Welcome to should we say welcome? Jenny, do you feel like welcome is
welcoming or I don't know that's should I really nope, Yep, that's the
one. Okay, good, I'm glad. I'm glad we settled off the
one. The day today, the day that it comes out Tuesday, Jenny
and I we're gonna go see the new Mean Girls movie tonight. I am
so excited. You know me, I'm not a movie person, but I
am super you like the first one, though, Okay, I'm a little
nervous about it being a musical. I'm not sure how I'm gonna feel about
that. It's Renee rap singing. You'll love it. I will tell you
this. I saw The Mean Girl's Broadway Musical and it was granted. I
knew I was going to a musical because I'm going to Broadway. It was
hilarious. It was so funny. It was I think this movie is going
to be just more modernized. I also get the vibe that Renee or Renee
Regina Renee plays her. She comes across as the main character, and all
the kind of promo advertising for it. I don't know if it's just because
she's the biggest star in the movie as far as the plastics go, or
if it's going to be a lot more about Regina. I'm curious. That's
what I was thinking too. I actually never really thought about it because then
because you would have considered Katie. She was a lead in the first one.
Yeah, in the Broadway musical, Katie was still like the lead.
But I don't know, I'm so excited. Yeah, there were so many
classic lines from the first movie, and Tina Fey's great with that. So
since she's still like hands on, I feel like really excited for it.
How is they say that week two of January is when people fall off of
their goals or resolutions. They only last like a week. So from your
ins and outs, are there things that you feel like you're doing well or
you've already fallen off? Okay, so I have been scrolling before bed and
I'll go upstairs with my book in hand. Yeah, reintention to be like
I'm gonna get twenty minutes in real quick. And the next thing I know,
I spent ten minutes scrolling and I'm like, well, I only have
ten minutes left till I should really go to bed, And so that I
just keep scrolling. Yeah, yeah, so that is my big one that
I am struggling with. What about you? I feel like this week I
nailed it, Like I'm week one nailing it, So I am still scrolling.
I didn't put like specific parameters on that maybe I should have, because
I mean I have been scrolling and trolling, not really trolling. I am
like all over it. But I I actually thought about the other day.
I'm like, what am I looking for? Like? Am I looking for
like some genius new idea? Am I just? Am I some? I
mean, of course I find like content ideas for like the show and stuff.
I'm like, what am I actually trying to find here? I don't
think you are. And that's the point of mindless scrolling. But I said,
I want to drink like a full glass of water when I wake up.
Every day. Been doing that and so that's good for my body.
Being outdoors more, I've been going. I was going to go for a
walk today, did not because of the snow, and I'm actually really happy
at didn't because my car almost slid off my driveway, so I probably would
have slipped on my back and died. But every like every other day,
I've been going for at least like a two mile walk and my two other
things that I had put on the list that I feel really excited about.
I put that I wanted to learn something new. So Jake and I signed
up Saturday. We're going to Lifetime and we're taking an intro to pickleball class
so that we have something to do together. But like, we don't know
the rules and I don't either. Yeah, our promo director ted he got
pissed because he went to a place the other day and paid seven dollars and
was teamed up with people who went and played, so he spent the whole
time teaching him and he's like, I paid seven dollars to teach them to
play. He was pissed, and I was like, totally respect. I
don't want to be that person to someone else. So we're gonna go take
that intro class. And Jake bought us cheap Well, okay, this is
a whole different argument. So I bought like two years ago a pickleball set
at Target, one of the cheap ones and has wooden paddles, blah bla
blah, and Jake says, we cannot those to Lifetime, and I go,
yes, we can. He goes, no, we can't. We're
going to stand out and people are gonna like mock us. And I said,
I go, I'm gonna be really honest. I don't care what people
at Lifetime think of me. And he goes okay. So he didn't bring
it up again, but he took all of to get ice skates that like
played against sports or whatever, and he came home with two pickleball paddles.
