WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.480 --> 00:00:05.559 Welcome to should we say welcome? Jenny, do you feel like welcome is 2 00:00:05.599 --> 00:00:12.800 welcoming or I don't know that's should I really nope, Yep, that's the 3 00:00:12.800 --> 00:00:15.400 one. Okay, good, I'm glad. I'm glad we settled off the 4 00:00:15.439 --> 00:00:20.480 one. The day today, the day that it comes out Tuesday, Jenny 5 00:00:20.480 --> 00:00:23.719 and I we're gonna go see the new Mean Girls movie tonight. I am 6 00:00:23.839 --> 00:00:27.039 so excited. You know me, I'm not a movie person, but I 7 00:00:27.079 --> 00:00:31.679 am super you like the first one, though, Okay, I'm a little 8 00:00:32.719 --> 00:00:36.719 nervous about it being a musical. I'm not sure how I'm gonna feel about 9 00:00:36.759 --> 00:00:40.479 that. It's Renee rap singing. You'll love it. I will tell you 10 00:00:40.520 --> 00:00:44.719 this. I saw The Mean Girl's Broadway Musical and it was granted. I 11 00:00:44.799 --> 00:00:47.799 knew I was going to a musical because I'm going to Broadway. It was 12 00:00:47.880 --> 00:00:51.240 hilarious. It was so funny. It was I think this movie is going 13 00:00:51.320 --> 00:00:55.840 to be just more modernized. I also get the vibe that Renee or Renee 14 00:00:56.159 --> 00:01:00.479 Regina Renee plays her. She comes across as the main character, and all 15 00:01:00.520 --> 00:01:04.599 the kind of promo advertising for it. I don't know if it's just because 16 00:01:04.599 --> 00:01:08.799 she's the biggest star in the movie as far as the plastics go, or 17 00:01:08.840 --> 00:01:12.319 if it's going to be a lot more about Regina. I'm curious. That's 18 00:01:12.319 --> 00:01:15.920 what I was thinking too. I actually never really thought about it because then 19 00:01:15.040 --> 00:01:19.680 because you would have considered Katie. She was a lead in the first one. 20 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:25.519 Yeah, in the Broadway musical, Katie was still like the lead. 21 00:01:25.760 --> 00:01:29.200 But I don't know, I'm so excited. Yeah, there were so many 22 00:01:29.239 --> 00:01:33.879 classic lines from the first movie, and Tina Fey's great with that. So 23 00:01:34.239 --> 00:01:38.079 since she's still like hands on, I feel like really excited for it. 24 00:01:38.480 --> 00:01:42.239 How is they say that week two of January is when people fall off of 25 00:01:42.280 --> 00:01:48.200 their goals or resolutions. They only last like a week. So from your 26 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:51.840 ins and outs, are there things that you feel like you're doing well or 27 00:01:51.920 --> 00:01:56.760 you've already fallen off? Okay, so I have been scrolling before bed and 28 00:01:56.799 --> 00:02:00.840 I'll go upstairs with my book in hand. Yeah, reintention to be like 29 00:02:00.840 --> 00:02:02.319 I'm gonna get twenty minutes in real quick. And the next thing I know, 30 00:02:02.400 --> 00:02:05.879 I spent ten minutes scrolling and I'm like, well, I only have 31 00:02:05.920 --> 00:02:07.479 ten minutes left till I should really go to bed, And so that I 32 00:02:07.599 --> 00:02:12.120 just keep scrolling. Yeah, yeah, so that is my big one that 33 00:02:12.159 --> 00:02:15.879 I am struggling with. What about you? I feel like this week I 34 00:02:15.960 --> 00:02:22.840 nailed it, Like I'm week one nailing it, So I am still scrolling. 35 00:02:23.360 --> 00:02:25.719 I didn't put like specific parameters on that maybe I should have, because 36 00:02:27.479 --> 00:02:30.639 I mean I have been scrolling and trolling, not really trolling. I am 37 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:35.800 like all over it. But I I actually thought about the other day. 38 00:02:35.800 --> 00:02:37.599 I'm like, what am I looking for? Like? Am I looking for 39 00:02:37.639 --> 00:02:39.960 like some genius new idea? Am I just? Am I some? I 40 00:02:40.000 --> 00:02:43.719 mean, of course I find like content ideas for like the show and stuff. 41 00:02:43.759 --> 00:02:45.719 I'm like, what am I actually trying to find here? I don't 42 00:02:45.759 --> 00:02:50.719 think you are. And that's the point of mindless scrolling. But I said, 43 00:02:50.719 --> 00:02:52.719 I want to drink like a full glass of water when I wake up. 44 00:02:52.719 --> 00:02:54.800 Every day. Been doing that and so that's good for my body. 45 00:02:55.560 --> 00:02:59.039 Being outdoors more, I've been going. I was going to go for a 46 00:02:59.080 --> 00:03:00.919 walk today, did not because of the snow, and I'm actually really happy 47 00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:04.879 at didn't because my car almost slid off my driveway, so I probably would 48 00:03:04.879 --> 00:03:07.159 have slipped on my back and died. But every like every other day, 49 00:03:07.159 --> 00:03:12.560 I've been going for at least like a two mile walk and my two other 50 00:03:12.639 --> 00:03:15.439 things that I had put on the list that I feel really excited about. 51 00:03:15.719 --> 00:03:19.439 I put that I wanted to learn something new. So Jake and I signed 52 00:03:19.520 --> 00:03:23.840 up Saturday. We're going to Lifetime and we're taking an intro to pickleball class 53 00:03:23.240 --> 00:03:27.439 so that we have something to do together. But like, we don't know 54 00:03:27.520 --> 00:03:31.800 the rules and I don't either. Yeah, our promo director ted he got 55 00:03:31.800 --> 00:03:35.879 pissed because he went to a place the other day and paid seven dollars and 56 00:03:36.000 --> 00:03:38.520 was teamed up with people who went and played, so he spent the whole 57 00:03:38.520 --> 00:03:40.599 time teaching him and he's like, I paid seven dollars to teach them to 58 00:03:40.599 --> 00:03:44.039 play. He was pissed, and I was like, totally respect. I 59 00:03:44.039 --> 00:03:46.840 don't want to be that person to someone else. So we're gonna go take 60 00:03:46.840 --> 00:03:50.360 that intro class. And Jake bought us cheap Well, okay, this is 61 00:03:50.360 --> 00:03:53.400 a whole different argument. So I bought like two years ago a pickleball set 62 00:03:53.400 --> 00:03:57.439 at Target, one of the cheap ones and has wooden paddles, blah bla 63 00:03:57.479 --> 00:04:00.719 blah, and Jake says, we cannot those to Lifetime, and I go, 64 00:04:01.120 --> 00:04:03.199 yes, we can. He goes, no, we can't. We're 65 00:04:03.199 --> 00:04:05.840 going to stand out and people are gonna like mock us. And I said, 66 00:04:06.400 --> 00:04:09.800 I go, I'm gonna be really honest. I don't care what people 67 00:04:09.800 --> 00:04:13.199 at Lifetime think of me. And he goes okay. So he didn't bring 68 00:04:13.199 --> 00:04:15.479 it up again, but he took all of to get ice skates that like 69 00:04:15.479 --> 00:04:18.360 played against sports or whatever, and he came home with two pickleball paddles. 