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Podcast. Well, hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on,

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Thanks for telling a friend. That's
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ship, and thanks for supporting those
that support us. Whoo, Dougie,

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fresh in the house. In the
house, baby tuk you fresh in the

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house. Did you ever play?
Uh? I played it all pick up

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basketball at all? Man, I'm
looking to hit her height. I'm thinking

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no, he said, I played
it all. I don't know. I

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used to play basketball all the time. You played basketball all the time,

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Yes, okay outside in the summer, okay on the winter. I mean

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so, I've heard legend of pick
up basketball games four years. For years,

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I had a buddy who was like
six seven, and he played at

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the y and he would be some
days he'd leave there. He'd be so

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pissed off after these games because there
was a guy that would yell his own

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stats as he went up and down
the court six points, three blucks to

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assists that would get annoying, and
some of these games get like really really

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intense. So this weekend my entire
not my entire family, I shouldn't say

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that. My mom and my dad, who have been separated or divorced after

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thirty five years thirty six years of
marriage. They were in town because it

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was my son, my middle son's
college graduation. Yes I heard. I

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listened to some of that, and
the weekend was fantastic. I really could

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not have had stuff for that half
hour when a final when I when I

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went, oh at the restaurant,
I was so pissed that you were.

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I was annoyed. I feel it. I was annoyed. Let me tell

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you believe this. Let me tell
you what Doug. Doug's referring to you.

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If you didn't catch it, was
that Sunday I talked about that.

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Yeah, it must have been.
So we had a great dinner. I

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had it at Cobblestone on Maine,
which is a fantastic sponsor to the podcast.

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But but I've known the owner for
years, and I decided, uh,

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my my kids and their mom were
staying in Webster was going to be

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close to where they were staying.
I thought, all right, we'll do

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it here. There was arrangement.
How do I say this, Doug,

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You're taking me down the road.
I'm sorry, No, it's okay.

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It was originally going to be like
h Jordan's mom saying to me, Hey,

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how about we have it at my
friends? Uh, they can rent

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out like this pool room because she
lives in a condo and they have a

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beautiful pool room. And I'm like, this isn't a high school graduation.

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Does I have a sit down dinner? It's only going to be your parents,

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my parents. You know, he's
got about twelve people. I said,

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we'll do it that way. I
just thought it'd be easier and it

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would be uh, and we'll have
it at Cobblestone the Main because it's close

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to where you're staying, right,
I thought that would be great. And

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my dad has Parkinson's so it had
its own private entrance. They were fantastic.

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The food, they're honest to God, is perfect for something like this.

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So I can't find the the honoree
for a while, and everybody's kind

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of standing around and it's getting awkward
and uncomfortable and we are you doing a

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toast? You like, oh no, I wasn't even ready to do toast.

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But we haven't even an order,
but everybody's looking to see where they're

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going to sit because they want to
sit, Like my dad needs a chair

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to get in and out of right. So okay, so we got him,

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but the should be the head of
everybody. Can He's going to be

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at the head of the table,
but then who's going to sit near him?

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And the grandparents are kind of jockeying
for positioning and and I'm I'm I'm

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getting annoyed. And I go upstairs
and they're ordering guinness, and I'm and

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I just say, I'll get you
whatever you want. What are you doing?

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You're holding everything up? Oh what, I just graduated. I can't

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have a drink with my older brother. I go, you two fucking clowns

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are going out afterwards, Right,
you're going out. I'm celebrating all my

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life going to be doing this off. What do you mean you can't have

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it? You just graduated college?
What the fuck are you thinking? So

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I got families here exactly right.
So I said, come on down,

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and I said, I'll buy anything
you want. But since you're already buying

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it, you're paying for these.
I was like, you know this stupid

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ass, right, But anyway,
that annoyed me. But the pickup basketball

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I didn't realize. So my fourteen
year old son, UH has grown a

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little bit and lost weight since Easter, and he's playing basketball. He's played

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a lot of street ball, UH
never an organized thing. Tried to get

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his buddies and sort of get a
semi organized basketball going, and then tried

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out for the high school team because
he's going to be a freshman next year

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and was cut on alms like first
day. Kind of really crushed him.

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But he had never played organized basketball. It's way different than streetball. You

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knowunder stand what I'm saying, Like
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and stuff. So what I loved
was he didn't give up. He found

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an AAU team, tried out for
them, made the team. It's going

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to practices and is kind of improving
all the time. And when he was

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here over Easter, we had gone
to a gym and wound up in a

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pickup game at lunchtime. You played. I did not want to. I

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did? You did though I did
yea. And so it's mostly guys in

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their twenties, thirties, forties.
I'm fifty two, you dunking on him

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and calm fouls. I was not. I did not call any fouls.

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I had, I think a steal, a block shot, and I scored

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one basket. My kid scored like
six baskets, but my team won.

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So now he wants to go back
there. Well, I had I rained

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some stuff to free my schedule so
I could spend some time with him since

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he's in town. And last night, but we didn't get to the gym

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until almost thirty and there's some intense
full court basketball games going on, and

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some guys see me and go,
hey man, long time no see?

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Like they remember. I think it
was because I fell there in the game

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and they all were worried that I
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I go, I don't know why
you remember me. Maybe because I honestly,

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and I don't mean this any other
way. I was like the only

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white guy. Jamison and I were
the only white guys playing in this pickup

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basketball game, so I think they
sort of stood out and the guys were

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cool like, hey man, long
time no see. And I said,

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now and I here, he's gonna
he wants to play. So the games

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are going on, we wait about
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Finally, like when they're down on
one end of the court, he's out

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shooting and some other guys were doing
the same thing, and one guy goes

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all right to Jamison, he's fourteen, you you got next, meaning you'll

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play in the next game. Well, the hour and a half to playing

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no games ever materialized. They completely
dissolve after that guy start leaving. So

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now it's like it's like eight o'clock, right, So Jamison, another game

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develops, but they're gonna do half
court three on three and he's shooting on

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his own, just shooting around,
and I figure, well, this is

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the way it is. Is the
way it is, but I'm not going

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to force to get you in a
game. These guys, or a lot

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of some of them were you know, kids still playing in college. I

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think one was an MCC coach and
you know, some younger guys. He

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had the team set up, They
had the team set up. So he's

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shooting around and a short guy comes
in and I only know his height because

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he announces it. Short guy comes
in and he's uh. So he's says

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to Jamison, Hey man, I
want to get some cardio in you mind

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if I want to play one on
one. So Jameson's like sure, So

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the guys muscularly goes Jameson hesitates at
first, that's what I should say.

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He hesitates, he doesn't answer right
away, and the guy goes, I'm

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not that good. I'm only five
six okay. Now I'm just sitting off

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to the sidewatch. I'm just watching
this. Yeah, that was the guy.

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He uses his height as a disadvantage
in basketball. So they start playing

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one on one and the guy is
just shooting like it's kind of making take

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it and he's just shooting from outside
the three point line and Jamison can really

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stop it. And I think in
the first game they were playing to seven.

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I was half paying attention and I
think the first game was like seven

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to three. Guy goes running again, so Jamison says he's sure. So

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now the guy's not hitting the shots. They're clanking off the rim, Jamison's

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getting the rebounds. Jamison starts hitting
some shots. So Jamison hits a shot

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and and then the next one the
guy he so he hits it. He

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hits what looks like a three pointer. He was behind the three point line.

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Now they're counting like one point for
any basket two points behind the three

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point line. So the guy announces
the score as he gets the ball.

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He's gonna go and he goes this
end. Jameison goes, no, I'm

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up by one. I hit a
three pointer, and he goes night and

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he goes, yeah, I did
it over here. This guy takes the

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ball and he goes, no,
man, you were staying here. I'll

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give you three points all day.
You hit a three pointer, I'll give

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it to you all day, all
day, man, all day. Bro.

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And I'm watching this and I go
I'm not going to get involved because

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I'm never gonna get involved. I
always believe in the rules of the playground

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when it comes to like my kids
and stuff. You got to learn to

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play, you got to learn to
deal with different people. If things get

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too intense, I'll say, hey, hey, let's count in it.

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It right. So I'm watching this
kind of develop So Jamison finally goes all

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right, fine, the guy goes, no, I'll give you three.

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If you think he got three,
I'll give you three. So it's one

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of these guys like really intense and
I'm going this is now a one on

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one I watched I swear to God. The lower the skills, the higher

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the intensity, and the arguments and
pick up basketball. It's the only thing

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I learned from watching all this.
I go, holy shit. So the

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guy is going back and forth.
So I think he wins that game by

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a point or two over Jamison,
right, but he's not able to hit

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the outside shots anymore. He must
have gotten tired and he may have worked

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out beforehand. I don't know.
I'm not knocking it right. So the

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next game starts and it's getting a
little intense. The guy's trying to come

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now inside the paint. And my
fourteen year old son is six foot and

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one hundred and seventy five hundred and
eighty pounds, not super strong, you

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know. His coaches are telling me
he needs to build his upper body.

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He's fourteen, he's going through puberty. It's not fully developed yet, right.

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So he blocks a shot on the
guy, and then the next thing

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I see the guy like pulling at
his shirt and Jamison stops him one point.

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He goes, man, he can't
do that, and he goes,

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do what do what? Bro I'm
just playing defense. So I get up

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and I go to the bathroom and
I come back and my oldest son's there.

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My oldest son is like six'
eight and he's eyes are the size

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of saucers. When I walk back
in the gym, and he goes,

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you may want to end this,
and I go what. He goes,

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you may want to end this.
And I'm watching and the guy's getting pissed

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and he announces. He gets up
to the top of the key. He

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has the ball when I come back
in, so it's his ball, and

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he announces the score and Jamison goes, no, I'm up by a point,

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and he goes and you know that. And the guy's like, fine,

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fine, whatever. And so it's
like six to five. They're playing

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to seven. So he steps back
and he hits a shot. He just

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steps back and Jamison doesn't even go
in. He hits the shot and he

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goes, there's seven and he starts
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Doug, I've never seen it.
So I'm watching this and he goes,

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trash, I hate this, fucking
Jim trash. You're all trash.

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And Jamison says something to him,
but I can't hear what it is,

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and the guy yells something over his
shoulder and he just like takes both hands

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and slams open the door to the
gym as he's leaving, and Jamison says

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something, So I stepped. I'm
now standing up, I think, without

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even realizing it, I got up
because I'm watching this and I go so

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I open the door to the guy, go how old are you? Because

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he's yelling back of Jamison, and
he goes. He looks at me,

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he goes, what does that have
to anything to do? That has nothing

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to do with anything. He's talking
all kinds of shit. And I said,

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well, he's fourteen, and you're
right, I'll talk to him if

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he's talking shit. I couldn't hear
what was being said. This guy was

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loud. I'm not saying that my
kid was innocent. This was just an

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odd display. So you notice people
like that, Yes, they've got nothing

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else better in their life to bring
attention to him in a negative way.

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Well, I don't know the guy
was I do. The guy had like

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cool guy hair, so shoulder length, curly, all one length, like

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just just below his ears. And
he was muscular and as he said,

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I don't I wouldn't know five to
six. It wasn't overly muscular. He

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was just just starting through and he
had and he hadn't. He was hitting

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some good jump shots. Look,
he probably would have beat me. I

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didn't even care. I just was
like taking the whole fun out of it.

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I was caught off guard by all
this, and I just instinctively said,

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and I thought, I said it
kindly like, I said, hey,

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how old are you to just go? And he goes, what does

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that have to do with anything?
I said, well, he's fourteen.

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He goes, he's talking, because
he's talking all kinds of shit, is

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what he said. And I said, uh, he's fourteen, and I

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will talk to him about that.
And the guy yells back, get better.

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Get what do you say? Get
better? Little Oh yeah, get

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better, little boy, get better, little boy, screaming this over my

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shoulder. I hear, get taller, little boy. And the guy goes

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really loud, yeah, get better, little boy. He goes, I

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will. I hear this from behind
me. I will, But you'll never

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get taller, little boy. The
guy's fucking ahead practically explodes Doug. I

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thought that for sure the guy was
gonna come charging back in. He just

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stares, stops his foot and rushes
off into the locker room and I was

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like, holy fuck. I go, you're fourteen and you're talking shit.

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I think the guy was somewhere in
his twenties. I would say, somewhere

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between twenty four and twenty eight.
I don't know. I certainly wasn't trying

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to even defend my kid in no
way. The only thing I would have

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done is try to prevent any kind
of hands getting on anybody there. I'm

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gonna step in. But for whatever
reason, and I probably shouldn't even have

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done that. I did open the
door and go, hey, man,

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how old are you? And he
goes, what does that have to do

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with it? He's talking shit?
And I said, he's fourteen, and

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I will talk to him about that. And so Jamison said, I wasn't

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talking shit. He goes, the
guy was, and I had seen,

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but it was the strang. I
go, man, pick up basketball.

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Now, I see why guys get
in fights like all the time. I

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mean, this is where like,
I don't know, you're five foot six

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and you think you got the reach
of shack and the attitude of rotten right,

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I have no idea what happening in
the stands looking at you and they're

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gonna sign you to ring over your
keyboard Monday morning. But yeah, you

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know, and hey, look,
basketball is great exercise. It's it's good

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community stuff. I encourage anybody who
likes playing. But I go, God,

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don't take it so intently. I
mean, this guy was intense because

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at one point he even when when
Jamison was leading, he ran over and

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basically charged at him. So Jameson
backs up and sort of the ball is

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down front him. He just snatches
the ball away and it was. But

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at the same time, I go, you gotta learn to play with guys

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like this and learn how to get
better. You don't get better by playing

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down. You only get better by
playing up. And the guy was had

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a little more. He was more
seasoned than Jamison. I don't know if

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he was good or bad, but
he was more seasoned. But I guess

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he couldn't get a shot inside it. Jameson was just like crushing on the

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inside. Oh God. And then
I'm going, this is all I did.

