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Sunny sumorn on iheadasion night A right, Happy Friday, Yay, Happy

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Friday. Yay. It's a great
week. Yeah we had such a great

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week. Uh huh Yeah, let's
say hi to our people. Uh we

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got Christa gets the strap. Sandra. It's not easy being green, but

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you make it work. You make
it work. You gotta work, Jennifer,

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get up. Aaron is a dirty
Sanchez. Sarah Stefano, she I

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love her. Stephanie is a stinker
wrinker. She's so supportive. I love

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Steph. Yeah, Leslie's been supporting
us since the very beginning. Yeah,

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not really replying. Never heard from
her ever. Alicia also the other Leslie

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with the cough. Uh huh,
she's still Oh no, that's the one

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with the cough. The other one's
a Costa Costing. Yeah, still here.

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This week I heard from a mommy
friend of mine that she was standing

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outside of Costco richer frolicking around and
Dick frolic Rachel's a newcomer. Ashley she

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Kelly Lady d Amy, Lauren is
a golden lady, Katies rolling on e

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Aaron, who does Nikky call your
girl? Uh? Jacob is so Crowley,

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Rita with the bacinette rocking every sleep
and Elizabeth's got a lot of kids

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Athena. We love your dancing,
Polly, we love your pancakes. Valerie

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hits it out of the park,
which she's got the picture to prove it.

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Katerina's got a bum Moler. Gabby
and Missy, oh my god,

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it's you know. They they were
Memorial Day. They were out, the

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two of them, just wandering around
lighting fireworks off at the pier. Rebecca.

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It's so cute. Sean vage Pay
is still hot. I love Sean.

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He reaches out to me. Everything
he does I wonder about, Like,

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isn't I still listening to our show? He is him. We love

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you, I know, we really
do. And Kelly Brandt, we like

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you. You've been around forever.
Uh you spell your last name with it

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ends with DT, like the dts. Uh huh, she's yeah, she's

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got the DTS. Kelly Brandt has
the DTS. What's going on? KK?

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Nothing much, I uh, you
know, just kind of hanging out,

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you know, although in my free
time, I really like to play

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video games. Yeah, So for
my birthday this year, I went out

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and I bought myself like a new
PlayStation. Hey, birthday present to me.

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There's a there's a game I really
wanted to play that's only available in

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the new PlayStation. So like,
I'm gonna get it. It's called Hell

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Divers. Hell what Hell Divers too
is what it's called. You're like,

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you're like a space marine and you
like shoot down onto an alien planet.

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And of course yeah yeah yeah uh. But it's like an online game.

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So the thing about you know,
video games is you can have like a

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single player game that has like a
story in the beginning and an end and

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then you finish it then that's it. Or you can have a multiplayer game

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like this one where there is no
ending. You just play round after round

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after round, and you play with
other people to us as the team before

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you communicates fun. Is that sort
of like the idea of Fortnite? Yes,

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Fortnite is a multiplayer game. Miss
round after round after him you can't

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ever beat the game. So that's
where my problem comes in because I can

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play these single player games, and
you know when I when I start playing

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these games, I get like super
into it. Yeah, You're like,

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I'm just gonna play for like an
hour, it's fine, and then like

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four hours goes by and I'm like, oh, geez, okay, that

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didn't work out. But then I
beat the game after a couple of days,

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and then I put it away.
Well, now I can't beat this

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game and I love playing it.
So I have literally had to and I've

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done this multiple times. Now I
have to physically unplug my PlayStation, drive

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it over to my storage unit,
and like put it away and then drive

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back. Because relatable to me,
yeah me too. You have just helped

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a lot of people because yes,
a lot of people would be like,

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well, why don't you just stop
playing? Mm hmmm, because it's there

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like staring me in the face.
I'll be sitting at my desk with like

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work to do, and it's just
like I can just hear it. Just

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come on, just half hour's half
hour and let's go. And then again

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four hours go by, go God
damn it. Now it's I love video

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games. This is how I am
with stuff though on my phone, like

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with playing threes, It's like it
hypnotizes me and then I just can't stop

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playing. That's how I was when
I was discovered Fortnite on my phone.

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I just could like it was just
something. It's just you know, like

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late at night, lay in bed
instead of watching TV, play some Fortnite.

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I loved it. It was like
my it was my treat at the

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end of the day. But I
love video games, and I actually,

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now that you're talking about it,
Sunny and Italian, I used to have

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we bonded playing like the Wii Mario
games. You know, Mario and Luigi.

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What do you call that? The
on the on the Wii? Yeah,

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do they still have that? Like
that would be fun for me to

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get in the new house for the
three called the switch now, so it

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doesn't have the kind of like well, I mean you can still get a

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Wii, but it's a much older
version. It upgraded to what you call

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a switch now. That's like the
newest Nintendo model. Can you play it

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on the TV? Yeah? Together, Yeah, but you're not holding like

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a h holding the stick like you
are with a controller. Dude, that's

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you know how long it took me
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Oh, we still have a Wii. They might have some kind of My

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kids still play week we though I
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the Wii that I have the box, I found the Wei games, So

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we still have the games. But
I'm I'm wondering if they're like outdated or

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I don't know, I gotta you
get a new If you just go get

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a Wii, they'll work on that
week Okay, Yeah, that would be

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so fun to do in my new
house with the kids. This summer.

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My kids will still bring out the
Wii and like tennant, Yeah they play

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really. Oh yeah, we Sports
is the best. You probably still play.

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You can endlessly play WE Sports.
I know I used to. And

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then I bet there's like exercise programs
on that thing too, probably like some

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pilates maybe and stuff. Probably that
would be cool. I just went to

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the y m c A the other
day. Back to the Y, I

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really, yeah, I love it. Yeah, you inspired me because now

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remember I was doing the workout here
with the with my with Suzanne's with right

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Carlos. Right, and but now
I'm not like in that neighborhood anymore,

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right and so and I used to
love going to the y m c A.

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So now I got my new new
routine now, like I'm gonna take

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the dog for a walk and then
go to the y like in the in

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the evening probably and uh it was
fun. Yeah, just you don't go

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to Equinox and bring like a small
dog with you and and your Burken.

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I don't know, yeah them all, I mean, yeah, I guess

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I could just get a lot of
lockers and we have to get a lot

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of lockers, yeah, to hide
them to take care of my birken.

