WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.400 --> 00:00:03.680 Karen, Yes, this is it? What is it? This is it? 2 00:00:03.839 --> 00:00:08.599 What's it? This is the moment where everything changes. Oh. Yes, 3 00:00:09.039 --> 00:00:12.320 Now we've talked at great length about the need for more love in the 4 00:00:12.359 --> 00:00:15.759 world. Right, yes, well today we have hit the mother load. 5 00:00:15.919 --> 00:00:20.199 Nice. Yes, we are talking about how and why to make this from 6 00:00:20.519 --> 00:00:25.719 war consciousness to love consciousness. Oh it sounds perfect. Is right right up 7 00:00:25.760 --> 00:00:28.839 your alley and knew you'd love this topic. Now, before this episode's over, 8 00:00:28.920 --> 00:00:33.159 we'll get really good understanding of what exactly is holding humanity back from its 9 00:00:33.159 --> 00:00:36.759 full potential, how to flip the switch and make the world what we all 10 00:00:36.799 --> 00:00:41.560 really want it to be, and what the relationship between our physical brains, 11 00:00:41.759 --> 00:00:46.399 our conscious minds, and our celestial spirit actually is. Plus a whole lot 12 00:00:46.399 --> 00:00:48.439 more that you're going to want to stick around for. So don't go anywhere, 13 00:00:48.479 --> 00:00:53.679 because this episode of the Skeptic Remusicians starts. Now. My name is 14 00:00:53.719 --> 00:00:57.439 Will, and unlike Boulder and Scully, we both want to believe. So 15 00:00:57.479 --> 00:01:00.039 we've embarked in a journey of discovery. We've talked to people we deeply entrenched 16 00:01:00.079 --> 00:01:04.680 in the spiritual and metaphysical world. We've thrown ourselves into weird and wonderful experiences. 17 00:01:04.799 --> 00:01:08.359 I even joined a coven of witches and wait, you joined a coven 18 00:01:08.560 --> 00:01:12.079 yep, all on the interests of finding something, anything, that will prove 19 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:15.599 that there's something beyond this physical, three dimensional world we all live in. 20 00:01:15.799 --> 00:01:34.840 This is the skeptic metaphysicians. Hey there, I'm will and I'm caring, 21 00:01:34.959 --> 00:01:40.159 and today we are honored to be in the company of a groundbreaking thinker and 22 00:01:40.359 --> 00:01:45.760 expert in the field of consciousness, personal growth, and the underlying forces that 23 00:01:45.760 --> 00:01:49.079 shape our world. That's actually three fields, but who's counting right. She's 24 00:01:49.400 --> 00:01:53.400 the author of the recently published book Flip Your Switch, a user's guide to 25 00:01:53.480 --> 00:01:57.280 a whole New Mind, a guide to understanding ourselves and the world around us, 26 00:01:57.400 --> 00:02:02.480 and she's here to help us move from war consciousness into love consciousness with 27 00:02:02.640 --> 00:02:07.520 our tested process that is sure to create a higher consciousness in aligned with our 28 00:02:07.560 --> 00:02:14.120 individual thinking and purpose. Welcome to the show, Doctor Terry Bedar, Hello, 29 00:02:14.520 --> 00:02:16.919 thank you for having me. I'm very excited to be here. Well, 30 00:02:16.919 --> 00:02:20.240 you are thrilled to have you joining us. Yes, I can promise 31 00:02:20.240 --> 00:02:23.599 you no one's more excited to talk about love than Karen is. Right now, 32 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:27.560 So before we get started, because we've got a lot to go into. 33 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:31.639 But let's just set the scene in your estimation. What exactly is love 34 00:02:31.719 --> 00:02:38.520 consciousness? How do we define that? Love consciousness is the higher consciousness and 35 00:02:38.599 --> 00:02:46.800 awareness and understanding of how the universe really works, in connectivity, in the 36 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:55.639 impermanence and the complementarity of all things. It's the actual fabric of the universe, 37 00:02:57.400 --> 00:03:01.919 and it is the natural fabric where nothing is gained, nothing is lost, 38 00:03:04.560 --> 00:03:09.599 and everything is complementary. Is completing the other? Does that make sense? 39 00:03:10.599 --> 00:03:15.280 It does? I think it does. So when you say it completes 40 00:03:15.560 --> 00:03:19.919 one thing completes the other, I think we're gonna go a little bit deeper 41 00:03:19.960 --> 00:03:23.560 into that, because what's the one thing? What's the other? Okay, 42 00:03:23.680 --> 00:03:27.719 So let me start. I actually prefer this conversation if I can flip over 43 00:03:27.759 --> 00:03:34.840 to war consciousness. War consciousness is this mind set that you and I are 44 00:03:34.879 --> 00:03:38.319 different. Somebody wins, somebody loses. There's somebody's up, somebody's down, 45 00:03:38.360 --> 00:03:43.199 somebody's right, somebody's wrong. This duality, gotcha. Love consciousness is when 46 00:03:43.240 --> 00:03:49.919 we go beyond the duality and we go into a multi dimensional understanding of how 47 00:03:50.080 --> 00:03:55.479 things work. And that's the mindset of Actually you and I are parts of 48 00:03:55.520 --> 00:04:02.719 the whole. We compliment one another, gotcha, we work together. One 49 00:04:02.800 --> 00:04:09.080 is competition, the other is complementarity. So it's like oil and water, 50 00:04:09.360 --> 00:04:13.879 or like puzzle pieces. Yes, look at you, Karen with the perfect 51 00:04:13.960 --> 00:04:19.240 imagery, frying out loud. That's awesome. Okay. So basically what I'm 52 00:04:19.279 --> 00:04:25.839 hearing you say is the need to win or compete against each other is what 53 00:04:25.879 --> 00:04:29.720 we're living in right now. That's war consciousness, yes, versus love, 54 00:04:29.800 --> 00:04:33.519 which is more about let's uplift each other and let's all win together because we 55 00:04:33.600 --> 00:04:40.040 are just there's abundance, there's no we're not having to live in what's the 56 00:04:40.120 --> 00:04:45.439 term scarcity? Thank you? And will I would even maybe add to that 57 00:04:45.439 --> 00:04:47.519 you're saying competing against one another, but even we compete against ourselves. I 58 00:04:47.519 --> 00:04:49.319 did this. Now this one has to be better. Now, this has 59 00:04:49.319 --> 00:04:51.560 to be better, and I've got to be stronger and faster than last time. 60 00:04:51.560 --> 00:04:56.720 And you can never just enjoy what you're in, you know, correct? 