1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:14,720 Made a decision. I'll thanks sunny sum on I hed visions night. So 2 00:00:15,039 --> 00:00:21,399 let's motherfucker's yo Yo yo Yo is a regular show. Wow, who cares? 3 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,199 Who cares? It's our show. We do what we want. That's 4 00:00:24,399 --> 00:00:29,199 right. It's the day after Thanksgiving, it is. I'm so full, 5 00:00:29,519 --> 00:00:33,479 me too, got that trip to fan going on. I'm ready for a 6 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:38,640 nap. Oh my gosh, I hate a lot. Yeah. So you're 7 00:00:38,719 --> 00:00:44,719 gonna be in Chicago or you were just in Chicago for Thanksgiving? I am 8 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:49,560 in Chicago. Yeah, you're in Chicago currently having a great time snowing. 9 00:00:49,759 --> 00:00:55,880 It's freezing, is it? Yeah? I know. This is the problem 10 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,640 with living in California. You have to have a lot of different If you 11 00:00:58,759 --> 00:01:00,600 ever want to go anywhere, you have to have a whole separate wardrobe for 12 00:01:00,679 --> 00:01:03,879 that. Well the thing too, is like the suitcase thing, like you 13 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,519 can't just like you know, I've been going on these college tours and stuff. 14 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,640 So it's like I get to carry on, which is perfect because what 15 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,439 am I going. I'm not going anywhere two pairs of jeans and a lot. 16 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:19,599 Yeah that and then like you know, going to football games. But 17 00:01:21,079 --> 00:01:23,000 that's it. But now, like when you go to where it's cold, 18 00:01:23,239 --> 00:01:26,959 you got to have a suitcase so that you can bring your jackets, you 19 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:32,120 know, right, boots or whatever you need. Like the cold weather, 20 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:36,159 you need a bigger suitcase, right, So you got to check your luggage. 21 00:01:36,239 --> 00:01:40,120 You got to check the luggage. Ugh. Yeah, so I'm not 22 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:46,959 even packed yet. I understand, I understand. I when we went to 23 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:53,040 Seattle a little while ago, I needed a jacket for that, but I 24 00:01:53,239 --> 00:01:56,799 just wore it on the plane even though it was like eighty degrees leaving LA. 25 00:01:57,239 --> 00:02:00,760 I just brought my heavy coat and wore it because I was like, 26 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:05,079 I'm not packing. I know, like that that would require checking the luggage. 27 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,920 So I like loaded myself up, you know what I mean, with 28 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:13,080 some stuff and like and then just packed one extra pair of shoes two. 29 00:02:13,719 --> 00:02:15,439 I don't know, I know. I am just with you on that. 30 00:02:15,879 --> 00:02:20,000 Yeah. It's a pain. It's a pain. It's a pain, but 31 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,680 hey, you're gonna have fun. It'll be fun once I get there. 32 00:02:22,719 --> 00:02:25,560 I go to Wendy's house and relax, you know. And yeah, I'm 33 00:02:25,599 --> 00:02:30,439 excited. Be nice. Sonny's gonna have a good time. He's excited it. 34 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:36,039 Tali is excited. Everybody so I'm, like I said, I'm going 35 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:40,759 to my brother's where I was just at my brother's and here's this is like 36 00:02:40,879 --> 00:02:46,960 a little like a little complaint that I shouldn't even be complaining about. But 37 00:02:46,039 --> 00:02:50,800 I can't help it because I have no filter. This could this could hurt 38 00:02:50,879 --> 00:02:55,759 me in the end. But so we always bought we buy the Thanksgiving dinner 39 00:02:57,879 --> 00:03:04,719 from Gelson's, which is over very overpriced as it is, but I mean 40 00:03:04,879 --> 00:03:08,360 it, it really is way overpriced for what you get. But it used 41 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:12,520 to be. I feel like it used to be like one hundred and thirty 42 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:16,759 dollars and you get turkey, and you get your mashed potatoes, and you 43 00:03:16,879 --> 00:03:23,919 get sweet potatoes, and you get vegetable medley of some sort, and then 44 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,439 you get rolls. Okay, And it was we would get a feast for 45 00:03:28,599 --> 00:03:32,520 eight people, even though there's so there's my brother, so four of them, 46 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,199 five of us, that's nine. There's like actually twelve of us every 47 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:42,800 year for Thanksgiving, but you know, the meal for eight. A lot 48 00:03:42,879 --> 00:03:45,719 of the kids were small, some of the kids were young, so they 49 00:03:45,759 --> 00:03:49,319 weren't really eating that much anyway. Now everybody's older and they're eating more, 50 00:03:49,719 --> 00:03:53,199 but it's still too much like turkey if you get the meal for twelve Well 51 00:03:53,240 --> 00:04:00,400 here's the thing, So one year this is going to sound so, but 52 00:04:00,479 --> 00:04:02,960 I think you'll know what I'm talking about. One year, like I bought 53 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:09,120 it. We bought the meal, and like nobody offered to like chip in. 54 00:04:09,719 --> 00:04:12,360 So I wasn't going to be like, hey, guys, like I 55 00:04:12,439 --> 00:04:15,519 bought the whole Thanksgiving meal, like right, you guys want to like split 56 00:04:15,639 --> 00:04:18,879 it or you know? Yeah, So I didn't say anything. Uh, 57 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:26,240 And then like the next year again nobody said anything. Yeah. So like 58 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,600 now it's got up in price. It's like almost two hundred bucks, right, 59 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:33,360 And the other people that we meet there like they're in charge of like 60 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:38,879 pie, yes, you know, I know how do people? That's the 61 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:43,839 thing, you're right, because somebody's and if even if you're not picking up 62 00:04:43,879 --> 00:04:46,360 Gelson's, you're going to the grocery store, like every year I cooked for 63 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,079 seventeen years, I cooked the Thanksgiving the whole shebang, right, and I'm 64 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:56,519 going to the grocery store and I'm buying everything, the turkey, the sides, 65 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,439 the booze, the everything, right, and then it's like you can 66 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:03,879 bring pie and like and then they make the homemade pie and they bring like 67 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:08,920 two homemade pies, right, and it's not enough, And it's like, 68 00:05:09,199 --> 00:05:14,600 yes, so somebody has is the sucker that gets stuck with not just cooking 69 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,319 the whole thing, but paying for the whole thing and cleaning and cleaning up 70 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,399 after the whole thing. Well, so we do go to my brother and 71 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:29,519 sister in law's house and she does she provides like appetizers and drinks. Yeah, 72 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,160 but like most of us don't drink. So like my John will have 73 00:05:33,399 --> 00:05:38,319 like a beer or two maybe throughout the day. That's just how he is. 74 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,839 I feel like I was so misled. I thought my husband might have 75 00:05:42,879 --> 00:05:45,800 had a drinking problem, like when I first met him, which was okay 76 00:05:45,959 --> 00:05:49,040 by me because I probably had one too at the time. So like we 77 00:05:49,199 --> 00:05:53,360 drank together. But it turned out as I think I've told you that he 78 00:05:53,519 --> 00:05:56,680 was just more keeping me company. He doesn't really on his own accord, 79 00:05:56,759 --> 00:06:00,519 doesn't really drink very much, which is which is obviously fine. But I'm 80 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:05,879 saying, like, so he's not worried about alcohol. My own my brother 81 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:11,000 and my sister in law barely drink. So they'll have like some beer right 82 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,519 there. That's it. That's all they have to provide and some like sparkling 83 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:19,560 water and their house and some appetizers, which great, but here now see 84 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:25,279 now that it's like these are very quality problems. But like also we have 85 00:06:25,439 --> 00:06:30,319 to drive pretty far, usually in traffic on Thanksgiving. Like I would be 86 00:06:30,519 --> 00:06:33,959 just as happy doing it at my house, but they all live in Santa 87 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:38,319 Clarita, like the rest of the people that are coming to Thanksgiving, So 88 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,639 like it's that makes more sense for us to go drive to them at it. 89 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:45,560 Okay, it's I'm sure it's fine, and I'm just being a little 90 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,839 bit cheap, but it's just now just kind of expected. And like the 91 00:06:48,959 --> 00:06:54,839 last couple of years, we had to also bring extra because the two hundred 92 00:06:54,839 --> 00:07:00,759 