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All right, well guys, we're
going to New Britain. What do they

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call it? Hard hitting New Britain. Yeah, Adam's on the line.

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Adam wants to make a love connection. Went on a first day with a

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girl named Sabrina. He's getting ghosted
and we're going to find out why.

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Good morning, Adam, Hi,
good morning. Hey. I hope we

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can get some info for you and
find out why you're getting ghosted. Tell

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me about this great first day.
What'd you do, where'd you go?

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How was it? Okay? So, I mean, honestly, I feel

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like this is going to be a
pretty boring story. I know that people

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always say nothing crazy happened, but
I promise you nothing crazy happened. I

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just went out on a date.
Honestly. We just went out for a

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nice dinner and I felt like the
conversation was great, and so afterwards I

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was like, hey, do you
want to go for a walk and we'll

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just, you know, maybe continue
this and she said yes. So we

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went just for like a nice long
walk. Yeah, So definite connection there.

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Reached out to her, I was
like, hey, okay, you

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know, let's do this again,
and totally ghosted And so it's just super

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confusing to me because like I felt
like it went well, and she obviously

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wanted to see more of me,
like to go on this walk. So

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I don't know. Yeah, see, sadly, that's your problem. You

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went for a walk. A lot
of these ladies, a lot of these

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ladies on first dates, they wear
like heels or uncomfortable shoes, and the

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last thing they want to do is
go for a walk. Actually, what

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you're gonna agree with them? I'm
going to say no. I think that's

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if I think if she's a grown
woman and she doesn't want to go for

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a walk, she would say,
I don't know how far I can walk.

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My shoes kind of hurt. I
like the idea of having a nice

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meal, a martini, great conversation
than going for a walk. I love

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it. Adam. All right,
well then you want to go out on

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a date. Yes, possibility.
Anyway, Adam, this is what we're

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gonna do. I'm going to put
you on hold. We're gonna call Sabrina

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and we're going to find out why
she hasn't responded and you've reached out to

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her, right, yeah, definitely, all right, hold on, you're

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gonna be listening in Adam at any
time. If you want to talk to

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Sabrina, you can. We'll pull
you into the conversation. Okay, okay,

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see, I can't believe you don't
like that, Savana. I feel

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like taking a walk after dinner and
looking at the Christmas lights and I think

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it's nice. No, I love
that. But if I don't have a

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heads up and my outfit's not warm
and my shoes aren't comfy, true night

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mare. Let me put my slippers
on in my onesie. Well you wear

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dress and sneakers. Hello. Hello, is Sabrina there? Uh yes,

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this is Sabrina. Hey, Sabrina, it's Courtney. Hey, it's Walmart

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Jeff. Hey, it's Savannah and
we're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.

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I gotta let you know you're on
the radio this morning. Oh okay,

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all right, Well I'll tell you
why. I know. It's kind

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of shocking you wake up early and
you're like, ooh, I'm on the

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radio. I'm on the radio.
You're on something we do call second Date

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Update. If somebody goes on a
great first date, they really want to

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see that person again, but they're
getting ghosted. They want to know why

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they call us and I will let
you know. Adam called us, sounds

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like a great guy, says,
you guys went to dinner, had a

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connection, great conversation. It was
such a good date that you guys agreed

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to go for a walk after dinner, and you're ghosting him, So we

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need to know the scoop, Sabrina. To be honest, it was kind

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of an exhausting date. At dinner, all he did was talk about himself,

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like he barely came up for a
barely. Okay, all right,

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so at dinner he talks about himself
the entire time, doesn't really engage or

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ask you about you. But how
was he on the walk you went for

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a walk? Well, honestly,
I was kind of hoping that after the

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dinner, you know, when he
suggested the walk, I was like,

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okay, great, maybe this is
the chance that he'll start asking me questions

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about myself my family. No,
he literally kept talking about his family,

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his exes, his work, his
like literally he would not stop talking.

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And I'm just not interested in being
in someone that's that self absorbed. Yeah,

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so that's why I ghosted him.
Okay, I feel your pain.

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I that is my number one pet
peeve. When a guy doesn't come up

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for air, and he just talks
about himself incessantly. I do have to

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let you know he's on the line
and he's listening in. So Adam,

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do you hear why you're getting ghosted? Like you're here? I'm just I'm

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you're you? You know, I
thought we were sharing about each other.

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You know, I'm sorry. I'm
sorry that I wanted to tell you about

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my life. I wanted to tell
you that I came up from nothing,

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you know. I mean, I
started as an eagle scout, and I

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like when my my parents and I
were growing up in New Haven, it

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was super difficult and so okay,
I was a boy. I did very

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well for myself. I was not
popular in high school, all right,

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I have a busy life. I
was telling you about investments I made.

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Okay, I've done well for myself. I was telling you about all those

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great things, but you didn't come
up like you were interested. But I

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guess, I guess that's not the
case. I guess you don't want to

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be with someone who has all these
great, interesting stories and who can talk

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for a long time and just enjoys
telling you about himself and enjoys telling you

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about how one time I saw Lance
Bass talking about oh my, he just

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threw Lance pass in there out of
it all of a sudden, All of

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a sudden, Adam was hanging out
with Lance Bass. I just got confused,

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dude, Like when do you breathe
every second of every day? I

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don't know what to tell you.
You were asking me questions, and so

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I was answering them, like I
was telling you about these great stories.

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I was telling you about when I
would see Obviously i'd told you with Lance

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baths. I think that's a pretty
cool story. Okay, he said hi

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to me, he didn't say hi
to you. So I'm just wondering.

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If that's the case, then why
do you even want to go on a

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date with someone If you're not trying
to get to know them. You're not

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trying to get to know like,
oh, what's the central and like the

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played sports? They were like excelling. I'm telling you, Adam, I

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see where she's coming from that you
didn't even ask her one question about herself?

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Does he know you're doing? Like
I said, how's it going?

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What do you want? You want
to go for a walk? My fault.

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Your answers were short and my answers
were long and informative, and I

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was telling you about myself, and
I was telling you, Okay, here

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where, here's my backstory, here's
my background. Here's how you can get

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to know me, all the great
things that I've done. I want to

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put him on hold, Sabrina.
Are you still there, Yes, I'm

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here. Okay, Adams still talking. We politely put him on hold,

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but he didn't hear me when I
said we're putting them holes. He's still

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talking about himself. So I'm going
to offer it to you and then I'll

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pick it up and talk to him. And I bet he's still talking to

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himself. But anyway, Sabrina.
At the end of a second date update,

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we always offer a second date.
If you want to try it,

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I'll pay for it. I will
pick up the tab. Is there anything

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you're interested in? Absolutely not.
That is a clear answer. Well,

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Sabrina, Thank you so much for
being so open and honest on second date

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update. Thank you, thank you
very much,