 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:56,720 yeah, nobody had any bathing suits on. But we still spend like, 258 00:17:56,759 --> 00:18:00,839 I don't know, hour or two. There are the days. Remember Kaitlin, 259 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,079 I don't know if you were our producer back then, but remember Stephanie 260 00:18:04,079 --> 00:18:07,720 and I would talk about going like outings like that and how we would like 261 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:14,440 forget like the we would be the one mooching off of the other mod diapers 262 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,160 at the park, right, yeah, the diapers at the park we had 263 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:21,440 and snacks but all shown up with no snacks. Beach. I was the 264 00:18:21,519 --> 00:18:25,240 queen of not having any sandtoys. So then my kids were all like, 265 00:18:25,559 --> 00:18:27,000 come, we don't have like a bucket and shovels. And it was like 266 00:18:27,039 --> 00:18:32,240 because that was a bridge too far by the time I got the sunscreen and 267 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:36,519 made some goddamn sandwiches, and you have to bring up practically have a tent 268 00:18:36,759 --> 00:18:41,000 exactly. You see these families and they're like protecting their kids from the sun. 269 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:44,880 Right, Well, when we were kids, No, we can't say 270 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,799 this enough times, but when we were kids, you did the anti. 271 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,680 Not only did you not protect yourself from the sun, but you put oil 272 00:18:51,759 --> 00:18:56,119 all over yourself to Yes, it's a hasten the burn right right, Like 273 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:59,880 my pee coach Don would sit out in his uh in his shorts and his 274 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,359 chair and he would have that like the reflector, the reflector, Yeah, 275 00:19:03,559 --> 00:19:07,079 get out of my way, you're black. And my son yeah, so 276 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:11,000 we didn't. It was and you know you had those ads for the suntan 277 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:18,440 lotion with the girl the copper toe ad that wasn't sunscreen, that was having 278 00:19:18,559 --> 00:19:22,519 a burn slash tan and how white her butt was. She was lowering down 279 00:19:22,559 --> 00:19:26,720 the little pants to show you like, look how dark I am. Whereas 280 00:19:26,839 --> 00:19:30,759 now we know better, right, than that, so you have to bring 281 00:19:30,839 --> 00:19:36,559 like a pup tent and like and slather them with sunscreen. And then it 282 00:19:36,599 --> 00:19:38,759 better not be the aerosol kid, you know, I mean, it's we're 283 00:19:38,799 --> 00:19:41,759 all about that. So by the time, and then you got to have 284 00:19:41,839 --> 00:19:44,680 food because you know, you don't want to get down there, and you 285 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:45,960 didn't pack, and then all of a sudden, you're like you got to 286 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:51,559 go. Either send them to the snack bar, which you know, French 287 00:19:51,599 --> 00:19:56,240 fries are like fifteen dollars or you're screwed. And there was never a snack 288 00:19:56,319 --> 00:20:00,480 bar either, Like there's there's one maybe like few miles down if you want 289 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:04,279 to walk to that one. And the bathroom is another issue. That was 290 00:20:04,319 --> 00:20:07,880 another problem. I hated the beach. Yes, but you are, Kaylin, 291 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:12,440 you are in the throes of you're in the mailroom. Yeah, yeah, 292 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:18,240 it's your rolling calls. You're somebody's bit. Well, I don't you 293 00:20:18,279 --> 00:20:21,440 know, a lot of Amy's friends, their kids are all grown up, 294 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:23,799 so that side, they don't have a lot of like little kids to play 295 00:20:23,799 --> 00:20:26,799 with mine. So you know, the kids, aren't they really gonna have 296 00:20:26,799 --> 00:20:30,960 that much fun at this Memorial Day party with no other kids to play with 297 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:34,279 either, then I don't feel bad not going to it. Yeah, too 298 00:20:34,319 --> 00:20:41,880 bad he didn't live closer to to Patrick. Yeah that's a shame. Well. 299 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,160 I grew up here in the valley, and the valley is hot and 300 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,519 I hate the heat. So as soon as I moved down to Long Beach, 301 00:20:47,599 --> 00:20:48,599 I was like, oh my god, this is so much better. 302 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,400 I like this so much better. And even speaking of the beach, growing 303 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,119 up in the valley and going to the beach, that's an event, I 304 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,480 know, is an absolute all day event. Now that I live in Long 305 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:00,799 Beach, you can just just pop over to the beach, spend an hour 306 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,160 or two there, come back. It's great. Yeah. So I do 307 00:21:03,279 --> 00:21:07,480 like living down there at nice, but it would be nice if you know, 308 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:08,720 yeah, you were close and we could just come hang out with Patrick 309 00:21:08,759 --> 00:21:11,880 all the time, which we do hang out pretty often. I bring the 310 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,160 kids up here, but yeah, you know, bringing the kids all the 311 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,839 way up here is it's a lot. It's a lot. Yeah. The 312 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,359 drive is a is a big thing. I get it. I know at 313 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:26,039 that age my kids got carsick, so it was really difficult. Remember the 314 00:21:26,039 --> 00:21:27,960 time I told you we just went to Santa Barbara, which is not even 315 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,240 that far and they get the zoom. I'm puked in the car. Yeah, 316 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,400 you know what, let's take a break and let's talk about story Worth. 317 00:21:36,799 --> 00:21:40,000 Let's talk about it. Listen, Father's Day is coming up. What 318 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,960 a great Father's Day gift. I told you I got story Worth a few 319 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,880 years ago from my brother, right for Father's Day. Right, that's right. 