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It's like my mother's day. Oh
yeah, let my fourteen year old

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come home with a black eye.
There you go. You never hear about

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that. Okay, this is what
we're gonna tell your mother. Okay,

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make your checklist. I opened the
door and I didn't see you. There.

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I go, this is this is
insanity. Insanity, doesn't I yelled,

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did a guy today? You did? I did? Why would you

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yell at the guy I was on
Hudson and Clifford. Yeah, Hudson and

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Clifford in the city of Rochester,
in the city. No, I'm just

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for people who don't may not.
No, not not the nicest area.

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Nice. There are a lot of
nice people there are, you know what

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I'm saying. It's really the rotten
apples that spoil for the whole bunch.

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Everything light turns green, and this
gentleman who was over his twenties just starts

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walking and starts pointing at everybody calm
down and telling people to go. I

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didn't go tell him. He's like
directing traffic, is trying to get across

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the street, and I yelled,
there's a fucking green light, you asshole.

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By the way, a red hand
means don't walk in case you don't

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know it. And he's just out
there just trying to, you know,

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across the street. And I'll get
to it when I just nonchalant. I'm

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just like, But Hudson and Clifford
a nice area, of Rochester, the

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city, I don't know. Yeah, not nice, but Cliff Clifford always

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always there's worse problems. There's yeah, there's probably was all over the city.

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Yeah there are, but anywhere I
just uh, it's cleaner than others,

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which is sad. Did you uh? Did you flip them off?

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Give him the fame if you ever
need a ride, right, don't call

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me, listen to my listen to
the podcast, and I don't be mentioning

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your name. But that's how accellents
happened. The problem with that is you

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don't know who's gonna get an accent. It could be a single mother with

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a baby in the back and she
swerves out, she gets an accident.

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Now there's something wrong with her and
the baby. That's it's not all single

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guys that are gonna get in the
air bag and then you're you know,

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there's just no thought sense. There
is no thought This is no stupid.

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The world is got. They went
from walk and don't walk. That wasn't

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working, so they had to put
a red hand that people still can't figure

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out what to do when they comes
on, Well they can. They just

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don't care. I don't care.
They don't care. Which is more of

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a narcissistic thing. Right, I
think that we're all or our society is

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way more narcissistic than ever before.
Right, all the selfies, all the

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things, you know, all this
look at me, that's not really hurting

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anybody. You're taking it at all. But I'm just saying like that,

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that's self important. I don't take
selfies. I just go about me sometimes.

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Good Mother's Day for you. Yeah, I saw my mother, my

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stepmother. I get my mom a
picture, and then I get my step

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mother. Oh, I got her
a bird feeder that spins at the bottom

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so when the squirrel gets on it. Oh yeah, you're supposed to go

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one hundred miles an hour and throw
the scroll. I need a video of

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that. I need a video that
in the front yard. Now, I

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like that. There's bird feeders too
that you can put. You can just

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lift your window and it's like it's
a bay windows. Yeah, yeah,

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that looks kind of cool. And
uh oh that's nice. Now you got

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that for your You got the lousy
picture for your mom, yes, and

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you got the nice bird feeder for
your stepmother. Wanted what was the picture

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of me and my sister? Oh, it's a picture of you guys.

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Oh, I said, lusty pictures. I know I was waiting for something

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that was tay, Wow, that's
nice. I did nothing for my mother.

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You brought her up here. Well, I didn't bring her up here.

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She brought her ass. She did. Put it on your podcast.

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I put her on the podcast.
I took uh to car I got her

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card. I took her to what
I thought my sister's thinking. I got

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my stepmother the bird feeder and a
card. And the first thing Kelly says,

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my stepsisters goes, oh, well, Doug still gets cards. Yeah,

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well you do, don't you.
Well, yeah, they've gotten quite

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expensive. To say. You go
to the dollar store, they're a dollar

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is still Hallmark, you know?
Or make one like you were five again.

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Yeah, drakes your hand and make
it a turkey. I don't know,

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Mom, I'm the biggest turkey in
your life. I I took my

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mom out to uh like a brunch
that wasn't a brunch, and it started

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out slow and ended fantastic. Good
we had. We had, I honestly

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got. I was worried about this
weekend because you know, my uh,

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it's a slow night for restaurants.
The night before because nobody goes out.

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You can't see your mom hungover Father's
Day. On the other hand, working

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at bars, everybody's out the night
before because you can't face your father a

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good hangover in a reason, And
Drake, I'm just saying, No,

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what I was gonna say is I
was nervous this weekend with the graduation because

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I hadn't seen spend any time with
my kid's mom or her parents in five

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six years. So this is the
first time everybody's been together. Yeah,

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yeah, wow. And so it's
so much so that my son at Easter

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time, we're down at my mom's
and he's like, oh, I just

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worried, like there's gonna be a
who's going to start the fight? Who's

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gonna And I guess you'd worry whatever
whatever age you are, you get so

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many scenarios, right, So I
said to him, I go, why

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would you even think that I have
time to think? I go, I

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would never ever do anything, never
do anything. And uh, you know

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it's getting divorced. I just saw
what was Yeah, Rory, yeah,

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yeah, we'll get to that in
a little while. Because Rory lives here,

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yes, his wife does, and
uh they have a house in rondoqoint

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anymore. Well, and they also
think they're gonna work it out. I

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don't think so. No, no, no, this is a pre nup.

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It's all out done. And she
didn't go to uh, she didn't

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go to the Masters where she normally
supports them. He came in twenty second

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and she has a he has uh
he has a membership to OKILL. Yes

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he does, and I don't know
if he's gonna still have it or not.

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I just I just texted the president
of OKILL. You did, yeah,

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and he wrote back on haha,
I don't know right, literally,

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I don't know. I don't know
what's gonna happen. So yeah, well

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we'll get into uh all that stuff. But I hadn't seen these people.

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So there everybody has some nice pictures
of the guys and yeah, sends with

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you, and yeah, I got
everybody. The pictures were great. I

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take everybody was great. Everybody was
I could not have been better, because

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this could have gone terribly wrong.
So well that the boys left. All

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the boys, the youngest went with
my son's godmother. My Jordan's godmother.

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Godmother was there and they were staying
at her house, so she took the

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youngest kid back because she has a
kid his age. They were going to

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hang out. The two older boys
were uber and out and doing the town.

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So now it's just me, my
ex, my parents who are divorced

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together, and her parents. And
I say, anybody who want to play

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yucre? And I said, he
came with the jacks, right, I

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say, anybody like an after dinner
drink? And my mother, my mother

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in law I'm technically I'm still married, goes absolutely. So that my father

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in law for some reason gone out
to the car. I think one of

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the boys had left something. So
he comes back in and he says,

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all right, are we ready?
And I said, well, uh,

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I said, I asked everybody if
they'd like to go upstairs and have a

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drink. And he said, oh, what did my wife say? And

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I said, uh, I said
would you like to come upstairs? And

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he said what did my wife say? I said, she said absolutely?

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He said why are you asking me? I said, because I wanted to

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give you an out? I was
trying. I was trying to help you

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out. Just let you know what's
going as So then we went upstairs prolonging

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this, and everybody was why was
I prolonged know him, Oh what did

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my wife say? What was the
matter? He was, it was just

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being funny. But I I just
so we all went upstairs. Linger was

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he busting? Your boss busting?
And then once I got up, once

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we got everything, it was great. Everybody was. I mean he at

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one point even came over with two
drinks. I just did one, just

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I just did one, and I
figured that that would be it. You

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know, I could feel it.
I got an internal clock. We all

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have an internal clock. And when
you've been doing this for as long as

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I have, I know, like
conversation has gone too long. You know,

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it's like comedy. You got it, you just you know, so

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I figured, uh, we wrapped
it up. But man, I was

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nervous, and it just worked out
perfectly. It could not have gone better.

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The whole weekend start to finish,
even the Mother's Day snaps went pretty

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good. Then well back and forth, your mama, Yeah yeah, I

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think my brother. My brother crushed
on a few of those. Yeah yeah,

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he said, my mother's been driving
around the same car longer than most

408
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,680
marriages have lasted. I go,
oh, yeah, beats mine. All

409
00:26:33,759 --> 00:26:37,519
right, we're gonna take a moment
when we come back. We were gonna

410
00:26:37,519 --> 00:26:41,519
meet the people behind the website.
Get your gig on dot org. They

411
00:26:41,519 --> 00:26:45,359
are all just outside the studio.
Get your gig on dot org. We'll

412
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,960
find out how if you're a band, why you should pay attention to this.

413
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:56,079
Well, it's where all every live
music event is listed on this website.

414
00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:00,359
They've been doing it on Facebook for
years. They just started this and

415
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,279
we will get into all that with
them, and we will do that next.

416
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,640
But first, BTV would fire Pizza
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417
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418
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419
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420
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421
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422
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424
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425
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426
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427
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428
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429
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431
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432
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433
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434
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435
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436
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437
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439
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440
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441
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442
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443
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Come on out, because here's the
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444
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works with families that are local.
You give money to charity a lot of

445
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time you don't know what happens with
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446
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And Connors and Ferris once again doing
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447
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448
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Connors and Ferris is the law firm that

449
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450
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451
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452
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453
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454
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455
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456
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457
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458
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460
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right, Sun Tanto, tickling sands, drank chillen mad watching sleep in the

461
00:30:37,319 --> 00:30:45,079
Evil, resting up Long Long is
when the sun goes down. Christine,

462
00:30:45,079 --> 00:30:52,039
you're not gonna sing along. You're
just at the concert. I sure was.

463
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,640
Now you guys, I know you're. You and Randy are are sharing

464
00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:00,200
a microphone, which seems cruel and
unusual punishment for for you Chris him.

465
00:31:00,319 --> 00:31:03,960
But the get your gig on dot
org is what we're here to talk about.

466
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,799
But I have to ask and maybe
you'll know this. The rumor was

467
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:15,000
that Kenny Chesney had a place in
Canadagua or No. I knew he had

468
00:31:15,079 --> 00:31:18,440
a rum for a while and I
don't know if he still does with Constellation

469
00:31:18,599 --> 00:31:21,599
brands. Yeah, so he used
to come in and spend time and that's

470
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:26,240
why he I saw him more than
once at Semac, which is a small

471
00:31:26,319 --> 00:31:30,960
venue for him. I mean he's
playing stadiums. I think he knew somebody

472
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,359
in Canadaga that he stayed with.
Okay, okay, all right, but

473
00:31:34,359 --> 00:31:38,039
that I remember going to when it
was still the Sandbar, before before they

474
00:31:38,039 --> 00:31:42,000
decided to get all fancy and ruin
it. Uh. And I had bought

475
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,680
a bucket of coronas we're gonna go
see the Kenny Chesney show, and I

476
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:51,279
stick the lime into corona and I
turn it upside down and as I come

477
00:31:51,319 --> 00:31:55,960
around, it just sprays like fourth
people at the bar, and I just

478
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,400
wanted to I mean, you ever
just want to fucking disappear. She's spinning

479
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,759
everywhere. That was like, that
was my Kenny Chesney moment for the uh.

480
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:07,359
For everything here, but get your
gig on what happened over there?

481
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:08,920
What's going on? It's like all
of a sudden, now there's a whole

482
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:14,480
website and blowing up. But I
went on the website. It's every band

483
00:32:14,559 --> 00:32:19,039
in every venue, I think,
and the greater I don't know. We

484
00:32:19,079 --> 00:32:22,400
go Syracuse. Yeah yeah, well, I mean we don't do a lot

485
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,720
of cercuse and a lot of Buffalo. No, but there were venues.

486
00:32:23,759 --> 00:32:27,960
I saw Skinny Atlas on there.
Yeah, I saw Skinny at It's one

487
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:36,039
of our favorite places. Right.
We do balloons in Ellicottville, certain places

488
00:32:36,039 --> 00:32:38,839
that we've been that we love and
we include them and local bands play there,

489
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,799
so okay, we try to keep
them. So this is really like

490
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:47,920
the Facebook page, much like it
was the comprehensive hub of where everything is

491
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,720
happening in our area. Would that
be fair to say, yeah, and

492
00:32:51,759 --> 00:32:54,559
then this is now, but it
goes beyond that because you can find out

493
00:32:54,640 --> 00:33:00,000
all about Randy and Christine and then
you can find I think Frank to Blaze

494
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,839
has a a the F word.
It's just his blog on there. I

495
00:33:02,839 --> 00:33:07,839
always liked Frank. One time I
lost a bet. We we had a

496
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:13,079
high school fantasy football when I was
doing morning radio, and whoever lost had

497
00:33:13,079 --> 00:33:16,640
to do a bood wah photo,
so I so they came in. Frank

498
00:33:16,799 --> 00:33:21,319
hired him. He was taking the
pictures. He got a makeup artist and

499
00:33:21,359 --> 00:33:23,799
I put on like I think I
was in my underwear and I was I

500
00:33:23,839 --> 00:33:28,400
had some kind of yeah, yeah
I did. I had pastis that is

501
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,720
true? I did have Pasti's and
I had like a feather boa and there

502
00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:36,519
were pictures and it was awful,
and I was on a leather couch and

503
00:33:36,559 --> 00:33:42,359
Frank sinavituers these pictures still existed.
I don't know, Doug, I don't

504
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,599
know if I can find them,
but Frank does have him. I always

505
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,640
loved that guy. And then he
had the frantic flat flaptops. And then

506
00:33:50,799 --> 00:33:53,799
you bring Becca in here and Becca
and the Bobcats. But you did the

507
00:33:53,839 --> 00:34:00,400
website right, you designed it?
Is that what you do? Conduce help?

