1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:15,279 Made de san jo a pace sunny sune on I haddasion nice too late, 2 00:00:15,679 --> 00:00:23,199 let's out everybody. Hey, woo whoo, whoop, it's Tuesday. It 3 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:26,719 is it is, No, it's Monday. Oh it's Tuesday, Monday, 4 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:33,880 Tuesday. Yeah, this a little keeping you guys on your game. I 5 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,799 don't why am I holding the cough? Okay, let's say yes. Let 6 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:44,000 us say hi to Leslie with the coughing. Hi stops home coughing. Everybody's 7 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,039 got a cough. Yeah. I probably caught it from Leslie and then the 8 00:00:47,079 --> 00:00:53,479 other Leslie's out of costing people. She probably just accosted Genie. Oh, 9 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,240 that's a joke. That's like a joke grenade that's gonna hit you in a 10 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,200 couple of days. Yeah, you'll get that in a couple of days. 11 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,519 Gina is getting accosted right now, Ashley. So she and Kelly ooh, 12 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:08,239 Laddie, Dan and Amy's a cunt and Katie's rolling on e she's down at 13 00:01:08,239 --> 00:01:14,480 a wonderland. Wonderland. Yeah, Sam Ernandino, you'll see, you'll see. 14 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:18,560 That's another joke that's gonna hit you later. Not Anna Ferris and Aaron 15 00:01:18,599 --> 00:01:23,760 who is and Nikki call your girls and Jacob is very growley. Er you 16 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:29,799 silly guy, turn that frown upside down, Jacob and Rebecca to open your 17 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:38,000 cute Oh she want to punch her? Andhan vashpe oh, and Missy and 18 00:01:38,079 --> 00:01:44,879 Gabby Gabby talk about hot messes those seriously, And Katerina's got she's having oral 19 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,640 surgery right now, so she's out of it. And Valerie Bubba Fenwick and 20 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,920 Polly, we love your pancakes. And Athena, we love your dancing. 21 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:57,359 And Elizabeth Williamson's got so many kids, uh, and Rita rocks from all 22 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:01,480 in her basinette, even the big one. And also Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, 23 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:05,200 and Christa gets a strap in Sandra, it's not easy being green. 24 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,080 Jennifer needs to get up. Aaron is a dirty Sanchez and Sarah Stefano, 25 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:15,400 you're a Pisano. Here go whoo. So Xander is home sick today. 26 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:21,560 Yeah, I never thought i'd see the day where my kid he was clear 27 00:02:21,719 --> 00:02:25,240 he's he's clearly sick. Last night he's coughing up a storm. There's a 28 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:30,240 cough going around, okay, because I took Natalia to urgent care. Oh 29 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:34,319 you did with it? How long? Has she had it. She's had 30 00:02:34,319 --> 00:02:38,520 this cough for like it's going on like three weeks. It just keeps lingering 31 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:42,120 and it wakes her up in the middle of the night and blah blah blah, 32 00:02:42,159 --> 00:02:44,240 and I'm like, all right, let's just go to urgent care and 33 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,680 get some shit. Yeah. So ever, they they said, there's a 34 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:53,759 there is a viral cough that's lingering and it is going around, especially in 35 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:59,479 teens, she said. So they gave her a butter al in Hailer and 36 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:05,319 haler and then they gave her like cough syrup, dessorup something, but no 37 00:03:05,439 --> 00:03:08,439 antibiotic. Nope, it's a viral. I don't think it's a secondary infection. 38 00:03:10,439 --> 00:03:15,080 I don't. I don't that. She didn't say no anyway. Yeah, 39 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:20,560 well, Xander's been coughing, but he was also he was at a 40 00:03:20,599 --> 00:03:23,840 speech and debate. He got very worn out because Friday, he went to 41 00:03:23,879 --> 00:03:27,199 school Friday, which I'll get to this later, but we had a speech 42 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:34,080 and debate, yeah, competition straight from school that went kind of late Kraka 43 00:03:34,159 --> 00:03:37,599 dawn Saturday morning. We were on the road. We went to the all 44 00:03:37,719 --> 00:03:40,960 day there. So he was so tired. Yeah, you know, but 45 00:03:42,599 --> 00:03:46,120 yesterday like I would say, by afternoon, he just basically slept on it 46 00:03:46,159 --> 00:03:51,719 off all day. At night that he was just constantly coughing. I'm like, 47 00:03:51,759 --> 00:03:53,680 I think you're sick. He goes, no, it's just I have 48 00:03:53,719 --> 00:03:57,759 some like flem in my throat. I was like, no, you don't, 49 00:03:57,879 --> 00:04:00,840 I think you're sick, and he's like, no, I think I'm 50 00:04:00,879 --> 00:04:04,479 fine. So then this morning he's coughing and has a sore throat an had 51 00:04:04,479 --> 00:04:09,719 a headache, no fever though. I was like, I think you need 52 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,319 to stay home, and he was like, oh no, I can't stay 53 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,560 home. Wow, because Mondays are a big day at their school. They 54 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,439 have all their classes Monday, right, they do a block schedule, but 55 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,000 Monday they have all their classes. He's like, oh no, I can't 56 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:29,480 miss Mondays are hard? This who kids right now? What is happening when 57 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:33,160 kids want to go to school. I know Natalia she went to she's been 58 00:04:33,199 --> 00:04:38,879 worn down, like not, she's working and she's just running herself ragged. 59 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:45,879 Yeah. She Saturday, her friend that she grew up with had her debutante 60 00:04:45,879 --> 00:04:49,720 ball thing at her school or something, and her parents got Natalia ticket, 61 00:04:50,199 --> 00:04:54,879 so she was gone. She definitely was going to that. And then it's 62 00:04:54,920 --> 00:05:00,040 her best friend's birthday and they were having like a Manhattan Beach get together what 63 00:05:00,079 --> 00:05:04,319 ever, and spend the night at her at her at her her grandparents house 64 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:09,439 down in Manhattan Beach on Saturday. On Saturday, so she got up early, 65 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,519 drove down to Manhattan, hung out with the girls down there, then 66 00:05:13,639 --> 00:05:17,319 drove to Bourbank Saturday night to go to this thing. And remember the little 67 00:05:17,319 --> 00:05:20,240 girl that she used to be friends with that's going to be like a CEO, 68 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:25,879 She's going to run a company someday. She her name was Cammy and 69 00:05:25,959 --> 00:05:30,160 she was so move though, yeah she moved, but she came for this. 70 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,800 Their their friends. She flew in for it. Yeah, her and 71 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,759 her mom, okay, And so she got to see her. She was 72 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,839 so excited to see her. So she was not missing that, but yet 73 00:05:40,879 --> 00:05:45,000 I'm like, and then she goes to Olivia. Yeah Olivia, okay, 74 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,079 yes, since they were like the threesome. The threesome exactly. So Olivia 75 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:53,560 and Natya don't go to school together either, But so anyway, this was 76 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:57,160 a big deal, you know. So she and all of Olivia's family was 77 00:05:57,199 --> 00:06:00,720 there and so she's like, I'm not missing that, and and then I 78 00:06:00,759 --> 00:06:02,079 was like, Okay, go to Manhattan Beach during the day and then come 79 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:05,680 back. And then she's like no, But then I'm driving back to Manhattan 80 00:06:05,759 --> 00:06:10,879 Beach to spend the night with her friends, and I'm like that's a bit 81 00:06:10,959 --> 00:06:15,759 too much. And then Sunday she's coming home early Sunday morning, getting up 82 00:06:15,759 --> 00:06:18,839 at like the krack of dawn to come home because she was going to the 83 00:06:18,879 --> 00:06:24,360 Oscars. Her dad got her an extra ticket and he didn't even go, 84 00:06:24,519 --> 00:06:27,279 I guess, and he gave her the ticket. So it's like last year, 85 00:06:27,439 --> 00:06:30,759 just like last year, so he got it at last minute. So 86 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,120 she got to go, which was really nice, but she don't want to 87 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,879 go now he gave it to her. Yeah, oh he only got one 88 00:06:36,879 --> 00:06:41,519 ticket. He got an extra ticket. Well he got he got a ticket 89 00:06:41,639 --> 00:06:44,879 like to the as he wasn't supposed to then, or at first he was. 90 00:06:44,959 --> 00:06:47,480 Then he was, I don't