Before we get into all of the rigamarole of the words and the phrases and
how like chooge we may or may not be for using them. My god,
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sound so stupid if I said that, I'd be like, Wow, that's
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going to be a deep dive podcast with a very special guest, our own
producer, Valin, who is joining us for a very specific reason and a
very specific topic, and that is the slang and the vernacular that is common
with not only your generation, valain Z, but also Z's, but also
the generation younger than yours, which apparently we're going by Gen alpha now right,
this is gen ALPHAI. I guess I don't know what the one after
that's going to be, but yes, it's zz zz and a. So
Valin is the sme. She's the subject matter expert. And I said before
we went on, I was like, she's a Valance, Like I definitely
thought about like a small version of me, like a mini me. Right,
it's like a tiny and tiny Vallance. No, it's a subject matter
expert, which is a gen X term, I think, and a boomer
term probably me. And it's a corporate term, right, Like you wouldn't
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so how do we want to begin? Because there are so many words.
I tried to have a conversation with my son this morning and I was like,
am I allowed to say this? What is that? And he was
like, can you just please consult Urban Dictionary and leave me alone? That's
what he says, or just shut up altogether. MODP can be dangerous too.
Yeah, yeah, it can be dangerous. The only thing that I
know is bougie boogie. Actually, I say the word bougie all the time
because like, if somebody has something that's fancy, I all think that I'm
really cool and that's so bougie. I think that's a timeless word. Yeah,
I feel like I fit in if I say that. But pretty much
anything on this list that we have, and because we have a little bit
of a list of gen z slang like a s F is is as F
like you mean or a F? Or is there an s A s F?
A s F is just like a slang turn it's is. It's I
mean, it's short for as fuck you guys. That's what is short for?
Wait, what where did ans come from? I thought it was just
a F. It's a s F. It's what they have as a slang
term, and I'm assuming that like there, I don't that's the thing it
used to be for like the general the millennials, I thought it was just
a F and now it's a s F and then they have a s L,
which is as hell. Okay, like please confirm because I know,
I thought, right, AF is it not? Do you write? Do
you write this down? Do you know this one is pretty new to me?
I would still AF, Yeah, it's okay, you would just say
AF. Do you say as hell? Do you say a A L or
a s L? C ASL to me is like almost like something that's exactly
what American se yes l uh huh. I think I'm thinking it's American sign
language. That seems like someone tried to do AFF and then auto corrected it
and then it just stuck. Yeah. Yeah, it's just totally weird,
So people. Another thing that we've talked about over the past well up over
the past week really because we had like a major hoe that we uh talked
about on our show well early this morning actually was a body count. Body
count is a thing, and that's I think everybody knows what body count is.
I mean, it's just the number of people that you've had relations of
an intimate nature with, Right, that's right, how many people you boint?
So we all know, we all know what that is. And then
a clap back, and then you are the you're the queen of clapbacks.
I do know what that is too, I am, because I'm the queen.
Yeah, because I mean I feel like it's kind of like our what's
our the thing that we have on our site where it's like the Twitter you
all over Twitter with clock. I feel I feel like Macs mac is she
kind of did the clapback before it was called a clapback. Okay, I
don't mind being a clap back queen. I don't mind that. Call it
the Wall of Shame, and we just we just did it and we didn't
call it a clapback, so they've just put a name with it. And
then there's certain you know, there are certain things that like glow up.
I understand what globe is. We've talked about that, and go We've been
using the phrase goat for a really long time. But but there was this
one that I didn't even I didn't know, and like Jen Alpha is using
it and this is a weird phenomenon, and I totally blame the Kardashians and
that's yat. That's the one I asked my son about this morning and he
was mortified. Was he like totally embarrassed? Yeah. I was like,
what's yeat? And he was like, please don't ask me that? And
I was like why. And I had the two definitions in front of me,
and I knew that one of them stood for get your act together and
the other one was like something about like big asses girl, your asses thing,
girl, your asses thing, and so he probably was thinking it was
the latter, and that's why he didn't want to have a conversation with me.
