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not in a way you've ever learned before. We see tips on what to
do with the gym and how to do your makeup, but we're going to
talk about how to become hotter with the seven hermetic principles coming from the DNA
the Kabalion. There are some sexy secrets in this Kabalian book that we have
to dive into to fully embody our hottest self. This book, it is
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from don't worry though. We will get into all of that, but within
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to be and on the door to a new life. To begin our exploration
into the seven Sexy her Medical Principles, where can we start? Well,
why not start with the Man, the myth, the legend himself, Hermes
Trismajestice. Now I'm not kidding when I say the man, comma, the
myth, comma, the legend, because literally no one knows if this dude
is real or fake. Some say he was Moses, you know Moses from
the Bible. Some say he's half God, some say he is just completely
fictional based on many thought leaders that someone decided to smush into one person.
But ultimately it doesn't really matter, because what we get from Hermes, and
yes, we're on a first named basis now, is universal, timeless,
ancient wisdom that belongs to not one person, not one party, not one
religion, but to all of us. Universal truths that all of us can
use to become healthier, happier, wealthier, and why not hotter. I'm
not kidding you. When I started to implement these seven sexy Hermetic principles into
my life, I transcended so much of what no longer was serving me that
I just felt like I was so late on my feet. I noticed that
the energy I was putting out was received better, and I became even more
magnetic than I ever was before. Now, the term hermetic, what does
that actually mean? A lot of people equate hermetic with secrecy. It me
and sealed so that nothing can escape. And this by reason of the fact
that which the followers of Hermes always observed the principle of secrecy in their teachings.
They did not believe in casting pearls before were the swa, but rather
held to the teaching Milk for babes meet for the strong, both of which
maxims are familiar to readers of the Christian scriptures, but both of which had
been used by Egyptians for centuries before the Christian era. So what they're basically
saying is that the reason this knowledge isn't thrown into our face is because it's
not meant for everyone. It's sort of along the lines that when the student
is ready, the teacher will appear. And this is your moment, bitch,
you're the student, you're ready. I was the student when I read
this, and now I'm going to be your teacher. Hello, girlie,
and we're gonna go through these seven hermetic principles. Now, they put together
seven simple hermetic principles in one book, and they called it the Kabalian.
And this was written by the three Initiates, whoever they are. Thank you,
thank you, thank you for this beautiful wisdom. Again, while we
do not know the exact origins of this book, what I do know is
how amazing and transformative the knowledge is. I think if we're going to have
this ancient wisdom, we need to have modern ways to actually execute what the
teachings say. To read this book is awesome to have knowledge, cool,
but nothing is as amazing as taking these teachings and actually applying the action,
because that's true power. We're going to go through these principles one by one
by one, and I'm going to translate the words of this book into modern
language that we can use to make ourselves hotter, happier, wealthier, and
everything else we could possibly want, because these teachings really transcend so many different
genres, so many different teachings. Oh and by the way, if you
can't tell yes, I have allergies, let's just get that out of the
way. Okay. So we're going to channel Hermes wherever he might be,
whoever he may be. Maybe it's even a woman I don't know, could
be, And we're going to go through these seven Hermetic principles. The first
hermetic principle is the all is mind. The universe is mental. The first
principle is the principle of mentalism. I'm going to be reading some things from
the book, but only the quotes that I feel are really important for us
to know, and then I'm going to take it and give you my understanding,
my truth about it, so that we can really understand. Because hearing
the mind is all, the universe is mental. That's awesome and all,
But what the fuck does that mean? And that's what we're going to talk
about, and then we're going to talk about how we can use it to
make us hutter. So when they say the mind is all, what they're
saying is that everything, everything, everything on this freaking planet before it could
be on this planet in three D incarnation, it started in the mind.
Everything is first harnessed through our mind. Therefore, our mind is everything.