know something, and then he did at 91 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,120 the last minute get a ticket and he was like do you know, Taler, 92 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:54,439 do you want to go? And she's like hell yes, so she 93 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,800 went. So then so on Sunday she had to come back. So my 94 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,560 point is is that she had a jam pack weekend, and I said, 95 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,560 why are you going all the way back to Manhattan Beach. Why not just 96 00:07:03,639 --> 00:07:09,240 go to the debutante ball and then come home and go to fucking bed in 97 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:15,120 your bed. Yeah? Why? Because her she's with three friends, two 98 00:07:15,199 --> 00:07:18,480 of them so the one girl's birthday. The other two friends that was with 99 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:24,920 her the birthday girl are not very close with the birthday girls as Natalia is, 100 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:30,720 so she feels like she's the glue for this group of friends. So 101 00:07:30,759 --> 00:07:33,680 she feels like she has to go back. So she went back, and 102 00:07:34,079 --> 00:07:38,279 she drove back, and then of course she didn't get barely night a good 103 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,839 night's sleep because the girls were up late and she went to bed early and 104 00:07:41,879 --> 00:07:45,000 they're waking her up and she couldn't fall asleep, and of course, so 105 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,639 then you know, and then she's like, all these bitches get to sleep 106 00:07:46,639 --> 00:07:49,240 in Sunday morning, She's like, yeah, I know, I'm lucky to 107 00:07:49,279 --> 00:07:53,720 go to the oscars, but still it's like, you know, I didn't 108 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,480 sleep good, and I go, why I could have told you that, 109 00:07:55,639 --> 00:07:58,199 you know, you should have just came home. But so she went to 110 00:07:58,319 --> 00:08:03,240 Olivia's debutante ball thing, and she came they announced her name and she came 111 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:09,319 out to Here Comes the Sun by the Beatles, and Natalia bursted into tears. 112 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,639 She goes, I couldn't control myself. I just burst it into She's 113 00:08:11,639 --> 00:08:15,800 not a crier in Natalia. It's kind of like elbe'. So this wasn't 114 00:08:15,839 --> 00:08:20,439 like a debutante theme, like she literally had a debutante ball. I guess. 115 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,959 I don't know, because she does go to an all girls school. 116 00:08:22,959 --> 00:08:28,560 I don't know that is weird. Isn't a weird archaic That's what I think, 117 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,799 But like, you know, a debutante is like you're presenting right your 118 00:08:31,919 --> 00:08:35,320 child. I think it's more modern. I think they modern it up. 119 00:08:35,399 --> 00:08:39,919 I don't know. I don't know, but I guess it's a tradition at 120 00:08:39,919 --> 00:08:45,240 her school. I guess. Okay. So yeah, So she's sitting at 121 00:08:45,279 --> 00:08:50,000 the thing at the table with her family and nobody else is crying but her, 122 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,240 and she's like I felt so stupid. I couldn't help, but she's 123 00:08:52,279 --> 00:08:56,360 like really, like that's my friend, Like I love her so much and 124 00:08:56,399 --> 00:09:00,240 we're gonna always be friends and blah blah blah. And I'm like, I 125 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,960 know. Natalia was getting really sappy and I was like this is really a 126 00:09:03,039 --> 00:09:07,480 nice sight of you. Natalia, Is she drunk though, No, she 127 00:09:07,519 --> 00:09:13,399 had a drive. She was dry now she was driving, and then I 128 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,200 think, I don't know, but like then she went back and then she 129 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,639 went back to Manon Beach and then she came back anyway. And then Jody 130 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:24,720 came over yesterday and we got her Natalia dressed and she did her makeup, 131 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:28,399 her hair and went to the oscars. Would she wear? She got this 132 00:09:28,519 --> 00:09:33,279 dress like on sale, I don't know, by the mall, by the 133 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:37,000 whatever, but it was gold. It was really pretty. It was really 134 00:09:37,039 --> 00:09:41,200 pretty, and it was like stretchy material, strapless, really pretty. And 135 00:09:41,279 --> 00:09:45,840 she does her makeup like on fleek or whatever. That's still a word. 136 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:50,080 But she does her makeup really well. So so who is she hanging out 137 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:52,600 with there? So she went by herself. But then when she got there, 138 00:09:52,639 --> 00:09:56,799 because she saw like Jimmy, this year was nice and he got everybody 139 00:09:56,799 --> 00:10:01,840 in his family tickets like usually every year. Melissa was like, we all 140 00:10:01,879 --> 00:10:03,879 feel like assholes because half the family gets to go and the other you know, 141 00:10:03,919 --> 00:10:07,960 he's got a big family, he's got cousins. Right, this year, 142 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:11,799 every he got like everybody a ticket. So the whole family. So 143 00:10:11,799 --> 00:10:15,120 as soon as she got there, she ran into like one of them, 144 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,960 and then she sat with all of them. And then she went to the 145 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:22,440 Governor's ball and she took a picture with Chris and Elmsworth Endsworth, she took 146 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:26,320 a selfie with him. He was really nice, and she hung out with 147 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:30,960 his family and James Baby, all Dixon and everybody. You know, she 148 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,360 it's I think it was. You know, it's good for her, Like, 149 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,799 you know, she loves Dixon. She loves talking to him. She 150 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,639 talked to Jimmy for a long time. She said, Yeah, she took 151 00:10:37,639 --> 00:10:41,840 a selfie with Jimmy. Yeah, she talked to him for a long time. 152 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,360 And then they all get on a shuttle to go get the Uber, 153 00:10:48,879 --> 00:10:52,039 but instead I guess they all got a shuttle just like a sprinter van to 154 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:56,000 take everybody home. So they were like, we're kidnapping your daughter. She's 155 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,960 coming with us, she's gonna get in the right she's getting a ride home, 156 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,480 but it's gonna be a while because we have to go to like drop 157 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:05,000 everybody off. So Natalie was like one of the last to get dropped off. 158 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,679 But they're her cousin, Jimmy's cousin Anne and Josh, who are the 159 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:13,200 sweetest. They're all so sweet, who are so sweet. They were like, 160 00:11:13,279 --> 00:11:18,399 we're gonna take her. She's gonna go with us last because her because 161 00:11:18,519 --> 00:11:20,200 our house is kind of out of the way. Everybody else lives by each 162 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,879 other. So anyway, so she got home at like midnight, and it 163 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,799 was you know, it was I stayed up waited for her, and she 164 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:30,519 had a great time. Yeah, did she go to school today? Yes? 165 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,039 That was my point. So she got I'm like, you're gonna I 166 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,360 could not believe, I said, because I make her breakfast every morning. 