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Unbelievable. Yeah, but I love
the why though, like, and they

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have classes and stuff, which I
get a little intimidated. I don't know

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if you're this way like at the
gym and stuff, Like if I walk

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in the room and there's like a
bunch of dudes working out, I get

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like I'll come back. I don't
know, I get a little intimidated,

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like you know, well, I
go to like a full on ghetto gym

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and it's the classes they only have, Like you know, you're not gonna

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get like your selection of hip hop
classes. There's gonna be like a non

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hip hop class once a week on
a third I now, yeah, and

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it's gonna be like old people and
their parents. Scary. Yeah, that's

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fine with me, except that I
told you about the time many years ago

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that I took a zumba class and
like these like old ladies from Palm Springs

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were kicking my ass. Yeah,
and I was like ugh and you know,

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having to take breaks and the teacher
had to literally stop the class at

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one point and go it's okay,
it's okay, like just you'll just catch

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up when you can. And I'm
telling you there were women like eighty,

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you know, with like saggy behind
and stuff that were just like what are

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you tired? Like come on,
I know, you know those I was

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like having to grab a bar for
support in the back of the room and

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they're just like waving their arms weights
over their head. I got to add

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weights to this challenge me. Bit, yes, I know. And then

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you know, I remember, like
I would see the same person at the

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gym when I would go all the
time. You'd see the same people and

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their bodies never change, and they've
been there for years. Yes, but

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it's like good for them, like
they're working out, but it's just kind

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of funny, you know, like
you see the same people all the time.

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Then or you see the like hot
shot dude that think you know,

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he's like, oh, you know, breathing heavy and lifting those weights,

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and it's like, all right,
I'm just here to get my my h

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stare climber on. I actually moved
my resistance. I went up a level,

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but only the last ten minutes.
So I do thirty minutes on the

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pre corp and I listen to a
podcast and play a game on my phone.

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Oh I do it to entertain my
brain. I'm bad. I'm feeling

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Kaylin because I will have to delete
the app off of my phone or I

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will play it all the time,
Like I'll just if I'm holding my phone,

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I'll just like start playing and what
is it? What is it that

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you play? It's called threes or
Bejeweled. It's the same shit I've been

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playing jeld. It's just you can't
beat it. I can't get like it's

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really hard. I can't ever get
a higher score. Like it's hard to

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explain. It's just mindless. But
it's like enough that it's I do it

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while watching TV. I have to. Sometimes I'll be like, oh my

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god, stop, so I'll delete
it off my phone and that will last

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for like sometimes a week, uh
huh, and then I'll be like,

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ah, but I'm at the gym. I feel like I need it to

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like get through this workout, so
I'll just I'm just gonna download it just

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while I'm at the gym, right, And then I'm like, well,

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it's already on my phone, so
I'll just leave it for like the rest

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of the day, right. Yeah, I know, you know I've been

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you know. The second phase of
the moving now is like, you know,

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actually going through everything and just weeding
out shit I don't need and just

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trying to like really organize, you
know. I mean, I got drawers

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of stuff. I'm just just doing
that, Like, Okay, this on

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today, I'm gonna I'm gonna tackle
those two boxes or whatever. And it's

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like I after a while, I'm
like this is so fucking boring, you

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know, so like I gotta go, and then I then I end up

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being on the phone talking to my
friends for a couple hours and like all

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right, now it's five o'clock.
Time to make dinner, Like what do

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you guys want to eat? And
then after that it's like, well,

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I got to clean up dinner,
and now it's like I'm tired, loud,

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and then I got like one thing, like nothing done, you know

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it cause it's just you know,
and that's why it's like it's tedious.

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And that's why, like my girlfriends
are like I should just come over and

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help. I'm always like no,
you know, so many people have offered,

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which is nice to come and help
and stuff, and I'm like,

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it's really something I need to do
that I got to go through, like

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you know, a lot of drawers
and just things that I just need to

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weed out and get rid of.
And it's just tedious and it's just I

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mean, but you don't really want
somebody at your house going what do I

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do with this? Yeah? What
do you want do you want to keep

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this bra? You know right,
it's that's too much? Yes, yeah,

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I feel like there's so much crap
in my house. I live with

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a bunch of hoarders. I personally
am a minimalist. I think we've discussed

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this before. I don't keep anything. I'm like, I don't. I

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don't have a box full of old
like greeting cards people, you know,

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yeah, kids, I do,
I do. I don't because I'm like,

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it'll just never end endless. I
know, I don't need everything.

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I mean, I keep a few
things, but like also just stuff just

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piles up, and like we have
a closet in the front of our house

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that is just filled up with like
basketballs, And like if you if you

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say to John, do we need
eight basketballs? Do you know how many

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basketballs we need? Zero? Because
nobody plays basketball in our house except for

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once a year. Xander gets like
a wild hair up is asked to go

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to the park and like play basketball, at which point he always wants a

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new basketball play because it's flat and
we can't find the pump. So I'm

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like, so, what is the
point really of having eight basketballs? Filling

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all these sports? Equipment like knee
pads from all played basketball when they were

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eight. It's like a bag of
like protective gear. It is from when

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they were eight. So I'm like, can we just like and John will

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always be like, yeah, yeah, we'll sort through it, but like

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I'll do it, you know,
but no, you're never going to do

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it. Also, we have so
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to read that book. And John's

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like, you don't know, I
might, I know, I know,

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And that's what I'm going through,
Like i' that's what I got. I

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got the kids stuff, I got
my stuff. For years and years,

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it's just been piling up, like
stuff like sports equipment and books and stuff

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like. But then I have like
all these like yeah, cards or trinkets

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or here's a random picture of me
and my girlfriend Jennifer who passed away,

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and it's like, you know,
so I frame that one and you know,

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just like things like that, just
like or my mom's old broken down

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like jewelry box that's empty and stained, but it's my mom's from Italy.

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Where where do I put this thing? Right? Where do you put a

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jewelry box? But you don't want
to toss it. Just that kind of

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shit. It's purgatory. It's all
shit that's living in purgatory. Purgatory is

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a really good word for it.
And there also needs to be I have

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a purgatory chair that I need to
get act from my condo because you know,

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like when you either wear something like
a sweat jacket or yoga pants or

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whatever and they're clean and only wore
it for a couple hours, they're not

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going back hanging onto the hangar or
folded into the drawer, but they're not

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going to go into the hamper.
So I put them on my purgatory chair.

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Yeah, I think everybody has that, and then it piles up.

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But yeah, so for some people
that's their like treadmill, right, that's

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what they used that for. But
John has a pile that's next to the

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closet that's neither a hamper or a
drawer, right, And it really bothers

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me because I'm like, but then
if it's piled in a pile, it

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gets dusty and then it's basically dirty, right, So just put it in

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the hamper, or I say,
put it back in the drawer. But

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then I know what you mean,
because like I have like a hoodie that

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I kind of wear everywhere, or
sweatpants that I'm going to put back on

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if I'm in the house, right, but if I go somewhere, I

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might change into g But then like
what do I do with I know?

