1 00:00:07,919 --> 00:00:13,519 Good morning, Mother? Good morning dial male conical sphere of the sheath. 2 00:00:14,599 --> 00:00:19,079 Welcome to a new episode of Good morning, Mother Wait You know that in 3 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:25,120 our podcast we always bring you themes, interesting, projects, people, books, 4 00:00:27,679 --> 00:00:33,159 questions that always encourage you, inspire you in this intense and fun task 5 00:00:33,439 --> 00:00:37,759 that is parenting, parenting and in which we are so in need on many 6 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:44,600 occasions, of good words and words precisely and of words with a fantastic background, 7 00:00:44,759 --> 00:00:55,719 with a background that we know is the important truth. Let' s 8 00:00:55,759 --> 00:01:00,679 talk today. Let' s talk about language, about how we communicate with 9 00:01:00,759 --> 00:01:07,400 our children, with our daughters, about what words we choose and all that 10 00:01:07,439 --> 00:01:12,319 we embark on in a concept that, perhaps you don' t know and 11 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,040 that is today is the day. Today is the time when you will know 12 00:01:15,079 --> 00:01:23,599 the kind intelligence. Luis Castellanos brings it to us, to which I am 13 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,560 going to give the good afternoon, because on this occasion they are good afternoon, 14 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:32,200 Luis, how you are very well misty, I am very happy. 15 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:38,760 The truth is that yes, I happy and happy and I owed more things, 16 00:01:38,799 --> 00:01:42,000 fascinated, but well, that' s these days. You know people 17 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:47,319 like we were talking about before my daughter and she brought me, well, 18 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:56,200 all this stuff I just said is surprising, this parenthood, truth that so 19 00:01:56,239 --> 00:02:01,840 many words suggest us. Luis Castellanos, is a philosopher and his mission, 20 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:08,120 as he tells us, is to discover, develop and defend the words that 21 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:14,759 will shape tomorrow the ideas that will be useful and valuable for humanity. Castella 22 00:02:14,879 --> 00:02:19,560 promotes the health of language and the well- being of words and, for 23 00:02:19,599 --> 00:02:23,199 more than two decades, transmits the essence and power of language in the design 24 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:30,039 of inner speech, which builds good people and drives that imagination that can carry 25 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:37,759 forward and shape a much better and more habitable world. He has published, 26 00:02:38,719 --> 00:02:43,680 in addition to this kind intelligence, which we are going to talk about today 27 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:49,599 also in paídos, the science of positive language, the language of happiness and 28 00:02:49,759 --> 00:02:58,680 education of positive language. How many important concepts Luis, in this presentation that 29 00:02:58,759 --> 00:03:05,840 brings us a new book kind intelligence, and the first, then, a 30 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:13,439 question, already from the title kind intelligence, those two words united that to 31 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:19,439 me as soon as I saw it made me think very much. Not if 32 00:03:19,719 --> 00:03:25,599 intelligence is designed to be something else that is kind, if we can control 33 00:03:25,719 --> 00:03:32,080 that intelligence so that it is dicey and how to do it, what ambitious 34 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:39,919 concept is also, of course, I take into account that goodness today is 35 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:47,599 very scarce and not and is not at all right, there is nothing quoted 36 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:52,879 the exact goodness, nothing. Nowhere is kindness, kindness, or the street 37 00:03:52,919 --> 00:04:01,840 of heart quoted. It is not something that I believe that being absent in 38 00:04:01,919 --> 00:04:09,240 our daily vocabulary, in our gestures, in our senses, because it can 39 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,560 be absent in the future and in the whole future that we want, both 40 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:16,439 for ourselves and for our children, because it will not be as pleasant as 41 00:04:16,439 --> 00:04:19,879 we think because we do not take into account what can really make this world 42 00:04:19,959 --> 00:04:24,319 a little better and more habitable, which is goodness and intelligence. Logically, 43 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:32,000 because I have thought a lot about intelligence there are many definitions. You know 44 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:38,399 it' s the ability, above all, to propose ideas and solutions to 45 00:04:38,399 --> 00:04:41,800 all the problems that human beings have. That is the property, let' 46 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,920 s say, of intelligence, but the culmination of intelligence is goodness. And 47 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,120 that' s where we may collide if we' re realizing that if the 48 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:54,040 culmination of goodness intelligence, because it' s key to our survival. If 49 00:04:54,079 --> 00:04:57,560 mothers hadn' t loved since the beginning of all time, we wouldn' 50 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,399 t have disappeared here as a species. Therefore, goodness is the combination of 51 00:05:01,399 --> 00:05:05,399 intelligence, but it is as if it had come down steps over time or 52 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:12,199 come to discover us. And so, in the end, I posed the 53 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:18,319 book as kind intelligence, as the most sublime olation capacity or and the culmination 54 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:23,319 that human beings have to have about themselves is how we can be kind, 55 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,720 how we can be good people. And it makes us, too, somehow 56 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:32,240 feel that goodness and intelligence, and I put a lot of emphasis on that 57 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:36,040 aspect. It is also the ability to discern to see, because many people 58 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:40,319 ask me there is bad goodness and good goodness you must be good. We 59 00:05:40,319 --> 00:05:42,519 ' re gonna be fools. I say that' s not here. There 60 00:05:42,639 --> 00:05:45,680 is another concept that if we already have time and remain that in ignorance. 61 00:05:46,439 --> 00:05:48,040 In grace, it is the cause of mankind' s greatest evils and onorance 62 00:05:48,079 --> 00:05:51,439 is a misknowledge. So, it' s knowledge, but that' s 63 00:05:51,439 --> 00:05:55,240 wrong. So, when he talks to you, there' s a good 64 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:59,279 foundation flooding the band does is a bad goodness, it' s something else, 65 00:05:59,519 --> 00:06:01,240 but it' s not, and that a person is so good or 66 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,279 dumb. That' s not even good. Not to say, there are 67 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:09,600 other questions that need to be defined in order to know what a person is 68 00:06:09,639 --> 00:06:11,839 and what a good person is. And I think that' s the key. 69 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:15,800 Define that you are a good person and because intelligence is so important that 70 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:20,240 you are in that definition and be part of that definition and let' s 71 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:25,439 say that it is in the absolute goal of human thought, that is, 72 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,639 that we are going to be better people, we are going to be good 73 00:06:29,639 --> 00:06:33,519 people. There' s a little thing going on inside your entire trajectory. 74 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:41,800 You have dealt with language, the ability of language to transform us, over 75 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:46,800 power, the power of language. What place does this new work occupy, 76 00:06:46,079 --> 00:06:49,879 this new book, within your trajectory, within your work and your dissemination with 77 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:59,279 language from all your aspects. At the bottom of a technology. It was 78 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,720 four books. The first, which is the science of positive language, came 79 00:07:02,199 --> 00:07:08,720 from scientific research that was published worldwide on how words and negatives impact the brain 80 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:14,079 also neutral ones. The summary is that the positive ones give you life time 81 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,560 and the negative ones, because as they make you blonde, they take away 82 00:07:16,959 --> 00:07:20,480 time of life and at such a time they also take away quality of life, 83 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:25,439 that is, you have less cognitive reserves, less emotional reserves, less 84 00:07:25,439 --> 00:07:30,639 physical reserves. That discovery, because we lead him to put into practice in 85 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:36,240 companies, in sportsmen, in education. And that' s where the third 86 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:39,519 book came in. There is a second book that educates positive language, the 87 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:43,319 power of inhabited words, because we realize that language is still a very manipulable 88 00:07:43,519 --> 00:07:47,279 language, dangerous when it comes to saying many things, because with the carpet 89 00:07:47,319 --> 00:07:50,240 we can build anything. We can talk about love, even if we don 90 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,639 ' t love. It' s very clear. We can talk about anything. 