167 00:11:37,639 --> 00:11:39,919 And I sent her a text. I'm like, are you up? And 168 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,799 she's like yep. I'm like, wow, I'm very proud of you. 169 00:11:41,879 --> 00:11:46,960 She was up and dressed and music on and going to school. Yeah. 170 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,279 I mean, she's a kid. She can handle it. I know. 171 00:11:50,519 --> 00:11:54,919 It's just funny for me. I'm exhausted. I know. Well, I 172 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:58,000 feel like Elbie was like that a lot senior year. I'm pretty sure she 173 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,600 was constantly instantly on the guy. I mean she was working like Ilbi was 174 00:12:01,639 --> 00:12:05,840 working like twenty hours a week all through her senior year. I was just 175 00:12:05,879 --> 00:12:09,559 like, is this crazy? Yeah? And her junior year. But yeah, 176 00:12:09,639 --> 00:12:15,279 constantly doing so many things and like running herself completely ragged, right, 177 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,200 And I tell her, like, you're gonna exhaust yourself. Thank god, 178 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,360 she doesn't have to go to work tonight, but she does. Yeah, 179 00:12:20,399 --> 00:12:24,600 she's been working a bunch of week a bunch of nights. She works like 180 00:12:24,639 --> 00:12:26,840 three or four days a week. She had to go in one day when 181 00:12:26,879 --> 00:12:31,240 it was her off day to cover for the girl that got sick or I 182 00:12:31,279 --> 00:12:35,919 don't know. So she likes it. She's loving it. Yeah, And 183 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,559 but yeah, she's she's gonna run herself ragged, but I guess it is. 184 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:43,360 It's senior year. Making herself a little money. Though. Does she 185 00:12:43,399 --> 00:12:46,519 get tipped? Thank god? Yes, No, she doesn't get tips. 186 00:12:46,799 --> 00:12:50,279 Oh no, they don't have to give give any they don't have to tip 187 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:54,879 out the hostess. No, but somebody gave her a twenty dollars bill because 188 00:12:54,919 --> 00:12:58,440 she got them a table. Oh yeah. She was like, She's like, 189 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:01,759 I didn't really do anything, but we were packed and they didn't have 190 00:13:01,799 --> 00:13:03,799 reservations, and she's like, let me see what I can do. And 191 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:07,360 then she went and talked to the to the whatever and they made a table 192 00:13:07,399 --> 00:13:11,679 for them and the guy gave her like a twenty buck here you go on 193 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,399 his way out. Thank you for that. Yeah, And she's like wow, 194 00:13:13,639 --> 00:13:18,480 thanks, Like she was like, yeah, it's nice that they're making 195 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,000 their own you know, they can make their own money. Oh yeah, 196 00:13:20,039 --> 00:13:24,559 it's great. Yeah, I'll be I mean I haven't had to. I 197 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,720 don't support anything outside of like I mean, we still pay her insurance and 198 00:13:28,759 --> 00:13:33,840 pay her phone, right stuff like that. Yeah, she doesn't pay rent 199 00:13:33,919 --> 00:13:39,080 or anything. But yeah, I mean she all of her mostly eats meals 200 00:13:39,159 --> 00:13:43,080 out of the house. I mean, yeah, she eats food in the 201 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,159 house, don't get me wrong. But my point is, most stuff she 202 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,519 just pays for herself. I don't give her money anywhere for anything. That's 203 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:54,200 awesome. Yeah. Yeah. The other thing too, is Natalia eats at 204 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,679 home all the time. Now she used to like order this and that. 205 00:13:58,039 --> 00:14:01,080 She eats lunch. Oh shit, I forgot to make her lunch. Fuck 206 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,159 well, she's got leftovers in the fridge. But she comes home every day 207 00:14:05,159 --> 00:14:09,519 at lunch and eats lunch at home, and then of course I make her 208 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,440 lunch. But whatever, it's easy. You know, throw some chicken, 209 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,120 you know, and some salad together, and that's it, but she could 210 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:22,399 probably do that. She can do that. Yeah, But and then she 211 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:26,840 eats breakfast every morning. She eats breakfast, She eats eggs and avocado toast, 212 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:30,399 which I make for her, and then she eats dinner at home. 213 00:14:30,639 --> 00:14:33,240 Yeah, so she changed. Yeah, she used to eat out all the 214 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:37,519 time and now she doesn't want to. She likes coming home at lunch. 215 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:43,240 Interesting, what about our boyfriend? What about him? Aren't they are they 216 00:14:43,279 --> 00:14:46,480 in school together? They are in school. He comes home, he comes 217 00:14:46,519 --> 00:14:48,279 with her. Sometimes she comes with her friends or him. She doesn't go 218 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:52,559 out to eat with him at night. They do you know what they do? 219 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:58,639 They do a monthly anniversary where it's like it's our seventh month together, 220 00:14:58,759 --> 00:15:01,399 so we're going for sushi. You know. They do that kind of shit 221 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:05,360 right during the week, No, you know, No, Like he usually 222 00:15:05,399 --> 00:15:07,440 just comes over in the evenings and hangs out with us, hangs out with 223 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,159 her, and then goes home. She's in bed by nine thirty. She 224 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,960 has to. She's like, I'm in bed at ninth lights out at nine 225 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:22,399 thirty. That's yeah, I'm wild. I know. She's she's changed, 226 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,919 Like and then she works out like six to seven days a week, she's 227 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,320 got to get her work out in and she tells me, so, yeah, 228 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:33,720 she's she's I'm pretty proud of her. It's still good, very different 229 00:15:33,759 --> 00:15:37,720 than my kids. But she was the same way. Like I think in 230 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:43,759 senior year something changed, like some She's just motivated, you know. I 231 00:15:43,799 --> 00:15:50,120 mean Elbie gets no exercise whatsoever. Uh, Xander is more of the like 232 00:15:50,279 --> 00:15:52,559 he gets out, he walks a lot. He used to go to the 233 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,960 gym with John, but he doesn't. He told me he just doesn't like 234 00:15:58,039 --> 00:16:00,600 the gym. Yeah, but he likes he has like a pull up bar 235 00:16:02,039 --> 00:16:04,360 and he's been doing his pull up bar and he does push ups at home. 236 00:16:04,399 --> 00:16:07,879 And then he tries to like get out and he goes like skateboarding every 237 00:16:08,279 --> 00:16:14,840 evening and you know, yeah, stuff like that. Sadie does nothing. 238 00:16:15,159 --> 00:16:22,279 They eat, I mean they eat kind of junkie. Xander eats more healthy 239 00:16:22,559 --> 00:16:29,720 and like limits himself with sweets and but you know they eat like five I 240 00:16:29,759 --> 00:16:33,879 mean the teenagers. Yeah, you know, yeah, it's just still weird, 241 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:38,159 like just watching them change, you know. And like Sonny goes for 242 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:42,559 a walk every night. He loves to go for his walks. Yeah, 243 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:49,639 every night after dinner and listening to his corn. That's right, walking around 244 00:16:49,679 --> 00:16:55,360 the neighborhood listening to porn. So that he's doing. I tell you that. 245 00:16:55,559 --> 00:16:59,679 The other night, I woke up at like I think this was last 246 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:03,600 month. I woke up at like four thirty four forty five in the morning. 247 00:17:03,919 --> 00:17:07,039 It was pitch black outside, and I took Phil to go to the 248 00:17:07,039 --> 00:17:11,759 bathroom, and as I was walking into the living room, Sonny just comes 249 00:17:11,759 --> 00:17:15,640 walking down the hall dressed with his earbuds on him, like, good morning, 250 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,839 what do you what are you? Where are you going? He goes, 251 00:17:18,839 --> 00:17:23,160 I'm going on a walk. Excuse me, I go now, and 252 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,480 he goes, yeah, I couldn't sleep at all to last He's got really 253 00:17:27,039 --> 00:17:32,039 bad insomnia, and I'm taking him to a doctor in like two weeks. 254 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:37,839 Oh, actually next week. I'm like okay. So he yeah, he 255 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:41,039 but but because he took a nap earlier in the day, he took a 256 00:17:41,039 --> 00:17:45,279 lot and he usually does it, so he fell asleep. He woke I 257 00:17:45,319 --> 00:17:48,000 woke him up for dinner. It was like six thirty and he goes like 258 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:51,279 that nap was like three hours and I was like oh, and he goes, 259 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,400 yeah, so I didn't sleep. So he's like if I go for 260 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,519 a walk right now, tire myself out, and I'm like, it's pitch 261 00:17:56,559 --> 00:18:00,279 black out, and he goes, so what, I go for a walk 262 00:18:00,279 --> 00:18:03,079 at night and it's pitch black and there's not a lot of lights in our 263 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:06,079 neighborhood either, which is just weird. At three o'clock in the morning. 264 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,279 No, this was like five five in the morning. Oh okay, it 265 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,640 was like four or forty five. And yeah, I ran into him at 266 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,839 like five in the morning. But then was he going to go back to 267 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:21,599 sleep after his walk? Yes, and like sleep till what eight or he 268 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,680 doesn't have first period. He doesn't have first period, so he can see. 269 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,920 Yeah, so he came back like an hour later, and then he 270 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:33,720 went to sleep like six forty five seven, and then got up at like 271 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:37,480 nine and then went to bed at a good time that night. And now 272 00:18:37,519 --> 00:18:41,839 he's back on track. Okay, he will have once in a while like 273 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:44,880 nights, but he did again take a nap. But he does have these 274 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,440 nights where I mean Adam was like that. Adam's like that, like just 275 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,839 up in the middle of the night, can't sleep. I guess it's hereditary. 