1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:15,720 Made a decision. Face sunny, sad, I had asion. So what's 2 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:21,559 up, everybody, bitches. Listen, if you hear snoring in the background, 3 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:26,039 it's Phil. He's still here. He's delicious. Yeah, he's he's 4 00:00:26,039 --> 00:00:30,839 recovering, you guys, donut off. Oh okay, that's good because he's 5 00:00:30,839 --> 00:00:33,679 just relaxing. Yeah he's not. Yeah, he's just relaxing. He's not 6 00:00:33,759 --> 00:00:38,119 trying to eat his stomach. No. And I think the snoring was the 7 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,399 doughnut. He can't lay his head flat. Yeah, so hopefully now he'll 8 00:00:42,439 --> 00:00:45,200 be quiet. Poor. Well, at one point he went from snoring from 9 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,640 the other side of the room and then realize, Oh, there's a comfy 10 00:00:47,679 --> 00:00:50,520 couch over there. Why am I not laying on it right now? So 11 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,759 if you heard the snoring increase on Tuesdays, he's a lot closer to Aphon. 12 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,560 Yeah, you're a good boy. Do you let people up on the 13 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,600 couches? Oh god, yeah, I know, I know, Phil. 14 00:01:02,119 --> 00:01:06,159 Oh everywhere she's she's all on our bed, she's on our couches, she's 15 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:11,439 on. Yeah. Phil can go anywhere in the house except if Olga's in 16 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,719 the kitchen. He does not go in the kitchen, right, Yeah, 17 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:19,879 because in her village she'll kick a dog. She may need him. And 18 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:25,599 then the ribs a couple of times. Now he listens to he listens to 19 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,439 Olga. He does not go in the kitchen. I was gonna say, 20 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:32,760 does he going to any room? Ulgas in the kitchen he is not allowed. 21 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:37,200 Yeah, and I'm not allowed. And Natalia's room he's not allowed. 22 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,959 Yeah. Yeah, So but she was getting softer on him. She is, 23 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,400 she loves she does love Phil Now. Yeah, she calls him puppy. 24 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:49,400 She talks to him in the English accent, Hello, puppy. Oh 25 00:01:49,439 --> 00:01:53,480 my gosh. Well let's say hi to our favorite people, all right, 26 00:01:53,719 --> 00:02:00,840 Stephanie Stinker Wrinker and Krista gets strapped at Sandra sight he's being green and Jennifer 27 00:02:00,879 --> 00:02:06,359 get the fuck up, and Sarah Stefano Bison and Leslie you need you need 28 00:02:06,439 --> 00:02:08,319 to stop with the coughing. Get some kind of like you know, cough 29 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:15,759 drop, I know, right, zinc or something. Alicia Escalante and Aaron 30 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:21,520 who is and Kelly she's not your aunt, but she'll help you with some 31 00:02:21,759 --> 00:02:30,520 secret stop yeah yeah, and Rebecca's and Missy and Gabby, oh yeah, 32 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:36,120 they're they're doing better this week I love to hear it, love to hear 33 00:02:36,159 --> 00:02:43,280 it. Katerina is seriously, you got a moller that's rotting under what are 34 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,960 you taking so long? I know? And Valerie hits it out of the 35 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:51,080 park Fenway Park, and Polly love your sissurup and Athena, we love your 36 00:02:51,159 --> 00:02:53,759 dancing. And Elizabeth Williamson, we adore all of your children. They're all 37 00:02:53,800 --> 00:03:05,280 special, every single except one. And here I need a hero. Didn't 38 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,479 he tell us when he first signed up? He was like, please don't 39 00:03:07,479 --> 00:03:13,599 do any like her? And I was like that. And Rita rocks all 40 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,520 rocks, all of everybody's kids in her basinet. Jacob is so Growley, 41 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,960 and Leslie it costs people outside of Ikea. You got it, Leslie, 42 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,000 you call it in and Ashley so chic, and Nikki call your girl, 43 00:03:24,719 --> 00:03:30,319 Hey girl, Hey girl, hey girl. So now that you've like, 44 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:35,439 you're convalescing, you and Phil have you watched what are you watching? Anything? 45 00:03:35,759 --> 00:03:40,719 Oh my god? Yeah? So many things? Okay, yeah, 46 00:03:40,919 --> 00:03:47,199 so how to create a sex scandal? Holy shit? With the fuck with 47 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,439 the fuckballs? I was I told you guys, I know, but I 48 00:03:51,439 --> 00:03:53,719 don't remember. Do you remember her telling us about us? I know? 49 00:03:53,840 --> 00:04:00,319 All about double agent, undercover undercover. I know all about that, but 50 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,400 I don't really quite remember us like a month ago because I found it. 51 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:09,280 Yeah, I know, I know it was this morning. I'd probably be 52 00:04:09,319 --> 00:04:13,520 like you told me, right, I know. But and also the name 53 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,639 of it doesn't it just sounds kind of generic. It's not like, you 54 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,879 know, yeah, it doesn't sound like what it is, right, it 55 00:04:19,959 --> 00:04:24,199 doesn't sound like they should have named it something like abducted in plain sight, 56 00:04:24,319 --> 00:04:27,680 right like that, yes, yes, yea, or this is some fucked 57 00:04:27,759 --> 00:04:30,519 up shit, right, you can't look away. I went on Facebook in 58 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:34,000 our group and I was like, holy shit, you guys how to create 59 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,959 a sex scandal? Like what is happening? Right? So only like only 60 00:04:38,959 --> 00:04:42,519 like one person saw it and was like this is crazy. Yeah, you 61 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,000 guys, everybody's got HBO max by now right, well this is this is 62 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:51,000 like okay, we all love Natalia Grace, right, we all thought that 63 00:04:51,199 --> 00:04:57,680 was insanity and we were all like, mouths agape, what's going on here? 64 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:04,319 This was worse? This, This was like I was watching it like 65 00:05:04,399 --> 00:05:08,279 this, so we're on the YouTube, will be on the YouTube eventually, 66 00:05:08,319 --> 00:05:14,439 but I was like what I had to stop in the middle and text Lynette 67 00:05:14,439 --> 00:05:16,839 and I was like, Lynette, give me to watch this, write this 68 00:05:16,959 --> 00:05:20,279 second. What are you doing? Stop what you're doing and turn this on. 69 00:05:20,319 --> 00:05:23,319 And she was like, bitch, I already told you about it. 70 00:05:24,199 --> 00:05:28,240 I know. I was like, well, you should have told me about 71 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,560 it louder because I didn't know this was existing. Right. So it starts 72 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,319 out. I don't want to spoil any part of it because I kind of 73 00:05:34,319 --> 00:05:40,759 forgot about it, okat. So it starts out with this mom who's who's 74 00:05:40,759 --> 00:05:46,120 a foster mom, right, and she fosters a lot of kids. She's 75 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:51,160 a here, she's a true hero, right right. So she's um gets 76 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:58,000 these kids from different bad homes and she she like is trying to h yeah, 77 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,600 her and her husband, who looks a lot like Sam Clause. I 78 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:04,399 was just gonna say that, yep, yep. And she seems really normal, 79 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,839 right and like yeah, because she's talking in the documentary. Usually when 80 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:15,560 yeah, when they're being interviewed in a documentary, you think like, okay, 81 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,000 well they got their ship together, or you believe yeah. Yeah, 82 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:24,040 So this is gonna have some twists and turns. But there she takes in 83 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,800 this family of kids that were taken away from their parents. Their parents were 84 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,839 like meth addicts or some some bad ship was going on in their home. 85 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:38,439 Okay, so she's she's assigned this family of young kids. They're pretty young. 86 00:06:38,759 --> 00:06:41,040 One of the girl, one of the girls, I think, is 87 00:06:41,079 --> 00:06:44,639 only like four or five, like she's a baby. Yeah, really young. 