1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:16,399 Made a decision a face sunny sue on I haddasione nice. Oh what's up 2 00:00:16,399 --> 00:00:21,920 everybody? How's it going? It's going well. You just had a really 3 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,440 blew off some steam just now for our patreons. Yeah, that was a 4 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,079 good patreon fired up. I think I love it when we kind of take 5 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:34,520 turns being upset about I know. I think this is going to be a 6 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:39,640 satisfying Patreon for people. Yes, it was satisfying for me. Yeah. 7 00:00:39,719 --> 00:00:44,399 Get some yeah, yeah, blow off some steam. Hi, Caitlin, 8 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:49,439 Hello, let's say hi to our other friends. Uh, the to the 9 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:55,840 Leslie's, the Coffer and the constaffing and One's accost Alicia Escalante City, Valmonte, 10 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,840 Kelly Brandt, who will take you to planned parenthood? Yeah? And 11 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:08,159 hip hop talking sexiest Gaby and Missy are Ah those two I love them right 12 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:15,319 away, you know why, Katerina, check your Moler gallery, Bubba Fenwick, 13 00:01:15,359 --> 00:01:18,319 it's out of the park. Polly, we love your pancakes. Athena, 14 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,120 we we just love you, we do. You're a good person. 15 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:25,319 Elizabeth Williamson has so many kids. They pop up on Facebook as something you 16 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:30,159 always having a birthday or a celebration of some sort good for you, and 17 00:01:30,239 --> 00:01:33,719 Rita Basinette is like, let me rock some of those kids. Yes, 18 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:41,159 let me rock them kids, even though they have Facebook accounts. Jacob Growley, 19 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,280 So Growley. He just listened to my book and he's like being so. 20 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,439 He just sent me an email. He's the sweetest. I love you, 21 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:52,719 Jacob, I love you. Nikki call your girl. Aaron, who 22 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:57,319 is not Anna Faris? Katie's rolling on e which I've got a story about 23 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:01,920 for you. Amy's Akou's Kelly, Laddie Dot Ashley, You're so chic. 24 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:06,599 Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, Christi gets the strap. Sandra, it's not easy 25 00:02:06,599 --> 00:02:09,439 being green, Jennifer, get the hell up. Aaron is a dirty Sanchez, 26 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:15,560 sure is. That's just uncomfortable. Sorry Aaron, but y'ah. And 27 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:20,960 Sarah Stefano, she's our Paisano. That's right. So Elbie went to a 28 00:02:21,039 --> 00:02:25,960 rave. Beyond Wonderland happened. It's a huge thing. I think I went 29 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,719 to one of those. Yeah, I think it was just called Wonderland back 30 00:02:29,759 --> 00:02:30,680 then, but yeah, I went. I went to one, so was 31 00:02:30,719 --> 00:02:35,039 it? Yes, Yeah, I went to that one. It's funny because 32 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,840 every time you mentioned a rave, you always look at Kaylen because Cayln's like, 33 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:44,000 hell's the youngest one in the room. Yeah, I would go to 34 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,520 all these raids. I still listen to m music, so I'm wow there 35 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:52,759 wow. So apparently, and I didn't know this, but there's a difference, 36 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,199 Like there's house music. Elbie loves the house music, then there's the 37 00:02:55,240 --> 00:03:00,240 techno music. They're different stages. Like you go around and oh, what's 38 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:07,639 the difference between the house and techno. Well, techno is like and uh 39 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:15,479 and house music is like take your fucking clothes off, right, Yeah, 40 00:03:15,479 --> 00:03:17,439 that's that's about right. But yeah, there's different kinds of house music. 41 00:03:17,439 --> 00:03:22,879 There's techno, there's drum and bass, there's trance. There's different genres of 42 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:24,919 you. Okay, so one's a one's a headache, and one's a migrant 43 00:03:27,879 --> 00:03:32,080 exactly. Okay, I don't like any of it, but ILB so I 44 00:03:32,159 --> 00:03:36,319 like the house music too, by the way, Yeah, I would rather, 45 00:03:36,439 --> 00:03:38,319 I guess if if I had, if I had to gun to my 46 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,759 head, sure, i'd pick house music. Yeah, I'll be plays me 47 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:46,520 some stuff and and and because did I tell you that, I'll be about 48 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:51,120 a DJ board No, yeah, yeah, Ilbi went to one rave and 49 00:03:51,159 --> 00:03:53,240 then was like, I want to do the DJ board. I love this, 50 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,840 I want to d I want to learn how to DJ. I would 51 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,960 love that. Yeah, she's actually already kind of good at it, but 52 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:06,240 this is so lb. She gets super excited about something and then immediately loses 53 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:11,400 interest. Well, she does it like obsessively, but for like three days 54 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,879 she and she so she buys this DJ board. First of all, she 55 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,160 runs it by me, like do you think I should buy this DJ board? 56 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,720 And it was like, I don't know. Let's say three hundred dollars, 57 00:04:19,959 --> 00:04:23,480 you know, it's not nothing. Yeah, And I was like, 58 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,160 I don't know, Like you need to be saving money for college, you 59 00:04:26,199 --> 00:04:28,040 know. And she's like, yeah, I know, you're right. And 60 00:04:28,079 --> 00:04:31,240 then it's like a day later she's like she goes to best Buy and buys 61 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,040 it. Yeah, I didn't even know those things exist. What do they 62 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:38,639 do? It's like a little it's like a a turntable sort of. It's 63 00:04:38,639 --> 00:04:43,560 like an electronic turntable. Really. Yes, it doesn't play records, no, 64 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:48,040 no, so why the electronically You input all your music into it and 65 00:04:48,079 --> 00:04:53,800 then you can mix it and you can add like you can you can make 66 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:59,879 the scratch sound probably I'm looking at Kaylin again now like I don't know. 67 00:05:00,399 --> 00:05:02,120 Yeah, yeah, you can do that with that. You can all kinds 68 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:06,360 of effects. You can you put sound effects to whatever records you or whatever 69 00:05:06,399 --> 00:05:11,959 songs you upload into the I get all that. I just wonder why you 70 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,399 can make one start hanging in louder you can make and then you can dim 71 00:05:15,439 --> 00:05:16,839 the other one out, and then you can make two of them play at 72 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:20,879 the same I get all that. I just wonder what the turntable is and 73 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:26,040 the needs no actual turntable. There's but it looks like there's not really well 74 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,240 no, I mean it's okay, there's no It looks kind of round. 75 00:05:29,319 --> 00:05:32,920 It looks like a soundboard kind of Okay, that's what it's just like it 76 00:05:32,959 --> 00:05:36,079 does have a round thing, but it doesn't do anything. It doesn't spin 77 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:42,639 a record. DJ ish actually about it. Okay. It's just a system 78 00:05:43,199 --> 00:05:46,399 that you would bring to a party and you have all these songs in it, 79 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,399 and you have the ability to on the fly, like you can turn 80 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:55,480 stuff up, you can turn stuff down. You can like that. I 81 00:05:55,519 --> 00:05:59,120 think you would. I would, but but I don't know any but you 82 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,120 would what you would do? And this is for people our age. I 83 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:06,439 went down a rabbit hole yesterday of listening to like a bunch of old school 84 00:06:08,079 --> 00:06:11,319 hip hop music, and I was like, oh my god, I forgot 85 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,079 well, okay, this is a little side note. But all of a 86 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:18,439 sudden, do you ever does this ever happen to you? I had this 87 00:06:18,439 --> 00:06:23,759 this lyric in my head that was like, whodat who'd at? Who'd at 88 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:27,879 trying to be bad? Whodat who at? Whod at trying to be bad? 89 00:06:27,879 --> 00:06:30,720 And I was like, what is that like? So you know, 90 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,160 I was googled who'd at trying to be bad? Right? Eighties? Right? 