He's like, they were twenty dollars each, and I was like, he's
like, at least people look less dumb. And I said, fine,
okay, for twenty dollars each, fine, because like someone were like one
hundred and twenty something dollars. I was never going to spend that. So
that's one. So learning something new was on my list, and the other
one was to improve on like something, which I assumed would be painting for
me. So I signed up for a one day workshop. It's like all
day at Minnetonka Center of the Arts, and it's like for Winter Landscapes.
A lot of their classes like they don't work with my schedule, you know
what I mean, Like it's either six to nine, which I couldn't do,
or it's like one to four and I'm like, I can't do any
of those. So anyway, I found like a one day workshop, so
I was like, Okay, cool, I can do that. And yeah,
so I feel like I'm accomplishing some things good. And yeah, I
don't know, but I know that like a lot of people fall off.
But you just gotta get back into it if you do, you know,
Jenny, just keep on trying to read. I don't think it's about being
perfect. It's just about Okay, it's already about perfection. We have a
problem. It's about trying to infiltrate a new routine in your life. Speaking
of pickleball, though, Andrew has been so all about like we need to
learn, we need to get into a league, because I mean, his
job is very important for him to network obviously as a real estate agent.
So he's just like trying to come up with other things. And we went
to this fondue party over the holidays and we met this couple and they're like,
oh, yeah, we just got real big into pick a ball lately,
and that's like their new thing. And Andrew's like, we have to
and so he's been on this kick that we need to find a pick aball
league, and he found one I think in like South Minneapolis, maybe Richfield
or something, I don't really remember, and he's like, we should join
this, and I go, what are the times? What's the driving time?
If it's going to be during rush hour, that's not an easy location
to get to. Like, I am all first joining something because I really,
as you've heard many times before, I love kickball for the social aspect
of it, almost more than the actual game of it. And I think
it's just important to get out during the weekend, do something that isn't solely
work related or like working out or whatever that's part of routine. So I'm
like, all for it, But should me, you, Jake, and
Andrew join a league together? But also it's probably gonna be too hard because
we're not gonna be able to find one that works for all our schedules.
Yeah, I was gonna say that's gonna be the issue, is you I
find anyone that works with us with all of it's going to be hard.
Like we're planning on playing during the day when she's a daycare. So that's
the issue now we do have I will throw this out there at some point
if you want to play with us. Our neighborhood randomly has like a public
park in it, but no one knows it's a public park, and they
just the city just paid to redo the whole thing, and so it's all
new kids play stuff and pickleball courts. Yeah, so we can literally just
walk to the pickleball courts course. Now, if you ever want to come
out and play, you can, or we can meet you at Lifetime.
Actually Lifetime, I think is really hard to get a court reserved, so
that's probably not gonna happen, but we would come out your way, we
could play, We could just play in general. Side note, When I
did play tennis, some people described my attitude as poor, so I was
a Some would say bad sport. So I feel like you and Andrew are
just naturally good at things. So I would get real pissy at Jake and
myself and it might be unpleasant to be around. I don't know. Pickleball
and tennis are kind of sports that you weirdly might be talented at. I
mean, you might have to be in like decent shit. You definitely have
to be in like okay shape to be really good at tennis. But I
feel like those are sports that you're just like uniquely talented at and I'm not
very good at tennis, you know, currently like disturbingly good at pickleball.
Tina, oh yeah, because she won. Yeah, her friends do like
a thing and they're like and they'll bring it up and be like, Tina
is randomly so good at pickleball, and she's like, yeah, I am,
you know, just like agree with it. Oh that's fair. But
I don't know. I mean, I get the like everyone's it's like a
hype and a craze right now, but I wanted to find like something that
Jake and I can do together. I told him, I'm like, even
when we go to restaurants, like, I said, we should learn like
a card game or something. I think I brought this up last time because
he said we should play cribbage and I said, fuck no, because I'm
not doing that. So I was like, this will be a good start
for us. And then I also asked him this week, actually yesterday we
were like together alone, all of us asleep, so not alone alone,
but I said, is there anything I could do that will just like make
you happier? And I feel like Jake constantly tends to my needs and he
thinks about what I would want before I would want it. And he said,
he's like, let me think, and he was like, well,
other than picking up your socks, because I still leave my socks everywhere.
