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It's just like the old radio show
with the addibility to swear a lot from

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a mac of All Trade studio in
Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dodge J.

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Brawn. It's Billified, the Bill
Moran Podcast. Well, hello and

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welcome. I jumped my own gun. You did. I jumped my own

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gun. He didn't. Rookie post. Rookie moves. That's the thing.

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Rookie moves the post of my own
Dan excited that I'm here, I mean

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for me, thanks for getting your
pot on day. You know why,

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because Danny's back from Austin and Doug
Phelps this year after seeing all over social

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media Doug doing jello shots and hugging
trees and he's an hugger one guy in

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Rochester. He's got the yellow shots
and we're gonna do one and then we're

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gonna hit the ball on the course
and then we're gonna wake up later with

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the next goose. That's just from
the girls were hugging me and me.

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You know last week you were here
and it was my birthday, yes,

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and then somebody had sent a gift
and it was sent here to the studio

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and I come in to a note
hanging on the door from the post office

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saying business has been closed consistently.
We've tried to deliver three times, but

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I usually leave like somewhere between eleven
and one. And I don't know when

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the because sometimes it depends on It's
never the same delivery person for the post

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office here. Sometimes I'll see them
here like eight thirty in the morning,

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and other times not. But anyway, I got a gift. What is

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it? Has you in mind?
Mister Phelps? Should I guess? Yeah?

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Is it bigger than a breadbox?
Yes? Uh? Do most households

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have these? Uh? They did? Did? Yes? Is it a

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fire alarm? It is not a
DVD player to watch your DVD? How

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aw fucking that? How about that? And the return addresses from m Hunt

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so I so, Mike and penhouse
letters some of the wow cow about that?

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Oh my gosh, I did not
look at I I quick through that

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today, but I was afraid people
would see the window. February nineteen eighty

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seven, Baby A tenth grade the
magazine of Sexual. Oh man, I

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was jerking off so much back then. Knee Cartilitz was coming on. That's

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what was happening. Pow wow,
I get the shakes right now. I

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was so hung over, I go
to the bathroom and rub one out.

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But how funny is that a DVD
player and a penhow Because I had said

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I always liked the Penthouse letters.
Penhouse letters were the thing for me when

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I was a kid. Wow,
I enjoyed reading and man or a picture

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person myself. I got the picture
too. Well. You forget how much

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hair there wasn't in the eighties.
But not bad, not not not yeah,

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but not out of control like you
know, seventies was like whoa man?

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I was watching like a video today
of there was some video today of

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somebody who goes around and helps people
out like it's an over if their yard

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has overgrown, they go and they
do it for free, and they go

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through and and I mean, that's
what it looks like. In the seventies

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you needed a long I mean,
just a weed whacker. To When did

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the term man escape start? You
think nineties? Yeah, I think,

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I know. I'm gonna say only
two thousands when metrosexual was a thing.

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Metrosexual and I think that porn had
a lot to do with all of it.

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Yeah, yeah, probably take us
down look at ducks going down memory

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lane. Right there. Money for
breast cancer. Now I'm looking at the

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damn looking to put house letters.
I'm I'm a mess. I'm just all

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over the place. You know what. I think it's a theme here.

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You're helping out women. That's a
nice thing, you know. As we

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hit some survivors yesterday, some wonderful
people. That's great. How did uh

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yeah, look at that. It's
it's called simply red too, simply red

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R E D R E A D
No, no, no. The last

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thing y R E D for a
redhead. Well my finger is still read

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from doing forty to fifty jellow shots
yesterday. Wow. Yeah, we had

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making them or eating them, eating
them? I made them last week?

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You ate fifty jello shots? I
think the John Bottom. How are you

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still alive? Oh my god?
Because every hole you go to like you're

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like, hey, you want a
jello shot? Like yeah, I like,

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what do you do one with us? Then you go to the next

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Let you made all these yellow shots, ye too, A couple hundred a

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night. Yeah, and then I
hit a friend with a walk in cooler,

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so and make them Tuesday, wake
up Wednesday, take him the cooler

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then yeah, dravor l uber do
what I have to do, and I

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make more jellow shots jello shots.
Margaret, one of my helpers, came

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over Wednesday. I think we make
close to three hundred. Yeah, you

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and Margaret? How many did you
taste? You and Margaret at the top.

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You can't taste them till they're done. No, I know, but

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I mean one you were pulling out
before you delivered them. Didn't you have

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some? Ah? We had one
man some out, some and some out

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kind of thing. We didn't taste
until the day of the tournament. All

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right, all right, very little
help her? Did you have? We

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had lime, grape, strawberry,
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Last year somebody made them with instead
of vodka, they had grape with peanut

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butter whiskey. So oh yeah,
yeah pee, and that's pretty good.

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Peanut butter whiskey is uh now?
So did that still stay liquid? Yeah?

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I had to stay liquidy. Didn't
they know it jelled? Yeah?

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Okay, because I'm just thinking the
alcohol there would be more alcohol with the

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peanut butter whiskey, and I guess
not nor maybe I'm wrong. Yeah,

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I didn't go over you know,
one cup jello one cup vodka or one

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cup boiling water. You put in
the jellow, then you put the vodka.

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Okay, I don't know. I
was you ever made jellow shots.

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I've never made jellow shot. The
desire to do it because I was doing

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him a box at the time,
like in Marco's Well why don't you do

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three? Like oh yeah three time
three the time? Yeah, so three

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cups lack of three boxes, three
cups water. Yeah, and just go.

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Yeah, I'm pouring him, she's
putting the tops on, and then

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we're transporting him into my refrigerator.
Takes it takes a bit. Yeah,

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I mean it's almost what they have
going on at Leo's, but without alcohol,

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the same kind of thing. Remember
we walked through there. It was

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very great. Doug Phelps's shots,
everybody, Oh gosh, we had a

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lot of fun. Yesterday Samon Creek
was great. The course. Last year

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I had a September twenty six.
That's only a little late. Yeah.

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So this year, the water,
the water, the weather was just so

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wonderful. I think I had twenty
eight teams. Only one team did you

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show up? But everybody had a
great time. A lot of pictures,

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videos, just good. I haven't
found the score cards. I don't know

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who won. Everybody's a winner.
How what did you say? Money wise?

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I don't a total until the because
I have the golf, yes,

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donations, I got my bowling tournament. Can you can you see what last

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year's total was? Yeah, thirty
six thirty six thousand. Well that was

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for ever everything combine. So you're
hoping to break that this year? I

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am yeah. How do you feel
after the golf tournament like you're on pace

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to break it? Or I'm just
so happy? Everybody has such a great

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time yesterday and people were hanging out
afterwards finishing with jello shots. Oh that's

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how we got rid of them.
Every five minutes. We had one bag

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with like sixty left. I'm like, I'm not taking this home, all

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right? Who wants a jello shot? And then I went to DJ and

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I thank everybody and then take pictures
and I'm like, oh my, we

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still got forty John, come on, we got to get rid of this

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bag and then do another one.
Yeah, gilt people into it, I

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mean twist their arms Monday afternoon.
But you know it's this is an odd

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week. I think a lot of
people take the week off leading up to

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Labor day, or at least a
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Danny was away in Austin, and
then when did you come back?

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Yesterday? Last night? Last night? Pump is flight ever they've always put

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you in these like puddle jumpers to
go back to Rochester. What were you're

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flying? Uh delta? Huh.
It's strange. My wife was like so

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much like crack, crampedon and pain. It was like because you're like basically

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in this like sardine can. That's
always great when you go from like the

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big plane which is like tons of
seating into the small the Rochester plane here.

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I never had that really unless it
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That's always the worst when your wife
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and I usually get like a pit
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fuck. Yeah. It's like you're
basically like the fly next to the

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window, like if thrust yourself against
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Sometimes bread out. I would like
I would volunteer to sit elsewhere because there

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would be the you know, the
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and I'd go, I'll just go
up here. I'll say, well that

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that happened the first flight on the
first on the first flight, on the

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way back, on the way back
from Austin to Detroit, there was like

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we were in rows of threes,
right and it was a huge plane,

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and there were two empty rows behind
us, fully empty. It's six empty

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seats. And the flight attended goes
to the woman next to us was this

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young girl and goes, man,
you know, we got extra seats over

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here there, completely empty? Would
you like to take one of those?

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Like looking at me and my wife
smack damn next to each other. Oh

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no, I'm good, thank you. I'm like, are you effing kidding

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me? Right now, there's two
empty I'll take the empty seats, yeah,

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you know, like what's the And
then she keeps on walking. I

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wait, wait a minute, I'll
take the empty seats, Like what's the

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problem. But like this girl like, no, you're I'm more comfortable sitting

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next to two strangers than I am
by myself in two like empty roses seats.

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Well, you know that's what people
are stupid or something, or they

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or they felt they felt just the
magnetism of you. I guess that's what

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it was. Yeah, it was
a Dan sandwich on that plane. You

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know, Danny had sent me a
bunch of notes from things from his trip,

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and one since you were doing fifty
jello shots yesterday, dog, which

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I think is some kind of frat
house record, can't I can't imagine.

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No, no, wait a minute, hold on, there's a couple of

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teams. What do you mean a
couple of teams that did fit more than

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fifty but teams. It's four people. They're all No, they just as

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much as I did. I've got
it, Mark Lloyd, Look at how

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Look at howts gotta jump right?
Hey man? People there, uh his

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friend Bobby Jeff. They've got three
groups. Were they those big chops I

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saw, yeah, the big guys. Oh yeah yeah. And there's tight

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shirts. That's I saw him.
I saw on your Facebook. Yeah.

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I put them all together. Yeah, and uh just they'll just do one

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after the other without doubts. So
I'm not the only one. I had

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that much fun. Then we went
over to Locklands and we oh Man a

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few more and then I think I
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Yeah, Well, what time do
you start? I got picked up at

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seven seven am? What time do
you start? What time is the first

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jellow shot? When did your tee
off? We had the first jello shot

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on the way out Facebook five,
and then we got one and we got

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there. Yeah, and then everybody's
here, Okay, let's do a jello

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shot for today, and then we're
setting up like you should probably do a

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jellow shot right now, relaxing.
So this was before nine o'clock in the

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morning. Oh yeah, oh yeah, but you're for twelve hours. Yeah,

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I mean, hey, that's like
a nurse to shift at. You

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have r right. The sacrifices,
the beer, the jello shots. Of

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food was phenomenal for Forest Hill.
They donated a time I had made doubled

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eggs and mini bote bites, but
they donated stuff mushrooms. Uh, how

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do we pronounce it? Copla span
of copa spent couple had mini which is

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like with philo dough, right,
and it's really thin and spinache in the

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side of it. They come diagonally. Gotta remember that so your wife doesn't

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you know, you know, you
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Anybody turned into a drunk Popeye.
No, no, no, no,

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I'm just saying, like, you
know, j jellos muscle finish, get

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all. Oh that fight. Everybody's
very respectful. Yeah, it's a great

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feeling. Arm must arm musty contest
breaks out at the seventeenth hole. Well,

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Chris English. She sent me a
video. She goes, do you

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remember this? Don't you love when
you get that? Hey man? We

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were singing on the way home.
Uh huh and uh, I'd like a

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little kid that you remember the slushy
machine and you just have a blue or

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great purple cherry tongue. And I'm
talking my tongue is bright red from all

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the jello shots. And I'm just
laughing at my ass off today and just

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all the pictures and the people texting
in and sending these stuff. It's just

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it's a good group one of people. You did it nice. That's a

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nice thing, and it makes for
I think, an overall better community.

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I really do think. Really ahead
well, Danny, just in terms I

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said life lesson about drinking overheard in
a hotel elevator. That's so she sent

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me as a note. So I'm
thinking, is I enjoy drinking like that?

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Has been my poison for the better
part of I don't know, thirty

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eight years. I've enjoyed drinking,
and you did fifty jellow shots yesterday.

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Let me just keep saying fifty.
And I think, by the way,

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you lost count around fiftieth. So
you know what, I'm gonna text my

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helper down, Allen Xander, whoever
known for over thirty years her in her

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husband. Yeah, and I'm gonna
ask her. You need to see,

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Now, that's the scorecard I want
to see. I don't give a shit

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about your golf score. I want
to see the the jellow shot. We

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just call her. We can call
her, yeah, we can go on.

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We'll call her next set and find
out what the thing is. But

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Danny, what is the life lesson
that you overheard in an elevator about drinking?

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So my wife and I were coming
back. We had our awards dinners

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for work, right and I made
club and so so everybody else who was

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there. So we have this huge
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We go on the sixth Street Austin. Sixth Street is like Broadway in Nashville.

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It through all the live music is
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so we decided to head back to
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to the hotel and we get to
the elevator. There's this older couple there,

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and the gentleman, of course,
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and a shirt, no tie either. They had come they were coming back

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from a wedding or whatnot, and
his wife's all dolled up and they're probably

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in their sixties. And I go
to hold the elevator and he goes to

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hold the elevator at the same time, and I'm like, after you,

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no, after you. After It
was one of those boy very funny,

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Okay, go chuckole going the elevator. So they stand to one side of

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the elevator and my wife and I
stand to the other, and you know,

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we get quiet about two or three
floors up. We're on the thirty

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sixth floor. Two or three floors
up. He looks at it goes,

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well, I remembered your rule from
tonight. She goes, yeah, I

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noticed you didn't have that last drink. What was that rule? She asked

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him. He goes, every time
you finished a drink and you want to

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know another one, ask yourself,
why did I have that last drink?

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Oh Jesus Christ, I had it
to have fun. And here's what she

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said. She goes, yeah,
because you left a lot of a lot

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of Scotch in that class. That
was a pretty expensive way to say no.

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Yeah. And I'm thinking to myself, huh, if I had a

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drinking problem, or if I were
having should I ask? But I've never

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been wanted to, Like I don't
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But like if I would ask myself, yeah, no, I know.

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I'm just saying in case anybody's wondering, But in all seriousness, I'm like,

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maybe that's a good question to ask
yourself. After why did I have

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that drink? Just because us for
a moment? Why did I have that

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drinks? That's one answer. But
he it sounded like it was one of

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those like lessons that they had either
come out of counseling or talking about it,

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Like he may have had too much
to drink in the past, but

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he didn't. He wasn't stumbling over
himself. He looked like a very distinguished

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man. They were very you know, just they sound like to me quitters,

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Yeah, obvious, gonna say bores. I'm just gonna say bors.

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You say titters. You don't have
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an alcoholic. I mean there's people
just drink all day long. Yeah,

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there's functioning alcoholics. I think.
I mean that's a that's a fair thing.

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You know, why did I have
that first drink? I think a

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lot of times? Or why do
I have the last drink or the last

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three? A lot of times it's
social, right, you would have it

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for social reasons. And then socially
it just felt good and I felt a

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little looser, and so then I
had it. And then sometimes you get

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I get to a point where I
know that I either stop right now or

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it's going to be a long night. And I can feel that I know

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where that point is. That's where
my wife was twenty minutes earlier. Yeah,

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So for dessert we have We were
eating at this place called Garrison's at

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the Fairmount Hotel and it's like it's
expensive dinner, and they go, okay,

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now for dessert, what would you
like? Can they hand you the

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menu and you can order desserts who
flays or whatever? Or you can flip

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the card over and they have dessert
drinks. So I ordered some dessert wine

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because I never really drank dessert wine
before. We're way too sweet for me.

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But it really is. I found
that out and expensive to pay.

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And my wife goes for the flight
of whiskey. Wow, And I'm like,

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who's got more balls in this relation? Yeah? Everybody, everybody at

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the tables looking at the two of
us like, all right, who's who's

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the woman? Well, no,
no, no, no, that's not

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nice because women could shoot whiskey.
Yeah, but I was drinking dessert wines.

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She was drinking whiskey. Well yeah, But I had a feeling that

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like that might not have been the
smartest idea, so I could. I

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thought about it, and I'm like, I don't want it with your boss.

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Yeah, do you worry about either
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I don't. I don't never speak
for her or worried about her. For

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me. I didn't want to,
like, you know, all of a

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sudden, thanks Bill for my boss's
name is Bill. Thanks Bill for the

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great experience. I didn't want to
go. He wouldn't have cared, But

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you still don't want to put that
perception out there. Yeah. And she

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had the three like you know,
flights of alco, of of of of

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pretty good bourbon, three different prettyferent
kinds. And when we get down the

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sixth Street in the and we're watching
this band play, which was pretty good.

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She's like, we gotta go.
Do you mean we're just getting warmed

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up here? It's only nine o'clock. We gotta go. It's not a

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clock up we have, but it's
ten o'clock back home. Yeah, but

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so it's not o'clock here. When
does that ever start? We have to

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go, like you sure, yeah, I'm not feeling well. Okay,

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So we walk back to the hanging
on a second. I got a question

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for you. Do you go through
this real debate thing? Is? Why?

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No? No, I'm just yeah, telling a story, all right,

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But I go if she says it, I might go, oh,

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man, are you sure you're all
right? Like maybe you need water,

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you need to sit down, but
it looks like try to stay. And

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then if she says no, I
really gotta go. Go. Okay.

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She said that the whiskey had hit
her and that she was about to cross

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that threshold where there was no return. She said, yeah, And it

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was funny because then that was she
told me this after I like, when

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I hit the no return those guy, you know what I feel like,

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I feel like I'm in I feel
like apology again. You know, I

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got the flex capas and I'm fucking
tearing down whoa. I feel like I

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think she wasn't drunk, but she
had crossed that line of ye okay,

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buzzed and I'm gonna turn into I'm
gonna lose my inhibitions. And she told

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me this after we watched that couple
give that life lesson in the elevator.

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In a way, it was kind
of the same things. She goes,

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I know my limit, Yeah,
and that's it. I'm like, okay,

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so we watched Family Guy or what
I will tell you that. I'm

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way more over the past couple of
months conscious of that myself and I have.