So I was like, which one, which one of these acronyms does
it mean to you? And he was like, it's the one about the
asses. Can you please just go to Urban Dictionary now and never talk to
me again. It was kind of that one. I don't know how I
feel about my mom to ask me that. I know it's like your mom
asking about girls butts. But see, that's the thing because it used to
be gen xers and boomers. It used to be that we didn't want to
have these enormous butts, but now it's like the popular thing now is to
have these big, juicy butts, and I totally blame the cardass. You
go, there's like two types of butts. What what are the two types
of butts? Oh, like a why kind of like a tractor trailer when
it goes like this, which usually just means like you're more born like that,
or you got like a bbl or you can have a shelf ask.
So that usually means you work out because of steady going side it goes to
the bat okay, I see, So it's not wide. It's not wide,
it's just like it sticks out more from the side when you have a
profile and then it sticks out. You can get plants in that, like
you can shove something on it. Remember like Kim Kardashian had that champagne.
Remember, yes, so she's wide and she could put a plant. You
got to pay extra for that. Yeah, she has definitely paid a lot
of money for her ass. So it's thick. So thick now is used
as a complix, like if you say that girl is thick, and it's
like two seas right, Like it's two seas you spell it with and that's
a good thing. Like and now girls apparently want to be thick. Boys
want girls to be thick. It's a good thing. There was like a
viral video that went out when I was at high school and it was a
guy in court and he said, girl, you thicker than a bowl oatmeal.
And that was like a good thing. Oh my god, I love
that so much. That is the greatest. And then if sometimes like if
their butt is so big, they can be shook, you can be shook?
Are you still using that? Is that still a word that people use?
Yeah? Are you shook? As in like maybe if someone's butt was
like really book shook to me is like shocked, like that had a shit.
Yeah, that's exactly right. That has shook it, Okay, shook
it is another like conjugation of that. Do people still say fleek? Is
that a thing still? Or no? Oh my god no, because Jackson
told me it was absolutely not. No one says that anymore. No.
That would definitely feel kind of weird if someone texts me you look on fleek
right, and you're like, what really? So is that funny that you?
Like? You know? Now you get shamed if you use some of
the old words, the words from the golden times, the days of your
I'm trying to think of one that we have. What does brick mean to
you? What is what brick? Do you say brick? Brick is something
that I used to build a house. I mean, it's like, I
don't know what is that? To me? Brick means like a long period
of time. So if I haven't seen someone since college, you be like,
I haven't seen even a breat But a lot of people from different places,
like my boyfriend Bark he's from he thinks it means like cold. They
He'll be like, it's brick outside. I've never heard either of them.
What okay, I've never heard that. Oh my, I've never heard that.
What about What about busting' have? Do you used the word busting or
busting like it's good? But that was busting, that was gas, So
that was busted and it was like really good gas gas? You say gas
or busting? Is it good? Is it like if it's is it a
certain kind of thing that you use to describe goodness? Like is it food
or music or like clothing or can it just be widely applied to anything that
widely applied? But I feel like a lot of times people would be like,
oh, like my friend be like I got this for launcher, Like
I sound's gas. That's busting. Yeah, that's busting. I've never like
I would sound so stupid if I said that. I'd be like, Wow,
that's salad looks busting, you know what I mean. You can't say
like you can't. I can't. It doesn't. It just doesn't work with
me, you know what I mean. I'd be like, can't that midlife
woman friendly salad looks very busting. You're not allowed to ever say that again,
please, Now, what about debt? Everybody says dead and they say
they use the skull emoji all the time, Like the skull emoji is almost
over you, and like I feel like I use more emojis than my daughter
and I don't know, but you use the crying laughing one, which I
do too, and you're I mean that shows our age time, right,
you're not and like laughter. They don't use the laughter emojis, like they'll
use the I'm dead dead emo. No you're not, you're just laughing.
You're like, you're not dead? What is that? Like it's a skull
and that's just that's supposed to somehow depict that they're dying, Like if it's
a good one. I feel like, out of all of them, that
one kind of makes sense. Like when you're roll rolling around, you're like
dead, I'm dying, or like I'll come. People say like if I
say something really funny, they'll be like that set me six feet onder.
I like that. I actually like that. Okay, that's kind of fine,
but bad for the emojis that are getting amused. We're using them enough
for the world you and I both just the two of us together, because
there's like listen, there's the laugh of it. There's the plain laugh emoji,
then there's the sideways laugh emoji where it's like you know what I'm talking.
