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Trade studio in Fairport and driven by
Victor Chrysler Dots jeep Ram. It's Billified,

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the Bill Moran Podcast. Well,
hello and welcome. Thanks for getting

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your pot on, Thanks for telling
a friend. That's how we spread the

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word about the pirate ship. Follow
us at Billified on YouTube. You can

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watch it live there, Facebook dot
com, slash Bill Moran, Dougie Fresh

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in the house, going on.
Baby got a new shirt. I got

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a new shirt. You got a
little new thing too. What do you

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take second place in a Mick Jinger
lookalike contest? Like Rolling Stones? I

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like today, Doug. I went
in and I went in and did some

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sparring, and I caught one right
in a fuck face. I tried to

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what slip right into the How big
was she? She was big? She

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was big. Actually she wasn't that
big. She's just mighty mighty, mighty

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mighty fist. No I I I
wear sunscreen. That's all. I'll tell

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you. Put on some sunscreen.
Just do that, all right. Don't

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lay out of the sun, don't
go to the tanning booths, don't just

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don't do it. That's all.
So for those of you who can't watch

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those, Bill's got a big white
band aid above his Uh, it's a

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whole. I have a history and
a family history with my mom's side of

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skin cancer. So I had a
pre melanoma taken off, and I've had

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other biops. He's done every once
in a while. Like a ship,

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I got to go in and get
some barnacles scraped off. You know,

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I think you're talking about the wrong
end of the ship. But okay.

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My dad told me that when I
was a kid that I looked like I

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stood like if I had my shirt
off, like I stood behind a screen

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door and someone threw shit at me. So he said to me, he

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goes, man, you're spackla all
over. So I that was my old

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man, or it is so today. So back in November, I had

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I've been going every six months.
Then I had an insurance change and I

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show up for a dermatology appointment six
months check up and they go, oh,

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we don't take this insurance. And
I said okay. I said,

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well can I pay cash? And
they said no, you can't. We

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have to and it's it's not their
fault, it's not. So they recommended

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somebody else and I just dragged my
feet a little bit and I went within

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a year and I said, hey, this thing. She goes, oh

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yeah. So they did a biopsy
there and they said it is basil cell.

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The basil cell is in the worst
kind of skin cancer. It's usually

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not deadly, but this is near
your sinuses and stuff. But as soon

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as I could get in to see
this guy from October was now. So

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I had myself on a waiting list, fully expecting at any moment I would

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get a call. So I went
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they they shoot you up. They
numb They numb your face up. They're

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like little needles. Well you tell
you like this for a little while,

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No, because it's up here.
Do you know, listen to my podcast.

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I'm Willie Papa. You better be
funny tonight. I'm want to try.

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I know, I've been working on
stuff all days. Well, it

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looks like you went down on some
broad this weekend and you were looking at

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zipper for twenty minutes before you're like, how's this and you're like, Bill,

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you want to take my zipper down? Oh yeah, I'm sorry,

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it's been a while. I know. So doctor Brown is fantastic because so

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what they do is they numb you
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they go can you feel this?
Does this? Can you like? Because

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they're gonna cut you right. So
they come in, they they cut it

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out and they say, they tell
you you're gonna be there, expect two

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to four hours. That's why I
called you, and I was thinking maybe

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I don't we don't do a live
podcast. I have some podcasts that I

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haven't released yet, but I'm holding
those back because my youngest son is coming

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into town. It's his birthday Saturday. He just called just before we started

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and he's coming into town and I'm
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I'll just run these never heard before, A really interesting one with about Ukraine

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with a guy from Ukraine, and
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do. That's why I called yesterday. So I get in there and I

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figure this is going to be quick, because you know, I mean,

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I go in and just to give
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are old people. Like one guy
gets up there and they say, how

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are you today? He goes,
oh, I'm here. He's at the

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window right, and then it's they
gave you what's your birthday? He goes,

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what's your date of birth and he
goes, I don't know what the

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month or day. What's all I
heard was nineteen thirty eight. Wow.

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Okay, So these are the most
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I'm on the younger end, even
though I'm not necessarily a young guy,

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I'm on the younger end of what
the So I come in and she goes,

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they have to do your vitals and
stuff, and she goes, God,

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that's great. My blood pressure is
like one sixteen over seventy seven.

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My heart rates fifty five fifty something
like that, so you know. But

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then so I'm figuring make you turn
a cough. No, they don't do

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at doc doctor. No, the
last doctor did that. No. Actually

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it was my dentist and I stopped
going to see him. It was really

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weird, talking about cavities that brush
your teeth with this wrong kind of cavity.

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Yeah, okay, you can spit
now. So I go in there

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and they cut and they they're gonna
biopsy, and she says the biopsy usually

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takes forty five minutes. They go
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they've got what they call clean borders, so there's no more skin cancer now.

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They just have a gauze on there. They haven't sewed you up yet.

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Oh yeah, at this at this
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they have not sold me. Okay, yeah, so uh I figure

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is great. So she comes back
in about fifteen minutes later, she goes,

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wow, we got it back ready. Unfortunately we didn't get it all.

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There's more and it's a little deeper, which then you're like, god,

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damn right because this is near your
sinuses and things, so you start

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to So they said, no problem, So they go back in. They

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numb me up more more. They
numbed up more, numb me up more,

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they cut more. Wow, they
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They do the thing. This one
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like a half hour, and then
they say, got it all. We're

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gonna come in and we're gonna sew
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They knew that right then and there, yes, okay, all there it's

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skin cancer. So they just have
to make sure they get what's called clean

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borders as long as there's no cancer
in the edges. So there's a discoloration

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underneath, maybe that they can tell. I don't know, because it's basically

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a hole in there now, so
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they do it, I don't know
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think of your skin. Right there's
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I don't know. I'm I don't
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heiney here. But there's several layers
of skin. So I don't know how

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deep into the skin they're going and
down. But they put stitches in the

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lower level that dissolve and then upper
Since it's your face, he said,

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I want to do stitches that you're
gonna have to come back and take out

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because they hold tighter so right along
like a smile line, you won't even

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see it. Yeah, so but
right now I have stitches from like here

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to have you ever grown a mustache
before? I had a mustache beard?

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I did it once years ago.
Yeah, I'm I'm not gonna do it,

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Okay, I just care scars are
I mean, this wouldn't hide it

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anyway because it's really it's above the
hairline. So now it's you can't get

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it wet for two days and then
when you go back Thursday. Oh,

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I go back next Tuesday to get
the stitches out. But then Thursday,

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I can take a shower, and
I'm gonna I can shower. I just

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can't get my face wet, so
I'll do that, and then I have

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to change the cause and all this
other shit. So it's lovely, lovely

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thing, so much fun. Well, I haven't been those things suck.

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You gotta get I have a bit
of a headache and this, but I

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just figured bush mills will help.
Yeah, I figure that. Yeah,

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I was thinking. I was fighting
the urge to go have a beer before

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I came here. Sure, I
didn't get a text for that. I

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did you want to come out here
and have a beer? Oh? I

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got Chinese food. I didn't.
I was beer involved. I didn't.

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I didn't go. I didn't go
for the day. Instead, I went

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and I got a smoothie. It
looks like you're young Santa Claus and you're

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only growing one sided mustache out.
It's just I'm trying to relate this to

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something in my head that I've seen
in the movies or something. It's so

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it's annoying, and I do have
a bit of a headache. But I

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went too. If somebody dug into
my lip, well, here's the thing

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I'd like to keep living. Yeah, I like life, and so far

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things are going well and I'm great. Honestly, in all honesty, I

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thought. I thought, even when
I was sitting in there, I go,

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man, you know how fucking lucky
you are, like you, You're

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you know, like you you are
educated enough on this stuff, on this

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particular thing to make sure that you
do go every six months because you do

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have kids. They are really you
know, I got a fourteen year old

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there is as much as he doesn't
live in the same house as me,

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but I'm needed for money, support
that, you know, that kind of

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thing. Being a dad as much
as I can from a distance, isn't

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it. And uh, I don't
want to be around. I want to

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be around And I'm not that this
is a death sentence. It is not,

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and I don't want to just alert
that to anybody. The buk is

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so it's embarrassing to have to walk
around like this, and then I go,

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I got the cameras and things,
and I say, yeah, you

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know what, fucking yeah, fucking
people be sending you flowers and chick most

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people, I'll tell you what though. Here's the funny part. Just before

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they started to go to do the
podcast. I went to I went into

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the bathroom. We share a bathroom
with like some other people. As yeah,

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there's a code to get in.
You gotta be part of the special

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Bathroom Club. And and I go
in there and one of the guys.

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There's a Chinese restaurant near the studio
and it's authentically Chinese. The people that

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work there are from China. I
don't think they speak English. Well,

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so oh she did? She did? Yeah, Well, I don't think

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they all My bill was ninety seven. I pull on my credit card,

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fifteen dollar minimum. She got that. When it comes to money, Japanese

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Chinese, they talk English real fast. So I so I no fun.

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I go in there and the guy
he's at the hurdle and he turns his

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head and he was gonna say hello, and he looks and he goes hi,

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and he goes, oh, what
happened? And I said, oh,

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skin cancer? And he went skin
cancer. And I said, yeah,

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I got it. They got I
got it, got it out.

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So that's the uh there you go, No, No, it's out good.

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I haven't. I haven't really talked
about it to family, and only

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because it's not that big a deal, dude, I see what I'm saying.

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It's not like I totally understand.
And then it becomes like this big

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thing when your family wants to know
everything about Oh yes, I know,

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God, Should we find out more? Should we dig? Who bought you?

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Like it's my lipt I bought it. I need an ironing board.

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I have an iron, but I
don't have an ironing board. Wait,

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you don't have an ironing board.
Yeah this needs a little ironing. This

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is phenomenal. Yeah, this is
the greatest thing. Why did you just

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throw in the dryer. I don't
have a dryer. I'm that I'm not

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taking my shirt to the laundryman for
one dryer. No, listen to me,

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I am I'm all there. If
you have if you had a dryer,

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you just wet like a washcloth,
throw it in there with it and

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the steam builds up in the dry
almost put it in the bathroom and the

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shower. Yeah, you don't have
an ironing board. I have the iron

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halfway there, okay, but I
don't. Why didn't you just lay a

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towel down on the floor and iron
You know what, I didn't think of

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that. I should have done that. Who gives you ship if it's wrinkled

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a drink? Do you care?
No? The people I'm driving around ubershers

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only saying anything. Hey, I
don't want to do out of the vaccinet.

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Yeah right, when you get your
own car, you can tell me

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what you do. Turn left,
turn right. I have a quicker way.

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This is a five minute ride.
Just yeah, back, just stop.

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Well it was every other ride you've
had it with some people. Yeah,

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some days are just like that.
I mean, sure, three rides.

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Just just quiet, let me get
you from A to B. Well,

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today is Super Tuesday. What's Super
Tuesday? So Super Tuesday is when

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the largest number of states will be
holding their presidential primaries and caucuses, not

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all of them, but but I
think like over a third of all available

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delegates for both Republicans and Democratic nominations
are at stake today. And mysteriously,

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and I say it that way because
I know there's conspiracy theorists out there.

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Facebook and Instagram went down at ten
forty this morning, like you couldn't log

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in. There was nothing that was
out there. Yeah you know what.

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I noticed it when I was driving. Yeah, so I don't know.

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So people thought, ah, yeah, Russian hackers. Somebody go to bed.

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I have no idea. It was
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or or I know before noon.
It was. Yeah, they d asked

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me to sign in, sign in. I can't remember my passwords. Oh

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luckily I did. Yeah, I
did the same thing. I had to

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sign back in on there and I
took a guest, just a random I

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go, I think it's this one, and it worked. Yeah. I'm

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huge Penis nineteen seventy with a capitol
age really, because you have to have

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huge Rochester right, very good.
You got to have small and lower caps

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in some numbers. Yes, huge
Penis nineteen seventy with the capitol. Ah,

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that's good. That's why you don't
have an ironing board, right,

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or a washer dryer, because you're
still living in Wagner in your head.

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So I think today I both Donald
Trump and Joe Biden could take a significant

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lead in the delegates. It'll be
until June twenty fifth, but before they

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decide, before the Democrats is going
to try to go with Biden again,

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I haven't kept up with any Yeah, that's all they're that's all that they're

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putting out there. There's nobody else
talking well, it's not another purpose person

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they're talking about, So I have
no idea. I don't know, so

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there's it comes between these two.
I'm well, I don't I probably shouldn't

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say who I'm going to vote for, but I hope after this somebody somebody

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steps up really do well. Nicky
Haley is hanging around. I don't know

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that that that's going to really do
anything. Because the Republican delegates, the

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winner of the GOP presidential nomination would
collect one two hundred and fifteen and I

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don't know, I think they need
one four hundred and twenty, so that

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puts them pretty close to the finish
line anyway. Either way, Super Tuesday,

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and I think there would be some
of that stuff. You know what's

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funny is I did see something on
like CBS this morning, ever, and

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it was some guy I tuned in
sort of halfway and he's writing he was

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writing a book and it was basically
about happiness, which is a big thing

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nowadays, like people trying to tell
you how to be happy. And it

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was funny to me because he said, you know, one of the things

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that's really happened is politics have divided
people so much in this country and really

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turned people against your people. Yeah, and to the point where family members

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don't speak to each other, which
is really sad. And that that and

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the COVID shot. The COVID shot
was a big thing. I heard that.

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Well, that became politicized as well, Yes, and I was like

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wow. And so I'm listening to
this guy and I thought, and he's

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saying, you know, basically like
politicians are saying, you've got to and

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I'm like, I don't. I
haven't heard politicians go, don't talk to

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that side. I haven't heard that. You understand what I'm saying, like

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I do. I haven't heard that
come out of anybody's mouth. But then

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in the neck then they do like
this. I never watched these shows,

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but I have this new routine,
Doug, where I stretch in the morning

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because I'm old and I need to
stretch my body, stretch that lip,

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I gotta stretch that limp out,
get those stitches going, pull down on

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that limb. And I'm watching this
and they do like some they call it

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around the table or something, and
it's stories that each anchor brings to this

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thing. And one of them was
the oldest person in America. Oh no,

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no, no, excuse me.
The oldest person in the world.

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How old do you think the oldest
person in the world is today today in

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twenty twenty four. I think today
one hundred and forty, one hundred and

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fifty five, one hundred and fifty
five, one hundred and forty is moses

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to one hundred and seventeen. One
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And when they show the person and
they look like that misfit dog at the

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pound with one eye, and you
know what I mean, he goes lucky.

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Well I always think I always think
this, and I've said this even

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to my mother. I go,
You're not meant to be in this body

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forever. You know, You're just
not so whatever. They are making new

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drugs that make your life your your
body lasts longer though, yes, where

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in years are going to You're going
to go up to one hundred and fifty.

