WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.040 --> 00:00:03.759 Minnesota goodbye, and I wanted to. I promised this. Earlier on the 2 00:00:03.759 --> 00:00:06.839 show. We were talking about kind of the inside jokes that you might have 3 00:00:06.919 --> 00:00:11.480 with your partner, because there was an inside joke on War of the Roses 4 00:00:11.519 --> 00:00:15.359 this morning that we never really got explained. And he said on the Roses 5 00:00:15.480 --> 00:00:18.920 card he wanted to say, bend it, but don't break it. And 6 00:00:18.960 --> 00:00:20.960 we thought, oh, well, there's a story there. They were probably 7 00:00:21.000 --> 00:00:24.199 having sex and she came down the wrong way and bent it. And then 8 00:00:24.640 --> 00:00:29.440 you know that can be very painful and unfortunate. So I've heard actually guys 9 00:00:29.440 --> 00:00:32.719 will gun to the hospital if they like it'll like almost snap, you know 10 00:00:32.719 --> 00:00:35.280 what I mean. That's just sound painful. Y, Yeah, bend it, 11 00:00:35.359 --> 00:00:37.560 but don't break it. So then I said, well, all couples 12 00:00:37.560 --> 00:00:43.479 have like their inside jokes, and Susan and I it's like, you know, 13 00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:47.759 will The story goes when she was a kid, she was in her 14 00:00:47.759 --> 00:00:51.439 bedroom and she heard her dad say to her mom, suck it, Betty. 15 00:00:52.119 --> 00:00:54.880 And so she's told me that story and I love telling that story like 16 00:00:54.920 --> 00:00:59.039 neighbors at cocktail parties. And so sometimes I'll walk in the front door and 17 00:00:59.079 --> 00:01:00.640 she'll be sitting there on the on her computer, and I'll say, hey, 18 00:01:00.640 --> 00:01:03.200 suck it, Betty, yeah, and she'll laugh and then she'll like, 19 00:01:03.239 --> 00:01:06.159 you know, come up behind me in the kitchen and go, hey, 20 00:01:06.200 --> 00:01:07.200 suck it, Betty, yeah. And it's just funny. So it's 21 00:01:07.239 --> 00:01:11.040 an inside joke, yes, so I told earlier on the show, I 22 00:01:11.079 --> 00:01:14.840 said I would explain the inside joke. Do you and Jake have any inappropriate 23 00:01:14.879 --> 00:01:19.519 inside jokes? Probably? But I don't know if I think we're just dirty. 24 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:22.200 I think we're just very dirty with each other. I don't think we 25 00:01:22.280 --> 00:01:26.280 have one set inside joke like that. So no, I think we're just 26 00:01:26.359 --> 00:01:30.400 highly inappropriate with each other all the time. I mean almost every time I 27 00:01:30.480 --> 00:01:34.200 walk into the room he's in, I flash him and he always gives me 28 00:01:34.680 --> 00:01:38.280 like high praise and compliments. I'll tell you this about Jake. He is 29 00:01:38.319 --> 00:01:41.920 consistent with making me feel desired, and I will I appreciate that. That 30 00:01:42.040 --> 00:01:45.920 is a big thing, and I appreciate that from him. But I mean 31 00:01:45.959 --> 00:01:48.040 good, because you want to feel desired. It's kind of like if you 32 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:49.519 if you like came in and like, yeah, let's do something, and 33 00:01:49.519 --> 00:01:55.400 he like put his book down on his lap. Inside heavily like I know, 34 00:01:55.480 --> 00:01:57.319 but I don't mean just like that. I mean he actively says stuff 35 00:01:57.359 --> 00:02:01.519 without me doing anything like that. Like it's he just goes out of his 36 00:02:01.599 --> 00:02:05.519 way to make me feel that way, which I think is very special. 