70 00:04:18.839 --> 00:04:21.040 He's like, they were twenty dollars each, and I was like, he's 71 00:04:21.079 --> 00:04:24.680 like, at least people look less dumb. And I said, fine, 72 00:04:24.720 --> 00:04:27.439 okay, for twenty dollars each, fine, because like someone were like one 73 00:04:27.480 --> 00:04:30.439 hundred and twenty something dollars. I was never going to spend that. So 74 00:04:30.519 --> 00:04:33.319 that's one. So learning something new was on my list, and the other 75 00:04:33.360 --> 00:04:38.839 one was to improve on like something, which I assumed would be painting for 76 00:04:38.879 --> 00:04:42.360 me. So I signed up for a one day workshop. It's like all 77 00:04:42.480 --> 00:04:46.519 day at Minnetonka Center of the Arts, and it's like for Winter Landscapes. 78 00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:50.759 A lot of their classes like they don't work with my schedule, you know 79 00:04:50.800 --> 00:04:55.120 what I mean, Like it's either six to nine, which I couldn't do, 80 00:04:55.720 --> 00:04:58.680 or it's like one to four and I'm like, I can't do any 81 00:04:58.680 --> 00:05:00.720 of those. So anyway, I found like a one day workshop, so 82 00:05:00.720 --> 00:05:03.360 I was like, Okay, cool, I can do that. And yeah, 83 00:05:03.399 --> 00:05:10.000 so I feel like I'm accomplishing some things good. And yeah, I 84 00:05:10.000 --> 00:05:13.040 don't know, but I know that like a lot of people fall off. 85 00:05:13.040 --> 00:05:15.839 But you just gotta get back into it if you do, you know, 86 00:05:16.040 --> 00:05:19.079 Jenny, just keep on trying to read. I don't think it's about being 87 00:05:19.240 --> 00:05:24.680 perfect. It's just about Okay, it's already about perfection. We have a 88 00:05:24.720 --> 00:05:30.839 problem. It's about trying to infiltrate a new routine in your life. Speaking 89 00:05:30.839 --> 00:05:34.240 of pickleball, though, Andrew has been so all about like we need to 90 00:05:34.319 --> 00:05:38.160 learn, we need to get into a league, because I mean, his 91 00:05:38.279 --> 00:05:41.759 job is very important for him to network obviously as a real estate agent. 92 00:05:42.000 --> 00:05:44.279 So he's just like trying to come up with other things. And we went 93 00:05:44.319 --> 00:05:46.959 to this fondue party over the holidays and we met this couple and they're like, 94 00:05:47.000 --> 00:05:49.480 oh, yeah, we just got real big into pick a ball lately, 95 00:05:49.720 --> 00:05:53.399 and that's like their new thing. And Andrew's like, we have to 96 00:05:53.560 --> 00:05:55.639 and so he's been on this kick that we need to find a pick aball 97 00:05:55.680 --> 00:05:59.560 league, and he found one I think in like South Minneapolis, maybe Richfield 98 00:05:59.639 --> 00:06:01.480 or something, I don't really remember, and he's like, we should join 99 00:06:01.519 --> 00:06:04.560 this, and I go, what are the times? What's the driving time? 100 00:06:04.600 --> 00:06:08.079 If it's going to be during rush hour, that's not an easy location 101 00:06:08.160 --> 00:06:12.279 to get to. Like, I am all first joining something because I really, 102 00:06:12.399 --> 00:06:15.199 as you've heard many times before, I love kickball for the social aspect 103 00:06:15.279 --> 00:06:19.079 of it, almost more than the actual game of it. And I think 104 00:06:19.079 --> 00:06:24.040 it's just important to get out during the weekend, do something that isn't solely 105 00:06:24.120 --> 00:06:28.600 work related or like working out or whatever that's part of routine. So I'm 106 00:06:28.639 --> 00:06:30.439 like, all for it, But should me, you, Jake, and 107 00:06:30.439 --> 00:06:35.000 Andrew join a league together? But also it's probably gonna be too hard because 108 00:06:35.040 --> 00:06:38.040 we're not gonna be able to find one that works for all our schedules. 109 00:06:38.160 --> 00:06:41.639 Yeah, I was gonna say that's gonna be the issue, is you I 110 00:06:41.639 --> 00:06:44.680 find anyone that works with us with all of it's going to be hard. 111 00:06:44.959 --> 00:06:49.360 Like we're planning on playing during the day when she's a daycare. So that's 112 00:06:49.399 --> 00:06:53.800 the issue now we do have I will throw this out there at some point 113 00:06:53.800 --> 00:06:57.399 if you want to play with us. Our neighborhood randomly has like a public 114 00:06:57.439 --> 00:07:00.480 park in it, but no one knows it's a public park, and they 115 00:07:00.800 --> 00:07:04.160 just the city just paid to redo the whole thing, and so it's all 116 00:07:04.240 --> 00:07:09.160 new kids play stuff and pickleball courts. Yeah, so we can literally just 117 00:07:09.199 --> 00:07:11.160 walk to the pickleball courts course. Now, if you ever want to come 118 00:07:11.160 --> 00:07:13.360 out and play, you can, or we can meet you at Lifetime. 119 00:07:13.439 --> 00:07:15.839 Actually Lifetime, I think is really hard to get a court reserved, so 120 00:07:15.959 --> 00:07:18.680 that's probably not gonna happen, but we would come out your way, we 121 00:07:18.680 --> 00:07:23.680 could play, We could just play in general. Side note, When I 122 00:07:23.720 --> 00:07:29.439 did play tennis, some people described my attitude as poor, so I was 123 00:07:29.560 --> 00:07:34.000 a Some would say bad sport. So I feel like you and Andrew are 124 00:07:34.040 --> 00:07:39.160 just naturally good at things. So I would get real pissy at Jake and 125 00:07:39.319 --> 00:07:44.240 myself and it might be unpleasant to be around. I don't know. Pickleball 126 00:07:44.279 --> 00:07:47.040 and tennis are kind of sports that you weirdly might be talented at. I 127 00:07:47.040 --> 00:07:49.360 mean, you might have to be in like decent shit. You definitely have 128 00:07:49.399 --> 00:07:53.360 to be in like okay shape to be really good at tennis. But I 129 00:07:53.399 --> 00:07:56.920 feel like those are sports that you're just like uniquely talented at and I'm not 130 00:07:57.480 --> 00:08:03.240 very good at tennis, you know, currently like disturbingly good at pickleball. 