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What's up, beautiful people. It
is your baby Mama, favorite baby Mama,

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Stormy P. And this is another
episode of Chocolate Chip and Sip the

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modern Day Female Perspective, Damn Son. Back at it again and back at

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it again. We're playing with half
the home team today. We got cav

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the Kid on audio and visual this
week, trying to keep this together.

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My baby just be doing his best
and I love that for him. Okay,

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listen, man, before we get
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I can't wait to see y'all.
It's gonna be literally literally and you're

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gonna have a special guest there,
and I'm gonna have a special guest there.

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Now we're not telling him who it
is, but when you get when

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you see him, you were like, oh shit, like it's not me.

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By the way, I'm not.
I'm just going I'm gonna tell y'all

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who it's. Wayne Brady, y'all. It's Wayne Brady. Brady, y'all.

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First of all, he's very underrated. First of all, Wayne Brady.

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First of all, can we talk
about real quick ray. Wayne Brady

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is one of the best improv comedians
period. Not only that he's so freaking

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talented. He can sing, he
can dance, he can act, he

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can improve. This man is like
everything short of God, Like he is

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a man I'm talking about, like
an entertainment god. Can I do that?

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I would say Jamie Fox is more
of the entertainment because like, let's

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let's look at Jamie Fox in this
sense, right, Okay, Okay,

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because man, he did he did
everything at an elite level. He had

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an elite TV show, he has
an elite movie, he has an elite

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album like this, like Wayne Brady's
Brady's great, but like to be a

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god, you gotta be elite.
Okay. Now here's the thing, right,

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I don't think that Jamie Fox is
more talented than Wayne Brady. I

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think he's just more tapped in with
the culture. So we okay, but

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I think they're both talented, and
I love the both of them. But

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I like, I like Jamie Fox's
voice over Wayne Brad. I'm like,

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well, I think both of them
are underrated. Like I don't think even

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one of them gets the credit that
I agree with that. I agree with

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that. Um let's start over from
the beginning today. My guests on the

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show today, my guest on the
show, Okay, comedian podcast, not

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just any podcaster, a revolt syndicated
podcasterated, that's crazy. We got the

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Coach of Spades, Okay, we
got the coach of the fucking Huccie Daddy

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Shorts. Okay, we're bringing that
back to we are running without further ado.

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My man Clint Cole is Okay,
what's up with the claps? I'm

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lacking. He's doing audio in visual
by hisself. He's trying. No I

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respect him, So we're gonna find
him in this sad Come on, when

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we're time, when when we do
when we do it, you got it,

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when you find the classes do it. In the middle of me talking

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a great point. Collies in the
building, y'all. All right, what's

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up? Um? What's up?
Man? I'm not gonna lie. So

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you have uh well, most people
started your journey with you with the advice

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from a boy podcast, but now
you have music is the love language,

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right, which is on revolt again? So revolt yeah? Um, So

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I want to I want to have
this conversation with you. And it's not

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even where I wanted to start today, but I feel like there is something

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that has been plaguing the black community
for a very long time and it really

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doesn't sit well with my soul.
Okay, Jagget Edge Let's Get Married is

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not a good love song. I'll
give you one better. Jagged Edge is

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probably the most overrated R and B
group of all time. Oh, I

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can hold on one thing out of
time, one thing, one thing at

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Jagged Edge is. The reason I
say that is because these niggas straight got

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on al Gore's Internet and told us
we ain't getting no younger, we might

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as well do it. That's a
trash reason to get married, awful reason

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to get married. Well, and
we be playing it at waiting because the

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song because Jamaine Dupree did a great
job with the song. See, first

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of all, like it's a beautiful
it's a beautiful it's a beautiful melody.

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You're not You're not really, let's
be real. The melody is beautiful,

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right, The actual lyrics is ass
right so as, but the hook is

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beautiful. You know what, anytime
a man hits me. But see,

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first of all, I feel like
something sassiest behind. It's real sassy,

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and we just be eating this ship. No, not anymore. When's the

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last time you actually heard that?
Bro? Let's get married? One and

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two? It's played at every cookout, every wedding, and every funeral.

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For some reason, I have no
idea funeral. It's one of those focal

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songs you just gott played. You
got played at the baby showers, you

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gott play at the funeral, You
gotta play it at every black gathering on

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us. Okay, I'm going to
a funeral next week. I don't think

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we're gonna be playing Let's get well, you know what, I think.

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We don't know what's gonna pop up
at the repass. Who's on the ones

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and two? Actually? Well then
no, they probably me actually probably not

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gonna hear it there? No,
probably not that's funny. No, but

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I agree. I think it is
a trash song. I'm not a trash,

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but it is trash. Lyrics lyrically, lyrically is trash sonically beautiful beautiful?

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Yeah, um, but you got
to think about a lot of them

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joints was like that back in the
day. Right, Like the lyrics is

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so wild, right like if you
ever listened to a piece of My Love

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by guy, right, like in
the song is about being the site chick.

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Really listen, I never even put
that together. Let's take the lyrics.

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Baby, you can't you can't have
all of me because I'm not totally

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free. I can't tell you everything
that's going on. And then then in

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the in like the I think the
first line, like I think the ad

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lib. He calls her a dumbass
bitch. No he doesn't, I sort

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of got Aaron Hall calls her a
dumbass bitch. Aaron Hall, Yes,

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No he didn't. I'm gonna have
to go back and back and play it.

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He calls it, he calls it, calls her dumb bitch, like

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dumb bitch, like, I mean, all right, man, And he

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says, you can't have all of
you? Can you can have a piece

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of mine. You can have a
piece of it. I didn't even put

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that together. Give a piece of
piece like the piece but the sonic but

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sonically girl's beautiful. You know what
else is dumb that black people fell for

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sonically? What's that? Maxwell?
Pretty wrings? This is a breakup and

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people with oh my god, everybody
had it on it MySpace page. Okay,

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this is the most beautiful thing.
Everybody playing it at all the weddings.

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This is a breakup song. It's
beautiful though, so beautiful. It's

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beautiful, but it's about breaking up, break it up, breaking up.

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Sorry you had that. You seem
like you had that on your chest for

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me. I did. I did, And I feel like if I was

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gonna talk to somebody about it,
you would be the one to understand.

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I'll say this, right, Like, lyrics um aren't like they matter,

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right, But let's be real,
right for the most part, y'all,

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it's not the lyrics. It is
the beat. It is the melody,

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it is what theyre it's it's you
know what I'm saying, Like when you

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really look back at like like a
lot of these sorts like saving all my

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love for you, she's a side
chick. You know what I'm saying,

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Like it's it's a sweet thing,
yo, sweet thing, it's a side

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chick, you know what I mean. Like there's a lot like first of

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all women in the seventies and eighties. Man, god, y'all would say

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it was saying black women were taking
elves back then, they was taking you

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know why why I'm not gonna say, you know why? It was okay

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because it sounded good. It sounded
good. And also, don't forget,

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a lot of men were writing new
songs, So I don't know who wrote

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Saving All my Life. I don't
think it was a woman though, And

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I don't know what I mean,
Like I got to do my research,

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but like, don't forget, like
you know, men is writing this ship.

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Yeah, so it's like you know, like think about like think about

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Mary J. Blige. I'm not
gonna cry, right please. Baby Face

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wrote the song you know What's crazy? Baby Face? You know he just

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released that album like last year with
all the young girls want it. I

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would say young girls like, but
you know what I mean, new girls,

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right, And someone asked him like
what was the biggest difference in working

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with them? And like all the
greats that he used to whatever he said.

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You know, they all wrote their
stuff and they just aren't in love

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right right right right right, yea, just not like they don't want to

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sing about love. It's like independence
about like doing my own thing. It's

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about I can't be out here in
the streets too. And he's like,

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I'm not used to that. I
didn't know what to do with the right

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exactly exactly and and and I really
believe like that's really what changed R and

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B right, Like it's really like
women woke the fuck up, I would

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say, somewhere around two thousand and
five ish, like women started realizing like,

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nahd fuck these niggas, y'all.
Nah yeah, like I think,

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I think, I think. I
don't want to say Keisha Cole kicked it

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off, but it was like that
was the first Keishako was the first time

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I remember hearing like damn, like
she really tired of us, you know,

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Like I didn't feel like Mary was
tired of us. I felt like

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was enduring, yeah, enduring eleven
years of sacrifice, like you and you're

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still gonna do it, Like you're
still gonna do it, right, But

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Keisha was like, no, nigga
I'm dying. I should have cheated you

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know well, you know what else? I feel like it was another turning

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point for me. Jasmin Sullivan,
i' bust the windows there it is,

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I'm bust the windows on his car, Like oh wow, yeah we could

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be upset too, like yeah we're
out here facts and real quick too.

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I just want to give JAZZM.
Sullivan her flowers. Uh, pound for

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pound. There is nobody out right
now that could outsing that woman she pound

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for pound right right now in twoy
twenty three, there is nobody that can

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outsing jasmins Nobody, nobody pound for
pound right this moment today. If you

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say, yo, we're just talking
voices, We're not talking you know the

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hits and blah blah, We're just
talking straight up. Like you get on

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stage, you sing, and this
person get on the stage and they sing,

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You're not out singing, Jasmine can
I can I put in a a

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idea, I like Jones I love
has a voice too. Yeah, but

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she ain't not singing, jasm Celliva. She's not doing like you know what

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it is. And here's what I
realized that when other sings. When I

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heard other singers right like I heard
Jill Scott say like, nah, like

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that bitch got it. Yeah,
she ain't say that, but like,

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you know what I'm saying like that, Like for you when you're peer like

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like, okay, it's kind of
like rap, right, Like most peers

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of Black Thoughts will say like,
yo, like I want to rap like

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that, right, you know what
I'm saying that you can give me the

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hits and blah blah blah blah blah. But we talk about just pound from

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pound rapping like nobody said like a
lot of people say, like, yo,

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Black Thought is that guy? So
I think they feel the same way.

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The industry people feel the same way. But jas and she's affili native,

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So let's do it. Yes,
um okay, so let's get to

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all of the notes that actually yeah
bad. We we get on attention,

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Kevin, open that window. I'm
hot. But we talked like this like

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on the right, like like when
we and I think that's the problem.

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Yeah, we talked like this like
this is this is a regular conversation for

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us, man, Like we'll be
on the phone and we'll be talking about

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like like works or stiff, you
know stuff workshit and stuff like that,

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And I don't know, I'll say
something. The next thing, you know,

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we're having a whole conversation. That's
how we got on that sulk,

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the chakra and mago shit right,
yes, yes, yes, Um.

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Anyway, okay, listen to so
um news. Okay, very important news.

