Ooh, I'm so excited. We're going into the holidays and I believe in
love and now is the time to make that love connection. Second Date Update.
We're in Newington this morning with Christy. Good morning, Christy, good
morning. Well, welcome to the show. I hope we can like help
you out. Obviously. You know what second Date Update is all about.
You went on a first date and now you're getting ghosted, right yep?
All right, So tell me about this great first date with a guy named
Ben. Yeah. So we went on the date. You know, we
went to dinner, had a good time, and I just really felt a
connection and that just really doesn't happen to me very often. And I you
know, texted him after the date, thanking him for it, and he
just has not written me back, and I'm just I just don't know what
to do. You know. It's like I really thought that, you know,
maybe this was different, you know, maybe this was different than usual.
Was it a little romantic? I mean, did you you said you
felt a connection? Did you feel like was there was there sparks? Oh?
Yeah, there were sparks. You're not a bad kisser, are you?
Because a couple of weeks ago we had somebody that was a bad kisser.
Maybe that's the case. I mean, I've never had any complaints before,
you know, I did. I don't want to say this, but
I think fairly regularly, and I can't say that I've had any complaint.
Okay. If we're that, I would be be kind of hurt. Okay,
definitely a lot. And you shocked and you sound sweet. You've reached
out to him. You're getting ghosted. So this is what we're gonna do
with Christy. We're gonna call Ben and we're just gonna ask him to be
honest. Are you ready to hear what he has to say about the date?
Yep, I'm ready. Okay, Okay, you can do this.
I promise. We're going to put you on sutting down. I'm running down,
okay, and you're gonna be able to hear everything. You'll even be
able to talk to Ben. So hold on. We're gonna call Christie's date
Ben. We'll do that next. All the hitgs Kiss ninety five seven.
It is Courtney Walmart and Savannah and Christy and Newington. Uh second date update.
We're getting ready to call Ben and Christy. You have no idea why
you're getting ghosted after a fabulous dinner date? Is that basically it? That's
basically it? No clue? Okay, yeah, felt a connection and all
that? All right, Christy, hold on, let's call Ben. Let's
get right into it. Oh my goodness, nervous. She sounds really nice,
so sweet. Maybe she was like maybe yeah, maybe she was talking
too much or texting Hello. Hello? Is Ben there? Yeah? This
is Ben. Who's this? Hey? Ben? It is Courtney, So
Ben, It's Walmart. Ben. What's good? It's Savannah and we're calling
from Kiss ninety five to seven. Okay, what's going on? Surprise Ben,
you're on the radio this morning? Well listen. Oh, if you're
not familiar with the show, which I hope you are, you run something
called Second Date Update. You go on a first date, you have a
great time, maybe you make a connection, maybe you feel like it's love
at first date. But then you get ghosted. Call us and we get
answers, and that's why we're calling. You need answers, Ben. Okay,
Okay, here's the deal. I don't know. Maybe you were like
a mister date or dater, but a woman named Christy called us, and
hopefully you can remember this date, Christy told us she went out to dinner.
She says, you guys had a great time, she felt a connection,
fantastic conversation, and she did feel like there was a spark between the
two of you. She's reached out. I think she said a couple of
times thanking you for the date, and you're completely ghosting her. Uh okay,
yeah, I know. How did you remember, Christy? Okay,
well, tell us about the date? What did you How did you think
the date went? Well? To be completely honest, the date was awesome.
I mean she was really cool. We had great conversation, and I
mean she's a knockout easy ten. I don't know. I mean, this
is hard to say. I'm still weird saying it. But as of twenty
twenty three, I promised myself that I'm only going on first date, Like
I was just going to take the year, play the field. I have
a couple of years ago, I was in a pretty in depth relationship and
after that I was like, you know what, I'm just I'm not gonna
date anyone. I'm just gonna go on a bunch of dates. So all
year I've just been going on first date. Okay, I just I don't
understand that. Wait a minute, So you went on a year of first
dates and you didn't find like one person you really connected with? Not really.
I mean, listen, Christy. Christy was awesome. I just you
know, we're so close to the end of the year, and I'm just
like, oh, I'm right there, might as well just keep going and
doing what I'm doing. Okay, can let's just bring Christy? Are you
sorry? Ben? But Christy's listening. Christy he promised himself only first dates
this year, and then actually, this is so funny how similar we are.
But I usually only go on first dates too. That's usually actually my
mo o. So I mean, I mean, you know, you say
that we had a connection. You you know, think I'm hot. I
don't guess he said that. It's close to the end of the year,
Like, can we just can we just both like stop being how we usually
are? Like, I don't know, Ben, I would I would stick
to your guns on this one. Man. Now, I want to just
know Jeff stop gosh. I mean, do you want to I know,
but do you want to be a quitter? Ben? You need to see
this all the way through it. Here's the thing that stop Jeff, he's
you're so inappropriate. Listen. It is towards the end of the year.
Okay, it's close enough, they said, they both they both felt a
connection. I don't know why you're saying this, Dame Walmart. He said
she was hot and probably the best I think, he said, the best
day he had all year. I'm going to pick up the tab. I
think it's close enough to the end of the year. You guy should go
on a second date. You should agree to it, and I will pay.
Yes, Ben, come on, Uh, you know what I mean.
You're not lying. She is literally the best date I've had, And
if you're going to pick up the tab, I don't think I can pass
that up. I will. I will break if you are close to the
end of the year. Let's go, let's go on another date. Take
that well, Mart, Jeff, I don't know, Ben, I think
your father is going to be disappointed in you. I can't, I can't
listen. I'm glad you guys are doing this, and it's it sounds pretty
interesting that Christy usually go on first dates too. Just skip the second date
because it's not perfect. The fact that you both are used to going on
a lot of first dates and not a lot of second dates, and now
you're going to go on a second date. Makes me happy. I'm happy
to pick up the tab and I'm so glad you guys are going to do
it. Thank you, thank you so much for your help. You are
welcome, and oh my god, keep us posted. I'm sorry, Christy,
Ben, either one of you. After the second date, can you
please reach out to us and let us know how it went. Yeah,
no, pro definitely