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and was always throwing clubs, and
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him some meditation skills, getting the
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And he said, well, what
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on the golf course? And I
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on being calm on the golf course
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If you decide you want to throw
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go out to the range and throw
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you'll just feel better. You say, I'll take care of this when I'm

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on the range after the round,
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to do it then, And I
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doesn't remind me of the chapter I
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Yeah, and the zen master says, what do I do about my

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temper? And the zen Master says, show me your temper If I'm not

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mad right now, he said,
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then you're not an angry person.
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angry. Yes, and it's a
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This is James Wilson from Richmond,
Missouri, and I play at the

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Shirkey Golf Club. This is Golf
Smarter number nine zero five, The Grandson

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and the Zen Doctor. The introduction
of doctor Bob Jones, the fourth to

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Doctor Joe Parron. This is Golf
Smarter, sharing stories, tips and insights

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from great golf minds to help you
lower your score and raise your golf IQ.

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Here's your host, Fred Green.
Welcome back to the Golf Smarter Podcast,

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Doctor Joe. Nice to be with
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gonna be a fun one. I
am so excited that you're here because I

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also get to say welcome back to
the Golf Smarter Podcast, Doctor Bob.

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It's great to be with you,
Fred. And now here you are with

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a paradox not oh god. I
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is a pair of docks. That's
pretty good. This is what we're going

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to be doing. Said, well, you know the thing that we get

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accused of, daddy humor, Right, Daddy humor is nothing more than wordplay.

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I think it's very clever. Let
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daddy humor is very clever, and
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on a book, a book of
dad riddles. Are you really an animated

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animal? It's gonna be, and
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your sister. No, I have
another another illustrator, and it's like,

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it's like, what kind of animal
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It's a giraft see exactly. Okay, I'm gonna just move forward here.

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So the reason I have the two
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Doctor Bob was on, and that
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he and I were talking after a
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my trip to Japan. And I've
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My trip to Japan. We meditated
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hour and during the Zen Buddhist conversation, somebody asked him about moving meditation and

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he brought up the book Zen Golf
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wait a minute. He called it
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Zen Golf by Joe Parent because yes, that's the book in Japan and Japanese

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is being interpreted. And I was
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telling Bob this story and he's like, oh, I love that book.

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I've always loved that book. And
I'm like, wait, have you ever

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met doctor Joe? And he's like, no, I haven't. I said,

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would you like to? And you, guys, I introduced the two

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of you and you seem to hit
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first conversation together, and you guys
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know, Fred, when you mentioned
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we set up. We set up
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what about a fifteen minute phone call
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this happens. Unfortunately, the rest
of this story was lost. Doctor Bob

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fell off the call, obviously,
but to paraphrase, he was saying that

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how much of a fan he was
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one that he couldn't remember the name
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artwork. So we're going to pick
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the call, and we're going to
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to what Bob said before we realized
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from here on out the rest of
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glitch. Thank you. It's called
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and it is It is illustrated with
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cover is a picture of your grandfather's
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chapter get to the finish, So
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illustration for that one hundred illustrations and
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it's a funny thing about about Ravillium. He did a lot of the

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illustrations for my grandfather's books, particularly
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a book called Bobby Jones on the
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by Ravilli. He was, without
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you know, the thing that really
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Joe was how in our work with
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getting to the same place but with
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quite captivated by that. When we
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psychologists are trying to get everybody to
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mind, to be more in the
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and a lot of other things.
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Goolf to separate myself was to talk
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remember when ones of my players said
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guy said, I get it,
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hard on myself. What should I
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in and said to him, don't
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supposed to do with that? Just
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from hard to yourself, a pathway
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you can take the steps and train
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you are to where you want to
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mentioned that, because you know,
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to tell the clients that I work
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how to do a negative. So
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somebody, don't do something, well, actually, the very thing you have

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to do is you have to conceptualize
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don't want to do before you don't
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just puts you in this feedback loop
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don't know that. I don't know
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do something, what I often try
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out what is it that you want
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is so so good at helping people
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of what's what all is going on? You know, as I said,

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I kind of come at this slightly
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this young man once I was working
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always throwing clubs, and so we
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meditation skills, getting the parasympathetic nervous
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he said, well, what do
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golf course? And I said,
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calm on the golf course and just
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decide you want to throw a club
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out to the range and throw as
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feel better. You say, I'll
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range after the round, and he
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it then, And I was like, and your point, that doesn't remind

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me of the chapter I have in
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yeah, the zen Masters. He
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temper? And the zen Master says, well, show me, show me

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your temper. He said, I'm
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well, then if you can't produce
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You're not an angry person. You
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and it's a matter of changing changing
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you said that, you told them
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technique using the locker room where if
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that's outside of golf, and they
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a tournament, how do I what
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gave this to Christy Kerr and a
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get a little tupperware container, a
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and before you go out, take
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don't want to be thinking on the
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in this container. Wait for me. You're not going to help me when

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I'm on the golf course and I
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the golf course. I promise I'll
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and you wait for me in the
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and put it in the locker or
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locker. And then if the thought
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what are you doing here? I
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promise I'll take care of you.
You're not going to help me out here,

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and I can't do anything about you
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care of you when I'm done.
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a it's an after the round promise
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well and Joe, I plan on
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now in my Repertolcker. That's why
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place. It's because I knew that
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was what our conversation was like,
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don't remember if I shared this with
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on Zen golf and Zen putting,
and I quoted your your grandfather from those

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books that you mentioned, and I
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you. One is in a chapter
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just read this little passage. The
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when our intention is to avoid embarrassment
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what we think is a careful swing
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wanted to go. This prevents us
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usually produces a poor shot. The
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serious weakness. He found that when
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he began to fear the embarrassment of
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to control his swing to avoid making
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he focused on avoiding hazards. He
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more tournaments and finished more easily the
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his targets as much when leading as
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and you can, I mean,
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that you that you watch, the
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a few extra yards, And that
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Jones said, trying for a few
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cause of most of the mistakes that
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it's kind of it's kind of hard
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like that, either finished first or
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he entered between nineteen twenty three and
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and it's funny you brought that up
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Just last weekend was the hundredth anniversary
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United States Open, which was contested
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New York City, outside of Manhattan, and in that tournament, he finished