61 00:04:57.319 --> 00:05:00.959 Correct, Karen? I love it because what I was going to point 62 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:04.920 out was exactly that it's a consciousness. It's not about somebody out there, 63 00:05:05.439 --> 00:05:11.199 It's about you and here your head, your heart, your cognitive dissonance is 64 00:05:11.319 --> 00:05:18.079 your war consciousness. You me, every individual on the planet is toggling in 65 00:05:18.160 --> 00:05:23.519 and out of this war consciousness and this love consciousness all day. Law. 66 00:05:23.959 --> 00:05:27.480 Now, some of us are so in war consciousness we don't even know that 67 00:05:27.560 --> 00:05:35.040 left consciousness exists. And that's problematic, obviously. And then if you're in 68 00:05:35.120 --> 00:05:42.639 love consciousness, basically you've elevated to a place where war consciousness is no longer 69 00:05:43.399 --> 00:05:49.079 an actual equal to love consciousness. It becomes subordinate. And as it becomes 70 00:05:49.120 --> 00:05:58.839 subordinate, it is just it just becomes polarity or complementarity. It's no longer 71 00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:02.600 anything but tactical, practical. What do we do next? How do we 72 00:06:02.639 --> 00:06:09.160 get there? Do we turn left or right? So, obviously as a 73 00:06:09.199 --> 00:06:12.600 whole I would say probably the whole world, but specifically the United States, 74 00:06:12.639 --> 00:06:16.839 because that's where we're sitting in right now, very much in war consciousness, 75 00:06:17.199 --> 00:06:23.439 because as you and Karen so eloquently said, we are at odds with ourselves 76 00:06:24.000 --> 00:06:28.800 and in competition with ourselves. Does and I kind of know what your answer 77 00:06:28.839 --> 00:06:33.680 is going to be, But if we change our war consciousness individually to a 78 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:39.639 love consciousness, do you feel Karen and I change and now the whole world 79 00:06:39.720 --> 00:06:42.959 is going to change with us? Or is there like there has to be 80 00:06:43.000 --> 00:06:46.680 a tipping point, right? I mean, we have two hundred plus years 81 00:06:46.680 --> 00:06:50.959 of this country being what it is, thinking the way we are. Everyone 82 00:06:50.959 --> 00:06:56.079 talks about the fact that capitalism, right, that the need for more is 83 00:06:56.120 --> 00:07:01.360 what has made the country what it is. So how how can we as 84 00:07:01.439 --> 00:07:09.000 a country actually adopt love consciousness and yet continue to prosper in the way we 85 00:07:09.079 --> 00:07:12.040 have for the last two hundred plus years. Okay, that's a really great 86 00:07:12.120 --> 00:07:15.040 question. So that is a multi level question, So I'm going to try 87 00:07:15.079 --> 00:07:18.480 and pick it apart, one level at a time in order to answer that. 88 00:07:19.279 --> 00:07:26.759 First off, Yes, if you shift out of war consciousness into love 89 00:07:26.800 --> 00:07:33.600 consciousness as an individual, your health, your relationships, your business, everything 90 00:07:33.639 --> 00:07:41.399 you do out in the outside world will improve. That's kind of obvious because 91 00:07:41.439 --> 00:07:46.079 your mind, your mind influences your heart, influences your actions, influences your 92 00:07:46.120 --> 00:07:48.040 agency in the world, and that all comes back to you. So that's 93 00:07:48.279 --> 00:07:51.800 like, if you get rid of that cognitive dissonance and replace it with the 94 00:07:51.839 --> 00:07:56.920 love consciousness, now you were leaning into. Yes, But if some of 95 00:07:57.000 --> 00:08:00.800 us do it, what about the rest of us. And with that, 96 00:08:01.040 --> 00:08:05.920 yes, there is a point of what I call in the book pure positive 97 00:08:05.040 --> 00:08:11.399 critical mass. Now we tend to think from this left brain lockdown again another 98 00:08:11.439 --> 00:08:18.439 one of my terms that and it's kind of that petty brain bean counter mindset 99 00:08:18.600 --> 00:08:22.399 that, oh, in order to have critical mass or shift, we need 100 00:08:22.480 --> 00:08:26.560 fifty one percent of everybody to do it, then we'll shift. That's not 101 00:08:26.639 --> 00:08:33.600 actually true. You can have seven or eight percent of a group do something 102 00:08:33.919 --> 00:08:37.960 that influences the rest of the group, especially if it's an upgrade. And 103 00:08:39.279 --> 00:08:41.519 this is exactly what we're talking about. We're talking about an upgrade. Now 104 00:08:41.559 --> 00:08:46.080 I don't personally know if it's seven percent or eight percent, but I know 105 00:08:46.120 --> 00:08:50.200 we don't need fifty one percent. I'm quite confident on that sure. So 106 00:08:50.360 --> 00:08:54.720 because you want to think about that in terms of consciousness, not in terms 107 00:08:54.759 --> 00:09:01.559 of counting beans. When it comes to the consciousness, to quote Einstein for 108 00:09:01.639 --> 00:09:05.919 example, no problem was solved at the level of consciousness that it was created. 109 00:09:07.440 --> 00:09:13.759 So basically it's like you can solve your twelve year old's child's problems because 110 00:09:13.799 --> 00:09:18.639 you see things from a higher level of awareness. You know, you have 111 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:22.320 the experience, you have the age and you have a higher level of awareness, 112 00:09:22.399 --> 00:09:26.120 so it's easy. So this is also what I'm talking about, is 113 00:09:26.120 --> 00:09:31.039 that when you get certain amount of people that elevate, then they educate others 114 00:09:31.519 --> 00:09:37.440 by modeling the model of what it means. And everybody's really actually fundamentally interested 115 00:09:37.480 --> 00:09:43.320 in becoming love conscious. Why because the number one low hanging fruit of becoming 116 00:09:43.360 --> 00:09:50.480 love conscious is you get to be happy. And so it's like, okay, 117 00:09:50.799 --> 00:09:54.480 why not, let's just try now. Third part of the question was 118 00:09:54.720 --> 00:10:00.639 you know, you went into the history of capitalism and all the great stuff 119 00:10:00.639 --> 00:10:05.399 that humans can do through capitalism, YadA YadA. Well yes, but then 120 00:10:05.440 --> 00:10:11.960 again it's there's a shift in how we're doing business because there's a shift in 121 00:10:11.000 --> 00:10:18.519 who we're being. We actually don't need to dump toxic chemicals into the rivers 122 00:10:18.639 --> 00:10:22.159 in order to save money so that we can have lots and lots of cheap 123 00:10:22.240 --> 00:10:28.279 yoga pants available on Amazon. It's really not needed. There's so much more 124 00:10:28.320 --> 00:10:33.480 that we can do with our brain power, our heart power. And again 125 00:10:33.600 --> 00:10:37.679 goes back to the thing when you raise your consciousness. And if we get 126 00:10:37.799 --> 00:10:41.559 enough leaders which is why I'm a leadership coach, if we can get enough 127 00:10:41.679 --> 00:10:48.039 leaders to upgrade their consciousness. What will happen is we start to solve problems 128 00:10:48.120 --> 00:10:52.799 differently from a different level. We don't know how we're going to solve the 129 00:10:52.960 --> 00:11:01.960 economic problems or the ecological problems of the plan it yet, because we haven't 130 00:11:01.039 --> 00:11:05.960 reached that critical mass where enough of us at the top are saying, okay, 131 00:11:07.200 --> 