88 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,959 And then one of the kids is like seven. And then then there's 89 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,959 like a cousin right that that I don't know how she really got involved in 90 00:06:50,959 --> 00:06:54,560 this, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But they're interviewing these kids. 91 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,959 So the mom is telling us this story. Okay, I'm not gonna 92 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:02,000 tell you too much, but about how the mom, the foster mom, 93 00:07:02,079 --> 00:07:05,519 was like, you know what, I have all these foster kids, and 94 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:12,279 I think I want to get a facility where I can really almost like a 95 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,439 daycare, where I can kind of like have all these kids and we'll run 96 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:20,120 it. I'll get some employees. So she goes to the site of this 97 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:25,839 place. Now apparently and this is we're talking about this little town in Texas, 98 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,560 right, Okay, Now she's from California, Yeah that's right. Yeah, 99 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,920 So she lived in California with her Santa Claus husband, and they decide 100 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:38,279 that they're going to go move to this tiny, tiny Texas town. We 101 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,480 don't really know why, right, but she wants a little quieter life. 102 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,240 She wanted a Yeah, it was a very quaint town, really small, 103 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:50,680 right, like a couple of thousand people. But in this little small town 104 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:55,120 in Texas, Kaylin, are you listening? I am in this little small 105 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,600 Texas town. I would love to hear like the abstract, like how they 106 00:07:58,639 --> 00:08:01,199 list this on HBO? Do you have a listing for it? Let me 107 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,920 look that up. Yeah, look it up. I just want to hear 108 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:07,360 how they describe it, because I don't want to give spoilers, but all 109 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,439 what's also happening in this town that we find out at the beginning of the 110 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,279 documentary. There there's a lot of things that we find out that are all 111 00:08:15,319 --> 00:08:20,240 horrifying. Right in this little teeny teeny tiny town. It's like a Rebecca, 112 00:08:24,279 --> 00:08:28,879 there's a like a swingers club, right, right, Yes, So 113 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:33,440 she goes to it, looks at this facility that's for rent and it's at 114 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,399 the place where there had been a swingers club. Right. Okay, But 115 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:41,279 you're probably thinking to yourself, which I was, like, if you only 116 00:08:41,279 --> 00:08:43,600 have a town of a few thousand, that's a pretty high percentage of them 117 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:48,559 that are swingers in order to keep a swingers club going, right, But 118 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:52,200 true story, they really had a swingers clublic and none of these said like 119 00:08:52,399 --> 00:08:56,120 some people came from the other town over right, Yeah, like they're like, 120 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,759 hey, swingers club right one town over. Who wants to come? 121 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,559 Yeah? You know which I always wonder how about those I know? I 122 00:09:03,639 --> 00:09:07,960 know people in the lifestyle of the swinger not you do not well, Like 123 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,879 I couldn't just text them and be like, tell me more, you know 124 00:09:11,919 --> 00:09:16,360 what. I've had people in my writers class that had gone to like swing 125 00:09:16,519 --> 00:09:20,480 swing parties and stuff and told me all about it, because I've always been 126 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,159 very curious, Yes, like how do you just end up swinging? Yeah? 127 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,200 That's how do you spring that on somebody else? Like you're dating and 128 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:31,559 you're like, yeah, we all. I mean I don't know we all, 129 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:37,240 but we've come across other couples where they're where you're like, something's going 130 00:09:37,279 --> 00:09:41,000 on with them, like they're very friendly, right, we know a couple 131 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:46,960 we do. I'll tell you Lafia Okay. I learned on a podcast the 132 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:50,840 other day and it was then confirmed by a people in the Facebook group that 133 00:09:50,919 --> 00:09:56,440 if you are a swinger, you display pineapples in your house upside down. 134 00:09:56,639 --> 00:10:00,480 I feel like that's an old wives tale really. I mean we were all 135 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:01,519 like, no, that's not true. But then there's a lot of people 136 00:10:01,519 --> 00:10:05,320 in the fans listening to that like, oh yeah, that's true. So 137 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,159 wow, that's what I heard the other day. There's also what you do 138 00:10:09,159 --> 00:10:11,320 though, is you advertise you go on like dating sites, right, and 139 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:16,879 you say you're swingers. Now, yeah, maybe in the old days you 140 00:10:16,919 --> 00:10:20,080 had to have an upside down pineapple wasn't a thing with the with the ice 141 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,440 storm where they left the key. Everybody put the key. Yeah, key 142 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:26,519 party, heat party. Yeah. John always makes jokes whenever we go to 143 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,480 a party that he's like, do you want to both bring keys? Like, 144 00:10:30,519 --> 00:10:35,480 how do you like? How do you party? You're young? So 145 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,200 key party is where people it's like a swinger's part where you go and it 146 00:10:39,279 --> 00:10:41,840 was kind of big, like I think in the sixties. It sounds like 147 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:46,399 a drink. You drop your keys in a bowl like a fish bowl, 148 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:50,000 and then people go and they take out that you have to reach in and 149 00:10:50,039 --> 00:10:52,639 you grab keys and it's somebody else's keys, and then you have to be 150 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:56,840 with that person. Like the husband's with the yeah, okay, yeah, 151 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:03,960 but what if yeah, what if you get the yeah? I see that's 152 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:11,000 a step up from what I'm already doing, right exactly. And then Bill's 153 00:11:11,039 --> 00:11:18,120 wife is like, well, somebody's got a fuck out like that had its 154 00:11:18,159 --> 00:11:22,919 sister. Right, You're like, did Bill even take a shower? Like, 155 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,440 I don't know, I don't love stuck with Gladys right yeah. Or 156 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:33,919 there's one hot wife everybody wants, you know, right, Oh, everybody 157 00:11:33,919 --> 00:11:37,720 wants her. Everybody wants you know, bridget Right. But we've all seen 158 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,960 HBO's real sex, and we know that the people that are down to swing 159 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,600 are usually not the most attract not the people you want to swing with necessarily, 160 00:11:45,799 --> 00:11:48,480 But these days standards. I remember there was this one podcast and I'm 161 00:11:48,519 --> 00:11:52,039 gonna get I will take us back to back on track. This is a 162 00:11:52,039 --> 00:11:56,000 slight digression, but there was like a date line. Remember the wolf not 163 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:00,879 not the wolf Pack they called themselves. It was these It was all these 164 00:12:00,919 --> 00:12:03,440 young people. Okay, remember they're gonna remember this story. It was a 165 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:09,720 it was a pretty big date line. So this woman, this there's a 166 00:12:09,759 --> 00:12:13,039 woman and she's married to a guy and they have best friends this like other 167 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:18,159 couple that they're best friends with, and this woman ends up she starts sleeping 168 00:12:18,159 --> 00:12:22,399 with this guy that like works at Costco, that she works at Costco, 169 00:12:22,759 --> 00:12:26,320 and she starts hooking up with this fireman do you remember this? And her 170 00:12:26,399 --> 00:12:33,120 husband is a fireman. The guy kills her husband right. Oh, her 171 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:39,399 little young boyfriend ends up killing the husband who's a fire and fire and they're 172 00:12:39,399 --> 00:12:43,480 friends with this other couple. And then it comes out I don't remember how 173 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,039 he kills him. I think he shoots him. And then it comes out 174 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:52,799 eventually that her boyfriend did it and they get caught. And then later towards 175 00:12:52,799 --> 00:12:56,240 the end of the date line you find out that they're all swingers. Okay, 176 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,679 but that that couple had been swinging with the other couple and things, 177 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:03,639 and but that he wasn't cool that she had this other guy that she was 178 00:13:03,639 --> 00:13:07,159 sleeping with outside of the swingers lifestyle. It's so funny that it was Costco 179 00:13:07,279 --> 00:13:13,440 because I had a friend that worked at Costco and his girlfriend were swingers. 