91 00:07:54,079 --> 00:07:57,079 Those are the words we can put as we believe in order we want 92 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,560 and then we can justify it. All through one' s own language and 93 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,680 we realized that the key to everything was to inhabit words, that is, 94 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,839 to be one with the energy and soul of that word, that is, 95 00:08:09,079 --> 00:08:11,800 to be born in your heart, not to be born out of your mouth, 96 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,199 but to be born in your heart and then to be born out of 97 00:08:13,199 --> 00:08:16,120 your mouth. But it has to trace in your heart. And in a 98 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,319 year, in a school, because there we were seeing a little how the 99 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,560 swords could be avoided was very interesting and I really spent it, Pipa, 100 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,120 because we worked with everything on its current side student and all the families, 101 00:08:26,319 --> 00:08:30,000 and that was fascinating. The third, which was the language of frecity, 102 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:35,480 was to put a little into value what we can understand by happiness that becomes 103 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:41,039 many times if we have fun. It' s not another story. And 104 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:46,440 there I was very struck by the discovery of slen Civit, who is a 105 00:08:46,879 --> 00:08:52,639 Belarusian Nobel Prize writer that I always refer to, because my wife is a 106 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:58,879 Russian vir and is a compatriot. It changed me from the perspective of everything 107 00:08:58,879 --> 00:09:01,960 I was writing and, in fact, everything I had written. When I 108 00:09:01,039 --> 00:09:05,279 discovered his books, which were five, I read them and the first I 109 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,080 read was war. He has no woman' s face and I realized that 110 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:13,240 happiness was many times giving and receiving with incredible humility and we have confused happiness 111 00:09:13,279 --> 00:09:18,000 and made us very confused what happiness is. Then I think that' s 112 00:09:18,039 --> 00:09:20,679 why we' re not happy. In the end, we are distressed, 113 00:09:20,879 --> 00:09:26,480 anxious, lost, violent with a general state that, in our words, 114 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:31,720 we then attack it, we just need to see politics and I don' 115 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,240 t say anything about it anymore. Big economists and entrepreneurs don' t want 116 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,600 to show up, because that' s the real power. I don' 117 00:09:37,639 --> 00:09:39,559 t show up, but it all falls into my sack, because it has 118 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:43,879 to be like this. And the fourth book, which is this kind intelligence 119 00:09:43,919 --> 00:09:46,879 to the combination of the tralogy of those rooms, of those four books, 120 00:09:48,399 --> 00:09:54,639 knowing that language is really to create good people if we inhabit them. And 121 00:09:54,639 --> 00:09:58,399 then I have chosen sixty- three words, which are sixty- three teachings. 122 00:10:00,039 --> 00:10:03,759 Those who can all, can mix all words, can mix trees with 123 00:10:03,759 --> 00:10:07,879 each of them further away. I have chosen sixty- six many. I 124 00:10:07,919 --> 00:10:13,360 have a very broad dictionary at home. I have performed for myself and I 125 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,519 chose those and there are others I would put today and tomorrow. I' 126 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,080 m sure I' d put in another one. And well, what I 127 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:22,519 wanted to say was what is the way, the language, what we do 128 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:28,879 with our children when we are educating them, talking, talking physically, writing 129 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:33,320 with them, telling stories, writing some, drawing and doing, having gestures, 130 00:10:33,399 --> 00:10:37,080 language, praying, is quito and gestualt how we make those gestures really 131 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,639 true. Well, I said, well, if you take the book, 132 00:10:39,039 --> 00:10:41,919 you take a word for it. First, you' ll have to inhabit 133 00:10:41,919 --> 00:10:43,240 it. So you want the example, you' ll have to inhabit it. 134 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,320 You. So, it' s a book aimed at eight billion people, 135 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,919 that is, when they ask me who it' s targeting eight billion 136 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,279 people, because we all have to edit our words and we want to make 137 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:56,360 the world better, but the shovels that are building that world we want, 138 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,519 because in the end we all want that. There' s no need for 139 00:11:00,519 --> 00:11:01,759 wars. We' re already seeing it. No one wants their son to 140 00:11:01,799 --> 00:11:03,759 be called the good person, I' m going to teach you, to 141 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:05,519 kill since little boy, he' s going to hit, I' m 142 00:11:05,519 --> 00:11:07,320 going to teach you, to steal. Nobody wants that. Therefore, we 143 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:11,440 know that what we want is for our children to be happy good people. 144 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:15,759 Then it was the culmination of all this transit, of these four books. 145 00:11:16,039 --> 00:11:20,919 And what a tool we have, a tool more efficient than any other. 146 00:11:20,639 --> 00:11:24,120 It' s language. It is only necessary to know when we speak internally 147 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:28,759 the damage that we can do when we say bad words, that is, 148 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:33,919 how we hurt ourselves and how also healthy words and words are always for oral 149 00:11:33,919 --> 00:11:37,080 speech, written word and gesture word, because in the book the word arm 150 00:11:37,159 --> 00:11:45,559 or word of that appears because deep down you have to reinvent. The definition 151 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,960 of language reinvents itself from the moment we begin to inhabit it and you begin 152 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:54,759 to realize that that word has a totally different context to that we had seen 153 00:11:54,759 --> 00:11:58,480 to the dictionary or had lived in our life. And that' s the 154 00:11:58,519 --> 00:12:01,200 task I' ve done in the fourth book. Sixty- three teachings, 155 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,919 which are sixty- three words may be more, and each one adds to 156 00:12:03,919 --> 00:12:07,440 the audience, but it is the way we are touching your children. I 157 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,879 ' ve done more than pick up. I' m giving my daughter away 158 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:13,840 now with the words I say to her when I play, when she smiles 159 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,480 when I embrace her. I' m not duchand anything but with what I 160 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:22,080 have, with those tools. That' s socially valuable now, as you 161 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,919 said before, it doesn' t contribute goodness. I assure you that any 162 00:12:26,039 --> 00:12:30,600 other book, a black novel or a historical novel, because it will be 163 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,279 there, because in the end it entertains us, it amuses our intelligence. 164 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:41,799 Where it takes effort, it requires discipline, and it requires perseverance and much 165 00:12:41,799 --> 00:12:48,799 utopia. Or how we face or how we fit the kind intelligence within the 166 00:12:48,639 --> 00:12:56,080 context in which we move, because it is true that everything is in concepts, 167 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:03,639 words, what it conveys to us is calm, serenity is also to 168 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:11,799 approach what surrounds us our children, our daughters. But how to face also 169 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:18,440 the outside world, in which it seems like we are screaming with the desert. 170 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:28,480 You' ll be used to seeing yourself as a ticker with the mills, 171 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:37,519 fighting against the mills, when precisely not goodness is quoted or we really 172 00:13:37,519 --> 00:13:43,879 lend or devote time to the words we use, not as we use them 173 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:48,000 as weapons rather than as therapy, as they might perhaps be used here. 174 00:13:48,039 --> 00:13:54,039 No, man, they always make me. That is why God is the 175 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:58,399 gondadious intelligence, because we have to mobilize human intelligence. Human intelligence is scarce 176 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,799 to say a war, it is not intelligence. You can be smarter than 177 00:14:01,799 --> 00:14:05,120 someone else to have a lot of money in isn' t intelligence. He 178 00:14:05,159 --> 00:14:07,919 may be smarter than at any given time, I mean, that' s 179 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:13,320 not giving you access to intelligence. Intelligence has a key factor that is, 180 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,879 in some ways, to offer the best solutions for our survival, for a 181 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:22,399 good survival, that is, to offer solutions for the everyday problems that we 182 00:14:22,799 --> 00:14:24,600 have, but solutions that have to do with bondage and movement. I' 183 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:28,120 m saying most people don' t want their children to be bad people. 