Welcome to Buns and Banter, a podcast buy work Busties for work Busties.
Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm Alie. We're both morning show hosts for I
Heartmedia. We're both millennials, and we're both trying to figure out how to
build the live sweet dream about dating, marriage, career, career, and
being a mom, how to get through a week without crying. Welcome to
Buns and Banter. We're glad you're here. I for some reason, I
have feet that sweat ridiculously bad, so it'll see really, oh my god,
absolutely same. I try to like, I don't think about it,
and I feel like I'm just this dainty woman, and then I get home
and take my shoes off and it's always your kids, and well it's like,
oh, so, Fia, did you have a poop? It doesn't
smell that bad. Mom just has some funk feet because I wear socks today.
I also have very sweaty feet, and you guys always learned so much
about us in these you really do. I wash them every night, so
usually yeah, the start of the next day they're great. But are you
a sweaty gale? I don't think, no, you're not. I don't
think so, because I don't sweat like anywhere else on my body. Like
I can go. I could go through a whole work out. This is
actually a running joke in my family. My oldest sister is going to listen
to this and die. I can go through an entire workout and the only
part of my body that will sweat really my feet. It's the only be
a thing I am in the sweaty sock tribe for sure. In my niece
Violet, she also I think it is going to be part of that tribe
too. She's got the thing. We got aunt Alie to like guide us
on our way, I know, right, Really though, I feel like
I should start testing some new products though. One of the things that I
want to try is the new Have you seen advertisements because I'm getting targeted hardcore
and I think it's because they know about my sweaty feet. A little FBI
man in my puter Loomy. Yes, I've been so interested to try it.
It's for all the bits and pieces allegedly you can put it anywhere,
yeah, which I am just flavery ascidd I'm trying to think. I think
I had one of my friends, not a close friend, more of an
acquaintance. Try it swear by it. Really it was the LOOMI because I
remember thinking, Oh, I see those commercials or I hear them like on
our streaming, and they're like for all of your places, And I'm like,
I put it in all my places? How can that be? And
I just wonder if when Because the woman who created it also does their advertisements,
which I think is a brilliant move. Oh is there her? Yeah,
I believe so. And one of the things that she says is I
can't believe they didn't come up with this sooner. Yeah, same, Why
didn't they? Especially? Yeah, because it's always been men then don't think
about their bits and pieces parts smell and they just smell. But have you
noticed that that the deodorant has taken a major shit? No, what do
you mean? I mean, I guess I use. I use like a
dove, and I feel like it keeps me protected. Do you your armpits
don't break out? No? But that is a thing my get Oh,
no, patches of dry It's almost like a I don't know if it's a
chemical burn or what. But because there have been remember a couple seasons ago
we were talking about how I use men's deodorants sometimes, yes, yes,
um old spice and it was like a big thing with Old Spice sponsor us.
Actually not anymore because bring that guy. You made my armpits hurt and
it liked it like burned my armpits and stuff. And now I'm onto the
dove like gentle, super gentle, like the most gentle dove, and I'm
like, should just switch to the LOOMI because I don't feel like this does
anything. I know it's it's and it's unscented, which I think is another
problem because usually with a deodorant, you can smell the scent of the deodorant
and then it mixes with your under arms right right now, right, and
you're like, well, at least it's kind of like covered up a little
bit. This there's like nothing to cover that up. It's just unscented under
arm. And I'd like such a journey with your underarm. The struggle guys.
Oh, I feel like I'm very fidgety right now, so I'm sorry.
I'm not used to the video element yet, but like, can I
just take just take a second. Oh, this is gonna be good because
I said it was so funny when we started. When we started the episode
today, Ali was like, Oh, you can either like clip your mic
on or you can always hold it, and I was like, no,
I think I'd be talking a lot with my hands today. I am.
I am just feeling so frustratingly stagnant today, and I think I think this
happens a lot in the beginning ish of the year. I know that we're
like we're into May, and a lot of people think this is something you
might feel like at the new Year, because everybody's talking about you know,
new things and being reborn and starting your to do list and your goals for
the year. That's false. You have to get well into like the end
of the first quarter, in my opinion, where you really start to feel
frustrated because it's like you're working your ass off and nothing's happening. And I'm
so fired up about that right now, Like you you are a godsend.