180 00:13:13,879 --> 00:13:18,639 Oh, yes, Costco. Costco. Something's going on at Costco in the 181 00:13:20,039 --> 00:13:26,559 in the sample? Yeah, so okay, so there's a so yeah, 182 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:31,679 so I have this somebody who writes and was telling me about how yes you 183 00:13:31,879 --> 00:13:35,440 answered these ads. But she started dating a guy and somehow she worked in 184 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:41,879 the conversation like does he like to you know, swing open being an open 185 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:45,440 yeah, And he was like yeah, but I was hearing about how what 186 00:13:45,519 --> 00:13:48,639 happens when you go to the swing party? Right, like do you just 187 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:54,519 immediately walk in and go who wants to suck? My dad? Get on 188 00:13:54,600 --> 00:14:01,039 these titties? Like right, like shot first, like have some cheese and 189 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:09,960 crackers? Who wants breath? And then you're like, bree my wife, 190 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:15,480 Oh my god, that must be a great joke for though, I say 191 00:14:15,639 --> 00:14:24,840 some breath right kind yeah my wife? Yes, my wife. I just 192 00:14:24,879 --> 00:14:28,159 show we just show the kids BA the other day. Yes, yes, 193 00:14:28,279 --> 00:14:33,480 so they could learn about my wild wife. My wife. Okay, So 194 00:14:33,559 --> 00:14:39,039 anyway, there's a swing club in the school town in Texas and they interview 195 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:43,720 some people. You want the description, okay, yeah, tell me a 196 00:14:43,799 --> 00:14:48,080 shattering story emerges emerges from a swingers club in a small Texas town. That's 197 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:54,960 okay, all right, it is a shatter story. Yeah. So okay, 198 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:58,320 so there's this swing club and then the swing club kind of closes down. 199 00:14:58,399 --> 00:15:01,600 I'm assuming from like lack of inch trust, you know, or you 200 00:15:01,639 --> 00:15:07,000 know, just hygiene, like who's cleaning up after who's popping up after all 201 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,960 that? Right? Yeah, So this foster mom is going to look into 202 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,679 this place as a place to like open up a facility. And she brings 203 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:18,679 these kids from this home that she's just taken in and they think the swing 204 00:15:18,679 --> 00:15:28,279 club looks very familiar. Okay. Then craziness ensues and shit is so far 205 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:33,480 reaching and insane. But then towards later in the documentary, you're gonna be 206 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:39,519 like, wait, well, what what and then you're it takes so many 207 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:43,240 turns and it is like, seriously, if you're listening to this podcast, 208 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,080 I love you and I'm glad you're listening, but stop listening right now and 209 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:52,000 go watch and then come back. Yet nobody watched. So nobody on our 210 00:15:52,039 --> 00:15:56,440 Facebook has has seen it. I don't wrong with everybody. I don't know, 211 00:15:56,759 --> 00:15:58,960 but they're going to see it now. Everybody's like, oh, they're 212 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,039 so many things on my list. I'm like, fuck my list, watch 213 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,039 this? Yes, all right, you know what? Speaking of things we 214 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:11,039 love, let's talk about Hello Fresh, Hello Fresh, Hello Fresh. I'm 215 00:16:11,559 --> 00:16:12,960 okay, I feel like i've been talking a lot, and I want you 216 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:18,600 guys to talk, but I'm I'm obsessed now with Hello Fresh and I joined. 217 00:16:18,919 --> 00:16:22,960 Okay, so I got my free some free meals because we're doing ads 218 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:26,080 for them, and I love them so much and they were so easy to 219 00:16:26,159 --> 00:16:29,559 make. And we've talked about Hello Fresh over the years, but I got 220 00:16:29,639 --> 00:16:33,440 super inspired and joined right because because I made my meals, we get tired 221 00:16:33,519 --> 00:16:37,159 of trying to come up with stuff to eat. And Hello Fresh as meals 222 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:41,559 the kids, My kids love them. There's never been a meal really that 223 00:16:41,639 --> 00:16:45,399 I've made that they don't like. Because and you can take a pick too, 224 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,799 like you can show the recipes and go, which one do you want 225 00:16:48,799 --> 00:16:49,679 to try? Do you want to try this one is spaghetti? Or do 226 00:16:49,679 --> 00:16:53,519 you want to try this? And everything so fresh and they send you like 227 00:16:53,679 --> 00:16:59,080 produce and you just have to rinse it off, cut it up and like 228 00:16:59,399 --> 00:17:03,799 there you go. But I made this. I made this dish that UM 229 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:07,799 had the potatoes, and I cut the potatoes. I was like learning things 230 00:17:07,839 --> 00:17:11,519 about baking. Yeah, cut the potatoes and thin slices, put them all 231 00:17:11,559 --> 00:17:15,640 on a baking sheet. They taught me. They put some stuff on there 232 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,359 for me to season them with and like everything comes out like you're in a 233 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,920 restaurant. It's so good. Yes, and it's a really it's a healthy 234 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,039 meal. You have your protein, your vegetables, and again you don't have 235 00:17:26,079 --> 00:17:29,680 to worry about going like oh gosh, I have to go to the store 236 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,799 and get it. They have to give you everything you need and it's done 237 00:17:32,799 --> 00:17:37,039 in like fifteen Like it's so the prep time is nothing. If. They 238 00:17:37,039 --> 00:17:38,759 have a lot of different meal plans, I like them. I did the 239 00:17:38,799 --> 00:17:45,119 Pscytarian, but you can do the Family Meal, and you can do like 240 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,599 the fit and you can do the UM the Quick and Easy. Yes, 241 00:17:48,039 --> 00:17:51,599 they have a lot of different choices also have you can reach your goals with 242 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:56,720 delicious, calorie smart and protein smart lunch and dinner options. It's perfect. 243 00:17:56,839 --> 00:17:59,720 Yes, it's a really great plan. I think I went with the family 244 00:17:59,759 --> 00:18:03,839 meal ones and one of the other ones that we got, not the port 245 00:18:03,839 --> 00:18:06,319 tenderline I talked about this week. It was like it was a spaghetti was 246 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:10,880 zucchini and sausage and some spices. And you know sometimes with the kids, 247 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,839 they don't eat anything but the basics, and it's like what do we have 248 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:18,079 dinner? I don't know, we just throw together a regular spaghetti, you 249 00:18:18,079 --> 00:18:21,599 know, regular sauce. This was just as easy as doing that, and 250 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,240 it tasted so much better. Yeah, and the kids loved it. I 251 00:18:25,319 --> 00:18:30,160 made a mushroom pasta was like that too. I never would have thought of 252 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,720 putting some of the ingredients like I made pasta, but it had like this. 253 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:40,359 It had like this um condensed mushroom something that it had this um creamy 254 00:18:40,799 --> 00:18:44,319 thing that you whip into it. And it was like John was freaking out. 255 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:45,480 He was like, this is like the best meal you've ever cooked. 