Think of an invention that wasn't first thought of in someone's mind. That doesn't
exist. Because everything that's invented, whether it's technology or a business plan,
was first thought about. It was first conceived in someone's mind. How can
we use this to our advantage to make us hotter? We want to envision
in our mind what we want to see in our reality. Period. If
our mind is everything and our mind is what is creating the world around us,
thinking about what we don't want, thinking negatively about ourselves is the worst
possible use of our imagination. We're literally creating the exact opposite of what it
is we want. That's what we're doing. In order to become your hottest
version of yourself. Before you can see it physically, you need to conceive
it mentally in your mind. This means connecting to that desired version of yourself
and literally asking that version of yourself, hi, hottest version of self,
what do you do every day? What are your daily habits? Do you
drink more water? How do you dress? How do you talk? How
do you walk? What are your affirmations? Do you have a morning routine?
Connect to this hottest version of you and start conceiving in your mind what
this looks like to you. When this hottest version of you walks into a
room, how is she walking, how are people perceiving her, How is
she talking to others? How does she interact with the people around her?
What is she doing? Everything in the universe is just mental, because everything
in the universe was first created in someone's mind. And to understand this is
to conceive things in your mind first purposefully, to not just let your mind
wander. We know that we are both broadcasters and receivers of energy. So
if we start thinking negatively about ourselves, what do we do? What's the
first thing we start attracting. We start attracting negative thoughts first, then we
start attracting negative feelings. Then we start attracting negative circumstances. But everything begins
in the mind. Everything is first conceived in the mind. When you look
around in the world, understand everything you see was first conceived in someone's mind
or the mind of society. The universe is mental held in the mind of
all everything. Everything, everything, no matter what you look at, first
started in someone's mind. I always think this is such a random example,
but my dad is very, very precise about the landscaping that he has in
front of his home, and so many people while I was growing up until
this day. If I'm walking my dogs, they'll come up to me and
say, do you live there? Do you know who lives there? And
I'll say yeah, and they'll say, you have the most gorgeous landscaping.
Whoever creates this landscaping is amazing. It's my dad, And how does he
do it in his mind? First, how do you create any sort of
business plan or artistic plan, whatever it may be, You begin creating it
in your mind. Your mind is a tool. Do not use it against
yourself. If you want to become this hottest version of you. Connect to
that hottest version of yourself and ask her what are you doing on a daily
basis. That hottest version of you already exists in the quantum field. You,
however, have to invite her to make connection so you can garner the
necessary action plan. You need, the knowledge, you need, the ideas
you need to put them into play. Even though everything looks physical in this
universe, it started out mental. So the first principle, sexiness of the
first principle is that everything starts out in your mind. If that's the case,
that means if you can conceive it in your mind, you can have
it in this reality. If you can think about it, you can have
it. And what's that funny little quote we often talk about man becomes what
he thinks about most of the time, a woman becomes what she thinks about
most of the time. Here we get why, because everything is actually mental.
It's a mental universe. We live in a mental world. And I'm
not talking about that kind of mental I'm talking about thoughts, vision ideas,
Your thoughts, your why, your vision. That is what creates the most
momentum to actually create in this physical three day it doesn't start in the physical,
It starts in the mental. So how do we use this to become
hotter? We envision ourselves as our hottest version of ourselves. We envision and
act from this point of view. If I'm envisioning the hottest version of myself,
I'm going to think like her, acts like her, be like her,
behave like her. I'm gonna have her habits. I'm gonna embody her
truth. So if my hottest version of me drinks one hundred ounces of water
every day, that is random. That's not me saying that's what I do.
That is a random number. But if that's what I see my honest
version of myself doing every day, That's what I'm going to start to do.
The next sexy hermetic principle is the principle of correspondence. Now we've talked
about before the law of correspondence. So if this one sounds familiar, it's
because, bitch, it is familiar. Okay, knock knock. We've talked
about this before. However, we use the law the word the law of
correspondence instead of the principle. They're the same thing, though, and without
further ado, let's get into this one the principle of correspondence states as above,
so below, as below, so above. This principle embodies the truth
that there's always a correspondence between the laws and the phenomena of the various planes
of being end life dun dun dun dune. There are planes beyond our knowing,
but when we apply apply the principle of correspondence to them, we are
able to understand much that would otherwise be unknowable to us. The principle is
of universal application and manifestation on the various planes of the material, mental,
and spiritual universe. I find myself constantly applying this principle in my life.