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But do you really want to be
that old? Well you could you

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if you could still keep your faculties
about you and have relatively life and stay

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in a rational mind. I think
that most people would, yes, because

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this is all we kind of are
aware of. Right. There are those

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that will tell you that what you
have here is only two percent of your

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overall being believed or not. So
there's more after this. Well, there's

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a lot of people that say that
there's many, so I'm not going to

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get laid in the afterlife. Here
there's a lot of non physical, like

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your being is non physical, your
soul and all that. If you want

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to believe that, I'm sure I
do so. But this lady okay one

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hundred and seventeen born in the United
States, lives in Spain, has lived

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in Spain most of her life.
So what does she say The secret is?

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Well interesting, what do you think
she says? The secret is lots

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of sex. She didn't say that, Okay, lack of sex. So

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lots of sex. Lack of sex
means you're going to live for a while

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lack of sex. But I mean, I don't know when you've last had

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sex either, because I have to
mention either. I really got to get

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one of those calendars. What she
says is kind of interesting to me because

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as the one guy goes, listen, you can eat whatever you want,

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he goes, what is it that
some people smoke and drink and do all

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the things we're told not to do
and live longer than where your body works

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with everything could be could be.
I mean Keith Richards. But the other

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thing that this lady said is laughter. No family, family, having family

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and loved can drive you to a
grave too. Well, they can.

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But it was an interesting thing because
you know, I'm not I don't know

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much about Spain. I've been to
Spain and they shut down. They shut

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down at like two o'clock in the
afternoon, and they don't and the city

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doesn't really come back alive till about
six pm. And then it's like Madrid

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became vibrant, and the clubs weren't
empty until eleven o'clock and they rock till

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almost five in the morning. And
I know that they're Yeah, low country

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shuts down. Take a break,
relax, take a break, relaxed.

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It actually gets quiet on the streets. Yeah, and there's siesta. You

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go home and nap. Right now. When I said this, when I

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came back home to the United States, I think my father goes and I

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think they I said they had legalized
drugs because I got so high, so

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high dug on hash hash hash,
which I go, boy, if there's

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anything, if they can make edible
hash I would like that better than edible

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weed because I don't want to smoke
anything. I'm not a smoker. But

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the animals I like that and he
uh but the hash man that was the

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one of the greatest highs I ever
had, Just the greatest high that in

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Cognac cone chocolate because I was seventeen. Wow, throw it up. But

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they what you go there for school? Uh No? I just went to

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with a school trip for like a
week. Yeah, two weeks. Every

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year they took a trip. They
know that you were smoking hash over there.

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supposed to look the other way.
A tour guy got it for us.

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Okay, well you can always trust
the tour gad maybe then that now,

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But you know what it is.
Here's the thing that I realized. I

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can find the derelict in any country
you're, yeah, vacationing with you.

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I can find the guy that's gonna
get me whatever I want. Uh So,

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But I remember my father, Well, they're not a leading nation of

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the world. Blah blah blah.
Probably true. I don't know what would

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really come out of Spain. I
can't say that. Yeah, I mean,

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you know, I don't know.
But as this lady said in Spain,

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family is really put first, family
and friends, having time together,

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not working as much, not the
emphasis on working. And as they even

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said on this, you know,
what would you say is the American way?

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Well, the American way is kind
of like making making money. We

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get up to make money every day. Our our economy, well, we

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live to work. And as a
middle and especially middle class, they carry

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more bad debt. The rich have
debt, but it's good debt. It's

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debt that it's it's it's real estate, it's you know, insurance, it's

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this kind of that that debt is
stuff that is going to benefit them.

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We carry debt on credit cards,
shit that thirty three interests exactly. And

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so then what do we do?
Gotta work, gotta work. But we

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want that bigger car, we want
that bigger TV, we want that nicer

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house, we want that, you
know, all this stuff, and and

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it isn't that way there, And
this lady said that it's really and as

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this guy go listen, eat whatever
you want, drink whatever you want,

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make yourself happy, feel good.
But being around the people that you enjoy

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the most. And I'm like that
makes sense yeah, makes sense, And

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she's one hundred and seventeen, don't
I don't know, and they and they

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expect the longest living people in the
world within the next decade will be Spaniards.

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And they're crediting it to not their
diet because you know, the blue

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zone diet is all these people who
live in areas where people live to be

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one hundred. Well, they're walking, they're growing their own food, and

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they're socializing and not working all day, right, and you know, or

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they're basically exercising. Is their transportation, right, That's how they get from

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A to B is to walk or
whatever. And those are the people that

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are living to one hundred. And
they also don't have I don't know,

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things like Wendy's and McDonald's and they
walk from Wendy's. Yeah. Yeah,

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so the one hundred and seventeen and
I go, that's that's the purpose.

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Man, Be happy, baby,
yeah, be happy. You get that.

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I went out and play Cutters with
friends last night. I had some

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laugh yes, yes, And you
always feel almost energized, yeah, don't

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you right, instead of going that's
why like doing a job like comedy,

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when you do stand up, how
great do you feel when you leave the

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stage, I feel good. I
think that. I think. I think

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the feeling will get better as I
as I do, as I do more,

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when I get more relaxed, because
then I come off and I think

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about how my performance was and I
actually forgot a bit of it, and

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then I went up. I introduced
you. But how about when you get

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to when you get a big laugh, it feels good? Yeah, it

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feels great. I think that that
is almost a high that you can't duplicate.

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And I swear to God that is
making your life longer. There's something

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about because I should have been done
fifteen years ago. The way I eat

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and drink get me. It's just
so funny. It's just funny to me

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because I go, Man, you
look around and you see people. Everybody

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gets so uptight. I'm starting to
think I'm not well. Maybe I have

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never been, but I'm not really
normal. I don't get caught up in

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the in the hoopla, and it's
just a bullshit of stuff. Certain things

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I know, they get in your
cross I see it. I see it.

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Grind your gears. I know what's
grinding your gears. I know what's

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grinding your gears. What's that.
I think that there are certain things that

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in the in the world more of
a political bent, that grind your gears

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pretty good. I think it gives
people being uh courteous. You see it

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so often out they're in the streets
of of I don't see it, but

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you're in a different part. Hey, look there is uh you just drive

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by these streets and there's ship all
over the place and nobody picks it up.

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I'm like, how do you live
like this? I mean, no

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no self respect, Jesus Christ,
no wonder right, no one, no

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wonder well. I'll tell you this
like I That's why I sometimes think I

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live in a bubble. I don't
see the fair, but I to be

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mean. But no very nice out
here. But it's all people who take

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pride. They get up, they
take care of themselves, they take care

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of there's pride. When I lived
in a certain town around here, my

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father used to go, Jesus Christ, I think I'm gonna have to get

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a variance to come visit you.
I'm so fucking fat. Everybody's fit,

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everybody's out running, jogging, bike
in. It was Pittsford all the time

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I lived in a place. You
would see guys on a sat on a

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Sunday morning. They were like packs
of of of geese flying by on their

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bikes. Right, there was one
guy drafting in the front. They're all

408
00:27:26,839 --> 00:27:29,440
in their suits. I owe them
too, Yeah, but I mean they

409
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,720
were all I think these people get
out of sidewalk. I don't think on

410
00:27:33,759 --> 00:27:37,039
my street there was anybody out of
shape. Yeah, they all ran.

411
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,079
The guy across the street from me
was a professional cyclist for the bud Light

412
00:27:41,079 --> 00:27:44,440
team back in the day, had
trained an Aspen and done all this ship.

413
00:27:44,559 --> 00:27:47,160
Now he was an engineer. Actually, I was just gonna say Colorado

414
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:52,519
is as the least amount of fat
obesity. Yeah, I believe it more

415
00:27:52,559 --> 00:27:56,359
sunshine too, Yes, Kenn of
Dutch help and uh but he this guy,

416
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,039
this guy, he worked at Kodak. He bought a kayak. Doug.

417
00:28:00,839 --> 00:28:04,880
That a kayak that you needed to
have a really stable court of balance.

418
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:07,880
Like I couldn't sit in this kayak. We tried it in Lake Ontario.

419
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:11,400
I couldn't get it to stay upright, like I didn't have the core

420
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,640
strength. He would drop this in
the canal and go from Pittsford to Greece

421
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,799
every day. That was how he
got to work really even when it was

422
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,000
that was my neighbor. No,
in the spring and summer and into the

423
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:27,240
fall before they drained the canal,
where's really turned. He's gonna be a

424
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:32,240
half hour late. I hope he
did get lost, but wind up in

425
00:28:33,559 --> 00:28:36,200
going yet. But that guy was
like he was happy and they were all

426
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:40,079
happy. I don't know, I
I but yes, I think I'll tell

427
00:28:40,079 --> 00:28:41,319
you one. I think that bothers
you what. It was interesting and I

428
00:28:41,359 --> 00:28:45,079
brought the Ukraine. I hear a
lot of people talking about Ukraine and the

429
00:28:45,119 --> 00:28:51,079
fact that the ninety three million dollars
okay, and I had some uh.

430
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,920
I had a guy in here and
will air this podcast in a couple of

431
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,880
weeks. He's from the Ukraine,
went back, did a documentary and he

432
00:28:57,039 --> 00:29:00,680
was saying some stuff about now because
I brought that up, I said,

433
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:04,319
what do you say to those people? And he goes he believes that Putin

434
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:08,319
is crazy. He says the rhetoric. Now, I have no way to

435
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,599
verify this. I don't know where
I would find the rhetoric, but he

436
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,319
says, the rhetoric coming out of
Russia is that Putin wants to march his

437
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:21,799
tanks to Madrid. He wants to
take over France, he wants to burn

438
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,160
Paris, and he wants all of
that. So World War three is coming

439
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,359
in his well, they're saying,
and he says he's unpredictable, he's and

440
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,960
he can get you anywhere, and
he is ready to take over. He's

441
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:37,759
also saying that Alaska is Russian and
that this war started in twenty fourteen when

442
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,160
the USSR fell a lot of those
countries, the Baltic became their own,

443
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,799
so he had Kasikhstan and all this. They're now back under a Russian control

444
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,440
since twenty fourteen because he just rolled
in there. Now he's trying to take

445
00:29:49,519 --> 00:29:53,319
Ukraine and they're fighting back. So
I was talking to somebody in there and

446
00:29:53,960 --> 00:30:00,640
this person was Republican and they go, there isn't one Republican that isn't willing

447
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,440
to give money. And he goes
and it's not money, and they're gonna

448
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,240
trade it his money, but it's
all tanks and it's that equipment. He

449
00:30:07,279 --> 00:30:11,039
goes, there isn't one. They
all agree what that guy saying. The

450
00:30:11,119 --> 00:30:14,480
Republicans believe. According to the person
I spoke to, he said, what

451
00:30:14,519 --> 00:30:18,720
they don't like is the pork that's
in the bill. There's stuff hidden in

452
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,880
there. And the fact that the
Democrats are also, you know, kind

453
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,160
of throwing only twenty million at the
border. We need to do that.

454
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,319
It has to be fixed, he
goes. But when Chuck Schumer stands up

455
00:30:27,359 --> 00:30:30,160
and says, your sons will be
fighting this war, well they don't.

456
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:34,559
This isn't there. They're going,
No, we realize if we put American

457
00:30:34,559 --> 00:30:37,759
troops in there, it will escalate
to a World War three. That's not

458
00:30:37,799 --> 00:30:41,480
what we want. But we can't
let this guy come and take over the

459
00:30:41,519 --> 00:30:45,200
world. And so I don't know, I'd love I wish there was some

460
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,759
way to find out what you know, US intelligence knows, is this true?

461
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,480
Is putin trying to take right through
to Madrid? I don't know,

462
00:30:52,559 --> 00:30:56,119
no way knowing. So, but
I think that when you sit here and

463
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,359
you look around in our own country
and you go, well, why would

464
00:30:59,359 --> 00:31:03,680
we give that there? But at
the same time, probably to protect everybody,

465
00:31:03,759 --> 00:31:06,160
I didn't even protect us. Yeah, I'm sure there's a bigger plan.

466
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,720
There's a bigger plan. I don't
know about it, you know.

467
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,799
Right now, Biden says, we
have to fix the border. Three and

468
00:31:11,799 --> 00:31:14,440
a half years ago, Oh,
you need to fix a border. Yeah,

469
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,240
amazingly enough, he wants to do
it during an election year, if

470
00:31:17,839 --> 00:31:21,599
if anybody does have want to hear
something about the border. Cop casts two

471
00:31:21,799 --> 00:31:26,920
with the Fairport Polices up and they
sat down with a retired Border patrol agent,

472
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:32,160
a man who retired sixty days ago
from border patrol worked the southern border

473
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:37,160
down in Arizona and in California,
and gives you some really really interesting insight

474
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:42,480
into that and how much there are
people who have dual citizenship from Mexico to

475
00:31:42,519 --> 00:31:45,799
America and a lot of them come
over and they clean hotels and they do

476
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,240
that sort of thing, and they
do not like the illegals because they took

477
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,039
them three years to get you know, all this stuff, and they're trying

478
00:31:52,039 --> 00:31:55,920
to do it the right way and
you're very very upset about that. Yeah,

479
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,240
there's the right way and the wrong
way for everything. It's an interesting

480
00:31:57,279 --> 00:32:01,319
conversation and you can hear that in
in comcast too. Uh, why don't

481
00:32:01,319 --> 00:32:07,480
we take a moment. There's a
study that came out about men. No,

482
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,599
y'all about men? What do they
study? Well, it's about men

483
00:32:10,839 --> 00:32:15,519
and what it takes to be manly. This is the most ridiculous. We

484
00:32:15,559 --> 00:32:17,079
gotta go through this because I want
to ask you, and I don't know

485
00:32:17,119 --> 00:32:21,720
if it's a generational thing. Okay, to the point where I almost want

486
00:32:21,759 --> 00:32:24,640
to call my son and ask.
Maybe we'll do that. Maybe I'll call

487
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,559
my twenty one year old son and
see just what his thoughts are, because

488
00:32:28,599 --> 00:32:30,799
you and I'll go through it first, and then we'll see. Because I

489
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:35,240
go, this is I never felt
any of this stuff. Maybe I'm lying.

490
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,359
Maybe we'll dig up John Wayne Pilgrim
and see what he says. You

491
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:43,559
talk about a man of all men
makes me laugh. This hurts so fucking

492
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,640
much. I'm gonna pop a stitch. You are not gonna I'm gonna leave

493
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:51,519
you those stitches. We'll get to
that next. But first, Oh,

494
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495
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496
00:33:00,839 --> 00:33:04,720
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497
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498
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499
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500
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501
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502
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503
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button your lip, but your lip good

526
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thing technologies come along and they might
have done that. Man, Doug,

527
00:35:15,159 --> 00:35:21,719
this is fucking heard. Can I
sign it? Doug was here? I

528
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:28,039
thought that would be very good.
Doug was here with this car. That's

529
00:35:28,119 --> 00:35:30,760
just wrong with me? How would
I say that. I'll put a little

530
00:35:31,039 --> 00:35:35,840
arrow and say sit on my face
and you could just walk around Wegman's in

531
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,199
Fairport and you might get a take
her too. I'd rather just let the

532
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:42,679
stitches hang out. But they're they're
they're talking about it. Infection, yeah,

533
00:35:43,039 --> 00:35:50,280
infections, staff infection. Yeah.
I don't want staph infection. Staph

534
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,320
infection. You gotta be careful.
I was talking to a staff infection.

