WEBVTT 1 00:00:03.480 --> 00:00:08.240 Welcome to Buns and Banter, a podcast buy work Busties for work Busties. 2 00:00:08.720 --> 00:00:12.679 Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm Alie. We're both morning show hosts for I 3 00:00:12.800 --> 00:00:17.920 Heartmedia. We're both millennials, and we're both trying to figure out how to 4 00:00:17.960 --> 00:00:22.800 build the live sweet dream about dating, marriage, career, career, and 5 00:00:22.960 --> 00:00:26.079 being a mom, how to get through a week without crying. Welcome to 6 00:00:26.120 --> 00:00:29.399 Buns and Banter. We're glad you're here. I for some reason, I 7 00:00:29.440 --> 00:00:33.000 have feet that sweat ridiculously bad, so it'll see really, oh my god, 8 00:00:33.039 --> 00:00:36.399 absolutely same. I try to like, I don't think about it, 9 00:00:36.560 --> 00:00:40.200 and I feel like I'm just this dainty woman, and then I get home 10 00:00:40.200 --> 00:00:43.799 and take my shoes off and it's always your kids, and well it's like, 11 00:00:44.000 --> 00:00:48.359 oh, so, Fia, did you have a poop? It doesn't 12 00:00:48.399 --> 00:00:51.640 smell that bad. Mom just has some funk feet because I wear socks today. 13 00:00:52.759 --> 00:00:58.320 I also have very sweaty feet, and you guys always learned so much 14 00:00:58.320 --> 00:01:03.039 about us in these you really do. I wash them every night, so 15 00:01:03.200 --> 00:01:06.359 usually yeah, the start of the next day they're great. But are you 16 00:01:06.400 --> 00:01:08.480 a sweaty gale? I don't think, no, you're not. I don't 17 00:01:08.519 --> 00:01:11.560 think so, because I don't sweat like anywhere else on my body. Like 18 00:01:11.599 --> 00:01:15.879 I can go. I could go through a whole work out. This is 19 00:01:15.879 --> 00:01:19.200 actually a running joke in my family. My oldest sister is going to listen 20 00:01:19.239 --> 00:01:23.640 to this and die. I can go through an entire workout and the only 21 00:01:23.680 --> 00:01:30.519 part of my body that will sweat really my feet. It's the only be 22 00:01:30.640 --> 00:01:37.879 a thing I am in the sweaty sock tribe for sure. In my niece 23 00:01:38.040 --> 00:01:40.599 Violet, she also I think it is going to be part of that tribe 24 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:44.840 too. She's got the thing. We got aunt Alie to like guide us 25 00:01:44.840 --> 00:01:47.959 on our way, I know, right, Really though, I feel like 26 00:01:48.000 --> 00:01:49.920 I should start testing some new products though. One of the things that I 27 00:01:49.959 --> 00:01:55.560 want to try is the new Have you seen advertisements because I'm getting targeted hardcore 28 00:01:55.879 --> 00:01:59.239 and I think it's because they know about my sweaty feet. A little FBI 29 00:01:59.319 --> 00:02:05.719 man in my puter Loomy. Yes, I've been so interested to try it. 30 00:02:05.719 --> 00:02:09.159 It's for all the bits and pieces allegedly you can put it anywhere, 31 00:02:09.360 --> 00:02:15.000 yeah, which I am just flavery ascidd I'm trying to think. I think 32 00:02:15.199 --> 00:02:21.120 I had one of my friends, not a close friend, more of an 33 00:02:21.159 --> 00:02:24.360 acquaintance. Try it swear by it. Really it was the LOOMI because I 34 00:02:24.400 --> 00:02:28.639 remember thinking, Oh, I see those commercials or I hear them like on 35 00:02:28.680 --> 00:02:34.039 our streaming, and they're like for all of your places, And I'm like, 36 00:02:34.159 --> 00:02:36.759 I put it in all my places? How can that be? And 37 00:02:36.840 --> 00:02:44.360 I just wonder if when Because the woman who created it also does their advertisements, 38 00:02:44.360 --> 00:02:46.840 which I think is a brilliant move. Oh is there her? Yeah, 39 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:51.800 I believe so. And one of the things that she says is I 40 00:02:51.800 --> 00:02:54.719 can't believe they didn't come up with this sooner. Yeah, same, Why 41 00:02:54.759 --> 00:03:00.520 didn't they? Especially? Yeah, because it's always been men then don't think 42 00:03:00.520 --> 00:03:04.759 about their bits and pieces parts smell and they just smell. But have you 43 00:03:04.800 --> 00:03:10.240 noticed that that the deodorant has taken a major shit? No, what do 44 00:03:10.280 --> 00:03:14.759 you mean? I mean, I guess I use. I use like a 45 00:03:14.840 --> 00:03:17.599 dove, and I feel like it keeps me protected. Do you your armpits 46 00:03:17.639 --> 00:03:23.560 don't break out? No? But that is a thing my get Oh, 47 00:03:23.639 --> 00:03:27.919 no, patches of dry It's almost like a I don't know if it's a 48 00:03:28.000 --> 00:03:32.639 chemical burn or what. But because there have been remember a couple seasons ago 49 00:03:32.680 --> 00:03:38.039 we were talking about how I use men's deodorants sometimes, yes, yes, 50 00:03:38.159 --> 00:03:42.800 um old spice and it was like a big thing with Old Spice sponsor us. 51 00:03:43.000 --> 00:03:46.599 Actually not anymore because bring that guy. You made my armpits hurt and 52 00:03:46.680 --> 00:03:52.879 it liked it like burned my armpits and stuff. And now I'm onto the 53 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:57.400 dove like gentle, super gentle, like the most gentle dove, and I'm 54 00:03:57.400 --> 00:04:00.560 like, should just switch to the LOOMI because I don't feel like this does 55 00:04:00.599 --> 00:04:04.199 anything. I know it's it's and it's unscented, which I think is another 56 00:04:04.240 --> 00:04:12.360 problem because usually with a deodorant, you can smell the scent of the deodorant 57 00:04:12.360 --> 00:04:15.560 and then it mixes with your under arms right right now, right, and 58 00:04:15.600 --> 00:04:17.600 you're like, well, at least it's kind of like covered up a little 59 00:04:17.600 --> 00:04:23.079 bit. This there's like nothing to cover that up. It's just unscented under 60 00:04:23.199 --> 00:04:28.680 arm. And I'd like such a journey with your underarm. The struggle guys. 61 00:04:29.040 --> 00:04:32.720 Oh, I feel like I'm very fidgety right now, so I'm sorry. 