Yes, It's like I feel like they're way under you. But you
guys, there is a U I Just Sun article that says Jen Alpha says,
if you use these slang words, you are officially old. So okay,
slay slay is out. No more slang. I feel like, slays
out unless you're gay. I feel like gay people can still use sligh.
Oh my god, okay, so gay pe gay I would be saying,
but like, if like one of my straight friends said, I'd be like,
like if my gay guy friend said, I'd be like, like,
slay all day, bitch, lay all day. Okay. And here's another
one that I asked Jackson about this morning. I was like, do you
guys still say bet, like, you know, to kind of put the
okay or agree? You know, like, if if I wanted Jackson,
if I wanted him to do something, I would be like, can you,
you know, throw a load of laundry in? He'd be like bet,
and that would mean like okay, or I am an affirmative, like
affirmation of what you just said. Why couldn't he just why couldn't he just
say okay, don't be silly, don't be silly. Okay, I'm sorry,
I'm being ridiculous. I'm sorry, go ahead. But but he told
me this morning that they're it's becoming used less and less and that if they
use it they say bet that And I'm just that's easier to say, way
easier, that is me, because I still use that one every day.
Do you don't real? But I tech like, if my friend will be
like, I'm coming over to pick up something up for I'll just say bet.
If I say okay, it sounds kind of like sassy, Like if
someone text me back and says okay, I'm like, we have an issue.
Oh my god, that's so bad. Is so funny, Oh my
god. Okay. We say okay all the time. So you're probably like
gen X just has a major attitude. Well, there was was a TikTok
of a guy. Didn't we play it the guy that gets all no?
I may not have played that in our in our other show of a guy
that was like, if you are a person who has anxiety that and always
thinks everyone is mad at you, do not ever, like, if you
know a person like that, do not ever text them the letter k no
and don't. And that's like the worst thing that you could text somebody that
is like, we do it all anxious. You can't do that. We
do it all that. I do it all the time. That's like,
you can't. That is my that's my stock response to so many people.
I mean, I'm just like okay, oh no. See they will all
think you're mad at them and then even probably have done it to Valan.
You guys don't do it to me. That Sometimes in like a group message,
when you guys are going back and forth with each other, you'll say
it and I can't feel if you guys are getting catty or not. Oh
my god, I love this. I love every bit of this. Carry
that's just like an easy thing to type. It's just okay, let me
this us. That's just I think that's it. It is. So that
is a generational thing. That is just a different that is a difference between
the generation. Wow. But it got even worse because this guy who was
like the super anxious always thinks everybody is mad at him kind of guy was
like, it's marginally better if you put okay like those two letters. It's
better still if you say okay a why and then an emoji, and then
he feels like, okay, they're not mad at me, Like it's absolutely
out of control. How guy needs some major therapy, right, He needs
to talk to somebody that's going to tell him that it's okay, smiley face
heart. It's definitely generational thing because my mom thought at first, like in
high school, if you do like haha, my mom thought that was like
rude, So rude? Are you like laughing at me? And I was
like no, it's like I was laughing at something. He said, I
don't want to get in trouble it's not like that. Oh my god,
So you should have used that. You should have is the crying laughing emoji,
and you would have been fine because she would have been like, she's
totally cracking up. But what I said exactly? So what so mak you
said you said cap, no cap or cap? What is no cat?
With that? No cap means no lie? Like that is for real true?
Is that? Okay? Should she be saying that? Found? I
use it? Yes, okay, you still use you stay cap and no
cap? Okay, okay, all right? What about the peer the period
for no cap? You know people do to you can really literally right no
and then put the hat emoji. I think that's a little outdated, but
people still do that. Wait say that again, emoji. That's a ball
cap to just shorten it, so you're gonna have to type out cap no
cap. Yeah, so that is just that's so. Uh. Text is
like a third language. Well, why so, can you explain why people
put a T the letter T at the end of period? What is that
do you do that? I don't know, like people do talking about valan,
but you don't put a T at the end of that word, okay,
because that's a thing. Apparently that's a thing that people do. I
don't know why son't listen the word. I see it a lot of this
word, and that's simp. I see simp everywhere now. Yeah, my
kid uses that all the time. Simple. So that's somebody who's like overly
like affectionate. That's like somebody who's being overly affectionate in a relations to somebody
who's sort of being like a like a dor. Yeah. Yeah, it's
more like you're yeah, you're fawning if you're fawning, okay. And then
this is a new word that like is you see it all the time now,
and I don't even care what generation you are. I see it across
generation. I see it everywhere too. And so it's the opposite. It's
the opposite of woke, isn't it kind of? I mean, it's it's
that, And it's like, there's this there's the implication when you see somebody
tweet something and somebody else says based and it's just a one word sentence,
there's that connotation of anti wokeness, but also they're complimenting that person for just
saying what they believe without shame and without fear of reprisal. Right, it's
based because they don't give a shit if their opinion offends anyone, they're gonna
say it anyway. It's all about being they don't care about being canceled.