184 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:33,200 I believe and I always mean the curve of those wonderful legacies and the extremes 185 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:37,360 that there are always evil people, perverse people and other people who are equally 186 00:14:37,399 --> 00:14:41,600 good, also indifference ceases to be. It' s not a utopia. 187 00:14:41,279 --> 00:14:43,519 Utopia is there. I think it' s perfect and I' m a 188 00:14:43,519 --> 00:14:48,559 philosopher. Therefore, the emphasis makes us think about the things we need to 189 00:14:48,559 --> 00:14:52,360 achieve. We know that the world in which we move every day, because 190 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:58,720 it is going to cause us such an intense and extensive noise towards the outside 191 00:14:58,759 --> 00:15:03,279 as does the interior that does not allow us to think or be intelligent. 192 00:15:03,519 --> 00:15:09,200 It simply allows us to live and serve quickly. Haste is the key factor 193 00:15:09,279 --> 00:15:13,080 in what we have now and that is well known to all those who handle 194 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,240 things here have also read the trap itself. You don' t ask them 195 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:20,039 in the end and they' re the same, but what do you want 196 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:20,080 from the world and then they' ll justify it. Okay. It' 197 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,919 s just that I' m a bank, not me, I' m 198 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,399 a politician, I' m just looking at how they' re fine, 199 00:15:26,399 --> 00:15:28,279 but we can do things differently. I think this is a long road we 200 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,159 probably won' t see. I, at least not, don' t 201 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,720 know if my children will see it or not, but it' s a 202 00:15:33,759 --> 00:15:37,080 path to be reached, just as there are other ways to work in medicine, 203 00:15:37,399 --> 00:15:41,480 of course, and it' s progressing and in sport and culture and 204 00:15:41,799 --> 00:15:46,399 everything goes in some way, way moving forward. Why do we take away 205 00:15:46,399 --> 00:15:52,000 space from advancing goodness within the human mind, because goodness has to be in 206 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,679 the human mind, it has to be in the body when we extend ourselves 207 00:15:54,679 --> 00:15:56,639 by hand. Our van doesn' t have to be kind. Our eyes 208 00:15:56,720 --> 00:16:00,480 must be kind. All these senses must be kind. And volndity has to 209 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,639 be in our speech. If they are not in our speech, then everything 210 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,759 is justified. I watch the news every day. I, every day read 211 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:14,080 every day I write every day I watch the news. Sure people fight and 212 00:16:14,279 --> 00:16:19,960 then they' ll justify it. When there is justification, when there is 213 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:22,840 judgment, when there is criticism, when there is condemnation, when there is 214 00:16:22,879 --> 00:16:26,320 guilt, of course, of goodness. It' s not usually there and 215 00:16:26,399 --> 00:16:26,960 you have to know the spaces where it' s not. Then you have 216 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,360 to somehow raise your voice and say good song something. You' re not 217 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,440 going to raise your voice, you have to say there' s no one, 218 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:33,240 there' s no goodness and you' re not going to justify it. 219 00:16:33,559 --> 00:16:38,720 And I give you all the intelligent arguments that you think are appropriate to 220 00:16:40,399 --> 00:16:42,759 defend disrespect in politics, wars, violence, injustices, famines, death I 221 00:16:42,799 --> 00:16:51,039 look at. I' m here. These are my daughter' s little 222 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:52,480 feet and I made my T- shirts. Some of them put peace in 223 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:56,080 them. I don' t think anyone. I would love to see the 224 00:16:56,120 --> 00:17:00,799 politicians, all the men of power, all those who took children of one 225 00:17:00,919 --> 00:17:04,000 or the other in the chest, because in the end that child still lives 226 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:11,960 a year two in war zones to the hombruna. We' ve lost consciousness 227 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,200 is not utopia. What we have lost is the awareness that the human being 228 00:17:15,279 --> 00:17:19,400 did what he did from the first moment of the first moment, the first 229 00:17:19,519 --> 00:17:22,759 moment of life, a mother was to love her child and give her life 230 00:17:22,839 --> 00:17:26,440 for him to grow up. And we have heard and we have become eight 231 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:30,480 zero million people here, because before there were thousands of people, a thousand 232 00:17:30,559 --> 00:17:33,880 and villes of mothers that what they have done has been goodness and they have 233 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:37,519 had a hard time. You don' t have to say this. We 234 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:44,039 don' t suffer and make our children sick, we fall asleep, we 235 00:17:44,039 --> 00:17:45,920 get stressed, we get anxious. It' s not about perfection. It 236 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:51,640 ' s about orientation to where we orient the world, and the world orients 237 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:56,119 it by language. Language if it is false, misoriented and discovered. Fake 238 00:17:56,200 --> 00:18:00,960 language is discovered. There are tools when we reach the ones I told you 239 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:07,440 before and I can tell you a few more you speak in the book Good 240 00:18:07,519 --> 00:18:12,440 separate, in fact, it has three parts with three types of words, 241 00:18:12,839 --> 00:18:18,839 which I find very interesting. How you have identified or categorized them and why. 242 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:29,480 Yeah, well, we started out compared to edited ones, because it 243 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:33,079 was my sign that pops up pages words inhabited on Instagram, or they' 244 00:18:33,079 --> 00:18:33,759 re all for the inhabited. From what I explained before, why one day 245 00:18:33,759 --> 00:18:40,000 I discovered when we were training multinationals, companies, it' s very easy. 246 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:44,519 Everything remains something new today or let' s talk about language. It 247 00:18:44,519 --> 00:18:48,440 seems that it is communication and I realized that no, that you can manipulate 248 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:52,799 and in those who had really lost the language as something valuable within those multinationals. 249 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,440 That' s when we did your survey and saw that they were taking 250 00:18:56,440 --> 00:19:00,000 him home. Managers said man, they' re taking me home. Oh, 251 00:19:00,279 --> 00:19:03,039 where we started. Nobody' s telling you to quit. What you 252 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:04,799 have is that no one proposes that the world appear. That' s because 253 00:19:04,839 --> 00:19:10,400 it' s all we propose that the world can do better if we realize 254 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,880 that within the business world we can be more kind. It' s not 255 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:18,599 about whether we' re that wolf that' s biting everyone in politics the 256 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:22,640 same way. That is to say, we cannot be thinking about that improving 257 00:19:22,759 --> 00:19:26,720 and not only making our lives better, having more economic resources, but also 258 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:32,319 being able to distribute cooperation with everyone. That would be the key. Then, 259 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:36,920 the first is dedicated to inhabited words. The second is dedicated to the 260 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,240 guiding words, those words that many of us lose the North and we will 261 00:19:40,279 --> 00:19:42,079 lose it. It' s not perfectionism. This lasts for a lifetime until 262 00:19:42,079 --> 00:19:47,279 the last second of life. Therefore, that effort discipline and perseverance. There 263 00:19:47,319 --> 00:19:48,519 are not three magic words that you can say to the one and suddenly I 264 00:19:48,519 --> 00:19:51,680 have already changed. It' s not until the last moment of your life. 265 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,559 You have to learn to forgive yourself a lot and the words guide, 266 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,240 because sometimes it is as if you return when you have lost yourself on the 267 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,839 