WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.160 I want to run something by you, okay, because I'm gonna gonna be 2 00:00:04.200 --> 00:00:07.200 honest with you a little bit, a little bit, a little bit transparent, 3 00:00:07.240 --> 00:00:13.320 a little bit open. I've been a little sad lately because when Carson 4 00:00:13.359 --> 00:00:19.839 graduated from college, I realize that I have no kids that really depend on 5 00:00:19.920 --> 00:00:22.519 me. I mean a little emotional that that really depend on me. And 6 00:00:22.559 --> 00:00:25.280 he does, because you know, he still needs me in calls and whatever. 7 00:00:25.679 --> 00:00:29.160 But it kind of you look around and you go, Wow, who 8 00:00:29.239 --> 00:00:32.159 needs me? You know what I mean? And it's a weird thing because 9 00:00:32.200 --> 00:00:34.600 you know, I mean, Susan still needs me, and my kids still 10 00:00:34.600 --> 00:00:38.320 need me, but you kind of go, who needs me? Now? 11 00:00:39.359 --> 00:00:42.280 Yeah, I guess I thought I will say Carson definitely still does. I 12 00:00:42.320 --> 00:00:44.479 mean, you pay a lot of his bills still, so until he can 13 00:00:44.479 --> 00:00:48.399 actually pay his own bills, then that's the day when he's like, you 14 00:00:48.439 --> 00:00:51.359 know what, Dad, I'm paying for my entire rent, myself and my 15 00:00:51.520 --> 00:00:55.679 whatever. Then I feel like that's like the real that's part of it. 16 00:00:55.759 --> 00:00:59.920 He doesn't pay all of his bills because we got to give him a chance. 17 00:01:00.039 --> 00:01:02.840 The place the only place to get into the music business is to live 18 00:01:02.840 --> 00:01:07.439 in La you cannot get into the music business really by living in Minneapolis and 19 00:01:07.599 --> 00:01:11.799 trying to work in LA So we are paying for some of his bills, 20 00:01:11.799 --> 00:01:14.200 but it's less and less all the time. He's working for an artist that 21 00:01:14.519 --> 00:01:17.239 they have. Now this is kind of funny. They said, hey, 22 00:01:17.280 --> 00:01:19.640 Carson, can you do this artist social media? And if I haven't told 23 00:01:19.680 --> 00:01:23.719 you, I haven't even told Fallon. I don't think who the artist is. 24 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:26.040 I don't want to jink say change. But I was confused by it 25 00:01:26.040 --> 00:01:30.200 because the last like the last last time we spoke, it wasn't the artist's 26 00:01:30.200 --> 00:01:34.159 assistant. It was like his assistance assistant. And then when I came back 27 00:01:34.200 --> 00:01:38.959 from one day off or but you were gone for a week, you then 28 00:01:38.040 --> 00:01:41.920 said it was the artist assistant. So I was confused. Yeah, well, 29 00:01:41.959 --> 00:01:47.799 he was working for one artist named Issa, and Issa is in a 30 00:01:48.079 --> 00:01:51.239 he's a rapper and I can't remember, it's right on the tip of my 31 00:01:51.239 --> 00:01:53.799 tongue. It doesn't matter. And Carson was working for his assistance assistant, 32 00:01:55.079 --> 00:01:57.239 and that kind of like fell through that one. No, so there's another 33 00:01:57.239 --> 00:02:00.200 one one that I have actually heard of, is what I'm talking about, 34 00:02:00.359 --> 00:02:08.280 right, So he was offered last night the social media director for this artist, 35 00:02:08.280 --> 00:02:13.439 so they'd be the social media The look on Felon's face right now says 36 00:02:13.439 --> 00:02:15.960 it all. I said, Carson, you are not good at social media. 37 00:02:15.159 --> 00:02:17.719 That why would they even offer that to him? They have he hasn't 38 00:02:17.719 --> 00:02:22.280 even had he done anything to show them he knows how to do social media. 