WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:21.600 Energies. I'm sorrygies. What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing 2 00:00:21.679 --> 00:00:25.519 today? If you're hearing this episode, you are meant to be here, 3 00:00:25.600 --> 00:00:31.960 So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other 4 00:00:32.000 --> 00:00:36.719 times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away 5 00:00:36.759 --> 00:00:43.479 feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. That is Babe in total connection with 6 00:00:43.560 --> 00:00:48.359 herself. As positive Bitches, we are all about unbecoming who we are not 7 00:00:48.840 --> 00:00:54.719 so we can fully step into and embody exactly who we came here to be. 8 00:00:55.600 --> 00:01:02.240 On today's special episode, we are learning how to become hotter, but 9 00:01:02.439 --> 00:01:07.079 not in a way you've ever learned before. We see tips on what to 10 00:01:07.120 --> 00:01:10.840 do with the gym and how to do your makeup, but we're going to 11 00:01:10.959 --> 00:01:19.079 talk about how to become hotter with the seven hermetic principles coming from the DNA 12 00:01:19.799 --> 00:01:26.799 the Kabalion. There are some sexy secrets in this Kabalian book that we have 13 00:01:26.959 --> 00:01:34.400 to dive into to fully embody our hottest self. This book, it is 14 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:41.439 cooked in secrecy. It is by the Three Initiates, so we actually don't 15 00:01:41.480 --> 00:01:46.079 know who wrote the book. We don't even know where this ancient wisdom comes 16 00:01:46.159 --> 00:01:51.079 from don't worry though. We will get into all of that, but within 17 00:01:51.200 --> 00:01:59.920 these sexy secrets of the Seven Hermetic Principles, we can unlock our hottest version 18 00:02:00.439 --> 00:02:05.760 of ourselves and have a very very sexy, fun, silly summer. But 19 00:02:06.159 --> 00:02:12.000 it's all about unbecoming who we are, not what we think we have to 20 00:02:12.080 --> 00:02:16.680 be, and unlocking these sexy secrets so we can really show up and show 21 00:02:17.159 --> 00:02:23.120 out. I am honored to talk about these seven Hermetic Principles with you today. 22 00:02:23.439 --> 00:02:27.960 When I read this book, I felt an immediate shift. And guess 23 00:02:28.039 --> 00:02:30.240 what, you actually don't have to read this book because I did it for 24 00:02:30.280 --> 00:02:36.719 you, and I have pricked and prodded everything you need to know and put 25 00:02:36.759 --> 00:02:44.280 it together intoday's special podcast episode. But before we get into it, you 26 00:02:44.360 --> 00:02:49.360 know, I have some announcements for you. First things First, if you 27 00:02:49.599 --> 00:02:55.360 know, I have been on a hormone healing journey, and with this journey 28 00:02:55.400 --> 00:03:00.520 has come lots of tears, lots of happiness, and lots of healing. 29 00:03:01.039 --> 00:03:06.439 And I, honest to God, could not get through this hormone healing journey 30 00:03:06.800 --> 00:03:13.240 if it wasn't for magic. Mind. You see, I was breaking out 31 00:03:13.280 --> 00:03:17.360 in germatitis left and right. I couldn't figure out why I was getting terrible 32 00:03:17.479 --> 00:03:23.879 hormonal acne and my body was just going through it. I realized that I 33 00:03:23.919 --> 00:03:27.680 was taking in way too much caffeine, which was causing me to break out 34 00:03:27.759 --> 00:03:32.759 all along my jaw and even my temples. What I knew I needed to 35 00:03:32.800 --> 00:03:38.240 do was get off the amount of caffeine I was using. So I did. 36 00:03:38.719 --> 00:03:42.879 But then what happened is I felt so depleted that I had no energy, 37 00:03:43.000 --> 00:03:47.159 and I needed a happy medium. And that's why Magic Mind is my 38 00:03:47.639 --> 00:03:55.159 magic in a bottle. Magic Mind gives me that little boost of energy, 39 00:03:55.280 --> 00:03:59.960 but it has all natural ingredients. When you read the label, you understand 40 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:03.719 and everything that's in it. It's also way less caffeine than I was taking 41 00:04:03.759 --> 00:04:08.719 before, so it really helps me get my work done or get my workout 42 00:04:08.759 --> 00:04:14.120 done, without giving me that crazy high followed by a super low low. 43 00:04:14.560 --> 00:04:17.959 I drink these little magic shots anytime I'm about to do a workout, and 44 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:21.879 they help me focus, they help me get the job done, and I 45 00:04:21.920 --> 00:04:26.839 feel really healthy and good while doing it. I think we've all had that 46 00:04:26.959 --> 00:04:30.720 experience where we drink too much coffee or we take too much caffeine and we 47 00:04:30.839 --> 00:04:35.399 literally feel our body shaking and buzzing. That will never happen to you with 48 00:04:35.639 --> 00:04:44.120 magic mind. So why is magic mind so freaking powerful? I personally believe 49 00:04:44.240 --> 00:04:48.560 it comes down to its ingredients. It contains macha, which has way less 50 00:04:48.600 --> 00:04:55.680 caffeine than coffee, and also it has Ashwaganda, which is an adapta gin 51 00:04:55.800 --> 00:05:00.360 that helps reduce stress and anxiety, Lion's main mushrooms, which also helps you 52 00:05:00.600 --> 00:05:05.000 reduce anxiety and inflammation. This is why we don't get that crazy crazy high 53 00:05:05.040 --> 00:05:11.319 Hi and not crazy crazy low low. There are the perfect blend of ingredients 54 00:05:11.360 --> 00:05:15.160 to help you have that boost of energy but also help you stay grounded. 55 00:05:15.639 --> 00:05:20.879 And as a woman who wants to have a good workout and wants a boost 56 00:05:20.920 --> 00:05:25.920 of energy, I love that I can have my magic mind that gives me 57 00:05:25.959 --> 00:05:30.040 that boost of energy, but it still allows me to flow with my cycle 58 00:05:30.360 --> 00:05:32.959 and not break out in acne. And even when I went to a natural 59 00:05:33.040 --> 00:05:38.839 pathic doctor, she said that magic mind was a okay to take. I 60 00:05:38.920 --> 00:05:43.199 am so thankful for magic Mind and I've seen such a transformation in my life 61 00:05:43.439 --> 00:05:47.199 that I cannot, as your fellow positive bitch, go on in life and 62 00:05:47.240 --> 00:05:53.639 not tell you about this special that you can get yourself right now. You 63 00:05:53.680 --> 00:05:59.879 can go to www dot magicmind dot com slash positive and get up to fifth 64 00:06:00.240 --> 00:06:05.240 percent off your subscription for the next ten days with my code positive. Your 65 00:06:05.240 --> 00:06:11.399 code will be valid forever as twenty percent off for both one time purchases and 66 00:06:11.560 --> 00:06:15.879 subscriptions, but in the first ten days it's up to fifty percent off if 67 00:06:15.920 --> 00:06:23.399 applied to a subscription. Again, that's www Dot magicmind dot com slash positive, 68 00:06:23.680 --> 00:06:27.199 and you can get up to fifty percent of your subscription for the next 69 00:06:27.240 --> 00:06:30.720 ten days with my code positive. I will put this link and all the 70 00:06:30.800 --> 00:06:35.920 information in the show notes down below, But I'm telling you, if you're 71 00:06:36.000 --> 00:06:41.920 anything like me and you're struggling with your hormones and you're struggling with getting everything 72 00:06:41.959 --> 00:06:45.240 done and you need that boost of energy, but you want to stay in 73 00:06:45.519 --> 00:06:49.480 flow with your natural cycle, magic Mind can also be your little magic in 74 00:06:49.519 --> 00:06:54.360 a bottle. Also, if you're not yet, following me on Instagram at 75 00:06:54.439 --> 00:07:00.120 Vibe with CC, I