Because literally right before, right before we started this episode, I was ready
to probably do something I shouldn't even mention because suddenly the police will be knocking
on the store. I'm just I'm so in that like burn it to the
ground mood right now, because it's like we're almost it is May, which
means next month we're halfway through the year. Yeah, and once again,
I feel like I am failing at the things that I want to do and
the impact I want to make and the goals I want to achieve. It's
like, you're already halfway through the year, what have you been doing?
And it's like I feel like a lot. You know. I feel like
I haven't been home very much. I feel like I haven't seen my kids
enough. So what am I doing? What do I have to show for
that? I'm just feeling so stuck today, and it's annoying because you look
at how to get yourself unstuck, and you know, I follow the blogs
or the inspirational speakers, and it's just it's not doing it for me this
time. I'm kind of just like f all that. What is my next
step? You're burned out? This must be a new level of burnout.
I don't feel like I've ever I keep rolling up my sleeves because I'm just
like hot and mad. Yeah, because I don't feel like I'm doing enough.
And on the opposite end, I feel like I'm doing everything, So
why isn't it making a difference? I feel like in this case, we
should just stop doing everything. We should just stop doing obviously not this,
this is the only joy that we have to keep doing this. But that's
when I feel like, you know, it's time for a break, just
stop doing everything. I don't even know if I'm physically able to do that.
We've talked about it, We've had conversations about the quiet quitting. We've
had conversations about I just posted a TikTok the other day using that a doll
sound never mind, yeah, and I was like, when you're given a
task and then you do it so well, you're just given all the tasks.
Yeah, And it's like my boundaries are non existent. And at this
point, I don't know if I've just trained myself to be doing all of
these things because I feel like, Okay, once it's done, then I
can do this, or spend time here, or give more focus to my
personal life. I don't even know if I could physically stop doing everything,
like if my brain would even allow that, which is scary to say out
loud, that's probably not good. I mean, I think a lot of
people feel this way, and it's almost like this time right now, April
A lot of people who have seasonal effective. I feel like it kicks up
again right now. It was a tough April because we had some sunshine and
we had some really nice days where it was like sixties seventies even, and
things were starting to bloom. The grass was turning green, and we got
maybe one or two of those patio drink sashes in. It was so nice
and we were like, yes, we made it through the winter. There's
hope on the horizon. And then what twenty seven inches of snow? Boom?
Oh, I'm sorry, were you feeling really great? Was that depressive
mood exiting you? Let me like stick you back inside oliber blood. Very
awful weather where you're just made to sit and focus on all the things you're
not doing. Yeah. I love Terry to Bore to death, meteorologist at
TV eight. Yeah. She said something the other day I heard in one
of her hits. She said, it's feeling more like November than May.
And even just hearing the word November, I was like, oh, just
get right out, get out, get right out with that. I don't
that was so that was so mean. I am on the precipice, but
the thought of November will push me over. Yeah, I really feel like
once the sun comes out and the weather starts turning a little bit nicer,
just being I feel like some of this will subside. I sure hope so,
because you can probably tell from my town, I'm not like the friendliest,
most fun person right now. And that's okay, thank you, that's
okay, thanks, thanks we you're extinguishing the fire a bit. We accept
all your forms here on funds and bands. So it's not my favorite form.
It's not my favorite form. Yeah, And that's part of the cycle
too, Like you're right, you're thinking about all these things, and then
you're like, I hate myself for continuing to be so stuck on this stuff.