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the last three holes bogey bogeye double
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bogie and blew the lead and tied
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congratulating him on winning the championship,
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I finished like a yellow dog.
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playoff, rather than guiding the shot, as you mentioned, he came to

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the eighteenth hole and he put it
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one hundred and ninety yards to the
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wind in his face. And he
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the left ruff and had to lay
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in the right ruff and he's on
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it said he wasted no time,
reached into his bag, got a two

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iron, and just hit a tremendous
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hole and winning his first open.
And I find that really fascinating because in

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that final round he finished terribly because
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to protect something rather than continue to
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when he had the opportunity, he
acted quickly and decisively and hit a career

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shot, which had he not made
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end of his competitive career. So
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that's exactly That's exactly it. And
I was thinking about that. Another quote

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from him that I use, um
called in telling people to focus on their

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personal part to readjust party to their
to their handicap and so um he's Bobby

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and started playing against old man par
correct. I vary that just a little

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bit, Joe, And I'll tell
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people play against their average score because
a personal par is actually going to be

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based if they base it off their
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ninety five percent of the differentials of
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need to tell people, I said, take what your average score is and

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set that as your target. I
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people really relax a lot more.
Yeah, I've had this conversation recently talking

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about how the handicap is really represents
your potential, not what kind of golfer

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you are. I mean, you've
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look at that, but when it
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potential, it makes it a different
beast. All right, we're going to

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take a time out. We're gonna
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right, Joe, So what you
know the personal par thing? I always

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thought I made that up, but
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But personal par Just play to that
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fascist. But what well? I
liked it. I liked what Bob said

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about the handicap. And when people
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I explained to them that the way
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it's a percentage of your lowest of
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so you even throw out your high
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only going to do that one out
of four or five rounds. So I

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say, you know, if I
told you about this sport that I want

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you to try, it costs a
lot of money, it takes a lot

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of time, and you're only going
to enjoy it one out of every four

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or five times you do it.
Are you interested? They said, I

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wouldn't do that, I said,
but that's why. But if you if

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you're measuring a good or an enjoyable
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that go. And I do have
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if your average score is ninety,
then you don't have any part threes on

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your scorecard. There are four is, fives and sixes, and for some

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people with higher handicaps there you get
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one student and he had an okay
drive and then kind of a mediocre second

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shot and kind of topped his third
one, and they said, oh,

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that's too bad, you didn't get
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no, I have two more shots
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is a par seven for me.
And he was just having the best time

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compared to the usual beating himself up
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scratch golfer. Wonderful story. So
as we are recording this, today is

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day two of the twenty twenty three
Open Championship at Royal Liverpool and yesterday,

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at the end of round one,
tied for the lead was an amateur from

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South Africa, Christo Lamprecht, who
was at minus five and ended up being

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tied with Tommy Fleetwood for the round
that day. He I've just looked up

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during our last break. I just
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round and is at plus three.
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is on the cut line. Plus
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might make it. But it made
me question and look up. When was

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the last time an amateur won the
Open Championship And it happened to be at

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the same golf course, Royal Liverpool, nineteen thirty Bob, your grandfather,

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Yep, that's correct. It was
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So please, that's right. To
carry on from here, tell us history

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stories. We've talked about the Masters. He talked about your grandfather the Masters.

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Now to talk about the Open Championship. Well, you know, my

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grand father's history in the Open,
I think is a tremendous psychological study.

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He won it three times and played
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played in it, he was nineteen
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and it was at the Old Course
in Saint Andrew's and after starting out reasonably

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well in the first two rounds,
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the tail. And then the wind
changed off the North Sea, and he

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went out and shot forty six on
the front nine, double bogee number ten,

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and then on number eleven hit it
in the bunker, and four shots

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later was still in the bunker.
And at that point he put his ball

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in his pocket and withdrew from the
tournament. He continued to play in and

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what he discovered was had he finished
out the tournament, he would have tied

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for third, even with a six
on the eleventh hole. But he learned

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from that, and so when he
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he came back and wanted at Litham
where a Litham and Saint Anne's in nineteen

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twenty six, And I find it
funny he went to lunch between the third

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and fourth rounds. Back then they
played both rounds on the last day,

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and when he came back to the
course to go in, he had forgotten

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his contestants badge and he had to
pay five pounds or two pounds to get

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back into the golf course to go
play his final round. Now, I

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suspect that what happened was that the
person at the gate knew exactly who he

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was, but remembered nineteen twenty one
and was going to just extract a pound

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to flesh out of him before he
got back in. But he won in

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twenty six and then came back.
Normally he would only go over when the

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Walker Cup would be overseas because of
the cost of playing and when he went

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back over, and he went back
over at his own expense in twenty seven

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to win at Saint Andrew's, and
by then all was forgiven, and the

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San Andreans lifted him up on their
shoulders to carry him off after he won

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in the seventy second hole. By
the time he came to Hoylake, it

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was pretty much a foregone conclusion that
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He had won the Amateur just weeks
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at Saint Andrew's, and so when
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returned back to New York, he
received his second ticker tape parade, which

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prompted Mayor Jimmy Walker to introduce him, as he said, never could it

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be foreseen that this would bring together
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world's greatest golfer would be introduced by
the world's worst golfer. And that's that.

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That was sort of the story of
his British opens. He only got

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back to Saint Andrew's again in nineteen
thirty six, and that was when he

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was on the way to the Olympics
in Berlin, and he a round of

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golf there, And when he showed
up on the first tea, thinking it

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was just going to be this anonymous
game, there were like two hundred people

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waiting on the first tea. By
the time he got to the far end

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of the golf course, all the
shopkeepers had put signs in their windows that

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said closed. Bobby's back, and
the entire town finished the round with him.