62 00:04:33.800 --> 00:04:36.720 I'm not used to the video element yet, but like, can I 63 00:04:36.759 --> 00:04:41.279 just take just take a second. Oh, this is gonna be good because 64 00:04:41.279 --> 00:04:43.639 I said it was so funny when we started. When we started the episode 65 00:04:43.639 --> 00:04:46.600 today, Ali was like, Oh, you can either like clip your mic 66 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:48.160 on or you can always hold it, and I was like, no, 67 00:04:48.279 --> 00:04:53.079 I think I'd be talking a lot with my hands today. I am. 68 00:04:53.399 --> 00:05:02.040 I am just feeling so frustratingly stagnant today, and I think I think this 69 00:05:02.160 --> 00:05:08.199 happens a lot in the beginning ish of the year. I know that we're 70 00:05:08.240 --> 00:05:10.959 like we're into May, and a lot of people think this is something you 71 00:05:11.000 --> 00:05:14.079 might feel like at the new Year, because everybody's talking about you know, 72 00:05:14.959 --> 00:05:18.199 new things and being reborn and starting your to do list and your goals for 73 00:05:18.240 --> 00:05:23.519 the year. That's false. You have to get well into like the end 74 00:05:23.519 --> 00:05:26.399 of the first quarter, in my opinion, where you really start to feel 75 00:05:26.399 --> 00:05:30.399 frustrated because it's like you're working your ass off and nothing's happening. And I'm 76 00:05:30.519 --> 00:05:36.040 so fired up about that right now, Like you you are a godsend. 77 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:40.839 Because literally right before, right before we started this episode, I was ready 78 00:05:40.879 --> 00:05:46.240 to probably do something I shouldn't even mention because suddenly the police will be knocking 79 00:05:46.240 --> 00:05:51.240 on the store. I'm just I'm so in that like burn it to the 80 00:05:51.279 --> 00:05:58.920 ground mood right now, because it's like we're almost it is May, which 81 00:05:58.959 --> 00:06:02.120 means next month we're halfway through the year. Yeah, and once again, 82 00:06:02.720 --> 00:06:06.800 I feel like I am failing at the things that I want to do and 83 00:06:06.839 --> 00:06:11.279 the impact I want to make and the goals I want to achieve. It's 84 00:06:11.319 --> 00:06:13.759 like, you're already halfway through the year, what have you been doing? 85 00:06:14.439 --> 00:06:17.480 And it's like I feel like a lot. You know. I feel like 86 00:06:17.519 --> 00:06:21.040 I haven't been home very much. I feel like I haven't seen my kids 87 00:06:21.120 --> 00:06:24.160 enough. So what am I doing? What do I have to show for 88 00:06:24.199 --> 00:06:31.439 that? I'm just feeling so stuck today, and it's annoying because you look 89 00:06:31.439 --> 00:06:35.079 at how to get yourself unstuck, and you know, I follow the blogs 90 00:06:35.279 --> 00:06:40.279 or the inspirational speakers, and it's just it's not doing it for me this 91 00:06:40.360 --> 00:06:45.000 time. I'm kind of just like f all that. What is my next 92 00:06:45.040 --> 00:06:49.360 step? You're burned out? This must be a new level of burnout. 93 00:06:49.560 --> 00:06:54.480 I don't feel like I've ever I keep rolling up my sleeves because I'm just 94 00:06:54.519 --> 00:06:58.560 like hot and mad. Yeah, because I don't feel like I'm doing enough. 95 00:06:59.000 --> 00:07:01.639 And on the opposite end, I feel like I'm doing everything, So 96 00:07:01.920 --> 00:07:06.759 why isn't it making a difference? I feel like in this case, we 97 00:07:06.800 --> 00:07:13.199 should just stop doing everything. We should just stop doing obviously not this, 98 00:07:13.199 --> 00:07:17.240 this is the only joy that we have to keep doing this. But that's 99 00:07:17.279 --> 00:07:21.040 when I feel like, you know, it's time for a break, just 100 00:07:21.120 --> 00:07:27.120 stop doing everything. I don't even know if I'm physically able to do that. 101 00:07:27.399 --> 00:07:30.839 We've talked about it, We've had conversations about the quiet quitting. We've 102 00:07:30.839 --> 00:07:35.839 had conversations about I just posted a TikTok the other day using that a doll 103 00:07:35.920 --> 00:07:41.000 sound never mind, yeah, and I was like, when you're given a 104 00:07:41.040 --> 00:07:44.959 task and then you do it so well, you're just given all the tasks. 105 00:07:45.120 --> 00:07:49.920 Yeah, And it's like my boundaries are non existent. And at this 106 00:07:50.040 --> 00:07:55.439 point, I don't know if I've just trained myself to be doing all of 107 00:07:55.480 --> 00:07:57.920 these things because I feel like, Okay, once it's done, then I 108 00:07:57.959 --> 00:08:01.319 can do this, or spend time here, or give more focus to my 109 00:08:01.360 --> 00:08:05.720 personal life. I don't even know if I could physically stop doing everything, 110 00:08:05.519 --> 00:08:11.360 like if my brain would even allow that, which is scary to say out 111 00:08:11.360 --> 00:08:16.959 loud, that's probably not good. I mean, I think a lot of 112 00:08:16.000 --> 00:08:24.720 people feel this way, and it's almost like this time right now, April 113 00:08:26.759 --> 00:08:30.160 A lot of people who have seasonal effective. I feel like it kicks up 114 00:08:30.199 --> 00:08:35.240 again right now. It was a tough April because we had some sunshine and 115 00:08:35.320 --> 00:08:39.960 we had some really nice days where it was like sixties seventies even, and 116 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:46.879 things were starting to bloom. The grass was turning green, and we got 117 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:50.159 maybe one or two of those patio drink sashes in. It was so nice 118 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:56.159 and we were like, yes, we made it through the winter. There's 119 00:08:56.200 --> 00:09:01.480 hope on the horizon. And then what twenty seven inches of snow? Boom? 120 00:09:01.639 --> 00:09:05.360 Oh, I'm sorry, were you feeling really great? Was that depressive 121 00:09:05.399 --> 00:09:11.120 mood exiting you? Let me like stick you back inside oliber blood. Very 122 00:09:11.279 --> 00:09:13.840 awful weather where you're just made to sit and focus on all the things you're 123 00:09:13.879 --> 00:09:18.120 not doing. Yeah. I love Terry to Bore to death, meteorologist at 124 00:09:18.399 --> 00:09:22.960 TV eight. Yeah. She said something the other day I heard in one 125 00:09:22.960 --> 00:09:26.039 of her hits. She said, it's feeling more like November than May. 126 00:09:26.279 --> 00:09:28.159 And even just hearing the word November, I was like, oh, just 127 00:09:28.240 --> 00:09:31.480 get