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I went out for fair Poort Music
Fest. I kept it pretty much

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under wraps. I had my son
with me Saturday night, but the place

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is packed ran into a bunch of
people when the most common thing I heard

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from people that I know was I
haven't seen you in a while. And

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my thing has been I've been just
staying here and working. And there's two

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reasons why I stay here in the
studio. I don't think I left here

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last night until like one one this
morning. And the reason is if I

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go home now, there's alcohol here
for whatever reason, I don't. I

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can turn it off here. If
I go home, it stretch out,

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you look comfortable. Maybe I'll take
that iPad onto the couch right because there's

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a couch and a couch wine,
or it'll be a glass of scotch.

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I know where the sacks are,
and I know where the snacks are,

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and I've been able to air fryer
if I want to. Yeah, and

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I've dropped weight and i've and I've
done it, and I just go.

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That's just the way chicken fingers will
be good. I think that self awareness

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in all areas is great. And
I also think once in a while,

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blown off some steam is fine.
Yeah, you know, it's cool.

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I mean, I like a gummy
on a Friday. That's what I like,

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a gummy on a Friday. But
I think it's a good light.

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That's a nice life lesson, and
it is. You know, I'm hoping

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these people were over sixty, because
you know, Keith Richards never ever been

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that. They may have been.
He may have been, he may have

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been seventy, but he looked like
one of those distincts you know, you

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would hanging out in the country club. You know, all right, we're

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ready. Yes, there's a go
to bed, I think, but he

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wasn't. They weren't slurring over themselves. They were very professional. They could

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use that term on a Saturday night. Uh huh. And I was like,

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oh, that was pretty cool.
You know, yes, guy knows

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his limit. Yes I can.
I can appreciate that. We will take

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a moment. I saw something on
Facebook today that that jumped out at me.

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So clearly it's someone who I've accepted
a friendship. I don't know this

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person. I may have crossed paths
with them in real life. The people

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on Facebook, you don't guess that. Yeah, when I was on Facebook,

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I don't even know two thousand of
these people. So but I want

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to read you what was written because
I don't know how to feel. And

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then there's like a follow up to
the story. But it's an interesting thing

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and there may be a life lesson
in it, just like Danny said.

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is hosting the party. Her pants
are now dry, Jay, I love

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you? Where do many shot for
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is fifty Jello shots? That's like
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Come on. Chris made Chris and
Margaret's Margaret cousins of Chris English.

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They did a car together and I
guess Chris turned quick left or right,

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and one of the coolerst fell on
Martin's and all wet. So, yeah,

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make a bad afternoon. It sounds
like she's had a great great uh

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great, Yeah right. She didn't
say I'm to have a bad attitude about

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that. No, everybody. Everybody
had a great And Jane Aska usually does

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a registration table to get called away
on business last minute to California, and

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he was so bummed. So I
did a registration table, thanked everybody,

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you know, to shake everybody's hand
and very good. Great. We had

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Buddy Mary Bar Mimosa Bar this year, prizes fifty fifty with the bars.

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Were they pre made or you made
him yourself? No, we made him

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there. Yeah, would buy the
jugs of whiskey or whiskey of Vecca.

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We had looks or horseradish to basketball
and keeps anybody wanted it nice and spicy.

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Yeah, and the mimosas. I
think we went through a couple of

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gallons. Wow, yeah, Wow. A lot of ladies come, a

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lot of the ladies. Teams had
a lot of great people dressed up.

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I think next year we're gonna have
to do best dress top three. Okay,

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you're talking about drinking so much.
Danny brings up the fact that he's

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in Austin and his wife has a
flight of whiskey, and I go,

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I need some whiskey, so I
had to get it. But I also

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the cameras weren't on earlier when I
revealed the gift that came, I'm going

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to be able to watch Doug's movie. Sent me DVD player. I can't

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wait to see the Night of the
Cat. And then they also sent me

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because I used to love Penthouse letters
when I was a kid, and I

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do have a thing for redheads,
simply red. Okay, there you go.

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I can't I want to read these. I was thinking, I go,

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that would be a great podcast if
you got women who would read these

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Penthouse letters. But I don't know, because Penthouse doesn't exist anymore, doesn't

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I don't think so. I don't
think hustlers. I wouldn't know. I

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know Playboy doesn't hustlers out Yeah,
yeah, but I wonder, and I

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think penthouses. You want me to
read him as Jen Wayne? While I

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was sitting there and she was unbuttoned
in her shirt and show me her bra

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and I got this erection and my
pants that went from Wyoming to Texas.

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You can read them like, yeah, distance dedication comes from Carlos the pool

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Boy. But I thought it would
be funny because you could almos want to

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get across the border. There's got
to be audio stuff all already, audio

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00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,519
erotica. I'm sure, sure,
I'm sure, but I go that would

407
00:26:57,519 --> 00:27:03,279
be something because there is something that
I think is lost with the uh this

408
00:27:03,519 --> 00:27:06,599
is this is gonna be the cheesiest
thing, one of the cheesiest things I

409
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:12,279
ever say. But I feel like
there's something lost with the uh prolification of

410
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,559
porn or the availability on everything everything, Do you know what I mean?

411
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:22,000
So there's no imagination where I think
imagination and that stimulation and what happens in

412
00:27:22,079 --> 00:27:26,680
your brain and all that the warm
up to the sex, like because you

413
00:27:26,759 --> 00:27:30,039
know what if I threw on a
U porn how if I ever did,

414
00:27:30,279 --> 00:27:33,079
I don't know that I ever would, but if I did, I don't

415
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,039
want to see all the prayer.
Let's just get down to the fucking mad

416
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:44,160
I don't I don't need the game. Let's go. But I like the

417
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,880
four play in real life. But
I'm just saying and but there's something about

418
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,240
with the letters where it's like,
you know, I sat there, I

419
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,720
was doing my laundry and I forgot
to wash my panties, so I didn't

420
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,960
wear any and she goes out she's
wearing it. She sounded like she was

421
00:27:56,039 --> 00:28:03,680
a transvestite. How about Sean Connery
reading that I was making out with her

422
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,039
and then I put my hand down
their pants. If she had a dick

423
00:28:10,079 --> 00:28:11,559
surprise she was? I think that
was the plot of the rock that he

424
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:19,240
was for twenty years. I gotta
find my favorite Sean Connery piece from sixty

425
00:28:19,279 --> 00:28:22,000
minutes. I got a teen minutes. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's either

426
00:28:22,079 --> 00:28:26,920
sixty minutes or Barbara Walters. Barbara
Walters where he slaps her and he explained

427
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,880
it Barbara, it was Barbara.
He slapped her on toungel, Barbara Walters,

428
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,400
his wife. But what he tries
to sell. Birded a whole thing

429
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:37,359
about that. Did you see that? No, I haven't seen anything everything

430
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,440
Bill Bird did. Okay, So
who slapped who? And why didn't he

431
00:28:40,599 --> 00:28:44,599
didn't slap his wife? Okay?
But he was from Scotland, yes,

432
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,960
and he was probably seventy then and
it was twenty years ago. Whatever they

433
00:28:49,599 --> 00:28:53,920
in those countries. Wife gets a
little mouthy, guys would give him a

434
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:59,279
slap. The happens here in America
too. You know, we tried to

435
00:28:59,359 --> 00:29:02,599
keep it on. It's usually illegal. Well do you know where the rule

436
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:07,160
of thumb comes from? Oh no, you mothed them that. I think

437
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,200
it was Ireland or Scotland that you
weren't allowed to hit your wife with a

438
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:15,480
stick bigger than your thumb. And
that's where rule thumb came. Yeah.

439
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,880
Wow, everything. Oh, I'll
be damned. Here's the number your penis,

440
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:22,720
sir, either one that's not bigger. I don't want to break or

441
00:29:22,839 --> 00:29:26,839
draw with Mike Peeners. I want
so, he was explained by Walters.

442
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,480
Yes, so we'll play that and
I'll find my favorite. Who is the

443
00:29:30,599 --> 00:29:37,319
lineman who used to say gave him
all the time. He died? He

444
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,279
died, Deacon Jones. He died
recently. Jones goes, when you slap

445
00:29:41,319 --> 00:29:45,759
a man or a woman, he
goes out a hand's head upside. They

446
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,960
like, I got what. I
kept going back. They played it on

447
00:29:49,079 --> 00:29:52,319
like NFL films, like you got
it. It's still on on YouTube somewhere.

448
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,759
We'll find it. Everything's that you
Yeah, it's the closest thing we

449
00:29:56,839 --> 00:29:59,440
have to time travel YouTube. I
said, well, you know that's the

450
00:29:59,559 --> 00:30:03,680
thing is the Internet and everything.
I mean, you used to come across

451
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,720
your dad playboy and get a little
yeah, you know, learn it a

452
00:30:06,759 --> 00:30:08,440
little bit of sex. But if
you have your kid, if your kid

453
00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:11,359
has a phone eleven or twelve,
and you can't block something, yes,

454
00:30:11,759 --> 00:30:15,559
you know, I think all the
porno sites or anything when NUDI should have

455
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,480
a instead of a dot com,
it should have dot sex. And that

456
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,799
makes it easier for the parent to
be like, you know what, I

457
00:30:21,839 --> 00:30:25,599
don't want my kids seeing this that
you can block those. Yeah, I

458
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,440
agree, slow it up a little
bit. You don't have to see that

459
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,200
at twelve years old. I agree. And I think that you think that's

460
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,960
all right. I think that you, yes, you learn. I don't

461
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,119
think you're learning the right things about
sex. Yeah, ease into it.

462
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:42,119
You've got your whole life because this
this choking and hair pulling and the punching

463
00:30:42,319 --> 00:30:48,079
and like there's violent stuff and that
you know young boys, Well really,

464
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:49,960
yeah, this is what I'm supposed
to do. I know I'm saying,

465
00:30:51,079 --> 00:30:53,720
and that that's not that's not good. Let me ask you, guys,

466
00:30:53,799 --> 00:30:57,640
I saw this on Facebook today.
Well, that's not good. It isn't.

467
00:30:59,519 --> 00:31:03,240
It was like because I had three
boys, uh, you know,

468
00:31:03,319 --> 00:31:07,079
the older boys, we were all
under one roof for for most of their

469
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:12,359
lives. Again until the older guys, and there was stuff that they're more

470
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,119
of their mom would catch them with
and stuff, and I'd be like,

471
00:31:15,279 --> 00:31:18,200
well, and there were some things. I mean, I thought she had

472
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:25,000
some very valid points in in uh
some of the violent because there was some

473
00:31:25,039 --> 00:31:26,000
stuff that was a little more violent. She's like, I don't like and

474
00:31:26,079 --> 00:31:30,559
I and I remember going and trying
to talk to them about you know,

475
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:37,000
you can't. This isn't a normal
way that that people express love and this

476
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,599
is supposed to be there, and
it's an odd conversation to have, Like

477
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,480
they don't want to have it,
and I don't want to have it.

478
00:31:41,759 --> 00:31:45,319
But the stuff is there. That's
the problem. And that's you know,

479
00:31:45,359 --> 00:31:48,599
I've always joked like we've we're never
going to get another great guitar player because

480
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,039
now every kid sets up his room
in masterbase because he's got porn available everywhere.

481
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,200
Well, back in Clapton's day,
we didn't. He just he was

482
00:31:55,279 --> 00:31:56,920
a fucking weird only sat in his
room. He wrote about you know,

483
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:02,319
what I'm saying playing his guitar.
Yeah, but I mean like we're never

484
00:32:02,359 --> 00:32:07,119
gonna get that again, and we're
never can't masterbate for twelve hours straight,

485
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,319
you fucking cat dog. Trust me, you did it yesterday with jello shots.

486
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:14,599
Wow, I watched it. I
even heard she never showed you my

487
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:20,759
fringer. You're fingering those jellow shots
like it was something else. Easy swear

488
00:32:21,319 --> 00:32:28,039
every hole And that's just what they
say all day long, plice around.

489
00:32:28,519 --> 00:32:34,559
Uh oh yeah. But glad you
raise all that money. Yes, I'm

490
00:32:34,599 --> 00:32:36,680
glad you raised all the money too. But it is it's a it's an

491
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,200
interest, it's a it's a tough
time to be a parent, and I

492
00:32:39,319 --> 00:32:45,119
can't say that it's any tougher than
any other time because every generation had its

493
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:50,000
own changes, right, there are
different things. The only problem here is

494
00:32:50,079 --> 00:32:52,960
that the information goes so quickly.
And the other thing that I would always

495
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:58,599
worry about with with the guys is
telling on yourself, you know, because

496
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,519
I mean think of like I know, I'll just give you one. When

497
00:33:01,559 --> 00:33:06,319
I was a kid, I remember
being on the Taconic Parkway, which is

498
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:12,240
like this ribbon of a highway that
ran right up along the northern Duchess County

499
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,720
Hudson Valley area. And I'm with
my buddy and we get behind this old

500
00:33:16,759 --> 00:33:20,799
man in a hat and he's kind
of hunched down. He's going probably speeding

501
00:33:20,839 --> 00:33:22,960
him at fifty five. But we're
well, I mean, we're trying to

502
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,119
pass. So my buddy goes get
as close as he can, and I

503
00:33:25,319 --> 00:33:30,279
drive that car within centimeters of this
old man and my buddy leans out the

504
00:33:30,359 --> 00:33:32,880
passenger window and knocks on the window. The old man turns around, he

505
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:37,119
gets in the finger and we fucking
speed off. Now, if there was

506
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,720
a chance to film that and show
our friends that we did it, do

507
00:33:40,839 --> 00:33:44,559
you think we're not doing that?
Of course? Of course? And then

508
00:33:44,599 --> 00:33:47,480
that gets on social media, and
I would hope that God that that kid

509
00:33:47,559 --> 00:33:51,519
would get a ticket. You know, didn't you get a ticket in the

510
00:33:51,559 --> 00:33:54,960
mail? Yeah, the fact I
brought it with me. Yeah, Danny

511
00:33:55,039 --> 00:33:59,559
got a ticket in the mail for
what oh, I call it the David

512
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:04,279
Gant the Ghost of David Gant project. I got a ticket for speeding through

513
00:34:04,319 --> 00:34:08,440
a work zone on one oh four
near a Rondequoit. And here's the thing.

514
00:34:09,039 --> 00:34:13,840
If I see people working, I'm
pretty good about slowing down just in

515
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,719
general, I didn't know I was
in a work zone just because you put

516
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,840
up some co and tell me it's
a freaking works I guess it does,

517
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,519
actually, but by law, of
course. But I'm just cruising through.

518
00:34:22,599 --> 00:34:25,960
They said I did a sixty eight
in a fifty five fifty five in a

519
00:34:27,039 --> 00:34:30,119
work zone, and because of this
new camera enforcement program, the New York

520
00:34:30,159 --> 00:34:35,440
State work Zone Speed Enforcement Program,
I have to pay fifty bucks. No,

521
00:34:35,599 --> 00:34:38,039
no, because the cop didn't catch
me. It was the camera.

522
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,960
So technically there's no like points or
any of that stuff. This is just

523
00:34:43,119 --> 00:34:45,760
finage. Same thing like with those
stupid red light cameras that they took out

524
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,280
of the city. I got a
few of those two way back when.

525
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,559
So to me, it's like this
is I don't want to be that guy

526
00:34:50,559 --> 00:34:52,280
who says this is unconstitutional, but
I'm gonna be that guy who says this

527
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:57,480
is unconstitutional because you can pretty much
just tape anything and just throw out,

528
00:34:57,559 --> 00:35:00,480
you know, send people tickets.
We have lawyer friends. Let's talking.

529
00:35:00,559 --> 00:35:04,000
I mean, see if you can
talk to somebody and find out because there's

530
00:35:04,039 --> 00:35:07,039
two things here. One, I
get it with the works on, you

531
00:35:07,079 --> 00:35:09,320
would probably slow down if you saw
a human being. Yeah, you don't

532
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:12,800
see a human being. Oh,
we have a lot of accidents nowadays.

533
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,639
I'm like, I've never heard those
on the news. I think you're just

534
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,239
saying that to get money into your
pockets. Well, everything's it's like a

535
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,719
cash crap. I mean, they're
they're trying to get the fact. Is

536
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,800
they the end of the red light
cameras? Because the guy brought a lawsuit

537
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:28,960
against the City of Rochester saying it's
unconstitutional and he won. So why is

538
00:35:29,039 --> 00:35:31,119
this allowed? Because it's New York
State. We're turning socialists. This is

539
00:35:31,159 --> 00:35:36,280
what happens in a Big Brother police
study. That's that's what it is.

540
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:37,559
I'm thinking about this now. I
have an easy pass. I don't know

541
00:35:37,559 --> 00:35:40,159
if you guys have an easy pass. Touch Okay, so you have an

542
00:35:40,159 --> 00:35:43,719
easy past. You got in the
thruway, right, Let's say you're doing

543
00:35:44,039 --> 00:35:46,239
jello pass. Let's say you're doing
like eighty five easy women, but easy.

544
00:35:46,679 --> 00:35:50,400
So let's say you're doing eighty five
and the Thruway between Rochester to Buffalo,

545
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,119
and they got all those like those
things that can check out your cars

546
00:35:52,159 --> 00:35:57,039
you're driving through if it takes you
like less than less time, than the

547
00:35:57,119 --> 00:36:00,599
time allotted to get there. They
could theoretically send you a freaking for that,

548
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:05,760
but I haven't heard of anybody doing
that yet. And because I this

549
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,199
is this is how it starts.
I mean, I was doing ninety and

550
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,800
on the Thruway and I got pulled
over and not that long ago, and

551
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:19,760
nothing happened. I let you go. Yeah, are you bill say?