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Talk to me. Um. Not
surprising to me, probably not surprising

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to you. Um. Philadelphia's kids
were ranked, uh, the rudest kids

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in the nation. I'm not that's
definitely not surprising. Philadelphia's kids were ranked

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the rudest kids in the nation.
So a new report from solitaire dot Com

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ranked the nation's rudest kids by city, and Philadelphia came in at number one

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for rude children. Beautiful. I'm
proud of that. What I'm proud of

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that? Okay, out of here, dickhead, Yo, that's oh my

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god. So basically the website stage, you know, we ex respondence to

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rate the rudeness of their kids in
their city on a scale of one to

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ten, with ten being the rudest, and Philadelphia had a score of seven

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point two one beautiful, and the
average score in the nation was five point

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nine. Incredible. You know what, and you know what's crazy, y'all

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just just did this survey but this
has been going on for years, like

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I was a rude kid. I
was about to say that because when I

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think about when I was a kid, when we would get off the bus

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and the driver wouldn't open the back
doorhead, we wouldn't say like, excuse

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me, pardon me, sir,
you forgot the no, we're saying it

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just like him backdoor dickhead. Yes, yes, And then it's like I

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remember like catching the bus home from
school and if it was snow, Uh,

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that's you, big dog. That's
not me. That is you.

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That's not me. That's you,
Kevin. That's not me. Yes,

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it is yo. That's not me, Kevin. You shure, that's not

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This's definitely not me. I don't
confused condoms on your front door. I

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like this song, but that's not
me. This is not me. My

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conscience, what this stuff? That's
wild? I don't know, but that's

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definitely not me. But I'm here
right now. It's not me. I

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don't Oh, that's definitely your Wow, that was me, hilarious. I

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didn't even touch it. That's hilarious, I know, but it was you.

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I don't know how that started playing. I didn't even touch it.

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Maybe they I don't know. That's
I don't know it. They don't want

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a voodoo going on in here.
That's funny, but yeah, black,

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Like I donna catch the bus home
from school and it was snow. The

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bus shover will open the door and
they just will pummeling this nigga. The

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snowball I did. I was that
kid. What the fuck is wrong with

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you? I tell you something I
did that I'm really not proud of.

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Please please, this is the this
is the space to tell it. Man.

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When I was like fifteen years old, my friends dared me to throw

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a condom at a bus driver,
but I went a step further. I

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peed in the condom, tried it
up like it was a balloon, and

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threw that shit at him. Why
because I was I wanted to be cool,

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and I ran off the bus.
And I don't think I ever caught

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the bus after that, like or
tried to catch that bus after that.

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That was it. I felt bad
Like that man probably went home like and

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I don't know what that did to
his mental health. Like, imagine a

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kid throwing a fucking a condom at
you, A fifteen year old kid.

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I did it. I'm not proud
of that. Please don't make this a

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clip like. Let people listen to
the podcast. I have some follow up

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questions. I have one or two
follow up if you just that bus driver,

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please, I'm sorry, bro.
Did you pee in the condom on

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the bus or like you did it
at school? Was on the bus when

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I did it, I was in
the back of the bus. You just

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peed on the back of the bus. There's so many crimes being committed.

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Yeah, I was wild as fuck
when I was you know what, I

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was one of those kids that would
do anything to be cool. And I

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think that's really where where the where
the problem lied, right Like it wasn't

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It wasn't me trying to It was
really me. I tried like my friends

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was. They dared me, and
it was like I thought this was the

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way I could get accepted. You
know, I hope this bus driver is

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one of the many men who lost
stuff from me on social media and he's

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followed me and watching or listening the
fuck up now I'm saying, I mean,

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I'm apologiz know what the first of
all, you just sent you sorry

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because you're saying I hope, I
hope he follows you. Now if he

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says some shit and if all he
should say is either I accept your apology.

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You was fifteen, or he could
custom me out a little bit and

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didn't say, all right, yo, it's cool. But if he come

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at me and he's like, yo, you that nigga, I want to

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see you, I'm like, all
right, well I could be seen.

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Or another option, what if he
says all is forgiven, but you gotta

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let me throw a pea condom back
at you. That's not happening. Okay,

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you think he wanted a pea condom
thrown at him. I was fifteen,

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okay, and now he's fifty two. Well, I'm sorry. Okay.

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Maybe he got a little bit of
dementia. I hope he does.

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Well. Then you have to let
him do it. It's only right.

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It's not eye for an eye.
I don't I don't know if he what

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if he don't drink water? At
least that's joy is the color of monster.

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It's the color of monster, and
it smells like Gasalina, okay,

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and nigga. Probably what if he
he probably don't drink water. Yeah,

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so I'm good if he drinks water, maybe, Okay, I'm not.

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I love when I have men on
especially men like you, because this is

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what I'm on the pot. Oh
when you say men like meat or what

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does that? What does that mean? Meaning you have a good conversation?

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Oh? Okay, what the fuck
is he? He's so paranoid from the

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peacondom but he don't even know where
we're going, right? Men like me

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like like I got men like you
who held hold hold up very highly of

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myself. This is where I like
to get all my man questions out.

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Okay, please, because I have
my own theories. Yes, and I'll

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be putting shit together on my own. But hold on my bad yes,

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before we even get into your man, I'm sorry. Okay your comments and

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when I make a comment in your
comments, yo, we'll be Yo.

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I'm gonna tell y'all something, fellas. Don't argue with me and Storey's fucking

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comments be you you hit me all
right, it's not that serious. Man

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gonna ask me, as a heterosexual
man, how do you know about fuck

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boys? And I told him I'm
like, yo, bro, because I

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was maybe I was that guy.
But how many questions you got for me?

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Brian gumble Dick? Yo, I
don't know what y'all beefends with Clint,

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but every time I post something,
he comments, y'all be at his

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neck trying to why do you specifically
go after Clint? I got a blue

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check? And even though now you
can buy one, I think niggas know

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I didn't buy mine, Like you
know, I got an og blue check.

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They'd be sassy with you, maybe
sassies maybe so sassy you man,

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I don't get it, and I
hey, man, look, I'm I'm

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in Philly right now. Okay,
you know what me ahead I'm saying.

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So let me know if this math
is man, Okay, if a woman

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has one kid, okay, she
has one kid, yes, if she

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has two kids by one man,
does that still count as one kid?

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Because in my mind, that's like
kind of like she got one kid.

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Nigga, No, are you sure? Absolutely? I used to Joe there

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was this girl I ain't gonna say
her name, right, but there was

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a girl that I really liked that
lives in Phoenix, right and like we

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had it was like, I'll never
get excuse me, I'm doing a show

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with DL. It's like twenty fourteen, twenty thirteen, doing a show with

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DL. Whatever, right, um
if my ex if you listening, yeah,

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I was cheated, so what what
why me and my ex wasn't having

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sex man story at a time,
all right, but no, So anyway,

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I met this chicken Phoenix. She
was cool, she was really nice.

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Everything we had like it wasn't a
one night stay, but it was

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like a same night type deal,
right, Like I met her like it

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was a Friday night. After the
first show, she was talking after the

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first show. Then she was like, yo, I can can I hang

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around for the second show? Yeah? Sure, she hung around for the

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second show. After the second show
was done, I went to Poundtown.

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We went, we went. We
went to the Courtyard Marriott, then to

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Poundtown. No, no, no, no, we went to the Courtyard

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Marriott in Phoenix and we had sexual
intercourse. They went to Poundtown, right,

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So I hate that shit so much. But anyway, we went to

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Poundtown. Okay. So I remember
though, the very next morning we wake

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we wake up and we're talking and
shit, and she's like, yeah,

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I gotta get ready, go,
I gotta get my kids. So I

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was like, oh, how many
kids you got? And mind you it

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is from the same guy, ex
husband or whatever, but she had three

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kids. The math is not Mathew, Okay, she has three fucking kids.

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Now, I think this is not
going to work. Three kids is

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three kids. Two kids is two
kids. But I think two kids were

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one man, because it's two fucking
kids. That's two miles to v that's

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two happy meals. That's too fucking
happy, right, that's two happy meals.

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Yeah, that's two happy meals,
and I can get expensive. Yeah,

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man, Like, come on,
y'all, So when y'all talk about

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like women with kids, right,
yeah, it's not the amount of baby

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daddies, it's the quantity. It's
literally the quantity of how many Okay,

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okay, because in my mind I
always thought like, oh maybe I just

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don't want to like deal with more
than one man. No, no,

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no, I don't want to deal
with more than one kid. Okay,

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No, It's just it's a lot, right when you go if you're if

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you're a man and you don't have
any kids, right, you know,

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and then you end up in a
relationship where the woman has a kid or

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two kids or anything like that,
which again I don't have a problem with

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that, right, but let's let's
go a step further. You know,

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two kids is a deal breaker on
my end, right, even if she

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got one baby dad. Yes,
but it's just going from zero to two

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is is? That's that's hard being
That's that's all I'm saying. It's hard.

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That's not something that i'm I'm I'm
ready for, right, Like you

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gotta mentally prepare yourself for two kids. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Regardless of she got one baby dad
too bad, it doesn't matter.

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It's still two kids. Yeah,
right, I don't because here's the thing.

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I'm not dealing with the baby father, right. And when I say

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I'm not dealing with him, right, I deal with him on an on

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an as needed basis. At the
end of the day, he's still the

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father, right. I'm here just
because it didn't work out between you and

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you and the mom. Right.
So at the end of the day,

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like when we need to talk,
we can talk, and when we need

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to sit down, we can sit
down. We need to be mature and

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we need to be adults. And
it's about the kid. They're cool,

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But in the dating process, at
the end of the day, I don't

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need to talk to that guy.
I talk to that guy. I don't.

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Kevin can do me a favor,
Can you move Clint's camera because he's

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kind of behind it. Oh,
never mind, Clint just moved. I'm

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moving on. I'm sorry. No, it's fine, Okay, that's great.

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Um, stay there, Nigga stopped
moving around. My apologies. Um

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okay, I love your podcast.
Thank you. I swear to god,

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I'm a fan. I am a
fan of No no, no, no,

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I'm talking about you. Okay,
my bad, Sorry, okay,

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So my next question, Okay,
did you like that answer? Boy?

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Way? Did you do you agree
with that? How do you feel?

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I'm not gonna lie. I think
if you got two kids, I want

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maybe that's the same. But but
I am I am aware enough to acknowledge

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that it will be different for men
about to say does that vote? Does

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that go the same thing for if
I as a man, if I had

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one baby mom and two kids,
I got one kid. The crazy thing

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is you still got one kid,
right, But if you got three kids,

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you just got three kids and that's
too much. So you skipped too

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So one or three? One?
Three? Okay, So you just don't

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like the number two? No,
I just it's a lot, Okay,

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I'm not three A lot. Three
happy meals is a lot. Three happy

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meals is like one and a half
adult meals. I agree with that.

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I agree with that, but two
to me is still a lot too Like

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think about an Uber eats order,
right, well, you got a order

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for four people with my niggas.
That's crazy, that's that's that's nasty work.

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This phrase. He uses it entirely
too much, and I hate it.

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I love nasty word. I'm sorry, any hill. Okay, so

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my next question, but right it's
chivalry required in the mist of a disagreement.

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Yes, So I was talking to
this guy and we was going back

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and forth a little bit and he
did not want to open my door.

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After said back and forth, Oh
no, that's corny, and then I

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didn't say anything in a moment,
but you know, we start talking again.