256 00:18:45,519 --> 00:18:49,200 Oh my gosh, I'm so hungry. I know. So go to Hello 257 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:56,960 Fresh dot com slash fcol sixteen and use code fcol sixteen verse sixteen free meals 258 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:03,039 plus free shipping. That Hello Fresh dot com slash fcol sixteen use the code 259 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:11,839 fcol sixteen for sixteen free meals plus free shipping. Hello Fresh America's number one 260 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:18,160 meal kit. It absolutely is so a little bit of news. Update on 261 00:19:18,279 --> 00:19:22,559 lby, Update on lby. I'll be update, I'll be update. So 262 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,559 she texts me the other day, Okay, this is like a good news 263 00:19:26,559 --> 00:19:30,440 bad news situation. I don't think she'd mind me telling you guys this but 264 00:19:32,319 --> 00:19:36,240 so she texts me and she said, so, I got rejected from Santa 265 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:37,960 Barbara. So you know how she was on the waiting list and we were 266 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:42,720 all putting good juju out there. Yea. They sent her a message saying, 267 00:19:42,799 --> 00:19:45,960 check your portal, there's been a change in your application status. So 268 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:52,559 she got excited because that can mean she got in. She did say she 269 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,960 felt she wasn't super confident about it though, and then it said, yeah, 270 00:19:57,079 --> 00:20:02,640 you're out rejected. You ain't going to UCSB this year. It's wrong 271 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:07,640 with these places. I don't know. But so we're she's going to be 272 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:14,079 going to community college. And so you know, she was kind of avoiding 273 00:20:14,759 --> 00:20:19,519 like the signing up process and I needed her. So the whole psychology major, 274 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:23,279 as I told you so, like listen up, yeah, okay, 275 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,039 yeah, because take this in because this is free shit for you. I 276 00:20:26,079 --> 00:20:30,160 know. Okay, I'm saving you some money right now, even though you're 277 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:33,359 already spending it. But I get it. Yeah, okay, So psychology 278 00:20:33,519 --> 00:20:37,319 superimpacted major. She would have had to do like twice as well as she 279 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,519 already did in school to get into psychology at certain schools. Okay, maybe 280 00:20:41,519 --> 00:20:44,559 other schools around the country. She could have gotten in on psychology. You 281 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:49,039 see, schools very impacted for psychology. Okay, so she was at Also, 282 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:56,240 psychology at Santa Barbara is brain science. So I think I told you 283 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:59,319 guys about this before. So it's a very heavy science major, which she 284 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,880 was like, no bueno, right, So I was like, so we 285 00:21:03,079 --> 00:21:06,799 looked over some other majors for her, and we came up with sociology, 286 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,240 which looks like a great major for her. It's all the fun stuff about 287 00:21:11,559 --> 00:21:15,400 psychology, like understanding how people tick, and it's sort of like how how 288 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:19,559 do you like societies work? Like it's really I told her it's like gossip. 289 00:21:19,839 --> 00:21:22,559 Yeah, yeah, right, I get it, all the good stuff 290 00:21:22,599 --> 00:21:26,200 about psychology, but without like the science science. Okay, So she we 291 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:30,039 agreed on that, but meanwhile she hadn't she needed to have a meeting. 292 00:21:30,519 --> 00:21:33,799 You have to have a meeting with a counselor because you have to do what's 293 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:38,519 basically called like an education plan. Okay, you can't really know on your 294 00:21:38,559 --> 00:21:42,519 own. It's hard to figure out exactly what classes you need to take. 295 00:21:44,759 --> 00:21:48,480 So and Elbie was really like dragging her feet on this, and I kept 296 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:52,440 saying, Elbie, we need you. You might have to take a class 297 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,160 over the summer because I want her to graduate in one year, right, 298 00:21:57,799 --> 00:22:02,319 So in order to do she had to there's a lot of classes she's going 299 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,960 to have to take over the year in order to be eligible to apply this 300 00:22:06,079 --> 00:22:10,200 fall. Literally this this November, she's going to be applying to college. 301 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:15,279 Wow. Yeah, So waiting, waiting, waiting, She's like at her 302 00:22:15,319 --> 00:22:18,119 boyfriend's house. I was like, okay, you know what, like, 303 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,799 you have to do it. So the next day she wakes up, she's 304 00:22:22,839 --> 00:22:26,640 like, oh, she's in a terrible mood, super like huffy puffy about 305 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:32,319 it, you know, I mean, you know, I'm going over to 306 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:33,519 my boyfriend's house or whatever. I was like, yeah, okay, So 307 00:22:33,559 --> 00:22:38,319 in the morning, either come home or go into there's a zoom. You 308 00:22:38,319 --> 00:22:42,000 can sign up to talk to a counselor in the zook. So she said 309 00:22:42,039 --> 00:22:45,640 she would do it. So the next day she starts texting me, so 310 00:22:45,759 --> 00:22:48,279 you don't have to look for counselors. That they make it easy, you 311 00:22:48,319 --> 00:22:55,839 can just kind of Yeah. So she goes on there and there's no there's 312 00:22:56,039 --> 00:23:00,240 express counseling, but that's to answer only a quick question. She tries to 313 00:23:00,279 --> 00:23:04,279 get an appointment with a regular counselor for like an hour long appointment. There's 314 00:23:04,319 --> 00:23:10,839 no She's like, there's no appointments. So I'm like, well, you 315 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,440 gotta get an appointment. So go into the express counseling and ask them how 316 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,200 do you get an appointment? Or try to ask them the questions that you 317 00:23:18,279 --> 00:23:22,480 need to ask. So she's like okay. So then now she's into it, 318 00:23:22,519 --> 00:23:26,880 and I'm getting text from her like Okay, I'm in the waiting room, 319 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,359 but there's like a thirty minute wait. I was like, do you 320 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:33,559 know how many times I've been I've been on hold of Blue Shield for four 321 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,759 hours over stuff for you, Like you could wait thirty minutes, like join 322 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,759 the club, be an adult. Right, that's that's short. I literally 323 00:23:42,759 --> 00:23:45,839 said, I go, that's not even that. Locking do something else while 324 00:23:45,839 --> 00:23:48,279 you're waiting. Yeah. She's like, well I can on because you have 325 00:23:48,319 --> 00:23:52,079 to like be here in case like they let you into the room. I 326 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:55,799 was like, okay, we'll just go on your phone, right, yeah, 327 00:23:55,839 --> 00:23:57,519 all right. So then she gets into the she gets in the room 328 00:23:57,559 --> 00:24:02,720 and she tells me they're not nice about it. She's like, Hey, 329 00:24:02,759 --> 00:24:04,640 I'm wondering if you can help me like, I'm trying to change my major 330 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,960 and I need to figure out what class and they're like, yeah, that's 331 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:11,559 not something that you can do in the express counseling session. This is for 332 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,519 like answering one question. So she's like okay, but there weren't any appointments 333 00:24:17,079 --> 00:24:21,119 and they're like, yeah, well, why is it to be adapted? 