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He said he'd never he hadn't played
around, like he hadn't played golf

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in weeks. He shot thirty two
going out and forty coming back for even

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par seventy two. But you know, the emotion of that was such that

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he was never really able to talk
about it. He was never really able

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to talk about it again. He
said, the love that he felt from

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that city, and I remember when
I was first there in two thousand and

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two thousand and two for his centennial
of his birth. And I went to

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a bookstore and I just had We
were just talking and I picked out a

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an old golf book that I'd always
wanted, and the lady was saw my

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credit card and she said, my
gosh, you're Robert T. Jones the

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fourth or you related to Bobby,
And I said, this is my grandfather.

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Somebody later said to me, they
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they give you the book for free? I said, no, she was

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a Scott. Of course she took
my money. Are you kidding me?

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But it's a it's a it's a
it's an amazing Um, it's an amazing

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legacy that he still has um this
many years and that far away. That's

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remarkable. M. Yeah, that's
truly remarkable. And um, so how

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much of your vast historical knowledge is
based on your research and how much of

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it is family lore they is passed
around from person to person. I'd say

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about seventy thirty, okay, um, And the and the percentage of family

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lure drops as time goes on,
because what I'm finding out is that many

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of the myths that are ascribed to
my grandfather are just that they are myths,

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and I think that when we focus
on that myth us, we really

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lose sight of who the man really
was and what it was that he accomplished.

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And you know, in a sense, that does two things. At

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least, this is my thought.
It deprives us of seeing who this man

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really was. And the second thing
it does is it kind of lets us

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off the hook from doing what we
can to be heroes in those areas of

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life in which we find ourselves.
And I think sometimes we like our heroes

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to be four feet off the ground
because then we have no responsibilities at least

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to try to equal that. And
I think that's I think that's an unfortunate

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but necessary human tendency. So,
oh, that was really well said.

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I think that that's that's a great
it's a great insight about how we are

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and how we regard our heroes,
um, you know, and and putting

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them the word They came to my
mind when you said four feet off the

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ground was pedestal, and that's exactly
it, and and that I really like

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your insight about that. It separates
us from taking responsibility. Now, the

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interesting thing is, um, what
some people do is they mistake emulate for

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uh for and try to imitate,
and so to try to imitate is really

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an expression of false confidence. But
to try to emulate is to try to

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move from what I call conditional confidence
to unconditional confidence and not get caught in

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false confidence. So I think that
that's a really something, really really profound

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and helpful that you pointed out.
Fred, Do you mind if I do

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the interview for one second? No, not at all, You can't,

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Joe, could you could you flesh
that out just a little bit more?

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That just I was so kind of
taken by what you said that I just

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I felt like there was even more
to it. But I will be the

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traffic cop and I will say we'll
be back right after this, and Joe,

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you can answer right after this.
All right, Joe, I'm sorry

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to interrupt. Let's get now,
let's go to your answer. Well,

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I think everybody knows and it's pretty
clear what false confidence is, and that

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absolutely doesn't hold up, and it's
it becomes the you know, the emperor

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without clothes. So the difference that
you were talking about is between conditional and

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unconditional confidence, and conditional confidence is
believing in what you can do if you've

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been successful recently, you know,
and so well, I've been playing well

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and I feel confident, but as
soon as I have a bad hole,

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I lose all my confidence. Well, if you lose it, then that

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means it was conditional. It was
confidence conditional on playing well, and as

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soon as you stop playing well,
you lose it. So that really is

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sets you up for failure in a
certain way. Unconditional confidence is that you

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believe in yourself regardless of recent performances. So you hear players say you know

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that, well, you know,
I haven't made the cut the last two

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tournaments, but I'm I'm really close. I'm really close. And they have

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unconditional confidence in their ability to find
their game again and come back to it.

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And I actually even separate. Even
have two aspects to unconditional confidence.

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One is relative unconditional confidence, which
is unconditional confidence in your abilities in a

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certain field. Absolute unconditional confidence is
believing in yourself no matter what it is

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that you're doing. That doesn't mean
that you can suddenly be an expert in

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some other field, but that you
believe in yourself in whatever you're engaged in,

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and you have confidence that you will
handle yourself the best you possibly can

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in that situation. That's wow.
Yeah. Well it's interesting because just tomorrow

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as we're recording this, the Steph
Curry documentary is coming out called Underrated,

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And one of the things that he
talked about, and here's somebody who's succeeded

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just recently in golf, but has
succeeded beyond all measure in the NBA,

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and he talked about his supreme self
confidence, the amount of confidence he has

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in hisself knowing that he can achieve
these things. He's talked about that openly.

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So you know, it doesn't matter
if he didn't have a good shooting

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day one day the next, you
know, and if he's not playing,

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if he's not hitting his shots,
he starts being the best assist person,

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the best passer, and so finding
a way to get the most out of

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whatever you brought that day. And
that's what I want golfers to do as

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well. You know, sometimes you
might be struggling a little with the driver,

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so put the ball in play,
which, by the way, if

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we're talking about history, he was
what they called the play the club you

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used on the tea in the old
days in golf, they didn't call it

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a driver. They called it the
play club because its job was to put

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the ball in play and then find
your way to get around the golf course.

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And I want to make sure that
we fit. In one story I

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was on, I was at the
pro am that's out in Lakinta in Palm

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Desert, in that area. I
don't remember the name that it's called now,

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but I was working with Tim Petrovic, who was a winner on the

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PGA Tour and now contends regularly on
the Champions Tour. And he's a kind

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of a history buff where he's getting
ready for his round and we're on the

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putting green. He says, what
do you got for me? And he

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was playing well, he just said
what do you got for me? And

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I I channeled your grandfather, a
channel Bobby Jones, and I said,

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well, I know your history book, because because Tim would like to say,

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well, there's golf, and there's
tournament, golf, Tuna, M

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I nt tournament tournament, which is
George and for tournament. And so I

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said, well, I know you're
a big fan of Bobby Jones, so

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let me give you two of his
putting advices. In putting one, he

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said, taking more than ten seconds
to read a putt is a waste of

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time, and the other is borrow
as much as you can, meaning play

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as much break as you can,
because as soon as the ball rolls below

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that hole below, it just keeps
going further and further from that precious cup.