508
00:34:00,559 --> 00:34:05,160
Yeah, websites by awesome website websites
by beck yep. Yeah. And

509
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,079
then so does that mean every day
she has to upload all the gig because

510
00:34:08,119 --> 00:34:13,840
you guys go through why I trained
Randy, and Randy uploads everything. We

511
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,199
work on the list, We get
it all ready to go, and every

512
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:20,000
night he uploads it. How long
does it take? Probably an hour?

513
00:34:20,559 --> 00:34:22,079
Yeah to upload? Yeah, that's
what I'm saying. To work on the

514
00:34:22,119 --> 00:34:25,280
site. Every night we're on We're
on it three or four hours a night,

515
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,559
three or four hours at night.
Yeah, yeah, to make sure

516
00:34:29,599 --> 00:34:35,320
that it's up together. Yeah.
So beck and the Bobcats, bobcatspcats.

517
00:34:35,639 --> 00:34:38,360
Excuse me, that is terrible that
I would say wrong, but it's rockabilly.

518
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:42,760
And then you've got to gig at
Murph's on Saturday. Where is Murph's

519
00:34:43,079 --> 00:34:45,039
right around the corner from night,
right around the corner from you. Yeah,

520
00:34:45,079 --> 00:34:49,440
you're gonna go there and get your
bop on. I would, I'm

521
00:34:49,519 --> 00:34:52,679
dja, I would, but I'm
djaing a wedding this week. I would

522
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,360
go to I am seeing an event
that night. But uh, that's if

523
00:34:55,360 --> 00:35:00,039
you go over the Stutson Street bridge
from Lake Avenue. It's in a market

524
00:35:00,079 --> 00:35:05,920
with hermas and uh it's on the
end. And they came over from Ironoquoy

525
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:12,599
where right next to the uh house
guitars. Yeah, yeah, jeremiahs about

526
00:35:12,639 --> 00:35:15,480
that or somebody about that, and
they moved over there and they've been doing

527
00:35:15,559 --> 00:35:19,079
quite well. But Murph unfortunately passed
his son runs it now. Was huge

528
00:35:19,079 --> 00:35:21,719
into music, so when you walk
in right to the left, he made

529
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,679
a big enough stage to really rocky. So it sounds like a great place

530
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:32,320
to play it is. Yeah,
so okay, And then the Sideburns are

531
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,960
here as well. Matter of fact, I'm so excited that you're here actually

532
00:35:36,679 --> 00:35:40,960
because years ago and I was I
AM seeing something. We kept calling your

533
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:45,000
mom tambourine mom, because she got
up and played tambourine with the band.

534
00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:46,920
Was it your band? Yeah?
So we were in a fall. You

535
00:35:47,039 --> 00:35:51,800
know where you were? And no, I know exactly where this was.

536
00:35:52,159 --> 00:35:54,599
It was the beer market over by
college town. It was not a gig.

537
00:35:54,679 --> 00:35:58,880
I was just in there with my
kids. I think somebody might have

538
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,679
gotten released from the room because we
had a fast pass and we went over

539
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:07,480
there and I'm watching a need alcohol
and now I get on the radio when

540
00:36:07,519 --> 00:36:09,679
I go. It was so funny
because I think one of their moms got

541
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:15,039
up and started playing tambourine, and
I think I was being mocking and probably

542
00:36:15,119 --> 00:36:19,960
rude, and your mom was a
great sport and she yeah, so this

543
00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:22,360
is Was that the band? Then? No, so it was my good

544
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,000
friend Pete who was the lead singer, and myself. It was just a

545
00:36:25,079 --> 00:36:28,719
duo and then now it's a full
band. Yeah, because you were just

546
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,639
kids, I thought, yeah,
right. I don't like to think well,

547
00:36:31,679 --> 00:36:35,400
I would say, I would say
you are by comparison to me,

548
00:36:35,519 --> 00:36:37,559
but but boy, I'm pictured in
my head. I thought you look like

549
00:36:37,559 --> 00:36:40,800
you were teenagers when you were playing. Would that be fair? Mid twenties,

550
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,440
mid twenties. All right, Well, yeah, I mean, look

551
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,400
if I go back to nine oh
two one oh, they were all in

552
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:49,679
their twenties maybe thirties, playing teenagers. So I guess it would pass.

553
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,639
That's right, I remember laughing.
And then she would call up every once

554
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:55,480
in a while to the radio show. Is tambourine mom? And what is

555
00:36:55,519 --> 00:37:00,719
your involvement with the website? Then? So the technical is like the marketing

556
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,920
specialist. So as people come in
and say, hey, I want to

557
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:07,199
get on the list, or I
have an event, I come through and

558
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,719
I just work with them kind of
like clients, what are you thinking?

559
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:14,440
Like bands may want to do advertisement, what are you thinking? Here's what

560
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,519
we offer. And then Beck and
I go back and forth as far as

561
00:37:17,639 --> 00:37:22,079
you know this band wants this,
and she really kind of execute it.

562
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,960
Okay. So I'm kind of the
middle person that bridges it together. Okay.

563
00:37:25,039 --> 00:37:29,159
And so you you kind of help
with the design and then working with

564
00:37:29,199 --> 00:37:31,679
the bands who want to advertise on
the site. How does somebody if somebody

565
00:37:31,679 --> 00:37:36,639
wants to advertise on the site,
how do they contact right through the website?

566
00:37:36,679 --> 00:37:40,400
Right right through the website website?
Yeah, how do I get if

567
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,639
I have a gig. How do
I get that on there? So we're

568
00:37:44,639 --> 00:37:46,800
still doing the gig list the way
we've always done it. We put it

569
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:52,239
together. We love the bands that
make a schedule for the month posted at

570
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,320
the beginning of the month. We
basically take a snapshot of that and we

571
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:59,320
can just plug them in there.
You go to like every band's Facebook paste,

572
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,480
if not every band, but the
bands that don't post, and the

573
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:06,880
bands that don't let us know where
they're playing, we have to look up,

574
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,440
gentlemenly you look it up, who's
playing at this venue? Right?

575
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,679
And if we can't find who it
is, we kind of have to figure

576
00:38:13,679 --> 00:38:15,760
it out, which is what's so
time consuming. But there's a lot of

577
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:20,920
bands now who have gotten way better
at posting their monthly gigs. They send

578
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,039
them to us, they post them
on the site, you know, the

579
00:38:23,079 --> 00:38:27,719
page, and then those are the
things we put together for the list and

580
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,719
then upload to the website. I
keep thinking back to seeing him play,

581
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,639
and because it was so long ago, right my kids were little living,

582
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,559
but I remember being impressed to how
good they were because they came in,

583
00:38:38,079 --> 00:38:42,480
you set up, we were there
eating and then he got up and it

584
00:38:42,559 --> 00:38:45,239
wasn't like a crowd that had come
there necessarily to see you guys. It

585
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:50,199
was filled with people, college kids, all this, and you want that

586
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:54,039
whole crowd over. And your mom
helped with stam marine mom. It was

587
00:38:54,079 --> 00:38:58,119
pretty good. All right, let's
get down to some of the nitty gritty

588
00:38:58,159 --> 00:39:04,079
with this stuff. I gotta think
that there has got to be how do

589
00:39:04,119 --> 00:39:08,239
I say this, some drama when
things are wrong? Do people ever get

590
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:12,840
mad at you? I mean,
you're doing a service, you're doing it.

591
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,920
No, and I don't and I
don't and I apologize sometimes, all

592
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:21,800
right, And that's not always our
fault, I would agree. I mean,

593
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,480
if you're spending as much time as
you are and you put this into

594
00:39:23,519 --> 00:39:27,760
a website. But I just know
how people can get sometimes. I was

595
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:31,119
talking before he got in here.
My youngest son was in town because one

596
00:39:31,159 --> 00:39:35,559
of my boys graduated college, so
the whole family was here, and I

597
00:39:35,599 --> 00:39:37,400
took him to play a pickup basketball
game at the gym, and he wound

598
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,880
up in a game of one on
one and this guy said, I just

599
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,880
want to get some cardio, but
and don't worry. I'm only five six

600
00:39:45,199 --> 00:39:49,639
and my kid's fourteen. He's six
foot. While I went to the bathroom

601
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,280
and during their third game, my
oldest son, who is huge, he's

602
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:57,559
like six eighty, is standary.
His eyes are his massaucers and he goes,

603
00:39:58,079 --> 00:40:00,880
he goes, you may want to
end this. I don't know what

604
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,039
was happening. This guy in his
mid twenties was like losing his mind and

605
00:40:05,159 --> 00:40:07,960
my kid and it's John back at
him and it's going back and forth,

606
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:14,519
and I go this. I have
to think cover bands in the local music

607
00:40:14,559 --> 00:40:17,480
scene and local back like you know, I'm not gonna say inter midal pick

608
00:40:17,519 --> 00:40:22,320
up basketball games. This is the
only place where the higher the intensity of

609
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,639
the argument, the lower the skills
of the player. That's the only thing

610
00:40:25,679 --> 00:40:30,599
I can think. Right, does
that sound fair? I mean I don't

611
00:40:30,639 --> 00:40:34,079
know. I would think the same
thing with music. I'm getting mad about

612
00:40:34,119 --> 00:40:37,199
something that I have no control over
doesn't mean anything. That means that they're

613
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,760
not that good anyway. Well,
I can tell you one thing. Yes,

614
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:45,320
when we started this website, and
it took us a year to get

615
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,639
this rolling with Becca and Mike,
yeah, you know, we put in

616
00:40:47,679 --> 00:40:52,119
our we said we know we're going
to piss people off. Why when we

617
00:40:52,199 --> 00:40:54,920
do the website, because why would
people get pissed off when it's one comprehensive

618
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:59,800
thing, and it sounds to me, honestly, just look sounds stupid.

619
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,559
But we knew people. But it's
all inclusive. It's all inclusive. It's

620
00:41:02,639 --> 00:41:07,920
everybody is welcome to post their gigs. Here. We're trying to give the

621
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:12,119
consumer one place to go and say, you know, I got family in

622
00:41:12,159 --> 00:41:15,800
town. Where can I go see
back in the bobcats? Where can I

623
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,079
go see the sideburns? Where can
I go see? You know? Vice?

624
00:41:19,199 --> 00:41:22,159
Versus these five bars around me?
Who's playing? Who's playing? Right?

625
00:41:22,639 --> 00:41:25,320
Who's in my neighborhood this week?
Exactly right? What people love to

626
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:30,440
criticize, they love to yeah they
do. So what I say, what

627
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:35,800
we say is if you can do
it better, start your own freaking website.

628
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:37,039
Yeah. If you can do it
better, then we do it.

629
00:41:37,159 --> 00:41:43,000
Yeah, it has anybody tried.
No, So why did you put all

630
00:41:43,039 --> 00:41:45,239
this together? Why did you?
Because we were doing it for what how

631
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:51,960
long? Ten years? Yeah?
What what is the what's in it for

632
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,480
you? And I say that only
in the because you did it for ten

633
00:41:54,559 --> 00:42:00,639
years on Facebook for nothing? Right? Even here, I would think most

634
00:42:00,679 --> 00:42:04,119
of the advertising goes back to supporting
the site it does. Yeah, so

635
00:42:04,679 --> 00:42:06,920
what's in it for you? Just
the love of the game, just the

636
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,800
love of music. That and just
bringing more awareness because there's a lot of

637
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:15,119
talent and people don't know about even
the Facebook page that's been around for ten

638
00:42:15,159 --> 00:42:19,400
years. Isn't that weird And a
lot of people don't know there's one place

639
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,360
you can find all the means,
right, So it's just bringing more awareness

640
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,920
and then bringing people on like Becca
and Mike, and we also have Dresden

641
00:42:27,039 --> 00:42:30,440
angle, yes, the pr part
of it. She helps us out a

642
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,760
lot. And then now we got
fun is wonderful. I don't think I've

643
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:37,440
ever seen anybody who's always happy.
But I will suggest this and I mean

644
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,360
this, and I'm gonna say it, and it sounds harsh, and if

645
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:43,239
dredsdon ever hears about it, I
am the one who did say it.

646
00:42:43,599 --> 00:42:47,559
Don't ever go to a comedy club
with Dresden. That laugh. Oh yeah,

647
00:42:47,599 --> 00:42:52,199
that laugh. You can't get away
from it. It's like you know

648
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:57,079
where it is. And when she
doesn't laugh like that and you're the comic,

649
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:01,840
you start to question yourself. That's
that's a problem. But that you've

650
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:06,519
got a great crew doing all this
and and a lot of time. But

651
00:43:06,599 --> 00:43:09,320
I got to think, Yeah,
I would think that there would be some

652
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:15,440
drama sometimes yeah, sometimes yes,
I we try not to play into it.

653
00:43:15,679 --> 00:43:19,840
Yeah, we have we know what
we want to do. Yes,

654
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,840
we have exactly in our minds how
we want things to happen. Rebecca and

655
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:30,239
Mike and Dresden and Frank all have
our vision. What would this ever go

656
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,519
to? I'm just thinking about this
in my head. You know, we

657
00:43:32,599 --> 00:43:36,599
have, for example, the Fairport
Music Fest has exploded, and I think

658
00:43:36,639 --> 00:43:39,599
there's other little things that happen around
the area. I know steel Rail And

659
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:45,159
does anybody ever ask you guys for
recommendations on bands? Do you ever get

660
00:43:45,159 --> 00:43:46,760
asked that? And I and and
maybe you don't want to answer that.

661
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:51,320
But that then it made me think, will there ever be reviews on bands?