What it's basically saying is that everything is connected. Your internal world will always
be reflected back to in your external world. This means if I am constantly
abandoning myself, I'm going to attract people who also abandon me. If I'm
constantly ghosting my own emotions, I'm going to attract people who ghost how I
feel. The planes of existence of being are intertwined with one another. So
when we are continuously seeing the same sort of result in our external world,
instead of being like I have no power and I must be ugly, we
can understand, wait a second, what am I doing in my internal world
that might be causing this sort of reaction in my external world. We can
also see this as above, so below there are many things happening in a
larger schema, in government, in politics, in technology with AI, and
we can look at all this and we can get really really concerned and upset
and maybe overwhelmed. But I always think, if it's happening in this physical
realm, there's something corresponding with it in a higher realm, And that really
puts me to ease knowing that if it's happening in a higher realm, we're
moving towards the light. So it's not that this realm is the master controller.
It's not that everything happening in this realm that the cause and effect is
happening in this physical realm. That's not the case. So the same way
that our internal world is reflected back to us in our external planes of higher
dimensions are also reflected back to the plane that we are living on right now.
So how do we actually use this to our advantage? If we are
noticing that there are so many things that are going quote unquote, I'll say
wrong in our reality. Instead of giving up our power and losing our shit,
which is not hot at all, we can become really really hot by
taking responsibility over our life and saying, wait a second, I have a
lot more creative control than I'm realizing right now. I have a lot more
creative control than I'm giving myself credit. If my external world is somehow reflecting
what's internally going on with me, what may I be thinking, because the
universe is mental? Hello, Principle number one, What could I maybe feeling?
What can I maybe doing that is causing my external reality to treat me
in this way? And this isn't to blame the victim at all. And
I feel like I do have to say that because sometimes bad things happen,
and it's not necessarily because of us. There are so many subconscious thoughts and
beliefs that we have, and we also have hitchhiker entities that attach onto our
body and they can cause really negative things to unfold in our life. We
will get to that, but it's important to understand that sometimes there's things happening
in a higher realm that are maybe like a negative entity got attached to us
in our energetic realm and we're not realizing it, and then we're attracting negative
things towards us. What do we do? The best thing we can do,
take responsibility. Whether it's a subconscious belief or a negative entity, or
it's just you thinking that you kind of suck, so you're attracting sucky experiences.
Cleanse yourself, get some white sage. You can even just go into
your bath or a shower and imagine all the negativity just washing off of you.
And we want to restart, refresh so we can allow ourselves to rebirth
into a new season of our hottest girl season. Yet, okay, that's
what we want to do. We don't want to look at things for just
face value. We need to look underneath the surface. And when we go
underneath the surface, we see, Wait a second, everything is not how
it actually seems. Maybe it's not that all men are trash. Maybe it's
that I either have some negative beliefs that I have about myself or a negative
entity. But if I use some white sage, if I start becoming an
active participant of my life instead of allowing my path to control me, I
can restart this. I could rebirth my own self. The Kabalian states that
there's three great planes, the plane of the physical, the plane of the
mental, and the plane of the spiritual. So keep in mind that these
three planes are constantly in correspondence with one another, affecting one another, causing
situations to unfold in one another. So if you cannot figure out why something
keeps happening in the physical realm, maybe it's because the causation is happening in
the spiritual or emotional realm. And that's something you can take responsibility over by
pausing and becoming curious about why you're getting the results you're getting. And if
you want different results, you have to begin to think, be, act,
behave differently. They're law is the principle of vibration. Nothing rests,
everything moves, everything vibrates. This principle embodies the truth that everything is in
motion, everything vibrates, and nothing is at rest. These are facts which
modern science endorses, and with each new scientific discovery they all tend to verify
this as truth as well. Really interesting, what this actually means is that
the principle explains that the difference between different manifestations of matter, energy, mind,
and even spirit result largely from varying rates of vibration. What did I
just say? The differences between different manifestations, why one thing manifests and another
thing doesn't is because of the varying rates of vibration. This is what we
need to understand. There's a reason why we attract different people and repel different
people at different times in our life. Every single thing on this planet is
vibration. Your fuzzy socks are all made of energy. It's vibration. My
water bottle it's vibration. It's energy. You are energy. You are vibration.
