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I'm Stephanie Wilder 9 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:07,560 Taylor and with me so excited again for third show this week is Julie Case. 10 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:11,359 Thanks guys. I'm totally missing Lynette and I would love to do a 11 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:15,519 show with if you guys will have me. Of course with Lynette here s, 12 00:01:17,359 --> 00:01:21,840 but I appreciate that you guys asked me back in Lynette's stead. Everybody 13 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:26,079 loves Julie casem about everybody. Oh yeah, everybody never heard one negative thing. 14 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:30,000 And you know these people are not afraid to express negativity. But if 15 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:34,680 you guys do have some constructive criticism, no, no, Mill, open 16 00:01:34,799 --> 00:01:40,079 up. I'm totally open to constructive criticis why why you're doing as a favor. 17 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,040 You don't need to be what? I don't know because if like I'm 18 00:01:42,079 --> 00:01:45,519 doing something that's annoying, I want to know about it. Of course not 19 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,159 of course, not take it from me. Do not open the door to 20 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:55,200 that. You will regret it so hard. Uh. I'm going to do 21 00:01:55,400 --> 00:02:00,599 a quick shout out to our special people. We got Dick frolicking foocking, 22 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:06,040 nick yep, Rachel not a newcomer anymore, love her, Kelly LADDI da 23 00:02:06,519 --> 00:02:10,919 Lauren to get his gold, Katie's rolling on e Aaron, who is or 24 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:19,439 like that one too, Nikki call your girls. Leslie is accosting people on 25 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,120 the daily god girl, and the other one is coughing up a storm. 26 00:02:23,319 --> 00:02:25,439 I don't know what she has. Oh I have the story related to that 27 00:02:25,479 --> 00:02:30,719 though. Rita's Rock and Elizabeth Williamson's many children and her Basonette and Athena. 28 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:36,439 Love your dancing and your lipstick and Polly. We love your pancakes. Syrup 29 00:02:36,759 --> 00:02:42,039 Zyrup Salary, Bubba Fenwick gets out of the park, Katerina, get the 30 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,719 moler checked or wear a nightguard. That's all I have to say to you. 31 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:51,840 Gabby and Missy up to no good? Never out out Northridge? Your 32 00:02:51,879 --> 00:02:54,879 country? Are they? Yeah? They're wandering. Gabby and Missy live in 33 00:02:54,919 --> 00:03:02,319 Northridge. Noh vajpac When is so cute? Kelly Brandt is your aunt, 34 00:03:04,159 --> 00:03:07,400 She'll take your places. Alicia ask Galante from the City of Almonte, Leslie, 35 00:03:07,479 --> 00:03:14,080 we already talked about you. Stephanie Stinker rinker Is wants to give her 36 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,039 shout out to the Trevor Project, so we love you for that. Thank 37 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:23,280 you, Steph. Sarah Stefano, she's our Paisano, Aaron Dirty Sanchez, 38 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:28,719 Jennifer get up, Sandra. It's not easy being green and Christa gets strapped, 39 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,840 and I just want to say for Stephanie Rinkert's not it's not the regular 40 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:39,280 shout out. She upped way up to Patreon so that we could really dive 41 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:44,520 in and understand that the Trevor Project is so needed right now, especially in 42 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,840 today's political climate. We got to protect our kids, our LGBT. Kiss 43 00:03:47,879 --> 00:03:53,840 sure, and the Trevor Project is a very well known, really hard working 44 00:03:53,919 --> 00:03:58,159 charity, so please consider giving them a donation. Thank you, Steph. 45 00:03:58,639 --> 00:04:04,400 Yeah, hi, hello, whoh listen, Yes we're momings so hard right 46 00:04:04,599 --> 00:04:10,240 in summer time? Had summertime? You just finished teaching? Okay, still 47 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:15,719 a teacher so yeah, well not a teacher, but a TA for the 48 00:04:15,759 --> 00:04:18,839 fourth and fifth graders. You know, I have to say these kids. 49 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,399 I know it sounds so cliche how teachers are, like, oh, I 50 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:27,600 just love these kids, you know, but I do like when you walk 51 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:32,120 in, you know what it is, kids in general are very optimistic and 52 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:38,319 happy people. So to be around that all day long is really like it 53 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,800 feeds the soul, you know, like they just want to laugh, They 54 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,480 just want to have fun, They just want to like a lot of them, 55 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,920 you know, try their best and academically and like you know, really 56 00:04:48,959 --> 00:04:53,319 try hard. And when you help them, it's like so rewarding. And 57 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:57,399 then if they you know, you know, write a great essay or whatever 58 00:04:57,439 --> 00:05:00,040 they do, you know, get their math problem right, and then and 59 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,720 you just see how excited they are, and you know, after they've gone 60 00:05:03,759 --> 00:05:09,800 through so much frustration, it's really like awesome. So yes, I'm still 61 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,720 doing it, enjoying it very much. Ready for summer though, you know, 62 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,079 because you are with kids all day every day, So there's that. 63 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,759 Yeah, there's that. But it's been a it was a great year. 64 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:25,000 And and now I'm I'm on summer break. Sophie's on summer break, Bella. 65 00:05:25,199 --> 00:05:28,800 This is her last week of school. She'll be on summer break pretty 66 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,040 soon. But Bella, for those of you who don't know or don't remember, 67 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:36,480 is that UCLA. Yeah, so you're gonna be what I know. 68 00:05:36,639 --> 00:05:41,720 It's so cute. They're finally at the same school all these years. Yeah, 69 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,759 and they've been hanging out. Yeah. Yeah. We went to Disneyland 70 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:49,680 together. Yep. So this is for anybody on Disneyland. I was like, 71 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,360 oh my god, is LB going nuts being at Disneyland for so long? 72 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,240 Okay? She I think she was fine. She said there were parts 73 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,639 of it that were really fun, and then there were parts of it that 74 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:05,079 were like a lot of long lines and it was hot, and apparently Sophie 75 00:06:06,439 --> 00:06:10,240 wanted they wanted to stay. Sophie and her friend wanted to stay till I 76 00:06:10,319 --> 00:06:14,759 toget eleven o'clock at night and Elby and Bella were finally just like no, 77 00:06:14,879 --> 00:06:17,160 we're going, We're leaving. They were there, they left it like six 78 00:06:17,199 --> 00:06:20,920 in the morning. Yes, yeah, So Bella brought a friend lb and 79 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:25,279 then Sophie brought a friend right, and Sophie and her friend wanted to get 80 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,439 there when it opened and leave when it closed at like eleven o'clock at night, 81 00:06:28,959 --> 00:06:30,079 and Bella was the one driving. And I'm like, you're the one 82 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,279 driving. Bella. It was at this point, like I don't know, 83 00:06:32,319 --> 00:06:34,600 seven at night. She was like, dude, already to bounce. I'm 84 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,759 like, give Sophie an hour's notice. We're going to leave in an hour. 85 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,959 And that's that You're the one driving, Like too bad. Yeah, 86 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:46,040 So that's what they did. Yeah, but it's not like they missed out 87 00:06:46,199 --> 00:06:49,600 on they were there all day. Yeah. And then apparently in the middle 88 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:56,759 of the day, Elbe had to was trying to sign up for orientation and 89 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:58,879 it's like it was like a thing. She said, it was like trying 90 00:06:58,879 --> 00:07:01,560 to win concert tickets. She's like, you had to keep going into these 91 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:05,079 cues. She was like, Mom, it's like this really intense process and 92 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:09,720 I have to do it now in order and then she still ended up with 93 00:07:09,759 --> 00:07:13,360 a date that's like well into July. But oh that's okay, Yeah, 94 00:07:13,399 --> 00:07:15,199 it's not that bad. Is this the thing where she's on campus for a 95 00:07:15,199 --> 00:07:19,879 weekend or like a couple of nights. Apparently the transfer students don't go overnight. 