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Ooh, I'm so excited. We're
going into the holidays and I believe in

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love and now is the time to
make that love connection. Second Date Update.

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We're in Newington this morning with Christy. Good morning, Christy, good

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morning. Well, welcome to the
show. I hope we can like help

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you out. Obviously. You know
what second Date Update is all about.

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You went on a first date and
now you're getting ghosted, right yep?

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All right, So tell me about
this great first date with a guy named

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Ben. Yeah. So we went
on the date. You know, we

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went to dinner, had a good
time, and I just really felt a

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connection and that just really doesn't happen
to me very often. And I you

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know, texted him after the date, thanking him for it, and he

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just has not written me back,
and I'm just I just don't know what

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to do. You know. It's
like I really thought that, you know,

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maybe this was different, you know, maybe this was different than usual.

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Was it a little romantic? I
mean, did you you said you

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felt a connection? Did you feel
like was there was there sparks? Oh?

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Yeah, there were sparks. You're
not a bad kisser, are you?

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Because a couple of weeks ago we
had somebody that was a bad kisser.

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Maybe that's the case. I mean, I've never had any complaints before,

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you know, I did. I
don't want to say this, but

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I think fairly regularly, and I
can't say that I've had any complaint.

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Okay. If we're that, I
would be be kind of hurt. Okay,

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definitely a lot. And you shocked
and you sound sweet. You've reached

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out to him. You're getting ghosted. So this is what we're gonna do

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with Christy. We're gonna call Ben
and we're just gonna ask him to be

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honest. Are you ready to hear
what he has to say about the date?

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Yep, I'm ready. Okay,
Okay, you can do this.

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I promise. We're going to put
you on sutting down. I'm running down,

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okay, and you're gonna be able
to hear everything. You'll even be

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able to talk to Ben. So
hold on. We're gonna call Christie's date

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Ben. We'll do that next.
All the hitgs Kiss ninety five seven.

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It is Courtney Walmart and Savannah and
Christy and Newington. Uh second date update.

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We're getting ready to call Ben and
Christy. You have no idea why

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you're getting ghosted after a fabulous dinner
date? Is that basically it? That's

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basically it? No clue? Okay, yeah, felt a connection and all

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that? All right, Christy,
hold on, let's call Ben. Let's

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get right into it. Oh my
goodness, nervous. She sounds really nice,

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so sweet. Maybe she was like
maybe yeah, maybe she was talking

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too much or texting Hello. Hello? Is Ben there? Yeah? This

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is Ben. Who's this? Hey? Ben? It is Courtney, So

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Ben, It's Walmart. Ben.
What's good? It's Savannah and we're calling

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from Kiss ninety five to seven.
Okay, what's going on? Surprise Ben,

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you're on the radio this morning?
Well listen. Oh, if you're

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not familiar with the show, which
I hope you are, you run something

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called Second Date Update. You go
on a first date, you have a

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great time, maybe you make a
connection, maybe you feel like it's love

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at first date. But then you
get ghosted. Call us and we get

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answers, and that's why we're calling. You need answers, Ben. Okay,

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Okay, here's the deal. I
don't know. Maybe you were like

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a mister date or dater, but
a woman named Christy called us, and

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hopefully you can remember this date,
Christy told us she went out to dinner.

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She says, you guys had a
great time, she felt a connection,

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fantastic conversation, and she did feel
like there was a spark between the

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two of you. She's reached out. I think she said a couple of

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times thanking you for the date,
and you're completely ghosting her. Uh okay,

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yeah, I know. How did
you remember, Christy? Okay,

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well, tell us about the date? What did you How did you think

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the date went? Well? To
be completely honest, the date was awesome.

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I mean she was really cool.
We had great conversation, and I

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mean she's a knockout easy ten.
I don't know. I mean, this

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is hard to say. I'm still
weird saying it. But as of twenty

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twenty three, I promised myself that
I'm only going on first date, Like

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I was just going to take the
year, play the field. I have

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a couple of years ago, I
was in a pretty in depth relationship and

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after that I was like, you
know what, I'm just I'm not gonna

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date anyone. I'm just gonna go
on a bunch of dates. So all

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year I've just been going on first
date. Okay, I just I don't

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understand that. Wait a minute,
So you went on a year of first

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dates and you didn't find like one
person you really connected with? Not really.

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I mean, listen, Christy.
Christy was awesome. I just you

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know, we're so close to the
end of the year, and I'm just

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like, oh, I'm right there, might as well just keep going and

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doing what I'm doing. Okay,
can let's just bring Christy? Are you

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sorry? Ben? But Christy's listening. Christy he promised himself only first dates

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this year, and then actually,
this is so funny how similar we are.

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But I usually only go on first
dates too. That's usually actually my

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mo o. So I mean,
I mean, you know, you say

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that we had a connection. You
you know, think I'm hot. I

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don't guess he said that. It's
close to the end of the year,

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Like, can we just can we
just both like stop being how we usually

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are? Like, I don't know, Ben, I would I would stick

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to your guns on this one.
Man. Now, I want to just

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know Jeff stop gosh. I mean, do you want to I know,

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but do you want to be a
quitter? Ben? You need to see

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this all the way through it.
Here's the thing that stop Jeff, he's

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you're so inappropriate. Listen. It
is towards the end of the year.

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Okay, it's close enough, they
said, they both they both felt a

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connection. I don't know why you're
saying this, Dame Walmart. He said

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she was hot and probably the best
I think, he said, the best

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day he had all year. I'm
going to pick up the tab. I

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think it's close enough to the end
of the year. You guy should go

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on a second date. You should
agree to it, and I will pay.

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Yes, Ben, come on,
Uh, you know what I mean.

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You're not lying. She is literally
the best date I've had, And

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if you're going to pick up the
tab, I don't think I can pass

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that up. I will. I
will break if you are close to the

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end of the year. Let's go, let's go on another date. Take

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that well, Mart, Jeff,
I don't know, Ben, I think

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your father is going to be disappointed
in you. I can't, I can't

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listen. I'm glad you guys are
doing this, and it's it sounds pretty

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interesting that Christy usually go on first
dates too. Just skip the second date

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because it's not perfect. The fact
that you both are used to going on

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a lot of first dates and not
a lot of second dates, and now

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you're going to go on a second
date. Makes me happy. I'm happy

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to pick up the tab and I'm
so glad you guys are going to do

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it. Thank you, thank you
so much for your help. You are

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welcome, and oh my god,
keep us posted. I'm sorry, Christy,

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Ben, either one of you.
After the second date, can you

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please reach out to us and let
us know how it went. Yeah,

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no, pro definitely