WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.439 All right, here we go with the Minnesota goodbye, and we're gonna start 2 00:00:03.480 --> 00:00:06.559 him with unpreread emails. I know, good luck. I'm like, I 3 00:00:06.599 --> 00:00:10.800 just sent you five ers. It's one of those days where we don't have 4 00:00:11.119 --> 00:00:15.759 We have time enough to do the podcast, but no time to preread the 5 00:00:15.880 --> 00:00:19.359 emails. So we're gonna dive in and be surprised just like you are. 6 00:00:19.399 --> 00:00:23.199 And here we go. Hello morning crew. Long time listener of over ten 7 00:00:23.239 --> 00:00:26.120 years, written in a few times before. My best friends having a baby 8 00:00:26.160 --> 00:00:31.000 boy in August, and she asked me for name suggestions. I know you've 9 00:00:31.039 --> 00:00:33.799 discussed baby names in the past, but one, are your favorite names for 10 00:00:33.880 --> 00:00:37.280 boys or girls? Falon, If you had a boy, what would you 11 00:00:37.320 --> 00:00:41.679 have named him? I've also included a photo of twenty twenty two's top baby 12 00:00:41.799 --> 00:00:45.520 names, Dave. I've noticed both of Allison's daughter's names are on there. 13 00:00:45.600 --> 00:00:49.159 I thought this might be a quick, fun topic to discuss, so let's 14 00:00:49.159 --> 00:00:52.640 do it. Here we go and there are a bunch, but let's go. 15 00:00:52.679 --> 00:00:56.520 I'm gonna go quickly through the top Minnesota. These are Minnesota by the 16 00:00:56.520 --> 00:01:02.920 way boys names Oliver, Henry, Theodore, Liam, Jack, James, 17 00:01:02.960 --> 00:01:08.560 Owen, Leo, Hudson, Noah, William, Levi, Benjamin, Elijah, 18 00:01:08.680 --> 00:01:14.200 Asher Brooks, Lincoln, Miles, Maverick, and Wesley. I like 19 00:01:14.319 --> 00:01:17.519 all of them. I'm not crazy about Maverick because to me, it seems 20 00:01:17.519 --> 00:01:21.319 like it's a little bit too hard of an attempt to have the unique name. 21 00:01:21.680 --> 00:01:25.599 And a kid named Maverick is going to be saddled with the name that 22 00:01:25.640 --> 00:01:27.599 he's going to have to live up too. That's a badass name. Yeah. 23 00:01:27.879 --> 00:01:32.760 And if you're a shy and sometimes boys will be introverted, and if 24 00:01:32.799 --> 00:01:34.599 you're a you know, a shy boy, Maverick might be you know, 25 00:01:34.599 --> 00:01:38.680 you don't know whether he's gonna be shy or not. Yeah. Female names 26 00:01:38.760 --> 00:01:44.680 Charlotte, Olivia, Emma, Evelyn, Nora, Harper, Love that one, 27 00:01:46.040 --> 00:01:53.000 Eleanor, Sophia, Ava, Violet, Amelia, Isla, Hazel, 28 00:01:53.280 --> 00:02:00.920 Ella, Mia, Grace, Lucy, Lily, Isabella, and Scarlet. 29 00:02:00.920 --> 00:02:05.400 One week considered was because we will Now'll be honest, we barely wrote any 30 00:02:05.400 --> 00:02:08.479 boy names down because I was really hoping for a girl. Harrison was a 31 00:02:08.520 --> 00:02:12.680 top one because I just liked the name Harry. It wouldn't have been named 32 00:02:12.680 --> 00:02:15.520 after my friend, but that would have been kind of funny. But I 33 00:02:15.560 --> 00:02:17.639 like the ones they said. I heard someone I wouldn't have done Arlow, 34 00:02:17.719 --> 00:02:21.560 but I know two Arlow's now and that's such a cute name. And I 35 00:02:21.599 --> 00:02:24.599 even liked Otto when I heard it. And I don't know, but most 36 00:02:24.599 --> 00:02:28.680 of the ones on that name that you read I would like. I don't 37 00:02:28.719 --> 00:02:30.400 know, they're pretty cute. If I was gonna have a girl, I 38 00:02:30.400 --> 00:02:35.240 would name her Avery. I thought