96 00:07:20,079 --> 00:07:25,519 It's just a lot a day. Okay, it's kind of a bummer 97 00:07:25,519 --> 00:07:28,920 because I think she wanted to do the weekend. Yeah exactly, Yeah, 98 00:07:28,959 --> 00:07:32,759 but it's it's not so but yeah, but she that's but it's where you 99 00:07:33,079 --> 00:07:39,000 get your classes. You pick your classes you I don't know, but no, 100 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,920 you pick your weekdays. And this will be a good segue for you. 101 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:47,199 Her roommates that she chose from Instagram, you know, got a different 102 00:07:47,439 --> 00:07:51,800 they've they ended up together on a different day, so she was kind of 103 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,360 bummed about that. You know, I will say, you'll meet you'll meet 104 00:07:55,480 --> 00:08:00,680 people. Bella's good friends are the ones she met at the Oriented actually, 105 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,199 and they still hang out. But I was gonna tell you really quickly going 106 00:08:03,199 --> 00:08:07,519 back to Disneyland. Did Elbe tell you that she woke up nauseous? So 107 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,160 they got up at like six in the morning, or maybe even earlier because 108 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:13,120 they were gonna leave it six and all of a sudden, Bella's wakes me 109 00:08:13,199 --> 00:08:16,680 up. She's like, mom, I'm like what she like? Elbie's nauseous. 110 00:08:16,759 --> 00:08:18,959 I go into the bathroom. She's like over the toilet. I was 111 00:08:18,959 --> 00:08:22,480 like, oh, no, my god, what Ally's like. I don't 112 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,360 know, maybe it's like something I ate this and that. I was like 113 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,639 Zofran to the rescue. So I gave her a zofran. Oh yeah, 114 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,399 And I was like, God, the last thing she's gonna want to do 115 00:08:31,519 --> 00:08:35,279 is go to Disneyland and be on these rides. But then she already spent 116 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,159 they did, you know, a park hopper, So they spent over two 117 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:41,360 hundred bucks on these tickets, and I was like, oh my god, 118 00:08:41,919 --> 00:08:45,679 this is gonna suck for many reasons. Because l Be sick, Bella's gonna 119 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,360 has nobody to go with, Like she just Elbe's gonna waste two hundred bucks 120 00:08:48,399 --> 00:08:52,159 down the drain. And within twenty minutes or whatever, fifteen minutes, the 121 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,559 zofran kicked in and Elbie's like, all right, let's go. I was 122 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,840 like, what Elbie like? She doesn't mess around, she motivates, So 123 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,120 she went and had a great day. I did give her two more ZO 124 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,600 free for the rest of the day. I'm like, you can take it 125 00:09:05,639 --> 00:09:09,440 every six hours if you need to, because there's nothing worse than being away 126 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:11,840 from home and feeling like yeah yeah, but I don't think she needed the 127 00:09:11,879 --> 00:09:15,360 other two. And then she was fine, Oh that's good. Yeah, 128 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:20,879 so that happened, but she did it. I know she lasted anyway. 129 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:24,000 Going back to roommates, so I have like a roommate story with Bella. 130 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:31,080 So ah, okay, So Bella met one of her roommates who's also an 131 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:35,200 acting major at the acting orientation, and it was one of those things when 132 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:39,759 you when you first get accepted, you're like, Okay, gotta find a 133 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,840 roommate like quick, because you want to be able to like, you know, 134 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,799 put in your preferences, you want to like you just need to get 135 00:09:45,799 --> 00:09:48,519 that process done quickly so that you don't lose out. So I was like, 136 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:56,440 no, this girl seems really nice, like let's call her whatever. 137 00:09:56,759 --> 00:09:58,320 No, well, okay, no, well that's a good one. Yeah. 138 00:09:58,399 --> 00:10:01,919 So no, well seems super cool. Blah blah blah. They started 139 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,480 talking and then they're like, okay, great, let's be roommates. And 140 00:10:05,519 --> 00:10:11,200 then Bella found a third but they were like, we want to just have 141 00:10:11,279 --> 00:10:13,159 two people in our room. But if we have to have a third, 142 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,080 let's come up with a third. So Bella found a third on Instagram, 143 00:10:16,159 --> 00:10:20,399 same thing like the UCLA acceptance page, and they started talking and she really 144 00:10:20,519 --> 00:10:26,360 liked her, but Noel didn't feel as connected as Bella did. So Noel 145 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,039 is like, I don't know, she's not getting back to my text messages, 146 00:10:28,039 --> 00:10:33,919 blah blah blah. But there's this other girl that maybe we can have. 147 00:10:33,039 --> 00:10:39,080 And like this other girl is like like an Instagram model, like you 148 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,879 know, bathing suits Chloe's and bathing suits and this and that, and we're 149 00:10:41,919 --> 00:10:46,639 likely, but we're like, well, she got into UCLA, so clearly 150 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,399 she's like very bright, very motivated, right, or she was on the 151 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:58,120 rowing team exactly, so so they were photographs on a rowing machine really well 152 00:10:58,279 --> 00:11:01,960 exactly. So they requested the two but they ended up So then the Bella's 153 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,679 like, fine, if we want Chloe, that's fine, let's request a 154 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,000 two bedroom, but if we have to have a three bedroom, Chloe will 155 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,600 join us. So they didn't get the two bedroom, they got the three 156 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,799 bedroom. Chloe joined them. Over the summer, they were like trying to 157 00:11:13,799 --> 00:11:16,080 communicate a lot to get to know each other and this and that. But 158 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:20,440 Chloe is from LA, Noel is from out of state. Chloe from LA 159 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:24,120 was like kind of know where to be found. She was really chatty at 160 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:24,960 first and then kind of dropped off. So they were like, well, 161 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:28,919 this is weird. And then like, but Noel's the one who loved Chloe 162 00:11:30,039 --> 00:11:33,159 so much from the Yeah, and Noel and Chloe were friends, but then 163 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,720 Noel's like, I don't know, Chloe like dropped off. Like even one 164 00:11:35,759 --> 00:11:39,240 of Chloe's friends contacted Noel and was like, do you know where Chloe is? 165 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:43,240 Like it was weird. She had gone to Europe, so they didn't 166 00:11:43,279 --> 00:11:46,879 know. It was kind of weird. But anyway, so then they started 167 00:11:46,879 --> 00:11:50,679 school and Chloe didn't really move in, Like she was kind of funny like 168 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:54,600 for the first three weeks of school because she's like I said, she lives 169 00:11:54,639 --> 00:11:58,200 down the street from UCLA her house. Oh yeah, but she came and 170 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,919 she brought like two outpha and hung them in the closet and Belle was like, 171 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:05,039 mom, this is hilarious. Like Chloe came and like made her bed 172 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:09,320 and put like two outfits and that's it, like just kind of random you 173 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:13,159 know, like, right is this. Eventually, within the next month or 174 00:12:13,159 --> 00:12:16,600 so, she did fully move in and they all really like each other a 175 00:12:16,639 --> 00:12:18,399 lot there every night or does she go home a lot? Since she's down 176 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:24,679 the street, she started sleeping there more and more, and then by second 177 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:26,960 semester it was like all the time. Yeah. So on the weekends though, 178 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,679 she'll leave or come or she likes to really go out and have a 179 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,879 good time, and so does Noel, and so does Bella for that matter. 