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Hey, hey, hey, I'm
back with something for you to think about.

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Are you really celibate? Now,
before you answer that question to yourself,

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remember Jesus is watching, remember nose
and sees it all. So again,

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aren't you really celibate? I'm not
saying abstinence. Are you celibate?

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Are you really celibate? See a
lot of people think, because oh,

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I haven't had sex and three weeks, they're celibate. No, you're just

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refraining from it. You're reframing from
sex. That's abstinence, and that's different

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from being celibate. You may be
reframing for sex longer than three weeks,

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a month, six months, or
whatever. Making a vow to celibacy and

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abstinence is two different things. People
choose either or for whatever reasons. But

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I'm talking biblical stuff because the Bible
says that we don't supposed to commit fornication

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or adultery. A lot of people
think that married people cannot commit fornication,

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but they can. Fornication is for
a married person anyone who is having sex

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outside of their marriage with someone other
than who they are married to. Adultery

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is having sex with another married person
who is not your spouse. So fornication

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when you're married, that other person
is not your spouse and it's not married.

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But if they're married, it's adultery. So married people can't commit fornication.

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I know it's like boo boo boo
boo boo boo, whoo whoo,

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whoo whoo. That's what I'm speaking
to many of you right now. You

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went death ears on me. You
totally tuned me out when I started talking

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about celibacy. And I've done an
episode on celibacy before, but I want

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you to stop kidding yourself. Are
you really truly celibate? If you're really

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celibate, that means no contact whatsoever, not with someone else, not with

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yourself, nothing, zilch, none, not a And you're that way for

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real, for real. See a
lot of people say, oh, I'm

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celibate, but put the pressure on
them and boom they give it up.

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But when you know that, you
know that, you know where your faithalize,

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where your help come from, what
side you're on. When you know

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that, you know that, you
know you're trying to do the works of

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the Lord. You're trying to be
pleasing in his sight, and you're doing

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the things that you know you should
do. Celibacy comes much easier, and

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you will not let no one,
no one, no one shake you or

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break you down. I'm a living
witness, a living witness. You can

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do it if you put your mind
to it and your heart is in it.

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A lot of people say, oh, I'm celibate, and all you

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gotta do, all you have to
do is look at them long enough,

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and they ready to go. Just
look at them long enough, say sweet

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things that they want to hear,
do sweet things that they like. Ain't

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ready to drop celibacy in the trash
can somewhere, throw it completely to the

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wayside. They're not true, they're
not true to it. They're just waiting

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for the right opportunity. That's all
they're doing. Waiting for the right opportunity.

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That's it. That's not true celibacy. Celibacy, you have to have

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it in your heart and your soul. You gotta really really be in it,

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and you have to know that your
walk with the Lord is real.

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You know better than anyone else other
than the Lord. You know, you

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know when you're shucking in job and
playing in faith, and you know,

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you know, you know. But
the thing is, some of you have

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shucking, jibed and lied and all
of that. For so long you believe

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yourself, you think what you're doing
is right, when it's far from it.

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You cannot uphold and be a true
celibate person when you're double minded,

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when you're wishy washy, you know, wherever the wind blows, that's where

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you go. Whatever sound good,
that's where you go. That's not the

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hearted mind of a true celibate person. And I'm telling you as a witness

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myself, when you are really celibate, the longer you're celibate, it don't

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bother you anymore. You may still
get the urges, but it don't bother

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you. It don't. You get
to a place where it's just hey,

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this is my walk, this is
my testimony. But the problem with the

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ways of the world and people in
the world is who make up the ways

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of the world. By the way
is their minds and their hearts are so

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focused on the flesh, so focused
on the flesh. That's why we have

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all of this travesty going on,
sex trafficking kids, pawing rings, these

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people getting caught up trying to meet
children, thinking their meeting children, knowing

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their meeting children, and they still
go and do it and get popped by

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the police. I mean, and
guess what some of our police, some

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of our teachers, preachers, judges, I mean, some of them are

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big wigs. The world is full
of people who are sex praised because they're

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so about the flesh. They're seeking
that self gratification. They're making all types

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of excuses, they're making all kinds
of bad choices and decisions, they're doing

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all types of things. A lot
of the things they do, they don't

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even want to do them, but
to satisfy the flesh, they will.

