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Start off the podcast, which we
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seconds into the podcast because Emily,
who is like an executive assistant HR,

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does so much here at the station. We love Emily. She's standing outside

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the studio door and Jenny can see
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podcast, this must be important.
Emily's here, yeah, and then she

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walks in and she has McDonald's breakfast
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I am staring at a delicious warm
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eat it for the next twenty minutes
or so because of the Minnesota goodbye do

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you got to give a birthday shout
out? Because Heather in Bay City,

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Wisconsin texted the show and she wanted
a birthday shout out, but it didn't

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get to me in time. So
her birthday is Thanksgiving Day, twenty eight

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years old. Heather, thank you
for listening and happy birthday. Here we

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go. I want to be careful
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that you've already read. I think
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if I start reading too sounds familiar, let me know. Okay, we're

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gonna start off with Dave. You
always have such good advice. Do you

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have any advice for a married woman
who has a poor sex life and finds

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themselves starting to daydream about men other
than their husband. Would you say it's

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a red flag and perhaps marriage therapy
should be considered, or do you think

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it's a normal part of marriage.
Love y'all, thank you. You talked

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about this on group therapy yesterday.
I did well. Basically, Yeah,

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this couple, like they've been married
for a few years, they're not having

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sex anymore. They do a lot
of things separately, they sleep in separate

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beds, but they're best friends,
so she doesn't really want to leave him,

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so she's just wondering what's the solution
here. I will say that one

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person specifically called in and talked about
sex therapy and saying like there is a

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way to get that attraction back,
like you might need to go to sex

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therapy specifically for that. Otherwise,
another person, I don't know, it

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was a lot of other people said
leave, like it's not worth being unhappy

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and not having intimacy and stuff like
that. There's so many Sex is such

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a unique individualized thing that I really
couldn't even tell you where to begin,

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except you feel you have a poor
sex life. Now to dive in a

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little bit, what does that mean? And I'm not saying, you know,

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darn it, you should have told
me what that meant. But when

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some people say, god, we
only have sex once a month, for

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some people that's not that bad.
Yeah, And some people go, well,

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I want to have sex four times
a week, and other people go,

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four times a week, I'm exhausted. I think if you haven't had

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sex in a long time and there's
no desire, then it's probably a red

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flag Because I think sex wanting to
have sex with your partner stems not just

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from a physical appeal, because let's
face it, that kind of fades away

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after a while. The first time
you get naked with your partner, you're

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like, oh my god, I
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This is amazing, and then X
amount of times later you're like, you

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know, it's fun, but it's
But I think that one of the things

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that leads to lack of sex drive
is you're mad at them or disgusted with

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them or annoyed with them, and
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with somebody. That has betrayed you
or spent money that you didn't agree on,

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or called you stupid, yeah,
or something like that. You know.

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So it's not just about sex appeal. There's just like lots of outside

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factors that go into it. Yeah, and I'm going to tell you this

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one. I know so, And
again I don't know why people confide with

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me about this one. I know
people who live in the same house that

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haven't touched each other for like,
I don't know, eight years. I

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know a couple that they haven't touched
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year. And they're young, but
they have kids, they have little babies,

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and I don't think that the one
partner does enough and she gets annoyed

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that he doesn't do enough. And
so I don't really have any advice except

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you know, why you're having a
poor sex life. Probably sometimes you don't,

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I guess. And if you're daydreaming
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I don't think that's really that uncommon. I don't know. It depends on

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whether you want to act on it, you know. I don't know.

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There's I wish I had better advice
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certainly not alone, and it definitely
doesn't mean the end of your marriage,

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but I would say, yeah,
it is a red flag and you should

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talk to them and maybe say,
why haven't we had sex lately? Yeah?