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I'm like, y'all, like,
corny, what's up? Like,

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you know, you didn't want to
open my door and you didn't open my

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car door. And I'm I'm someone
who requires like whether we're on good terms

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or not, I still require my
doors to be open. I'm still a

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woman, exactly. And I was
like, you know, don't introduce me

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to a vibe you can't maintain.
And he looked me dead in my face

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and said I wasn't really feeling the
vibe. Man, that's why you got

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you can't be mad at that's honest. But here's the thing, here's the

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thing. He is wrong, but
I respect him saying I wasn't feeling the

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vibe. I can respect that.
So this this is why I ax is

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chivalry required? And then of a
disagreement because yes, yes, yes I'm

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confused. Because yes, if we
still was beefing and you told me like,

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oh, you know my allegies act, can you give me some some

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some vineguyl or something, I still
go get that for you. Or if

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you tell me like yo, like
you know I'm real tight, can you

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stretched me? I would do that
for you even though we're beefing. So

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you're telling me you're not like nigga. Well, so if I'm mad at

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if I'm mad at my lady,
right, or if my lady's mad at

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me, or if we'd or if
I'm I was like regardless of the fact,

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right, Like I'm just mad at
you. I don't mean I hate

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you. I don't mean I dislike
you. Yes, that don't mean that

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you still don't deserve respect. That's
another thing too, right, Like you

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have to also be able to conduct
yourself with decency and decorum or at a

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certain level of decorum when you're arguing
with somebody, right, you're not about

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to talk to me any kind of
way, and I'm about to talk to

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you any kind of web part You're
not. I'm not about this disrespect,

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like you know what I'm saying,
just because I'm upset or I'm in my

405
00:24:52.440 --> 00:24:55.799
feelings. No, we're going to
have a conversation. If you're not listening

406
00:24:56.039 --> 00:24:59.640
listening to me objectively, then maybe
we can pause and we can talk later.

407
00:24:59.799 --> 00:25:00.599
But it's like, yo, man, I think we're in an era

408
00:25:00.680 --> 00:25:04.680
where it's like, yo, we
we condone disrespect. Yeah, like that's

409
00:25:04.720 --> 00:25:08.599
the problem. Niggas condone disrespect what
they home with other niggas, right,

410
00:25:08.759 --> 00:25:12.680
Like my homeboys was quick you know, uh and my old heads quickly yoke

411
00:25:12.720 --> 00:25:15.240
me up, like yo, yo, yo, my man, my man,

412
00:25:15.599 --> 00:25:18.359
my man, my man, my
man. I feel you. But

413
00:25:18.480 --> 00:25:22.839
nah, nah yo, calm the
fuck down. Yes, we don't conduct.

414
00:25:22.119 --> 00:25:26.079
That's the problem. We condone too
much disrespect. I don't care what

415
00:25:26.119 --> 00:25:30.960
the situation is, fellas. Now. Of course, there are situations where

416
00:25:30.039 --> 00:25:33.920
chivalry's out to do it right,
like if I found if I find out

417
00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:36.480
your cheating on me. I'm sorry, I'm not. Yeah, I don't

418
00:25:36.519 --> 00:25:38.039
expect you to open my door if
you just saw me getting my back blown

419
00:25:38.039 --> 00:25:40.960
out over Yeah, I'm not,
I'm not. Yeah, let's less,

420
00:25:41.039 --> 00:25:44.640
let's les call yeah nah none,
No, anything like that, you know

421
00:25:44.839 --> 00:25:47.680
is super egregious. I'm not,
you know what I'm saying. But if

422
00:25:47.680 --> 00:25:49.559
it's like, yo, man,
we got into an argument over happy meal

423
00:25:49.640 --> 00:25:52.799
or food, my nigga, Like, I'm not about to sit like,

424
00:25:52.839 --> 00:25:56.039
yeah, I'm tight, but I'm
gonna suck my teeth and open the door

425
00:25:56.039 --> 00:25:59.640
at the same time, like open
my door. You can trip me afterwards,

426
00:25:59.680 --> 00:26:02.680
and I'm gonna slammed the door to
let you. Let you know,

427
00:26:02.720 --> 00:26:07.519
I gotta add a day. But
but you're still gonna open I'm still gonna

428
00:26:07.559 --> 00:26:10.480
with it, but I'm gonna slam
the ship out that motherfucker. Okay,

429
00:26:10.559 --> 00:26:11.720
cool, that's what can we can
we? Is that a fair coppermise?

430
00:26:11.920 --> 00:26:15.400
I think so? Right? I
think so because you don't have to like

431
00:26:15.519 --> 00:26:18.240
me, but you should still love
me. You should still have that respect

432
00:26:18.240 --> 00:26:19.880
for the fellas when you slammed the
door. Oh my god, no,

433
00:26:19.880 --> 00:26:23.279
no, no, but it's it
can't be a It can't be a slam

434
00:26:23.359 --> 00:26:26.880
that you break some shit. It's
got to be a firm shut like she

435
00:26:27.079 --> 00:26:32.079
know what's sucked, like a low
fi John, like a John. Yeah,

436
00:26:32.359 --> 00:26:36.000
like you know, I'm I'm pissed, like yeah, yeah, Like

437
00:26:36.039 --> 00:26:40.880
the doors should say bitch, The
doors should say bitch, bitch got you?

438
00:26:41.359 --> 00:26:44.359
Yes, okay, okay, yes, all right, um my next

439
00:26:44.440 --> 00:26:48.160
question, Okay, my next answered. That's a good question, by the

440
00:26:48.200 --> 00:26:51.279
way, too, man, you
should you still be chivalrous in an argument.

441
00:26:51.640 --> 00:26:55.559
I think that is why a lot
of people do not make it past

442
00:26:55.599 --> 00:27:00.079
a certain level, because you don't. You lack the emotional intelligence to be

443
00:27:00.160 --> 00:27:03.400
respectful to somebody even when you're mad. The Live said, that's that jay

444
00:27:03.440 --> 00:27:08.200
Loo w't been affleck love. That's
exactly what it is. That's exactly what

445
00:27:08.279 --> 00:27:12.519
it is. That's exactly what it
is, Jaylo. And you know what

446
00:27:12.680 --> 00:27:15.119
dog like? Yeah, like they
was. I saw didn't get into it

447
00:27:15.119 --> 00:27:18.279
on the red carpet or some shing
like that. I'm not gonna lie.

448
00:27:18.319 --> 00:27:21.839
I've been seeing them like snip at
each other a lot. Because he tied

449
00:27:21.880 --> 00:27:23.759
of her ship, he bends out
of her ship. He went back to

450
00:27:23.799 --> 00:27:29.440
the ship. Because there's he because
he loved her ship. That's why you

451
00:27:29.480 --> 00:27:32.440
go back. Fellas. Let's be
real, yo, like we most guys

452
00:27:32.519 --> 00:27:37.000
tired of the old lady ship.
Most of y'all we tired of you.

453
00:27:37.119 --> 00:27:38.960
Dog. You get on my fucking
nerves. But I don't want to deal

454
00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:42.240
with nobody else and shit, I
don't want to relearn somebody to deal with

455
00:27:42.279 --> 00:27:45.400
some new ship. Okay, I
don't want new shit. I like my

456
00:27:45.440 --> 00:27:48.279
old ship. So you just put
up with the ship I just put and

457
00:27:48.319 --> 00:27:52.000
women, let's be real too,
y'all put up with us too. We're

458
00:27:52.039 --> 00:27:56.480
not We're not perfect. I know. Tired of my ship too. I'm

459
00:27:56.480 --> 00:27:59.119
tired of my ship to ship.
Yeah, dog, I get it.

460
00:27:59.160 --> 00:28:02.359
I'm a gym. I'm emotionally him
like I listen, hold on, hold

461
00:28:02.400 --> 00:28:04.680
on, we're gonna start that.
Okay. True, we are not perpetuating

462
00:28:04.680 --> 00:28:08.440
the Gemini narrative. Okay, as
a Gemini woman, I'm saying to a

463
00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:12.680
Gemini man, we are not perpetuating
that narrative. I'll perpetuating I'm crazy as

464
00:28:12.720 --> 00:28:17.680
fuck, and I know it.
You're not crazy. You just I'm gem

465
00:28:17.759 --> 00:28:22.079
I'm a Gemini and I'm bipolar.
You're moody. I'm moody sometimes. Okay,

466
00:28:22.119 --> 00:28:23.720
I could, I could, I
could get with that. Okay,

467
00:28:23.720 --> 00:28:26.920
I'll get with that. I'm good
with that. Yeah, like I was

468
00:28:26.920 --> 00:28:29.720
in the mood today? Was I
in the mood today? You know what

469
00:28:29.720 --> 00:28:32.960
it is? I'm sorry, I
cannot vent for two seconds. Go ahead,

470
00:28:33.400 --> 00:28:36.519
listen. If you ask me for
free tickets to something money? Oh

471
00:28:36.559 --> 00:28:40.640
my god, whoever this was?
I want y'all to know, y'all piss

472
00:28:40.720 --> 00:28:42.359
him off, and it was more
than one person. I want y'all to

473
00:28:42.400 --> 00:28:47.039
know, y'all all piss my band. Go ahead, all right, No,

474
00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:48.759
no, no, we're not gonna
do that. Okay, My next

475
00:28:48.799 --> 00:28:53.799
question ahead, How do guys make
friends? You? That's a good ask

476
00:28:53.920 --> 00:28:57.240
question. And the reason I exist
is because like women, like say,

477
00:28:57.319 --> 00:29:00.279
we moved to a new city,
all we have to dude is see someone

478
00:29:00.359 --> 00:29:03.079
in the market or in past him
like, oh my god, I love

479
00:29:03.119 --> 00:29:06.480
your shoes, and we're like,
yes, bitch, Target, And now

480
00:29:06.519 --> 00:29:10.000
we're friends. We swapped socials,
we're telling each other new deals. Next

481
00:29:10.039 --> 00:29:11.880
thing you know, we're going out
grabbing drugs. We're pasties. And I

482
00:29:11.920 --> 00:29:15.279
wanted to know how do men make
friends? Yo? This might be there,

483
00:29:15.440 --> 00:29:18.319
this might I'm not pausing this what
I'm getting ready to say. Okay,

484
00:29:18.480 --> 00:29:25.160
but a lot of times guy friends
are introduced through other guys. Right,

485
00:29:25.720 --> 00:29:27.119
So I got a friend named Luke, you know Lewis G. You

486
00:29:27.160 --> 00:29:30.599
know open for me and right,
he shout out the Lewis G. Right,

487
00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:34.200
So Lewis G is friends with a
guy named with a guy named Latto

488
00:29:34.319 --> 00:29:38.160
from Chicago, right, and uh, A lot of is cool dude,

489
00:29:38.240 --> 00:29:41.079
Right, we used to work for
at the time. He's an A and

490
00:29:41.160 --> 00:29:42.720
R right now, but he used
to work for Motown And I remember he

491
00:29:42.720 --> 00:29:47.039
introduced me to him because I was
trying to get my comedy album on Motown.

492
00:29:47.200 --> 00:29:49.440
Right, long story short though,
me and Derek, his name is

493
00:29:49.480 --> 00:29:52.759
Derek. We and Derek started vibe, We started talking, We started you

494
00:29:52.759 --> 00:29:55.640
know, becoming cool without outside of
Lewis right, yeah, and then he

495
00:29:55.680 --> 00:29:57.160
was like, yo, Clint were
in this group chat called the Sunday Circle.