37 00:02:05.760 --> 00:02:08.479 Good for you guys. Email Hi there, longtime listener here. Thanks for 38 00:02:08.560 --> 00:02:13.520 laughing. Love the podcast. So I'm turning forty this year, and I 39 00:02:13.599 --> 00:02:16.439 don't feel as though the actual number is bothering me, but I've noticed that 40 00:02:16.479 --> 00:02:21.199 I started to look at life differently. When thinking about the future or making 41 00:02:21.199 --> 00:02:23.080 plans, there is now a small voice that reminds me that I won't be 42 00:02:23.120 --> 00:02:27.680 around forever. In some ways, it's made me more grateful to just be 43 00:02:27.719 --> 00:02:30.199 alive and try to enjoy the time here. But I'm also starting to think 44 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:34.960 about how I might not have time in my life to do certain things. 45 00:02:35.719 --> 00:02:38.120 I celebrated my brother's birthday this weekend, and he still talks as though he's 46 00:02:38.120 --> 00:02:42.800 going to live forever. I feel like I've thought that at that age too. 47 00:02:43.159 --> 00:02:47.240 So did turning forty or almost forty fallen have a big impact on you? 48 00:02:47.560 --> 00:02:52.879 Did some of these anxieties fade after the big birthday? Or is this 49 00:02:52.960 --> 00:02:54.560 just how it's going to be from now on, love to hear what you 50 00:02:54.639 --> 00:02:58.840 think, Kate, not forty, so I haven't hit that. I don't 51 00:02:58.840 --> 00:03:04.159 know if, like be, hitting forty will change everything. I don't feel 52 00:03:04.159 --> 00:03:09.080 like I think forty is that pivotal age that you're describing in mind. Maybe 53 00:03:09.080 --> 00:03:15.719 because I'm so close to it in my mind, I feel like it for 54 00:03:15.800 --> 00:03:19.039 me, I like look at it like in twenty years more so than I 55 00:03:19.120 --> 00:03:22.479 do like in a couple of years. It happens in your fifties. Yeah, 56 00:03:22.719 --> 00:03:27.759 what I've noticed when I turn it's so interesting because at my age it 57 00:03:27.800 --> 00:03:32.039 does come up and you think about will I have time to do this? 58 00:03:32.199 --> 00:03:35.759 Like one of the things I want to do is ride my motorcycle all around 59 00:03:35.840 --> 00:03:38.120 and go to the National Parks and go through Yellowstone and go to Alaska, 60 00:03:38.159 --> 00:03:40.800 and you think, will I have time? I mean, you know, 61 00:03:42.280 --> 00:03:44.759 nobody knows you could be twenty five. You don't know if you have time. 62 00:03:45.039 --> 00:03:49.000 But it becomes more of a reality. Never occurred to me twenty five, 63 00:03:49.120 --> 00:03:51.719 thirty five, even in forty five. But once I hit fifty, 64 00:03:52.000 --> 00:03:53.960 and I've noticed my friends are around the same age, they start thinking about 65 00:03:54.319 --> 00:03:58.639 it's an ugly word, your own mortality. Let me tell you this one, 66 00:03:59.159 --> 00:04:00.840 Kate, You're way too to be thinking about that one. Put it 67 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:05.039 out of your mind, enjoy it. You don't want to become preoccupied in 68 00:04:05.120 --> 00:04:09.560 any little way like oh my god, I mean I could die next week 69 00:04:09.680 --> 00:04:12.520 or next year, or I might not be around to see fifty years old. 70 00:04:12.840 --> 00:04:16.519 Don't think that way because you're way too young. The odds are ever 71 00:04:16.639 --> 00:04:19.360 in your favor. The chances that you're going to make it to fifty, 72 00:04:19.439 --> 00:04:24.199 sixty seventy right now are really good, a great I would say there are 73 00:04:24.199 --> 00:04:27.240 two things you could look at it in that way that's a positive way, 74 00:04:27.519 --> 00:04:31.040 like I'm not going to sit around and let this next these you know, 75 00:04:31.759 --> 00:04:34.839 youthful years I have left get away from me. I'm going to do the 76 00:04:34.920 --> 00:04:38.959 things I want because I know how a little our time is on earth. 