180 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:37,279 But Noel and Chloe really like to have a good time. Like they're 181 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:41,039 out till all hours of the night. They're just those people. They're just 182 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:43,320 like and Bella's like, dude, I need my sleep, I've got this 183 00:12:43,399 --> 00:12:45,840 in the morning, I've got this, Like I don't know. Bella just 184 00:12:45,879 --> 00:12:48,960 always has stuff going on, you know, and she's just some people can 185 00:12:48,039 --> 00:12:52,279 party all night, wake up and be completely fine the next day. Bella's 186 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,440 not one of them. You know. She can do that maybe once fine, 187 00:12:54,480 --> 00:13:01,480 but like it can't be in every weekend thing. So so then so 188 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,679 they all become really good friends and they all go out together. And then 189 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,600 Bella is in one sorority, Noel's in a different sorority, and Chloe is 190 00:13:07,639 --> 00:13:11,440 not in a sorority, so they all have their like own friends and their 191 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,600 own thing, but they all come back together and they'll hang out together as 192 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:20,399 well. So now Noel is also an acting major and works a lot, 193 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:24,480 actually gets a lot of commercials. She's gorgeous, she's talented, she's all 194 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:30,759 the things. So she's like always working. So she started borrowing Bella's car 195 00:13:30,799 --> 00:13:33,279 because Bella, by the way, has her car on the UCLA campus, 196 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:39,600 which as a freshman is unheard of. But because Jamille works there, we 197 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,159 were able to get a second permit, so she was able to have her 198 00:13:41,159 --> 00:13:46,240 car. So for Noel, she took an outside acting class every Saturday. 199 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,360 So she's like, Bella's like, dude, take my car driving to Hollywood, 200 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,480 dear acting class. It was really you know, it just worked out 201 00:13:50,519 --> 00:13:56,080 well. So it became kind of a normal thing that Noel would borrow Bella's 202 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,080 car to go to jobs or whatever. No big deal. You know. 203 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:01,320 Bella's like the of course, that's totally fine. And we love Noel's parents, 204 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,440 like love them. So the parents are like, are you sure that's 205 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:07,080 so sweet of you. Guys were like, oh my god, of meet 206 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:13,039 the parents on movin Day. Okay, Noel saw I think Noel saw a 207 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,360 picture of me or something, and she was like, oh my god, 208 00:14:15,399 --> 00:14:18,919 my mom and your mom are like the same person, like very sporty and 209 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,639 this and that. And sure enough when we met, we were just completely 210 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:24,320 hit it off. Like we've played pickleball together, We've gone out to lunch 211 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:33,000 together, like I really do love her parents are so awesome and so and 212 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:37,519 so. But anyway, so, like I want to say, six weeks 213 00:14:37,559 --> 00:14:43,240 ago, would you say, Yeah, Bella went out without Noel and Chloe, 214 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:46,559 but got back at like I want to say, like ten thirty eleven, 215 00:14:46,679 --> 00:14:48,600 and she went to bed. It was like a Saturday night. I 216 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,720 think it was a Saturday night. She was tired, she had she's in 217 00:14:52,799 --> 00:14:56,080 this place, so she had to get up for rehearsals this that. So 218 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:00,480 she went to bed and the next day she wakes up and Noel and Chloe 219 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,559 are like, oh my god, last night was crazy. We partied till 220 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:07,200 so late, and then at three in the morning we decided to go to 221 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,039 the beach. So the beach is like ten minutes from UCLA, right, 222 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:15,600 would you say, like, especially without far in the morning, just down 223 00:15:15,679 --> 00:15:20,039 Wilshure Okay, yeah, I'd say ten fifteen minutes. Okay. Yeah. 224 00:15:20,159 --> 00:15:22,919 So they're like, oh my god, we went to the beach all night. 225 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,519 Ha ha, you know, so fun blah blah. And Belle's like, 226 00:15:24,559 --> 00:15:28,200 oh my god, that's so cool. This is that and that was 227 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:33,120 the end of it. So then Bella same day gets in her car to 228 00:15:33,159 --> 00:15:39,639 go somewhere and they're sand everywhere. Belle's like wait what. She's like, 229 00:15:39,799 --> 00:15:46,159 I'm so good. There's like like like McDonald or whatever, like like food 230 00:15:46,279 --> 00:15:48,440 food in the car and then like McDonald's shakes, you know, like in 231 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:52,519 the in the cup holder cup holders and all that. And Belle's like, 232 00:15:52,399 --> 00:15:56,440 oh my god, did they take my car to the beach, like you 233 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,320 know, anytime no one wants to borrow the car. Of course she asks, 234 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,559 you know, she's not gonna take the car because they have to partate 235 00:16:00,559 --> 00:16:06,679 schedules and stuff, so dude. So then Bella was like, oh my 236 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,799 god, I think they took my car. Like they told me this whole 237 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,399 story of how they went out, this and that, but they never mentioned 238 00:16:11,399 --> 00:16:15,200 that they took my car. This is weird. So then Bella runs into 239 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:19,639 Noel's friend and Noel's friend starts telling Bella a story of oh my god, 240 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,399 we all went to the beach blah blah blah, and Belle's like, okay, 241 00:16:22,399 --> 00:16:26,080 wait, did you guys this is a third person that went with them, 242 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,840 did you guys take my car? She's like yeah. Belle's like, 243 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:34,440 what the fuck do me? That's crazy? What? Like, I don't 244 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:40,279 know. I would imagine they had had a few drinks. If they're partying, 245 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,559 Yeah, all three in the morning, what the fuck? Dude, 246 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:48,120 Like totally unacceptable, Like not cool. Now, if you're gonna do it, 247 00:16:48,399 --> 00:16:52,440 at least the next morning, you can be like, oh my god, 248 00:16:52,559 --> 00:16:55,120 I'm so sorry. We took your car. It's a mess. We're 249 00:16:55,159 --> 00:16:57,759 getting it cleaned. We left everything in there because we were just so tired. 250 00:16:57,799 --> 00:17:00,440 We got it whatever the case, maybe right, and then Bella would 251 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,160 have been like, oh boy, but okay, fine, thanks for telling 252 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,599 me you know something. But no, they went indoor purse at three in 253 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:11,119 the morning, took her car keys, and then no mention of that, 254 00:17:11,519 --> 00:17:14,880 just a mention of how much fun they had. Yeah, isn't that weird? 255 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,799 I mean, it's crazy. When you first told me that, I 256 00:17:17,839 --> 00:17:22,720 was like, that's insane. They God. So Bella calls me, She's 257 00:17:22,759 --> 00:17:23,599 like, Mom tells me the story. What do I do? What do 258 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:27,680 I do? I'm like, look, you just write a friendly ish email, 259 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:32,039 of course. Jamail's like friendly doesn't need to be a friendly text, 260 00:17:32,039 --> 00:17:33,799 not email. I'm old, not an email a text? Right, But 261 00:17:33,839 --> 00:17:37,440 I was like, just say, like you guys, well, so yeah, 262 00:17:37,559 --> 00:17:40,599 snello, snap, snap, how much? Just be like girls? 263 00:17:40,759 --> 00:17:42,640 You know I love you girls. Of course I would let you take my 264 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:47,119 car anytime. Listen, girly pops. Yeah, he haye cheek guys, 265 00:17:49,079 --> 00:17:53,119 we try. We have the most cringey, like teenage language. Yeah. 266 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:57,480 So I just said, make it like friendly ish and just like, hey, 267 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,680 did you guys take my car? Like that's not that's you know, 268 00:18:00,759 --> 00:18:04,519 please ask me. It's not cool because God forbid something happened or you know. 269 00:18:04,599 --> 00:18:07,960 And then on top of it, like there's sand because she came home 270 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:12,319 that day. Literally the sand was like in the creases of the seat, 271 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:18,119 but like thick, not just like little sprinkles like fix. I don't understand 272 00:18:18,519 --> 00:18:21,240 how I mean, you wake up the next day, aren't you like, 273 00:18:21,319 --> 00:18:22,960 oh shit, we borrowed Bella's car and we left it a mess. Like, 274 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:26,559 we should probably mention this. We should mention it. We should be 275 00:18:26,599 --> 00:18:30,720 downstairs cleaning it out. We should be vend moowing her money so she can 276 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,720 get it clean. We should be doing everything we can to say sorry, 277 00:18:33,759 --> 00:18:38,279 