39 00:02:23.120 --> 00:02:24.960 That is strange. No, but I think that they assume because he's 40 00:02:24.960 --> 00:02:28.599 twenty two years old. Yeah, and this is something that you know. 41 00:02:28.680 --> 00:02:30.960 I don't want to tell the Carson. I know, I told you so, 42 00:02:30.039 --> 00:02:32.879 I told you so. But for years I've been saying, do social 43 00:02:32.879 --> 00:02:36.199 media, dude, It's so important, just to get the hang of it. 44 00:02:36.479 --> 00:02:38.879 And I said, you are a drummer, post videos of you playing 45 00:02:38.879 --> 00:02:44.240 the drums. Nobody does that. I'm like, no, everybody does that. 46 00:02:44.639 --> 00:02:47.280 So anyway, he's paying more and more of his bills. Is he 47 00:02:47.319 --> 00:02:50.039 going to do it? Oh, he's gonna do it, but I'm gonna 48 00:02:50.080 --> 00:02:53.240 lecture. I feel like you should he shouldn't say no, yep, because 49 00:02:53.360 --> 00:02:55.159 what if you don't get another chance. And I looked at this artist social 50 00:02:55.159 --> 00:02:59.520 media and it's I could do it. It's Dave Ran level. It's not 51 00:02:59.599 --> 00:03:06.120 like really creative it's good as solid good photos. So anyway, so there 52 00:03:06.199 --> 00:03:07.599 was that. So I want to bring up here's an idea for you, 53 00:03:08.039 --> 00:03:13.080 so we all talk about mental health, mental health, mental health. I 54 00:03:13.280 --> 00:03:16.280 want to bring up the idea of mental strength, and I want to get 55 00:03:16.319 --> 00:03:21.680 your opinion on this one because I think that right now there is a trend 56 00:03:21.879 --> 00:03:27.120 in our culture, in our society to say mental health, mental health, 57 00:03:27.120 --> 00:03:30.680 mental health, and that's so important because now we feel comfortable about saying, 58 00:03:30.759 --> 00:03:32.520 yeah, I would therapy, or I've got some depression or whatever. But 59 00:03:32.599 --> 00:03:38.199 I also want to promote what I think is mental strength because listen, there 60 00:03:38.240 --> 00:03:43.960 are going to be some hard fucking times in your life and you can't always 61 00:03:44.039 --> 00:03:47.240 collapse on the couch and drink and cry, well, especially if people are 62 00:03:47.240 --> 00:03:52.360 depending on you. True. So I want to promote the idea and I 63 00:03:52.400 --> 00:03:54.479 want you to give me some feedback as you listen to the podcast of mental 64 00:03:54.599 --> 00:04:01.159 strength combined with mental health and treatment and things like that, because I am 65 00:04:01.159 --> 00:04:05.360 pretty lucky and pretty fortunate that I've got very good mental health. Right now, 66 00:04:05.360 --> 00:04:08.439 I'm going through some stuff that makes me go, God, I'm kind 67 00:04:08.439 --> 00:04:13.759 of sad, but I have a reserve of mental strength. That makes me 68 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:16.959 go, I'll get through this. I will go out for a run or 69 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:21.399 go for a walk, or ride my motorcycle or do whatever it is that 70 00:04:21.519 --> 00:04:27.360 makes me regenerate my pool, recharge my mental strength. And I think that 71 00:04:27.439 --> 00:04:30.639 some people go, oh, I'm really sad. I need to drink or 72 00:04:31.000 --> 00:04:34.199 I am going to see if I can get on some sort of medication. 73 00:04:34.399 --> 00:04:38.680 And I think that's valid if you and your doctor agree that it's valid. 74 00:04:38.839 --> 00:04:43.360 But I also want to promote mental strength. Mental strength is going, Yeah, 75 00:04:43.399 --> 00:04:45.759 that kicked me in the ass. I got fired. I didn't see 76 00:04:45.759 --> 00:04:48.839 that coming, but I am motherfucking strong, so I am going to be 77 00:04:49.000 --> 00:04:51.680 I'm going to have mental strength. So you're a friend, tell me your 78 00:04:51.680 --> 00:04:57.319 thoughts. I guess I would be more curious on what the promotion of it 79 00:04:57.360 --> 00:04:59.800 is, like what are you telling people to do? Because people like an 80 00:04:59.800 --> 00:05:02.040 as action plan when there's something like what is the action plan? I think 81 00:05:02.079 --> 00:05:05.439 to realize that you've been through stuff before, you can handle this. So 82 00:05:05.519 --> 00:05:09.879 instead of just saying mental health, go get treatment, mental health, go 83 00:05:10.040 --> 00:05:13.279 get treatment, to say, hey, you know what if you got a 84 00:05:13.519 --> 00:05:17.319 bad sunburn and you can't join your friends on you know, like bedemcoska or 85 00:05:17.360 --> 00:05:23.199 menetonka. This weekend, it's okay, mental strength. Tap into your mental 86 00:05:23.240 --> 00:05:26.879 strength because