dollars meal doesn't actually feed everybody anymore. People we need extra mashed potatoes and 93 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,360 gravy. And it's always like, okay, so you're gonna bring like an 94 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:08,600 extra side. Well each those sides are like twenty five bucks just for so 95 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,519 this year, I said, I kind of it was like a little hint, 96 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,680 little passive aggressive hint. I was like, okay, I'll bring extra 97 00:07:15,759 --> 00:07:19,759 mashed potatoes because I know they don't provide enough mashed potatoes, but like I'm 98 00:07:19,839 --> 00:07:25,199 just gonna make them from like instant mashed potatoes, right, because those sides 99 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,040 that really adds up. Yeah, totally. I'm not spending two hundred and 100 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:33,600 fifty dollars unless they split it with you. Yeah, but then that creates 101 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,439 a weird thing where it's like, hey, do you guys want to kick 102 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:42,680 in ten bucks for like half the mashed potatoes? So they provide the house 103 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,519 and the appetizers. What kind of appetizer? That's what I'm saying. It's 104 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,199 like Trader Joe's, you know what I mean. It's not like, right, 105 00:07:48,879 --> 00:07:53,759 she's not cooking up anything super fancy, right, Okay, Yeah, 106 00:07:55,759 --> 00:07:59,199 and it's got a little bit it's gotten a little bit unfair. But like 107 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,360 at this point now it's just the you know what I mean, it's become 108 00:08:01,399 --> 00:08:05,319 the tradition. It's become like it would be weird at this point if I 109 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,600 was like, hey, guys, so the Gelison's is gone up, or 110 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,959 I'd have to be like, you know what, I'm just gonna order it 111 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:18,079 from Ralph's from now on because it's a lotless expensive. Yeah, well maybe 112 00:08:18,199 --> 00:08:22,360 try raups, don't I don't, or yeah, or you gotta bring the 113 00:08:22,879 --> 00:08:26,560 sides. You just make them. Also, it's not as good anymore because 114 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:31,399 they don't do sweet potatoes they offer. They do green bean castrole, which 115 00:08:31,519 --> 00:08:35,559 the pie lady, the pie people also like to bring a green bean castle. 116 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:39,120 Oh they do. Yeah, okay, but I don't eat green bean 117 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,960 castle. Like. I don't care about any of it. Besides appetizers and 118 00:08:43,039 --> 00:08:46,600 turkey. I love the appetite and mashed potatoes, yeah, I like. 119 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:50,559 And I like the stuffing. Yeah, I don't love stuffing. You know 120 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:54,159 why, because we've talked about this. It's people due to stuffing. What 121 00:08:54,279 --> 00:08:56,559 people do to tuna salad, which is like, but they add stuff. 122 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:00,919 Yeah, there's like there's onions, and there's things, there's green, little 123 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,799 green, there's things. I don't celery, celery. No, I don't 124 00:09:03,879 --> 00:09:07,000 like any of that. I don't want to. I don't want my mouth 125 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,639 to. I don't want to unfamiliar things that my brain has to figure out 126 00:09:09,639 --> 00:09:13,799 what it is and then like what is that that I just bit into? 127 00:09:13,039 --> 00:09:16,639 Yeah? Yeah, too much going on and stuffing, that's how I am. 128 00:09:16,799 --> 00:09:22,919 I love stuffing, but I only like just regular stovetop stuffing. So 129 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,320 now I've become known around the House and the Family, as well as podcasts 130 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:31,360 that I've been on as like, I only eat stovetop stuffing because I don't 131 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,159 want a stuffing with fruit in it. It's just is not exactly yeah, 132 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:39,559 and it just throws me up. And I love stovetops so much, and 133 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:46,919 it'll yeah, I love ruined. I've had stuffing where there's like apples put 134 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,279 in it or grapes, and but the stovetop No, absolutely not that. 135 00:09:52,039 --> 00:09:56,919 No, No, I've never had a stuffing that tastes better than stovetope, 136 00:09:56,039 --> 00:10:00,200 me too. But does stovetop have if it does, a celery, a 137 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:05,600 very small amount might have fun again, but it's yeah, there's there's no 138 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,639 crunch. There's no crunch. I don't think that if there's no crunch, 139 00:10:09,799 --> 00:10:13,799 Yeah, I think that people add celery to it and I and and chop 140 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,279 fresh onions and stuff. No, that's no, you don't need all that 141 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,720 stovetop stuffing. Stop trying to fuck up stuff. And it's so easy to 142 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:28,559 top and make that. Why are you making it harder on yourself? Put 143 00:10:28,919 --> 00:10:33,399 right right? The thing that I that scheves me out is when they put 144 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:37,480 the stuffing in the turkey, Like I don't know why, but I'd rather 145 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:41,519 the stuffing. I would cook the stuffing outside of the turkey in its own 146 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,399 care, and then I would base the stuffing with the turkey juices. But 147 00:10:46,799 --> 00:10:52,480 putting it inside the turkey, Eh, again, unnecessary. Yeah, it's 148 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:56,639 unnecessary and it makes the turkey taste take longer to cook. Did you know 149 00:10:56,759 --> 00:11:01,200 that? No? I didn't know that. Yeah. Every year we bring 150 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:07,080 this turkey that's frozen. It's cooked and then frozen, which means it takes 151 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:11,039 a lot less time to cook because you're not cooking it from raw right, 152 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:15,519 you don't have to it doesn't have to be thawed. You put it right 153 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,240 in the oven. But it only takes like two and a half hours. 154 00:11:18,519 --> 00:11:20,600 But every year, my sister in law, Raquel, and I are like, 155 00:11:22,159 --> 00:11:24,559 how do we do this again? Every single year? We've been doing 156 00:11:24,639 --> 00:11:28,240 this for like fifteen years, and every year we're like, oh, wait, 157 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,440 do we put some water on the bottom of the pan, and like 158 00:11:31,519 --> 00:11:33,200 how did we do it last year? And which pan did we use last 159 00:11:33,279 --> 00:11:39,440 year? And it's like we're such a mess. Just buy the disposable we 160 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:43,799 do now. We have been now because I have one of those pans that 161 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:48,759 have like a grate on it right, so that it's and we were using 162 00:11:48,879 --> 00:11:52,919 that, but then it's like so much cleaning with that thing, I know, 163 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:56,039 I know. So now we're put We just get one of those foil 164 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,960 things and we put a little. But every year we're like, how much 165 00:11:58,039 --> 00:12:03,679 water you forget? Yeah? How long? Long? How long do you'd 166 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,120 cut? Yes, we underset the oven? Do we? Oh? Do 167 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,240 it? It needs its own setup. But a few years ago we had 168 00:12:09,279 --> 00:12:15,759 a fan of the water Cooler come to the studio and make us a fried 169 00:12:15,879 --> 00:12:20,039 turkey. Never had It was so good, It seems so simple. I 170 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:24,919 mean, obviously there's horror stories you've seen people try to like fry their turkeys 171 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,480 in the oil goes everywhere and everything catches on fire. But he knew how 172 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,720 to do it. It did not take that long. It tasted so good. 173 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:35,200 And yeah, if that's possible, I would suggest just doing a fried 174 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,600 turkey. I do that. It's not possible, possible unless you're a fan 175 00:12:39,759 --> 00:12:43,320 from water Cooler wants to drive to Santa Clarina. You're a chef, I 176 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:48,120 know, just a big giant pot and he just you know, got the 177 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,639 turkey hanging on a thing and he just dipped it in there and then stuck 178 00:12:50,639 --> 00:12:52,840 it in there for however long it takes, took it out and it was 179 00:12:52,879 --> 00:12:56,480 done deep. He used a deep fryer. Yeah, but it was it 180 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,840 was a big giant it was not. Yeah, am I putting that thing? 