662
00:43:51,639 --> 00:43:55,480
But would that be too divisive for
people? Stay away from that.

663
00:43:55,679 --> 00:44:00,800
Yeah, we try not to give
our opinion because music is different for everybody.

664
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:05,320
Absolutely, it's an art, right, Like like Doug was saying,

665
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,119
he's, you know, doesn't really
love country too much. I didn't say

666
00:44:07,119 --> 00:44:13,840
that I like country. He plays
it all backwards. That's a joke.

667
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:19,320
That's a joke. I play my
country music backwards. I keep my job,

668
00:44:19,519 --> 00:44:22,159
my car doesn't break down, my
wife doesn't leave me, my dog

669
00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:23,519
doesn't die. First, you got
to get a wife. Yeah, then

670
00:44:23,559 --> 00:44:25,440
I got to get a dog.
Then you got to get a dog.

671
00:44:25,559 --> 00:44:31,440
Right, you might want to find
a job. Maybe music is subjective,

672
00:44:31,679 --> 00:44:36,159
yes, of course, So I'm
not going to tell you what to like.

673
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,639
Right. And there's people say,
why do you list skinny out lists.

674
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:45,079
Well, there's bands that playing skinny
houss and so Rochester bands playing skinny

675
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,599
Well, it's so far nobody's going
to go there. That's not true.

676
00:44:46,599 --> 00:44:50,159
You go there, Yeah, I
mean if you went down for a weekend,

677
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,679
Skinny outlass is beautiful, gorgeous,
and I get a lot of friends

678
00:44:52,679 --> 00:44:59,239
at vacation Endicott and that's an hour
and a half away. Jason Newstead lives

679
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,719
down in Skinny Atlas. Used to
be what was the bass player with Metallica

680
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:06,199
for years? Yeah, and I
think he's had some other bands. He's

681
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:10,239
got a seven million dollar house somewhere
on the lake. Now. Yeah,

682
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:14,159
Now, could you imagine if you're
playing down there back and then all of

683
00:45:14,199 --> 00:45:21,760
a sudden incomes Jason Newstead and he
wants to play a little bit with you.

684
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,360
We add anyone who reaches out,
so any venue, any musician.

685
00:45:24,559 --> 00:45:29,760
We get emails every day, multiple
emails, and we implement them on the

686
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,280
site. Weekly. Musicians reach out
who aren't listed, we add them.

687
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:37,400
They're all added for free. Yeah, and then we give opportunity to anyone

688
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,440
who wants to take out an ad. We have a What's Hot page now,

689
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,639
which is bulletin board. Okay,
what is on the What's Hot page?

690
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:46,519
Let's let's let me pull up the
website because I had some questions,

691
00:45:46,519 --> 00:45:52,079
like the What's Hot page, that's
where I thought I saw Frank's blog is

692
00:45:52,119 --> 00:45:57,840
on there. The F word Okay, yeah, he just so I do

693
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,400
all the design, So any that's
on the website or any graphics on there,

694
00:46:01,519 --> 00:46:06,119
is designed by us on the spot
kind of. So someone reaches out

695
00:46:06,519 --> 00:46:08,920
and they have their logo and their
vision for what they're looking for on the

696
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,760
site, and we designed the ad
and we publish it on the site on

697
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,199
different various pages. It's a great
cover page when you get in there,

698
00:46:15,199 --> 00:46:19,920
and then right away Today's gig list, so you click on that and it

699
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:25,480
tells you everything that's playing today.
People look like you and they have bands

700
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:29,679
at Barnard right away, so you
can see all the dates if you're looking

701
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,679
for that and people. That's kind
of a destination. That's an ad.

702
00:46:32,079 --> 00:46:36,880
Yes, anything you see on the
site that's not get your gig on related

703
00:46:37,599 --> 00:46:43,639
advertisement. So they are all these
gigs today, Yes, and it's a

704
00:46:43,679 --> 00:46:52,000
slow it's Tuesday. Wow. Bunce
has the Dave Turner live open mic,

705
00:46:52,079 --> 00:46:54,719
so you can go in and jam
anybody kind of Yeah, a very good

706
00:46:55,079 --> 00:47:01,679
Uh. California roll ins on their
clam Man's Party House too. Yeah.

707
00:47:02,119 --> 00:47:06,440
Yeah, that's right down by the
lake, right. Yeah, but where

708
00:47:06,559 --> 00:47:14,159
is clam Man's Party House and Seneca
Falls. Yeah, it's a party house,

709
00:47:14,159 --> 00:47:20,800
has been there for a lot of
outdoor music. Is do you sit?

710
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,199
So you put this together what earlier
in the week and they just add

711
00:47:24,199 --> 00:47:27,800
to it and then load it up
at night. Earlier in the week.

712
00:47:28,039 --> 00:47:30,639
I work on Friday and Saturday.
Every night I work on the next day's

713
00:47:30,679 --> 00:47:36,440
list. Okay, that's what I'm
doing. Yeah, what we're doing?

714
00:47:37,599 --> 00:47:39,440
How dare you? What is wrong
with you? You gotta give it,

715
00:47:39,559 --> 00:47:44,440
give it the right thing there.
Put the wool in a week, Well,

716
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,719
Sundays we delete last weeks. Yeah, we start all over again,

717
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:52,400
what do you think people say behind
your back about this? Nothing? So

718
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:55,280
far, we've gotten pretty good feedback. I would think they would say nice

719
00:47:55,320 --> 00:48:04,239
things. Yeah, I'm sure there's
a lot of talk. We're learning all

720
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:08,400
kinds of stuff out about ourselves that
we didn't know. Really, Yeah,

721
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:14,199
I'm curious, Like, I'm just
curious as to what that would be.

722
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:21,159
Maybe you can't saytie yes. And
my answer to that is do you read

723
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:25,159
the comments when they does the criticism
come on the page? Most of it

724
00:48:25,199 --> 00:48:30,079
is not public on the page.
Most of it is what we hear.

725
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:34,639
Okay, what you hear? Because
I saw today that if you, if

726
00:48:34,639 --> 00:48:40,239
you went on x formerly Twitter,
Sandra Dorley had posted something about an arrest

727
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:44,880
of a man who had shot somebody
basically in cold blood and all this stuff,

728
00:48:45,159 --> 00:48:47,440
and I go, I just want
to see the comments. And it

729
00:48:47,559 --> 00:48:52,960
was like ones like, h I
accept your apology and keep locking up the

730
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,840
bad guys. The next person's like, when are you going to resign?

731
00:48:55,000 --> 00:49:00,440
You're disgraceful, and then the next
one was you're horrible. You had to

732
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:04,119
be like on and on, and
I sat there reading it for like five

733
00:49:04,159 --> 00:49:07,360
minutes, laughing my ass off,
and I go don't you have other things

734
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,840
to do? That doesn't anybody?
I don't have the energy to go shit

735
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:15,119
on something. I think the biggest
thing is if you don't like it,

736
00:49:15,159 --> 00:49:16,639
you don't pay attention to it.
Well, there's nothing not to like here.

737
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:22,480
It tells you all them. I
think most everybody's looking for music somehow.

738
00:49:22,599 --> 00:49:25,559
Ye music, the venues want them
to be promoted. Bands need them

739
00:49:25,559 --> 00:49:30,559
promoted. So there's reason to yes. Absolutely, How did they sucker you

740
00:49:30,599 --> 00:49:37,079
into doing all the design for this? I'm very involved in the music community,

741
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,400
and when I met them, they
brought up this idea. There's something

742
00:49:40,559 --> 00:49:44,840
like just very They're very charismatic,
aren't they. They're fun to hang out

743
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:51,599
with, the charismatic. But our
vision. Yes. We approached probably three

744
00:49:51,679 --> 00:49:55,840
or four other web web designers before
her who couldn't do okay our vision.

745
00:49:57,159 --> 00:50:00,440
When we talked to her, she
got our vision right away. And I

746
00:50:00,519 --> 00:50:05,679
tend to like absorb my clients,
and I think like them and I build

747
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,320
like them, And that's kind of
what sets me apart with my career in

748
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:13,760
general. I'd like to think so
I really thought like them and built something

749
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,400
that not only that they explained they
wanted, but then I took that further

750
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:21,719
and what I knew they needed And
how did tambourine mom's son get involved.

751
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,239
I just have to say it that
way because I hope she's watching men.

752
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:29,639
I just don't see how she's speaking
of comments just look after comments. I

753
00:50:29,679 --> 00:50:31,400
don't know. That's a good question. So I do. I have several

754
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:35,760
hats in music, like beca I'm
a musical enthusiasts, I play in a

755
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,320
band. I also have my own
webcast and I just started helping venues.

756
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:44,679
Kind of is your webcast the one
I read on the website? Yeah,

757
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,280
behind the Rock? Behind the Rock? Is that you? Yeah? What

758
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:50,199
is behind the rock? Explain that
to me? They sounded really interesting.

759
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:54,280
So it's it's it's telling a story, it's it's doing a video interview of

760
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:58,840
those who have made significant contributions to
the local music scenes. So they were

761
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:04,199
our first episode. We've done Alvo
in Rockstar Academy. We did the Gentleman's

762
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,519
of the Fairport Music Fest, and
then we got Steve Steve Ball from the

763
00:51:07,559 --> 00:51:12,960
Dogs, the Dogs all charity work. Yeah, yeah, so doing that

764
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:15,519
and then I've just started helping because
I've been doing this like twenty years,

765
00:51:15,559 --> 00:51:22,039
playing out live of helping venues kind
of bridge the gap and helping venues book

766
00:51:22,119 --> 00:51:24,000
live music because they got a lot
on our plate. And I remember we

767
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:30,480
ran into you guys, my wife
and I at Bata Billie's. Me and

768
00:51:30,519 --> 00:51:34,159
the boys were playing and we were
talking about that venture. And I like

769
00:51:34,199 --> 00:51:36,599
to think maybe if we didn't bump
in the I wouldn't be sitting here.

770
00:51:36,639 --> 00:51:39,880
But she reached out to me the
next day was a Saturday or a Sunday,

771
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,960
and said, hey, we have
an opportunity. You want to join

772
00:51:43,079 --> 00:51:45,400
us? And sat down. Well, I said a random when we got

773
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:51,119
home. Mike would be perfect for
our guy because he's well liked, he's

774
00:51:51,159 --> 00:51:57,320
great with people, he's friendly,
mom, plas tambourine. He's been awesome

775
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:00,039
to work with. We've been a
great team. Yeah. Really he does

776
00:52:00,079 --> 00:52:06,480
the communication and the selling and bringing
in the people and what's your next gig?

777
00:52:06,519 --> 00:52:09,519
Because it's incredible though, the amount
of messages that come in. Oh,

778
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,920
I gotta think I'm sure Field a
lot of the messages they also come

779
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,440
to me. I can't read them. I mean, I have a full

780
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:20,000
time job. He's got a full
time job. And the web and the

781
00:52:20,039 --> 00:52:22,199
web page, you know, the
page is a full time job doing it,

782
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:23,320
Yes, it is. It is. Oh, I have a lot

783
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:27,400
of downtime, so they feeled a
lot of that. Yeah, Like,

784
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,159
we just got a gentleman who's looking
to do an advertisement, who lives down

785
00:52:31,159 --> 00:52:35,280
in Naples, who comes up here
in the summer. He's playing at Margines

786
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:39,440
and some other venues. He's looking
to advertise. So that's incredible that you

787
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:44,360
know people who live in Florida.
I mean he was from here originally but

788
00:52:44,639 --> 00:52:46,800
lives in Florida. The words gotten
back to him, and you know,

789
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:50,800
how can I promote my gigs?
I'm only up here for a small window

790
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:52,480
of time. So it's a smart
place to do it. Because if I'm

791
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,360
looking for live music and then I
see the ad on there, and I

792
00:52:55,400 --> 00:53:01,199
love like a smart with Barnard Bands
of Barnard, because right there it's the

793
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:05,639
whole schedule, and they go,
well, that was smart. They designed

794
00:53:05,639 --> 00:53:07,639
that ad. So that was an
ad they submitted themselves, and they put

795
00:53:07,679 --> 00:53:10,679
all their events on it. So
that's a smart way to do it.

796
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:14,320
The bulletin board is going to be
a great spot for that too, because

797
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,559
it can be any size. You'll
notice that one is a banner size,

798
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:22,119
it's harder to read on mobile.
So if they ah on the bulletin board,

799
00:53:22,199 --> 00:53:27,480
wait, that's all the ship you
got to think of now, because

800
00:53:27,519 --> 00:53:29,880
it's got to go. It's got
to look good on my iPad, it's

801
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:31,960
got to look good, look good
on my iPhone, and it's got to

802
00:53:32,079 --> 00:53:36,480
look good on whatever. Back to
them and said, you know, the

803
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,960
it's a little too small and some
of this it's not going to get right.

804
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:43,679
So they sent another one back and
it's more readable. But now with

805
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,239
our bulletin board page, which is
semi knew that wasn't with the original launch.

806
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:50,480
The newer page. Now you can
have an AD as long as you

807
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,159
want it. They can design it, any specs, any ad size.

808
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:57,480
We're not going to limit that,
and they can submit it so that How

809
00:53:57,519 --> 00:54:00,199
do you get introduced on stage back
in the Bob Cats? Do you go

810
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,880
out and say we're back in the
Bobcats, and do you have an intro

811
00:54:04,159 --> 00:54:07,480
of any kind? Usually start with
one song and then introduce and then introduce

812
00:54:07,519 --> 00:54:13,480
yourself. Because I got a guy
sitting here who used to be a strip

813
00:54:13,519 --> 00:54:16,960
club DJ many years ago, many
years ago, many years ago, and

814
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:22,119
he is fantastic. Yes, I
would love to. He would love to

815
00:54:22,159 --> 00:54:25,079
do that. He he would be
great, but he could do like pre

816
00:54:25,079 --> 00:54:30,280
recorded things like intro you and he's
still you, still DJ you do weddings

817
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:35,960
and introduce the couple like strippers,
well when they want to be right,

818
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,679
like, should we give him a
little taste of what you can do?