91 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:40,120 All it came up with was like JT something it was. It was 92 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:45,680 like a hip hop rap song, but it was from like the nineties or 93 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,079 early two thousands. It was not what I was And I tried playing it. 94 00:06:48,199 --> 00:06:50,720 I was like, maybe I'm just misremembering when I heard this, but 95 00:06:50,759 --> 00:06:54,399 I'm like, no, this was from the eighties, this was from high 96 00:06:54,439 --> 00:06:58,519 school. Couldn't find it, couldn't find it. All of a sudden, 97 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,279 in my mind I remembered this song and I was like, I wonder if 98 00:07:02,319 --> 00:07:04,879 this was a break in the song. Do you remember the song? It's 99 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:12,600 that radio activity it's that radio activity is there any way we could play a 100 00:07:12,639 --> 00:07:15,920 minute of this song if you look up radio activity and it's by, it's 101 00:07:15,959 --> 00:07:26,279 by I can't remember something cash cash cash, something royal cash play. If 102 00:07:26,319 --> 00:07:29,680 you could play a second of that for Lynette, because I know she'll recognize 103 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:43,199 the song. Okay one, okay, here you go, and I think 104 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:47,240 you'll know this song. I feel like I'm in high school. That's jam. 105 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:55,800 Oh hell yeah, oh hell yeah, it's jam. Fuck yeah. 106 00:07:55,839 --> 00:08:11,079 I love this, I love it. Yeah, I do the radio well 107 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:16,240 in the middle of the song Egypt, it reminds me that other song. 108 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:24,319 Yes, then it is just the Egypt New York La all the suns go, 109 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,800 yeah, yep, yep, that's the sound. Yes. But it's 110 00:08:28,839 --> 00:08:31,960 like a ten minute song, right, So I was like, I'm in, 111 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,519 I'm listening to the whole song right literally, probably like four minutes in 112 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:41,759 you get to the hohodat who dat? And I was like, yes, 113 00:08:41,519 --> 00:08:45,440 I fucking knew it. I was like, I have no memory. I 114 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:50,240 can't remember why I walked into a room, but I remember it drops in 115 00:08:50,279 --> 00:08:54,879 the middle of radioactivity for like nineteen eighty three. Yeah, I was so 116 00:08:54,919 --> 00:08:58,320 proud of myself. I've done that before too, where I'm like, what 117 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,679 song a batter? Ram? I kept thinking bad Ram about it, and 118 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,519 then you find it and you're like, I knew it, like I've done 119 00:09:05,519 --> 00:09:09,240 that. I love it. It's the best. And then the most fun 120 00:09:09,279 --> 00:09:13,279 part is you're on YouTube with this song and you start looking at the comments 121 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,759 and there's all these people that are like, fifty seven that's my songs. 122 00:09:16,879 --> 00:09:20,120 It just made me so happy. I used to love this. And then 123 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:24,120 some people were talking about living in somewhere on the East Coast or like Florida, 124 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,679 and they were like, oh, the way that you got these songs 125 00:09:26,759 --> 00:09:30,559 was you had to have a friend in New York. They do a mixtape, 126 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,720 yes, And I was like, because I lived in Springfield, mass 127 00:09:33,759 --> 00:09:37,639 in high school and it was like a very New York. It was like 128 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:41,399 a mafia town. Yeah you yeah, and we got we have DJs that 129 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:45,080 got their music from New York, so we I feel like we had a 130 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,840 lot of like that underground like that yeah, uh, cutting edge, like 131 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:54,320 artists that were not mainstream at all yet we heard all these songs first. 132 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:58,039 So I liked all these like kind of obsecure songs that when I hear them 133 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,120 now, I'm just like, oh yeah, on my feet. Yeah, 134 00:10:01,159 --> 00:10:07,399 like all these Uh there was one called by Aleiam called get Loose. For 135 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:11,480 that song get Loose, Do Do Do Do Do Do? Anyway, I 136 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:16,320 went down a rat I just started looking for like obscure like eighties hip hop 137 00:10:16,399 --> 00:10:20,919 music, and I was like, I feel like I'm in heaven. And 138 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:24,440 then I had the idea that I was like, that's what we need is 139 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:28,879 somebody who can DJ right all the old school, the really old stuff from 140 00:10:28,919 --> 00:10:33,240 the eighties, like the real Roxanne Roxanne Yes, being at a party. 141 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:39,559 Yeah, hearing all of our old I would say mixing it like every song 142 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,799 that comes on, it's like, what's that one, the Cinderella the guy 143 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,360 I got a story about it, bubble Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 144 00:10:45,399 --> 00:10:48,720 I would be like, oh my god, for every song. We would 145 00:10:48,759 --> 00:10:54,639 never say we should do it, we should d service. Yeah that we 146 00:10:54,759 --> 00:10:58,600 It's all old school, old school. If I knew that somebody was doing 147 00:10:58,639 --> 00:11:03,919 this at like a gym at like Birmingham High School once a month, I 148 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,840 would pay and what did you want? How much your tickets? I would 149 00:11:07,879 --> 00:11:11,240 be I would be there every month. I would be like the first in 150 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:15,200 line, wouldn't that be so so fun? We should do it? We 151 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,759 make that a business. How do we know how to do all for people? 152 00:11:18,279 --> 00:11:22,120 Eighties kids? Like? Yes, I feel like there'd be a huge 153 00:11:22,159 --> 00:11:26,960 market for that. I agree, I agree, and bring back all these 154 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:30,399 old songs, like somebody would have to get a DJ that can really like 155 00:11:30,519 --> 00:11:33,279 know how to do it. Well, you have the equipment now, so 156 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:37,879 yeah when it, let's get together and let's make a playlist. I may 157 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:43,679 we start there and we should maybe we make LB be the djay it. 158 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:56,039 Yes, we'll just feed her stones at my house to listen to Pat. 159 00:11:56,639 --> 00:12:01,240 Yeah, yeah, that is a great idea. Though, that's a fantastic 160 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:05,799 idea. You know what else would be into it? Patrick? Oh, 161 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,960 he would love that. He could be He could help us to Maybe we 162 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:15,799 make Patrick have a party. You guys have parties. It's true, we 163 00:12:15,799 --> 00:12:18,399 could. We should do it at a place where strangers can come. Make 164 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,279 a lot of people happy. Yeah, we just want to make people happy. 165 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:26,360 Just oh, we want to do Stephanie. I think we need I 166 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,679 think we need to do that. I mean, all we got to do 167 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,080 is to I'll start making the play I already have some playlists with some of 168 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:37,840 those old songs that like Fat Boys and you know, like Curtis Blow and 169 00:12:37,919 --> 00:12:43,000 like, you know, just all that stuff. Friday Night Just Got Paid. 170 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,039 That was a Curtis Glow song. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 171 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,159 But I would really want like some obscure songs that people are like, 172 00:12:50,919 --> 00:12:54,320 oh my god, I haven't heard this song. I know this song like 173 00:12:54,440 --> 00:13:01,440 that one activity like for sure, pop goes My Love? That one, 174 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:05,559 Okay, I don't ready if I hear it, play pop goes look up, 175 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:09,159 pop goes my Love. Oh my god, that was I don't remember 176 00:13:09,799 --> 00:13:15,799 something. Do you remember there ain't no features. Yes, yes, it 177 00:13:15,919 --> 00:13:18,080 all sounds they're all one hit wonders. Kind of a lot of the ones 178 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:24,320 that I like were wonder wonders. But this is when you'll know this one. 179 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:37,039 Oh yeah, skip to like the middle of the song because they always 180 00:13:37,039 --> 00:13:50,600 have the longest side. Now pop, this sounds familiar, Yeah, I 181 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,120 know. And the other thing about this this is this is our version of 182 00:13:54,120 --> 00:14:01,440 house music. You could stop and songs go on for twenty minutes. They 183 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,960 they kind of remix and remix themselves. That's where we come in as DJs. 184 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:09,320 We we probably dropped the song at the right part and then we faded 185 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:13,720 out. Doesn't need to keep writing right, and then we fade in the 186 00:14:13,759 --> 00:14:16,360 next song. Do you remember a E? I owe you a E? 187 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:24,200 A E oh familiar sometimes? Why? Yeah? Yeah I do? No 188 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:26,679 no, no, no, no, no no love anyway. Yeah, 189 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,000 I could go down right, I know my brain. Well we what we 190 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,799 should do is first start with the playlist. Make you know how to make 191 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:37,240 a playlist like on Spotify? Yes, yes, do it? Like will 192 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:41,039 just put all the Shannon right the music play? Yes? Totally? Yeah, 193 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:46,320 so os ban right that in there? Yeah yeah, I'm just picturing 194 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,960 you two like standing behind a DJ Boo slipe with your with your headphones on 195 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:54,799 and like scratching me too. I'm totally picturing it too. Kalend be so 196 00:14:54,879 --> 00:15:00,000 much old folks. Yes, yes, but we can make some money. 