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You know? Or why are you
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lot of the time she's interested but
he's not, so for sure, a

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lot of unanswered questions, but good
luck, and I would say, talk

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to him first and then talk about
therapy next one. And I'm kind of

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picking through these as we go.
Okay, hold on, Sorry for my

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sloppiness and being unprepared. Dave,
welcome back. Glad to hear you enjoyed

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your time away. I wanted to
be sure you heard some praise for how

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well Jenny did while you were out. I'm a big fan of the show

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and have recognized your skill at hosting
in the past when you have been out

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and had others hosted. I don't
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on Fallon. She did a good
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great than you. Well, I
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you made the wide receiver the quarterback. Yeh, and Fallin is a

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great wide receiver, but she didn't
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so you know, and I think
that one thing and you said this

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the other day and it was very
flattering to me, is like, Dave,

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you make it look easy. And
I think that there's a lot of

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people who don't realize what many many
years of experience can do in making things

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flow a little bit better. And
knowing when to shut up and knowing when

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to like yes and somebody, and
knowing when to wrap up and no one

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when to shut up is a big
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one to shut up because a lot
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talk, the better I met better, the better the story is going to

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be. It's like, no,
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though, Jenny is on another level. She was smooth, she kept things

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going. I am sure she was
frantic, but it never showed were you

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frantic. There were a couple moments
like, for instance, yesterday we needed

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Drake to be on for a game
that I brought vont In for, but

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he was taking care of calls for
something, and so it was like a

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lot of me just trying to randomly
talk to Vaunt about stuff because we weren't

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planning for him to be distracted by
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where having less bodies on the show
really comes into play and can make the

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show a little bit hectic. And
Jenny is a very Jenny is a good

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juggler. Jenny can have fifteen things
in the air, and some people are

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not really good at that. So
you're really a good juggler. And I

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think that is something that I always
need help with because I can keep track

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of about one thing. I am
excellent at that one thing, whatever it

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happens to be. But I suck
at this over here because I cannot multitask.

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Yeah, so all right, anyway, it goes on to say,

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seriously, give Jenny's some major prop
and say that I'm now looking forward to

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Jenny in the morning, Zoo someday
in the dis in future when you finally

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leave us. Thanks a lot,
great work all around, Love you guys,

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Hope you have a great Thanksgiving cheers. PS. I already got my

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sticker, but I cannot think of
where to put it. Put it on

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the lid of the cover of your
laptop, the place, or on your

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water bottle. Uh huh. Also
Naughty Tuesday, is great. Hopefully more

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stories come for next week. Naughty
Tuesday is basically if you want to send

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in your naughty, disgusting sexual adventures. There was the one last week about

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the guy who wanted to blank blank
blank, and she was like, are

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you kid ding? So send in
your naughty Tuesday stories and just put you

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know, naughty Tuesday and we'll do
those on Tuesday next one. You guys

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talked about dreading and not wanting to
go to a certain event or place.

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Well, this past weekend, we
were invited to go to my wife's uncle's

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place. We told each other that
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of people, we'll leave or leave
here early. Well, we drove there

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and there were a lot of vehicles
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nope and drove right past and came
home. Okay, so I get it,

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cause you were going to go,
but if your absence was not going

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to be conspicuous, you're like,
f this, we're out. Yeah,

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but if there was only three other
people there, then you needed to go.

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I was really proud of myself,
Jenny. This was so not me

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because you know that I don't like
to go wherever it is I don't really

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want to go, like to be
invited, but I don't like to go.

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Neighbor Brian across the street is just
the nicest guy. He is about

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my age, and he had a
birthday and they invited us. They said,

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hey, about six o'clock or so, everybody just pop in kind of

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an open house, say hi to
Brian, happy birthday. And I said,

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we're not going to be in town. We won't even get home at

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six, like till later. So
we pull up in front of the house

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and they live across the stree from
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cars and I said, oh,
it's Brian's birthday that we weren't planning on

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going to. And Susan said,
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feel good. She was like,
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everybody my cold. And I said, I am not going to miss Brian's

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birthday. So I went over,
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You know, I'm so good at
charming the crowd. Not really, and

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I Jenny was the last one to
leave this party. I was the last

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one out the freaking door. Were
they kicking you out at that? Point.