276 00:18:55,559 --> 00:18:59,480 Yeah, maybe, so I think it is John used to be like 277 00:18:59,559 --> 00:19:06,519 that, but he's normal now. Yeah, But I think and I think 278 00:19:06,559 --> 00:19:11,599 with John, I was the one I got up every morning and did everything, 279 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,920 and I think that he would sleep in every morning, so it's harder 280 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,319 for him to get to sleep at night. But now he gets up when 281 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:22,400 I get up because I'm not sure why. But the way it works is 282 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,319 that I take the dog out in the morning and he takes the kids. 283 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,480 He drives the kids to school. Oh okay, and then it's good. 284 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:33,680 Yeah, I'll pick them up in the afternoon. But yeah, so he 285 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:37,119 goes to bed at night at a decent time. Yeah. We go to 286 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:41,599 bed at like midnight, yeah, I mean, and then get up at 287 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:48,200 seven five, Yeah, which is fine that the kids also go to bed 288 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:52,119 at like midnight. And I've always thought the kids need, you know, 289 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:56,839 like ten hours of sleep or something, but my kids do not. They 290 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:00,119 are wide awake at midnight. A lot of times. I'm just like, 291 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:04,400 I can't outlast them. I know, I know, I'm in bed usually 292 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,880 by eleven, but sometimes I'm not asleep till twelve. But then I'll put 293 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:12,480 on a podcast and then I'm like out darted bear, How do you do 294 00:20:12,519 --> 00:20:18,720 you fall asleep. I was listening to a court thing in my earbuds, 295 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,319 and I went to sleep. And then I wake up and I'm like, 296 00:20:22,319 --> 00:20:26,079 how do people do this? I can't find my earbuds now they're gone. 297 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:30,079 They're all like tangled up in my sheets. I then call one of them 298 00:20:30,079 --> 00:20:33,599 to find I don't listen on my earbuds. I just put the podcast on 299 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,240 and I set it to go off. I said it. I set a 300 00:20:37,279 --> 00:20:41,440 timer. The timers right on the podcast app. I see that. Yeah, 301 00:20:41,559 --> 00:20:44,640 it just has a little moon, and you just hit that and I'll 302 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,480 say when do you want it to go off? And I'll say after the 303 00:20:45,559 --> 00:20:49,599 end of the episode. Oh, And then I just we put it kind 304 00:20:49,599 --> 00:20:52,599 of we put the one of our phones like between us, and then we 305 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,519 so you both listen. Yeah, we both listen. Okay, Yeah, 306 00:20:57,759 --> 00:21:02,079 well that's a good idea. Yeah. Should we talk about Quints. Let's 307 00:21:02,079 --> 00:21:06,839 talk about Quints. I love I'm wearing Quint's pants. Oh, those are 308 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,440 so key. I love them. Those are the ones that I have Right 309 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:17,519 now, we're both wearing Quints. Which pants those are? Oh? I 310 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:22,519 forget them. I think they're called the blue ones. I love them. 311 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,680 I bought them for sunny and they were too short, so I took them, 312 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,720 so now I wear them. I've been raving about them for a long 313 00:21:27,759 --> 00:21:32,119 long time and was I wrong? Oh, you're right, You're so right. 314 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,720 And the pockets are deep and they're so soft. And I also have 315 00:21:34,799 --> 00:21:40,160 the Quint's cardigan sweater right, yeah, pale pink. I have the v 316 00:21:40,279 --> 00:21:45,319 neck bubblegum pink ye cashmere sweater Cashmere for fifty dollars. You can't go wrong 317 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,400 with that. I mean, if you look on their website you can look. 318 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,880 They have these really cute moto jackets, like all kinds of trendy fun 319 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:59,599 styles, but like high quality stuff for very low prices. Every item is 320 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,480 priced fifty to eighty percent less than similar brands. Wow, that's I mean. 321 00:22:03,759 --> 00:22:08,039 And they have so much of a selection, have tons of colors like 322 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,640 it's it and for men too, right, I mean, we were just 323 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:15,759 talking about Yallen. But yeah, and I know a lot of you guys 324 00:22:15,799 --> 00:22:19,279 are buying this stuff, so why not use our code Indulgent Affordable Luxury. 325 00:22:19,319 --> 00:22:23,839 Go to Quinns dot com slash f co o L for free shipping on your 326 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:29,319 order and three hundred and sixty five day returns. That's q u I n 327 00:22:29,519 --> 00:22:33,240 CE dot com slash f c o L for free shipping and three hundred and 328 00:22:33,319 --> 00:22:41,799 sixty five day returns quints dot com slash f co o L so yes, 329 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:47,039 Speech and debate. Tournament, Yeah, tournament, tournament, tournament, tournament, 330 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:52,079 tournament. I say tournament, you guys say tournament. That just sounds 331 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:56,559 so wrong. It sounds like I'm being Chicago, like, yeah, turnament. 332 00:22:56,599 --> 00:23:00,720 I went to the tournament anyway, went to the turnament. I think 333 00:23:00,799 --> 00:23:06,039 that you say it the proper way. Tournament. No, it is tournament. 334 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,839 What do you think tournament? Tournament? Yeah, it seems like it 335 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:15,240 should be tournament, though. I don't want to get into a whole argument 336 00:23:15,319 --> 00:23:18,680 with our listeners, you know, and get a bunch of hate mail, 337 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:22,680 because you guys are haters. You guys drink the hater aide and are so 338 00:23:22,799 --> 00:23:26,519 mad at me right now. So I'm gonna please you guys. Tournament, 339 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:33,359 God, there's better things to cancel us over. Trust me. Tournament anyway, 340 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,359 tournament, Uh, tournament. There was a speech in another Speech and 341 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,759 debate, tournament. It's the state qualifiers. Wow. Yeah, and Xander 342 00:23:41,559 --> 00:23:48,160 was in it along with his team and the people's on his team. I 343 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:52,559 don't know. Is it small? Say they were like fifteen, that's a 344 00:23:52,599 --> 00:23:56,480 big team. Yeah, I mean there's there are more than that, but 345 00:23:56,559 --> 00:24:00,720 I don't know where the I don't know. Okay, yeah, so they 346 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:06,400 like them and all the grades. Okay, yeah, so but it's a 347 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,680 small school, right, so okay, but for such a small school, 348 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:14,599 they won. They won quite a few things. That's awesome. Yeah, 349 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:19,880 yeah, Xander did not win. Spoiler alert. Okay, but you had 350 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:26,599 so much fun. Yeah yeah, so but I I'm gonna I get to 351 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,119 complain about this one. Oh now, why so? I was so excited. 