give golden nuggets of advice how to master your magnet 76 00:07:00.319 --> 00:07:05.240 energy literally daily. I'm always chatting there. You can also follow this podcast 77 00:07:05.399 --> 00:07:11.839 Instagram at that Bitch as positive. If you're looking to up level your dating 78 00:07:11.920 --> 00:07:15.800 life. You can download the Divine Feminine Healing Workbook to help you get into 79 00:07:15.839 --> 00:07:20.360 your feminine energy bounce yourself out. And you can also download the Calling your 80 00:07:20.399 --> 00:07:26.079 Power Back Workbook that will help you understand everything you need to know about the 81 00:07:26.160 --> 00:07:31.839 subtle energies when it comes to dating. They control literally everything, and that's 82 00:07:31.839 --> 00:07:36.800 even something we will talk about today with the Seven Hermetic Principles. And of 83 00:07:36.800 --> 00:07:41.040 course, if you're going through a transition, join the twenty one Day but 84 00:07:41.120 --> 00:07:45.519 Break Up Gloat challenge again. All links will be in the show notes where 85 00:07:45.680 --> 00:07:49.240 you can learn how to put yourself back on the pedestal, take your power 86 00:07:49.439 --> 00:07:58.279 back, date yourself, move through emotions and ultimately completely transform who you used 87 00:07:58.319 --> 00:08:03.079 to be and on the door to a new life. To begin our exploration 88 00:08:03.319 --> 00:08:09.480 into the seven Sexy her Medical Principles, where can we start? Well, 89 00:08:09.480 --> 00:08:15.759 why not start with the Man, the myth, the legend himself, Hermes 90 00:08:15.839 --> 00:08:20.600 Trismajestice. Now I'm not kidding when I say the man, comma, the 91 00:08:20.720 --> 00:08:26.199 myth, comma, the legend, because literally no one knows if this dude 92 00:08:26.360 --> 00:08:31.199 is real or fake. Some say he was Moses, you know Moses from 93 00:08:31.199 --> 00:08:37.320 the Bible. Some say he's half God, some say he is just completely 94 00:08:37.440 --> 00:08:41.759 fictional based on many thought leaders that someone decided to smush into one person. 95 00:08:43.200 --> 00:08:48.679 But ultimately it doesn't really matter, because what we get from Hermes, and 96 00:08:48.799 --> 00:08:52.480 yes, we're on a first named basis now, is universal, timeless, 97 00:08:52.600 --> 00:08:58.919 ancient wisdom that belongs to not one person, not one party, not one 98 00:09:00.159 --> 00:09:05.679 religion, but to all of us. Universal truths that all of us can 99 00:09:05.919 --> 00:09:13.799 use to become healthier, happier, wealthier, and why not hotter. I'm 100 00:09:13.840 --> 00:09:18.080 not kidding you. When I started to implement these seven sexy Hermetic principles into 101 00:09:18.120 --> 00:09:24.360 my life, I transcended so much of what no longer was serving me that 102 00:09:24.480 --> 00:09:28.600 I just felt like I was so late on my feet. I noticed that 103 00:09:28.639 --> 00:09:31.840 the energy I was putting out was received better, and I became even more 104 00:09:31.879 --> 00:09:39.559 magnetic than I ever was before. Now, the term hermetic, what does 105 00:09:39.600 --> 00:09:46.120 that actually mean? A lot of people equate hermetic with secrecy. It me 106 00:09:46.200 --> 00:09:50.759 and sealed so that nothing can escape. And this by reason of the fact 107 00:09:50.799 --> 00:09:56.240 that which the followers of Hermes always observed the principle of secrecy in their teachings. 108 00:09:56.600 --> 00:10:01.120 They did not believe in casting pearls before were the swa, but rather 109 00:10:01.600 --> 00:10:05.080 held to the teaching Milk for babes meet for the strong, both of which 110 00:10:05.120 --> 00:10:11.039 maxims are familiar to readers of the Christian scriptures, but both of which had 111 00:10:11.080 --> 00:10:16.080 been used by Egyptians for centuries before the Christian era. So what they're basically 112 00:10:16.159 --> 00:10:22.399 saying is that the reason this knowledge isn't thrown into our face is because it's 113 00:10:22.440 --> 00:10:26.559 not meant for everyone. It's sort of along the lines that when the student 114 00:10:26.799 --> 00:10:31.759 is ready, the teacher will appear. And this is your moment, bitch, 115 00:10:31.919 --> 00:10:35.360 you're the student, you're ready. I was the student when I read 116 00:10:35.399 --> 00:10:39.200 this, and now I'm going to be your teacher. Hello, girlie, 117 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:45.919 and we're gonna go through these seven hermetic principles. Now, they put together 118 00:10:46.240 --> 00:10:50.120 seven simple hermetic principles in one book, and they called it the Kabalian. 119 00:10:50.519 --> 00:10:54.879 And this was written by the three Initiates, whoever they are. Thank you, 120 00:10:54.960 --> 00:11:00.080 thank you, thank you for this beautiful wisdom. Again, while we 121 00:11:00.159 --> 00:11:05.000 do not know the exact origins of this book, what I do know is 122 00:11:05.039 --> 00:11:09.519 how amazing and transformative the knowledge is. I think if we're going to have 123 00:11:09.559 --> 00:11:15.840 this ancient wisdom, we need to have modern ways to actually execute what the 124 00:11:15.919 --> 00:11:20.679 teachings say. To read this book is awesome to have knowledge, cool, 125 00:11:20.039 --> 00:11:26.159 but nothing is as amazing as taking these teachings and actually applying the action, 126 00:11:26.600 --> 00:11:31.919 because that's true power. We're going to go through these principles one by one 127 00:11:31.960 --> 00:11:39.759 by one, and I'm going to translate the words of this book into modern 128 00:11:39.879 --> 00:11:45.440 language that we can use to make ourselves hotter, happier, wealthier, and 129 00:11:45.639 --> 00:11:50.720 everything else we could possibly want, because these teachings really transcend so many different 130 00:11:50.759 --> 00:11:52.840 genres, so many different teachings. Oh and by the way, if you 131 00:11:52.919 --> 00:11:56.639 can't tell yes, I have allergies, let's just get that out of the 132 00:11:56.639 --> 00:12:01.960 way. Okay. So we're going to channel Hermes wherever he might be, 133 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:07.279 whoever he may be. Maybe it's even a woman I don't know, could 134 00:12:07.320 --> 00:12:13.000 be, And we're going to go through these seven Hermetic principles. The first 135 00:12:13.039 --> 00:12:20.200 hermetic principle is the all is mind. The universe is mental. The first 136 00:12:20.240 --> 00:12:26.159 principle is the principle of mentalism. I'm going to be reading some things from 137 00:12:26.159 --> 00:12:31.360 the book, but only the quotes that I feel are really important for us 138 00:12:31.399 --> 00:12:37.000 to know, and then I'm going to take it and give you my understanding, 139 00:12:37.120 --> 00:12:41.320 my truth about it, so that we can really understand. Because hearing 140 00:12:41.360 --> 00:12:43.440 the mind is all, the universe is mental. That's awesome and all, 141 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:46.120 But what the fuck does that mean? And that's what we're going to talk 142 00:12:46.120 --> 00:12:48.279 about, and then we're going to talk about how we can use it to 143 00:12:48.320 --> 00:12:54.039 make us hutter. So when they say the mind is all, what they're 144 00:12:54.080 --> 00:13:01.480 saying is that everything, everything, everything on this freaking planet before it could 145 00:13:01.600 --> 00:13:05.240 be on this planet in three D incarnation, it started in the mind. 146 00:13:05.600 --> 00:13:11.240 Everything is first harnessed through our mind. Therefore, our mind is everything. 