77 00:04:39.240 --> 00:04:43.360 I'm going to focus more on At forty, I would think you've probably realized 78 00:04:43.399 --> 00:04:46.399 what's actually important in life. You're going to focus more, maybe on the 79 00:04:46.439 --> 00:04:49.759 important things instead of the other things. But that's so. I think you 80 00:04:49.759 --> 00:04:54.240 could look at it and like a shift that look of like my limited time, 81 00:04:54.279 --> 00:04:57.480 I want to use it in better ways. Positive way. I also 82 00:04:57.519 --> 00:05:01.360 would say I've have his dinner with this group of women who are so inspiring, 83 00:05:01.399 --> 00:05:04.160 they're so successful, and I think three or four of them were in 84 00:05:04.160 --> 00:05:09.839 their fifties, and they told me fifties are the most magical time for women 85 00:05:10.240 --> 00:05:15.000 because you don't give anymore, you don't care. And I don't mean that 86 00:05:15.000 --> 00:05:19.240 in a bad way. I mean in your fifties you are less concerned with 87 00:05:19.279 --> 00:05:24.839 what people think of you physically, you are more concerned with the important things 88 00:05:24.879 --> 00:05:29.920 in life. And it is just they described it as a magical time in 89 00:05:29.959 --> 00:05:34.040 a woman's life. So instead of dreading it, I think that sounds lovely. 90 00:05:35.519 --> 00:05:39.199 You know, I'll be honest with you. That is a very positive 91 00:05:39.199 --> 00:05:42.160 way to look at it. Here's what you might be surprised. You're not 92 00:05:42.240 --> 00:05:46.720 surprised. In your fifties, things in your bodies start to change. And 93 00:05:46.160 --> 00:05:49.639 there's not a lot of change from twenty to thirty. There's not a lot 94 00:05:49.639 --> 00:05:53.839 of change from thirty to forty. I mean there is, obviously, there's 95 00:05:53.879 --> 00:05:56.399 not a lot of change from forty to fifty. But in your fifties, 96 00:05:56.439 --> 00:06:01.879 your body starts to things change. So while mentally you might be a little 97 00:06:01.879 --> 00:06:04.600 bit more prepared or happy that you don't have you don't give a shit, 98 00:06:05.240 --> 00:06:08.279 but there are other things in your fifties two. But I will say, 99 00:06:08.639 --> 00:06:11.199 enjoy that. Will enjoy the age where you are now. Don't put it 100 00:06:11.240 --> 00:06:15.319 off. So I would say that you used to kind of get perspective, 101 00:06:15.800 --> 00:06:19.120 and a lot of people, even as they get older, they don't realize 102 00:06:19.240 --> 00:06:23.360 that your time is limited. I'll give you one last example and we'll move 103 00:06:23.399 --> 00:06:26.839 on. My friend Brentley is my age couple of years younger, and Brentley 104 00:06:26.879 --> 00:06:30.439 is single, no kids, and he has always been a playboy. He's 105 00:06:30.480 --> 00:06:36.240 always enjoyed dating women. He's handsome and charming enough that he can date women 106 00:06:36.240 --> 00:06:43.199 that are twenty, sometimes thirty years younger than him. But I last time 107 00:06:43.240 --> 00:06:46.680 I talked to him, he said something like, you know, I've really 108 00:06:46.680 --> 00:06:49.879 blown it. I think of all these wonderful, beautiful women that I've known 109 00:06:50.399 --> 00:06:53.839 that I could have married, I could have settled down with, I could 110 00:06:53.839 --> 00:06:56.839 have had a family with. And he is now. I said, it's 111 00:06:56.879 --> 00:06:58.519 not too late. I said, you can still do that. He's like, 112 00:06:58.680 --> 00:07:01.279 na man, I don't know, but he is to the point where 113 00:07:01.279 --> 00:07:04.720 it all of a sudden dawned on him. In his fifties that he's not 114 00:07:04.720 --> 00:07:08.480 going to be around forever. But you're forty, Kate. Shut up, 115 00:07:08.600 --> 00:07:13.480 Kate, You're still young. You're fine. Don't aige yourself premature. Not 116 00:07:13.600 --> 00:07:15.879 become an old lady at forty years old. You got plenty of time when 117 00:07:15.920 --> 00:07:19.800 you are fifty five or sixty, you will look at the age of forty 118 00:07:19.800 --> 00:07:25.480 and go shit, I didn't