you know. And so they didn't. So then Bella sends the text like 278 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:41,720 hey, and you know, my car's a mess, like there's food in 279 00:18:41,759 --> 00:18:47,000 it, there's sand in it, like dude. So then Noel writes back 280 00:18:47,039 --> 00:18:49,880 and is like, oh my god, we'll totally clean it. And then 281 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,279 Chloe sayes she say I'm so sorry. That was a bat that was like 282 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:57,119 bad judgment. I think she said sorry, but it didn't. It wasn't 283 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:02,519 the apology. That was more like the I am so sorry, I'm so 284 00:19:02,559 --> 00:19:04,039 sorry we didn't even tell you. I didn't tell you because I was embarrassed 285 00:19:04,039 --> 00:19:07,720 because I was this. I felt like such a bad friend. You know, 286 00:19:07,799 --> 00:19:10,359 you kind of go over and above when you've done something wrong to try 287 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,720 and really show them how you care. I think she may have said sorry, 288 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,279 and it was a very short like oh my god, totally we'll get 289 00:19:15,279 --> 00:19:19,440 the car clean, no problem. So you know, Chloe didn't respond to 290 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,720 the text at all, one way or another. But maybe it's because like 291 00:19:22,799 --> 00:19:26,480 she felt like Noel is the one that borrows the car all the time. 292 00:19:26,519 --> 00:19:30,119 It's kind of Noel's deal that she borrowed the car. I was just a 293 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,200 passenger. But they're roommates, they're friends. They both did it. Yes, 294 00:19:33,319 --> 00:19:37,000 yeah, they both did it. Intimately acquainted with Bella. They lived 295 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:41,119 with her. Nothing and by the way, to this day nothing. So 296 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:45,920 then what happened was Bella came home. It was like a Sunday because Saturday 297 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,000 night had happened, and I see the car. I'm like, dude, 298 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:52,680 this sucks, like there's stuff all over and I'm like and Belle's like, 299 00:19:52,759 --> 00:19:56,480 yeah, I mean, you know, like Noel said sorry, and she'd 300 00:19:56,519 --> 00:19:57,359 you know, like get the car clean. I'm like, okay, but 301 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,960 like when you know, we don't want her drive the car anymore, Like, 302 00:20:02,039 --> 00:20:04,279 no, like, we'll get it cleaned because I think that she's kind 303 00:20:04,279 --> 00:20:08,920 of done lost her privilege. So later that day, Jamil goes and checks 304 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:15,680 the mail just randomly at home and there's a ticket. Oh my god, 305 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,079 I forgot about this, Yeah, a red light ticket. And sure enough, 306 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,039 who's in the driver's seat. No Well, and I was like, 307 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,200 oh my god. Two separate incidents. It wasn't like she got a ticket 308 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:30,200 that night, but like, oh my god, what is happening here? 309 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:33,359 You know. You know, when you get a red light ticket, it's 310 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:37,359 pretty obvious these days, Like the thing flashes at you and you're like, 311 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,799 oh no, god, oh god. Yeah. So then we're like Bella 312 00:20:41,079 --> 00:20:42,480 and she's like, oh my god. I'm like, Bella, you got 313 00:20:42,519 --> 00:20:47,079 a text her and just you know, the nice thing with these red light 314 00:20:47,079 --> 00:20:48,880 tickets is you just fill out a form that says you weren't the driver. 315 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,359 You put all the driver's information in and send it off. So and then 316 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:56,440 the ticket goes to that person. We're still dealing with that. So we 317 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,720 she gave us all the information. Again, It wasn't like, oh my 318 00:21:00,759 --> 00:21:03,000 god, I'm so embarrassed. Please tell your parents. I'm so sorry. 319 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:07,440 You know, I'm gonna fight this red light. This wasn't right. Whatever, 320 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,519 it's it's possible, you know, like, I don't know if she 321 00:21:10,759 --> 00:21:14,359 like, you know, sometimes we all ticket. Once you give the information 322 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,359 and you send that off, the ticket goes to the right person. I've 323 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,359 been through it with John. Yes, However, we just got a bill 324 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,480 for four hundred and thirty eight dollars to pay the ticket, and I'm like, 325 00:21:22,519 --> 00:21:26,759 okay, maybe it's just because I mean it's been like a month. 326 00:21:27,599 --> 00:21:30,279 So I'm like, and I'm the one that filled out the information. I 327 00:21:30,319 --> 00:21:36,200 filled all of Noel's information, so it should have gone to Noel that the 328 00:21:36,279 --> 00:21:38,200 bill, but it came to us. So now I'm like, we have 329 00:21:38,319 --> 00:21:41,480 till September, so I'm gonna give it another like few weeks to see if 330 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:45,039 eventually everything, you know, sometimes it's a slower processing over there, maybe 331 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,880 that it'll eventually get to her. But it was just like, are you 332 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:52,160 kidding me? She does this and now we have a ticket from her, 333 00:21:52,279 --> 00:21:53,720 Like it's just like, okay, we're done. We're done. She's never 334 00:21:53,799 --> 00:21:59,000 driving this car again. Like So then Monday, Bella showed up to her 335 00:21:59,079 --> 00:22:04,480 dorm and there was flowers and a card from Noel. I'm so sorry, 336 00:22:04,839 --> 00:22:07,720 you know, I love you, you know, and then just you know, 337 00:22:07,839 --> 00:22:11,319 talking about their friendship and how much she values it and all these inside 338 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:15,400 jokes and dadada. I was like, Okay, that's really nice, and 339 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:21,240 then it says from Noel and and then Chloe in like a separate pen, 340 00:22:21,319 --> 00:22:23,480 separate writing. I'm like, Chloe did nothing to do with this except she 341 00:22:23,559 --> 00:22:26,559 signed it, you know what I mean? And does Noel still want to 342 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,960 use the car for her acting class? Oh? I don't think she's asked 343 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:33,480 since then. I think it's been pretty like we're good now. Oh my 344 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,160 god, something else happened that I never told you about. Okay, well 345 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:42,759 hold on, let's take a quick break and talk about Body Smart. This 346 00:22:42,839 --> 00:22:49,160 episode is brought to you by Body Smart one on one coaching. So this 347 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:55,640 is a very cool thing. 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Yeah, they were pretty irresponsible for sure, you know, so 398 00:26:52,920 --> 00:27:00,000 like I give everybody a pass. But then so Noel and Bella, because 399 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,559 they're both acting majors, they had to do It's required that you work backstage 400 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,079 on some of the you know, other shows, so they had there was 401 00:27:07,079 --> 00:27:11,839 an opera. So they both worked backstage on this opera and then it was 402 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,359 the last night, closing night. So at the end of closing night, 403 00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:18,480 you have to like clean up, you know, the backstage area. So 404 00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:22,200 Noel was assigned to one area to clean up, Bella was assigned to another 405 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,759 area. Now UCLA is a big campus, so sometimes they'll get in the 406 00:27:26,799 --> 00:27:30,880 car and driver on the campus to where the theater program is because it's literally 407 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,799 a thirty minute walk, and so when it's late at night and stuff, 408 00:27:33,799 --> 00:27:36,400 they're like, oh my god, let's just get in the car and drive 409 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,680 over there. So they drove the car together over there, okay, and 410 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,279 then when the show was done they were done cleaning, they're going to drive 411 00:27:41,279 --> 00:27:45,839 back to the dorm because otherwise it's like a thirty minute walk and when it's 412 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,359 cold. Right, So this was like three weeks ago. So they do 413 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:55,079 the opera and then Noel says to Bella, Hey, I'm done cleaning my 414 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,519 area. Can I have the keys to go sit in your car? Fair 415 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,680 enough? But Bella was just kind of and she's like, you know, 416 00:28:00,759 --> 00:28:03,279 actually, just just wait for me. I'll be done in a minute. 