320 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,559 Yeah, and he loves it. Oh my gosh, he uses it. 321 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:56,440 Yeah, that's nice. I mean, it's a nice family you know, 322 00:21:56,519 --> 00:22:00,400 something to keep a family heirloom. And how it works is if you 323 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,480 have someone in your family that has a lot of stories, you can just 324 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:10,200 story Worth will email them thought provoking questions and then they get to they get 325 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,559 to pick, you know, some of the questions, tell their story, 326 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,240 and then it compiles pictures and they put it together in a really beautiful keepsake 327 00:22:18,559 --> 00:22:23,720 bound book, a hardcover book that you can share with your kids as they 328 00:22:23,759 --> 00:22:27,480 get older, you can share with the younger generations. It's like a beautiful 329 00:22:27,519 --> 00:22:33,720 thing. Even if you get to hear stories that you've already heard before, 330 00:22:33,799 --> 00:22:37,359 it's nice to have them. It's like great, it's such a hard book. 331 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:41,880 And grandfathers for grandfathers. Oh yeah, yeah. Yeah, So give 332 00:22:41,079 --> 00:22:45,640 all the fathers in your life a unique, heartfelt gift you'll all cherish for 333 00:22:45,759 --> 00:22:49,799 years. Story worth. Right now, save ten dollars on your first purchase 334 00:22:49,839 --> 00:22:56,759 when you go to story worth dot com slash f cool. That's storyworth dot 335 00:22:56,839 --> 00:23:03,880 com slash f cool to save ten dollars on your first purchase. Nice. 336 00:23:03,519 --> 00:23:08,480 I remember this reminds me of this reading this, ad I just had a 337 00:23:08,519 --> 00:23:15,599 flashback of back years ago there in our well. Adam's grandmother had all these 338 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:22,880 love letters and letters that she had me transcribe, which was it was pretty 339 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,240 interesting like back in the day, it would have been nice to have this 340 00:23:26,279 --> 00:23:30,799 is what she no, no, no, sorry, she wanted them. 341 00:23:32,319 --> 00:23:36,519 They were written in like she had them like tons of them in a box, 342 00:23:36,839 --> 00:23:40,319 and then I typed them out for her and put them together. I 343 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:44,519 did my own little story work. Oh yeah, I just remind remember that 344 00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:48,359 it was years and years and years ance like another lifetime. But yeah. 345 00:23:48,599 --> 00:23:52,960 Yeah. One of John's favorite gifts that I ever gave him was I took 346 00:23:53,079 --> 00:23:59,759 a bunch of his old photos that I found and remember this I I found 347 00:24:00,079 --> 00:24:03,839 he you know, for our generation, all of our photos are not on 348 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,119 our phone, right like from the pictures that we had when we were younger. 349 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:11,279 I still have like piles of just photographs that I got developed somewhere and 350 00:24:11,319 --> 00:24:15,519 then had them all together. And John had a bunch of photos of his 351 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:21,039 parents and his sister, like family photos, but plus he had a bunch 352 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:26,240 of photos from his dad of like World War two stuff. And I had 353 00:24:26,319 --> 00:24:30,400 somebody digitize all the photos and put them on drives. It's a great gift. 354 00:24:30,559 --> 00:24:33,960 And it was, you know, there were tons of them. Yeah, 355 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:38,640 and he loved it. See that's nice. Like it's funny we're talking 356 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,279 about it because I was thinking this morning, like on the way in here, 357 00:24:42,319 --> 00:24:47,680 you know, like I'm so not good, like you know, just 358 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,200 some people are so good with gifts. You know, they're good gift givers. 359 00:24:51,759 --> 00:24:56,079 You know. I'm it's not it's not I mean, it takes I 360 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:57,960 have to really think about it. But so the kids are turning eighteen, 361 00:24:59,519 --> 00:25:03,119 and I was like, I don't I get them something like sentimental something like 362 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:07,920 that, because I'm going through boxes and I have so many things that have 363 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:14,920 been in a box for since my whole adult life practically, and you know, 364 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:15,920 and I'm like what do I do with And then I have all these 365 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,240 pictures of the kids when they were little, and like, oh, I 366 00:25:18,279 --> 00:25:23,319 forgot about this trip or whatever. You know this, But are my kids 367 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,839 sentimental that way? Like, I don't know. Well, okay, I've 368 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:33,119 thought about this too. I've thought about going through a lot of photos that 369 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:37,000 we have and making each kid a photo out their own photo album. Right. 370 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:41,480 I remember how special it was to have a photo album of my baby 371 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:45,799 pictures, yes, which I don't no longer have, right, But I 372 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,519 thought about doing that for the kids. But I'll tell you why. It 373 00:25:48,559 --> 00:25:52,359 probably isn't a good idea, not to tell anybody what to do or what 374 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,720 not to do. But I the other day I sat with Sadie for hours 375 00:25:56,759 --> 00:26:00,319 and we look through all the photos that are on my phone, like from 376 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,559 the and I have a bunch of baby photos on my phone. And she 377 00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:08,960 was interested, but there were a lot of pictures that she was like, 378 00:26:10,039 --> 00:26:12,960 oh, God, look at that. I hate that picture. Yeah, 379 00:26:14,039 --> 00:26:17,720 yeah, Natalia, I bet you a million dollars. If left to my 380 00:26:17,799 --> 00:26:19,559 own devices, I would be like, oh, this picture is so cute, 381 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,799 right, And the kids would be like, uh, yeah, why 382 00:26:22,799 --> 00:26:26,160 did you put that photo in them? Now? I don't want that I'm 383 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:30,039 not or and they maybe look at it once and go, oh, oh 384 00:26:30,839 --> 00:26:32,960 yeah, I can't believe I look like that or whatever, and then put 385 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,440 it away and never never. I mean, maybe they'll appreciate it when they're 386 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,960 older, that's what I think. And I think they're a little now. 387 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:44,599 As a gift, maybe the thing to do is make the albums, but 388 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,720 don't present it to them until they're older. Yes, that's a good idea. 389 00:26:48,799 --> 00:26:49,839 I don't know. I know, I don't want to shot on your 390 00:26:49,839 --> 00:26:55,319 idea. No, I know that. I was like, I want to 391 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:59,079 give them something special for their eight times I mean, did you what did 392 00:26:59,079 --> 00:27:03,519 you so? Well? LB not for her eighteenth birthday, but we kind 393 00:27:03,519 --> 00:27:07,599 of combined it for her graduation was a car, right, So all of 394 00:27:07,599 --> 00:27:11,440 her friends were talking about what they were going to get for their graduation gift, 395 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,000 and I was like, you're you're going to get a car. Yeah, 396 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,039 and that's it, right, that's a huge gift. Yeah, that's 397 00:27:17,079 --> 00:27:18,839 a big gift. That's why it's like, you know, I have to 398 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,519 go. I have to do this mother daughter's trip. I have to but 399 00:27:22,599 --> 