Karen, Yes, this is it? What is it? This is it?
What's it? This is the moment where everything changes. Oh. Yes,
Now we've talked at great length about the need for more love in the
world. Right, yes, well today we have hit the mother load.
Nice. Yes, we are talking about how and why to make this from
war consciousness to love consciousness. Oh it sounds perfect. Is right right up
your alley and knew you'd love this topic. Now, before this episode's over,
we'll get really good understanding of what exactly is holding humanity back from its
full potential, how to flip the switch and make the world what we all
really want it to be, and what the relationship between our physical brains,
our conscious minds, and our celestial spirit actually is. Plus a whole lot
more that you're going to want to stick around for. So don't go anywhere,
because this episode of the Skeptic Remusicians starts. Now. My name is
Will, and unlike Boulder and Scully, we both want to believe. So
we've embarked in a journey of discovery. We've talked to people we deeply entrenched
in the spiritual and metaphysical world. We've thrown ourselves into weird and wonderful experiences.
I even joined a coven of witches and wait, you joined a coven
yep, all on the interests of finding something, anything, that will prove
that there's something beyond this physical, three dimensional world we all live in.
This is the skeptic metaphysicians. Hey there, I'm will and I'm caring,
and today we are honored to be in the company of a groundbreaking thinker and
expert in the field of consciousness, personal growth, and the underlying forces that
shape our world. That's actually three fields, but who's counting right. She's
the author of the recently published book Flip Your Switch, a user's guide to
a whole New Mind, a guide to understanding ourselves and the world around us,
and she's here to help us move from war consciousness into love consciousness with
our tested process that is sure to create a higher consciousness in aligned with our
individual thinking and purpose. Welcome to the show, Doctor Terry Bedar, Hello,
thank you for having me. I'm very excited to be here. Well,
you are thrilled to have you joining us. Yes, I can promise
you no one's more excited to talk about love than Karen is. Right now,
So before we get started, because we've got a lot to go into.
But let's just set the scene in your estimation. What exactly is love
consciousness? How do we define that? Love consciousness is the higher consciousness and
awareness and understanding of how the universe really works, in connectivity, in the
impermanence and the complementarity of all things. It's the actual fabric of the universe,
and it is the natural fabric where nothing is gained, nothing is lost,
and everything is complementary. Is completing the other? Does that make sense?
It does? I think it does. So when you say it completes
one thing completes the other, I think we're gonna go a little bit deeper
into that, because what's the one thing? What's the other? Okay,
So let me start. I actually prefer this conversation if I can flip over
to war consciousness. War consciousness is this mind set that you and I are
different. Somebody wins, somebody loses. There's somebody's up, somebody's down,
somebody's right, somebody's wrong. This duality, gotcha. Love consciousness is when
we go beyond the duality and we go into a multi dimensional understanding of how
things work. And that's the mindset of Actually you and I are parts of
the whole. We compliment one another, gotcha, we work together. One
is competition, the other is complementarity. So it's like oil and water,
or like puzzle pieces. Yes, look at you, Karen with the perfect
imagery, frying out loud. That's awesome. Okay. So basically what I'm
hearing you say is the need to win or compete against each other is what
we're living in right now. That's war consciousness, yes, versus love,
which is more about let's uplift each other and let's all win together because we
are just there's abundance, there's no we're not having to live in what's the
term scarcity? Thank you? And will I would even maybe add to that
you're saying competing against one another, but even we compete against ourselves. I
did this. Now this one has to be better. Now, this has
to be better, and I've got to be stronger and faster than last time.
And you can never just enjoy what you're in, you know, correct?
Correct, Karen? I love it because what I was going to point
out was exactly that it's a consciousness. It's not about somebody out there,
It's about you and here your head, your heart, your cognitive dissonance is
your war consciousness. You me, every individual on the planet is toggling in
and out of this war consciousness and this love consciousness all day. Law.