I do that great, I do that too. I get very much
in a mode of why isn't this stuff happening? I want all this stuff
to happen, and why hasn't it happened yet? I need it to happen
faster. I need to go faster, I need to do more. I
need it, like speed it up. And then I remind myself like,
we're not getting any younger, but we have time. And I don't know,
maybe you do this too. I don't know why I put such pressure
on myself to do things at a younger age, like I need to be
this age and do this. This person did it at this age. I
need to do it three years before they did. That's the driven part of
you. What is that? I don't want to get here because I read
stories three instances this week we have done awesome. Saw stories about women in
their eighties or nineties doing something exceptional. This woman went back to school at
eighty one and got her college degree. I was just gonna say. They
released numbers ahead of MSU's graduation, and out of their list of Masters students,
there is a seventy seven year old who is getting her Masters from MSU
next weekend. Amazing. I know, amazing. I'm doing nothing with my
life. But I look at people or women of that age doing stuff like
that, and I'm so proud of them, and I'm so pumped for them.
Yeah, and I'm like, go do the shit. It doesn't matter
what age you are, Like, it'll come, you know. And I
just I want to be able to remind myself in those moments where I'm like
more faster, yeah, more faster, yeah, it doesn't have to be
right. Now, we have time I think you have time. I'm five
years older than you. I'm getting out of four years. My ankles are
cracking. It's like this also, and this is gonna sound so dumb,
but I do think some of the best way to put this the things that
I consume. So I watched this is such a like out of left field.
I don't know if you've ever watched Firefly Lane on Netflix. I can't.
So I finished it the other night and it was easily like top five
most emotional ends to a show I've ever seen. So I think compounding fan
on how I've been feeling was the least helpful thing I could do. I
was just sitting there sobbing. No spoil alert, but somebody dies and I
was just like, it's gonna be me and all I'm gonna have to show
for it as a mug I left behind at my job. I gotta get
out of this space. Yeah, I gotta get out of this space.
And I hope you're right. I hope the weather in sun and like,
what age do you think you're gonna die? Do you think about that?
Because I do. I think about that all the time. Oh my god,
all the time. Yes, I think about it all the time,
and I actually think, oh, this is so dark, This is so
dark. I told you I was going to take you dark today at the
episode. Well, I just obviously I don't like I would like to live
a very long and healthy life, especially if my family lives a long and
healthy life. But sometimes I catch myself not being able to think about what
my life is going to look like in my fifties or sixties or seventies,
and I'm like, does that mean I'm gonna die young? No, that
doesn't mean that, right, No, I don't think so. It just
means like the rest is still unwritten, right, Thank you, Natasha,
Thank you Natasha. I think about I do think about like my fifty sixties,
seventies, but I think because of my parents and everything we've been going
through with them and a half, you have kids, so maybe possibly one
day you might have grandchildren. But then I don't think past that, So
I'm like, I don't know. I kind of sometimes think i'd be like
a hundred and one, one hundred and one, maybe years old, maybe
a centenarian. Yes, well done. But then I also look at how
I eat and how much I sit, and I don't think I'm gonna make
it to one hundred and one unless it's that woman overseas that's like I drank
whiskey every day and she's like one hundred and six. I know you do
not not here very often about Americans being centenarians. It's always like the blue
zones, right, like the Mediterranean people Denmark who live on the water and
they w gate miles a day and they eat fish and fresh vegetables and they
grill their own ship and make their own bread. Right. Nobody over here
that's eating Taco bell and eating Reese's Puffs. I've gotten really proud of myself
though, because I have started to come back on my Taco bell orders.
I used to get like five things. Now I only get three. So
you I, it's gonna be my advice when I'm walking bowed down to you
with the taco bell because you opened my eyes to the beefy crunch burrito.
Yeah, changed my life. I told you, it changed my life.
Oh my gosh, And that was all because of you. Well, you
know when you want this fast food and then whipping a beefy crunch breeder on
of her purse and she's like try it. You were busting your purse.
I'm always that was even free kids, dude, I'm always traveling trapped.
I am snack strapped. At any given moment you come to me, I've
probably got something there right now. It might be a go gert, so
I wouldn't trust it. Oh my kids, put a go girt in there.
But oh my god, all the time, all the time. Taco
Bell wedding. Did you read this? No Taco Bell now offering a wedding.