high seas, when you have lost yourself in your possessions, without your storms, 268 00:20:03,079 --> 00:20:06,240 because somehow recover that peace, look to the sky and see that there 269 00:20:06,319 --> 00:20:08,519 is some word that leads you and then there are sentinel words, which are 270 00:20:10,279 --> 00:20:11,359 those words that in a moment has given and some are the suffering. There 271 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:15,680 are harsh words that can also appear, because here we are what the human 272 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:19,599 being is. That' s what we put in a negative bagolo. Cirpestive 273 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:23,440 pitfalls, negative emotions. We have no emotions. I think we need to 274 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,519 be able to make out with each other, because positive practices are easy to 275 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:32,160 fold not pussy and the negative must be known then. The words you will 276 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,200 feel are the ones that, deep down, alert you that something is happening, 277 00:20:34,599 --> 00:20:37,839 an anger of alertness, that something is happening to you, that your 278 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:42,480 heart starts to break, that your heart starts to melt and that it gets 279 00:20:42,559 --> 00:20:48,160 rid of you without realizing it. Then of course let' s see how 280 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:52,000 those words really guide the same. Those inhabited words and sentinel words have one 281 00:20:52,039 --> 00:20:56,599 unity, because they are all communicating vessels. Among them about the centinity. 282 00:20:56,599 --> 00:20:59,920 They look wonderful to me. It' s like the guardian who can alert 283 00:21:00,319 --> 00:21:03,119 you once I saw a word to every pill that' s going to get 284 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:07,000 into your heart and mind and it' s going to do you a lot 285 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:11,039 of damage if you don' t control it or the other way around a 286 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:18,799 word that you' re feeling is wonderful and let it pass effectively, besides, 287 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:26,200 in the sentinel words, as you were saying, you pick up terms 288 00:21:26,279 --> 00:21:33,680 that are hard or words as well you say, because they allude to situations 289 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:34,799 that make us suffer, because someone could say good this that you' re 290 00:21:34,799 --> 00:21:37,720 telling us sounds very abstract. We don' t know how to bring it 291 00:21:37,759 --> 00:21:42,160 down to reality, how I apply this, this, how it' s 292 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:48,559 done, what it means I now write down the words my children say, 293 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,799 how I fit all this into a day of I don' t know how 294 00:21:55,880 --> 00:22:03,079 many hours running after my children that, maybe they' re just now starting 295 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:10,839 to talk, Luis, how we fit this into words besides tantrums, like 296 00:22:10,839 --> 00:22:14,319 stress, like anguish, yeah, like anxiety. I had a great time, 297 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:15,799 because this we talked about in school, in educating positive nmoje came a 298 00:22:17,279 --> 00:22:19,440 mother and told me I have three children. When I get home, one 299 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,559 is watching my homework, another is asking me with my lotus, like my 300 00:22:22,559 --> 00:22:26,200 picenito. If he grabs my leg and so I' m dragging him how 301 00:22:26,279 --> 00:22:29,000 I' m gonna have a minute to be able to do it is not 302 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:33,480 necessary. You in the morning know what you' re doing, just because 303 00:22:33,559 --> 00:22:36,720 I have a routine, a habit of thinking about a word, you open 304 00:22:36,799 --> 00:22:38,599 the book and you say today look, I' m going to talk about 305 00:22:38,599 --> 00:22:41,799 here generosity. They' ve known me generosity. Well, I' ll 306 00:22:41,799 --> 00:22:47,839 see if I can be generosity defines it as awakening good hearts. I' 307 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,799 ll see if a little more generous than I don' t remember more with 308 00:22:49,839 --> 00:22:52,599 my children in my time. I read the same part of the book that 309 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,599 you can say means generosity to inspire me, because they are for those who 310 00:22:56,599 --> 00:23:00,240 inspire me. There is nothing more concrete than language and no matter how much 311 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,000 people want, because in the end zeal defends itself, but look at it 312 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,039 feel like words. What' s this gonna tell me that it' s 313 00:23:07,039 --> 00:23:08,640 not gonna add that if you' re talking to yourself all the time, 314 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,799 what I' m not going to add. If what I' m telling 315 00:23:10,799 --> 00:23:14,720 you is that your language is building, your inner and outer reality. She 316 00:23:14,759 --> 00:23:15,119 ' s the one who opens you up and closes doors for you. It 317 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,759 ' s the one that opens your heart and closes your heart. How can 318 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,640 you not spend time with him? If you spend time, it' s 319 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,480 just that the rest is going to be fake as much as you think it 320 00:23:23,519 --> 00:23:26,200 is, because in the end you talk to yourself 24 hours a day. 321 00:23:26,279 --> 00:23:30,279 I tell people you dream and children keep talking to you. They are constant 322 00:23:30,319 --> 00:23:34,200 and permanent words for oral, written and gestural words. This is the most 323 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,559 concrete, the most concrete and the most concrete thing in the world. I 324 00:23:38,559 --> 00:23:44,599 mean, there' s no tool. No one can sell you your language, 325 00:23:44,839 --> 00:23:48,720 neither buy nor sell. You have to use it, find it, 326 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,519 redefine it now, if you don' t want to spend time with it, 327 00:23:51,519 --> 00:23:52,440 then you' ll tell man. I' m distressed, of course, 328 00:23:52,759 --> 00:23:55,640 but let' s see why you' re distressed and the word itself 329 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,839 will define you and bring you the causes. If we don' t spend 330 00:23:57,839 --> 00:24:00,599 time, if we don' t get out, even if it' s 331 00:24:00,599 --> 00:24:03,359 a nue to, two three. There are moments in life that when you 332 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:08,559 beat, the most important thing is that you clarify the intention of the day, 333 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,880 the objectives, what intentions of your day. So, if you don 334 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,960 ' t. Logically, in the end everything catches you, because in the 335 00:24:17,039 --> 00:24:18,400 end I don' t have time, not time is you. That I 336 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,640 hear from everyone when he comes to my workshops, to my talks, to 337 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:26,200 my lectures, and who you are decides something give you a chance, because 338 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:30,079 if you don' t give yourself a chance. I' m sixty- 339 00:24:30,319 --> 00:24:33,880 nine. I came out against the vanguard and the first question that made me 340 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,319 good, but that you' re going to separate a sense. But you 341 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:42,039 ' re going to and I said now I' ve learned to live every 342 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,680 moment and every moment becomes an eternity. Now, at the age of sixty 343 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,599 - nine, I have discovered that it is the distance that devotes me a 344 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,000 lot to the world of mythation, Mike Fulness, especially the room, and 345 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,599 now with it I have discovered the instant. I think we have to leave, 346 00:24:56,039 --> 00:25:03,079 let ourselves be discovered. It' s not about, I mean, 347 00:25:03,279 --> 00:25:06,720 not time. I don' t have time. It is the brain that 348 00:25:06,799 --> 00:25:11,480 gives you an excuse because it is very lazy and would like how it is 349 00:25:11,519 --> 00:25:14,200 to stop working And of course, in the end, no time brings you 350 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,359 the anguish, the anxiety, the fear, the fear, the despair, 351 00:25:17,519 --> 00:25:21,400 the criticism, the judgment, the condemnation. He takes you on the way, 352 00:25:21,559 --> 00:25:22,559 you don' t want to. You' re like a paved road. 353 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,720 It' s a bad road through life. When you have your time, 354 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,559 you go down a gray road. It' s a good road to 355 00:25:29,559 --> 00:25:33,400 life. People ask you and tell you this is not asking you pins, 356 00:25:33,039 --> 00:25:36,599 you' re talking, you' re telling me. This is a utopia, 357 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,079 this is language. I tell people. These are words you have chosen 358 00:25:40,079 --> 00:25:45,359 to say what you believe. But they are words that you have chosen that 359 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,160 you ultimately believe in your world and create the reality that you believe. Well, 360 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,240 not that I won' t have time for what this is about. 