552
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,400
I can't say anymore. You somebody's
name. I didn't give him a couple

553
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:28,000
of Jello shots. I listen,
man, these are from Doug. They're

554
00:36:28,039 --> 00:36:32,000
the best grade he can get.
They are like top grade. These jello

555
00:36:32,079 --> 00:36:37,159
shots are amazing. You know,
mister food. Doug is the mister food

556
00:36:37,199 --> 00:36:43,920
at Jello shot. Oh it's so
good. So speaking of grade and all

557
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:49,800
that, Uh, the first,
I believe the first legal dispensary that you

558
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:53,440
holy shit done. No, that
was the second night. It looks like

559
00:36:53,760 --> 00:37:00,079
shots. Yeah, it looks like
the kid's floor refrigerator at Galisano. All

560
00:37:00,119 --> 00:37:08,880
the six children could get Jila and
ill guys the right ChIL they're opening the

561
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:14,199
first legal dispensary. I think in
this well, I don't know if it's

562
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,679
the state that might be, but
I think it is right across from the

563
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:23,239
East Avenue. Wegmans open perfect.
It opens tomorrow and that's so Mary,

564
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:28,920
let you go. So I'm like
kind of excited about this because I wanted

565
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,320
to. Uh, it's just been
such a I've been trying to get some

566
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:37,239
of these people to come on the
podcast because it's been such a weird thing.

567
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,239
They went back to court because some
people were saying, well, the

568
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,000
way they were doing things on constitutional, I believe was the term that was

569
00:37:45,119 --> 00:37:49,880
used. Because if you had if
you had a prior conviction or Doug,

570
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:53,239
your dad had a prior conviction to
marijuana and spend what spend time in jail,

571
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:58,480
you would be the you could get
first in line to open the dispensary.

572
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,039
And but there's so many catches with
this because I believe that in order

573
00:38:02,119 --> 00:38:08,039
to open a dispensary you have to
have two years business history. I think

574
00:38:08,079 --> 00:38:13,239
you have to run a business for
two years in New York State before they

575
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,119
would give you the license. But
they give you they can get marijuana dis

576
00:38:15,559 --> 00:38:19,280
Yeah, marijuana dispensary, so you
can open. Because there was a guy

577
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,400
who had a bunch of little shops
around the state that he opened up and

578
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:27,840
we played one of his bizarre audio
to Auburn when he was talking auburnet and

579
00:38:28,159 --> 00:38:30,960
I get back to the community and
I employ people. But that guy got

580
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:35,639
shut down because they said he was
selling the underage people, but he wasn't.

581
00:38:36,039 --> 00:38:37,800
He didn't have a license yet.
And the reason he didn't have the

582
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:42,360
license yet was he needed two years
business experience in New York State and he

583
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,920
didn't have its. Just so silly. So everything is hoops to jump through.

584
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,199
However, I think this one's opening
up. But here's the cool thing.

585
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:55,000
So whoever has the license can have
an expo and the people that have

586
00:38:55,119 --> 00:39:01,440
the expo are then like, if
I'm dispensary but I don't have my license

587
00:39:01,519 --> 00:39:07,679
yet, I can go and sell
my wares at this place under their expo.

588
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:12,480
So there's a place in Skinny Atlas, there's a place in Geneva that

589
00:39:12,599 --> 00:39:15,199
are coming up. And I think
most of those places you can buy online,

590
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,360
which I don't know how that works. I don't know how any of

591
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:21,719
this commerce ship works. For the
matter. It's so confusing. Yeah,

592
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:25,239
that's what confused. What they want
they wanted to be confusing, really,

593
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,760
I'm want they want to figure out
a way to get you one way or

594
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,519
another. I'm not sure if they
want to make it confused. I don't

595
00:39:31,559 --> 00:39:37,039
know. I want to say to
you, I totally disagree that they're trying

596
00:39:37,079 --> 00:39:42,639
to make you want to but everything
seems like it's very confusing. But I

597
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,000
think this got held up because somebody
sued and said, well, just because

598
00:39:45,039 --> 00:39:50,440
Doug's dad was in jail for ten
years back when weed was illegal and he

599
00:39:50,559 --> 00:39:53,280
was a dealer on the street,
shouldn't give Doug crack. So that got

600
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:59,480
held up time. So I was
a pioneer it cave, so it held

601
00:39:59,519 --> 00:40:02,760
everything up. But I just figured
they can't figure out how to do it,

602
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:07,159
and I think it's a real problem
for like police and stuff, because

603
00:40:07,559 --> 00:40:13,239
I'm pretty sure or no. Well, here's the thing. I'm pretty sure

604
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:19,679
that in New York State and maybe
federally, you are considered inebriated when you

605
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,159
take anything other than alcohol from the
time you ingest it for the next sixty

606
00:40:23,199 --> 00:40:27,760
eight hours. So if you inhale
it, if you eat it, you

607
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:31,000
are considered intoxicated at that moment,
which scientifically we know is not true.

608
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:36,280
But what I was told was the
guys who wrote the laws enjoy drinking,

609
00:40:36,599 --> 00:40:39,199
so they wanted to. You know, they could go through and give you

610
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:44,280
the different they're gonna give you a
breathalyzer. I don't know, do blood

611
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:45,639
work or I don't know, So
the only thing I would say is,

612
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:51,039
if you're gonna enjoy gumming and it's
cookie doing, if they don't walk over

613
00:40:51,119 --> 00:41:02,440
in five minutes, you got a
cookie officer, have you been drinking?

614
00:41:02,599 --> 00:41:08,280
No, I would just say I
would take I would call Doug as an

615
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:13,400
uber driver. Yeah, and seriously, don't get behind the wheel because it's

616
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,840
just not worth it. Because if
something happened, there should be no more.

617
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,000
Dwy is honestly well, there shouldn't
be here. I agree. But

618
00:41:20,079 --> 00:41:22,519
a lot of times too though,
Doug, I think that there are people

619
00:41:22,559 --> 00:41:25,679
who like you go somewhere and you
have a couple of glasses of wine and

620
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:30,360
you think you're okay, and that
point zero eight is a low number,

621
00:41:30,559 --> 00:41:36,000
yes, and you know even point
it used to be point one, and

622
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,559
I think some people aren't aware of
where it is. You know. That's

623
00:41:39,639 --> 00:41:45,159
why we had an officer, excuse
me, bro County cheff Sheriff DEPPI hurling

624
00:41:45,199 --> 00:41:50,000
in here, and he said that
they'll train the officers by bringing in like

625
00:41:50,199 --> 00:41:52,840
the three of us and letting us
drink a little bit, a little bit,

626
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:57,199
and then's a little bit. We
got the guys from a little bit.

627
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:01,880
It's like driving to the buyer.
That's to me, that's a little

628
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:06,639
bit. If if somebody calls me
up and I have a few friends and

629
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,320
they're like, hey, we're going
out tonight, I know that I should

630
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,880
uber. Yeah, you know,
he's Bobby's birthday. You're not getting anything

631
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,599
under around and it couldn't turn into
four o'clock in the morning. Oh yeah,

632
00:42:15,679 --> 00:42:19,440
yeah, yeah. Do you ever
start Do you ever start priming a

633
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,159
little bit? But you get that
call, Let's see you get that call

634
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,960
at two o'clock. Hey man,
we're meeting at six. Do you start

635
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:30,639
around four o'clock just sipping maybe a
beer and eating to prime yourself a little

636
00:42:30,639 --> 00:42:32,480
bit so you can kind of go
in with an open threshold and you just

637
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:37,800
know, no, Like yesterday,
I didn't eat that much because if I

638
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:38,920
know, I want to go get
a buzz. I don't want to eat.

639
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:42,280
I want that buzz. I want
that fun, I want that laughter.

640
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,639
I want the dirty jokes to come
out and doing something goofy, making

641
00:42:45,639 --> 00:42:52,360
all my friends laughed, I don't
want to week three more. That's that's

642
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:53,599
that's the other thing too. You
want to talk about confusion. When I

643
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,559
was in college, and probably when
you were in college, guys would try

644
00:42:57,599 --> 00:43:00,400
to make trips to Canada to buy
most of Triple X because it was seven

645
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:05,960
percent alcohol. Then somewhere in the
like around two thousand and three or two

646
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,480
thousand and four, they change the
laws so that you could have an unlimited

647
00:43:08,639 --> 00:43:12,519
or a certain a much higher percentage
of beer of alcohol in your beer,

648
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,719
and that's where all these craft brewery
started. It used to be like one

649
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:20,920
drink an hour was now like one
beer could be like four drinks compared to

650
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:27,239
just fourteen sixteen. When you go
to like these yeah, yeah, yeah,

651
00:43:27,639 --> 00:43:30,760
And that's a fair thing because you
used to You're right, you really

652
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,159
got to watch it. That's where
I mean, Doug's right. If you

653
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:37,119
know you're gonna be drinking at all, and you're with a group of people

654
00:43:37,119 --> 00:43:38,119
and you're like, hey man,
I'm gonna really watch it tonight. I'm

655
00:43:38,119 --> 00:43:44,199
gonna ride the throttle, take the
uber just to be excite. But the

656
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:45,559
problem is, like, let's say
you went out with your wife and you

657
00:43:45,639 --> 00:43:50,960
had a couple of glasses of wine
and then you run into a friend and

658
00:43:51,039 --> 00:43:53,559
so you have a scotch at the
bar and then you stop and then you

659
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,559
go home and you get pulled over
and you blow a point zero nine.

660
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,719
I don't uber too much on Saturdays
anymore because I work Monday, see Thursday

661
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:06,400
and bar ten on Friday. But
when I did, there was a bonus

662
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,480
on or whatever. I in the
city, I about five six o'clock,

663
00:44:09,559 --> 00:44:13,559
I would grab a lot of couples
just going out for dinner. Hey,

664
00:44:13,639 --> 00:44:15,519
what's going on? We're going out
for dinner. Just you know, we're

665
00:44:15,559 --> 00:44:19,559
just gonna have one. But you
never know. So it's just safer.

666
00:44:19,639 --> 00:44:22,280
We don't want a chance it.
You know what. It's a smart Yeah,

667
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,679
yeah, you know it's a smart
thing. Twenty bucks back or vice

668
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:29,239
versa, yeah, versus six thousand
dollars for a lawyer, just a trial

669
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,400
plus the fines, plus your potentially
happy to lose your job. You could

670
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:37,519
lose your job. You could pay
for the inner inner lock system, all

671
00:44:37,559 --> 00:44:39,639
that stuff that goes on it interlock
and you have to blow in the thing.

672
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:49,840
Yes and uh, yesterday, Buddy
huh Man, fifty yellow shots.

673
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:53,840
At least the thing. That's great. I told didn't I tell you that.

674
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,199
I was leaving a party once and
I had the Uber driver who had

675
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,639
the interlock system. She said to
me, we have to pull over.

676
00:44:59,679 --> 00:45:02,480
I remember they got Well, usually
they don't let you if you have it

677
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,440
always she must have been lying.
All I cared about was getting home safe.

678
00:45:07,599 --> 00:45:10,119
That's all I know. That's all
I know. If you get it

679
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:15,639
and you're drunk and you see she's
gotta breathless, like are you like?

680
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:20,079
You know what I'm like? She
seems sober, like you want to you

681
00:45:20,159 --> 00:45:22,039
want to stop? I mean that
would get me. It's like, hey,

682
00:45:22,119 --> 00:45:28,800
let's have a couple of shots me. Is this steam power? That's

683
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,320
so cool? All right? We
didn't get to the face. I have

684
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:35,320
to read this Facebook thing to you, guys, because it's so strange to

685
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,679
me that you would put this on
Facebook and there is a follow up up

686
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:43,360
to it, and I don't know. Facebook sometimes, I guess turns into

687
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,719
people's diaries. Yeah right, I
don't miss that, which I don't follow

688
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:51,159
them for thirty days and I don't. I don't always want to clarify a

689
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,119
situation that happened this weekend. That's
what I always know. First of all,

690
00:45:55,559 --> 00:46:00,159
sometimes I want to read it.
Sometimes I wanted I actually read something

691
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,840
that I didn't know from a friend. Normally I see big long posts,

692
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:06,039
I won't read it. I read
it, and I'm glad I did.

693
00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:08,079
It. Was a nice, nice
update on their family and things like that

694
00:46:08,639 --> 00:46:13,840
that I'm okay with this one.
I question why you did it. That's

695
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,639
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736
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737
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738
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Stones, as great as they are, they'd never get enough credit for the

739
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diversity of their music. Okay,
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740
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people think influenced by the Flying Bredo
Brothers. Who's just like Stones? Yeah,

741
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:19,800
sits off the sticky fingers out me
yesterday speaking of sticky fingers, not

742
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,480
in a sexual way. Yeah,
I get all the jealous show you were

743
00:50:23,519 --> 00:50:29,119
fingering something. There's proof of it
right there. Uh No, this was

744
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,800
ex Ela. Main Street is definitely
my favorite. So I play that because

745
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:37,400
I saw this on Facebook and I
actually screenshot of it to my phone and

746
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,159
emailed it to myself because I go, I will forget this later today.

747
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,119
But it was just an odd one, and I go, I want to

748
00:50:42,199 --> 00:50:46,079
get people's opinion on this as to
I don't know what to think. I

749
00:50:46,079 --> 00:50:49,920
don't even I don't know what you
would even comment. So somebody just wrote

750
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:53,159
this on your no on their Facebook, but clearly I don't know. We're

751
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:58,320
friends, so I would see them
in my fee. As many of you

752
00:50:58,519 --> 00:51:02,000
know, my father is in the
hospital and not doing well. Okay,

753
00:51:04,079 --> 00:51:08,039
I understand that he wasn't the best
person in this life, but he is

754
00:51:08,159 --> 00:51:15,119
my father. Neither him or I
deserve to be going through this difficult time

755
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:20,519
by ourselves. I asked that you
keep us in your thoughts and remember the

756
00:51:20,639 --> 00:51:24,440
good times instead of the bad that
he's done. And the next natural question

757
00:51:24,559 --> 00:51:29,920
is, well, I don't know. I don't know who this person is.

758
00:51:30,119 --> 00:51:32,920
No, I have no idea,
and I even feel a little bad

759
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,119
like what they have to have a
name? Yes they have a name.

760
00:51:37,159 --> 00:51:39,280
But I wasn't gonna say no the
podcast because I thought I guess it was

761
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:43,159
on Facebook. Would you say them? You know they put it out there,

762
00:51:43,199 --> 00:51:46,400
it's it's it's John Madison the Third, John H. Madison the Third.

763
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:51,400
So I don't know John, or
maybe I've interacted with John a little

764
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,880
bit. I it made it made
me feel sad because I go, boy,

765
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:59,159
that's a that's a tough thing.
And doesn't everybody become a saint when

766
00:51:59,159 --> 00:52:02,199
they die, Like, oh yeah, a hole's never died. I think

767
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:07,320
if you're not baptized, no,
no, no going up. And that's

768
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:09,639
that's my ace in the hall,
because I've never ever been baptized. But

769
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:14,760
then they say God forgives everybody.
Yes, you know, yes, I

770
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:19,199
know what I was jokes. I
tell people I don't go to church,

771
00:52:19,599 --> 00:52:22,440
but my sister does because she heard
there was a guy hung like this.

772
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:34,519
Hey, my buddy loves to me
to tell that on Easter and it rose.

773
00:52:34,639 --> 00:52:38,199
They can beat me in jealous shots. Coincidentally, So here's the thing

774
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:44,400
that I was. Uh No,
I when I say everyone becomes a saint

775
00:52:44,519 --> 00:52:49,199
is usually when someone dies, everybody
just talks about the good things. My

776
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,719
grandfather used to say, he was
a son of a bitch and he's dead.

777
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,480
Now he's a saint. Look listen
to his wife. Wife talks to

778
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:59,039
every party without she said horrible things. Now she's over there crying and everyone.

779
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,199
So the problems that was that was
my grandfather, Joe. Grandpa Joe

780
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,840
used to say that. So that's
why I'm saying like everybody becomes a saint.

781
00:53:06,199 --> 00:53:08,199
So I'm watching, so I'm reading. So I thought later today I

782
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:12,760
go, I'm going back to that
post because there were very few comments to

783
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:15,519
it, like what do you write
to that? Oh, it wasn't that

784
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:20,159
bad. I didn't think he was
that bad. I know, right,

785
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:24,440
you would just move on or say
I'm sorry thinking of you, which was

786
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,480
a lot of it. Then there
were now, all of a sudden,

787
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,880
I see there's like seventy comments.
That's what I thought. So I start

788
00:53:31,119 --> 00:53:34,599
going through. I go, are
people saying, yeah, well, how

789
00:53:34,639 --> 00:53:36,840
do I forgive him for the time? This is what's in my head.

790
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,599
Yeah, and no, it's a
lot of I'm sorry, I'm sorry,

791
00:53:38,599 --> 00:53:43,199
I'm sorry. And then all of
a sudden he comments back and goes he

792
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:46,559
passed. So since he posted that
his father has passed on, and then

793
00:53:46,639 --> 00:53:49,920
there was a lot of prayers for
you, thoughts of you, blah blah

794
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,000
blah. But it does. It's
gotta be a strain, I mean,

795
00:53:53,199 --> 00:53:59,920
almost to air their their dirty laundry
at the end of life. I don't

796
00:54:00,119 --> 00:54:01,519
know. I've never seen that,
yeah, like, hey, we're over

797
00:54:01,639 --> 00:54:07,159
here, you have Yeah, I've
only seen things like my mom passed this

798
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,519
morning or whatever, which even that
I go, I don't know that I

799
00:54:09,519 --> 00:54:13,480
would put it on social media.
I don't know that I really have anybody

800
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,800
to talk to. They just need
to read it and put it out there

801
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:19,599
to feel better. Or but you've
seen things like this, Hey, he

802
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,000
was a real dickhead, but I
love them. I can't remember it well,

803
00:54:22,119 --> 00:54:25,639
actually I have, but like it
was after somebody had passed. Hey,

804
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,840
we didn't have the greatest relationship,
but you know what, he was

805
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,519
my father and I missed them,
and people like would right, But I

806
00:54:30,639 --> 00:54:34,480
think I hate saying this because I
don't want to judge the way people grieve.