you have more than you think you do. Yeah, you're stronger 87 00:05:26.879 --> 00:05:30.519 than you think you are. Rather than saying, oh, this is the 88 00:05:30.759 --> 00:05:34.519 worst go motherfucker. I can't be out there this weekend, but next weekend, 89 00:05:34.560 --> 00:05:36.600 I'm going to be out there with you. Well, mind over matter 90 00:05:36.639 --> 00:05:39.720 has always been a thing. I mean I said that, like, especially 91 00:05:39.720 --> 00:05:42.720 when you're writing or something. You can physically do it all at the time, 92 00:05:42.720 --> 00:05:47.199 but mentally quit. But I would say I support it to a degree. 93 00:05:47.240 --> 00:05:53.199 I think I don't think it's necessarily the healthiest thing. If you have 94 00:05:53.240 --> 00:05:57.160 gone through something and you're like, I'm strong, and you move on and 95 00:05:57.279 --> 00:06:00.600 you don't address maybe some of the things with it. And I'm not talking 96 00:06:00.600 --> 00:06:04.240 about medication. I'm a weird medication person. I grew up with parents who 97 00:06:04.240 --> 00:06:09.240 are addicts. I don't I don't even like taking advil. I'm like, 98 00:06:09.279 --> 00:06:12.560 I'm weird. I do not enjoy taking medication at all. So, like 99 00:06:12.680 --> 00:06:15.680 anytime I've gone to a therapist and they've been like, maybe you should get 100 00:06:15.720 --> 00:06:17.399 on anxiety medicine or something, I'm like, I don't think you're the person 101 00:06:17.439 --> 00:06:21.720 for me because I don't. I am just so weird about it. But 102 00:06:21.839 --> 00:06:28.399 I know that so many people need it. So aside from medication therapy, 103 00:06:28.439 --> 00:06:30.120 for instance, I do think that there are some things you should work through 104 00:06:30.279 --> 00:06:34.839 just because yeah, it's a natural thing to be like. For instance, 105 00:06:35.000 --> 00:06:39.680 I don't. I don't like to talk about a certain point of my life, 106 00:06:39.759 --> 00:06:44.399 and I just I honestly have I honestly forget about it sometimes because I 107 00:06:44.439 --> 00:06:46.319 don't talk about it. I don't like to talk about it, and I 108 00:06:46.360 --> 00:06:48.680 don't want to. I don't want to talk about it. I don't want 109 00:06:48.720 --> 00:06:51.800 to address what happened. I want to move on. I don't think that's 110 00:06:51.839 --> 00:06:56.560 the healthiest thing. But I have been strong enough for it to not completely 111 00:06:56.560 --> 00:06:59.879 affect me anymore. No, and no, and you do great, And 112 00:07:00.279 --> 00:07:03.439 I think that what you said is true. I will kind of compare it 113 00:07:03.439 --> 00:07:09.600 to people who get overly sensitive and get overly offended by something. Let's say 114 00:07:09.600 --> 00:07:12.720 you're on Facebook and you say something like, you know, I love peanuts. 115 00:07:12.720 --> 00:07:15.519 There's nothing like a great bowl of peanuts, and somebody who like, 116 00:07:15.680 --> 00:07:18.920 how dare you? I have a peanut allergy? And you just triggered me 117 00:07:18.920 --> 00:07:23.560 and it's like, are you fucking kidding me? So that's a little bit 118 00:07:23.560 --> 00:07:26.920 of an exaggeration where it's like the person with a peanut allergy, Hey, 119 00:07:26.959 --> 00:07:30.720 listen, I sympathize with you, but get over it. All I did 120 00:07:30.759 --> 00:07:35.560 was bring up peanuts. So I think my thing is just because your veterinary 121 00:07:35.600 --> 00:07:40.199 bill is two thousand dollars and you're going to have to skip your trip to 122 00:07:40.279 --> 00:07:45.360 Cancoon mental strength. So I'm just I'm kind of like advocating for you to 123 00:07:45.600 --> 00:07:48.040 instead of to just fold right away, to be mentally strong, because I 124 00:07:48.079 --> 00:07:51.879 really believe you're stronger than you think you are. You don't have to get 125 00:07:51.879 --> 00:07:56.879 offended by somebody who posts a bowl of peanuts on your Facebook, so in 126 00:07:56.920 --> 00:08:00.839 the same way, you don't have to collapse because you're a new muffler on 127 00:08:00.879 --> 00:08:03.360 your car. Yeah, So anyway, tell me what you think. And 128 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:07.240 I could be totally wrong, but I think there might be something there. 