you were a new Grace changed my mind. 39 00:02:35.319 --> 00:02:38.759 Yeah, yeah, Avery named Avery. And if it's gonna have a 40 00:02:38.800 --> 00:02:45.080 boy, named him Beavers. So next one, here we go. I 41 00:02:45.159 --> 00:02:50.919 canceled my wedding six months before the wedding day. Now I'm not sure what 42 00:02:50.919 --> 00:02:53.360 what bring this up. Let's dive in and find out. I ended my 43 00:02:53.479 --> 00:02:58.319 five year relationship and one year engagement and canceled our wedding because I knew I 44 00:02:58.400 --> 00:03:02.080 was marrying the wrong man. Shady things were going on. My life has 45 00:03:02.120 --> 00:03:06.800 never been better because I wouldn't have met the one. Nick and I have 46 00:03:06.800 --> 00:03:08.080 been together for six months. It's been the best time of our lives. 47 00:03:08.120 --> 00:03:13.840 I truly believe there is one special person out there for you. Everything happens 48 00:03:13.840 --> 00:03:15.800 for a reason, and what's meant to be will always happen. I will 49 00:03:15.840 --> 00:03:21.960 follow up with that, Anna, and I will say, don't let the 50 00:03:22.000 --> 00:03:27.159 one slip through your fingers. So sometimes you have. It reminds me of 51 00:03:27.159 --> 00:03:30.199 the guy wasn't named Lance of him a five weeks ago. He was with 52 00:03:30.280 --> 00:03:36.000 the girl for eight years and then he didn't propose to get married, and 53 00:03:36.080 --> 00:03:38.840 so she said I'm done. He let the one slip through his fingers. 54 00:03:39.000 --> 00:03:43.919 I don't necessarily believe there's one person out there, but I think it is 55 00:03:43.960 --> 00:03:49.280 amazing that when you find somebody who is so much like they fit into your 56 00:03:49.319 --> 00:03:53.439 soul and you like puzzle pieces, and your souls and your minds and your 57 00:03:53.479 --> 00:03:58.159 hearts fit together so well like a puzzle piece, that you really believe there's 58 00:03:58.280 --> 00:04:00.759 nobody else out there for you. And I will say, if you are 59 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:04.520 now missing that one that was the opposite of you, your puzzle piece, 60 00:04:05.759 --> 00:04:10.560 there's somebody else. There's somebody else. They will fit a little bit differently, 61 00:04:10.599 --> 00:04:13.879 but there's another puzzle piece out there just like you. I genuinely feel 62 00:04:13.879 --> 00:04:16.600 like Jake is that for me. But I will say to her, good 63 00:04:16.639 --> 00:04:19.279 for you for calling your wedding off, because the easier thing would have been 64 00:04:19.399 --> 00:04:23.680 to get married because it was probably a lot of work to cancel everything. 65 00:04:24.000 --> 00:04:28.040 You probably lost a lot of money, You were probably embarrassed, and but 66 00:04:28.160 --> 00:04:31.000 you know what, you put all that aside too for the more important factor, 67 00:04:31.120 --> 00:04:34.480 which is you knew that was not your person. I think sometimes you 68 00:04:34.560 --> 00:04:39.600 know that's not your person. Another one, and I'll use this one as 69 00:04:39.959 --> 00:04:46.000 an example of like, it's how we want people to know how to win 70 00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:49.160 Taylor Swift tickets. But some people they really want to win, but they 71 00:04:49.240 --> 00:04:54.319 don't want to listen to win. And remember we're a radio station, just 72 00:04:54.399 --> 00:04:57.360 like you know. The people at Target, they their job is to get 73 00:04:57.399 --> 00:05:00.120 you in the door. It doesn't do an good for you to sit outside 74 00:05:00.120 --> 00:05:03.519 of Target and go, God, I really need new pants and some shampoo. 