807
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,280
But a lot of nine times out
of ten, it's a sympathy ploy,

808
00:54:37,639 --> 00:54:38,760
like you're not getting enough attention,
so you have to put this out

809
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:43,440
there to gain sympathy, and you
have to like give a little bit of

810
00:54:43,559 --> 00:54:47,000
sprinkling of he wasn't the greatest guy, so now you're now you're hooked.

811
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:51,119
That's the hook. I would never
do that. I wouldn't care when my

812
00:54:51,199 --> 00:54:52,719
sister died. I didn't talk about
it on social media. Yeah, I

813
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,159
don't even bring it up. No, I don't. I don't, Well,

814
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:59,719
look your dad's around, My dad's
around, your dad passed? Yeah,

815
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,800
would you could you imagine if social
media was a little more prolific than

816
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,719
I don't even know if it existed
when my Space was the thing back then.

817
00:55:07,079 --> 00:55:08,480
So, like a lot of you
have asked, my father has passed

818
00:55:08,519 --> 00:55:10,800
away, thank you for your support. But that that's all, Well,

819
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:15,400
that's a that's very yeah. Fine, I'm just saying. I mean,

820
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:17,239
yeah, a lot of people didn't
like a old bunch, but I sure

821
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:22,000
go fuck yourself. I don't know. They buried him face down so he

822
00:55:22,039 --> 00:55:27,880
can see where he said it.
What's funny my father, like when he

823
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:39,320
first he's Bobby not always said I
want they buried me up outside down so

824
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:43,559
my critics could kiss my ass.
Yeah, well, what could is this

825
00:55:43,679 --> 00:55:45,639
guy have done? It's what I'm
thinking, like for your son to write

826
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:49,559
that, I you know, I
don't want to think about it. Well,

827
00:55:49,599 --> 00:55:52,800
the only thing I can't help it. I'm sorry. I don't really

828
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:54,239
want to either, but that's where
my brain has been most of the day.

829
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:59,000
Yet, Like this guy, well, I'm sitting here today right.

830
00:55:59,519 --> 00:56:02,880
Uh. Katie and Stephanie were in
they were doing their podcasts and led in

831
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:07,079
average Yeah, and I never started
the camera. I'm so disappointed because I

832
00:56:07,079 --> 00:56:10,199
had great shots set up for them
today and all this stuff. And anyway,

833
00:56:10,559 --> 00:56:14,800
part of the problem was the fact
that I'm I was thinking about this

834
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:16,880
my head. I'm going, what
could this guy have done? Like I'm

835
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:21,599
going of all the things like,
yeah, sure, you know, I

836
00:56:22,119 --> 00:56:25,800
like to think everybody has tried their
best. Sometimes life comes at you and

837
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:29,920
you're not handling it right, and
so you know that those are the things

838
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,320
everybody has a moment. I just
don't know that I would write that no

839
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:37,760
matter what. Some people just attention
to them it's more important a matter of

840
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,440
fact. At the time of this, there were nine comments, and I

841
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:45,679
don't know what the most of those
were, probably just sorry or anything like

842
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:50,079
that. But is there is there
anyone you could never soften for like they

843
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:52,239
did something to you in life and
you could never you know, I don't

844
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:55,519
mean by soften, but you could
never almost forgive I guess would be the

845
00:56:55,679 --> 00:56:59,320
term. Yeah there is, Yeah, yeah, I don't want to get

846
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,079
into it. But was there something
to happen, like can you give sort

847
00:57:01,119 --> 00:57:05,280
of a generic version of what was
done? You can't know. I don't

848
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,039
want to, all right, because
I mean, look, man, I

849
00:57:07,119 --> 00:57:10,519
got molested and I still don't even
hate that guy. There's people. It

850
00:57:10,559 --> 00:57:14,119
took me a long time. I'm
not gonna say it was easy, but

851
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:19,039
I was easy. Then you get
understood. I mean I was easy as

852
00:57:19,039 --> 00:57:22,000
a seven year old, but not
not. Yes, you know they have

853
00:57:22,159 --> 00:57:29,360
the uh uh forgive and forget?
Yeah, and uh that I never understood.

854
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,360
So you want to forgive and forget
and then this person fuck you over

855
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,519
again. Yeah, I'm like,
I don't forget. I don't forget,

856
00:57:35,599 --> 00:57:38,079
and I just won't be kind.
Well that's the thing is like I think

857
00:57:38,119 --> 00:57:43,000
that that there's forgiveness. I think
by that there's no reason to dwell on

858
00:57:43,079 --> 00:57:45,760
it and and move on or whatever
it was. Well, it's tough what

859
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,960
you dwell on, you know,
and you how your brain works, like

860
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,880
you're saying, because all the person
all it really does. It's like when

861
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:53,119
they say, like, if you're
if you're ever out on a trip for

862
00:57:53,199 --> 00:57:58,719
revenge, dig two graves because you're
gonna tear yourself apart two right, And

863
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,320
so you know, the Bible says
forgive, it doesn't say to forget,

864
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:02,960
though, you need to keep that
in the back of your mind. Because

865
00:58:04,039 --> 00:58:07,079
you gotta remember this person like did
bite you once? You don't want this

866
00:58:07,159 --> 00:58:09,000
fool me twice, shamed on me
type of stuff because you knew that they

867
00:58:09,039 --> 00:58:12,920
got you once. But you can
forgive them if that's supposed to give them

868
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,079
seven hundred you're supposed to forgive them
like seven times seventies the Bible says.

869
00:58:15,239 --> 00:58:19,039
But that doesn't mean you have to
forget a thing because you have to remember.

870
00:58:22,639 --> 00:58:29,480
I was thinking, ile, yeah, you know, it's the most

871
00:58:29,559 --> 00:58:32,079
treating I didn't because on the side
of the boxes last week, like the

872
00:58:32,159 --> 00:58:38,159
whole thing is like one cup boiling
water, one cup alcohol, like to

873
00:58:38,199 --> 00:58:43,920
get my reading glasses out of that
one a while, and then of course

874
00:58:44,039 --> 00:58:45,119
you don't even read into it.
Then Margaret's like, well, why didn't

875
00:58:45,119 --> 00:58:49,360
you do three buckets? And once
I'm like, gosh, this is why

876
00:58:49,679 --> 00:58:52,880
have you my helpers? We help
each other out. It's great. H

877
00:58:53,639 --> 00:58:59,760
So, while I can see the
the uh not forget type of thing and

878
00:59:00,039 --> 00:59:04,559
not being taken advantage of, I
think that as I've gotten older, I

879
00:59:04,639 --> 00:59:07,599
always think that, and it's it's
taken me a long time. I'm I

880
00:59:07,719 --> 00:59:13,039
think I have a lot of deep
seated anger, like I anger like still

881
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:15,360
to this day, like there's some
red hot anger inside me about a lot

882
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:20,239
of things. And I think some
of it might go back to being molested

883
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:23,760
and other things along the way.
But at times now I think when I

884
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:27,480
start to feel that, because you
can feel it, right, there's a

885
00:59:27,599 --> 00:59:30,400
change in your body, and I
always go, that's your guidance system,

886
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:31,639
and I'll go, what good is
going to come with this? Right?

887
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:35,599
What good is going to come from
any of it? I mean, you

888
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:39,519
have seen me go at people on
microphones, even on this podcast. You

889
00:59:39,599 --> 00:59:45,000
know, I said things about Steve
Houseman because he got upset over something,

890
00:59:45,079 --> 00:59:47,519
and even that I start to go, well, that was dumb. I

891
00:59:47,599 --> 00:59:50,800
don't I never had a problem with
that guy. He has a problem with

892
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,599
me. I don't really gets a
problem exactly. And I think that one

893
00:59:53,639 --> 00:59:58,280
of the things that you've got to
start to realize is there's no assertion.

894
00:59:58,679 --> 01:00:01,280
There's only attraction. And you you're
gonna, you know, attract. And

895
01:00:02,199 --> 01:00:06,480
I like to say to my sons, and I was talking to my dad

896
01:00:06,519 --> 01:00:12,840
today about different things. Life's never
gonna stop coming at you. You just

897
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,400
have to kind of always stay in
that. The only way I can describe

898
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:19,599
it is the zone where you you
know, when you're just in that flow,

899
01:00:20,079 --> 01:00:22,360
you know, like you're on jello
shots. No, but the zone.

900
01:00:22,639 --> 01:00:24,880
No, no, let let's say
that for you, the zone maybe

901
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:30,639
today, how great you feel about
all the God, you understand what I'm

902
01:00:30,639 --> 01:00:32,559
saying, Fresh and wash, somebody
kick coming up to you and go,

903
01:00:32,719 --> 01:00:36,960
Doug, you're a fucking asshole.
And I don't think it would hurt as

904
01:00:37,119 --> 01:00:39,760
much as it would I'd say a
week from now, right, right,

905
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:43,519
you know what I mean? Just
And that's kind of how we need to

906
01:00:43,599 --> 01:00:45,280
be there all the time. He
can't be there all the time though.

907
01:00:45,519 --> 01:00:49,239
You can't. You can't have rainy
days without sunny No. No, that's

908
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,079
true. But I think that and
this, and that's true because you always

909
01:00:52,119 --> 01:00:54,480
want to know what you want.
You need the contrast in life. You

910
01:00:54,519 --> 01:00:57,960
need the contrast. But if you
can try to stay there more often and

911
01:00:58,079 --> 01:01:00,239
realize most of this stuff is just
silly, then you'll be fine. But

912
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:04,440
it takes a long time to figure
that out. It takes, it really

913
01:01:04,519 --> 01:01:07,400
does. And by the amount a
lot of times I figure it out rights

914
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:13,119
over, folks, you know,
And that's I guess I'm fully baked.

915
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:16,760
Yeah, I mean, you know, I don't know. I but then

916
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:22,639
that's just like bitterness and like something
will rides up in your mind, it

917
01:01:22,639 --> 01:01:24,480
will remind you of something. Yes, nine times out attend it was from

918
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:29,039
my radio career, somebody that like
you felt, did you wrong. But

919
01:01:29,159 --> 01:01:30,039
at the end of the day,
it's like, yeah, but look where

920
01:01:30,039 --> 01:01:34,400
you are now. Who cares If
you're going to blame them for your issues.

921
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:37,039
You got to thank them for where
you are today. In a way,

922
01:01:37,119 --> 01:01:39,239
there's like part of that because like
there's that motivational factor too. You

923
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:43,519
did learn from something from the situation, right, you did grow from the

924
01:01:43,599 --> 01:01:46,719
situation. You're a lot further along
now, maybe not necessarily because of that

925
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:51,760
situation, but you've taken that information
with you along for the ride, you

926
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:53,920
know. So in other words,
you may even owe them a thank you

927
01:01:54,119 --> 01:01:58,840
for being in that situation. Like
there's that one scene in fact, I

928
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,039
say, hold a grudge the day
you die and fuck him over every day.

929
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:04,199
But then you but you, but
you gotta live with that, like

930
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:14,239
that anger around your neck, yellow
shots. I don't A lot of times,

931
01:02:14,599 --> 01:02:19,360
A lot of times that stuff comes
from wrong perception, like we don't

932
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,480
fully know. We think that this
was done to us this way and we

933
01:02:22,559 --> 01:02:27,119
don't fully know and uh, like
this past week and I saw some people

934
01:02:27,199 --> 01:02:30,800
and I said something to somebody and
then I said, hey, uh,

935
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:34,559
this has been bugging me. And
they said, oh no, that's not

936
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,760
that's not the case. That wasn't
what the case was and so and it

937
01:02:38,239 --> 01:02:42,320
made perfect sense to me, and
I went, Okay, then it was

938
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,719
a waste of time. But I
do think sometimes you need to have that

939
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:47,880
conversation. It is the human element
of this this life experience, right.

940
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,320
But I always at this point,
I just kind of go I can either

941
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:58,039
focus and be mad and stay stuck, or I can feel better and move

942
01:02:58,159 --> 01:03:00,840
forward and focus over here. And
I'm even to the point like I was

943
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:04,840
talking to my dad today and I
said something about and he goes, yeah,

944
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:07,320
and he used different words, and
I said, yeah, I don't

945
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:09,000
like those words because they have a
little bit of negative because I love them.

946
01:03:09,719 --> 01:03:13,159
Yeah, but I mean like things
like I always say, because my

947
01:03:13,239 --> 01:03:15,400
kids are I'm grinding and out,
well yeah, or I get to it.

948
01:03:16,599 --> 01:03:22,400
I was for him when he said
that house letters from nineteen eighty that's

949
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:25,400
a good way to look in life. So but I just said to him,

950
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:30,320
I'll often say to him, you
just stop thinking that, because that's

951
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:34,239
an exhausting thing. Yeah, I
gotta grind, you know, rinse grind

952
01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:37,880
repeat, Rinse grind or grind rinse
repeat or whatever people say. And I'm

953
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:39,639
like, what if it's always away, like showing off yourself, Like,

954
01:03:39,719 --> 01:03:42,920
yeah, I'm working hard, look
at me. But what if you also

955
01:03:43,039 --> 01:03:45,159
just went, I get to,
you know, yeah, And and I'm

956
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:49,960
sort of I guess humble bragging.
I was here late, but I was

957
01:03:50,039 --> 01:03:52,519
making videos and things because I knew
I had other stuff today. And I

958
01:03:52,599 --> 01:03:54,039
go, but I get to and
that's fucking awesome. Yeah, Like I'm

959
01:03:54,039 --> 01:03:57,199
at the point in my life now
it's like I get to pay my credit

960
01:03:57,239 --> 01:04:00,320
card bill. Man, I get
to and I have no problem I'm doing

961
01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:02,840
it anymore. I get to do
that, I get to go to Austin

962
01:04:03,159 --> 01:04:06,679
and sit through one hundred and forty
degree heat. I get to do it,

963
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:10,079
right. I loved it. It
was great. Just when you think

964
01:04:10,159 --> 01:04:12,880
like that, when you think about
that sets of gratitude, your whole life,

965
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,239
your whole perspective changes, and just
let go of that stuff because it's

966
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:18,679
it never was worth it anyway,
I think so. But that would just

967
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:24,119
be my thing and the other thing, or do the cello shots and don't

968
01:04:24,159 --> 01:04:27,800
write nasty things about your dying father. And I know he was a bad

969
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:31,239
guy, but he's still my dad. He needed a lot of bad stuff.

970
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,039
Let's not bring it up. Why
you even saying That's what I'm saying,

971
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:39,559
Hey, I don't want anybody to
bring up all the bad shit he

972
01:04:39,639 --> 01:04:42,400
did. It's like, well,
okay, why even tempted tiger baby?

973
01:04:42,679 --> 01:04:45,599
Right, because now I'm now they're
about to pounce, even though I'm tipping

974
01:04:45,679 --> 01:04:50,599
my cards letting you guys know,
yes, uh, Doug found the uh

975
01:04:51,079 --> 01:04:54,880
the speaking of bad stuff, and
maybe this is what the father did.

976
01:04:55,159 --> 01:05:00,800
He found the Barbara Walter's interview with
Sean Connery. I think we have it

977
01:05:00,719 --> 01:05:06,760
playing goal with with men than women. Years ago. You didn't interview which

978
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:10,000
make him back to haunt you.
What you know what I'm going to say,

979
01:05:10,079 --> 01:05:12,639
right, No, okay, you
didn't interview in which you said,

980
01:05:13,519 --> 01:05:15,119
not the worst thing to slap a
woman now and then, as I remember,

981
01:05:15,159 --> 01:05:17,199
you said, you don't do it
with a clenched fist. It's better

982
01:05:17,199 --> 01:05:20,920
to do it with an open hand. Yeah remember that? Yeah? Yeah,

983
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:26,000
I love that. I would changed
my opinion. You have it.

984
01:05:26,159 --> 01:05:29,239
No, not you think it's good
to slap a woman. No, I

985
01:05:29,239 --> 01:05:32,440
don't think it's good. I think
it's I don't think it's that bad.

986
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:35,880
I think that it depends entirely on
the circumstances and if it merits it,

987
01:05:36,679 --> 01:05:45,199
what would merit it? Well,
if you if she comes from with an

988
01:05:45,199 --> 01:05:48,320
average you didn't bring me one,
I'm going to smack the bitch in the

989
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:54,800
head. You can't leave it alone. They don't. They want to have

990
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:59,440
Donna. You worked all day unless
you have a Mexican Sunday from ambage.

991
01:06:00,199 --> 01:06:01,920
I checked your earli hours getting on
the work. Now, you either give

992
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:06,960
me that abbots or take it in
the ass. One of the two is

993
01:06:10,159 --> 01:06:13,079
the last word, and you give
him the lap last word. But they're

994
01:06:13,119 --> 01:06:17,320
not happy with the last word.
They want to see it again and get

995
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:27,840
into a really provocative situation. Then
I think it's absolutely right to give a

996
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,559
good slap. Yeah, absolutely,
What if she gives you a good slap

997
01:06:30,639 --> 01:06:34,719
back, Well, then you get
into another area. I mean, then

998
01:06:35,119 --> 01:06:40,039
we're in the bedroom and she tied
me up, branch a little more slap

999
01:06:40,199 --> 01:06:44,559
or harder? Does he continue after? Is that the end of uh?

1000
01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:46,960
Couple. Maybe she's getting to like
it and then it becomes something else.

1001
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:51,119
I don't know, but no,
no, I seriously, I think that

1002
01:06:53,239 --> 01:06:56,480
it's the last resort. He's not
going to do it because he wants to

1003
01:06:56,559 --> 01:07:00,280
do it. Wait will people see
this interview? Are you going to get

1004
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:12,960
mail? Wow? Wow? Wow
wow. So it is an interesting thing

1005
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:16,719
because as I'm I'm hearing him and
I know that sometimes I used to hear

1006
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:19,920
my grandparents yell at each other drop
it, just drop it, drap it.

