All right, well guys, we're going to New Britain. What do they
call it? Hard hitting New Britain. Yeah, Adam's on the line.
Adam wants to make a love connection. Went on a first day with a
girl named Sabrina. He's getting ghosted and we're going to find out why.
Good morning, Adam, Hi, good morning. Hey. I hope we
can get some info for you and find out why you're getting ghosted. Tell
me about this great first day. What'd you do, where'd you go?
How was it? Okay? So, I mean, honestly, I feel
like this is going to be a pretty boring story. I know that people
always say nothing crazy happened, but I promise you nothing crazy happened. I
just went out on a date. Honestly. We just went out for a
nice dinner and I felt like the conversation was great, and so afterwards I
was like, hey, do you want to go for a walk and we'll
just, you know, maybe continue this and she said yes. So we
went just for like a nice long walk. Yeah, So definite connection there.
Reached out to her, I was like, hey, okay, you
know, let's do this again, and totally ghosted And so it's just super
confusing to me because like I felt like it went well, and she obviously
wanted to see more of me, like to go on this walk. So
I don't know. Yeah, see, sadly, that's your problem. You
went for a walk. A lot of these ladies, a lot of these
ladies on first dates, they wear like heels or uncomfortable shoes, and the
last thing they want to do is go for a walk. Actually, what
you're gonna agree with them? I'm going to say no. I think that's
if I think if she's a grown woman and she doesn't want to go for
a walk, she would say, I don't know how far I can walk.
My shoes kind of hurt. I like the idea of having a nice
meal, a martini, great conversation than going for a walk. I love
it. Adam. All right, well then you want to go out on
a date. Yes, possibility. Anyway, Adam, this is what we're
gonna do. I'm going to put you on hold. We're gonna call Sabrina
and we're going to find out why she hasn't responded and you've reached out to
her, right, yeah, definitely, all right, hold on, you're
gonna be listening in Adam at any time. If you want to talk to
Sabrina, you can. We'll pull you into the conversation. Okay, okay,
see, I can't believe you don't like that, Savana. I feel
like taking a walk after dinner and looking at the Christmas lights and I think
it's nice. No, I love that. But if I don't have a
heads up and my outfit's not warm and my shoes aren't comfy, true night
mare. Let me put my slippers on in my onesie. Well you wear
dress and sneakers. Hello. Hello, is Sabrina there? Uh yes,
this is Sabrina. Hey, Sabrina, it's Courtney. Hey, it's Walmart
Jeff. Hey, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.
I gotta let you know you're on the radio this morning. Oh okay,
all right, Well I'll tell you why. I know. It's kind
of shocking you wake up early and you're like, ooh, I'm on the
radio. I'm on the radio. You're on something we do call second Date
Update. If somebody goes on a great first date, they really want to
see that person again, but they're getting ghosted. They want to know why
they call us and I will let you know. Adam called us, sounds
like a great guy, says, you guys went to dinner, had a
connection, great conversation. It was such a good date that you guys agreed
to go for a walk after dinner, and you're ghosting him, So we
need to know the scoop, Sabrina. To be honest, it was kind
of an exhausting date. At dinner, all he did was talk about himself,
like he barely came up for a barely. Okay, all right,
so at dinner he talks about himself the entire time, doesn't really engage or
ask you about you. But how was he on the walk you went for
a walk? Well, honestly, I was kind of hoping that after the
dinner, you know, when he suggested the walk, I was like,
okay, great, maybe this is the chance that he'll start asking me questions
about myself my family. No, he literally kept talking about his family,
his exes, his work, his like literally he would not stop talking.
And I'm just not interested in being in someone that's that self absorbed. Yeah,
so that's why I ghosted him. Okay, I feel your pain.
I that is my number one pet peeve. When a guy doesn't come up
for air, and he just talks about himself incessantly. I do have to
let you know he's on the line and he's listening in. So Adam,
do you hear why you're getting ghosted? Like you're here? I'm just I'm
you're you? You know, I thought we were sharing about each other.
You know, I'm sorry. I'm sorry that I wanted to tell you about
my life. I wanted to tell you that I came up from nothing,
you know. I mean, I started as an eagle scout, and I
like when my my parents and I were growing up in New Haven, it
was super difficult and so okay, I was a boy. I did very
well for myself. I was not popular in high school, all right,
I have a busy life. I was telling you about investments I made.
Okay, I've done well for myself. I was telling you about all those
great things, but you didn't come up like you were interested. But I
guess, I guess that's not the case. I guess you don't want to
be with someone who has all these great, interesting stories and who can talk
for a long time and just enjoys telling you about himself and enjoys telling you
about how one time I saw Lance Bass talking about oh my, he just
threw Lance pass in there out of it all of a sudden, All of
a sudden, Adam was hanging out with Lance Bass. I just got confused,
dude, Like when do you breathe every second of every day? I
don't know what to tell you. You were asking me questions, and so
I was answering them, like I was telling you about these great stories.
I was telling you about when I would see Obviously i'd told you with Lance
baths. I think that's a pretty cool story. Okay, he said hi
to me, he didn't say hi to you. So I'm just wondering.
If that's the case, then why do you even want to go on a
date with someone If you're not trying to get to know them. You're not
trying to get to know like, oh, what's the central and like the
played sports? They were like excelling. I'm telling you, Adam, I
see where she's coming from that you didn't even ask her one question about herself?
Does he know you're doing? Like I said, how's it going?
What do you want? You want to go for a walk? My fault.
Your answers were short and my answers were long and informative, and I
was telling you about myself, and I was telling you, Okay, here
where, here's my backstory, here's my background. Here's how you can get
to know me, all the great things that I've done. I want to
put him on hold, Sabrina. Are you still there, Yes, I'm
here. Okay, Adams still talking. We politely put him on hold,
but he didn't hear me when I said we're putting them holes. He's still
talking about himself. So I'm going to offer it to you and then I'll
pick it up and talk to him. And I bet he's still talking to
himself. But anyway, Sabrina. At the end of a second date update,
we always offer a second date. If you want to try it,
I'll pay for it. I will pick up the tab. Is there anything
you're interested in? Absolutely not. That is a clear answer. Well,
Sabrina, Thank you so much for being so open and honest on second date
update. Thank you, thank you very much,