535
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,880
No, no, no, we
go. I drove over for about eight

536
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:59,559
nine hours last night. I just
one right after the other. It was

537
00:35:59,559 --> 00:36:02,440
a good day, sunny, nice
people. But uh, my last ride,

538
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:07,639
I think it was around eight o'clock
and uh, it's getting dark and

539
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,239
my friend just had an accident with
somebody without their headlights on, which is

540
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,360
getting to be a huge price.
But I don't understand. I don't know

541
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,760
why people are driving around without their
headlights. What what fucking year are these

542
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:22,000
cars mine? Don't they all have
automatic? Now, yes, you can

543
00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:24,599
set them the auto, they don't
they ding? Yes. I don't know

544
00:36:24,599 --> 00:36:30,239
what the big fascination is driving without
your headlights. I don't either. It's

545
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:34,400
a challenge. I mean, it's
the only thing I can think is like,

546
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,559
can I do it. I don't
know. I think the cop should

547
00:36:37,559 --> 00:36:39,920
pull everybody over and give ticket.
Got thirty days for fifty dollars, you

548
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,079
don't get it, go to a
hundred. You want to make money that

549
00:36:43,079 --> 00:36:45,320
way for Rochester? Do that?
So what happens? So I dropped this

550
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:52,840
guy off of Lexington Lyle, Lexington
Lyle, and I come back around and

551
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:57,960
there she is miss waving me down
on the corner of Lyle and Murray.

552
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,239
I think somewhere around there. Oh
really yeah, and I have my window

553
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:06,519
down it was it's still sixty four
out. Yeah hooker. Yeah, she's

554
00:37:06,519 --> 00:37:10,199
waved me down. I go,
oh, uh twenty three to twenty eight

555
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:15,119
okay, you know, and uh
yeah, no, that's a high earning

556
00:37:15,199 --> 00:37:19,159
years. Can you help me,
she says, can I can you help

557
00:37:19,159 --> 00:37:20,840
me? Yeah? You want to? You want to? You want some

558
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,199
fun. I'm like no, I'm
I'm like, I can't I go.

559
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:29,280
I'm a church go, I'm a
family. I go. How much I

560
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:30,199
go? No, I'm still working. I still had my app on.

561
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:37,000
Uh this time. I navigate when
you uber lived, when you're getting to

562
00:37:37,159 --> 00:37:40,280
the end, you can put navigation
and you have a destination. You can

563
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:44,079
at home. So if anybody's going
towards your home, you can pick up

564
00:37:44,119 --> 00:37:46,920
a ride and you'll drop them off
close to where you live and you'll get

565
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:51,719
one last ride. So be on
Lyle. I was turning it on and

566
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,880
she's not. She waved me down
and I'm like, I don't I don't

567
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,719
have anything. She's like, can
you help me with any cash? Nobody's

568
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:02,679
picked me up yet today. I'm
like nobody all day long, and nobody

569
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:07,639
like I can'tta go? Sorry Ding, I'm like, I gotta gotta gotta

570
00:38:07,679 --> 00:38:12,320
go. I remember being at Tahoes
years ago. It's a place in Rochester

571
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:16,320
where the original garbage plate. Rochester
known for the garbage plate and yes,

572
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:22,119
and we used to go down there
at Fisher after a bar night. Sometimes

573
00:38:22,119 --> 00:38:24,239
we pile into a car we'd be
in East Rochester and drive all the way

574
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:30,000
out and uh. I remember my
roommate was like really drunk and he's kind

575
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,280
of like this in the front seat
and these hookers come right up to the

576
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:36,440
car and they're not shy. No, and I pop out and they go,

577
00:38:36,679 --> 00:38:37,400
you want a good time? I
go no, but he does,

578
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:42,360
and they start groping him and ship
and one of my friends got so pissed

579
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,960
at me for saying that, and
was like ready to like punch me right.

580
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:50,239
Well, yeah, and and and
and it sobered me up quick to

581
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,360
go. That wasn't funny because who
knows they could have pulled a knife and

582
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:59,519
taken a wallet on anything. No
one's thinking. And I'm laughing as these

583
00:38:59,519 --> 00:39:01,280
two chicks probably giving him a lap
dance in the front seat and he sort

584
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,039
of passed out. It was like
weekend at Bernie's. I just so to

585
00:39:05,079 --> 00:39:08,039
me it was funny, not so
funny. But you're a kid and you

586
00:39:08,119 --> 00:39:12,440
do stupid things. And uh,
you know, I heard some songs I

587
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,920
want to play later on from uh
Miley Cyrus and it was basically like I

588
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:21,000
used to be wild and you know
all that wasted time, But it wasn't

589
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,800
wasted time. I was young and
when I was young, that's what you

590
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,760
do. And I was like,
yeah, why do we often say things

591
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,800
like you look back and you have
these regrets, like we carry around all

592
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,039
this fucking shit in life. Yes, stop. I remember a T shirt

593
00:39:32,039 --> 00:39:37,920
that you just get. It says, whoever whoever ends with the best the

594
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,920
most memories are best memories wins,
the winsories of the wins. That's it.

595
00:39:43,679 --> 00:39:45,320
That's it, all right. There's
a study. And I saw this

596
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,760
in the New York Post, and
then I saw it somewhere else in the

597
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:52,199
original, but the Post kind of
put it together. Half of men feel

598
00:39:52,440 --> 00:40:00,119
pressured to act manly. Half of
men feel pressured to act manly? Have

599
00:40:00,199 --> 00:40:04,079
you ever felt pressure to act manly? And I don't know what that means.

600
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,840
I'm not sure what that means in
a fight, or defend yourself or

601
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,880
just stand up. When I was
younger, yeah, so I I within

602
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:19,679
okay, I would say within the
last four years, I had an incident

603
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,480
where I did too. You did
an incident where it would have been a

604
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:30,039
fight, yes, and I handled
it. I think manly, manly.

605
00:40:30,199 --> 00:40:37,039
So I just a guy. I
would go out to Thirsty's. I am

606
00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:40,400
not with my wife. People knew
that at the time I was on the

607
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,159
radio. You were somewhat well,
you were somewhat known. I don't want

608
00:40:44,159 --> 00:40:45,760
to say well, no, but
you were known. You were known.

609
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:52,559
So I went out and this guy's
wife would always talk to me and stuff,

610
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:59,760
but I never did anything. So
one night he comes in and I'm

611
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,239
I'm and I'm drunk. I'm like
I had been somewhere else and I came

612
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,559
in here and the bartender was a
buddy of mine, and I'm sitting there

613
00:41:07,559 --> 00:41:12,960
and the guy comes up to me
and he goes. He sits down and

614
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:19,800
he says, hey, something about
his wife, and I basically accusing me

615
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,039
of like doing something with his wife. And I didn't move. I just

616
00:41:22,039 --> 00:41:24,679
sat there and I looked over at
him and I go, buddy, I

617
00:41:24,679 --> 00:41:28,719
would never do that. I just
wouldn't. That's not who I am.

618
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,320
It's not what I do. And
the bartender was right there and like this

619
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:37,639
other guy's like and says something like, hey, we got your back.

620
00:41:37,639 --> 00:41:39,840
He's telling to the other guy like
they were expecting a fight. And for

621
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:45,360
whatever reason, I don't, I
don't really get very plussed. I will

622
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:49,960
tell you the worst thing that you
can have as a bar fight, and

623
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,360
the reason is that watch any bar
fight, Watch any fight. Go on

624
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:57,679
YouTube and watch any fight. These
are the most ridiculous. Everybody think that

625
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,480
you don't look good doing this.
You look ridiculous. You don't know how

626
00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:04,519
to fight. I'm not saying I
know how to fight. Please don't think

627
00:42:04,559 --> 00:42:07,519
that that's not what I'm saying.
I'm just saying I'm not looking for that.

628
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:13,360
I'm in my I'm gonna women.
Yeah, but I understand. And

629
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,320
I but even that I haven't been
that goes out of the window. But

630
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,960
I haven't been in a ring,
right, and in many, many,

631
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,320
many years, I have not I
have, but I haven't in many years.

632
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:27,239
And I'm not looking for this.
So the the bartender said to me

633
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:28,719
later, and I goes, that
was the greatest thing, because I just

634
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,480
said to the guy, buddy,
I would never I never do anything I

635
00:42:31,519 --> 00:42:37,159
haven't, you know. And then
he said, uh. Then I stood

636
00:42:37,199 --> 00:42:38,000
up and he goes, oh,
you're a lot bigger than I thought you

637
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,840
were. And I go, I
don't know. Size doesn't even matter,

638
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,159
you know what I'm saying. You
hit a guy, you get low bam,

639
00:42:45,199 --> 00:42:47,719
right in the ribs bam. You
know that's all I can aim for.

640
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,039
So I tell you, yeah,
I'm sorry, I probably that's a

641
00:42:52,079 --> 00:42:54,639
right. So I drove it to
my favorite family restaurant area and this guy

642
00:42:54,639 --> 00:43:00,280
who's like doing eighty coming out of
the call parking lot. Yeah, And

643
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,800
I threw my hands up and was
yelling in the car, like you gotta

644
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:07,079
go that fast? You know what
the fucking problem? So I drove to

645
00:43:07,199 --> 00:43:10,199
park and he turned around and followed
me in, and I'm getting out of

646
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,960
my car. He gets out of
his car and I go. He says,

647
00:43:14,519 --> 00:43:15,320
did you say something? I go, yeah, do you have to

648
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:20,360
go eighty fucking miles in the parking
lot. He didn't say anything. Yeah.

649
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,639
He just looked at each other and
I went. I threw my hands

650
00:43:22,679 --> 00:43:24,119
up like this, you know,
is this gonna happen? Yeah, because

651
00:43:24,119 --> 00:43:27,559
at that point I was a bad
dads thing. I just didn't care.

652
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,599
It was pissing me off so bad. I and plus I know there's kids

653
00:43:30,639 --> 00:43:36,280
around there, friends go there,
so it just just what are you thinking?

654
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:42,199
I live. I lived in a
residential neighborhood. I'm coming off my

655
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,400
street onto not a main street,
just again the side street, but it

656
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:49,760
was it would be East Street in
Pittsford, but not that that means anything

657
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:54,639
to anybody who's losing. And the
guy is flying down and I'm pulling out

658
00:43:54,840 --> 00:44:00,239
and he almost hits me. So
I came out of like no where,

659
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,760
so I for whatever reason, I'm
pissed and I see him and then he

660
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,159
goes the same direction I'm about to
go. So he's I mean, and

661
00:44:07,199 --> 00:44:10,079
he's whipping down these roads, dug
and I'm thinking again, same thing as

662
00:44:10,119 --> 00:44:13,840
you. There's kids, there's bikes, there's all this stuff. Pulls into

663
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,440
a gas station and I get out
and I started yelling at him, and

664
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:22,159
he's like and then he goes inside, and I'm yelling so much. There

665
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,800
they had a dunkin donuts at this
gas station. Are people sitting out umbrellas

666
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,559
and stuff. And I screamed,
like, what the fuck is wrong,

667
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,519
and this lady looks at me and
goes. I said, I I,

668
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:37,000
oh my god, I'm so sorry. And I said, but this guy

669
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,400
was doing whatever. And he comes
out and we like bumped shoulders. And

670
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,039
I went inside and I asked for
the phone. I called nine one one

671
00:44:44,039 --> 00:44:45,599
because I didn't have my phone.
I remember what year this was. I

672
00:44:45,639 --> 00:44:47,800
had a phone, but I didn't
have it with me. He bumped your

673
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:52,320
shoulder, he bumped my shoulder.
I'm purpose yeah, And I went and

674
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,800
I turned around like I tried to
grab and he just pulled away and huffed

675
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:59,280
off into his car and took off
and squealed his tires. And these people

676
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:00,960
are like, oh my god,
what is this guy? And he was

677
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:04,880
an older guy, so clearly something
bad had happened. Maybe he got in

678
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,920
a fight with his I have no
idea, but you could have killed somebody.

679
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,599
You could have killed somebody, and
that's the stuff. So a survey

680
00:45:10,639 --> 00:45:15,920
of two thousand men, half of
whom are half, half of whom are

681
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:23,239
sexually active. So I don't know
what I think with a limp thing.

682
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:30,239
You win, you win. Although
I make it some sympathy, you might,

683
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,239
I might get some scathing. Does
this hurt? Does this hurt?

684
00:45:32,559 --> 00:45:40,840
How do I make it feel better? Yeah? Lower the left? Uh,

685
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,039
yeah, that's what I said.
So found that fifty percent feel under

686
00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:51,480
pressure to perform masculinity. I don't
know what perform masculinity is. An eight

687
00:45:51,519 --> 00:45:54,199
and ten agreed that there is a
societal pressure for men to behave a certain

688
00:45:54,239 --> 00:46:00,320
way. Do you feel a societal
pressure? No? No, I don't

689
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,239
either. This is where I start
to think, I go to people,

690
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,960
stop looking for everybody else to approve
of you, just be just fucking be.

691
00:46:08,639 --> 00:46:12,519
And I can say this as an
older guy. I kind of can't

692
00:46:12,559 --> 00:46:15,079
remember in my twenties, but I'm
sure it was this way for nearly half.

693
00:46:15,159 --> 00:46:19,880
This pressure comes from expectations like knowing
how to be handy around the house.

694
00:46:20,199 --> 00:46:22,679
Let me tell you something. I'll
tell you what I think that trait

695
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:27,679
unfortunately is going down the Yes it
is. But there's something called YouTube.

696
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,920
Yes, and I'm gonna just say
that you can fix things. You can

697
00:46:30,039 --> 00:46:34,280
use it if you feel like you
need to. And I will say that

698
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:37,920
take the manly shit out of it
for a second. There is some real

699
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:40,159
satisfaction in being able to look at
something you go, I did that.

700
00:46:40,559 --> 00:46:45,760
There really is, so go ahead
and learn it, but don't feel the

701
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,239
pressure of how to do it,
while others feel forced to act a certain

702
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:55,920
way in front of others. Forty
eight percent like what I don't know or

703
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:04,760
have a specific body type. Uh. This may be holding men back from

704
00:47:05,039 --> 00:47:07,719
being their true cells, as twenty
nine percent admitted they wish they could embrace

705
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:15,760
their feminine side more. Look,
I have I think a feminine site once

706
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:20,119
or twice too much, they both
hands, But I have. I have.

707
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,519
I've cried. I'll admit I've cried. I don't do it in public,

708
00:47:22,559 --> 00:47:25,239
but I've done it. I've done
it in front of a woman.

709
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:30,360
I've cried. There's I mean,
I've got shit on. Kids aren't here,

710
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:34,840
No, but even now my kids
aren't around. I got there's stuff

711
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,280
that it can make. You said, it's sure, but I don't want

712
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,079
to think the last time I cried. I know the last time I really

713
00:47:40,119 --> 00:47:44,159
cried. I think it was and
it was just when your movie came out.