00:27:26,880 I guess I get to the Cabo trip. Yeah, for a couple of 400 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,000 days. So I'm doing that. I mean, that's her big gift. 401 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:34,200 And then Sonny wants to go to Japan again with his friends. Right, 402 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:40,839 they're going and this time they're just staying in one spot and that'll so that's 403 00:27:40,839 --> 00:27:44,440 his gift. But I don't know. I was thinking because also, you 404 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,960 know, what do you do with all these pictures that you that are just 405 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,440 in a box that are framed. They used to be they are framed, 406 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:52,680 they used to be up on a wall, and now they're just in a 407 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,359 box. And they're beautiful pictures. I mean, there are some of them 408 00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:00,440 when they were like at the Sears studio that I would take them to, 409 00:28:00,799 --> 00:28:03,039 right, And then you know, it's like, but what do you eh, 410 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,039 I don't know. I'm not like, I'm just I don't know what 411 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,480 to do with all that stuff. I guess you got to get it digitized. 412 00:28:08,519 --> 00:28:11,920 I think that's the answer. I think that's it. That's what you 413 00:28:12,039 --> 00:28:15,880 just gotta do. And then there there's another thing, as we have the 414 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:21,039 home movies too on DVD. Now that's something I think that they would love 415 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,599 to see. Yes, that would be cute. Yeah, but it is 416 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,920 on a hard drive which is still at the well. We have to get 417 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,119 our tech guy to come get it and taken out of the system that he 418 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,039 put it into. It's this whole thing. But I need to get that 419 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,480 back and then. But that's not going to be happening by next week, 420 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:47,640 two weeks from now. Yeah, well, I don't know. It's hard 421 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,720 because there's things that they expect that they're getting. Like I always think, 422 00:28:52,039 --> 00:28:56,559 like I remember years ago when Lbie graduated middle school, her gift was a 423 00:28:56,599 --> 00:29:02,599 new bed, was a queen's size bed the headboard. So it was like 424 00:29:02,839 --> 00:29:04,240 we were going to have to get her a bed anyway, yeah what I 425 00:29:04,279 --> 00:29:07,039 mean, But it was like, well, let's save that, Let's wait 426 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:11,359 until the graduation from middle school, and then that could be her middle school 427 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:15,039 right gift? Right? You know? Yeah, even though in my mind 428 00:29:15,079 --> 00:29:18,200 I was always like, wh fucking cares about graduating middle school? You talked 429 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:22,160 about this, It's like, you can't not graduate middle school. You have 430 00:29:22,279 --> 00:29:26,960 to be real fucked up to not make it through eighth grade, you know, 431 00:29:27,519 --> 00:29:33,359 I mean, things have had to go real sideways to have it your 432 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,200 schooling end at the eighth grade or seventh grade, right, So you know, 433 00:29:37,359 --> 00:29:40,799 I feel like, do you need congratulations on that? And by the 434 00:29:40,839 --> 00:29:44,799 way, high school too. Yeah, Like I don't know why high school. 435 00:29:44,839 --> 00:29:48,000 Graduating high school should be such a big deal. Graduating college is a 436 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:52,920 big sound like my dad would. That's how my dad a little cares about 437 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,400 high school and go to go That's the thing about high schools. You have 438 00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:00,079 to go to high school. You can't not you can't opt out. Oh, 439 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,599 you know, we should get a congratuate. We should get a gift 440 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,160 for waking our kids up and get every day every day and them go to 441 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,640 school even when they're like I have a sore throat, Like, yeah, 442 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,960 but your school has a really strict attendance policy. Get up, you're not 443 00:30:14,039 --> 00:30:15,839 sick enough, go to school. Yes, yes, we should be getting 444 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:22,359 pad. Where's our graduation? I feel the same way about their birthday too, 445 00:30:22,519 --> 00:30:27,000 the first five years of their birthdays. Like I gave birth to twins, 446 00:30:27,119 --> 00:30:32,480 Like, where's my birthday present? Right? I birthed them right? 447 00:30:32,759 --> 00:30:36,599 Right? Well, I always say that too about the birthday thing. It's 448 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:41,440 like when And this is going to cause controversy because you know I've always said, 449 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,920 but it's worth repeating. I don't care about adults birthdays. Yeah, 450 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,799 no, And I and you know what, this is going to lead me 451 00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:52,480 to another to what I did this weekend. I'm all about my friends celebrating 452 00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:56,440 their birthday, our little mom group of friends, because it's an excuse to 453 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:00,000 get together with my girlfriends, right, and you know what we like to 454 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,440 Some of us are like no gifts, and others are like, you can 455 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,880 get me a gift to you, and then we kind of have fun with 456 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:11,160 it, you know, get them like some silly fun stuff and like go 457 00:31:11,279 --> 00:31:14,200 and you have a girls night out. And there's a big group of us. 458 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,839 There's like nine of us, so it seems like it's always somebody's birthday, 459 00:31:18,119 --> 00:31:18,920 and then we look forward to it. We're like, oh, where 460 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,359 are we doing the next one? And it's a good excuse to go out 461 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:26,799 for dinner, but at what age? But there's a lot of people like 462 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:32,440 I don't really wish people happy birthday on Facebook that much either, just because 463 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:36,559 I'm like, I barely know you, Like I probably wouldn't if I don't 464 00:31:36,599 --> 00:31:41,759 know it's your birthday in life, right, I yeah, come on, 465 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,720 I know, like it's get over it. We're adults. You have a 466 00:31:45,759 --> 00:31:48,960 birthday every single year, and I don't know that it needs to be the 467 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:53,559 only reason why I celebrate my birthday at all