1007
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:25,679
But they would both do it.
And then but there is sometimes where

1008
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:30,199
and I would say, I already
went around the block in this I'm not

1009
01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:33,679
doing it again, and I would
just walk away, which is different countries,

1010
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:36,519
different cultures. Yeah, but but
I mean the same. But people

1011
01:07:36,559 --> 01:07:41,079
are people. Is My point is
like, yes, and it's not always

1012
01:07:41,159 --> 01:07:45,239
women who keep bringing something up.
The guy could go back wholly, I

1013
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:47,360
just want to say, one more
time, had you not you know,

1014
01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:50,880
and you could go around the block
again. And I always figure it's better

1015
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:55,360
if you can really be calm.
And I remember reading somewhere if you could

1016
01:07:55,400 --> 01:08:00,199
have either get naked and have sex
and then have your tough conversations, you're

1017
01:08:00,239 --> 01:08:04,199
gonna have a way better way of
communicating them if you did, If you

1018
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:08,719
did that, otherwise you're gonna be
Sean Connery. I've heard this once.

1019
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:12,760
We're gonna have to work on your
Sean Connery. I'm sure if I get

1020
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:17,720
an argument with a girl getting naked
shock, she's been three minutes later,

1021
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:23,840
she wants to again and I can
here is uh? And I'm still out

1022
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:30,039
of the abbage. Here is uh? Can I read the pench house form

1023
01:08:30,159 --> 01:08:32,720
live here? Yes? Yes she
can't? Uh? Here is uh?

1024
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:36,680
Deacon Jones talking about the head slap, same kind of thing, but the

1025
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:44,800
breaking arms. This is the realities
Jones head slap. The head slap was

1026
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:48,000
to do two purposes. One was
to give myself an initial head start on

1027
01:08:48,119 --> 01:08:53,319
the past us, in other words, extra step because anytime you go upside

1028
01:08:53,359 --> 01:08:58,199
a man's head or a woman or
a woman, okay, then they have

1029
01:08:58,239 --> 01:09:00,279
a tendency to blink their eyes the
clothes and that was all I need.

1030
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:06,479
David Deacon Joe was goo offside.
I gotta hear it like I couldn't.

1031
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:12,600
I remember seeing this in the NFL. Feels like a man's heir. Oh

1032
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:17,479
woman woman full of if she won't
get the way out of the way.

1033
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:23,880
She just brings cookies out. Give
her around. Deacon he was a ram

1034
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:29,960
he was he was never won a
Super Bowl. He was on the Odd

1035
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:34,720
Couple one my favorite episode. All
Right, we'll take a moment. Uh,

1036
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:42,640
Diana Rassini has left ESPN. Okay, and uh, it's just funny

1037
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,880
how this article goes and the comments
to it, and it just shows you,

1038
01:09:46,199 --> 01:09:49,439
I think, in a way how
hard it is for women in sports.

1039
01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:55,399
And I liked her. I liked
when she would be on a good

1040
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:57,760
not good morning football, what do
they have to get up? Get up?

1041
01:09:57,800 --> 01:10:00,359
On ESPN she would be sometimes guesting
on the or part of the panel,

1042
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:03,239
and I thought she was pretty solid. Thought she did a good job.

1043
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,560
But she she's moved on. And
then the comments to these articles or

1044
01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:11,399
where'd you go? I will tell
you you know what, that's the tea's

1045
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:17,600
Danny. I don't like to be
cheeged right after all right, maybe a

1046
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:21,000
little with a feather, but hash
about end. I'm gonna give me a

1047
01:10:21,079 --> 01:10:26,199
slap of a shot ahead. We'll
get to that right after this. Connors

1048
01:10:26,279 --> 01:10:29,039
and Ferriss in their phone number two
six two comps should always be in the

1049
01:10:29,079 --> 01:10:30,359
back of your mind, because if
you ever wind up with a worker's comp

1050
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:34,560
still security disability and personal injury case, that's the number you call for the

1051
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:41,600
best team for any one of those
workers comp soil security disability. You start

1052
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:45,840
listening to other people, thoughts run
wild, you don't sleep at night,

1053
01:10:45,159 --> 01:10:48,600
you start to really stress. You
call two six two COMP. You know

1054
01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:51,760
you're gonna have a team by your
side advocating for you and giving you the

1055
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:57,199
attention you deserve. That's Connors and
Ferriss. So all that worry, all

1056
01:10:57,279 --> 01:11:01,159
that stress, all those sleepless nights
go away. They go away. You're

1057
01:11:01,159 --> 01:11:05,119
gonna get trust, expertise, and
results from Connors and first they're committed to

1058
01:11:05,199 --> 01:11:09,680
serving you better. And they're only
that quick call away at a very easy

1059
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,680
number to remember, two six two
COMP. That's two six two COMP.

1060
01:11:14,119 --> 01:11:17,479
Connors and Ferris, your workers camp
attorneys. The weight is over. I

1061
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:21,520
thought you were gay because the only
people who'm attracted to our game in and

1062
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:25,039
I you walked in. You were
like what's up? And I was like

1063
01:11:26,359 --> 01:11:31,279
hey, all right, Like I'm
into that. You're tall and you're handsome,

1064
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:34,279
and then you were like in my
husband's name as kweto, and I

1065
01:11:34,359 --> 01:11:38,800
was like there it is, and
that's yeah, this shoe dropped. So

1066
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,720
pickle toss. That's great. So
you didn't win that either. That's salty,

1067
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,960
you know. But who guss Some
are the ones that would always win

1068
01:11:45,319 --> 01:11:50,399
the pickle toss, all the straight
guys, all of them ten points swallowing

1069
01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:57,199
that big old pickle. You have
to catch it in your mouth. Yeah.

1070
01:11:57,359 --> 01:12:00,359
I just want you to know.
I was at my wits end and

1071
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:09,039
I was spread sofin and I was
not and I walked in and game night

1072
01:12:09,079 --> 01:12:12,520
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1101
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1102
01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:10,680
fire all the way from Scotland,
giving me a shrop, giving up from

1103
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:17,680
Bill More. He's playing this because
Caddy shock. Oh yes, judge thousand

1104
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:21,640
bucks and slice into the woods.
I think I did a little Rodney yesterday.

1105
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:28,560
I sure you, yes, I
sure you. I gotta tell you

1106
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:30,920
something. You had it. You
want something, honey, you want to

1107
01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:34,720
make fourteen dollars a hard way better
than my old girlfriend. I had those

1108
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:40,439
girlfriend. She was fat. I
don't know how when she wears high heels

1109
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:43,520
she strikes oil. All right,
we're talking at a bit girl. She

1110
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:45,279
wanted me as a sex, she
wanted me on top. I had to

1111
01:14:45,319 --> 01:14:48,680
get a letter. I finally got
a tumble ears pop. She was ft

1112
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:56,119
on new shugly watch. I'm sorry. She walks in the room, ice

1113
01:14:56,199 --> 01:15:00,359
jump on chairs. I gave her
a hicking out from my mouth. We

1114
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:02,159
were talking an ugly girl hair.
I took her on the top of the

1115
01:15:02,199 --> 01:15:08,560
Empire State Building. Airplane started to
attack, all right. I took her

1116
01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:10,720
home to meet my family. My
mother put a newspaper on the floor.

1117
01:15:11,159 --> 01:15:15,000
I'm talking ugly and dumb too.
How she looked at my calendar. She

1118
01:15:15,039 --> 01:15:20,239
asked me who June was worst cook
in the world. In our house,

1119
01:15:20,279 --> 01:15:24,720
we pray after weed. She made
me let a lamb. I couldn't get

1120
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:28,600
past the wall. I used to
love when he would sit down with Carson.

1121
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:30,560
Oh yeah, I've seen. I
watched some of those old clips once

1122
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:33,079
in a while, and it was
like he was all It was almost like

1123
01:15:33,159 --> 01:15:36,680
he was just miserable all the time, very depressing. Yeah, yeah,

1124
01:15:36,880 --> 01:15:41,720
yeah, I had heard that he
was pretty tough. Yeah, I mean

1125
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:45,680
his parents would put him in the
backyard, let him in lunch and then

1126
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:48,279
give him a heel or a piece
of bread and apple, and then let

1127
01:15:48,359 --> 01:15:51,600
him in at dinner when they was
done. There was that Yeah, good

1128
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:56,880
imagination there. Yeah. Well he
was a comic and then him his wife

1129
01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:59,319
were both in entertainment and they said, okay, let's get out of it.

1130
01:15:59,399 --> 01:16:02,920
Let's yea regular jobs. And then
he was writing jokes on the side

1131
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,840
and came back is Rodney Dangerfield.
I can't remember what his real name was,

1132
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:11,479
and then like it. Yeah,
he was an illuminum signing salesman.

1133
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,960
Yeah, but then she had mental
health issues. Yes, and he came

1134
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:16,600
back to New Year. You read
the book too, then, I don't

1135
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:19,279
read. Oh you didn't read his
book. I know. Oh, I

1136
01:16:19,319 --> 01:16:21,520
read his book. I loved it. Yeah, it was an easy read,

1137
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:25,039
quick read. If I can find
it all. Yeah, I would

1138
01:16:25,039 --> 01:16:27,800
love to him. I've watched the
biography a couple times. We just look

1139
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:31,600
at the cover. I don't know
why I don't have his bag, if

1140
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:35,199
you believe me or not. Actually, I've got Johnny's biography from his lawyer's

1141
01:16:35,199 --> 01:16:40,199
aspect of That was a really good
read. Johnny, I don't know anything

1142
01:16:40,239 --> 01:16:45,399
about that. Yeah, he died. Uh. He never got appreciation from

1143
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:50,680
his mother and he was always yearning
for that. And uh, he ended

1144
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:59,520
up dying alone from zema UCLA.
And he would drop people like that yeah,

1145
01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:02,439
you do. I'm wrong and that
Joan Rivers. Yeah, even him

1146
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:04,760
as a lawyer, he thought he
screwed him over. He's like, we're

1147
01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:08,720
done. Is that? How He
Mandel tells this story about the day that

1148
01:17:09,119 --> 01:17:13,720
Johnny finds out that, uh,
Sammy Davis Junior head cancer and he wasn't

1149
01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:16,720
gonna live very long. So Johnny
was he was supposed to be on the

1150
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:19,600
show Sammy Davis Junior. He can
canceled because he has cancer now, so

1151
01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:21,960
now he's got to find a replacement. So he calls how He Mandel,

1152
01:17:23,239 --> 01:17:26,520
and how He Mandel has no act
that night, so how He Mandel decides

1153
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,199
that he's gonna bring in I forgot
what he brought him, but he brought

1154
01:17:29,279 --> 01:17:33,239
in this huge like uh stuff Bunny
or something like that, stuff that I

1155
01:17:33,279 --> 01:17:35,760
don't know what it was, and
cameras are moving and stuff, and he's

1156
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:40,520
bringing it in and johnnys what's this
because I don't want to talk about it,

1157
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,039
and Johnny he thought it was funny. John didn't think it funny because

1158
01:17:44,039 --> 01:17:45,840
that was the last time I talk
to Johnny. He never talked to me

1159
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:48,199
again after that, Like I sabotaged
his show. On the day that Sammy

1160
01:17:48,279 --> 01:17:53,399
Davis Junior finds out he's got cancer, and that was I forgot what he

1161
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:55,560
tried to bring in. But he's
tried to bring in something like a big

1162
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,880
stuffed mascot or something like that.
I don't know because he had no act

1163
01:17:59,079 --> 01:18:00,439
that. He was just gonna say, I don't want to talk about it.

1164
01:18:00,560 --> 01:18:04,800
Well, how it was really CrowdWork. A lot of CrowdWork. Yeah,

1165
01:18:05,199 --> 01:18:10,239
a lot of that. A lot
of things happening over and at ESPN,

1166
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:15,399
and you're seeing different people no longer
there and all this, and I

1167
01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:18,319
noticed that Diana Roussini wasn't there.
And then I see an article in the

1168
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:24,319
ever well written New York Post and
she said, I did walk away.

1169
01:18:25,079 --> 01:18:27,960
She was talking to Peter king who's
now at NBC Sports he used to be

1170
01:18:28,079 --> 01:18:30,600
for Supports. Yeah. I talked
to Diana Roussini and here's what she told

1171
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:34,520
me. Peter Kingley has to put
himself in every story. It wasn't it

1172
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:40,039
wasn't a situation where ESPN didn't want
me. I love ESPN. They've given

1173
01:18:40,159 --> 01:18:43,800
me so much opportunity and the people
I've worked with were incredible. It was

1174
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,399
really difficult decision for me, for
my family. But It really came down

1175
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:50,359
to recognizing at ESPN, I wasn't
going to change roles. There was no

1176
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:55,520
elevation there for me. Based on
my conversations with the company, they did

1177
01:18:55,600 --> 01:19:00,439
not have a vision outside of what
I currently do now. ESPN reportedly offered

1178
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:04,079
her a raise to stay despite the
company laying off multiple big name employees,

1179
01:19:04,119 --> 01:19:08,760
and they did. There were a
lot and uh, she hustles. I

1180
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,520
mean she she does the work.
Yeah, as part of the parent company,

1181
01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:16,199
Disney's cost cutting measures. Now,
we did talk about the rumor that

1182
01:19:16,319 --> 01:19:20,520
Apple is looking to buy ESPN,
and they think that that could be a

1183
01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:26,199
fifty million dollars deal billion or billion
expect, yes, fifty billion, because

1184
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:30,600
Cone could buy ESPN tomorrow, but
there are two hundred and seventy three trillion

1185
01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:33,640
dollars. Did I say, was
that with the Apples worth? Yes?

1186
01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:38,119
Some Yeah, so like that that
would be one that they could get.

1187
01:19:38,159 --> 01:19:42,920
Now, others have heard they were
trying to buy the whole Disney broadcast packets,

1188
01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:45,279
but I don't know. Uh.
The Athletic is where she's going,

1189
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:50,359
Okay, she which was bought by
The New York Times's The Athletic is a

1190
01:19:50,479 --> 01:19:57,159
subscription based website an app platform really, but the Athletic, it's like the

1191
01:19:57,159 --> 01:20:00,239
subscriptions down for like a dollar a
month. How they're making money, I

1192
01:20:00,359 --> 01:20:03,199
really don't. Well, because they
were bought by the New York Times.

1193
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:08,000
New York Times bought him for five
hundred and fifty million dollars back in January,

1194
01:20:08,640 --> 01:20:12,199
so the I know. But still
though, well, I think then

1195
01:20:12,319 --> 01:20:16,000
you've got probably the ad revenue,
and maybe you increase the subscription base and

1196
01:20:16,079 --> 01:20:18,680
you take some of the reporters and
you have them right for the Times.

1197
01:20:19,199 --> 01:20:23,560
So the Athletics, through conversations I
had with all the people in charge,

1198
01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:27,319
she said, Justice has an endless
amount of roles and ideas for me.

1199
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:30,199
They want information, they want a
storyteller, they want someone with personality.

1200
01:20:30,319 --> 01:20:34,039
Once I realized they were pretty much
handing me over a blank sheet of paper

1201
01:20:34,119 --> 01:20:39,239
that basically just said go be who
you want to be, I realized this

1202
01:20:39,359 --> 01:20:44,199
could change my life. And then
she still holds her TV rights. In

1203
01:20:44,279 --> 01:20:46,600
other words, she could sign on
with NBC. Or that's true too.

1204
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,640
Yeah, when you work at the
Athletic, you could also do TV with

1205
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:54,159
anybody you're not beholding like Jake Lazer
does the Athletic. Ken Rosenthal does the

1206
01:20:54,199 --> 01:20:56,760
Athletic or he used to, and
he used to do Fox. They both

1207
01:20:56,800 --> 01:21:00,800
do Fox Television, so you could
so I wouldn't be literally just a it's

1208
01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:03,119
a writer's medium. Well they I
guess. But do they do video as

1209
01:21:03,159 --> 01:21:05,680
well? I haven't. They do, but not a ton. It's mostly

1210
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:10,760
writing and podcasting. Okay. So
I was like, it's kind of an

1211
01:21:10,840 --> 01:21:15,960
interesting thing for her to look at
as as these roles and media change,

1212
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:19,000
right, I mean, we're we're
seeing the roles change, things change right

1213
01:21:19,039 --> 01:21:25,560
here, and we're sitting here.
I wonder if it gives you that independent

1214
01:21:25,640 --> 01:21:29,359
platform without being exactly independent, does
it say what she wanted to do?

1215
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:30,439
Did she want to go into produce
it? She wanted to do. She

1216
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:33,439
liked the writing, she liked the
storytelling, she liked being a personality,

1217
01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:36,840
and she liked being able to cut
her own deals for TV. Uh So

1218
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,680
this was an opportunity to do that. The word you're gonna get two jobs

1219
01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:44,000
now for the price of you know, you'd be able to like, you

1220
01:21:44,039 --> 01:21:45,840
know, make the money. I
mean, I think there is an opportunity

1221
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:50,079
there to make to make more money. The Athletic, though it has been

1222
01:21:50,199 --> 01:21:54,279
like hanging by a thread for a
while. I mean, I have an

1223
01:21:54,319 --> 01:21:59,560
athletic subscription and I have never had
an athletic subscription because I got to this

1224
01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:01,560
point where I'm like, no more. Well here's the thing. It's long

1225
01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:05,119
form or what no more subscriptions because
I got some fucking many. I don't

1226
01:22:05,119 --> 01:22:12,680
even know what the problem with the
athletic Penthouse suspicion, Hustler. Finally you

1227
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:16,600
talk about the United States Postal Service
nineteen fucking eighty seven. Finally got here

1228
01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:20,600
in twenty twenty three two. But
the thing about the athletic there was it's

1229
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:25,600
all long form, beautiful journalism.
We don't have long form time to read

1230
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:29,159
them. Well, but if you
you really don't, but if you subscribe,

1231
01:22:29,279 --> 01:22:32,039
and I do, maybe you don't
have time to Most people make me.