714
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:49,360
Yeah, and I didn't get picked
up by paramount. Uh. Do

715
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,480
you remember a movie called The Champ? Yes, yes, I do,

716
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:58,559
Yes, I do. Ricky Schroeder
if you want to and it don't die

717
00:47:58,559 --> 00:48:00,599
of me, Champ, don't die
of me? Watch this? And I

718
00:48:00,639 --> 00:48:02,679
think it was last year because I
text my sisters and family and like The

719
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:07,920
Champ is on AMC. I remember
crying as a kid. But now they

720
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:12,599
give a little uh prefix of what
how the movie was made. It was

721
00:48:12,639 --> 00:48:16,199
actually a remake from a guy in
Spain, I think, and he as

722
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:22,159
a child and he said, if
I can make this movie the way done

723
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:28,119
right, it's just gonna be so
heartbreaking. Somebody did it? Voight,

724
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:34,280
Yeah, who was the boxer?
He was a boxer, John Voyd was.

725
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:38,239
He was a horse trainer and uh
fade dunaway right, it was Ricky

726
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:43,360
Schroeder. Remember as a kid,
and I loved boxing, So I remember

727
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:47,679
the movie. Uh. Conducted by
one poll the survey found that these moments

728
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:54,159
of self doubt add up with an
average man experiencing feelings of insecurity over how

729
00:48:54,159 --> 00:49:00,239
many times throughout a year would you
guess insecurity? Insecurity men feeling insecure,

730
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:04,079
Like right now, I should feel
insect and to be honest with you,

731
00:49:04,119 --> 00:49:06,840
with a big thing. And I'm
not proud walking around with this thing.

732
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:08,239
But I also proud to be about
But I also don't give a fuck.

733
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,119
Know what I'm saying is like,
you go, oh, I can't be

734
00:49:12,159 --> 00:49:14,599
seen in public like this. I
shouldn't be in front of a camera like

735
00:49:14,639 --> 00:49:16,559
this. You're not doing the podcast
something like this, and I go,

736
00:49:17,039 --> 00:49:24,000
fuck it. Eventually I'll turn into
Bob No, No, I'm gonna but

737
00:49:24,639 --> 00:49:30,159
who is it? Dick Clark?
Dick Clark? At the end, what

738
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:34,000
do you have the stroke? Oh? And he did still do the countdown.

739
00:49:34,519 --> 00:49:37,079
I thought of a new joke today, Yeah, I was. I

740
00:49:37,119 --> 00:49:42,000
was making love to this older woman
the other day in her seventies missionary and

741
00:49:42,559 --> 00:49:45,559
I'm rocking in. All of a
sudden she starts her throwing her hands up

742
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:49,599
like gang signs, and I'm like, are you crips? Blood's heart attacks?

743
00:49:49,599 --> 00:49:52,079
Stroke? I mean, give me
a bread. She's like, going,

744
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:53,679
doctor, I'm like, call me
a doctor. I'm like, oh

745
00:49:53,679 --> 00:49:59,079
you're a doctor. You're dirty,
you're dirty, nurse. Not that way

746
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:05,079
stupid, Like, oh, I'm
working it into the bit. Okay,

747
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:10,239
inadequate twelve times? What wants a
nine hundred times a year? Really?

748
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:16,199
I don't go to passing that much. Yeah, many feel particularly many feel

749
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:22,360
particularly misunderstood when it comes to romantic
relationships. Thirty one misunderstood. That's a

750
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,360
downer. But are you misunderstood or
is just not making the connection. I

751
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:29,920
want to say that when you're on
your your phone or tender or face,

752
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:34,840
Facebook dating or plenty of fish,
that if you're not getting likes and you're

753
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:38,840
trying to date, I mean even
somebody, and you would think somebody out

754
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:45,360
there is gonna say hi, and
not a seventy nine year old woman from

755
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:49,559
Elbuquerque, New Mexico. Right,
it's just hacking your system, you know.

756
00:50:49,639 --> 00:50:54,159
So you kind of wonder that their
sense of humor twenty nine percent feel

757
00:50:54,159 --> 00:51:00,960
like their sense of humor is misunderstood
and their financial knowledge is diminished or misunderstood

758
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:06,559
that twenty eight percent, Oh,
I have no problem about misunderstanding my financial

759
00:51:06,639 --> 00:51:10,239
up I'm poor in the bedroom.
Thirty nine percent feel pressure to be manly

760
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:15,000
during sexual interactions, implying they need
to be dominant or in control. No,

761
00:51:15,119 --> 00:51:17,519
that's not true. I always think. I I tell a girl,

762
00:51:17,519 --> 00:51:20,079
I said, I'm great in bed. She goes, how do you know?

763
00:51:20,159 --> 00:51:25,920
I go, I always come great
for me. H. Forty nine

764
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:30,360
percent have a certain amount of physical
I feel like they have to have a

765
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:35,480
certain amout of physical strength in bed. Yeah. I see, here's the

766
00:51:35,519 --> 00:51:38,039
thing. As I go, who
are these guys? And this is why

767
00:51:38,119 --> 00:51:43,119
maybe later we will try my son. Because I don't I'm not. I

768
00:51:43,119 --> 00:51:46,960
don't get that. I've never felt
that. I guess I felt inadequacies at

769
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:51,000
times. I think that every man
goes through you go in the locker room

770
00:51:51,079 --> 00:51:52,400
and he sees one guy who's got
a schlong down to his knee, and

771
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,679
you know, I was in there
washing go get dressed. I was too,

772
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,880
but you couldn't help it at times. I mean, well with me

773
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,079
anyway, Yes, so I think
that there is that that that worry of

774
00:52:02,079 --> 00:52:06,559
inadequacy. But other than that,
once you get past that, it's like,

775
00:52:08,199 --> 00:52:13,880
uh. In a world where societal
expectations often dictate how men should behave

776
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,360
particularly in the bedroom. It's disheartening
to see that half of men feel pressure

777
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:23,000
to conform to traditional ideas of masculinity. This whole thing, you can go

778
00:52:23,079 --> 00:52:28,159
and find it yourself. To me, my nine of sex is depending on

779
00:52:28,199 --> 00:52:32,280
how much I drink and what's on
TV. But the whole thing is that

780
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,559
if I got whiskey Dick, I'm
going down on you for an hour and

781
00:52:35,599 --> 00:52:37,440
a half of that I'm to going, Well, how would you how would

782
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:43,840
you define a man? How would
you define masculinity if you were like you

783
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:46,800
know, if you have to whether
you're a fireman or a policeman, they

784
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:51,960
kind of masculinity or I just mean
just being a man, just being a

785
00:52:52,159 --> 00:52:55,840
just any joe off the street,
whether you're an accountant or you're a fireman,

786
00:52:55,920 --> 00:53:01,920
whether you're a surgeon or you for
you and your family. I agree.

787
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:07,960
I think that too. Unfortunately,
there's manly men that get divorced,

788
00:53:07,039 --> 00:53:12,559
that goes on and just you know
this, I always think, like,

789
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:16,119
to me, it's like, just
be you whatever you is and do the

790
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:22,519
fake, do the best you can. Authenticity is incredible. There are certain

791
00:53:22,559 --> 00:53:24,840
things that aren't going to work out. Be able to make a decision and

792
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:29,719
and and that's it, and they
follow through and follow through and if you

793
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,880
know, and not everybody's gonna agree
and not everybody's gonna love. But in

794
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:37,400
the end, I think people come
around because they see if you're consistent just

795
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:38,880
in who you are and what you
do and what you believe, and you're

796
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:43,440
not sort of this fake person that's
from one you know another almost a shape,

797
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,519
say this one thing, yeah,
and that to interrupt you. But

798
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:46,920
people that say I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna

799
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,960
do this, and they never do
it. You kind of get tired of

800
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,239
hearing that. Of course, as
I've gotten older, I've kept some things

801
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:57,199
to myself. I mean, obviously, when I this is comedy, you

802
00:53:57,239 --> 00:54:00,519
need friends and family there. But
it's not like, but when I quit

803
00:54:00,559 --> 00:54:04,239
smoking, I didn't tell anybody because
I'm gonna quit smoking. Quit smoking,

804
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,440
then you're kind of a broken record
in But I finally did yes, and

805
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,840
then enough that people as you still
smoking, I'm like, no, oh

806
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,440
my gosh, how long are that? Two years? So really I'm like,

807
00:54:14,519 --> 00:54:17,000
yeah, it's just nothing I wanted
to do to talk about, Like,

808
00:54:17,039 --> 00:54:21,360
you gotta want it for yourself and
do the you just hit the nail

809
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,559
on the head. Yeah, everything
you do is for yourself. Most people

810
00:54:23,599 --> 00:54:27,599
don't give a shit about you as
much as you think they do. Stop

811
00:54:27,679 --> 00:54:30,639
living for somebody else, Stop trying
to be masculine. For the kids and

812
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:36,559
obviously family, yes, but even
yes, the woman saying, but even

813
00:54:36,599 --> 00:54:39,760
in that point, if you'd make
the right decision, they may not agree

814
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,679
with it. Your kids are always
going to push back. This part of

815
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,360
their job is to be rebellious and
pushback. That's what kids do. You

816
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:50,519
got to be strong and stay steady. A man doesn't have to be some

817
00:54:50,639 --> 00:54:54,000
big lumberjack, a man taking a
shit out of everybody. No, but

818
00:54:54,159 --> 00:54:58,840
you can be It's fifteen eggs with
a couple of black coffee in the morning,

819
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:01,599
snake wife on the air, Yes, get to those dishes, that's

820
00:55:01,639 --> 00:55:06,239
right, you know, I mean, but that's not that's not you know

821
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:10,039
that that What you want to be
is somebody who's just consistent, kind,

822
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:15,679
smart, has boundaries, right,
not gonna be walked on. But you

823
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,079
know, you don't have to be
some big, jacked up dude. But

824
00:55:17,159 --> 00:55:21,199
you can, you know, be
who you are and hold steady who you

825
00:55:21,199 --> 00:55:23,800
are in authenticity. This other shit
Jesus Christ. Figure the fuck out.

826
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:29,360
Stop being a whiny bitch. How
about that? How about that? How

827
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:31,760
about that? Tony Robbins. I
don't like it without the white mustache.

828
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:36,800
Yes, but I don't understand I
hear it'll tell you have this big crank

829
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,239
of coke that you're trying to snort
up one noster like Charlie. She like,

830
00:55:39,559 --> 00:55:43,840
Hey, Doug Bill, Fid's gonna
be a little late. I'm gonna

831
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,280
get this this big I met this
girl from Colombia. She likes me.

832
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:52,679
She gave me this big thing cocaine. Oh, let me say hello to

833
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,480
a couple of people there. I
want to say. He to Jimmy White,

834
00:55:55,480 --> 00:56:00,239
and is is Fiancy? Sandra kim
haw Like, who's in the hall?

835
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,960
Who's in Syracuse? Yeah, Lily
O part Matthew Kim Hallick, could

836
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,159
you tell me the Kim Hallick watched
your movie. Yes, gave you a

837
00:56:06,199 --> 00:56:08,920
great review. She goes, I
loved your movie. Dog Bill needs to

838
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:13,639
help you get the digital. Everybody
needs to see the double D Christmas Tree.

839
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,760
I told you how to get this
on digital. I've given you.

840
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:20,440
I will do anything to help you. Yes, but you're gonna make some

841
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,599
calls. It's been a busy week. I was dog sitting last week and

842
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:28,599
Uber and I love Doug sitting.
What's wrong with that? Who doesn't love

843
00:56:28,639 --> 00:56:31,599
dogs? I love dogs. I
do love dogs. Just say great because

844
00:56:31,639 --> 00:56:34,880
you can cut it with him and
then the owners of back a week later.

845
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,119
But you know what, I wish
what I wish you had kids,

846
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:42,320
because you think you think watching dogs
and then going to Uber and do all

847
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:45,280
that a lot. You get kids. Hey, I helped RACI kids believe

848
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:46,719
or not? Oh you well a
little bit. You did, yes a

849
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,719
little bit, yes, a little
bit, a little bit. But you

850
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,880
lived with them. Yeah, you
were there. I moved in when they

851
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:54,159
were two kids, pregnant with three
and had four. I was there for

852
00:56:54,199 --> 00:56:58,440
eight years. Yeah, yeah,
yeah, five years. You were uncle

853
00:56:58,519 --> 00:57:06,159
Charlie And yeah that's about it.
All right, we'll take a moment.

854
00:57:06,679 --> 00:57:14,920
We're gonna check in with the Sheriff's
department because if you for teg justice,

855
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:19,360
I just so, I'll just read
this. Todd Baxter cannot come on,

856
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:27,079
Okay, But Todd Baxter wrote a
letter that I think will hit with a

857
00:57:27,079 --> 00:57:31,199
lot of people. Last week,
something happened at Saint John Fisher College and

858
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:40,559
he is saying that the justice system
failed the university. And I didn't know

859
00:57:40,599 --> 00:57:44,639
this about the person, but they
went into some detail. He wrote an

860
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:47,559
entire letter, and he just texted
me saying, I'm so sorry. I'm

861
00:57:47,559 --> 00:57:51,639
gonna gain missing your invitation to come
on. I teach class at seven thirty

862
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:55,599
and then playing basketball at eight fifteen. He never stops. I mean,

863
00:57:55,719 --> 00:57:59,039
his day is all day long,
and I'm sure he started at like five

864
00:57:59,039 --> 00:58:06,360
o'clock. But we will have Police
Information Deputy Hurley on who can help us

865
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:08,920
out with what's going on. So
we'll hear about the situation. We'll hear

866
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:13,559
about the situation, and we'll hear
about the letter, because this is going

867
00:58:13,639 --> 00:58:16,800
to exactly some of the stuff that
I think is starting to really bother some

868
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:22,400
people. And in this case,
this is something that could have been avoided.

869
00:58:22,559 --> 00:58:24,960
What happened to Saint John Fisher College
could have been avoided. We'll get

870
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:29,119
to that next, but first,
Okay, Leo's. I love going over

871
00:58:29,119 --> 00:58:30,760
to Leo's to see all the craft
cookies and things they make over there.

872
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,639
You know, Saint Patrick's stay's coming
up. It's always fun a little festive.

873
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:37,679
Saint Patrick's Day was a huge deal
in my house growing up, and

874
00:58:37,719 --> 00:58:42,119
we always have fun things that you
can find at Leo's. You know what

875
00:58:42,159 --> 00:58:45,199
else, Leo's has a time saver
for you. Look, I know we're

876
00:58:45,199 --> 00:58:47,519
getting into that busy time. The
weather's been a little warmer than normal.