75 00:05:03.879 --> 00:05:08.800 You have to walk into Target. So I'm not picking on you, 76 00:05:08.800 --> 00:05:10.839 but they write and say, my friend and I are hoping you can help 77 00:05:10.920 --> 00:05:14.600 us. We are die hard Taylor Swift fans and trying to get tickets for 78 00:05:14.639 --> 00:05:16.600 months. I'm a mom of two, my friend is working three jobs. 79 00:05:17.000 --> 00:05:20.480 Please let us know win and how we can enter to win. Now, 80 00:05:20.519 --> 00:05:24.959 I'm not picking on you, but I will say we have been saying on 81 00:05:25.000 --> 00:05:29.800 the radio for probably a month, how to win Taylor Swift tickets, posting 82 00:05:29.879 --> 00:05:32.160 on social in case you weren't even listening. So it's one of those things. 83 00:05:32.160 --> 00:05:34.360 It's kind of like a life lesson. It's got like, man, 84 00:05:34.399 --> 00:05:41.839 I really want to get a better job. While are you doing anything applying? 85 00:05:41.920 --> 00:05:45.519 Are you getting up earlier, are you looking online or whatever? No? 86 00:05:45.879 --> 00:05:48.120 I just really can you help me get a better job? So I'm 87 00:05:48.199 --> 00:05:53.399 using that as a life example of like we are. Almost every time we 88 00:05:53.399 --> 00:05:57.360 turn on the microphone at KWB or tad WB, we talk about how to 89 00:05:57.399 --> 00:06:00.319 win. Yeah, but the best thing to do is to take action on 90 00:06:00.360 --> 00:06:03.680 your own, not ask other people. Can you take care of this problem 91 00:06:03.720 --> 00:06:08.959 for me? Next one, I have been working for a company for the 92 00:06:09.040 --> 00:06:12.240 last fifteen years. Oh this kind of regards what we're talking about on the 93 00:06:12.279 --> 00:06:15.120 show today. Yeah, maybe save that for the actual show. I will 94 00:06:15.160 --> 00:06:19.720 say that. Let's go to this one. This one says Dave Ryan Show. 95 00:06:19.720 --> 00:06:24.879 I heard wanted some I came backstory, so I thought I would share 96 00:06:24.959 --> 00:06:29.680 mine. This started with, um, what's the guy from House of Cards? 97 00:06:30.319 --> 00:06:32.079 Kevin Spacey. Kevin Spacey says he's going to make a comeback, and 98 00:06:32.120 --> 00:06:36.079 we said, oh, well, We're not really excited for his comeback necessarily, 99 00:06:36.120 --> 00:06:40.040 but you can come back. It's like, what did you come back 100 00:06:40.040 --> 00:06:44.439 from? In twenty sixteen, I lost my job in June, and then 101 00:06:44.480 --> 00:06:47.639 in August I lost my home and everything in a flood that affected ninety percent 102 00:06:47.680 --> 00:06:51.560 of everyone in my community. During this time, I saw take charge side 103 00:06:51.560 --> 00:06:55.639 of my husband I never saw before. That was pretty cool. He also 104 00:06:55.759 --> 00:07:00.560 ended up getting his picture taken of him gutting our home and putting on an 105 00:07:00.560 --> 00:07:02.600 exhibit in the local museum. Now I'm blessed with a new job in a 106 00:07:02.600 --> 00:07:05.920 beautiful home. Oh. By the way, have any of you all seen 107 00:07:06.000 --> 00:07:10.240 the new season of Black Mirror? Dave? You got me into that show, 108 00:07:10.240 --> 00:07:12.879 and I loved it, so thank you. Falon's watched the whole thing. 109 00:07:13.160 --> 00:07:15.639 I was asked by my son Carson not to watch it till he gets 110 00:07:15.639 --> 00:07:16.439 home. By the way, you look good in red, Oh thank you. 111 00:07:16.600 --> 00:07:20.160 That is your color. I've said forever. Red is my power color. 