352 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,559 I was so excited. I when I got the email from the teacher 353 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,400 asking for judges, I was like the first one. I was like, 354 00:24:38,519 --> 00:24:41,880 I'm in, I'm in. And she was like, listen, I don't 355 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,640 want to have to have people have to work both days, so we really 356 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,680 need people to step up. I was like, no, you don't, 357 00:24:45,799 --> 00:24:49,680 I'll work both days. I got you. I'm your girl on Friday and 358 00:24:49,759 --> 00:24:55,279 Saturday, right, And she was you know, so their coach. I 359 00:24:55,319 --> 00:25:00,240 love her so much. She's like, she's so nice. Yeah, she's 360 00:25:00,319 --> 00:25:06,559 also the uh English, the honors English teacher. Yeah, the kids love 361 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:11,039 her. She's just funny. She's got like a nose ring and she's like 362 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,640 she's young and you know, she's just cool. But she also was she 363 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,440 competed in speech and debate when she was young, and she's really good and 364 00:25:21,759 --> 00:25:25,400 so had equality to have. I think it's a good skill. Yeah, 365 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:30,480 really good skills to have learned that skill. I meann't have any speech and 366 00:25:30,519 --> 00:25:33,559 debate at my school. Did they have it at year school? I don't 367 00:25:33,599 --> 00:25:36,680 remember, I don't. I don't think so. I mean I went to 368 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:41,960 that small magnet right right, hippy dippy school. But okay, okay, 369 00:25:41,079 --> 00:25:45,599 okay, yeah, I don't know, but it's so good for these kids, 370 00:25:45,599 --> 00:25:51,200 it is. It's a great se great skill. Yeah. So anyway, 371 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,680 I agreed to do it. Went there on Friday, so there was 372 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:59,839 a one round, two rounds to be judged on Friday, and I did 373 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,359 get to judge around I'm trying to think of how many there were. Well 374 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,640 I only got to judge one. But I was like, that's okay, 375 00:26:07,519 --> 00:26:11,079 you know, but you got all day tomorrow, Yes exactly. I'm like 376 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,880 tomorrow I was gonna be crazy, right. A couple of the people though, 377 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,720 on Friday night. The other judges had like back to back rounds and 378 00:26:18,759 --> 00:26:22,240 were already like sweating it a little bit, like so here's how it goes, 379 00:26:22,759 --> 00:26:27,720 and you know me, I get my brain, I'm like fucked up. 380 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:36,880 I'm not trying to ever claim that I'm super like mentally healthy. I'm 381 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,400 just saying I'm just being I'm just being honest with everybody about my own things 382 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:45,799 that make me. I'm a planner, and not in a good way, 383 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,319 not in the way of like, oh I like to be organized and plan 384 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:52,480 things out, more like I like to constantly my brain is constantly going like 385 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:57,720 what could go wrong? And it's not even catastrophizing. It's more like, 386 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:00,960 oh no, but if I can't figure out where the parking lot is, 387 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,559 you know, because anytime I have to follow, you know how we both 388 00:27:04,559 --> 00:27:10,279 are like this about like a lot of instructions. I can't take so much 389 00:27:10,279 --> 00:27:15,079 information in my BRAIND right, maybe this is an ADHD thing. But once 390 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,279 there's a second page of instructions for anything I lost the first, Yeah, 391 00:27:19,319 --> 00:27:22,880 I know, me too, And then I have to print it out and 392 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:26,240 I'm like, oh, what if I am out of service and I'm not 393 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,680 gonna be able to see where to go, and you know, and how 394 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,799 long is it going to take me to get there? And it's a Friday 395 00:27:30,839 --> 00:27:34,759 and Friday traffic and I need to leave right after school. But then Xander 396 00:27:34,799 --> 00:27:38,920 has to change first, so I'm like okay, then one of the roads 397 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:44,880 is closed. Suffice it to say, I was late. I had to 398 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,599 find this parking lot. So I'm already like anxious. Yeah right, And 399 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:53,519 it's not like I'm I'm not totally nuts. It's like I'm anxious, but 400 00:27:53,599 --> 00:27:57,440 I'm like it's fine. I tell myself like whatever, hey, I got 401 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:03,319 here. They're not going to kick me out of it. And of course 402 00:28:03,519 --> 00:28:06,799 a lot of people other people were late. You know, it's Friday traffic 403 00:28:06,839 --> 00:28:11,200 in Los Angeles. Yeah. So but then you get all these judging instructions, 404 00:28:11,599 --> 00:28:15,960 so it's like every beat of this is a lot of instructions. Okay, 405 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:22,400 right, so you're constantly going like okay, I'm gonna forget this, 406 00:28:22,799 --> 00:28:26,000 Like how much of this do I really need to talk me? Do it? 407 00:28:26,079 --> 00:28:27,480 Like? So, yeah, I did it before. I did it 408 00:28:27,519 --> 00:28:32,359 before, so I wasn't that nervous about that. But you could get a 409 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:37,480 different thing to judge, and they act like there's new rules like for instance, 410 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:44,920 for instance, in this one, you're supposed to give the kids a 411 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,079 rating. Remember I described this to you last time, between seventy and one 412 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,720 hundred, but nobody really tells you what to exactly base your rating on. 413 00:28:52,119 --> 00:28:55,559 So some people are giving kids like a hundred, like I gave kids a 414 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:59,839 hundred, But other people are like, well a ninety is really generous, 415 00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:03,160 Like you don't know. Everybody treats it like we're like we're judging the Olympics, 416 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,079 you know, right, and you're like, well, I got to 417 00:29:06,079 --> 00:29:10,119 take off a tenth of a point for posture. Hey, you don't know 418 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:15,319 who's doing what or And also it's just super subjective, right, like what 419 00:29:15,039 --> 00:29:18,559 you think is good and what other people think is good. But anyway, 420 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:23,240 and it's mostly speech, right, no debate, right, there's no debate. 421 00:29:23,359 --> 00:29:29,440 No. So in this one though, So in the last one that 422 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,720 I judged, you give them you rank them, Like let's say you have 423 00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:37,640 seven kids competing in year round. You rank them one through four, and 424 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,119 then the rest of them are all tied for fourth place. So really what 425 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:45,279 you care about is one through three. Well, in this one, because 426 00:29:45,279 --> 00:29:49,279 it's a state qualifier for whatever reason, there were no speaker points involved, 427 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:55,000 but our in when they're giving you the instructions, there's a lot of talk 428 00:29:55,039 --> 00:29:57,559 about the speaker points and how many speaker points to give. Then when we 429 00:29:57,599 --> 00:30:00,680 looked at our ballot, there's no no place for speaker points. So then 430 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,119 you have to bring your computer over and show it to them and go, 431 00:30:04,599 --> 00:30:07,880 hey, I don't know there's no speaker points, and they're like, oh, 432 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,599 yeah, we're not doing speaker points. Okay, so just do your 433 00:30:11,079 --> 00:30:17,079 ranking. Okay. Also, this is gonna this is gonna seem like too 434 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:21,880 much information. But so my computer at home, the battery doesn't work. 435 00:30:22,079 --> 00:30:26,960 Like, if you unplug my computer, you're gonna have no battery in fifteen 436 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:30,920 minutes. Right, Well, you have to have some kind of a laptop. 437 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:37,880 So I borrowed Xander's computer. Well, Xander never failed to mention that 438 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:42,359 the space bar is really sticky, so you can't tight. I don't know 439 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,559 what he freaking uses it for. I mean, I think I have to 440 00:30:45,599 --> 00:30:48,160 get this fixed, right, I don't really know how to get it fixed, 441 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,440 because I think he just deals with it. But you cannot. You 442 00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:56,759 have to you can't use your thumb. You can't tight normally you have to 443 00:30:56,799 --> 00:31:00,039 like specifically hit the space bar and if you hit it to and he gives 444 00:31:00,039 --> 00:31:06,759 you a period. Oh god, it's so ridiculous. Also, I can't 445 00:31:06,799 --> 00:31:08,720 use a track pad, I'm too young. Can I have to use a 446 00:31:08,759 --> 00:31:14,480 mouse? So now I'm like, well, I gotta connect my wireless mouse, 447 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,440 you know, to his computer. Well, so Friday I go and 448 00:31:18,519 --> 00:31:22,640 Xander's like, mom, I need you to bring my clothes, don't forget 449 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,319 the computer. I'm like, of course, I'm not going to forget. 