Now, some of us are so in war consciousness we don't even know that
left consciousness exists. And that's problematic, obviously. And then if you're in
love consciousness, basically you've elevated to a place where war consciousness is no longer
an actual equal to love consciousness. It becomes subordinate. And as it becomes
subordinate, it is just it just becomes polarity or complementarity. It's no longer
anything but tactical, practical. What do we do next? How do we
get there? Do we turn left or right? So, obviously as a
whole I would say probably the whole world, but specifically the United States,
because that's where we're sitting in right now, very much in war consciousness,
because as you and Karen so eloquently said, we are at odds with ourselves
and in competition with ourselves. Does and I kind of know what your answer
is going to be, But if we change our war consciousness individually to a
love consciousness, do you feel Karen and I change and now the whole world
is going to change with us? Or is there like there has to be
a tipping point, right? I mean, we have two hundred plus years
of this country being what it is, thinking the way we are. Everyone
talks about the fact that capitalism, right, that the need for more is
what has made the country what it is. So how how can we as
a country actually adopt love consciousness and yet continue to prosper in the way we
have for the last two hundred plus years. Okay, that's a really great
question. So that is a multi level question, So I'm going to try
and pick it apart, one level at a time in order to answer that.
First off, Yes, if you shift out of war consciousness into love
consciousness as an individual, your health, your relationships, your business, everything
you do out in the outside world will improve. That's kind of obvious because
your mind, your mind influences your heart, influences your actions, influences your
agency in the world, and that all comes back to you. So that's
like, if you get rid of that cognitive dissonance and replace it with the
love consciousness, now you were leaning into. Yes, But if some of
us do it, what about the rest of us. And with that,
yes, there is a point of what I call in the book pure positive
critical mass. Now we tend to think from this left brain lockdown again another
one of my terms that and it's kind of that petty brain bean counter mindset
that, oh, in order to have critical mass or shift, we need
fifty one percent of everybody to do it, then we'll shift. That's not
actually true. You can have seven or eight percent of a group do something
that influences the rest of the group, especially if it's an upgrade. And
this is exactly what we're talking about. We're talking about an upgrade. Now
I don't personally know if it's seven percent or eight percent, but I know
we don't need fifty one percent. I'm quite confident on that sure. So
because you want to think about that in terms of consciousness, not in terms
of counting beans. When it comes to the consciousness, to quote Einstein for
example, no problem was solved at the level of consciousness that it was created.
So basically it's like you can solve your twelve year old's child's problems because
you see things from a higher level of awareness. You know, you have
the experience, you have the age and you have a higher level of awareness,
so it's easy. So this is also what I'm talking about, is
that when you get certain amount of people that elevate, then they educate others
by modeling the model of what it means. And everybody's really actually fundamentally interested
in becoming love conscious. Why because the number one low hanging fruit of becoming
love conscious is you get to be happy. And so it's like, okay,
why not, let's just try now. Third part of the question was
you know, you went into the history of capitalism and all the great stuff
that humans can do through capitalism, YadA YadA. Well yes, but then
again it's there's a shift in how we're doing business because there's a shift in
who we're being. We actually don't need to dump toxic chemicals into the rivers
in order to save money so that we can have lots and lots of cheap
yoga pants available on Amazon. It's really not needed. There's so much more
that we can do with our brain power, our heart power. And again
goes back to the thing when you raise your consciousness. And if we get
enough leaders which is why I'm a leadership coach, if we can get enough
leaders to upgrade their consciousness. What will happen is we start to solve problems
differently from a different level. We don't know how we're going to solve the
economic problems or the ecological problems of the plan it yet, because we haven't
reached that critical mass where enough of us at the top are saying, okay,
let's do it somehow different from a different perspective. So let me just
clarify something very important. It's a dumping of the toxic chemicals in the river
that's not needed, not that you pants, right, because yoga pants are
very necessary. They're very needed. Yes, I agree, I'd like one
hundred percent. We do need yoga pants. But then we get into what
you talked about a little earlier. How many yoga pants do you need?