know how young I was. Yeah, next 119 00:07:25.480 --> 00:07:28.000 one. I'm a faithful listener for many years. I drive to work, 120 00:07:28.040 --> 00:07:31.600 never thought of contacting the radio station ever before I caught the segment with Jenny 121 00:07:31.639 --> 00:07:35.759 as she endured the people who brought you brought into chew in front of her 122 00:07:35.800 --> 00:07:41.000 to win tickets. I was horrified, as she obviously has a condition called 123 00:07:41.079 --> 00:07:45.759 misophonia. My son shares the same condition, as characterized by people being panicky 124 00:07:45.800 --> 00:07:48.160 and raised and irritated by the sounds of chewing, dripping water, chewing, 125 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:54.040 or repetitive sounds. It's a legitimate condition that needs therapy or noise canceling devices 126 00:07:54.120 --> 00:07:57.000 devices to live in the world for some people who have a severe case. 127 00:07:57.439 --> 00:08:00.720 My son's a medical professional and he has suffered with it for ears. The 128 00:08:00.800 --> 00:08:05.120 trigger sounds can be truly painful to the individual, and nothing to me made 129 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:07.800 light of or the butt of a joke. Please be informed about this condition 130 00:08:09.079 --> 00:08:11.680 and give Jenny grace as she deals with such a life altering affliction, and 131 00:08:11.800 --> 00:08:18.720 apology might even be in order. Thank you for your consideration, and I 132 00:08:18.759 --> 00:08:22.480 appreciate you writing that in I didn't know that. I think i'd heard about 133 00:08:22.480 --> 00:08:26.839 it. I will only say if Jenny really was affected by it, we 134 00:08:26.839 --> 00:08:30.040 would have known in advance, and Jenny would have said, there's no fucking 135 00:08:30.079 --> 00:08:33.120 way you're going to do that. Yeah, because Jenny advocates for herself, 136 00:08:33.320 --> 00:08:37.759 and she would have never said yeah, Okay, No, I wouldn't of 137 00:08:37.879 --> 00:08:41.440 And I don't think I have a severe case. I just have like a 138 00:08:41.480 --> 00:08:43.879 mild case. I will say that I didn't realize that it's all incompassing of 139 00:08:43.919 --> 00:08:46.879 other noises. And now it makes sense because last night we had put our 140 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:50.399 window unit into our bedroom a week ago, when it was like eighty five 141 00:08:50.440 --> 00:08:54.240 degrees out and it was raining on the window unit, and it sounded like 142 00:08:54.240 --> 00:08:58.320 the loudest pelts on that window unit, and it was when we were going 143 00:08:58.360 --> 00:09:03.399 to sleep, and it was driving me insane and I could not focus on 144 00:09:03.440 --> 00:09:07.159 anything else. That eventually stopped, but I thought it was more just a 145 00:09:07.200 --> 00:09:09.720 food thing. But I do notice little noises all the time, and it 146 00:09:09.759 --> 00:09:13.399 does drive me insane if I'm trying to like do something like sleep. Obviously 147 00:09:16.240 --> 00:09:18.200 there is We've talked about this, probably on the radio. There's a ceiling 148 00:09:18.279 --> 00:09:26.000 fan. We've had to have it replaced several times because it goes lightest and 149 00:09:26.120 --> 00:09:30.200 it sounds enough like my alarm clock that I would wake up to it thinking 150 00:09:30.919 --> 00:09:33.799 my alarm is going off, that I'd realize it's the ceiling fans. So 151 00:09:33.840 --> 00:09:35.919 we had somebody come by and fix it. It was fixed for a couple 152 00:09:35.919 --> 00:09:39.639 of weeks, started up again. We finally got rid of it, because 153 00:09:41.080 --> 00:09:43.039 I mean, and I think that's normal. I don't think our brains can 154 00:09:43.080 --> 00:09:48.480 get used to something that is I mean, maybe some people can get used 155 00:09:48.480 --> 00:09:52.159 to just