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And I remember that. So I
watched. Now he was playing with

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amateurs, so he got to see
a lot and got some time to just

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walk around the green. But when
it came to time for his putt,

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he stood behind it and lean back
and said, yeah, I think I

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got it. Walked up boom,
twenty one puts, no chip, twenty

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one puts for the round. Yeah. You know, I had an experience

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personally similar to that. I used
to be one of those that I would

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take, especially on short shots.
I would take practice stroke after practice stroke

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after practice stroke. I was one
of these guys. I mean it was

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it was painful to watch. And
I had this one little chip shot at

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a golf course one time and I
just thought, well, I'm going to

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make sure I just get this just
right. And I think I took like

410
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six practice strokes and then I proceeded
to jam it like three three inches fat

411
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:45,400
move the ball about an inch and
a half and I thought I could have

412
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,320
just done that, just walking up
to it and hitting it. So that's

413
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what I decided to do. And
do you know for the entire rest of

414
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the day, where whenever I was
just around the green, I would just

415
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get up and hit it. I
don't think I had any shot where I

416
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,280
missed a green where on a chip
shot I wasn't like a foot and a

417
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half from the hole. You know, you can get to a point,

418
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or at least I can, and
several of the folks I've worked with overtime

419
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:19,079
I have discovered this. You can
get to a point where you overthink your

420
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body's ability to really do something.
And nowhere is that more obvious than when

421
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you're on the green or around a
green. That whole thing about ten seconds

422
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,920
is so right, because how many
times have as any golfer on the planet

423
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:43,800
stood over a put and stood behind
it and looked at it. And the

424
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:49,559
longer you take, the more you
will see breaks that aren't even there.

425
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,559
They just aren't there, absolutely.
And you know, I've actually been able

426
00:35:54,599 --> 00:36:01,480
to tell my players. I said, I could tell um, based on

427
00:36:01,559 --> 00:36:05,760
how long you took over the ball, how well the shot was going to

428
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,119
come out. And it's a pretty
high correlation. So I wouldn't say this

429
00:36:09,159 --> 00:36:13,440
with my students, but I say
when I'm playing with my friends, when

430
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,480
they missed one like that, I
said, you could have hit that bad

431
00:36:15,519 --> 00:36:21,880
a shot in a lot less time, and I get a dirty look.

432
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:29,119
But I can't help on those.
But I have a special technique for around

433
00:36:29,199 --> 00:36:34,320
the greens that I developed in a
similar way. I was just playing myself

434
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,880
on a course and I had about
forty yards in and I made my nice

435
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:45,679
little practice swings and proceeded to blade
it over the green with the actual shot,

436
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,280
and I said, if I had
just hit that with my practice swing,

437
00:36:47,599 --> 00:36:51,800
it would have been fine. So
I dropped another ball and I said,

438
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,480
I'm going to pretend that there's no
ball here, and I'm just going

439
00:36:53,519 --> 00:37:00,760
to make a practice swing and put
it to about three feet. I then

440
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,159
walked to the other side of the
green where my ball was and it was

441
00:37:02,199 --> 00:37:07,000
in a fluffy, downhill, tricky
little lie to a downhill roll, and

442
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,559
I said, I'm going to do
the same thing. And I did take

443
00:37:08,599 --> 00:37:13,119
a couple of practice swings through that
grass, and I said that's the one.

444
00:37:13,559 --> 00:37:15,559
And then I walked up and I
said, just one more practice swing

445
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:20,400
poomp rolled down to a foot.
I said, okay, that's it.

446
00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:24,079
So what I teach my golfers is
find a patch of grass that's similar to

447
00:37:24,119 --> 00:37:29,360
the lie that your ball is in, make a swing as if there is

448
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,119
a ball there, and hold your
finish until you get to the one where

449
00:37:32,119 --> 00:37:36,719
you say, ah, that's the
one. Then walk up, then address

450
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:40,719
the ball. Now, pretend the
ball is not there and it's invisible,

451
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:45,400
and just say one more, just
like that through the grass. And you

452
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:50,480
can even say one more practice swing
through the grass. And if they do

453
00:37:50,519 --> 00:37:53,239
it really well, they're surprised that
a ball took off, but it comes

454
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:58,199
out so much softer and so much
better. So you're practice sing as if

455
00:37:58,199 --> 00:38:00,320
there is a ball there. You're
real swing as if there isn't a ball

456
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:05,480
there. Oh my god. And
how many times. And I know that

457
00:38:05,559 --> 00:38:09,280
every person who's listening to this podcast
is saying, oh my god, that's

458
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:14,360
happened to me. On the golf
course where it's either me or someone I've

459
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,400
played with, they're just so frustrated. They're like, Okay, I quit

460
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,400
right, I just don't. I'm
just going to finish this and I got

461
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:22,880
to get out of here, you
know, I hate this game. I'm

462
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:27,119
never going to play again and then
have the best hole of their life because

463
00:38:27,159 --> 00:38:30,039
they just kind of let it all
go, or they make a fifty foot

464
00:38:30,079 --> 00:38:36,199
putt after three putting seven times that
round happens every time. We're going to

465
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,239
take one more break. And this
leads into a topic that I'm really excited

466
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:44,199
about bringing up to both of you, and we'll do that right after this.