Only so many days in the year, and we have laundry, and there
are only so many there's a good time not to it. But okay,
you've convinced me moving from war consciousness to love consciousness is not only desired,
but it is important. We need to move in that direction. And it's
like the hundred monkeys, where you don't necessarily need everyone do it. You
just need a hundred monkeys to get to wash those sweet potatoes and eventually it'll
go spread across the entire universe. That's got me. How how does someone
shift their minds like we've been They read her book full disclosure. I read
your book, so I happen to know. However, there are thousands of
people who are listening to this right now who haven't had the opportunity yet to
read your book. So first and foremost absolutely go out and get the book,
flip the switch. But before they get that, give us a tease.
What is one or two ways that someone can actually make a shift in
their life right now to move in the direction of love consciousness? Okay,
so I do want to go just shameless. Two second pitch, thirty five
years of research starting out in social engineering, and ten years of boiling it
down so it's not academic but real and usable for anybody anywhere. It's divided
into three parts. Part one is about changing your knowledge of your mind how
things work. Part two is developing know how what are the things you can
actually do or try? And number three is where we bump you up into
a state of knowing that will happen once you've done Part one and Part two,
what I've plugged into in the book is the natural evolution of how a
human being evolves. In Part three, we plug into your higher cell.
And that's all along the way. And this is not a method methodology formula
style. What I'm putting out there is try these things and synchronicity will kick
in, the universe will show up for you. This is not a formula
that's man made. I'm just showing you and pointing to all of the little
pithy things you need to think about and do so that you can tap into
your own synchronicity, your own personal evolution, and find your own higher self.
This is universal. This is the MC squared of how you get there,
and it just snowballs in of itself. Right. It's once it starts,
it gets bigger and bigger the more you open up to it and all
that kind of stuff, and that exact sense, because once you start appreciating
the small, like the little winds, and you're focusing on that, you're
not focusing on what you want. You're focusing on and look what already happened,
and you're starting to feel that abundon. You're bringing more in more abundance
it's great. Yes, yes. And one of the nice things about your
book is that it's those sections. They're really digestible. It's not right.
It's not like this dissertation that you sit there and you read for freaking three
months. They're bite sized chunks that you can just read in the different sections
in very short amount of time and really internalize it really nicely. So thank
you, Because someone like me, who doesn't have a really good, good
attention span, it's perfect. It's a perfect, perfect book for me.
Yeah. I took all of the academic, pedantic stuff. I chewed it
up like a mama bird, and then I spit it back out in that
little book. Fifty two chapters, fifty two weeks of the year. You
can do it, Yep, it's super easy. Now we're just getting started.
We've got a lot to talk about in terms of consciousness and love,
consciousness and war and how we flip our switch and all that kind of stuff.
But before we continue, I want to take a quick break so that
we can continue the conversation uninterrupted. When we come back, we'll dive deeper
into these consciousnesses and then possibly get some practical ways to break free from our
social constructs. We'll be right back right after the avestadies. Hey, Karen,
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I do too. It's fun. You need to do them more often.
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Keep up the good work. Ah, I love that. Kelsey seven seven
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Welcome back to the Skeptic Metaphysicians. We are talking to doctor Terry Badar,
who is a consciousness expert. I love that title. I want to
be a consciousness expert, maybe sometime in the future. But in the meantime
we have experts like doctor Terry who are here to tell us how to move
from war consciousness, which is where we've been stuck for so long, into
love consciousness, which is actually going to pave the roads to making us happier
people and more prone to synchronicities, which I really psyched about. And it
just sounds so nice. It does sound ice, It does sound nice.
Right before we left, we talked about your book and how digestible the sections
were, and how wonderful the way that you all out. There's no scientific
jargon or mumbo jumbo. It's very much for the lay person. So first
and foremost, thank you for writing a book specifically for me. Secondly,
we did touch on the social constructs that are might possibly holding us back.
Can you give us some practical ways that we might be able to break free
from some of these social constructs? Is actually quite simple, I like simple.