00:11:11.399 let's do it somehow different from a different perspective. So let me just 132 00:11:11.440 --> 00:11:16.080 clarify something very important. It's a dumping of the toxic chemicals in the river 133 00:11:16.159 --> 00:11:18.480 that's not needed, not that you pants, right, because yoga pants are 134 00:11:18.519 --> 00:11:24.360 very necessary. They're very needed. Yes, I agree, I'd like one 135 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:28.600 hundred percent. We do need yoga pants. But then we get into what 136 00:11:28.720 --> 00:11:33.200 you talked about a little earlier. How many yoga pants do you need? 137 00:11:33.320 --> 00:11:37.279 Only so many days in the year, and we have laundry, and there 138 00:11:37.279 --> 00:11:41.000 are only so many there's a good time not to it. But okay, 139 00:11:41.600 --> 00:11:50.320 you've convinced me moving from war consciousness to love consciousness is not only desired, 140 00:11:50.440 --> 00:11:52.480 but it is important. We need to move in that direction. And it's 141 00:11:52.519 --> 00:11:56.919 like the hundred monkeys, where you don't necessarily need everyone do it. You 142 00:11:56.960 --> 00:12:00.799 just need a hundred monkeys to get to wash those sweet potatoes and eventually it'll 143 00:12:01.039 --> 00:12:09.200 go spread across the entire universe. That's got me. How how does someone 144 00:12:09.720 --> 00:12:13.399 shift their minds like we've been They read her book full disclosure. I read 145 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:20.480 your book, so I happen to know. However, there are thousands of 146 00:12:20.480 --> 00:12:24.240 people who are listening to this right now who haven't had the opportunity yet to 147 00:12:24.279 --> 00:12:26.759 read your book. So first and foremost absolutely go out and get the book, 148 00:12:26.919 --> 00:12:31.559 flip the switch. But before they get that, give us a tease. 149 00:12:31.679 --> 00:12:35.159 What is one or two ways that someone can actually make a shift in 150 00:12:35.200 --> 00:12:37.919 their life right now to move in the direction of love consciousness? Okay, 151 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:45.720 so I do want to go just shameless. Two second pitch, thirty five 152 00:12:45.799 --> 00:12:52.360 years of research starting out in social engineering, and ten years of boiling it 153 00:12:52.440 --> 00:13:00.919 down so it's not academic but real and usable for anybody anywhere. It's divided 154 00:13:01.000 --> 00:13:07.000 into three parts. Part one is about changing your knowledge of your mind how 155 00:13:07.039 --> 00:13:13.120 things work. Part two is developing know how what are the things you can 156 00:13:13.200 --> 00:13:20.360 actually do or try? And number three is where we bump you up into 157 00:13:20.440 --> 00:13:24.440 a state of knowing that will happen once you've done Part one and Part two, 158 00:13:24.960 --> 00:13:31.000 what I've plugged into in the book is the natural evolution of how a 159 00:13:31.120 --> 00:13:35.799 human being evolves. In Part three, we plug into your higher cell. 160 00:13:37.240 --> 00:13:43.799 And that's all along the way. And this is not a method methodology formula 161 00:13:43.200 --> 00:13:50.279 style. What I'm putting out there is try these things and synchronicity will kick 162 00:13:50.320 --> 00:13:54.879 in, the universe will show up for you. This is not a formula 163 00:13:54.919 --> 00:14:00.240 that's man made. I'm just showing you and pointing to all of the little 164 00:14:00.240 --> 00:14:03.440 pithy things you need to think about and do so that you can tap into 165 00:14:03.559 --> 00:14:09.720 your own synchronicity, your own personal evolution, and find your own higher self. 166 00:14:11.080 --> 00:14:15.360 This is universal. This is the MC squared of how you get there, 167 00:14:15.639 --> 00:14:18.000 and it just snowballs in of itself. Right. It's once it starts, 168 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:20.159 it gets bigger and bigger the more you open up to it and all 169 00:14:20.159 --> 00:14:24.240 that kind of stuff, and that exact sense, because once you start appreciating 170 00:14:24.240 --> 00:14:26.519 the small, like the little winds, and you're focusing on that, you're 171 00:14:26.519 --> 00:14:30.240 not focusing on what you want. You're focusing on and look what already happened, 172 00:14:30.240 --> 00:14:33.840 and you're starting to feel that abundon. You're bringing more in more abundance 173 00:14:33.879 --> 00:14:39.519 it's great. Yes, yes. And one of the nice things about your 174 00:14:39.559 --> 00:14:46.440 book is that it's those sections. They're really digestible. It's not right. 175 00:14:46.519 --> 00:14:50.679 It's not like this dissertation that you sit there and you read for freaking three 176 00:14:50.720 --> 00:14:54.440 months. They're bite sized chunks that you can just read in the different sections 177 00:14:54.480 --> 00:14:58.720 in very short amount of time and really internalize it really nicely. So thank 178 00:14:58.759 --> 00:15:03.279 you, Because someone like me, who doesn't have a really good, good 179 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:05.720 attention span, it's perfect. It's a perfect, perfect book for me. 180 00:15:07.279 --> 00:15:11.840 Yeah. I took all of the academic, pedantic stuff. I chewed it 181 00:15:11.080 --> 00:15:16.440 up like a mama bird, and then I spit it back out in that 182 00:15:16.480 --> 00:15:20.480 little book. Fifty two chapters, fifty two weeks of the year. You 183 00:15:20.519 --> 00:15:26.080 can do it, Yep, it's super easy. Now we're just getting started. 184 00:15:26.080 --> 00:15:28.080 We've got a lot to talk about in terms of consciousness and love, 185 00:15:28.080 --> 00:15:31.279 consciousness and war and how we flip our switch and all that kind of stuff. 186 00:15:31.279 --> 00:15:35.120 But before we continue, I want to take a quick break so that 187 00:15:35.200 --> 00:15:39.159 we can continue the conversation uninterrupted. When we come back, we'll dive deeper 188 00:15:39.200 --> 00:15:43.320 into these consciousnesses and then possibly get some practical ways to break free from our 189 00:15:43.360 --> 00:16:00.600 social constructs. We'll be right back right after the avestadies. Hey, Karen, 190 00:16:00.759 --> 00:16:03.600 Yes, I think we get another review. We do, we do, 191 00:16:04.080 --> 00:16:07.200 we do have another one. Yes, and I'm excited because I get 192 00:16:07.200 --> 00:16:10.519 to read it this time. I know. I love when you read these. 193 00:16:10.840 --> 00:16:12.000 I do too. It's fun. You need to do them more often. 