417 00:28:03,319 --> 00:28:04,559 Here, I think she said, I'll be done in like ten minutes. 418 00:28:06,839 --> 00:28:11,640 All of a sudden, Belae's phone starts blowing up and it's Noel thinking she's 419 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:18,000 texting Chloe, and she's like yeah. She's like, oh my god, 420 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,960 Bella is making me sit out in the freezing cold. She will not give 421 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,000 me the keys to a car. I mean, what does she think I'm 422 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:29,640 gonna walk back to like campus? Ugh like, and then she texts another 423 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,400 thing like, I mean in my mind, first of all, Noel can 424 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:37,839 wait inside, and you can wait ten minutes. This like you have to 425 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,680 help Bella with the cleaning, Like you're privileged enough to even have a car. 426 00:28:41,839 --> 00:28:45,799 Chill out, so you can sit for ten minutes. It doesn't have 427 00:28:45,839 --> 00:28:48,319 to be outside in the cold, sit inside like it's a theater. Nobody's 428 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,079 kicking you out. They're all there cleaning up. So that's what Bella said. 429 00:28:52,119 --> 00:28:56,839 And remember this is after everything that had already happened. So I think 430 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,799 at this point Bella was okay to say, hey, just wait for me, 431 00:29:00,039 --> 00:29:03,119 will go together to my car. Could if Bella just handed her the 432 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:04,720 keys and said sure, sit in my car. I think Bella in the 433 00:29:04,759 --> 00:29:08,880 past has done that many times. But Bella at this point just like, 434 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,400 oh, just wait for me right there. I want to go get her 435 00:29:11,519 --> 00:29:15,359 keys I give to her. Maybe Bella was yes, let me just finish, 436 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:22,079 yeah exactly. So no, so Noel is texting Chloe like nothing like 437 00:29:22,599 --> 00:29:26,119 mean, but just like I can't believe Bella. Dude, Bella's making me 438 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,759 wait in the freezing cold, which again that's her choice. If she wants 439 00:29:29,799 --> 00:29:32,400 to wait outside, why wouldn't she just give me the keys? I mean, 440 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,720 this is so ridiculous. And all of a sudden, it's like a 441 00:29:36,799 --> 00:29:41,640 pause, and then it's like we think she realized what she did, and 442 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,400 so she's like so she goes to as if she's texting Chloe again, She's 443 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:51,920 like, I mean, you know how much I love Bella. Cry I 444 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:59,519 we're like besties and she's a close person. But like it was awesome. 445 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,240 Oh my god, yeah, it was like the best like like revet like 446 00:30:04,319 --> 00:30:10,480 you know. And so then another text comes back and she's like, oh 447 00:30:10,519 --> 00:30:15,200 my gosh, bell I'm so sorry, like I was just like annoyed or 448 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,240 like I don't know what she said. And then she goes, I think 449 00:30:17,279 --> 00:30:19,279 we need to all sit down and talk about like things that have been going 450 00:30:19,319 --> 00:30:25,200 on, and you know, we just said, like, what exactly can 451 00:30:25,279 --> 00:30:29,799 we talk about that? Noel and Chloe both vape in the room, but 452 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,200 they blow it out. They open the windows and they blow it out of 453 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,759 the window with all the fans going. And then some of them, I'm 454 00:30:36,799 --> 00:30:40,319 not gonna say who, but one of them is also smoking cigarettes, straight 455 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:45,119 up cigarettes in this tiny ass dorm room. Again like blowing out of the 456 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,960 window with the fans going. But it's cigarette smoke, you know, vape. 457 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:53,559 I understand, you don't smell gets over everything. Isn't it illegal, 458 00:30:53,599 --> 00:30:59,480 it's it's the dorm is Well, you can't smoke anywhere inside in California, 459 00:30:59,519 --> 00:31:02,720 period, right, but I'm saying you can spook inside your house, but 460 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:07,079 your house dorm room on a college campus, it is not a It's completely 461 00:31:07,119 --> 00:31:11,640 illegal. And so Bella was like not saying anything about that because she's trying 462 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,759 to be the cool roommate and not be all like annoyed. But it's like 463 00:31:15,799 --> 00:31:21,839 on top of everything, like wow, yeah dude. So then they all 464 00:31:21,839 --> 00:31:23,519 had to go out that night for their friend's birthday. So Bella's like, 465 00:31:23,559 --> 00:31:29,799 all right, I'll so she went, I hate the idea that they're gonna 466 00:31:29,799 --> 00:31:32,599 have a talk with Belle, like we need to sit down and talk about 467 00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:37,160 everything that's been going on. Belle's not doing anything Bella car and and you 468 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:41,480 were irresponsible. You also got a ticket on her car. You guys have 469 00:31:41,599 --> 00:31:45,720 not really thoroughly apologized. What are you going to talk about that's going on? 470 00:31:45,559 --> 00:31:48,079 I know, And I said, I go, look, Bella, 471 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,119 when three of you are living in a small area, maybe there's things you're 472 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:56,920 doing that you don't realize are annoying them or you know, everybody annoys everybody. 473 00:31:56,279 --> 00:31:59,400 I was like, so listen to what they have to say. Maybe 474 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,160 they're like a something or this or that. And Bella's like, of course. 475 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:05,319 I just don't like the fact though, that the two of them are, 476 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,720 yeah on being in cahoots, yes, like texting each other about being 477 00:32:09,759 --> 00:32:14,000 annoyed. Thinking they're texting each other about being annoyed at Bella, Like that's 478 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,200 cool. I mean, no, you have to go have a talk. 479 00:32:15,319 --> 00:32:20,440 It's not like it's not like one. It's not like Noel is also annoyed 480 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,079 at Chloe and complaining to Bella that like Chloe's irritating her. And I mean 481 00:32:23,119 --> 00:32:27,480 I think they all kind of at times have complained about each other to each 482 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,640 other, you know, for sure, like you're three people in a really 483 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,799 small room. I'm I'm sure there's been time where they're like, well, 484 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,559 you know, like oh, she came into three in the morning and she 485 00:32:35,559 --> 00:32:37,880 wouldn't stop talking, and that she's on the phone. You know. I 486 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:39,839 think they've all done that, like talked about the other person being loud or 487 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:45,000 waking them up early or whatever. Fair enough, But anyway, so I 488 00:32:45,039 --> 00:32:46,880 said, well, listen to what they have to say. And but anyway, 489 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,440 they didn't really fully talk because they were all getting ready to go out 490 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:52,440 at night, and I think they wanted to keep it kind of light. 491 00:32:52,519 --> 00:32:55,160 So I think they all just kind of apologized and moved on kind of thing. 492 00:32:55,200 --> 00:33:00,519 It wasn't a real talk. So that being said, you know, 493 00:33:00,559 --> 00:33:05,279 they're all moving out this week. Anyway, I think Noel and Bella will 494 00:33:05,319 --> 00:33:07,839 remain friendly and they are friends. I mean, they're good friends and they'll 495 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,200 remain friendly. And I just said to Bella, I go, well, 496 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,880 now you know you have boundaries with your friendship with her. You know, 497 00:33:14,039 --> 00:33:19,079 she's may not be like the closest because some of your other friends just wouldn't 498 00:33:19,119 --> 00:33:21,960 do that kind of stuff, you know, and so maybe she's the fun 499 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,319 time girl. You guys go out have a great time together. You're both 500 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:27,240 in acting. You're probably going to see each other jobs down the line, 501 00:33:27,279 --> 00:33:31,559 Like you'll still remain like good friends in a different capacity. Chloe, this 502 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:36,480 is the weirdest thing I have a story about, Chloe. So then last 503 00:33:36,559 --> 00:33:39,359 week, so they have like a lady that cleans the dorm bathroom, all 504 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,519 the dorm bathrooms, you know, like once a week or whatever. Okay, 505 00:33:43,359 --> 00:33:47,000 So Bella comes back to the dorm and she's like, hey, Chloe, 506 00:33:47,519 --> 00:33:51,440 did the housekeeper come yet? Because if she's coming, I don't want 507 