All we have, Yeah, all we have to do is really identify
them. So a basic social construct there, I'm gonna give you two that
are ubiquitous and destructive that pretty much anybody listening is going to identify with and
be like, yeah, I suffer from that. So the first one is
your happiness formula. Your happiness formula is a lie. Okay, The happiness
formula goes like this, Once I get the right house, the right spouse,
I drive the right car, or get the right dress size or the
right hair color, or I get my kids into the right school, or
I just redo the kitchen, or I get or this thing or that thing,
or once once somebody loves me enough to do X, then then I
will be happy. So the actual structure is a lie. No amount of
adding up stuff on one side of the equation will ever equal happiness. That's
not how it works. Happiness is a state of being that you choose to
cultivate within yourself. So the happiness formula is a lie. And marketing and
commerce dig into that construct inside you and they use it at nauseum to make
you buy stuff that you do not need. I don't know. I like
my stuff. I doesn't make it happy. It makes my stuff makes me
happy for a minute, But like when you first get it and you're really
happy, and then you're like man, but then if you get enough stuff,
you're happy. You a lot right now, But you're always wanting more
stuff. But then you get more stuff and then you begin falls through it
caring. You're ruining my social construct here. That's the point, isn't it
right? Exactly? The which also feeds in these two are like the biggest
ones that most people will suffer from. And that's the sickness of more.
The sickness more, which was Karen was already leading into it, was yeah,
but you got the next thing next. There's never enough, but there's
not enough. I have to accumulate stuff. I have to accumulate wealth,
and like do we have enough pickles? Like we have to more? Yes?
Always. So all of this sickness of more, this constant grasping,
what does that do to us? Well, it keeps us in a state
of scarcity and fear and lack and the sickness of more. Some people call
it poverty consciousness. I don't like that because it's not a consciousness. It's
a construct. And so it just keeps us grasping and grasping for more which
is out there, and it keeps us distracted from what's in here. That's
so funny because people just get so burdened with stuff and then you want to
get rid of your stuff because there's just so much stuff. It's too much
stuff. It's like there's stuff here and stuff there, and it drives you
know, got to get rid of the stuff. Reminds me of do you
want more stuff? George Carlin? Bit right, yeah, right, you
help the place to put your stuff. Both like the opposite of laundry,
Like, no matter how much you do the laundry, it's always going to
be there. There's always gonna be more. My laundry basket is emptied.
Always look at this gone magic. That's because you have magic ELPs I do,
I do, and the help is called Karen. So I just want
to get rid of all the clothes more line, that's a that's a skeptic
physicians after dark. Let's not go to that rabbit hole right now. But
it is, it's like the opposite. I'm trying to get rid of all
this stuff and it's piling up, and meanwhile, which are actually wanting is
more stuff, but it's just the other stuff. The way you say is
perfect, right, we've taught we've heard it before, that happiness comes from
within, not from without. And yet we to us that's just word mom,
want, want, want, right, So how do we get cure
for the more sickness. It's not for the faint hearted as at today,
because it is work. It's not just going to come and bite you.
You do actually have to do some stuff, not the kind of stuff you
buy. Yeah, there's the rem Okay, yeah, you do actually have
to work at it. You have to buy the book, you have to
read the book, you have to think about the book. It's like I've
done as much as I possibly can to enable this process. Obviously, I
challenge my clients CEOs and heads of hr and executives and all that. I
challenge them every step of the way based on the book, and they come
to me with questions. So they have my support and my accountability because they
know that they're going to see me in two weeks and if they didn't do
anything, they're going to feel funny about it, unless at which point they
could say that my dog ate my work. Right, So mm hmm.
But you do actually have to do that, and I find that certain individuals
have really gotten a lot out of it. Simply buy, read a little
ponder, try a few things, read a little ponderry, try a few
things. There's a cycle that I always give to my clients which is act,
evaluate, learn, adjust. So you do a little bit, you
evaluate, what did you learn from it, adjust, and then act again.