197 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,440 I know, sit on Instagram. Get people to come rent out a place. 198 00:15:03,519 --> 00:15:07,720 We should rent a place, let's do it. Get Elb to deep 199 00:15:07,759 --> 00:15:11,080 put all our songs in there and get her to mix mix on Well, 200 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,960 now we need Albi to really learn how to do this. I'm gonna talk, 201 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,840 I swear to God, I'm gonna tell her about it. And if 202 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,559 she can't learn, tell her to teach us because that was the thought I 203 00:15:18,679 --> 00:15:20,960 had. I was like, you should get good at this and do like 204 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,960 get do do some of my music, right, Okay, we're going to 205 00:15:26,039 --> 00:15:30,159 talk to her. Anyway, back to LB being at this rave. Uh 206 00:15:30,799 --> 00:15:33,279 so she was so excited about it. This was the I would say, 207 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:39,279 this is the one of the most adult things you know that she's ever done. 208 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:43,720 Right, which is they she and her friend they got an airbnb like 209 00:15:43,159 --> 00:15:48,279 near this place. Oh my god, she was dressed. When I tell 210 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:54,039 you, like, you know, I'm as liberal as the next liberal California 211 00:15:54,600 --> 00:16:00,360 libtard, right if I didn't, I was just like, okay, okay 212 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,840 do I was like, elb, I can see her under boob. I 213 00:16:03,879 --> 00:16:07,200 can totally see I see your boob. I couldn't help it just came out 214 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:11,039 of my mom. This is how this is everybody's gonna be dressed. Bikini 215 00:16:11,159 --> 00:16:15,720 tops to these CONTs she was wearing. She was literally wearing a bikini top. 216 00:16:15,759 --> 00:16:19,440 You could see the underneath of her boobs and then like little like booty 217 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:26,639 like it was like a bikini bottom almost boots, like crazy platform boots with 218 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:32,080 over the top of the bikini top was like a fishnet thing. That just 219 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:36,799 had sleeves you know what I mean, like a little like Bolero oh yes, 220 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:40,759 oh yeah, yeah, top but with but fishnet right all blue. 221 00:16:40,879 --> 00:16:45,039 It was like metallic blue. Then she had her hair in little like baby 222 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,279 doll like she had her hair like pulled up some little like ponytails off the 223 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:53,519 top with like ribbone, and then she had glitter star things in her hair 224 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:59,240 and on her But it was crazy. That's so cute though. Okay, 225 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:03,279 So I'm gonna mix this in with some like really cute news that she had 226 00:17:03,279 --> 00:17:08,160 for me. Okay, so she facetimed me. So she gets there, 227 00:17:08,559 --> 00:17:11,720 she drives, she in her friend, She drove them out to Sam Bernardino 228 00:17:11,799 --> 00:17:15,759 whatever, just the two of them, just the two of them, and 229 00:17:15,799 --> 00:17:18,519 then they had a third girl that was meeting them, but not till the 230 00:17:18,559 --> 00:17:21,319 next night. Okay. So the first time she went to the rave, 231 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:26,319 she went for one night, then she would She had so much fun there 232 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:30,319 that she decided to make this a two night extravaganza. You can pay for 233 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,680 one night, or you can pay for two nights. Okay. I mean 234 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:36,000 this has been like in the making for months. Yeah, she was like 235 00:17:36,039 --> 00:17:40,119 waiting to get a wristband it's all done with a wristband, so they get 236 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,720 them in the mail. It goes for they find it's an Instagram. Yeah, 237 00:17:42,799 --> 00:17:47,960 then they go to some link and they pay and then they I guess 238 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,880 hope for the best. They get the wristband in the mail and then she 239 00:17:51,039 --> 00:17:53,279 was like waiting to get her risk it's not I guess it makes sense because 240 00:17:53,319 --> 00:17:56,960 it's not put on by like Live Nation, right exactly, Yeah, just 241 00:17:56,960 --> 00:18:00,279 like a bunch of people. But it's expensive, right, and they rent 242 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:04,319 some I don't know who puts it on, but they have like all these 243 00:18:04,519 --> 00:18:08,440 DJs that people that like house music have heard of, you know, right 244 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,359 big to them, you know, because she's like, oh, everybody loves 245 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:17,160 like Fisher that is going to be at stage two. And then it's like, 246 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,799 okay, well the thing officially starts at four, but the who we 247 00:18:19,839 --> 00:18:23,920 want to see is not, you know, starting until seven, and it's 248 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,559 like who you want to see, it's just the DJ, right, Like 249 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:30,519 it's not the musical act, it's the DJ. And I even said, 250 00:18:30,559 --> 00:18:36,160 I go, well, if it's house music and there's some song called like 251 00:18:36,279 --> 00:18:38,720 take your mother fucking clothes off, and I'm like, we'll do more than 252 00:18:38,759 --> 00:18:42,480 one person play that song, right, don't know, I'm like, well, 253 00:18:42,519 --> 00:18:47,680 who gets who gets that song? Like I don't understand how it works. 254 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:51,319 But anyway, but I guess if if if like DJ Polly D was 255 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:53,319 DJ, I'd be like I want to get there when he did. I 256 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:57,440 don't want to see all these other you know right over. But what I'm 257 00:18:57,519 --> 00:19:03,440 so curious as to what makes poly d like as sad after like you have 258 00:19:03,519 --> 00:19:07,000 to pay him money, just a thirty thousand dollars or more. Right, 259 00:19:07,079 --> 00:19:11,599 some of these DJs make like a million dollars to go Why no DJ, 260 00:19:11,839 --> 00:19:15,599 why he's flying private jets? But what I don't understand, Like it's not 261 00:19:15,799 --> 00:19:19,799 their own songs right they're playing it is something that is. Yeah, they 262 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:23,400 definitely make their own music. There's like a you know, like you think 263 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,240 about like Daft Punk or Dead Mouse, Like these are big, big DJs. 264 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,720 They make all their own music. They take samples of other songs and 265 00:19:30,759 --> 00:19:34,440 then put their own you know, spin spin on it. Yeah, and 266 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:38,000 so like if one DJ has a lost a song, let's say, like 267 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,200 a daft Punk song, then another DJ will take that Daft Punk song and 268 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:45,480 like just remix it in their own version. But are they allowed to do 269 00:19:45,559 --> 00:19:49,960 that? Yeah? But I think I think it's especially with the bigger DJs, 270 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,920 it's kind of a thing where it's like, hey, I'm I'm using 271 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,160 Like they let them know, Hey, I'm using your song for this. 272 00:19:55,279 --> 00:19:59,839 Like if there's like two DJs at one Wonderland event and one of the DJ's 273 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:03,119 had like his own song and the other one wants to use it, he'd 274 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:04,559 probably like contact him and be like, no, don't use that song, 275 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:08,079 or you can change it to make it sound this way. So it's different 276 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,960 enough to where you can use it. But yeah, DJs definitely make their 277 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:15,759 own music. Wow, the big guy, like the bigger names like the 278 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,920 Daft Punks or dead Mouse or you know, we need now, we need 279 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:22,119 a documentary? Is somebody to follow these DJs around? I would love to. 280 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,319 I would watch shit out of that. Like how like the life of 281 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,440 a DJ? Right? I mean, it's one thing to be a producer? 