is because the kids like to 468 00:31:53,559 --> 00:31:59,119 celebrate my birthday because it's an excuse for them to like get cake, get 469 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,119 go out for dinner, right right. So yeah, So the thing is, 470 00:32:02,279 --> 00:32:06,480 I guess you celebrate the birthday of the people in your family and your 471 00:32:06,519 --> 00:32:10,119 family, but even then, like when do you stop making a big deal, 472 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,680 like what is the age? What's the cut off? Well, I 473 00:32:13,759 --> 00:32:16,039 know you don't have to go like twenty one in the morning, twenty one, 474 00:32:16,079 --> 00:32:19,960 you think, Yeah, I think I don't know. Yeah, I 475 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,880 was just thinking of like the couple my close girlfriends, I don't even like. 476 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,599 I mean, we wish each other happy birthday, but I don't know, 477 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,079 I don't think we make it a point. I only think with just 478 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,559 like Susanne and Melissa, I think are the only two even like down, 479 00:32:36,759 --> 00:32:39,440 I don't like we'll make it up like hey, your birthday or the three 480 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,160 of us will be like, oh, so and So's birthday, let's get 481 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,720 together and it's an excuse to see each other, like we haven't seen each 482 00:32:45,759 --> 00:32:49,799 other, right, but other than that, like oh and we went to 483 00:32:49,839 --> 00:32:52,240 Pearl Jam the other night, which was fun. Yeah, saw Melissa the 484 00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:55,559 other night. Oh, it's so fun because I haven't seen Carrie Simmons in 485 00:32:55,599 --> 00:32:58,839 a long time. I know, did you invite her on the show? 486 00:33:00,079 --> 00:33:04,880 You know I shouldn't do. Yeah, I was gonna say, did you 487 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:09,359 tell her that I liked her husband's thing and that I remember that Tony yes, 488 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:14,000 which I reached out to So did he get back to you? No, 489 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,200 but I reached out to him on Facebook, so we'll see. Okay, 490 00:33:17,559 --> 00:33:22,279 But because I thought, I don't have his email anymore. But yeah, 491 00:33:22,319 --> 00:33:25,839 Pearl Jam was fun. It was you know, it was the same 492 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:30,480 sets as Vegas. No, it was different. It was totally not I 493 00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:35,599 wouldn't say totally, but there was he was Eddie Vedder seemed more animated in 494 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,519 La like he was jumping and doing splits in the air and stuff, where 495 00:33:38,839 --> 00:33:42,720 in Vegas he was kind of mellow. I think, I don't know, 496 00:33:42,759 --> 00:33:45,680 maybe because the arena was smaller or something, or maybe it's just a different 497 00:33:45,759 --> 00:33:50,240 night. But it was great. It was a really it was a lot 498 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,119 of different songs, you know, some of the big hits, but like 499 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,920 a lot of deep cuts too, and a lot of like songs from their 500 00:33:55,920 --> 00:34:00,400 new album. It was fun. Of course, we saw Jeff Rock Like 501 00:34:00,839 --> 00:34:04,680 I every time I go to a concert, there's Jeff Like, what a 502 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,519 life this guy? Leaves Jeff Ross, Jeffrey Ross, the Roast Master, 503 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,039 He just like goes out, you know, hits the road, does his 504 00:34:13,159 --> 00:34:16,639 comedy and goes to freaking concerts and hangs out with Eddie Vedder backstage, you 505 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:20,960 know what I mean. And Bruce Springsteen Like what a life this guy? 506 00:34:21,199 --> 00:34:23,880 Yeah, he's just ends single and just a man about town. Not that 507 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:29,159 talented either, by the way. He doesn't write his own jokes, you 508 00:34:29,199 --> 00:34:31,440 know that, right, Like he goes out to like he'll go on Facebook 509 00:34:31,519 --> 00:34:34,880 and be like, hey, who wants to write the jokes? Yeah? 510 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,199 Yeah, and then he thinks that they're gonna be excited to, Like I 511 00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:42,679 don't think he pays. He really pays some people, but he probably gets 512 00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:45,360 a bunch of people to send him jokes just so that they can feel like, 513 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,079 hey, I got a joke on the roast even though Jeff got credit 514 00:34:47,159 --> 00:34:51,920 for it. Right, I'm just saying he's never gonna hear this podcast, 515 00:34:52,039 --> 00:34:55,119 I know, but I am. I've known him for now, I was 516 00:34:55,119 --> 00:35:00,840 thinking about for like twenty six years. Yeah, and he still dates women 517 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:06,039 the same age exactly six years later. Yes, And one of my favorite 518 00:35:06,119 --> 00:35:09,000 jokes is such a hacky joke, but it's that he says is like he 519 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,239 he's I don't know how the joke goes, but he says, it's his 520 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:16,519 antique. His aunt. Her name is Teak, and I always bring that 521 00:35:16,599 --> 00:35:20,679 up to him when I see him, but it it Yeah, he just 522 00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:23,039 this life. This guy live was like it's crazy, but yeah, we 523 00:35:23,079 --> 00:35:28,599 had a good time. We went to like the Forum Club before and it 524 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,880 was an opening band, and nobody wanted to see the opening band. So 525 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,880 now nobody I heard of or anybody the three of us are well, there 526 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:44,599 was four of us that Carrie brought a girlfriend too that she's friends with another 527 00:35:44,679 --> 00:35:47,920 like mommy friend and uh, and so we went to like yeah, we 528 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,559 went to the Forum clubforehand and it was fun, you know, like getting 529 00:35:52,639 --> 00:35:57,519 caught up having seen each other in a long time and like that's our birthday, 530 00:35:57,559 --> 00:36:01,079 you know what I mean, Like that can be like Melissa just had 531 00:36:01,119 --> 00:36:04,760 a birthday a couple like a month ago, and we haven't seen each other, 532 00:36:05,039 --> 00:36:07,000 so we like cheers to her birthday, bringing them back around to the 533 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,119 birthday talk. That's what I like, I like, just like, hey, 534 00:36:10,199 --> 00:36:14,079 cheers to your birthday. You don't have to go shopping for it, 535 00:36:14,639 --> 00:36:17,920 right. I have to say it was a little bit. My friend Cecily 536 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,159 listens to this show. It's not Cecily, my other podcast partner. I 537 00:36:22,159 --> 00:36:25,280 have two friends named Cecily. Now this is my mom friend named Cecily. 538 00:36:27,159 --> 00:36:30,760 So my friend Cecily was like, hey, this is our friend Sharon. 539 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:36,039 Love Sharon. Sharon's the one who's having the barbecue today. Oh so Sharon. 