819
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:42,639
Sure? Why not? All right? Give me what song would you like?

820
00:54:42,679 --> 00:54:49,880
What do you like to do?
You like to play? Yeah?

821
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:53,719
Should we do straight Cats? Struck? We do that song? Sure?

822
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:57,599
Well? Does that work? It
works? Yes? Everything? Well,

823
00:54:57,639 --> 00:55:01,079
I don't I can do it anything, okay, yes, even motart you

824
00:55:01,079 --> 00:55:07,280
you know. All right, let's
see we'll get the straight Cats and we'll

825
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:13,880
let you do a little Dougie Fresh
intro for back in the Bobcats, Back

826
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,199
in the Bobcats, and then we
might have to do one for the Cydeburns

827
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:21,679
to just to see. All right, here we go, all right,

828
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,960
Murph's how we doing tonight? All
right? This time I want you to

829
00:55:25,039 --> 00:55:29,360
keep your hands and feet inside the
car to the rye comes or completely stop

830
00:55:29,599 --> 00:55:31,440
you know where you love her?
You can't get the bumper here she comes

831
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:42,559
back and up Bobcats. All right, I'll start singing, laughing, what

832
00:55:42,679 --> 00:55:46,320
I'm on the spot. You can't
send you on the spot is not uncomfortable.

833
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:51,559
But is that bad that I put
you on the spot like that?

834
00:55:51,679 --> 00:55:53,360
No, all right, that's what
I'm here. Well I don't it's not

835
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:55,039
why you're here. But I love
when you do that. I know.

836
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:02,760
She just doesn't like strip clubs,
that's true. Wait a second, what

837
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:10,039
do we do? Yeah? Here
here comes Frank's next next block. You

838
00:56:10,079 --> 00:56:15,280
look like a jade. She comes
a skinny mini for one, two,

839
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:22,400
three, Get ready for jade and
upside? Why she said, you see,

840
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:24,920
that's the great thing about this room. Yes, you forget that you're

841
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:29,199
sitting with microphones and lights on and
cameras because all of a sudden, she

842
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:32,199
went, No, I didn't say
that. I did not. I don't

843
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:37,639
like them. You're right, I
disgusting, horrible places, just the worst.

844
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,800
Yeah, I've never seen people.
Yeah, a lot of women putting

845
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:45,880
themselves through college. Well the last
time she saw Paul was on a playground

846
00:56:45,039 --> 00:56:51,880
many years ago. She's doing over. Have you ever been to a strip

847
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:53,079
club? Just ask him? I
have. Okay, there you go,

848
00:56:53,559 --> 00:57:01,000
which one? Which one of the
mirage here? And which one your folds

849
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:10,119
across the board is it the Sundowner? Yeah, peppermints, peppermints, and

850
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:15,159
wasn't there peppermints? And then there
was a guys one too. There was

851
00:57:15,199 --> 00:57:21,360
one for ladies that had got I
don't remember. Should we ask Mike?

852
00:57:22,679 --> 00:57:25,280
Absolutely, I don't know. I
thought there was a male female one up

853
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:30,559
there at then peppermins and mints pe
mint. Yes, there you go,

854
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:35,159
very good. Not on, get
your gig on though you won't find any

855
00:57:35,159 --> 00:57:39,239
strip comes to get you. Now, what if there was like a house

856
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:44,199
band right there could be a house
band the bringing it back old school style.

857
00:57:44,559 --> 00:57:45,960
You know, we had a band
at the Classic years ago. They

858
00:57:46,039 --> 00:57:50,000
ended up being the Budweiser band Rochester. I can't remember the name, but

859
00:57:50,039 --> 00:57:52,920
they turned into Silis. Do you
remember that band? Yeah? Rob?

860
00:57:54,519 --> 00:58:00,000
Wait you have Alice that's the name
of the band. Yeah the way you

861
00:58:00,039 --> 00:58:04,880
yeah you know you must Yeah you
have tattoo a rob or his band?

862
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,880
Oh my gosh, you're awesome.
So who did what did see? Alice?

863
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:14,440
Brobs retired like twenty seven thousand times
it gets bored after eight months.

864
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:16,159
Okay, uh, you want to
come up, we'll put a band back

865
00:58:16,199 --> 00:58:20,679
together. I'm like, what retired? What? What? Did see Alice

866
00:58:20,719 --> 00:58:27,920
play everything Tommy Burnett robs you were
Gosh, it's the last time I saw

867
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,639
him. I think was a bet
of billion. I love the name because

868
00:58:30,679 --> 00:58:35,000
I immediately thought strip club and boner
pills. It just made sense to me

869
00:58:35,119 --> 00:58:37,559
and see Alice, but it's not
spelled that way. Thank you for having

870
00:58:37,559 --> 00:58:43,760
the tattoo, because I had spell
completely that. I don't know one of

871
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,480
our favorite Yes, Wow, looking
at it? Are you allowed to say

872
00:58:46,519 --> 00:58:51,400
favorite bands? I know they're they're
over right. Well, I don't see

873
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:53,199
why you can't. I'm just saying, like, would you be you know,

874
00:58:53,239 --> 00:58:55,679
it's like saying you have a favorite
child. I have a child that

875
00:58:55,679 --> 00:58:59,400
always says to me, you know
I I know a picture, I know

876
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:02,159
I'm your face at it? Yeah, see Alice? All right, Well

877
00:59:02,199 --> 00:59:06,719
get your gig on dot org.
Lots of things happening this weekend, and

878
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,960
it's the summer gears up and a
lot of outdoor venues start to opening up.

879
00:59:09,119 --> 00:59:12,800
If you want to see what's happening, that is the place to see

880
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,239
it. All. You can find
out about advertising, my candles, all

881
00:59:15,239 --> 00:59:20,559
that, and then backhandles all the
we just wanted to design. Thank you

882
00:59:20,599 --> 00:59:28,519
to Lena at Record Archive for hosting
us the recordive the website hosting the day

883
00:59:28,559 --> 00:59:37,159
we premiered with that Record Archive,
and we're going to do a contest also

884
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:42,960
on the website. Look for that. What kind any contests wet T shirt

885
00:59:43,639 --> 00:59:47,280
male and female? Huh, I'm
just asking questions. Fine, I don't

886
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:52,000
know, I know, oh,
introduce like a tripper, but hey,

887
00:59:52,079 --> 01:00:00,199
wet t shirt that's where I run
a line. Watch yourself does What is

888
01:00:00,239 --> 01:00:05,360
the contest? Is it like it's
a free entry just to sort of drive

889
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,320
traffic to the site, which,
by the way, we've gotten insane hits

890
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:12,079
of course, yeah, of course
you would, Yeah, as many hits

891
01:00:12,079 --> 01:00:15,440
in the first month. So it's
just a draw more attention to it,

892
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:20,320
awareness also to the new bulletin board
page. So sort of from there you

893
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:22,400
can enter the contest, you can
win, we draw. The first drawing

894
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:25,280
is August first, so we have
a bigger window. Then they'll be shorter,

895
01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:29,199
probably monthly contests, but it'll be
a bunch of get your gig on

896
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,639
gear. We're giving away a twenty
five dollars gift card to Record Archive,

897
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:35,960
okay, and a free banner ad
for a month. Let me just say

898
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:38,599
one of my favorite things a record
archive and this is a great data.

899
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:43,920
They don't have a triple X.
Yeah they do, they yeah, they

900
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:45,519
do, they do. They have
a whole filthy album. They still have

901
01:00:45,519 --> 01:00:49,239
the point I don't know that you
go through, so everybody in the place

902
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,199
can know that you're going, you
know what. I'm used to go to

903
01:00:52,239 --> 01:00:54,880
the dirty videos. No, but
they have the bar there. But what

904
01:00:54,920 --> 01:01:00,960
they have is five dollars brown bag
special. It's like blockind blind albums.

905
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:05,199
So you could get garbage or you
could get something cool and you know,

906
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,519
idea five bucks And I always thought
it would be fun to get like a

907
01:01:08,559 --> 01:01:13,599
bottle of wine. If you had
a unique date idea and you go home

908
01:01:13,639 --> 01:01:16,800
and listen to different music, you're
probably gonna hear something you never heard before.

909
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:22,519
Certainly things that represent the decade that
came out. I've done this,

910
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:24,400
uh once, hear things you never
heard before, like yes, I'll have

911
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:34,119
sex with you. No, my
name's not Doug. No, never heard

912
01:01:34,119 --> 01:01:37,400
that one. No. But but
like different music and stuff, and it's

913
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,440
a it's a kind of a cool
thing. And I think record archive is

914
01:01:39,559 --> 01:01:43,840
fantastic and vinyls coming back for a
lot of people, like all my my

915
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:47,159
kids usually get me Vinyl for Father's
Days. It has a full dinosaur inside

916
01:01:47,199 --> 01:01:52,360
their place. Nobody Nobody and Dick
Storm was the guy behind that, and

917
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:53,679
he was always a lot of funny. Used to dance around on the record.

918
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:59,159
You were just doing the jingle the
record, Yeah, and he used

919
01:01:59,159 --> 01:02:00,880
to do not think that when out
here record archive, PA, this is

920
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:05,239
great. I love going. I
remember thinking I was the coolest guy on

921
01:02:05,239 --> 01:02:07,599
on I was just out of college
and I went there and bought a T

922
01:02:07,719 --> 01:02:14,039
shirt instead of Gatorade. It said
getting laid with the Gatorade logo. So

923
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:16,000
I didn't have to ask. I
had the shirt, You had the shirt.

924
01:02:16,119 --> 01:02:21,639
I told you what I was doing, right, you're advertising, all

925
01:02:21,719 --> 01:02:24,320
right? Get your gig on dot
org. Check it out as the weekend

926
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:28,679
approaches. Every night, every night
there's music and it's uh back in.

927
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:34,199
The Bobcats are Merphs Yep, they're
mer and the Sideburns are Oh all right,

928
01:02:34,239 --> 01:02:37,599
if we're gonna plug, we'll be
at Marges in a few weeks.

929
01:02:37,679 --> 01:02:40,199
Oh nice, will actually be at
Iron Smoke Pete and I Acoustic duo.

930
01:02:40,599 --> 01:02:44,400
Oh doing the acoustics sunset sessions.
Why are you doing this, sir?

931
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,519
That's Sunday, Memorial Day weekend.
Sunday Memorial Day weekend. Okay, I

932
01:02:47,519 --> 01:02:50,920
think I'm out of town, but
I'd love to see that. The I

933
01:02:51,039 --> 01:02:53,000
like the acoustics sunset sessions. I
like the ones on Saturday. They start

934
01:02:53,039 --> 01:03:00,159
a little earlier. It's like three
o'clock and it's it's pretty cool. The

935
01:03:00,159 --> 01:03:04,800
marches outside outside, Yeah, on
the beach. That's a fun thing.

936
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,239
I want to My mother was in
town and she kept saying, I want

937
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:12,239
to see the northern lights. So
we went up to the lake right by

938
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:16,599
Marches and right by the Bay outlet, and I think it wasn't Friday was

939
01:03:16,639 --> 01:03:21,400
the best night. I think this
was Saturday night, maybe Sunday, and

940
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:23,639
we went out and caught a little
bit of it. If you got your

941
01:03:23,639 --> 01:03:27,000
camera right, you could see it. Yeah. Other than that, I

942
01:03:27,039 --> 01:03:29,079
had no idea what I was looking
at. It just looks like a dark

943
01:03:29,119 --> 01:03:32,159
sky to me. Yeah, there
wasn't. I didn't see anything in the

944
01:03:32,199 --> 01:03:36,840
second night, did you. No? No, All right, we will

945
01:03:37,239 --> 01:03:39,320
take a moment. But please check
out get your gig on dot org.

946
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:43,159
If you're interested in advertising, they
can help you with that. And it

947
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,840
is where a lot of traffic is
going to find out music in the Greater

948
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:52,599
Rochester area and beyond right Skinny Atlas, Syracuse, Buffalo. All accommodated there

949
01:03:52,639 --> 01:03:55,000
and if you have a gig,
send the message and they'll they'll get it

950
01:03:55,079 --> 01:04:00,400
up there and help guide you and
watch. You're going to flourishing to get

951
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:03,320
your gig on dot org the brain
Child. Is that fair to say?

952
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:13,000
Yeah? Yeah, I mean right
grassroots thing with Randy Flucker and Christine Piano

953
01:04:13,119 --> 01:04:15,440
Thompson who has a piano tattoo on
her shoulder, doesn't, don't you?

954
01:04:15,719 --> 01:04:18,400
Yes, I always love that.
I always love that. All right,

955
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:21,960
we'll take a moment. But first, Iron Smoke Distillery right here in Fairport,

956
01:04:23,039 --> 01:04:27,239
New York. I took my mom
over there for Mother's Day. Psychic

957
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,719
fair line out to the parking lot. People looking for answers went in.

958
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:35,679
They had a great cocktail menu.
Two they used the astrological signs and made

959
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:40,320
drinks out of them. It was
fantastic. My dad no longer drinks.