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I think they were. You know, they're so gracious, they're such

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good hosts. And they I said, I can't believe I'm the last one

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leaving this is like And they said, stay as long as you want,

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and I said, well, great, because I got a lot to talk

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about it, I'd like to stay
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pretended that that was fine, Sure, stay as long as you want.

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When I left, I was probably
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of me. But I trust me, I am never the last one to

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leave a party. Yeah, You're
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as is like, is very reasonable
and respectful. But then you're like out

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a little bit before, like the
later crowd is I'm the later crowd.

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I'm always the part of the later
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not usually the first one to leave, yeah, but I'm usually like second

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or third. Yeah. So another
message, it says, last week you

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guys talked about a player on the
Detroit Lions that put ice cream on his

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burger. Yep. Well, overseas
and especially in Asia, they put ice

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cream in buns. When I first
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insane. Well, I tried it. It's actually good. Think of it

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as very soft waffle cone ice cream
sandwich. Okay, I like it.

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Yeah, let's see. And this
one says, just want to give Jenny

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much deserve props. Great job taking
over the show this week. You killed

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it. And I'm going to tell
you people don't usually say that if they

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don't mean it. Usually if they
it's kind of like, I appreciate it.

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Don't. If you don't like a
meal, you don't go, god

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mom, that was not very good. You just don't say anything. But

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if you like it, then you
unsolicited say, god mom, that was

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really good meat loaf. So you
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And you gotta fucking stop. Jenny. I need this job. No,

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I am not coming for your job. Jenny is coming for my job.

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This is absolutely not trust me.
Two days was fine. I could handle

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it, but if you threw me
into your job full time, I would

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fall apart. No. Now,
somehow, I don't know how I'm gonna

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sabotage Jenny taking over the show,
But I'm thinking if I get I'm gonna

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see if I can order COVID online. Now, I don't know that I

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can order COVID spores online. I
was gonna say, you're like the whole

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Anthrax. Yeah, yeah, yeah, send people. I'm gonna look on

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Etsy and see if they sell COVID
COVID spores, and then I'm gonna just

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kind of, like, I don't
know, put them over on your computer.

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All right, Well, luckily I
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COVID once before. I think I'll
keep it going hard for it. Okay,

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next one, This one says,
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November fourteen, twenty twenty three Pudding. At the very end, you're

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giving away Jonas Brothers tickets, and
it puts an AD in the middle of

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a sentence. Then it comes back
for about thirty seconds and another AD break

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occurs, and then the podcast ends
after the one minute and another AD break.

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This will happen while I'm showering or
driving, so I can't just skip

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through. Please help. Ads are
fine, but they need to be put

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in a reasonable spot, not mid
sentence. Okay, so this was on

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our podcast just last week. Yeah. I don't listen to the podcasts,

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right, but that it will just
insert it ad randomly, right, And

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I'm pretty sure I forwarded an email
to the people that I think it concerns

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last week already that was similar to
this one. Maybe it's the same person

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who's emailing right now, but I
just God, we just do not have

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control over that kind of stuff.
It is a whole system that corporate iHeart

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takes care of and we don't.
We do not on the show, place

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ads anywhere. They just randomly get
put in and there's nothing that we can

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And it's frustrating because it's very it's
very sloppy, and it's kind of

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like a restaurant that you really like
the restaurant, but the staff is really

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rude. It's like, well,
how about you get this staff to be

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friendly and now you've got a really
great experience. Yeah. So with our

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podcast, we're really proud of the
content and what we do when people seem

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to like it, but it gets
broken up with all this random and we

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love the advertisers, but I will
tell you it's got to be handled right.