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I know, yeah, yeah,
so I don't know. It's just it's

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so what I was doing that and
I was listening. I was I put

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on some crime. It was on
HBO The Jinks. No, I've been

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watching. I save that for the
end of the night when I get in

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bed, but it's taking me forever
because I fall asleep about me too,

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that art bit, Yeah, and
you have to like really pay attention,

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right, you know, it's Bob. It's Bob. It's Bob. If

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you don't pay attention to that one, it feels boring, right, But

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then you're like this is kind of
boring too slow. But then if you

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go back when you're awake, you're
like, what do I missed all?

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I know? I know, Yeah
The Jinks it's good, but yeah it's

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not. I gotta learn my lesson, Like, but when else am I

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going to watch it? I mean, Hollywood, did you finish Hollywood con

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Queen? Oh? I loved it. Did you finish the whole thing?

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Yeah? Episodes three. I think
it's only three. Okay, I'm in

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the middle of two. Oh my
god, it's so good. It is

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really good. Crazy what this guy's
done, I mean it was. The

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first episode was really insane when they're
talking to these independent contractors or actors,

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photographers and what they went through the
hoops and you're like, who is this

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person? So one guy spent like
seventy five thousand dollars traveling, yes,

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to like Thailand or wherever, like
our Jakara like it, yeah, back

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and forth, like several trips the
guy had to make and and of course,

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like they are, they're not paying
for it, so he has to

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be it's crazy. And then the
other guy, the actor, who had

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to like take a shirt off,
then his pants off right right, and

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like pretend to kiss him. But
while I was If you guys haven't seen

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this, tune in. There's also
a great podcast by our friend Josh Dean

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right on our show, right he
did the original that I'm working Hollywood Concouin.

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It's great. It was a great
series. And one of the guys

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was like at the gym or something
and he's getting the call from the casting

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person going I really need you to
act out the scene, and he's like

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all right, like let me go
outside. So he goes outside and then

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she's like okay, like sound like
you're turned on and like the whole thing.

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And he's like this is like super
awkward, like you know kind of

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and then she's like, well,
if you're not into it, then you're

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probably not going to be able to
act it. And he's like, no,

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no, no, give me a
chance. You know. Yeah,

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this guy was so he's talking about
how and then and then she was like

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can you take off your pants?
And then he was like, I guess

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I can. I mean the camera's
only getting me for she can't see anyway.

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And I was like, now you
know how every fucking woman feels exactly

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because when you're like, well,
why'd you do it? Because that's how

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they get you. Yeah, I'm
just like, well, good, but

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do you run the part or not? You know, well we have to

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see what your tits look like.
Yeah, for this part, you just

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have to have a certain look.
Like it's all on the up and up.

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I'm Amy Pascal, like a gal's
asking you to get into your underpants

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in a parking lot and talk dirty
to her on the phone. I mean

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hello. John was watching this with
me and he was like, it's actually

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kind of believable because some of these
female studio heads you could imagine would be

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like, listen, you gotta get
it together, right, either meet me

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here or not. Like He's like, it's kind of believable that they would

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be like, yeah, and he
sounds like a woman. He can totally

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sound like a woman on the phone
kind of you know. When I heard

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it a few times, I was
like, you know who, and he

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does different voices right right, like
like an English accent. Yes, yeah,

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yeah, hello. Well yeah,
it's crazy, Hollywood crazy. What's

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it on? It's on Hulu or
no, it's Apple TV Apple. Yeah,

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yeah, that's right. I love
those kind of shows. I was

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like, I love to After I
watch it, I'll go and look underneath,

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like if you like this one,
you maybe like this one. It's

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always like Lulu Row or Lula Yeah. So there's the next Lularo thing that

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you said, But what's that on? I can't remember, but it was

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underneath. The first Lularo that we
all loved was Netflix, I'm pretty sure.

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Yeah. So there's an I think
it was Amazon. Maybe. Okay,

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Well go to underneath Hollywood con con
Man or con Woman only with con

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queen and you'll see it. Yeah. Speaking of things we love, oh

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kids, this is just funny.
Sadie and Xander, you know they do

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not have Neither of them have a
driver's license yet We're gonna take Sadie to

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try for her license soon. I'm
screwed. Doesn't do they need to do

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like a I have to have a
couple hours on the books. The certificates,

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so Sadie have to take a year
ago got her permit. July of

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last year, she got her permit, so she did the online thing.

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Okay, she passed that, she
got her certificate in the mail. Then

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she practiced practice practice. Remember I
told you about I was like a hard

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ass about it, and I'm like, I'm not taking you to take the

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test unless you've really like put in
the work. So she did. Then

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she did her behind the wheel lessons
already and the last and then I ordered

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an extra behind the wheel lesson because
I was like unsure of her ability,

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and then that instructor was like,
I don't think she's ready yet, Like

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I give it fifty percent chance of
her passing. I think she needs more

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practice. But I don't know why
John doesn't love to practice with her,

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and I definitely don't love to practice. Does I know. It's just like

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it's cosinity inks. Yes, used
to give me aguda. Yeah, so

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neither one of us. John's always
like, I know I should take her

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driving. I will, and then
we don't. But she has to try

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to get her license before July,
otherwise she has to re apply for her

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permit. So we've committed to like, we're going to start taking her out

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a lot, and then we're just
going to make the appointment, bite the

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bullet. Yeah, and she's going
to go take her testy. Hopefully she'll

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pass. Xander has not even done
the online that's how far behind he is.

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He didn't even do the online right
thing to get so that he could

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go get a lot of kids are
that way. I've seen them. So

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they can't drive, so we still
My point of saying that is we still

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have to drive them places. But
it's so funny how like I still think

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of them as kind of younger.
Yeah, you're sixteen. So they've been

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going to music shows a lot.
They all they have friends from school and

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they have friends who have friends who
have bands, right, and last night

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one of these bands they had this
they have this friend who has friends are

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in a band that was playing at
the Whiskey. Ooh, I love last

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night. I love it. So
I don't know if you know this,

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but a lot of these shows are
all ages because they'll have people that are

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younger, so anybody can go.
Yeah, but it's so it's like a

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lot of teenagers. Yeah, but
it's still the Sunset Strip. So I

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was took my kids and they're still
by themselves because I remember you took Sunny

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to see that blood, but you
were with him right right. But now

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I'm dropping my kids off on the
Sunset Strip. Sunset Strip, have a

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good time. This has been a
lot of shows. They've gone to the

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the Bourbon Room, They've gone to
there's a called it's called like Ziggi's some

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there's new there's new places, yeah
yeah, but there's still the Roxy,

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the Rainbow Room. I'm driving my
kids, Yes, I'm driving my kids

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there. And I'm like, all
right, so like this is the Sunset