361 00:25:51,759 --> 00:25:55,440 I prefer a novel, why you prefer how you want it to be your 362 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:56,759 son. You have to give your child a chance to be a good person, 363 00:25:57,079 --> 00:26:02,000 because if the world isn' t the way it is, it' 364 00:26:02,039 --> 00:26:04,240 s going to blow him up when he goes out on the street. He 365 00:26:04,279 --> 00:26:10,200 has so many inputs, so many inputs that he won' t have silence 366 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,759 to be able to think himself. Everything will come given and given to him. 367 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:18,000 Almost not calm and clear, we give this society a reality, but 368 00:26:18,559 --> 00:26:22,519 it is a part of reality. The other part of reality and most of 369 00:26:22,559 --> 00:26:26,160 reality is the language we have 24 hours a day, from birth to death, 370 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:36,000 24 hours a day. For I tell people to look at you, 371 00:26:36,039 --> 00:26:38,640 consult your heart and say what your heart wants, what it is to be 372 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,200 happy Let' s go to what happiness, what it is to be happy. 373 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,920 Let' s see what joy is. You want to take care of 374 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:47,119 your kids, let' s see what it means to take care of them. 375 00:26:47,799 --> 00:26:49,720 And so on, because if we put ourselves in the way of what 376 00:26:49,759 --> 00:26:52,839 the brain offers us, it' s going to offer to defend us from 377 00:26:52,839 --> 00:26:56,799 all this. As you say, you don' t quote anywhere and we 378 00:26:56,839 --> 00:27:00,240 don' t want slang and we' re able to go out to war 379 00:27:00,519 --> 00:27:06,559 and we go out there being insulting and fighting yes with each other, because, 380 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,920 as we' re right, that' s not there anymore, there 381 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:11,960 ' s no goodness, yes, we want wars, but you have inner 382 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,279 space. If you don' t have it, then there' s no 383 00:27:15,279 --> 00:27:18,960 outer peace and the message that' s going to come is going to be 384 00:27:18,039 --> 00:27:21,440 empty, because it' s going to say it' s acting the same 385 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:30,720 calmly. How we fit this daily task with patience at home, with, 386 00:27:30,079 --> 00:27:34,799 for example, the other environment in which you have also worked with the cabbages. 387 00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:42,279 How we establish a common strategy so that there is no dissonance, although 388 00:27:42,319 --> 00:27:47,119 little by little there will obviously be, we must fight against them already. 389 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:52,240 No, but how you can combine both spaces home and school, establishing, 390 00:27:52,279 --> 00:28:00,000 is working this kind intelligence. I believe in experience the way or it was 391 00:28:00,039 --> 00:28:03,200 very interesting. It is true that later the institutions that would have to change 392 00:28:03,559 --> 00:28:08,119 a little and the systems close doors, do not open up, will open 393 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:14,079 it to mathematics, to physics or to oneges technologies are official intelligence. Or 394 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:18,880 whatever they want. This is a slow and clear way to convince you that 395 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,880 they made my parents' door, or it was a son they wished for. 396 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,240 What happens is that we then fall into indifference, in defense of all 397 00:28:25,559 --> 00:28:29,960 the indifferences to which we have fallen throughout our history. Or can you not 398 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,720 be indifferent to the education of children and people? Can' t you be 399 00:28:33,759 --> 00:28:37,440 indifferent to the education of your students? How we do it. Logically, 400 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,359 these new concepts must be introduced. Kind intelligence, like intelligence, is brave. 401 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:47,039 That' s why goodness is courage. The rest is cowardice. He 402 00:28:47,119 --> 00:28:48,160 ' s very smart and you can make a war that looks like it' 403 00:28:48,279 --> 00:28:51,359 s very Ay not had, he' s got thousands of mions. It 404 00:28:51,359 --> 00:28:53,400 ' s not one. It' s intelligence because you tell her. Brave. 405 00:28:53,559 --> 00:28:57,160 Courage to open your heart, Courage to share, Courage to be generous, 406 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,160 Courage to be kind, Courage to time, Guarantee to have a good 407 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:04,000 heart, for aunt, to have warmth in your relationships. That is courage 408 00:29:04,079 --> 00:29:07,200 to the other, not the other is easier, because we have already forgotten 409 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,640 goodness. Then they come out more natural and confront each other warring, manipulating, 410 00:29:12,519 --> 00:29:18,440 looking for money, everywhere. Power is not good or evil. It 411 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,720 ' s the power, as they say now, it' s not the 412 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:23,559 good power, because I say we' re going to be the power of 413 00:29:23,599 --> 00:29:26,960 words in some way that' s what you' re going to take to 414 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,279 the last second of your life. You' re gonna find your word that 415 00:29:29,319 --> 00:29:30,119 throws whatever you say to yourself until the last to second of your conscience. 416 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,359 And your severe conscience to see what you' re taking. There are people 417 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,720 who carried you the same when I die. If I have a good time 418 00:29:38,079 --> 00:29:41,359 here, of course, that' s already part of education. Now we 419 00:29:41,359 --> 00:29:45,640 have to educate differently and it is true that schools would need to implement. 420 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:51,119 Kind intelligence was implemented. There' s emotional intelligence. This bonda lentil. 421 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:55,640 That' s the most specific thing about intelligence knowing what extreme emotion. It 422 00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:00,400 ' s fine ah but what really governs the destiny of humanity. It is 423 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:08,319 goodness and that is why, as we would say, the culmination, the 424 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:15,519 most sublime of intelligence is goodness. And I think we need to create and 425 00:30:15,559 --> 00:30:25,119 mobilize intelligence. Smart kids to me who know math, I have a lot 426 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,319 of studies and PhDs and I' ve worked a lot and a lot and 427 00:30:27,319 --> 00:30:30,680 a lot. That' s not intelligence. Intelligence is when I am going 428 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,720 to transform all my acts in my life, which have sometimes been nothing generous, 429 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:38,440 neither kind nor good in goodness and it begins to realize me. He 430 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,559 looked at me, when he looked at others, when I stopped being kind 431 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,839 and how I' m working. This lasts until the last day of my 432 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,240 life. So, I also have to learn to forgive myself, I have 433 00:30:48,279 --> 00:30:51,480 to learn sometimes to repent, because it' s not going to be perfect. 434 00:30:52,319 --> 00:30:56,599 But if we don' t get this into the education system, if 435 00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:02,200 we' re not able to jump to the fact that there really is a 436 00:31:02,319 --> 00:31:07,240 communicative glass in the family, schools and businesses, the world isn' t 437 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,160 going to go. That takes every day we open the news with oblivion, 438 00:31:10,319 --> 00:31:14,440 just in case someone came up with it, we saw the war. Let 439 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,119 ' s not talk to oblivion. A raad passes is no longer a headline. 440 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:22,559 We talked about oblivion. The human being' s greatest risk is oblivion. 441 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:27,000 And the media subject us to oblivion. Now that he remembers the war 442 00:31:27,079 --> 00:31:30,640 of Russia and Ukraine, from time to time they do not know that there 443 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:34,880 are four hundred zero dead, far more than in the war of Israel against 444 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:40,599 Palestine, much more than in other wars that he has recently gone. We 445 00:31:40,559 --> 00:31:45,000 do not realize, but forgetting that demos is what propitiates in a society as 446 00:31:45,079 --> 00:31:51,279 fast as ours and clear, sometimes philosophers who give us the thought are also 447 00:31:51,359 --> 00:31:56,160 slaves to our lack of intelligence, even though we believe that we are intelligent. 448 00:31:57,519 --> 00:32:05,359 I give and it costs a lot because in the end I don' 449 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,160 t know if they ask me how to take it to schools. Look, 450 00:32:07,319 --> 00:32:10,200 sometimes the WAU, because they put language science in the book. I say 451 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:16,119 tests years ago and we' ve been in places, but it' s 452 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,200 better to read a novel, as I say, and it' s okay. 453 00:32:19,559 --> 00:32:21,640 I' ve read a lot. If I couldn' t write. 