112 00:07:20.480 --> 00:07:23.399 You have? What is your power color? I feel like you're a 113 00:07:23.480 --> 00:07:26.000 blue? Yeah, blue, for sure. I'm not a red. I 114 00:07:26.040 --> 00:07:28.920 have the wrong skin tone for red. Jenny looks really good in blue as 115 00:07:28.959 --> 00:07:31.160 well. People, we'll see people always said that my skin tone doesn't work 116 00:07:31.560 --> 00:07:34.240 well for red. I've like had back in the day, someone you know, 117 00:07:34.319 --> 00:07:38.000 tell you, here are the colors in your color wheel and it was 118 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:40.639 not red. But I'm like, I always feel the best in red. 119 00:07:40.680 --> 00:07:42.360 So thank you. That was very nice of you. Yeah, you look 120 00:07:42.399 --> 00:07:46.720 good. I mean, you know, Oh, someone's got a crush Sead. 121 00:07:46.199 --> 00:07:50.279 Can you imagine that's something we should talk about sometimes. A crush on 122 00:07:50.319 --> 00:07:54.199 a co worker. Well, we've all had a crush on a co worker, 123 00:07:54.399 --> 00:07:58.040 not a direct in the studio co worker. I've never in my life 124 00:07:58.079 --> 00:08:01.199 had a crush on a co worker. There was somebody who worked here. 125 00:08:01.240 --> 00:08:03.279 I'm not going to embarrass them, but it was a woman who worked here 126 00:08:03.279 --> 00:08:07.160 on the show four years and she admitted She's like when I first got here, 127 00:08:07.160 --> 00:08:09.000 I had the biggest crush on you. And I'm like, really, 128 00:08:09.000 --> 00:08:11.120 you were really good at hiding it because I had no idea. And it's 129 00:08:11.120 --> 00:08:15.560 a good thing because I would have probably banged her. That's a joke. 130 00:08:16.240 --> 00:08:20.839 You should have seen the look on Falin's face, like, would you really? 131 00:08:20.399 --> 00:08:22.560 I was gonna call this. I canceled my wedding. I don't know 132 00:08:22.560 --> 00:08:24.439 if I want to call it, I would a banger. I don't know 133 00:08:24.480 --> 00:08:28.480 if it's too much, it's too much? Yeah, too much? Anyway, 134 00:08:28.519 --> 00:08:31.759 She says thanks for all you and the crew do. From Alice, 135 00:08:31.840 --> 00:08:37.399 and she does send a picture of her husband doing the demo on their flooded 136 00:08:37.399 --> 00:08:41.559 house and he's basically looking through some broken dry wall between a couple of studs 137 00:08:41.600 --> 00:08:46.639 and it's is It is a museum quality black and white picture that tells a 138 00:08:46.720 --> 00:08:52.440 story. Alice, thanks for sharing your story. Next one, Hey, 139 00:08:52.480 --> 00:08:54.759 everybody, I love your show. Been listening for twenty years. I hate 140 00:08:54.799 --> 00:08:58.240 that the first thing I write it is a criticism, But part of yesterday's 141 00:08:58.240 --> 00:09:03.919 show made me, oh god, what do we do? Okay, Dave 142 00:09:03.960 --> 00:09:07.120 and Fallon, we're talking about the submersible and rich people and why they do 143 00:09:07.159 --> 00:09:11.559 these things. Fallon said something along the lines of I think it's because they 144 00:09:11.559 --> 00:09:18.200 think they're invincible, and without acknowledging her statement as being true, Dave essentially 145 00:09:18.240 --> 00:09:22.879 said a long winded same explanation for their behavior. They think they can buy 146 00:09:22.879 --> 00:09:26.080 themselves out of any problem. It just struck a chord in me because has 147 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:28.759 sounded a bit like man's planing, and he would get more credit for it, 148 00:09:28.799 --> 00:09:33.360 even though