right out, get out, get right out with that. I don't 128 00:09:31.559 --> 00:09:37.559 that was so that was so mean. I am on the precipice, but 129 00:09:37.840 --> 00:09:41.639 the thought of November will push me over. Yeah, I really feel like 130 00:09:41.720 --> 00:09:48.720 once the sun comes out and the weather starts turning a little bit nicer, 131 00:09:48.960 --> 00:09:52.840 just being I feel like some of this will subside. I sure hope so, 132 00:09:52.039 --> 00:09:56.039 because you can probably tell from my town, I'm not like the friendliest, 133 00:09:56.159 --> 00:10:01.919 most fun person right now. And that's okay, thank you, that's 134 00:10:01.919 --> 00:10:07.759 okay, thanks, thanks we you're extinguishing the fire a bit. We accept 135 00:10:07.799 --> 00:10:11.200 all your forms here on funds and bands. So it's not my favorite form. 136 00:10:11.639 --> 00:10:15.480 It's not my favorite form. Yeah, And that's part of the cycle 137 00:10:15.519 --> 00:10:16.879 too, Like you're right, you're thinking about all these things, and then 138 00:10:16.879 --> 00:10:22.440 you're like, I hate myself for continuing to be so stuck on this stuff. 139 00:10:22.679 --> 00:10:26.080 I do that great, I do that too. I get very much 140 00:10:26.080 --> 00:10:31.039 in a mode of why isn't this stuff happening? I want all this stuff 141 00:10:31.080 --> 00:10:33.600 to happen, and why hasn't it happened yet? I need it to happen 142 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:35.879 faster. I need to go faster, I need to do more. I 143 00:10:35.919 --> 00:10:41.799 need it, like speed it up. And then I remind myself like, 144 00:10:41.000 --> 00:10:46.960 we're not getting any younger, but we have time. And I don't know, 145 00:10:48.279 --> 00:10:50.480 maybe you do this too. I don't know why I put such pressure 146 00:10:50.519 --> 00:10:56.879 on myself to do things at a younger age, like I need to be 147 00:10:56.000 --> 00:10:58.240 this age and do this. This person did it at this age. I 148 00:10:58.279 --> 00:11:01.360 need to do it three years before they did. That's the driven part of 149 00:11:01.399 --> 00:11:07.000 you. What is that? I don't want to get here because I read 150 00:11:07.320 --> 00:11:13.440 stories three instances this week we have done awesome. Saw stories about women in 151 00:11:13.480 --> 00:11:20.200 their eighties or nineties doing something exceptional. This woman went back to school at 152 00:11:20.240 --> 00:11:24.000 eighty one and got her college degree. I was just gonna say. They 153 00:11:24.200 --> 00:11:31.519 released numbers ahead of MSU's graduation, and out of their list of Masters students, 154 00:11:31.679 --> 00:11:35.440 there is a seventy seven year old who is getting her Masters from MSU 155 00:11:35.679 --> 00:11:39.879 next weekend. Amazing. I know, amazing. I'm doing nothing with my 156 00:11:39.919 --> 00:11:46.639 life. But I look at people or women of that age doing stuff like 157 00:11:46.679 --> 00:11:50.120 that, and I'm so proud of them, and I'm so pumped for them. 158 00:11:50.279 --> 00:11:54.360 Yeah, and I'm like, go do the shit. It doesn't matter 159 00:11:54.399 --> 00:11:56.440 what age you are, Like, it'll come, you know. And I 160 00:11:56.519 --> 00:12:01.440 just I want to be able to remind myself in those moments where I'm like 161 00:12:01.799 --> 00:12:05.600 more faster, yeah, more faster, yeah, it doesn't have to be 162 00:12:05.759 --> 00:12:11.039 right. Now, we have time I think you have time. I'm five 163 00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:18.200 years older than you. I'm getting out of four years. My ankles are 164 00:12:18.200 --> 00:12:24.919 cracking. It's like this also, and this is gonna sound so dumb, 165 00:12:24.000 --> 00:12:31.039 but I do think some of the best way to put this the things that 166 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:37.159 I consume. So I watched this is such a like out of left field. 167 00:12:37.519 --> 00:12:41.919 I don't know if you've ever watched Firefly Lane on Netflix. I can't. 168 00:12:41.360 --> 00:12:48.000 So I finished it the other night and it was easily like top five 169 00:12:48.159 --> 00:12:52.720 most emotional ends to a show I've ever seen. So I think compounding fan 170 00:12:52.840 --> 00:12:56.919 on how I've been feeling was the least helpful thing I could do. I 171 00:12:56.960 --> 00:13:01.279 was just sitting there sobbing. No spoil alert, but somebody dies and I 172 00:13:01.360 --> 00:13:05.240 was just like, it's gonna be me and all I'm gonna have to show 173 00:13:05.279 --> 00:13:11.840 for it as a mug I left behind at my job. I gotta get 174 00:13:11.840 --> 00:13:16.480 out of this space. Yeah, I gotta get out of this space. 175 00:13:16.120 --> 00:13:18.639 And I hope you're right. I hope the weather in sun and like, 176 00:13:20.480 --> 00:13:22.799 what age do you think you're gonna die? Do you think about that? 177 00:13:22.840 --> 00:13:26.399 Because I do. I think about that all the time. Oh my god, 178 00:13:26.440 --> 00:13:28.840 all the time. Yes, I think about it all the time, 179 00:13:30.480 --> 00:13:33.559 and I actually think, oh, this is so dark, This is so 180 00:13:33.679 --> 00:13:37.240 dark. I told you I was going to take you dark today at the 181 00:13:37.320 --> 00:13:41.200 episode. Well, I just obviously I don't like I would like to live 182 00:13:41.240 --> 00:13:45.559 a very long and healthy life, especially if my family lives a long and 183 00:13:45.679 --> 00:13:50.559 healthy life. But sometimes I catch myself not being able to think about what 184 00:13:50.600 --> 00:13:54.679 my life is going to look like in my fifties or sixties or seventies, 185 00:13:54.720 --> 00:13:58.000 and I'm like, does that mean I'm gonna die young? No, that 186 00:13:58.039 --> 00:14:03.159 doesn't mean that, right, No, I don't think so. It just 187 00:14:03.200 --> 00:14:05.919 means like the rest is still unwritten, right, Thank you, Natasha, 188 00:14:07.080 --> 00:14:11.519 Thank you Natasha. I think about I do think about like my fifty sixties, 189 00:14:11.519 --> 00:14:16.960 seventies, but I think because of my parents and everything we've been going 190 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:22.840 through with them and a half, you have kids, so maybe possibly one 191 00:14:22.919 --> 00:14:24.879 day you might have