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I was listen to a podcast on
the treadmill in Colorado and a friend

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told me, listen to this podcast
about the Oneidas silver We you ever heard

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of Oneida silverware? I don't think
so. Oh in Eida, the Oneida

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Family started as a sex cult.
Oh back in the eighteen hundreds. Not

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making this up. So anyway,
I'm listening to this podcast and they take

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a break for about five minutes worth
of commercials and it was everything from like

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progressive insurance to a clothing store online. And it was five minutes of commercials

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in a podcast. And usually podcasts
have a commercial at the beginning or somewhere

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in the middle, but it was
five minutes about three times. And I'm

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like, I almost wanted to make
a comment like, love the podcast,

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but five minutes commercials three times is
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I feel like people said that they
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times because they're like, well,
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did. Yeah, okay, next
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sorry that I'm kind of scattered on
this one. I was listening to old

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episodes and somebody wrote in and said
about about two Lane for radio. Jenny

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said, you changed platforms and they
were gone along with your book podcast.

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I'm happy to say they are available
on Amazon music. They go all the

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way back to the beginning, along
with old Minnesota Goodbye episodes. Just wanted

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to pass that along. Love you
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So if you can't find him on
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mean that somebody that that was purged
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the somebody in the company is just
looking the other way while all things are

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happening. I don't know, but
good no other their drives or something.

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Is what it feels like right exactly, is like clear out your hard drive.

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topic. So let's go back to
this one. I debated writing for a

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long time, but ultimately got so
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I'm currently listening to the November eighth
podcast six Am hour. In this clip,

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there are two things that are grinding
my gears. Okay. One Jenny

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broke a gravy boat at a big
chain store and was appalled the cashier made

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her pay for it. Yeah,
titled much Jenny, you break it,

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you buy it, okay. Jenny
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attention to where her cart was and
how wide she was turning. Of course,

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you should pay for things you break. I understand it's a large chain

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store, not mom and pop place. I understand they have incidentals built into

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their budget. However, you are
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for your actions, including being careless
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I was the cashier, and yes, I have worked retail, I would

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have made you pay for it.
Up until this moment, I had the

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utmost respect for Jenny, but this
is ridiculous. Okay, Wow, you

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are entitled to your opinion. I
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entitled to not have to pay for
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what I was expressed. So maybe
that comes off as entitled. Yeah,

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I was just surprised because I also
have worked in retail, and when things

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have been broken at the grocery store
I worked at, it was forgiven.

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It was like, oh, sorry, you broke a jar pickles, no

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worries, we're cleaning it up,
and we did not bring it to the

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register and make them pay for it. Okay. You know, it's interesting

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that she was thinking about writing this, and then she debated, and then

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she got worked up she had to
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I'm kind of on Jenny's side on
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insist that you pay for it.
But I think that a better store would

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be like, it's okay, you
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running around or let your kids run
into something or knock over a big flat

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screen TV or something like that and
that broke, then maybe, But it

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was an accident, and Jenny's a
good person, and I'd think that,

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you know, you paid for it
without bitching. I mean, we're just

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kind of surprised, all right.
By the way, here's the problem with

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Jenny that I haven't told you about. She is entitled. Jenny and I

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were flying to Texas a couple of
months ago. Yeah, we love going

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on to Texas, and Jenny and
I we we were boarding on Southwest and

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Jenny tried to board before her zone
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and Jenny was in Zone C,
and she lined up in Zone A and

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she could not. They wouldn't let
I'd make it a joke because a woman,

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actually a woman actually did this on
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Southwest boards by group A, B
and C. Yes, and so we

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were there and we're always a group
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so we automatically get a group seating, which gets you on first. So

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there was somebody in front of us, and I said, a woman a

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minute ago. It doesn't matter whether
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it was a woman. And she
was gorgeous, if that has anything to

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do with it. Gorgeous and about
six foot one. Gorgeous, And she

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tried to board in the A group
and of course they checked. They're like,

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oh, I'm sorry, you're in
the C group. And she looked

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a little bit annoyed. Yeah,
and she had to stand off to the

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side, and Susan and I were
speculating on the jetway. Did she make

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a mistake or did she really think
that she was maybe like a little bit

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better than everybody else she's six foot
one and gorgeous, that she could get

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on with the A group. And
I said, nobody is that arrogant.