147 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:18.000 Think of an invention that wasn't first thought of in someone's mind. That doesn't 148 00:13:18.000 --> 00:13:22.600 exist. Because everything that's invented, whether it's technology or a business plan, 149 00:13:24.159 --> 00:13:31.200 was first thought about. It was first conceived in someone's mind. How can 150 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:37.200 we use this to our advantage to make us hotter? We want to envision 151 00:13:37.320 --> 00:13:41.279 in our mind what we want to see in our reality. Period. If 152 00:13:41.320 --> 00:13:46.879 our mind is everything and our mind is what is creating the world around us, 153 00:13:46.720 --> 00:13:52.720 thinking about what we don't want, thinking negatively about ourselves is the worst 154 00:13:52.799 --> 00:13:58.080 possible use of our imagination. We're literally creating the exact opposite of what it 155 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:05.840 is we want. That's what we're doing. In order to become your hottest 156 00:14:05.919 --> 00:14:09.960 version of yourself. Before you can see it physically, you need to conceive 157 00:14:09.039 --> 00:14:18.200 it mentally in your mind. This means connecting to that desired version of yourself 158 00:14:18.200 --> 00:14:22.559 and literally asking that version of yourself, hi, hottest version of self, 159 00:14:22.919 --> 00:14:26.639 what do you do every day? What are your daily habits? Do you 160 00:14:26.720 --> 00:14:30.519 drink more water? How do you dress? How do you talk? How 161 00:14:30.519 --> 00:14:35.159 do you walk? What are your affirmations? Do you have a morning routine? 162 00:14:35.440 --> 00:14:39.559 Connect to this hottest version of you and start conceiving in your mind what 163 00:14:39.639 --> 00:14:45.039 this looks like to you. When this hottest version of you walks into a 164 00:14:45.159 --> 00:14:50.000 room, how is she walking, how are people perceiving her, How is 165 00:14:50.039 --> 00:14:54.240 she talking to others? How does she interact with the people around her? 166 00:14:54.519 --> 00:15:01.759 What is she doing? Everything in the universe is just mental, because everything 167 00:15:01.759 --> 00:15:07.480 in the universe was first created in someone's mind. And to understand this is 168 00:15:07.519 --> 00:15:13.720 to conceive things in your mind first purposefully, to not just let your mind 169 00:15:13.879 --> 00:15:20.080 wander. We know that we are both broadcasters and receivers of energy. So 170 00:15:20.120 --> 00:15:22.960 if we start thinking negatively about ourselves, what do we do? What's the 171 00:15:24.000 --> 00:15:28.279 first thing we start attracting. We start attracting negative thoughts first, then we 172 00:15:28.279 --> 00:15:37.279 start attracting negative feelings. Then we start attracting negative circumstances. But everything begins 173 00:15:37.440 --> 00:15:43.120 in the mind. Everything is first conceived in the mind. When you look 174 00:15:43.159 --> 00:15:52.759 around in the world, understand everything you see was first conceived in someone's mind 175 00:15:52.919 --> 00:15:58.879 or the mind of society. The universe is mental held in the mind of 176 00:15:58.600 --> 00:16:06.200 all everything. Everything, everything, no matter what you look at, first 177 00:16:06.279 --> 00:16:11.399 started in someone's mind. I always think this is such a random example, 178 00:16:11.480 --> 00:16:18.759 but my dad is very, very precise about the landscaping that he has in 179 00:16:18.840 --> 00:16:23.279 front of his home, and so many people while I was growing up until 180 00:16:23.440 --> 00:16:26.519 this day. If I'm walking my dogs, they'll come up to me and 181 00:16:26.600 --> 00:16:30.840 say, do you live there? Do you know who lives there? And 182 00:16:30.879 --> 00:16:37.559 I'll say yeah, and they'll say, you have the most gorgeous landscaping. 183 00:16:37.759 --> 00:16:41.440 Whoever creates this landscaping is amazing. It's my dad, And how does he 184 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:47.879 do it in his mind? First, how do you create any sort of 185 00:16:48.840 --> 00:16:53.279 business plan or artistic plan, whatever it may be, You begin creating it 186 00:16:53.440 --> 00:16:59.799 in your mind. Your mind is a tool. Do not use it against 187 00:17:00.080 --> 00:17:04.200 yourself. If you want to become this hottest version of you. Connect to 188 00:17:04.240 --> 00:17:08.279 that hottest version of yourself and ask her what are you doing on a daily 189 00:17:08.319 --> 00:17:14.599 basis. That hottest version of you already exists in the quantum field. You, 190 00:17:14.720 --> 00:17:18.839 however, have to invite her to make connection so you can garner the 191 00:17:18.920 --> 00:17:22.440 necessary action plan. You need, the knowledge, you need, the ideas 192 00:17:22.480 --> 00:17:30.440 you need to put them into play. Even though everything looks physical in this 193 00:17:30.720 --> 00:17:37.880 universe, it started out mental. So the first principle, sexiness of the 194 00:17:37.880 --> 00:17:42.519 first principle is that everything starts out in your mind. If that's the case, 195 00:17:44.599 --> 00:17:48.200 that means if you can conceive it in your mind, you can have 196 00:17:48.359 --> 00:17:52.319 it in this reality. If you can think about it, you can have 197 00:17:52.440 --> 00:17:57.799 it. And what's that funny little quote we often talk about man becomes what 198 00:17:57.880 --> 00:18:03.680 he thinks about most of the time, a woman becomes what she thinks about 199 00:18:03.720 --> 00:18:11.799 most of the time. Here we get why, because everything is actually mental. 200 00:18:11.359 --> 00:18:15.599 It's a mental universe. We live in a mental world. And I'm 201 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:19.599 not talking about that kind of mental I'm talking about thoughts, vision ideas, 202 00:18:21.759 --> 00:18:26.599 Your thoughts, your why, your vision. That is what creates the most 203 00:18:26.680 --> 00:18:32.759 momentum to actually create in this physical three day it doesn't start in the physical, 204 00:18:32.920 --> 00:18:36.680 It starts in the mental. So how do we use this to become 205 00:18:36.759 --> 00:18:42.400 hotter? We envision ourselves as our hottest version of ourselves. We envision and 206 00:18:42.640 --> 00:18:48.720 act from this point of view. If I'm envisioning the hottest version of myself, 207 00:18:48.759 --> 00:18:51.359 I'm going to think like her, acts like her, be like her, 208 00:18:52.039 --> 00:18:56.680 behave like her. I'm gonna have her habits. I'm gonna embody her 209 00:18:56.720 --> 00:19:00.759 truth. So if my hottest version of me drinks one hundred ounces of water 210 00:19:00.839 --> 00:19:03.680 every day, that is random. That's not me saying that's what I do. 211 00:19:04.000 --> 00:19:08.039 That is a random number. But if that's what I see my honest 212 00:19:08.119 --> 00:19:11.160 version of myself doing every day, That's what I'm going to start to do. 213 00:19:11.519 --> 00:19:18.799 The next sexy hermetic principle is the principle of correspondence. Now we've talked 214 00:19:18.839 --> 00:19:22.400 about before the law of correspondence. So if this one sounds familiar, it's 215 00:19:22.440 --> 00:19:26.720 because, bitch, it is familiar. Okay, knock knock. We've talked 216 00:19:26.759 --> 00:19:30.480 about this before. However, we use the law the word the law of 217 00:19:30.559 --> 00:19:34.759 correspondence instead of the principle. They're the same thing, though, and without 218 00:19:34.799 --> 00:19:41.079 further ado, let's get into this one the principle of correspondence states as above, 219 00:19:41.240 --> 00:19:45.079 so below, as below, so above. This principle embodies the truth 220 00:19:45.119 --> 00:19:51.759 that