grandchildren. But then I don't think past that, So 192 00:14:24.879 --> 00:14:28.960 I'm like, I don't know. I kind of sometimes think i'd be like 193 00:14:28.960 --> 00:14:33.440 a hundred and one, one hundred and one, maybe years old, maybe 194 00:14:33.519 --> 00:14:39.000 a centenarian. Yes, well done. But then I also look at how 195 00:14:39.039 --> 00:14:41.639 I eat and how much I sit, and I don't think I'm gonna make 196 00:14:41.639 --> 00:14:46.159 it to one hundred and one unless it's that woman overseas that's like I drank 197 00:14:46.159 --> 00:14:48.799 whiskey every day and she's like one hundred and six. I know you do 198 00:14:48.879 --> 00:14:54.720 not not here very often about Americans being centenarians. It's always like the blue 199 00:14:54.799 --> 00:14:58.600 zones, right, like the Mediterranean people Denmark who live on the water and 200 00:14:58.600 --> 00:15:03.960 they w gate miles a day and they eat fish and fresh vegetables and they 201 00:15:03.000 --> 00:15:07.080 grill their own ship and make their own bread. Right. Nobody over here 202 00:15:07.159 --> 00:15:13.240 that's eating Taco bell and eating Reese's Puffs. I've gotten really proud of myself 203 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:16.240 though, because I have started to come back on my Taco bell orders. 204 00:15:16.720 --> 00:15:20.039 I used to get like five things. Now I only get three. So 205 00:15:20.399 --> 00:15:24.399 you I, it's gonna be my advice when I'm walking bowed down to you 206 00:15:24.679 --> 00:15:30.720 with the taco bell because you opened my eyes to the beefy crunch burrito. 207 00:15:31.240 --> 00:15:35.559 Yeah, changed my life. I told you, it changed my life. 208 00:15:35.879 --> 00:15:37.720 Oh my gosh, And that was all because of you. Well, you 209 00:15:37.799 --> 00:15:43.039 know when you want this fast food and then whipping a beefy crunch breeder on 210 00:15:43.159 --> 00:15:48.120 of her purse and she's like try it. You were busting your purse. 211 00:15:48.200 --> 00:15:52.639 I'm always that was even free kids, dude, I'm always traveling trapped. 212 00:15:54.200 --> 00:16:00.120 I am snack strapped. At any given moment you come to me, I've 213 00:16:00.120 --> 00:16:02.799 probably got something there right now. It might be a go gert, so 214 00:16:02.799 --> 00:16:04.240 I wouldn't trust it. Oh my kids, put a go girt in there. 215 00:16:04.279 --> 00:16:07.240 But oh my god, all the time, all the time. Taco 216 00:16:07.240 --> 00:16:12.679 Bell wedding. Did you read this? No Taco Bell now offering a wedding. 217 00:16:14.120 --> 00:16:18.440 I think it's like seven hundred dollars all in steel gets you a wedding 218 00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:23.879 with twelve of your nearest and dearest. You get a taco bell like bow 219 00:16:23.919 --> 00:16:27.080 tie or a tie or something, and also a taco bell garter, taco 220 00:16:27.120 --> 00:16:34.559 bell t shirts, a taco bell cinnamon churro cake, and then like a 221 00:16:34.639 --> 00:16:41.159 taco box for twelve after the ceremony. I can't remember if it comes with 222 00:16:41.240 --> 00:16:42.919 someone or you get to like have it at a Taco bell, or if 223 00:16:42.919 --> 00:16:47.360 it comes with someone who marries you. I think it does. That's hysterical. 224 00:16:47.519 --> 00:16:52.080 But it's like seven hundred bucks all in Taco bell wedding. When you 225 00:16:52.120 --> 00:16:57.960 find when you find your chloopa. Yeah, I just trying to figure out 226 00:16:59.000 --> 00:17:03.480 to a fant to cut. Oh link you finding a partner, would talk 227 00:17:03.519 --> 00:17:06.799 about that would be that I would pay for you to do that. Talk 228 00:17:06.839 --> 00:17:12.799 about I feel like Moss and loving Moss. How far are we not sponsored 229 00:17:12.880 --> 00:17:18.000 yet? Obviously you would do your toast with Baja blast. Oh, obviously 230 00:17:18.839 --> 00:17:22.799 a cinnamon churro cake. That sounds like something they should just do. Oh 231 00:17:22.920 --> 00:17:27.720 that alone, I would pay seven hundred dollars for we were trooping the wedding 232 00:17:27.720 --> 00:17:30.759 cakes. You'd have to get the whole thing is a deal and a half. 233 00:17:32.119 --> 00:17:34.799 Yeah, it's like when I discovered online ordering through them, some great 234 00:17:34.839 --> 00:17:37.440 deals on there. Are you going to any weddings this summer? No, 235 00:17:37.799 --> 00:17:47.200 yes, yes, I'm back and we have three, which is why that 236 00:17:47.240 --> 00:17:48.960 was so weird. You just asked me that because I'm like, no, 237 00:17:48.200 --> 00:17:56.119 oh yeah, so we have my brother in law, cousin and a friend, 238 00:17:56.400 --> 00:17:59.519 your brother in law soon to be okay wait, yes, no, 239 00:17:59.599 --> 00:18:03.279 that's right, Chris's brother is getting married. Oh okay, yes, okay, 240 00:18:03.400 --> 00:18:04.440 soon to be sister in law. Okay, got it. Yeah, 241 00:18:04.480 --> 00:18:07.519 We've got three. And I was like, this is great and I'm super 242 00:18:07.519 --> 00:18:11.039 excited about it. But like, we have been out of this train for 243 00:18:11.039 --> 00:18:14.559 like a decade. Oh shit, so it's back to Yeah, we've got 244 00:18:14.559 --> 00:18:18.799 like gifts showers. It's fantastic. All my friends are getting married this year 245 00:18:18.920 --> 00:18:22.680 are they? Luckily for me though? While unlucky because my one friend did 246 00:18:22.720 --> 00:18:26.799 a small, small wedding in Vegas and then she's doing an additional wedding party, 247 00:18:26.960 --> 00:18:32.559 so for her it's kind of like two weddings. And then my other 248 00:18:32.599 --> 00:18:34.319 friend, actually I guess technically it wasn't this year, it was last year, 249 00:18:34.359 --> 00:18:40.519 but it was October. We went to the lake shore and she got 250 00:18:40.559 --> 00:18:44.480 married. That's beautiful on the lake. It was super pretty and it was 251 00:18:44.519 --> 00:18:47.160 like really private. We stayed in houses on the lake shore. It was 252 00:18:47.200 --> 00:18:51.480 great. And then I have a friend getting married upstate New York in June, 253 00:18:52.079 --> 00:18:56.400 going to that wedding. And then I have another friend who's getting married, 254 00:18:56.720 --> 00:19:00.279 but she's keeping her wedding like super super small, so I'm not I'm 255 00:19:00.279 --> 00:19:06.559 not going to that wedding. Great, which so happy, I know, 256 00:19:06.720 --> 00:19:12.960 So like do you? And I think wedding weddings in general these days are 257 00:19:14.119 --> 00:19:18.680 the pendulum is swinging back the other way. Yes, where weddings are starting 258 00:19:18.680 --> 00:19:22.039 to get I feel a little bit less crazy. I feel the same. 259 00:19:22.160 --> 00:19:26.240 Yeah, after the pandemic gen Z, man, I feel like they're really 260 00:19:26.240 --> 00:19:30.599 going to save us. We're putting a lot of stock into gen Z and 261 00:19:30.680 --> 00:19:37.759 like probably not in a good probably because they're the product of just like constant 262 00:19:37.799 --> 00:19:42.920 trauma and like never having any money and like living through recession after recession. 