496
00:29:57.480 --> 00:30:00.720
Why don't you join? And I'm
like, a yeah, back,

497
00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:03.119
I joined the group chat. Then
I meet Steph. I make my guy

498
00:30:03.200 --> 00:30:07.599
to Van who does artwork for me. I met this dude name T Like,

499
00:30:07.720 --> 00:30:12.279
I met some really good people from
just knowing Lewis G. And I'm

500
00:30:12.319 --> 00:30:15.240
talking about me and Steph our best
like best friend, Like Steff is my

501
00:30:15.279 --> 00:30:18.680
guy, like you know what I'm
saying, Derek is my guy, like

502
00:30:18.720 --> 00:30:22.000
Tavan is my guy. These are
people that come over my house to Thanksgiving.

503
00:30:22.119 --> 00:30:23.160
I say all that to say,
like a lot of times it's just

504
00:30:23.200 --> 00:30:27.599
through other dudes, like I meet
guys through other guys, because like i'd

505
00:30:27.599 --> 00:30:30.240
be like, I'll ask guy like, yo, you got a friend for

506
00:30:30.319 --> 00:30:33.960
me? Yo? Come on?
Pause? Pause pause pause, flag on

507
00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:41.799
a play softness penalty first down.
No, I'm in a look if I'm

508
00:30:41.799 --> 00:30:42.480
in it, Because here's the thing. If I'm in a city, right

509
00:30:42.519 --> 00:30:45.640
then I'm doing a show and stuff
like that. Right, I don't always

510
00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:47.559
like I want to hang with him. Yeah, but I don't always want

511
00:30:47.559 --> 00:30:48.519
to hang with women. Right,
I want to hanging some niggas. You

512
00:30:48.519 --> 00:30:51.480
know what I'm saying, Like right
now, the NBA Finals is on,

513
00:30:51.920 --> 00:30:53.640
right, Like I would if I'm
if I'm doing a show with another city,

514
00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:56.160
yeah, I'm I'm I'm I'm hanging
out of the barb or something like

515
00:30:56.200 --> 00:31:00.559
that. Then next to you know, he talking about Yoki. Then I

516
00:31:00.599 --> 00:31:02.880
talk about yo kitchen. Next thing, you know, we now friends.

517
00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:07.519
I asked this question before and when
I asked this question, a lot of

518
00:31:07.519 --> 00:31:10.240
guys be like, oh, we
meet through ball or we meet through work,

519
00:31:10.319 --> 00:31:14.319
And it's like, my only problem
with meeting through work is that's how

520
00:31:14.359 --> 00:31:17.559
you end up with like that sixty
seven year old man as a friend and

521
00:31:17.640 --> 00:31:18.599
you don't really Yeah, it's like
how are we friends? Why are why

522
00:31:18.599 --> 00:31:21.160
are we? Where are you in
the house? Like you know what I

523
00:31:21.160 --> 00:31:23.640
mean? But I always wonder how
do men make friends? Yeah? I

524
00:31:23.680 --> 00:31:26.440
think it's a lot of times just
through other guys, and a lot of

525
00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:30.640
times just through like like it just
be like, yo, I ain't gon

526
00:31:30.680 --> 00:31:33.599
whole jobs in a barbershop one time, I don't like the way this guy

527
00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:37.359
was talking like he no, I
don't no, I don't know gay.

528
00:31:37.640 --> 00:31:41.920
It was just like we just like
like the way he thinks is the way

529
00:31:41.960 --> 00:31:47.240
I like, Like he was making
points. I'm like yeah him yeah,

530
00:31:47.240 --> 00:31:48.319
Like and then it's like, yo, dog, what you like? You

531
00:31:48.319 --> 00:31:49.880
know what I'm saying. It's like, yo, bro, we gotta get

532
00:31:49.960 --> 00:31:52.000
up, Like and it's always yo
man, we gotta get up. Yo,

533
00:31:52.480 --> 00:31:56.200
yo bro, we gotta get up
that. Yeah, I love that.

534
00:31:56.319 --> 00:31:59.279
I love it because I actually get
up. See I'm not I'm not

535
00:31:59.319 --> 00:32:00.880
one of them. Like, let's
be really like any guy that know me

536
00:32:00.880 --> 00:32:04.559
and says, yo, Clint,
we gotta get up. If if y'all,

537
00:32:04.680 --> 00:32:06.720
if you say that and I say, Yo, let's get up,

538
00:32:07.119 --> 00:32:08.599
we'll be getting up. Because there's
the thing, man, guys, we

539
00:32:08.680 --> 00:32:12.960
need each other. We need fellas. You need support out here, man,

540
00:32:13.240 --> 00:32:15.400
I agree, and I need support. Man, y'all need good,

541
00:32:15.480 --> 00:32:19.799
genuine support, not to toxic as
homies from childhood. No, No,

542
00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:22.480
you need new grown up friends.
I feel like once you reach a certain

543
00:32:22.519 --> 00:32:24.279
age, men need to make new
friends. I have one friend from my

544
00:32:24.400 --> 00:32:29.000
childhood that I'm still cool to this
day, and that's Mo. And he's

545
00:32:29.119 --> 00:32:31.640
but that's just because we grew as
men together. Right. That doesn't mean

546
00:32:31.680 --> 00:32:34.880
I don't love you know, we
love all the other people from my neighborhood.

547
00:32:34.880 --> 00:32:37.000
But he's just the one that I
still We still just have a lot

548
00:32:37.039 --> 00:32:40.400
in common, We still like understand, like we were iron sharpens iron.

549
00:32:40.400 --> 00:32:43.519
He'll tell me when I'm wrong,
I tell him when he's wrong. Blah

550
00:32:43.559 --> 00:32:45.079
blah blah. And then I still
have my friend from high school, right,

551
00:32:45.119 --> 00:32:47.720
Like I have one main friend that
I have from high school that I

552
00:32:47.720 --> 00:32:51.799
still talk to all the time.
You know what I'm saying. And then

553
00:32:51.880 --> 00:32:54.920
as an adult, I've made new
friends. Um because you know what,

554
00:32:55.079 --> 00:32:59.319
man, Like, I'm gonna be
honest with you. I value male friendship,

555
00:32:59.359 --> 00:33:01.680
man. I'm it's very I really
value that shit. Man. It's

556
00:33:01.720 --> 00:33:04.880
it's nothing like like I ain't gonna
lie. Man. I had a fight

557
00:33:04.920 --> 00:33:08.480
party at my crib and it was
only three guys in like seven eight nine

558
00:33:08.519 --> 00:33:12.039
women, right, And I'm being
modest right now, right, but I

559
00:33:12.079 --> 00:33:15.599
say that to say it was like
it didn't feel good. You know,

560
00:33:15.720 --> 00:33:17.480
it wasn't enough to stop the room
for us. It was just like I

561
00:33:17.519 --> 00:33:22.079
was watching the fight and like I'm
like, you know, it was David's

562
00:33:22.119 --> 00:33:24.599
you know, tank versus Garcia,
and I'm sitting there. He punched him

563
00:33:24.599 --> 00:33:28.359
in his in his rib. Dude
goes down. That should hurt me a

564
00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:30.160
little bit. Dude goes down.
No, because I just punched myself.

565
00:33:30.200 --> 00:33:35.440
Don't listen, dude goes Dude goes
down. I'm yelling at screaming he got

566
00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:37.480
his hat ran in, He got
his hat ran in. No woman,

567
00:33:37.480 --> 00:33:39.599
women are looking at me like,
what the fuck is wrong with this nigga?

568
00:33:39.720 --> 00:33:43.640
Yo? There? Whereas if my
if if my guys was there,

569
00:33:43.680 --> 00:33:45.720
we'd be celebrating. Ye'll all be
yelling. He got his hand. Yeah,

570
00:33:45.759 --> 00:33:49.680
and it's like girls don't know about
like I like, like, yeah,

571
00:33:49.759 --> 00:33:53.440
it's just it's it's I listen.
I love women and I love women

572
00:33:53.519 --> 00:33:59.559
friendship. I love women companionship.
I love women bring to my life.

573
00:34:00.319 --> 00:34:02.960
But I also love with grown ass
men bringing to my life too. Yeah.

574
00:34:04.039 --> 00:34:07.280
I've had some really good god friends. I've had some really good elders

575
00:34:07.360 --> 00:34:10.960
and mentors in my life. And
that, you know, Currency says in

576
00:34:12.039 --> 00:34:14.840
something in one of his songs.
He says, I was shown by them

577
00:34:14.840 --> 00:34:17.400
older niggas. That's why I'm colder
than you, and I feel that's how

578
00:34:17.440 --> 00:34:21.239
I feel. It's like, Yo, I had good old heads you know,

579
00:34:21.239 --> 00:34:22.239
you know what I'm saying. Like
I had d L Hugle, I

580
00:34:22.239 --> 00:34:25.519
had to Ray, I had you
know this guy, you know Gary and

581
00:34:25.599 --> 00:34:30.280
Lou and Lea. Like, I
have good, solid, grown ass men

582
00:34:30.320 --> 00:34:31.599
in my life, man, And
that's that's a big deal. That's that's

583
00:34:31.679 --> 00:34:35.400
very underrated. Man. You need
some grown many your life. Fellas.

584
00:34:36.079 --> 00:34:37.800
I'm sorry if I'm rambling, but
it's just I'm because I'm thinking about it

585
00:34:37.800 --> 00:34:39.559
and I'm like, damn, I'm
glad you asked that, because it's like

586
00:34:40.119 --> 00:34:45.039
so many guys think that, like
like remember when those kids or not kids,

587
00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:47.039
but like in your twenties, you
know, it's like, oh,

588
00:34:47.079 --> 00:34:52.880
this is a sausage fest, right, remember remember sausage fest? Remember?

589
00:34:52.679 --> 00:34:55.679
Right? But like, Yo,
if I'm hanging with six guys, I'm

590
00:34:55.760 --> 00:35:00.320
cool. Yeah, I don't feel
like it's a sausage fest, you know

591
00:35:00.360 --> 00:35:01.719
what. I think. The only
time I mean, of course, the

592
00:35:01.800 --> 00:35:06.880
situation, yeah, you women are
in Yeah, but I mean I feel

593
00:35:06.880 --> 00:35:09.920
like the only time you're in that
mindset of it's a sausage vast is if

594
00:35:09.960 --> 00:35:14.519
you're just not in the right mindset, like maturity wise, you know what

595
00:35:14.599 --> 00:35:15.719
I mean. I feel like,
oh, there has to be of a

596
00:35:15.760 --> 00:35:21.480
giant around at all time. Yes, Like, man, you don't need

597
00:35:22.360 --> 00:35:29.719
It's like, look again, I
love women, companionship and company, but

598
00:35:29.880 --> 00:35:34.480
your brothers, the brotherhood, it
does something different. Brotherhood is different.