467
00:38:44,199 --> 00:38:46,880
This week on golf Smart to Mulligan's
is the first of two conversations with

468
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:52,800
Jeff Mangum of the Putting Zone dot
Com. In the first episode, we

469
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:58,760
talk about a wide variety of topics
relevant to putting, including getting started for

470
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,440
adults and even getting your kids into
putting. One thing kids want to do

471
00:39:02,559 --> 00:39:07,199
is they want to have turns competing, So you got to set up some

472
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,599
sort of goal for them. One
of my favorites is to perch a golf

473
00:39:09,639 --> 00:39:14,840
ball on the edge of a cup
and then back off fifteen twenty thirty feet

474
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,400
and say, okay, here's three
golf balls. You got three chances to

475
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,960
bump that golf ball over into the
hole. That does a couple of things

476
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,480
brain wise, but fundamentally, what
it does is it gives a kid a

477
00:39:24,599 --> 00:39:30,079
non rule based game to play.
They really get into that. They go

478
00:39:30,079 --> 00:39:32,960
ahead and take their turn, and
maybe they get close and miss and you

479
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,320
say, okay, my turn,
and you push them out of the way

480
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,000
and you take your three balls and
the second one you bump it over in

481
00:39:38,039 --> 00:39:40,519
the hole and you laugh at them
and say I got mine, and they'll

482
00:39:40,559 --> 00:39:43,800
push you out of the way and
say okay, my turn again, and

483
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,679
so they'll put three balls down.
Then they'll do better, and so you

484
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:51,320
get going that way. You just
make the green a playground where kids are

485
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,920
not penalized for any kind of misses
or anything. They just get turned after

486
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:58,039
turn after turn and they have all
the fun they want. That's Golf Smarter

487
00:39:58,199 --> 00:40:02,360
Mulligan's episode two hundred twenty one featuring
Jeff Mangum of the Putting Zone dot Com

488
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:07,880
in an episode we call great Putting
is a Science and a Skill. Next

489
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:13,280
week we'll get another full hour with
Jeff in part two. Please subscribe for

490
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,519
free to both of our golf podcasts, Golf Smarter on Tuesday and our Sisters

491
00:40:17,559 --> 00:40:22,519
show that revisits the best of the
Golf Smarter podcast that's just no longer available

492
00:40:22,559 --> 00:40:28,360
that we call Golf Smarter Mulligans and
it's released every Friday. From wherever you're

493
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:36,760
listening right now, you know what
Fred was talking about. I haven't I

494
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,920
put in the book, and that
is people try more and more different things,

495
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:45,360
and try lots of different things,
and again and again, and finally

496
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:49,440
about the sixteenth hole they say,
I give up. I don't I don't

497
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,039
care anywhere, and they just get
up and whack it and then they had

498
00:40:52,599 --> 00:40:55,519
a good shot. And I student
the other day said I just struggle to

499
00:40:55,559 --> 00:40:59,599
the tournament with my setup and this, that and the other thing. And

500
00:40:59,639 --> 00:41:02,199
I said, um, what'd you
do on this around the seventeenth hold?

501
00:41:02,199 --> 00:41:06,639
He said, well, actually I
just gave up trying on all that stuff,

502
00:41:06,679 --> 00:41:08,599
and I walked striped one down the
middle. I said, And now

503
00:41:08,599 --> 00:41:15,199
I was I there. I don't
think so how did I know? Oh?

504
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,360
Yeah, I hate this game.
I hate this game. I hate

505
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,840
the game. And then that last
show, well I love this game.

506
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,280
I can't wait to come back again. Yeah, I guess I have to

507
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:27,079
come back tomorrow. Yeah. Well, what I think I told you this,

508
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:32,039
Bob when we were when we were
talking when students they get very technical,

509
00:41:32,079 --> 00:41:36,599
and you were talking about overthinking,
which I agree completely. And you

510
00:41:36,639 --> 00:41:40,440
start thinking thinking this technique and then
you you you, you do that,

511
00:41:40,519 --> 00:41:45,480
and something else goes wrong, so
you add another one on, and then

512
00:41:45,519 --> 00:41:49,880
you keep adding more on, and
you keep adding more on, and I

513
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,159
call that more on golf. I
like I played that. I'm very I'm

514
00:41:53,239 --> 00:42:01,239
very I'm a low handicapper in that
game. Let's be nice, Okay.

515
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:10,719
So recently I came across a video
on TikTok or something and a woman who's

516
00:42:12,079 --> 00:42:15,639
who's in the LPGA Tour and I
think she's trying to break into the LPGA

517
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:20,239
Tour or maybe she's just getting started, but she's a young woman. And

518
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,960
she had this quote that it just
jumped out to me, and I've been

519
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:29,159
thinking about a lot, and I'm
so excited to have the two of you

520
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,320
to throw this out too. Here's
what she said, and I wrote this.

521
00:42:32,079 --> 00:42:36,000
I wrote it down, and I'm
going to paraphrase in a sense that

522
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,960
some of it is not there anyway. She said, the hardest thing about

523
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:45,039
golf for me is that you have
to practice like it is the most important

524
00:42:45,159 --> 00:42:51,559
thing in the world, and you
have to play like you don't care at

525
00:42:51,599 --> 00:42:55,880
all. You have to practice every
single day and put one hundred percent in.