181 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,720 Also, I haven't even gotten to the point of buying an air fier 182 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:09,919 yet, Like I'm still back at like which one should I get? I 183 00:13:11,039 --> 00:13:15,759 never progressed past that. I made a TV dinner the other night with my 184 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,759 air fryer really well, because I like, did I tell you this? 185 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:22,519 I like the tuna nooda castle role from Stofers, and I like it baked 186 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:26,200 and I like it getting crispy on top. But I always cook it in 187 00:13:26,279 --> 00:13:28,200 the microwave. But now I got this air fryer that we've talked about that 188 00:13:28,279 --> 00:13:31,000 I barely ever use, and I'm like, maybe I should put it. 189 00:13:31,519 --> 00:13:35,080 Can you cook a Like? I was like, can you cook a frozen 190 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:37,519 dinner in an air fryer? And I looked it up, and you can. 191 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:41,039 You pop the thing out like a popsicle, You put it in whatever 192 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:45,519 dish and then you put it in the air fryer. It took the same 193 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,679 amount of if not longer oh, then the end of the oven, Like, 194 00:13:48,799 --> 00:13:52,879 I still had to bake it in the thing unless I didn't set it 195 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,960 on the right setting. Well, if it's an already made thing, then 196 00:13:58,039 --> 00:14:01,039 I guess that kind of makes sense. Yeah, you can make anything in 197 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:05,039 an air fryer. But did it taste different? Its great? No, 198 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,399 yeah, it tasted better than the microwave. Okay, seven minutes in the 199 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:13,600 microwave and then I have to so instead versus forty five fifty minutes in the 200 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:18,679 air fryer. But it's the same, right, You don't know that I 201 00:14:18,759 --> 00:14:20,320 didn't do it right? You put you put it in the airfire for forty 202 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:26,120 five minutes. Yeah, that doesn't seem right. But is your air more 203 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:31,159 like anoks like A Yeah, then you probably didn't have it and you probably 204 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:35,200 baked it on the toast. That's what happened. But can you when I 205 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:39,000 see when I look it up, they show the air fryers in a I 206 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:43,559 don't have that kind of air fryer. It's a bucket air fryer. Those 207 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,360 are the regular Yeah, you's the oven? The oven? Yeah, no, 208 00:14:46,799 --> 00:14:52,039 with an airfier feature. 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It's you know, Amy's mom does Thanksgiving, 245 00:17:37,559 --> 00:17:41,720 so the whole family comes over, all the you know, just everybody comes 246 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,400 over. It's probably about like thirty people somewhere. Wow. So every year 247 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,960 Amy's mom does the Thanksgiving and then every year Amy's aunt does a kind of 248 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:52,640 Christmas Eve. So that's how they do it, Okay, and every year 249 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,720 it's a big deal. So this whole week the house has been getting ready 250 00:17:56,240 --> 00:18:00,160 for Thanksgiving, so it's been a bit of a madhouse. But it's always 251 00:18:00,279 --> 00:18:03,400 very very nice and very good and very enjoyable. Do they have how do 252 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,440 they do like the seating? Like, do they bring in tables? Yeah, 253 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:11,480 they bring in uh tables and then clear out the furniture in the living 254 00:18:11,559 --> 00:18:15,400 room and then just make one big giant table out of like three or four 255 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:19,200 long you know ones that they have brought in. Okay, everyone just sits 256 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:23,519 at that so rentals, yeah, rental chairs, tables, and then just 257 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,559 clear out the living room put them there. Nice. Yeah, that's how 258 00:18:27,599 --> 00:18:30,279 it used to be when I was a kid, right, it would be 259 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:34,880 at one of like the aunts an uncle's house, and never at our house, 260 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,400 but always at one of their houses. And it was always like, 261 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:44,640 you know, because my mother had a sister and a brother, and then 262 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,000 when my grandmother was still alive, it with so many people. Yea, 263 00:18:48,079 --> 00:18:52,039 yeah, I loved it, though I know, I we never my mom 264 00:18:52,079 --> 00:18:56,279 would cook every year, and we didn't have any cousins in California. They're 265 00:18:56,279 --> 00:19:02,359 all in Cleveland, so like maybe if my if my cousins came to visit 266 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,079 for Thanksgiving, then it was exciting. But every year it was just this. 267 00:19:04,559 --> 00:19:07,640 I liked it when Wendy came into the picture because then she came and 268 00:19:07,799 --> 00:19:11,839 she brought and then she had kids, and then then my nephews would come 269 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:15,119 over and then that was fun. It would like bring life into the house. 270 00:19:15,519 --> 00:19:18,599 Right, you know, but yeah, my mom would make a turkey 271 00:19:18,759 --> 00:19:26,240 and but yeah, I mean, like I've been cooking every year, and 272 00:19:26,799 --> 00:19:30,319 my kids are not big fans of going to Adam's family for Thanksgiving, right 273 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,559 right, just because there's not any it's you know, it's a lot of 274 00:19:33,599 --> 00:19:37,799 older people and you know, it's kind of boring for them. So we 275 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:45,440 split it up this year. Well, I love, I highly recommend not 276 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,720 doing anything because you have to because once I got away from like I told, 277 00:19:49,839 --> 00:19:52,400 I mean, I told you this story. But like many years ago, 278 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:59,519 we'd go to my mom's apartment and it was sort of an an obligation 279 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:03,960 type thing and it was like not fun. Right, it wasn't fun. 280 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:08,160 It wasn't fun and relaxing. It felt like work and it felt like just 281 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:14,400 family stress, and like like it was the kind of thing I had to 282 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:18,079 brace myself for, you know. And ever since, I've been doing Thanksgiving 283 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:19,559 with my brother and my sister in law. It's like a pleasure, Like 284 00:20:19,759 --> 00:20:25,680 I like it, Like it's relaxing, and you know it's it's my brother, 285 00:20:26,799 --> 00:20:30,039 hit my sister in law, their kids, and then another couple that 286 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:33,000 we really like and their daughter, right and us and you guys. Yes, 287 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:37,119 the freaking amount of people. It's pleasant every year. I really like 288 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:41,680 these people, Like I really have good conversations with them, and then we 289 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:47,359 like watch TV and we do and standing up or whatever. Like it's like 290 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,039 whatever, right, it's whatever, right, Yeah, it's got to be 291 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:55,200 relaxing. It's it's so hard when it's forced, you know, so for 292 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,920 but that's what happens sometimes when you have kids, like little kids, and 293 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,319 then you got to go to so the in laws or the people don't get 294 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:06,559 along. And but now like, yeah, I'm enjoying. I'm enjoying just 295 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:11,799 like you know, taking my kids to see their cousins and they enjoy it 296 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,480 and my my family enjoys it. Right, So it's fun. Yeah, 297 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,359 you have to travel, which sucks, But do you feel do you still 298 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,680 have your other place out there? No? No, no, no, 299 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:26,799 I got rid of that a while ago. Okay, so it's you and 300 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:32,200 Amy and her parents, right, no one else though, the kids. 301 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:38,039 Well obviously, yeah that sounds weird though living with her parents. Uh no, 302 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:42,240 not really, not anymore, even though it wasn't really even weird to 303 00:21:42,279 --> 00:21:47,359 begin with. Her parents are so nice and lovely, you know that it's 304 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,960 it's you know, not