454 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,160 I' ve read a lot of things, but then when it comes to 455 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:29,240 educating, it' s another story. We have to start educating kind hearts 456 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:37,039 people who know how to solve life' s problems and everyday problems from goodness 457 00:32:37,079 --> 00:32:38,359 And goodness, as we have said, is the combination of intelligence. Therefore, 458 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:43,519 it is intelligence to distance look at me when they say how much good 459 00:32:43,559 --> 00:32:45,599 kindness ma la and I return to what was before. There' s an 460 00:32:45,599 --> 00:32:49,640 intelligence. Intelligence is discernment, it is light, it is clarity, it 461 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,240 is knowing that the other may be deceiving you and I decide to act in 462 00:32:52,319 --> 00:32:55,200 spite of his deception, with sweetness and kindness. It is to know that 463 00:32:55,279 --> 00:33:00,680 when they affront me, I can answer with three basic criteria that I say 464 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,240 here to those who will listen to us to distract them there is goodness or 465 00:33:04,279 --> 00:33:06,680 not, and then there is no possible justification. The first is honesty, 466 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,480 the second is nonviolence, and the third is compassion. I repeat it for 467 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:15,200 you as passive. In all the interviews we give him honest hearts to have 468 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:16,799 inhabited the words. Honesty is when I look at my mirrors and who I 469 00:33:16,839 --> 00:33:22,759 really am and I' m a cassist, because I' ll still look 470 00:33:22,759 --> 00:33:27,519 for other elements. But well, non- violence is inner peace. There 471 00:33:27,559 --> 00:33:30,400 is no outer peace. If there is no inner peace, you don' 472 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,240 t have to be violent with yourself or with the outside, with words, 473 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:37,920 or with gestures. And compassion is, say, the highest level of consciousness 474 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:42,240 of the human being. Saying, it' s the moment we realize empathy 475 00:33:42,279 --> 00:33:45,799 is fine. I' m empathetic. I feel like the other one feels, 476 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,119 but I don' t act. But compassion is to have enabled you, 477 00:33:49,359 --> 00:33:52,960 to have tools to alleviate the suffering of others. So if I get 478 00:33:53,039 --> 00:33:58,000 a politician, he says no. I am, I am compassionate and you 479 00:33:58,039 --> 00:34:00,519 will be lacking. The bride in her speech will be missing. I don 480 00:34:00,559 --> 00:34:05,039 ' t know what he' ll lack, he' ll have to comply, 481 00:34:05,359 --> 00:34:06,680 he' ll lack honesty, let' s see where we' re 482 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:07,360 going, because this isn' t a good way. And then you don 483 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:12,119 ' t justify it for the now of any other reason you have and come 484 00:34:12,199 --> 00:34:15,039 up with, I don' t care if they' re left- wing, 485 00:34:15,079 --> 00:34:17,039 which, in fact, is that we haven' t also split that 486 00:34:17,039 --> 00:34:20,119 up to face each other. We don' t care. So I think 487 00:34:20,119 --> 00:34:24,440 that if education was a different peline, so did Buddhism. If education were 488 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:30,880 a little indifferent, perhaps the world would be a more habitable penintai, a 489 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:35,360 little better. I was thinking. I don' t know if they' 490 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:39,639 ve already come out, but the results of the last studies, the exams, 491 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:45,639 the tread tests, where it' ll never be appreciated, I' 492 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,039 m afraid of the kindness of the students. Even parents do not go to 493 00:34:49,199 --> 00:34:54,440 schools with a ranking of which school they are educated. The kindest or kindest 494 00:34:57,199 --> 00:35:02,760 students are greyer months That' s exactly what needs to be seen in the 495 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,840 happiness index in the world. The language is not there and if they were, 496 00:35:08,159 --> 00:35:13,800 they did not know what to measure language, for language we must also 497 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,199 apply intelligence, we must redefine it. Then how am I going to make 498 00:35:16,199 --> 00:35:22,320 an index of happiness in the world if they butan or the most advanced countries, 499 00:35:22,559 --> 00:35:23,079 if they are the Scandinavians. Well, let' s see what language 500 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:28,360 is. It' s the one they have, because that' s the 501 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,400 key. Of course there are other factors that can' t be ignored by 502 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:37,199 anyone here. This, like I said, is not a utopia. It 503 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,280 still exists in the economy, it' s still politics, it' s 504 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,320 still health, it' s still education, it' s still sport, 505 00:35:43,679 --> 00:35:47,639 it' s still culture, it' s still a lot of things we 506 00:35:47,639 --> 00:35:51,639 need to know, it' s also us. But we can apply more 507 00:35:51,679 --> 00:35:53,159 goodness in everything we do in the fields of fulbo. It cannot be screaming, 508 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:58,400 fighting and fighting, for example, but it does not matter, that 509 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:02,400 is, you pass the roof in the very global European political parliaments. The 510 00:36:02,599 --> 00:36:07,440 same thing happens in cultural systems that sometimes face as if culture were oiquieda right 511 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,440 - wing center. It takes all the time to get around or around. 512 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,760 Now they call it polarizing. Well, because because of what one thinks, 513 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:19,599 because in the end I find it hard to catch the other and know that 514 00:36:19,679 --> 00:36:22,239 the other, the other person, their way of seeing, their way of 515 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,159 understanding, their culture, is the part that I lack and that what I 516 00:36:25,199 --> 00:36:30,519 could do is expand what I lack could be more. I just don' 517 00:36:30,639 --> 00:36:36,079 t have to deal with that. There are a lot of things we can 518 00:36:36,079 --> 00:36:37,920 work on little by little. I do not say, then, of course, 519 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,280 sixty- three words. So and when I tell people, I tell 520 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:44,519 the book to catch, the smart book flocked. You have any page and 521 00:36:44,519 --> 00:36:47,800 suddenly turn off the banza. Connection see how you' re connected to people. 522 00:36:49,519 --> 00:36:52,039 Expansion of consciousness, and that is the connection of people. We' 523 00:36:52,159 --> 00:36:55,800 re not going to connect you because the other one, the ballet he does 524 00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,440 is very left- wing. Well, we said something about the music. 525 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:06,559 I don' t know how good and I say open doors, bond learn 526 00:37:06,599 --> 00:37:09,599 that you' ll never stop fighting for what you think is your own heart, 527 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,679 your own heart. You only have one. He is learned from watching 528 00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:19,840 to sayth, as we spoke before in the Book of Happiness, or you 529 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,559 have a higuey to put him to safety And safe is to make things smarter 530 00:37:22,599 --> 00:37:32,960 to save him that is to teach to be kind, to teach to love 531 00:37:34,039 --> 00:37:37,800 what we can change in our day to day To begin, Besides, to 532 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:44,239 approach, of course, the book, to sit down, give him time 533 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:45,320 and think about it, not and think all those words and think about them. 534 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:50,119 What is the first thing that we could change in our day to day, 535 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,119 all these families that are listening to us, that, besides I know 536 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,440 that there are also teachers and personnel that relate to childhood, that we can 537 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,239 change in our day to day to teach that kind intelligence to our creatures. 