526
00:42:57,199 --> 00:43:00,480
And you can't do that unless you
really really care. But when you

527
00:43:00,559 --> 00:43:05,280
tee it up on Thursday, you
have to swing free. How do you

528
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:10,519
do that when you really care?
Gentlemen, Well, the first thing that

529
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:16,159
pops into my head is something that
my grandfather wrote about, and the Joe's

530
00:43:16,159 --> 00:43:22,679
book I think gets books get right
to the heart of and that is that

531
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:30,519
tension is the number one killer of
the golf swing. So I don't know,

532
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,440
Joe, you may see it differently, but I would have to respectfully

533
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:39,639
disagree with her because here's the thing. When you are practicing, what you

534
00:43:39,679 --> 00:43:47,119
are really rehearsing, is you are
rehearsing what it is that you want to

535
00:43:47,159 --> 00:43:55,000
be able to do on the golf
course. And if you are rehearsing tension,

536
00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:01,199
if you are rehearsing something of that
level of intensity, I don't know

537
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:08,079
how you then go and just switch
that off and just say, now you

538
00:44:08,119 --> 00:44:15,360
know, I've been spending three hours
on the range working like just working like

539
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,800
a dog. And I mean no
offense to my dog who's right here at

540
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:22,719
my feet, but working like a
dog. And now I'm going to go

541
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:31,119
out there and just be absolutely relaxed. The human body and the human mind

542
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:37,480
just don't work that way. And
now if what she's saying is simply going

543
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:43,199
out and putting in time at the
range and putting in time making the changes

544
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:47,840
she needs to make, well that's
one thing. But I can only go

545
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:53,440
by the words that people use,
and those words are words that say to

546
00:44:53,480 --> 00:45:01,239
me, I feel this pressure,
this tension, doing this, and now

547
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:05,440
I have to find a way to
magically shut it off. You have to

548
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:09,440
practice what it is that you want
to do, and that works just as

549
00:45:09,519 --> 00:45:15,639
much for mindset as it does for
physical activity. Well, um, I

550
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:22,039
agree with you about tension. And
what I heard was she wants to she

551
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:27,719
does a lot of trying. Yeah, and if all she's practicing is trying,

552
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,519
then she's going to carry that over
and do a lot of trying on

553
00:45:30,559 --> 00:45:34,159
the golf course. And we don't
want to be doing that. We want

554
00:45:34,159 --> 00:45:37,760
to be trusting on the golf course, you know. And it's like I

555
00:45:37,199 --> 00:45:42,039
tell that, you know, Monday, Tuesday and Wednesdays when you work and

556
00:45:42,159 --> 00:45:46,400
Thursdays when you start to play,
so and golf, A lot of golfers

557
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:51,360
do the opposite, and they get
grim and intense on Thursday. I was

558
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:55,519
with Fred Funk at a tournament and
he's he's the happy, go lucky to

559
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,760
do, always smiling and cheerful.
And I remember on Thursday morning he was

560
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:06,039
following there were two pros and they
were walking onto the pudding green and there

561
00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:10,000
was a young lady there who was
holding a rope to keep the public from

562
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:14,559
walking on into the putting green.
And she let the rope down for the

563
00:46:14,559 --> 00:46:16,800
two pros. And as Fred walked
up to where she pulled the rope up

564
00:46:17,119 --> 00:46:21,079
and he said, what are you
doing. I'm one of the pros.

565
00:46:21,119 --> 00:46:22,920
He said, Oh, I didn't
think you were a pro. You seemed

566
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:31,519
happy, So that's yeah, right, So that's that's the grim the grimace,

567
00:46:31,639 --> 00:46:35,320
you know. So that's one thing. The other is I do have

568
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,679
a Chaptern's end. Golf called to
care or not to care, And I

569
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:42,920
was working with an instructor in a
short game school and he said, I

570
00:46:43,039 --> 00:46:45,280
tell people go ahead and you know, swing like you don't care. But

571
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:49,239
when I get out there, I
do care. How do how do I

572
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,719
move to not caring? And I
said, in the dictionary there are two

573
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:59,119
definitions of the word to care.
One is to take a sincere interest in

574
00:47:00,159 --> 00:47:04,800
and the other is to worry about. And this is in the book.

575
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,199
And I said, to tell me
the difference in how you feel when I

576
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:13,800
say these two sentences. I'll do
it with you, Fred Fred I care

577
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:25,719
about you, Fred, I worry
about you. So if you if you're

578
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:31,239
turning that towards yourself and your game, you say, yeah, I care

579
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:36,280
about what happened, So I put
the work in, but I'm not gonna

580
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:42,079
worry about how it turns out because
that creates tension that interferes with my swing.

581
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,559
M exactly. Wow, it's like
in the middle of that as I'm

582
00:47:45,599 --> 00:47:51,440
concerned about you. I mean when
when you said it, Joe, I

583
00:47:51,639 --> 00:47:53,960
care about you, I worry about
you. Almost to me came across is

584
00:47:54,920 --> 00:48:00,079
the same thing. Well, most
people here, I care about you.

585
00:48:00,159 --> 00:48:02,880
That's a positive concern. Yes,
I worry about you. Is I'm worried

586
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:07,599
about what could go wrong? Right? Right? Okay? Yes, I

587
00:48:07,639 --> 00:48:16,360
get I normally get the second one. That's so I actually have implemented.

588
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:22,440
I have implemented for my students.
I have them rate their shots after each

589
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:27,639
shot on a worry scale. How
much were you worried about how it was

590
00:48:27,679 --> 00:48:30,920
going to turn out. And working
with Christie, I give her credit for

591
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:37,400
this acronym she developed wa R worry
about results. When I worry about results,

592
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:43,440
I'm at war with myself. Yeah, And so so I have people

593
00:48:43,639 --> 00:48:46,440
rate the rate their shot. Okay, on that shot, how much were

594
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:50,199
you worried about how it was going
to turn out? And how much did

595
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:54,280
you just trust it and go and
go for it? And zero on the

596
00:48:54,320 --> 00:49:00,679
worry scale, no hold back,
that's the only negative I ever, no

597
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:07,199
holding back. I like that.
And on the five is I was totally

598
00:49:07,199 --> 00:49:08,719
All I thought about was how it
was going to turn out, and I

599
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:15,199
just couldn't let myself swing. There's
the difference. Yeah. And there's also

600
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:21,800
a little physical trick that you can
do. That you can do and it's

601
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,880
been done. In fact, the
person who does is most known for it

602
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:30,719
is Aria Jutana Gard and that is
she will smile before she executes a shot,