He was like, one thing that would really be helpful is he does all
of his full bedtime routine by himself. He was like, it would be
really helpful if you took her downstairs and brush your teeth and got her pjs
on, and then I can do like the book and good night. And
I said that's a very fair request, Like very fair. And I kind
of felt like a jerk for not really offering that before, honestly, because
you could be like, oh, that's his one. No, Jake has
like a million routines with all of Like, that's not like kids won the
contribution. I would argue that, like I'm the lacking one. So I
was like, for sure, and he was like, what about me.
Jake's like, You're annoyingly perfect. I can't think of anything that you could
do better. And also I'm the kind of person that I would never wait
to be asked if you did something that annoyed me or I needed more from
you, I would just immediately tell you and you would fix it. And
he's like, that's fair. So I don't know. I thought like,
maybe that's something you could ask your partner. You to the Villy Jenny,
but ask your partner and maybe like you'd be surprised to learn what they could
use from you. I mean, Andrew's very similar in that aspect as Jake
is, where he just is always like I'm happy, like I get to
be, and I'm like, shut them up, okay, like I know
that there's something I must do that annoys you. And the one thing I
had learned was he's like a little bit traumatized from hearing cabinet doors in the
kitchen slamming from his childhood, and so that's fair have to bring that up.
But that's a fair poe. He says that he'll hear me in the
kitchen and I just kind of naturally, like you know, push a door
shut and slams. And he needn't get those easy closed cabinets in yours for
Andrew's sake, and he goes it's kind of triggering for me. He's like,
I feel like you're angry about something, and I was like, I'm
just in the kitchen I'm also like an extreme multitasker. When I'm cooking,
I'm usually like meal prepping multiple things at once or whatever, Like I go
quick in the kitchen, so I'm running around and I'm definitely probably slamming face.
I was like, Okay, I will work out not doing that.
But yeah, we have those conversations too. One thing that we were going
to try to do when we were trying to find a thing for us to
do was we had research taking salsa classes. We found a place really close
to us in Saint Louis Park. But the thing was it was on well
I think we found it back in May, and it's like a month long
that you take it for every Tuesday, and for every month we've had it
since we've had something going on at least like one of the tuesdays of the
month that we want to be able to make it, and it's like you
learn more each week. So I was like, well, we have to
do it at a month where we can be there at every Tuesday, you
know. So that's like something that when I do my calendar, I like
take that and I copy it and I pays it to the next month.
And I was like, we'll get well, maybe try it the next Yeah.
I was going to ask you, Oh, man, what was it?
I don't Oh, I are you still like how often are you watching
dogs? Are you just have like your regulars now? No, we do
have a lot of regulars, yes, but I mean that's people who go
on vacation, and they're not on vacation that often, so it's really not
like quite often. I mean we take dogs almost as often as we're asked.
In the summer was so heavy, people were always out of town weekends,
especially going up to cabins or whatever it might be, if they couldn't
bring their dog with them. But this month we have another dog coming for
like ten days, and then one dog coming at the beginning of February ten
days. Yeah, And those are they commit I know, And those are
those are the ones. Honestly I like the best because it means that,
like I'm not going through different dog routines all the time. I get to
have the same routine with the dog. But February is kind of pretty booked.