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,759 to take a shower. I want her to be able to do her thing 508 00:33:52,799 --> 00:33:55,000 and not have to wait for me. And She's like, no, she 509 00:33:55,039 --> 00:33:57,759 hasn't come yet. And Belle's like, okay, I'll wait for her to 510 00:33:57,799 --> 00:34:01,759 come. Because it was around the time she comes. So Noel is has 511 00:34:01,759 --> 00:34:07,400 her headphones on and is studying. So Noel is not listening to Chloe and 512 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,239 Bella talk about did the housekeeper come? Did she not? Chloe's like, 513 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,039 no, she didn't come. Noel's just sitting there with her headphones on, 514 00:34:13,119 --> 00:34:16,239 studying whatever. And then Noel like kind of takes her headphones off, joins 515 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:20,239 the conversation, and Belle's talking about like, yeah, God, I really 516 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,039 want to get in the shower, but the housekeeper is not here yet, 517 00:34:22,079 --> 00:34:27,559 and Noel's like, no, the housekeeper already came. And Belle's like what, 518 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,920 and She's like, yeah, Chloe, and I got her like a 519 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,920 little gift, like to say thank you for the year and this and that. 520 00:34:35,519 --> 00:34:39,039 And Belle's like, wait what. She's like, Chloe, you just 521 00:34:39,039 --> 00:34:43,920 told me the housekeeper didn't come. She goes, oh, I just I 522 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,920 don't know. I didn't want you to. I didn't want to, like 523 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,280 cause we got her a gift, and so I didn't want to mention the 524 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,679 gift and stuff that. I was like, you didn't have to mention a 525 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,079 gift. You could have just said yes she came, go ahead and take 526 00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:55,159 a shower. Like she looks at Cloe. She goes, no, really, 527 00:34:55,280 --> 00:35:00,280 Chloe, why didn't you tell me that's the housekeeper came? And Chloe 528 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:05,000 just went like shrugged her shoulders and like almost became like an infant and like 529 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,679 didn't say anything. It's so, And I go, Bella, did you 530 00:35:07,679 --> 00:35:12,360 feel weird that you weren't included in this gift, and Belle's like, honestly, 531 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,840 no, I'm not here as much as they are. They really like 532 00:35:15,599 --> 00:35:17,440 whatever, the housekeeper's here, they're here because Bella comes home a lot. 533 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,079 You know. She's like, I didn't have that relationship with the housekeeper that 534 00:35:21,119 --> 00:35:22,599 they did. I that's fine that they did that. I don't feel like, 535 00:35:22,599 --> 00:35:24,719 oh, they left me out. Why didn't you know? She's like, 536 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:29,039 it's totally fine. Yeah, but I'm just saying and I'm not trying 537 00:35:29,039 --> 00:35:31,119 to cause trouble. Ye, Like, how easy would it be if there's 538 00:35:31,159 --> 00:35:35,119 three people that live in a room together to be like, Bella, we're 539 00:35:35,119 --> 00:35:37,800 getting the housekeeper a gift, you pitch it? Do you want to? 540 00:35:37,119 --> 00:35:40,679 Yeah? Which fine. Bella could have been like, uh no, I 541 00:35:40,679 --> 00:35:44,679 don't really have it like that, yes, did. Or Bella could have 542 00:35:44,679 --> 00:35:46,639 been like sure, let me give you twenty five bucks or what you know 543 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,840 I mean? And I said, Bella goes, mom, I am not 544 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,719 bothered by that in the least bit. She's like, I'm more bothered that 545 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:57,039 Chloe lied straight to my face. So, and Chloe saw me sitting there 546 00:35:57,079 --> 00:36:00,400 for an hour waiting to shower, and she was in the room. We 547 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:06,280 were talking, so weird. So I don't Ella's going to remain friends with 548 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:12,000 Chloe after this anyway. Chloe's moving back home for her second year she's so 549 00:36:12,079 --> 00:36:14,960 I'm like, I don't see why you would remain friends with that. That's 550 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:19,960 so bizarre, so bizarre. I don't you know. It's interesting, totally 551 00:36:20,679 --> 00:36:24,039 off topic, but just from what you just said, Yeah, Elbie has 552 00:36:24,079 --> 00:36:30,039 a friend who lived on campus the first year and is now moving going to 553 00:36:30,079 --> 00:36:32,199 live at home for the second year. Yeah, and I don't understand. 554 00:36:32,199 --> 00:36:37,519 I'm not really understanding. You can save a ton of money, So I 555 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,599 feel like Chloe might be doing it for that reason, because I think it 556 00:36:40,679 --> 00:36:45,400 goes from like thirty thousand to fifteen thousand, like without housing, it's a 557 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:50,800 it's substantial, So I if it's financial, I could see that. Otherwise, 558 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,519 I agree with you. If it's not a financial thing, why would 559 00:36:52,559 --> 00:36:55,280 you want to go from living with friends, living your best life to like 560 00:36:55,679 --> 00:36:59,079 back home? I guess, I mean, if she's down the street, 561 00:36:59,159 --> 00:37:04,119 but I don't know for for elb and for Elbie's friend who were talking about. 562 00:37:04,199 --> 00:37:07,400 Yeah, I don't know you, then you're not you didn't go away 563 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:13,920 to college. I totally agree you're notence, Yeah, I think it's And 564 00:37:14,159 --> 00:37:17,119 also this girl that's Elbie's friend doesn't live, like lives in the valley, 565 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:21,639 So I feel like, so every day you have like a commute, it's 566 00:37:21,639 --> 00:37:24,280 like a commuter school. Yeah, and then you're not really engaged in your 567 00:37:24,519 --> 00:37:28,239 I get what, I agree. I don't know. I guess it depends 568 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,320 if you're an a sorority, if you're in clubs, if you're like in 569 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:37,239 other things that then you can get that experience. But it does seem to 570 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,039 me like it could be so much more fun to live with a bunch of 571 00:37:38,119 --> 00:37:42,360 roommates in an apartment or you know. Yeah, I mean it's going to 572 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,039 be hard to afford for us too, but I don't I can't imagine not 573 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:52,639 letting elb have that experience, of course, after everything that she's gone. 574 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,840 I mean, I you know, I guess I just don't. Yeah, 575 00:37:55,199 --> 00:37:59,559 but you're right financial reasons, I guess. 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That's qu i ncee dot com slash fcol 623 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,760 for free ship and three hundred and sixty five day returns quins dot com slash 624 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:09,159 f col. Kaitlin, your kids are out of school. They're in the 625 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:13,880 two week Yeah, they're in summer school, but for two weeks. Yeah. 626 00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,679 And is that daily or yeah? It's daily? Oh nice? So 627 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:21,039 normally they would go three days a week from nine to two. Now they're 628 00:42:21,039 --> 00:42:23,960 going five days a week from nine to twelve. I think, Okay, 629 00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:28,960 are they sorry? Good? Are they liking that? Going every day? 630 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,400 Yeah? They're like, yeah, I like school? So is it? 631 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,840 Are you in like the first week of it? The second week of that? 632 00:42:36,159 --> 00:42:38,280 This is the first week of it? Oh more after this and then 633 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:44,480 they're off until they start at their new school whenever that is, oh a 634 00:42:44,559 --> 00:42:47,039 new school. Yeah, well I was just graduated. She had like a 635 00:42:47,039 --> 00:42:53,280 a grad school preschool graduation, so she's I was going to kindergarten next year. 636 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,639 Yeah. Okay, Wait at the preschool graduation, do they say what 637 00:42:57,679 --> 00:42:59,920 they want to be when they grow up? Okay? What she say? 638 00:43:00,199 --> 00:43:05,079 You said a doctor? Oh nice? Okay. Wow, the first time 639 00:43:05,079 --> 00:43:08,360 I heard you say that, but all that's so cute. Yeah, I 640 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:12,360 remember when my kids did that. I can't remember what they said they wanted 641 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,639 to be. But do you remember when your kids graduated? Did they ask 642 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,199 that. It's kind of like a standard thing. I don't remember what my 643 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:22,679 kids said. The best answer that I heard there was spider Man. Nice. 644 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:30,079 That's so cute. But so, so is there a preschool at Ila's 645 00:43:30,159 --> 00:43:35,280 kindergarten? Yeah, there's like a yeah, there's a pre K. So 646 00:43:35,559 --> 00:43:38,639 every old enough to go to pre K? Is it like TK transitional? 