it had the same meaning behind it. Maybe on the show 149 00:09:33.399 --> 00:09:35.919 sometimes there are seemingly not enough time to listen to each other, but I 150 00:09:35.919 --> 00:09:37.639 thought it was worth bringing up to be aware of. I'm going to disagree 151 00:09:37.639 --> 00:09:41.519 with you, Samantha. I hate when a man gives their opinion and somebody 152 00:09:41.559 --> 00:09:46.159 says it's man's planing. And I think that's very trendy to do and sometimes 153 00:09:46.159 --> 00:09:50.960 it's funny, but it pisses me off because on my show, I'm going 154 00:09:50.039 --> 00:09:54.519 to talk, I'm gonna give my opinion, and if you think it's man's 155 00:09:54.519 --> 00:09:58.879 planing, I think that's not fair. I think there's a big difference between 156 00:09:58.000 --> 00:10:01.960 they think they're Invinci Bowl, and that's why I brought it up because I 157 00:10:03.000 --> 00:10:05.720 didn't totally agree. You say that you think that they're invincible. I say 158 00:10:05.759 --> 00:10:11.519 they're used to bind their way out of problems, work problems, legal problems, 159 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:16.279 um, any kind of problem. And I don't think that's the same. 160 00:10:16.320 --> 00:10:20.559 So I don't think that's fair, and I didn't. I don't even 161 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:26.080 know what to say, I'll be honest. I remember, I remember we 162 00:10:26.200 --> 00:10:31.480 were talking about the submersible and we said, why do rich people want to 163 00:10:31.519 --> 00:10:33.960 climb Mount Everest, and I said, I brought up Mount Everest. I 164 00:10:33.960 --> 00:10:37.840 said, they go up Mount Everest because they're used to bind their way out 165 00:10:37.840 --> 00:10:41.799 of problems and they will get short roped up Mount Everest. M Okay, 166 00:10:41.919 --> 00:10:46.000 yeah, So I'm sorry, Samantha. I didn't mean to upset you. 167 00:10:46.799 --> 00:10:50.440 Um, And I don't think it's fair to just whenever a man says something 168 00:10:50.440 --> 00:10:52.799 to say that he's man's plaining, because I don't think you're going to find 169 00:10:52.840 --> 00:10:58.320 anybody more fair to women's opinion on the radio than on this show. And 170 00:10:58.759 --> 00:11:01.720 I really believe that's true. And you are the first person to say that 171 00:11:01.960 --> 00:11:05.320 in a very very long time. So hopefully it doesn't come across that I'm 172 00:11:05.360 --> 00:11:09.440 man's playing. So I think it does. I think that sometimes sure there, 173 00:11:09.480 --> 00:11:13.600 I mean I get messages not about man's playing, about things where I'll 174 00:11:13.840 --> 00:11:16.279 be like where they think I'm being rude or something, and I'm you know, 175 00:11:16.320 --> 00:11:18.879 I'm like, I get frustrated because I'm like, well, sometimes we 176 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:24.960 specifically talk about me saying something to kind of make it funny back and forth 177 00:11:26.000 --> 00:11:30.399 banter, and sometimes I am just making a joke, and so I get 178 00:11:30.480 --> 00:11:33.440 like upset when I'm like, if you listen to the show for any amount 179 00:11:33.440 --> 00:11:37.120 of time, you would know that Dave and I care for each other, 180 00:11:37.240 --> 00:11:41.279 so I'm not like trying to be specifically mean or rude. So I get 181 00:11:41.279 --> 00:11:45.039 frustrated with stuff like that sometimes too. Yeah, I think sometimes we hear 182 00:11:45.159 --> 00:11:48.240 what. It's kind of like when you buy a yellow car, then you 183 00:11:48.240 --> 00:11:50.919 see a