We just did a meet and greet with these two dogs named Finn and
Gus, and they're coming for also like ten is days. I think in
February, and we have another dog schedule for February two. But it's it's
hard now because the people who are regulars, they'll text me and they don't
text me enough in advance, and I'll have someone else books and we don't
take more than two dogs at a time as of right now. Like that's
like our sweet spot. That's fair, and usually like it's great if they're
siblings, but if they're not, we always have to go through a process
and to make sure that the dogs would get along. And so the one
of my absolute favorite dogs needed to be watched like next week, but we
have this other dog coming for ten days, and that dog I was told
doesn't do super well with other dogs, so I had to say no.
And then I get sad because we just we have one dog who his name
is Boomer, and he's this he was like this overweight Golden Retriever and he
had something was wrong with him, like his cells or something with his fat
cells or something, so he was actually like sick or he was taking medicine
for it, and that's why he was so overweight. But we're getting really
sad because we haven't heard anything from the owners since the summer, and we're
just like scared. Now we get like attached to some of the yeah,
and we're scared that something's like happened because we haven't heard anything from them,
and it's like, well, like maybe you reach out. I was like
reach out to these people I've met twice and be like, yeah, hey,
I have a dog hoos Boomer doing alive. Okay, serious, you
don't have to answer this. Ten days watching one dog with the app taking
money? Do you feel comfortable sharing like how much you would get for ten
days with one dog? Yeah, I'm just curious. With one dog for
ten days, it's it's calculated with like per night, so but I'll just
say ten nights to make it easy. It would be the app. So
it's five hundred dollars total for someone to hire me, but the app takes
twenty percent of that, so they get a portion of it. And I'm
not entirely sure if there's like another fee on top of that, but I
will see how much it costs them. But then Rover takes twenty percent off
of that once I get paid, Okay, So I don't know if there's
something above that for like five hundred dollars for ten days, and then if
you have two dogs, it's I charged like fifty dollars for the first one
and forty for the second one, but once again, that's before Rover takes
the fees, so it's a little bit less if you have two dogs to
have like a second dog. Okay, I don't know how kennels work,
because I know part of me feels like wow, I thought I kind of
assumed you made more. Oh no, But then also part of me is
like, God, that's e fin expensive to have someone watch your dog,
I know, because you're already paying yourself for your trip, which is probably
expensive between flight and hotel and stuff, and then you have to do that
with your dog on top of it. Gosh, I know. I mean,
I tried to stay very I tried to make it enough money to make
it honestly worth it for me for sure, but like not too much that
no one was ever gonna hire me. So I looked around, like other
people around the neighborhood and stuff, and I'm pretty in the middle of what
people charge and stuff. And I've only been doing it for a year,
so other people have like five hundred ratings already, and so they probably can
charge a little bit more, but even they don't charge that much more because
you also have to compare it to like how much it costs to go to
a kennel. And I don't think Kennel's charge more than like fifty d ish
dollar dollars a day. Yeah, probably not. I don't know. I
guess I don't remember. I think I did, like maybe looked into Kennel's
once or twice. But then like the roverop came into play pretty early on,
or I had like Tina Harry or whoever, like a friend watching them.
My mom lives here now, so that's like really convenient. We got
rid of our and I got rid of I mean, we adopted out Gravy
yesterday. And I've been fostering two Palm Eranians, Gravy and Tato, and
they're going to change his name, and I was so sad about it,
like of course they can. Yeah, I didn't even care that they were
going to change Tato's name because I'm like, I get that, but like
Gravy was just so cute, but they're going to change his name and they're
such a lovely family. And then I had a meet and greet Friday with
a family for Tato, and I think that hopefully, I'm like, hopefully
by the end of this week he will be gone too. And I don't
mean that in a mean way, but like I am ready to stop cleaning
up p and poop every ten seconds. I mean, those puppies pe and
poop constantly, and I am over it. And it was a very good
experience for me. I think I even said this last week to know I
do not want a puppy, at least for a long long time. I
mean, they are a lot of work. We haven't really watched many puppies
with like our app but like if there's like a not very well trained dog,
it becomes like really hard. Like honestly, we watched too recently that
we watched them before and they never had accidents in the house, and then
this time they were having accidents constantly, and we were like, what is
going on? You guys were not like this last time. Yeah. I
don't know if they picked up some bad habits since like the six months prior,
but it was kind of exhausting. And then my friend's dog, she
dropped her off and that night she just started puking everywhere, like constantly,
and we had gone out for drinks or something and we came home and had
to spend like an hour cleaning up puke in like seven different spots. And
it's always on the damn rugs. Like, oh yeah, they would,
they will. Animals they like just cannot do their business on the floor.