647 00:43:39,199 --> 00:43:42,760 Yeah, that's what it is. I'm sorry, it's TK. So now 648 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:49,920 all from my understanding, public schools in Los Angeles County, Yeah, okay 649 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,119 have to have to I think have to provide have a t K. Now, 650 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:57,320 so like normally you pay for t K through a pre school, but 651 00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,000 now they all have to have TKS if they can. If they can, 652 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:04,400 you have to like have a certain the classroom has to be a certain size, 653 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,639 and you have to have a playground for these TK students. And if 654 00:44:06,639 --> 00:44:08,679 you have all that then you can And it's kind of nice because it's free. 655 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,599 It's like not paying preschool prices. Right. We don't know if she's 656 00:44:13,639 --> 00:44:15,199 actually going to go to it though. That was the plan, and then 657 00:44:15,199 --> 00:44:19,280 it was like, well, you know, she's she did the same thing 658 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,360 that Isla did. It's their first year there. They went only two days 659 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,159 a week, and even Ila only went from nine to twelve, and then 660 00:44:25,199 --> 00:44:29,159 sometimes we paid the extra to stay later. Lake's been going two days a 661 00:44:29,159 --> 00:44:32,840 week, nine to two, and then to go from that to five days 662 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:37,519 a week eight to like three two or three or whatever, it is like, 663 00:44:37,639 --> 00:44:40,079 yeah, just sounds like a lot. So we're thinking of maybe just 664 00:44:40,639 --> 00:44:45,119 keeping her at the preschool and then moving her over afterwards. How old is 665 00:44:45,159 --> 00:44:50,719 she exactly? Now? They keep aging she's getting close to four, so 666 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,800 she'll be four when she starts maybe TK right around there. It's August. 667 00:44:54,360 --> 00:45:00,000 Yeah, yeah, that's pretty young. I mean LB was a November birthday, 668 00:45:00,199 --> 00:45:07,000 so she was at three. She was like three going on four. 669 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:13,239 But she would have gone into the she would have gone into the older It 670 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,599 wasn't pre K, but it was like they it was like it was like 671 00:45:15,679 --> 00:45:19,400 they called it pre K but it was the oldest pre school class. It 672 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,360 wasn't transitional kindergarten. But she the teachers were like, no, she's not 673 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:28,719 ready. She's still young. She's young three, so we kept her and 674 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:32,039 then when she was she did the transition, not like pre K, she 675 00:45:32,119 --> 00:45:37,559 was already four she turned she was already turning five. Ye, so she 676 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:43,880 was like five going on six when she started actual kindergarten. So would Blake 677 00:45:44,079 --> 00:45:49,239 be four going on five starting kindergarten, she would be Uh, I think 678 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:54,400 she would still be three going on four starting, but then then she'd be 679 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:59,639 young. It's pretty young. Yeah, well she's yeah, she's right at 680 00:45:59,639 --> 00:46:02,320 the beginning of the year. So wait, when's Blake's birthday? August? 681 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:07,119 Yeah, Sophie's July, so same, she's like on the younger side of 682 00:46:07,119 --> 00:46:09,400 her classes. Yeah, class, but I was July as well, but 683 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:15,840 August is even younger. Yeah, she wouldn't turn until the following year. 684 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:19,880 But I mean, it all balanced, but I think it can be a 685 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,480 little challenging at the beginning. I don't know. For LB, it was 686 00:46:22,599 --> 00:46:25,079 nice to start older, but then it costs more money because they're in preschool 687 00:46:25,119 --> 00:46:30,559 for longer. Yeah. Well, the the cost of the two of them 688 00:46:30,599 --> 00:46:32,000 to go to the same school, even at the five days a week, 689 00:46:32,159 --> 00:46:37,800 was less than what we were paying for the for the preschool for the two 690 00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,880 of them. So I was like, all right, yeah, yeah, 691 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,760 nice, All right, Well what are you going to do with them though? 692 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,039 All summer? Go to the beach a lot, is my plan. 693 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:50,039 Nice. Yeah, I've been very much enjoying the beach. I've been wanting 694 00:46:50,039 --> 00:46:52,039 to get into surfing. So are you guys like five minutes from the I 695 00:46:52,079 --> 00:46:57,320 mean is long be a fifteen minutes? So you walk a lot too, 696 00:46:57,559 --> 00:47:00,559 so like I do. But luckily my job, a lot of it is 697 00:47:00,599 --> 00:47:02,599 work from home, and I just do it whenever I want to, so 698 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:07,880 like I can schedule my editing like around whatever. You know, if I 699 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,480 need to do something during the day, then I'll just edit at night. 700 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,559 But isn't your wife a teacher? So is she off in the summer and 701 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,760 she's doing summer school? Okay, got it? Okay, she's a Teacher's 702 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:22,079 aid. Oh no way, but for you know, kids with disabilities? 703 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,960 Oh right, right right? Oh wow, good for her, God bless 704 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:32,199 her. Wow. Yeah, yeah, that's amazing. So what are your 705 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:37,119 summer plans. Let's see, so we're supposed to we built this house in 706 00:47:37,199 --> 00:47:42,480 Lebanon, so we're finally supposed to go see it. So if you're doing 707 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,719 at ten day Trent. Yeah, if everything is stable over there, we'll 708 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,880 be doing that. And then we're going to my friend's lake house in Idaho 709 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:57,880 do some wakeboarding ATVs, all the things roasting marshmallows. It's beautiful up there, 710 00:47:59,039 --> 00:48:04,079 and that's all we Well, that's a lot. Circling back to Patreon 711 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,840 ish we had. We couldn't make other plans because Sophie had like three cheerleading 712 00:48:12,079 --> 00:48:15,639 like intensives that she had to go to, but since her coach got fired, 713 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:20,800 uh, those have been on the back burner. So we kind of 714 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,239 now have a lot of July to plan something whereas before we didn't. So 715 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,320 I don't know. I don't know if we'll do something else as well, 716 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:30,360 but that's it for as of now. And then Bella is doing the cheer 717 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:35,840 camp for a week out of our house and yeah, that's kind of it. 718 00:48:36,079 --> 00:48:42,239 Yeah, I'm so scared about summer for my kids because I don't they've 719 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:46,559 been really thriving this past year it sounds like it, and having a lot 720 00:48:46,559 --> 00:48:53,360 of friends, and Xander does so much better just mood wide wise and everything. 721 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:59,840 When he is very social. Yes, he likes keeps busy socials not 722 00:49:00,079 --> 00:49:04,320 busy, his mood tends to dip and he just gets kind of like bummed. 723 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,079 And even if he just doesn't see certain friends for like a few days, 724 00:49:07,199 --> 00:49:13,440 he gets like, I'm so bored, like and so I'm kind of 725 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,599 a little bit worried. But today is Friday. Yeah, sorry, Friday, 726 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:23,760 and today Xander will have left for a nine day trip to Des Moines. 727 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:28,880 I'm sorry nine days. Yes, he's going for nine days. Wait 728 00:49:29,159 --> 00:49:32,199 what are you doing for nine days? With speech and debate? Like like 729 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:37,639 every day there's like a lead up, there's the main event of it. 730 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,639 I think it's just the way the travel is. So it's basically like a 731 00:49:40,679 --> 00:49:45,159 week, but you attack on the travel days because the teacher wanted to get 732 00:49:45,199 --> 00:49:51,519 them there with a day or two to relax and like like acclimates out and 733 00:49:51,679 --> 00:49:57,119 see des Moines and prepare right, and so there's like the travel day is 734 00:49:57,159 --> 00:50:01,559 Friday. But then so then Saturday they'll get into you know, we'll do 735 00:50:01,639 --> 00:50:07,239 stuff or whatever I guess do stuff, and then I think Sunday the event 736 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:12,920 starts or maybe they're there Sunday, and then maybe Monday it starts, and 737 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,400 then it goes all week. They're kind of intense ave like there's there's preliminary 738 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:21,440 rounds and then there's the finals. He in one category or will he's doing 739 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:25,159 a couple of different things. Good. Yeah, that's so awesome. Yeah. 740 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:31,079 So, as I said, he didn't qualify for finals for the what 741 00:50:31,119 --> 00:50:36,559 do I call it state final? You know? For the yeah, nationals. 