lot of yellow cars, So maybe there's something too. Maybe you've 184 00:11:50.960 --> 00:11:56.720 been had worked around somebody who's been man's playing a lot. I don't know. 185 00:11:56.799 --> 00:11:58.120 It's just kind of that kind of hits me in the gut a little 186 00:11:58.120 --> 00:12:03.039 bit because I try to be very fair about them, Okay, And I 187 00:12:03.080 --> 00:12:05.360 think that is going to be it for the Minnesota Goodbye. Let me go 188 00:12:05.399 --> 00:12:07.120 back and see if there was a couple from yesterday that we did not get 189 00:12:07.200 --> 00:12:11.720 to. This is kind of a funny one. They found a Dave Ryan 190 00:12:11.759 --> 00:12:18.320 in the Morning Show mug at the Goodwill in Hopkins and how old is it? 191 00:12:18.519 --> 00:12:20.480 It goes back to a time when we were on five to nine am. 192 00:12:20.559 --> 00:12:24.440 It says Dave Ryan in the morning weekdays five to nine am. They 193 00:12:24.440 --> 00:12:28.080 said, when were you guys on until nine am? It's been on until 194 00:12:28.159 --> 00:12:31.039 ten am as long as I could remember, I would say this goes back 195 00:12:31.080 --> 00:12:35.840 to at least the early two thousands. Yeah, wow, that's old. 196 00:12:35.879 --> 00:12:41.039 But that's like an old logo, very old. Yeah, this is probably 197 00:12:41.080 --> 00:12:43.159 goes back at least twenty years. I wonder how much they were selling it 198 00:12:43.200 --> 00:12:52.200 for at the Goodwill. Let's see. No, and I think that may 199 00:12:52.639 --> 00:12:56.519 be Okay, No, that's more for the show some of the things that 200 00:12:56.759 --> 00:13:00.240 I've got here. Like I said, we did not get to pre read. 201 00:13:00.799 --> 00:13:03.200 Yeah, so I do. No, we're kind of running out of 202 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:05.759 time. Anything you want to add. Did you ever crush Tell me about 203 00:13:05.759 --> 00:13:11.240 a crush you had on somebody at work? Well, I've had a few. 204 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:13.000 I mean I've dated, I've married you know what I mean? That's 205 00:13:13.039 --> 00:13:16.399 true. Yeah, I mean you had a crush on meat sauce, so 206 00:13:16.440 --> 00:13:20.000 then you married him. I dated a guy at my when I worked in 207 00:13:20.080 --> 00:13:24.080 Reno, but I didn't date anyone that I worked with in Indiana. So 208 00:13:24.320 --> 00:13:28.240 yeah, I've didd crushes on him. I've dated a few people from work. 209 00:13:28.279 --> 00:13:31.240 I think there's a difference between you had a crush on and then you 210 00:13:31.399 --> 00:13:33.879 dated that, because I think we've all had a crush on somebody's like oh, 211 00:13:33.919 --> 00:13:37.919 Wow, they're really hot or they're really funny, or they're really smart 212 00:13:37.000 --> 00:13:41.120 or whatever. I had a big crush on my boss in Indiana, my 213 00:13:41.200 --> 00:13:43.799 first job. Oh god, oh dream. I'm still friends with them on 214 00:13:43.799 --> 00:13:48.919 Facebook. I mean, nothing ever happened. Yeah, absolutely, But it 215 00:13:48.960 --> 00:13:52.200 was just like he was just so charismatic. He was cute, but he 216 00:13:52.240 --> 00:13:56.320 wasn't like, like over the top hot. He was just so charismatic and 217 00:13:56.440 --> 00:14:01.919 funny. Loved him. Yeah, what about you. Do you currently have 218 00:14:01.960 --> 00:14:07.600 a crush on somebody that you work with. If you do, then let 219 00:14:07.679 --> 00:14:13.120 us know your story. Send it into Ryan Show at KDWB dot com or 220 00:14:13.159 --> 00:14:15.720 anything you want to talk about on the Minnesota Goodbye.