877
00:58:49,039 --> 00:58:52,840
Spring practice is starting up for the
kids, the plays. All this time

878
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:54,920
where you're running, running, running, you don't have time to make a

879
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,840
meal and get everybody around the table. But what if you went to Leo's

880
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:00,719
and got the to go meet.
Oh, they've got a variety there,

881
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:06,719
chicken pop pie, shepherd's pie which
is great for Saint Patrick's Day, Spaghetti

882
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,039
and meatballs, turkey dinner, I
mean, just a plethora, even salads

883
00:59:09,039 --> 00:59:13,159
and things. But you'll load up
the fridge and that way you've got him

884
00:59:13,159 --> 00:59:15,119
and everybody can sit around the table
and you can still have your family time

885
00:59:15,719 --> 00:59:20,840
without the prep time and the cooking
time and maybe a little less cleanup,

886
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:25,480
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887
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904
01:00:36,599 --> 01:00:42,400
and Victor and online at Victor cdjr
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905
01:00:42,559 --> 01:00:55,800
calling? So? It's cut on
a a crime? No, honey,

906
01:00:55,840 --> 01:01:08,880
hell are you trying? Sevey?
Okay? John as Chess Champio. Oh

907
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:21,239
well, my gush and thumbs.
Some song sound is well so so the

908
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,159
lyrics are that you're with us group, but you're thinking of somebody else.

909
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:30,400
She called you at two am.
Sam name sounds so wait, here we

910
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:36,440
go. The lips of an ahell
lip songs. Lip songs, Douggie,

911
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:39,039
I'm doing lip songs for your baby
because it's hand her lips of an Angel?

912
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:45,960
Are you lip singing on side?
Yes? My entire life is sip

913
01:01:45,039 --> 01:01:51,639
sing. Thanks for checking out the
podcast. Follow us at bill a Fund

914
01:01:51,679 --> 01:01:55,840
on YouTube. I had this one
woman was embedded. She's like, do

915
01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:59,639
you think of other women when we're
in bed together? Wait? Wait,

916
01:01:59,679 --> 01:02:02,840
she said, this is a joke. You think of a Here we go?

917
01:02:04,039 --> 01:02:06,920
Do you think of other women when
together? I'm like no, when

918
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:14,599
I'm in the shower, I think
I gotta try some new material. Here.

919
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:16,400
I like it. I like that
April fourth. Oh god, this

920
01:02:16,679 --> 01:02:20,840
fucking thing is really hurting. We
have some more bush Mills. No,

921
01:02:21,159 --> 01:02:25,000
why, because I gotta put the
fucking podcasted. The podcast is more important.

922
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:30,519
Sheriff Todd Baxter is apologizing to the
victim at Saint John Fisher University,

923
01:02:30,679 --> 01:02:36,199
a victim. Do you remember this
story? No, last week Saint John

924
01:02:36,199 --> 01:02:40,400
Fisher University went into lockdown because,
uh, there was something that happened on

925
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:44,559
the campus. I have a friend
who was a professor over there sent me

926
01:02:44,599 --> 01:02:49,440
a video and I actually thought this
was great. He went into the dean

927
01:02:49,519 --> 01:02:52,119
of his he's the head of a
department over there, and he went into

928
01:02:52,199 --> 01:02:57,400
the dean of his college on the
university and took a bottle of Jamison out

929
01:02:57,400 --> 01:03:00,559
of that dean's office and got dixie
cup and they went out in the hallway

930
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,960
and they all did shots because they
were in lockdown. And I think it

931
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:08,760
was a great way to make everybody
think of something else other than what potentially

932
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:13,280
is happening. We don't really have
a lot of information. What was going

933
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,159
on was there was a student at
Saint John Fisher University, the School of

934
01:03:16,159 --> 01:03:22,159
Pharmacology, who had gone to the
dean around five thirty in the evening and

935
01:03:22,199 --> 01:03:23,679
said, I can't go home.
If my father finds out my grades,

936
01:03:23,719 --> 01:03:28,079
he's gonna kill me. Yes,
I do remember this. And the dean

937
01:03:28,239 --> 01:03:31,960
said a woman. I only say
that because this was a male student,

938
01:03:32,239 --> 01:03:39,320
female instructor, female dean, and
said, let me get you some mental

939
01:03:39,519 --> 01:03:44,320
counseling. Let me let's get somebody
you can talk to. And this person

940
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:45,880
stood up and said absolutely not,
and then reached his pocket and pulled out

941
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:52,119
a steak knife that, according to
the Monroe County Sheriff's Department, could be

942
01:03:52,119 --> 01:03:54,280
a stake knife from outback. Those
are big, I don't know. But

943
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,039
she was able to get the steak
knife out of the person's hand and get

944
01:03:58,079 --> 01:04:00,159
him out of his off, out
of her office. She got the stake

945
01:04:00,239 --> 01:04:03,159
down out of it. Yeah,
so he's not too mainly, well,

946
01:04:03,159 --> 01:04:08,280
probably not. He feels less manly. He's part of that survey that we

947
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:12,079
talked about. She pushed him out
of the office, locked the door clearly,

948
01:04:12,159 --> 01:04:14,440
and called nine one one. But
now they don't know where he is,

949
01:04:14,719 --> 01:04:17,719
and so the campus goes into lockdown
because we have somebody who's clearly mentally

950
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:26,239
unwell. I'll say that. So, yes. I just remember stories when

951
01:04:26,239 --> 01:04:30,000
I went to Courtland, this was
eighty nine ninety that he used to talk

952
01:04:30,039 --> 01:04:33,719
about schools they have the height,
su said rate, yes, yes,

953
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:39,920
and the urban was legend was if
your room roomate committed suicide, right,

954
01:04:40,079 --> 01:04:46,599
I try to give a room to
jump out the window. Saint John Fisher,

955
01:04:46,639 --> 01:04:51,719
So Sheriff Todd Baxter said, quote
the criminal justice system let her down.

956
01:04:54,039 --> 01:04:56,199
And he has a full letter that
he wrote, and I'm just going

957
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:59,679
to read you some portions of this. This by the way, U,

958
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:05,679
I'm impressed by this young woman's reporting. She works for Channel thirteen. Jackie

959
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:11,519
Napier or Yeah Napier I believe is
her name, and I only see her

960
01:05:11,559 --> 01:05:14,280
on Twitter. But she seems to
do a great job. She's on top

961
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:17,639
of stuff verty well, he said. In a new post entitled the Portrait

962
01:05:17,719 --> 01:05:23,960
of a Crime Victim, he writes, we located, interviewed, and arrested

963
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:29,360
the suspect for two felonies. We
had him rined and brought to jail on

964
01:05:29,519 --> 01:05:35,159
thirty thousand dollars bail. All this
prior to the Saint John Fisher incident.

965
01:05:36,599 --> 01:05:42,079
But in less than twenty four hours, he posted Bail was arrested again by

966
01:05:42,079 --> 01:05:46,320
Brighton police for stalking somebody else,
not Saint John Fisher, released on an

967
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:49,639
appearance ticket and back on the street
while the rest of us went about our

968
01:05:49,679 --> 01:05:55,960
lives this past weekend. I can
only imagine how nervous the victims felt.

969
01:05:56,519 --> 01:06:00,440
That's almost the bigger crime here.
It's perpetuated every day by our lawmakers in

970
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,880
Almany. And this is part of
what Sheriff Todd Baxter wrote in a letter

971
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:08,800
that you can you can find on
their website and we will call. Uh.

972
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:11,159
I've said this a few times.
I know you have. I know

973
01:06:11,239 --> 01:06:15,199
you have, and I think a
lot of people have. And here's one

974
01:06:15,239 --> 01:06:21,119
where it ended okay. It ended
okay, But I don't know what if

975
01:06:21,159 --> 01:06:26,239
she goes to grab his hand,
and that's just what I'm saying. He's

976
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:30,320
exactly Doug, and so I don't
know. We're gonna call Deputy Hurley and

977
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:33,760
just see if we get a little
more information on this, and I don't

978
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:39,639
know what the Sheriff's Department's messages as
a whole. Deputy Hurley, thank you

979
01:06:39,679 --> 01:06:44,320
for allowing me to interrupt your evening. Absolutely, how are you? I'm

980
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:46,679
well, how are you? I
just want you to know tonight, I

981
01:06:46,719 --> 01:06:50,000
have a giant bandage on my face
because I had a skin cancer removed.

982
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:54,960
And Doug keeps saying that it looks
like I told him. I couldn't go

983
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,639
to my dad and say that I
wasn't in a podcast anymore. So I

984
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:00,559
didn't have a steak knife, but
I had a sport from Kentucky Fried Chicken,

985
01:07:00,599 --> 01:07:04,480
and I got a good thing good
swipe it on his upper lip.

986
01:07:06,239 --> 01:07:12,079
I knew we were somehow connected.
I too have bandages and stitches, you

987
01:07:12,159 --> 01:07:15,480
do, I had some. I
had some masses removed today to make sure

988
01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:20,280
that they're not cancerous, okay,
and a little fore warning they may have

989
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:24,679
given me a little fatinel so who
knows what we're gonna say tonight. All

990
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:27,440
right, awesome, I love it. Okay, Well, I appreciate by

991
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:35,480
the way, you could have said
no, no, well, because right,

992
01:07:38,039 --> 01:07:42,119
I'm a big fan of Deputy Early. But yeah, I didn't have

993
01:07:42,159 --> 01:07:45,519
fatanyl. I just got numbing in
my face and now I have stitches.

994
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,239
It's it's ugly, it's gross,
but it'll be fine. And by the

995
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:53,159
way, it's better than the alternative. I'll say that, yes, trust

996
01:07:53,199 --> 01:07:59,920
me. So the the letter that
Sheriff Baxter wrote is interesting and I think

997
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:04,800
I gotta think, boy, citizens
have to appreciate this because he's talking about

998
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:08,039
the Saint John Fisher thing. And
I did not read the whole letter.

999
01:08:08,039 --> 01:08:12,679
I only wrote read some excerpts of
it. But I didn't realize that the

1000
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:17,560
student at Saint John Fisher College who
had pulled the knife on the dean of

1001
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:26,319
the School of Pharmacology, forcing the
school into lockdown, had been arrested twice

1002
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:32,279
before, twice before, not up
to date. I know he got it,

1003
01:08:32,399 --> 01:08:36,000
you know, he got arrested after
the fact. Oh okay, because

1004
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:40,039
he said here in the letter,
he said, uh, the arrest is

1005
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:45,359
the we located, interviewed and arrest
of the suspect for two felonies. So

1006
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:51,560
is that from the same one that
that's ours, that's located in that night

1007
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:56,960
on Jefferson Road. Okay, right, yeah, so that was the two

1008
01:08:57,000 --> 01:09:00,359
felonies that came out of that.
All right, So I'm glad I'm talking

1009
01:09:00,359 --> 01:09:03,119
to you because then I misspoke on
this. We had him arraigned and brought

1010
01:09:03,119 --> 01:09:06,199
to jail on thirty thousand dollars bail, but in less than twenty four hours

1011
01:09:06,199 --> 01:09:12,720
he posted bail, was arrested again
by Bregon police for stalking, released on

1012
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:16,239
an appearance ticket. So he was
arrested again after the Fisher incident. Yes,

1013
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:21,479
oh there was. There were other
charges from Brighton that they had,

1014
01:09:23,159 --> 01:09:27,239
which I don't know much about because
it's not our investigations, I understand.

1015
01:09:27,359 --> 01:09:30,840
Yeah, But then really drives home
the dangerousness here, right, This wasn't

1016
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:34,520
a nice plated incident the night that
we had. There's there's a pattern here

1017
01:09:35,119 --> 01:09:45,359
for sure, But beyond that,
it's the inability to hold someone when they've

1018
01:09:45,399 --> 01:09:49,680
done something I'll call it hanus,
something that is traumatic to a victim.

1019
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:54,560
Absolutely, And this is why the
sheriff's always say, like, you know,

1020
01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,960
it's not the bail. Bail's not
the problem, right, It's part

1021
01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:01,920
of the problem. People. There's
law where people can't be held they you

1022
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:05,439
know, on bail, But they're
the important part here in this case and

1023
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:09,399
many many other cases like this one. Right, I don't want to just

1024
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:13,279
harp on Saint John Fisher in this
kid. It's anything like this. It's

1025
01:10:13,319 --> 01:10:18,000
a dangerous standard, a dangerousness standard, and you know, forty nine states

1026
01:10:18,319 --> 01:10:25,840
in the United States have a dangerousness
standard and one doesn't New York. How

1027
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:29,239
are we the only one that doesn't? What is a D Can you just

1028
01:10:29,359 --> 01:10:31,439
kind of tell us what a dangerous
standard would it be? Almost like a

1029
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:34,880
I don't know, like your pain
in tolerance and when you go to the

1030
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,399
doctor, they go, what are
you feeling pain on a one to ten?

1031
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:42,800
Once you're paid? Today, two
gays are all up in me and

1032
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:45,399
I'm trying to say this podcast,
I'm just trying to say, like,

1033
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:49,079
we go to these guys pretty close
to a nine or ten. Right,

1034
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:55,199
So it's essentially exactly that right you're
taking, and you're putting the judge in

1035
01:10:55,279 --> 01:10:59,000
the judge's hand, who's an elected
official. Right people decide who these judges

1036
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:01,159
should and shouldn't be there checking balances
there if they're not doing their job.

1037
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:04,359
But it gives the judge the opportunity
to say, hey, you know what,

1038
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:09,159
I think this person is a danger
to themselves or to others, and

1039
01:11:09,199 --> 01:11:14,079
then they can rule to have that
person held while they get treatment, they

1040
01:11:14,119 --> 01:11:17,720
get the help that they need or
evaluated. Right, there's there are things

1041
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,680
in place in those other states that
we just don't have it, and we've

1042
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:26,479
taken it out of the judge's hands
and essentially made it more of a mental

1043
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:31,239
health Are there mental health places to
keep people anymore? Do those kind of

1044
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,159
go away? Because I was out
today and I mean it was a beautiful

1045
01:11:34,199 --> 01:11:39,960
day, and in some streets there
was just an individual walking down spinning,

1046
01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:45,439
spinning in a circle, looking like
they're high as a kider. There's something

1047
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:47,880
that right there, right, and
like, this person should not be out

1048
01:11:49,199 --> 01:11:53,720
they have you just look at them. They have a beautiful mustache because they

1049
01:11:53,720 --> 01:12:00,800
had half a mustache. But I'm
I'm like, this person should not be

1050
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:05,600
in society. You can just tell
sometimes I don't want to sound stereotypical or

1051
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:10,479
you do. That's okay, I'm
teasing you. What I understand what you're

1052
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,279
saying. Well, let the person
spin into traffic, right, and then

1053
01:12:13,279 --> 01:12:15,279
the person hits some of their two
kids in the car. That's dramatic,

1054
01:12:15,399 --> 01:12:23,560
yes, And that's where for mental
health we do have basically a dangerousness standard.

1055
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:28,079
Right, is this person a danger
to themselves or to others? You

1056
01:12:28,119 --> 01:12:31,319
know? If you you know,
it's very complicated, but to simplify it,

1057
01:12:31,399 --> 01:12:35,000
right, if you're if you're just
spinning in a circle and you're not

1058
01:12:35,079 --> 01:12:39,199
hurting yourself, you're not running into
traffic. You're you're not going to hurt

1059
01:12:39,199 --> 01:12:43,039
somebody else. There's not a lot
that anybody else can do in order,

1060
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:45,760
you know, because again, people
have rights, right, and it all

1061
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:48,199
goes back to that beautiful thing we
call the Constitution. People have rights,

1062
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:51,439
so we don't want to infringe on
those rights. But the only time that

1063
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:55,600
we can infringe on those is that
if they're going to hurt themselves, kill

1064
01:12:55,600 --> 01:13:00,720
themselves or someone else, right,
and that then we have to because we

1065
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:04,039
don't want people to hurt themselves or
others. You think if George Washington,

1066
01:13:04,159 --> 01:13:08,920
John Hancock, and Ben Franklin we're
in today's world, you think they'd be

1067
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:14,560
like, hey, grab the Constitution, get some white out. That takes

1068
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:17,279
a couple of things. We did
not see this coming. Well, it's

1069
01:13:17,279 --> 01:13:21,279
so funny because I was reading something
today just as a since s Deputy Hurley

1070
01:13:21,359 --> 01:13:26,199
mentioned rights. We have rights in
this country that we take for granted.