194 00:16:12.080 --> 00:16:15.679 So how about okay, I'm just gonna shut up, go ahead and 195 00:16:15.679 --> 00:16:18.519 read read the review. Okay. The title is very thought provoking and it's 196 00:16:18.519 --> 00:16:23.799 a five star review. Woo for five stars, and Kelsey seven seven seven 197 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:29.679 says, really appreciate this podcast. It has introduced me to many tools to 198 00:16:29.679 --> 00:16:32.879 help me in my spiritual journey. Thanks so much for all you do. 199 00:16:33.039 --> 00:16:37.840 Keep up the good work. Ah, I love that. Kelsey seven seven 200 00:16:37.960 --> 00:16:41.320 seven, Thank you so much for leaving us a review or telling us how 201 00:16:41.360 --> 00:16:42.799 you feel about the show. That's the most important thing. And I like 202 00:16:42.840 --> 00:16:45.480 this. She thinks we're doing good work. Yes, I mean the five 203 00:16:45.480 --> 00:16:48.320 stars. That's pretty cool, right, So we do appreciate that. But 204 00:16:48.360 --> 00:16:52.120 more than more than anything, we appreciate you writing to us letting us know 205 00:16:52.159 --> 00:16:55.200 how you feel about the show. Yes, Oh that's what I meant, 206 00:16:55.200 --> 00:16:56.320 she said, keep up the good work. That's what I was talking about. 207 00:16:56.360 --> 00:16:59.519 Yeah, I'm sure she's talking about your good work, Chris. I'm 208 00:16:59.600 --> 00:17:03.399 just I'm just I'm calling it in at this point. No, oh my 209 00:17:03.440 --> 00:17:07.079 gosh, crazy. All right, well, Kelsey seven seven seven, thanks 210 00:17:07.079 --> 00:17:10.119 again so much for your review, for leaving us a message on our website, 211 00:17:10.119 --> 00:17:11.440 and if you'd like to hear your review read on the air, just 212 00:17:11.440 --> 00:17:15.559 go to Skepticmaneposition dot com. 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I don't know if I like that, 220 00:17:44.200 --> 00:17:47.799 want to be here, yeah, But anyway, thank you so much for 221 00:17:47.880 --> 00:17:49.720 listening to the show as always, and let's just get back to the show. 222 00:17:55.880 --> 00:17:59.480 Welcome back to the Skeptic Metaphysicians. We are talking to doctor Terry Badar, 223 00:17:59.599 --> 00:18:03.359 who is a consciousness expert. I love that title. I want to 224 00:18:03.359 --> 00:18:07.279 be a consciousness expert, maybe sometime in the future. But in the meantime 225 00:18:07.359 --> 00:18:11.480 we have experts like doctor Terry who are here to tell us how to move 226 00:18:11.480 --> 00:18:15.680 from war consciousness, which is where we've been stuck for so long, into 227 00:18:15.759 --> 00:18:21.640 love consciousness, which is actually going to pave the roads to making us happier 228 00:18:21.680 --> 00:18:26.759 people and more prone to synchronicities, which I really psyched about. And it 229 00:18:26.920 --> 00:18:30.519 just sounds so nice. It does sound ice, It does sound nice. 230 00:18:30.720 --> 00:18:34.680 Right before we left, we talked about your book and how digestible the sections 231 00:18:34.720 --> 00:18:40.519 were, and how wonderful the way that you all out. There's no scientific 232 00:18:41.000 --> 00:18:44.440 jargon or mumbo jumbo. It's very much for the lay person. So first 233 00:18:44.480 --> 00:18:48.079 and foremost, thank you for writing a book specifically for me. Secondly, 234 00:18:48.880 --> 00:18:52.559 we did touch on the social constructs that are might possibly holding us back. 235 00:18:53.039 --> 00:18:56.039 Can you give us some practical ways that we might be able to break free 236 00:18:56.079 --> 00:19:02.240 from some of these social constructs? Is actually quite simple, I like simple. 237 00:19:02.319 --> 00:19:04.799 All we have, Yeah, all we have to do is really identify 238 00:19:06.319 --> 00:19:11.119 them. So a basic social construct there, I'm gonna give you two that 239 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:19.200 are ubiquitous and destructive that pretty much anybody listening is going to identify with and 240 00:19:19.200 --> 00:19:25.000 be like, yeah, I suffer from that. So the first one is 241 00:19:26.279 --> 00:19:32.599 your happiness formula. Your happiness formula is a lie. Okay, The happiness 242 00:19:32.599 --> 00:19:37.359 formula goes like this, Once I get the right house, the right spouse, 243 00:19:37.599 --> 00:19:40.759 I drive the right car, or get the right dress size or the 244 00:19:40.839 --> 00:19:45.519 right hair color, or I get my kids into the right school, or 245 00:19:45.720 --> 00:19:49.119 I just redo the kitchen, or I get or this thing or that thing, 246 00:19:49.759 --> 00:19:56.839 or once once somebody loves me enough to do X, then then I 247 00:19:57.000 --> 00:20:03.440 will be happy. So the actual structure is a lie. No amount of 248 00:20:03.599 --> 00:20:07.559 adding up stuff on one side of the equation will ever equal happiness. That's 249 00:20:07.599 --> 00:20:11.839 not how it works. Happiness is a state of being that you choose to 250 00:20:11.880 --> 00:20:17.759 cultivate within yourself. So the happiness formula is a lie. And marketing and 251 00:20:17.839 --> 00:20:25.160 commerce dig into that construct inside you and they use it at nauseum to make 252 00:20:25.200 --> 00:20:29.599 you buy stuff that you do not need. I don't know. I like 253 00:20:29.640 --> 00:20:33.400 my stuff. I doesn't make it happy. It makes my stuff makes me 254 00:20:33.480 --> 00:20:34.960 happy for a minute, But like when you first get it and you're really 255 00:20:34.960 --> 00:20:37.200 happy, and then you're like man, but then if you get enough stuff, 256 00:20:37.200 --> 00:20:40.960 you're happy. You a lot right now, But you're always wanting more 257 00:20:41.000 --> 00:20:44.400 stuff. But then you get more stuff and then you begin falls through it 258 00:20:45.319 --> 00:20:48.240 caring. You're ruining my social construct here. That's the point, isn't it 259 00:20:48.359 --> 00:20:53.519 right? Exactly? The which also feeds in these two are like the biggest 260 00:20:53.559 --> 00:20:57.160 ones that most people will suffer from. And that's the sickness of more. 261 00:20:59.400 --> 00:21:03.920 The sickness more, which was Karen was already leading into it, was yeah, 262 00:21:03.960 --> 00:21:07.240 but you got the next thing next. There's never enough, but there's 263 00:21:07.240 --> 00:21:10.440 not enough. I have to accumulate stuff. I have to accumulate wealth, 264 00:21:10.680 --> 00:21:15.799 and like do we have enough pickles? Like we have to more? Yes? 265 00:21:17.599 --> 00:21:22.480 Always. So all of this sickness of more, this constant grasping, 266 00:21:22.119 --> 00:21:26.440 what does that do to us? Well, it keeps us in a state 267 00:21:26.480 --> 00:21:32.960 of scarcity and fear and lack and the sickness of more. Some people call 268 00:21:33.039 --> 00:21:37.640 it poverty consciousness. I don't like that because it's not a consciousness. It's 269 00:21:37.680 --> 00:21:45.079 a construct. And so it just keeps us grasping and grasping for more which 270 00:21:45.119 --> 00:21:52.240 is out there, and it keeps us distracted from what's in here. That's 271 00:21:52.279 --> 00:21:55.759 so funny because people just get so burdened with stuff and then you want to 272 00:21:55.799 --> 00:21:56.880 get rid of your stuff because there's just so much stuff. It's too much 273 00:21:56.880 --> 00:21:59.720 stuff. It's like there's stuff here and stuff there, and it drives you 274 00:21:59.759 --> 00:22:00.680 know, got to get rid of the stuff. Reminds me of do you 275 00:22:00.680 --> 00:22:03.720 want more stuff? George Carlin? Bit right, yeah, right, you 276 00:22:03.799 --> 00:22:08.400 help the place to put your stuff. Both like the opposite of laundry, 277 00:22:08.480 --> 00:22:11.480 Like, no matter how much you do the laundry, it's always going to 278 00:22:11.480 --> 00:22:15.519 be there. There's always gonna be more. My laundry basket is emptied. 