hard for me at all. That's nice normal feel 305 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:55,880 like you don't have privacy though you can't just like a little bit. You 306 00:21:56,039 --> 00:22:00,519 have to like, oh, let's go to our room to have sex quiet, 307 00:22:00,839 --> 00:22:06,240 like yeah, I mean it definitely would be more freeing if they weren't 308 00:22:06,279 --> 00:22:10,160 around. But are they ever Do they ever go anywhere? Yeah? They 309 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,559 go on trips. They were gone like two weekends. Really nice though, 310 00:22:12,599 --> 00:22:17,759 to have built in help, built in hat. But like you're always living 311 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,759 with other people. Well, I guess kids are kind of a cock block 312 00:22:19,799 --> 00:22:25,480 too. Yeah, anyway, but I think a lot of kids live with 313 00:22:25,559 --> 00:22:29,039 their grandparents and stuff like that, you know, or at least in the 314 00:22:29,079 --> 00:22:33,799 Midwest. Yeah, you don't see it a lot out here though I don't 315 00:22:33,839 --> 00:22:37,400 see it. Well. Actually, Sonny was telling me his best friend he 316 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:41,799 would always go on hang out. He would. We were talking about this 317 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:48,400 the other day that like he he he always wishes he did have like grandparents 318 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:52,519 that were like in his life, not like on death's door to say it, 319 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,799 but like you know, right and so, but like, yeah, 320 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,160 he had a friend who every weekend and he would have to go and like 321 00:23:00,279 --> 00:23:03,839 go to his grandparents' house with him, and he was like, I was 322 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,799 more and he's like, I saw what it was like. You know, 323 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,720 some people are so close with their grandparents. He's like, it would be 324 00:23:08,839 --> 00:23:12,000 nice if I was close with my grandparents, but you know, it is 325 00:23:12,079 --> 00:23:15,119 what it is. But and I didn't really. I mean, I had 326 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,880 grandparents, but they didn't speak a lick at English, right, and they 327 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,440 lived in Cleveland, and then they come and visit and I had fun. 328 00:23:22,599 --> 00:23:26,200 I loved it, but they were we were you know, I'm like that 329 00:23:26,319 --> 00:23:30,119 too. I have a good relationship, you know, pretty good relationship with 330 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:34,559 my grandparents, but you know, they live in England and Arizona. So 331 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,440 I went to go see him once a year when I was a kid. 332 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:41,359 And now, you know, I haven't seen my English grandparents for you know, 333 00:23:41,519 --> 00:23:45,400 five sixty years, a long time. So I grew up going like 334 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,880 I wish I were around my grandparents more often. So I think it's very 335 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,359 nice that my kids have their grandparents. I don't believe your grandparents are so 336 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:59,400 alive. Actually, my grandmother in England just died two weeks ago. Oh 337 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,559 but she had really bad Alzheimer's for years and years, so she hasn't you 338 00:24:03,599 --> 00:24:06,839 know. It was kind of just waiting for that to happen. And my 339 00:24:07,039 --> 00:24:11,920 grandfather on my dad's side died about thirteen years ago, so everyone else's still 340 00:24:11,039 --> 00:24:18,039 too. So I have my grandfather on my mom's side is like, there's 341 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,799 her real dad, which she reconnected with, you know, about eight to 342 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,000 ten years ago, okay, and then there's the grandfather that I kind of 343 00:24:26,039 --> 00:24:29,359 knew growing up going to England, so I kind of have like two grandfathers 344 00:24:29,519 --> 00:24:32,799 in England now. So that was like her stepfather, right, and that 345 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,680 she pretty much grew up with, okay, and then she reconnected with her 346 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:41,519 real dad again about ten years ago. And he's nice. He's you know, 347 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,039 he's a bit of a Back in the day, he was a bit 348 00:24:44,079 --> 00:24:45,759 of a well not a bit of it, was kind of a gangster in 349 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:51,720 England. Oh yeah. So it's very very interesting and I wish I could 350 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:52,960 go over there more often, like ask him about that sort of thing. 351 00:24:53,519 --> 00:24:57,559 But yeah, I guess he mellowed out in his old age and is very 352 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:03,279 nice now. And uh yeah, my grandmother in Arizona's still live. When 353 00:25:03,319 --> 00:25:06,680 we try to go out there as often as we can, maybe it's once 354 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,359 a year, but it's tough. We went there. We went over there 355 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,000 last year. Huh. So yeah, I still got some grandparents around. 356 00:25:11,039 --> 00:25:15,400 That's wild. Yeah, my grandparents died like a million years ago. But 357 00:25:15,559 --> 00:25:22,759 also my grandma was a cunt. Oh really that weird when grandmothers are mean. 358 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:26,279 Oh yeah, she was not nice. She wasn't nice to my mother 359 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:33,200 either, which you know, could I don't think like my brother and sister, 360 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,640 I mean they they probably they couldn't have had any real relationship with it, 361 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:41,279 cause I don't remember. I mostly remember my grandmother from being young, 362 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:47,440 right, and like I said, not nice, like really critical, like 363 00:25:47,599 --> 00:25:51,279 mean. I would be scared when she was coming to visit us because she 364 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,480 was mean. Weird, it's so horrible. She had a lot to say. 365 00:25:55,519 --> 00:26:00,880 Well, she they're Russian, like from Russia, spoke Russian and came 366 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,160 here when they were like my grandmother and grandfather when they were sixteen. I 367 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:10,480 think they were already together and they're you know Russian people. They're hard, 368 00:26:10,759 --> 00:26:15,240 Yeah, hard people, you know, fairly cold, Yeah, and like 369 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:22,680 yeah, don't suffer fools and think everybody's stupid. That's stupid, she's stupid. 370 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:29,759 Like that was my grandmother's refrain, all that everybody was stupid, stupid. 371 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:36,400 Yeah yeah, yeah, well anyway, you were going to tell us 372 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:41,559 about your your uh your workout regimen. Oh, I was because I need 373 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:45,160 to be inspired after all this Thanksgiving eating. Okay, so I've been. 374 00:26:45,319 --> 00:26:48,880 I was thinking of you, and that's why I was like, I'm going 375 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:56,000 to share this this new my new weight loss theory. It's not new. 376 00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,400 It's just that sometimes I'm not like, Okay, so my big thing to 377 00:27:00,519 --> 00:27:03,880 lose weight. So I've lost some weight recently, you know, like not 378 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,880 even that long ago, a couple of months ago, I was complaining because 379 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,240 I'd let things get a little out of control. My the thing that brings 380 00:27:11,319 --> 00:27:15,559 me down is sugar because I'm such an addict that when I'm eating sweets, 381 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,519 like I'm eating sweets like I'm gonna eat the fuck out of some candy, 382 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:25,279 like and I'm nobody's safe, Like no dessert in our house is safe from 383 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,359 me. Because I'll tell you why, like, just to be truthful, 384 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:32,599 I will eat my feelings, you know. And I and it's not I'm 385 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:37,160 not like a salty person or so I don't necessarily really overeat meals. It's 386 00:27:37,319 --> 00:27:41,359 just that any sweets that are in the house, I can't get enough. 387 00:27:41,599 --> 00:27:45,880 Ye, so I will just eat and then once I'm eating sugar, it's 388 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,359 all bets are off. It's like all day. Like I'll wake up in 389 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:52,079 the morning and be like, oh, you know, it sounds good brownies, 390 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,759 you know whatever. I'll eat a little and I'll always tell myself it's 391 00:27:55,799 --> 00:27:57,400 like any addiction. I'll be like, I'm not going to do that today. 