1071
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:29,840
Just the mere fact that you can
wear whatever you want, even in the

1072
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:32,520
British version islands and I don't think
the US, but the British version you

1073
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:36,319
can't wear camouflage. No, no, really, yeah, it's against the

1074
01:13:36,399 --> 01:13:41,680
law. Even even people there on
vacation. If you're wearing a flowered shirt,

1075
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,560
isn't that came? But they're saying, you know what, I'm saying

1076
01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:49,199
military, But yes it is.
I wouldn't be caught. But but they're

1077
01:13:49,199 --> 01:13:53,800
saying, like, you can't wear
that there. I think it. I

1078
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:57,199
don't know it. I don't know
what exactly the rule is. But that

1079
01:13:57,359 --> 01:14:00,760
is a law. And you know, here, you have such so many

1080
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:03,439
rights that we just take for granted, you know, and you do have

1081
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,600
the right. You got the right
to spin around, You got the right

1082
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:11,159
to tell to stand on the corner
and yell into a megaphone that you know,

1083
01:14:12,960 --> 01:14:15,880
Sabby Hurley's mustache is too manly for
me, you know what I mean?

1084
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:19,279
Yeah, but I mean you could
do that as long as you're not

1085
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:21,880
hurting someone. Well, I don't
know if you could. Is that slander

1086
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:26,279
if you did that, I'm not
sure. Full disclosure. I plan on

1087
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:30,279
clipping that and putting that up on
all my social media. Oh really,

1088
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:33,640
you know, just your little clip
you said, because it's beautiful. Oh

1089
01:14:33,760 --> 01:14:38,600
yeah, it is manly. I
got to tell you I saw it,

1090
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:42,840
and I had you. I don't
know if you saw my thing that I

1091
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:45,640
put up to promote the podcast the
last time you were on. But that

1092
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:49,119
mustache, it's almost handlebars. Great, it is a great mustache, Freddie

1093
01:14:49,119 --> 01:14:56,119
Mercury handlebars going down sort of yeah, sort of a little more manly,

1094
01:14:56,159 --> 01:15:00,840
I would say, slightly. Really
soon it will be will be allowed to

1095
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:06,520
officially have beards. So wait,
that's not allowed the uh that No,

1096
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:12,439
we we are allowed to have beards
during certain times because we do we raise

1097
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:16,039
money for charity, you know,
kids for cancer and cancer research things like

1098
01:15:16,079 --> 01:15:19,119
that. So we raised money and
we're allowed. The SHAFF gracially allowed,

1099
01:15:19,239 --> 01:15:24,359
graciously allowed us to do it for
a couple of months this year and it

1100
01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:28,239
was it was awesome. But it's
not officially yet. We can't do it

1101
01:15:28,279 --> 01:15:30,920
all the time. But okay,
yeah we're trying, all right. Well,

1102
01:15:32,199 --> 01:15:34,920
yeah, I must be a policy
now that I think about it.

1103
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:42,880
I don't know any police officers in
any town that has a beard. Couple

1104
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:45,479
that. Yeah, there's there's a
couple of circumstances where you can and a

1105
01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:49,119
couple. There's one department for sure, I know that does allow it now,

1106
01:15:49,199 --> 01:15:54,880
but you know, we digress.
Yeah, do you get do you

1107
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:59,800
get a bulletin of I don't want
to say all across America, but I'll

1108
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:04,359
think is happening and things to look
out for, trends. Sure, so

1109
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:11,199
there's definitely bulletins you hit it right, I ahead that different partners, law

1110
01:16:11,279 --> 01:16:16,199
enforcement, different levels right, federal
state, all different things, a lot

1111
01:16:16,199 --> 01:16:20,479
of a lot of like law officer
safety issues right Like one of the ones

1112
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:25,680
that we saw years ago. Now, there was a super soaker fits somewhere.

1113
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:28,720
I forget where they found it,
but it looked like a super soaker's

1114
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:30,199
squirt gun, but some of it
taken it apart and put a sot off

1115
01:16:30,199 --> 01:16:35,800
shotgun inside. Be on the lookout. You know, we caught this.

1116
01:16:36,159 --> 01:16:40,479
So if somebody here thought of it, somebody wherever you are probably thought of

1117
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:43,800
it too, and stuff like that. A lot of information sharing, you

1118
01:16:43,840 --> 01:16:45,760
know, it's nice. Gone gone
are the days. Even in the time

1119
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:50,560
I've been here, departments are just
more and more I don't want to say

1120
01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:55,920
friendly, but collaborative. Right there. There isn't that turf war. We're

1121
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:58,640
better than you. You know,
this is our area. That kind of

1122
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,279
stuff like this that that doesn't happened
as much anymore. Everybody's more willing,

1123
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:05,279
absolutely, and you know, you
go I was told people, you go

1124
01:17:05,359 --> 01:17:09,960
back to the Columbine and it was
a horrible tragedy, but we learned a

1125
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:14,800
lot of things in law enforcement from
them on that job. The different agencies

1126
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:17,000
who showed up couldn't even talk to
each other. The radios didn't work together.

1127
01:17:17,399 --> 01:17:23,359
That's how they pegregated everything. They
were different channels or frequencies, different

1128
01:17:23,359 --> 01:17:26,439
frequencies, so they couldn't even hear
each other, and it was just a

1129
01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:30,960
cluster. So they learned that communications, you know that that was huge.

1130
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:33,920
So they had to start everybody yep. So now we all have radio channels

1131
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:36,079
that we can get on, no
matter who it is, so that we

1132
01:17:36,119 --> 01:17:40,920
can all coordinate and talk and so
just things like that. You're learning and

1133
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:44,720
grow. And you can almost see
though originally where I want the sheriffs on

1134
01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,760
this frequency so we can all communicate. And you know, Rochester, you're

1135
01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:51,199
over here, and well, I
you know, but being here, can

1136
01:17:51,239 --> 01:17:56,640
I go back? I want to
go back to the bail I will call

1137
01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,680
bail reform. But the idea like
this guy from Saint John Fisher held on

1138
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,520
thirty thousands dollars bail paid it out
within twenty four hours. What can we

1139
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:08,800
do as citizens, and the idea
would be to vote right. But also,

1140
01:18:10,079 --> 01:18:13,039
these are laws that are already made
in New York States, So how

1141
01:18:13,039 --> 01:18:15,560
do we get that changed. Are
there people that we can put in there

1142
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:20,800
that will affect change to make it
more I would say common sense maybe,

1143
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,000
you know, I would go as
far to say that, you know,

1144
01:18:25,079 --> 01:18:29,960
this necessarily isn't a political thing,
but it's the people who are there now,

1145
01:18:30,119 --> 01:18:32,880
right, they represent us. So
if we're writing to them and we're

1146
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:38,920
saying, you're writing there, your
legislator, your congressman, your state representative,

1147
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,680
right and saying, hey, look
at why are we the only state

1148
01:18:42,039 --> 01:18:45,640
that does not have a dangerousness standard? How are these things happening? We're

1149
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:48,560
set up with it. We demand
change, right, We're just we're looking

1150
01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:54,359
for safety, you know, and
from our point of view, public safety

1151
01:18:54,399 --> 01:18:58,920
is the number one responsibility obviously for
law enforcement, but it's also for lawmakers.

1152
01:18:59,319 --> 01:19:01,800
Those lawmakers, it's your job to
keep the people safe that you you're

1153
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:05,880
constituents. So we need to hold
them accountable. We need to let them

1154
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:10,880
know what we're doing. Right,
And you know, the sheriff is that

1155
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,319
consort for Safe Communities. You had
those guys on a couple of months or

1156
01:19:14,359 --> 01:19:18,079
so ago, and that's what they're
doing. Sign that petition, Write your

1157
01:19:18,119 --> 01:19:20,840
lawmakers and just let them know.
And we see it. People tell us

1158
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:24,680
all the time, I'm set up, I'm tired of this. How do

1159
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:28,039
we fix this? What's going on? They hear about it at Ubering all

1160
01:19:28,079 --> 01:19:30,159
the time too, You do ye? Really, people just want to stay

1161
01:19:30,159 --> 01:19:35,119
in side all summer with the bikes
and everything around the city. They don't

1162
01:19:35,199 --> 01:19:39,000
leave their house to go to work
and go to the market. That's it.

1163
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:43,319
They won't even anyone to take a
walk. It is said, yeah,

1164
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:45,640
and you hit it right on the
head earlier, Bill, we have

1165
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:49,600
all these wonderful freedoms in this country. Now people aren't using it. They're

1166
01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:54,520
afraid they don't want to. Forty
five hundred I think it was forty five

1167
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:58,279
one hundred and eleven cars were stolen
in Monroe County last year. Wow,

1168
01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,720
that's insane. I wonder if you
I don't want to go outside. Well,

1169
01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:04,640
I just saw a woman, uh
that I sort of knew, not

1170
01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:10,720
not well. We were friends on
Facebook and she posted made it actually made

1171
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:15,520
me sad. It sounds so ridiculous, But she was just talking into her

1172
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:17,479
camera going, uh, yep,
I'm moving. I sold my house,

1173
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:20,800
my kids are grown, and uh, you know what, I'm just sick

1174
01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:24,600
of it Rochester and I and I'm
thinking to myself, boy, I really

1175
01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:27,199
love this area and I love where
I live. Well, she's down towards

1176
01:20:27,239 --> 01:20:30,279
the city, she said. In
this video just very short, it was

1177
01:20:30,279 --> 01:20:33,800
about three minutes. She said,
Uh, I'm tired of having people walk

1178
01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:38,359
through my backyard and I see them
on my camera. I don't know what's

1179
01:20:38,399 --> 01:20:42,000
going to happen. I'm sir,
I'm tired of hearing gunshots and sirens at

1180
01:20:42,039 --> 01:20:45,239
all hours of the night. And
she basically goes, fuck it, Rochester,

1181
01:20:45,319 --> 01:20:47,159
I'm out. And I went,
oh, boy, that that that,

1182
01:20:47,159 --> 01:20:51,239
that to me is like the worst
pr you could have for your city.

1183
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:55,119
And uh, it made me.
It made me sad. And there

1184
01:20:55,199 --> 01:20:58,399
is something to say, like,
boy, how do we how do you

1185
01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:00,520
just get a little pride back in
this? Because I do think majority of

1186
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:04,760
people want to be able to take
a walk outside. You know some people

1187
01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:10,960
that Doug are talking about but just
are too afraid because the smaller them,

1188
01:21:11,039 --> 01:21:17,720
the smaller group of people are taking
over and running roughshot. Yeah, and

1189
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:20,079
how do you fix that? How
do you change that, How do you

1190
01:21:20,159 --> 01:21:26,920
change that mentality? Right? You
have juveniles running around knowing that there's nothing

1191
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:30,720
that can be done to them,
right, And I remember years ago when

1192
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:33,479
before raised the age, we had
a bunch of juveniles that would run around

1193
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,800
and try to cause the same trouble
and you're just doing stupid stuff. But

1194
01:21:36,880 --> 01:21:42,159
they knew, they knew. As
soon as they turned sixteen, they they

1195
01:21:42,399 --> 01:21:45,399
just totally changed. They were angels
because then they could be arrested and they

1196
01:21:45,399 --> 01:21:49,680
could go to jail and there was
consequences, and they just stopped doing what

1197
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:54,039
they were doing because they knew.
These kids aren't dumb, right, they

1198
01:21:54,279 --> 01:21:57,600
know beings and outs. And now
we've made it eighteen. So now up

1199
01:21:57,680 --> 01:22:00,199
until eighteen, they know that they
can get away with a lot of stuff.

1200
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:04,920
And it's you know, I always
tell people to know and listen,

1201
01:22:05,079 --> 01:22:09,439
you guys can probably relate to this
as well. I didn't fear the police

1202
01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:12,159
when I was a kid. I
didn't want to have runnings with the police,

1203
01:22:12,239 --> 01:22:15,119
right, But if the police were
going to catch me for doing something

1204
01:22:15,159 --> 01:22:16,880
bad, they were going to take
me home to my dad. And that's

1205
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:20,600
what I was afraid of because I
knew it was coming then it wasn't.

1206
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:25,399
It wasn't the cops. It wasn't
what it was the responsibility and the discippline

1207
01:22:25,399 --> 01:22:28,880
at home. Now you can have
the cop and the kid in and the

1208
01:22:28,920 --> 01:22:35,600
father in the car. Right,
you're getting one for you know, you

1209
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:41,079
brought shame on the household, right, you embarrassed theselves. It's just different,

1210
01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:45,359
and it's sad in a way.
I have a question. I Uh,

1211
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:47,800
that's cut you off. But uh, law enforcement, the numbers,

1212
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:56,239
Uh how is that for the Sheriff's
Association for people number the sheriffs? You

1213
01:22:56,319 --> 01:23:00,960
know. I was when I took
the test back in two thou in four,

1214
01:23:00,159 --> 01:23:03,399
I think it was I took it. There was like eighteen hundred people

1215
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:08,840
signed up to take the civil service, and I think we maybe had eight

1216
01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:12,399
hundred at the last one. Is
that once a year twice a year.

1217
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:17,159
It's once a year to twice a
year. It depends on need and different

1218
01:23:17,239 --> 01:23:19,600
departments, Like I know they just
had one. I don't think we were

1219
01:23:19,640 --> 01:23:23,840
part of that one, but usually
it's once a year for different departments.

1220
01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:30,800
But we were lucky enough to get
a nice increase from the county and the

1221
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:36,520
County executive to add an additional forty
to fifty deputies fifty four to five hundred

1222
01:23:38,560 --> 01:23:42,920
zero one of that, you have
cops everywhere's doing shit. I say,

1223
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:45,880
give them back their billy clubs.
I'm I'm biased, I'm bad, I'm

1224
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:50,000
sorry. No that and that you're
you're you're right, right, And it's

1225
01:23:50,039 --> 01:23:54,680
it goes back to what we're talking
about, right. We need, we

1226
01:23:54,720 --> 01:23:59,119
need clean laws, we need we
need easily understandable laws. We need,

1227
01:23:59,359 --> 01:24:02,840
you know, squenses for people who
do bad things. Yeah, because again,

1228
01:24:03,039 --> 01:24:08,560
if it's gta out there, if
people don't think there's any consequences to

1229
01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:12,359
their actions, what do they care? Right? Right? Well, w

1230
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:15,039
Hurley, I I I appreciate you, uh, give me some time.