129 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:09.920 It's kind of like we work out our bodies, right, so when we 130 00:08:09.040 --> 00:08:13.639 get exposed to something, our bodies can fight it off. It's kind of 131 00:08:13.680 --> 00:08:16.040 like the same way we like toughen up our bodies and you know, be 132 00:08:16.120 --> 00:08:18.920 healthy in the same way we can toughen up our minds. But I have 133 00:08:18.480 --> 00:08:22.360 no idea what I'm talking about, just a thought. Let's move on to 134 00:08:22.480 --> 00:08:28.879 an email from a lease titled am I Crazy? Well, first of all, 135 00:08:28.879 --> 00:08:31.720 I'm triggered by the word crazy because I think that it is not fun. 136 00:08:31.759 --> 00:08:35.080 Oh, move on, okay, says hello friends. I was telling 137 00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:37.960 somebody about my typical routine when I leave the grocery store. They said I 138 00:08:39.000 --> 00:08:41.480 was excessive and crazy, so of course I want your opinion for reference. 139 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:46.440 I usually go grocery shopping after I'm off work six pm or so, and 140 00:08:46.519 --> 00:08:48.000 I almost always have my one year old with me, So usually go to 141 00:08:48.039 --> 00:08:52.559 Target, Walmart, Trader Joe's, and so pretty typical store. I always 142 00:08:52.559 --> 00:08:56.440 parked near a cart return since I have my kid and I know I'm gonna 143 00:08:56.440 --> 00:08:58.080 need a cart no matter how much I get, and I try to have 144 00:08:58.200 --> 00:09:03.240 one side clear four ease of getting in and out. When I'm done, 145 00:09:03.240 --> 00:09:05.960 I go to my car, open the trunk and I don't unlock the car. 146 00:09:05.919 --> 00:09:09.600 I load up the trunk, go to return my cart with my son. 147 00:09:09.720 --> 00:09:11.080 Then I put him in the car seat. After I opened the door, 148 00:09:11.279 --> 00:09:15.080 I locked the doors from the outside, get him buckled in, keep 149 00:09:15.080 --> 00:09:18.120 it locked until I get to my door, unlock my door, get in, 150 00:09:18.120 --> 00:09:22.240 and drive away. I know I seem as excessive, but especially recently, 151 00:09:22.679 --> 00:09:26.000 I've heard of so many things about a grocery store parking lot can be 152 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:30.240 one of the most unsafe, most unsafe areas for a woman and somebody with 153 00:09:30.320 --> 00:09:33.799 kids, since you seem most vulnerable, and it's not hard for me to 154 00:09:33.799 --> 00:09:37.440 clock my fob and lock the doors, so it's me or click my fob 155 00:09:37.480 --> 00:09:41.919 and lock the doors. So to me, it's why not make sure my 156 00:09:41.960 --> 00:09:43.720 son and I stay safe. I didn't used to be this cautious until I 157 00:09:43.759 --> 00:09:48.120 had him, or quite honestly, and still I started taking him out of 158 00:09:48.159 --> 00:09:50.960 the car seat when we go places. Am I crazy? Or is it 159 00:09:52.039 --> 00:09:54.960 valid? If it makes you feel better? I am behind it. I 160 00:09:56.000 --> 00:09:58.440 don't do that. My routine is I go out, I put Olive in 161 00:09:58.480 --> 00:10:01.480 her car seat, get her locked in, then I put shut her door, 162 00:10:01.799 --> 00:10:03.440 put all the groceries in the back, shut that. Then I go 163 00:10:03.679 --> 00:10:07.559 return my cart, which you know now thinking of it is kind of unsafe, 164 00:10:07.559 --> 00:10:11.600 but it's like usually two cars away from me, and then I get 165 00:10:11.639 --> 00:10:16.159 in and start my car and leave. So I think that what you're doing 166 00:10:16.360 --> 00:10:18.200 makes sense. It actually makes me question what I'm doing. Yeah, exactly. 