282 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:33,400 So are they a is DJ another word for like producer? Now? 283 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,960 I guess I mean they're producing the music, So I I like, I 284 00:20:38,079 --> 00:20:41,119 kind of get it. I think that they're producing their own songs. Yeah, 285 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:45,400 they don't have like a producer in the other room, like mixing and 286 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,839 recording their stuff like they do everything themselves, so I guess they would also 287 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,440 be a producer. 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Yeah, I'm trying to be so good. I still have LBoN 328 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:56,160 By three sixty she goes to my house and I really, you guys know 329 00:23:56,200 --> 00:24:00,240 how compulsive I am, but I really do try and it's it's not it's 330 00:24:00,279 --> 00:24:03,200 not that hard. I trust Elbe, but it's a safety thing, like 331 00:24:03,279 --> 00:24:07,720 I like to if she's taken a long drive. I like to sometimes life 332 00:24:07,759 --> 00:24:10,119 three sixty to just be like, oh good, okay, she's there. 333 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,359 Yes, I know too, that's all. I'm not like checking up on 334 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,839 her constantly. I'm not, you know, I know she's out having fun. 335 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,680 I already talked to her before she left. I was like, please 336 00:24:19,759 --> 00:24:25,319 be safe. I gave her an external phone battery. Yeah, they need 337 00:24:25,319 --> 00:24:29,960 that. I lent her the one that Kaylin got us. Yes, Italia 338 00:24:30,039 --> 00:24:33,279 uses that one too. Yeah, I got it charged up. I was 339 00:24:33,279 --> 00:24:37,599 like, take this. She had like three external batteries with her because it's 340 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,519 you know, their phones die fast, these kids, they have a lot 341 00:24:40,559 --> 00:24:45,279 of stuff on them. And exactly exactly. Oh and I told I told 342 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,200 Elbe that story about Natalia, and I was like, you know what had 343 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:52,759 to happen? Lynette was like upset having to like call an uber for her 344 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,640 at a bad, very bad area of town there, standing out by themselves. 345 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:02,759 Two girls don't have a phone. When girl's Natalia's batteries almost dance. 346 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,720 She couldn't even call the uber. And Albie's like, oh man, I 347 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:10,559 know, it's like that cannot be you right, because you know anyway, 348 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:17,200 So anyway, I get a FaceTime from her from the Airbnb, and I'm 349 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:23,920 like, Albie never facetimes me. It never. Yeah. First of all, 350 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,759 she rarely ever calls me unless like I'm not answering a text or something 351 00:25:27,839 --> 00:25:32,079 every once in a while, but mostly Ilby just texts me. So to 352 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,160 FaceTime me, I was like, honestly, I was. First. My 353 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:38,000 first thought was like, that's just an accident. And she hit the button 354 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,880 and I'm gonna answer and she's gonna be like, sorry, mom, that 355 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,160 wasn't you know, it was a mistake. But I answered. She's like 356 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,920 mom, and I was like, what's up? And she goes I got 357 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:57,279 into SDSU. Whow So her first acceptance in this new round. I know 358 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,880 everybody was probably on pens needles. No they weren't. I was though, 359 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:07,720 Yeah, so the transfer sheild huh. So she applied to SDSU, She 360 00:26:07,799 --> 00:26:12,759 applied to cow Poly Slow, and she applied reapplied to the UC's. So 361 00:26:12,799 --> 00:26:17,160 these were all the schools that she got rejected from, right because she got 362 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,200 into Santa Cruz last year, as you know, but she didn't want to 363 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,599 go there, so she did not applied. She did not apply to any 364 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,519 schools that she knew. She didn't want to go to, right, but 365 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:33,359 now San Diego, San Diego State University, she got denied there. Even 366 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,799 with ten aps, dual enrollment, great grades, nothing below a B mostly 367 00:26:37,839 --> 00:26:41,839 a's, she still got turned down. Well, we think it was because 368 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:48,160 her major was impacted. But also in an impacted major, the problem is, 369 00:26:48,759 --> 00:26:55,759 as you know, the kids, there's so many kids like Lbie, 370 00:26:56,079 --> 00:26:59,359 Like there's so much pressure on our kids these days. So the kids that 371 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:03,720 are already in this like upper echelon, right, there's so many of them 372 00:27:03,039 --> 00:27:07,480 that if you're applying to an impacted major, there's kids that have much better 373 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,880 stats than Lbie that are also applying for psychology. So of those kids, 374 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,079 she wasn't. She didn't. I don't know, she got to hide, 375 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,839 not even waitlisted. Right, So I think that we've all been a little 376 00:27:18,839 --> 00:27:25,480 bit feeling anxious about, like, how's this. She only did Pierce, 377 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,960 you know, she only did school for one year. Yeah, she had 378 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,880 to reapply literally being in one semester, you know, then she had to 379 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:41,400 update her grades after her winter right, So like before applying to SDSU, 380 00:27:41,559 --> 00:27:45,480 she had to take another She found out like a week before I think I 381 00:27:45,559 --> 00:27:51,079 told you this. She was all set, she'd done her applications, and 382 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,160 then it turned out that like, oh, you can't apply to San Diego 383 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:57,559 unless you've taken this extra class. I mean, everything was one thing after 384 00:27:57,599 --> 00:28:00,759 another for her, where she was like are you kidding me? So she 385 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:04,880 took the class because she was like, listen, I don't know what's going 386 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,240 to happen. I could get denied from the schools that I really really want 387 00:28:08,279 --> 00:28:12,039 to go to, and my choice I want to have cal Poly Slow and 388 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,079 San Diego as an option. Yeah, so she had to have this extra 389 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:19,319 communications class, so she took it. Then she had to update her grades 390 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,960 for the winter when she doesn't have any, and then she has to say 391 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:29,119 what's planned for spring. So the point is all of this could go either 392 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,440 way. Yeah, so this was big news. It was the first one 393 00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:36,680 that denied her last year that accepted her as a transfer student, so she 394 00:28:36,839 --> 00:28:41,440 was super excited feeling about it. Now. Then she showed me her outfit, 395 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,160 right, so I'm all excited. I'm like, oh my god, 396 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,000 yes, and then she's like, yes, I want to see my outfit 397 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:52,960 and I was like yes, and then she's she goes down her body and 398 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,960 I was like, no, what is happening. I was like, Albie, 399 00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:02,599 I was like, I can your boobs see you're under boob and she's 400 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,160 like, I know everybody's dressed like this. Trusts me. Well. I 401 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,440 did go to the Instagram account for and if you want to if you want 402 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,759 to see it, it's called It's at Beyond Wonderland. That was the Instagram 403 00:29:12,799 --> 00:29:17,839 account for the rave r. Yeah. Yeah, Oh, it was just 404 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:22,720 conservatively compared to some girls. I mean there are full on like g strings 405 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,480 with crazed hassles, and you know, I mean some people. Then there's 406 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,559 like a guy dressed like a banana take a picture with it runs the gamut, 407 00:29:30,759 --> 00:29:34,720 is what I'm saying. Yeah, So I resisted the urge. I 408 00:29:34,839 --> 00:29:40,240 eventually went to sleep. I did not life three sixty her until the morning. 