I think it's like seven hundred dollars all in steel gets you a wedding
with twelve of your nearest and dearest. You get a taco bell like bow
tie or a tie or something, and also a taco bell garter, taco
bell t shirts, a taco bell cinnamon churro cake, and then like a
taco box for twelve after the ceremony. I can't remember if it comes with
someone or you get to like have it at a Taco bell, or if
it comes with someone who marries you. I think it does. That's hysterical.
But it's like seven hundred bucks all in Taco bell wedding. When you
find when you find your chloopa. Yeah, I just trying to figure out
to a fant to cut. Oh link you finding a partner, would talk
about that would be that I would pay for you to do that. Talk
about I feel like Moss and loving Moss. How far are we not sponsored
yet? Obviously you would do your toast with Baja blast. Oh, obviously
a cinnamon churro cake. That sounds like something they should just do. Oh
that alone, I would pay seven hundred dollars for we were trooping the wedding
cakes. You'd have to get the whole thing is a deal and a half.
Yeah, it's like when I discovered online ordering through them, some great
deals on there. Are you going to any weddings this summer? No,
yes, yes, I'm back and we have three, which is why that
was so weird. You just asked me that because I'm like, no,
oh yeah, so we have my brother in law, cousin and a friend,
your brother in law soon to be okay wait, yes, no,
that's right, Chris's brother is getting married. Oh okay, yes, okay,
soon to be sister in law. Okay, got it. Yeah,
We've got three. And I was like, this is great and I'm super
excited about it. But like, we have been out of this train for
like a decade. Oh shit, so it's back to Yeah, we've got
like gifts showers. It's fantastic. All my friends are getting married this year
are they? Luckily for me though? While unlucky because my one friend did
a small, small wedding in Vegas and then she's doing an additional wedding party,
so for her it's kind of like two weddings. And then my other
friend, actually I guess technically it wasn't this year, it was last year,
but it was October. We went to the lake shore and she got
married. That's beautiful on the lake. It was super pretty and it was
like really private. We stayed in houses on the lake shore. It was
great. And then I have a friend getting married upstate New York in June,
going to that wedding. And then I have another friend who's getting married,
but she's keeping her wedding like super super small, so I'm not I'm
not going to that wedding. Great, which so happy, I know,
So like do you? And I think wedding weddings in general these days are
the pendulum is swinging back the other way. Yes, where weddings are starting
to get I feel a little bit less crazy. I feel the same.
Yeah, after the pandemic gen Z, man, I feel like they're really
going to save us. We're putting a lot of stock into gen Z and
like probably not in a good probably because they're the product of just like constant
trauma and like never having any money and like living through recession after recession.
Save us, but it's not going to be kind. It's it's not like
a good hero's journey that they've lived throughout to become these amazing people that they
are. But I really do feel like they're going to save the world.
Please, like hoastly, some of us millennial parents are like trying to help
the gen behind you figure out what to do because man, we are tired
and you're so much cooler than us. Please just we are tired. I
think that's a fine thing to say. It's like that. It's like that
meme. Also, I hope you will know. I'm trying to make our
background look great, but it keeps disconnecting. Oh well, we do what
we can do, but there we go. It's like the meme I keep
seeing where I don't know what movie it's from, but James Franco's like got
the news around us neck and then he's looks in at the first next and
he goes, oh, first time have you seen that? What? And
it's for everything. It's like, oh, no, banks need to get
bailed out again, and student loan does skyrocketing. Then it's James Franko like,
oh, first time is there some of us that's been every year since
we've graduated, since we were kids. Oh? Absolutely, yeah. I
remember very little of the thriving nineties. I wish untill last time things were
good. When people talk about the good old days, I feel like it
was the nineties. Was it the nineties or was it the eighties. I
think people had really good jobs in the nineties too. I think like late
nineties, like the dot com crash or something like that. I'm just like
regurgitating a lot of stuff I've heard in documentary. Okay, but I say
confidently, someone will I alleviately message us and be like, you, you're
wrong. That's not corrupt, ladies. I'll be like, oh you suddenly
it may be in the boomer generation now that we hate that at all,
which, yeah, we accept all kinds here, we do, even super
successful people that have had nothing but really awesome luck for their entire lives.
Speaking of which, we got to give an update on our feet Pick situation.