1232
01:22:32,319 --> 01:22:34,439
People make time. The other thing, too, is that like if

1233
01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:38,039
you're a Yankee fan, let's say
baseball is a daily sport. I want

1234
01:22:38,079 --> 01:22:41,319
a story every night after the game
about what happened. They don't write stories

1235
01:22:41,399 --> 01:22:44,119
every day. They write stories maybe
two or three days a week. But

1236
01:22:44,199 --> 01:22:47,840
they're more are they more almost human
interest side of sports? Is that fair

1237
01:22:47,880 --> 01:22:49,960
to say? Or am I it
is? But it isn't like in other

1238
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:53,640
words, they're they're giving you the
backstory, but it's much more flowery,

1239
01:22:54,079 --> 01:22:57,239
it's longer form. In other words, the New York Post is gonna tell

1240
01:22:57,239 --> 01:23:00,800
you what happened last night, like
at like twelve o six am. Yes,

1241
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:02,000
you know the athletics. Like it's
gonna take a couple of days and

1242
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:05,279
then we're gonna finally get to all
the games. What's really going on right

1243
01:23:05,359 --> 01:23:09,520
now? The same thing with the
bills. I kind of I don't hate

1244
01:23:09,600 --> 01:23:12,319
that because if I know when I'm
getting into, because you just kind of

1245
01:23:12,399 --> 01:23:14,840
laid it out there, you're getting
better journalists, get no question. You

1246
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:17,399
can go to the Twitter world for
the quick sports stuff or you know,

1247
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:21,560
the news, and I can then
go to or Threads or the New York

1248
01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:27,159
Post, and then I can go
here for the more in depth almost thinking

1249
01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:30,119
right, the thinking Man sports paper
is what it sort of sounds like it

1250
01:23:30,239 --> 01:23:32,119
right, It writes like everybody writes
like they're a calumnist for the athletics.

1251
01:23:32,159 --> 01:23:34,560
Okay, even if they're a beat
reporter. There's some danger in that,

1252
01:23:34,800 --> 01:23:40,159
but well there is because all right, I don't know everybody. Everybody's talking

1253
01:23:40,199 --> 01:23:42,159
in first person. It's like dude, I watched the f and game.

1254
01:23:42,199 --> 01:23:46,119
You don't have to tell me what
you think, right, I'm read for

1255
01:23:46,159 --> 01:23:48,239
the Times a Wayne County. I
don't write in first person. That's like

1256
01:23:48,279 --> 01:23:51,279
a hard fast rule. So these
guys writing first person, I'll haven't read

1257
01:23:51,319 --> 01:23:55,479
his article yet. That once,
isn't that horrible? Seven years of writing

1258
01:23:55,520 --> 01:23:58,399
three articles a week and he has
not read one of them. He's made

1259
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:00,600
fun of before it. But he's
a redditch, that's true. You where

1260
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:03,920
do you write for Times? Wayne
County Times? Wayne County? Yeah,

1261
01:24:04,159 --> 01:24:09,920
it's a weekly paper. Bring it
in, Hey, y'all, do it

1262
01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:13,000
out in Wayne County. Y'all.
You know where you're twining in the Wayne

1263
01:24:13,039 --> 01:24:26,039
County Times on Rodney Dangerfield's mother's floor
when jeez, I'm teasing. So people

1264
01:24:26,159 --> 01:24:29,439
had so I had to go to
the comments make comments about Diana Rossini.

1265
01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:31,039
Well, I had to go to
the comments section because I always like to

1266
01:24:31,119 --> 01:24:34,880
see what are people. First of
all, the fact that you would take

1267
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:40,279
the time to write a comment on
an article that you read is a foreign

1268
01:24:40,359 --> 01:24:43,279
to me. I read it,
consume it, but then I get I

1269
01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:46,640
give comments here, So maybe I'm
doing basically the same thing. But I

1270
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:50,279
just never would really write a comment
to anything. I may discuss it with

1271
01:24:50,359 --> 01:24:55,479
my friends sitting down. Well,
let me tell you my thoughts. So

1272
01:24:55,600 --> 01:25:00,479
somebody writes The New York Times owns
the athletic dictating the woke comments terry by

1273
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:03,640
writers will mirror that of ESPN.
Rassini didn't improve her environment if she wanted

1274
01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:10,760
freedom of expression. Somebody else writes, she's a quote NFL insider question mark

1275
01:25:11,239 --> 01:25:15,439
what top secret in't tell? Does
she have to share? She's broken a

1276
01:25:15,479 --> 01:25:19,159
few stories. There's always gonna be
somebody who's got to write that stuff.

1277
01:25:19,279 --> 01:25:24,159
Like the comments section was what was
the guy's name was? Charles sixty nine?

1278
01:25:24,279 --> 01:25:26,520
Sixty nine? Was that the person
who commented, I don't know,

1279
01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:30,119
but here comes my favorite comment on
here? And then there's a follow up

1280
01:25:30,199 --> 01:25:33,199
with another guy who commented under it, who cares about Diane and Rassini?

1281
01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:42,159
I found her annoying. She's not
even pretty. My god, Yeah,

1282
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,720
you had to write that, And
that guy's name was something along the lines

1283
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:50,720
of what you wrote. And then
somebody comments underneath, Uh, she looked

1284
01:25:50,720 --> 01:25:57,800
a lot better ten years ago,
And I go, this is impossible for

1285
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:01,319
women to do this job. Fucking
I possible it is fucking impossible. It

1286
01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:05,640
is. I will say this.
I will say this, if you're a

1287
01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:12,520
female in this industry, you you're
really good at it, and you look

1288
01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:16,039
great, You'll be elevated really really
quickly. Okay, because there's it's it's

1289
01:26:16,039 --> 01:26:19,880
such a male dominated industry that the
men have to their work has to be

1290
01:26:20,279 --> 01:26:25,399
above and beyond their peers to make
it. It does. You have to

1291
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:29,039
have the right facts, the right
connections, everything. Like guys like Adam

1292
01:26:29,079 --> 01:26:32,199
Schefter and Jake Glazer all made it
because they all broke the right stories at

1293
01:26:32,239 --> 01:26:35,520
the right time they had the connection. It's always funny how I'm not knocking

1294
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:40,640
the local reporters, but I will
they never they I have to go to

1295
01:26:40,800 --> 01:26:43,640
NFL dot com to get the bills
cuts, but I don't get it from

1296
01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:46,640
the local guys until a national guys
retweeted that you report on the local eff

1297
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:53,640
team, but they'll put the put
the national guys break the fucking story.

1298
01:26:54,199 --> 01:26:59,159
Isn't that funny? Now? When
it comes to women reporter, what you

1299
01:26:59,239 --> 01:27:00,720
got it? You gotta know your
stuff too, and some of them do,

1300
01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:03,279
and there are others who really don't
know their stuff but just look good

1301
01:27:03,319 --> 01:27:06,800
on television. Yeah, yeah,
and there's a lot of and that's where

1302
01:27:06,840 --> 01:27:10,800
these guys get in and say stuff
like that because and I'm not saying it's

1303
01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:15,000
right, it's wrong, but it'll
But that's what television does because it is

1304
01:27:15,079 --> 01:27:17,960
that's what that's what they're doing.
Pretty people and we like and then the

1305
01:27:18,039 --> 01:27:21,319
pretty women, and we see a
lot of pretty women who are on the

1306
01:27:21,359 --> 01:27:25,560
sidelines. Yeah, like Joy Taylor
from Fox got the job because her brother

1307
01:27:25,680 --> 01:27:29,039
was an NFL player and she's beautiful, but she she can't break a story.

1308
01:27:29,079 --> 01:27:31,760
She makes up words. She literally
makes up words on television. I've

1309
01:27:31,800 --> 01:27:35,720
actually heard her. Then there's people
like Diana Roussini who actually breaks stories and

1310
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:39,720
then get crapped like that once she
gets crapped like that because of people like

1311
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:44,479
Joey Taylor who got in because of
nepotism, or Aaron Andrews, who really

1312
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:47,920
isn't that great reporter, but man, she looks great, doesn't she doesn't

1313
01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:50,920
she until she has a kid,
and then the network says, you know

1314
01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:56,560
what, you've been out for six
months. Probably she doesn't, but we're

1315
01:27:56,600 --> 01:28:00,000
probably gonna move on to somebody else
now because that's what happens, and it's

1316
01:28:00,079 --> 01:28:03,920
sad, but that's what happens.
It's I'm not saying it's right. I'm

1317
01:28:03,920 --> 01:28:08,000
saying, like, we got to
move on to the to the youngest hot

1318
01:28:08,079 --> 01:28:10,279
chick. Who is she, Who's
the up and comer, who's the big

1319
01:28:10,359 --> 01:28:12,560
looker? We got to get her
on the sidelines. Who is she?

1320
01:28:13,319 --> 01:28:17,079
I watch one sports show and that's
part of the interruption. Yeah, basis

1321
01:28:18,279 --> 01:28:24,760
twenty years two guys from the Muppet
Show up in the balcony. But because

1322
01:28:24,800 --> 01:28:30,479
they're informed, but they break it
down as I love that. Yeah,

1323
01:28:30,520 --> 01:28:33,119
and they both covered beats for twenty
years before they became columnists. They paid

1324
01:28:33,159 --> 01:28:35,159
their dues, they didn't write a
blog, and all of a sudden,

1325
01:28:35,399 --> 01:28:39,439
I know everything. I can't believe
this show has been on for almost twenty

1326
01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:43,079
five ye twenty six years. They're
still doing it from their house During COVID

1327
01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:48,239
Tony comes in. Tony only comes
into the into the office if Mike's in

1328
01:28:48,359 --> 01:28:55,479
Washington. The show is supposed to
be basically washing. Now he spits splits

1329
01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:59,039
his time. But yeah, so
I wonder if we'll see an article in

1330
01:28:59,079 --> 01:29:02,960
The Athletic about Damar Hamlin make it
making the fifty three man roster. I'm

1331
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,600
sure we will. How about that
it'll be mentioned. Yeah, I'm that's

1332
01:29:05,600 --> 01:29:09,319
surprised of that. I'm not either. I thought he played pretty well in

1333
01:29:09,680 --> 01:29:13,399
the preseason. I don't know how
he'll do. Who knows anything, right,

1334
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:16,239
But I mean, wow, if
he's not comeback player of the Year,

1335
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,239
I'm sorry. I mean, don't
you think? I mean, I

1336
01:29:19,319 --> 01:29:25,159
came back from the dead place side
go, you've got coo got it?

1337
01:29:25,199 --> 01:29:28,680
Oh? Did top Brady come back
again? You say a bit? You

1338
01:29:28,880 --> 01:29:31,720
cannot? I mean, oh,
Von Miller coming off the pup list,

1339
01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:35,439
you get Kyle Kyler, Murray's on
the you know, uh, players unable

1340
01:29:35,479 --> 01:29:40,800
to perform, list overcome, not
wanting to be in Indianapolis, all those.

1341
01:29:41,079 --> 01:29:44,479
But I mean, come on,
Damar Hamlin, you're a comeback player

1342
01:29:44,479 --> 01:29:46,159
of the year. Are for you? Before he even takes a stats the

1343
01:29:46,279 --> 01:29:49,159
thing samething with Alex Smith? Would
he like tore his leg at eight places?

1344
01:29:49,359 --> 01:29:51,119
Yeah? Oh he's back, I'll
come back player of the year.

1345
01:29:51,199 --> 01:29:56,319
He got me. I think people
are gonna wait for him to get hit

1346
01:29:56,479 --> 01:30:00,479
or what do Sills do that he
was railed a round him, and yes

1347
01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:02,159
they did. We can't. We've
got at least keep for another year and

1348
01:30:02,199 --> 01:30:04,359
if it doesn't work, I don't
I don't know what his contract is.

1349
01:30:04,439 --> 01:30:08,520
I don't know if that was really
the case or not. Doug I maybe,

1350
01:30:08,760 --> 01:30:12,479
but I watched some of these preseason
he was in Man, he's stuffed

1351
01:30:12,479 --> 01:30:15,359
people at the light lane from the
cornerback position on blitz Is he was and

1352
01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:19,880
he said, I can't hesitate.
I don't know what sports psychologists went in

1353
01:30:19,960 --> 01:30:25,199
there. I don't know, or
maybe this is just him, but wow,

1354
01:30:25,479 --> 01:30:28,840
but everybody knows that the second game, the Bills didn't play very well

1355
01:30:28,840 --> 01:30:31,239
against Pittsburgh, so they really need
to like kind of show up for Chicago.

1356
01:30:31,720 --> 01:30:33,800
But by the third game, and
I didn't get to watch much of

1357
01:30:33,840 --> 01:30:39,119
I watched the thirty minute convinced replay. You know, DeMar Hamlet wasn't even

1358
01:30:39,119 --> 01:30:41,600
an issue anymore. It was like
he was just another guy out there playing

1359
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:44,640
football. And that's what you want
if you're DeMar Hamlet's what you want if

1360
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:46,039
you're the Bills. You don't want
have to remember the fact that he oh

1361
01:30:46,239 --> 01:30:49,039
died in the field, that he's
he's okay to go out and play and

1362
01:30:49,119 --> 01:30:53,119
played the way he's supposed to.
I think this is his final year because

1363
01:30:53,159 --> 01:30:55,000
he was. He was I think
he was drafted like three or four years

1364
01:30:55,039 --> 01:30:57,520
ago. So he's coming up on
his final year of his contract. Okay,

1365
01:30:57,800 --> 01:31:00,520
well we'll see. I give the
guy. He wasn't a starter.

1366
01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:02,439
He was he was a backup,
and I think he'll be a back.

1367
01:31:02,600 --> 01:31:05,800
Yeah. I think he'll probably resume
that role. But it gives him depth

1368
01:31:06,000 --> 01:31:10,600
at the cornerback position and it's pretty
good. But by the way, the

1369
01:31:10,640 --> 01:31:14,560
Bills a trade another traded a second
round pick today. Yeah, for pocket

1370
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:17,880
change. Yeah, you worried about
the way they select this team. What

1371
01:31:17,960 --> 01:31:24,359
are they? Who do they traft
picks? Their traff picks The last few

1372
01:31:24,439 --> 01:31:29,000
years have been some head scratch.
So they traded Boogie Bash him a defensive

1373
01:31:29,119 --> 01:31:31,479
end. Yeah, they traded him
for like a late round pick with the

1374
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:34,359
Giants. And I think the late
round pick comes in twenty twenty five.

1375
01:31:34,439 --> 01:31:38,239
You don't even get it next year. You get it two years from now.

1376
01:31:38,319 --> 01:31:40,560
And you traded him to your buddies
who used to work for you,

1377
01:31:41,199 --> 01:31:44,359
you know, and it's just like
he was a second round pick. Yeah,

1378
01:31:44,560 --> 01:31:46,079
I mean, like, what are
you what are we doing, Buffalo?

1379
01:31:46,119 --> 01:31:47,600
What do you what are you guys
doing? I don't know. I

1380
01:31:47,680 --> 01:31:50,359
mean, look, Trey Lance is
a third overall pick. I traded for

1381
01:31:50,520 --> 01:31:57,960
a fourth and Buffalo offered a fifth
for Trey So I don't know. We're

1382
01:31:57,960 --> 01:32:00,319
all in on Brack Purty, I'll
tell you that. And I knew they

1383
01:32:00,319 --> 01:32:02,600
were gonna trade Trey Lance. Let's
they have a quarterback controversy. Yeah,

1384
01:32:02,760 --> 01:32:05,600
you know, and we gave up
a lot for him. But you know,

1385
01:32:05,720 --> 01:32:10,079
we're one play went hit away from
the Super Bowl against backup. Where

1386
01:32:10,079 --> 01:32:13,199
did you get that Bill traded?
I didn't read that at Yeah, yeah,

1387
01:32:13,239 --> 01:32:15,680
it's been out everywhere that I didn't
know that he was in on the

1388
01:32:15,760 --> 01:32:18,359
Trey Lance thing. He offered a
fifth round for Trey Lance because they because

1389
01:32:18,760 --> 01:32:23,039
they're not sold on I mean clearly
sold on either of the backups. But

1390
01:32:23,199 --> 01:32:26,079
still you need somebody in the who
who I think they were gonna go with

1391
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,399
at Kyle Allen and they'll have yeah, they don't have the choice. Then

1392
01:32:29,520 --> 01:32:32,000
Map will be the emergency guy.
He'll be he'll be the practice squad quarterback.

1393
01:32:32,079 --> 01:32:34,720
Yeah, then but he'll dress for
emergencies during the game. And then

1394
01:32:35,600 --> 01:32:38,840
but I think that's kind of their
thing. And then he just kind of

1395
01:32:38,840 --> 01:32:42,359
hoping praik Josh doesn't get hurt.
People people are like questioning the Cowboys for

1396
01:32:42,479 --> 01:32:45,119
making that move because the thing about
the backup quarterback nowadays, it's not like

1397
01:32:45,159 --> 01:32:47,520
the days of Jim Kelly where you
need a great number two, and that

1398
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:51,319
was Frank Reich. The forty nine
Ers had Steve Young behind Joe Montage and

1399
01:32:51,359 --> 01:32:56,960
then with Steve Bono behind Steve Young. Like backup quarterbacks now don't tell anymore.

1400
01:32:57,000 --> 01:32:59,359
So the guy who's gonna be a
backup court Elvis kirback right, the

1401
01:32:59,399 --> 01:33:02,239
guy is gonna be the backup quarterback
has to basically be the second offensive coordinator.

1402
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:05,000
He's got to help the quarterback with
another pair of eyes saying, hey,

1403
01:33:05,039 --> 01:33:09,000
there's where you're tray Lance hate that
guy. So if they were gonna

1404
01:33:09,039 --> 01:33:11,000
trade for tray Lance, maybe a
time, you're gonna have a guy who

1405
01:33:11,000 --> 01:33:14,439
play baby. What eight freaking games
in the last five years is Josh Allen's

1406
01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:16,880
backup That makes no sense to me. I think they thought he had the

1407
01:33:16,960 --> 01:33:21,680
athletic ability to kind of go in
and handle the same offense, where you

1408
01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:25,640
also have to be smart if Josh, you know, if Josh gets hurt

1409
01:33:25,880 --> 01:33:30,960
during a game, you dropped Kyle
Allen in there, but you really have

1410
01:33:30,079 --> 01:33:35,000
to change the game plan for the
weeks going forward because he just can't handle

1411
01:33:35,079 --> 01:33:40,119
the same same offense. You couldn't
figure out that offense in San Francisco,

1412
01:33:40,199 --> 01:33:43,239
which is also like not not easy. Yeah, I don't know. I

1413
01:33:43,279 --> 01:33:45,279
mean, look, they didn't be
cowboys, got like crap for that.