It would be way too easy for them. Yeah, And then we found
out when my friend picked her up after the weekend that she had ate a
chapstick, and so because we were monitoring her because we were scared because she
was she's a little bit older too, and we're like, okay, she
got everything on Friday and then Saturday a little low key chill and that's kind
of how she is anyways. But we just were like keeping an eye on
her to make sure nothing was like actually really wrong. We just assumed she
had ate something, and Andrew thought he saw something plastic. But I mean,
yeah, like, don't get me wrong, I love watching dogs.
But we've had, yeah, like our fair share of situations where we have
to deal with things that you don't anticipate. But for the most part,
the joy of having a dog around completely outweys having to clean up some poop.
Everyone in a while, you said you had an email this week,
so I'm not sure. Okay, so we're gonna call her Abby. I
said, not my real name, and it says Hi, Jenny and Fallon.
I have a situation I'm trying to work through, and I'm hoping your
listeners can have some advice for me. I've been dating my boyfriend for about
ten months now. Things are going amazing. I love him so much and
I can easily see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He's
the greatest man I've ever known, and I can't imagine my life without him.
I've never felt this way about anyone, and I'm in my thirties.
The issue that I'm struggling with is that he can't have any more kids.
He currently has a young child and is recently divorced. He was very upfront
with me right away about not being able to have more kids because of a
vasectomy when we first started dating, but when I asked about potentially fostering or
adopting, he said that door was slightly open. However, I could tell
he was hesitant about even that answer. Fast forward to now and he has
basically shut the door and said he really doesn't want any more kids. I
told him when we first started dating that I really wanted a kid, but
it wasn't a make or break deal in the beginning. But as we grow
closer, and as I grow closer to his child, I can't stop thinking
about it and how I want one of my own. I'm really torn.
I love this man so much and his child is so great, which helps
a time, but ultimately I'm not their mom. I'm curious if anyone else
has been in a similar situation, because now I feel like I have to
decide between wanting kids or marrying the love of my life. What would you
do things happy? That's a That's a very tough one because they say when
you get in a relationship, you have to agree on like three or four
things that are very important. I think the top one is if we're having
kids or not. You said you're in your thirties, so I'm going to
be like a jerk here. Your time is limited to have kids, and
some people fact, yeah, some people well, but some people are you
know, women have kids in their forties and fifties or whatever, and that's
true. But everyone knows the older you get, the higher risk you have
with various things going wrong and which shout out to women's biological clocks as like
like the men are having them when they're ninety years old. So for me,
I would say I find it interesting Number one that he said he couldn't
have kids. V sectomies are reversible, and I mean don't think there are
many that aren't reversible this day and age. However, he was very clear
upfront about that. So that's something that you guys talked about adoption very serious
commitment and discussion and conversation, and I don't know, I kind of get
like he's done it, so it's easy for him to be like, I
don't really want anymore. I mean when I met Jake, he had kind
of nothing. He was closed off. He just had kind of decided in
his head he probably wasn't having anymore because Dylan was nine when I met him,
So I think Jake just kind of thought, probably won't have any more
kids. I don't know. At the end of the day, it comes
down to how important is having a kid with you. He's pretty much telling
you it's not happening with him, and I know the other kid isn't yours,
But I also I have a friend who she met the love of her
life. She said, I just talked to her. She used to work
here at the radio station, not Katie, but a different station, And
she met the love of her life later in life, and they already had
a kid who she loved, but they were like, you know what,
let's try to have a kid. They went to the doctor and she said
at the time, the doctor laughed at I'm like, you two are too
old at this point, and they're like, oh, okay. And she
said it took her a minute because she had kind of decided I do want
a kid with him, and then it took a minute and she's like,
and I'm okay with it, Like he was enough for me and his kid
was enough for me, and I'm fine. But that's not always going to
be the case for everyone. Yeah, it's hard to say with someone like
me personally, I have zero experience of like making a decision about a kid.
