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And only hits are seven fifty-
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one hundred and five one. He
asks a friend that he waited for me

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to say pride we flirted in June. What happens is that the vegan and

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I don' t say it as
an insult and as disrespect. The vegan

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feels very proud of his city and
his province, but also the vegan is

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always steeped and well mounted, well
dressed, bathed, trimmed, all are

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compared to the vegan. So,
imagine that combination of a guy who thinks

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they live like in ancient Greece,
where all ancient Athens was born and so

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the Dominican Republic has a city of
people who said proud to be where it

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is one of them. I think
the first is the vega. So that

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' s what I meant, buddy. No one to do with exact gay

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pride, and what' s more, in fact, in vega there'

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s gay, if I know him, but they don' t know.

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Starting, seven hundred and fifty-
three were in the mouth. Bite you,

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bite you, bite you. There' s no need to be biting.

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If you bite one, God that
hunger or anything that is, at

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least from my opinion, From my
opinion, nothing that proportionally speaking in sheath

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dimensions, that it is representative of
sheath, that great dimensions and nothing like

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that. But let' s get
going. Let' s go from there

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let me moyde and I fear how
rich vegans say to me today They haven

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' t told me moy vegans with
what I' ve been with. I

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don' t know, it'
s more for the North than moy.

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Well, a friend here, speaking
of Adriana' s subject, asks around

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here this question is interesting for Adrian
in these conflicting opinions. A friend here

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says Adriana what do you mean when
you talk about wasting time, because no

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time is wasted, just that some
expectations are not met, says this doctor

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to. Not me. I believe
faithful and believe there is with his and

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the doctor with what Plater said I
feel that I wasted time because what was

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your expectation give more conversation. My
expectation was to marry you understand me,

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that is, to be with that
person, of course, I mean,

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I' m not going to get
into a relationship with anyone to waste time,

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I mean, if I get into
a relationship with someone and to get

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married, it' s not to
waste time. That' s what you

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mean, OK. I agree.
I mean, and I' m supposed

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to be dedicated to you, I
totally understand you. I devoted myself completely,

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not just to that person, but
to making a good partner for that

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person. You understand that you were
either a good couple doing what you made

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possible exactly then I just realized in
the relationship that that person didn' t

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have the same north as me.
Okay, despite that coming in. I

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mean, because when I start dating
a person, I make it very clear

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to him that I want to get
married so that you can tell if you

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don' t want to use him
or she is now. She won the

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troubles of a bepine. What'
s wrong and let' s go to

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the prize book is found. Give
him a good morning, he' ll

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say good day. Good morning,
love. I think that, apart from

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wasting time, maybe one who fears
to disappoint you on a subject of expectation.

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But, however, when you leave
a person you thought you would build

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something, you say shell, but
I gave it all did not reciprocate,

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It did not treat me as I
understood. But it' s all from

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what you reflect, this is what
you feel. Then there is as a

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disappointment more than you understand that it
weighs time, because ever since you get

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up you are doing things that are
not necessarily productive. Of course I'

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m your head. Sir example,
I want good greetings, boys, good

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morning. Do you line up to
understand each other more and love each other

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less. Good morning, exactly good
day, guys, a proud vegan here

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before all I' m doing with
my summer description, or I' m

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really close to what shame is.
Alberto, you' re absolutely right.

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That' s true. I remember
when I was studying in Santiago that I

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met a couple of vegans there,
with beautiful people, masters and everything,

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but with people and compoe blanas.
Alberto made himself that they didn' t

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know me and we were until by
the way seriously but I did love exactly

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and nothing with the subject guys.
You know that once I was watching a

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show and in English a podcast and
that phrase was recorded to me. As

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for expectations, no, and when
Peter mentioned the word at once I remembered

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that in English they say expectations to
the justiph appoin mesuerers to Happen, that

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is, that many times expectations are
disappointments. Waiting to pass and that phrase

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led me to every person that I
know and that I include in my circle

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have no expectation exactly why, because
if I disappoint many times maybe it is

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not their fault, but what I
expected from them. How a good day

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talking to that philosopher doctor in philosophy
I' m talking about, a guy

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who had already graduated from a Ph
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He' s 50 years old.
He told me we were talking about

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the shortest way you can find to
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a constant process of living it.
And I told him that the shortest way

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I had ever found to expect the
bad of the other. If it does

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not come in essence, we humans, what limits us to doing harm is

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the moral process that has developed and
has not been setting limits. Ethics is

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to believe ethics, morality alex all
those things and one is to create that

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set of things that are limiting us
to doing things. At some stage,

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our father who had his daughter with
a couple when the daughter was already of

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age to reproduce this wild animal and
I saw him hitting the daughter too,

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but for a purely evolutionary subject and
by pussy, this boy who was useless

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then was born taboo. Let'
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least I have understood it that way, but what we have in essence is

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evil within and the battle that leads
us to face. That' s complex

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not to be so unhappy, not
to hurt, not to mess with maybe

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your friend' s wife or not
to abuse your compadre' s six-

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year- old son, as happened
in Argentina, I say in Russia the

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six- year- old daughter and
his friend' s disappointed guy told him

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every time hole and suicide clear.
So, human beings live in a constant,

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in a constant search for personal gratification
and many times in the process we

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make and make decisions that go to
others. I mean, like me,

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I don' t expect anything from
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One thing' s for sure.
The vega. You speak a lot

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of English. That girl listens to
English- language phon. Roberto has more

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than 200 radio books in English.
Says Fernando listens to radio in English.