540 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:40,320 So a bunch of us are friends from This originated with my friend Lara, 541 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:45,079 whose daughter Lily, who I met at Mommy and Me when the babies 542 00:36:45,119 --> 00:36:46,880 were six months old, right, been friends with her ever since. I 543 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,639 talked to her like almost every day. It's like really cool. Yeah, 544 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:55,440 so we've been friends for twenty years. And then I met Cecily through Lara 545 00:36:57,159 --> 00:37:00,519 when the girls were like four or five, yeah, like kindergarten age. 546 00:37:00,599 --> 00:37:04,760 And then I've been friends with her ever since. And our kids are all 547 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:09,320 still currently friends. This whole group, so my friend Sharon and then all 548 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,920 the kids. Oh yeah, I went to exam together. That's awesome. 549 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,639 This is how it became like this kind of the jew group. Then there's 550 00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:21,639 another mom in that group who LB is really good friends with her daughter, 551 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,000 and I'm friends with the mom too, but this is the carpool mom, 552 00:37:24,639 --> 00:37:28,400 the mom who was like, I don't want to carpool with you. Always 553 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,960 had a little grudge about that. But anyway, she's in the group. 554 00:37:31,119 --> 00:37:35,119 And then there's just a couple of other all of our kids are around the 555 00:37:35,159 --> 00:37:40,039 same age. And then somehow I started even though I'm as they always say, 556 00:37:40,079 --> 00:37:44,920 I'm not that Jewish, Like they all went to temple together, but 557 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,719 now two of them have dropped out of that temple, so only a few 558 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:52,159 of them still go to temple and they're all kind of more Jewy than me. 559 00:37:52,079 --> 00:37:57,000 But I really like being included in the group. Yeah, but every 560 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,119 once in a while, I'll be like, yeah, last Christmas and Rhankah 561 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:04,880 for you for you Jews, you know, you know, but it's just 562 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,800 kind of funny because they're more culturally Jewish than I am. But it's just 563 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:13,320 fun. But Elbie did go to Jewish sleep boy camp for years with all 564 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,960 of their kids. Our kids went together. So anyway, this mom, 565 00:38:16,079 --> 00:38:22,880 Sharon, her son and Elb are friends, and so she started like inviting 566 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:27,239 me to stuff like a couple of years ago, and so it's like really 567 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:34,320 nice. So I see all these people. So yeah, So anyway, 568 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,360 it was her birthday and we went and celebrated her birthday on Friday night that 569 00:38:38,559 --> 00:38:43,800 just passed. But she was one of the ones who was not like no 570 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,559 gifts, so we're like, okay, so gifts. So then I felt 571 00:38:47,559 --> 00:38:52,000 prep like I was like, oh fu, like what I have to go 572 00:38:52,079 --> 00:38:53,679 out and shop for her? And I don't know her all that well, 573 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,639 like I don't know her taste, you know. So a lot of these 574 00:38:58,679 --> 00:39:01,639 women have been better friends with each other, and I've been friends with a 575 00:39:01,639 --> 00:39:06,639 few of them individually for a long time, right not do you know what 576 00:39:06,679 --> 00:39:08,760 I'm saying, Like some of them on more acquaintances with but they know each 577 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:12,559 other well. So I'll have to call the mom and be like, oh 578 00:39:12,599 --> 00:39:15,840 what is Carol? Like They'll be like, oh, she loves puzzles. 579 00:39:15,039 --> 00:39:17,760 So I'm like, okay, good enough, go to Target get her a 580 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:22,719 puzzle. She's like how did you know that? Yeah? Okay, So 581 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,320 with Sharon, I was like I don't know. So my friend Cecily's like, 582 00:39:25,559 --> 00:39:29,239 well, you know, I went. I actually went shopping for her, 583 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,519 and I went to World Market and I got her like boh, this 584 00:39:31,559 --> 00:39:36,719 and this and this and this, and she goes by the way like do 585 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,360 you want to just go in on it with me? And like you, 586 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,599 I'll put your name on the car. I love when that happens, right, 587 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,320 And I was like hell, yeah, you know how many how many 588 00:39:46,599 --> 00:39:52,159 gifts I got? You know I leached myself onto in the past. Yes, 589 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,480 Like that's the best when somebody goes out and goes I got to cover. 590 00:39:55,639 --> 00:39:59,559 Just slap your name on it. Yes, give me twenty five bucks. 591 00:39:59,599 --> 00:40:01,920 Done, It's like score. Yeah. So let's take a quick break 592 00:40:02,079 --> 00:40:05,800 and then I'll tell you what happened. 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I mean especially I love the feeling of being on a vacation. 602 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,760 I love a smoothie. I love my kids love smoothies, especially in 603 00:40:54,800 --> 00:41:00,360 the summer. Okay, so don't forget National Flip Flop Day is May twenty 604 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:04,719 ninth. It's from two to seven pm May twenty ninth. You're going to 605 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,559 get a free twelve ounce Island Punch smoothie. So visit one of Tropical Smoothie 606 00:41:08,559 --> 00:41:15,119 Cafes fourteen hundred plus locations or order online or through their app. Terms and 607 00:41:15,159 --> 00:41:21,719 conditions apply. Yeah. So she basically said, why don't you get a 608 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,920 card? And I was like, I'm gonna be Why don't I go to 609 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:28,360 seize candy and just get her like a little thing of chocolates. I think 610 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,960 she likes candy. Who doesn't you know besides me? So I got a 611 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,559 card and the chocolate and then I added that to the get I handed it 612 00:41:36,599 --> 00:41:38,599 to her in the car on the way over, and then she wouldn't let 613 00:41:38,599 --> 00:41:40,519 me chip in for that. She was like, yeah, you got her 614 00:41:40,559 --> 00:41:44,079 candy in the card, don't worry about it. Of course I was like 615 00:41:44,119 --> 00:41:45,320 no, no, no, but here put my name on the card, 616 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,119 like let me split it with you, and she was like no, forget 617 00:41:49,119 --> 00:41:52,559 about it. So I was like score on score again. Wow. See 618 00:41:52,559 --> 00:41:57,440 now that's how birthdays should be in right, yeah right yeah yeah so then 619 00:41:57,599 --> 00:42:00,239 everybody else. But then, of course her birthday present was a surprise to 620 