263 00:19:44.079 --> 00:19:45.640 Save us, but it's not going to be kind. It's it's not like 264 00:19:45.680 --> 00:19:52.039 a good hero's journey that they've lived throughout to become these amazing people that they 265 00:19:52.039 --> 00:19:55.079 are. But I really do feel like they're going to save the world. 266 00:19:55.759 --> 00:20:00.960 Please, like hoastly, some of us millennial parents are like trying to help 267 00:20:00.960 --> 00:20:03.799 the gen behind you figure out what to do because man, we are tired 268 00:20:03.920 --> 00:20:07.200 and you're so much cooler than us. Please just we are tired. I 269 00:20:07.240 --> 00:20:11.640 think that's a fine thing to say. It's like that. It's like that 270 00:20:11.759 --> 00:20:14.960 meme. Also, I hope you will know. I'm trying to make our 271 00:20:15.000 --> 00:20:18.519 background look great, but it keeps disconnecting. Oh well, we do what 272 00:20:18.559 --> 00:20:22.039 we can do, but there we go. It's like the meme I keep 273 00:20:22.079 --> 00:20:25.599 seeing where I don't know what movie it's from, but James Franco's like got 274 00:20:25.640 --> 00:20:27.799 the news around us neck and then he's looks in at the first next and 275 00:20:27.880 --> 00:20:32.839 he goes, oh, first time have you seen that? What? And 276 00:20:32.920 --> 00:20:36.160 it's for everything. It's like, oh, no, banks need to get 277 00:20:36.200 --> 00:20:40.400 bailed out again, and student loan does skyrocketing. Then it's James Franko like, 278 00:20:40.640 --> 00:20:45.319 oh, first time is there some of us that's been every year since 279 00:20:45.359 --> 00:20:51.200 we've graduated, since we were kids. Oh? Absolutely, yeah. I 280 00:20:51.279 --> 00:20:56.599 remember very little of the thriving nineties. I wish untill last time things were 281 00:20:56.720 --> 00:20:59.799 good. When people talk about the good old days, I feel like it 282 00:20:59.880 --> 00:21:03.039 was the nineties. Was it the nineties or was it the eighties. I 283 00:21:03.039 --> 00:21:06.319 think people had really good jobs in the nineties too. I think like late 284 00:21:06.400 --> 00:21:11.599 nineties, like the dot com crash or something like that. I'm just like 285 00:21:11.640 --> 00:21:15.000 regurgitating a lot of stuff I've heard in documentary. Okay, but I say 286 00:21:15.119 --> 00:21:19.960 confidently, someone will I alleviately message us and be like, you, you're 287 00:21:21.000 --> 00:21:25.119 wrong. That's not corrupt, ladies. I'll be like, oh you suddenly 288 00:21:25.160 --> 00:21:27.880 it may be in the boomer generation now that we hate that at all, 289 00:21:27.920 --> 00:21:32.200 which, yeah, we accept all kinds here, we do, even super 290 00:21:32.200 --> 00:21:37.599 successful people that have had nothing but really awesome luck for their entire lives. 291 00:21:37.640 --> 00:21:41.799 Speaking of which, we got to give an update on our feet Pick situation. 292 00:21:42.279 --> 00:21:48.240 Speaking of the weather getting better, because I've got like three or four 293 00:21:48.279 --> 00:21:51.039 ideas, I'm going to be putting in the vault, right Schwinnie and I 294 00:21:51.160 --> 00:21:56.880 this is actually happening. Yes, we are actually going to give the feet 295 00:21:56.880 --> 00:22:00.119 Picks a try. If there's money to be made in the feet Pick world, 296 00:22:02.359 --> 00:22:10.759 we wanted we want to dip a toe. We all or many or 297 00:22:10.920 --> 00:22:15.160 many all of them. So last week we had a day where we went 298 00:22:15.200 --> 00:22:19.240 and grabbed a glass of wine. Yeah, and really we spent the whole 299 00:22:19.279 --> 00:22:26.799 time coming up with our branding. We built an incredible profile and our marketing 300 00:22:26.960 --> 00:22:30.039 arc for the feet Picks. We decided we're going to have one profile. 301 00:22:30.119 --> 00:22:36.880 We're going to tag team it and Tipsy Toes. Tipsy Toes, It's live 302 00:22:36.960 --> 00:22:41.079 baby, It is the Toes coming. They say. Some of the best 303 00:22:41.200 --> 00:22:47.880 ideas and some of the most lucrative ideas, yes, start as complete jokes. 304 00:22:48.559 --> 00:22:52.559 And I have heard of more people who have a million plus subscribers on 305 00:22:52.599 --> 00:22:59.079 TikTok say I started TikTok as a complete joke during the pandemic and now they 306 00:22:59.079 --> 00:23:03.160 have built these thrive careers on them, and I'm just thinking, if we 307 00:23:03.240 --> 00:23:07.359 need it's us, if we need a little bit of capital to get us 308 00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:15.160 in like our own redesigned podcast space, Buns and banter headquarters offices. Oh 309 00:23:15.200 --> 00:23:22.200 a nice bandy to employ our own staff. What's our stool? Look out, 310 00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:26.359 Buns and Banter. We're common for you, and we're going to fund 311 00:23:26.359 --> 00:23:30.599 the whole operation with these little titsies, these sweaty feet I was talking about 312 00:23:30.599 --> 00:23:38.359 at the beginning of we should there's that might stand for everything there is there 313 00:23:38.559 --> 00:23:42.279 is. We should be sure to mention that, right because I am willing 314 00:23:42.359 --> 00:23:45.960 to die a Lot'm proud of my feet. Yeah, I'm going to get 315 00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:51.839 a petty today. Admittedly, though we don't have much knowledge about the foot 316 00:23:51.960 --> 00:23:56.079 Pick community community, we'll call it a community. Yeah, and we do 317 00:23:56.160 --> 00:24:00.240 want to be respectable, yeah, absolutely right, we don't. We don't 318 00:24:00.279 --> 00:24:03.359 want to do anything uncouth. So if you have any knowledge, like, 319 00:24:03.359 --> 00:24:07.400 we'll keep you anonymous one hundred percent. You don't have to feel weird. 