538 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:10,639 First give language a chance, think and words, without thinking about it and 539 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:15,199 avoiding it, that is, it is born in your heart, not from 540 00:38:15,199 --> 00:38:20,599 your mouth. Then they ask me how it communicates in politicians. I mean, 541 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,079 if you take the cigar perfectly, but he says to tell you now 542 00:38:23,079 --> 00:38:25,760 he' s uninhabited. The world is not being better they do not serve 543 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:30,679 and then what they muflan, because justifying it, I believe that the first 544 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:36,480 thing is a reflection on the language, a renfesion on themselves and that it 545 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,760 is discovered looks. I' m going to read you one if I have 546 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:42,440 it here from the book Eh, but it' s not mine, that 547 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,599 is, Aynak Salvi. I always talk about her in many places. Thile 548 00:38:45,639 --> 00:38:50,559 Absterby is a woman who has the ng as formu the largest onje in the 549 00:38:50,679 --> 00:38:52,199 world. A. It is in all countries, in all conflicts, in 550 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:58,039 all wars, always working with women, with their children. Nothing there are 551 00:38:58,039 --> 00:39:00,800 in the utea that he left got. It predates me in two weeks seventeen 552 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:04,199 million dollars to get the family out. That one with a thousand fifth families, 553 00:39:04,559 --> 00:39:07,639 has been in all the cruelest wars in Africa, famines and crudades in 554 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:14,719 all the countries of the world. And she taught me one thing we used 555 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,719 to mention. When you have to look at yourself and she looks like that. 556 00:39:17,079 --> 00:39:22,639 She didn' t get very sick and she was a good year and 557 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:28,320 a half and she thought back in some way what she had really done. 558 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:34,480 She as believed to be in what she was, knew that hers was a 559 00:39:34,599 --> 00:39:37,920 great truth. Women are raped, mutilated, killed, murdered, used more 560 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,360 by the world, as if saying well this, I don' t know 561 00:39:40,599 --> 00:39:45,760 what almost angry and they mentioned. It is that during my life it is 562 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,199 true that I have achieved many things, because in the end there are people 563 00:39:49,199 --> 00:39:52,920 who believe in the project, but I have stopped building bridges, I have 564 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:59,199 created walls. Then she reflected a lot m It is true that no O 565 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:00,960 O O O O O O O or session of truth. Sometimes I go 566 00:40:01,079 --> 00:40:09,599 very aggressive and that creates walls not bridges. And she thought clearly now how 567 00:40:09,639 --> 00:40:13,199 she approached me when she was invited to the UN, when they limited many 568 00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:19,039 places, in the scenes where there are people of all kinds powerful, rich 569 00:40:19,039 --> 00:40:22,599 military. Well, of course, and I' m going to tell you 570 00:40:22,599 --> 00:40:24,559 about the drop that one day sat with a woman who had a totally opposite 571 00:40:24,559 --> 00:40:29,880 thought to hers, even though the woman and if I had otherwise, well, 572 00:40:30,079 --> 00:40:32,000 I would have already armed it at the table, of course, and 573 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,599 the other one was afraid of me. Almost here comes already Zaina salimo because 574 00:40:34,639 --> 00:40:37,000 she was already famous in how and yet she had not changed and only before 575 00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:42,920 asked why. Why I thought so, why I did and say I tried 576 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:47,840 to build bridges. When I meet someone, I think education what we let 577 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:53,039 you do, we' re going to create bridges, but for the bridge 578 00:40:53,119 --> 00:40:59,159 I have to look at and the phrase that sums up that Ap Salvy to 579 00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:04,280 build bridges and like what that good me in the book with Gothain of Saby 580 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,079 described it in a very graphic way in an interview that made Opra Winfield. 581 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:13,440 I always thought she wasn' t a pretty woman. I looked in the 582 00:41:13,559 --> 00:41:17,320 mirror and it didn' t matter that my previous husband and everyone told me 583 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:21,519 you' re beautiful, there was nothing to do. I looked in the 584 00:41:21,559 --> 00:41:24,159 mirror and said I am not a beautiful woman, but on one occasion a 585 00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:30,519 Timitan woman told me and here is the key. You need to start meditating 586 00:41:30,679 --> 00:41:37,400 in your eyes the senses the mondaz is the hand. I play with kindness. 587 00:41:37,039 --> 00:41:42,760 I listen kindly. I speak kindly, I fly kindly, I look 588 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,639 kindly at you. I need to start lying in your eyes, so I 589 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:51,440 took the mirror, by the way, the same one that always looked at 590 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:58,400 me and started meditating looking at my pupils. I kept practicing this meditation and 591 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:06,519 I saw my soul and it says wow, there is a beautiful person inside 592 00:42:06,679 --> 00:42:13,559 me and little by little I started to see my own beauty and to stop 593 00:42:14,159 --> 00:42:17,119 judging that in education, that the foremen look at themselves see that there is 594 00:42:17,159 --> 00:42:21,599 a beautiful person inside them and stop judging themselves and the students and families who 595 00:42:21,639 --> 00:42:24,119 see that there is a beautiful person inside them and that what they have to 596 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:28,960 do is that all the students discover the beautiful person inside them. It' 597 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:35,480 s the first step for goodness, to serve bridges. They' re simple 598 00:42:35,559 --> 00:42:38,559 things at hand and let' s say for free, it looks like this 599 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:43,960 is but good me how free now you have them, that you don' 600 00:42:44,119 --> 00:42:49,480 t need anything. Really. I' ve learned a lot of names from 601 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,960 many women. He always says a lot about male women, because I also 602 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,480 name a lot of men. But well the man, a lot of woman, 603 00:42:57,199 --> 00:43:01,320 because if it' s about who' s in front of you can 604 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:06,599 teach you just want to let you teach. You' re ready to learn 605 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,639 what they' re telling you. How am I going to look at my 606 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:15,760 pupils, because there is, Mrs Zainap Salví, who is super super super 607 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,599 super super super busy because she didn' t pay to travel everywhere, in 608 00:43:17,639 --> 00:43:20,079 some places you get married and kills her good is that there is. I 609 00:43:20,079 --> 00:43:24,039 want to make the miss all of a sudden takes time, is that we 610 00:43:24,159 --> 00:43:30,079 can all take time to look at each other every morning our eyes, meditate 611 00:43:30,159 --> 00:43:32,480 on how they see these eyes, meditate, how they touch these hands, 612 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:38,320 how we smell. I now find out when my daughter poops, when she 613 00:43:38,599 --> 00:43:43,840 ' s so tiny, the smell, the stones that that guy and suddenly 614 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,239 I say who was going to think that all that was going to be part 615 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:52,960 of my life and a fascinating life. Everything can change if we want, 616 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,880 if we don' t close our heart and if we open our heart and 617 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,800 there' s no utopia there, eh careful. All eight thousand my people 618 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:07,199 are metaphorical and real heart. We all have a brain that thinks. We 619 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:13,039 all have a mouth that speaks word and we all have a body. Our 620 00:44:13,119 --> 00:44:15,679 body has to learn to be kind Our blah has to learn to be kind 621 00:44:16,159 --> 00:44:22,079 and our mind has to cultivate kind love I think that' s the key. 622 00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:29,480 And this is neither goodism, nor religion, nor anything. It is 623 00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:36,199 simply the peak of the highest of human intelligence. Our human intelligence must be 624 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:39,239 mobilized. We don' t mobilize it, we use other things, but 625 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:44,519 intelligence. No, because intelligence, as we have done, the ability to 626 00:44:44,639 --> 00:44:51,079 propose solutions and make decisions that improve our living space, our vital time, 627 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:58,960 not that they annihilate it. Then they' re killing us in a thousand 628 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,519 different ways. That' s nice, Luis. The truth is, it 629 00:45:02,639 --> 00:45:10,840 ' s nice to hear from you, and I hope that, well, 630 00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,199 our audience will let us all have a bit of a break. Be apart 631 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:21,440 from the mundane noise that overcomes us all with day to day, for that 632 00:45:21,519 --> 00:45:27,280 cynicism that in the end, for it is customary. We are already used 633 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:35,000 to the Internet, networks, speed, speed, leaving a little aside. 