392 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:02,319 Today, I'm gonna eat much. I'm gonna eat clean as soon as 393 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:03,319 I start to eat, you know, and then I always by the end 394 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,519 of the day or I'm out to dinner with a friend and they're like, 395 00:28:07,599 --> 00:28:08,920 want to get dessert, and I'm like, hell, yeah, I know, 396 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:15,240 right. So when I'm off sugar, this is not to say that 397 00:28:15,319 --> 00:28:18,200 I'm some freak like no fruit, no, like no no crackers, like 398 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:25,599 no. Of course, even I will eat oatmeal like that's maple flavored oatmeal. 399 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:30,400 It's I'm not crazy about that. I just can't don't eat anything that's 400 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,039 like dessert that right, that you would eat for dessert for that you don't 401 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,000 need to eat. So when you say sugar, you're not like you're not 402 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:41,799 talking about like red vines and nerds and candy. Yeah, that's what I'm 403 00:28:41,799 --> 00:28:45,319 talking about. You can't have any of that. But you're also talking about 404 00:28:45,319 --> 00:28:52,079 dessert like cookies, candy, cake, ice cream, all of it. 405 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:57,960 I can't have any of that. So but to me, it's that's the 406 00:28:59,119 --> 00:29:03,319 reason for that is not to be so hard on myself for all or nothing. 407 00:29:03,519 --> 00:29:06,920 It's that those foods are just trigger foods. They're just I'm just gonna 408 00:29:07,519 --> 00:29:11,519 I'm not going to be able to stop eating them if I start, And 409 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,839 I always tell myself I'm going to be able to I always think because you 410 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,559 start craving it after a while and you're like, ah, I'm being too 411 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:25,000 hard on myself, Like I'm sure I could eat just like a little bit 412 00:29:25,079 --> 00:29:29,400 of candy. I never can. I am in my fifties. It's never 413 00:29:29,559 --> 00:29:33,359 worked since I was a little kid. So at a certain point, I 414 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,119 just get sick of myself and I go like, no, I'm not going 415 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,279 to have it at all. But here's the thing. When it catches on 416 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:45,960 and I'm really like going for a while and I'm not doing that, I 417 00:29:45,079 --> 00:29:51,640 start feeling better. It's not instant. It's not like, oh, like 418 00:29:51,759 --> 00:29:53,440 I don't eat sweets. My god, I have so much energy and my 419 00:29:53,599 --> 00:29:56,640 sex drive is great, Like it's not like bad. It's not a miracle. 420 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:02,599 It's just that I feel more in control and less like gross all the 421 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:04,799 time. Like I don't feel like by the end of the day. And 422 00:30:06,599 --> 00:30:10,319 that's not also to say that I don't overeat sometimes and feel like I didn't 423 00:30:10,359 --> 00:30:12,920 mean to eat all that, you know, ten pieces of bread. Sometimes 424 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:18,160 that happens. But so then I got back to going to the gym. 425 00:30:18,119 --> 00:30:22,319 But I don't go to Berry's boot camp like I just go. I go 426 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:26,720 to the gym. I go on the pre cor machine. I do thirty 427 00:30:26,799 --> 00:30:30,960 minutes. But I started at like a low level so I don't get super 428 00:30:30,079 --> 00:30:37,200 tired or sweat up a storm. I'm really trying to be like a little 429 00:30:37,279 --> 00:30:41,519 bit at a time. But it's working. And originally I was like, 430 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,960 this isn't going to work because I'm older now and it's harder to lose weight. 431 00:30:45,079 --> 00:30:49,039 But it's been going really well. It's just slow and I don't weigh 432 00:30:49,119 --> 00:30:55,599 myself. But I'm like, oh I once because the first time going back 433 00:30:55,599 --> 00:30:59,720 to the gym was just like, oh my god, like I've lost all 434 00:31:00,279 --> 00:31:03,079 muscle mass, you know, I can't lift a weight. So I was 435 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:07,200 like, you know what, I'm not going to be embarrassed. I'm gonna 436 00:31:07,279 --> 00:31:11,000 like listen to a podcast and I'm gonna I'm just gonna make I don't care 437 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,799 if people are looking and I'm on the no weight on the machine, you 438 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,279 know what I mean. It's like embarrassing because I used to be able to 439 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,039 do more and I'm like, I don't want people to look and go like, 440 00:31:19,279 --> 00:31:22,279 oh my god, she's not even just even haves the thing not to 441 00:31:22,279 --> 00:31:26,680 still like ten pounds is like no weight at all. But I'm like, 442 00:31:26,799 --> 00:31:30,599 you know what, that's okay, Like, no, I don't care, 443 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:37,200 I swear to godlin it. I'm starting to feel, like I've heard people 444 00:31:37,279 --> 00:31:40,119 say, I'm starting to feel a little zero fox, a little bit like 445 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:44,960 yeah, well, it's nobody's business what I'm doing. I do do the 446 00:31:45,119 --> 00:31:48,480 thing still where I make up a little story in my head about why I'm 447 00:31:48,559 --> 00:31:51,720 not doing any weights, like I'm, you know, recovering from surgery or 448 00:31:51,759 --> 00:31:56,079 whatever, and that I should be really patted on the back for like if 449 00:31:56,119 --> 00:32:00,720 people knew the real story, which is like, hey, she just had 450 00:32:00,839 --> 00:32:05,480 major back surgery. Look at her. She's rehabbing. You got to start 451 00:32:05,599 --> 00:32:07,400 slow with these things. Okay, so none of that happened, and I 452 00:32:07,519 --> 00:32:12,640 just gained weight during COVID. Fine. The point is nobody needs to know 453 00:32:12,799 --> 00:32:15,920 why exactly I'm at zero. But so I've been working up real slow. 454 00:32:16,559 --> 00:32:21,960 That's good. I went up only what I started at the pre COREP machine 455 00:32:22,319 --> 00:32:27,000 on seven and I just recently went to eight and I was like super proud 456 00:32:27,039 --> 00:32:30,000 of myself, and I I'm not in a rush. The pre Core machine. 457 00:32:30,119 --> 00:32:34,359 Is that the that's the one that seems like you're like cross country skiing. 458 00:32:34,519 --> 00:32:38,200 Yes, Like, isn't it elliptical? Elliptical? Yeah? But the 459 00:32:38,279 --> 00:32:43,480 one with the arms with the arm is I think that it's called the pre 460 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,400 COREP machine. Yeah, but it's like an elliptical. Yeah. That okay, 461 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:50,640 that's the one I like, I go on there. I really set 462 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,960 my goal for myself as low, just get through thirty minutes. Yeah, 463 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,480 you know, I play little games on my phone. But anyway, the 464 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,240 more I do it without making myself stressed out like I have to have this 465 00:33:00,599 --> 00:33:04,799 intense workout, the more I'm like, oh, I could go back in 466 00:33:04,839 --> 00:33:07,839 two days and do that again. Yeah. So I've been trying to go 467 00:33:07,079 --> 00:33:12,319 like every other day. That's good. And sometimes I miss one more day 468 00:33:12,519 --> 00:33:14,880 and I don't. I'm not hard on myself. I'm not like, oh 469 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,680 god, yeah I miss two days, might as well never go again, 470 00:33:17,279 --> 00:33:22,119 like which is how I used to be. Yeah, very like, oh 471 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,359 I've got it once. I'm working out. I got to take a cluck, 472 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,240 I got to do a zoomba, and I got to take classes and 473 00:33:27,279 --> 00:33:30,400 I gotta, you know, be breathing so heavy. No, No, 474 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:36,160 I'm feeling good. That's good. It's good. But it's working because I'm 475 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,880 already like like, I already had to buy I bought there was this pair 476 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,799 of pants that I wore all the time, uh, and I had to 477 00:33:44,039 --> 00:33:46,519 I bought it. I rebot them in a smaller size. Wow. Yes, 478 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:51,880 so you've lost some late I have, and it's because of I'm not 479 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,599 waste myself. But I'm exercising, Yes, exercising, and the no sugar 480 00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:00,000 and the no sugar. Yeah. So I'm just like, like I said, 481 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:04,519 I eat whatever I want, but I'm just eating a bit less of 482 00:34:04,599 --> 00:34:07,639 it. Right, I'm trying to be a little bit more mindful. But 483 00:34:07,719 --> 00:34:10,599 I'm saying, you can really like half ass this shit. Yeah, you 484 00:34:10,679 --> 00:34:15,719 can still get results, I know, Like it doesn't have to be oh 485 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,800 my god, I'm starving and I'm on a diet because you can't, right, 486 00:34:19,079 --> 00:34:22,320 right, right, Yeah, I need to get into more of a 487 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,320 routine, routine, right, Like I'm like with like I'm at the house 488 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,800 with Italia and she wants to go to Berry's boot camp. I'll go, 489 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,559 okay, just because I feel guilty, you know, or yoga or something. 