Everything is always moving and grooving in one direction and another. This is
why people come in and out of our life. When someone leaves our life.
I know it's so easy to state and to go to the worst case
scenario of I'm not good enough, I always get abandoned. What if you
just fell out of vibration with this person? Think about what would make you
hotter You feeling like everyone abandons you and no one loves you, or believing,
which is probably closest to the truth, that this person simply fell out
of vibrational alignment with you. If you are a vibration and vibrations are always
moving, which directions. Are the vibrations moving in like attracts like, So
like vibration is always moving towards one another, and dislike vibration is always moving
apart away from one another. So if you've had someone in your life since
first grade and you've been great friends, and now you're going to college and
you have nothing in common, that dislike vibration is going to start to separate.
Instead of telling ourselves a story and creating meaning that everyone leaves our lives
or that we suck or whatever it may be, why not just remember that
everything is vibration and maybe we're just not in the same vibration any longer.
This is a law of vibration. Even when it comes to manifestation. Why
do you think people say, embody what it is you wish to attract,
be the vibe you wish to attract in the world. Why would we say
that? Because like attracts like, and when you embody the vibration you seek
out, that vibration will also seek you out. Why Because life attracts like.
So if you want to be this hottest version of yourself, how can
we become that vibration? We have to start doing what we think our hottest
self would be doing. And then we attract the right people, the right
circumstance, the right resources, everything we need to feel like our hottest version
of ourself. I think a key takeaway from this principle is not to take
other people leaving our life as personal and instead take it as vibrational. I
always say, do not take things personal, take them vibrational. What is
this connection trying to teach you? Not? Why is this person trying to
trigger me to very different questions that will give you very different information and will
lead you onto a different path. If everything is always moving, remember you're
going to move towards what you already are, not what you want, but
what you are. So if you are desiring to become this hottest version of
yourself, this most magnetic version of yourself, you have to first start to
become this hottest version of yourself, this most magnetic version of yourself. And
again, how do we do that? We can go back to principle one
and start asking that desired version of ourself, Hey, what are you doing?
And what do I need to do? And then we just start doing
it. I know there's this whole entire idea of acting as if or playing
hard to get to me, it's all bullshit. Like I know, it
can work for some people, but I never see it fully unraveling how they
actually want. I've literally never seen that. Instead of acting as if or
playing hard to get, just be what it is you want. Literally,
become what it is you want. You know the steps you need to take.
Everything you have is within you, but you need to pull it out.
So instead of playing hard to get it, well, that wouldn't actually
work. And why wouldn't that work? Because as I'm ignoring someone's text,
Let's say I'm talking to Brad and I'm not going to answer Brad's text.
I can't answer Brad's text. The whole entire time, I'm thinking, I
can't answer his text. Oh my god, I can't touch my phone because
I might open it and it will tell him that I read it. Oh
my god. I have to fill my day up with something to do,
so I don't text bradback. What am I doing? All I'm thinking about
is Brad playing hard to get is just bullshit. Period is going to make
you really exhausted and really depleted. Do not play hard to get, don't
act as if. Instead just become because when you become busy and you actually
just sign up for a class, create a new I don't know, TikTok
page, or do a new recipe something like that. Literally anything. When
you actually just make yourself busy, you become that magnetic version of yourself,
that hot version of yourself, and you don't have to pretend. The next
sexy hermetic principle is number four, the law polarity. Now, we've spoken
about polarity so many times, but the way they break this down is so
different and so interesting. I'm excited for you to hear it. They say
that everything is dual, Everything has pulled, Everything has its pair of opposites.