And Andrew and I are both very up in the air on that decision
ourselves. So I feel like when you're so, I feel resentment is the
word I'm trying to find. Yeah, I think you have to like weigh
how much resentment you potentially could have towards him if you decide to stay with
him and not have any kids that are just your or two versus will your
life be fulfilling without him? And that's hard to say because that's the both
are the unknown, you know, And it's also it's like, of course
he is like the love of your life. I personally think that I think
you can find true love in multiple different ways and in different kinds of love.
So I'm not saying that if you left him you wouldn't be able to
find someone else or anything. I think you very much could. But I
get that the fear of leaving someone who you know is like perfect for you
and then never finding that again. Well that and also you do I mean,
my friend Abby has gone through this. You do the numbers game.
Okay, Let's say I even met someone in the next year, you would
need to be with them at least what a year before you even get engaged,
and then maybe you get married with him blah blah blah. And then
if you're lucky enough to get pregnant, like you start when women when they
hit a certain age, you start like mentally playing this game. If you
want to be able to have a kid. It sucks. Yeah, So
I think you're answer is within yourself. Wow, thank you Buddha. I
don't know, no, Okay, oh my god. I mean it's such
a serious topic. I like, don't I get it, Like you just
have to decide what is more important. I do agree with Jenny. I
I don't know that I believe in one soulmate. I almost think you can
have multiple soulmates. And I know that some people will never agree with that
because maybe they found like one and they were happy with that one forever.
But I don't know. I just like I think, like for me,
I don't want to ever be with anyone other than Jake. I can't imagine
anyone ever being better for me than him. But like if it's hard for
me to imagine too, because I just like, if he would have said
absolutely no kids, I think I would have been like, oh okay,
yeah, because I didn't want them that much to begin with, right,
So it's different. I Mean I've had some friends who have been sort of
in similar situation, and the thing is is that one of the other person
kind of bended a little bit. Like I had a friend who thought that
they wanted kids that her partner was like, I don't think so it's just
like not my thing. They almost broke up. Then they talked about it
again and he kind of was like, no, it can be on the
table because that's how much I value the relationship. So I don't know.
If it's like really really something you want and he is such a hard no,
then you really have to think about it. Yeah, our mutual well
more so my friend, but you know him. He got a vasectomy and
then he got married and she wanted kids, and he's like, okay,
they like had that conversation before marriage, so he got a reversal. And
I don't know what their timeline is or if they've tried or none, that's
my business. But he was like dead set, I'll never have kids.
Then he met her and I was like, oh, okay, I'm going
to get a reversal because she does want kids and I want kids with her.
So yeah, I don't, I mean, I don't. I guess
I don't love the idea that he's not willing to be flexible in any way
for your desires. You know that stinks, it does, But and I
don't know that we're any help If anyone has any advice for her that maybe
has been in a similar situation, then you can email either of a Stallin
or Jenny at kadiewb dot com. I'm like itching my skin right now as
you're like finishing that and I have I just had this laser treatment done,
so I know I'm flaking dead skin all over the place. It's not my
studio. I don't care, you're right, I'm just that we're in Drake's
studio actually right now, and it's just it's disgusting. Do you use my
microphone now, by the way, or do you use you still use yours?