there's always a correspondence between the laws and the phenomena of the various planes 221 00:19:51.920 --> 00:19:57.920 of being end life dun dun dun dune. There are planes beyond our knowing, 222 00:19:59.240 --> 00:20:02.960 but when we apply apply the principle of correspondence to them, we are 223 00:20:03.039 --> 00:20:07.599 able to understand much that would otherwise be unknowable to us. The principle is 224 00:20:07.599 --> 00:20:15.319 of universal application and manifestation on the various planes of the material, mental, 225 00:20:15.400 --> 00:20:21.599 and spiritual universe. I find myself constantly applying this principle in my life. 226 00:20:21.839 --> 00:20:26.519 What it's basically saying is that everything is connected. Your internal world will always 227 00:20:26.559 --> 00:20:33.000 be reflected back to in your external world. This means if I am constantly 228 00:20:33.039 --> 00:20:37.279 abandoning myself, I'm going to attract people who also abandon me. If I'm 229 00:20:37.400 --> 00:20:44.480 constantly ghosting my own emotions, I'm going to attract people who ghost how I 230 00:20:44.519 --> 00:20:52.000 feel. The planes of existence of being are intertwined with one another. So 231 00:20:52.200 --> 00:20:59.039 when we are continuously seeing the same sort of result in our external world, 232 00:20:59.480 --> 00:21:02.960 instead of being like I have no power and I must be ugly, we 233 00:21:03.039 --> 00:21:07.519 can understand, wait a second, what am I doing in my internal world 234 00:21:07.599 --> 00:21:12.359 that might be causing this sort of reaction in my external world. We can 235 00:21:12.440 --> 00:21:18.480 also see this as above, so below there are many things happening in a 236 00:21:18.640 --> 00:21:26.880 larger schema, in government, in politics, in technology with AI, and 237 00:21:26.920 --> 00:21:33.240 we can look at all this and we can get really really concerned and upset 238 00:21:33.279 --> 00:21:37.039 and maybe overwhelmed. But I always think, if it's happening in this physical 239 00:21:37.079 --> 00:21:44.279 realm, there's something corresponding with it in a higher realm, And that really 240 00:21:44.319 --> 00:21:48.640 puts me to ease knowing that if it's happening in a higher realm, we're 241 00:21:48.680 --> 00:21:55.079 moving towards the light. So it's not that this realm is the master controller. 242 00:21:55.599 --> 00:21:59.279 It's not that everything happening in this realm that the cause and effect is 243 00:21:59.319 --> 00:22:03.119 happening in this physical realm. That's not the case. So the same way 244 00:22:03.160 --> 00:22:11.400 that our internal world is reflected back to us in our external planes of higher 245 00:22:11.440 --> 00:22:15.680 dimensions are also reflected back to the plane that we are living on right now. 246 00:22:17.319 --> 00:22:21.599 So how do we actually use this to our advantage? If we are 247 00:22:21.720 --> 00:22:27.400 noticing that there are so many things that are going quote unquote, I'll say 248 00:22:27.680 --> 00:22:33.759 wrong in our reality. Instead of giving up our power and losing our shit, 249 00:22:33.920 --> 00:22:37.880 which is not hot at all, we can become really really hot by 250 00:22:37.960 --> 00:22:42.160 taking responsibility over our life and saying, wait a second, I have a 251 00:22:42.200 --> 00:22:48.279 lot more creative control than I'm realizing right now. I have a lot more 252 00:22:48.319 --> 00:22:55.440 creative control than I'm giving myself credit. If my external world is somehow reflecting 253 00:22:55.480 --> 00:23:00.319 what's internally going on with me, what may I be thinking, because the 254 00:23:00.400 --> 00:23:04.599 universe is mental? Hello, Principle number one, What could I maybe feeling? 255 00:23:04.960 --> 00:23:11.559 What can I maybe doing that is causing my external reality to treat me 256 00:23:11.799 --> 00:23:17.079 in this way? And this isn't to blame the victim at all. And 257 00:23:17.119 --> 00:23:19.599 I feel like I do have to say that because sometimes bad things happen, 258 00:23:21.000 --> 00:23:29.359 and it's not necessarily because of us. There are so many subconscious thoughts and 259 00:23:29.480 --> 00:23:33.480 beliefs that we have, and we also have hitchhiker entities that attach onto our 260 00:23:33.519 --> 00:23:37.559 body and they can cause really negative things to unfold in our life. We 261 00:23:37.640 --> 00:23:45.559 will get to that, but it's important to understand that sometimes there's things happening 262 00:23:45.720 --> 00:23:51.759 in a higher realm that are maybe like a negative entity got attached to us 263 00:23:51.759 --> 00:23:55.799 in our energetic realm and we're not realizing it, and then we're attracting negative 264 00:23:55.839 --> 00:23:59.960 things towards us. What do we do? The best thing we can do, 265 00:24:00.279 --> 00:24:03.880 take responsibility. Whether it's a subconscious belief or a negative entity, or 266 00:24:03.960 --> 00:24:08.319 it's just you thinking that you kind of suck, so you're attracting sucky experiences. 267 00:24:08.839 --> 00:24:15.000 Cleanse yourself, get some white sage. You can even just go into 268 00:24:15.240 --> 00:24:19.400 your bath or a shower and imagine all the negativity just washing off of you. 269 00:24:19.960 --> 00:24:26.759 And we want to restart, refresh so we can allow ourselves to rebirth 270 00:24:26.920 --> 00:24:32.359 into a new season of our hottest girl season. Yet, okay, that's 271 00:24:32.359 --> 00:24:36.200 what we want to do. We don't want to look at things for just 272 00:24:36.319 --> 00:24:40.680 face value. We need to look underneath the surface. And when we go 273 00:24:40.799 --> 00:24:45.559 underneath the surface, we see, Wait a second, everything is not how 274 00:24:45.559 --> 00:24:49.480 it actually seems. Maybe it's not that all men are trash. Maybe it's 275 00:24:49.519 --> 00:24:53.880 that I either have some negative beliefs that I have about myself or a negative 276 00:24:55.000 --> 00:25:00.160 entity. But if I use some white sage, if I start becoming an 277 00:25:00.200 --> 00:25:04.799 active participant of my life instead of allowing my path to control me, I 278 00:25:04.960 --> 00:25:11.400 can restart this. I could rebirth my own self. The Kabalian states that 279 00:25:11.480 --> 00:25:15.240 there's three great planes, the plane of the physical, the plane of the 280 00:25:15.319 --> 00:25:21.279 mental, and the plane of the spiritual. So keep in mind that these 281 00:25:21.319 --> 00:25:27.119 three planes are constantly in correspondence with one another, affecting one another, causing 282 00:25:27.680 --> 00:25:34.079 situations to unfold in one another. So if you cannot figure out why something 283 00:25:34.160 --> 00:25:40.680 keeps happening in the physical realm, maybe it's because the causation is happening in 284 00:25:40.720 --> 00:25:45.599 the spiritual or emotional realm. And that's something you can take responsibility over by 285 00:25:45.759 --> 00:25:52.720 pausing and becoming curious about why you're getting the results you're getting. And if 286 00:25:52.720 --> 00:25:56.119 you want different results, you have to begin to think, be, act, 287 00:25:56.319 --> 00:26:06.000 behave differently. They're law is the principle of vibration. Nothing rests, 288 00:26:06.039 --> 00:26:11.920 everything moves, everything vibrates. This principle embodies the truth that everything is in 289 00:26:11.039 --> 00:26:17.160 motion, everything vibrates, and nothing is at rest. These are facts which 290 00:26:17.319 --> 00:26:23.319 modern science endorses, and with each new scientific discovery they all tend to verify 291 00:26:23.519 --> 00:26:32.359 this as truth as well. Really interesting, what this actually means is that 292 00:26:32.440 --> 00:26:37.599 the principle explains that the difference between different manifestations of matter, energy, mind, 293 00:26:37.599 --> 00:26:44.759 and even spirit result largely from varying rates of vibration. What did I 294 00:26:44.799 --> 00:26:51.039 just say? The differences between different manifestations, why one thing manifests and another 295 00:26:51.079 --> 00:26:56.119 thing doesn't is because of the varying rates of vibration. This is what we 296 00:26:56.160 --> 00:27:02.400 need to understand. There's a reason why we attract different people and repel different 297 00:27:02.440 --> 00:27:07.039 people at different times in our life. Every single thing on this planet is 298 00:27:07.160 --> 00:27:11.720 vibration. Your fuzzy socks are all made of energy. It's vibration. My 299 00:27:11.839 --> 00:27:15.519 water bottle it's vibration. It's energy. You are energy. You are vibration. 