Like and unlike are the same. Opposites are identical in nature, but
different in degree. Everything has extremes, extremes meets. All truths are but
half truths, All paradoxes may be reconciled. They have that there is a
thesis and antithesis, which are identical in nature but different in degree. Opposites
are the same, only differing in degree. What did I just say?
Don't worry, We're gonna break it down. So the first things we need
to understand about polarity is polarity will always manifest so in relationship, if you
are in your divine feminine, that will allow for great polarity in your relationship.
If you're wanting to attract a divine masculine, the more you stay in
your feminine, the more that other partner will be in their masculine. However,
if you start stepping into your masculine, there has to be polarity.
Your partner will then pivot and go into their feminine. So in all creation,
everywhere, there are always these opposites. As much as there is light,
there's going to be dark. As much as there is positive, there's
going to be negative. As much as there is feminine energy, there will
also be masculine energy. I also like to apply this when I think about
the different seasons of our life. As deep as we feel pain in some
of our seasons, we eventually will also feel pleasure. Because with polarity,
they're opposites, but they're even and that's something we really want to remember here
now. The way they talk about polarity that I find so interesting is the
way they talk about opposites. They say that opposites are the same thing,
the same thing in nature. They just differ in degree of vibration. Aka,
light and darkness are the same thing, they just differ in degree of
vibration. We cannot understand light if we do not understand darkness. We need
both to actually define the other one. So it's almost like when you think
about what, let's say, the traditional concept of heaven is the reason they
say that you can't learn and develop and grow in heaven is because it's always
just light and it's always just happiness. There's no difference in degree of vibration
because it's all just a very high vibration. So then what do you have
to do. You have to come to planet Earth to feel denser librations,
to feel contrast, to feel polarity, and only then can you understand how
amazing that other part of it is, which is the light. So what
this is saying is we cannot understand one extreme without the other. When we're
going through these seasons, it's not that one season is super super super pleasure
and the next season is all about pain. It's that one season we know
what pleasure is, we felt pleasure, we experienced pleasure, and the next
season we had an absence of pleasure, which we define as pain. But
what they're trying to say is that pain and pleasure are the same thing in
nature. They just differ in degree, and in order to explain and understand
one part of the spectrum, you have to understand the other. It's also
like in relationships, how can we go from love and hate so quickly?
Aren't those very different things? No, love and hate are the same thing
in nature. They just differ in degree, and it's really easy to shift
our vibration to go from one of them to the other. How can we
use this to make ourselves hotter? One, we can remember that when we're
having an absence of pleasure a season that feels more painful, that pleasure actually
isn't that far away. It's the same thing in nature as pain. It's
just a different degree. And we can use something like the Abraham Hicks Emotional
Guidance scale to little by little make ourselves feel better over time and eventually get
ourselves back to that pleasure feeling. We can also understand that when we are
having hatred for someone, it's not necessarily that we actually hate them. If
it's someone we once loved, it's still love, it's just in a different
degree. And instead of hating them, we can recognize what this emotion is,
what this vibration is, what this polarity is, and begin to release
it. What do they say? They say that having hatred, having resentment,
having anger towards someone is just like drinking poison and thinking it's going to
harm your enemies. Holding onto these energies doesn't hurt anyone but ourselves. I
think that when we realize that there's polarity in the world and we're going to
experience both because we came here too, I feel that just lessens the burden
and the emotions that I feel when something negative is happening. Every time something
negative happens to me, I'm always like, oh, well, there's polarity
in the world, and I can't wait for something better to happen because it
must even itself out. I think it's a really good way to remind yourself
that eventually this will fade and the next best thing will come in. Something
that I really like that they say that I think I should read is the
same principle manifest in the case of light and darkness, kind of what I
was saying before, which are the same thing. So again, light and
darkness are the same thing, the difference consisting of varying degrees between the two