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Strip, right, And they're like
yeah, we know. And I'm like,

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I don't think you understand, Like
how much how many hours mama put

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into the Sunset Strip in my twenties, Yeah, yeah, I was so

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drunk at the Rainbow Room, Gazari. Yes. I would see like a

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lot of like celebrations. F Yeah. EVAM Station was in North Lleig,

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Yeah, and EVM Station and uh
the one the country Club, the country

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that was in Mesita. Yes,
okay, I went to all those places

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and the Palamino, the Palomino,
yeah, yeah, all those places that

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got bands. But I oftentimes and
I lived in Hollywood for a brief period

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of time, and we went to
like at nineteen twenty or two. Old

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meartied hard at the Rainbow Room too, with all their hair bands and the

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and I remember being so drunk in
a bathroom, like doing coke in a

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bathroom, the Rainbow Room, you
know, so typical. I don't remember

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like how we got there or how, Like, well, I my friend,

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I'll never forget. So my friend
Jennifer who passed away, God rest

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her soul. She had. She
was always ahead of the curve. She

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worked at Tower Records, so she
was always getting us tickets to shows.

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But she freaking lived for music,
okay, And so she worked at Taylea

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Rex. So she had this mustang. It was a not a like a

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like a cool you know, retro
mustang. She had one like a hatchback,

404
00:28:11,039 --> 00:28:15,680
you know, and it was like
burgundy. Yeah, this is your

405
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,319
mom's mustle yes, like they don't
make that style anymore because it's dumb.

406
00:28:18,759 --> 00:28:22,319
So anyway, it was, yeah, like had a hatch bag. It

407
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:27,599
was burgundy and white inside. So
and her hair was just out to everywhere.

408
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:33,240
And so we would she and she
lived out in like Chatsworth. So

409
00:28:33,279 --> 00:28:34,519
we would go to her house.
I don't even know. I think I

410
00:28:34,559 --> 00:28:38,079
took the RTD bus to get there, and then she would get her Mom

411
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,759
would be like did you eat your
hunger? You know, totally Jewish mom,

412
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,359
like you know, and then we'd
get in the car and we'd be

413
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,119
out and we'd go to the Sunset
Strip and we got hot butt. Okay,

414
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,759
So we called it because her car, because at the time, you

415
00:28:52,799 --> 00:28:57,119
would cruise down the sunsets, you
would just we just cruise right now because

416
00:28:57,119 --> 00:29:00,200
sometimes we had have money to get
into the clock. We're broke, so

417
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:04,279
we would just cruise down the Sunset
Strip and she would make fun of everybody,

418
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,720
laugh at them, and we would
smoke cigarettes in her car and everything,

419
00:29:08,039 --> 00:29:12,920
and we would complain because her car
was running hot and we would get

420
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:17,160
hot butt in the back seat.
So we called it, and she loved

421
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,559
it, like hot but it's your
turn to get hot. But like we

422
00:29:18,599 --> 00:29:22,480
had to rotate, you know,
like I got shotgun. No, my

423
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:27,240
ass is on fire. That's how
long. Like that's how bad her car

424
00:29:27,359 --> 00:29:30,119
was and how long we would be
on the Sunset Strip. But yeah,

425
00:29:30,359 --> 00:29:36,359
I mean we saw like guns and
roses and like I mean just of course,

426
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,160
like Motley Crue and all those people. But like I remember seeing bon

427
00:29:40,319 --> 00:29:45,079
Jovi like crazy, all these bands, up and coming bands or just the

428
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,000
members of the band hanging out.
They would hang out at those clubs,

429
00:29:48,119 --> 00:29:52,759
yes, and there'd be special like
celebrity like a booth where they'd all be.

430
00:29:52,839 --> 00:29:56,920
But and I don't think we thought
of it back then. I wasn't

431
00:29:57,279 --> 00:30:02,200
like a groupie of it. I
not much. But I just remember like

432
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:07,759
constantly seeing celebrities right right, and
so and so is there the girls just

433
00:30:07,839 --> 00:30:11,000
alone. We just walked in,
yeah, and the girls in the bathroom

434
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,720
would be freaking out, like,
oh my god, tell me yeah,

435
00:30:14,799 --> 00:30:18,799
yes, yeah, yeah. Like
the band members were never anything that I

436
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,519
cared about. Really, I love
to see them. My friend Craig Dollinger,

437
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,319
who I love, was a drummer
of a band called Tomorrow's Child,

438
00:30:26,759 --> 00:30:32,359
and we, oh my god,
we saw Tomorrow's They played all the time,

439
00:30:32,559 --> 00:30:34,880
everywhere up and down the Sunset Strip. They were so freaking good.

440
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,839
We had their album, you know, and we just we hung you know.

441
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,119
He was our friend, like in
our group, you know, so

442
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,359
we would go see him and I
remember he would jump, he would drum.

443
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,960
He was so cute. He was
the cutest guy ever. He was

444
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,559
Like I think I've talked about him
before. I had a big crush on

445
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,599
him, me and my friend Emily. When we first met, we didn't

446
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,359
know him, but then we became
like he was like a brother to us.

447
00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,400
But he would drum and because he
couldn't, like if he saw you

448
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,279
in the crowd, he'd like,
uh, do it like a thing with

449
00:31:03,319 --> 00:31:06,519
his tongue, like like a thing
with this doug Like that's how he'd say

450
00:31:06,559 --> 00:31:10,920
hi to you because he's drumming,
you know. But we would see,

451
00:31:11,079 --> 00:31:14,119
yeah, Tomorrow's child. We play
the music. It was great. And

452
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:18,519
then there was one out by in
Calabasas or what was that. There was

453
00:31:18,559 --> 00:31:25,200
a club out in Calabasas, not
the Sage Brush Cantina, but there was

454
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:29,119
a club where bands would play out
there too, And I think there's one

455
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,799
still out there where, Like I'm
like, when I'm driving down the one,

456
00:31:32,839 --> 00:31:37,400
i'll see, I'll see like the
Canyon Club club. He's not around.

457
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,920
Back then, they called something else. I don't think that's even it.

458
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,240
There was a venue on like,
well that's the one that you'll see,

459
00:31:44,359 --> 00:31:47,480
Yeah, that's people play there,
like Rick Springfield. They have a

460
00:31:47,519 --> 00:31:48,799
lot of tribute bands. Yeah,
I like that. I like that.