Yeah, that's a good way to describe it. Yeah, okay, So
and that's used in your generation too. It's like across the board. Okay,
all right, Okay, my friends that don't know anything about politics,
I don't think they would use that word. Oh it's a political word only,
ptical word only. But I would say they use it less. Okay,
that's interesting. They give they're a different different industries. And now my
daughter is a gen alf she's a Yeah, she's a gen Alpha so and
I know that she has maybe not used it herself, but I've heard her
saying with friends, like other friends have said, yeat, yeah throw forcefully.
I know that one is that? What that is that? How do
you know that? I know that? I know so many of the words.
It's just that I don't use them because I know it will embarrass my
kid. Well, i'd be embarrassed for you if you use the word yeat.
I just can't something across the room, like something that's a really great
word. It just makes it so easy, like if you yeat a pencil
or a pan or something, you yeat something across. That's a great word.
I love that word. And then and there's an actually, like there
are tenses of this word, so past tense of yeat is yoat. No,
that's what I'm reading, it's yeated. I don't know. I don't
know about that. Ye I don't think you yeatd it. And then yoke
would not walk around? What did you say? Yo yot yoat? I
have yoat as being past tense. I don't know. It could be wrong,
that's what I'm seeing. That sounds wrong. That's I think it's okay,
all right, well we're just going to rewrite the definition. What about
what about zesty? It's gay? It's that's gay gay. That's just what's
fembly flamboyantly gay? Oh give me and my boyfriend are taking a photo together
and he like popped this hat out. I'd be like, stop, you
look sesty? You think, yeah, yes, oh my god, yes,
okay, I want to use that. Can I use that? Am
I allowed? I think we both should be able to use that one because
I like that. That's a fun one, do you guys know what out
of pocket means? No, out of what's out of pocket? It means,
because what do you guys think it means to you? Out of pocket
take us and our corporate world meant we're going to be out of the office
or unavailable to be reached for a while. Now, I'll be out of
pocket from two to four out of pocket, right we used to say that.
Yeah, But I mean, like for you, I think if I
were to guess what you guys are using as it'd be like out of pocket
is out of hand, like something I'm doing something that's different out of hand.
You know, there you go. It's kind of like I think you
guys are out of pocket sometimes, but in like a funny way. I
don't know what that means. You say something that everyone's thinking about, like
no one else says allowed. If you guys said something like that was out
of pocket, it's out of pocket. So it's crazy. It's a crazy
roommate from New York. My collagy made was from New York, and the
things she would say would be so out of pocket. I don't I still
don't get it, Like I don't understand what that means. Exactly. It's
kind of crazy, kind of out it's kind of out there. It's not
it's it. It bucks the norms. Okay, is that kind of what
I'm hearing. It's like out of the ordinary, out of it's it's not
it's not what you hear people say normally. Is that what I'm usually it's
very offensive something that like a lot of people were thinking. So you guys
say on like your Daily show about like people being overweight. That might have
been out of pocket, but like it was funny, but we said it.
Okay, I think that normally would be held back. But it's like
the person's just saying it, like just putting it out there, like out
of the pocket. It's no longer hidden. Okay, okay, all right.