599
00:35:34.599 --> 00:35:37.480
Yeah, it does something different,
man, and and and you know it's

600
00:35:37.519 --> 00:35:40.000
and and let's be real yo,
right, Like those are the conversations I

601
00:35:40.079 --> 00:35:43.559
can have with my guys. I
just can't have with women. Just like

602
00:35:43.679 --> 00:35:45.559
this conversation you have woman, a
woman that you just can't have. I

603
00:35:45.599 --> 00:35:49.159
don't give how good of a guy
friend? This guy is, right,

604
00:35:49.440 --> 00:35:52.199
he can't talk to you the same
way your sister talk to you. Yeah,

605
00:35:52.480 --> 00:35:54.280
you know what I'm saying now.
I think that also, you know,

606
00:35:54.400 --> 00:35:58.199
we talk about go back to guys
meeting each other, right, Like,

607
00:35:58.400 --> 00:36:00.920
I think guys will be too shy, right, we'd be acting like

608
00:36:00.000 --> 00:36:02.079
we don't want to be the nigga
friend and you know you want to be

609
00:36:02.159 --> 00:36:06.199
his friend. I think say that, yo, just be like yo,

610
00:36:06.280 --> 00:36:07.920
like for real, Like I'll be
like, all right, prime example,

611
00:36:08.039 --> 00:36:10.280
right, And this is not me
name dripping. I'm just being you know.

612
00:36:12.079 --> 00:36:15.360
So my homegirl Jasmine, So let's
go back in the story. So

613
00:36:16.079 --> 00:36:21.360
I posted a picture of myself of
it was a new headshot, and somebody

614
00:36:21.440 --> 00:36:25.920
told me I looked like a great
value p J Morton. I was very

615
00:36:27.280 --> 00:36:29.400
but I thought it was funny.
Right. I'm like and at the time,

616
00:36:29.519 --> 00:36:30.199
I don't look like this nigga,
right, but like everybody like,

617
00:36:30.280 --> 00:36:32.599
no, nigga, you look like
him, right, It's it's giving,

618
00:36:32.800 --> 00:36:36.719
right. So but my home girl
Jasmine was like, Yo, that's funny.

619
00:36:36.760 --> 00:36:38.679
I actually know him, y'all,
y'all. I should introduce y'all.

620
00:36:39.360 --> 00:36:43.480
Long story short though, now like
that's my guy, right, Like,

621
00:36:43.599 --> 00:36:45.440
we had a lot of interactions and
then I was like, yo, man,

622
00:36:45.440 --> 00:36:46.079
I want to be your friend.
Bro, I fuck with you.

623
00:36:46.119 --> 00:36:50.800
You you you think the way I
think when you play spade, And I

624
00:36:50.920 --> 00:36:54.199
say that to say it was I
didn't feel weird asking for not really asking

625
00:36:54.280 --> 00:36:58.719
for friendship, but really being the
one to reach out to create a friendship.

626
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:00.320
I think it's a com for this
thing. Right. If you're confident

627
00:37:00.320 --> 00:37:04.239
in yourself, you don't mind doing
that, right, and you aren't worried

628
00:37:04.239 --> 00:37:07.159
about, oh, well, you
know someone's gonna think I'm you know,

629
00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:12.400
trying them or something like that.
Man, Like I'm not. I'm not

630
00:37:12.639 --> 00:37:19.159
Like friendship ain't gay. Friendship isn't
friendship, and male male on male friendship

631
00:37:19.239 --> 00:37:21.599
ain't gay. You know it's not
gay. We know why because we're not

632
00:37:21.719 --> 00:37:24.599
fucking. But for whatever reason,
I'm like, yeah, Bro, I

633
00:37:24.639 --> 00:37:30.239
don't think you cute, Okay,
next next, next time, I don't

634
00:37:30.280 --> 00:37:37.159
think you're cute. Just gonna stick, nigga, you let me just stick

635
00:37:37.199 --> 00:37:40.360
a pin on this and never that's
a very I'm mad. I never talked

636
00:37:40.360 --> 00:37:44.760
about this on my podcast, on
an old podcast, Like that's a that's

637
00:37:44.800 --> 00:37:47.400
a real thing, man, Like
men need men, man, Paul,

638
00:37:47.760 --> 00:37:51.719
No, no, Paul, because
you know what way we're talking about,

639
00:37:51.760 --> 00:37:53.000
so no, Paul. Yeah,
men need men, man like you do

640
00:37:53.199 --> 00:37:58.320
you need your brothers. Man,
you need men, of course, but

641
00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:00.840
not even that the same way we
say men need their fathers. Yea.

642
00:38:00.920 --> 00:38:05.679
The friends, yes, yeah,
like that's a thing, and that's something

643
00:38:05.719 --> 00:38:07.079
that I wish my dad would have
had more of. I think my dad

644
00:38:07.159 --> 00:38:10.400
probably might still be here if he
had more male friends. I think my

645
00:38:10.519 --> 00:38:14.000
dad isolated himself from a lot of
you know what I'm saying, because he

646
00:38:14.000 --> 00:38:15.880
just didn't want to be But that
generation, that's what you had to do.

647
00:38:16.079 --> 00:38:19.719
Yeah, they didn't have the emotional
intelligence to know that. Yeah,

648
00:38:20.440 --> 00:38:22.039
that's just what they were brought up
to do. Yeah, like it's like

649
00:38:22.159 --> 00:38:25.519
some good home like yoh, it's
crazy. I could be on the phone

650
00:38:25.599 --> 00:38:29.760
with my male friends just as long
as on the phone with a woman like

651
00:38:29.920 --> 00:38:32.719
me and Moe be on the phone
sometimes two hours, oh my god.

652
00:38:32.880 --> 00:38:38.320
But and you know we're talking about
basketball literally like just like random shit,

653
00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:42.599
right, But it'd be like we
could literally have like we'll talk about basketball

654
00:38:42.639 --> 00:38:45.559
or grand theft, auto anything like
we're like two little boy, like look

655
00:38:45.599 --> 00:38:49.960
like we're children, almost like we'd
be talking. But it's like we could

656
00:38:49.960 --> 00:38:52.880
be on the phone for two too. And mind you, I could call

657
00:38:52.000 --> 00:38:54.920
him the day, talk to him
two hours. I call him tomorrow,

658
00:38:55.239 --> 00:39:00.360
talk to him another two hours.
That's my man. Okay, So listen,

659
00:39:00.679 --> 00:39:06.039
next question, right, is it
okay for a woman to be ran

660
00:39:06.199 --> 00:39:14.320
through? Mike, let me get
it out. Let me get it out.

661
00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:17.639
Okay? Is it okay for a
woman to be ran through if she's

662
00:39:17.719 --> 00:39:22.800
only been ran through by celebrities and
athletes? I don't really have it,

663
00:39:22.960 --> 00:39:27.280
so can I be honest? I
don't really subscribe to the ran through thing,

664
00:39:28.000 --> 00:39:30.840
because ran through means to me,
to me, ran through means you

665
00:39:30.880 --> 00:39:34.519
didn't really have a choice. Ran
through means like, Yo, we did

666
00:39:34.599 --> 00:39:37.199
whatever the fuck we wanted to do
to you, blah blah blah blah blah.

667
00:39:37.639 --> 00:39:43.920
Whereas she made choices. And I
don't give a fuck who you made

668
00:39:43.920 --> 00:39:45.559
a choice with. That ain't got
nothing to do with me. I'm here

669
00:39:45.679 --> 00:39:49.159
right now, and I don't give
a fuck who you had sex with.

670
00:39:49.559 --> 00:39:52.599
I don't care who you dealt with. I don't give how famous you think

671
00:39:52.639 --> 00:39:54.199
he is or blah blah blah,
he ain't. Clint. First of all,

672
00:39:54.199 --> 00:39:57.440
I love this for you, and
I wish more men had this many

673
00:39:57.440 --> 00:40:00.679
time, Clint. But I mean
the mentality of men when they find out

674
00:40:00.719 --> 00:40:05.559
that a woman is sexually liberated,
promiscuous, whatever, Right, If they're

675
00:40:05.599 --> 00:40:07.280
like, you know, just dealing
with niggas in the neighborhood, it's like,

676
00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:09.280
oh, I'm not sucking with her, she is smut blah blah blah

677
00:40:09.280 --> 00:40:12.840
blah blah. She ran through,
right. But then when I look at

678
00:40:12.880 --> 00:40:15.840
these celebrities who constantly get caught with
people like Selena Powell, It's like,

679
00:40:15.920 --> 00:40:19.079
okay, so is it okay to
be ran through or not? And I

680
00:40:19.119 --> 00:40:21.320
don't mean like just getting caught.
I mean like you got her out here

681
00:40:21.360 --> 00:40:22.559
wearing your chain and all that shit. Well, so like, is it

682
00:40:22.639 --> 00:40:25.719
okay for her to be ran through? If it only was celebrities and athlete

683
00:40:25.840 --> 00:40:30.000
I think celebrity I think you got
to also think about this too, right,

684
00:40:30.119 --> 00:40:34.360
Like the celebrity athlete world is so
small, right, it seemed big,

685
00:40:34.599 --> 00:40:39.039
but it's really small and they all
date the same people when you really

686
00:40:39.159 --> 00:40:43.679
think about it. But here's my
pushback on that. Right, the celebrity

687
00:40:43.719 --> 00:40:45.639
and athlete world is so small.
Yeah, right, so they all date

688
00:40:45.719 --> 00:40:51.159
the same people. Yeah, they
date the same people because it comes with

689
00:40:51.719 --> 00:40:57.559
I'm assuming some type of security.
I would never I don't think I would

690
00:40:57.639 --> 00:41:00.199
date like a girl who dated about
celebrities, Like, I would never,

691
00:41:00.280 --> 00:41:04.280
like you'll never like and like,
I mean even if I was, like,

692
00:41:04.400 --> 00:41:06.800
you know, let's say I get
to that level right where Kim Kay

693
00:41:06.840 --> 00:41:08.199
would probably look at me and be
like, yo, no, not funny.

694
00:41:08.199 --> 00:41:12.400
Ain't he fun? Yeah? I
mean I wouldn't. I wouldn't do

695
00:41:12.440 --> 00:41:14.960
it. I don't mean it has
nothing to do with her being ran through.

696
00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:15.679
It's just for me, man,
Like I like, you know,

697
00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:19.800
I like a round away for late. So there's like two types of ran

698
00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:22.320
through that. Yeah, okay,
it's like random. Maybe I'm not understanding.

699
00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:24.599
I'm sorry. There's like a ran
through and it's chill and nobody knows,

700
00:41:24.800 --> 00:41:29.320
and there's like an openly ran through. Yeah, so why do they

701
00:41:29.400 --> 00:41:32.280
continue to entertain the openly ran through? You cannot be honest with you,

702
00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:37.519
this is not a top it got
really I'm trying, like I'm really trying

703
00:41:37.559 --> 00:41:39.719
to like like find the find the
balance, and I just don't want to

704
00:41:39.760 --> 00:41:43.360
sound stupid, right, But if
I'm being honest, like this is just

705
00:41:43.440 --> 00:41:45.960
something not a topic that or not
and this is no dis to the topic,

706
00:41:45.960 --> 00:41:49.360
don't think I'm dropping. What I'm
saying is is that I don't.