So that is actually how we live life. So if you're willing to
make a little bit of effort, read chapters that are two pages long,
and then think about it, take it with you. Ask yourself the question,
how does that thing show up in my life? How does that construct
show up? Where do I see it? If you start to really look
at it, you start to be like, oh my god, this is
disgusting. It's everywhere. How do I get it out? So? What
else is in the book? What did she say in part two? How
do I get rid of it? Right? So there is a lot that
you can just try, and there's no big science about it. Right,
It's important two things to note. One is the book is not a novel.
You're not supposed to sit down and read it cover to cover in one
sitting right. Like you said, you got to take it in small bites
and process it before you move forward to the next one. The second,
and most importantly, the people that you are talking to about this kind of
stuff you just said it. They're CEOs of companies. These are people who
are in charge of the actual constructs that we are talking about here, right,
the companies that are asking you to buy more and to take more and
things like that. So a I feel encouraged that there are actually are CEOs
that are moving in this direction, so woo, thank goodness. But b
if CEOs can do this and they're stuck in this social construct of more than
anybody can do it, right, absolutely, absolutely, Actually it's a lot
easier for the ordinary person to do it because they don't have to go around
and they don't have to turn around and change the company culture after what they
just learned, right, And I like that it's those bite sized pieces because
when you think about, gosh, I've got to think of this way,
stop buy and stuff, it's overwhelming. Just to try to do it all
at once, everyone would fail that. So I like how you've broken it
down to like a weekly thing that you can look at and digest and put
to use. Did I mention she wrote it for me? All right?
So then that's the case. Can you give us an example some examples of
some folks that have actually taken these the words that they got from your book
and made a difference in their life. All of my clients like, what
are you looking for? Like, because it's endless, whether it's family relationships,
negotiation styles, well, like someone who might have used your followed your
guidance and they change their lives because of it. Like some success stories.
Okay, So I had one client. He showed up with this war consciousness,
very simple, with this sense of they're out to get me, somebody's
out to get me. There's always somebody out to get me, right,
And he was startup ten years old, ten year old, startup in the
medical industry. I'm from Boston, so there's all these like really nerdy things
going on, which is wonderful, and he just had always the sense and
it made him angry. It was messing with his relationships, it was messing
with how he would negotiate with people. It was messing with all of that.
And so we worked together, we broke down some of the constructs are
around that. We looked into his inner narratives because there's also that That's another
thing we talk about in the book. Thoughts are things kind of thing like
what you think about will come about how are you thinking? Choose your thoughts
wisely, some very simple ways of changing the way you show up? What
words are you using? All of these self chorrating methodologies, And over time
he was able to feel good about himself. And then he was able to
discern rather than judge. That's another chapter, discernment over judgment. So instead
of judging everybody and being all emotionally attached about what's happening with them and are
they like, how are they seeing me, he was able to discert,
oh, actually that person did X, Y and zie. They are actually
out to get me, But ninety five percent of all the other people are
not. And these twenty percent over here of the ninety five are actually here
to help me, and I've been not letting them in. And so he
started to let them in, and all of his relationships at work at home
changed. His son, with whom he was a strained, the relationship was
healed. His wife was like, oh my god, please never stop seeing
doctor Terry, because I just love who you've become. You're just like so
nice and so fun to be around. So that's what happens naturally, And
all we do with the book is point out lots of things that you can
think about and try so. And you'll notice that in my success story,
I didn't talk about how he went on to make boatloads of money. It
was his inner journey. It was his happiness factor that went sky high.