noises like that that are consistent and it won't stop. Next to 156 00:09:52.320 --> 00:09:58.480 email listening to old podcasts. Two random questions from Christy Fallon. Is your 157 00:09:58.480 --> 00:10:01.080 friend Abbie still dating the guy she met and was so happy with? Sadly, 158 00:10:01.200 --> 00:10:07.120 No, And it's really such a bummer because Abby, she said that 159 00:10:07.200 --> 00:10:11.279 was probably her first boyfriend she's had and got. I don't know how many 160 00:10:11.360 --> 00:10:13.679 years, She said, maybe thirteen. It's been a long time because she's 161 00:10:13.759 --> 00:10:16.200 dated, she's gone on date, she's gone on a couple of dates, 162 00:10:16.519 --> 00:10:22.639 and it's she's really sad about it. Honestly. He gave her, I 163 00:10:22.679 --> 00:10:28.279 think a couple of BS excuses and yeah, I just feel so bad for 164 00:10:28.399 --> 00:10:33.960 because her thing was it was the first person she's she's ever dated who actively 165 00:10:35.080 --> 00:10:37.840 let her know he liked her, he thought she was pretty, things like 166 00:10:37.879 --> 00:10:43.120 that, she'd never had someone make her feel like cared for. Yes, 167 00:10:43.559 --> 00:10:50.120 So he said that he's been living in that town for a very long time. 168 00:10:50.639 --> 00:10:56.360 He wants to get out and his dream is to be a traveling nurse 169 00:10:58.000 --> 00:11:01.679 and because that's what he does now, and so he said that he doesn't 170 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:05.440 want to be in a relationship with someone and be kept there any longer. 171 00:11:05.879 --> 00:11:09.320 If he decides tomorrow he wants to go do this, he wants to do 172 00:11:09.360 --> 00:11:13.200 that and not deal with being in a relationship. And Abby even said, 173 00:11:13.480 --> 00:11:18.600 well, my job would let me go for like short periods, not like 174 00:11:18.639 --> 00:11:20.480 I couldn't be gone for three years. And he was like, nope, 175 00:11:20.519 --> 00:11:24.440 I don't want the like thing. And the annoying part is I think it's 176 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:28.559 like partial true, partial excuse. I think he's someone who wants to do 177 00:11:28.600 --> 00:11:31.840 that, but he's never going to actually do it because he's lived there for 178 00:11:31.879 --> 00:11:33.840 twenty three years. And I think that she's going to see him out and 179 00:11:33.840 --> 00:11:37.759 about in a bar in two years and he'll never have done it and she'll 180 00:11:37.759 --> 00:11:39.399 be sad. But it's fine, and I hope she finds someone by then. 181 00:11:39.679 --> 00:11:43.200 And I think he's been very straightforward and honest and kind to her, 182 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:46.120 so I don't fault him at all. And it's possible he's just not as 183 00:11:46.159 --> 00:11:48.840 into her as she is to him, you know what I mean. Then 184 00:11:48.879 --> 00:11:50.960 that's fine. So and I think he probably just want to tell her the 185 00:11:50.960 --> 00:11:54.039 truth. And it's easier to say here's my excuse than to say, yeah, 186 00:11:54.080 --> 00:11:56.759 I'm just not that into you. Yeah, I don't know what. 187 00:11:56.759 --> 00:11:58.320 It is a hard thing to hear. Yeah. Also, Daved is still 188 00:11:58.519 --> 00:12:03.080 Susan's work at her store all of the time she does. We've reached a 189 00:12:03.080 --> 00:12:07.080 little bit of a compromise on it. The background on this is Susan owns 190 00:12:07.080 --> 00:12:11.159 a store in Chanhassan with her friend and they're the owners, and they do 191 00:12:11.200 --> 00:12:15.480 have some kids that work there, so they don't have to work there all 192 00:12:15.519 --> 00:12:18.720 the time and run the workshops, but she is there a lot, and 193 00:12:18.799 --> 00:12:24.120 it's become a real bone of contention because it is not a money making store. 