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You will never be a true celibate
with that mindset. You'll never be a

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true celibate if you're chasing after the
flesh, because one thing about chasing the

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flesh is you always going to be
seeking something. Because of that bottomless pitch.

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Lust is a bottomless pitch. You're
never satisfied. That's why some people

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have the most beautiful relationships and the
beautiful individuals that they're with, But because

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of that bottomless pit called lust,
and they're trying to satisfy the flesh,

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no one is ever enough, no
one is good enough. Nothing they do

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because they're seeking that self gratification.
They have that void inside of them,

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so they can never ever phantom the
thought of celibacy. It's ludicrous to them.

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It's just so the far fetched that
they can't comprehend being celibate on any

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level. But that's because you don't
have what it takes. You're not on

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that level spiritually. Yet a lot
of people profess it from their lips.

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Oh I'm celibate, been celibate a
whole two minutes. And like I said,

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a lot of people say they're celibate, but they're not. You're using

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toys, you're doing this, you're
doing that, you're fundling, or you're

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allowing someone to fundle you. I
mean, you have to be completely and

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totally celibate. You have to be. So many people claim it, but

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it's a lie. People just cannot
imagine going years without sex. They think

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it would kill them. It won't
kill you, booboo. It will not

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kill you, I promise you.
It makes you stronger. Oh my goodness,

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it may make you stronger. And
that peace that the Lord promised that

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surpasses all understanding, Oh my goodness, people will not they will not understand

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you at all, because you have
that peace that surpasses all understanding. They

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think you're local. And not only
that, they really think you're a liar.

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When you said you're a celibrate and
when you tell them how many years

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you've been celibrate, they think you're
a liar. But you don't have to

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worry about that. You don't have
to worry about it as long as you

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know, because you can't fool God. You're not fooling God at no time.

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So as long as you know,
they don't have to believe that you're

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celibrate. Long as you know,
and the good Lord, No, that's

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all that matters. Celibacy is a
beautiful, beautyful journey, beautiful, and

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I promise if you get on that
journey of celibacy, it changes you in

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so many ways. Those things you
thought were important, you understand that you're

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not important. You'll understand that sex
is not all of that. It is

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not. It really isn't. Don't
get me wrong. It's a beautiful thing

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when it's with the right person and
you're doing it for the right reason,

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you're doing it the way it's supposed
to be done under marriage. Let me

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tell you, it's a beautiful,
beautiful, beautiful thing. It truly is.

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But it's not everything. It is
not I'm just being honest with you.

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And I know a lot of you
don't understand that. You cannot get

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with that, you don't want to
even think about it. But I'm telling

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you it is. It changes you, It really does. It open your

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eyes to things you never thought that
you could endure. I know I never

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thought I could endure it. But
it makes you stronger and your faith.

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You keep striving every day to be
pleasing in the eyesight of God. You

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don't waivers for no one. You
just keep pushing forward the way the Lord

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wants you to push forward, not
man, not man, And on your

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journey of celibacy, you become stronger
and stronger and stronger, so strong you

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can't believe it yourself. You couldnt
believe that you've gone for as long as

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you've gone. But that's the strength
and the comfort that our Father gives us

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when he know we're striving and we're
doing what he say do and we're not

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letting anyone shake us or make us
fall. Oh, man, he gives

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you double dose, double dose of
faith and strength and power. Oh it's

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a beautiful thing. It truly is
a beautiful thing, Like I said,

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people in this world are sex crazed. They don't care that they can get

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diseases, some that they can't get
rid of. They don't care that you

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can potentially get in a relationship with
someone because of sex and you end up

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losing your life. I mean,
so many things can happen. People don't

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care. They want sex. People
are bringing three and four people into their

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relationships, into their marriages because people
in the world are sex crazed. It's

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like this weed. People are weed
heads. They have gone crazy over weeds.