960
01:04:40,719 --> 01:04:44,039
Well. They had an on the
wagon menu. Yeah, they'll accommodate everybody

961
01:04:44,119 --> 01:04:46,400
over there, and it's always a
good time like tonight. Why not go

962
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:50,519
over there for live band karaoke?
You get to get on stage and sing

963
01:04:50,559 --> 01:04:54,960
like a rock star with a live
band back in the up. Five bucks

964
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:59,400
at the door sixty seven is warm
up and then Boom we go. Then

965
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:02,960
on Thursday, Lera Blue and Checks
and Exes will be playing. Come Back.

966
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,760
On Friday the seventeenth, the Acoustic
Sunset sessens with Monica Hall Duo,

967
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:12,840
and then it's a big old eighties
party Friday Night beginning at eight thirty with

968
01:05:13,159 --> 01:05:17,559
Hall Pass All bringing it back.
Hall Pass Party at Iron Smoke Distillery where

969
01:05:17,599 --> 01:05:20,760
you can go in and get a
peacemaker. Yeah, that's what we need

970
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:25,400
more of in the world. A
peacemaker. Iron Smoke Distillery, Fairport,

971
01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:30,519
New York. Baby Grab dinner at
Jojo two locations in Pittsford and Webster Restaurant.

972
01:05:30,679 --> 01:05:33,599
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973
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974
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975
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976
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unbelievable. First payment DMV taxes,
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977
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978
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979
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980
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981
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982
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983
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984
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985
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All right here we are round number three

986
01:06:25,599 --> 01:06:29,199
out in fairports. You got the
man, the myth, the legend right

987
01:06:29,199 --> 01:06:32,760
beside me, the admirl on the
air wings, the pointdexter of podcast,

988
01:06:33,239 --> 01:06:35,800
your favorite of mine. Give it
up. Don't get it up, but

989
01:06:36,039 --> 01:06:50,000
give it up for the one and
only mister Bellmore. Whoa wow, look

990
01:06:50,039 --> 01:06:56,599
at that doggie fresh in the house. Favorite Adamos nineteen eighty four in the

991
01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:00,599
house. Track number six is the
track number six. I don't know,

992
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:06,599
I don't know. I think it's
three. So Randy and Christine may remember

993
01:07:06,639 --> 01:07:15,079
this name. Uncle Roge. Uncle
Roge. Uncle Roge was DJ did overnights

994
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:20,199
on CMF for thirty something a year, and Rodge just liked doing overnights.

995
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:25,960
I used to pick him up for
me these things and bring him to work

996
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:29,159
because he's leaving during the day and
he had some rental properties and things,

997
01:07:29,199 --> 01:07:31,360
and he never wanted to work during
the day and he didn't like the corporate

998
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:35,360
bullshit of radio. But he did
much like I guess you guys, sort

999
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:40,559
of a different version of that.
He did Homegrown, which was all local

1000
01:07:40,639 --> 01:07:43,559
bands, and they would play that
and they would put out albums and stuff.

1001
01:07:44,079 --> 01:07:48,840
So when I started, there was
a guy on the college campus,

1002
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:53,400
Mark Moran. I went to Fisher
and he called himself Miranimal, and I

1003
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:56,079
said to him, Hey, I
want to steal that name because I was

1004
01:07:56,119 --> 01:08:00,400
on CMF my senior year. So
I was doing it and I started myself

1005
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,320
Miranimal, and Uncle Roger used to
come in and sing to Panama. He

1006
01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:08,920
would go Moranimo. So I had
Charlie Fitzimmons, who now owns Black and

1007
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:13,679
Blue and the Village Bakery and Trotta
and JoJo's and all these other restaurants.

1008
01:08:14,519 --> 01:08:17,520
He sang it and I had a
little shout out that was Ranimal. It's

1009
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:21,560
the Panama song, but it was
Uncle Roger's idea that was the thing.

1010
01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:27,920
Yeah, it was interesting. I
forgot about Homegrown because you don't get a

1011
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:30,760
lot of And then I think Frank
was doing something on a local radio station

1012
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:34,880
as well for a while featuring local
bands, sort of after Homegrown had gone

1013
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:39,439
away. Yeah, he picked it
up, and I think he even benefited

1014
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:45,199
from a Homegrown when he was in
the Frantic Flattops. So yesterday I happened

1015
01:08:45,239 --> 01:08:48,560
to go to Henrietta because my son
wanted to play in that pickup basketball game,

1016
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:53,560
and the gym was over there.
And as we're leaving, the gym

1017
01:08:53,640 --> 01:08:57,079
is near Red Lobster, and I
go, what happened to Red Lobster?

1018
01:08:57,239 --> 01:09:02,640
Like it looks abandoned already, and
they just they just closed, like this

1019
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:08,680
was Monday night. They had Mother's
Day. And then I'm reading on Facebook

1020
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:12,920
some woman says her son showed up
to work and they had a notice on

1021
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,439
the door that says Red Lobster is
permanently closed. So then I look it

1022
01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:24,159
up and depending on the news report, anywhere from forty eight to eighty locations

1023
01:09:24,199 --> 01:09:30,359
around the country just shut down to
avoid bankruptcy. But they didn't see here's

1024
01:09:30,359 --> 01:09:33,279
the thing that I have to say. They don't owe you an explanation.

1025
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:39,239
Unfortunately they don't. It's a business, and this is the cold side of

1026
01:09:39,279 --> 01:09:42,560
business. Take all feelings out of
it. It doesn't matter. Do you

1027
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:45,079
want to work for a company like
that? Probably not would have been nice

1028
01:09:45,119 --> 01:09:53,079
to know, Hey, Doug,
don't show up on Monday. Were done?

1029
01:09:53,279 --> 01:09:56,000
Like, you show up and the
job is in there and you had

1030
01:09:56,000 --> 01:10:00,680
no idea. I mean, that's
terrible because you're planning right. You have

1031
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,439
your your personal budgets and your things, and you you went to get your

1032
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:06,000
gig on and you found bands you
want to see and they got a cover

1033
01:10:06,159 --> 01:10:09,880
charge, but you got the money
because you got your gig. They're saying

1034
01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:15,800
rock Lobster. But then I'm reading
like, I mean, Hattiesburg is gone,

1035
01:10:16,159 --> 01:10:19,479
right, like multiple Red Lobsters.
I think there was one in Florida

1036
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:23,840
that was open for thirty one years
and they're closing it just shut down but

1037
01:10:24,039 --> 01:10:28,840
just I've never seen that happen where
a business of any kind doesn't even tell

1038
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,800
it's employees just boom done. Now, somewhere somebody had to know what was

1039
01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:35,079
coming and what ones were being done, and I would even think at the

1040
01:10:35,119 --> 01:10:39,279
local level someone knew. How the
fuck do you keep your mouth shut?

1041
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:44,359
Well? Are they independently owned?
I don't like a franchise, I don't

1042
01:10:44,359 --> 01:10:46,239
believe. I don't know, because
the one on Ridge Road is still open,

1043
01:10:46,279 --> 01:10:48,560
I believe. Okay, So if
the one on Ridge Roads is open,

1044
01:10:49,119 --> 01:10:53,479
maybe that's true. And maybe corporate
own these eighty around the country.

1045
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:57,560
There maybe just ones who are doing
better money than absolutely. Yeah, So

1046
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:01,119
they're trying to avoid bankruptcy and they're
trying to sell whatever the parent company is.

1047
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:03,720
So in order to sell the parent
company, you don't want to be

1048
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,520
in bankruptcy if you can avoid it. So they sold off or they just

1049
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:11,560
closed. They didn't sell off,
they just closed Red Lobster. For years,

1050
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,159
there was you know, it was
always packed. Yeah, it was

1051
01:11:14,199 --> 01:11:16,479
always packed. But I've never heard
of any place, now you've worked in

1052
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:21,800
the hospitality industry for years any place
just closed. Just that was it done?

1053
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:28,680
Classic cat Oh they just locked their
doors, but there was no warning

1054
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,720
to the dancers had to know.
They didn't know. Wait, they showed

1055
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:34,920
up to get on the pole,
there was no Polly. The owner shut

1056
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:39,039
the door at midnight and said,
that's it. We're done. Really,

1057
01:11:39,199 --> 01:11:42,880
whatever you want. Dennis, No, was it the Mirage? No?

1058
01:11:43,279 --> 01:11:45,159
Ohh yeah, Classic Cat? Sorry? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

1059
01:11:45,199 --> 01:11:49,359
he goes, that's it. And
even my friend DJ, he goes,

1060
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:51,800
Doug, we're done. And I'm
getting all these calls like did you know.

1061
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:55,199
I'm like, no, I have
worked there in ten years. The

1062
01:11:55,239 --> 01:11:58,920
Classic Cat just folded up? Was
it? Wow? For whatever reasons?

1063
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:02,079
I was rumors. I don't know
for sure, so I'm not gonna say

1064
01:12:02,079 --> 01:12:04,479
anything, but yeah, that was
that. Well. It's a tough business

1065
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:10,000
because if you're not any business,
right, especially when you're in business for

1066
01:12:10,039 --> 01:12:12,800
yourself you own your own business back. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I

1067
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:15,720
was gonna say, it's really hard. And sometimes the business owner, it's

1068
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:18,960
if you let everybody know first of
all, like the employees might stop working

1069
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:23,680
so hard, right, But also
it's a pride thing. It's a sure,

1070
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:25,880
it's a pride thing. You're really
working hard, you put your all

1071
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:28,520
into it, and then to have
to close. It's often a decision you

1072
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:30,800
make on the spot, yeah,
or you make it the day before.

1073
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:32,680
It's like, you know what,
it's not we're gonna lose more money then

1074
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:36,279
we're gonna make if we stay open, right, So it's it. It

1075
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:40,119
is tough. But I mean just
all of a sudden to close and that

1076
01:12:40,359 --> 01:12:43,239
the tour is locked. And then
I go, I think there's gonna be

1077
01:12:43,279 --> 01:12:46,840
auctions for the stuff inside. Yeah, right, to get the stuff.

1078
01:12:47,039 --> 01:12:51,640
What's stuff? The equipment, all
the equipment, not just that the artwork.

1079
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:56,720
They got swordfish on the wall,
that would look good, Doug Path,

1080
01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:01,560
swordfish, swordfish on the Happy Mother
Tody, Mom? Put that over

1081
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:05,600
your mantle or over your bed?
I mean, what says man, more

1082
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:09,439
than a swordfish over the bed?
I jumped in. I ran out a

1083
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:13,279
fishing line and jumped in and got
that. I saw a video of a

1084
01:13:13,359 --> 01:13:16,800
woman on a boat fishing off the
side right and all of a sudden,

1085
01:13:16,840 --> 01:13:21,279
something big gets on the line and
the pole shoots out of her hands.

1086
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:27,239
The guy standing behind her pushes her
back, dives in and gets the pole.

1087
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,119
The boat circle to go pick him
up. Oh yeah, same thing.

1088
01:13:30,159 --> 01:13:33,159
But I'm going, what would you
want from Red Lobster. Do they

1089
01:13:33,159 --> 01:13:39,079
have something lights having the window?
Yeah, I think that bit you can

1090
01:13:39,079 --> 01:13:42,159
get those. I think you can
get There's got to be some kind of

1091
01:13:42,159 --> 01:13:46,159
Red Lobster logo or something that you
could have. I don't know. Nostalgia,

1092
01:13:46,199 --> 01:13:51,199
buddy, Yeah, the history of
of Henrietta you're gonna have. Okay,

1093
01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:57,319
everybody, get your h get your
loster caws and clapping for a back

1094
01:13:57,399 --> 01:14:05,840
and the bobcats Red Lobster. But
it is a smart move to not have

1095
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:11,680
anybody answer questions like you're closing.
You don't have to answer any questions whatsoever.

1096
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,199
Honey, I'm going to buy the
ring as soon as my paycheck comes

1097
01:14:14,239 --> 01:14:19,960
in the marrow. I ain't buying
it. Lying again, imagine you're you.

1098
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:24,439
You come home with a fake swordfish. You got it at the Red

1099
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:27,640
Lobster auction. That would be amazing. That would put that on the wall.

1100
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:30,520
That would get you laid. Or
a wheel or a wheel they have

1101
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:34,479
the ship wheel, the ship wheel
back? Come on, how great with

1102
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:39,439
that? Wait a minute, they
ship Wheel're still I want the lobster tank.

1103
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,720
Did they run? Did they take
the lobsters home with them or is

1104
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:46,880
it still bubbling? Did they have
lobsters show? Did we miss a Jewish

1105
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:54,720
holadays? Everybody anybody coming in today
just waving by? Wait, did they

1106
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,840
have lobster tanks in there? They
have been the red lobster once. Oh

1107
01:14:57,880 --> 01:15:00,000
I didn't know that. As soon
as you walk in they got them.

1108
01:15:00,199 --> 01:15:03,720
Yeah, because Jimmy Schubert used to
do a bit about the fish, like

1109
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:08,560
at a at a fish restaurant and
uh, he goes. You're you know,

1110
01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:11,680
you're swimming around in there one day
and you're going, hey, Larry,

1111
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:13,800
look at all these people, and
you're looking at all this stuff,

1112
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:16,199
And all of a sudden one day
you see what looks like Larry going by

1113
01:15:16,319 --> 01:15:23,960
on a plate with some garnish.
Larry. It's so funny. I would

1114
01:15:24,079 --> 01:15:27,560
I want something? I want the
ship wheel from inside? Uh? Or

1115
01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:30,560
the big net. Didn't they have
a giant net with buoys? Yeah?

1116
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:35,359
I want the net with boys.
Yes, the shells, all that stuff,

1117
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:39,199
all that decor. Come on,
Doug, all right, Hey,

1118
01:15:39,359 --> 01:15:42,800
maybe we could find it on some
post. Nautical. Somebody in the finger

1119
01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:47,159
Legs has a nautical theme. Don't
they not write? How many? How

1120
01:15:47,159 --> 01:15:50,119
many homes have you gone to?
And they have an old oar as the

1121
01:15:50,159 --> 01:15:55,600
banister. Well, my ex husband
has a ship wheel on the wall home.