131 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:07.199 Tina, oh yeah, because she won. Yeah, her friends do like 132 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:09.000 a thing and they're like and they'll bring it up and be like, Tina 133 00:08:09.240 --> 00:08:13.040 is randomly so good at pickleball, and she's like, yeah, I am, 134 00:08:13.560 --> 00:08:18.199 you know, just like agree with it. Oh that's fair. But 135 00:08:18.759 --> 00:08:20.279 I don't know. I mean, I get the like everyone's it's like a 136 00:08:20.319 --> 00:08:24.639 hype and a craze right now, but I wanted to find like something that 137 00:08:24.360 --> 00:08:26.759 Jake and I can do together. I told him, I'm like, even 138 00:08:26.759 --> 00:08:30.959 when we go to restaurants, like, I said, we should learn like 139 00:08:31.079 --> 00:08:33.840 a card game or something. I think I brought this up last time because 140 00:08:33.840 --> 00:08:37.159 he said we should play cribbage and I said, fuck no, because I'm 141 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:39.600 not doing that. So I was like, this will be a good start 142 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:46.399 for us. And then I also asked him this week, actually yesterday we 143 00:08:46.399 --> 00:08:50.240 were like together alone, all of us asleep, so not alone alone, 144 00:08:50.279 --> 00:08:52.720 but I said, is there anything I could do that will just like make 145 00:08:52.799 --> 00:08:56.320 you happier? And I feel like Jake constantly tends to my needs and he 146 00:08:56.399 --> 00:09:01.000 thinks about what I would want before I would want it. And he said, 147 00:09:01.600 --> 00:09:03.679 he's like, let me think, and he was like, well, 148 00:09:03.720 --> 00:09:07.759 other than picking up your socks, because I still leave my socks everywhere. 149 00:09:07.960 --> 00:09:09.840 He was like, one thing that would really be helpful is he does all 150 00:09:09.879 --> 00:09:13.879 of his full bedtime routine by himself. He was like, it would be 151 00:09:13.919 --> 00:09:18.799 really helpful if you took her downstairs and brush your teeth and got her pjs 152 00:09:18.840 --> 00:09:22.600 on, and then I can do like the book and good night. And 153 00:09:22.639 --> 00:09:28.039 I said that's a very fair request, Like very fair. And I kind 154 00:09:28.039 --> 00:09:31.559 of felt like a jerk for not really offering that before, honestly, because 155 00:09:31.679 --> 00:09:33.799 you could be like, oh, that's his one. No, Jake has 156 00:09:33.799 --> 00:09:37.039 like a million routines with all of Like, that's not like kids won the 157 00:09:37.120 --> 00:09:41.799 contribution. I would argue that, like I'm the lacking one. So I 158 00:09:41.840 --> 00:09:43.399 was like, for sure, and he was like, what about me. 159 00:09:43.919 --> 00:09:46.600 Jake's like, You're annoyingly perfect. I can't think of anything that you could 160 00:09:46.600 --> 00:09:50.279 do better. And also I'm the kind of person that I would never wait 161 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:52.799 to be asked if you did something that annoyed me or I needed more from 162 00:09:52.799 --> 00:09:54.000 you, I would just immediately tell you and you would fix it. And 163 00:09:54.039 --> 00:09:58.559 he's like, that's fair. So I don't know. I thought like, 164 00:09:58.600 --> 00:10:01.600 maybe that's something you could ask your partner. You to the Villy Jenny, 165 00:10:01.639 --> 00:10:05.279 but ask your partner and maybe like you'd be surprised to learn what they could 166 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:09.080 use from you. I mean, Andrew's very similar in that aspect as Jake 167 00:10:09.279 --> 00:10:11.960 is, where he just is always like I'm happy, like I get to 168 00:10:11.960 --> 00:10:15.320 be, and I'm like, shut them up, okay, like I know 169 00:10:15.440 --> 00:10:20.080 that there's something I must do that annoys you. And the one thing I 170 00:10:20.120 --> 00:10:26.720 had learned was he's like a little bit traumatized from hearing cabinet doors in the 171 00:10:26.799 --> 00:10:31.480 kitchen slamming from his childhood, and so that's fair have to bring that up. 172 00:10:31.519 --> 00:10:33.720 But that's a fair poe. He says that he'll hear me in the 173 00:10:33.799 --> 00:10:37.600 kitchen and I just kind of naturally, like you know, push a door 174 00:10:37.639 --> 00:10:41.679 shut and slams. And he needn't get those easy closed cabinets in yours for 175 00:10:41.759 --> 00:10:46.320 Andrew's sake, and he goes it's kind of triggering for me. He's like, 176 00:10:46.360 --> 00:10:48.720 I feel like you're angry about something, and I was like, I'm 177 00:10:48.879 --> 00:10:54.840 just in the kitchen I'm also like an extreme multitasker. When I'm cooking, 178 00:10:56.000 --> 00:10:58.519 I'm usually like meal prepping multiple things at once or whatever, Like I go 179 00:10:58.720 --> 00:11:03.360 quick in the kitchen, so I'm running around and I'm definitely probably slamming face. 180 00:11:05.600 --> 00:11:07.159 I was like, Okay, I will work out not doing that. 181 00:11:07.279 --> 00:11:11.960 But yeah, we have those conversations too. One thing that we were going 182 00:11:11.039 --> 00:11:15.279 to try to do when we were trying to find a thing for us to 183 00:11:15.320 --> 00:11:20.320 do was we had research taking salsa classes. We found a place really close 184 00:11:20.360 --> 00:11:24.480 to us in Saint Louis Park. But the thing was it was on well 185 00:11:24.519 --> 00:11:26.440 I think we found it back in May, and it's like a month long 186 00:11:26.480 --> 00:11:31.919 that you take it for every Tuesday, and for every month we've had it 187 00:11:31.000 --> 00:11:35.480 since we've had something going on at least like one of the tuesdays of the 188 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:37.919 month that we want to be able to make it, and it's like you 189 00:11:37.080 --> 00:11:41.240 learn more each week. So I was like, well, we have to 190 00:11:41.240 --> 00:11:43.159 do it at a month where we can be there at every Tuesday, you 191 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:48.360 know. So that's like something that when I do my calendar, I like 192 00:11:48.480 --> 00:11:50.840 take that and I copy it and I pays it to the next month. 