It was his relationships that improved, his negotiation style changed. Well, what
do you think that led to as he was going into an IPO, even
beyond the success that ultimately this would all lead to financially, Just that feeling
of happiness will cause you to feel more successful, even if the financial part
isn't necessarily part of it, right, Yeah, And that feeling is the
basis for what happens in the outside world. So we're in a topic of
your book. In the book, you explore the connection of the relationship between
our physical brains, our conscious mind, and our celestial spirit. Tell us
a little bit. How are they related. Well, I mean it depends
on how we have been known to go really far. So feel free to
go as far as you feel comfortable. Okay, Well for starters, just
for the listeners. Your brain is the hardware, okay that, and then
your mind is the software. So we want to know now, the great
thing about the human mind or the mind in general, is that it can
shape the physical. In brain science, we call that neuroplasticity. So if
you think certain thoughts, it will create certain peptide pathways that then become ingrained,
and those become patterns and habits and behaviors. So what you think about
comes about in that way. So that is a really important part of the
book is understanding your software versus your hardware. Now, obviously, if your
hardware is ill, meaning it's all rusted out because you eat bad food and
don't sleep well, you might want to address that too. So one of
the chapters is make your body a great place to live. You do have
to take care of the physical as well. It's not just a one.
You can't just think your way to the solution or own your way to it
not going to happen. Okay, So that's important. Now when we go
into the third part of the book, we introduce the Daemon. The Daemon
is your higher sell. It is your connectivity to the greater mind and that
allows wonderful things to happen. In my private practice where I'm not working for
corporations, but I work a lot with social entrepreneurs that stay with me for
long periods of time, and who are blazing amazing trails. Those people naturally
become precog or have these peak experiences because they've gotten rid of so much of
the social constructs holding them back. They've tried and experimented with all the things
in the second part of the book, and then they get to the third
part of the evolution, which is tapping into your daemon. And I love
that term. It's the ancient Greek term for your higher self, which is
like sells like diamond. And I think that's just wonderful because it's so rich,
and it's also like, think of it like a crystal that's bringing down
the downloads. And because I have a CEO who dreampt his the VC funding
before it happened and before he met the VC. Wow, So he was
just walking into his own movie when he went to the meeting. That's kind
of cool. It's kind of a cool way to put it. Yeah,
walk it into your own movie. That's pretty awesome. Okay, So then
if we all put all of these things into effect, into action, how
what do you foresee for humanity? How is that going to change us as
a whole? We are shifting I work in business a lot. My next
book will be Healing the Broken Business Model, where I talk a lot about
this question. In the very end of the book, I talk about natural
economics. So we have a pyramidal extraction exploitation model of capitalism that has been
around for a very long time. It is reaching end of term. It
can no longer sustain itself. There are too many there's too much extraction going
up at the top and nothing left to extract from at the bottom, whether
it's planet or people that we like to exploit and squeeze and not pay correctly
and not give them health insurance and all that good stuff. So that pyramidal
model is not sustainable. There is a model that's coming about, which is
a web model where you have all of these clusters where value is being added.
It's constellation fashion. I have clients that are already doing this and that
is their business model, where we add value in small units communities, different
places all over the world, and these communities are interconnected to one another,
just like you and I or you two and I are on this podcast,
and then the listeners will be listening. We're creating value in these little pods
and it's going all over the world in these little webs. So if you
think of the planet, imagine the Earth, and that each of these value
pods are these little golden lights. And if you start to like a spider,
make all of these strings that attach all of these golden little lights,
you cover the planet with golden light. That is how economic are going to
work as well. We are going to add value first and monetize second.
I'm not sure if I'm following completely. However, there is a model in
podcasting currently called value for value, which means people listening to your show can
actually donate a certain amount of money to you as a way of giving back
the energy exchange something along those lines. Is that kind of what you're talking
about a little bit a little bit. So in love consciousness, when we
move into love consciousness, one plus one starts to equal three because we add
value. Like in business we have synergy, where the outcome is greater than
the sum of the parts. So the more one of the more you can
love. But the more you love, the more you create love, the
more you create structures for love, the more you create the ability for other
people to love. In there's a see in war consciousness, one plus one
equals two. It's always duality, and it's transactional. You me, you
versus me, us versus them. Somebody wins, somebody loses. When we
move into a model of where it's about comprehending and being complementary to one another
and cooperating with one another, there's added value. This is synergy as we
employ it in business, there's added value. You're not siloing things out.