603
00:49:31,159 --> 00:49:35,599
and that does two purposes. One
of the things a smile will do

604
00:49:36,199 --> 00:49:39,599
is it will release these muscles right
around the mouth, and if tension is

605
00:49:39,639 --> 00:49:45,400
going to enter the body anywhere,
it's going to enter right there. And

606
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,559
from there it spreads to the neck, which spreads to the shoulders, which

607
00:49:49,599 --> 00:49:53,440
spreads then through and once your neck
and shoulders are tense, you are done

608
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:58,000
in the golf swing. The other
thing that the smile does is it releases

609
00:49:58,039 --> 00:50:00,719
a little oxytocin in the brain,
which is like a little happy chemical,

610
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:06,519
and your brain really likes those.
It's really hard to be tense when you've

611
00:50:06,559 --> 00:50:09,760
got your own body's natural narcotic running
through your brain. Right now, I'm

612
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,920
not saying you go around gased all
the time, but what I am saying

613
00:50:14,199 --> 00:50:22,880
is just just something that's simple,
just keeps you in a much better physical

614
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and mental state. I told that
to somebody, and I made the mistake

615
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of telling it early on in our
hour together, and they said to me

616
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at the end of the person said, wait a minute, wait, await,

617
00:50:37,119 --> 00:50:37,960
you just told me that in the
first ten minutes. Why am I

618
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paying you for a full hour?
So I I just smiled, smile and

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let the oxytocin through. It's actually
a teaching given by Ticknatan, one of

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the most famous pastors, and it
is and it is a practice to spend

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as much of the day remembering to
smile. Oh yeah. Strangely enough,

622
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:06,400
my grandmother, my ninety nine year
old grandmother knew that. Wow, it's

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00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,400
the same wisdom, just different words. Yes it is, Yes, it

624
00:51:09,559 --> 00:51:15,599
is well put well, you know
it's I want to thank both of you

625
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:22,639
because recently Golf Smarter was named by
two different websites is the best mental game

626
00:51:22,679 --> 00:51:27,800
podcast. And it's because I quote
both of you on a regular basis,

627
00:51:28,559 --> 00:51:34,280
and you know and have people like
you, but more importantly have you on

628
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:38,320
here. And interestingly, one of
the things that I've repeated so many times,

629
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doctor Bob, is you said to
me once you can watch a golf

630
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,679
tournament on TV, you knew he
was going to miss a putt because you

631
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saw the tension in his face,
absolutely and absolutely, and that for me,

632
00:51:51,559 --> 00:51:55,440
it's like I realize at that point
how much tension I have in my

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00:51:55,559 --> 00:52:00,320
jaw on my swing, and so
I regularly try to mind myself to just

634
00:52:01,079 --> 00:52:07,239
lose attention, breathe through it.
I mean, and doctor Joe. Just

635
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:13,079
the other day, I was playing
with somebody's a good golfer, a single

636
00:52:13,119 --> 00:52:16,119
digit handicap golfer. He had a
bad hole and I could see what we

637
00:52:16,119 --> 00:52:20,840
were standing on the green. He
was waiting for a fifty foot put you

638
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,800
know, for bogey, and I
just said, you know, doctor Joe,

639
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,880
parents had told me this once and
I love repeating it, and that

640
00:52:29,199 --> 00:52:32,440
is pull out your etch a sketch, flip it over, shake it,

641
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:37,079
erase it, and let it go. And luckily he knew what an etch

642
00:52:37,119 --> 00:52:44,719
a sketch us, although I did
see one in a toy store recently and

643
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:50,840
it said Nope, batteries necessary.
That's right. I'm gonna borrow that one

644
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:58,119
too, Joe. Well, gentlemen, this has been an absolute joy for

645
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,519
me just because I know that I
got to introduce you to because you've both

646
00:53:01,559 --> 00:53:07,039
been important people in the last twenty
years of my life, and I just

647
00:53:07,559 --> 00:53:12,360
am so grateful that you guys connected
and that we got to share some of

648
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,039
that energy here today. Thank you
so much. Thank you, Fred,

649
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:19,000
Thanks Fred, Joe. It's been
great to be with you. You two.

650
00:53:19,079 --> 00:53:25,239
Let's stay in touch. Definitely.
Oh so much to report because I

651
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:30,119
played twice over the weekend as my
wife was out of town. Maybe I

652
00:53:30,159 --> 00:53:34,280
should have checked my horoscope that day
because Friday was one of those days that

653
00:53:35,159 --> 00:53:39,320
strange things happened one right after another. Check this one out. After I

654
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:45,119
recorded this conversation that you just heard, which clearly had issues in the beginning.

655
00:53:45,519 --> 00:53:47,880
I headed out to be cock Gap
for a ninety minute practice session,

656
00:53:49,639 --> 00:53:52,719
and after working out on the range
and a lot in the bunker, followed

657
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:58,880
by chipping and pitching, I went
over to the putting area and I discovered

658
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,639
that I didn't have any balls in
my bag, even though I knew I

659
00:54:01,679 --> 00:54:07,199
had isolated nine clean balls before I
left the house. So I checked everywhere

660
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,960
in my new bag, you know, the one that I'm still getting familiar

661
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:15,559
with, and checked my car.
No balls. So I went into the

662
00:54:15,559 --> 00:54:19,039
pro shop and the director of golf, who I've known for years, said,

663
00:54:19,199 --> 00:54:22,440
hey, we have a bit of
used balls here, buck apiece,

664
00:54:22,079 --> 00:54:27,159
go for it. Great, thank
you. So I grabbed four balls pulled

665
00:54:27,159 --> 00:54:29,840
out of twenty and the guy behind
the counter just winked me and said,

666
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,360
don't worry about it, go ahead, thank you. Then I get up

667
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:37,639
to the first tea I was informed
that I was playing with a young couple

668
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,159
sitting off to the side in a
cart. I introduced myself and asked if

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00:54:40,159 --> 00:54:46,679
they were familiar with the chorus.
She responded sheepishly with I'm new to golf.