279 00:22:15.519 --> 00:22:21.079 Always look at this gone magic. That's because you have magic ELPs I do, 280 00:22:21.480 --> 00:22:26.720 I do, and the help is called Karen. So I just want 281 00:22:26.759 --> 00:22:30.200 to get rid of all the clothes more line, that's a that's a skeptic 282 00:22:30.319 --> 00:22:33.559 physicians after dark. Let's not go to that rabbit hole right now. But 283 00:22:33.599 --> 00:22:36.920 it is, it's like the opposite. I'm trying to get rid of all 284 00:22:36.920 --> 00:22:38.599 this stuff and it's piling up, and meanwhile, which are actually wanting is 285 00:22:38.640 --> 00:22:41.880 more stuff, but it's just the other stuff. The way you say is 286 00:22:41.960 --> 00:22:45.119 perfect, right, we've taught we've heard it before, that happiness comes from 287 00:22:45.119 --> 00:22:51.519 within, not from without. And yet we to us that's just word mom, 288 00:22:51.759 --> 00:22:56.559 want, want, want, right, So how do we get cure 289 00:22:56.680 --> 00:23:00.960 for the more sickness. It's not for the faint hearted as at today, 290 00:23:02.440 --> 00:23:07.400 because it is work. It's not just going to come and bite you. 291 00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:11.039 You do actually have to do some stuff, not the kind of stuff you 292 00:23:11.079 --> 00:23:18.480 buy. Yeah, there's the rem Okay, yeah, you do actually have 293 00:23:18.519 --> 00:23:19.200 to work at it. You have to buy the book, you have to 294 00:23:19.240 --> 00:23:22.400 read the book, you have to think about the book. It's like I've 295 00:23:22.440 --> 00:23:29.079 done as much as I possibly can to enable this process. Obviously, I 296 00:23:29.400 --> 00:23:36.480 challenge my clients CEOs and heads of hr and executives and all that. I 297 00:23:36.680 --> 00:23:41.160 challenge them every step of the way based on the book, and they come 298 00:23:41.160 --> 00:23:48.039 to me with questions. So they have my support and my accountability because they 299 00:23:48.079 --> 00:23:51.200 know that they're going to see me in two weeks and if they didn't do 300 00:23:51.279 --> 00:23:55.799 anything, they're going to feel funny about it, unless at which point they 301 00:23:55.799 --> 00:23:59.599 could say that my dog ate my work. Right, So mm hmm. 302 00:24:00.960 --> 00:24:06.319 But you do actually have to do that, and I find that certain individuals 303 00:24:06.400 --> 00:24:11.119 have really gotten a lot out of it. Simply buy, read a little 304 00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:17.519 ponder, try a few things, read a little ponderry, try a few 305 00:24:17.599 --> 00:24:22.359 things. There's a cycle that I always give to my clients which is act, 306 00:24:22.400 --> 00:24:26.480 evaluate, learn, adjust. So you do a little bit, you 307 00:24:26.599 --> 00:24:30.720 evaluate, what did you learn from it, adjust, and then act again. 308 00:24:32.400 --> 00:24:37.680 So that is actually how we live life. So if you're willing to 309 00:24:37.960 --> 00:24:41.960 make a little bit of effort, read chapters that are two pages long, 310 00:24:42.160 --> 00:24:47.200 and then think about it, take it with you. Ask yourself the question, 311 00:24:47.279 --> 00:24:48.759 how does that thing show up in my life? How does that construct 312 00:24:48.799 --> 00:24:52.720 show up? Where do I see it? If you start to really look 313 00:24:52.759 --> 00:24:55.079 at it, you start to be like, oh my god, this is 314 00:24:55.119 --> 00:25:00.240 disgusting. It's everywhere. How do I get it out? So? What 315 00:25:00.319 --> 00:25:02.240 else is in the book? What did she say in part two? How 316 00:25:02.240 --> 00:25:06.440 do I get rid of it? Right? So there is a lot that 317 00:25:06.559 --> 00:25:11.920 you can just try, and there's no big science about it. Right, 318 00:25:11.000 --> 00:25:15.039 It's important two things to note. One is the book is not a novel. 319 00:25:15.119 --> 00:25:18.680 You're not supposed to sit down and read it cover to cover in one 320 00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:21.319 sitting right. Like you said, you got to take it in small bites 321 00:25:21.359 --> 00:25:23.359 and process it before you move forward to the next one. The second, 322 00:25:23.359 --> 00:25:29.200 and most importantly, the people that you are talking to about this kind of 323 00:25:29.240 --> 00:25:32.799 stuff you just said it. They're CEOs of companies. These are people who 324 00:25:32.880 --> 00:25:37.640 are in charge of the actual constructs that we are talking about here, right, 325 00:25:37.680 --> 00:25:40.759 the companies that are asking you to buy more and to take more and 326 00:25:40.799 --> 00:25:45.119 things like that. So a I feel encouraged that there are actually are CEOs 327 00:25:45.160 --> 00:25:49.759 that are moving in this direction, so woo, thank goodness. But b 328 00:25:51.279 --> 00:25:57.519 if CEOs can do this and they're stuck in this social construct of more than 329 00:25:57.799 --> 00:26:03.839 anybody can do it, right, absolutely, absolutely, Actually it's a lot 330 00:26:03.880 --> 00:26:07.880 easier for the ordinary person to do it because they don't have to go around 331 00:26:07.920 --> 00:26:11.640 and they don't have to turn around and change the company culture after what they 332 00:26:11.720 --> 00:26:15.880 just learned, right, And I like that it's those bite sized pieces because 333 00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:18.559 when you think about, gosh, I've got to think of this way, 334 00:26:18.559 --> 00:26:21.279 stop buy and stuff, it's overwhelming. Just to try to do it all 335 00:26:21.279 --> 00:26:22.799 at once, everyone would fail that. So I like how you've broken it 336 00:26:22.839 --> 00:26:26.480 down to like a weekly thing that you can look at and digest and put 337 00:26:26.480 --> 00:26:30.799 to use. Did I mention she wrote it for me? All right? 338 00:26:30.920 --> 00:26:36.200 So then that's the case. Can you give us an example some examples of 339 00:26:36.519 --> 00:26:40.799 some folks that have actually taken these the words that they got from your book 340 00:26:40.839 --> 00:26:45.599 and made a difference in their life. All of my clients like, what 341 00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:48.839 are you looking for? Like, because it's endless, whether it's family relationships, 342 00:26:49.559 --> 00:26:55.519 negotiation styles, well, like someone who might have used your followed your 343 00:26:55.519 --> 00:26:59.599 guidance and they change their lives because of it. Like some success stories. 