1414
01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:48,159
Yeah, I know, I'm not
I don't know. And I think there

1415
01:33:48,239 --> 01:33:51,319
are a lot of people who feel
like Trey Lance didn't get a chance.

1416
01:33:53,000 --> 01:33:57,239
I didn't get an opportunity, did
have that injury, and then is only

1417
01:33:57,319 --> 01:34:00,600
twenty three years old, and could
he be coached up and the right people

1418
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:01,680
to coach him? I mean,
if you're gonna make a trading Lance move,

1419
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:04,640
then why don't you go sign what's
this? What's that kid's name?

1420
01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:09,920
Carson Wentz off the street, who's
kind of like Josh Allen, only he's

1421
01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:12,119
got some he's got some issues.
But now you know, okay, he

1422
01:34:12,319 --> 01:34:14,600
is the number two son. You
know you're the number two, right,

1423
01:34:14,640 --> 01:34:16,199
so you need to like show up
and show out if you want to make

1424
01:34:16,239 --> 01:34:18,640
a name for yourself. Here's a
second chance. It'll cost you nothing.

1425
01:34:18,920 --> 01:34:21,640
You can get him on a veteran
minimum deal that would make more sense than

1426
01:34:21,680 --> 01:34:25,840
traded for trade lance. That I'm
just I didn't know that that. That

1427
01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:29,920
blows my mind that they would actually
because I thought, you know, he's

1428
01:34:29,960 --> 01:34:34,039
twenty three and you give it.
Maybe they're signing he needs some'll really coach

1429
01:34:34,119 --> 01:34:38,680
him up too. But when you're
only getting like a fraction of the snaps

1430
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:40,920
and practice, you're not really getting
anywhere. That's why being a back of

1431
01:34:41,039 --> 01:34:44,600
quarterback so much harder. Now,
well, I don't know if practice squad.

1432
01:34:44,680 --> 01:34:46,119
I have no idea. I mean, I'm not I'm not arguing with

1433
01:34:46,199 --> 01:34:49,239
you. I'm just saying I'm just
thinking out loud. Again. Uh,

1434
01:34:49,560 --> 01:34:55,800
we sh'll take a moment. Sorry, The anal bead cheater is back.

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Se ns. I always loved the
shot went Together. I watch Somebodi

1478
01:38:42,800 --> 01:39:00,840
Luther vandros No, Teddy Pendergrass,
Teddy went some Hot Old mey say she

1479
01:39:01,479 --> 01:39:12,239
turn off the lights? Come.
I love the song turn off the lights

1480
01:39:12,960 --> 01:39:15,560
Girl. When I met my girlfriend, she was afraid of the dark because

1481
01:39:15,560 --> 01:39:24,600
she saw me naked. Now she's
afraid of the light. Listen closing,

1482
01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:30,359
No watch, there's one point where
he almost gets violent song You're the only

1483
01:39:30,600 --> 01:39:41,640
strack. I want to love you, Love you all over, Love you

1484
01:39:41,800 --> 01:40:00,840
all over. Whoa Must we love
she and get in here hang on this

1485
01:40:00,920 --> 01:40:12,359
one. Did you have this on
vinyl as a child? No, I

1486
01:40:13,079 --> 01:40:17,399
don't know where it was definitely Uh. When I got into radio, they

1487
01:40:17,520 --> 01:40:23,520
had, so I would, I
would. I was doing like Saturday Night

1488
01:40:24,000 --> 01:40:29,159
midnight to six was my first FM
shift, and somebody called up and asked

1489
01:40:29,239 --> 01:40:35,600
for leader of the band by h
John Fogelberg, I think it is.

1490
01:40:36,319 --> 01:40:41,079
And it's like a really sappy song
of people are calling up, going you

1491
01:40:41,479 --> 01:40:45,600
suck fuck off, blah blah blah. And then somebody else goes, hey,

1492
01:40:45,600 --> 01:40:47,439
do you know Teddy Pendergrass? And
I had heard the name and I

1493
01:40:47,920 --> 01:40:51,880
looked through the albums and there's Teddy
Pendergrass and they go if they got turned

1494
01:40:51,880 --> 01:40:55,039
off the lights, you gotta play
it. And I played it and I

1495
01:40:55,319 --> 01:40:58,880
fucking love the song. People are
calling up, man, we're drinking about

1496
01:40:58,960 --> 01:41:01,279
we want AZZI, what do you
do it? I'm playing any ship I

1497
01:41:01,319 --> 01:41:03,840
wanted, And I go, this
is the greatest control ever, Right,

1498
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:08,000
you're pissing people off. I'm gonna
remember who we are. This is awesome.

1499
01:41:08,039 --> 01:41:10,680
I was nineteen years old. But
there again, somebody's in the bass

1500
01:41:10,720 --> 01:41:13,239
the car making out all of a
sudden, Teddy, Yeah, you're actually

1501
01:41:13,319 --> 01:41:18,760
helping somebody out too. Maybe not
the fret party, but comes there.

1502
01:41:35,399 --> 01:41:40,199
So here's the thing. I watched
the Teddy Pendergrass I think it was on

1503
01:41:40,319 --> 01:41:45,000
Showtime documentary they did. Now Teddy
wound up in a wheelchair, and if

1504
01:41:45,039 --> 01:41:47,720
you remember Live Aid and all,
he came out and he sang with Chuck

1505
01:41:47,760 --> 01:41:51,039
A. Khan and he's in his
He's in a wheelchair. He wound up

1506
01:41:51,079 --> 01:41:58,439
paralyzed from a car accident. But
I have a theory, and I never

1507
01:41:58,680 --> 01:42:02,199
have I ever seen this theory proven. I haven't seen it disproven. But

1508
01:42:02,439 --> 01:42:08,119
nobody's ever approached this theory, and
I hope someone. Now I've said this

1509
01:42:08,279 --> 01:42:11,560
many times. I said it on
the radio, and I'm gonna say it

1510
01:42:11,640 --> 01:42:15,720
again on the podcast. Teddy Pendergrass
was a ladies man. They wanted to

1511
01:42:15,800 --> 01:42:20,600
take Teddy mainstream. They wanted to
take him off what we'll call black radio

1512
01:42:21,640 --> 01:42:27,600
and put him in mainstream radio.
They called him the black Elvis, and

1513
01:42:27,680 --> 01:42:30,439
they wanted to even like kind of
clean some of this stuff up. And

1514
01:42:30,720 --> 01:42:33,399
he had a very sultry voice.
He was a good looking guy. Women

1515
01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:36,720
responded to him. There was a
lot of weird shit that went on around.

1516
01:42:36,800 --> 01:42:41,239
Teddy was based in Philadelphia. He
had a female manager. One of

1517
01:42:41,279 --> 01:42:45,159
the first she winds up dead some
money deal that went bad, but had

1518
01:42:45,199 --> 01:42:47,960
nothing to do with Teddy. It
had to do with like the clubs or

1519
01:42:48,039 --> 01:42:53,079
whatever. Right, So there were
people that were trying to control Teddy's whole

1520
01:42:53,359 --> 01:43:00,520
thing and taking a Teddy, you
get out of the way, that's just

1521
01:43:00,960 --> 01:43:03,800
come in here. Here's the best
part. I think that had to be

1522
01:43:04,119 --> 01:43:10,079
her husband. He started walking straight
and like missed the turn off to go

1523
01:43:10,199 --> 01:43:15,720
up. He's still looking at it
because he wants to know why, So

1524
01:43:15,840 --> 01:43:20,960
why is she waving so so Teddy
then, but Teddy was also he had

1525
01:43:21,000 --> 01:43:28,760
a girlfriend and he was out at
some party and he picks up a he

1526
01:43:28,920 --> 01:43:33,119
sees this other young chick, younger
chick, and he had a green I

1527
01:43:33,159 --> 01:43:36,000
think he had a green Cadillac.
It was like his prize thing. So

1528
01:43:36,079 --> 01:43:40,439
he knew. Like when Teddy rolled
in to the hood, Teddy had the

1529
01:43:40,479 --> 01:43:44,159
green Cadillac. People saw it coming. People knew Teddy Teddy. Teddy Teddy

1530
01:43:44,239 --> 01:43:48,119
was a man of the people and
people and Teddy was also a man who

1531
01:43:48,359 --> 01:43:51,199
had an appetite. He was a
man of passion, I'll call it.

1532
01:43:51,600 --> 01:43:57,199
He liked the ladies, so he
had he had a girlfriend who was fairly

1533
01:43:57,279 --> 01:44:01,920
serious. He's got both of them
in the Cadillac, the new chick and

1534
01:44:02,239 --> 01:44:05,680
the other chick, and he says
to his girlfriend in the documentary, she

1535
01:44:05,760 --> 01:44:11,399
says this because Teddy's now dead.
She says, he told me I'm gonna

1536
01:44:11,439 --> 01:44:17,079
bring you home. I'm gonna drop
you off a home and so she's like,

1537
01:44:17,239 --> 01:44:19,239
well, you know, this is
kind of what Teddy did, and

1538
01:44:19,279 --> 01:44:24,439
blah blah blah, and I guess
if you're gonna be with Teddy Pendergrass,

1539
01:44:24,880 --> 01:44:28,760
if you're gonna be out scene with
Teddy, And that's part of the allure,

1540
01:44:29,000 --> 01:44:32,640
right that here is this this guy
who's beloved, superstar, superstar,

1541
01:44:33,479 --> 01:44:39,479
right, gaining national attention, but
man in his in his hood, in

1542
01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:44,319
his neighborhood, he was a fucking
rock star, right, So you get

1543
01:44:44,399 --> 01:44:46,800
that. But every once in a
while, I'm bringing you home and I'm

1544
01:44:46,880 --> 01:44:50,600
keeping the other chick with me.
So he has this other woman, and

1545
01:44:51,840 --> 01:44:57,520
the other woman says that the Teddy
started driving fast and speeding and he had

1546
01:44:57,560 --> 01:45:00,760
his hand on her leg and all
this, and the next thing she they

1547
01:45:00,800 --> 01:45:04,119
went off and into the woods and
down like he lost control in a turn

1548
01:45:04,600 --> 01:45:09,079
and went down into the woods.
She was not injured. Teddy ended up

1549
01:45:09,119 --> 01:45:15,119
paralyzed from the car accident. In
the documentary, she says, I was

1550
01:45:15,239 --> 01:45:19,560
going through my transition. I was
taking hormones at the time. I think

1551
01:45:20,359 --> 01:45:28,159
that Teddy did not know that this
person was transitioning. Oh so was the

1552
01:45:28,239 --> 01:45:30,720
guy transitioning to a woman? Yeah, And I think it was a young

1553
01:45:31,560 --> 01:45:36,800
a young woman, a young and
attractive and looked feminine, right, and

1554
01:45:38,000 --> 01:45:41,239
so Teddy. I don't think Teddy
knew. I don't think he had any

1555
01:45:41,319 --> 01:45:45,199
idea that this person was transitioning.
And I think Teddy slid his hand down

1556
01:45:45,680 --> 01:45:50,000
and Teddy hid a fucking shift stick. And I think, I swear to

1557
01:45:50,039 --> 01:45:54,239
God, and I think he,
like I swear to you, I will

1558
01:45:54,520 --> 01:45:58,600
always believe that that led to the
accident. I really think it. And

1559
01:45:59,079 --> 01:46:01,359
nobody said it. I don't know
if even the people who produced the documentary

1560
01:46:01,399 --> 01:46:04,239
if they kind of put it there
for you to believe, because they don't

1561
01:46:04,319 --> 01:46:08,880
say anything. She just says,
Yeah, I was going to the transition.

1562
01:46:09,039 --> 01:46:11,600
I was starting to transition at that
time. I was taking hormone pills.

1563
01:46:11,600 --> 01:46:14,800
Blah blah blah. But I never
told Teddy, never really got the

1564
01:46:14,840 --> 01:46:19,039
opportunity to say anything. And so
I wonder, I always will wonder if

1565
01:46:19,399 --> 01:46:24,399
Teddy thought he had something and then
found out something. Well, it's just

1566
01:46:24,479 --> 01:46:28,479
somebody who was transitioning at the at
the moment and clearly attracted to Teddy and

1567
01:46:28,600 --> 01:46:30,960
probably felt that and identified as a
female. But this is the eighties.

1568
01:46:31,520 --> 01:46:34,119
No one really talked about that kind
of stuff. It did go on,

1569
01:46:34,359 --> 01:46:38,960
but it was not talked about right. And I wonder if the I always

1570
01:46:39,039 --> 01:46:44,319
think Teddy touched it and was like, god, damn, that's more Jerry

1571
01:46:44,399 --> 01:46:50,479
Lewis he had any you need a
deeper voice? Hey baby, were three

1572
01:46:50,880 --> 01:46:54,199
block summer house. She might if
I just get a little touch in it.

1573
01:46:54,560 --> 01:46:59,199
Oh my god. Once I had
down there, turn on the lights,

1574
01:46:59,319 --> 01:47:02,600
turn all the I gotta see if
we got a dick down there,

1575
01:47:02,960 --> 01:47:08,640
pop in the clutch. I don't
know. So there's there's big controversy in

1576
01:47:08,720 --> 01:47:11,880
the world of chess a while back. Chess. Chess, Yeah, chess.

1577
01:47:11,960 --> 01:47:15,800
There's a chess prodigy. This happened
a while ago, Hans Nieman.

1578
01:47:15,880 --> 01:47:21,680
He's nineteen. He rocked the chess
world after his rival, Norwegian Grandmaster Magnus

1579
01:47:23,039 --> 01:47:29,840
Carson thirty one. Then he beat
him, and then Carson alleged that he

1580
01:47:30,159 --> 01:47:33,279
used he kept going to the bathroom, no, and he kept looking at

1581
01:47:33,319 --> 01:47:35,840
his phone for moves and then come
back and heat. That's how he beat

1582
01:47:35,880 --> 01:47:39,399
him, because I just heard that
the other day. No, okay,

1583
01:47:39,439 --> 01:47:45,199
I'm sorry. He had vibrating animal
beads for a chess move in his ass,

1584
01:47:45,359 --> 01:47:54,359
and that his coach would hit certain
signals. He said he used a

1585
01:47:54,520 --> 01:47:59,239
sex toy to cheat during a tournament
in Saint Louis last September. This was

1586
01:47:59,359 --> 01:48:01,680
last September, so this is a
big deal here. I think I'm gonna

1587
01:48:01,720 --> 01:48:05,279
move my Beth up next to the
rook and these two ponds over here,

1588
01:48:05,319 --> 01:48:09,119
that's so nice. I think I'm
gonna give them up and try to corner

1589
01:48:09,199 --> 01:48:13,119
your king in the corner with the
rook. You ever been catholed before?

1590
01:48:13,199 --> 01:48:20,239
I think it's kind of kicky,
but ane Bee's and Grandmaster champions, you've

1591
01:48:20,279 --> 01:48:25,720
heard a lot in your lifetime.
So now months after this whole, I

1592
01:48:25,760 --> 01:48:29,640
mean, this really got a lot
of national attention because I remember it was

1593
01:48:29,760 --> 01:48:34,640
last September, about a year ago, and this kid like unseated this guy

1594
01:48:35,159 --> 01:48:39,680
and then they caught. They did
say he was cheating, and he admitted

1595
01:48:39,720 --> 01:48:45,600
to cheating online on computer games of
chess that I guess were I don't know,

1596
01:48:45,800 --> 01:48:48,840
people would watch you or something.
Maybe, so he kind of admitted

1597
01:48:48,840 --> 01:48:51,840
to cheating there. But this one, they were gonna go for a whole

1598
01:48:51,960 --> 01:48:56,439
legal battle, and I think the
whole thing's dropped because this kid came back

1599
01:48:56,520 --> 01:49:00,399
with one hundred million dollar lawsuits saying
defamation of character or you have no proof

1600
01:49:01,000 --> 01:49:05,720
you're telling people I stuck atom beazza
mine. How would you? How they?

1601
01:49:05,760 --> 01:49:08,880
Yeah? How are they? War? Was the evidence that led them

1602
01:49:08,920 --> 01:49:11,720
to that conclusion. You guess the
guy kept squirming in the seat. I

1603
01:49:11,800 --> 01:49:15,680
have no idea, Well that's how
would maybe or maybe he kept hearing like

1604
01:49:15,760 --> 01:49:20,199
a hurt and the kid would go
oh and then move or don't. I

1605
01:49:20,359 --> 01:49:25,039
can't. I have no idea.
Chess dot Com added that phone on the

1606
01:49:25,640 --> 01:49:29,439
table and vibrates a little and yeah, yeah, So this guy he slapped

1607
01:49:29,479 --> 01:49:33,600
the grand Master and the online platform
chess dot Com with one hundred million dollars

1608
01:49:33,640 --> 01:49:40,239
lawsuit accusing them of defamation for the
bead cheating allegations. Now months later they're

1609
01:49:40,279 --> 01:49:42,640
they're welcoming him back, and he
says, I look forward to it.

1610
01:49:42,920 --> 01:49:46,880
The legal battle erupted after an Eman's
upset victory over Carson, who has been

1611
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:51,000
the world's top ranked player for more
than a decade. And this was at

1612
01:49:51,079 --> 01:49:56,880
the I don't even know the Stinkworfield
Cup and in uh, Saint Louis,

1613
01:49:57,840 --> 01:50:00,079
you're a play chess? Do you
know how to play? Yeah? I

1614
01:50:00,119 --> 01:50:01,359
haven't played a long time. I
played with the kid yet. Yeah,

1615
01:50:01,840 --> 01:50:05,000
it was time consuming. I mean
I don't do a fast game with the

1616
01:50:05,319 --> 01:50:10,119
Have you ever been caught cheating at
anything? Like even his test at school?