409 00:29:40,359 --> 00:29:42,079 But I did see that she didn't get back to her room until four 410 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:47,359 thirty in the morning. Right, but it starts late, doesn't it earth 411 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:52,839 No, not really. It turned out it turned out that they it was 412 00:29:52,599 --> 00:29:56,039 shit. They'd go a little sideways at the end. They were freezing cold. 413 00:29:56,759 --> 00:30:00,559 They brought these like emergency blankets that are like I don't know, there 414 00:30:00,599 --> 00:30:03,799 are these foil things. Yeah, you keep in your car. Yes, 415 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,559 oh I could see that, and then they sort of heat they have some 416 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,519 self generated way that they heat up, and then she's smart. They but 417 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,200 she said they were wrapped in this emergency blanket. They couldn't get an uber. 418 00:30:15,759 --> 00:30:18,759 They couldn't have their sole. Reception was so bad and there were so 419 00:30:18,839 --> 00:30:22,720 many people that it was impossible that none of the ubers would They kept asking 420 00:30:22,799 --> 00:30:27,559 the problem canceling, that's the problem with these concerts. Yeah, like Stagecoach 421 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:32,640 last year. They the girls had a hard time because there was no reception 422 00:30:32,799 --> 00:30:36,440 because everybody's trying to get an uber, right, so right, they got 423 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:40,119 to figure this out. Yeah, so she said they didn't. They finally, 424 00:30:40,839 --> 00:30:42,480 like ubers kept saying they would come to them, but then they'd be 425 00:30:42,559 --> 00:30:48,000 twenty minutes away, they cancel, Like ten minutes later they'd cancel. So 426 00:30:48,119 --> 00:30:52,680 they finally got somebody and then Elbie said there was like a road closure so 427 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:57,680 the ubers couldn't get through. But then this one uber and now it's really 428 00:30:57,799 --> 00:31:02,519 late, was like, is there any way They're like, we'll come to 429 00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:04,279 you because he's like, I can't get to you, and they were like 430 00:31:04,359 --> 00:31:07,880 if we walk it was like four blocks, you know, and the guy 431 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,440 was like, okay, yeah, if you walk to me, I'll take 432 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,960 you. So they did. But then there was some kind of crazy like 433 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,960 the freeway was closed. So she said it was kind of a nightmare, 434 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,279 but at least they were in the warm uber, right, And then they 435 00:31:21,279 --> 00:31:25,160 were in traffic for an hour, even though they got an uber that was 436 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:29,599 right next to the venue, but because the road was closed, it was 437 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:34,039 just a blocked line of cars. Wow. Anyway, I was proud of 438 00:31:34,079 --> 00:31:37,440 myself for resisting. But she still had a great time. She It wasn't 439 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,920 like yeah, He's like yeah. Then we got back and then we went 440 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,480 to sleep, and then the next day they had fun during the day and 441 00:31:42,519 --> 00:31:45,519 then they went back that night and they still had an She was she had 442 00:31:45,559 --> 00:31:49,599 an amazing time. So did that's good? Did the next night did they 443 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:55,559 figure out how to get an uber? Did the earlier She was like, 444 00:31:55,640 --> 00:32:00,960 we knew we were freezing again and our feet hurt. Yeah, and it's 445 00:32:00,039 --> 00:32:05,480 funny. Elbe was like, well, I was very sober. She's like, 446 00:32:05,599 --> 00:32:07,440 the first I get I think they couldn't get a hold of any alcohol 447 00:32:07,559 --> 00:32:12,480 the second night, right, and they didn't have a friend, They couldn't 448 00:32:12,519 --> 00:32:16,000 find a friend that was over twenty one that they knew they could get alcohol, 449 00:32:16,119 --> 00:32:21,880 and she said it was also super overpriced. But the night before I 450 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,960 guess they'd had a few drinks somehow, right, And so she's like, 451 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,640 it didn't. I didn't. I was sober by the end of the night. 452 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,440 Yeah, but I didn't feel like my feet hurting. But she's like, 453 00:32:30,559 --> 00:32:32,920 second night, honestly, she goes, we were way too sober, 454 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,759 so like feet hurt. It was like I can't imagine. Everything was getting 455 00:32:37,799 --> 00:32:39,160 too loud, like you know. I was like, yeah, welcome to 456 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:44,759 my world. He exactly literally all the time I feed her and I'm sober, 457 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:49,319 Right, things aren't as fun. There's a lot of things that you 458 00:32:49,319 --> 00:32:52,400 can tolerate a lot easier with a few drinks in you. So I get 459 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:57,960 it right. But she had like a really good time. So then I 460 00:32:58,079 --> 00:33:01,160 was thinking, and I know you'll be with me on this. I was 461 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:06,559 like at Elbe's age, the shit that I was doing. Yeah, that 462 00:33:06,799 --> 00:33:09,720 like nobody had life three sixty on me. I mean I was going to 463 00:33:09,839 --> 00:33:15,000 Vegas. We were driving to Vegas at like nineteen twenty years old, right, 464 00:33:15,079 --> 00:33:19,720 like driving four hours yes to Vegas with like one hundred dollars and like 465 00:33:19,839 --> 00:33:22,599 Scien's barely anywhere to stay, like enough money for a hotel for one night. 466 00:33:22,799 --> 00:33:25,559 We'll figure it out. Yeah, we went to Laughlan. We couldn't 467 00:33:25,559 --> 00:33:30,240 even afford Vegas, like going to Laflin, Like, ah, it's a 468 00:33:30,279 --> 00:33:34,680 poor man's Vegas, poor man's Vega. The very first time I ever went 469 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,480 to a casino, I was like, wait, I could win money by 470 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,559 putting quarters in this machine. Like I sat there played quarters all night lost 471 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:45,200 like yeah, uh yeah. We we would just get just take off and 472 00:33:45,279 --> 00:33:49,640 just go. Nobody knew where we were going, what we were doing. 473 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,839 Figured it out. I was having one night stands too, like so okay, 474 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,799 So this I would have been a little bit older, like early twenties 475 00:33:55,839 --> 00:34:00,480 though. Yeah, but oh my god, I was going off. I 476 00:34:00,519 --> 00:34:05,839 remember me and my friend, so I would have been like maybe twenty five. 477 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,960 I remember very vividly me and my friend going to Vegas, being drunk 478 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:15,559 in some casino, meeting some guys, going back to their room, sleeping 479 00:34:15,599 --> 00:34:19,760 with them, and then like the next day being like ew ew, like 480 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,000 what did I do? Right? Okay, and then having to like deal 481 00:34:22,039 --> 00:34:25,199 with going to breakfast all the four of us and being like I get away 482 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,480 from these guys, right, you know, I mean that was I was 483 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:34,280 like risky behavior, but it seemed really fun at the time. I know 484 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:39,079 my time my girlfriend Dawn, it's no secret, but like she was a 485 00:34:39,119 --> 00:34:45,559 floozy, and we like left Jeremiah's with these other guys that we barely knew. 486 00:34:45,559 --> 00:34:49,400 They were gonna drive us home. We're in the back of their Hyundai 487 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,280 and then we get like pulled over by this this gang of other guys who 488 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:58,320 knew the guys in the front seat, and I guess apparently they owed them 489 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,360 money, so they pull them out of the car. I think I've told 490 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:06,280 this story. Beat the crap out of them. Shut up, you've never 491 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,480 had this story, yes, and start at the beginning. You don't know 492 00:35:08,559 --> 00:35:12,199 these guys from any well. We meet him at Jeremy and we see him 493 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,599 like every now, and they're like hey, hey, hey. And then 494 00:35:14,639 --> 00:35:17,599 eventually one night, you know, Don was really working. This one guy's 495 00:35:17,679 --> 00:35:22,639 name was Sergio, and and she was like, we're gonna They're gonna take 496 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:23,760 us home, but we're gonna I don't know where we were going. I 497 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,360 don't know if we were going home to her house or if We're going to 498 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,039 their house and then home. Who cares. I don't know. This guy's 499 00:35:30,079 --> 00:35:32,800 a limit. Like, all right, let's get in. Let's pile in 500 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:37,920 this little Hyundai. I was the in the middle seat, like smashed. 