490 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:37,039 But like, I really like pilates and it's hard to find a pilates 491 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:43,320 that's like not booked up like constant. You know, every place is like, 492 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,800 oh, we'll see you next Tuesday, you know, at least it 493 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:51,119 is in my neighborhood. I feel like there's so many plates my neighborhood, 494 00:34:51,519 --> 00:34:55,239 not around where I am, in both my neighborhoods, they're all like a 495 00:34:55,320 --> 00:35:00,599 lot of them are booked. But I just and I feel again like I'm 496 00:35:00,639 --> 00:35:05,119 not going to be flexible enough, Like I'm just gonna how am I going 497 00:35:05,199 --> 00:35:07,639 to get through a pilates class if I'm not if I need to be, 498 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,039 I feel like I got to get stretched first, like I was talking about 499 00:35:10,119 --> 00:35:15,760 the stretch lab right, So I just got to get back into a routine, 500 00:35:15,159 --> 00:35:19,039 you know. And now It's like, oh, well now it's Thanksgiving. 501 00:35:19,199 --> 00:35:21,920 Now it's the holiday, so wait, I'm you know, it's always 502 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,239 waiting until something else. It's got to get back into a routine. And 503 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:29,480 just like that. The problem is is I'm in two different places, you 504 00:35:29,559 --> 00:35:32,000 know, out the week. You know, like I can go to the 505 00:35:32,119 --> 00:35:36,920 YMCA in our neighborhood, which I like that because I can go at my 506 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,760 own pace. That's fine, But then what do I do when I'm at 507 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:42,880 you know, when I'm especially when I'm at my condo. That's when I 508 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,119 really want to start to when I really want to go and work out. 509 00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:47,480 But then there's all these she she gyms in my neighborhood. I don't want 510 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:52,280 to join any of those gyms, so then my routine gets screwed up. 511 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:58,840 But whatever, I go to such a low rent gym LA Fitness, Yeah 512 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,960 that is like fitness there. I go. Yeah, that place, well 513 00:36:02,079 --> 00:36:05,840 I used to. I feel like I told you guys about this, Like 514 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,079 years ago, there was one in my neighborhood and it was like downstairs and 515 00:36:09,159 --> 00:36:13,360 it was so gross, like you could never not that I would ever take 516 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,159 a shower at the gym anyway, right, But like even if I wanted 517 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:20,639 to there is like they never cleaned the place, like it was disgusting. 518 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,440 Yeah, but it was really close. So it takes me like three minutes. 519 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:28,239 But now I have to drive a little a little bit. It's not 520 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:34,559 walking distance anymore, but it's it's cleaner, but it's still like it's not 521 00:36:34,679 --> 00:36:37,639 a great gym now, I know, but it's fine, Like it gets 522 00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,920 the job done, right, Hey, you know, yeah, go in 523 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,079 use this machine. Don't go when it's busy because I don't want to be 524 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,079 I don't want the weight to be like four deep for the you know the 525 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,079 machine one of those shoulder ones right right right, Yeah, we have the 526 00:36:53,159 --> 00:36:59,400 twenty four hour fitness in my neighborhood, in the condo neighborhood. Oh but 527 00:36:59,639 --> 00:37:02,360 I get like, there's not a gym in your condo. No, No, 528 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,800 do have a YMCA that's fairly close to you? You know that, 529 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:09,840 right, Yes, that's where I go to. Yeah, that's where I 530 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:15,360 go. Yeah, which is great when I'm there, but when i'm the 531 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:20,559 other place, you know, I mean you're at your condo, at my 532 00:37:20,679 --> 00:37:23,400 condo. Yeah, there's a MCA that's close to you at my co Really, 533 00:37:24,559 --> 00:37:30,800 it's on to hunga really for years, I'll tell you. Okay, 534 00:37:31,159 --> 00:37:36,880 okay, all right, well I'm gonna check it out. Let's talk about 535 00:37:37,079 --> 00:37:40,719 story Worth. Oh, perfect for the holidays. Perfect for the holidays, 536 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:45,400 and you know it's the holiday season, and it's a perfect gift to give 537 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:50,480 to somebody. Story Worth it's an online service that helps you and your loved 538 00:37:50,519 --> 00:37:54,119 ones preserve precious memories and stories for years to come. 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It's not like dateline 557 00:39:22,599 --> 00:39:24,920 where you can just listen and it doesn't matter. This is an important one 558 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:30,280 to see. You got large. Yeah, yeah, this is the Netflix 559 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:36,039 one. It's a Netflix documentary about these two people, Jeff and Shalia, 560 00:39:37,119 --> 00:39:40,440 who started this cult. And this guy, Jeff is like a Donald Trump. 561 00:39:40,599 --> 00:39:44,280 Right from the beginning, He's just like I want to make money, 562 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,039 right, He's like whatever, I'm gonna throw some shit against the wall and 563 00:39:47,159 --> 00:39:52,199 see what sticks exactly. And he used his girlfriend to be like, oh 564 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,679 look at us, we're a great couple. Oh this is a good thing. 565 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:59,519 I could sell learn how to be a couple like us right from the 566 00:39:59,599 --> 00:40:01,679 beginn get go. Have you seen this, Kalin? Oh, it's in 567 00:40:02,079 --> 00:40:07,039 insanity right from the get go. They're like not getting any matches from these 568 00:40:07,119 --> 00:40:10,519 people, right, None of these people are falling in love. No, 569 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,920 and it's lopsided because it's mostly women, right, so what do they do? 570 00:40:16,679 --> 00:40:21,480 They like, as as these people are giving more and more of their 571 00:40:21,599 --> 00:40:27,000 lives to this group and like this becomes their job and their whole life and 572 00:40:27,119 --> 00:40:30,480 their social life and everything, he starts heat. But none of these people 573 00:40:30,559 --> 00:40:35,880 are are getting okay, So first, a lot of these people are interested 574 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,440 in people in their lives, like they're coming to the twin flames universe is 575 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:44,320 what it's called. Because they're like I met this guy you know at work 576 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,280 or whatever, and like he says he's not ready for a relationship. So 577 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,280 they'd be like, that's your twin flame. You got to make that happen. 578 00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:54,880 So they'd start stalking the guy, you know, right, do you 579 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:59,920 really are you really committed? Because if you are, go like travel across 580 00:41:00,079 --> 00:41:01,639 the country and like go burn his house down, you know, And they'd 581 00:41:01,679 --> 00:41:07,440 be like, oh, it doesn't seem like a road to success, but 582 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:12,320 yeah, Okay, okay, yeah, are you committed show him the uncan 583 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:16,440 business, you know. So they like so for one of those people it 584 00:41:16,639 --> 00:41:21,360 worked, right, which was the girl the first girl I forgot her name. 585 00:41:21,559 --> 00:41:24,960 Oh yeah that the curly yeah, curly hair girl curly. So she 586 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:30,960 goes, so she's like takes Jeff's advice and Sheliah and she goes and like 587 00:41:31,119 --> 00:41:36,280 convinces this guy like you need to see this twin Flames stuff. So he 588 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,239 looks at it and he's like, oh cool, cool, yeah, I 589 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:44,159 see yeah, we I think you're right. Let's be together. So they're 590 00:41:44,199 --> 00:41:47,639 together for a while. She starts to realize that like part of the twin 591 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,280 Flames thing is like you have to have sex with your twin flame if you're 592 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:58,719 the girl all the time whenever he went yeah on demand, just you have 593 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:04,360 to be constant sex. And she's like, m I mean, I'm not 594 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:08,760 allowed to not be in the mood ever AND's like nope, so now and 595 00:42:09,079 --> 00:42:14,119 you need to do all the work. It's a very like misogynistic kind of 596 00:42:14,199 --> 00:42:19,480 setup. Yeah okay, but let's get to the so. So then so 597 00:42:19,599 --> 00:42:22,639 she's with this guy though for a really really long time, they don't feel 598 00:42:22,679 --> 00:42:25,199 like they can break up with the person because they're gonna let everyone down in 599 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:30,679 the twin flames universe. Meanwhile, a lot of these people are not able 600 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:38,559 to be with their twin flame because their twin flame, right, yeah, 601 00:42:38,599 --> 00:42:44,480 because it's illegal. How about the one woman who's like, Okay, so 602 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,199 I showed up at the same after he'd already taken out of her restrainerorner and 603 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,960 warned her and warned her. She goes to the nightclub nightclub for her birth 604 00:42:53,119 --> 00:42:57,320 yeah, and she's like, no, it was a total coincidence exactly. 