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Nobody is, Well, probably there
are, I said, she probably just

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doesn't fly that often and doesn't understand
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So I have to confess something.
Then, since you're bringing this up,

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bitch, what's up? I am
entitled Now I'm just like verifying this

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person's email. Andrew and I flew
southwest probably a year and a half ago,

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and we had been in the last
group on the flight to wherever we

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had gone, and so we had
like really bad seats. Yeah the flight

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back, he goes, let's just
jump in the B group. We were

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like in C and I go,
no, no, I can't do it,

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Like that is not who I am. He's like, just do it,

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and so we did. He gets
through and then they catch me and

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they're like, oh, sorry,
it's not your turn. I was like,

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yeah, I'm so sorry. I'll
go back to my career because I

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don't know. He probably had his
finger over the thing and they didn't check,

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and like, but they do still
grab your ticket and look they scan

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it. Though he got through.
Yes, they scan it, and then

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they saw that I wasn't see and
they're like, you go back there,

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and I go, I'm so sorry, you're right, and then or I

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said I'll go back there and they're
like, no, just go ahead,

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because they knew I was with Andrew
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and so then I think they felt
bad. So I feel as though I

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am just as awful as this woman
who was trying to get you. You

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are a terrible person. I show
time and I'll never do it again.

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Another thing, lesson about Southwest because
I never flew it before. I did

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not know. You need to check
in as soon as you get your notification

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so you can be in one of
the earlier groups. Yep's true. Yeah,

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seriously, get a Southwest visa.
Yeah, because they're my second favorite

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airline. Sun Country is my first
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if you get a Southwest visa,
you will get upgraded boarding and points and

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miles, so it's pretty awesome.
Next one, Drake left his k is

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this sent from the same person and
they're annoyed with Drake this time. Okay,

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Drake left his keys in the gym
and got locked out of his apartment

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complex. Then he was mad when
a man did not allow that he did

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not know would not let him in
the building. I understand Drake's viewpoint here,

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but I side with the gentleman.
He had no idea who you were,

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was under no obligation to let you
in the building or go get your

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keys. In fact, he was
more of an obligation to not let you

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into the building for the safety of
the staff and residence. Obviously you're also

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a resident, but he had no
way of knowing this. What I think

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the man should have done is call
security and let them escort Trake into the

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building to get his key card and
verify his identity. That being said,

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I really do love listening to you
guys. I miss Fallin, but the

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show is just as fantastic without her
as it was with her. And now

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I get another pod to listen to
Fallon and Zach. Congrats Jenny on the

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promo to Second Mike. I hope
you read this on the Minnesota Goodbye.

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I would love to be a contributor
and get a sticker. Hopefully my negative

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email doesn't disqualify me. Ll dart
Lick No, not at all, said,

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we got to get called out on
our shit. Sometimes we can't just

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assume that we're right all the time
because we're not well. And that's the

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funny thing is most people, like
I said at the beginning of this email,

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most people, if you don't like
Mom's meat loaf, you don't say

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Mom, I don't like your meat
loaf. But once in a while it's

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good to hear. Yeah, Mom, I don't like your meat loaf.

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Jenny is entitled, and we'll tell
you this right now. Jenny is on

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disability and she claims that she has
spina bifida and I said, Jenny,

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I think that's an infant's disease.
And you know what she said. She

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said, fuck you, Dave,
do your research right exactly, and I'm

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like, bitch, anyway, I'm
kind of rambling right now, and we're

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out of time, so let's go
ahead and stop. That is it for

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the Minnesota Goodbye. Thank you for
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