Yeah, you know a family member' s going through a situation with someone
in his family pretty complicated. Family relationships aren' t easy. Sometimes there
are family that have dynamics between them, which are complex. What' s
going on? It is from this person, from this relative, that the
grandmother of her children has a quick relationship with the children, that she raised
a complicated relationship. I repeat, then in the process the children have been
married, they have their children and I did not know until this happened.
There is a supposed right of grandparents to have cohabitation with grandchildren. An assumption
doesn' t exist. Be in the law. Grandparents have the right to
see their grandchildren and perfect. It may be possible that there is a cursed
daughter- in- law who does not want to let her grandparents see their
grandchildren and that the law exists and guarantees grandparents to live and have a presence
in the lives of their grandchildren, because I have no problem with their grandchildren.
But what we do when the person has knowledge of the law, knows
it and, using all the tools allowed by Dominican law, twists situations and
achieves a favorable sentence, that the only thing that causes the family is more
problems, like the case I am talking about. People invent a series of
situations, go to the juvenile prosecutor' s office. The juvenile prosecutor'
s office welcomes the complaint, this goes to justice. This has to last
a very expensive process in the justice system, because I am talking about how
this process can easily cost a person a million pesos in lawyers if the lawyer
is good or half a million pesos, because the lawyers don' t go
in exact favor then. But, or it is the part that worries me
about all this, that those who are called upon to deliver justice do not
deliver it properly because they do not do their job, that the experts who
are to evaluate the parties to the conflict do not do the job objectively and
end up hurting those who already have a conflict situation. I didn' t
know about this. Friday or the day the lawyer comes, I' m
gonna notice him so we can talk about his grandfather' s rights, see
his grandkids. I think I once mentioned it to him, but to deepen
this and I say I understand that the law is there, that it protects.
I understand, in my opinion, that grandparents don' t have any
damn, right none. In my opinion, I' m sorry, none.
But let' s say here the law says there' s a kind
of responsibility that goes cascading, that there aren' t the grandparents' children,
then they take care of the grandchildren or vice versa. I do not
know the spirit of the law, but it would be interesting, not so
much to demonize the law, but to point out the failures of the system.
When these cases are given why. Because, being objective, the first
thing that must guarantee justice is that when a complaint is based on arguments,
it is that what is being argued as the reason for the complaint can be
proved that this is true, of course, and if it is proved to
be a lie, because justice protects those people who are being victimized by a
false complaint from that person who is falsely denouncing him. It can' t
be possible that you don' t do your job, don' t do
a psychiatric, psychological evaluation of the person who complains, and, worse yet,
that everyone knows that the problem is, but in the same way,
that when you find out no, the prosecutors know, the judge knows,
but I don' t have to do this because this person is already fed
up with her and that family solves her problem over there and that problem and
eating all those people alive. It can' t be possible. It can
' t be. It can' t be. The courts of justice and
the laws are supposed to be exactly to the contrary. It' s to
avoid those situations, not for you to end up in Chonclau in an exact
fucking problem. It seems that here we have functioning publics simply for the high
profile issues and the low profile ones is to fuck them. It can'
t be possible and I didn' t know about it, but I invite
you to be nurtured in this, to know well the duties, the rights
that you have as far as your rights as parents go, the rights that
your children' s family environment has, with respect to the family, the
father or the mother and all these things that you are sometimes very alien to
them because of these problems, because look. That' s expending, that
' s expending, that' s desperate. It is not easy to see
situations like these, especially when they start from the whim of desire or alienation
of the reality of someone or the genesis that has, that the origin that
it has, because in the end, the family issues, children and mothers,
parents and children, that are their conflicts, are between them. And
many times you fall into a relationship with someone you see in those situations,
with your father, with your mother, or with both of them, and
somehow it' s yours, not and not necessarily you' re part of
the conflict, because you got into it or you provoked it. I then
respect the sovereign and sacred right that children have to love and be with their
parents, regardless of whether their relationship is quick, difficult, complicated, whatever.
But a third one has to deal with another' s problems. No.
I didn' t know that law, this white of course. I
mean, find out and read well and advise with a lawyer, because it
' s good to know, because the least- thinking can happen to you.
And sometimes there are situations that are complicated. Family conflicts are very difficult
and many times what we are spectators are nothing but mere spectators, because you
get into a conflict father mother, said father whatever, that doesn' t
touch you. Sometimes it is not for one to express one’ s opinion
or to become a participant in it. But it is good that you know
that when these conflicts come in they are exhausting, they last years and,
like the case I' m saying, many times the solution what makes is
to sharpen the problem, to make the situation worse, because you are,
you are empowering something and in no situation that was already problematic and that what
it does is to deepen the problem and it cannot be that it is to
do the solutions that are emanating from the Children' s Court, adolescent girls
here, from the Dominican Republic and from the prosecutor that sheath that is out
there. I wish, I wish, these things don' t happen as
often as this particular case, which I know. I wish, because I
really imagine it will be overwhelming for anyone look worth brother. That' s
difficult, very difficult. Well, let' s pause, we' re coming.