300 00:27:15.960 --> 00:27:22.240 Everything is always moving and grooving in one direction and another. This is 301 00:27:22.319 --> 00:27:26.720 why people come in and out of our life. When someone leaves our life. 302 00:27:26.839 --> 00:27:30.039 I know it's so easy to state and to go to the worst case 303 00:27:30.079 --> 00:27:34.440 scenario of I'm not good enough, I always get abandoned. What if you 304 00:27:34.559 --> 00:27:41.799 just fell out of vibration with this person? Think about what would make you 305 00:27:41.880 --> 00:27:45.599 hotter You feeling like everyone abandons you and no one loves you, or believing, 306 00:27:45.680 --> 00:27:51.359 which is probably closest to the truth, that this person simply fell out 307 00:27:51.359 --> 00:27:56.680 of vibrational alignment with you. If you are a vibration and vibrations are always 308 00:27:56.680 --> 00:28:02.640 moving, which directions. Are the vibrations moving in like attracts like, So 309 00:28:02.839 --> 00:28:07.680 like vibration is always moving towards one another, and dislike vibration is always moving 310 00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:15.720 apart away from one another. So if you've had someone in your life since 311 00:28:15.920 --> 00:28:18.359 first grade and you've been great friends, and now you're going to college and 312 00:28:18.400 --> 00:28:23.880 you have nothing in common, that dislike vibration is going to start to separate. 313 00:28:25.440 --> 00:28:30.359 Instead of telling ourselves a story and creating meaning that everyone leaves our lives 314 00:28:30.400 --> 00:28:34.400 or that we suck or whatever it may be, why not just remember that 315 00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:41.519 everything is vibration and maybe we're just not in the same vibration any longer. 316 00:28:42.559 --> 00:28:48.039 This is a law of vibration. Even when it comes to manifestation. Why 317 00:28:48.079 --> 00:28:51.359 do you think people say, embody what it is you wish to attract, 318 00:28:51.359 --> 00:28:55.200 be the vibe you wish to attract in the world. Why would we say 319 00:28:55.240 --> 00:29:00.839 that? Because like attracts like, and when you embody the vibration you seek 320 00:29:00.880 --> 00:29:04.799 out, that vibration will also seek you out. Why Because life attracts like. 321 00:29:06.480 --> 00:29:10.640 So if you want to be this hottest version of yourself, how can 322 00:29:10.680 --> 00:29:15.079 we become that vibration? We have to start doing what we think our hottest 323 00:29:15.079 --> 00:29:18.599 self would be doing. And then we attract the right people, the right 324 00:29:18.680 --> 00:29:25.680 circumstance, the right resources, everything we need to feel like our hottest version 325 00:29:25.759 --> 00:29:30.759 of ourself. I think a key takeaway from this principle is not to take 326 00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:37.480 other people leaving our life as personal and instead take it as vibrational. I 327 00:29:37.519 --> 00:29:41.680 always say, do not take things personal, take them vibrational. What is 328 00:29:41.720 --> 00:29:47.000 this connection trying to teach you? Not? Why is this person trying to 329 00:29:47.039 --> 00:29:52.599 trigger me to very different questions that will give you very different information and will 330 00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:56.960 lead you onto a different path. If everything is always moving, remember you're 331 00:29:57.000 --> 00:30:00.519 going to move towards what you already are, not what you want, but 332 00:30:00.640 --> 00:30:06.880 what you are. So if you are desiring to become this hottest version of 333 00:30:06.880 --> 00:30:11.359 yourself, this most magnetic version of yourself, you have to first start to 334 00:30:11.480 --> 00:30:15.079 become this hottest version of yourself, this most magnetic version of yourself. And 335 00:30:15.200 --> 00:30:18.839 again, how do we do that? We can go back to principle one 336 00:30:18.920 --> 00:30:23.319 and start asking that desired version of ourself, Hey, what are you doing? 337 00:30:23.680 --> 00:30:26.160 And what do I need to do? And then we just start doing 338 00:30:26.200 --> 00:30:33.240 it. I know there's this whole entire idea of acting as if or playing 339 00:30:33.319 --> 00:30:36.079 hard to get to me, it's all bullshit. Like I know, it 340 00:30:36.119 --> 00:30:40.799 can work for some people, but I never see it fully unraveling how they 341 00:30:40.839 --> 00:30:45.480 actually want. I've literally never seen that. Instead of acting as if or 342 00:30:45.559 --> 00:30:49.119 playing hard to get, just be what it is you want. Literally, 343 00:30:49.200 --> 00:30:53.039 become what it is you want. You know the steps you need to take. 344 00:30:53.160 --> 00:30:56.279 Everything you have is within you, but you need to pull it out. 345 00:30:56.920 --> 00:31:00.519 So instead of playing hard to get it, well, that wouldn't actually 346 00:31:00.519 --> 00:31:04.720 work. And why wouldn't that work? Because as I'm ignoring someone's text, 347 00:31:04.799 --> 00:31:08.240 Let's say I'm talking to Brad and I'm not going to answer Brad's text. 348 00:31:08.359 --> 00:31:12.160 I can't answer Brad's text. The whole entire time, I'm thinking, I 349 00:31:12.200 --> 00:31:15.440 can't answer his text. Oh my god, I can't touch my phone because 350 00:31:15.440 --> 00:31:17.599 I might open it and it will tell him that I read it. Oh 351 00:31:17.640 --> 00:31:19.079 my god. I have to fill my day up with something to do, 352 00:31:19.119 --> 00:31:22.599 so I don't text bradback. What am I doing? All I'm thinking about 353 00:31:22.759 --> 00:31:30.519 is Brad playing hard to get is just bullshit. Period is going to make 354 00:31:30.559 --> 00:31:36.000 you really exhausted and really depleted. Do not play hard to get, don't 355 00:31:36.039 --> 00:31:41.359 act as if. Instead just become because when you become busy and you actually 356 00:31:41.359 --> 00:31:47.279 just sign up for a class, create a new I don't know, TikTok 357 00:31:47.400 --> 00:31:51.599 page, or do a new recipe something like that. Literally anything. When 358 00:31:51.640 --> 00:31:56.319 you actually just make yourself busy, you become that magnetic version of yourself, 359 00:31:56.319 --> 00:32:00.000 that hot version of yourself, and you don't have to pretend. The next 360 00:32:00.200 --> 00:32:05.880 sexy hermetic principle is number four, the law polarity. Now, we've spoken 361 00:32:05.920 --> 00:32:08.680 about polarity so many times, but the way they break this down is so 362 00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:14.680 different and so interesting. I'm excited for you to hear it. They say 363 00:32:14.759 --> 00:32:20.319 that everything is dual, Everything has pulled, Everything has its pair of opposites. 