320 00:24:07.480 --> 00:24:11.759 We're not here to like kink shame anybody, no our yuck, anybody's yum. 321 00:24:11.799 --> 00:24:18.079 We are just truly seeking the knowledge fact finding mission, A fact finding 322 00:24:18.079 --> 00:24:22.960 foot mission. That's what we are on and it's going to be the best. 323 00:24:23.880 --> 00:24:27.680 I'm excited. I am too, and we're all in. I got 324 00:24:27.720 --> 00:24:33.160 a snapchat from this one over the weekend. She was at a Claire's Claire's. 325 00:24:33.279 --> 00:24:38.079 I was at Claire's with my nieces. My niece Charlotte was five. 326 00:24:38.200 --> 00:24:44.119 She wanted to go find this certain like kit with beads n it and she 327 00:24:44.200 --> 00:24:45.680 has made. I got this at Claire's, by the way. This bracelet, 328 00:24:47.200 --> 00:24:49.799 Oh that's cute. Yeah, my sister bought everybody one so we could 329 00:24:49.839 --> 00:24:53.799 have friendship. Oh my god, bracelets. But while we were there, 330 00:24:53.799 --> 00:25:00.039 I just haven't notice that Claire's. Claire's has quite the selection of toe rings, 331 00:25:00.119 --> 00:25:06.400 anklets, and toe tassels. Kind of incredible. We're going to need 332 00:25:06.440 --> 00:25:10.839 to do that kind of incredible. See, look at there's so much. 333 00:25:11.759 --> 00:25:15.480 I'm already feeling much better about the pit I had started in when we began 334 00:25:15.599 --> 00:25:22.759 this episode, because sky's the limit. It might be a positive that we 335 00:25:22.880 --> 00:25:30.519 have little to no knowledge of the foot picture community going into this. Yeah, 336 00:25:30.559 --> 00:25:33.079 I think it only helps us. I think it might It excites me 337 00:25:33.160 --> 00:25:37.200 for the journey. Yeah, So We'll be sure to keep everybody posted about 338 00:25:37.200 --> 00:25:44.319 how our journey is going, and if it's if it's lucrative. We can 339 00:25:44.359 --> 00:25:48.400 only hope, right, if it's lucrative. Man, I would love to 340 00:25:48.440 --> 00:25:52.279 be able to share everything we learn because I'm sure it will be insane, 341 00:25:52.480 --> 00:25:57.759 so insane, insanely wonderful. Let somebody look at us, look at us. 342 00:25:57.759 --> 00:26:00.920 Every time I do this, I feel so much better. I hope 343 00:26:00.920 --> 00:26:04.319 that's what we're giving out to all of you, head to toe. You're 344 00:26:04.440 --> 00:26:08.279 doing great. Yeah, I do have to ask, because you are my 345 00:26:10.200 --> 00:26:14.640 compass, my north star. That's a terrible idea in some of these situations. 346 00:26:14.880 --> 00:26:21.640 Imagine how I feel about it. Just kidding. Continue, So I'm 347 00:26:21.680 --> 00:26:22.640 scrolling on the dating apps, you know, as I do, Yeah, 348 00:26:23.880 --> 00:26:30.680 and I come across this gentleman who has sent me alike, and I check 349 00:26:30.720 --> 00:26:36.559 out his profile and I'm like, oh, I know you. You and 350 00:26:36.599 --> 00:26:41.039 I have already matched on a different app. Albeit okay, and we've already 351 00:26:41.079 --> 00:26:42.920 done this whole rigamar role. We took it off the app, we texted 352 00:26:44.000 --> 00:26:48.200 for a while. It didn't end well, No, does he not remember? 353 00:26:51.599 --> 00:26:55.640 I feel like I've never heard of that happening. Really, do you 354 00:26:55.680 --> 00:27:00.519 use similar pictures between apps. I mean it's similar in that they're all of 355 00:27:00.720 --> 00:27:04.480 my dad to say, not to say you're you're a forgettable person, you're 356 00:27:04.559 --> 00:27:08.200 unforgettable, but that I try. I do make it a point to keep 357 00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:14.720 my pictures fresh on the dating apps. I try to only use pictures that 358 00:27:14.759 --> 00:27:18.519 have been taken within the last six months to yeah, yeah, six months. 359 00:27:18.920 --> 00:27:22.799 Yeah, that's a kind online dater. By the way, don't be 360 00:27:22.839 --> 00:27:26.480 given us the stuff from eight years ago. There are some pictures that are 361 00:27:26.599 --> 00:27:29.960 that do date back a little bit further, but they're like once in a 362 00:27:30.000 --> 00:27:33.960 lifetime. Like there's a picture of me on my dating profile with a cardboard 363 00:27:33.960 --> 00:27:38.000 cut out of Patrick Swayzy from Ghost re enacting the pottery scene. Don't ever 364 00:27:38.039 --> 00:27:41.119 take up that one. I just I can't. I'll never get to change 365 00:27:41.119 --> 00:27:47.759 an opportunity to update that with my current right look, but my hair is 366 00:27:47.839 --> 00:27:49.640 up, I have my glasses on, no makeup, like I don't. 367 00:27:49.680 --> 00:27:53.559 I haven't gained or lost a considerable amount of weight in that time period, 368 00:27:53.640 --> 00:27:57.160 so I don't feel like that one is. It's evergreen. It's evergreen. 369 00:27:57.279 --> 00:28:02.759 Yeah you will so as your compass. And this did not end well was 370 00:28:02.799 --> 00:28:10.440 he like kind of a d I cannot remember specifically what happened. I remember 371 00:28:10.480 --> 00:28:15.519 he said something though, and I was like, here it is, yeah, 372 00:28:15.599 --> 00:28:18.559 you that's going to be a no for me, right, I'd just 373 00:28:18.640 --> 00:28:22.440 go and get a nice dinner out of it. Well, here's the other 374 00:28:22.480 --> 00:28:32.079 problem. He lives on the other side. I really just I really have 375 00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:34.319 better luck over there. I don't know. I just must have an bigger 376 00:28:34.319 --> 00:28:41.240 area. It's a bustling metropolis. That's funny. I don't know what it 377 00:28:41.319 --> 00:28:45.880 is. I don't have good luck in West Michigan. Yeah, they can't 378 00:28:45.880 --> 00:28:49.240 handle it. They can't handle you here. In fact, everyone I've ever 379 00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:56.720 dated, I don't think I've ever dated someone like actually have been boyfriend girlfriend 380 00:28:56.799 --> 