193 00:11:50.840 --> 00:11:54.799 And I was like, we'll get well, maybe try it the next Yeah. 194 00:11:54.960 --> 00:11:58.080 I was going to ask you, Oh, man, what was it? 195 00:11:58.120 --> 00:12:01.879 I don't Oh, I are you still like how often are you watching 196 00:12:01.919 --> 00:12:05.360 dogs? Are you just have like your regulars now? No, we do 197 00:12:05.440 --> 00:12:09.559 have a lot of regulars, yes, but I mean that's people who go 198 00:12:09.600 --> 00:12:11.639 on vacation, and they're not on vacation that often, so it's really not 199 00:12:11.840 --> 00:12:16.519 like quite often. I mean we take dogs almost as often as we're asked. 200 00:12:16.639 --> 00:12:20.399 In the summer was so heavy, people were always out of town weekends, 201 00:12:20.480 --> 00:12:24.480 especially going up to cabins or whatever it might be, if they couldn't 202 00:12:24.480 --> 00:12:28.600 bring their dog with them. But this month we have another dog coming for 203 00:12:28.679 --> 00:12:33.039 like ten days, and then one dog coming at the beginning of February ten 204 00:12:33.200 --> 00:12:37.840 days. Yeah, And those are they commit I know, And those are 205 00:12:37.039 --> 00:12:39.720 those are the ones. Honestly I like the best because it means that, 206 00:12:39.840 --> 00:12:45.200 like I'm not going through different dog routines all the time. I get to 207 00:12:45.240 --> 00:12:48.320 have the same routine with the dog. But February is kind of pretty booked. 208 00:12:48.320 --> 00:12:50.960 We just did a meet and greet with these two dogs named Finn and 209 00:12:52.000 --> 00:12:56.080 Gus, and they're coming for also like ten is days. I think in 210 00:12:56.120 --> 00:13:00.320 February, and we have another dog schedule for February two. But it's it's 211 00:13:00.360 --> 00:13:05.080 hard now because the people who are regulars, they'll text me and they don't 212 00:13:05.159 --> 00:13:07.879 text me enough in advance, and I'll have someone else books and we don't 213 00:13:07.879 --> 00:13:11.000 take more than two dogs at a time as of right now. Like that's 214 00:13:11.080 --> 00:13:16.559 like our sweet spot. That's fair, and usually like it's great if they're 215 00:13:16.600 --> 00:13:18.879 siblings, but if they're not, we always have to go through a process 216 00:13:18.879 --> 00:13:24.360 and to make sure that the dogs would get along. And so the one 217 00:13:24.399 --> 00:13:28.080 of my absolute favorite dogs needed to be watched like next week, but we 218 00:13:28.159 --> 00:13:30.960 have this other dog coming for ten days, and that dog I was told 219 00:13:31.000 --> 00:13:33.639 doesn't do super well with other dogs, so I had to say no. 220 00:13:33.120 --> 00:13:37.159 And then I get sad because we just we have one dog who his name 221 00:13:37.200 --> 00:13:43.480 is Boomer, and he's this he was like this overweight Golden Retriever and he 222 00:13:43.600 --> 00:13:48.240 had something was wrong with him, like his cells or something with his fat 223 00:13:48.279 --> 00:13:52.000 cells or something, so he was actually like sick or he was taking medicine 224 00:13:52.039 --> 00:13:54.440 for it, and that's why he was so overweight. But we're getting really 225 00:13:54.480 --> 00:13:58.960 sad because we haven't heard anything from the owners since the summer, and we're 226 00:13:58.000 --> 00:14:01.360 just like scared. Now we get like attached to some of the yeah, 227 00:14:01.399 --> 00:14:05.039 and we're scared that something's like happened because we haven't heard anything from them, 228 00:14:05.120 --> 00:14:07.919 and it's like, well, like maybe you reach out. I was like 229 00:14:09.279 --> 00:14:11.840 reach out to these people I've met twice and be like, yeah, hey, 230 00:14:11.840 --> 00:14:16.200 I have a dog hoos Boomer doing alive. Okay, serious, you 231 00:14:16.200 --> 00:14:20.039 don't have to answer this. Ten days watching one dog with the app taking 232 00:14:20.080 --> 00:14:22.519 money? Do you feel comfortable sharing like how much you would get for ten 233 00:14:22.600 --> 00:14:26.240 days with one dog? Yeah, I'm just curious. With one dog for 234 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:30.600 ten days, it's it's calculated with like per night, so but I'll just 235 00:14:30.600 --> 00:14:33.759 say ten nights to make it easy. It would be the app. So 236 00:14:33.840 --> 00:14:37.480 it's five hundred dollars total for someone to hire me, but the app takes 237 00:14:37.480 --> 00:14:41.080 twenty percent of that, so they get a portion of it. And I'm 238 00:14:41.080 --> 00:14:43.159 not entirely sure if there's like another fee on top of that, but I 239 00:14:43.320 --> 00:14:48.480 will see how much it costs them. But then Rover takes twenty percent off 240 00:14:48.480 --> 00:14:50.960 of that once I get paid, Okay, So I don't know if there's 241 00:14:50.960 --> 00:14:54.440 something above that for like five hundred dollars for ten days, and then if 242 00:14:54.440 --> 00:14:58.399 you have two dogs, it's I charged like fifty dollars for the first one 243 00:14:58.480 --> 00:15:01.879 and forty for the second one, but once again, that's before Rover takes 244 00:15:01.919 --> 00:15:05.519 the fees, so it's a little bit less if you have two dogs to 245 00:15:05.600 --> 00:15:09.440 have like a second dog. Okay, I don't know how kennels work, 246 00:15:09.480 --> 00:15:11.840 because I know part of me feels like wow, I thought I kind of 247 00:15:11.840 --> 00:15:15.879 assumed you made more. Oh no, But then also part of me is 248 00:15:15.919 --> 00:15:18.000 like, God, that's e fin expensive to have someone watch your dog, 249 00:15:18.120 --> 00:15:22.559 I know, because