1122
01:15:55,800 --> 01:16:00,039
Oh, I didn't mean to bring
up a memory, trying to trying

1123
01:16:00,079 --> 01:16:03,000
to bring up both sad things for
you. I saw a tears start to

1124
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:09,000
come down her eye, just trickle
down in the navy, No red lobster

1125
01:16:09,039 --> 01:16:13,159
went out of business and he won
the auction. Happened. They just wanted

1126
01:16:13,159 --> 01:16:15,039
the big wheel in the house.
It was like a do you live on

1127
01:16:15,079 --> 01:16:19,920
the bay or anything on the lake? Yeah? I dated somebody who lived

1128
01:16:20,319 --> 01:16:24,840
her front yard was basically Ironicquoy Bay
parked. The boat had a little dock

1129
01:16:25,319 --> 01:16:30,840
and uh we put in big like
nautical rope as the fence around the around

1130
01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:32,399
the nice touch. Yeah, it's
a nice touch. Right, that's what

1131
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:36,399
I'm saying. If you need these
nice touches, well, why not the

1132
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:40,000
nautical build a sailor. I can't
think I could go. I got some

1133
01:16:40,079 --> 01:16:47,600
ice in my freezer from the Titanic. Yeah, that's what I wanted.

1134
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:53,880
No red lobster on my wall.
I think it could be kind of hot.

1135
01:16:54,079 --> 01:16:57,319
Yeah, right, what do you
get in there? If you if

1136
01:16:57,319 --> 01:17:00,479
I took you home and you and
I had this big swordfish in my little

1137
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:04,279
apartment, what would you say,
don't you have a dog? Or would

1138
01:17:04,279 --> 01:17:13,760
you say what would you say?
I wanted I gotta go use your bathroom.

1139
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:19,239
They call me three minutes, so
back you're you're divorced in a relationship

1140
01:17:19,279 --> 01:17:28,640
now, Scott kind of, I'm
Groopie brings it to the speak I wanted,

1141
01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:32,359
but I wanted a lot of ass
pat did. Yeah. Yeah,

1142
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:35,880
that's why she had such a hard
time getting into the Rock and Roll Hall

1143
01:17:35,880 --> 01:17:40,640
of Fame. People were keeping around, They're like, uh, did you

1144
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:45,680
ever do the escape plan? Text? Oh? Yes, yeah, yeah

1145
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:49,039
on dates like what my friend?
You have a friend? She knows I

1146
01:17:49,079 --> 01:17:54,279
need you now? Really in three
minutes? You want to hear something that

1147
01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:57,239
So this is a real thing.
I always wondered if, like I I'm

1148
01:17:57,279 --> 01:18:00,399
not, I wouldn't you want to
hear? When I was the date with

1149
01:18:00,439 --> 01:18:02,159
the girl and I went to the
bathroom and I text my buddy while I'm

1150
01:18:02,159 --> 01:18:04,239
peeing, I'm like, hey,
I'm good. I'm having a really good

1151
01:18:04,279 --> 01:18:09,760
time with this girl. And I
went baked table and I actually text her,

1152
01:18:10,399 --> 01:18:14,640
oh my god, I almost yeah. Yeah, at least that's better

1153
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:18,399
than then, Hey call me,
get me the fun out of the Yeah.

1154
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:20,560
I can suck up a boloney,
Sam, Yeah, I think you

1155
01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:26,439
could. You could suck up a
two car funeral. Jesus, It's like,

1156
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:29,520
what's going on right? Yeah?
How long have you been married?

1157
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:33,840
Michael? Twelve years? Man?
Good? Look see how I knew it

1158
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:39,319
right on the spot. He knew, he knew he got a sword fish

1159
01:18:39,319 --> 01:18:43,359
in the living room. Well,
that's how you do it. Keep it

1160
01:18:43,399 --> 01:18:45,119
there. That's why if she tries
to leave, you just pin her to

1161
01:18:45,119 --> 01:18:47,640
the wall. You want to hear
a fact that this is not a joke,

1162
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:51,600
But I just heard this last month. Is pirates. Why they wore

1163
01:18:51,680 --> 01:18:58,359
the ie patch was to get their
one eye used to night vision. Oh

1164
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:01,039
I didn't know that sailing I either
did. I didn't know. That's really

1165
01:19:01,159 --> 01:19:04,600
a little fun fact for you.
Since we're talking about red lobster. It

1166
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:09,880
is weird pirate. I've never asked
why why the patch? This is something

1167
01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:15,960
tragic happening everybody. Yeah, I
always right. Or you got some in

1168
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:23,439
your eye? Yes, exactly it
God iboogers. The whole thing's gone.

1169
01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:27,039
It's terrible. Yeah, kind of
their night vision. Oh wow, I

1170
01:19:27,079 --> 01:19:30,359
didn't know that. Look at that. I love the idea though of the

1171
01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:33,399
the on call friend. Yeah,
that you can do that, somebody.

1172
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:39,359
I think there's apps now that you
can have call you. You can set

1173
01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:45,279
up a time so it'll call you
automatically. So it looks like somebody just

1174
01:19:45,359 --> 01:19:48,399
set me something to If you are
a bartender and a woman comes up and

1175
01:19:48,439 --> 01:19:53,159
asks you for an angel shot,
you're supposed to call nine one one?

1176
01:19:54,119 --> 01:19:58,079
Is that what it is? The
angel shot? Is that because she's in

1177
01:19:58,239 --> 01:20:01,720
trouble. That's what I've heard in
trouble feels uncomfortable. Yeah, maybe the

1178
01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:09,720
guy drove. Yeah. Yeah,
the roofie thing I always was thought seems

1179
01:20:10,119 --> 01:20:13,840
and I don't this will sound terrible, but it was always like something that

1180
01:20:13,960 --> 01:20:17,319
happened to somewhere else, to someone
else, right, like it just doesn't

1181
01:20:17,359 --> 01:20:21,359
happen here. And then, uh, it's happened to me three or four

1182
01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:25,840
times. I wake up and then
they're gone. So I mean not a

1183
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:28,560
good you know. I just all
my clothes are on, my shoes,

1184
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,399
are my belts real tight? Don't
call me? Is right on my forehead.

1185
01:20:31,399 --> 01:20:33,039
I look at the mirror, I'm
like, okay, I got it.

1186
01:20:36,399 --> 01:20:41,279
No, but there was as a
woman I'm still in contact with today.

1187
01:20:43,359 --> 01:20:45,720
How'd you get away from him.
I roofeed him. I used to

1188
01:20:46,239 --> 01:20:50,000
tranquilize her dark stopping buying her like
their pills are roofie. Don't ever date

1189
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:59,840
anyone from the zoo, Doug tranquilizer. No, But this girl I knew

1190
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:04,279
she came and she showed up late. She was an intern and she showed

1191
01:21:04,359 --> 01:21:08,399
up late, and I had known
her for a while, and Uh,

1192
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:12,920
I'm going, something's not right.
And then the radio station manager was getting

1193
01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:15,319
annoyed and they wanted to fire her, and I what happened? And she

1194
01:21:15,479 --> 01:21:18,640
starts talking. I go, you
need to go get tested, because she's

1195
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:20,800
like, yeah, I was just
out and I think I had one,

1196
01:21:20,920 --> 01:21:24,479
And all of a sudden, she
goes like these guys showed up sure enough.

1197
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:28,279
And then they went back on the
security camera and they saw him put

1198
01:21:28,319 --> 01:21:30,439
some kind of liquid in her drink. Isn't that scary? Right here in

1199
01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:33,680
Rochester? And you had no idea? But I tried to look for the

1200
01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:36,920
silver lining and everything back. I
said, God, damn, you're so

1201
01:21:38,159 --> 01:21:45,680
hot that someone what that doesn't work? I mean, how scary? Is

1202
01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:50,960
that? That scary? Anybody?
Yeah? Anybody? I share my location

1203
01:21:51,159 --> 01:21:55,840
permanently with several friends, and you
do yeah, on my phone and most

1204
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:58,920
people when I am dating and not
in a relationship and I go on a

1205
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:03,439
first date, everybody in my circle. Yeah, have you ever had people

1206
01:22:04,319 --> 01:22:10,800
go to the restaurant and just sit, you know, like the secret shopper

1207
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:14,880
somewhere. But do you ever do
you ever have somebody like sit like a

1208
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:18,479
booth or two away? No?
Because Tambourine Mom's the one I heard that.

1209
01:22:19,159 --> 01:22:23,840
She said, listen, have you
ever go on a date? This

1210
01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:29,319
is the to Uh well, actually, I think there was a time my

1211
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:33,640
mom's sister, who was like fifteen
years younger, was on dating when they

1212
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:39,600
just were starting dating apps, and
she was meeting some guy at a restaurant

1213
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:43,159
and my father and my brother in
law, who was a West Point My

1214
01:22:43,359 --> 01:22:45,199
brother in law was a West Point
graduate and was a captain in the army,

1215
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:48,760
they went and just sat somewhere else
in the restaurant just to keep an

1216
01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:55,319
eye. And I'm like, hmm, I don't know. Well, yeah,

1217
01:22:55,359 --> 01:22:58,840
it is said, now all right, here's the other one. Now

1218
01:22:58,920 --> 01:23:01,239
we've talked a lot about get your
gig on, and get your gig on

1219
01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:05,079
started on Facebook, right, and
then you have now this fabulous website.

1220
01:23:05,119 --> 01:23:10,239
Get your gig gig on dot org. Have you ever heard of the Facebook

1221
01:23:10,279 --> 01:23:16,600
page? Are we dating the same
guy? Oh? I just had conversation.

1222
01:23:17,119 --> 01:23:20,560
Fantastic, what happened? I mean, I'm on it? What do

1223
01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:24,399
you mean you're on it? I'm
on that page. I'm a member of

1224
01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:28,000
that group. You're a member of
that group? Yeah? Uh, it's

1225
01:23:28,039 --> 01:23:30,600
more for entertainment. Yeah, I
would think so. They it's definitely got

1226
01:23:30,680 --> 01:23:34,720
a Jerry Springer asque attitude about it. I think that that that's certainly true.

1227
01:23:35,119 --> 01:23:38,479
I think that my picture popped up
there once. I think it was

1228
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:41,840
put up as a joke, and
then thankfully people just wrote nice things and

1229
01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:45,800
no one knew if I were dating
anybody or not, which I keep it

1230
01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:51,079
very very nobody's business dating, it's
not, but there was I know some

1231
01:23:51,199 --> 01:23:55,479
people. I know a guy who
was dating a couple of different women,

1232
01:23:55,920 --> 01:24:00,439
and I guess one woman really thought
it was exclusive. And but you gotta

1233
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,680
have a gut feeling, don't you. I mean, I always call it

1234
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:08,600
your gut feeling, call it your
intuition. You're you're inner being whatever,

1235
01:24:09,039 --> 01:24:11,640
something's telling you something's up. So
you go on the website and you just

1236
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:14,399
say it's anybody else dating this guy
and someone writes back, oh my god,

1237
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:20,520
I am that's my husband. Has
that happened? No ship multiple times?

1238
01:24:20,640 --> 01:24:26,039
What you don't someone saying like,
oh, that person's married to my

1239
01:24:26,119 --> 01:24:30,800
cousin or people. Yeah, how
many members are on this thousands and there's

1240
01:24:31,119 --> 01:24:35,079
for every town, there's there's all
over the place. I know there's a

1241
01:24:35,079 --> 01:24:42,720
Buffalo one and I know that there's
a yeah, because I have a friend

1242
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:45,359
who's a pretty well known guy and
he's talked about it on this podcast.

1243
01:24:45,399 --> 01:24:50,800
Greg Connors went out on a lunch, but it was he thought it was

1244
01:24:50,920 --> 01:24:56,319
more like a friend thing coworker type. I think this person may have worked

1245
01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:00,199
in the periphery of law, maybe
something that supports law more or less.

1246
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:03,520
And so went and had lunch,
and then she went and put his picture

1247
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:08,600
up and on the Buffalo page sing
to anybody dating this And her purpose was

1248
01:25:09,159 --> 01:25:13,439
she was interested, and so she
was just trying to clear the lanes.

1249
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:17,000
So the space it's calling out the
guy. Yeah, he was pissed when

1250
01:25:17,039 --> 01:25:24,359
he saw. He's like on tlip. Yeah, you assume that that person's

1251
01:25:24,399 --> 01:25:28,359
doing someone. It's not freedom of
press. It's just crapping and cutting and

1252
01:25:28,359 --> 01:25:31,119
putting my picture there. Yeah,
no, no at all. But the

1253
01:25:31,319 --> 01:25:41,079
the wire guys so fucking dumb guys, non equal balance. Say it's more

1254
01:25:41,159 --> 01:25:45,920
guys, because if you're daily,
if you're married, and then you're gonna

1255
01:25:45,920 --> 01:25:50,920
get caught anymore. You just are
especially. Yeah, but there's cameras everywhere.

1256
01:25:51,760 --> 01:25:56,199
Hey, hey, I just saw, you know, Doug walking by

1257
01:25:56,319 --> 01:26:00,479
with the Missus DeSalvo on my ring
doorbell, you know what I mean.

1258
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:03,720
I was just trying to see if
the mailman had come and the herds,

1259
01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:09,399
Doug and Missus de Salvo and I
just had to dinner with the Dessalvos two

1260
01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:12,720
weeks ago. Well, I told
her not to take anything right, take

1261
01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:16,159
her teeth. By the way,
Missus de Salvo was a porn that we

1262
01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:21,039
watched like when I was. I
was, I used to I don't know.