Speaking of the weather getting better, because I've got like three or four
ideas, I'm going to be putting in the vault, right Schwinnie and I
this is actually happening. Yes, we are actually going to give the feet
Picks a try. If there's money to be made in the feet Pick world,
we wanted we want to dip a toe. We all or many or
many all of them. So last week we had a day where we went
and grabbed a glass of wine. Yeah, and really we spent the whole
time coming up with our branding. We built an incredible profile and our marketing
arc for the feet Picks. We decided we're going to have one profile.
We're going to tag team it and Tipsy Toes. Tipsy Toes, It's live
baby, It is the Toes coming. They say. Some of the best
ideas and some of the most lucrative ideas, yes, start as complete jokes.
And I have heard of more people who have a million plus subscribers on
TikTok say I started TikTok as a complete joke during the pandemic and now they
have built these thrive careers on them, and I'm just thinking, if we
need it's us, if we need a little bit of capital to get us
in like our own redesigned podcast space, Buns and banter headquarters offices. Oh
a nice bandy to employ our own staff. What's our stool? Look out,
Buns and Banter. We're common for you, and we're going to fund
the whole operation with these little titsies, these sweaty feet I was talking about
at the beginning of we should there's that might stand for everything there is there
is. We should be sure to mention that, right because I am willing
to die a Lot'm proud of my feet. Yeah, I'm going to get
a petty today. Admittedly, though we don't have much knowledge about the foot
Pick community community, we'll call it a community. Yeah, and we do
want to be respectable, yeah, absolutely right, we don't. We don't
want to do anything uncouth. So if you have any knowledge, like,
we'll keep you anonymous one hundred percent. You don't have to feel weird.
We're not here to like kink shame anybody, no our yuck, anybody's yum.
We are just truly seeking the knowledge fact finding mission, A fact finding
foot mission. That's what we are on and it's going to be the best.
I'm excited. I am too, and we're all in. I got
a snapchat from this one over the weekend. She was at a Claire's Claire's.
I was at Claire's with my nieces. My niece Charlotte was five.
She wanted to go find this certain like kit with beads n it and she
has made. I got this at Claire's, by the way. This bracelet,
Oh that's cute. Yeah, my sister bought everybody one so we could
have friendship. Oh my god, bracelets. But while we were there,
I just haven't notice that Claire's. Claire's has quite the selection of toe rings,
anklets, and toe tassels. Kind of incredible. We're going to need
to do that kind of incredible. See, look at there's so much.
I'm already feeling much better about the pit I had started in when we began
this episode, because sky's the limit. It might be a positive that we
have little to no knowledge of the foot picture community going into this. Yeah,
I think it only helps us. I think it might It excites me
for the journey. Yeah, So We'll be sure to keep everybody posted about
how our journey is going, and if it's if it's lucrative. We can
only hope, right, if it's lucrative. Man, I would love to
be able to share everything we learn because I'm sure it will be insane,
so insane, insanely wonderful. Let somebody look at us, look at us.
Every time I do this, I feel so much better. I hope
that's what we're giving out to all of you, head to toe. You're
doing great. Yeah, I do have to ask, because you are my
compass, my north star. That's a terrible idea in some of these situations.
Imagine how I feel about it. Just kidding. Continue, So I'm
scrolling on the dating apps, you know, as I do, Yeah,
and I come across this gentleman who has sent me alike, and I check
out his profile and I'm like, oh, I know you. You and
I have already matched on a different app. Albeit okay, and we've already
done this whole rigamar role. We took it off the app, we texted
for a while. It didn't end well, No, does he not remember?
I feel like I've never heard of that happening. Really, do you
use similar pictures between apps. I mean it's similar in that they're all of
my dad to say, not to say you're you're a forgettable person, you're
unforgettable, but that I try. I do make it a point to keep
my pictures fresh on the dating apps. I try to only use pictures that
have been taken within the last six months to yeah, yeah, six months.