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It's the same way with sex.
People are sex crazy. They think

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to them, it's everything. Oh, I got to have it. I

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know that's what you think in your
mind. That's what you think in your

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mind because that's the way you've always
been, that's what's been most important to

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you. To me, that's an
immature way of thinking to think sex is

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everything, because it's not. And
I'm guilty. I won't sit here and

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act as if I'm not guilty.
I'm guilty. Been there. I thought

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it was too. Oh, you
couldn't tell me that I could ever be

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celibate, never ever, ever,
ever, ever, no way me,

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No one could ever told me that
I could be celibate no one, because

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I know what I used to like. But thank God for change, Thank

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God for conviction. I don't know
about you. I'm talking about me because

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I know who I was, the
type of person I was, what I

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thought was important. I know a
whole lot of people don't know, but

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I know, and I'm saying for
me, thank God for change, Thank

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You Jesus for salvation. Sometimes I
fall on my face and I weep like

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a baby, because, oh my
goodness, if it wasn't y'all, I'm

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not playing. If it wasn't not
for the Lord in my life, I

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don't know where I'll be. I
don't know so many times he's saved my

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life from death. I could tell
you some things that you would not believe

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that he saved me from. And
I just I can't turn back from no

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one or nothing. And I'm talking
about me. I'm not saying anyone has

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to be like me, because this
your journey. You have to live the

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way you want to live. It's
up to you. But I'm saying that

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for me being saved, and you
know, sanctify I filled with the Holy

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Spirit. It's everything. It's everything, And I know a lot of people

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don't understand it, won't understand it, don't care to understand it. In

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all of it is fine. But
all I'm telling you or saying to you,

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is stop fooling yourself, because my
father in heaven sees it all,

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knows it all. It don't benefit
anyone to lie, fake and pretend it

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don't. Not one single soul does
it benefit, because first of all,

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there are no secrets what you think
you're doing in the dark. Sooner or

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later, it's gonna come to the
light, whether you alive or dead,

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it's gonna come to the light sooner
or later, on this side or the

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other side, it's gonna be revealed. Whatever you choose is definitely your choice.

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But are you really celibate? To
those people who claim in celibacy,

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how are you really celibate? I
was talking to a guy yesterday, good

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friend of mine, been friends for
years, and he's just so funny.

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We laugh on the phone. He
cracks me up, and I wish that

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he would do an episode with me
because he's a funny man. But he

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told me, he said, he
is one of the people, one of

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the people, the male, the
male species. He is one who told

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me he said, he has come
across countless amount of women who have told

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him that they're celibate. In five
minutes he was undressing them. He say,

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many in his life just talk it, talk it, talk it,

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and all you have to do is
say word sweet enough, and they were

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giving it up. But when he
met me, he was like, never

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met anyone like you. You gotta
be true to yourself, and most of

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all, if you say you love
the Lord, you gotta be true to

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God, the Father. You gotta
be true. He gave his only begotten

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son for us, who died on
the cross, went through pure hell on

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earth, and people are right back
in the same days of Noah, Sodom

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and Gomore. Just so much going
on, so much. You know,

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I really want to talk about this
because, like I said, I had

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that conversation with him yesterday and it
just made me start to think and laugh

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because he's so funny. He tells
you just like it is. And I

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know he's telling me the truth because
he's not the first guy who said that.

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And I am so sure there are
men who call themselves celibate or who

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are the same way. Yes,
there are some men who are celibate for

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real. You know you cannot put
all men in the same basket, nor

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all females in the same basket.
We're not the same. We may be

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of the same species, but we're
not the same. So after talking with

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him, I really wanted to talk
about it again. And I want you

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to think to yourself, are you
really celibate? Is the Lord please?

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With what he sees you do?
Is the Lord please? But what he

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sees you do on your journey of
celibacy. If you know the Lord sees,

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hears and knows all, and you
really believe that he sees what you

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do, he knows and he hears
what you do. If you really believe

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that, but you know you're not
living what you profess. That's not on

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me, that's not on anyone.
That's between you and the Father. The

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only thing I'm gonna say to you
is get yourself together before it's too late,

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because once we check out of this
body, uh, there's no do

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overs on earth. This is all
we got. This is the only chance

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we have before we make that decision
how we're going to live eternally, because

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we're one day we're gonna leave this
natural body and where we reside after that

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is what we choose right now while
we live. Some people so worried about

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I'm never gonna find a husband.
I'm never gonna find a wife. If

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it's meant to be, they'll make
their way in your life to your life.