334 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:25,880 So try to you know, you have to just keep checking. So I 335 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,400 look on the website myself and I'm like, at first I'm going to try 336 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,759 to get in there and do it for her. Yeah, but then I 337 00:24:30,839 --> 00:24:34,640 was like, and honestly, I'm just keeping it real. I probably would 338 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,160 have done it for her. I was like, what's your what's your ID 339 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,680 number for the school, what's the you know, what's the information, what's 340 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,359 your password? And she gives it all to me, and then honestly, 341 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,519 it was one of those she had picked, one of those Google passwords that 342 00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:52,960 were super like a million letters and numbers, and I was like, oh, 343 00:24:53,039 --> 00:24:56,839 hell no, Like I haven't had enough coffee. So I was like, 344 00:24:57,039 --> 00:25:00,680 I don't know. Elbie. I said. It says that you should 345 00:25:00,799 --> 00:25:06,400 log on at midnight and like first thing in the morning and look for openings 346 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:11,359 for first sessions. Okay. So she's like okay. So later that night, 347 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,119 like eleven o'clock, I was like, Mitch, you better you best 348 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:15,880 be up at midnight trying to get an appointment with the counselor, right, 349 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,880 because I was now I was like ready to parent. Yeah, right, 350 00:25:19,039 --> 00:25:22,720 you know, which is something we hate doing. Hate it. I don't 351 00:25:22,759 --> 00:25:26,680 like to spoil her evening. But she wasn't a great She was like, 352 00:25:26,759 --> 00:25:30,039 Okay, I'm gonna do it. Yeah. So she like set an alarm 353 00:25:30,039 --> 00:25:33,519 on her phone and then at midnight she went back on. First thing in 354 00:25:33,519 --> 00:25:34,319 the morning, I wake up to a text from her. She's like, 355 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,799 I got I got one. Oh. Actually she texted me after midnight and 356 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,559 was like I got I got one and it's for later today. Great. 357 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:48,279 So like two o'clock that afternoon. Nice, So she went to the she 358 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:52,160 went in with the counselor, was over zoom zoom meeting. Great session with 359 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:56,599 the counselor. She was like high. As she got home, she was 360 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,480 like, uh, yeah, she sleeps at her boyfriend's house. Case you 361 00:26:00,519 --> 00:26:03,640 guys were putting the pieces together. Let's see, that's what she needed to 362 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,400 be nineteen. Yeah, but she needed that, like all she needed was 363 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:11,480 something just somebody fucking throw her a bone, like. So the counselor was 364 00:26:11,839 --> 00:26:15,720 really nice, yeah, and was like, I love that you're doing sociology. 365 00:26:15,759 --> 00:26:18,640 I'll be told her. Here's the thing. I already had a session 366 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:22,440 with a counselor to figure out how to do psychology, but it was like 367 00:26:22,799 --> 00:26:26,200 a lot of classes and I got kind of overwhelmed. And she was like, 368 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,599 oh, this sociology is going to be better. So she still has 369 00:26:29,599 --> 00:26:33,920 to take a lot of classes, even actually one more than she would have 370 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,680 to take for psychology, but the good news is that the classes are like 371 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:42,799 much more fun. With psychology, she was going to have to take two 372 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:48,599 chemistry classes, a chemistry class as a prerequisite for the chemistry class that she 373 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:53,079 has to take, and then another probably three chemistry classes like a high level 374 00:26:53,039 --> 00:26:57,359 of biology class and physics, and she didn't want to take any of those. 375 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,160 So this time she has to take sociology, which sounds kind of fun, 376 00:27:03,319 --> 00:27:07,839 like a couple different sociology classes. Statistics she doesn't have to. So 377 00:27:08,279 --> 00:27:12,559 all of these ap classes that we thought kind of were a waste, but 378 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:18,680 she took almost all of them. Transfer over the credits so that's great. 379 00:27:18,799 --> 00:27:22,880 That's the reason she can do the program in one year because you have to 380 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:27,759 have like thirty credits of like general education, and she has like twenty nine 381 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:33,160 right now. Wow. And then she has to do this thing that's an 382 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:37,279 honors program so that she can apply to UCLA. So the whole way it 383 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:44,400 works is she can It's I explain this before, but I'll just reiterate. 384 00:27:45,039 --> 00:27:48,240 You can get guaranteed admission to a certain school, and so she's going to 385 00:27:48,279 --> 00:27:52,519 pick UCSB. They don't they won't do Berkeley or UCLA, but the other 386 00:27:52,559 --> 00:27:57,359 ones you can guarantee admission as long as you hit these requirements. You have 387 00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:02,240 to keep a certain GPA, and you have to take whatever classes they say 388 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:07,200 are the classes for their major. Right, So like for UCSB sociology, 389 00:28:07,599 --> 00:28:11,000 there's these certain amount of classes that you have to take. Okay, well, 390 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:17,680 a bunch of them are already covered by her AP classes and then now 391 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,640 and so the rest of them she has to take with the intention of going 392 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:26,119 to UCSB. But if she takes them in honors classes, she's a she's 393 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,720 like has a good chance of getting into UCLA. Wow. So she came 394 00:28:30,759 --> 00:28:36,839 home feeling like this is totally doable. I can get this done and I'm 395 00:28:36,839 --> 00:28:38,680 gonna you know, and if I get into UCLA. She was like, 396 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,920 I'll go to UCLA, and if not, I'll still get to go to 397 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:45,000 a school that I really wanted to go to. Wow next year. Wow, 398 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,680 that's great. So she found out the UCSB not on the wait list 399 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,680 thing after she'd already had this meeting. So she's feeling better. Yes, 400 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:59,240 she's not crying every day. She's not. I will not go as far 401 00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:03,480 as to say that she's happy about it. She's not. But over like 402 00:29:03,559 --> 00:29:08,200 the past couple weeks, she's running too a few more people from like different 403 00:29:08,279 --> 00:29:11,680 friend groups. Really a friend of hers who was a really good friend from 404 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:17,839 middle school who's also going to the same community college she's going too. So 405 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,119 that's great. She's feeling like there's a few people she's not feeling as like 406 00:29:21,279 --> 00:29:23,200 devastated, right right, right, you know, she's feeling like, this 407 00:29:23,279 --> 00:29:26,039 is not ideal. I would have liked to have been going to college this 408 00:29:26,119 --> 00:29:30,440 year like everybody else I know. But if I have to do it this 409 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,960 way, I'm glad I figured out that I don't want that major. And 410 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,440 I'm glad I figured out like I'm just you know, I'm just gonna get 411 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,160 it done. Yeah, put my head down right to her and do this 412 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:45,640 thing. Good for her, good for her. And she just I think 413 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,160 she needed somebody just like sit down and guide her, you know, just 414 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,240 to give her a plan. And she just kept saying that the counselor was 415 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,559 really nice. Yeah that's good. She was like a mom. She had 416 00:29:56,599 --> 00:30:00,240 a bunch of kids at her house, and she kept saying like, I'm 417 00:30:00,279 --> 00:30:03,440 sorry, like my kids are being crazy right now. But uh, you 418 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,759 know, Albie was like, you're fine. She was like because during COVID 419 00:30:08,279 --> 00:30:11,519 she had one teacher who didn't teach at all. She didn't do anything. 