Yeah, that's a kind online dater. By the way, don't be
given us the stuff from eight years ago. There are some pictures that are
that do date back a little bit further, but they're like once in a
lifetime. Like there's a picture of me on my dating profile with a cardboard
cut out of Patrick Swayzy from Ghost re enacting the pottery scene. Don't ever
take up that one. I just I can't. I'll never get to change
an opportunity to update that with my current right look, but my hair is
up, I have my glasses on, no makeup, like I don't.
I haven't gained or lost a considerable amount of weight in that time period,
so I don't feel like that one is. It's evergreen. It's evergreen.
Yeah you will so as your compass. And this did not end well was
he like kind of a d I cannot remember specifically what happened. I remember
he said something though, and I was like, here it is, yeah,
you that's going to be a no for me, right, I'd just
go and get a nice dinner out of it. Well, here's the other
problem. He lives on the other side. I really just I really have
better luck over there. I don't know. I just must have an bigger
area. It's a bustling metropolis. That's funny. I don't know what it
is. I don't have good luck in West Michigan. Yeah, they can't
handle it. They can't handle you here. In fact, everyone I've ever
dated, I don't think I've ever dated someone like actually have been boyfriend girlfriend
to find the relationship with anyone who's ever lived did in West Michigan, which
is insane. I've lived here for thirteen years. Wow. My first boyfriend
that I met at work, he's from Alabama. And then the soccer player,
Oh yeah, he was from overseas. He was British. I did
light the bread. I did too. I just I really aped that up.
That one was my bad. So we can't win them all. Can't
win them all. And then um, one of them was from the east
Side. Yep, that one I did for a long time like the yeah,
yep, okay, yeah, Actually didn't know that one was from the
east Side. So are you gonna give this Farmington? What do you do
with this guy? Did you match him too or he? I'm not sure
what app it's on, so like it's on Hinge, so he Hinge is
a little bit different because it's not like you're swiping laughter. You're swiping right,
Okay, you're sending lights and you're sending you can send like a message
when you send a like, got it? So you don't have to necessarily
send a message with your like, yeah, but you can, and he
did. He sent a like of a picture of me and France. How
could you not? Could not? Um? And he just said like same,
oh and you have already gone through. So that with him, I
of course matched him because I was like, this will be good. I
don't think he remembers that we've already done this. I do like this.
I just want to know what happens same, how long it takes him,
how long it takes him to realize it? So, look, are you
trying to play games here? But do I tend second tom this scenario and
like reintroduce myself and like go through the whole thing. And then when he
asks for my number and realizes that he might already even say, oh,
like maybe it's already in his phone. Do I play a long game?
Oh yeah, I have a little bit of both. Or send him a
message up front and be like, oh, buddy, we've already done this.
We've already done it, and then we didn't do it, and now
we're going to do this again. I kind of love giving him the number
and just see him. Is it just me? Do I have a photographic
memory of these dudes? How? Like? I just I find it so
inconceivable that you don't remember someone, Yeah we texted for like a week?
Wow, Yeah maybe maybe last maybe a couple of days, I don't know.
Or he's like trying to get back in it with you, maybe he's
a changed guy. That seems like the least likely possible. There's no way
you don't have a forgettable face. But and also like your pictures, your
interests, all that, like, there's no way he doesn't know that you've
already done this. And if that's the case, back off, because maybe
he's got something. That means he's been with a lot of people that he
can't remember who he's already been doing stuff with. I don't abot you'd catch
anything. Why don't slutch him? Oh no, I'm just saying, like
to be how do you forget somebody like that? And it was semi like
it was within the last couple of years. It was not this January but
last January. Girl, Yeah, was he going through profiles like crazy?
Don't remember you? I don't know, because I remember we were talking on
New Year's Eve because we had talked about, yeah, you like going over
there. No. Oh, he was like, what are you doing for
New Year's Eve? And I was like, actually, I'm I'm staying in
and I'm re I'm like, I was mudding my dining room. Yeah,
you're so cool though. I love that I was renovating my dining room.