poles of the phenomenon. Where does darkness leave off and light begin. What
is the difference between large and small, between hard and soft, between black
and white, between sharp and dole, between noise and quiet, between high
and low, between positive and negative. The same principle operates on the mental
plane. Let us take a radical and extreme example that of love and hate,
two mental states apparently and totally different. And yet the degrees of hate
and the degrees of love have a middle point in which we sometimes use the
terms like or dislike, which shade into each other so gradually that sometimes we
are at a loss to know whether we like or dislike or neither. And
all are simply degrees of the same thing, as you will see if you
will. But think for a moment. Love and hate, and light and
dark and soft and hard, They're all the same thing, but just varying
degrees of one another. So maybe when we're having this hatred or this extreme
emotion towards someone, we can remind ourselves, well, it's just a differing
degree of something much different than what I'm feeling right now. The next principle
is the sexy, sexy, hermetic principle of rhythm, and this states that
everything flows out and in everything has its tides, All things rise and fall,
and the pendulum swings manifest in everything. The measure of the swing to
the right is a measure of the swing to the left, and the rhythm
will always compensate. What we want to do with this is learn how to
use the law or the principle of rhythm so it cannot use us. I
see that a lot of us will have these really really high highs and these
really really low lows. How do we start to interrupt this pattern so we
can neutralize ourselves out. It's exactly what I just said. It's interruption,
awareness, interruption, new response. We've been talking about this a lot on
that Bitch is positive about how the more space or pause you take between a
trigger and a reaction, the more time you give yourself to actually respond in
a way that's in alignment with your hottest self or with your authentic self.
If I'm triggered and I immediately react, that doesn't give me time to consciously
think about and actively participate in a way that makes me feel good. How
can we become an active participant, become our hottest self. We have to
create space between our trigger and our reaction, and in this secret saucy moment,
we have a moment to decide how we wish to show up. So
maybe instead of flipping out on someone because they didn't answer us for an hour,
we can take a pause and ask ourselves, well, what am I
actually feeling right now? And does this have to do with my past relationships
or is it more about this person? Is this more about my own personal
patterns or is it about this person? Could it be that my triggers are
becoming really irritated or is it that something's wrong with this person and I haven't
talked to them in three days? So we want to start to understand,
you know, is it my anxiety or is this a red flag? And
the only way we can do that in life is by taking conscious pauses and
actually reflecting on the current moment. If you feel like you're having extreme highs
and extreme lows, the way around this is through neutralization of your emotions and
your thoughts by taking a pause, and that's how you can start to use
the law of rhythm to your advantage. Rather than having it used you.
And like the law states, as much as the pens swings in one direction,
it will swing in the other. If you start neutralizing your decisions,
your actions, your behaviors, your thoughts, and you only go so far
to the left, you will also only go so far to the right.
The next principle is a principle of cause and effect. This states that every
cause has its effects, every effect has its cause. Everything happens according to
law. Chances but a name for law not recognized. I love that.
I'm going to say that again, Chances but a name for law not recognize.
There are many planes of causation. Nothing escapes this law. What I
think is really important to understand about the cause and the effect is kind of
what we said before when we were talking about the law or the principle of
correspondence. Like I said before, there are multiple planes of existence. We
have the physical, we have the mental, we have the spiritual. One
cause in one plane could cause the effect in another plane. And now if
we broaden this up to karma. This is a crazy thing about this is
that the cause and effect might not even be from this lifetime. Like if
you did something in your past life that was really really great. You might
have a bunch of positive karma in this life and that's the effect of the
cause from your past life. Also cause and effect. Yeah it could be
karma, and yeah it could be coming from a spiritual plane or a mental
plane. But it can also be from someone else where, someone triggers us
so deep that they cause a spiritual awakening. So cause and effect is always
happening all around us, but it can be happening in many different ways.