605 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,519 I was thinking that too, Like you just happen to show up. Yeah. 606 00:43:00,599 --> 00:43:04,760 She's like, this is so weird. I know he has a restraining 607 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,320 order and now he's so mad at me, and like it's like I didn't 608 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:10,000 know he was going to be there. I don't follow him on social media 609 00:43:10,039 --> 00:43:14,679 anymore. Right, then she gets thrown in jail. She goes to jail, 610 00:43:15,039 --> 00:43:20,519 yes, stock or jail. Yeah. So some of these twin flames 611 00:43:20,639 --> 00:43:24,000 are not working out, right, So they start telling them, oh, 612 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:30,440 your twin flame got some great news for you. This This might not seem 613 00:43:30,559 --> 00:43:32,039 like the greatest news to you at first, but you're going to start to 614 00:43:32,079 --> 00:43:37,320 see that it's good news. Your twin flame is somebody in the group already, 615 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,840 and it's in the same sec it's your best friend. Yeah, it's 616 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:45,719 your bff. That's your twin flame. So some of them. I love 617 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,760 the girl that was like, oh, hell no, I'm not gay, 618 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,159 and they're like, it doesn't matter. You don't have to be gay because 619 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:59,079 what you don't realize is your twin flame is actually a man. You have 620 00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:01,920 masculine, masculine energy. Yeah, they're a masculine energy. Yes, so 621 00:44:02,079 --> 00:44:06,760 you could be the female energy. Stay yourself. So the one girl was 622 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:12,679 just like, no, no, that's just no ma by so she leaves. 623 00:44:13,199 --> 00:44:17,000 But but a lot of them and here's why they're already having this like 624 00:44:17,159 --> 00:44:22,039 cult mentality, like oh, I guess the leader, my leader. My 625 00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:27,400 god, Oh it's freaking jeff. I was like, by the way, 626 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,760 have you have you seen pictures of Jesus and you've seen pictures of me? 627 00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:40,000 Yeah? Do you notice similarities? Long hair, abs for days, Like, 628 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,639 I know, it starts looking like Jesus. Right, He's like, 629 00:44:46,119 --> 00:44:52,159 I'm Jesus. And people are like, okay, so you are sorry, 630 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:59,679 I know, can you I can't understand I don't understand. I don't get 631 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,599 it. I know it's a thing. I know people fall into cults, 632 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:09,280 But here's where my ass gets chapped. Yes, so he tells people that 633 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:15,079 you're really a man, and the people are like, oh, I mean, 634 00:45:15,159 --> 00:45:19,159 that's weird because I've never felt like a man. I've never had thoughts 635 00:45:19,199 --> 00:45:25,280 that I'm trans in my entire life. I've always I've always presented as female 636 00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:30,400 and feel like a female. But you're telling me that I'm really a guy. 637 00:45:30,639 --> 00:45:34,119 So some of them fight it a little bit, and they're like, 638 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,519 I don't want to change my name to a guy. I have to go 639 00:45:36,639 --> 00:45:42,920 by pronouns and I have to change my name, like if you say so 640 00:45:44,079 --> 00:45:47,000 to Dan, right, Okay, So now I'm Dan and I'm a man. 641 00:45:47,199 --> 00:45:52,760 And then some of these people actually go through top surgery. And this 642 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:57,639 is where I get really upset, because then people conflate this by going like, 643 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,559 oh, you see parents are doing that to their kids. It's like 644 00:46:00,599 --> 00:46:02,880 an agenda. Oh, these parents want their kids to be trans, and 645 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:08,320 they're they're putting this thought into their head and we're making them trans. Let 646 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:12,960 me just say that is not a thing. I know, and I know 647 00:46:13,039 --> 00:46:16,480 they had a transgender activist on there trying to explain that that is not a 648 00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:22,920 thing. Nobody wants anybody to be anything other than the gender that they feel 649 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:27,880 they are. Right, There's exactly a big difference between if your child comes 650 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,480 to you and says, this is how I feel. There's a big difference 651 00:46:30,519 --> 00:46:32,880 between saying, like, hey, I respect how you feel. Let's get 652 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:37,360 you some therapy to make sure that that's what you feel and it's not some 653 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,840 some like because you're watching too much anime or because a bunch of your friends 654 00:46:42,199 --> 00:46:45,079 I think they're trans. Let's make Nobody is going like, oh, are 655 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:52,719 great, let's do surgery, except for these peas, these lunatics they are, 656 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,920 don't you just want to punch that guy, right? I just hate 657 00:46:55,039 --> 00:47:00,760 that guy so much. He's such a scumbag. Yeah, and he's filth 658 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:06,320 too, with her fucking sick and she's disgusting, you know, going along 659 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,119 with everything he says and ship it's just and then what's with the baby? 660 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:13,840 All of a sudden, then they get this twin flame. Oh my god, 661 00:47:14,199 --> 00:47:19,679 I can't even watch why, Like, if you're gonna put two people 662 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,880 the same sex together in a relationship, they can have a baby. So 663 00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:25,480 what are you doing flaunting the fact that you guys like it? Just it 664 00:47:25,599 --> 00:47:29,599 seems kind of cruel, right, like look at us, we're gonna have 665 00:47:29,679 --> 00:47:32,239 a baby, and it's like what about these, like some people in your 666 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:36,599 group probably want to have kids, and now you fucked it up like for 667 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,360 them because your brainwashed them. It's just just so gross and how are they 668 00:47:40,519 --> 00:47:46,880 still Like to this day, where's these people are signing up for twin Flames? 669 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:51,960 TFU still sign it? I don't get it? Who is like hopefully 670 00:47:52,079 --> 00:47:55,079 this documentary will make sense? I will go No, that's crazy. This 671 00:47:55,280 --> 00:48:00,360 guy is also an asshole, like as nice. How about when he was 672 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:05,159 like, because the girl Shaliah like gained some weight, right, so you 673 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,039 see her from Oh what about the like crazy diet they put everybody on that 674 00:48:08,199 --> 00:48:14,119 was just like pure like fat and carbs, and then everybody gained like fifty 675 00:48:14,199 --> 00:48:16,840 pounds, right, And then he goes he's like, yeah, you know, 676 00:48:19,039 --> 00:48:22,400 everybody thought, like you know, since my wife, you know, 677 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,679 she gained a bunch of weight and she got super overweight. But like you 678 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,800 know, you would have thought this is what he's saying. He's like, 679 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,480 you would have thought I wouldn't be attracted to her anymore now that she's really 680 00:48:30,559 --> 00:48:35,679 fat being on the diet that I forget put her right, And he's like, 681 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,119 but like, no, it's not true. I'm like still attracted to 682 00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:44,000 her. Oh congratulations. You know what kind of diet was that? Like, 683 00:48:44,199 --> 00:48:47,639 hey, hogies, Like that's your diet? Who's listening to that? 684 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,239 Because Lily cheese steaks that those are those are that's what you should be on. 685 00:48:52,599 --> 00:48:55,480 Right, Because he looks like Jesus and because his thing was this is 686 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,719 this is where he got it, he's like, well, some of the 687 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:00,280 women didn't feel like having sex all the time. So he's like, what 688 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:04,320 we're gonna do is we're gonna put you on a diet that's going to weigh 689 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:07,360 you did. We're going to put you on really heavy foods so that you 690 00:49:07,519 --> 00:49:13,199 feel like grounded. Oh that's yeah, because there's nothing that makes me hornier 691 00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:22,719 than like a HOGI And you know how everybody's just like fucking and sucking after 692 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:30,159 Thanksgiving dinner exactly. I know what it's like, makes no sense. And 693 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:34,360 at no point everybody's like yep, nor Line's detected here, right, But 694 00:49:34,639 --> 00:49:38,440 yeah, wait, isn't anybody like hold on a minute, right, hold 695 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:42,639 on, and you don't when you know, when you're you don't feel sexy 696 00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:46,199 when you've gained those extra rolls, like you got the muffin top right right? 