344 00:27:00.200 --> 00:27:06.200 Okay, So I had one client. He showed up with this war consciousness, 345 00:27:07.200 --> 00:27:11.319 very simple, with this sense of they're out to get me, somebody's 346 00:27:11.319 --> 00:27:14.920 out to get me. There's always somebody out to get me, right, 347 00:27:15.799 --> 00:27:21.799 And he was startup ten years old, ten year old, startup in the 348 00:27:21.839 --> 00:27:26.400 medical industry. I'm from Boston, so there's all these like really nerdy things 349 00:27:26.440 --> 00:27:30.240 going on, which is wonderful, and he just had always the sense and 350 00:27:30.279 --> 00:27:34.680 it made him angry. It was messing with his relationships, it was messing 351 00:27:34.759 --> 00:27:40.359 with how he would negotiate with people. It was messing with all of that. 352 00:27:41.559 --> 00:27:45.880 And so we worked together, we broke down some of the constructs are 353 00:27:45.000 --> 00:27:51.319 around that. We looked into his inner narratives because there's also that That's another 354 00:27:51.359 --> 00:27:55.279 thing we talk about in the book. Thoughts are things kind of thing like 355 00:27:55.359 --> 00:27:59.480 what you think about will come about how are you thinking? Choose your thoughts 356 00:27:59.480 --> 00:28:04.000 wisely, some very simple ways of changing the way you show up? What 357 00:28:04.119 --> 00:28:12.079 words are you using? All of these self chorrating methodologies, And over time 358 00:28:12.279 --> 00:28:18.799 he was able to feel good about himself. And then he was able to 359 00:28:18.920 --> 00:28:25.400 discern rather than judge. That's another chapter, discernment over judgment. So instead 360 00:28:25.400 --> 00:28:29.960 of judging everybody and being all emotionally attached about what's happening with them and are 361 00:28:29.960 --> 00:28:32.400 they like, how are they seeing me, he was able to discert, 362 00:28:32.480 --> 00:28:34.759 oh, actually that person did X, Y and zie. They are actually 363 00:28:34.799 --> 00:28:40.319 out to get me, But ninety five percent of all the other people are 364 00:28:40.400 --> 00:28:45.759 not. And these twenty percent over here of the ninety five are actually here 365 00:28:45.759 --> 00:28:49.720 to help me, and I've been not letting them in. And so he 366 00:28:49.759 --> 00:28:55.359 started to let them in, and all of his relationships at work at home 367 00:28:55.519 --> 00:29:02.519 changed. His son, with whom he was a strained, the relationship was 368 00:29:02.559 --> 00:29:07.440 healed. His wife was like, oh my god, please never stop seeing 369 00:29:07.480 --> 00:29:12.440 doctor Terry, because I just love who you've become. You're just like so 370 00:29:12.720 --> 00:29:21.799 nice and so fun to be around. So that's what happens naturally, And 371 00:29:22.160 --> 00:29:27.200 all we do with the book is point out lots of things that you can 372 00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:33.200 think about and try so. And you'll notice that in my success story, 373 00:29:33.279 --> 00:29:38.720 I didn't talk about how he went on to make boatloads of money. It 374 00:29:38.759 --> 00:29:44.759 was his inner journey. It was his happiness factor that went sky high. 375 00:29:44.839 --> 00:29:48.119 It was his relationships that improved, his negotiation style changed. Well, what 376 00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:52.559 do you think that led to as he was going into an IPO, even 377 00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:59.559 beyond the success that ultimately this would all lead to financially, Just that feeling 378 00:29:59.559 --> 00:30:03.000 of happiness will cause you to feel more successful, even if the financial part 379 00:30:03.160 --> 00:30:07.039 isn't necessarily part of it, right, Yeah, And that feeling is the 380 00:30:07.079 --> 00:30:12.920 basis for what happens in the outside world. So we're in a topic of 381 00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:18.240 your book. In the book, you explore the connection of the relationship between 382 00:30:18.359 --> 00:30:22.640 our physical brains, our conscious mind, and our celestial spirit. Tell us 383 00:30:22.640 --> 00:30:26.319 a little bit. How are they related. Well, I mean it depends 384 00:30:26.359 --> 00:30:30.160 on how we have been known to go really far. So feel free to 385 00:30:30.200 --> 00:30:33.960 go as far as you feel comfortable. Okay, Well for starters, just 386 00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:41.799 for the listeners. Your brain is the hardware, okay that, and then 387 00:30:41.000 --> 00:30:48.480 your mind is the software. So we want to know now, the great 388 00:30:48.599 --> 00:30:56.079 thing about the human mind or the mind in general, is that it can 389 00:30:56.240 --> 00:31:03.480 shape the physical. In brain science, we call that neuroplasticity. So if 390 00:31:03.480 --> 00:31:11.759 you think certain thoughts, it will create certain peptide pathways that then become ingrained, 391 00:31:11.759 --> 00:31:18.319 and those become patterns and habits and behaviors. So what you think about 392 00:31:18.400 --> 00:31:23.799 comes about in that way. So that is a really important part of the 393 00:31:23.839 --> 00:31:30.359 book is understanding your software versus your hardware. Now, obviously, if your 394 00:31:30.559 --> 00:31:37.200 hardware is ill, meaning it's all rusted out because you eat bad food and 395 00:31:37.240 --> 00:31:42.400 don't sleep well, you might want to address that too. So one of 396 00:31:42.440 --> 00:31:47.000 the chapters is make your body a great place to live. You do have 397 00:31:47.119 --> 00:31:49.680 to take care of the physical as well. It's not just a one. 398 00:31:49.759 --> 00:31:55.359 You can't just think your way to the solution or own your way to it 399 00:31:56.119 --> 00:32:00.319 not going to happen. Okay, So that's important. Now when we go 400 00:32:00.400 --> 00:32:04.279 into the third part of the book, we introduce the Daemon. The Daemon 401 00:32:04.440 --> 00:32:08.920 is your higher sell. It is your connectivity to the greater mind and that 402 00:32:09.000 --> 00:32:15.759 allows wonderful things to happen. In my private practice where I'm not working for 403 00:32:15.799 --> 00:32:19.480 corporations, but I work a lot with social entrepreneurs that stay with me for 404 00:32:19.599 --> 00:32:25.599 long periods of time, and who are blazing amazing trails. Those people naturally 405 00:32:25.640 --> 00:32:35.400 become precog or have these peak experiences because they've gotten rid of so much of 406 00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:40.119 the social constructs holding them back. They've tried and