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Women don't supposed to be looking for
husband's any way. Husband's supposed to

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find a wife. Some of you
not even husband or wife material. You're

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not even ready to settle down.
That's the problem with so many people.

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They are in relationship still doing what
they want to do. That's not a

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relationship. That's not healthy, that's
not right. But it's what's going on

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in many relationships. So you have
to wonder is it worth it? Well?

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I think it is, But you
just have to know that you know

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that you're with who God has for
you. Some of you don't sit back

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to listen or to wait. You're
just jumping in, jumping in, jumping

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in, jumping in, jumping in. You know that's not a God.

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And if he didn't make the way
open the door, it's not of God.

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More relationships are not of God than
those that are way more because people

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are choosing their own spouses, then
you want to call on the Lord.

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No, you did that backwards.
So a lot of people get into relationships

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that are celibate, but they're significant
others. They're trying to cohert them,

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influence them, all kinds of things
to pull them out of celibacy. You

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don't need anyone like that. If
they don't love you enough to wait,

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they're not who you should be with. That's just how I feel. Now.

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You don't have to think like me. I'm telling you how I feel.

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If they can't wait, it's not
the person you should be with.

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If they're trying to force you,
coherce you, influence you, persuade you,

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or whatever. When they know you're
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that's not the person for you.
I don't care how much you want them,

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it's not the person for you.
So I'm asking one last time,

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are you really celibate? Do you
want to begin a journey of celibacy?

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If anyone who listened that has been
thinking about it, hit me up,

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email me, ask me questions.
We can talk about it. Go to

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my podcast page think on It by
Cherry. It'll tell you exactly how to

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contact me. My email is there, and I'll tell you I don't normally

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put it out there but I'll tell
you My email is Cherry like the Fruit

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Cherry Girl zero six one five at
gmail dot com, so you can.

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You can reach out to me at
any time. I think I told you

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on it's Miss m Z Cherry Girl
zero six one five at gmail dot com.

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Miss m a Z Cherry Girl zero
six one five at gmail dot com.

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Hit me up anytime. It don't
have to even be just on the

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topic of celibacy. It could be
about anything. Hit me up. I

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will always respond. So that's all
I'm saying on this because I want you

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to understand that it's no joke.
It's no joke, and time for playing

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is out. You can play,
but God is not playing with no one,

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none of us. If you say
you're celibate, then I hope you

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are. If you don't want to
be celibate, that's your choice too.

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But just don't fool yourself because you
know you're fooling yourself, because you know

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you better than anyone outside of God. You know you know what you're doing

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behind closed doors. If you can't
live openly and behind closed door the same

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in vain. In vain. That's
why I tell you all, I'm probably

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the plainest person for real, just
plain. I mean, people tell me

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I look nice and all of this
and that all of the time, I

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dress well, I have nice things, but all my goodness, I'm just

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as plain as plain could be.
I'm not high maintenance. I don't care

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about all of that stuff. But
I still look just as good as a

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high maintenance person because I take care
of myself. You have to live your

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life. If you are a child
of God and you really love the Lord

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and you're living for the Lord,
that's who you have to worry about pleasing,

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not man. So you could tell
man, which I'm referring to men

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or woman. You could tell them, oh, I'm celibate all day.

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If they're not on the same accord
as you, oh, they're gonna try

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to talk you right on out of
your celibacy. And if you let them,

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that falls on you. Were you
really, were you thought you was

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or who you thought you was,
obviously not if you let someone come alone

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and talk you out of your celibacy. So if so, if you have

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struggles or any of that, please
reach out to me. I would love

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to hear from you. And I'm
leaving it right there. Thank you so

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much for listening. Stop fooling yourself. It don't benefit you, it does

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not Share this episode. Also check
out Relatable Life Chronicles. That's another podcast

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that I have. Thank you again
for listening to share, and also much

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love to each and every one of
you. I end every episode the very

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same, and I hope and pray
that you do it, think on it,