167 00:10:18.279 --> 00:10:22.000 No, I don't think you're crazy at all. I think that. 168 00:10:22.320 --> 00:10:26.399 You know, there's some people live in the city or the country that they 169 00:10:26.440 --> 00:10:28.519 don't lock their doors at night. No, my grandma never. I mean 170 00:10:28.559 --> 00:10:31.919 she might now, but like my family, they just don't do that. 171 00:10:33.159 --> 00:10:35.240 I don't know. I mean I locked my doors. I grew up locking 172 00:10:35.279 --> 00:10:37.639 my doors. We just did. Even in the middle of nowhere, Colorado, 173 00:10:37.679 --> 00:10:41.080 we locked our doors. It's whatever makes you feel comfortable, and if 174 00:10:41.080 --> 00:10:43.919 that makes you feel comfortable and safe, then you are not crazy for doing 175 00:10:43.960 --> 00:10:48.000 it at all. It's like somebody saying you go to the dentist twice a 176 00:10:48.080 --> 00:10:52.840 year. You don't need to go to the dentist twice a year. Well, 177 00:10:52.879 --> 00:10:54.440 if it makes you feel better, it's actually better for you. So 178 00:10:56.360 --> 00:10:58.559 the next one that Jennifer says, I agreed. Are you signed up for 179 00:10:58.559 --> 00:11:07.080 your team to clean up the road. But I'm scared of the ticks and 180 00:11:07.279 --> 00:11:09.919 the media are saying they're so extra this season. Ug. I seriously hate 181 00:11:09.960 --> 00:11:13.919 bugs and every living flying creature. I will kill them. Sorry, but 182 00:11:15.039 --> 00:11:18.000 I have taken time off work and I will be there to clean up your 183 00:11:18.080 --> 00:11:20.200 road clean up our roadways. See you there. You thank you, Jennifer. 184 00:11:20.240 --> 00:11:22.200 You know what, I thanks for putting that fear into me. I 185 00:11:22.200 --> 00:11:26.320 didn't fear ticks until you just now brought it up. Well, you were 186 00:11:26.360 --> 00:11:28.519 out. Jake and Olive have both had a tick already this year, and 187 00:11:28.600 --> 00:11:31.320 they're very, very popular, so you need to be checking. They're very 188 00:11:31.360 --> 00:11:35.519 popular. They are. They're like, like how we mentioned that mosquitos are 189 00:11:35.519 --> 00:11:37.120 going to be crazy this year, ticks are even worse. My friend posted 190 00:11:37.120 --> 00:11:41.559 about her kid having when I posted it on my Instagram, tens people getting 191 00:11:41.600 --> 00:11:43.840 them on their dogs. You need to be checking Josie when you bring her 192 00:11:43.879 --> 00:11:46.799 in wearing a very wooded area. So I know it's like more intense, 193 00:11:46.840 --> 00:11:48.720 But if you're going to parks and always check your kid's head, it's a 194 00:11:48.720 --> 00:11:52.639 good point. I know. The mosquitos are out. I got my first 195 00:11:52.639 --> 00:11:56.960 mosquito bite about three days ago. And last night was out for a walk 196 00:11:56.000 --> 00:12:00.559 in an area in Chan that I walk all the time, and I got 197 00:12:00.600 --> 00:12:05.080 bit probably ten or fifteen times last night by mosquitos. So the mosquitoes are 198 00:12:05.120 --> 00:12:07.480 out. They're saying it's going to be a horrible mosquito season. But Jennifer, 199 00:12:07.759 --> 00:12:09.840 thank you for signing enough for the road cleanup, and it's not too 200 00:12:09.879 --> 00:12:15.279 late to do that. We're doing that Thursday at eleven o'clock and we'd love 201 00:12:15.279 --> 00:12:18.120 to have you out there. It's an hour and fifteen minutes worth of picking 202 00:12:18.200 --> 00:12:22.360 up trash. We don't want to overdo it because we want to enjoy it, 203 00:12:22.519 --> 00:12:26.759 not go God. When is this over? Dear Dave, don't use 204 00:12:26.840 --> 00:12:31.440 my name. I'm curious on your thoughts on paying your kids college education versus 205 00:12:31.519 --> 00:12:33.720 letting them pay their own way. My daughter is off to college this fall 206 00:12:33.799 --> 00:12:39.720 and FAFSA did not provide anything other than a small loan which will not cover 207 00:12:39.759 --> 00:12:46.600 tuition tuitions roughly twenty nine thousand per year. She's applied for many scholarships, 208 00:12:46.639 --> 00:12:50.840 no success. There seems to be an expectation from the college and frankly most 209 00:12:50.840 --> 00:12:54.360 people around me that I will just co sign for a loan for her for 210 00:12:54.440 --> 00:12:58.240 the rest. But I'm conflicted on this. First of all, I absolutely 211 00:12:58.240 --> 00:13:01.440 trust my daughter to pair bills, but honestly, what parent ever co signed 212 00:13:01.480 --> 00:13:03.679 thinking their kid was going to fail. I don't want to put my own 213 