707
00:41:49.480 --> 00:41:52.199
I don't think about ran Through.
That's not that is not on my mind

708
00:41:52.280 --> 00:41:55.280
when it comes to when it comes
to women. I don't give a fuck

709
00:41:55.679 --> 00:42:00.800
about ran Through. I don't.
It just don't matter to me, right,

710
00:42:00.159 --> 00:42:05.039
Like I meet you today June first, to you know what I'm saying

711
00:42:05.360 --> 00:42:08.280
like that I just who you were
before me has nothing to do with who

712
00:42:08.280 --> 00:42:10.440
you are now. When you say
it doesn't matter to you to you,

713
00:42:12.119 --> 00:42:15.760
is that in reference to dating or
like? Does that go for when you're

714
00:42:15.800 --> 00:42:21.760
wiping someone? To? Absolutely so
you would wife someone who's openly been I

715
00:42:21.880 --> 00:42:25.000
love this because for what? Why? Why not? Why not you choosing

716
00:42:25.119 --> 00:42:30.360
me? Now I'm choosing you.
The only difference is that you you were

717
00:42:30.440 --> 00:42:34.000
open about your your sex capades.
Okay, so much sexcapades. No,

718
00:42:34.159 --> 00:42:37.920
but it's like but no, But
the funny thing is I'm open about my

719
00:42:37.000 --> 00:42:40.320
sexcapades too. But you know that
the value there isn't the same. No

720
00:42:40.519 --> 00:42:43.119
it's not. But it's like,
at the end of the day, like,

721
00:42:43.159 --> 00:42:44.960
how can I have that same?
How can I? How can I

722
00:42:45.679 --> 00:42:49.199
would have straight faced look you dead
in the eye and say, yo,

723
00:42:49.639 --> 00:42:52.440
I'm judging you for what you've done. Men do it every day. Well

724
00:42:52.559 --> 00:42:54.599
then you're not. Grow the fuck
up. Bro. Now, here's my

725
00:42:54.639 --> 00:43:00.079
whole thing. This is not to
come at or downplay no sexually radio or

726
00:43:00.119 --> 00:43:02.159
promiscuous women. Right yeah, but
I do feel like we have to be

727
00:43:02.519 --> 00:43:07.079
um, have some level of accountability
and know that a majority of men in

728
00:43:07.159 --> 00:43:14.880
today's society, UM will only take
you so serious if you are super promiscuous.

729
00:43:15.159 --> 00:43:17.719
So so, ladies, it's the
pouring up for me, my bad.

730
00:43:17.800 --> 00:43:20.719
So ladies, then you should be
the same way with men. Then

731
00:43:20.880 --> 00:43:25.880
right, start judging and all the
fucking fat women you ran through. How

732
00:43:25.920 --> 00:43:29.880
about that? How about women judge
you for the for the for the for

733
00:43:30.000 --> 00:43:34.239
the fours that you fucked. Bro, you fuck some fours in your life.

734
00:43:35.360 --> 00:43:38.880
You fuck some women that's beneath her. Hold on and here's my thing,

735
00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:44.039
right, yeah, let's have this
conversations. I'm up right because we're

736
00:43:44.079 --> 00:43:47.119
talking about here, here's my whole
thing. Right, they're gonna be now

737
00:43:47.280 --> 00:43:51.360
now you know what, I don't
even want to take you like, do

738
00:43:51.440 --> 00:43:52.800
it? Do it? Here's my
whole thing, right, I'm all for

739
00:43:53.039 --> 00:43:58.559
we judging women by I'm not gonna
say I'm all for I understand if that's

740
00:43:58.559 --> 00:44:01.119
your preference. Yes, that's okay
for a woman who is a little bit

741
00:44:01.480 --> 00:44:08.119
more quiet about her deal or virtuous
or Proverbs thirty one. Right. But

742
00:44:08.480 --> 00:44:15.679
if you are out here openly liking
and commentating ugly bitches photos, I happen

743
00:44:15.760 --> 00:44:17.760
to see you out in the streets
and you got a fucking gorilla on your

744
00:44:17.880 --> 00:44:22.360
arm, like, bro, I
don't want I don't please? Please?

745
00:44:22.840 --> 00:44:24.800
Why you want her back the same
size? Please? Why? I don't

746
00:44:24.840 --> 00:44:28.519
want to listen? I don't want
to come on. I'm not interested.

747
00:44:28.599 --> 00:44:32.840
You shouldn't be. I'm not interested. Why would you be? Why would

748
00:44:32.840 --> 00:44:36.320
you? I don't want it.
I stuck my penis in that. That's

749
00:44:36.360 --> 00:44:42.199
gross, and now you want to
stick it at me. Got the unmitigated

750
00:44:42.320 --> 00:44:45.960
gall one thing about niggas, They
always got the audacity. Listen. The

751
00:44:45.079 --> 00:44:47.199
thing about it is, is this
right? And I'm not saying this on

752
00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:50.639
some you know, pick me shit, right, But fellas, let's let's

753
00:44:50.679 --> 00:44:53.199
have this conversation on one second.
The live said Uptown Confidential is doing five

754
00:44:53.280 --> 00:44:57.000
said, then Forrest come in handy
late night, my guy. No,

755
00:44:57.280 --> 00:44:59.880
they don't come in handy late night, my guy. I'd rather beat my

756
00:45:00.159 --> 00:45:02.760
dick. I'd rather beat my dick
than be with a four. Bro.

757
00:45:02.960 --> 00:45:06.880
See that's the that's a that's a
man who don't got no up. We

758
00:45:07.039 --> 00:45:10.320
from uptown, bro. We got
uptown niggas, got standards on their penis.

759
00:45:12.639 --> 00:45:15.280
You know what. An uptown niggas
never take nothing serious too. So

760
00:45:15.519 --> 00:45:17.039
I can't even listen to either one
of y'all at this point. Man.

761
00:45:17.199 --> 00:45:21.639
Well, what I'm saying is though, the point is is that it's all

762
00:45:21.719 --> 00:45:22.760
right. Yeah, did I get
some four is in my in my in

763
00:45:22.840 --> 00:45:27.239
my day? Absolutely right? Did
I? And look, maybe some women

764
00:45:27.280 --> 00:45:29.760
fucked me and felt like I was
a four. I mean, call a

765
00:45:29.800 --> 00:45:31.239
spade a spade, right, Like
I ain't. You know, I think

766
00:45:31.280 --> 00:45:35.519
I'm decent, but you know I'm
not what you might be used to.

767
00:45:35.679 --> 00:45:37.519
Maybe you used to fucking Jason Tatums, you know what I'm saying. Okay,

768
00:45:37.639 --> 00:45:40.199
you know, like because we think
of Jason, he's six nine eighty

769
00:45:40.239 --> 00:45:44.199
six nine he's curly, got curly
head. Like, let's let's be real.

770
00:45:44.280 --> 00:45:50.280
And in two ninety eight, Jason
Tatum is problem is can we be

771
00:45:50.559 --> 00:45:52.880
Can we be honest? Can we
can we be honest? We can't be

772
00:45:52.960 --> 00:46:00.519
honest? All right, But the
point I'm making is this, we judge

773
00:46:00.559 --> 00:46:04.840
women and say, oh, you
were openly promiscuous. You walk around here

774
00:46:04.880 --> 00:46:07.880
talking about how many bitches you fucked, like niggas will talk about, oh,

775
00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:08.559
yeah, you know, my body
count high. I don't want to

776
00:46:08.559 --> 00:46:10.920
talk about it. Blah blah blah
blah. Your body count high and your

777
00:46:10.960 --> 00:46:14.639
dick is still trash. But not
even just that though, right, your

778
00:46:14.639 --> 00:46:16.960
body You talk about your body count, but she you you, you wear

779
00:46:17.079 --> 00:46:21.480
that like it's a bad Gina gross. You grow up, like let's say,

780
00:46:21.559 --> 00:46:22.800
let's say, bro, all right, bro, you're twenty nine years

781
00:46:22.840 --> 00:46:25.840
old, and let's say you you
fucked over one hundred women. Right,

782
00:46:27.079 --> 00:46:30.880
that's that's very realistic. Right you
mean to tell me all of them was

783
00:46:30.039 --> 00:46:36.239
eight nins and above. There's no
way, bro, especially because when niggas

784
00:46:36.280 --> 00:46:40.480
get lit, they want whatever.
But here's the thing. Right, then

785
00:46:40.480 --> 00:46:45.079
you get older, you realize all
you your penis has to have some some

786
00:46:45.400 --> 00:46:52.639
standards all from now. Vagina is
not just vagina. Quality over quantity,

787
00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:55.960
quality over quantity, quality over quote. I would give me, give me

788
00:46:57.079 --> 00:47:00.880
a solid seven point five. Who
likes me? Who thinks? Who?

789
00:47:01.119 --> 00:47:04.960
Who? Who got my back?
We could just be fucking. But you

790
00:47:05.079 --> 00:47:08.039
can like me and have my back, right you can? You can like

791
00:47:08.159 --> 00:47:13.239
me and have my back like that's
that's that's cool, right and you I

792
00:47:13.440 --> 00:47:16.000
take that overall four that I'm gonna
wake up next to and be like,

793
00:47:16.119 --> 00:47:19.199
Yo, why did I do this? What? Get out of my house

794
00:47:19.280 --> 00:47:23.039
now? Poor decisions? You know
what it is. I'll tell you why.

795
00:47:23.119 --> 00:47:28.519
Niggas fucked Forrest. Forrest got money, Forrest buy you food at night?

796
00:47:29.719 --> 00:47:32.199
Forrest, come over with waywa you
know what I think? That's what

797
00:47:32.320 --> 00:47:37.880
my problem is. You don't come
over with My problem is. I'm like

798
00:47:37.079 --> 00:47:40.159
at eight and a half nine,
but I'll be moving like I'm a four,

799
00:47:40.239 --> 00:47:43.679
and niggas be taking advantage of me. Yeah, Yo, you're you're

800
00:47:43.920 --> 00:47:46.400
you're way too nice to these guys. I think I'm yo okay because I

801
00:47:46.440 --> 00:47:51.199
don't want to say it was just
me way too nice. Niggare way too

802
00:47:51.320 --> 00:47:55.360
understanding, bro. You can only
be understanding with a nigga who's also understanding,

803
00:47:55.719 --> 00:47:59.360
and I'll be trying to be understanding
to everybody like a dummy. No,

804
00:47:59.559 --> 00:48:02.039
just get one guy and let if
he understands you, you should understand

805
00:48:02.159 --> 00:48:05.800
him. That's my problem. I
just figured it out, y'all. Next

806
00:48:05.840 --> 00:48:07.880
time, y'all ask me why I'm
single. That's why I'm way too understanding.

807
00:48:07.920 --> 00:48:13.119
That's why nig niggas be feeling it. They'd be feeling themselves. Just

808
00:48:13.159 --> 00:48:15.840
do whatever they want because I'm understanding. I hate this for me. I

809
00:48:15.960 --> 00:48:19.559
hate this for me. Okay,
I hate it for you to thank you,

810
00:48:19.639 --> 00:48:22.199
father of Canaan, just for a
badge. Thank you, appreciate your

811
00:48:22.199 --> 00:48:27.400
baby, Father of Canaan. Hold
on um like are you canan? Like

812
00:48:27.559 --> 00:48:31.159
like Canaan starts Dad, that's all
the title says. Well you can from

813
00:48:31.199 --> 00:48:37.480
from Raising King and day Oh really
in the show let me his name is

814
00:48:37.519 --> 00:48:42.719
Omar, so he made his tag. We're thinking way too much? Is

815
00:48:42.719 --> 00:48:45.599
your name? Omar? Is your
name though? Let us that would be

816
00:48:45.639 --> 00:48:49.480
great if his name is Omar.
We just saw the serious pubble Kevin.