420 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,839 She just put all the assignments online and she didn't do any video. She 421 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,279 didn't do any zooms with the kids because she was like, sorry, I 422 00:30:18,319 --> 00:30:22,799 have kids, it's ridiculous. I know. Wow. Well I'm so happy 423 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:29,400 for her. Yeah, so happy. Um, all right, what else 424 00:30:29,519 --> 00:30:33,000 is going on? What's going on with your little kidlets? So Sunny's not 425 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:37,200 sleeping, Sunny is uh yes, he's just his he's upside down, like 426 00:30:37,359 --> 00:30:45,640 he's going to bed very yeah number one, yeah, right, he just 427 00:30:45,839 --> 00:30:51,039 goes in his room and he's up all night and he gets up. Sometimes 428 00:30:51,039 --> 00:30:53,319 he gets up at like he's been getting up like four in the morning and 429 00:30:53,359 --> 00:30:57,440 he goes for a walk around the neighborhood at four in the morning. Yeah, 430 00:30:57,599 --> 00:31:02,599 like a picture of the sun coming up the other day for me, 431 00:31:03,359 --> 00:31:06,519 I was like really, and he's like, yeah, I just I want 432 00:31:06,519 --> 00:31:10,279 to get out and move around. So he's going for walks. Is he 433 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,039 hanging out with any friends? Oh yeah, Oh yeah, it's a magic 434 00:31:14,079 --> 00:31:18,680 mountain. Oh he did. Yeah, he's been. And then he's got 435 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,599 a bunch of friends that are still in town. Like nobody's really going anywhere, 436 00:31:22,799 --> 00:31:27,279 and you know, he's just kind of doing his things. He wants 437 00:31:27,319 --> 00:31:32,160 to work, so I don't know, he's looking for something around town. 438 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:38,960 And then Natalia is doing her Spanish classes, which I like call her at 439 00:31:40,039 --> 00:31:42,519 night and I say, okay, So she spent the night in Malibu at 440 00:31:42,519 --> 00:31:47,000 her dad's and I said, okay, so don't so you have everything you 441 00:31:47,039 --> 00:31:49,680 need for your Spanish class. Oh I forgot about my Spanish class. Like 442 00:31:49,839 --> 00:31:55,359 seriously, yeah, Like on Sunday night you have at Monday morning, you're 443 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,440 at your dad's. Did you bring your laptop? Like? Luckily she has 444 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,440 she can do what she had a laptop, but she completely forgets about it. 445 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:07,440 Yeah that's not good. Yeah. And then Sonny's doing his driving lessons 446 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:15,400 around the neighborhood. Okay, he's been doing his are you doing cars direct 447 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:21,319 or whatever? It's this guy that's been he has been training, like teaching 448 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,480 kids in our neighborhood for twenty eight years. Oh wow, okay, yeah, 449 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:29,359 Like hell, pass houses with Sonny and go those kids that live they 450 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:34,200 used to live in that house. They're now adults with children your age practically. 451 00:32:34,599 --> 00:32:37,400 Yeah, he's like from a place. He's certified. Yeah, he's 452 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,559 certified. He's like he's got his ponytail. He's like a total hippie dippie 453 00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:44,039 dude. And Sonny was like, at first he thought he was going to 454 00:32:44,119 --> 00:32:46,799 feel like awkward being in the car alone with the guy, Like what do 455 00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:50,640 we talk about? So Sonny, He's like, I wore my pink Floyd 456 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,880 shirt because I knew because he heard from his other friends that he's really into 457 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:57,880 like seventies rock, So we wore his pink Floyd shirt so that I t 458 00:32:58,119 --> 00:33:00,279 him up. And then he just talks like what do you think of the 459 00:33:00,319 --> 00:33:05,000 Black album? You know? Right, listening like the cream did you like 460 00:33:05,119 --> 00:33:07,200 cream grow? You know? And then the guy just talks, so he's 461 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:13,039 like so there's no awkward silence, but um, but yeah, he's been 462 00:33:13,079 --> 00:33:15,880 doing And then I've been driving with him, like I was telling you in 463 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,920 the other show, which has been fun, and you don't get nervous. 464 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,480 No, No, he's doing good. He's doing really good. He'll hop 465 00:33:22,519 --> 00:33:27,440 on the freeway and then get off the freeway and it's late, it's like 466 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,480 eleven o'clock at night. There's nobody around right in our area. It's like 467 00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:36,440 sleepy, everything's closed. But he's very when they get on the freeway. 468 00:33:36,559 --> 00:33:38,799 Yeah, and they're learning. Yeah. I was so scared for lbb first 469 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:43,920 freeway drive. I was like, oh, this is gonna be just shocking 470 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,880 to her system when you pull onto the freeway and there's just cars coming from 471 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:51,920 everywhere, I know, But she was fine. Yeah, Yeah, he's 472 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,480 he's got the hang of it. And the other thing too, though, 473 00:33:54,599 --> 00:34:00,200 is my Tesla's got that steering wheel that's like, you know, it's it's 474 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:04,599 that like a video game. But but he's got the hang of it, 475 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,519 and he's a very cautious. Sonny is a very cautious driver. Right. 476 00:34:07,679 --> 00:34:15,159 Yeah, so let's take another quick break, talk about and talk about something. 477 00:34:15,559 --> 00:34:21,119 Talk about Loomi Lab micro dose. Everybody, everybody loves Loomi Lab. 478 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,079 I'm telling you, I tried it the other night. I loved it. 479 00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:29,199 And now I took it with me to the condo and it really gave me. 480 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,760 I took half of one at like just to try it, I don't 481 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:37,920 know, in the in the after late afternoon, and like I felt like 482 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:42,760 a calm it really, it really, I loved it. It took a 483 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,519 lot of anxiety away. This is why I've been hearing from people, you 484 00:34:45,559 --> 00:34:50,920 know that don't want to get a full on high, right and that's not 485 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:54,239 what they're looking for. Micro Dosing is getting so huge right now. Oh 486 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,639 yeah, microdocing, THHC. It's been around for a long time, but 487 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,360 I think it's really getting into the mainstream right now because people are realizing the 488 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:07,800 benefits of it, you know, sleep, creativity, helping with anxiety. 489 00:35:08,039 --> 00:35:12,480 People take it after the gym, after the gym. Yeah, there's so 490 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,039 many uses for it. And what's really great about microdose is that you can 491 00:35:17,119 --> 00:35:21,280 take a small dose. You can take like baby steps, you know, 492 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,159 if you don't know how THC is going to hit you and you're not you 493 00:35:24,199 --> 00:35:29,360 don't want to get super high. You can do this. But they also 494 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,920 have this company also has regular THC gummies. You. Yeah, that's the 495 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,360 one that I've been eating every now and then, just just to relax at 496 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,679 home after a long day. It's just it's just good. I like it. 497 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,639 Yeah, just you know, be lazy on the couch and kind of 498 00:35:43,639 --> 00:35:49,039 helps me getting that sleepy mindset and yeah, just watch the Bear or something, 499 00:35:49,119 --> 00:35:52,000 and yeah, myself, Yeah, John loves it. He swears by 500 00:35:52,039 --> 00:35:54,960 it, and he's been taking it from yeah, and he's been trying like 501 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,960 a lot of different things. And he was like, I don't think I 502 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:04,320 would have thought because years ago he had some bad experiences with like THC in 503 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,239 the old days, you know. And he was like, no, I 504 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,199 don't like it. It makes me like anxious, right, But the microdosing 505 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:14,519 has been really working for him. Yes, And it's it's nationwide, which 506 00:36:14,599 --> 00:36:19,199 is great. Micros is an available nationwide. To learn more about microdosing TC, 507 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,800 go to microdose dot com use the code FCOL and you're gonna get thirty 508 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:29,360 percent off your first order and free shipping. Okay, so links can be 509 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:34,519 