501 00:35:37,199 --> 00:35:40,960 There was three guys and me and then me and Don, two guys in 502 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:45,039 the front, one guy, Sergio. A lot of guys. It was 503 00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:47,679 a lot and they were big, yes, And I was like, but 504 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,599 what did I I don't know. I was drunk. I was like, 505 00:35:50,599 --> 00:35:53,000 all right, here we go. And so I was like, we see 506 00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:57,119 them all the time. Weren't getting we weren't worried about getting sex trafficked in 507 00:35:57,119 --> 00:36:00,320 those days. No, there was no worry about that. I was these 508 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,559 guys were in Woodland or now where were we north Ridge? North Ridge? 509 00:36:04,599 --> 00:36:07,840 Yes, and we I think that they went to season. Yeah. So 510 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:09,639 we're like, oh, they're college. You're like, oh, you know, 511 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,559 they're good kids. You know, I'd a worst. I don't even 512 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,639 I know exactly. I don't even think I even thought anything. Like we 513 00:36:16,679 --> 00:36:20,679 see them all the time. They're happy, go lucky dudes. They're like, 514 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,599 yeah, come with us. And Don really likes Sergio. We get 515 00:36:22,639 --> 00:36:28,920 we pack into this freakin Hyundai, and I just remember we like leave Jeremiah's. 516 00:36:29,159 --> 00:36:31,760 We go like one right, one left, and they're going down a 517 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:37,079 side street and this truck of guys just pull up next to us and they're 518 00:36:37,119 --> 00:36:38,639 like hey, bubba bubba. And I thought that they were friends. We're 519 00:36:38,679 --> 00:36:43,400 like hey, I'm like waving at us. Steve and I thought we were 520 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,719 friends. And all of a sudden, they all jump out. They go 521 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,000 to both sides of the car, they open the doors. They pull Sergio 522 00:36:50,079 --> 00:36:52,880 and the other guy out of the car, and then the other guy in 523 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,599 the backseat jumps out. Don and I are like, what the fuck is 524 00:36:55,639 --> 00:37:00,760 going on? They start beating the shit and one guy had a gun in 525 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:04,360 his in his pants in front of his pants, and I go, they 526 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,480 got guns, Don, Don, we got to get out of here. 527 00:37:06,519 --> 00:37:09,639 And I pull her out of the car and then I'm she starts running and 528 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:15,639 I starts Yes. Of course, I was serpentining supertit and I was like, 529 00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:16,880 I'm going to a neighbor. I'm going to somebody's house. I'm gonna 530 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:21,159 knock on the door. And I ran up to their front porch and then 531 00:37:21,199 --> 00:37:24,079 like I like a hid in the bushes and then Don's like taking her sweet 532 00:37:24,079 --> 00:37:28,039 time, and She's like, my purse, my purse. They took her 533 00:37:28,079 --> 00:37:32,239 purse, They took my purse. Our purse was a mess in the street 534 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:37,000 like after they left, like all of our shit just all everywhere. No 535 00:37:37,159 --> 00:37:39,639 wallet, no credit cards, no money, all of that's gone. My 536 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:44,159 id, my fake ID, I think all gone, Like all of that 537 00:37:44,199 --> 00:37:46,920 shit's gone. Oh pot that don had in her purse is gone, like 538 00:37:47,039 --> 00:37:52,239 all that and Sergio and these guys are just in the Sergio's got the ship. 539 00:37:52,639 --> 00:37:54,760 His eyes were like I should have Don come on the show and talk 540 00:37:54,800 --> 00:38:00,440 about His eyes were like big baseballs, like you know, purple and see 541 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:04,079 straight and all me and Donn are thinking like how are we gonna get home 542 00:38:04,119 --> 00:38:07,119 now? Like now I don't even know where we are. We're in some 543 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:12,599 street and Northridge, like there's no ways, there's no uber phones, no 544 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,880 phones, Like I'm like, who's we He can't drive and they're just like 545 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,599 in the street, the three of them, And I don't know, maybe 546 00:38:20,599 --> 00:38:22,519 somebody had a page or or something, but at that point, but but 547 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:28,719 you can't like there's we're just we were stuck. And one of the guys 548 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,360 got in the car. The guy at least that didn't really get the shit. 549 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,400 He got in the car and he drove us home and he just dropped 550 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,719 us off at our at our at Down's place, and he's like by girls 551 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:43,760 and like left. And the next morning, Don's like, what happened where'd 552 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,000 Sergio go? And I go, oh no, no, she didn't. 553 00:38:47,039 --> 00:38:51,320 I go what do you mean where'd Sergio go? I could not? I 554 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,360 go done? Do you remember what happened last night? Guys with guns? 555 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,599 You know? It's like we were serpentining. I was trying to get you. 556 00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,800 They took it. She's like, where's my purse? I go our 557 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,800 are gone? Done? Like gone, We don't have anything, no credit 558 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:07,440 cards. We had to go to DMV to get I mean that was that 559 00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:13,000 what it was like back then? Like yeah, so no three sixty, 560 00:39:13,159 --> 00:39:15,519 no parents paying attention to where we were. I mean my mom tried. 561 00:39:15,639 --> 00:39:20,159 But by then, by the time I was like nineteen twenty, this is 562 00:39:20,159 --> 00:39:22,199 a shit what was going on? You know? But yeah, it was. 563 00:39:22,519 --> 00:39:25,760 I can't believe I never told that story. I don't remember it. 564 00:39:27,079 --> 00:39:30,960 Yeah it was. I'll never forget it. Yeah it was. That's crazy. 565 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:34,320 It's crazy. All right, Let's take a quick break. Hey, 566 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,719 this show is sponsored by green Light. What a perfect product for our show. 567 00:39:38,159 --> 00:39:42,000 Yeah, when you're a parent, you're gonna have your share of big 568 00:39:42,079 --> 00:39:45,880 talks with your kids, and one of those big talks should involve money and 569 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,760 green Light can help with that. Green Light is a debit card and money 570 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,679 app made for families. A lot of our listeners are always saying, what 571 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:57,400 do you guys do about giving your money giving your kid their allowance? 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I was I must have been early twenties because I can 599 00:41:59,639 --> 00:42:02,320 picture what I was wearing this night, but I was. I think I 600 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:07,880 was talking about how much I drove drunk, like back in the day, 601 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,639 like in my early twenties, right, I just that's just what I did. 602 00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:15,119 Yeah, and I drove a broken down car. I had this Mazda 603 00:42:15,159 --> 00:42:20,039 GLC banana yellow. This was before I won my car in a game show. 604 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,320 So I must have literally been because I think I was on the game 605 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:28,599 show. I was like twenty one and I won the car, right, 606 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,079 But so prior to that, I must have literally been like under it, 607 00:42:31,159 --> 00:42:36,559 like twenty years old. I was dry somehow I was driving by myself and 608 00:42:36,599 --> 00:42:37,840 I was drunk. And I don't know why this. I don't know why 609 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,280 I would have been by myself, but I know I was by myself. 610 00:42:42,159 --> 00:42:45,280 Car broke down. Were you in LA Road? I was in La and 611 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:49,920 I was on like the one ten freeway. Oh yeah, car breaks down. 612 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,119 Oh no, my car didn't break down. I ran out of gas. 613 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:57,159 Oh perfect, right, yes, imagine of course I ran out of 614 00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,000 gas. Of course I did. Mean, so car runs out of gas. 615 00:43:00,079 --> 00:43:01,639 I'm on the side of the road. It's like one in the morning. 