817
00:48:51.159 --> 00:48:54.239
Yes, can we get into edibles
please? Edible les. You'll say this

818
00:48:54.599 --> 00:49:00.320
every time you come here and it
pisses me off. No, that ible

819
00:49:00.360 --> 00:49:04.719
portion of the show is when we
read questions or stories that people send in.

820
00:49:05.039 --> 00:49:07.800
Okay, Now, if you have
a question or a story and it's

821
00:49:07.840 --> 00:49:10.719
too long to fit in the prompt
that we put up on Thursdays, you

822
00:49:10.800 --> 00:49:16.159
can always d me your stories at
inquiries I'm sorry, DM me, or

823
00:49:16.280 --> 00:49:22.000
you can email me at inquiries at
stormyp dot com. Thank you. Okay,

824
00:49:22.519 --> 00:49:28.039
So the first question I'm listening,
how do you tell a female her

825
00:49:28.079 --> 00:49:37.159
couchie smells foul? How do you
tell a female it smells foul? Now

826
00:49:37.239 --> 00:49:42.760
here's my whole thing, right,
I'll just be like, like, you

827
00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:47.440
know what, So I haven't really
ran into like stank coochie blessed and at

828
00:49:47.519 --> 00:49:52.159
least the last blessed five seven years, like I've not. I've been you

829
00:49:52.199 --> 00:49:54.679
know, like that's what I mean
by quality of quantity light. But you

830
00:49:54.760 --> 00:49:58.880
know what I feel like at thirty
five, you shouldn't have ran into st

831
00:50:00.119 --> 00:50:01.400
seven years. I haven't ran into
stink couci. I'll be thirty six,

832
00:50:01.480 --> 00:50:05.400
by the way, by now,
you should have a hold on like the

833
00:50:05.519 --> 00:50:07.599
pH Yeah, I don't really really, yeah, I have not. I

834
00:50:07.679 --> 00:50:12.559
can honestly say, like I don't
know that ain't me. I can't.

835
00:50:12.639 --> 00:50:15.880
But but how do I say it? I mean, I've never if I

836
00:50:15.119 --> 00:50:19.199
if I would say it, I
would just be like, I'll just be

837
00:50:19.320 --> 00:50:22.360
like, hey, like I can't
continue to eat this. Someone on the

838
00:50:22.400 --> 00:50:27.920
live said, you've been drinking enough
water. You've been drinking enough. That's

839
00:50:27.920 --> 00:50:30.440
a good question. Yeah, I
like that. I like that. Use

840
00:50:30.519 --> 00:50:32.800
that um as a woman. If
you ask me if I've been drinking,

841
00:50:34.039 --> 00:50:36.199
You're gonna get it. You're gonna
it's not subtle. No, I'm just

842
00:50:36.280 --> 00:50:38.760
gonna be like, yeah, because
who's the say it's from the wisest leg?

843
00:50:38.840 --> 00:50:43.360
But like, just why are you
fucking like? Okay, let's let's

844
00:50:43.400 --> 00:50:45.519
let's start here? Well, can
I start? Go ahead, please,

845
00:50:45.639 --> 00:50:47.400
let's start. Okay, Please,
let's start. I don't think that you've

846
00:50:47.400 --> 00:50:52.480
been drinking enough water is a good
enough excuse because the vagina and the pH

847
00:50:52.599 --> 00:50:55.679
balance is so fickle. Anything that
can change. So you're drinking enough water

848
00:50:55.840 --> 00:50:59.360
might not be the reason, right. It could be a reaction to a

849
00:50:59.440 --> 00:51:02.800
condom. It could be yeah,
it could be you know, motions,

850
00:51:02.920 --> 00:51:07.079
body order. It could be you
not rinsing out or washing colored drawls before

851
00:51:07.119 --> 00:51:13.159
you wear them. For the first
time. It can be you I'm king

852
00:51:14.159 --> 00:51:19.039
because maybe I had got a great
draws, so maybe I'm joking. It

853
00:51:19.159 --> 00:51:22.920
could also be you're taking too long
to hop in a shower after you leave

854
00:51:22.960 --> 00:51:23.960
the gym, and you got you
got the swamp cooch, you got to

855
00:51:23.960 --> 00:51:28.400
swamp ass. So there are so
many different reasons why you're phn go off.

856
00:51:28.840 --> 00:51:30.159
So I don't think you asking are
you drinking the order? Is it

857
00:51:30.199 --> 00:51:34.039
good enough? Fans? So I
think first of all, in the days

858
00:51:34.079 --> 00:51:37.760
of sex, right, let's be
real, all right, you know you

859
00:51:38.199 --> 00:51:42.800
most most sex is planned for the
most part, right, or if it's

860
00:51:42.800 --> 00:51:45.679
not planned, it's very thought out
right like you like, like for the

861
00:51:45.800 --> 00:51:49.840
most part right when you go out, you know, like if you if

862
00:51:49.880 --> 00:51:52.719
you think you might want some dick
tonight, whether that means you're getting it

863
00:51:52.760 --> 00:51:54.880
from somebody that you meet or somebody
that you that you're calling up you have

864
00:51:55.000 --> 00:51:59.599
an idea, like because you're wearing
a certain like I'm just in case,

865
00:52:00.079 --> 00:52:05.840
just in case, did I get
some dick to that. Let me make

866
00:52:05.920 --> 00:52:13.840
sure my coach she's washed up,
baby, just in case, make sure

867
00:52:13.880 --> 00:52:15.480
it's washed. Yeah, But I
mean, I know, like me,

868
00:52:15.639 --> 00:52:19.599
if I if I thought I had
an inkling of some yams. I'm making

869
00:52:19.639 --> 00:52:22.760
sure like I took an extra shower. So once again, your man Uptown

870
00:52:22.880 --> 00:52:25.639
Confidential two on five. Did he
say his name is Omar? He didn't

871
00:52:25.679 --> 00:52:28.599
say if his name was Omar.
I don't want to hear from him.

872
00:52:28.639 --> 00:52:30.840
Put your finger to her nose and
ask her would you eat this? That's

873
00:52:30.920 --> 00:52:35.360
so disrespect disrespect, But I'm not
mad at that. I'm sorry. What

874
00:52:36.760 --> 00:52:38.760
sometimes you gotta be, you gotta
be. You might have sometimes be.

875
00:52:39.079 --> 00:52:42.119
You know what? Can I tell
you what happened to me when I was

876
00:52:42.559 --> 00:52:45.840
ten years old? I was ten
years old and I never get I was

877
00:52:45.880 --> 00:52:51.480
in line and this girl wanted to
stay in like ten steps behind me right

878
00:52:51.960 --> 00:52:52.880
and I'm like, damn, like
you know what I'm saying. And she

879
00:52:53.079 --> 00:52:58.079
was like then like all day,
like she was yelling out somebody stink,

880
00:52:58.519 --> 00:53:01.480
somebody stink, and I'm thinking,
like it kill me. I don't know

881
00:53:01.559 --> 00:53:06.800
if I story. Man. We
got on the bus that day, she

882
00:53:06.960 --> 00:53:08.119
was like, claim, I'm gonna
just be honest with you. Your under

883
00:53:08.199 --> 00:53:17.559
arms is funky. And from that
day for my under arms was never always

884
00:53:17.639 --> 00:53:22.880
had the old him, never like
thank you, thank you, to Nia

885
00:53:22.079 --> 00:53:25.679
Harris a hero. Yeah. The
only reason I'm using the only reason why

886
00:53:25.719 --> 00:53:30.079
I'm using her name specifically is just
because she doesn't know to this day,

887
00:53:30.159 --> 00:53:32.719
like I follow We followed each other
on Instagram and all that, right,

888
00:53:32.800 --> 00:53:36.800
she still looked the same from when
we were like she wasn't we were twelve,

889
00:53:37.159 --> 00:53:38.920
so like she still looked the same
from seventh eighth grade. And I

890
00:53:39.119 --> 00:53:44.840
remember she told me straight up that
I stank. But she told it to

891
00:53:44.960 --> 00:53:47.039
me, to me, she didn't
tell everybodybody. She told me. I

892
00:53:47.079 --> 00:53:50.960
appreciate that. I appreciate it.
She's like you sting in your clothes,

893
00:53:51.119 --> 00:53:55.199
dingy, And I never She was
the finest girl in the school, and

894
00:53:55.360 --> 00:54:00.360
she was considerate. She was the
finest girl in the school. I never

895
00:54:00.480 --> 00:54:02.719
stink, but I just sweat real
bad. It happens. I've just always

896
00:54:02.760 --> 00:54:06.079
been a sweater, Like that's just
my thing. If I don't stink,

897
00:54:06.119 --> 00:54:08.480
but I'm gonna be moist. My
under arms was wild that day and yeah,

898
00:54:08.519 --> 00:54:10.800
but since then, but she changed
my life. So I say that

899
00:54:10.920 --> 00:54:15.119
to say, sometimes you need to
be harsh with that, Like sometimes you

900
00:54:15.159 --> 00:54:17.559
just need to tell some about you
your breath stink, yo, you know,

901
00:54:17.599 --> 00:54:20.880
what's crazy? You know, he
said, like in your clothes ingy.

902
00:54:21.320 --> 00:54:27.599
Right, So you know, I
grew up with my grandmama, so

903
00:54:29.159 --> 00:54:31.599
I didn't know that the more you
wash your clothes, the more the color

904
00:54:31.679 --> 00:54:35.639
will fade. Right, So you
know when we were younger, like the

905
00:54:35.800 --> 00:54:38.400
niggas would clean you say, yo, your jeans ashy jeans was ashy jean

906
00:54:39.079 --> 00:54:42.679
damn, And I feel like that
was only a Philly joint, like yo,

907
00:54:42.760 --> 00:54:44.800
I don't feel like nobody else anywhere. I was like, yo,

908
00:54:44.840 --> 00:54:47.400
he has some ashy ask jeans or
like I never get like niggas would say,

909
00:54:47.400 --> 00:54:50.679
like, yo, you need some
notion for the jeans. So here's

910
00:54:50.679 --> 00:54:53.760
the thing, right, I didn't
know because I was extremely sheltered, and

911
00:54:53.840 --> 00:54:58.000
I fucking was by myself and in
my own little world. So like one

912
00:54:58.079 --> 00:55:00.719
day I went to school and I
like rubbed vesseline on my jeans because I

913
00:55:00.880 --> 00:55:06.639
thought, like that helps, and
it didn't help. And then kids store

914
00:55:06.719 --> 00:55:09.760
me the fuck up? You know
what? You know what? You know

915
00:55:09.800 --> 00:55:15.000
how they remember let's circle back real, remember they said Philly kids is the

916
00:55:15.119 --> 00:55:17.519
most rudest kids on the Here we
go, look, yo, when I

917
00:55:17.760 --> 00:55:22.960
was growing When I was growing up
I'm not gonna lie to you. Growing

918
00:55:23.039 --> 00:55:28.360
up and Philly made you have to
be funny. One thousands have to be

919
00:55:28.519 --> 00:55:30.559
funny, thousand person. That's the
one thing that's why I think we really

920
00:55:30.840 --> 00:55:35.840
put out some really good comed like
you gotta be because everybody in my like

921
00:55:36.079 --> 00:55:37.320
people that went the high school with
me, take, I wasn't the funniest

922
00:55:37.360 --> 00:55:40.119
nigga into class, like, there
was some niggas who used to have a

923
00:55:40.159 --> 00:55:45.719
class roll it like and what you
know, but you yeah, you just

924
00:55:45.840 --> 00:55:47.639
gotta you gotta be funny, bro. And I think it's also why all

925
00:55:47.679 --> 00:55:53.039
the Philly women are so aggressive and
we can't help Philly women sisters funny,

926
00:55:53.119 --> 00:55:58.280
Yo, my mom is funny,
yo, like Philly women. Philly,

927
00:55:58.400 --> 00:56:00.840
Philly got the funniest women, I'm
all right like, And it's more so

928
00:56:01.159 --> 00:56:05.559
just because y'all know how to bust
back when you know what I'm saying,

929
00:56:05.599 --> 00:56:07.039
y'all know how to jone back like
y'all know how to you know, like

930
00:56:07.239 --> 00:56:09.760
you you throw a left jab,
well shit, they got a right hook

931
00:56:09.800 --> 00:56:14.920
like and it's funny though. It's
funny most importantly, and it's funny.