364 00:32:20.839 --> 00:32:25.319 Like and unlike are the same. Opposites are identical in nature, but 365 00:32:25.640 --> 00:32:32.680 different in degree. Everything has extremes, extremes meets. All truths are but 366 00:32:32.880 --> 00:32:42.640 half truths, All paradoxes may be reconciled. They have that there is a 367 00:32:42.680 --> 00:32:47.759 thesis and antithesis, which are identical in nature but different in degree. Opposites 368 00:32:47.799 --> 00:32:54.000 are the same, only differing in degree. What did I just say? 369 00:32:54.440 --> 00:32:58.319 Don't worry, We're gonna break it down. So the first things we need 370 00:32:58.359 --> 00:33:04.920 to understand about polarity is polarity will always manifest so in relationship, if you 371 00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:09.079 are in your divine feminine, that will allow for great polarity in your relationship. 372 00:33:09.160 --> 00:33:14.039 If you're wanting to attract a divine masculine, the more you stay in 373 00:33:14.079 --> 00:33:17.160 your feminine, the more that other partner will be in their masculine. However, 374 00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:22.400 if you start stepping into your masculine, there has to be polarity. 375 00:33:22.799 --> 00:33:27.799 Your partner will then pivot and go into their feminine. So in all creation, 376 00:33:28.119 --> 00:33:31.000 everywhere, there are always these opposites. As much as there is light, 377 00:33:31.079 --> 00:33:36.160 there's going to be dark. As much as there is positive, there's 378 00:33:36.200 --> 00:33:38.799 going to be negative. As much as there is feminine energy, there will 379 00:33:38.839 --> 00:33:45.240 also be masculine energy. I also like to apply this when I think about 380 00:33:45.240 --> 00:33:49.559 the different seasons of our life. As deep as we feel pain in some 381 00:33:49.640 --> 00:33:54.519 of our seasons, we eventually will also feel pleasure. Because with polarity, 382 00:33:54.839 --> 00:34:00.400 they're opposites, but they're even and that's something we really want to remember here 383 00:34:01.279 --> 00:34:07.319 now. The way they talk about polarity that I find so interesting is the 384 00:34:07.359 --> 00:34:12.199 way they talk about opposites. They say that opposites are the same thing, 385 00:34:12.679 --> 00:34:17.440 the same thing in nature. They just differ in degree of vibration. Aka, 386 00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:23.440 light and darkness are the same thing, they just differ in degree of 387 00:34:23.519 --> 00:34:29.840 vibration. We cannot understand light if we do not understand darkness. We need 388 00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:35.599 both to actually define the other one. So it's almost like when you think 389 00:34:35.599 --> 00:34:40.639 about what, let's say, the traditional concept of heaven is the reason they 390 00:34:40.719 --> 00:34:45.679 say that you can't learn and develop and grow in heaven is because it's always 391 00:34:45.719 --> 00:34:51.679 just light and it's always just happiness. There's no difference in degree of vibration 392 00:34:51.800 --> 00:34:55.400 because it's all just a very high vibration. So then what do you have 393 00:34:55.480 --> 00:35:00.679 to do. You have to come to planet Earth to feel denser librations, 394 00:35:00.719 --> 00:35:05.599 to feel contrast, to feel polarity, and only then can you understand how 395 00:35:05.639 --> 00:35:09.639 amazing that other part of it is, which is the light. So what 396 00:35:09.679 --> 00:35:15.000 this is saying is we cannot understand one extreme without the other. When we're 397 00:35:15.039 --> 00:35:21.079 going through these seasons, it's not that one season is super super super pleasure 398 00:35:21.440 --> 00:35:24.960 and the next season is all about pain. It's that one season we know 399 00:35:25.000 --> 00:35:30.559 what pleasure is, we felt pleasure, we experienced pleasure, and the next 400 00:35:30.599 --> 00:35:35.639 season we had an absence of pleasure, which we define as pain. But 401 00:35:35.760 --> 00:35:39.239 what they're trying to say is that pain and pleasure are the same thing in 402 00:35:39.400 --> 00:35:45.039 nature. They just differ in degree, and in order to explain and understand 403 00:35:45.519 --> 00:35:50.599 one part of the spectrum, you have to understand the other. It's also 404 00:35:50.719 --> 00:35:53.440 like in relationships, how can we go from love and hate so quickly? 405 00:35:53.760 --> 00:35:58.480 Aren't those very different things? No, love and hate are the same thing 406 00:35:58.519 --> 00:36:01.239 in nature. They just differ in degree, and it's really easy to shift 407 00:36:01.239 --> 00:36:06.880 our vibration to go from one of them to the other. How can we 408 00:36:06.960 --> 00:36:10.119 use this to make ourselves hotter? One, we can remember that when we're 409 00:36:10.159 --> 00:36:16.199 having an absence of pleasure a season that feels more painful, that pleasure actually 410 00:36:16.320 --> 00:36:21.519 isn't that far away. It's the same thing in nature as pain. It's 411 00:36:21.519 --> 00:36:25.559 just a different degree. And we can use something like the Abraham Hicks Emotional 412 00:36:25.639 --> 00:36:31.159 Guidance scale to little by little make ourselves feel better over time and eventually get 413 00:36:31.199 --> 00:36:37.719 ourselves back to that pleasure feeling. We can also understand that when we are 414 00:36:37.840 --> 00:36:43.719 having hatred for someone, it's not necessarily that we actually hate them. If 415 00:36:43.719 --> 00:36:47.599 it's someone we once loved, it's still love, it's just in a different 416 00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:52.760 degree. And instead of hating them, we can recognize what this emotion is, 417 00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:58.320 what this vibration is, what this polarity is, and begin to release 418 00:36:58.400 --> 00:37:01.880 it. What do they say? They say that having hatred, having resentment, 419 00:37:02.000 --> 00:37:07.360 having anger towards someone is just like drinking poison and thinking it's going to 420 00:37:07.480 --> 00:37:15.239 harm your enemies. Holding onto these energies doesn't hurt anyone but ourselves. I 421 00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:19.239 think that when we realize that there's polarity in the world and we're going to 422 00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:23.599 experience both because we came here too, I feel that just lessens the burden 423 00:37:23.719 --> 00:37:29.880 and the emotions that I feel when something negative is happening. Every time something 424 00:37:29.920 --> 00:37:31.519 negative happens to me, I'm always like, oh, well, there's polarity 425 00:37:31.519 --> 00:37:35.440 in the world, and I can't wait for something better to happen because it 426 00:37:35.559 --> 00:37:38.840 must even itself out. I think it's a really good way to remind yourself 427 00:37:38.920 --> 00:37:45.039 that eventually this will fade and the next best thing will come in. Something 428 00:37:45.039 --> 00:37:50.880 that I really like that they say that I think I should read is the 429 00:37:50.920 --> 00:37:54.039 same principle manifest in the case of light and darkness, kind of what I 430 00:37:54.119 --> 00:37:58.360 was saying before, which are the same thing. So again, light and 431 00:37:58.440 --> 00:38:02.400 darkness are the same thing, the difference consisting of varying degrees between the two 432 00:38:02.440 --> 00:38:07.360 poles of the phenomenon. Where does darkness leave off and light begin. What 433 00:38:07.519 --> 00:38:12.360 is the difference between large and small, between hard