461
00:31:49,039 --> 00:31:55,359
Yeah. Yeah, I was when
I was like in my very early twenties,

462
00:31:55,559 --> 00:31:59,839
maybe like twenty twenty one. Uh. I lived across the hall from

463
00:31:59,839 --> 00:32:02,799
this guy named Mike Ward Michael Ward, and we were all friends with him,

464
00:32:02,839 --> 00:32:07,000
and he was in a band called
School of Fish because with his best

465
00:32:07,039 --> 00:32:13,119
friend that they were School of Fish, and I would he lived like our

466
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,039
apartment doors were literally across the hall
from each other. So we were friends

467
00:32:16,039 --> 00:32:21,480
and I would come over there sometimes
late night drink whiskey and listen to He'd

468
00:32:21,519 --> 00:32:24,799
be like, oh, I have
a new song. One night we ended

469
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:29,880
up having sex. He came back
to my place and I slept with him,

470
00:32:30,319 --> 00:32:32,559
and we'd been really good friends.
So then I was like, is

471
00:32:32,559 --> 00:32:37,799
this going to be awkward? And
it totally was because then he didn't want

472
00:32:37,839 --> 00:32:40,039
like a relationship or whatever. But
so I was like, this is doesn't

473
00:32:40,079 --> 00:32:43,279
have to be awkward, Like let's
just go back to being friends. And

474
00:32:43,359 --> 00:32:46,519
he's like, okay, cool.
So we were friends and I would go

475
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:52,640
to remember coconut teasers, yes,
cocin it cocnu teasers, Yes. So

476
00:32:52,799 --> 00:32:57,599
I would go to Coke. He
would he played at some point, he

477
00:32:57,599 --> 00:33:00,200
would play around town and they would
put the flyers. I'd help him put

478
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:04,559
flyers up, and I thought his
band was so good, you know.

479
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:09,200
So one night, I've told this
story before, I was working, I

480
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:14,079
was tempting at a record company and
I went to the head of the I

481
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,480
brought their tape and I tried to
drop it off at the head of I

482
00:33:17,519 --> 00:33:22,319
think I was tempting at RCA Records. I tried to give it to this

483
00:33:22,359 --> 00:33:25,519
guy, I think his name was
Bennett Cohen, and I remember and I

484
00:33:25,599 --> 00:33:29,480
told Mike, I was like,
I brought your tape into him. I

485
00:33:29,519 --> 00:33:32,119
don't know if he ever played it. But eventually they got signed, and

486
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:37,720
then they had a big hit.
Oh my god, Kalen, can you

487
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:43,799
play a song that's great? Look
up three Strange Days. It was a

488
00:33:43,799 --> 00:33:47,200
big K rock hit. It was
a very big hit, and they got

489
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:54,680
kind of famous. That's a while. And then they it ended because his

490
00:33:54,920 --> 00:34:01,039
partner, his name was Josh Clayton
felt he he got diagnosed with cancer and

491
00:34:01,079 --> 00:34:05,920
he died in three weeks. It
was very very sad. Oh my god.

492
00:34:06,079 --> 00:34:10,840
Then Michael Ward went on to play
with what's the the Wallflowers? Wow?

493
00:34:12,039 --> 00:34:16,320
Oh the Wallflower Yeah with the what's
his Dylan, Yes, Dylan's son,

494
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:21,280
Yes, yeah, Dylan son.
Yes, Bob. I think Bob

495
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:27,039
Dylan's son, Jacob Jacob Dylan.
Yeah, isn't that Bob Dylan Son?

496
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,920
Yes, and he played guitar for
the Wallflowers for a few years. Yeah,

497
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:35,800
that's great. I love that.
Yeah, here's the song. See

498
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:52,159
if you remember, it does sound
familiar. Give it a minute. He

499
00:34:52,199 --> 00:34:58,559
won't get mad if we play his
song School of Fish. School of Fish.

500
00:34:58,639 --> 00:35:09,239
Yeah, you could stress a little
bit. Totally sounds like a little

501
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:19,199
bit more last sounds familiar at all? It does? Yeah, absolutely,

502
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,360
it was. I probably saw them. Yeah, I probably saw them at

503
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:30,519
like Weenie Roast or something. Yeah. Yeah, they got like yeah,

504
00:35:30,519 --> 00:35:34,079
they got signed to Capitol Records.
It's all right, that's all right.

505
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,079
That's that. I was like,
I know you when. Yeah. I

506
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,079
love Facebook friends with him. I
love that about the old days. Yeah,

507
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,480
I'm still friends with Craig Dollander.
His son. His son is like

508
00:35:44,519 --> 00:35:47,800
a big Disney kid, like on
Disney Channel. Oh really yeah, I

509
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:52,199
can't think of his first name,
but yeah, his his son's doing a

510
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:57,000
lot of stuff like on the Disney
Channel. Looks just like him really cute.

511
00:35:57,199 --> 00:36:00,599
Oh yeah, yeah, he's cute. Craig Donder. Those are the

512
00:36:00,679 --> 00:36:05,119
days, like you know, like
hanging, you know, just and Jennifer,

513
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,280
like she introduced me to hmm.
She took us to the clubs to

514
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:14,199
see all these bands. But I
remember, because she worked at Tower Record,

515
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,480
She's like, records are gonna be
gone. There's gonna be this new

516
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:22,480
thing called CDs and you gotta listen
to after because well there was I remember

517
00:36:22,639 --> 00:36:27,519
she had like a whole wall of
albums and we would go to her house

518
00:36:27,559 --> 00:36:30,320
and she would we put head like
she always had the newest you know,

519
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:34,599
headphones, Bow's whatever, and we'd
play, like listen to albums. But

520
00:36:34,679 --> 00:36:37,000
now she's like, CDs are the
new future. You gotta and so I

521
00:36:37,039 --> 00:36:43,039
remember the very first time I heard
a CD. It was Purple Rain and

522
00:36:43,039 --> 00:36:45,960
it was and she put it.
She's like, you gotta let's just listen,

523
00:36:45,079 --> 00:36:50,000
you know, got stoned in her
bedroom and I was like, wow,

524
00:36:50,039 --> 00:36:52,840
this is really cool. Like she
she introduced me to TVO. She's

525
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,840
like, dude, you have you
gotta get TiVo. Like she was always

526
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:00,360
on the cutting you know, always
like, you know, on the up

527
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,679
on what's going on. Yeah,
it was awesome. I remember when I

528
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:07,360
got TVO that blew my mind.
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529
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Yeah, Tiva was amazing. It
was great. I was never ahead of

563
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:51,519
the curve on any like. Wait, I was always dragged kicking and screaming

564
00:39:51,519 --> 00:39:55,920
into new technology CDs. But what
am I gonna do with a listening to

565
00:39:55,960 --> 00:40:01,280
it in a car? I know, it's so funny, you know,

566
00:40:01,559 --> 00:40:07,280
when we were young, do you
ever think about the idea that, like,

567
00:40:08,039 --> 00:40:10,880
sometimes I'll be at the this is
gonna seem like a jump, but