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,719 me as well, so I got to watch her open it and she was 621 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:07,079 like thanking us both because she put the card and I was like, no 622 00:42:07,159 --> 00:42:12,239 problem, no problem though, no problem, Yeah of course you love uh 623 00:42:12,599 --> 00:42:17,199 right that? Yeah that you just opened? Yes, yes, you know 624 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:21,639 what. I love a good candle. That's what I love. I do 625 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:27,480 too, but some people like don't care find that to be impersonal? Yeah 626 00:42:27,559 --> 00:42:30,559 I love it. Yeah, yeah, we have a candle our girl from 627 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,559 I know, I know which will we'll give her a shot out of it, 628 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,800 but we could give her her shout out now fern candle. They smell 629 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:42,840 delicious. I just brought you, I thank you, and they smell so 630 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,000 good. I feel like everybody appreciates That's what I think. Like, that's 631 00:42:45,039 --> 00:42:49,639 a good candle. Yeah, it's like a nice candle. It's kind of 632 00:42:49,679 --> 00:42:54,480 my goat ferncandle dot com candles and they are they look super gifty. Yeah. 633 00:42:54,599 --> 00:42:59,760 You can get candle paraphernalia with it, like a little snuffer, the 634 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:07,079 wick and and uh and they have the little wax melts, so wax melts 635 00:43:07,119 --> 00:43:10,639 and matches and it's all like it's really really nice gifts that is very gifty. 636 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:15,000 But then you got to think that you've got to think ahead on that, 637 00:43:15,079 --> 00:43:16,400 Like you got to be like, oh, Fern candle, I should 638 00:43:16,519 --> 00:43:21,480 I should order some candles for my friends her birthdays coming up. Whereas I 639 00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,360 don't think ahead now, I'm like, oh shit, a nice target, 640 00:43:29,039 --> 00:43:32,199 right right, Yeah, I'm like, oh another thing I didn't do. 641 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:37,920 Another thing I forgot. Right. We had so much fun at this birthday 642 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,119 party we did where'd you guys go? So we went to this sushi place 643 00:43:40,199 --> 00:43:46,519 in Woodland Hills called Red Ginger And my first thought, I have to say, 644 00:43:46,679 --> 00:43:50,480 was like, going to sushi with a bunch of people is going to 645 00:43:50,519 --> 00:43:58,159 be so expensive? You know, I like cheaper versions and Also when I 646 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:02,960 go to dinner with a group of women that are drinking, that's for you 647 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,280 that I know, because I know. I think when I go to dinners 648 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:13,760 sometimes and there's one person that doesn't drink, and it's like, you know, 649 00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,360 like, why do they have to pay for it? Why should they 650 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:22,440 split all of our costly cocktails? Mostly I don't I don't mind, to 651 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,360 be honest, because especially with Jewish women, they don't drink that much anyway. 652 00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:29,280 So if everybody's having a drink, I'm not like, oh, well 653 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,159 I didn't have I shouldn't have to pay, because you know, will I 654 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,400 order an extra appetizer so that they may get to get them back. No, 655 00:44:36,679 --> 00:44:40,079 I'm just saying I normally don't really care. But if you're going to 656 00:44:40,159 --> 00:44:45,400 a place where it's more cocktail focused, like when you're going out for drinks 657 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,519 and have a few appetizers, yeah, then I'm like, really right. 658 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,480 But if it's my friends, I'm never going to say anything. But if 659 00:44:52,519 --> 00:44:57,599 it's like I did go to dinner with this group of women that are part 660 00:44:57,639 --> 00:45:00,960 of a part of a group where we we all have kids with something in 661 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:05,840 common, and we have a big group of these moms and we'll go out 662 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,559 and they'll be like ten of us and they'll start ordering drinks. And at 663 00:45:09,559 --> 00:45:13,960 that point, if I don't know the people that well, I'll be like 664 00:45:15,119 --> 00:45:17,159 and they go, hey, should we just all split it, you know 665 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,800 ten ways. I'm like, no, I'm just gonna pay. I got 666 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,599 it. I'm just gonna look, I'm just gonna pay for mine. Yeah, 667 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:27,519 and then I will be generous. I'm gonna overtip. I'm gonna put 668 00:45:27,559 --> 00:45:30,039 in right. I'm not gonna like skimp on the tax or I'm gonna be 669 00:45:30,519 --> 00:45:35,000 a generous tip. But I'm not gonna like, go, sure, I'll 670 00:45:35,039 --> 00:45:38,079 give you sixty dollars instead of you know, twenty five exactly. Yeah. 671 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,880 Yeah, but if it's my friends, I don't really care. Yeah. 672 00:45:42,199 --> 00:45:45,440 But the point is the sushi ended up being like not that expense. Like 673 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:51,159 we ordered a bunch of sushi and they had some sake's and it didn't it 674 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:55,199 wasn't more than like going to a nicer restaurant, right right, Well that's 675 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:59,159 nice, yeah's nice. So there was a guy. So it's like a 676 00:45:59,199 --> 00:46:02,599 fun sushi if you ever want to go somewhere. It's called Red Ginger. 677 00:46:04,599 --> 00:46:08,760 And it was like kind of a party atmosphere. Now, at first we 678 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:14,320 our reservation was for six thirty on a Friday night. So at first I 679 00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,519 was like, oh, it's just old people time, like who goes to 680 00:46:16,679 --> 00:46:22,199 dinner on a Friday night at six thirty. But surprisingly this place is pretty 681 00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:28,039 happening. So it started kind of filling up around us, and the food 682 00:46:28,159 --> 00:46:32,079 was really good and there was entertainment. There was a guy like this Asian 683 00:46:32,119 --> 00:46:37,000 guy playing the guitar guitar, and we were like, oh, what's this 684 00:46:37,079 --> 00:46:39,679 going to be, like, like what kind of music is he going to 685 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:45,800 play? You know? Well, he played all like hits of the late 686 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:52,519 seventies early eighties that I was in my elements. Oh my god, I 687 00:46:52,599 --> 00:46:55,360 love that, and we were all having the best time, and he played 688 00:46:55,400 --> 00:47:00,960 like Neil Diamond, he did Sweet Caroline. Oh I know, so shit. 689 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:04,920 I So all of us were just like, what what's that? Oh 690 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,840 my god, I love this song. He did like the bee