616 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:07,519 I'm wearing heels, and you know, remember the heels that we wore 617 00:43:07,559 --> 00:43:13,559 back then, like pumps. I'm wearing pump pumps. A tight like white 618 00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:19,880 like stretchy material skirt, remember how we would wear those almost like with ribbed 619 00:43:20,559 --> 00:43:25,559 like but narrow skirt that was stretchy material, and then probably like some kind 620 00:43:25,559 --> 00:43:29,559 of HALTERI ish top. You know, I'm not I'm dressed like that. 621 00:43:30,159 --> 00:43:34,960 I have to. And of course a giant belt. Oh yeah, we 622 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,760 wore those big leather belts with like a huge like belt, like a circle, 623 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:44,960 massive belts that almost almost a little bit like weightlifter belts. We thought 624 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:49,679 that was the height of fashion. Right right, walking literally on the freeway 625 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:54,000 having to leave the car, I'm walked by myself down the freeway like towards 626 00:43:54,000 --> 00:44:00,360 it, and I'm like very buzzed. Right, some guy pulled up, 627 00:44:00,599 --> 00:44:04,559 Oh I know why. I know why. I was telling John this because 628 00:44:04,559 --> 00:44:07,440 I was listening to a crime podcast and he goes, you just love these 629 00:44:07,039 --> 00:44:10,800 crime podcasts, and I was like, it's amazing to me that I was 630 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:17,800 never murdered. I know. I let some guy okay pulled up and was 631 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:22,480 like, hey, do you need help? Just some guy by himself one 632 00:44:22,519 --> 00:44:27,360 o'clock in the morning, and I was like I don't remember having like a 633 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,400 feeling of like, do not get in the car. I remember thinking like, 634 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:31,760 oh, thank god, and he's like, want me, do you 635 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,719 need me to take you to like a gas station? And I was like, 636 00:44:36,519 --> 00:44:38,639 yeah, okay, hop in the car with the guy. Guess what. 637 00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:44,320 Took me to a gas station, got some gas in a thing, 638 00:44:44,679 --> 00:44:46,719 brought me back to my car, put the gas in my car. So 639 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:51,920 he didn't murder good day, did not even murder me. Isn't that great? 640 00:44:52,199 --> 00:44:53,840 Shocking? Is that? Though? I know? I think with all 641 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:59,039 the people that get picked up that like get a ride from some I mean 642 00:44:59,119 --> 00:45:02,440 I was prime. I'm walking around in like a tight shirt in the middle 643 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:07,880 of the night, right, yea, with an abandoned car, and some 644 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,719 guy just actually helped me, right, isn't it crazy? I'm like, 645 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,039 wow, I know it's not the only time something like that happened. That's 646 00:45:15,079 --> 00:45:17,840 the time I can remember, right, I know. I agree. I 647 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:22,639 mean I think about sometimes too, Like I remember there was this guy, 648 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:27,000 Oh god, he was like a dweebee guy, and he came to Jeremiz 649 00:45:27,039 --> 00:45:34,239 a lot, and he apparently was a producer of like porn no like music, 650 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:38,079 like a music porn audio porn son. He listens to like like some 651 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:44,039 like like you know, he he was he's had some recording act girl or 652 00:45:44,079 --> 00:45:47,079 something and you know, and he's like, you you could be this the 653 00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:51,920 next you could be this first white girl rapper. And he's like, you 654 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,199 should we should record a song, which you kind of could. I could 655 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,519 at the time, like because there was no white girl rapper and you can 656 00:45:58,639 --> 00:46:01,039 be He met, Yes, that's right. He saw me do that. 657 00:46:01,639 --> 00:46:05,320 He wasn't. No, he wasn't. And I talked to him about and 658 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,559 everybody's like, you should do it, you should do it, you should 659 00:46:07,559 --> 00:46:09,800 do it. Well, then he we exchanged numbers or whatever, and he's 660 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:13,480 like, I wrote a song. You should come. And I even have 661 00:46:13,599 --> 00:46:15,760 that song somewhere. I should find it. But he wrote it, he 662 00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:20,960 wrote it out. It was the most ridiculous. It was like like hey, 663 00:46:21,039 --> 00:46:27,679 everybody out here to say you know, like one of those like yeah, 664 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,480 oh of course he used the last name of Paradise, you know, 665 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:34,400 had a rhyme it with something. It was so ridiculous. But he was 666 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,440 like, come to my house and and and let's go through it. And 667 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:42,239 I was like, okay, I go to this guy's house. He reminded 668 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,840 me of the guy like in Boogie Nights in one of those houses, like 669 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:50,119 remember when they went and they were playing you know, Sister Christian and the 670 00:46:50,159 --> 00:46:53,679 guy was It was like one of those houses in the valley and it was 671 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,880 just me and this dewey bee guy. And I'm thinking to myself, I 672 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,880 think nothing happened, But I'm thinking myself back then, like my god, 673 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:06,000 what if I found out and n Italia did that, I would kill her. 674 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,960 Oh you go to some guys at the age of nineteen, you know, 675 00:47:10,119 --> 00:47:15,119 by yourself. And then there was another time a photographer. I was 676 00:47:15,159 --> 00:47:17,840 getting my Z card done, remember those Z cards they called it, which 677 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:22,960 was you had your your It was like five by seven cards and you had 678 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,800 your like head shot on the front and then on the back you had like 679 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:30,039 your resume. No, like four different pictures like at the closet. Yes, 680 00:47:30,119 --> 00:47:34,719 here's me playing tennis right here here. I am serious, or like 681 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,199 I just you know, bad girl. Yes, but I'm so smart. 682 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,440 I got a book in my hand and I have glasses on my face like 683 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,000 you know. So it was like four of those pictures. Well, one 684 00:47:44,119 --> 00:47:47,480 picture was the tough picture and he the photographer was like, you know, 685 00:47:47,519 --> 00:47:52,840 he was taking these pictures of me like outside in like the wash, like 686 00:47:52,920 --> 00:48:00,719 the damn the La River, and a lot of bodies turn up exactly. 687 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:06,079 And then he was like, okay for the bad girl image, Like I 688 00:48:06,119 --> 00:48:09,440 had a leather jacket and jeans and a black belt, big black belt, 689 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:14,719 and he's like, you should just have like a black bra. And then 690 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:19,360 your like leather jacket kind of hanging off your shoulder. Jacket's on, but 691 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:22,000 it's like you've you know, you're like up against the chain link fest and 692 00:48:22,039 --> 00:48:25,239 you got the jacket hanging off of one shoulder and you got your you know, 693 00:48:25,559 --> 00:48:30,079 people can see clearly it's a bra, right, and you like hair's 694 00:48:30,079 --> 00:48:32,400 all messy and you look all tough, like like you know what, like 695 00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:37,840 you just had a fight in your bra right in the La River. What 696 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,719 the fuck am I doing in the La River? Right? It's just weird 697 00:48:40,039 --> 00:48:43,760 and I did it. I was like, Okay, that sounds good. 698 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,800 Like I'm like get taking my shirt off and putting my in front of this 699 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:52,639 like photographer who maybe somebody recommended from I don't know who, but like I 700 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:57,239 just think about, like wow, I could have been so many people. 