00:29:00.279 to find the relationship with anyone who's ever lived did in West Michigan, which 381 00:29:00.319 --> 00:29:06.839 is insane. I've lived here for thirteen years. Wow. My first boyfriend 382 00:29:07.160 --> 00:29:15.279 that I met at work, he's from Alabama. And then the soccer player, 383 00:29:15.839 --> 00:29:18.079 Oh yeah, he was from overseas. He was British. I did 384 00:29:18.240 --> 00:29:22.359 light the bread. I did too. I just I really aped that up. 385 00:29:22.400 --> 00:29:26.839 That one was my bad. So we can't win them all. Can't 386 00:29:26.839 --> 00:29:33.559 win them all. And then um, one of them was from the east 387 00:29:33.599 --> 00:29:37.880 Side. Yep, that one I did for a long time like the yeah, 388 00:29:37.960 --> 00:29:41.480 yep, okay, yeah, Actually didn't know that one was from the 389 00:29:41.519 --> 00:29:47.640 east Side. So are you gonna give this Farmington? What do you do 390 00:29:47.680 --> 00:29:49.920 with this guy? Did you match him too or he? I'm not sure 391 00:29:49.960 --> 00:29:56.039 what app it's on, so like it's on Hinge, so he Hinge is 392 00:29:56.039 --> 00:29:57.799 a little bit different because it's not like you're swiping laughter. You're swiping right, 393 00:29:57.839 --> 00:30:02.440 Okay, you're sending lights and you're sending you can send like a message 394 00:30:02.440 --> 00:30:04.960 when you send a like, got it? So you don't have to necessarily 395 00:30:06.039 --> 00:30:10.000 send a message with your like, yeah, but you can, and he 396 00:30:10.480 --> 00:30:14.519 did. He sent a like of a picture of me and France. How 397 00:30:14.559 --> 00:30:18.680 could you not? Could not? Um? And he just said like same, 398 00:30:21.039 --> 00:30:27.680 oh and you have already gone through. So that with him, I 399 00:30:29.599 --> 00:30:33.559 of course matched him because I was like, this will be good. I 400 00:30:33.559 --> 00:30:37.920 don't think he remembers that we've already done this. I do like this. 401 00:30:38.920 --> 00:30:42.680 I just want to know what happens same, how long it takes him, 402 00:30:42.759 --> 00:30:45.759 how long it takes him to realize it? So, look, are you 403 00:30:45.839 --> 00:30:49.799 trying to play games here? But do I tend second tom this scenario and 404 00:30:49.839 --> 00:30:52.599 like reintroduce myself and like go through the whole thing. And then when he 405 00:30:52.599 --> 00:30:56.160 asks for my number and realizes that he might already even say, oh, 406 00:30:56.400 --> 00:31:00.599 like maybe it's already in his phone. Do I play a long game? 407 00:31:00.920 --> 00:31:07.799 Oh yeah, I have a little bit of both. Or send him a 408 00:31:07.839 --> 00:31:11.200 message up front and be like, oh, buddy, we've already done this. 409 00:31:11.240 --> 00:31:15.119 We've already done it, and then we didn't do it, and now 410 00:31:15.240 --> 00:31:18.279 we're going to do this again. I kind of love giving him the number 411 00:31:18.319 --> 00:31:22.799 and just see him. Is it just me? Do I have a photographic 412 00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:26.200 memory of these dudes? How? Like? I just I find it so 413 00:31:26.400 --> 00:31:33.039 inconceivable that you don't remember someone, Yeah we texted for like a week? 414 00:31:33.400 --> 00:31:41.240 Wow, Yeah maybe maybe last maybe a couple of days, I don't know. 415 00:31:41.599 --> 00:31:49.039 Or he's like trying to get back in it with you, maybe he's 416 00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:56.400 a changed guy. That seems like the least likely possible. There's no way 417 00:31:56.640 --> 00:32:01.440 you don't have a forgettable face. But and also like your pictures, your 418 00:32:01.480 --> 00:32:06.200 interests, all that, like, there's no way he doesn't know that you've 419 00:32:06.240 --> 00:32:09.559 already done this. And if that's the case, back off, because maybe 420 00:32:09.599 --> 00:32:13.519 he's got something. That means he's been with a lot of people that he 421 00:32:13.559 --> 00:32:16.279 can't remember who he's already been doing stuff with. I don't abot you'd catch 422 00:32:16.319 --> 00:32:20.799 anything. Why don't slutch him? Oh no, I'm just saying, like 423 00:32:21.000 --> 00:32:25.519 to be how do you forget somebody like that? And it was semi like 424 00:32:25.599 --> 00:32:34.720 it was within the last couple of years. It was not this January but 425 00:32:34.880 --> 00:32:38.119 last January. Girl, Yeah, was he going through profiles like crazy? 426 00:32:38.440 --> 00:32:43.119 Don't remember you? I don't know, because I remember we were talking on 427 00:32:43.400 --> 00:32:47.880 New Year's Eve because we had talked about, yeah, you like going over 428 00:32:47.920 --> 00:32:52.240 there. No. Oh, he was like, what are you doing for 429 00:32:52.279 --> 00:32:53.720 New Year's Eve? And I was like, actually, I'm I'm staying in 430 00:32:53.799 --> 00:33:04.039 and I'm re I'm like, I was mudding my dining room. Yeah, 431 00:33:04.119 --> 00:33:06.559 you're so cool though. I love that I was renovating my dining room. 432 00:33:06.640 --> 00:33:12.240 And I was like super pumped to not be out on the town trying to 433 00:33:13.279 --> 00:33:16.640 make something happen on New Year's with a group of friends and just having an 434 00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:22.960 overall shit time, most overhyped holiday of the year. Yeah, And he 435 00:33:22.119 --> 00:33:24.160 was like, oh, yeah, like, I'm staying in two with my 436 00:33:24.640 --> 00:33:32.000 dog. But then I just I can't remember exactly how it unfolded or like 437 00:33:32.119 --> 00:33:36.359 why we stopped talking. I think it's just like slow faded. But I 438 00:33:36.400 --> 00:33:39.640 do remember there being something that he said that I was like, I'm unattracted 439 00:33:39.640 --> 00:33:44.000 to that, but I can't remember what it was. But it slow wasn't 440 00:33:44.000 --> 00:33:47.880 that big of a deal. Now I kind of think he's trying to get 441 00:33:47.880 --> 00:33:52.640 back in it. If it was a slow fade, he was like, 442 00:33:52.799 --> 00:33:54.599 oh right, I guess you know. I don't give guys that much credit. 