450 00:31:25,359 --> 00:31:27,599 I'm anxious. I've got a list of everything I need. Well, I 451 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:33,160 get to the school and I forgot the mouse. So now I'm like, 452 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,839 can't you plug in your laptop though, and use it like that? Like 453 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,279 plug it in? And just because if you if there's a lot of people 454 00:31:40,319 --> 00:31:42,920 there, and there are probably like a couple of outlets in the whole place, 455 00:31:44,079 --> 00:31:48,519 So the main place where you're sitting around tables and there's no outlet there, 456 00:31:48,559 --> 00:31:51,440 I'd have to go off by myself and find an outlet. It's like, 457 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,920 would be a pain. It was fine to use Xander's computer, battery 458 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,359 lasted all day. The problem was I had to use a track pad and 459 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,279 a sticky space par key, which I didn't know I was going to be 460 00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:07,200 dealing with. Anyway, I get one round. I judged the round, 461 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,279 it was totally funk, and I don't get the next round. Then I'm 462 00:32:10,279 --> 00:32:14,640 sitting around this Friday night. This is Friday night, okay, yeah, 463 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:19,119 but I'm like, oh, Saturday, They're going to exhaust me all the 464 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,519 judging I'm going to be doing. Yeah, no, now what? So 465 00:32:22,559 --> 00:32:27,000 I get there, so I'm with I have a friend of mine meets me 466 00:32:27,039 --> 00:32:30,440 there who I really like, So that part was fun. And we were 467 00:32:30,559 --> 00:32:34,920 meeting another friend whose kid goes to the school, who was going to be 468 00:32:35,039 --> 00:32:37,920 judging. So I'm like, well, at the very least, I'm going 469 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,400 to have fun with some mother mom your friend. Yeah. So we get 470 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:45,480 there. They made this big deal about getting there by eight o'clock, and 471 00:32:45,559 --> 00:32:49,039 I asked, well, can we get there a little late since we heard 472 00:32:49,079 --> 00:32:52,759 the judging instructions already. He's like, you need to be in this room 473 00:32:52,799 --> 00:32:54,920 by eight thirty in the morning, Saturday, the morning, Saturday morning. 474 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:59,279 So I was like, okay, So now I'm anxious about it. So 475 00:32:59,319 --> 00:33:01,599 I make sure, as you're gonna hear in my Patreon story, I make 476 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:06,079 sure that the girl that's I'm driving is dropped off at our house at seven 477 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,079 thirty because it's a little bit far. I've got to pick up another girl. 478 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:14,240 Then I got a Then I'm like gonna be taking kind of a long 479 00:33:14,279 --> 00:33:16,920 way anyway, long story short, I was. I was there by like 480 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:21,519 ten after eight, OK, but you're supposed to be there at eight. 481 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,119 My deadline. My thing was like, Okay, yeah, you don't have 482 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,319 to be here right at eight, but if you're no later than eight, 483 00:33:28,319 --> 00:33:30,440 pty, Well I there at like ten after a quarter after eight? No 484 00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:37,200 one there. Don't I know what happens? Like, don't you? This 485 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,079 is full on early bird. This happens. It seems like it happens with 486 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:44,720 these kinds of events, like with track and field and stuff. It's like, 487 00:33:44,839 --> 00:33:46,920 you got to be there at seven fifteen am on the dot, blah 488 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,799 blah blah. We get there and like nobody's there. Yeah, where is 489 00:33:50,839 --> 00:33:53,279 everybody? Right? And why are we the only rule followers? I'm not 490 00:33:53,359 --> 00:33:58,039 even a rule follower, Like that's what's so ridiculous. And it's like I'm 491 00:33:58,079 --> 00:34:00,359 the last person who's really trying to follow rule. I was just anxious, 492 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,200 right and got there on wanted to make sure I was there on time, 493 00:34:04,359 --> 00:34:07,759 so got there a little early. But yeah, not even early though. 494 00:34:07,159 --> 00:34:09,760 It was supposed to be there at eight, right, So like where it 495 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:14,920 is now, it's like eight thirty. People are like wandering in. People 496 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:21,559 were wandering until fucking nine o'clock. Oh god, my then nine o'clock. 497 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,519 So so ballots go out, don't get one and neither does neither does my 498 00:34:25,559 --> 00:34:29,800 friend though, so I'm not feeling that bad. Okay, then the next 499 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:35,440 ballots go out. Nothing. Basically I didn't get anything all day. I'm 500 00:34:35,559 --> 00:34:38,400 sitting in a room. But every time they're like, okay, they're starting 501 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:42,960 around. These rounds go an hour and a half every time, though, 502 00:34:43,079 --> 00:34:46,519 I'm like scared to leave because a where am I going? Right? Like 503 00:34:46,599 --> 00:34:51,519 I could go like walk around. We were in Burbank, so I could 504 00:34:51,559 --> 00:34:54,960 go to like the Burbank mall, but like and then I'm gonna have to 505 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:59,159 walk back to my school, and you know, so I was like I 506 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:00,800 kept thinking, like, well, they're about to give me something to do. 507 00:35:01,679 --> 00:35:06,159 All day long, I had nothing to do except for I ate too 508 00:35:06,199 --> 00:35:09,199 much because they were like munchies, you know, so I ate food and 509 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:15,400 then I sat around and then this is where this is where my personality is, 510 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:20,000 Like, this is where I run into issues. This is why I 511 00:35:20,039 --> 00:35:23,079 never was able to keep jobs for too long, you know, Because then 512 00:35:23,119 --> 00:35:25,639 I'm starting to take it a little bit personally, like I'm like, why, 513 00:35:25,639 --> 00:35:28,880 don't know what's going on? Like I was gonna say, like, 514 00:35:29,599 --> 00:35:32,079 doesn't it make you feel there's this such a little twinge of jealousy when they 515 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:36,280 get the ballots go out and you don't have one. I was feeling bad 516 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,880 for you. Yes, yes, And also I'm starting to get annoyed because 517 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:45,639 other people are getting overworked. So like the coach's sister had to come because 518 00:35:45,639 --> 00:35:50,719 we were short a judge, and she got every ballot and she was like, 519 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,800 I don't know what's going on. I just keep getting ballot. I'm 520 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,880 having to judge every round like I can't get a break. And I said, 521 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,760 well I'll do I would be happily do your round. I wish I 522 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:06,480 was getting every round. I would have been thrilled. I was. I'm 523 00:36:06,519 --> 00:36:08,599 like, this is what I'm here for. Yes, this is where I've 524 00:36:08,599 --> 00:36:15,599 come alive. I was meant to do this shit, this is I would 525 00:36:15,599 --> 00:36:21,280 do this for a Do you have an opening for speeching to bage coaches because 526 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,239 put me in. I want to do it. How do I apply? 527 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:28,719 Like, I got a new this is my new goal in life is to 528 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,199 be a speech to debag coach. You know, I'm like overly into it. 529 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,639 Yes, these assholes are like, oh, I'm too overworked. I 530 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,639 kind of how do I you know, have to blow to get a break 531 00:36:37,679 --> 00:36:45,039 around here? So I'm just getting annoyed. So now the people, Okay, 532 00:36:45,119 --> 00:36:49,559 So there's sort of like administrators. One of them is a speeching debach 533 00:36:49,679 --> 00:36:52,400 coach for like a very big school, and I befriended her at the last 534 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:57,800 one. So first I start with like a little like amn, like hey, 535 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,760 like how come I haven't gotten any ballots? Like I could really use 536 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:05,320 a ballot And she's like, oh yeah, it's like totally random. And 537 00:37:06,079 --> 00:37:10,079 so it is. There's something called the tab room. Okay. The tab 538 00:37:10,159 --> 00:37:15,760 room is where they is the app that they use to do all of the 539 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:20,480 ballots. That's who they send all the ballots out and they organize everything and 540 00:37:20,519 --> 00:37:23,440 then they tally up people's scores. Is this an actual room or is this 541 00:37:23,519 --> 00:37:27,840 an app? Well, it's a room where tab room is. It's an 542 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,280 actual room. But it's it's like a it's an app. It's like a 543 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:35,119 website, Like you sign up on tab room and that's how you get your 544 00:37:35,119 --> 00:37:39,599 ballots, and then that's how you write your comments directly into this website basically. 