194 00:12:24.360 --> 00:12:28.279 It makes enough to pay the bills and bring home a little bit, 195 00:12:28.320 --> 00:12:33.039 but it's more of a hobby than it is a source of income. So 196 00:12:33.159 --> 00:12:37.799 I get really annoyed that she's down there, working, working, working on 197 00:12:37.000 --> 00:12:43.360 kind of a hobby store. And that means on Saturday's, if she has 198 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:46.240 to work from eleven until four, we can't go out of town for the 199 00:12:46.240 --> 00:12:52.000 weekend. That means we cannot leave Friday at five o'clock and then go to 200 00:12:52.039 --> 00:12:54.919 Duluth for the weekend and then come back on Sunday at five. We can't, 201 00:12:54.279 --> 00:12:58.960 And it really it affects my lifestyle because I want to do things on 202 00:12:58.000 --> 00:13:01.200 the weekend and she's got to work at her store most of the time on 203 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:07.120 Saturdays. So she has done better. And you might roast me for this, 204 00:13:07.159 --> 00:13:09.399 but it's like, let her have her thing. It's like, you 205 00:13:09.440 --> 00:13:11.240 know, we we always agree that our schedules were kind of the same. 206 00:13:11.480 --> 00:13:16.480 We all work Monday through Friday and then we had our weekends free and once 207 00:13:16.519 --> 00:13:20.879 in a while, we'd want to go out of town, but now we 208 00:13:20.159 --> 00:13:24.879 don't get trips unless it's a vacation. Have a serious question. Is there 209 00:13:24.919 --> 00:13:28.039 an end game for her? Like does she want to do this for the 210 00:13:28.120 --> 00:13:33.360 rest of her life until she retires or whine? No, Well that's that's 211 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:37.279 a really good question, because I will be very transparent. I said, 212 00:13:37.360 --> 00:13:41.960 what are you going to do when this business goes away? Like the paint 213 00:13:41.000 --> 00:13:46.159 paint paintings and drink wine. Those were really cool about five or ten years 214 00:13:46.159 --> 00:13:48.240 ago. Remember whenebod we go to a little like a little boutique and paint 215 00:13:48.279 --> 00:13:52.000 paintings and drink wine. And they went away, And I don't think people 216 00:13:52.080 --> 00:13:54.559 do that anymore. He said, what's going to happen when people don't want 217 00:13:54.559 --> 00:13:58.559 to do your business anymore? Oh? No, they really And I will 218 00:13:58.559 --> 00:14:01.360 tell I will give her this she works or ass off at it to market 219 00:14:01.399 --> 00:14:07.480 market market, and those workshops are full every single day. The workshops are 220 00:14:07.519 --> 00:14:11.600 full, they're busy, and they do such a good job that people want 221 00:14:11.600 --> 00:14:13.559 to come back, like ten fifteen times some people want to come back. 222 00:14:13.639 --> 00:14:16.360 Yeah. So I don't know what the endgame is, but I do think 223 00:14:16.399 --> 00:14:20.879 that one day like any business, it will run its course. I'm gonna 224 00:14:20.879 --> 00:14:24.720 throw in a little shout out for the Indian Place that's a couple of doors 225 00:14:24.720 --> 00:14:28.720 away. So there's a they're in a strip mall in chanhass And where the 226 00:14:28.720 --> 00:14:35.840 cub is and there's like a man cave barber. There's furnished air which they 227 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:39.440 take donated furniture they're cleaning up and they sell it for charity. But there's 228 00:14:39.480 --> 00:14:43.080 an Indian place about two doors away. Tried it the other day. I 229 00:14:43.080 --> 00:14:45.799 don't know anything about Indian food. All I know is it's curry. It's 230 00:14:45.840 --> 00:14:50.320 all curry. Whatever it was, it was delicious. I love Indian food. 231 00:14:50.320 --> 00:14:52.639 It's so good. And they didn't give me