932
00:56:15.039 --> 00:56:19.320
It's funny yo, Like I definitely
yeah, I agree. And when we

933
00:56:19.480 --> 00:56:22.599
was kids though, and we talk
about disrespectful kids right like, yeah,

934
00:56:22.599 --> 00:56:24.800
it's disrespect but yo, man,
like you knew not to wear that fucking

935
00:56:24.840 --> 00:56:27.960
shirt again, let me say something. That was the last time I want

936
00:56:28.360 --> 00:56:31.800
yeah, like that's the thing,
right, It didn't turn into oh many

937
00:56:31.920 --> 00:56:36.480
bullying me? Yeah no, it
was if you talk bad about like,

938
00:56:36.519 --> 00:56:38.960
I'll never forget. I came to
school with a Foo Boo outfit right now.

939
00:56:39.079 --> 00:56:44.079
This is when like Fooboo was on
his way out and I still wear

940
00:56:44.119 --> 00:56:46.519
food. I got on food Boo
shorts right now, yo, Like Forever

941
00:56:46.599 --> 00:56:51.320
twenty one did a collection with foole
Man, I gotta I gotta promo code

942
00:56:51.400 --> 00:56:53.400
food go to Clintfield dead ass right
now. But anyway, that's neither hand

943
00:56:53.519 --> 00:56:59.599
there. Foo Boo, though,
stood for fuck you bitches, uh and

944
00:57:00.360 --> 00:57:08.480
kids in school like it's the for
me, kids say bitches. So I

945
00:57:08.599 --> 00:57:12.639
mean, yeah, I used to. I didn't you know I was.

946
00:57:12.880 --> 00:57:15.679
I'd be like, yo, like
I like food woo, but I like

947
00:57:15.880 --> 00:57:21.760
my I like not like my piece
too, yeah yo like yeah, um

948
00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:24.800
listen, speaking of Philly, you
gotta been in tonight for y'all who watching

949
00:57:24.840 --> 00:57:28.679
on live or if you listen to
this tonight. Yeah, I'm about to

950
00:57:28.719 --> 00:57:30.960
go DJ. Talk to me about
it. It's called wrist bands only,

951
00:57:31.199 --> 00:57:36.519
right, So when you walk in, you know the party it's always free.

952
00:57:36.800 --> 00:57:40.360
What's this voice? This is me
Jesus, my DJ quiet Storm.

953
00:57:40.440 --> 00:57:45.599
Oh my god, I think shit? All right? But all right,

954
00:57:45.639 --> 00:57:49.880
let's but wrist bands only. You
come in, they ask you your relationship

955
00:57:49.920 --> 00:57:52.800
status. Red wrist band mean you
in a relationship. Yellow wrist band means

956
00:57:52.840 --> 00:57:57.840
complicated. Uh, Blue wrist band
mean you single, Green mean you DTF

957
00:57:58.079 --> 00:58:00.480
right, And that's if they say
the right thing. Also, though,

958
00:58:00.559 --> 00:58:04.239
what I love about it is it's
me djan right, and it coincides with

959
00:58:04.320 --> 00:58:08.000
my podcast music is love language and
me DJing. It's fun like me,

960
00:58:08.199 --> 00:58:13.079
I found DJ and during the pandemic
after my father passed away. And I

961
00:58:13.159 --> 00:58:15.679
don't do it for the money,
like That's why it's always free. That's

962
00:58:15.719 --> 00:58:17.559
why it's always just a good time. I want you to hear good music

963
00:58:17.800 --> 00:58:21.760
and I want you dance and face
to face with somebody. That's that's what

964
00:58:21.880 --> 00:58:23.480
it's all about. That's what I
like about wrist bands only. And also

965
00:58:23.519 --> 00:58:27.679
you can meet somebody right and you
can now fellas ouldn't. Don't have to

966
00:58:27.760 --> 00:58:30.480
work for you. She got on
a blue wrist band. You think she

967
00:58:30.599 --> 00:58:34.280
looked good? Say something? Okay, now now now I'm gonna give a

968
00:58:34.320 --> 00:58:36.559
little bit of pushback. I'm gonna
give just a little bit of pushback,

969
00:58:36.639 --> 00:58:42.039
just a little bit. Take it
back, now, y'all. The last

970
00:58:42.119 --> 00:58:45.360
wrist Band's only party? Yeah,
Philly, in Philly, Okay, in

971
00:58:45.440 --> 00:58:47.440
Philly. Yeah, me and my
girlfriends was there. We always looking cute.

972
00:58:47.559 --> 00:58:51.320
Yeah, everybody had on these singles
from Span Yeah. I'm not gonna

973
00:58:51.320 --> 00:58:52.519
lie. I even had on it
down the fun wristband? Did you?

974
00:58:53.440 --> 00:58:59.119
Nobody got no play? Okay,
So what's the scary ass niggas you'll be

975
00:58:59.119 --> 00:59:00.760
bringing out to the events? I
think they don't look a lot of guys

976
00:59:00.800 --> 00:59:04.679
aren't got no game. You don't
have to have game. We got the

977
00:59:04.679 --> 00:59:06.880
wristbands on. But you gotta at
least you gotta know. You gotta have

978
00:59:06.920 --> 00:59:08.199
the converse. You gotta know how
to talk. You have to say something.

979
00:59:08.280 --> 00:59:10.360
Now, this is not a DM. I have to walk up to

980
00:59:10.440 --> 00:59:13.920
you and say something. Most guys
don't have that in them. They don't

981
00:59:14.039 --> 00:59:15.400
a lot of guys think they him. You're not him because you can't.

982
00:59:15.519 --> 00:59:19.800
You are not hell because you can't
even approach a woman, yeah without being

983
00:59:19.880 --> 00:59:22.280
disrespectful, Like you can't walk up
to a woman and say, hello,

984
00:59:22.400 --> 00:59:25.360
my name is Arthur, shout out
whoever he may be. I got a

985
00:59:25.400 --> 00:59:29.400
cousin name craziest. But you know
what, I'm not gonna lie. So

986
00:59:29.559 --> 00:59:32.639
tonight, Yeah, I'm not going
to wear the down the fun wristband good.

987
00:59:34.199 --> 00:59:37.000
I'm going to do the single because
you know what, some guys are

988
00:59:37.039 --> 00:59:40.079
a little intimidated. Maybe the down
the fuck Ristan was ye, So today

989
00:59:40.079 --> 00:59:45.559
I'm gonna be single, okay um, And if I don't get no niggas

990
00:59:45.599 --> 00:59:47.239
to night, Clint, I'm gonna
have to write you a bad review on

991
00:59:47.360 --> 00:59:52.239
yelp. Okay, So that's just
what it is. Okay, Uh,

992
00:59:52.719 --> 00:59:54.639
if you don't get no niggas today, but if other people get niggas,

993
00:59:55.199 --> 01:00:00.079
maybe it's you. Sorry. First
of all, maybe you're not an eight

994
01:00:00.800 --> 01:00:05.320
nine like you thought. First of
all, it's not gonna lie. What's

995
01:00:05.360 --> 01:00:07.559
this having events where nigga's just out
here enjoying themselves and having a good time.

996
01:00:07.679 --> 01:00:09.599
Yeah, where the hole is that? No, we don't need that.

997
01:00:09.760 --> 01:00:14.079
Niggas have come get you, come
get your groove on, Broe,

998
01:00:14.559 --> 01:00:17.360
come get your grid, Come get
your grid on. Gotta get your grid.

999
01:00:19.519 --> 01:00:21.840
Yo. Okay, so tell us
where people can find you, where

1000
01:00:21.840 --> 01:00:22.760
they can support you, all of
ever stuff you got going on with that.

1001
01:00:22.960 --> 01:00:24.840
Yo. My name Clint Coley.
Do me a favor. I just

1002
01:00:24.920 --> 01:00:27.679
need you to do me. I
just need to do me a favorite and

1003
01:00:27.719 --> 01:00:30.800
follow a couple of things. You
can follow me at Clint Cole. You

1004
01:00:30.880 --> 01:00:34.639
can follow my podcast and listen to
my podcast called Music is a Love Language.

1005
01:00:34.840 --> 01:00:37.400
We literally just discussed music's fun.
Right. And when I say not

1006
01:00:37.480 --> 01:00:39.039
in a boring way. Right.
If you thought I was entertaining, think

1007
01:00:39.119 --> 01:00:43.960
of this. But we're also incorporating
music. And then the last part is,

1008
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um, if you play spades,
you're a spades player. Follow the

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World Series of Spade Season three is
coming soon. We're going to be at

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the Roots Picnic this weekend during our
activation. The winner of the Roots Picnic

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tournament will be on the show.
So I'm excited. Can't wait. Got

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our defending champion coming back. I'm
just doing a lot, man, I'm

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having I'm having a good time.
I love this good time. I love

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this for you, man, listen. Atlanta, June twenty third, we

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only got ten tickets left. Okay, this listen. If you are in

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the Atlanta area and you want to
have some good conversations about sex, culture

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and relationships, you want to be
at the Chocolate Ship and Sip Live podcast

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taping June twenty third at the se
Content House and Atlanta, Georgia. We

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only have ten tickets left. That's
it. That's it. Ten. By

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the time we come back next week, I don't know how many more we're

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gonna have. Click the link in
my bio get your tickets now or go

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to stormyp dot com. Y'all,
I'm so excited, and I'm mostly excited

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because I really don't know anyone in
Atlanta. So the fact that y'all are

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really coming out to see your girl, it's a big deal. How do

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you it? Make my titties tingle? All right? Hello, now we're

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done. Can follow me on Agram
at Stormy p Pea, at Chocolate Chip

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and Sip, And if you don't
remember anything else, please remember fuck out

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there, dickhead. I love you
and I'll see you guys next week. Piece