545 00:37:40,119 --> 00:37:45,559 And then the people who run tab room, it's they're sitting in another 546 00:37:45,679 --> 00:37:50,360 room. Okay, tabulating. Wow, this is really like yes, oh 547 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,920 it's it's like crazy, it's serious business. Yeah, it's serious. So 548 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:59,400 she's like, oh that the tab room does everything. But so I'm like, 549 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,199 oh, she's you'll get one. Then she starts telling me like, 550 00:38:02,639 --> 00:38:07,320 don't worry if you don't get them early in the day. They're trying to 551 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,679 So this is like, this is gonna be in the weeds. But they 552 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:15,320 they call it keeping you clean because if you haven't, if you've judged some 553 00:38:15,599 --> 00:38:20,400 kids, then you can't judge them in later rounds. You've already judge them. 554 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,960 So they're like, oh, she's they're probably saving you for the important 555 00:38:23,039 --> 00:38:30,480 rounds. Oh. I'm like, oh, okay, well of course they 556 00:38:30,519 --> 00:38:34,519 are. Now that makes sense, right, They probably got a load of 557 00:38:34,559 --> 00:38:37,119 my judging abilities from the last one. And they're like, this girl knows 558 00:38:37,119 --> 00:38:43,480 how to judge. Gotta save her right, right. Also, if any 559 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,039 of these schools are looking for a coach, we got this, we got 560 00:38:45,039 --> 00:38:49,320 this judge. You did like a fabulous job, right, So I'm like 561 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,440 okay, so same with my friends. She hasn't judged any rounds either. 562 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:58,480 So then now it's after lunch and we're in the semi finals. We're in. 563 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:04,079 We're now into the rounds where like these me clean, these clean, 564 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:07,199 amazing judges. Yes, no, I get nothing. So now I'm getting 565 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:13,320 mad and now I'm being there's a difference between the squeaky wheel and like the 566 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:17,239 wheel that's falling off the heart that people should not have to be paying attention 567 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:22,719 touse, Like I'm just a judge, and now I'm just like I just 568 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,880 don't understand what's going on, and I can't help myself. Like I'm like, 569 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:30,199 Stephanie, do not say anything. Nobody cares about you. It is 570 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:35,679 like very crazy that you're obsessed with why you haven't gotten ballots. But I'm 571 00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,280 like, hey, you are wasting a Saturday. Yes, yes, And 572 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,719 I'm sure that some of these people don't, like don't they need to go 573 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:45,360 somewhere? It's in It is like doesn't somebody need to leave after lunch, 574 00:39:45,559 --> 00:39:49,079 one of the judges from our school was like, had injured her back and 575 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,280 was like, I came, but I really would rather not be here. 576 00:39:52,559 --> 00:39:57,119 They kept giving her ballots and she was like, dude. Finally she went 577 00:39:57,159 --> 00:39:59,960 in and told them, like, is if there's any way that I could 578 00:40:00,079 --> 00:40:05,400 go home? We got other judges that are like not doing anything my school, 579 00:40:05,519 --> 00:40:07,639 right, Yeah, she went and told them, and they told her 580 00:40:07,679 --> 00:40:10,039 she could go. Still didn't give me a ballot. Oh my god. 581 00:40:10,119 --> 00:40:14,719 Now I'm just getting mad. It's getting rigged or something. Yes, And 582 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,360 now I'm of course starting to take it personally. Now I'm like, did 583 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:23,480 I do something wrong? So I do say, hey, like I I 584 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:28,840 would really like to get a ballot. And now this woman from the big 585 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,039 the coach who has the big school, who's not in charge, is feeling 586 00:40:32,079 --> 00:40:37,880 bad for me, but also probably annoyed by how much I'm complaining. Now 587 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,639 I've turned into a full on complainer, and I'm just like, I just 588 00:40:39,679 --> 00:40:44,760 don't understand. I just don't know why I'm not getting any ballots. Like, 589 00:40:45,159 --> 00:40:47,320 and then of course when I every time there's a new round and I 590 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:59,079 don't get one, I'm like and I'm trying not to Lynette. 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All of a sudden, she's like, we gave you 636 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,280 a ballot, but they'd already sent out the ballots for this round. This 637 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:51,480 is like late in the game, so I wasn't gonna get one, but 638 00:44:51,519 --> 00:44:53,639 then because I was being kind of pushy about it, I got one and 639 00:44:53,679 --> 00:44:58,400 my friend got one and we got to do the same one. And the 640 00:44:58,639 --> 00:45:02,800 round is called impromptu. And it's where this is really hard. So kudos 641 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:07,880 to these kids. They have to they get a topic. You give them 642 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:12,280 one word. Okay, they get a choice of three words and they could 643 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:17,840 be like like meditation, board games, optimism. So they pick one, 644 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:23,559 right, they sit down, they get two minutes to come up with a 645 00:45:23,599 --> 00:45:28,719 speech. They get two minutes to come up with something, and then they 646 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,519 have to speak for five minutes. Wow, it's impressive on the topic. 647 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:37,920 Yeah, And so we were and you have to time them and you have 648 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,880 to so in this one, because it's the semi finals, there's three judges, 649 00:45:42,119 --> 00:45:45,800 right, so it was me and my friend and then another judge and 650 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,119 you don't get to confer with each other. And anyway, so we watch 651 00:45:49,199 --> 00:45:52,920 these kids. We got like seven kids. They were all adorable, so 652 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:58,119 good, and that's where we were like, God, what a skill this 653 00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,840 is. And they have to be really presentational, like you can't just be 654 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:07,880 like, so okay board games. Like when I was a kid, I 655 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,920 really liked board games, but now I don't like them as much, but 656 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:14,239 I still like scrabble. Like, you can't do that. It has to 657 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:20,440 be What they have to do is they have to go. As a child, 658 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:24,559 my favorite game was blah blah blah. But then as I got older, 659 00:46:24,599 --> 00:46:29,119 I really wanted a cell phone, and then soon after that, I 660 00:46:29,159 --> 00:46:32,239 was always on my phone, and I lost my appreciation for the simple things 661 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:38,039 in life. Now I'm going to be talking about uh, Julius Caesar and 662 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:42,840 blah blah blah and blah blah blah, all to make my point of why 663 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,639 we need to appreciate the simple things like board games. So you have to 664 00:46:45,679 --> 00:46:52,159 make these connections in your head and then use literature or movies or whatever to 665 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,280 make your examples. So I was just like, holy fucking shit, I 666 00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,360 could never do this. I was. It's nervous. For each one of 667 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,280 them, I was like, and they were all cool as a cucumber. 