The one I love that I know you guys use all the time is
it's giving, like it's giving whatever or whatever, giving something. Yeah,
I love that one. I like it. I wouldn't say the generation like
right below me because like me and my friends just started using that. We
feel like we're using a younger people's arm. So it's kind of weird,
but like we like it, Like it's like giving, Yeah, it's it's
giving. It's just what it's giving, right, kid, if somebody has
like if somebody has one of those like feline faces or whatever, you'll be
like, it's giving kin kardash. Yeah, look at you, right,
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Okay with this chick? Okay? So there is a differ between gen
Z and gen Alpha. I mean kind of like Vala was saying, there's
a little bit of different. It's like, okay, so Gen Alpha they
were I think the cutoff is twenty ten. I think they're born in twenty
ten. I think that's around the time they yeah, because my daughter is
a twenty ten baby, and so she's considered Gen Alpha. And this is
the age group where I think, you know, twenty ten, the Instagram
was born and the iPad was launched, and like, these kids are very
tech savvy. They don't know anything except for tech. I mean, I
think like even balanced generation, they can talk to humans and still you know,
be human, whereas the Gen alphas are like they unless you force them
to not be they're in their screens. You know, they're very screen oriented
and very ipyer oriented and tech oriented. Their iPad. They were raised with
iPads, they were raised with phones, and so they don't know any different,
and they're very savvy when it comes to technology, and so they talk
that way too. And this mom is a she's a millennial, which you
know, we're not millennials, you know, obviously, And I'm raising in
alpha. I'm a Gen xer raising an Alpha. This is a millennial who's
raising an Alpha, and so I think the parenting is a little bit different
from a Gen exer as opposed to a millennial. But obviously because I'm not
I'm not anything like this chick in this video, but she's in car line
and so she does a little video during car line and she does like the
trends, so what you wear or of what of what they wear, what
they do she does. She has a series, like she has a whole
TikTok account and like she'll do daily trend alerts of what gen alphas are doing
in school, whether it comes, whether whether it's about what they're wearing,
what they're doing, how they're talking, that sort of thing. Anyways,
this is a millennial mom talking about gen alphas are report live update. My
daughter is middle school. Pickup line, Do not even think about wearing pants
that even hint at being tight. Don't even try it. A straight leg
gene is like barely making the mark. Like if you do anything, if
you listen to anything, that's the takeaway. Starface pimple patches are social currency.
They are also a replacement for like money, I've been told, so
you can like trade them for other things. But they're absolutely accessory, not
just a necessity. But they're both early two thousands haircuts on the boys.
My daughter calls them chad cuts. I don't know if that's colloquial to like
southern California in LA or if that's universal. But they're around the flippy the
long. They're back hoodies, puddies, puddies. There is Nara Cardigan in
sight. There are barely jackets. It's all about hoodies. I'll report back
next week. Okay. So she has like a whole series of these for
the fry. I can't get. It's hard for listen to that, I
know, right, And she wears a lot of stuff too. Like I
saw in one of her videos, she has one of those pimple patches on
her face. So kids are school. I guess my daughter is an eighth
grader and she's never worn a pimple patch to school. So maybe it's a
California thing and not a Texas thing. They are the kids are not wearing
pimple patches to schools, at least at her time. Social suicide when I
grew up, right, right, And that's the thing. Times have changed,
can you? And now I look at her and I think cut.
I cannot imagine my mother doing a trend report from the car line like my
mom a boomer. Can you imagine your mother, Sophie, Oh my god,
it absolutely not a trend report. Can you imagine na skinny jeans now?
Skinny jeans and like hoodies. Headay's headays, can you can you imagine
our boomer mom's doing this shit? I mean, I'm just like, I'm
watching this and I'm thinking times have changed to the point where it's it's the
moms are sort of they kind of emulate their kids now, whereas I don't
know, I just think it's it's just different. Everything is so different now,
whereas our generation and the generation before us, it's like we're moms,
you know, like we I don't know, it's a different kind of mommy
than this mommy. Welles the ever show her kid or that kid or her
kid's reaction. Oh okay, so what does her kid think about the videos?