1231
01:24:15,079 --> 01:24:19,840
And then also just to remind people, write to your representatives and and talk

1232
01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:25,319
about this. Why don't we have
a dangerous standard for people who are arrested?

1233
01:24:25,359 --> 01:24:29,680
And maybe we can change some things
because certainly it's it's affecting things at

1234
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:33,760
Saint John Fisher Is It's just one
example of I'm sure many that could be

1235
01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:38,560
made around the around the county.
Yeah, for sure, That's definitely what

1236
01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:42,560
I want to portray here. It's
not just this one. We're not trying

1237
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:47,560
to you know, shame and you
know abuse. This case, it's this

1238
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:51,199
is just the most recent example of
many, right, and it's got to

1239
01:24:51,279 --> 01:24:56,439
change. People are set up where
can people go to read the full letter

1240
01:24:56,520 --> 01:25:00,640
that the sheriff ro isn't on your
website, U, it is on our

1241
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:03,880
social Media's put that up so it
could be anywhere there and while you're there

1242
01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:06,920
to scroll through and look at some
of our attempt to identify as their admissing

1243
01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:11,600
people and help us solve some of
these crimes and you know, make it

1244
01:25:11,600 --> 01:25:14,159
a little safer out there. Yeah, all right, well, thank you,

1245
01:25:14,199 --> 01:25:18,239
and I hope everything turns out well
for whatever was going on today,

1246
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:20,560
you too, my friend, all
right, thank you, thank you.

1247
01:25:21,199 --> 01:25:28,640
Bye. There it goes hurly interesting
stuff, right yeah, only only only

1248
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:30,640
just to see because how frustrating for
them, Oh, without a doubt,

1249
01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:35,239
how frustrating for them. Someone clearly
did something and then they're back on the

1250
01:25:35,279 --> 01:25:41,600
street. And and again to his
point too, Saint John Fisher is just

1251
01:25:41,640 --> 01:25:45,199
one example of many different things that
are happening. And uh, the only

1252
01:25:45,239 --> 01:25:47,319
way to change it is to to
let people know. And and it has

1253
01:25:47,359 --> 01:25:53,039
nothing to do with and no one
wants to see anybody wrongfully arrested or wrong

1254
01:25:53,119 --> 01:25:56,079
But this isn't that, This isn't
what we're talking about. Yeah, this

1255
01:25:56,159 --> 01:25:59,119
is a repeat thing that's happening.
All right, we'll take a moment.

1256
01:25:59,239 --> 01:26:02,279
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1257
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1260
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1261
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1282
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1290
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Drive Bullyproof is not full of you. I don't dress the same me and

1291
01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:46,000
ju you say ours yesterday have gone
off, separays, left my living fast

1292
01:28:46,119 --> 01:28:54,760
somewhere in the past because that's purchasing
cars. Turns out open Bossie to broken

1293
01:28:54,840 --> 01:29:01,520
hots and gone wait far. I
know I used to be crazy. I

1294
01:29:01,800 --> 01:29:08,000
know I used to be bun.
You say I used to be wound.

1295
01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:14,600
I say I used to be young. You tell me Tom is not changed

1296
01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:19,399
me. That's not a bad good
run. No, I used to be

1297
01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:28,000
crazy. That's cause I used to
be young take gwambor it. That's not

1298
01:29:28,239 --> 01:29:33,920
worth crying about. The things you
can't wakes like tattoos and regrets words on

1299
01:29:34,199 --> 01:29:41,039
them. Yeah, I like the
songs. I think it hits a certain

1300
01:29:41,079 --> 01:29:45,840
set of it. I think a
lot of people live with regret. I

1301
01:29:45,159 --> 01:29:50,199
really do, and I think that, my god, we just we are

1302
01:29:50,319 --> 01:29:56,279
so fucked up as human beings.
It's it's annoyed me. It's easy easy.

1303
01:29:56,319 --> 01:29:59,880
You're usually telling me to slow down. I just it just does the

1304
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:03,840
because I go nothing serious is happening
here. Stop judging. Stop judging yourself.

1305
01:30:04,279 --> 01:30:08,359
You never get it wrong. You
just never get it right. Everything

1306
01:30:08,399 --> 01:30:11,439
you do leads you to something else. They always got to go for the

1307
01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:15,199
better feeling thing. Stop wallowing in
whatever it is, Stop thinking of the

1308
01:30:15,279 --> 01:30:18,520
lack of everything, Focus on what
you want and then fucking go for it,

1309
01:30:18,720 --> 01:30:23,359
and stop worrying about what everybody else
thinks. This whole masculinity thing has

1310
01:30:23,399 --> 01:30:26,039
nothing to do with the individual.
That has to do with the individual.

1311
01:30:26,119 --> 01:30:30,760
Feels like about it, just like
you should be more masculine. No,

1312
01:30:31,000 --> 01:30:36,479
I'm not. I am bothered by
the fact that we live so much for

1313
01:30:36,640 --> 01:30:42,119
others that we fuck our lives up. I'm not living for anybody. I'm

1314
01:30:42,159 --> 01:30:45,079
not saying you, I'm just saying
like that, I'm selfish. But I

1315
01:30:45,079 --> 01:30:46,640
think young people, I think a
lot of young people do. I think

1316
01:30:47,199 --> 01:30:50,279
I come up and everybody's got their
own tickets video. Yes, but we

1317
01:30:53,039 --> 01:30:56,000
didn't have that when we were You
didn't have that. But we can be

1318
01:30:56,039 --> 01:30:58,960
on TV. I can be seen. And if I'm not being seen now,

1319
01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:00,680
I'm depressed. So I'm going to
the stupid video of myself. Well

1320
01:31:00,680 --> 01:31:04,600
that has to do it popular,
but that has to do with technology.

1321
01:31:04,600 --> 01:31:08,840
But I think there was always the
pressure growing up to try to conform and

1322
01:31:08,880 --> 01:31:14,119
fit in and be popular. But
we knew the higherarchy of who is popular

1323
01:31:14,159 --> 01:31:17,159
and who was not in school,
right, you knew who the kids were

1324
01:31:17,239 --> 01:31:20,680
in your high school and in your
college and all that stuff and college,

1325
01:31:20,720 --> 01:31:25,600
but in high school and high school, for who are the top jocks the

1326
01:31:25,920 --> 01:31:29,399
brainy as right? And it was
doing drugs, yes, you know,

1327
01:31:29,560 --> 01:31:32,079
And so I think that. But
I feel like a lot of times you're

1328
01:31:32,079 --> 01:31:35,520
trying to live to get somebody else's
approval. And my thing has always been,

1329
01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:40,560
even with my kids, stop doing
it for other people, do it

1330
01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:43,600
for yourself. You want to have
big muscles and work out because it makes

1331
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:45,359
you feel good and you get satisfied. Great. Don't do it because some

1332
01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:49,760
other you think some chick's gonna bang
it. Cause it'll work in the short

1333
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:53,840
term, but it doesn't work in
the long term. There's something came up

1334
01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:57,119
on the podcast last night, and
I'll just briefly brush on it because there's

1335
01:31:57,720 --> 01:32:00,560
a point to this that I'll make, and I am You're right. I

1336
01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:04,560
am a little fired up in annoy
today. I think it's because I'm uncomfortable.

1337
01:32:04,920 --> 01:32:09,399
You got half that white moistage.
Yes, I'm uncomfortable. But last

1338
01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:14,600
night we talked about a local band
that is a cover band, but they

1339
01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:18,600
they are specific to one artist,
okay, and they're very popular, and

1340
01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:25,279
the band is run like a corporation. It's an LLC actually, and some

1341
01:32:25,319 --> 01:32:27,840
people in the band are leaving.
I don't know the people. I don't

1342
01:32:28,039 --> 01:32:31,199
have the you got it, okay, So some people are leaving and they're

1343
01:32:31,199 --> 01:32:35,560
starting their own but they're calling it
the same thing, and they're going to

1344
01:32:35,640 --> 01:32:41,199
do the exact same thing, same
artists. They sell out everywhere they go.

1345
01:32:41,359 --> 01:32:44,840
They do. But I'm not a
fan. But so, but that

1346
01:32:44,960 --> 01:32:47,680
band, there's a riff in the
band. So a group of guys are

1347
01:32:47,760 --> 01:32:51,399
leaving and they're going to start.
Instead of starting their own band that's going

1348
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:55,640
to play other music, they're gonna
play the exact same music. So they're

1349
01:32:55,640 --> 01:32:58,760
going to compete against the guys that
are there. And my only thing is,

1350
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:02,079
like, so you if I'm in
that band, the original band,

1351
01:33:02,479 --> 01:33:09,600
I don't even care, right,
And here's why, because when you're so

1352
01:33:09,760 --> 01:33:14,359
focused on trying to damage somebody else, in the end, the only person

1353
01:33:14,359 --> 01:33:16,399
that gets hurt is you. Now
you may say to me, well,

1354
01:33:16,439 --> 01:33:19,800
that's not true. There's this person
and this example and that they're not happy.

1355
01:33:20,600 --> 01:33:24,039
You know you. Look, I
just read this whole thing today on

1356
01:33:24,079 --> 01:33:28,039
squatter's rights and how hard it is
to get people's out of homes, and

1357
01:33:28,399 --> 01:33:30,880
that one baffles my mind too.
But go ahead, New York City.

1358
01:33:30,960 --> 01:33:32,399
No, I get it. But
even as a squatter, you want to

1359
01:33:32,399 --> 01:33:35,720
be a squatter. I don't know. I don't know anybody who's squatted,

1360
01:33:36,000 --> 01:33:40,439
so I can't say that sounds so
ridiculous to say, but I so I

1361
01:33:40,479 --> 01:33:42,800
can't say I don't know what the
numbers are. I can't imagine that as

1362
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:45,359
a huge percentage of people. But
if you own a property and you wind

1363
01:33:45,399 --> 01:33:48,720
up in the hospital and somebody all
of a sudden moves in that that's a

1364
01:33:49,159 --> 01:33:53,920
headache you never want to have to
deal with. So I empathize. But

1365
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:57,920
my point is that the people who
are squatting you are living in fear all

1366
01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:00,359
the time. Anytime there's a knock
on the door, somebody's gonna come,

1367
01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:04,000
there's an eviction known as finally apposite. I think they just don't care.

1368
01:34:04,239 --> 01:34:08,920
Well maybe, but I think they
do. You're never gonna fully have a

1369
01:34:10,039 --> 01:34:13,279
great life. That's all I'm trying
to say is when you go and all

1370
01:34:13,520 --> 01:34:15,920
your whole thing, Oh, if
they're not trying to oppress everybody else,

1371
01:34:15,960 --> 01:34:17,880
so what do they matter? Maybe
you're going home, Yeah, I'm going

1372
01:34:17,920 --> 01:34:21,199
to the house that has no lights
at the luck leg well a lot of

1373
01:34:21,239 --> 01:34:25,920
them do. Actually, you're right, yeah, especially up here because in

1374
01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:29,239
the winter you need to keep the
heat on, you know, right,

1375
01:34:29,319 --> 01:34:31,239
so you can turn it out to
pay for though, right while the homeowner,

1376
01:34:31,279 --> 01:34:34,840
whoever or whoever owns it does.
If I own the house and it's

1377
01:34:34,880 --> 01:34:38,720
vacant, right and I'm gonna be
selling it, I need to keep it

1378
01:34:38,760 --> 01:34:41,640
on so the pipes don't freeze.
And in the summer, I may keep

1379
01:34:41,680 --> 01:34:44,119
the air conditioning on to try to
cool it down. When there's a showing

1380
01:34:44,199 --> 01:34:46,840
or so somebody breaks in. You
got it, so you're not breaking in

1381
01:34:46,880 --> 01:34:49,800
an entery. A squatter, Well, you only have to be a squatter

1382
01:34:49,880 --> 01:34:53,239
for ten days in New York City, I think you have to be or

1383
01:34:53,279 --> 01:34:56,760
thirty days or something like that.
You've got like there's a guy in right

1384
01:34:56,800 --> 01:35:01,680
now who's been a property manager on
a property for this this family. He

1385
01:35:01,800 --> 01:35:06,000
was like their maintenance, live on
maintenance guy, live there for ten years.

1386
01:35:06,760 --> 01:35:10,239
They want them out, and he's
like, I've lived here for ten

1387
01:35:10,279 --> 01:35:13,159
years. There are laws that say
if you've been at a residence for ten

1388
01:35:13,239 --> 01:35:15,359
years and can prove it, there's
not you know, it takes a little

1389
01:35:15,359 --> 01:35:19,479
extra to get them out. That's
all because there are rights of trying not

1390
01:35:19,600 --> 01:35:26,479
to wrong affect people right except for
you and me right. But my only

1391
01:35:26,520 --> 01:35:30,960
thing is I always go when you're
coming from pure intention on anything. If

1392
01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:32,840
you're living there for ten years,
were like a giant. We want to

1393
01:35:32,840 --> 01:35:36,079
make a change. How much time
do you know? They came to me

1394
01:35:36,319 --> 01:35:40,439
and I lived there for ten years
ago, Bill, how much you would

1395
01:35:40,479 --> 01:35:43,119
I would move. I'm not going
to stay. I'm not going to stay.

1396
01:35:43,119 --> 01:35:47,119
Where shouldn't you have like a mediator, a policeman, judge. Okay,

1397
01:35:47,119 --> 01:35:48,960
we're going to give you two months, but then we want you out.

1398
01:35:49,159 --> 01:35:53,039
Yes, well that goes, No, I'm not leaving. Yes,

1399
01:35:53,159 --> 01:35:56,079
well, then you've got to go
through and you can get it. There

1400
01:35:56,079 --> 01:35:59,560
are ways to do it, but
it's just more of a hassle and the

1401
01:35:59,560 --> 01:36:02,840
whole thing comes. You're right,
but in the end the clock's on that

1402
01:36:02,880 --> 01:36:06,000
guy, and so you look like
the heavy. But really, if your

1403
01:36:06,000 --> 01:36:09,920
preer intention is I need to sell
this place and you can't be living here,

1404
01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:15,239
what you know, that's the whole
thing. I just feel like,

1405
01:36:15,560 --> 01:36:18,319
even with this band, the people
that are gonna go against you, they're

1406
01:36:18,359 --> 01:36:21,439
the ones that lose. Anybody who's
doing something to get back at you,

1407
01:36:21,520 --> 01:36:26,760
to hurt you to they never win. They never win. It may look

1408
01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:29,159
like they're winning. You may go, hey man, for the last five

1409
01:36:29,239 --> 01:36:32,920
years that guy. Believe me,
they're not because somewhere, someway something's sucking

1410
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:36,239
for them and don't even worry about
it. So now they're gonna be booked

1411
01:36:36,319 --> 01:36:43,680
on both nights. Two z bet
bands one in Henrietta, one down in

1412
01:36:43,760 --> 01:36:46,239
Bands of Barner. Maybe you'll get
people out there and people. Maybe you

1413
01:36:46,319 --> 01:36:48,520
might. I don't know. I
don't know how it's gonna work. I

1414
01:36:48,840 --> 01:36:51,840
have no idea. My only point
was that it's a big riff within the

1415
01:36:51,880 --> 01:36:56,560
band. I heard more stories today
that came at me because of what was

1416
01:36:56,560 --> 01:36:59,159
discussed in the podcast, and I
wasn't familiar with the story. They can't

1417
01:36:59,159 --> 01:37:02,680
share the groupies, so I just
go, wow. You know, when

1418
01:37:02,760 --> 01:37:06,640
when you start trying to do something
like I'm gonna get back at somebody,

1419
01:37:06,720 --> 01:37:10,760
it never really goes. It says
more about you than it does the person

1420
01:37:10,760 --> 01:37:13,279
you're getting back at. So this
would be a bad time to bring up

1421
01:37:13,319 --> 01:37:20,239
Doug Afied. Go do Doug Afied, I go, you can. You

1422
01:37:20,279 --> 01:37:23,880
can do anything you want. But
see, that's the thing is like I

1423
01:37:23,880 --> 01:37:28,000
I don't even I wouldn't care.
I would even tell people go check it

1424
01:37:28,039 --> 01:37:30,079
out. I'd be here doing it. It's a steaming pile of ship.