1617
01:50:10,159 --> 01:50:12,800
You know what? I was a
kid and I played Gin Remmy with

1618
01:50:12,880 --> 01:50:15,079
my mom. I've played card games
and board games all my life, and

1619
01:50:16,279 --> 01:50:19,079
I played gym with my mom.
She telled the car. She goes,

1620
01:50:19,119 --> 01:50:21,760
I'll be right back. I gotta
go to the bathroom. And I looked

1621
01:50:21,800 --> 01:50:26,079
at my hand and I got it
sucks, and I switched with her hand.

1622
01:50:26,800 --> 01:50:31,079
She came back and she went first. She went gin. I never

1623
01:50:31,399 --> 01:50:39,119
cheated, That's like she just didn't. How did I miss that? How

1624
01:50:39,159 --> 01:50:43,279
did I say? Yeah? I
remember my uncle John. He got mad

1625
01:50:43,319 --> 01:50:45,439
because I was I think I was
playing at four or five and could beat

1626
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:48,279
him in chess and it was just
strategical. I mean, you didn't have

1627
01:50:48,399 --> 01:50:53,119
the phone to back then. No
you don't, No, No, did

1628
01:50:53,159 --> 01:50:55,960
you ever cheat Danny on that?
Danny never cheated on anything, just on

1629
01:50:56,079 --> 01:51:00,359
tests. You did cheat on tests? And see what? Oh it's it

1630
01:51:00,439 --> 01:51:04,239
was. There was a video I
just saw and I didn't know if it

1631
01:51:04,319 --> 01:51:06,840
was real and I didn't have time
to look it up. Just one of

1632
01:51:06,880 --> 01:51:10,920
those things you fall asleep to.
But I think it was in Europe.

1633
01:51:10,960 --> 01:51:15,560
This guy was blindfolded and played thirteen
different games of chess and had to keep

1634
01:51:15,760 --> 01:51:20,439
all the all the moves in his
head and beat all thirteen people. No

1635
01:51:20,640 --> 01:51:24,279
shit, yeah, I'll have to
look that up, but that would be

1636
01:51:24,920 --> 01:51:29,880
I don't know if you've seen the
the second Sherlock Holmes with Robert Downey Jr.

1637
01:51:30,439 --> 01:51:33,520
And uh, it's becaus Moriarty and
Moriarty thinks he's beat him Machin and

1638
01:51:33,680 --> 01:51:38,600
their chess and he stands up and
they they're talking and they go okay,

1639
01:51:38,680 --> 01:51:43,000
rook to castle too, and it's
a very cool ending and at the end

1640
01:51:43,279 --> 01:51:46,399
it's checkmate and you've lost. But
uh, yeah, the strategy and the

1641
01:51:46,479 --> 01:51:49,640
timing, and you got to think
one move, two moves. It's good

1642
01:51:49,680 --> 01:51:51,680
to learn as a kid. No, I think it's a great it's a

1643
01:51:51,760 --> 01:51:55,279
great thing. Yeah. My kids
were in chess club and stuff when they

1644
01:51:55,279 --> 01:51:57,640
were a little after school and they
did stuff. I don't know if they

1645
01:51:58,079 --> 01:52:00,880
still play. You ever catch anybody
cheating it like golf or anything or carns

1646
01:52:01,039 --> 01:52:08,000
or Rick Riley wrote a whole book
about Donald Trump cheating and his golf course.

1647
01:52:08,319 --> 01:52:12,720
Really well, Donald Trump always like
the King John Oona, Yeah he

1648
01:52:12,840 --> 01:52:15,000
didn't. He say he just wants
the club champion. I just want the

1649
01:52:15,199 --> 01:52:18,000
club championship. For the eight straight
towards going crazy over his weight that was

1650
01:52:18,079 --> 01:52:23,000
listed at the two fifteen six two
fifteen, people were like, he's not

1651
01:52:23,079 --> 01:52:27,119
a running back, come on.
Well. Then there was O. J.

1652
01:52:27,279 --> 01:52:30,159
Simpson there, there's there's stories about
him like he like well, the

1653
01:52:30,199 --> 01:52:32,720
stories about Trump was that he would
carry green teas with him so that like

1654
01:52:32,880 --> 01:52:35,560
like if he if he found a
ball like laying in the rough, he

1655
01:52:35,600 --> 01:52:41,920
would put it on a little green
tea so he wouldn't know I did that.

1656
01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:45,720
Somebody saw that it wasn't me.
O J. Simpson would do the

1657
01:52:45,800 --> 01:52:49,319
same thing, and they did.
They brought this up at the Maiden America

1658
01:52:49,399 --> 01:52:54,079
documentary that OJ would cheat it golf
like all the time, he was saying,

1659
01:52:54,079 --> 01:52:56,399
this ball just landed on this tea. I just I didn't see it.

1660
01:52:56,680 --> 01:53:00,199
It was landed on the teah chances, but people would allow it because

1661
01:53:00,199 --> 01:53:04,239
they got to hang with. Yeah, so electronic cheating has to be on

1662
01:53:04,319 --> 01:53:08,199
the on the rise because I have
to think, like, yeah, I

1663
01:53:08,239 --> 01:53:12,439
don't know that my kid's cheet I
know, I know my one son academically

1664
01:53:12,520 --> 01:53:15,359
couldn't in any way. I mean, they were all over you on that

1665
01:53:15,439 --> 01:53:21,680
stuff. But I remember getting They
didn't change any She was me, my

1666
01:53:21,920 --> 01:53:27,800
goodness, that's so gross. They
never changed any of the tests the year

1667
01:53:27,880 --> 01:53:30,960
I took Earth Signs. So this
girl I liked was a year ahead of

1668
01:53:30,960 --> 01:53:32,279
me. So she gave me all
the old tests older women, right,

1669
01:53:33,720 --> 01:53:36,479
just a little bit older, not
much, not much. I just need

1670
01:53:36,560 --> 01:53:40,159
him a little bit, just a
little. It was a little bit not

1671
01:53:40,319 --> 01:53:43,199
like me, like my golf score
ninety six. I got go after it

1672
01:53:43,279 --> 01:53:47,000
too. Yeah, we got a
competition, buddy. I saw somebody else's

1673
01:53:47,039 --> 01:53:51,439
girl for the fixture. Someone said, oh really, Yeah, I think

1674
01:53:51,439 --> 01:53:56,680
I know who. Yes, so
I got I had the test, and

1675
01:53:57,159 --> 01:54:00,399
the kid who sat we sat at
like lab tables, like two pera and

1676
01:54:00,439 --> 01:54:02,840
it was just there, weren't desks, they were just it's pretty easy just

1677
01:54:02,880 --> 01:54:06,199
to glance over. Yeah, so
he got an He got a ninety something

1678
01:54:06,239 --> 01:54:09,439
and I got a ninety something.
Everybody accused me of cheating, and I

1679
01:54:09,520 --> 01:54:12,600
go, yeah, I'll fucking show
you guys why. I was so afraid

1680
01:54:12,640 --> 01:54:15,439
my parents would find them that I
threw it up into the back of my

1681
01:54:15,560 --> 01:54:17,760
closet. But my closet was such
a mess I didn't find it until like

1682
01:54:17,880 --> 01:54:20,319
the end of the year. I
got all seventies the rest of the way

1683
01:54:20,359 --> 01:54:24,920
because I never studied. I just
never studied. Earth science made a lot

1684
01:54:24,960 --> 01:54:28,279
of sense, but I just I
don't care. I was like science.

1685
01:54:28,479 --> 01:54:31,279
Yeah, I probably should have been
held back a year just for maturity.

1686
01:54:31,520 --> 01:54:34,880
Seriously, I think if I was
held back a year, or I had

1687
01:54:34,960 --> 01:54:40,079
switched to a school much like my
I sent my kid to, I think

1688
01:54:40,079 --> 01:54:43,000
then I would have done much better
academically, because some people do that in

1689
01:54:43,039 --> 01:54:45,760
purpose, especially fathers. Holder kid
back a year, Yeah, they'll be

1690
01:54:45,840 --> 01:54:47,720
better in sports. Oh well,
this wasn't to be better in sports.

1691
01:54:47,800 --> 01:54:50,520
This just would have been a maturity
thing because I think I was just there

1692
01:54:50,600 --> 01:54:55,359
for the party, and I could
walk in and pretty much get an eighty

1693
01:54:55,399 --> 01:54:59,800
five. If I did nothing,
I got a seventy five. But eighty

1694
01:54:59,840 --> 01:55:02,319
five I've just for showing up and
stuff, and had I actually applied myself.

1695
01:55:02,319 --> 01:55:05,359
Because I'm man, I'll never forget
graduating high school. And my old

1696
01:55:05,399 --> 01:55:09,399
man pulled me aside and goes,
I don't know whether to shake your hand

1697
01:55:09,520 --> 01:55:13,520
or kick your head. Dumber than
you got scholarships, you practically had to

1698
01:55:13,600 --> 01:55:18,159
drool. And my mother's father comes
Bill, Bill with my dad's day.

1699
01:55:18,159 --> 01:55:23,760
You graduated. Good job, good
jobson. He stepped in to protect me

1700
01:55:24,079 --> 01:55:28,680
because he could see my father was
boiling, fucking boiling as we all were

1701
01:55:28,760 --> 01:55:31,359
walking out in our caps and gowns
and heats. Ready, my old man,

1702
01:55:31,439 --> 01:55:35,399
he's ready to let me up fire
for that. I mean, I

1703
01:55:35,479 --> 01:55:40,439
mean, you gotta you gotta do
it progressively through high school. It doesn't

1704
01:55:40,479 --> 01:55:43,600
matter at the end, you know. Yeah, if you start a freshman

1705
01:55:43,680 --> 01:55:45,560
year you got seventy five. Well, your next test I want to see

1706
01:55:45,560 --> 01:55:47,760
an eighty five. Yeah, and
then at least no, I mean,

1707
01:55:47,960 --> 01:55:50,359
like we're gonna bring your teacher.
I'll tell you what. I will tell

1708
01:55:50,359 --> 01:55:56,159
you this. I don't know if
I would have been diagnosed with ADD or

1709
01:55:56,199 --> 01:55:59,399
not right, because you could go
off and I had a wild imagination.

1710
01:55:59,479 --> 01:56:01,439
I did a lot of silly,
fun things, and I loved getting attention

1711
01:56:01,520 --> 01:56:04,840
to stuff. It's like, especially
as like a older more like tenth grade.

1712
01:56:04,880 --> 01:56:08,479
I realized everybody was full of shit, and I was just gonna do

1713
01:56:08,520 --> 01:56:16,439
whatever I wanted. But I think
that I I think I don't even know

1714
01:56:16,479 --> 01:56:18,640
where I had just lost my train
of thought here. See, this is

1715
01:56:18,680 --> 01:56:21,880
what happened to ADD. So whenever
I would run, though when I was

1716
01:56:21,960 --> 01:56:27,359
on the track team, I did
much better in school, just naturally,

1717
01:56:27,520 --> 01:56:30,279
just without the DEVA felt like much
effort. And I think there's something about

1718
01:56:30,399 --> 01:56:34,239
the repetitiveness of running and stuff because
they would I was a middle distance runner,

1719
01:56:34,760 --> 01:56:38,800
and I didn't do as well when
I played other sports like football stuff.

1720
01:56:38,840 --> 01:56:44,600
I didn't do as well academically.
Actually I wouldn't even I wouldn't even

1721
01:56:44,600 --> 01:56:47,159
pay attention to like November. But
then I was so fucking far behind because

1722
01:56:47,159 --> 01:56:50,199
I hadn't started faith that you know. Everything's a review of the first of

1723
01:56:50,279 --> 01:56:55,199
you get nineties, eighty, ninety, ninety whatever. But I did much

1724
01:56:55,279 --> 01:56:57,640
better then, and that's why I
like now. I try to make sure

1725
01:56:57,720 --> 01:57:02,279
that I do some sort of exercised
because it just helps me, just helps

1726
01:57:02,359 --> 01:57:05,079
me my way here. Today I
called my nephew, said, we're not

1727
01:57:05,119 --> 01:57:08,039
going to the movies to day.
By the way, We'll tell you a

1728
01:57:08,079 --> 01:57:11,479
little too much fun yesterday because we're
supposed to go today. What we're gonna

1729
01:57:11,479 --> 01:57:15,439
go see Barbie? Uh No,
the blue Beetle. Yeah, knock Barbie

1730
01:57:15,520 --> 01:57:17,680
out, I asked him. I
said, you know, when the school

1731
01:57:17,720 --> 01:57:20,560
start next week. I'm like,
when don't you look into sports? And

1732
01:57:21,319 --> 01:57:26,840
I think it's good for your future
to meet people, even if it's just

1733
01:57:26,880 --> 01:57:29,680
cross country. You have to play
football, you know, but just something

1734
01:57:29,800 --> 01:57:34,319
to get in, you know,
because you're gonna need these extracurricular activities down

1735
01:57:34,359 --> 01:57:36,920
the line. You're gonna have to
interact with people and talk and you'll make

1736
01:57:36,960 --> 01:57:42,039
your friends, and you're gonna learn
some things and values and work ethic.

1737
01:57:42,199 --> 01:57:44,359
You know, you work hard,
and even if it's just cross country,

1738
01:57:44,359 --> 01:57:46,479
you try to try to build and
get better. I have something. I

1739
01:57:46,600 --> 01:57:50,159
have something, uh and I should
look it up. I have something for

1740
01:57:50,239 --> 01:57:55,159
you to tell your nephew. You
follow Gary v Right, I don't really

1741
01:57:55,199 --> 01:57:58,119
follow. I've heard of him.
I don't know. Gary Vaynerchuck is this

1742
01:57:58,239 --> 01:58:03,720
guy that he's become sort of a
motivational guy. But he's parents immigrated from

1743
01:58:03,760 --> 01:58:08,239
Russia. He was about seven.
Uh, he did terribly in school,

1744
01:58:08,279 --> 01:58:12,840
but was always had that motor,
you know, and his dad had a

1745
01:58:12,920 --> 01:58:15,600
liquor store and he went up working
at the liquor store while in college and

1746
01:58:15,640 --> 01:58:19,439
stuff, and he built it into
a multi yea, yeah, so he

1747
01:58:19,600 --> 01:58:24,640
had a thing and I thought it
was really kind of it was great advice

1748
01:58:24,960 --> 01:58:28,479
for all kids, and it would
had to do with going to school and

1749
01:58:28,600 --> 01:58:34,199
basically saying, uh, you know, say hi to everybody because you want

1750
01:58:34,239 --> 01:58:39,000
to make sure that you're not missing
out an opportunity. So the person doesn't

1751
01:58:39,000 --> 01:58:41,279
say hi back. But if you're
going back to school, let me see

1752
01:58:41,279 --> 01:58:42,880
if I can find it, because
I don't want to miss quote it.

1753
01:58:43,239 --> 01:58:46,680
But I thought, wow, that's
a really cute not cute, but it

1754
01:58:46,800 --> 01:58:53,039
was just a smart thing to say. Uh. Well, that was kind

1755
01:58:53,039 --> 01:58:56,239
of the basic thing is, you
know, going back to school, make

1756
01:58:56,279 --> 01:59:00,199
sure you say hi to everybody because
it could It could increase relationships and you

1757
01:59:00,279 --> 01:59:04,840
could find friends for life and become
who knows what could happen, you know,

1758
01:59:05,359 --> 01:59:09,039
don't don't sit in the corner.
Don't be afraid to say hide to

1759
01:59:09,039 --> 01:59:11,520
anybody. And if they don't say
hi back, now you move on to

1760
01:59:11,600 --> 01:59:14,159
somebody else. But you know,
don't, don't put it all there.

1761
01:59:14,359 --> 01:59:16,159
I'll think of all the people you
didn't stay hi to and where they are

1762
01:59:16,319 --> 01:59:20,159
now and what could have been,
you know, don't miss out on opportunities

1763
01:59:20,239 --> 01:59:24,119
to you know, whoever didn't say
hi to the pretty girl because they were

1764
01:59:24,199 --> 01:59:28,119
too shy, somebody else did and
got to have the pretty girl. Yeah,

1765
01:59:28,199 --> 01:59:30,520
and so just you know, get
outside yourself a little bit, that's

1766
01:59:30,560 --> 01:59:34,800
all. Get outside yourself, get
outside all right, we'll wrap it up.

1767
01:59:34,840 --> 01:59:39,279
Don't cheat with anel beads in school. No, actually sounds painful.

1768
01:59:39,399 --> 01:59:42,279
That's the number one. It's not
my thing. You should tell your nephew

1769
01:59:42,319 --> 01:59:45,720
that. No, you know,
but I don't want to ruin the kids.

1770
01:59:46,279 --> 01:59:50,239
He's thirteen, when he's twenty one, we're gonna take him a trip

1771
01:59:50,279 --> 01:59:53,560
club and I'm gonna get out of
the mike and I'm gonna show him what

1772
01:59:53,600 --> 01:59:57,680
uncle thugs all about we're going to
Canada. I gotta tell you, I

1773
01:59:57,760 --> 02:00:00,600
got a thirteen year old. I'm
pretty sure he's heard able me say he's

1774
02:00:00,640 --> 02:00:03,439
got older brothers. So he's got
older brothers, much older brothers, and

1775
02:00:03,439 --> 02:00:06,319
it has nothing to do with me. For Dan Burrello back from Austin for

1776
02:00:06,560 --> 02:00:11,399
Dougie, fresh fresh off the jello
shot golf course and doing a great job

1777
02:00:11,479 --> 02:00:15,079
for Breast Cancer Coalition. Thank you. I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you tomorrow.