experimented with all the things 407 00:32:40.640 --> 00:32:44.000 in the second part of the book, and then they get to the third 408 00:32:44.039 --> 00:32:47.640 part of the evolution, which is tapping into your daemon. And I love 409 00:32:47.680 --> 00:32:52.079 that term. It's the ancient Greek term for your higher self, which is 410 00:32:52.119 --> 00:32:57.400 like sells like diamond. And I think that's just wonderful because it's so rich, 411 00:32:58.319 --> 00:33:02.480 and it's also like, think of it like a crystal that's bringing down 412 00:33:04.119 --> 00:33:13.119 the downloads. And because I have a CEO who dreampt his the VC funding 413 00:33:14.240 --> 00:33:17.960 before it happened and before he met the VC. Wow, So he was 414 00:33:19.000 --> 00:33:22.480 just walking into his own movie when he went to the meeting. That's kind 415 00:33:22.480 --> 00:33:23.680 of cool. It's kind of a cool way to put it. Yeah, 416 00:33:23.799 --> 00:33:28.200 walk it into your own movie. That's pretty awesome. Okay, So then 417 00:33:28.359 --> 00:33:31.759 if we all put all of these things into effect, into action, how 418 00:33:31.880 --> 00:33:36.279 what do you foresee for humanity? How is that going to change us as 419 00:33:36.319 --> 00:33:42.279 a whole? We are shifting I work in business a lot. My next 420 00:33:42.319 --> 00:33:46.680 book will be Healing the Broken Business Model, where I talk a lot about 421 00:33:46.720 --> 00:33:51.000 this question. In the very end of the book, I talk about natural 422 00:33:51.039 --> 00:33:58.400 economics. So we have a pyramidal extraction exploitation model of capitalism that has been 423 00:33:58.440 --> 00:34:01.720 around for a very long time. It is reaching end of term. It 424 00:34:01.759 --> 00:34:08.079 can no longer sustain itself. There are too many there's too much extraction going 425 00:34:08.159 --> 00:34:12.119 up at the top and nothing left to extract from at the bottom, whether 426 00:34:12.119 --> 00:34:16.400 it's planet or people that we like to exploit and squeeze and not pay correctly 427 00:34:16.559 --> 00:34:22.039 and not give them health insurance and all that good stuff. So that pyramidal 428 00:34:22.079 --> 00:34:29.400 model is not sustainable. There is a model that's coming about, which is 429 00:34:29.760 --> 00:34:35.559 a web model where you have all of these clusters where value is being added. 430 00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:43.360 It's constellation fashion. I have clients that are already doing this and that 431 00:34:43.519 --> 00:34:52.360 is their business model, where we add value in small units communities, different 432 00:34:52.360 --> 00:34:59.480 places all over the world, and these communities are interconnected to one another, 433 00:35:00.079 --> 00:35:06.000 just like you and I or you two and I are on this podcast, 434 00:35:06.480 --> 00:35:10.679 and then the listeners will be listening. We're creating value in these little pods 435 00:35:13.519 --> 00:35:17.000 and it's going all over the world in these little webs. So if you 436 00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:22.760 think of the planet, imagine the Earth, and that each of these value 437 00:35:22.800 --> 00:35:30.119 pods are these little golden lights. And if you start to like a spider, 438 00:35:31.000 --> 00:35:37.679 make all of these strings that attach all of these golden little lights, 439 00:35:38.039 --> 00:35:45.400 you cover the planet with golden light. That is how economic are going to 440 00:35:45.519 --> 00:35:52.280 work as well. We are going to add value first and monetize second. 441 00:35:52.960 --> 00:35:57.000 I'm not sure if I'm following completely. However, there is a model in 442 00:35:57.039 --> 00:36:00.400 podcasting currently called value for value, which means people listening to your show can 443 00:36:00.440 --> 00:36:05.920 actually donate a certain amount of money to you as a way of giving back 444 00:36:06.079 --> 00:36:08.159 the energy exchange something along those lines. Is that kind of what you're talking 445 00:36:08.159 --> 00:36:15.400 about a little bit a little bit. So in love consciousness, when we 446 00:36:15.440 --> 00:36:22.719 move into love consciousness, one plus one starts to equal three because we add 447 00:36:22.960 --> 00:36:29.239 value. Like in business we have synergy, where the outcome is greater than 448 00:36:29.239 --> 00:36:31.800 the sum of the parts. So the more one of the more you can 449 00:36:31.880 --> 00:36:37.280 love. But the more you love, the more you create love, the 450 00:36:37.280 --> 00:36:42.000 more you create structures for love, the more you create the ability for other 451 00:36:42.079 --> 00:36:46.920 people to love. In there's a see in war consciousness, one plus one 452 00:36:47.000 --> 00:36:55.039 equals two. It's always duality, and it's transactional. You me, you 453 00:36:55.159 --> 00:37:00.519 versus me, us versus them. Somebody wins, somebody loses. When we 454 00:37:00.559 --> 00:37:07.679 move into a model of where it's about comprehending and being complementary to one another 455 00:37:08.199 --> 00:37:15.519 and cooperating with one another, there's added value. This is synergy as we 456 00:37:15.599 --> 00:37:20.559 employ it in business, there's added value. You're not siloing things out. 457 00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:25.920 That added value is really hard to capture, contain and control because it's in 458 00:37:27.000 --> 00:37:34.320 love consciousness. Capture containing control are more conscious functions. Within love consciousness, 459 00:37:34.559 --> 00:37:38.039 we don't try to capture, contain and control. We create value. Everything 460 00:37:38.119 --> 00:37:46.039 in nature does that, and these economic models are more about creating value and 461 00:37:46.079 --> 00:37:52.360 not confusing value with money. Value is what it's how you're serving someone. 462 00:37:53.000 --> 00:37:58.920 Okay, going back to something you said little bit earlier, where you were 463 00:37:59.239 --> 00:38:05.400 facilitating someone else to succeed or have value. Is it like the whole rising 464 00:38:05.440 --> 00:38:09.599 tide raises all ships kind of mentality or and I'm going to edit this out 465 00:38:09.679 --> 00:38:14.400 for in a second, but Karen, I'm thinking this is like a model 466 00:38:14.440 --> 00:38:20.920 for ethereal. We're building something that we're bringing a lot of other people who 467 00:38:20.920 --> 00:38:23.400 are doing what we're doing to the table, providing a platform for them to 468 00:38:23.440 --> 00:38:28.000 get their message out to as many people as possible. So that way we're 469 00:38:28.039 --> 00:38:32.320 adding providing value to the people that are coming on as content collaborators, but 470 00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:36.519 they're also adding value to the people who are listening or watching in the averyonees 471 00:38:36.559 --> 00:38:39.679 learning and growing together. So basically what you're saying is, Karen, we're 472 00:38:39.719 --> 00:38:45.079 already in love consciousness and we had no idea. Yeah. I'm an art 473 00:38:45.079 --> 00:38:53.159 major, so it's actually quite natural. Yeah, it's actually quite natural. 