697 00:49:46,559 --> 00:49:51,119 Yeah, no, yeah, this is fuck yeah. They just were 698 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,920 like whatever stuck to the wall or whatever sticks is the direction they went. 699 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:59,760 It just kept getting worse. Like you, the documentary starts out and you're 700 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:01,360 like, okay, yeah, this guy's pretty bad, but as it goes 701 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:06,639 on, you're just like, what is happening? How are these people? 702 00:50:07,079 --> 00:50:12,159 And now a bunch of these people are transgender and they're not even really transgender, 703 00:50:12,159 --> 00:50:15,719 And I felt so I felt for these parents that are like, Okay, 704 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:20,079 I'm gonna try to use the correct pronouns, but it's like I understand 705 00:50:20,079 --> 00:50:22,880 their pain because they're like my child. There were no signs right now. 706 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:27,079 I'm like, I think a lot of these people are like lost souls. 707 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:30,519 They are and then somebody tells them who they are what to be, and 708 00:50:30,599 --> 00:50:34,719 they're like, okay, I guess you know better than I do, right, 709 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,920 And I think that they're lonely and they find a community where they become 710 00:50:39,159 --> 00:50:44,199 friends. They're traveling together, they're meeting up at meetups, and stuff, 711 00:50:44,639 --> 00:50:47,519 and they don't want to lose that. They get sucked in and they believe 712 00:50:47,599 --> 00:50:52,000 more and more and they just get sucked in and it's really sad, and 713 00:50:52,119 --> 00:50:53,880 these fucks should be put in jail. I know, how are they not 714 00:50:54,039 --> 00:50:58,400 in jail. I don't understand. I don't get it. I guess you 715 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:05,559 could do have it if it's if it means spirituality, spirit spirituality. If 716 00:51:05,599 --> 00:51:08,920 it means spirituality, why can't I say it? I used to not be 717 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:15,880 able to say specificity, specificity. I could say that spirituality, spirituality. 718 00:51:15,119 --> 00:51:19,440 Why can't I say it? But if it means that, right, then 719 00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,119 they can get away with it, I guess. I guess, So, 720 00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:27,760 like what what is? There's not any laws that they've broken, and then 721 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,400 they just decided that they're a nonprofit so they can charge all these people, 722 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:35,199 these cons for all these consults, and they don't have to pay any taxes 723 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,400 because they got they decided they're a religion, right, and everybody's like cool, 724 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,239 cool, yeah, And they get free labor from from a lot of 725 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:46,360 these people too, ru right, they don't pay them. Wow, it's 726 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:50,840 insanity. I know, It's like, why can't he be put in jail? 727 00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:52,800 They're going to be put in jail. But when it comes to our 728 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:57,719 meetups like FC, that's different. Yes, they are trying to get a 729 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:00,719 lot of people to change their genders, but that's just because we like people 730 00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:04,760 that change things up, so we don't get bored. Caitlin, you should 731 00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,440 grow your hair out because you could look like Jesus. You so could you 732 00:52:07,599 --> 00:52:10,920 could? You got it? Jesus. Fine, you know what, I 733 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:15,119 don't think we ever said hi to our people. We got a little bit 734 00:52:15,159 --> 00:52:19,480 of business to take care of, like Stephanie Stinker Wrinker and christ to get 735 00:52:19,519 --> 00:52:22,559 the strap and Sancho it's not easy being green and Jennifer get up, and 736 00:52:22,639 --> 00:52:29,199 Sarah Stefanos our Prisano and Leslie and Leslie stop the coughing and stop the accosting. 737 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:35,679 Alicia Escalante, Aaron dirty Sanchez. I'll do that until someone tells me 738 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:42,320 not to. Kelly Brand's not your aunt, and Rebeca and so Hot and 739 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,679 Missy and Gabby guys big in, Big trouble Yep, Katerina, get done, 740 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:50,880 check your mol er, Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Polly, we love 741 00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:52,719 your pancakes, Athena, we love your dancing. Elizabeth Williamson you got a 742 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,480 lot of kids, Hero, all your kids love you, Rita rock that 743 00:52:55,599 --> 00:53:00,920 Bassinette, Jacob, you'r Growley and we love you and Ashley so she can 744 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:07,679 Nikki call your girl, Lori Gory and Aaron Landho and not Anna Faris and 745 00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:14,360 Kelly Lattie, don Katie Murphy and Amy's a cunt and share bear yep and 746 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:22,079 also our friend Aaron Richards. You guys remember this from earlier in the week. 747 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,800 Oh not Oh, Aaron Diamond, Aaron Diamond? What am i? 748 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,320 Anyway? Her brother and his wife are having a baby and she wants to 749 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:37,360 help promote his plant nursery in Costa Mesa. It's called the Backyard. Follow 750 00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:42,480 it on Instagram as well at Backyard c A. It's on all social media 751 00:53:42,559 --> 00:53:45,519 platforms. He doesn't know she's doing this. It's a special gift for him 752 00:53:45,679 --> 00:53:51,119 nice, so don't mention it to him, guys. Also, Adam is 753 00:53:51,159 --> 00:53:54,320 going to get you a car if you'll let him or get you some information. 754 00:53:54,559 --> 00:54:00,199 Go to adams goot acar dot com and just like fill him out for 755 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:07,239 do you need is your best bet to lease to uh not rent? Please 756 00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:12,360 just lease your you know please or buy a new one. Or get a 757 00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:15,280 used one. He can help you figure out the landscape and like what is 758 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:22,320 a good deal for you? Also, uh, Kelly from Wilman, Frita 759 00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:28,079 love them. Yeah, yeh me. They'll see them in Palm Springs or 760 00:54:28,199 --> 00:54:32,800 Palm Desert or absolutely. Also, Maren has a shop, a small bakery 761 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:37,519 and gift shop called Sugar Skull on the on Kawhii. So if you're vacationing 762 00:54:37,599 --> 00:54:42,519 there, check out Sugar Skull. Go in there and be like Maren, 763 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,519 what up, bitch. It's a fellow fcol listener. Also, you can 764 00:54:45,639 --> 00:54:51,360 like there and follow their Instagram page at Sugar Skull eight oh eight. And 765 00:54:51,559 --> 00:54:54,599 the Family Skeptical it's last, but not last, but not least, raise 766 00:54:54,639 --> 00:54:59,800 your kids without any religion and no Guilt's listen to their podcast. It comes 767 00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:04,360 out every three weeks and you know it will make you feel better, yeah 768 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,320 about not being religious. The Family Skeptical. Yeah that's all. Hi, 769 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:13,880 We love you guys. Yeah. Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving, Thanks, 770 00:55:14,559 --> 00:55:16,840 thank you, thanks everybody. You're a parent, now, don't if it 771 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:22,199 up. It's good. Letting go