443 00:33:54.640 --> 00:34:00.559 You're nice, I know because I literally a minute ago was like back 444 00:34:00.599 --> 00:34:04.279 away. He's clearly been clicking on all the profiles. I don't want you 445 00:34:04.279 --> 00:34:07.680 to catch anything, so not super nice, but I think you might be 446 00:34:07.680 --> 00:34:09.199 trying to get back in it. I think he either got back together with 447 00:34:09.199 --> 00:34:19.280 his ax or I don't know. I think he probably just forgot. There's 448 00:34:19.280 --> 00:34:24.800 a lot of I want don't know, because if I forgettable, I could 449 00:34:25.239 --> 00:34:30.599 go in my phone right now and find his number. I didn't delete it, 450 00:34:30.800 --> 00:34:35.559 right, and if it ends badly as we know, like I was 451 00:34:35.639 --> 00:34:39.119 just ghosted by someone and I literally blocked them and deleted their number, I 452 00:34:39.159 --> 00:34:44.119 would give him the number and see if fucks up. See if like the 453 00:34:44.159 --> 00:34:51.039 conversation continues or it's a hard stop like oh this has check and mate got 454 00:34:51.039 --> 00:34:53.400 it? Sorry about it? You're still beautiful because clearly I clicked on you 455 00:34:53.440 --> 00:35:00.159 again. I mean he I mean, yeah, he's cute, but given 456 00:35:00.199 --> 00:35:04.320 a gout, what a great story. Selfishly, I'm saying that because it 457 00:35:04.360 --> 00:35:10.639 makes for a great episode conversation and like checkens right, let's give that arc 458 00:35:10.679 --> 00:35:16.239 of from beginning to end to found you again. See this is this is 459 00:35:16.239 --> 00:35:21.440 such a dangerous time of year for me because I am fifty percent of me 460 00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:23.639 wants to give up on the apps, which usually I do after a certain 461 00:35:23.679 --> 00:35:27.880 amount of months on them. I get very burned out and very tired, 462 00:35:27.920 --> 00:35:30.039 and I just like have to take a break from them. I get that, 463 00:35:30.679 --> 00:35:37.199 and uh then I get in a space where I'm like chaos. Let's 464 00:35:37.239 --> 00:35:43.480 cause chaos it is. It is. It's time to be toxic, like 465 00:35:43.639 --> 00:35:45.960 not not in in a really messed up way, but just in like a 466 00:35:46.239 --> 00:35:52.800 yeah, just kind of a chaotic, wholesome but chaotic. I feel like 467 00:35:52.840 --> 00:35:59.199 you follow the moon phases or the tides or something, which I think is 468 00:35:59.280 --> 00:36:02.760 awesome. I just yeah, and everyone's talking about like single girl summer, 469 00:36:05.320 --> 00:36:07.199 and I was like, no, I'm not going to have a single girl 470 00:36:07.280 --> 00:36:10.440 summer. I'm not going to be out there breaking hearts and taking names and 471 00:36:10.800 --> 00:36:17.440 yeah being being you know what I mean. Yep, I'm gonna have a 472 00:36:21.039 --> 00:36:24.079 I'm gonna focus on me and I'm gonna I'm gonna work on me. But 473 00:36:24.199 --> 00:36:29.480 I did that last summer. Summer is a good time for it. There's 474 00:36:29.480 --> 00:36:32.960 so much to do and see you're just cooped up inside because it's negative five. 475 00:36:35.000 --> 00:36:37.599 But as part of focusing on you, would definitely hit back this dude 476 00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:42.519 and see if he figures out whether or not you're I'm like so annoyed though 477 00:36:42.519 --> 00:36:45.599 that. It's like another East Side of the State thing I can't I have. 478 00:36:45.719 --> 00:36:49.800 It's at a certain point, it's like the it's like the they love 479 00:36:49.840 --> 00:36:52.320 you over there. Yeah. I hesitate to say this out loud because never 480 00:36:52.360 --> 00:36:55.639 say never. That's like, yeah, that's inviting the universe to make you 481 00:36:55.679 --> 00:37:00.280 look like an idiot. But it was like the same thing I want through 482 00:37:00.280 --> 00:37:05.440 with the single dads. Oh, I dated a few single dads and I 483 00:37:05.519 --> 00:37:09.719 just think I gotta I gotta say probably not a good not good for me. 484 00:37:12.480 --> 00:37:19.280 Check out this new fit this recycled fit the Ghost of a bumble Past. 485 00:37:20.320 --> 00:37:24.360 I just didn't the name of the next episode, the Ghost of bumble 486 00:37:24.440 --> 00:37:28.119 Pass. I would just love to know if anybody else has had that happened. 487 00:37:28.679 --> 00:37:31.159 I'm sure, yeah, it would. It seems natural enough. But 488 00:37:31.239 --> 00:37:34.559 at the same time, I'm just so stunned that it was only like, 489 00:37:35.000 --> 00:37:37.880 really a year or two ago, and he's I think he's trying to get 490 00:37:37.880 --> 00:37:43.400 back in it. That's my vote. Who wouldn't look at your Za Zoo 491 00:37:43.400 --> 00:37:52.000 pants today? Fabulous Zoo Baz number one. I love your look. I 492 00:37:52.079 --> 00:37:53.920 just I'm so stunned at how many people came up to her today and they 493 00:37:53.960 --> 00:37:58.519 were like, well, oh, you know used to wear those? Yeah, 494 00:37:58.639 --> 00:38:00.639 I love these pants. They're from Target. It God, I'm going 495 00:38:00.679 --> 00:38:04.480 to get a bunch of them today. Yeah. Flowe girl summer you were 496 00:38:04.480 --> 00:38:07.400 just talking about, might be another focus on me summer. I'm a flowy 497 00:38:07.440 --> 00:38:10.000 pant summer. Flowe pant summer. You're having a Chloe Pant summer and I 498 00:38:10.039 --> 00:38:14.639 am having ah am I going to have a single girl summer. I am 499 00:38:14.800 --> 00:38:19.159 or night. If so, it'll be perfect because we're working on some happy 500 00:38:19.199 --> 00:38:22.840 hours for buns and panters. Yes we are, and this does seem like 501 00:38:22.880 --> 00:38:29.039 a good time to mention once again a Buns and Banter officially live on YouTube. 502 00:38:29.599 --> 00:38:32.400 Yes, we are in the process of making some upgrades to the equipment 503 00:38:32.440 --> 00:38:37.760 that we use to film and record, so it's very possible. Like like 504 00:38:37.159 --> 00:38:42.800 our set decore, we've upgraded since the last episode courtesy of Ali Mack, 505 00:38:42.840 --> 00:38:47.880 who did such a fabulous interior decor job. Thank you. I enjoy it. 506 00:38:47.880 --> 00:38:52.320 It's so good. It's so good, like we're just even We're even 507 00:38:52.360 --> 00:38:57.679 messier on video, so you should really watch in a good way, beautiful 508 00:38:57.679 --> 00:39:01.239 way and the beautiful disasters. Thank you. Updates to come.