found in our show description, but again that's microdose dot com and the code 510 00:36:34,639 --> 00:36:37,199 is fcol so give it a choy. I yeah, I love it. 511 00:36:37,519 --> 00:36:43,159 Yeah, speaking of the Bear, I watched it, I too, se 512 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,400 No, I've only I haven't even watched season one yet. Oh so I 513 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:51,360 wouldn't. One night when we were hearing you guys were telling me about it. 514 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,280 I went home that night, I turned it on. I turned it 515 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,800 off with them like ten minutes. I couldn't. It was two that first 516 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,519 episode. It was so hectic, and I was like, I can't be 517 00:37:00,559 --> 00:37:04,480 watching this one. I'm trying to fall asleep, like it was just like 518 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,239 it was very manic. So then I forgot about it. Now everybody's talking 519 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:13,880 about it and watching season two, so now I went back to it. 520 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,840 Now I'm like season I mean, episode like four or five in the first 521 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,679 season, and I love it. It's so good. It is good. 522 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,079 I was gonna say, if you couldn't handle the hectic, then it wouldn't 523 00:37:23,079 --> 00:37:27,800 be a show for you. It's kind of now that I know, Yeah, 524 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,079 I have to be like, yeah, it's a whole mood. Yeah 525 00:37:30,119 --> 00:37:35,079 it is. It is. It's a vibe it's a vibe. Yeah. 526 00:37:35,119 --> 00:37:37,599 And do you see what I mean about Jeremy what's his name, Jeremy? 527 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,079 Oh is it the singer, I mean, the main guy, Yeah, 528 00:37:42,199 --> 00:37:45,599 Jeremy Alan White. Oh yeah, he's cute, Jeremy Allen White hot. 529 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:50,039 Yeah. He kind of religned to me of like a Sean Penn. That's 530 00:37:50,039 --> 00:37:52,119 what Amy said. Yeah, well, he reminds me a little bit of 531 00:37:52,119 --> 00:37:58,480 an ex boyfriend that I had and who I thought was really cute. Just 532 00:37:58,519 --> 00:38:02,159 those big eyes and that hair. Yeah, I love that crazy kind of 533 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:06,920 hair. And then it's like he just has like little kind of his mouth 534 00:38:07,039 --> 00:38:09,159 is kind of little, but like so which makes his eyes look even bigger. 535 00:38:09,119 --> 00:38:12,199 I don't know, it's like a whole I love the look. And 536 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,079 you cannot be hungry watching that show, because then you're gonna then you're gonna 537 00:38:15,119 --> 00:38:19,920 want to eat. I wish I could get like a Chicago beef sandwich right 538 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,519 now, Like, how great does that sound? Where can we get that? 539 00:38:22,599 --> 00:38:25,599 Can't I get that anywhere? I have like the best Italian deli down 540 00:38:25,599 --> 00:38:30,119 the street from my house, and they do the best Chicago. I'd never 541 00:38:30,119 --> 00:38:31,199 even had one, But then I watched the band. I was like Okay, 542 00:38:31,199 --> 00:38:34,880 we're time to give this a try. And I just, oh my 543 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,440 god, it's so bad for you, and I just like, I can't 544 00:38:37,519 --> 00:38:39,320 move for an hour after I eat it. But man, if it isn't 545 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,880 just the best, so good, so good. So when I go to 546 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,000 Chicago, that's what they get me, the Chicago beef sandwiches. They're so 547 00:38:47,079 --> 00:38:53,000 good. My nephew had a baby. Oh wow, Nicholas his first baby. 548 00:38:53,199 --> 00:39:00,000 Oh yeah, my dad is getting top billing and all these kids. 549 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:05,440 Now, he would be so happy if he was still alive. But like, 550 00:39:06,039 --> 00:39:10,199 so, Sonny's middle name is Richard. My dad Anthony, my nephew, 551 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:17,800 had his first daughter named her Riley Ritchie Paradise. Oh that'ute so cute. 552 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:24,280 Riley Ritchie Paradise. Then oh, Nicholas and Anthony have Richard in their 553 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:30,320 middle name. Both of them got them that Anthony got Richard Annoir, which 554 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:37,719 is at Wendy's dad and my dad his initials are Aarp, Anthony an Richard 555 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:44,760 Paradise. But yeah, so they both got Richard. Then this over the 556 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:51,360 weekend, Nick had a baby. His name is Enzo Richard Paradise. My 557 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,400 dad. I mean, why does my dad get how do you get so 558 00:39:53,480 --> 00:40:00,639 lucky, and then Tally's pissed because she doesn't have any family member middle name, 559 00:40:00,679 --> 00:40:02,159 which I should have thought about it better, but I didn't. I 560 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:07,039 didn't think about it. What's her middle name? Uh Ava, I don't 561 00:40:07,039 --> 00:40:10,639 know where he came from. I was so tired trying to come up with 562 00:40:10,679 --> 00:40:14,800 four names. Yeah, it was a lot. So it was just like, 563 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:20,760 I don't know what Sundy's again. I know it's Richard, I know, 564 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,800 I know, so um yeah, but it was so Wendy. There's 565 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:30,840 this whole thing going on because uh, Andrea, Nick's wife. It's their 566 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:37,599 only child. Okay, so the grandparents, Wendy's friends with Rose and Andy, 567 00:40:37,639 --> 00:40:42,360 they're they're great. But now Wendy's like, you know, she's she's 568 00:40:42,519 --> 00:40:46,440 very good with infants, very it's like her jam and Nick is all about 569 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,599 it, like mom, please come over. So Wendy's like love, but 570 00:40:50,679 --> 00:40:52,719 it's a little now she's feeling a little like, um, you know, 571 00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:58,000 because she doesn't want to step on the in law's toes, and there's a 572 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,679 little like she can like maybe sometimes she's there too much that she wants to 573 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:04,719 leave, so if they show up, she leaves. But then Nicks like, 574 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,519 come back, you know, we need you know, because she's been 575 00:41:06,559 --> 00:41:12,079 spending the night and now helping them. Can you imagine having parents fighting over 576 00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,719 your your kids wanting to spend time with your kids? Right? What a 577 00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,280 what a world? I know? What a world? I know, having 578 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,320 one set of parents have to make themselves scarce the other one other parents have 579 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,440 some room to come in and help you. I know, isn't that what? 580 00:41:27,119 --> 00:41:30,000 Yeah? What must that be like? What must that be like? 581 00:41:30,119 --> 00:41:32,440 Have people that want to come over and help you with your children? I 582 00:41:32,519 --> 00:41:37,039 know. I I told him, not like that's the biggest burden in the 583 00:41:37,039 --> 00:41:38,840 world that they've ever heard of. I know. I said, you don't 584 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,719 know how lucky you are, and he goes, oh, yeah, I 585 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,039 know, I do. Like, but um yeah, it's I was gonna 586 00:41:46,079 --> 00:41:50,880 go over the weekend, but a long time ago, but I didn't, 587 00:41:51,159 --> 00:41:53,639 Um remember I was, I took, I was gonna go and we were 588 00:41:53,639 --> 00:41:59,000 gonna record from there. But right, things changed. So but yeah, 589 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:07,639 new addition into the Paradise family. Oh congratulations, little end Zoe Kaylin's parent 590 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,159 in laws his in laws because you don't have to say parent in laws, 591 00:42:10,199 --> 00:42:15,599 you just say his in laws laws. Um, they're they're very involved, 592 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:20,679 lives with their house. Yeah, yeah, you're lucky. That's so nice. 593 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,559 Yeah, do they call do they call her your your what do they 594 00:42:24,559 --> 00:42:30,760 call her grandma? Nana? Nana? It's cute. Yeah. And then 595 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:37,639 he's paw ah, Yeah, that's funny. And then my brother who I 596 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,920 don't speak to and his Wait, which one don't you speak to? My 597 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:46,159 oldest brother, Deane, I haven't spoken to. Oh, and his ever 598 00:42:46,199 --> 00:42:52,320 since Yeah, okay, his bach wife who I really never liked ever. 599 00:42:53,199 --> 00:42:59,519 Um went to Chicago to visit them, and Wendy and Dean, you know, 600 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:04,119 like they haven't spoken in a while. It was kind of awkward, 601 00:43:04,199 --> 00:43:08,599 but they came together because of Enzo, and so Wendy was trying to like 602 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:14,559 trying to have a special moment with my brother, which is her ex husband, 603 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,639 right, But then the wife would not shut the fuck up about oh, 604 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,920 my daughter this and my daughter that. No, no, no, 605 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,800 no, no no, it's like it's not about you kind of thing. 