00:13:03.720 --> 00:13:09.320 finances at risk for her college experience, even if it never comes back to 214 00:13:09.360 --> 00:13:13.120 haunt me personally. I don't know that I can, in good conscience sign 215 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:16.320 her up for a lifetime of debt the moment she graduates from college. Am 216 00:13:16.320 --> 00:13:18.840 I alone in feeling this way? Hopefully doesn't make me sound like a bad 217 00:13:18.879 --> 00:13:26.159 parent? Thinks No, I think that I admire you for not absolutely open 218 00:13:26.200 --> 00:13:28.200 it up the purse and saying I'm going to pay for this for you. 219 00:13:30.840 --> 00:13:33.279 I think if you are a parent and you have enough means to make your 220 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:39.080 kids to pay for your kids college, even then you might want to say 221 00:13:39.120 --> 00:13:41.200 I'm gonna pay part of it, but I'm not paying all of it, 222 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:45.480 because if you could easily afford twenty nine thousand dollars a year, sometimes it's 223 00:13:45.519 --> 00:13:50.519 better for your kid to learn the responsibility of ownership. It's kind of like, 224 00:13:50.559 --> 00:13:52.440 you know, you buy a car you're going to pay for You're going 225 00:13:52.480 --> 00:13:56.480 to take better care of it if you paid for it yourself than if mommy 226 00:13:56.519 --> 00:13:58.639 and Daddy bought it for you. I say, it depends a lot on 227 00:13:58.679 --> 00:14:03.320 your daughter, but I say help her out if you can. But she 228 00:14:03.720 --> 00:14:05.600 if she is able in some way to take out the loans and pay them 229 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:11.120 back. I would say, do that. I mean, I am. 230 00:14:11.759 --> 00:14:16.399 I think I'm more like you in this situation. So we've had this discussion 231 00:14:16.440 --> 00:14:18.279 with our financial advisor, Jake and I do not plan to pay for college 232 00:14:18.320 --> 00:14:22.200 for our kids. She our financial advisor. So that paying for your kids 233 00:14:22.279 --> 00:14:26.759 college. Paying for kids college is what keeps people from retiring now, people 234 00:14:26.799 --> 00:14:33.080 who would have retired. It completely. It dramatically affects people's retirement, okay, 235 00:14:33.120 --> 00:14:35.960 because average person doesn't have extra thirty thousand dollars a year, and that 236 00:14:37.039 --> 00:14:41.720 if they do that, that is their retirement. And so people can't retire 237 00:14:41.879 --> 00:14:45.399 at a certain age anymore because they're paying for kids college and it's outrageous. 238 00:14:45.399 --> 00:14:48.279 So we do not plan to. However, we do plan to help them 239 00:14:48.320 --> 00:14:52.720 if they need help. If they reach out and they need help with food, 240 00:14:52.720 --> 00:14:54.240 they need help with housing, they need help with books or whatever, 241 00:14:54.440 --> 00:14:58.120 We're not going to say no, we want to help them. We also 242 00:14:58.159 --> 00:15:03.039 are doing things now to set them up to help them for their futures in 243 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:09.080 general. And I think that it's okay if you choose to pay for your 244 00:15:09.159 --> 00:15:11.159 kids and that's really important to you. I know a lot of people do 245 00:15:11.200 --> 00:15:13.720 that. That's great, but I don't think it makes you a bad person 246 00:15:13.840 --> 00:15:20.720 if you don't do it. Loans are like the lowest interest rate you can 247 00:15:20.919 --> 00:15:24.639 get for any type of loan. I'm pretty sure. And yeah, I 248 00:15:24.679 --> 00:15:28.519 mean even with like Dylan's car, We're not buying Dylan a car will help 249 00:15:28.600 --> 00:15:31.919 Dylan, but Dylan has to make payments to us. That's going to be 250 00:15:31.960 --> 00:15:35.039 part of it. And that is it today for the Minnesota goodbye. Sorry 251 00:15:35.039 --> 00:15:37.480 to cut it short, but send those emails to Ryan Show at katwdb dot 252 00:15:37.480 --> 00:15:41.480 com. Let me know your thoughts on mental strength. Love to hear about 253 00:15:41.480 --> 00:15:41.559 that. Thank you for listening.