Yeah, in the other studio where I'm not putt my hot breath on
your microphone. I didn't think I smelled you, so I thought we're good
there. But oh, I still use the other one because I got to
have access to the computer stuff, so I know over there. Yeah,
it's such a visual thing. I'm sorry. I just like I was wondering,
but I always like go in. I have to use more of your
side of stuff now than I used to, like with the phone and stuff,
and I get so frustrated because the phone is nowhere near me, and
so I have to get up and Ted or Vaunt or someone is always sitting
in your seat and I have to like almost lean over their lap to reach
the phone, like get out of the way. But yeah, anyway,
we are in Drake Studio today. Where about a time? So is there
anything else you would like to add to today's podcast? Jenny Andrew told me
over the weekend that he could look like Nelly if you tried, And by
that, I mean he thinks that he could have like a six pack of
abs if he tried, because he was why did he pick Nelly of all
people? That's what? Why did he pick someone like the guy who just
won the Golden Globe for the bear who just had the amazing Calvin Klein as
why would he pick that? Say something real quickcause now I'm going to sidetrack
my own story. But I wanted to share his posts of him and tell
me too. But then I felt like it's inappropriate because boyfriend. No,
no, no, That's not why I felt like it was inappropriate, because
I was like, I have a boyfriend. I can't be like putting all
this like sexual content out there. Forget that, But God, did he
look good. I The reason I didn't was because every time we do something
like that, people like you would be so mad if a guy did that
with a woman, And so I'm like, oh my god, you're right.
I don't think I would care if you share. If Margot Robbie had
a hot af Calvin Klein thing, I would probably share that as well.
And if a guy that I wouldn't care. But I get it. His
name is Jeremy Allen. White. By the way, just came in my
head. I couldn't think it, but I don't know. I also side
note, I started. I watched two things this weekend. Good Grief,
the new Dan Levy movie on Netflix. He wrote, and he's the guy
from Shit's Creek he wrote, and I think either producer directed it, and
I thought it was good. It wasn't like amazing, but it was like
good sweet. And then we started watching a new show on Apple TV.
It's actually on Showtime, so we must have Showtime through Apple and it's called
The Curse or Cursed. I think it's the Curse, and it has Emma
Stone in it. It is one of the weirdest shows ever and Jake and
I have been It's like that was just one for things on the Golden globes
or that's her movie Poor Things Okay, which also looks very bizarre and unique.
But Curse is like this couple. They're the most bizarre couple ever and
they're trying to get an HGTV show about how like her homes where they're kind
of like self sustaining environments on the inside, and they're like rich white people
going into like this native I think it's mostly Native. There might be some
Spanish people in the community and almost kind of like gentrifying it, but they're
trying to angle it like they're not and it's like so bizarre and weird,
and he is one of the most awkward characters I've ever experienced, and they
have no passion. And I don't want to give anything away, but there
is like a scene in the first episode or two that shows is Penis and
you are not prepared for what it shows. Yeah, and Jake and I
both just stopped and we're like, wait a minute, and we started laughing,
and it was just unexpected. And there have been so many weird,
uncomfortable consistently. I don't know anyway, if you looking for something so weird
and different it's that would be a recommendation I have on Apple. Yeah it's
on Showtime Okay, okay, but what we watch it through Apple TV?
Nice? All right, that's it for real. Okay, all right,
So Andrey's getting a six pack like Nellie? Then, yeah, I just
told them I look got distracted on Cher Calvin. He had lifted his shirt
up and put his stomach in my face and I was just like feeling his
non existent abs, and which is I'm fine with. He doesn't need to
have abs. And I kind of just like started examining his like chest and
stomach area, and I go, babe, you have like really the build
of someone who could just he's like be ripped. Oh yeah, I could
look like Nelly if I wanted to, is what he said. And I
go Nelly. He goes, yeah, oh I could of all the people,
That's what happened. And once again, I don't care that he doesn't
have abs. Some people are built to be able to just kind of easily
have that physique. And he us and you have those apps if you wanted,
get one little abrowll ers Jenny. That's all he needs. All right,
Thanks for listening. Have a good one