568
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:15,480
it's not okay because I see myself
as being younger, you know. And

569
00:40:15,519 --> 00:40:19,280
then sometimes I'll accidentally take a picture, go to take a picture, and

570
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,760
the cameras turned towards me. I'm
like, oh God, I didn't know

571
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:28,159
what things had gotten as bad.
I've been ignoring it, like you know,

572
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,480
but like when I'm at the gym, sometimes I'll see like a cute

573
00:40:32,519 --> 00:40:36,360
guy, and I'll have to catch
myself because I'm like, oh, that

574
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,760
guy's pretty hot. And then I'm
like, that guy's probably sixteen. I

575
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:44,760
know. That's the crazy thing because
sixteen year olds, like my kids' friends

576
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,960
look older, and I'm like,
that's like what I was attracted to when

577
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:52,599
I was young. I know,
I'm the age I am now. Doesn't

578
00:40:52,679 --> 00:40:55,760
mean like guys my own age look
like old men to me, I did

579
00:40:55,800 --> 00:41:01,280
an age with my I don't look
at older guys and go Michael mcdonald',

580
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,000
do you know I'm still attracted team? But other than do you know what

581
00:41:05,039 --> 00:41:07,840
I'm saying? So I totally yes, I just I feel like a perv.

582
00:41:08,199 --> 00:41:13,000
I know. Okay, it's funny
you say that because just the other

583
00:41:13,119 --> 00:41:15,599
night, you know, it's senior
you know, activity time. So there's

584
00:41:15,639 --> 00:41:19,840
like parties going around all around town, like so and so is having a

585
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,440
kickback and this guy's having this thing, and Sonning and her tally they're going

586
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,239
to like the same parties their friends. So one night all of their friends

587
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,960
came together and it was the two
of them with their friends and I know

588
00:41:30,079 --> 00:41:32,039
everybody okay, But then you see
one of these kids, and you're like,

589
00:41:32,119 --> 00:41:36,840
wait, that's Jack. I remember
when he was in fourth grade.

590
00:41:37,119 --> 00:41:40,280
How did he get to be like
he's a babe. And then then the

591
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:45,679
next night, Natalia had friends from
like cause there're other schools have already graduated.

592
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,639
My kids still have two weeks,
but other schools, so there's like

593
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,320
so they had like to get together
at our house because they were going to

594
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:57,000
go to this other house. And
these boys come over and I have never

595
00:41:57,079 --> 00:42:00,159
seen them before and I walk into
my living room. They look like preppies,

596
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:04,440
like like they look like college kids. Right, I'm like, who

597
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,960
are these men in my house?
And half of them are good looking,

598
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:10,039
and I do feel like a perm
like in my I'm like, all right,

599
00:42:10,119 --> 00:42:14,360
I gotta go. My hair's in
a ponytail, and I'm like this

600
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,360
is weird, like and I'm like, Sonny, do you know who these

601
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,800
kids are? He's like, no, I don't. They're not my friends.

602
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,679
I'm like, no, they're not
your friends. I know your tweeby

603
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,800
friends. This is a whole beat, like like a nice now, I

604
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:30,239
know how like older guys feel,
you know, like younger women. Right,

605
00:42:30,559 --> 00:42:35,880
but like Natalia's prom date her boyfriend, Yes, he's very hot.

606
00:42:36,039 --> 00:42:40,679
He's my type. I freaking love
Griffin. I know really, I tell

607
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:45,159
his mom all the time. I'm
like, I would have totally dated.

608
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,000
He's got a little seventies eighties throwback, doesn't He don't know if it's the

609
00:42:49,079 --> 00:42:51,840
hair, the eyes. Yeah.
Look, he's like I was like,

610
00:42:52,559 --> 00:42:55,400
was really cute. He's a babe, and his personality is so funny,

611
00:42:55,480 --> 00:43:00,519
Like he's very like dry witty humor, you know, and he's kind of

612
00:43:00,559 --> 00:43:02,920
like, you know, happy.
He knows how he looks and he kind

613
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,440
of plays into it, you know, he's like, uh, we're going

614
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,880
to Disneyland this weekend. I you
know, like you'll It's just he's just

615
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:13,679
so endearing and he's so sweet.
Then he does look like a young John

616
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,159
Ham, Like when I saw that, Yeah, now you see, yeah

617
00:43:16,199 --> 00:43:19,840
he does. And I tell his
mom all the time. She knows,

618
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,880
I'm like, I love your son. He's just he's totally my type.

619
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:29,599
She's like, did she ever go
he's kind of my type too. It's

620
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,639
funny though, because if you dare
say that to like your kids, like

621
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:37,119
the times when ELB was like a
senior and I'm like, there's there'd be

622
00:43:37,159 --> 00:43:39,360
a guy and I'm like, that
guy's really cute. And then she'd be

623
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:44,239
like mom, and I'm like for
you, I'm saying for you, like

624
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:50,719
you you know, secretly I'm like, well, for me too. And

625
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,880
then I remember, like when they
were younger, I'd see these like these

626
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,800
kids and I'm like, you know, girls are always pretty or whatever,

627
00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:00,320
but like these there's some boys you
would see and you could picture them as

628
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:01,920
a man and I would always be
like, Oh, that kid's going to

629
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,679
be hot. But now it's these
kids are growing up and I'm like,

630
00:44:07,159 --> 00:44:09,760
shit went sideways for this one.
He didn't get as tall as I thought

631
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,159
he'd be or whatever, you know. But then you see other kids and

632
00:44:14,159 --> 00:44:16,880
you're like, wow, did you
clean up nicely? Like wow, I

633
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:21,039
knew you since you were in second
grade. Now you're a senior. And

634
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,559
look at like he's like, you
know, over six feet tall, and

635
00:44:24,199 --> 00:44:28,519
I mean it's crazy. Oh there
was one for lb. This kid when

636
00:44:28,559 --> 00:44:30,360
he was in like fifth grade.
I was like, this kid is going

637
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,800
to be so hot, Like this
is going to be a looker. You

638
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,639
got to get in on the ground
floor on this one, calling it right.

639
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,960
That's what was like. Well,
cut to when they were in high

640
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,599
school, every single one of her
friends was like in love with him.

641
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,320
They were like, oh my god, could you And I was like,

642
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:52,400
Elby, I fucking told you.
Did I not tell you that that guy,

643
00:44:52,599 --> 00:44:53,760
let's call him Dean, That's not
the same. But I was like,

644
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,360
did I not freaking tell you that
Dean? In fifth grade? I

645
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,079
called that shit in fifth grade you
didn't want to listen to because you weren't

646
00:45:00,119 --> 00:45:04,119
interested in boys yet. Yeah,
I was telling you. I did the

647
00:45:04,199 --> 00:45:07,320
same thing, the same thing when
they went to a I have a dance,

648
00:45:07,519 --> 00:45:12,440
Like Natalie was dancing like I don't
know, in third or four trillion.