It could be the cause from the mental realm, It could be a cause
from our past life. It could be a cause from another person. How
can we transcend the effects and the causes and all of this junkie junk.
What we can start to do, like I said before, is really become
an active participant and instead of trying to get people back, or becoming obsessed
with revenge, or being hyper concerned about what people are doing, whatever it
may be, we can just instead start playing from our heart center. We
can instead have pure intentions and that makes us so hot. Like, what
is hotter than pure intentions? A good person, a good heart going out
there just worried about yourself doing the damn thing. What's hotter than that because
I literally can't think of anything, can you? So instead of being so
concerned about everyone else, you want to start to take control over the causes
in your life and you can become the mover instead of always having to be
moved. How do you do this? You play from your heart center.
You worry about you. You pay attention to what your dreams are, your
goals are. But also you take control of the first principle, which is
the all is mental. You take control over your mind space. You take
control about what you're thinking. Yes, you do have control over your thoughts
more than you think. You can pick your thoughts like you pick your clothes
and your lipstick and all that jazz. But it takes practice, it takes
time, and then eventually it will feel like a second skin. Maybe you
can't control every single thought. You can't control the first thought that you have.
But once you have awareness that you're starting to think in a direction that
you don't want to go down, you can then take a pause. Hello,
You can then take a second. You can then take a little bait
to interrupt that initial thought process and then reground yourself. So I'm not saying
you have to police every single thought but I mean, like, damn,
get some control over yourself, girl, because that makes you hot. This
illusionary control that we think we have over other people is a waste of time.
Okay, we try to control everything outside of ourself because the world seems
so uncontrollable, so uncertain. The best way to gain true control is to
control yourself. Control your thoughts, control what you're feeling and what you're focusing
on, the language you use, the meaning you give to your story,
the way you use your body. This is what you can actually have control
over. And when you take control over this, oh, that is a
recipe for a very hot existence. So become the cause. Become the mover
by taking control over your thoughts, by not being so concerned about revenge and
instead refocusing on yourself. And the last, but not least sexy hermatic principle
that can allow us to be our hottest self is the principle of gender.
This principle states gender is in everything. Everything has its masculine and feminine principles.
Gender manifests on all planes. So in this physical plane, how does
gender manifest. It manifests as a man and a woman, egg and sperm.
But that's not all. Gender is in our narrative. A lot of
people focus on that as gender, but that's not all gender is. Gender
exists on every single plane. Let's think about the mental plane for example.
How does gender manifest on the mental plane. Well, we can think about
it as I CC and made up of both masculine and feminine energy. I
can use my mental masculine energy to come up eventually with some sort of business
idea or strategy and outline that put the action towards it. But I can
also use my feminine energy to use my heart center to attract towards me the
necessary resources people in places I need to this idea fully manifest. When we
combine our own masculine and feminine energies together, that is what really creates magnetic
energy. That is what allows us to pull in our dreams, our desires,
literally everything. So I want you to think about gender not just oh,
man, woman, egg sperm. That's just one way gender manifests on
the physical plane. But gender is in spiritual in the spiritual world, it
is in the mental plane. It is everywhere and all around us. And
the way we use this to make ourselves hotter is knowing when to tap into
which energy. When is it most likely that I should tap into my masculine
energy when I'm doing a workout, when I'm planning something out, when I'm
outlining, when I'm maybe moving and I need to figure out how am I
going to pack all of this into a truck masculine energy, But then I
want to use my feminine energy to feel what it is I want to feel
in my experience. I want to use it to surrender to the current moment
because we have the law of rhythm, and I want to use it to
ease to flow into my desired life. And when we use both of these,
it really allows us to not be super stressed out and not super passive.
It allows us to find a happy hot media positive bitches. I hope
you enjoyed this episode where we took apart the Kabalion and learned how we can
use it become our hottest self. If this episode resonated with you, if
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