and soft, between black 434 00:38:12.400 --> 00:38:15.159 and white, between sharp and dole, between noise and quiet, between high 435 00:38:15.159 --> 00:38:20.920 and low, between positive and negative. The same principle operates on the mental 436 00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:24.719 plane. Let us take a radical and extreme example that of love and hate, 437 00:38:25.000 --> 00:38:30.280 two mental states apparently and totally different. And yet the degrees of hate 438 00:38:30.320 --> 00:38:34.400 and the degrees of love have a middle point in which we sometimes use the 439 00:38:34.559 --> 00:38:39.079 terms like or dislike, which shade into each other so gradually that sometimes we 440 00:38:39.159 --> 00:38:44.679 are at a loss to know whether we like or dislike or neither. And 441 00:38:44.880 --> 00:38:49.280 all are simply degrees of the same thing, as you will see if you 442 00:38:49.360 --> 00:38:52.519 will. But think for a moment. Love and hate, and light and 443 00:38:52.719 --> 00:38:58.440 dark and soft and hard, They're all the same thing, but just varying 444 00:38:58.519 --> 00:39:05.440 degrees of one another. So maybe when we're having this hatred or this extreme 445 00:39:05.480 --> 00:39:09.079 emotion towards someone, we can remind ourselves, well, it's just a differing 446 00:39:09.199 --> 00:39:16.639 degree of something much different than what I'm feeling right now. The next principle 447 00:39:17.840 --> 00:39:23.639 is the sexy, sexy, hermetic principle of rhythm, and this states that 448 00:39:25.360 --> 00:39:31.559 everything flows out and in everything has its tides, All things rise and fall, 449 00:39:31.920 --> 00:39:37.440 and the pendulum swings manifest in everything. The measure of the swing to 450 00:39:37.480 --> 00:39:40.119 the right is a measure of the swing to the left, and the rhythm 451 00:39:40.199 --> 00:39:45.239 will always compensate. What we want to do with this is learn how to 452 00:39:45.360 --> 00:39:51.440 use the law or the principle of rhythm so it cannot use us. I 453 00:39:51.639 --> 00:39:54.480 see that a lot of us will have these really really high highs and these 454 00:39:54.719 --> 00:39:59.639 really really low lows. How do we start to interrupt this pattern so we 455 00:39:59.679 --> 00:40:05.280 can neutralize ourselves out. It's exactly what I just said. It's interruption, 456 00:40:05.760 --> 00:40:09.960 awareness, interruption, new response. We've been talking about this a lot on 457 00:40:10.039 --> 00:40:15.760 that Bitch is positive about how the more space or pause you take between a 458 00:40:15.840 --> 00:40:21.760 trigger and a reaction, the more time you give yourself to actually respond in 459 00:40:21.760 --> 00:40:25.079 a way that's in alignment with your hottest self or with your authentic self. 460 00:40:25.480 --> 00:40:30.440 If I'm triggered and I immediately react, that doesn't give me time to consciously 461 00:40:30.519 --> 00:40:36.119 think about and actively participate in a way that makes me feel good. How 462 00:40:36.159 --> 00:40:39.320 can we become an active participant, become our hottest self. We have to 463 00:40:39.400 --> 00:40:45.840 create space between our trigger and our reaction, and in this secret saucy moment, 464 00:40:46.159 --> 00:40:52.840 we have a moment to decide how we wish to show up. So 465 00:40:52.159 --> 00:40:58.679 maybe instead of flipping out on someone because they didn't answer us for an hour, 466 00:40:58.960 --> 00:41:01.719 we can take a pause and ask ourselves, well, what am I 467 00:41:01.840 --> 00:41:07.239 actually feeling right now? And does this have to do with my past relationships 468 00:41:07.639 --> 00:41:12.800 or is it more about this person? Is this more about my own personal 469 00:41:12.880 --> 00:41:17.039 patterns or is it about this person? Could it be that my triggers are 470 00:41:17.400 --> 00:41:23.760 becoming really irritated or is it that something's wrong with this person and I haven't 471 00:41:23.760 --> 00:41:28.039 talked to them in three days? So we want to start to understand, 472 00:41:28.079 --> 00:41:30.119 you know, is it my anxiety or is this a red flag? And 473 00:41:30.199 --> 00:41:36.000 the only way we can do that in life is by taking conscious pauses and 474 00:41:36.159 --> 00:41:40.039 actually reflecting on the current moment. If you feel like you're having extreme highs 475 00:41:40.039 --> 00:41:45.800 and extreme lows, the way around this is through neutralization of your emotions and 476 00:41:45.920 --> 00:41:51.679 your thoughts by taking a pause, and that's how you can start to use 477 00:41:51.719 --> 00:41:54.440 the law of rhythm to your advantage. Rather than having it used you. 478 00:41:55.440 --> 00:42:00.480 And like the law states, as much as the pens swings in one direction, 479 00:42:00.559 --> 00:42:05.280 it will swing in the other. If you start neutralizing your decisions, 480 00:42:05.280 --> 00:42:08.000 your actions, your behaviors, your thoughts, and you only go so far 481 00:42:08.039 --> 00:42:12.360 to the left, you will also only go so far to the right. 482 00:42:13.039 --> 00:42:17.280 The next principle is a principle of cause and effect. This states that every 483 00:42:17.320 --> 00:42:22.679 cause has its effects, every effect has its cause. Everything happens according to 484 00:42:22.760 --> 00:42:25.800 law. Chances but a name for law not recognized. I love that. 485 00:42:25.840 --> 00:42:30.199 I'm going to say that again, Chances but a name for law not recognize. 486 00:42:30.519 --> 00:42:36.920 There are many planes of causation. Nothing escapes this law. What I 487 00:42:36.920 --> 00:42:40.840 think is really important to understand about the cause and the effect is kind of 488 00:42:40.840 --> 00:42:49.800 what we said before when we were talking about the law or the principle of 489 00:42:49.800 --> 00:42:53.440 correspondence. Like I said before, there are multiple planes of existence. We 490 00:42:53.519 --> 00:42:59.079 have the physical, we have the mental, we have the spiritual. One 491 00:42:59.480 --> 00:43:07.000 cause in one plane could cause the effect in another plane. And now if 492 00:43:07.039 --> 00:43:12.559 we broaden this up to karma. This is a crazy thing about this is 493 00:43:12.559 --> 00:43:16.000 that the cause and effect might not even be from this lifetime. Like if 494 00:43:16.039 --> 00:43:21.159 you did something in your past life that was really really great. You might 495 00:43:21.280 --> 00:43:23.880 have a bunch of positive karma in this life and that's the effect of the 496 00:43:23.960 --> 00:43:28.719 cause from your past life. Also cause and effect. Yeah it could be 497 00:43:28.840 --> 00:43:31.400 karma, and yeah it could be coming from a spiritual plane or a mental 498 00:43:31.440 --> 00:43:39.880 plane. But it can also be from someone else where, someone triggers us 499 00:43:39.960 --> 00:43:45.440 so deep that they cause a spiritual awakening. So cause and effect is always 500 00:43:45.519 --> 00:43:50.480 happening all around us, but it can be happening in many different ways. 501 00:43:50.719 --> 00:43:52.519 It could be the cause from the mental realm, It could be a cause 502 00:43:52.559 --> 00:43:57.000 from our past life. It could be a cause from another person. How 503 00:43:57.039 --> 00:44:02.400 can we transcend the effects and the causes and all of this junkie junk. 504 00:44:02.920 --> 00:44:07.320 What we can start to do, like I said before, is really become 505 00:44:07.360 --> 00:44:15.000 an active participant and instead of trying to get people back, or becoming obsessed 506 00:44:15.000 --> 00:44:21.960 with revenge, or being hyper concerned about what people are doing, whatever it 507 00:44:22.039 --> 00:44:27.840 may be, we can just instead start playing from our heart center. We 508 00:44:27.920 --> 00:44:31.159 can instead have pure intentions and that makes us so hot. Like, what 509 00:44:31.400 --> 00:44:37.679 is hotter than pure intentions? A good person, a good heart going out 510 00:44:37.679 --> 00:44:40.360 there just worried about yourself doing the damn thing. What's hotter than that because 511 00:44:40.400 --> 00:44:47.480 I literally can't think of anything, can you? So instead of being so 512 00:44:47.559 --> 00:44:53.719 concerned about everyone else, you want to start to take control over the causes 513 00:44:53.760 --> 00:44:58.760 in your life and you can become the mover instead of always having to be 514 00:44:58.800 --> 00:45:00.519 moved. How do you do this? You play from your heart center. 