649
00:45:12,639 --> 00:45:15,559
They had the katillion and I was
like, that's her first dance.

650
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,960
He is gonna be I'm calling it
now. And I was right, like

651
00:45:19,159 --> 00:45:22,000
cut to now. Yeah, to
see everybody. He's like the star basketball

652
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:27,000
player and stuff. But her boyfriend, we've known him since like he was

653
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,719
in Yeah, in fifth grade they
met and they've always had a little like

654
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,840
thing, you know. I remember
them being on the phone late at night

655
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,519
talking when they were younger. I
don't know, it's gonna be interesting.

656
00:45:37,639 --> 00:45:42,079
Is this the one that she got
dramatic with? Well, yes, this

657
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,119
is the same kid. That she
got d like was really being dramatic on

658
00:45:45,159 --> 00:45:47,880
the phone. Yeah, And he's
like, I tell you, I really

659
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:52,280
want to get off the phone.
But yes, he'd be like, I

660
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,800
really want to get off the phone
because it's late and I'm tired, but

661
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,679
I don't want to. I don't
want you to be upset. And she's

662
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,840
like, well, I'm not upset, Like she's just you know, laying

663
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:01,679
in to him. She's like,
but my feelings are you know, And

664
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,639
he's like, all right, but
can we talk about it tomorrow please,

665
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,519
Like you go please. Yes,
that's him. So they've been kind of

666
00:46:08,679 --> 00:46:14,760
you know, they're very special to
each other, and he has I told

667
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,880
Natalia like he set the bar for
her, like, you know, this

668
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,760
is how you should be treated.
You know. He's a he's a gentleman

669
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,119
to her. And they communicate.
Now they're really like they're they get along

670
00:46:24,159 --> 00:46:29,639
really well. They have good you
know. Sometimes I can't help but hear

671
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,880
them, you know, and I
listen sometimes, but I hear them like

672
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,480
arguing in the part and sometimes to
not hear it. And you have the

673
00:46:37,519 --> 00:46:40,480
glass up against the Yeah, it's
easier if you just push your if you

674
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,639
push your ear all the way to
the wall that you can hear a lot

675
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,400
better. But he mumbles a little
bit, so it's hard. But now

676
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:52,639
they like, could you speak up
a little bit? This is hard for

677
00:46:52,679 --> 00:46:57,079
me, but you like I hear
them like having a disagreement, all right,

678
00:46:57,119 --> 00:47:00,519
but they're in they're doing it in
an adult way or what. So.

679
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:05,119
Yeah, he's just these is a
great kid. And I don't know.

680
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,239
I hope that they stay in touch
when they go off to college,

681
00:47:08,519 --> 00:47:13,800
and maybe they'll stay together. I
cannot see them breaking up anytime soon.

682
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:19,519
Like they're going strong, yeah,
but long to say do stuff, I

683
00:47:19,599 --> 00:47:22,239
know, a relationship. Yeah,
so she's going to Santa Barbara. Where's

684
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,960
he going? Did you say he's
going to Oregon? Now? Oh,

685
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:28,760
he he was going to go to
San Diego. But he's going to Oregon.

686
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:34,480
Yeah, so not so close,
not too far. But I don't

687
00:47:34,519 --> 00:47:37,320
know. I think that they'll I
think that they'll always have like a special

688
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:42,440
part. Maybe they'll come back together. I don't know, but you know,

689
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,400
you know, it's so sad.
It's sad. It is sad and

690
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:50,239
not just like boyfriend girlfriend, like
they're friends. Like everybody's gonna be going

691
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:55,159
different ways. It's gonna be sad. It's the empty nets coming for it,

692
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,880
just like the end of an era, you know. Yeah, it's

693
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,360
just I told him kids, I
mean, they're going to be upper classmen

694
00:48:01,599 --> 00:48:05,880
now next year they're going to be
juniors. Although I do feel too old

695
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,639
to have kids in high school period. Something changed once Elbe was kind of

696
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:14,800
now that she's a little bit right, it's not really launched. Yeah,

697
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,559
I mean no, but I know
you mean living in her room, which

698
00:48:16,599 --> 00:48:20,960
is a shithole, right, but
you're likening then you look at these two

699
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,719
and you're like, all right,
come on now. Yeah. Yeah.

700
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:27,119
But at the same time, I
don't want to know. I'm trying to

701
00:48:27,119 --> 00:48:30,079
be like, Okay, you don't, don't rush to get a driver's license.

702
00:48:30,119 --> 00:48:31,760
It's okay, I'll still drive you. Yeah. Yeah. So like

703
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:37,159
them having their it's just so much
easier having high school kids, I have

704
00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:42,039
so much more time, yeah,
to do stuff right, Like, I

705
00:48:42,119 --> 00:48:47,599
just feel like I don't envy Kaylin
with every day is just like a monster

706
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:52,400
list of chores and things, and
you can't they always have to be accounted

707
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:57,079
for. My kids don't have to
be accounted for for long periods of time,

708
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,920
Like sometimes they come home and they
go to their room and yeah,

709
00:49:00,039 --> 00:49:01,760
homework or their own thing, and
they'll just pop out and go like what's

710
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:07,840
for dinner and then that's it.
Yeah, which is fine. Yeah.

711
00:49:07,039 --> 00:49:10,320
There was like a time for a
while where it was like, oh what

712
00:49:10,559 --> 00:49:14,599
you know, like the drink,
like drinking and stuff like that, and

713
00:49:14,639 --> 00:49:17,079
like going to part at a younger
age and stuff where I was like,

714
00:49:17,199 --> 00:49:21,119
you know, I couldn't go to
sleep till they got home. But now

715
00:49:21,159 --> 00:49:23,719
it's like it's so nice, Like
yeah, I mean they're they go to

716
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:29,679
parties, but they're not like getting
sloppy drunk or anything like that, you

717
00:49:29,679 --> 00:49:34,320
know, especially Sonny. I think
he might. I don't know. I'm

718
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,800
sure he does stuff, but like
I know they're friends and I know where

719
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:39,840
they are, and it's yeah,
crazy, Yeah, it really is.

720
00:49:40,119 --> 00:49:43,719
Like I'll just tell them, like
lock up the house when you get home,

721
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,360
you know, shut the la you
know, I told him leave that

722
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:49,159
light on, blah blah blah the
alarm. Yeah, lock the door,

723
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,920
said the alarm, go to sleep, Go to sleep. I'm out.