Gee's How 691 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,679 Deep is Your Love? That's so cool. But when he was doing Sweet 692 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:17,159 Caroline, like we all just because it's sort of like an anthemist, you 693 00:47:17,199 --> 00:47:22,239 know, we all start singing, you know, sweet Caroline, and then 694 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:28,039 everybody goes bum bum bum. Yeah, so we're doing that. We I 695 00:47:28,079 --> 00:47:31,360 look around and I'm like, oh, we're like the youngest people here, 696 00:47:31,559 --> 00:47:37,320 like oh really, it's a but it's a it's a weird feeling when you're 697 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,639 like, oh my god, I love this song and it's like, uh, 698 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:45,000 I really love to see you tonight. Yeah, I'm not talking about 699 00:47:45,039 --> 00:47:46,960 moving in, right, you know. And then you look around and the 700 00:47:47,039 --> 00:47:52,800 other people that are really into it are like in their sixties and I'm like, 701 00:47:52,199 --> 00:47:57,280 oh shit, like that's me, Like these were my contemporary right, 702 00:47:57,639 --> 00:48:00,440 like what's happening? And they're out at six thirty eat dinner too? Yes, 703 00:48:00,679 --> 00:48:04,679 And I'm like, oh, I think because I still think of myself 704 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:08,599 as right, I in my mind, I'm like in my late twenties me 705 00:48:08,679 --> 00:48:14,079 too, maybe early thirties if we're stretching out. But I'm like, I'm 706 00:48:14,079 --> 00:48:16,199 still fun, like this is still my music. And then I realized, 707 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:21,000 oh, my music is from literal seventies, right, that's what gets me 708 00:48:21,039 --> 00:48:22,960 excited. Yes, you know what? So And I love when like my 709 00:48:23,079 --> 00:48:28,760 kids will go like our teacher, look like she's younger than you, mom, 710 00:48:29,159 --> 00:48:30,639 Like how do you how old your teachers? She's younger than you, 711 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:35,599 but she looks she looks like she could be your mom, and I love 712 00:48:35,679 --> 00:48:38,480 those. I'm like, I love that comment. But wait a minute. 713 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:43,519 The song I always I know it's not the but you know, you get 714 00:48:43,599 --> 00:48:45,920 lyrics wrong and how people like sing there. I always thought they were singing 715 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:51,079 I'm not talking about the living, right, It's not those It's not. 716 00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,320 No, it's one of those ones that nobody knows what the lyrics are. 717 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:59,559 But it's I'm not talking about moving in. I'm now talking about moving in, 718 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,719 but I don't know what he says. He says, hiven your life. 719 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:07,159 Yes, but there's a cool wind blow in the stars. I really 720 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,199 love to see it tonight. It's if you look up the lyrics, it's 721 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:14,239 I'm not talking. I thought I thought he was talking about dead be it 722 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:20,239 sounds like because he's not talking about the living the living, I just want 723 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:28,400 to hunt your life exactly like a ghost. Yeah. I love living in 724 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:34,199 that nostalgia. Like I there's nothing I love more than like somebody starting to 725 00:49:34,199 --> 00:49:37,480 strum a song and I'm like, oh shit, it's guitar man. It's 726 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:42,719 the guitar man, and I'm like, who comes to play? Baby? 727 00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,559 It's the gits and I'm like, shit song, and then I go, 728 00:49:45,679 --> 00:49:49,679 oh god, I've just aged myself, Like I know, but it is 729 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,480 fun. And now that that you know, that could to go to a 730 00:49:52,559 --> 00:49:57,840 restaurant and have somebody playing songs that you know, hit songs from like the 731 00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,519 seventies, that's the Taylor and yeah, the Bread and I'm like, oh 732 00:50:01,559 --> 00:50:07,320 my god. Even sometimes embarrassingly, even sometimes yacht rock is too modern. 733 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,199 I'm like, oh, that's from the eighties, Like, yeah, take 734 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,840 me back, go back another five years, yeah, and go deep. 735 00:50:15,639 --> 00:50:19,239 I'm like Toto, that's nineteen eighty four. I want to hear something from 736 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:22,960 nineteen seventy eight. Yeah, it's kind of embarrassing, but it's because when 737 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:27,880 I was ten, you know, those like really young formative years where I 738 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:32,559 first started to really like music and like Azided you you know, Franky Valley 739 00:50:32,639 --> 00:50:37,639 and like where it was just it hit your parents. But it also like 740 00:50:37,679 --> 00:50:39,079 you'd hear a song and you'd be like, oh, I really like that 741 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:44,119 song, you know. And then I had those k Tel Music Express albums, 742 00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:50,079 Oh my god, Kato John and like Daniel and your Song and you 743 00:50:50,079 --> 00:50:52,119 know, Benny and the Jets, and those songs would be on those like 744 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:58,480 hit like top forty albums, and I would just play the shit out of 745 00:50:58,519 --> 00:51:04,400 those. Now, it'd be great Jackie Blue, Yeah you do. It 746 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:07,079 would be great to get one of those old record players and get like the 747 00:51:07,199 --> 00:51:13,039 k Tell records. I have a k T. I have it because a 748 00:51:13,119 --> 00:51:15,960 long time ago, this guy I was talking about these songs and I was 749 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:21,280 remembering these songs on this one album from nineteen seventy five. Huh, and 750 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,960 this guy found it for me. I'm like, yay or something. I 751 00:51:25,039 --> 00:51:28,679 bought it for me. Wow, not even someone I was dating, just 752 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:30,480 like a friend of mine at this job. It was so sweet. That's 753 00:51:30,519 --> 00:51:34,280 awesome. I what a great gift. I know. Well, now a 754 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:38,480 good gift for you would be a record player. I know you actually we 755 00:51:38,519 --> 00:51:42,559 have a record play I was like, I know, and then I'm like, 756 00:51:42,639 --> 00:51:45,039 well, yeah, John has one hours. Okay, play a record 757 00:51:45,079 --> 00:51:49,199 on it. Yeah you could play a record. I should while you're doing 758 00:51:49,199 --> 00:51:52,159 your least favorite chores vacuuming, and I won't be able to hear it. 759 00:51:52,519 --> 00:51:55,039 Right, you gotta get it. Then I got it. It's like if 760 00:51:55,039 --> 00:51:58,639 you give them mouse a cookie, Like if I'm going to vacuum and I 761 00:51:58,639 --> 00:52:01,440 want to listen to something. I gotta have the air the AirPod pros so 762 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:06,400 they're noise canceling, right, and then you know, yeah, anyway, 763 00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:12,840 all right, this has been super fun. Yeah, but let us we 764 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,239 never said hi to our people today. We didn't know, we didn't so 765 00:52:15,559 --> 00:52:20,480 doing now we have a new one. It's Richard. Uh, it's frolicker, 766 00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,880 but it sounds like frolicker. He's frolicking with Richard and frolicking yep, 767 00:52:25,159 --> 00:52:30,360 and ahoy, Meg malloy and Rachel. Still she's still a newcomer even though 768 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,679 she's in my class. So she's kind of an old timer to me. 769 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:37,599 Okay, not age wise, but like I've known her for a while. 