515 00:45:00.639 --> 00:45:05.320 You worry about you. You pay attention to what your dreams are, your 516 00:45:05.360 --> 00:45:08.519 goals are. But also you take control of the first principle, which is 517 00:45:08.639 --> 00:45:14.039 the all is mental. You take control over your mind space. You take 518 00:45:14.039 --> 00:45:17.079 control about what you're thinking. Yes, you do have control over your thoughts 519 00:45:17.159 --> 00:45:21.599 more than you think. You can pick your thoughts like you pick your clothes 520 00:45:21.639 --> 00:45:24.280 and your lipstick and all that jazz. But it takes practice, it takes 521 00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:29.000 time, and then eventually it will feel like a second skin. Maybe you 522 00:45:29.039 --> 00:45:31.920 can't control every single thought. You can't control the first thought that you have. 523 00:45:32.239 --> 00:45:36.559 But once you have awareness that you're starting to think in a direction that 524 00:45:36.719 --> 00:45:38.960 you don't want to go down, you can then take a pause. Hello, 525 00:45:39.639 --> 00:45:43.639 You can then take a second. You can then take a little bait 526 00:45:44.000 --> 00:45:51.079 to interrupt that initial thought process and then reground yourself. So I'm not saying 527 00:45:51.119 --> 00:45:53.239 you have to police every single thought but I mean, like, damn, 528 00:45:53.480 --> 00:45:58.320 get some control over yourself, girl, because that makes you hot. This 529 00:45:58.440 --> 00:46:04.719 illusionary control that we think we have over other people is a waste of time. 530 00:46:04.760 --> 00:46:08.079 Okay, we try to control everything outside of ourself because the world seems 531 00:46:08.320 --> 00:46:15.159 so uncontrollable, so uncertain. The best way to gain true control is to 532 00:46:15.199 --> 00:46:21.000 control yourself. Control your thoughts, control what you're feeling and what you're focusing 533 00:46:21.039 --> 00:46:23.400 on, the language you use, the meaning you give to your story, 534 00:46:23.440 --> 00:46:27.679 the way you use your body. This is what you can actually have control 535 00:46:27.719 --> 00:46:31.719 over. And when you take control over this, oh, that is a 536 00:46:31.800 --> 00:46:39.199 recipe for a very hot existence. So become the cause. Become the mover 537 00:46:39.639 --> 00:46:45.360 by taking control over your thoughts, by not being so concerned about revenge and 538 00:46:45.400 --> 00:46:50.679 instead refocusing on yourself. And the last, but not least sexy hermatic principle 539 00:46:50.760 --> 00:46:54.480 that can allow us to be our hottest self is the principle of gender. 540 00:46:55.280 --> 00:47:01.639 This principle states gender is in everything. Everything has its masculine and feminine principles. 541 00:47:02.119 --> 00:47:08.280 Gender manifests on all planes. So in this physical plane, how does 542 00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:14.079 gender manifest. It manifests as a man and a woman, egg and sperm. 543 00:47:14.480 --> 00:47:17.400 But that's not all. Gender is in our narrative. A lot of 544 00:47:17.400 --> 00:47:22.199 people focus on that as gender, but that's not all gender is. Gender 545 00:47:22.320 --> 00:47:27.320 exists on every single plane. Let's think about the mental plane for example. 546 00:47:28.039 --> 00:47:31.599 How does gender manifest on the mental plane. Well, we can think about 547 00:47:31.599 --> 00:47:37.199 it as I CC and made up of both masculine and feminine energy. I 548 00:47:37.239 --> 00:47:45.880 can use my mental masculine energy to come up eventually with some sort of business 549 00:47:45.000 --> 00:47:50.840 idea or strategy and outline that put the action towards it. But I can 550 00:47:50.880 --> 00:47:55.559 also use my feminine energy to use my heart center to attract towards me the 551 00:47:55.679 --> 00:48:02.880 necessary resources people in places I need to this idea fully manifest. When we 552 00:48:02.960 --> 00:48:10.360 combine our own masculine and feminine energies together, that is what really creates magnetic 553 00:48:10.599 --> 00:48:15.960 energy. That is what allows us to pull in our dreams, our desires, 554 00:48:16.119 --> 00:48:22.159 literally everything. So I want you to think about gender not just oh, 555 00:48:22.320 --> 00:48:27.159 man, woman, egg sperm. That's just one way gender manifests on 556 00:48:27.199 --> 00:48:31.000 the physical plane. But gender is in spiritual in the spiritual world, it 557 00:48:31.239 --> 00:48:38.199 is in the mental plane. It is everywhere and all around us. And 558 00:48:38.280 --> 00:48:43.320 the way we use this to make ourselves hotter is knowing when to tap into 559 00:48:43.320 --> 00:48:49.880 which energy. When is it most likely that I should tap into my masculine 560 00:48:49.960 --> 00:48:52.239 energy when I'm doing a workout, when I'm planning something out, when I'm 561 00:48:52.239 --> 00:48:55.960 outlining, when I'm maybe moving and I need to figure out how am I 562 00:48:57.000 --> 00:49:00.840 going to pack all of this into a truck masculine energy, But then I 563 00:49:00.880 --> 00:49:05.239 want to use my feminine energy to feel what it is I want to feel 564 00:49:05.239 --> 00:49:08.039 in my experience. I want to use it to surrender to the current moment 565 00:49:08.079 --> 00:49:12.280 because we have the law of rhythm, and I want to use it to 566 00:49:12.639 --> 00:49:17.119 ease to flow into my desired life. And when we use both of these, 567 00:49:17.840 --> 00:49:22.519 it really allows us to not be super stressed out and not super passive. 568 00:49:22.840 --> 00:49:29.039 It allows us to find a happy hot media positive bitches. I hope 569 00:49:29.079 --> 00:49:32.679 you enjoyed this episode where we took apart the Kabalion and learned how we can 570 00:49:32.760 --> 00:49:37.320 use it become our hottest self. If this episode resonated with you, if 571 00:49:37.320 --> 00:49:42.000 you learn something new, if you found it mind altering, even confusing, 572 00:49:42.039 --> 00:49:45.719 those are all good things because it means you're becoming curious. If you can 573 00:49:45.800 --> 00:49:49.519 leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, it means the world to 574 00:49:49.559 --> 00:49:52.159 me and really helps this podcast grow. If not for me, do it 575 00:49:52.199 --> 00:49:54.840 for you, because, like we said, calls an effect, you can 576 00:49:54.880 --> 00:50:00.800 get some good karma off of it, So why the hell not. I 577 00:50:00.840 --> 00:50:04.519 love you so much. As always, it's an honor to record this positive 578 00:50:05.239 --> 00:50:09.000 bitch podcast for you. The Sparkle in Me honors the sparkle in you. 579 00:50:09.280 --> 00:50:12.159 I love you, I love you, I love you, and I will 580 00:50:12.159 --> 00:50:31.920 see you in the next one. Momma jes cancer change. I canna answer 581 00:50:40.559 --> 00:50:43.639 cancers, cancer, sh