And I was like super pumped to not be out on the town trying to
make something happen on New Year's with a group of friends and just having an
overall shit time, most overhyped holiday of the year. Yeah, And he
was like, oh, yeah, like, I'm staying in two with my
dog. But then I just I can't remember exactly how it unfolded or like
why we stopped talking. I think it's just like slow faded. But I
do remember there being something that he said that I was like, I'm unattracted
to that, but I can't remember what it was. But it slow wasn't
that big of a deal. Now I kind of think he's trying to get
back in it. If it was a slow fade, he was like,
oh right, I guess you know. I don't give guys that much credit.
You're nice, I know because I literally a minute ago was like back
away. He's clearly been clicking on all the profiles. I don't want you
to catch anything, so not super nice, but I think you might be
trying to get back in it. I think he either got back together with
his ax or I don't know. I think he probably just forgot. There's
a lot of I want don't know, because if I forgettable, I could
go in my phone right now and find his number. I didn't delete it,
right, and if it ends badly as we know, like I was
just ghosted by someone and I literally blocked them and deleted their number, I
would give him the number and see if fucks up. See if like the
conversation continues or it's a hard stop like oh this has check and mate got
it? Sorry about it? You're still beautiful because clearly I clicked on you
again. I mean he I mean, yeah, he's cute, but given
a gout, what a great story. Selfishly, I'm saying that because it
makes for a great episode conversation and like checkens right, let's give that arc
of from beginning to end to found you again. See this is this is
such a dangerous time of year for me because I am fifty percent of me
wants to give up on the apps, which usually I do after a certain
amount of months on them. I get very burned out and very tired,
and I just like have to take a break from them. I get that,
and uh then I get in a space where I'm like chaos. Let's
cause chaos it is. It is. It's time to be toxic, like
not not in in a really messed up way, but just in like a
yeah, just kind of a chaotic, wholesome but chaotic. I feel like
you follow the moon phases or the tides or something, which I think is
awesome. I just yeah, and everyone's talking about like single girl summer,
and I was like, no, I'm not going to have a single girl
summer. I'm not going to be out there breaking hearts and taking names and
yeah being being you know what I mean. Yep, I'm gonna have a
I'm gonna focus on me and I'm gonna I'm gonna work on me. But
I did that last summer. Summer is a good time for it. There's
so much to do and see you're just cooped up inside because it's negative five.
But as part of focusing on you, would definitely hit back this dude
and see if he figures out whether or not you're I'm like so annoyed though
that. It's like another East Side of the State thing I can't I have.
It's at a certain point, it's like the it's like the they love
you over there. Yeah. I hesitate to say this out loud because never
say never. That's like, yeah, that's inviting the universe to make you
look like an idiot. But it was like the same thing I want through
with the single dads. Oh, I dated a few single dads and I
just think I gotta I gotta say probably not a good not good for me.
Check out this new fit this recycled fit the Ghost of a bumble Past.
I just didn't the name of the next episode, the Ghost of bumble
Pass. I would just love to know if anybody else has had that happened.
I'm sure, yeah, it would. It seems natural enough. But
at the same time, I'm just so stunned that it was only like,
really a year or two ago, and he's I think he's trying to get
back in it. That's my vote. Who wouldn't look at your Za Zoo
pants today? Fabulous Zoo Baz number one. I love your look. I
just I'm so stunned at how many people came up to her today and they
were like, well, oh, you know used to wear those? Yeah,
I love these pants. They're from Target. It God, I'm going
to get a bunch of them today. Yeah. Flowe girl summer you were
just talking about, might be another focus on me summer. I'm a flowy
pant summer. Flowe pant summer. You're having a Chloe Pant summer and I
am having ah am I going to have a single girl summer. I am
or night. If so, it'll be perfect because we're working on some happy
hours for buns and panters. Yes we are, and this does seem like
a good time to mention once again a Buns and Banter officially live on YouTube.
Yes, we are in the process of making some upgrades to the equipment
that we use to film and record, so it's very possible. Like like
our set decore, we've upgraded since the last episode courtesy of Ali Mack,
who did such a fabulous interior decor job. Thank you. I enjoy it.
It's so good. It's so good, like we're just even We're even
messier on video, so you should really watch in a good way, beautiful
way and the beautiful disasters. Thank you. Updates to come.