701 00:48:57,639 --> 00:49:00,719 I'm not even I'm not being funny. So many people I've been murdered that 702 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:04,320 way. I like, that's a thing in la is like people posing as 703 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:07,159 photographers and then murdering people and bearing their body. There's aigelists for us, 704 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,599 right, there's a big story of that. That that model that yeah, 705 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:15,000 ended up dead because a photographer killed her. Yeah, yeah, I know. 706 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:20,000 I think to my said, what the fuck nobody was going, Hey, 707 00:49:20,039 --> 00:49:22,400 that's a bad idea. I used to have a stand up joke in 708 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:27,480 my act about how I just got my first big break. This is how 709 00:49:27,519 --> 00:49:30,559 the bit went. It was I might butcher this because you know, I 710 00:49:30,559 --> 00:49:32,000 haven't done stand up in twenty years. But I was like, I just 711 00:49:32,039 --> 00:49:37,360 got my first big break. Uh. I met a producer. He's gonna 712 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,320 put me in his movie, and uh it's a crazy story. It's kind 713 00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,880 of like the Lana Turner story. That's I was down. I was hanging 714 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,519 out at Oakie Dog at Santa Monica Boulevard and a guy came over to me 715 00:49:49,079 --> 00:49:52,519 wearing like no shoes, you know, but he gave me his card and 716 00:49:52,559 --> 00:49:59,119 it said producer, slash agent, slash whatever. And I said, uh, 717 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,000 is there new to. I'm like, I'm no dummy. I was 718 00:50:01,039 --> 00:50:05,679 like, is there going to be nudity and he was like yes, full 719 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,719 frontal nudity. And I was like, well okay then, because I want 720 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:12,320 to I got to show off what I got, like I'm looking for an 721 00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,239 opportunity. I can't remember what it was, but it was basically like the 722 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:19,800 joke was that I'm so dumb that like any guy gives me his card, 723 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,320 but that's what people, but people were that dumb. People were like, 724 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:25,880 oh, your card says you're an agent. Oh my god, you might 725 00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:29,639 say an agent. Yeah, I'm going to go to your house an audition 726 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:34,800 for you. Okay, right, I now it's crazy. So so to 727 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:39,679 bring it full circle, I feel like I did all this stuff. So 728 00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:45,519 maybe that's in my head of just how the risks I took and and how 729 00:50:45,559 --> 00:50:47,960 I just had this fun life. So now I'm overly like I try not 730 00:50:49,039 --> 00:50:53,119 to make LB paranoid, but I'm always like, okay, listen, make 731 00:50:53,199 --> 00:50:57,599 sure. I was like, things can happen. I'm not going to say 732 00:50:57,599 --> 00:51:00,880 exactly what things can happen, but like, do not go off with any 733 00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:06,840 guy like that you don't know, like, don't split up with your friend. 734 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,440 Whatever you do, be with your friend the whole time. And in 735 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,960 my mind, I'm like, it's not even that safe to just be with 736 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,039 one friend. I'm like be in a group, but like have no in 737 00:51:16,079 --> 00:51:20,840 your mind that not everybody has the best intentions. Exactly, don't drink a 738 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,000 drink that's like open, don't you know. I was like, just that 739 00:51:24,119 --> 00:51:28,679 stuff can happen. I know, I'm so careful. And so she has 740 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:30,480 that in her head, I know. And then she she did tell me 741 00:51:30,519 --> 00:51:36,840 some stories about like nothing scary scary, but like there were certain guys that 742 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,480 like kind of wouldn't leave them alone, and at one point, like the 743 00:51:39,519 --> 00:51:43,639 guy kept going, hey, uh can I come with you? Guys? 744 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,920 And and just just being she was like a couple of the guys just seemed 745 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:51,119 off and kind of creepy. Yeah, and I'm not going to say that 746 00:51:51,199 --> 00:51:53,360 she said I had your voice in my head, but I feel like she 747 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:58,199 did because she was like she told her friend like they had a code word 748 00:51:58,679 --> 00:52:02,239 for like when they're not feeling comfort something. It was like a Hungarian word. 749 00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:07,440 Oh, that's it is Hungarian. So they would say the word and 750 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,719 then cool if they felt uncomfortable, they would both they and they did a 751 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:15,280 couple like she was like we we just started walking really fast and then we'd 752 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,760 like dipped behind somebody and like ran for it. Oh good, I lost 753 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,639 people in the crowd. And I was like, Okay, that's awesome. 754 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,559 And I know she kept her wits about her. I know she didn't get 755 00:52:23,639 --> 00:52:28,519 really drunk. So it like makes me feel better, but it brings up 756 00:52:28,559 --> 00:52:32,440 anxiety of like how did I survive? Yes, and now like my late 757 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:37,679 teens and twenties and now we have teenage daughters where like, you know, 758 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,639 oh my god, now we have to worry about how are they gonna, 759 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:44,079 you know, like just make it right. I was doing and we've talked 760 00:52:44,079 --> 00:52:46,320 about this a lot of times, but I was doing massive amounts of cocaine 761 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:53,159 at like nineteen years old. Nineteen I had just moved to LA and met 762 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:57,920 like guys in our neighborhood that were giving us coke. And it's not it 763 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,320 wasn't even that the neighborhood guys. It was what I would do when I 764 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:04,480 was on coke. In the desire to get more coke, I would like 765 00:53:04,519 --> 00:53:07,719 trust anybody, Oh, that guy's gonna give me coke. Some guy I'm 766 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:09,480 met at a club. That's like, Hey, I got in a car 767 00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:15,480 with my friend, went to some abandoned construction site on mo Holand with some 768 00:53:15,519 --> 00:53:21,159 guys in their thirties because they were giving us coke crazy and they drove us 769 00:53:21,199 --> 00:53:23,599 back home, right, but like they could have so easily not. I 770 00:53:23,679 --> 00:53:30,440 know, it's scary. I took so many unnecessary it was risky behavior. 771 00:53:30,559 --> 00:53:35,599 And you know, I'll just end with like, my kids went to this 772 00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:40,000 Bond Senior another senior bonfire that the student group parts on or whatever down in 773 00:53:40,079 --> 00:53:45,079 like Newport Beach this weekend, and I was just like, just remember the 774 00:53:45,119 --> 00:53:49,880 Buddy system because I was just watching the news and the kid that was missing 775 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,199 in Nashville, Yes, it's really sad ended up. They found him in 776 00:53:53,199 --> 00:53:58,679 the in the bay. It's no foul play. But if you see videos, 777 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,719 they don't know that it was a foul play though, right they said 778 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:05,400 when they pulled they they are most likely thinking that there was. I mean 779 00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,840 I watched the press conference after they pulled him out, and they said it 780 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:12,719 looks to us at this point no foul play. And also he was kicked 781 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:16,880 out of a bar in Nashville for being too drunk, and then there's tons 782 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:22,840 of surveillance video of him throughout the city just stumbling, and one point he 783 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,199 falls to the ground. And in this video, I don't know if you've 784 00:54:25,199 --> 00:54:29,239 seen it, he's like running through a parking lot and he falls. He 785 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:32,159 just lay and he takes like a couple beats to get back up, and 786 00:54:32,199 --> 00:54:37,559 there's just people driving in traffic, and I'm like, if these people in 787 00:54:37,599 --> 00:54:40,960 this car saw this kid who's just fell, he's by himself and he's on 788 00:54:42,039 --> 00:54:45,440 the ground and he can't get back up, if somebody would have just been 789 00:54:45,559 --> 00:54:47,280 like, hey, are you okay? Do you need help? I mean, 790 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:52,840 obviously was really drunk, and they I guess he ended up in the 791 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:58,239 bay and drowned, you know at this point. So I told the kids 792 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,599 that and they were like, you're like, have a fun night, yes, 793 00:55:01,079 --> 00:55:04,880 But they listened to me. They were like wow because they heard that 794 00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,480 this kid was missing. And they said, well that you know, they 795 00:55:07,519 --> 00:55:09,159 found him and this is what happened. And they were like, oh shit, 796 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:13,239 we like I just that's all I want, just to plant the little 797 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,239 seed in the little brain, like you know, just stay buddy, be 798 00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:22,679 safe, buddy, system, don't go off don't get too drunk. Yeah 799 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:27,199 day Yeah, don't hook up with guys that want to make rap songs with 800 00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,159 you. All right, Well on that note, uh, let's talk about 801 00:55:30,159 --> 00:55:35,840 our Patreon people. By the way. Yeah, girstein my body wants to 802 00:55:36,119 --> 00:55:37,159 promote his business. Do you know what? Do you know what? You 803 00:55:37,199 --> 00:55:40,079 got the info? Yes? I do. 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