634 00:45:35,679 --> 00:45:40,159 It is also a certain spirituality that is not concrete in any particular religion, 635 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:45,760 as you well say, no, but it is true that we do not 636 00:45:45,039 --> 00:45:52,440 devote so little time to meditating, to full attention, to listening, to 637 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:57,159 listening. And, well, it seems to me like your book, I 638 00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:05,440 think it' s a good exercise, a good way to sit down and 639 00:46:05,559 --> 00:46:10,000 to put down many times all the haste we' ve had with day to 640 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,519 day and to rethink, to rethink a little bit. How we talk to 641 00:46:12,559 --> 00:46:16,000 ourselves and how we talk to our children that I think we can also start 642 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:20,920 there how we talk to them and how we talk to ourselves and how from 643 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:25,639 there start pulling the thread that happens to us every day, not how we 644 00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:32,079 end up talking to each other, how we end up talking, how we 645 00:46:32,159 --> 00:46:36,440 embrace, if we are aware of hugs, at least one does not want, 646 00:46:36,679 --> 00:46:39,719 but good of kisses, of caresses, of the moments that we are 647 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,119 the same as you are. I remember when the formation also told politicians at 648 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:51,280 the time it doesn' t matter what you do like that and don' 649 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,239 t look at him what does a lot to do like that and look at 650 00:46:54,320 --> 00:47:00,400 him and greet him simply hello is at the same time, the same in 651 00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,000 one and warmth and lime and in the other. There is nothing empty absence, 652 00:47:04,519 --> 00:47:08,199 start behaving with a person who has before another person and look. Don 653 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:12,960 ' t judge for yourself. You have to watch, don' t criticize, 654 00:47:14,039 --> 00:47:15,480 don' t condemn, don' t blame, don' t excuse 655 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:20,039 yourself. All these words I just said are also giving us clues to say 656 00:47:20,039 --> 00:47:22,880 why we don' t want to learn. The complaint, the excuse, 657 00:47:23,159 --> 00:47:29,960 the criticism, the trial, all that leads us not to want to learn, 658 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,400 because already, if I criticize him, is that he is doing something 659 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,039 wrong and I am right. If you excused me, well, I certainly 660 00:47:36,159 --> 00:47:39,599 didn' t have time. If in the end I judge, well, 661 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:45,159 look what makes mate calls at the end, all that takes away learning. 662 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:52,599 I think we can learn and I think we need to count on all the 663 00:47:53,679 --> 00:47:58,239 people who are in any area of fear, politics, the economy, culture, 664 00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,719 sport, education. We' re involved there. What happens, that 665 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:07,039 it is true that there is a lot of ignorance And ignorance is a wrong 666 00:48:07,119 --> 00:48:09,480 knowledge and it is curious because people believe that they know and that they know 667 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,000 what the world is like. But it' s wrong. I' m 668 00:48:12,039 --> 00:48:14,559 telling you who I don' t think wants to educate their children and be 669 00:48:14,559 --> 00:48:21,199 bad people. No, then, Luis, a pleasure to hear you, 670 00:48:21,679 --> 00:48:28,119 a pleasure to read to you. I hope our audience will also see it 671 00:48:28,199 --> 00:48:35,039 and cheer up and approach the pages of kind intelligence. How to educate your 672 00:48:35,119 --> 00:48:37,760 children to be good and happy people, nothing more and nothing less, uh, 673 00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:45,159 good purpose, little what I say. There are sixty- three words 674 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:49,000 that are sixty- three teachings that sometimes do not appear in the title Good. 675 00:48:49,039 --> 00:48:52,119 It was chosen in this way, but I always chose sixty- three, 676 00:48:52,599 --> 00:48:54,360 twenty- one, twenty- one and twenty- one, each of 677 00:48:54,400 --> 00:49:00,880 inhabited paras, guy words, sense words. It seemed to me a very 678 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:04,280 powerful tool to be able to really educate, because we will always educate by 679 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,719 language. No one is going to tell us that not really that it is 680 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:13,920 language of the signs of oral language, it is gestural that we remain all 681 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,519 that language in the human being. Then let' s see what language is 682 00:49:16,519 --> 00:49:22,079 like. We can build in some way with that language better people, good 683 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:28,440 people and good people to help others also be better. Yes, moreover, 684 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,199 and what you were saying earlier has seemed very important to me when you were 685 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:37,519 talking about politicians, how language is used are often used to manipulate. At 686 00:49:37,599 --> 00:49:42,280 the end of the day we realize what intent we' re using it. 687 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,119 Maybe there you can click on many people who listen to us not how we 688 00:49:46,119 --> 00:49:51,280 use language, how we use language, how they teach us to use language 689 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,480 to manipulate, instead of in this case, to educate, to educate in 690 00:49:55,559 --> 00:50:02,119 that deep intelligence. Oh friends, friends, we have a big difference and 691 00:50:02,159 --> 00:50:07,360 to educate ourselves. But I am amazed at the world of politics that makes 692 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:12,159 decisions when they say we are seeing that it is a big lie and how 693 00:50:12,159 --> 00:50:15,000 they manipulate it, justify it, that they type, judge, condemn, 694 00:50:15,679 --> 00:50:19,679 blame, excuse themselves constantly. It can' t be. He' s 695 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,360 doing a great deal of damage to society and we' re still voting on 696 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,000 it. I think there has to be a new awakening. Always and people 697 00:50:25,039 --> 00:50:30,000 say you have to wake up. Yeah, we have to realize when we 698 00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,639 look at that person if he' s honest, if he' s a 699 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,599 nonviolent person, and if he' s a compassionate person. There is total 700 00:50:36,679 --> 00:50:43,119 absence of this during the pandemic bread. I did a study of the words 701 00:50:43,159 --> 00:50:45,239 that appeared. Of course, there was no compassion, no kindness, no 702 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:52,280 honesty, no kindness, no good heart, nothing, you would print them 703 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,400 out of pain or death, suffering, pandemic contagion. So, what we 704 00:50:55,519 --> 00:50:59,800 can' t go to a society where language is the key, where it 705 00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:05,519 generates our mental years, where it is generating our ability to interact with others 706 00:51:05,559 --> 00:51:08,000 having words that are absent and forgotten. We said before, the greatest risk 707 00:51:08,039 --> 00:51:15,039 of everything forgets it and to that we are subjected to political means of communication 708 00:51:15,159 --> 00:51:19,639 businessmen bring us to oblivion and the greatest form of submission is noise. There 709 00:51:19,679 --> 00:51:23,920 is too much noise that prevents us from this teaching and restlessness so that we 710 00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:28,440 realize that not really to face them, because that I have put you dinners 711 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,880 ad, but to attend bridges, so that we have bridges in some way. 712 00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:35,119 Faced with it, we' re not going anywhere good. But realistically, 713 00:51:36,039 --> 00:51:40,800 we know that we lack a lot of love, we lack a lot 714 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:49,440 of kindness in the world and we lack a lot of intelligence, because the 715 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,239 message loves the vindication. Here goodness is always claimed, meaning that the intelligence 716 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:57,119 pays much more, much more, Luis, a pleasure is to see you. 717 00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:02,199 We will leave for our audience the notes of the information of your website 718 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:07,159 and the books so that you can do with them in your local bookstores you 719 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:13,039 know and we will return in a new episode of Good morning, Mothers, 720 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:14,559 see goodbye tess. Thank you.