That added value is really hard to capture, contain and control because it's in
love consciousness. Capture containing control are more conscious functions. Within love consciousness,
we don't try to capture, contain and control. We create value. Everything
in nature does that, and these economic models are more about creating value and
not confusing value with money. Value is what it's how you're serving someone.
Okay, going back to something you said little bit earlier, where you were
facilitating someone else to succeed or have value. Is it like the whole rising
tide raises all ships kind of mentality or and I'm going to edit this out
for in a second, but Karen, I'm thinking this is like a model
for ethereal. We're building something that we're bringing a lot of other people who
are doing what we're doing to the table, providing a platform for them to
get their message out to as many people as possible. So that way we're
adding providing value to the people that are coming on as content collaborators, but
they're also adding value to the people who are listening or watching in the averyonees
learning and growing together. So basically what you're saying is, Karen, we're
already in love consciousness and we had no idea. Yeah. I'm an art
major, so it's actually quite natural. Yeah, it's actually quite natural.
That's how communities work, That's how households work. You know, if you
read a book like Better Capitalism or if the stock market crashes tomorrow, we're
all poor. Yes, yes we are. I think I understand. So
a lot of this stuff that you talk about is in the book, but
there's so more to you than just the book. You have a website,
you have actually you have a community with the love Conscious community where people can
actually join and be part of this love conscious community, and you have consciousness
conversations, and you have all these kinds of things that come along with it,
including if I saw I correctly you are? Is there a headspace guided
meditation series from you coming sometimes future something maybe Actually, Yes, I have
loveconscious Human dot com and we're moving away from the membership and we're moving into
giving it away. So that's our next We're migrating into giving it away.
So we were going to be giving away audios of cultivating joy sessions that we
had with other people and all that they brought to the thing. I'm going
to be putting out Love Conscious Human podcast where I'm interviewing executives about how this
love conscious thing actually serves them. Then I'm going to be creating Flip your
Switch Guide podcast, which is where readers like you will can come and ask
me any question about a chapter and we can talk about that chapter. We
record it for anybody who's also reading the book. That becomes a support because
you're going to ask the kind of questions that somebody else might ask about,
well what do I need to know here about this particular chapter, and that
becomes a support system for anybody reading the book. I'm really trying hard to
give it away. Wow, it's not typical that you hear that that people
are giving it away. But based on and your model, the value model,
then the more you give away, the more that the universe will give
back to you. That's like what you're talking about here makes perfect sense.
Now, I totally get it now, all right. If someone wanted to
learn more about you or love Conscious, or even purchase the book Flip the
Switch, what's the best place for them to start Flip your switch? A
User's Guide to a Whole New Mind is on Amazon. It's on Barnes and
Noble and pretty much anywhere you would buy a book online. First, then
you can find me as a leadership coach. I'm on White Lilycoaching dot Com,
which is White Lily like the Flower. My other website, Loveconscious Human
dot Com is where I'm trying to give it all away. And I also
have a YouTube and I'm on and then I have so that's Love Conscious Human
YouTube. I have White Lily YouTube as well. Leadership I have doctor Terry
Bedar one on Instagram where I follow you guys like crazy. I know,
and I thank you for that. I love your stuff. And that's pretty
much it. I mean, you can find me on Facebook. I'm not
very active on Facebook. I guess that's most of it. Oh in LinkedIn
doctor Terry Bedar. Okay, well we're going to add direct links to all
that all the stuff you just We're going to add direct links to our show
notes, so you can go to a skepticmantavision dot com, go to her
episode page. You'll see all the links laid in there directly. If you
need to get in touch with doctor Terry, you'll have everything you need right
in your fingertips. So doctor Terry, thank you so much. This has
been super eye opening and I'm going to i know, have to fight Karen
for my copy of Flip to Switch. So we really appreciate you coming on
sharing your expertise with us, and hopefully we'll see you on your podcast when
now you're answering all my questions because I'm gonna have a lot of career and
hopefully lots of switches will be flipmitted. Yes here, tire here, right
from your your mouth to God's ear. Right, that's what they said.
So all right, doctor Terry, thanks so much for coming on. Thank
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