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Everybody that hard sees you win you' re proud. Good morning, I

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greet team com so There' s
something strange about that, because I don

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' t know any man, I
don' t have any friends who said

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I wasted time with their partner.
Only the woman says she' s wasting

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time in a relationship. Eh well, well the fact of not implying what,

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because unlike you I know a soul
of man who say so wasted time.

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Of course I do. You wasted
my time, of course you did.

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Of course I do. It'
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that sometimes in the male and female
relationship they don' t seek the same

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thing. Remember that society is shaped
by a series of patterns that have been

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created and the last 120 years.
The man of one hundred and twenty years

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ago and the woman of one hundred
and twenty years ago did not have the

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social environment built around them, which
developed from the 1920s here in the 1920s.

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It is that the world exploits this, opens up to all this that

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has evolved or evolved according to the
point of view. That' s what

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we found today. Let' s
go to the story. So, there

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are still things from the past that
are with the man and thing from the

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past that are with the woman.
There are men, I know that they

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have hoped to find in a woman, a good mother, a good wife,

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a companion and what they have had
in the house is an enemy and

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they have told me that they lost
time in that relationship. I mean,

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men also have specks with the wives
they have, but just like men,

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women also have them. Says good
morning, Brother, my case is next.

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I' ve been with my partner
for 11 years. When he got

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here in New York, he abandoned
me, left everything for someone else.

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That devastated me a lot. In
my breakup process. I met a person

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on Instagram. I lasted three years
talking to that person. I fell in

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love full but I never met and
I was alone in the air and in

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love. Says someone has to call
me to pass on the story. Terrible.

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That' s terrible, terrible.
Alberto the truth is that when you

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already have a plan with a person
and that person and it just doesn'

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t happen is canon your return because
I' m not going to miss it

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eleven years of your life. Brother, look and then you start again what

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color your school pleases and we'
re going out. Good morning to easy,

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good morning, good morning. I
think that if you always get into

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the relationship with a backpack of plans, you will always waste time, because

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if you make a point to execute
it, you only now if you want

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to create plans with a couple,
there, you can evolve. Oh,

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and there maybe you waste your time. But everyone has their individual plans.

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You understand, and I think that
when you get a relationship, you have

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to build plans together exactly. But
you do have a lot of accuracy.

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I can come in empty- handed
with a relationship. You' re supposed

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to have a relationship for something in
common. I in life do not have

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this plan in common. You understand
what I don' t want to be

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played exactly, I mean, you
have to talk about things before you want

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to. No. I want a
stable relationship. I want to get to

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such a place and you don'
t. What I want is to hang

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out, because twenty or questions with
a gift or without a driver once ready.

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He once asked someone what you mean
by the expression don' t fuck

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with versoculo, I' ll leave
you. It' s easy to understand

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not to fuck up and everything you
fuck up don' t do to me.

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There are people who are friends of
yours and tell you you call them

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hard three months and you call them
to know how they are and they tell

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you pussy you hardly call me.
Don' t fuck with me because you

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don' t know why I don' t call you. If you wanted

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to talk to me, you call
me. He' s got me five.

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Whoever calls me, don' t
call me. In fact, I

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hate to talk on the phone.
Or who writes to me, doesn'

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t write to me. To whom
I want to write I write to him

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without any kind of when I want
to tell someone something I write to him.

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I tell him when I want to
see someone I call him if you

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can join me, but don'
t wait for me to see how important

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I am in Alberto' s life, because you' re going to die

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waiting then don' t fuck with
that, just like in the relationships that

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I need you to write to me
at eight o' clock for that,

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gentlemen, I lasted four years in
a relationship that had to be spoken seven

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hours was on the phone, not
ever and I there is art and I

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hate to talk on the phone.
Now I understand the truth you understand me

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already because I hate to talk on
the phone, because it was something that

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was imposed on me and you me
or do it because it meant not having

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people with a teleley and my fucking
life. Then don' t fuck with

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me. You forgetting TV, don' t call me so I' m

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watching a movie. I can'
t talk. Now hang up the phone.

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Don' t fuck with me.
My life is shrinking, it summarizes

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not fucking me already says around here
Elizabeth that she already lasted three years with

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a person she brought from the countryside
and it was her time wasted at three

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years. He gave her his band
here, not she didn' t bring

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camp twelve brings people from other countries
or case three my way. You get

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to alone. Love the pause.
What did pas de pon leave from the

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pause to women, what did you
ask for, what do you want and

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what do you have what you had
expectations, because what did the doctor ask

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for life. You were asked for
a tall man. Good boy is and

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good and eMe here