you're already paying yourself for your trip, which is probably 250 00:15:22.600 --> 00:15:24.879 expensive between flight and hotel and stuff, and then you have to do that 251 00:15:24.919 --> 00:15:28.039 with your dog on top of it. Gosh, I know. I mean, 252 00:15:28.440 --> 00:15:33.320 I tried to stay very I tried to make it enough money to make 253 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:35.440 it honestly worth it for me for sure, but like not too much that 254 00:15:35.519 --> 00:15:39.080 no one was ever gonna hire me. So I looked around, like other 255 00:15:39.080 --> 00:15:43.360 people around the neighborhood and stuff, and I'm pretty in the middle of what 256 00:15:43.399 --> 00:15:46.159 people charge and stuff. And I've only been doing it for a year, 257 00:15:46.240 --> 00:15:50.360 so other people have like five hundred ratings already, and so they probably can 258 00:15:50.440 --> 00:15:54.480 charge a little bit more, but even they don't charge that much more because 259 00:15:54.679 --> 00:15:56.960 you also have to compare it to like how much it costs to go to 260 00:15:56.000 --> 00:16:00.519 a kennel. And I don't think Kennel's charge more than like fifty d ish 261 00:16:00.600 --> 00:16:02.919 dollar dollars a day. Yeah, probably not. I don't know. I 262 00:16:02.919 --> 00:16:06.200 guess I don't remember. I think I did, like maybe looked into Kennel's 263 00:16:06.279 --> 00:16:10.240 once or twice. But then like the roverop came into play pretty early on, 264 00:16:10.360 --> 00:16:12.320 or I had like Tina Harry or whoever, like a friend watching them. 265 00:16:12.360 --> 00:16:17.080 My mom lives here now, so that's like really convenient. We got 266 00:16:17.200 --> 00:16:19.320 rid of our and I got rid of I mean, we adopted out Gravy 267 00:16:19.759 --> 00:16:23.759 yesterday. And I've been fostering two Palm Eranians, Gravy and Tato, and 268 00:16:23.759 --> 00:16:26.120 they're going to change his name, and I was so sad about it, 269 00:16:26.159 --> 00:16:29.879 like of course they can. Yeah, I didn't even care that they were 270 00:16:29.879 --> 00:16:32.519 going to change Tato's name because I'm like, I get that, but like 271 00:16:32.600 --> 00:16:36.440 Gravy was just so cute, but they're going to change his name and they're 272 00:16:36.480 --> 00:16:38.799 such a lovely family. And then I had a meet and greet Friday with 273 00:16:38.840 --> 00:16:44.639 a family for Tato, and I think that hopefully, I'm like, hopefully 274 00:16:44.639 --> 00:16:45.559 by the end of this week he will be gone too. And I don't 275 00:16:45.559 --> 00:16:48.639 mean that in a mean way, but like I am ready to stop cleaning 276 00:16:48.720 --> 00:16:52.159 up p and poop every ten seconds. I mean, those puppies pe and 277 00:16:52.200 --> 00:16:59.000 poop constantly, and I am over it. And it was a very good 278 00:16:59.080 --> 00:17:03.759 experience for me. I think I even said this last week to know I 279 00:17:03.799 --> 00:17:07.480 do not want a puppy, at least for a long long time. I 280 00:17:07.519 --> 00:17:11.319 mean, they are a lot of work. We haven't really watched many puppies 281 00:17:11.359 --> 00:17:15.359 with like our app but like if there's like a not very well trained dog, 282 00:17:15.680 --> 00:17:18.960 it becomes like really hard. Like honestly, we watched too recently that 283 00:17:21.440 --> 00:17:23.440 we watched them before and they never had accidents in the house, and then 284 00:17:23.480 --> 00:17:26.519 this time they were having accidents constantly, and we were like, what is 285 00:17:26.599 --> 00:17:30.119 going on? You guys were not like this last time. Yeah. I 286 00:17:30.160 --> 00:17:33.359 don't know if they picked up some bad habits since like the six months prior, 287 00:17:33.920 --> 00:17:37.599 but it was kind of exhausting. And then my friend's dog, she 288 00:17:38.160 --> 00:17:44.200 dropped her off and that night she just started puking everywhere, like constantly, 289 00:17:44.279 --> 00:17:47.640 and we had gone out for drinks or something and we came home and had 290 00:17:47.680 --> 00:17:51.559 to spend like an hour cleaning up puke in like seven different spots. And 291 00:17:51.599 --> 00:17:55.559 it's always on the damn rugs. Like, oh yeah, they would, 292 00:17:55.720 --> 00:18:02.680 they will. Animals they like just cannot do their business on the floor. 293 00:18:02.720 --> 00:18:04.720 It would be way too easy for them. Yeah, And then we found 294 00:18:04.759 --> 00:18:08.599 out when my friend picked her up after the weekend that she had ate a 295 00:18:08.680 --> 00:18:12.759 chapstick, and so because we were monitoring her because we were scared because she 296 00:18:12.839 --> 00:18:15.359 was she's a little bit older too, and we're like, okay, she 297 00:18:15.440 --> 00:18:21.079 got everything on Friday and then Saturday a little low key chill and that's kind 298 00:18:21.079 --> 00:18:23.000 of how she is anyways. But we just were like keeping an eye on 299 00:18:23.000 --> 00:18:26.119 her to make sure nothing was like actually really wrong. We just assumed she 300 00:18:26.160 --> 00:18:30.599 had ate something, and Andrew thought he saw something plastic. But I mean, 301 00:18:30.839 --> 00:18:33.200 yeah, like, don't get me wrong, I love watching dogs. 302 00:18:33.240 --> 00:18:37.319 But we've had, yeah, like our fair share of situations where we have 303 00:18:37.359 --> 00:18:41.200 to deal with things that you don't anticipate. But for the most part, 304 00:18:41.720 --> 00:18:45.559 the joy of having a dog around completely outweys having to clean up some poop. 305 00:18:45.640 --> 00:18:49.279 Everyone in a while, you said you had an email this week, 306 00:18:51.319 --> 00:18:56.559 so I'm not sure. Okay, so we're gonna call her Abby. I 307 00:18:56.559 --> 00:18:59.160 said, not my real name, and it says Hi, Jenny and Fallon. 308 00:18:59.599 --> 00:19:02.799 I have a situation I'm trying to work through, and I'm hoping your 309 00:19:02.960 --> 00:19:07.240 listeners can have some advice for me. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 310 00:19:07.279 --> 00:19:10.359 ten months now. Things are going amazing. I love him so much and 311 00:19:10.359 --> 00:19:11.839 I can easily see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He's 312 00:19:11.880 --> 00:19:15.640 the greatest man I've ever known, and I can't imagine my life without him. 313 00:19:15.799 --> 00:19:18.920 I've never felt this way about anyone, and I'm in my thirties. 314 00:19:18.319 --> 00:19:22.720 The issue that I'm struggling with is that he can't have any more kids. 315 00:19:22.759 --> 00:19:26.759 He currently has a young child and is recently divorced. He was very upfront 316 00:19:26.799 --> 00:19:30.160 with me right away about not being able to have more kids because of a 317 00:19:30.240 --> 00:19:33.599 vasectomy when we first started dating, but when I asked about potentially fostering or 318 00:19:33.599 --> 00:19:37.839 adopting, he said that door was slightly open. However, I could tell 319 00:19:37.880 --> 00:19:41.039 he was hesitant about even that answer. Fast forward to now and he has 320 00:19:41.039 --> 00:19:44.200 basically shut the door and said he really doesn't want any more kids. I 321 00:19:44.240 --> 00:19:45.880 told him when we first started dating that I really wanted a kid, but 322 00:19:45.920 --> 00:19:48.880 it wasn't a make or break deal in the beginning. But as we grow 323 00:19:48.880 --> 00:19:52.279 closer, and as I grow closer to his child, I can't stop thinking 324 00:19:52.319 --> 00:19:56.480 about it and how I want one of my own. I'm really torn. 325 00:19:56.559 --> 00:19:59.720 I love this man so much and his child is so great, which helps 326 00:19:59.720 --> 00:20:03.920 a time, but ultimately I'm not their mom. I'm curious if anyone else 327 00:20:03.960 --> 00:20:07.079 has been in a similar situation, because now I feel like I have to 328 00:20:07.119 --> 00:20:11.480 decide between wanting kids or marrying the love of my life. What would you 329 00:20:11.640 --> 00:20:17.440 do things happy? That's a That's a very tough one because they say when 330 00:20:17.440 --> 00:20:21.759 you get in a relationship, you have to agree on like three or four 331 00:20:21.839 --> 00:20:25.960 things that are very important. I think the top one is if we're having 332 00:20:26.000 --> 00:20:30.599 kids or not. You said you're in your thirties, so I'm going to 333 00:20:30.680 --> 00:20:33.240 be like a jerk here. Your time is limited to have kids, and 334 00:20:33.319 --> 00:20:37.640 some people fact, yeah, some people well, but some people are you 335 00:20:37.680 --> 00:20:40.079 know, women have kids in their forties and fifties or whatever, and that's 336 00:20:40.119 --> 00:20:44.880 true. But everyone knows the older you get, the higher risk you have 337 00:20:45.119 --> 00:20:52.440 with various things going wrong and which shout out to women's biological clocks as like 338 00:20:52.440 --> 00:20:56.640 like the men are having them when they're ninety years old. So for me, 339 00:20:57.720 --> 00:21:03.759 I would say I find it interesting Number one that he said he couldn't 340 00:21:03.799 --> 00:21:08.519 have kids. V sectomies are reversible, and I mean don't think there are 341 00:21:08.519 --> 00:21:12.480 many that aren't reversible this day and age. However, he was very clear 342 00:21:12.559 --> 00:21:19.759 upfront about that. So that's something that you guys talked about adoption very serious 343 00:21:19.799 --> 00:21:23.839 commitment and discussion and conversation, and I don't know, I kind of get 344 00:21:23.880 --> 00:21:26.759 like he's done it, so it's easy for him to be like, I 345 00:21:26.799 --> 00:21:30.039 don't really want anymore. I mean when I met Jake, he had kind 346 00:21:30.039 --> 00:21:33.920 of nothing. He was closed off. He just had kind of decided in 347 00:21:33.960 --> 00:21:37.160 his head he probably wasn't having anymore because Dylan was nine when I met him, 348 00:21:37.160 --> 00:21:38.279 So I think Jake just kind of thought, probably won't have any more 349 00:21:38.359 --> 00:21:42.759 kids. I don't know. At the end of the day, it comes 350 00:21:42.799 --> 00:21:47.319 down to how important is having a kid with you. He's pretty much telling 351 00:21:47.359 --> 00:21:51.319 you it's not happening with him, and I know the other kid isn't yours, 352 00:21:51.559 --> 00:21:55.680 But I also I have a friend who she met the love of her 353 00:21:55.799 --> 00:21:56.720 life. She said, I just talked to her. She used to work 354 00:21:56.720 --> 00:22:00.839 here at the radio station, not Katie, but a different station, And 355 00:22:00.880 --> 00:22:03.680 she met the love of her life later in life, and they already had 356 00:22:03.680 --> 00:22:07.880 a kid who she loved, but they were like, you know what, 357 00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:10.240 let's try to have a kid. They went to the doctor and she said 358 00:22:10.240 --> 00:22:11.240 at the time, the doctor laughed at I'm like, you two are too 359 00:22:11.240 --> 00:22:15.400 old at this point, and they're like, oh, okay. And she 360 00:22:15.400 --> 00:22:18.359 said it took her a minute because she had kind of decided I do want 361 00:22:18.400 --> 00:22:19.799 a kid with him, and then it took a minute and she's like, 362 00:22:19.920 --> 00:22:23.279 and I'm okay with it, Like he was enough for me and his kid 363 00:22:23.359 --> 00:22:27.079 was enough for me, and I'm fine. But that's not always going to 364 00:22:27.119 --> 00:22:33.720 be the case for everyone. Yeah, it's hard to say with someone like 365 00:22:33.880 --> 00:22:37.480 me personally, I have zero experience of like making a decision about a kid. 366 00:22:38.119 --> 00:22:41.720 And Andrew and I are both very up in the air on that decision 367 00:22:41.839 --> 00:22:48.720 ourselves. So I feel like when you're so, I feel resentment is the 368 00:22:48.759 --> 00:22:52.680 word I'm trying to find. Yeah, I think you have to like weigh 369 00:22:52.759 --> 00:22:56.559 how much resentment you potentially could have towards him if you decide to stay with 370 00:22:56.640 --> 00:23:03.400 him and not have any kids that are just your or two versus will your 371 00:23:03.480 --> 00:23:08.119 life be fulfilling without him? And that's hard to say because that's the both 372 00:23:08.160 --> 00:23:12.319 are the unknown, you know, And it's also it's like, of course 373 00:23:12.759 --> 00:23:17.839 he is like the love of your life. I personally think that I think 374 00:23:17.880 --> 00:23:22.640 you can find true love in multiple different ways and in different kinds of love. 375 00:23:22.200 --> 00:23:26.720 So I'm not saying that if you left him you wouldn't be able to 376 00:23:26.720 --> 00:23:29.359 find someone else or anything. I think you very much could. But I 377 00:23:29.400 --> 00:23:33.039 get that the fear of leaving someone who you know is like perfect for you 378 00:23:33.119 --> 00:23:37.039 and then never finding that again. Well that and also you do I mean, 379 00:23:37.119 --> 00:23:38.279 my friend Abby has gone through this. You do the numbers game. 380 00:23:38.640 --> 00:23:42.680 Okay, Let's say I even met someone in the next year, you would 381 00:23:42.680 --> 00:23:47.160 need to be with them at least what a year before you even get engaged, 382 00:23:47.200 --> 00:23:48.799 and then maybe you get married with him blah blah blah. And then 383 00:23:48.799 --> 00:23:52.599 if you're lucky enough to get pregnant, like you start when women when they 384 00:23:52.680 --> 00:23:53.880 hit a certain age, you start like mentally playing this game. If you 385 00:23:53.880 --> 00:23:57.200 want to be able to have a kid. It sucks. Yeah, So 386 00:23:57.559 --> 00:24:03.720 I think you're answer is within yourself. Wow, thank you Buddha. I 387 00:24:03.799 --> 00:24:08.079 don't know, no, Okay, oh my god. I mean it's such 388 00:24:08.079 --> 00:24:11.039 a serious topic. I like, don't I get it, Like you just 389 00:24:11.200 --> 00:24:17.799 have to decide what is more important. I do agree with Jenny. I 390 00:24:17.799 --> 00:24:21.880 I don't know that I believe in one soulmate. I almost think you can 391 00:24:21.920 --> 00:24:25.640 have multiple soulmates. And I know that some people will never agree with that 392 00:24:26.920 --> 00:24:30.680 because maybe they found like one and they were happy with that one forever. 393 00:24:32.240 --> 00:24:34.400 But I don't know. I just like I think, like for me, 394 00:24:34.640 --> 00:24:37.480 I don't want to ever be with anyone other than Jake. I can't imagine 395 00:24:37.519 --> 00:24:45.200 anyone ever being better for me than him. But like if it's hard for 396 00:24:45.240 --> 00:24:47.200 me to imagine too, because I just like, if he would have said 397 00:24:47.240 --> 00:24:48.200 absolutely no kids, I think I would have been like, oh okay, 398 00:24:48.759 --> 00:24:53.359 yeah, because I didn't want them that much to begin with, right, 399 00:24:53.640 --> 00:24:57.799 So it's different. I Mean I've had some friends who have been sort of 400 00:24:57.839 --> 00:25:04.440 in similar situation, and the thing is is that one of the other person 401 00:25:04.559 --> 00:25:07.640 kind of bended a little bit. Like I had a friend who thought that 402 00:25:08.039 --> 00:25:15.200 they wanted kids that her partner was like, I don't think so it's just 403 00:25:15.240 --> 00:25:18.319 like not my thing. They almost broke up. Then they talked about it 404 00:25:18.359 --> 00:25:21.079 again and he kind of was like, no, it can be on the 405 00:25:21.119 --> 00:25:26.359 table because that's how much I value the relationship. So I don't know. 406 00:25:26.440 --> 00:25:30.119 If it's like really really something you want and he is such a hard no, 407 00:25:30.839 --> 00:25:33.839 then you really have to think about it. Yeah, our mutual well 408 00:25:33.200 --> 00:25:37.240 more so my friend, but you know him. He got a vasectomy and 409 00:25:37.519 --> 00:25:38.920 then he got married and she wanted kids, and he's like, okay, 410 00:25:38.960 --> 00:25:42.960 they like had that conversation before marriage, so he got a reversal. And 411 00:25:44.000 --> 00:25:47.279 I don't know what their timeline is or if they've tried or none, that's 412 00:25:47.319 --> 00:25:49.480 my business. But he was like dead set, I'll never have kids. 413 00:25:49.480 --> 00:25:52.440 Then he met her and I was like, oh, okay, I'm going 414 00:25:52.480 --> 00:25:55.799 to get a reversal because she does want kids and I want kids with her. 415 00:25:56.319 --> 00:25:57.839 So yeah, I don't, I mean, I don't. I guess 416 00:25:57.839 --> 00:26:02.319 I don't love the idea that he's not willing to be flexible in any way 417 00:26:02.759 --> 00:26:08.400 for your desires. You know that stinks, it does, But and I 418 00:26:08.400 --> 00:26:11.680 don't know that we're any help If anyone has any advice for her that maybe 419 00:26:11.680 --> 00:26:17.039 has been in a similar situation, then you can email either of a Stallin 420 00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:19.359 or Jenny at kadiewb dot com. I'm like itching my skin right now as 421 00:26:19.400 --> 00:26:23.480 you're like finishing that and I have I just had this laser treatment done, 422 00:26:23.559 --> 00:26:26.599 so I know I'm flaking dead skin all over the place. It's not my 423 00:26:26.759 --> 00:26:30.079 studio. I don't care, you're right, I'm just that we're in Drake's 424 00:26:30.079 --> 00:26:33.880 studio actually right now, and it's just it's disgusting. Do you use my 425 00:26:33.920 --> 00:26:36.599 microphone now, by the way, or do you use you still use yours? 426 00:26:36.680 --> 00:26:38.200 Yeah, in the other studio where I'm not putt my hot breath on 427 00:26:38.240 --> 00:26:41.200 your microphone. I didn't think I smelled you, so I thought we're good 428 00:26:41.279 --> 00:26:44.200 there. But oh, I still use the other one because I got to 429 00:26:44.240 --> 00:26:47.559 have access to the computer stuff, so I know over there. Yeah, 430 00:26:47.599 --> 00:26:49.079 it's such a visual thing. I'm sorry. I just like I was wondering, 431 00:26:49.440 --> 00:26:52.799 but I always like go in. I have to use more of your 432 00:26:52.839 --> 00:26:55.480 side of stuff now than I used to, like with the phone and stuff, 433 00:26:56.119 --> 00:27:00.640 and I get so frustrated because the phone is nowhere near me, and 434 00:27:00.680 --> 00:27:03.599 so I have to get up and Ted or Vaunt or someone is always sitting 435 00:27:03.640 --> 00:27:07.839 in your seat and I have to like almost lean over their lap to reach 436 00:27:07.880 --> 00:27:11.519 the