474 00:38:53.400 --> 00:38:58.719 That's how communities work, That's how households work. You know, if you 475 00:38:58.800 --> 00:39:04.400 read a book like Better Capitalism or if the stock market crashes tomorrow, we're 476 00:39:04.440 --> 00:39:08.559 all poor. Yes, yes we are. I think I understand. So 477 00:39:09.239 --> 00:39:12.800 a lot of this stuff that you talk about is in the book, but 478 00:39:12.920 --> 00:39:17.119 there's so more to you than just the book. You have a website, 479 00:39:17.559 --> 00:39:24.559 you have actually you have a community with the love Conscious community where people can 480 00:39:24.599 --> 00:39:32.000 actually join and be part of this love conscious community, and you have consciousness 481 00:39:32.119 --> 00:39:37.320 conversations, and you have all these kinds of things that come along with it, 482 00:39:37.960 --> 00:39:43.320 including if I saw I correctly you are? Is there a headspace guided 483 00:39:43.360 --> 00:39:50.960 meditation series from you coming sometimes future something maybe Actually, Yes, I have 484 00:39:51.079 --> 00:40:00.840 loveconscious Human dot com and we're moving away from the membership and we're moving into 485 00:40:01.079 --> 00:40:09.119 giving it away. So that's our next We're migrating into giving it away. 486 00:40:09.440 --> 00:40:15.320 So we were going to be giving away audios of cultivating joy sessions that we 487 00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:20.320 had with other people and all that they brought to the thing. I'm going 488 00:40:20.360 --> 00:40:27.159 to be putting out Love Conscious Human podcast where I'm interviewing executives about how this 489 00:40:27.320 --> 00:40:32.599 love conscious thing actually serves them. Then I'm going to be creating Flip your 490 00:40:32.639 --> 00:40:40.039 Switch Guide podcast, which is where readers like you will can come and ask 491 00:40:40.159 --> 00:40:45.280 me any question about a chapter and we can talk about that chapter. We 492 00:40:45.320 --> 00:40:50.000 record it for anybody who's also reading the book. That becomes a support because 493 00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:53.840 you're going to ask the kind of questions that somebody else might ask about, 494 00:40:53.960 --> 00:40:58.800 well what do I need to know here about this particular chapter, and that 495 00:40:58.880 --> 00:41:04.000 becomes a support system for anybody reading the book. I'm really trying hard to 496 00:41:04.039 --> 00:41:08.360 give it away. Wow, it's not typical that you hear that that people 497 00:41:08.400 --> 00:41:13.079 are giving it away. But based on and your model, the value model, 498 00:41:13.159 --> 00:41:15.239 then the more you give away, the more that the universe will give 499 00:41:15.280 --> 00:41:19.800 back to you. That's like what you're talking about here makes perfect sense. 500 00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:22.760 Now, I totally get it now, all right. If someone wanted to 501 00:41:22.880 --> 00:41:30.119 learn more about you or love Conscious, or even purchase the book Flip the 502 00:41:30.199 --> 00:41:34.639 Switch, what's the best place for them to start Flip your switch? A 503 00:41:34.760 --> 00:41:37.199 User's Guide to a Whole New Mind is on Amazon. It's on Barnes and 504 00:41:37.239 --> 00:41:43.239 Noble and pretty much anywhere you would buy a book online. First, then 505 00:41:43.599 --> 00:41:50.360 you can find me as a leadership coach. I'm on White Lilycoaching dot Com, 506 00:41:50.400 --> 00:41:54.760 which is White Lily like the Flower. My other website, Loveconscious Human 507 00:41:55.199 --> 00:42:00.159 dot Com is where I'm trying to give it all away. And I also 508 00:42:00.280 --> 00:42:07.159 have a YouTube and I'm on and then I have so that's Love Conscious Human 509 00:42:07.239 --> 00:42:13.800 YouTube. I have White Lily YouTube as well. Leadership I have doctor Terry 510 00:42:14.639 --> 00:42:19.159 Bedar one on Instagram where I follow you guys like crazy. I know, 511 00:42:19.280 --> 00:42:22.840 and I thank you for that. I love your stuff. And that's pretty 512 00:42:22.880 --> 00:42:25.480 much it. I mean, you can find me on Facebook. I'm not 513 00:42:25.599 --> 00:42:30.159 very active on Facebook. I guess that's most of it. Oh in LinkedIn 514 00:42:30.320 --> 00:42:34.159 doctor Terry Bedar. Okay, well we're going to add direct links to all 515 00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:37.079 that all the stuff you just We're going to add direct links to our show 516 00:42:37.119 --> 00:42:38.880 notes, so you can go to a skepticmantavision dot com, go to her 517 00:42:38.880 --> 00:42:43.280 episode page. You'll see all the links laid in there directly. If you 518 00:42:43.360 --> 00:42:46.159 need to get in touch with doctor Terry, you'll have everything you need right 519 00:42:46.239 --> 00:42:51.599 in your fingertips. So doctor Terry, thank you so much. This has 520 00:42:51.639 --> 00:42:55.000 been super eye opening and I'm going to i know, have to fight Karen 521 00:42:55.000 --> 00:42:59.480 for my copy of Flip to Switch. So we really appreciate you coming on 522 00:42:59.559 --> 00:43:04.000 sharing your expertise with us, and hopefully we'll see you on your podcast when 523 00:43:04.039 --> 00:43:07.079 now you're answering all my questions because I'm gonna have a lot of career and 524 00:43:07.159 --> 00:43:09.880 hopefully lots of switches will be flipmitted. Yes here, tire here, right 525 00:43:09.880 --> 00:43:13.079 from your your mouth to God's ear. Right, that's what they said. 526 00:43:13.159 --> 00:43:15.800 So all right, doctor Terry, thanks so much for coming on. Thank 527 00:43:15.840 --> 00:43:19.760 you, and a huge thank you to you. We know that there are 528 00:43:20.039 --> 00:43:23.119 tons of options out there and having you decide to come along on our journey 529 00:43:23.119 --> 00:43:28.400 of discovery with us is an absolute honor for us. We hope you've enjoyed 530 00:43:28.400 --> 00:43:30.559 this conversation as much as we have. If you did and you feel called 531 00:43:30.599 --> 00:43:35.800 to give back, we invite you to visit our website at Skepticmanaphysician dot com, 532 00:43:35.840 --> 00:43:38.400 where you can donate to the show or subscribe as a member through our 533 00:43:38.800 --> 00:43:43.719 buy me a Coffee campaign. Your support will go a long way towards allowing 534 00:43:43.760 --> 00:43:47.360 Karen and I to bring you these wonderful conversations and teachings in more and more 535 00:43:47.519 --> 00:43:51.920 robust ways. Well, that's all for now. We will see you on 536 00:43:52.000 --> 00:43:55.599 the next episode of The Skeptic Metaphysician. Until then, take care,