606 00:43:23,199 --> 00:43:30,599 But Riley, Wendy's granddaughter, Anthony's daughter called her nana Sherry, and Wendy 607 00:43:30,639 --> 00:43:35,960 fucking lost her shit. Wendy's like, she fucking called her nana Sherry, 608 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,400 I'm her nana. I am her nana, Wendy like, I'm her nana. 609 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:43,599 There's only one nana in this family you call you call her like grandma 610 00:43:44,079 --> 00:43:46,760 because that's what she is, a wrinkledo a grandma. But it was just 611 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:50,639 like all this drama over the weekend, which was like, you know, 612 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:57,480 people visiting and stuff. So Dave doesn't live my other brother Dad does schizophrenia. 613 00:43:57,679 --> 00:44:00,679 Yes he doesn't. He moved to somewhere. Oh right, it's in 614 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,559 Victorville, right, Okay, have we heard from him at all? Oh? 615 00:44:04,639 --> 00:44:06,960 Yeah, I talked to him. Okay, yeah, yeah. I 616 00:44:07,079 --> 00:44:12,000 get him his Insta cart every couple weeks ever since COVID. But now it's 617 00:44:12,039 --> 00:44:15,239 like he's stuck with that. Like during COVID, I was like, no, 618 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,440 you can't go out. I'll get you the groceries, and now it's 619 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:21,599 like, hey, can you give me some more Insta cart? Is fine? 620 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,840 Yeah, he's doing fine, but he lives closer to my other brother, 621 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:30,760 Dean, And he used to live at Dean's house right in the back, 622 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:34,679 right, right right, So he doesn't anymore now they moved moved right, 623 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,360 and then Dean moved him to Victorville. Put him. But now he's 624 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,320 so far away, I haven't seen him, right, I mean I could 625 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:45,679 go visit him, but yeah, talk to him on the phone. I 626 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:50,000 stay in touch with him. Yeah, Victorville's a long way. It's very 627 00:44:50,079 --> 00:44:53,800 far, very far just to go and like you wouldn't like sleep over there? 628 00:44:54,079 --> 00:44:58,400 No, so I would have to go get like a hotel in Victorville. 629 00:44:58,519 --> 00:45:00,840 No, no hotel? No, I think what take him to lunch? 630 00:45:01,079 --> 00:45:05,199 Is he up for that? He doesn't want a lot of company. 631 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,800 Yeah, no, No, he's kind of a loner. Yeah, so 632 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,480 he's fine. I'm cool. That's fine with me, right, you know. 633 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,480 Yeah, But I do talk. I do. I keep in touch 634 00:45:14,519 --> 00:45:17,159 with them. We talk. Yeah, he says praise the Lord all the 635 00:45:17,199 --> 00:45:22,199 time. Oh, and he watches the Christian Network because that's what he was 636 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,719 watched with my mom when my mom because he lived with my mom when my 637 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:31,840 mom was still alive. Until all she'd watches TBN, the Trinity Broadcast Network. 638 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:36,360 So then he started watches And now he's like, you know, Lenette, 639 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,599 you should turn it on. I'm like, I don't even know what 640 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:43,559 channel it's on. Is it's still even on? You know? But and 641 00:45:43,679 --> 00:45:46,119 he does math and he does math, a ton of math, Like he 642 00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:51,400 goes on YouTube and watches I don't know, like all kinds of physics and 643 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:55,880 math equations and he says it calms his voices down so he doesn't hear auditory 644 00:45:55,920 --> 00:46:01,280 hallucinations when he's doing math. When he's like why watching math equations that he 645 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:07,960 does on YouTube? Thank god for computers, right, yeah, yeah, 646 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:13,920 I mean otherwise he'd be lost. Yeah, all right, well this is 647 00:46:14,079 --> 00:46:16,920 this is like I mean, I don't want to say it ended on a 648 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:21,480 down note because it didn't. We started with the sex of a scandal. 649 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,440 Yeah, how to make sure did Yeah? Sure did? Okay, Well, 650 00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:28,920 before we go, there's another shout out for um Adam, my friend 651 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,280 Adam Lerner, who can get you a car. Adam's got a car dot 652 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:37,360 com. He's gonna he's right now looking for Elbie, so stay tuned what 653 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,360 he finds. Um he can get used really good with leases. Let him 654 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,519 shop your car and he can also sell your car, so he can do 655 00:46:44,639 --> 00:46:47,039 both even if it's a lease too. Right, Yes, take your car. 656 00:46:47,199 --> 00:46:52,079 He will take your car. And if whatever he'll he'll turn around. 657 00:46:52,079 --> 00:46:53,599 He'll get you money for it, and he'll get you the best deal, 658 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:57,679 better than a deal than you can get yourself. Yeah. So and he'll 659 00:46:57,679 --> 00:47:00,960 give you options, like he'll you tell him what you want and he'll be 660 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:04,000 like, okay, well here's places that are doing deals. Here, I 661 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,599 can get you this kind of car. Go drive this car, see if 662 00:47:06,599 --> 00:47:08,400 you like it. And then he'll just get you the very best rate, 663 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:13,320 better than you could get yourself. Now it's everybody's doing it. Yeah. 664 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,519 And I happen to know him personally, so why not use him? His 665 00:47:15,599 --> 00:47:21,320 phone numbers three one zero nine nine eight seven zero four eight Adam's got acar 666 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,559 dot com. Also, our friend Maren has a small bakery and gift shop 667 00:47:24,599 --> 00:47:30,239 with her husband called Sugar Skull. Pretty cool there. It's on Kauai in 668 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:36,000 Hawaii, so if you're vacationing there, go check them out or like and 669 00:47:36,079 --> 00:47:40,559 follow their Instagram page at sugar Skull eight oh eight and you'll get fifteen percent 670 00:47:40,599 --> 00:47:45,719 off if you use the code FCO. Well. Also basic Becky love her 671 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:52,639 yep, she's replacing my mug my quad Squad. John broke the handle off 672 00:47:52,679 --> 00:47:55,079 when he tried to take it out of the faction. I know, right, 673 00:47:55,639 --> 00:48:00,480 but I absolutely love her stuff and she got you the she sent you 674 00:48:00,519 --> 00:48:02,800 the mug with this This guy's this stuff. This guy's looking this way. 675 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:07,079 This guy's looking this way. He's like, what do you love that? 676 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:12,679 She does mouse pads? Remember I got the Scott Bayo blocked you. Yes 677 00:48:13,039 --> 00:48:17,239 on a Twitter I've had that put on a mouse pad. Love it and 678 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,480 whatever. You want to get what you want on a mug, on a 679 00:48:20,519 --> 00:48:23,480 T shirt, on a mouse pad, on a blanket, whatever, go 680 00:48:23,599 --> 00:48:29,199 to her website just basic Becky or find her on Facebook Basic Becky. All 681 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,800 right, yeah, thanks Kaitlin, Thank you everybody. Love you guys do 682 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:42,320 love you your parent now