1425
01:37:30,199 --> 01:37:35,199
Just like his movie You know something, you got something right? There's you

1426
01:37:35,239 --> 01:37:38,800
try to blow your nose with super
glue and he just got blown out of

1427
01:37:38,800 --> 01:37:43,159
it. This is so it's so
annoying. It is really annoying, and

1428
01:37:43,199 --> 01:37:45,520
it hurts today, it does.
It just hurts a little. You know

1429
01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:48,279
what it is. It's the dull
aching pain. It's not it's not like

1430
01:37:48,880 --> 01:37:53,640
you. Yes, it's a dull
aching pain. You got it exactly.

1431
01:37:53,680 --> 01:37:56,760
And then so I am annoying.
I'm annoyed, and I'm annoying, I'm

1432
01:37:56,760 --> 01:38:00,479
sure, but that's all. I
just I get bothered by Just go do

1433
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:03,520
what you want to do and and
fucking stop worrying about whateverybody what I want

1434
01:38:03,560 --> 01:38:05,840
to do. Yes, I know
you are. I'm not saying you right,

1435
01:38:05,960 --> 01:38:10,680
I'm saying this masculinity thing or anybody
else that's trying to do something where

1436
01:38:10,720 --> 01:38:13,359
it's always like, well, this
is a man up in the city,

1437
01:38:13,399 --> 01:38:16,199
so you're not a punk and you
always get with your shoulders. Yeah,

1438
01:38:16,439 --> 01:38:18,920
and you're looking for trouble and you
have to prove it so you have to

1439
01:38:18,920 --> 01:38:21,960
fight. Yeah, blah blah.
Can you hear it? O God,

1440
01:38:23,439 --> 01:38:27,520
I'll kick your and I hear it
on the phone, and just like,

1441
01:38:27,560 --> 01:38:30,399
oh God, and I just want
to say this absolutely makes no sense.

1442
01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:35,239
Just make a sentence. Just you're
you're yelling about nothing. You're yelling about

1443
01:38:35,279 --> 01:38:39,800
nothing, right, there's nothing really
going on? Nothing? Well, what

1444
01:38:40,159 --> 01:38:45,199
was that Shakespearean quote? Were all
we are is players upon the stays,

1445
01:38:45,239 --> 01:38:47,319
its struts and frets their hours,
and then it's hurt no more. Right,

1446
01:38:47,720 --> 01:38:50,159
You're just strutting, fret your hour
upon the stage, and then you

1447
01:38:50,199 --> 01:38:54,399
are hurt no more. And when
you look back and wherever you end up,

1448
01:38:54,520 --> 01:38:57,000
you go, Boy, that was
really silly. Why did I get

1449
01:38:57,039 --> 01:39:00,720
all spun out about that? Gives
a fuck? I try not to look

1450
01:39:00,760 --> 01:39:03,079
back at stuff like that. I'm
just saying, like all of us,

1451
01:39:03,159 --> 01:39:05,399
every one of us do it.
Well, I'll do it. It's the

1452
01:39:05,439 --> 01:39:09,880
human condition, and your mind's going
to wander. I can say this and

1453
01:39:09,920 --> 01:39:13,960
I'll probably get spun out about something
next week. And then your lips,

1454
01:39:15,720 --> 01:39:18,079
God, damn that zipper lip,
zipper lip, that's what I look like.

1455
01:39:19,359 --> 01:39:21,359
I don't want to see it.
I don't like it. That's one

1456
01:39:21,399 --> 01:39:24,520
thing I hate. People say,
hey, I just had my knee up.

1457
01:39:25,119 --> 01:39:27,119
The show me a picture of their
knee cut open. I'm like,

1458
01:39:27,319 --> 01:39:29,680
so, I just hate what is
wrong with you? They to me,

1459
01:39:29,720 --> 01:39:31,840
do you have my chart? And
I said, yeah, I got my

1460
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,199
chart. They said, well,
they're going to send you all the notes

1461
01:39:34,239 --> 01:39:39,600
on this. Don't open it if
you don't want to see the wound,

1462
01:39:39,880 --> 01:39:43,000
because they're sending you because they take
pictures of it. But then they take

1463
01:39:43,000 --> 01:39:45,600
a picture of the stitches, and
the stitches look kind of cool, they

1464
01:39:45,600 --> 01:39:48,359
do. You look like klitch gooff. Caught, You're right now. You

1465
01:39:48,439 --> 01:39:53,119
turn your head just in time.
Caught. You get your hand up fast

1466
01:39:53,239 --> 01:39:58,399
enough. You're tired. You dropped
your hands. Who is the doctor Brown?

1467
01:39:58,720 --> 01:40:00,239
Doctor Brown? Have you ever remember
me? For ten years ago?

1468
01:40:00,279 --> 01:40:03,000
He did something on me and doctor
Brown is uh, he's just one of

1469
01:40:03,039 --> 01:40:06,640
those cool, laid back guys,
you know, real real good. Uh

1470
01:40:08,239 --> 01:40:14,159
obviously been a dermatologists or doing dermatology
surgery and a surgeon. Your Yeah,

1471
01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:17,319
that's a difference taking life. I
think, yes, it is internet partying.

1472
01:40:17,439 --> 01:40:23,399
I think you're average. Doctor's probably
not a drinker. Maybe there.

1473
01:40:23,479 --> 01:40:30,600
I don't know how many doctors you
hanging out with. I know one party

1474
01:40:30,640 --> 01:40:36,800
with him? I do Should we
not go see him? That's all the

1475
01:40:36,840 --> 01:40:42,439
information I'm giving out. Tis all
right, Doug, any comedy coming up?

1476
01:40:43,319 --> 01:40:45,399
You know what Owens? I got
to get Owens? Yeah, Greg

1477
01:40:45,399 --> 01:40:49,920
Owens. I did the comedy this
weekend at in depew Eagle riders they raise

1478
01:40:50,039 --> 01:40:56,960
money for, which was really nice. A service dog for PSD, ps

1479
01:40:57,239 --> 01:41:01,720
TD veterans PTS, PTSDM. So
way to go. Yeah, yeah,

1480
01:41:01,920 --> 01:41:05,279
so nice to know what you're doing
there. Right. Hey, here's a

1481
01:41:05,359 --> 01:41:10,479
joke, folks. I don't know
how to say it. I didn't get

1482
01:41:10,520 --> 01:41:17,159
all generally when you hear the the
somebody's car backfire, you got PSTD the

1483
01:41:17,199 --> 01:41:19,880
only dog joke? Well, did
I tell my dog? I don't think

1484
01:41:19,880 --> 01:41:24,880
so. You know why blind people
don't skydive? Uh because their dog?

1485
01:41:24,920 --> 01:41:27,279
Wise, yeah, scares the shit
out of Oh yeah, I love that.

1486
01:41:27,920 --> 01:41:30,840
When I went on stage, I
m seated, did fifteen minutes,

1487
01:41:30,880 --> 01:41:34,600
came off. Then Greg Owens went
up, who is going to be headlining

1488
01:41:34,640 --> 01:41:40,880
at the Carlton April fourth Get meet
tickets. I will be opening Cindiorino will

1489
01:41:40,920 --> 01:41:43,399
be featuring, but it's gonna be
a good hour and a half of comedy

1490
01:41:43,399 --> 01:41:47,239
on Thursday night. And then Nick
Maher went up. I actually I went

1491
01:41:47,279 --> 01:41:53,399
back up in mike and I had
forgot a part of my bit. Oh

1492
01:41:53,520 --> 01:41:55,439
yeah, so I asked Nick,
I go, do you mind if I

1493
01:41:55,560 --> 01:41:58,399
tell some more jokes in between?
And kind of stretches out. He goes

1494
01:41:58,439 --> 01:42:00,439
no, go ahead, So I
did that, and then I told a

1495
01:42:00,520 --> 01:42:04,039
couple of my favorite older jokes.
And it was definitely an older crowd.

1496
01:42:04,479 --> 01:42:10,159
The youngest person there was probably thirty
five. And then Nick went up into

1497
01:42:10,199 --> 01:42:15,199
an hour and then we we raffled
off twenty thirty things. It was nice,

1498
01:42:15,239 --> 01:42:16,000
good I don't know how much they
raised, but it was a nice

1499
01:42:16,399 --> 01:42:21,800
crowd, nice club, and they
were definitely appreciative, so made me feel

1500
01:42:21,800 --> 01:42:25,680
good. I'm gonna try this real
quick go ahead to see if this works.

1501
01:42:25,800 --> 01:42:30,319
What is it? Your manly mainly
thing? Oh? Your son?

1502
01:42:30,800 --> 01:42:34,960
Yeah, okay, I just want
to see if Jordan's answers. Your dog

1503
01:42:35,000 --> 01:42:40,920
doesn't like my socks. I have
a whole plethora of like bizarre funny socks,

1504
01:42:40,920 --> 01:42:45,920
and I warrant been forwarded to your
voicemail and means I don't want to

1505
01:42:45,920 --> 01:42:48,560
talk to dad talking to him?
What's up with Dad? Hey Dad,

1506
01:42:48,600 --> 01:42:51,920
I'm busy. They got stuff going
on. I'm being a manly man.

1507
01:42:53,119 --> 01:42:58,680
That's Liam Neeson. Yeah, you
think he's a tough guy in real life?

1508
01:42:58,840 --> 01:43:01,000
Yeah? Yes, Yeah, to
a certain degree, I would say

1509
01:43:01,000 --> 01:43:04,640
Liam Neeson has suffered one of the
toughest things you can suffer. Yes,

1510
01:43:05,399 --> 01:43:10,520
the death of his spouse unexpectedly.
Not that it's any easier if you knew

1511
01:43:10,560 --> 01:43:13,560
it was coming, or push trava
cliff. She did. He did.

1512
01:43:14,800 --> 01:43:18,279
He is going to be playing Lieutenant
Frank Reben in the new Naked Stop It.

1513
01:43:18,479 --> 01:43:20,560
I just heard it the other day. I don't like this. Well,

1514
01:43:20,640 --> 01:43:25,600
actually he could be pretty funny.
He has that street. Yes,

1515
01:43:25,640 --> 01:43:32,199
he does, look boy and Uhi
Leslie Nielsen. He told his agent when

1516
01:43:32,239 --> 01:43:36,399
Airplane came out he was in all
these bit roles and uh saw a biography

1517
01:43:36,439 --> 01:43:40,239
on the years ago. He was
on a sidon an adventure as a captain

1518
01:43:40,600 --> 01:43:44,079
and he turns with the binaculars and
oh my god, I mean you felt

1519
01:43:44,159 --> 01:43:46,520
him that she's gonna hit the flan
and obviously ship turned over. And then

1520
01:43:46,640 --> 01:43:53,600
he was offered Airplane as a doctor. Uh the Zucker Brothers movie. Yes,

1521
01:43:53,920 --> 01:43:57,079
and he goes, I'll do it
for nothing. I can't tell him

1522
01:43:57,079 --> 01:43:59,399
I do for nothing. But he
always wanted to be in a comedy.

1523
01:43:59,680 --> 01:44:02,800
And then Police Squad came on.
It was a TV show, only had

1524
01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:05,680
eleven episodes of my dad and I
used to watch that all the time.

1525
01:44:05,760 --> 01:44:09,600
Yeah, I forgot about that show
until you just mentioned we used to watch

1526
01:44:09,640 --> 01:44:12,199
that. My mother loved that show. Yeah, my dad and I did

1527
01:44:12,199 --> 01:44:15,119
too. And then there's one,
two, three movies and now they're gonna

1528
01:44:15,119 --> 01:44:18,039
bring it back with Leam Neeson.
Look at this, Yeah, Liam Neeson,

1529
01:44:18,119 --> 01:44:21,319
I think has a house by my
mom. He did a movie with

1530
01:44:21,359 --> 01:44:25,760
his son, and they did a
showing in this, I think in a

1531
01:44:25,840 --> 01:44:30,319
parking lot of a four brothers pizza
in a menia. Dude, New York.

1532
01:44:30,479 --> 01:44:35,079
I defy anybody to find a mena
on a map, just telling you.

1533
01:44:35,199 --> 01:44:39,439
He was small sixty minutes I think
years ago, and I heard he

1534
01:44:39,479 --> 01:44:43,399
was an upstate New York and my
yeah, upstair well they call anything like

1535
01:44:43,800 --> 01:44:46,880
I was always all my relatives were
from New York City and Long Island,

1536
01:44:46,920 --> 01:44:51,439
New Jersey. Referred to Poughkeepsie as
upstate and it was below Albuning by an

1537
01:44:51,479 --> 01:44:55,600
hour. Yeah, who even knew? They didn't even think of up here.

1538
01:44:55,920 --> 01:44:59,239
They should cut off that. I
really wanted painting flowers on there with

1539
01:44:59,279 --> 01:45:01,720
my pant. Sorry, I'm not
sorry. Yeah, I know, you

1540
01:45:01,800 --> 01:45:05,840
know. I think New York City
should be cut off. We should just

1541
01:45:05,960 --> 01:45:11,119
have our old governor, let him
have their ownerstand problems up there. Yeah,

1542
01:45:11,319 --> 01:45:14,880
you damn problems, leave us alone, all right, Well, no

1543
01:45:15,000 --> 01:45:16,680
problems on this show. You look
good, Bill, Yeah, I know,

1544
01:45:16,880 --> 01:45:24,560
I look great. Gossip. I'm
really uncomfortable, like just just just

1545
01:45:24,640 --> 01:45:29,199
a dully campe man. It's like
fuck, but it's all right. I

1546
01:45:29,239 --> 01:45:33,720
shall live. That's right, until
next time for Dougie Phelps. That's right.

1547
01:45:33,760 --> 01:45:36,720
Oh we didn't even get your intros. All right, you gotta get

1548
01:45:36,760 --> 01:45:41,279
your intros. I'm Bill Moran.
I'm gonna cut your lip over. I'll

1549
01:45:41,279 --> 01:45:47,920
see you tomorrow with unwashed hair and
another and the bandage still on. Awesome