a freebee. They didn't 232 00:14:52.639 --> 00:14:54.919 even know. I didn't walk in and goach Dave Ryan, I'll give you 233 00:14:54.000 --> 00:14:58.679 a plug on the radio. Yeah that's illegal anyway. So I'm doing it 234 00:14:58.720 --> 00:15:03.240 beca as I really liked it. So there's a little plug for the Indian 235 00:15:03.279 --> 00:15:09.840 Place in this trip mall. Okay, next one, checking emails, Minnesota, 236 00:15:09.879 --> 00:15:13.240 Goodbye. On four nineteen yesterday you brought up how you keep your email 237 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:16.879 box very clean and organized. I want to add a little chaos to your 238 00:15:16.879 --> 00:15:20.039 life and let you know how my email box looks. Currently, I have 239 00:15:20.120 --> 00:15:24.320 ten fifteen emails fun as talk to my friends co workers who were in the 240 00:15:24.360 --> 00:15:28.600 same situation. Just for reference, I'm twenty three. I've talked with friends 241 00:15:28.639 --> 00:15:31.879 from ages twenty to twenty six were in the same spot. Isn't an age 242 00:15:31.919 --> 00:15:35.919 thing an irresponsibility thing? Both just want to add some spice to your day. 243 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:39.440 Laugh, Emoti, thank you for keeping me company every morning with the 244 00:15:39.480 --> 00:15:41.320 morning show and whatever time I listened to the podcast. Have a wonderful day 245 00:15:41.360 --> 00:15:46.519 from Amanda. Amanda, I'm a little bit more like you. I don't 246 00:15:46.519 --> 00:15:50.480 think it's an age thing at all. I think that it is an organizational 247 00:15:50.600 --> 00:15:54.600 add I like things tidy kind of a thing. Amanda, you're sick. 248 00:15:56.120 --> 00:15:58.679 You're sick. If I was, if I was as deep as you are, 249 00:15:58.799 --> 00:16:04.200 I would highlight, select all and delete everything period and then if there 250 00:16:04.279 --> 00:16:07.559 was something important in there, I would be able to search it in my 251 00:16:07.600 --> 00:16:11.519 deleted box. Or that person will reach out to me, Oh god, 252 00:16:11.600 --> 00:16:18.159 no, oh yes? Is that like intern John who used to work on 253 00:16:18.159 --> 00:16:22.759 your show will show his phone and he has like eight thousand unread text messages. 254 00:16:22.240 --> 00:16:29.039 I could never well in my email on my phone. When you open 255 00:16:29.159 --> 00:16:30.639 up your iPhone, it's got the mailbox indicator down at the bottom with a 256 00:16:30.720 --> 00:16:34.799 number of emails that are in there minus two three eighty eight. So don't 257 00:16:34.879 --> 00:16:37.559 know why they're still in there. I don't know why it doesn't say zero 258 00:16:37.919 --> 00:16:42.440 because I delete my empty my email box. I don't know what mysterious box 259 00:16:42.559 --> 00:16:47.399 this email is in. It could be like an unused mailbox that I never 260 00:16:47.480 --> 00:16:52.080 look at, probably like like I have one email address that I don't I 261 00:16:52.159 --> 00:16:55.879 don't ever open it because I never use it. So it would probably spam 262 00:16:56.360 --> 00:17:00.639 alerts notifications, probably that one. Then yeah, well that's it for the 263 00:17:00.639 --> 00:17:03.680 Minnesota goodbye. Thank you for the emails. I will say we had trouble 264 00:17:03.680 --> 00:17:07.440 getting into today's emails because our outlook is down. So if you wrote in 265 00:17:07.480 --> 00:17:11.839 an email and you're going it was really good, where is it? We 266 00:17:11.839 --> 00:17:14.880 weren't able to open it today, but chances are good I got in this 267 00:17:14.920 --> 00:17:18.839 morning at like six am or five thirty am, but not after that, 268 00:17:18.400 --> 00:17:22.279 not after that, So send them in to Ryan Show at katwb dot com. 269 00:17:22.279 --> 00:17:26.599 Tell your friend about the Minnesota goodbye, and we'll see you tomorrow.