I don't know about the reaction to the videos. I don't know what
her kid thinks of the videos. But you know, she she's got a
very like we're bff sort of relationship with her kids. You know, she's
got two little girls and so and I don't know about a father. I
don't know if there's a father around it all. But but it's it's,
you know, she's wearing the things and doing the things, and she's kind
of hiplic It's just different. Than it was with our when we when we
grew up, our moms were you know, they all look like b Arthur
in Golden Girls. You know what I mean. That's like all the moms
look like moms, and now the moms are like kids. Yeah, you
see what I'm saying. Maybe it's just it's such a generational thing. They're
all they all look younger, and maybe it's because we're older, but I
honestly think that it's a generational shift. And so they're they're parenting in a
way where it's like, I want to know what the trends are, and
it's it's it's very much of that. Uh. It's kind of like the
scene in Mean Girls where Amy Poehler is uh is the mom. She's like,
I'm the cool mom. You know, you can do anything. I'm
just the cool mom. And so there's a lot of those cool moms out
there doing the TikTok videos and and wearing the things that their daughters wear and
just there. It's a and it's generation probably a lot of pressure on moms
now too to know the trends, because at a younger age, if you
don't know the trends, you become like an outcast. I've seen those viral
videos where it's like I'm a producer, of course I'm a I saw one
and it was a little with little girls. Right, I'm Jen Alpha,
of course I care about skinningcare. I'm Jen Alpha. Of course I shop
this for God. And they were like, I did not know about Sephora
and yeah, senior high school. Oh and this is the thing. There's
and there have been a lot of videos on Jen Alpha and how these young
girls are shopping at Sephora and shopping at Alta and doing all the skincare.
And like when you see their videos of these little girls and they're all doing
their skincare when because you know how nowadays when people do videos, they're either
putting on makeup or they're taking off makeup, or they're eating something. Yeah,
it's get ready with me. This is where like watch me have lunch,
right, And so these little girls are putting. They're either putting they're
doing skincare. And a lot of their skincare is like this ridiculously expensive skincare
and they're little, but somebody had to buy it, yeah, right,
you know, it's not like they're out working, so somebody bought that somebody
took somebody drove them to Sephora and took them there, and that is there.
They're saying like that is their Disneyland. Now, it's such a tough
battle. One of my friends, her sister's a young mom, and she
tried not to give her son like a cell phone. It just becomes he
got like bullied. He couldn't talk to anyone, and it was like fifth
grade. She was trying to do the right thing, Like what do you
do? Yeah, yeah, it's like that with social valin like, because
I mean, Miriam and I have talked about this a lot, and we've
talked about it a lot in podcasts too. With social there are a lot
of conservatives that'll say, don't give your kids social media. You shouldn't have
social media, they can't have it until they're eighteen. There are a lot
of you know, really high profile conservative pundits that will say that. But
at the same time, there's also at least part of me, I believe
like at some point they're going to have it. So to me, it's
like having a gun, like you got to train them on how to use
the gun properly or else they're just going to have a gun in their hand
one day, and they're not going to know how to use it. So
I let my daughter have one social media platform and I just stalk her on
it and we basically manage it together, and that way she learns how to
do it. So by the time she is a teenager or she's out of
my house, she'll have the foundation on how to use it. And I
feel like you kind of did the same thing with your son. Yeah,
for sure. Now and you just stalk them, Yeah, you just stalk.
You have to stalk them? Can Can I ask Vallan about one more
term before we before we what's the what's the term for bug? Like?
Do you still say bug out? Or do you say before we bounce?
Or what's the bound? Yeah? Do you say how do you say get
out? Is it bounce? Before we say let's dip? I've never heard
that. Okay, well, before we dip? Before we dip, do
you say, do you refer to people who you look down on a little
bit or you think are kind of dumb? Do you refer to them as
NPCs? No? Oh my god, what is that? No, aged,
that's my kid uses that? So n PC the actual like what it
stands for is non playable character. So you guys have seen those weird tiktoks
and and and reels and stuff of people that just pretend that they're kind of
robots and they're like and then and then yeah you've seen them so and then
they get so much money for being like an NPC video. Yes, yes,
thank you for the rose. Yes, those are NPCs. Okay,
that's what they are. Oh my god, but my son said, now
they call just people that they know. If they look down at that person,
if they think that person is just like an it's a derogatory. It's
derogatory. They'll be like that dude's such an NPC. They'll they'll say that
about my gosh, so you don't use that. I like it, and
I know people who are NPCs. Yeah, this is the thing because it's
like such a tech has it's it is just like infiltrated their culture. You
know, think about all the words and the phrases that they use where tech
is such a huge part of it. That's crazy. Yeah, it's did
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not a thing She's We were like, hey, you're gonna do she why
didn't we tell you, Boomer, you're not to do that? Yeah,
But but she just like jumped right in, you know, because she's always
willing to help and she's awesome and we love her. So you guys,
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