phone, like get out of the way. But yeah, anyway, 437 00:27:12.119 --> 00:27:15.519 we are in Drake Studio today. Where about a time? So is there 438 00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:19.440 anything else you would like to add to today's podcast? Jenny Andrew told me 439 00:27:19.480 --> 00:27:22.319 over the weekend that he could look like Nelly if you tried, And by 440 00:27:22.319 --> 00:27:25.720 that, I mean he thinks that he could have like a six pack of 441 00:27:25.720 --> 00:27:27.599 abs if he tried, because he was why did he pick Nelly of all 442 00:27:27.640 --> 00:27:32.359 people? That's what? Why did he pick someone like the guy who just 443 00:27:32.400 --> 00:27:37.400 won the Golden Globe for the bear who just had the amazing Calvin Klein as 444 00:27:37.720 --> 00:27:41.240 why would he pick that? Say something real quickcause now I'm going to sidetrack 445 00:27:41.319 --> 00:27:45.640 my own story. But I wanted to share his posts of him and tell 446 00:27:45.720 --> 00:27:51.119 me too. But then I felt like it's inappropriate because boyfriend. No, 447 00:27:51.119 --> 00:27:52.359 no, no, That's not why I felt like it was inappropriate, because 448 00:27:52.359 --> 00:27:55.519 I was like, I have a boyfriend. I can't be like putting all 449 00:27:55.559 --> 00:27:59.000 this like sexual content out there. Forget that, But God, did he 450 00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:03.400 look good. I The reason I didn't was because every time we do something 451 00:28:03.400 --> 00:28:07.279 like that, people like you would be so mad if a guy did that 452 00:28:07.319 --> 00:28:08.839 with a woman, And so I'm like, oh my god, you're right. 453 00:28:08.920 --> 00:28:11.960 I don't think I would care if you share. If Margot Robbie had 454 00:28:11.960 --> 00:28:17.119 a hot af Calvin Klein thing, I would probably share that as well. 455 00:28:17.119 --> 00:28:18.920 And if a guy that I wouldn't care. But I get it. His 456 00:28:19.000 --> 00:28:21.720 name is Jeremy Allen. White. By the way, just came in my 457 00:28:21.759 --> 00:28:26.839 head. I couldn't think it, but I don't know. I also side 458 00:28:26.880 --> 00:28:30.200 note, I started. I watched two things this weekend. Good Grief, 459 00:28:30.319 --> 00:28:33.559 the new Dan Levy movie on Netflix. He wrote, and he's the guy 460 00:28:33.559 --> 00:28:37.799 from Shit's Creek he wrote, and I think either producer directed it, and 461 00:28:37.839 --> 00:28:40.359 I thought it was good. It wasn't like amazing, but it was like 462 00:28:40.880 --> 00:28:45.519 good sweet. And then we started watching a new show on Apple TV. 463 00:28:45.640 --> 00:28:49.200 It's actually on Showtime, so we must have Showtime through Apple and it's called 464 00:28:51.079 --> 00:28:52.880 The Curse or Cursed. I think it's the Curse, and it has Emma 465 00:28:53.279 --> 00:28:59.480 Stone in it. It is one of the weirdest shows ever and Jake and 466 00:28:59.480 --> 00:29:02.759 I have been It's like that was just one for things on the Golden globes 467 00:29:02.839 --> 00:29:07.279 or that's her movie Poor Things Okay, which also looks very bizarre and unique. 468 00:29:07.440 --> 00:29:11.839 But Curse is like this couple. They're the most bizarre couple ever and 469 00:29:11.839 --> 00:29:17.359 they're trying to get an HGTV show about how like her homes where they're kind 470 00:29:17.400 --> 00:29:22.680 of like self sustaining environments on the inside, and they're like rich white people 471 00:29:22.920 --> 00:29:26.880 going into like this native I think it's mostly Native. There might be some 472 00:29:26.920 --> 00:29:30.720 Spanish people in the community and almost kind of like gentrifying it, but they're 473 00:29:30.720 --> 00:29:34.880 trying to angle it like they're not and it's like so bizarre and weird, 474 00:29:36.079 --> 00:29:40.599 and he is one of the most awkward characters I've ever experienced, and they 475 00:29:40.640 --> 00:29:44.880 have no passion. And I don't want to give anything away, but there 476 00:29:44.960 --> 00:29:48.279 is like a scene in the first episode or two that shows is Penis and 477 00:29:48.319 --> 00:29:52.599 you are not prepared for what it shows. Yeah, and Jake and I 478 00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:56.039 both just stopped and we're like, wait a minute, and we started laughing, 479 00:29:56.319 --> 00:30:02.079 and it was just unexpected. And there have been so many weird, 480 00:30:02.799 --> 00:30:07.079 uncomfortable consistently. I don't know anyway, if you looking for something so weird 481 00:30:07.160 --> 00:30:12.839 and different it's that would be a recommendation I have on Apple. Yeah it's 482 00:30:12.920 --> 00:30:15.720 on Showtime Okay, okay, but what we watch it through Apple TV? 483 00:30:17.119 --> 00:30:19.240 Nice? All right, that's it for real. Okay, all right, 484 00:30:19.359 --> 00:30:22.119 So Andrey's getting a six pack like Nellie? Then, yeah, I just 485 00:30:22.160 --> 00:30:26.480 told them I look got distracted on Cher Calvin. He had lifted his shirt 486 00:30:26.559 --> 00:30:30.119 up and put his stomach in my face and I was just like feeling his 487 00:30:30.200 --> 00:30:33.359 non existent abs, and which is I'm fine with. He doesn't need to 488 00:30:33.400 --> 00:30:37.440 have abs. And I kind of just like started examining his like chest and 489 00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:41.240 stomach area, and I go, babe, you have like really the build 490 00:30:41.279 --> 00:30:42.880 of someone who could just he's like be ripped. Oh yeah, I could 491 00:30:42.880 --> 00:30:45.359 look like Nelly if I wanted to, is what he said. And I 492 00:30:45.400 --> 00:30:48.440 go Nelly. He goes, yeah, oh I could of all the people, 493 00:30:48.720 --> 00:30:52.400 That's what happened. And once again, I don't care that he doesn't 494 00:30:52.440 --> 00:30:56.799 have abs. Some people are built to be able to just kind of easily 495 00:30:57.359 --> 00:31:03.640 have that physique. And he us and you have those apps if you wanted, 496 00:31:03.839 --> 00:31:06.960 get one little abrowll ers Jenny. That's all he needs. All right, 497 00:31:07.039 --> 00:31:07.240 Thanks for listening. Have a good one