724
00:49:52,039 --> 00:49:55,519
But yeah, Caitlin hat On,
you gotta yeah, I mean, you

725
00:49:55,559 --> 00:49:59,719
know, if I'm being completely honest, it's really aiming that's doing a lot

726
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,079
of the the hard day to day
stuff. Thank you, Thank you for

727
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:07,159
honesty. So it's not quite as
hard on me. I help out,

728
00:50:07,199 --> 00:50:09,280
of course, you know whenever I
can. But a lot of the meals

729
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:14,800
and the laundry and the clean up
that's not me, that's doing a lot

730
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:19,960
of Yeah, yeah, I get
it's different like if you you know,

731
00:50:20,039 --> 00:50:23,559
your spouse goes off to work,
you know, and and and somebody was

732
00:50:23,559 --> 00:50:28,679
watching some show and somebody was talking
about having a baby as can be very

733
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:34,440
lonely. And it's true, like
you know, I remember like feeling so

734
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,079
alone, you know, when I
first had the kids, and it can

735
00:50:37,159 --> 00:50:42,280
be lonely. So like, yeah, it's a it's tough when when they're

736
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,760
when they're young, but yeah,
through it, they have to be accounted

737
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:50,079
for. You feel like you have
to be entertaining them. M hm,

738
00:50:50,519 --> 00:50:54,199
you're if you're not worried about how
they're eating and if they're what they're wearing.

739
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:59,320
And but it's also just like am
I enriching their brains? Am I

740
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,119
talking to them? Am I playing
them the right music? Am I exposing

741
00:51:02,159 --> 00:51:06,199
them to things? Are they having
experiences? Are they even gonna remember this?

742
00:51:06,679 --> 00:51:08,960
Am I getting them enough Christmas presents? Am I celebrating their birthday?

743
00:51:09,159 --> 00:51:13,320
Are they going to write about me
and their memoir or later when they're older,

744
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,639
you know. Yeah, it's just
a constant guilt. Yeah, and

745
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:21,280
just like which I guess Kaylen saying
the dads don't feel as much. Yeah,

746
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,039
or the default parent really is there's
always the default parent, right,

747
00:51:24,159 --> 00:51:30,800
yeah? Yeah? Wow, you
know what. Enjoy it like, enjoy

748
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,000
I was talking to a friend of
mine, he's a dad, and he

749
00:51:34,119 --> 00:51:37,800
was like at his kids baseball games
all weekend and complaining, and I was

750
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,679
like, I would just I would
love to go to a volleyball game.

751
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:45,960
One more volleyball game, like I
miss that, you know, Yeah,

752
00:51:45,039 --> 00:51:50,159
so enjoy it. I know it's
long and boring, but it's funny because

753
00:51:50,159 --> 00:51:54,079
we were at a so you know, my father in law has a big

754
00:51:54,159 --> 00:51:59,199
like Mexican family, so they did
like a big kind of like is that

755
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:04,639
this big giant park and they all
brought grills and food and everyone's hanging out.

756
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,800
But it was it was way in
the corner of this park and like

757
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:09,039
we didn't know where it was for
us, So our car was way at

758
00:52:09,079 --> 00:52:14,239
the other end of the park and
also in the other triangle corner of it

759
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:20,039
was the was the actual playground.
So we have this little hack that's actually

760
00:52:20,039 --> 00:52:23,519
really good where we keep like our
Blake's potty like that we used to potty

761
00:52:23,559 --> 00:52:27,159
train her and Isla. We just
keep that in the back of the car.

762
00:52:27,519 --> 00:52:30,639
Oh so instead of going to like
this, you know, when they

763
00:52:30,639 --> 00:52:34,000
say they have to go to the
bathroom like at the beach, right when

764
00:52:34,039 --> 00:52:37,000
we're at the beach or at this
park because it's super grungy and filthy,

765
00:52:37,119 --> 00:52:38,360
we can just go to the car, break out the potty. They can

766
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:40,360
kind of go there in their space, and then we can get rid of

767
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:45,960
it. Ah nice, So that's
very soon. However, but where do

768
00:52:45,039 --> 00:52:50,559
they where do you put the potty
down into the bushes? I'll just put

769
00:52:50,559 --> 00:52:52,760
it down, you know. I
just find like a just a kind of

770
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:54,880
little hidden spot like in between two
cars where no one can see her,

771
00:52:54,880 --> 00:53:00,400
and she goes, she would just
go potty there. Oh okay, Blake

772
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:04,480
goes, I gotta go potty.
So I gotta walk her all the way

773
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,960
over to the car, sit her
down. She's sitting there, she goes,

774
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,840
No, I don't have to go
potty, get her up, pick

775
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:15,320
her all the way back. I
gotta go potty again. It's like she's

776
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:19,280
fucking with you. Take her.
Well, then Amy took her. She

777
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,719
went potty. Then she walked all
the way back and said, now I

778
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,000
have to poop. Weren't you just
going potty? She goes, no,

779
00:53:23,039 --> 00:53:24,760
I gotta go in. And so
then I take her all the way back

780
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,880
to the car. I sit her
down, she's no, I don't have

781
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:36,000
to go. Wow, you sh
doing yeah, so yeah. And it

782
00:53:36,119 --> 00:53:38,199
was right before that that I was
walking with them to the car and this

783
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:42,639
couple came over and oh, they're
so sweet cherish. Every moment there go

784
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,400
by so fast. It was like
she just walked me all the way to

785
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:52,159
the car for no reason. That's
hilarious. Yeah, that whole cherish these

786
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,960
moments is not good. When the
kids are really young, there's no cherishing,

787
00:53:57,159 --> 00:54:01,559
no cherish. She didn't pick sures
you'll you'll cherish it later. You'll

788
00:54:01,599 --> 00:54:06,480
look back and go like, oh
my god, they're so cute, you

789
00:54:06,519 --> 00:54:10,679
know, but not during moments where
they just like walk through yeah, or

790
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:15,320
just had a temper tantrum, or
you just had to take walk them through

791
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,199
Michael's and go well, now,
you're not getting the puzzle. You just

792
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:22,880
beg your sister. Sorry, yeah, yeah, yeah, anyway, all

793
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:28,960
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Phoenix area or Americopa County or over
the phone. Just go to Phoenix Plumbingsolutions

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dot com. All his infos right
there. You can call him, you

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can text him. He's easily accessible. And he helped me last week two

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different plumbing issues. He helped me
over the phone. And last but not

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least, Kelsey with Fern Candle.
Go follow her on Instagram at Fern fbrn

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Candle and see all the different set
I think that she has and get and

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kids like you can do like a
gift pack. It makes awesome gifts as

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we talked about. And I love
my candles. Thank you so much.

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You're going to go in my new
house. All right, Thanks everybody,

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Thank you for your parent. Now
don't after that. It's good that angle