742 00:50:36,679 --> 00:50:39,519 Sorry, he didn't qualify for nationals, but one of the kids from 743 00:50:39,679 --> 00:50:44,800 our school did, so they had an extra space to bring a kid, 744 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,760 and so the teacher wanted to bring Xander because she feels like he's going to 745 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:51,000 do really well in speech next year, so she wants him to see, 746 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:57,639 like what's happening. So meanwhile, Xander, like a couple of days before 747 00:50:57,679 --> 00:51:01,039 the last day of school, started feeling well. And he's so funny because 748 00:51:01,039 --> 00:51:06,079 he's so social, like I said, and he will like if it's Sadie 749 00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:07,480 and she has a little cough, she's like, oh, I'm sick, 750 00:51:07,519 --> 00:51:10,440 probably shouldn't go to school, you know where. Xander's like, what, 751 00:51:10,519 --> 00:51:13,960 No, I'm not sick. I'm like, Xander, you don't sound good 752 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,320 like you're coughing. And he's like, what, no, it's just a 753 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:19,239 little I got something in my throat. It's nothing, and I'm like, 754 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,280 are you sure. He's like, yeah, no, I got to go 755 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:27,000 to school, you know. So he the day before the last day of 756 00:51:27,039 --> 00:51:30,880 school, he was sick and I'm like, Xander, you're sick, and 757 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:34,159 he goes, but I can't. I have to go to the last day 758 00:51:34,159 --> 00:51:36,920 of school. There's a I have to give this presentation. But so he 759 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:38,639 goes. I was like, okay, but I think I should take you 760 00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:44,000 to urgent care, like when you get home anyway. But then he came 761 00:51:44,039 --> 00:51:46,960 home and he's like, he doesn't have a fever, you know. And 762 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,840 he's like, I think I just have a cold, you know. And 763 00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,159 I was like okay. But the next morning he woke up and he still 764 00:51:53,199 --> 00:51:55,960 wasn't feeling well, and I was like, you know, I'm going to 765 00:51:57,079 --> 00:52:00,880 just run you to urgent care on the off chance because he was complaining of 766 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:05,360 a sore throat too at that point. Yes, yes, I brought him 767 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,440 to urgent care. I think he was like, I mean, I'm probably 768 00:52:08,519 --> 00:52:13,880 fine, and they're like, okay, no fever whatever. But they gave 769 00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:19,800 him all the tests and strep throat wow, which I have to say I 770 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:23,960 was relieved to hear because you treated it with an antibiotics. He felt. 771 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:29,639 This was in the morning. He took two antibiotics when we got them, 772 00:52:29,639 --> 00:52:32,599 and then that night next day he was feeling so much better. I would 773 00:52:32,639 --> 00:52:37,400 say like seventy five percent better. Took the antibiotics that day. Next day 774 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,840 he was like, I like almost fine, So much better than having a 775 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:45,440 virus that you just have to wait out. Yes, yes, so now 776 00:52:45,519 --> 00:52:47,559 I feel like, Okay, he's going to be fine to go on Friday. 777 00:52:47,599 --> 00:52:52,760 But yeah, so he's got that for nine days, he'll be having 778 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:59,880 like a great time. Meanwhile, Sadie's my introvert. She's just not the 779 00:53:00,199 --> 00:53:04,840 kid that's constantly making plans with people. That's like keeping herself busy. So 780 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,480 she sits and waits for the phone. If somebody calls her and is like, 781 00:53:07,559 --> 00:53:13,360 let's go do something, she'll be like hmmm. She'll be like mom, 782 00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,519 my friend so and so called and wants me to like go to the 783 00:53:15,559 --> 00:53:20,800 hall, and I'm like, ye, I'd be there yesterday. Like yes, 784 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:25,320 She's like yeah, I guess. I'm like what else? What else 785 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,199 are you doing? And so there's no she doesn't ever want to go to 786 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:32,440 a camp. Yeah something she really wants to do. Yeah, that's so 787 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:38,719 hard. And you know what's funny. So the school's music program is, 788 00:53:39,079 --> 00:53:44,159 uh, you know, they love their music program. The teacher of the 789 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:51,000 music program asked them to come basically today the day we're recording, to come 790 00:53:51,079 --> 00:53:55,440 in the afternoon and help him do auditions for incoming freshmen to the school. 791 00:53:57,199 --> 00:54:00,719 And they're so excited. You would just think kids that don't like school right 792 00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:06,000 would be like go back to school right, Like they can't wait. They're 793 00:54:06,039 --> 00:54:07,840 just like, oh, we're going We're going into school. Yeah, we're 794 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:15,119 going in to help mister mister m do the auditions. They're like so excited. 795 00:54:15,159 --> 00:54:16,840 And I love those kinds of teachers that are like, come on, 796 00:54:17,079 --> 00:54:20,760 let's do it. Yeah. That just yeah, I love that. Yeah. 797 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,000 So I wish there was like some kind of program at school because I 798 00:54:24,079 --> 00:54:28,760 think, well, there is, like they're doing plays. But Sadie was 799 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,920 like, I don't know, can she get into some sort of like rock 800 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:37,960 band ish camp situation where it's not little kids but like for teens and they 801 00:54:37,079 --> 00:54:43,239 perform at the intensive And the only thing is they're like we get that for 802 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:46,159 free at their school. That's what it is. It's like basically, rock's 803 00:54:46,199 --> 00:54:50,079 just something to keep her skills up over the summer and give her something look 804 00:54:50,119 --> 00:54:52,760 forward to, something to go to. I don't know what that looks like. 805 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,239 That's possible. Something to do with music, I guess, is what 806 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:58,760 I'm saying. That is possible. Also, I really want to help them 807 00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,840 like buckle down and get jobs. Yeah, they both really want a job. 808 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,119 What happened to the color of my mine? So that's a great idea. 809 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,079 Yeah, no, she wants to do it. And someone recommended did 810 00:55:08,119 --> 00:55:12,400 you see that on the Facebook group that they're like individually owned, so just 811 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,840 go in there and ask like the owner or whatever. Yeah, so there's 812 00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:17,760 one right by our house. So we just haven't done it yet because like, 813 00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:22,320 well you were in school, just got out exactly. So yesterday was 814 00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:27,719 the first their first day off yesterday. They need like a week to decompress. 815 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,800 Yeah, and like then, and Sadie then went and had you know, 816 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:31,679 I say that, but she went and had to sleep over at her 817 00:55:31,679 --> 00:55:35,239 friend's house. She slept over at her friend's house last night and said, 818 00:55:35,679 --> 00:55:38,320 and then she's gonna work on her driving and but yeah, we'll get them 819 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:43,440 a job. But you know, yeah, fun we got going on all 820 00:55:43,559 --> 00:55:47,639 right, Hey, this has been. Thank you so much, Julie, 821 00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:52,559 thanks for having me. Are you kidding? I'm so happy that you were 822 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:58,119 able to come. And I just want to thank our other our other Patreon 823 00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:01,760 people like The Family Skeptical. 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