670
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:52,840
Have you ever played here before?
No, have you ever played eighteen

671
00:54:52,920 --> 00:55:00,280
holes before? No boy, but
our partners said he plays a couple of

672
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:05,880
times a year, but isn't very
good. I suggested that they both play

673
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,719
from the front tees, but they
decline to say they'll join us on the

674
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:14,920
white Okay, fine, And just
before we started, a fourth guy pulls

675
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:19,639
up in a cart and introduces himself. So the husband teas off by popping

676
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:24,239
his driver straight up for about seventy
to eighty yards total. Then she walks

677
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:28,960
up to the tea box and he
starts giving her a lesson on how to

678
00:55:29,039 --> 00:55:34,119
hit the ball. The fourth,
who will call Frank and I kind of

679
00:55:34,199 --> 00:55:37,960
look at each other and then back
over to the starter, who runs down

680
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,679
to them and says, sorry,
folks, if you want a lesson,

681
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:43,880
you've got to go to the driving
range. There's a long line of people

682
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,000
we have waiting to go, and
we really don't have time for that now,

683
00:55:47,119 --> 00:55:53,639
so they left. Now it's just
me and Frank in between a couple

684
00:55:53,639 --> 00:55:59,400
of foursomes, but the group in
front of us also as a beginner who

685
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:04,760
clearly wasn't familiar with the etiquette of
pace of play. When we arrived at

686
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:08,960
the turn, the group in front
of us was now almost two holes behind

687
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:14,039
the group. In front of them
a twosome and the tenth holes of part

688
00:56:14,119 --> 00:56:16,880
three, So we ask, hey, is it okay if we just play

689
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:22,320
ahead of you? And they agreed, thank you, But Frank hits his

690
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:27,000
ball into the bunker. Duff's one
then hits out, but in the process

691
00:56:27,559 --> 00:56:31,519
he reaggravated his bad back, and
it was so bad that after the hole

692
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:37,440
he apologizes and has to go home
because the pain is too much to continue.

693
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:42,079
So now I'm all alone, and
I don't like to play alone,

694
00:56:44,679 --> 00:56:47,119
but there's a twosome in front of
me, and I joined them and finish

695
00:56:47,199 --> 00:56:52,760
a pretty good round with no other
bizarre events, although I didn't lose any

696
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,840
balls, so the balls that the
guy gave me I went back to the

697
00:56:55,880 --> 00:57:00,360
pro shop and said, thank you
very much, you can have the back.

698
00:57:00,559 --> 00:57:04,119
He was very impressed. Thank you, he says. Well. I

699
00:57:04,159 --> 00:57:07,119
played again the next day, but
this time the July weather here in northern

700
00:57:07,119 --> 00:57:14,199
California was brutal, with temperatures in
the high nineties for the entire round,

701
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:19,159
and I'm walking, but it wiped
me out, so that after a decent

702
00:57:19,239 --> 00:57:22,559
nine holes of being four over,
I joined my buddy John in his cart

703
00:57:22,599 --> 00:57:27,639
and rode the back nine. It
was so hot and I was so drained

704
00:57:27,679 --> 00:57:30,679
from the heat that all I could
think about was staying hydrated, and then

705
00:57:30,719 --> 00:57:37,559
included soaking my hat with water and
soaking a towel with cold water as well.

706
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,320
I wrapped a towel around my neck, and between that and my hat,

707
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:45,199
I was able to say somewhat cooler, but it's still in the upper

708
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:50,199
nineties. The punchline of this is
that I was so distracted from my game

709
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,880
due to the heat that I didn't
spend a lot of time worrying about my

710
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:59,119
mechanics, only what I needed to
do to get my ball to the next

711
00:57:59,159 --> 00:58:04,400
spot, and ended up shooting even
par on the back nine. That's only

712
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:08,280
the third time I've ever done that. Back nine also included one hole where

713
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:13,760
my drive went far off to the
right of the unto the next fairway and

714
00:58:14,079 --> 00:58:19,280
someone picked up my ball and left
me a crappy old one, and my

715
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:22,360
partners were generous enough to give me
a free drop there, and so I

716
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:27,199
hit my next shot to the green, but it flew the green and it

717
00:58:27,199 --> 00:58:30,880
looked like it went out of bounds, so we looked for a while and

718
00:58:30,039 --> 00:58:35,840
finally found the ball. I was
able to chip up onto the green it

719
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,119
rolled past the hole. But then
I had an eighteen footer that I sunk

720
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:46,239
for par okay. Now next week
you're gonna hear more about my putting that

721
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:51,880
round because I discussed it at length
with our guests. And once again,

722
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,960
we're going to have two incredible guests
on this show, and this time it's

723
00:58:54,960 --> 00:59:00,719
gonna be Carl Morris and Gary Nicholl, and they returned for the first time

724
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,239
as a pair on Golf Smarter.
I've had them on individually and they teach

725
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,719
together, but this time I'll have
them on together to talk about their new

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00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:14,840
digital version of the very popular book, The Lost Art of Putting. I

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00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:19,719
want to thank this week's Golf Smarter
Ambassador, James Wilson of Richmond, Missouri,

728
00:59:20,199 --> 00:59:24,119
who chose to receive Tony Manzoni's video
of the Lost Fundamental as his gift

729
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:28,719
for being a Golf Smarter Ambassador.
And I'd like you to be one of

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our ambassadors too, and I'll give
you a free gift for the effort.

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00:59:31,119 --> 00:59:35,960
As a matter of fact, I'll
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Now to receive that gift, all
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733
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a review of the podcast from wherever
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734
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episode by sharing where you're from and
where you play, like James did.

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00:59:49,039 --> 00:59:52,880
James chose Tony Manzoni's video of the
Lost Fundamental. Other gifts include a box

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00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:58,119
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739
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:10,639
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