770 00:52:37,679 --> 00:52:42,760 Okay, so she's now, But Ashley is still chic, and Kelly Laddy 771 00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:49,119 Doe and Amy is really really nice, she stuck her and Lauren as good 772 00:52:49,119 --> 00:52:52,280 as gold, and Katie's rolling on e with all those ease and Aaron, 773 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:59,440 what is or Lando? And Nikky call your girl? And Leslie, Oh 774 00:52:59,519 --> 00:53:02,679 my god, which one is she coughing or she coughing? And acoustic Well, 775 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:07,480 yeah, she's still coughing. Which COVID's not you, that's no excuse. 776 00:53:07,599 --> 00:53:12,280 You don't have COVID anymore. My girlfriend Jody just got over COVID really 777 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,760 yeah yeah, oh damn. And Leslie was she outside of Pearl Jam? 778 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:21,440 Did you see her? She was scalping tickets but they were for with also 779 00:53:21,519 --> 00:53:24,280 Gabby and Missy out there too, no scalpers. They had t shirts too, 780 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:28,920 but it wasn't even Pearl Jam. It was like some band like Pearl 781 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:35,440 Jim Yes spelled it wrong. And Athena Ginshird. We love your dancing and 782 00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,920 Elizabeth Williamson has I love seeing her on Facebook always with the pictures of the 783 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:43,760 kids. She never runs out, and Rita has a face like a basset 784 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:49,440 hound. And Jacob Is Growley and Valerie Bubba Fenwick she had posted a picture 785 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:53,920 of herself at Fenway Park. I love that hilarious Probably we love your pancakes 786 00:53:53,960 --> 00:54:00,920 and Karna check that Moeler and Ishaan voshpeg oh no one is so cute and 787 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:06,440 a moderator on our page. And Kelly Brandt She'll take you down to Yeah, 788 00:54:06,599 --> 00:54:10,320 take you down to Paradise City. We should try to make up a 789 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:15,400 song for everybody's name, but that's gonna be hard. Uh, Christa, 790 00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:22,840 you make me want as true and Sandra It's not easy being green yep, 791 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:30,760 and Jennifer falls just get up already. Aaron Sanchez is a dirty Sanchez Sterra 792 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:35,480 s the Funo is our Parisanos definitely, I sticker wrinker. And Alicia Ascavante 793 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:39,239 from the City of Elmonte. Also. Uh, we talked about Fern Candle. 794 00:54:40,039 --> 00:54:45,039 Adam Lerner is a car broker. He is constantly getting hooking fco l 795 00:54:45,119 --> 00:54:49,320 people up with cars. Sometimes people will write to me and they'll be like, 796 00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,079 is this guy the real deal? Is he is this? Like? 797 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:53,880 Is he actually your friend? And I'm like, yes, he will not 798 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:58,400 screw you over. You can just literally text him and be like, can 799 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,159 I just talk to you about I want to buy a car? I don't 800 00:55:00,159 --> 00:55:05,320 know what I'm doing. He's you don't no commitment, right? Uh? 801 00:55:05,519 --> 00:55:08,800 Adam's got a car dot com. You want to take a trip, use 802 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:14,440 Christine from Storybook World Travel. Uh. You can find her on Facebook or 803 00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:22,559 Instagram. Hmm hold on, Uh, okay, Yes, we have another 804 00:55:22,599 --> 00:55:24,519 one, which is the one that you're going to want to go follow. 805 00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:30,639 Madeline Madeleine m A D E. L I N E. Aubrey styling. 806 00:55:31,199 --> 00:55:36,199 This is our friend the one with the bird, yet is helping out their 807 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,559 friend, surprising them, trying to get them some Instagram followers for this woman, 808 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:45,440 this great lady named Madeleine Aubrey, who's started a solo business and she's 809 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:50,760 somebody who fashions, has donated her time to the nonprofit sector and styled veterans 810 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,559 and homeless people and victims of domestic abuse. Tell her, yeah, so 811 00:55:54,599 --> 00:56:00,840 give her a follow Madeleine Aubrey styling All so tell us about Gerstine. Mike 812 00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:07,239 Gerstein. He's my pal and he actually helped me with plumbing problems last week. 813 00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,159 I was about to call the landlord, but I was like, well, 814 00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:16,320 let me get Mike from go to Plumbing Phoenix Plumbing Solutions dot com. 815 00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:20,639 All his information is right there on the page. You can call him, 816 00:56:20,639 --> 00:56:23,679 you can text him, and yeah, he helped me with two different plumbing 817 00:56:23,679 --> 00:56:27,800 issues. He helped me fix. That's so great. You can do every 818 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,280 you can help you over the phone to check him out. You've got great 819 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:35,400 friends and great listeners. Anyway you want to tell them about Oh, oh, 820 00:56:35,599 --> 00:56:39,400 oh, really quick before we go uh at the end of this show, 821 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:44,360 don't don't hang up yet, don't stop your phone. Uh I, 822 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:49,719 we are going to play a five minute excerpt from Drunkish. Oh that chapter 823 00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:55,599 one, and then that's the teaser for on whatever Thursday. Where Thursday, 824 00:56:55,639 --> 00:57:00,480 you're going to get a bonus episode, which is uh, chapter one from 825 00:57:00,599 --> 00:57:05,079 Drunkish me reading it to you. It's great. Yes, to promote my 826 00:57:05,159 --> 00:57:08,760 book. Yes, so you get that chapter one for free listening. I 827 00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:15,320 love it. Thursday, it's a special episode. It's awesome. Thank you, 828 00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,320 Caylin, thank you everybody. Your parent now, don't f it up. 829 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:22,559 It's good letting go.