668 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,559 None of them seemed like really freaked out. They were all amazing. That's 669 00:47:07,679 --> 00:47:14,000 crazy, that's such a good skill. Yeah. One girl did hers about 670 00:47:14,119 --> 00:47:17,760 the word was loneliness, and her thing was so beautiful, and she talked 671 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:24,199 about this poet that was an introvert and that was wrote these would go out 672 00:47:24,199 --> 00:47:31,320 into nature and turned her being an introvert and loneliness into these beautiful poems and 673 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:35,960 how and the end of the thing was like, try to if you feel 674 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:44,199 lonely, try to find connection through turning your whatever sadness into art and therefore 675 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,559 connecting with other people who also feel lonely. I was like, holy shit, 676 00:47:46,679 --> 00:47:51,159 this girl's number one. I gave her number one. But it was 677 00:47:51,159 --> 00:47:54,039 so interesting because after we all submitted our ballots, me and the other two 678 00:47:54,159 --> 00:48:00,599 judges conferred like yeah, we you know, we compared notes and it was 679 00:48:00,639 --> 00:48:05,000 so interesting because like the person who was like my number two was this person's 680 00:48:05,119 --> 00:48:07,800 last one. Like we all appreciated different things. Yeah, you know, 681 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:12,360 that's so it's really really fun. So then I was on a high. 682 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,079 I'm like, well here we go, baby, Like she's back. The 683 00:48:16,119 --> 00:48:19,960 coach is bad and you're like, what time is it? How much time 684 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,519 do I have left? I still hope, like there's more to go. 685 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,239 Two more rounds, yes, So so there, and then I promptly did 686 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:30,639 not get the next round and then did not get the final round. So 687 00:48:30,679 --> 00:48:35,320 then I'm like deflated. Also in my mind, I'm like, so basically 688 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,440 I wasn't going to get any except that I pushed the one that I got 689 00:48:38,599 --> 00:48:44,599 I hadn't gotten originally because I complained. And then they took the coach's sister 690 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,079 off of that round, and I think, put me on it. Do 691 00:48:47,159 --> 00:48:52,719 you think you're not clean? I'm a dirty bird. You're a dirty bird. 692 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:58,480 Well, so here's what happened. So I'm like having a complete internal 693 00:48:58,559 --> 00:49:05,440 battle with myself. I'm just like, I just feel like something's weird, 694 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:09,199 you know, right, But it is ridiculous to be thinking about myself. 695 00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:12,639 I mean there's like forty judges in that room, like, you know. 696 00:49:13,519 --> 00:49:17,840 But I so I'm walking out and the one coach from the other team who 697 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:22,159 I'd befriended was like, I'm so sorry you didn't get like more rounds, 698 00:49:22,679 --> 00:49:25,840 and I was like, yeah, me too. I was told myself I 699 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,719 wasn't going to complain, and then I was like, yeah, it was 700 00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,480 really weird, Like I don't understand, and she was like, oh, 701 00:49:31,679 --> 00:49:37,760 next time, you know. So then I see my coach, the coach, 702 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,960 Yeah, my coach see this is how narcissistic I've gotten about this, 703 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:45,000 like it's all about me. My kid's coach, I see her. Yeah. 704 00:49:45,039 --> 00:49:47,559 Meanwhile, my poor kid did not make it even to semifinals, like 705 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:53,079 he was eliminated early. I'm like, yeah, whatever, anyway, Sorry, 706 00:49:53,079 --> 00:50:00,480 you're stuck here because I'm judging very important. Quit crying. I'm thinking 707 00:50:00,519 --> 00:50:02,639 about me right now. Did I judge? Yeah, he was fine, 708 00:50:02,679 --> 00:50:07,079 by the way, he didn't care. Yeah, anyway, So I see 709 00:50:07,119 --> 00:50:10,480 our coach, the coach, and I was like, yeah. So I 710 00:50:10,559 --> 00:50:15,039 was like, and I'm in my mind, I'm like, don't don't say 711 00:50:15,079 --> 00:50:16,840 it. Don't say anything. And I'm like, do you think there was 712 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:21,840 any like reason why I didn't get round? I would like to l too. 713 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,280 I would ask, well, guess what mystery is solved? She said, 714 00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:29,679 you know what. She's like, I she goes, I haven't really 715 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:31,719 seen this so much. She goes, but I have to give all of 716 00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:37,239 my judges a rating. And she goes, and you're low. You're rated 717 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,400 low right now. And she goes, not for any other reason besides that, 718 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:45,480 your Brett, you're new to it. She's like, so you happen 719 00:50:45,559 --> 00:50:49,119 to be on a day that I had she goes, the last one that 720 00:50:49,199 --> 00:50:52,800 you did was a kind of lower stakes, and she goes, and most 721 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,639 of you guys were new, she goes, but this one, I've got 722 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:59,280 my sister who's been doing it for ten years. And then she mentioned the 723 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:05,639 other two people from our school's team and did it all last year. So 724 00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:09,000 she's like, you were my newest judge. So you on our team of 725 00:51:09,119 --> 00:51:14,119 judges, you were rated the lowest list. She's like, because and she 726 00:51:14,159 --> 00:51:17,119 goes, and because it's like a high stakes, because it's this this determined 727 00:51:17,119 --> 00:51:21,400 who was going to final. She's like, because it was high stakes. 728 00:51:22,119 --> 00:51:25,000 If I have judges here who are higher rated than you, she goes, 729 00:51:25,119 --> 00:51:30,960 every coach has to rate their judges, she goes, So, because you 730 00:51:30,039 --> 00:51:36,880 are the lowest rated in my group of judges who are also available, they're 731 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,719 going to go to them first. She goes, But like next year, 732 00:51:40,199 --> 00:51:44,800 because there's no more, we're done for the year because now the kids go 733 00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,280 to states and then some kids go to final go to state. Do not 734 00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:52,639 if my kid's not there? That's a little crazy. No, can you 735 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,719 imagine? I just I drive, I drive to Fresno. I'm like, 736 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:59,000 Sander's like, where are you going, I'm like to the state, you 737 00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,199 know, go to this. Yeah, I'm like, don't worry about it. 738 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:07,519 I'll fill you in later. Yeah. So anyway, she was like, 739 00:52:07,639 --> 00:52:10,840 next year, you know you can, you'll all rate you higher because 740 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:15,119 you'll have had experience. Oh good. So she's like, so they'll use 741 00:52:15,159 --> 00:52:20,159 you a lot, especially in the early realms, right right, she's but 742 00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:25,440 I was like, okay, like I just did nothing all day. Yeah, 743 00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:30,199 and then I had to stay the whole time because they want all the 744 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:34,079 kids to stay to be good sports for the awards ceremony, so we all 745 00:52:34,119 --> 00:52:37,440 had to sit and watch all the kids that were going to the finals. 746 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:42,679 And so yeah, wow, kind of disappointing, but yeah, but you 747 00:52:43,039 --> 00:52:45,519 know, now you learn, now you know, and you'll be ready for 748 00:52:45,599 --> 00:52:50,320 next year. You have your briefcase and your laptop charged up exactly, ready 749 00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:53,000 for next year exactly. So anyway, that was that was my weekend. 750 00:52:53,159 --> 00:52:58,039 That was awesome. But before we go, let's give a shout out to 751 00:52:58,159 --> 00:53:01,679 basic Becky. You know, she's got like the T shirts. 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Go to adams got acar dot com. If you're in California, 772 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:36,360 there's no charge. If you're outside, there's a fee. But he 773 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,440 will find you a much lower price than you can find yourself, so it 774 00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:45,519 will save you money for sure. And yeah, that's it. Okay, 775 00:54:45,679 --> 00:54:52,719 thanks everybody, Kaylin. Follow us on social media at fcol podcast, Facebook, 776 00:54:53,119 --> 00:55:00,000 Instagram, YouTube, TikTok at cool podcast and it helps us to yeah, 777 00:55:00,119 --> 00:55:04,159 it does help us and like us on those as well. Yeah, 778 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:06,400 okay, all right, you're a parent now, don't f it up. 779 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,840 It's good letting go.