1263
01:26:21,119 --> 01:26:25,479
I was part of the discussing here. It was part of a radio

1264
01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:28,000
show. Wasn't my radio show?
I was. I was producing this radio

1265
01:26:28,039 --> 01:26:30,560
show and we all went to Canada, some tourism thing. We're staying at

1266
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:34,279
a hotel and the host of the
show, whose name may or may not

1267
01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:38,800
be Brother Weez, comes down and
goes bra you gotta see this porn all

1268
01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:41,800
I watched last night. So Tommy
and I were staying in the room together.

1269
01:26:42,279 --> 01:26:45,479
We watched missus out. We laughed. It was like a comedy.

1270
01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:47,479
It was so bad. It was
so comical, and she was not She

1271
01:26:47,680 --> 01:26:56,680
looked like something you would dig Philip
Dillar, this is something. Well,

1272
01:26:56,680 --> 01:26:59,760
you're staying older. She was older. She was older, and it was

1273
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:01,479
just so it was just corny language. It was like, really funny,

1274
01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:05,439
you should get my new girlfriend on
their site. What she's seventy two in

1275
01:27:05,479 --> 01:27:12,359
a DJ but she plays rap music. Her name's bust a Hip. I

1276
01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:15,479
just had to see. I just
had to work. I was waiting.

1277
01:27:15,520 --> 01:27:18,880
I didn't think it would I just
I leaned back because like here it comes

1278
01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:23,359
to lean too. Yeah. She
had one one leg. Really yeah.

1279
01:27:23,399 --> 01:27:27,439
She worked that peg. Oh she
had a one leg. She held her

1280
01:27:27,720 --> 01:27:30,760
socks up with thumbtacks. Really yeah. I heard that she worked a red

1281
01:27:30,800 --> 01:27:35,840
lobster had a patch over. She's
now homeless because she doesn't have a job.

1282
01:27:36,039 --> 01:27:39,840
They closed it. They still can't
get over that. Just put a

1283
01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:42,359
sign up. Hey, I had
lost her. They were doing so well

1284
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:50,439
out sponsor. But you know what
was interesting you were talking about comments in

1285
01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:54,119
the last segment. Yeah, I
don't know if I saw it. On

1286
01:27:54,239 --> 01:28:00,439
thirteen WAM they had the article and
I was reading the comments and the caption

1287
01:28:00,640 --> 01:28:05,359
on the headline read red lobster on
the Jeff in Henrietta closes, and everyone

1288
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:11,119
was like thrown out a sort the
Jeff. Who calls Jefferson Jeff? Yeah,

1289
01:28:11,199 --> 01:28:13,720
the Jeff. Yeah, I've lived
here thirty years. I've never heard

1290
01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:16,039
it called that. Well, maybe
maybe we're onto something new. Maybe we

1291
01:28:16,159 --> 01:28:18,960
need to start trying to call it
the Jeff the Jeff. We'll call it

1292
01:28:19,079 --> 01:28:23,319
the Jeff. That would be a
great thing. That just made me pull

1293
01:28:23,359 --> 01:28:28,039
out. I just have to read. Uh So Sandra Dorley at Sandra Underscore

1294
01:28:28,119 --> 01:28:33,039
Doorley on x who, by the
way, greatest advertisement for Quitella ever.

1295
01:28:33,680 --> 01:28:36,960
I mean that deep neck contour she
got. She looked hot on a on

1296
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:42,520
a body cam at sixty. I
gotta say the great word. So,

1297
01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:45,960
but all the things somebody rights go
away. You're a joke of a human.

1298
01:28:45,039 --> 01:28:48,159
Why do you still have a job. Resign? These are the comments.

1299
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:53,119
Aren't you supposed to resign? Now? Keep up the great works and

1300
01:28:53,239 --> 01:28:57,239
somebody, great job da. Somebody
says, why haven't you resigned, yet

1301
01:28:57,279 --> 01:29:00,479
Monroe County needs a day DA who
doesn't believe they above the wall. I

1302
01:29:02,319 --> 01:29:05,840
love that people have opinions, but
they're like assholes, you know, and

1303
01:29:06,039 --> 01:29:10,760
so yeah, and so you just
you spit it out there and it's like,

1304
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:15,079
this is just it's like yelling into
a hole. No one you know

1305
01:29:15,119 --> 01:29:17,039
what I mean. There's nobody hearing
you. No one's saying anything. But

1306
01:29:17,119 --> 01:29:20,079
I love that the Jeff who calls
it the Jeff. I haven't called it

1307
01:29:20,159 --> 01:29:25,199
the Jeff ever ever at all.
Yeah, people were like, you get

1308
01:29:25,239 --> 01:29:28,359
the article, why are you calling
it? Has anybody dated this guy on

1309
01:29:28,520 --> 01:29:33,880
the Jeff? He used to work
in red laughter. I had a friend

1310
01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:39,319
who posted about a guy on there
and she court he took her to court.

1311
01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:45,800
Wait, yeah, he was real
angry. Could you good leaning that

1312
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:47,640
mike a little bit more? So? That's okay, So tell me I

1313
01:29:47,760 --> 01:30:00,720
used to a microphone because the hip
so yeah, sure deaf? And was

1314
01:30:00,800 --> 01:30:03,720
he someone who was kind of known
she was dating him? She thought she

1315
01:30:03,800 --> 01:30:06,880
was the only one someone else was. It was true he was dating two

1316
01:30:06,920 --> 01:30:11,760
women. He felt that his name
was slandered and slandered, Well is it

1317
01:30:12,720 --> 01:30:17,279
when you're dating somebody is it kind
of unless they say exclusive, do you

1318
01:30:17,479 --> 01:30:23,079
just kind of right? Yeah?
I mean it is a fine line because

1319
01:30:23,079 --> 01:30:26,880
it's a hard thing, and especially
when you know, I don't know you

1320
01:30:27,000 --> 01:30:29,279
were married, I don't know if
you have kids, all that stuff.

1321
01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:31,439
You have two it's tough to navigate, right, and so you're trying to

1322
01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:34,600
keep all that stuff. And yet
at the same time, you don't want

1323
01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:40,039
to get run over by somebody either. Yeah, and you sleep with somebody

1324
01:30:40,079 --> 01:30:44,720
on the first date, it happens, right, are you exclusive or you

1325
01:30:44,920 --> 01:30:47,239
just we'll see what I think.
Wasn't it good? You don't want to

1326
01:30:47,239 --> 01:30:49,359
see me again? Or how do
you do that? I mean, honestly,

1327
01:30:49,439 --> 01:30:53,359
I was talking to this girl on
one of the dating sites and she

1328
01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:55,760
texted me. This is not a
joke. She text me earlier and she

1329
01:30:55,840 --> 01:30:58,800
goes, hey, how's it going, and I said good, I'm just

1330
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:01,560
out driving, and then three hours
pass I go and you you know,

1331
01:31:01,960 --> 01:31:06,520
with a conversation. I just ended
up deleting her and blocking her because it

1332
01:31:06,640 --> 01:31:12,920
was just random things just to she
wouldn't respond. Hang on, if you

1333
01:31:13,079 --> 01:31:15,079
if somebody touch you and then you
respond, you don't hear from from three

1334
01:31:15,119 --> 01:31:20,880
hours later. I'm not responder.
See, this is when you're starting a

1335
01:31:20,960 --> 01:31:25,920
conversation, keep it going. Yeah, but maybe she put it out there

1336
01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:28,279
because this has happened for a couple
of weeks, Like she'll say a couple

1337
01:31:28,319 --> 01:31:31,359
of words, then nothing, and
then but like three days later, Hey,

1338
01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:36,479
how you been. I'm like not
getting this okay, inconsistent. Yeah,

1339
01:31:36,560 --> 01:31:41,159
I can't have that. What is
the best dating site? If you

1340
01:31:41,239 --> 01:31:45,800
were on it? M did you
ever do any dating sites? Hinge?

1341
01:31:46,239 --> 01:31:49,119
Hinge? What? What? What
is? My niece tells me to do

1342
01:31:49,359 --> 01:31:56,359
hinge? Yeah, I guess in
the whole dating app world, but I

1343
01:31:56,399 --> 01:32:00,760
don't know. You can answer questions
about yourself and out of it being like

1344
01:32:00,800 --> 01:32:03,880
a whole bio, you actually answer
like specific questions. Okay, I don't

1345
01:32:03,920 --> 01:32:08,560
know. They all kind of suck. Yeah, it's it's not fun out

1346
01:32:08,600 --> 01:32:11,720
there. It's not. No,
I mean it's entertaining at first. Yeah,

1347
01:32:12,439 --> 01:32:14,800
if you have no place to meet
somebody, at least you're looking at

1348
01:32:14,840 --> 01:32:19,520
pictures with the hope that somebody's going
to respond. And cars is not always

1349
01:32:19,560 --> 01:32:26,079
ideal either. No, no,
especially but where all eyes around you at

1350
01:32:26,119 --> 01:32:28,600
a bar, you're up there singing
and everybody wants you. It's got to

1351
01:32:28,640 --> 01:32:31,000
be tough. Oh yeah, I'm
sure. I had a friend meet her

1352
01:32:31,079 --> 01:32:33,680
husband at Wegmans. So then I
started like dressing cube when I went to

1353
01:32:33,720 --> 01:32:39,800
Wegmans, because maybe that's where I
all meet him. You go to wait,

1354
01:32:40,079 --> 01:32:44,199
how did she meet her husband?
Because it was really sweet and they

1355
01:32:44,239 --> 01:32:46,159
both have kids and they were in
line and then exchange numbers and now they're

1356
01:32:46,159 --> 01:32:50,840
married. Really and what Wegmans was
it? I don't know, We'll see

1357
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:57,399
that's the problem. Okay, yeah, because the East Avenue Wegmans I used

1358
01:32:57,399 --> 01:33:00,720
to hear was the hookup Wegmans.
But I don't I I could see that.

1359
01:33:00,960 --> 01:33:03,000
Yeah, single professional, A lot
of single people down there. Yeah,

1360
01:33:03,520 --> 01:33:09,199
but I think you could meet people
any of the gym. Yeah.

1361
01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:12,640
Not a music site. Not a
music site, get your gig on,

1362
01:33:12,880 --> 01:33:16,479
get your date on. Maybe there
needs to be maybe wha look at this.

1363
01:33:16,720 --> 01:33:20,279
Maybe we needed subsidiary. I'm just
saying that could be. I liked

1364
01:33:20,399 --> 01:33:25,319
I love knowing that A guy sued
though, Yeah, yeah, went after

1365
01:33:25,399 --> 01:33:29,119
it well and there was some kind
of settlement. I'm not sure there was

1366
01:33:29,159 --> 01:33:31,760
a settlement, some kind of Yeah, she there was things that she said

1367
01:33:31,800 --> 01:33:35,319
that were untrue. Did she have
to pay money? I don't remember.

1368
01:33:36,319 --> 01:33:42,239
Let's get him on here. Well
her first, it would be it would

1369
01:33:42,239 --> 01:33:45,319
be a riot. Yeah, she's
a waged doodle. Well maybe maybe,

1370
01:33:45,399 --> 01:33:49,359
Yeah, that's why we got an
interview. She could be good. What

1371
01:33:49,520 --> 01:33:53,880
if all of a sudden, you
you know, we have her in one

1372
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:58,199
near on and you strike a conversation. Yeah, she doesn't have to worry

1373
01:33:58,239 --> 01:34:00,399
about me dating anybody else. Of
course, the women I can't figure out

1374
01:34:00,399 --> 01:34:08,800
their phones that put out Facebook.
So hell yeah, right June twentieth,

1375
01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:15,119
you know, all right, we'll
take a moment. A famous person who

1376
01:34:15,439 --> 01:34:20,359
has spent time and I believe owned
property I thought owned property in the Greater

1377
01:34:20,479 --> 01:34:27,199
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1378
01:34:27,399 --> 01:34:30,279
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Now is it really to dance too? Well? It's like you stop me

1411
01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:10,880
drinking and saved my life. Uh
that's what it sort of is. I

1412
01:37:10,960 --> 01:37:14,560
mean, you saved my life.
Is this what it's about? I don't.

1413
01:37:14,640 --> 01:37:16,479
I don't even think of it as
country And I know It probably is

1414
01:37:16,760 --> 01:37:24,840
Chris Stapleton genre. But as you
need a need six slow songs play soon

1415
01:37:24,880 --> 01:37:30,359
the night and this is always top
one or two, whereas nobody wants to

1416
01:37:30,399 --> 01:37:35,560
play the y m C anymore.
That's become passe, my friend. A

1417
01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:42,800
lot of years. Yeah, well, you know, you know things are

1418
01:37:42,880 --> 01:37:45,319
dying off. Yes, you know, people that wanted to dance to it

1419
01:37:45,439 --> 01:37:50,640
can't dance do it. They got
a hip replacement and shoulder replacement. Replacement

1420
01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:53,840
gets you back out in the game, my friend, that too long.

1421
01:37:54,560 --> 01:38:00,920
You worked pretty good. I see
that Rory McElroy is divorcing his very beautiful

1422
01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:08,000
wife, Erica Stole. Erica I
believe is from Irondequoit, Yes, And

1423
01:38:08,079 --> 01:38:12,560
I thought, well, I thought
they met at the Ryder Cup in twenty

1424
01:38:12,680 --> 01:38:16,199
twelve. She was transportation, like
you know, and that's how they met.

1425
01:38:16,319 --> 01:38:20,159
And then he was I don't know
if this was I don't want to

1426
01:38:20,159 --> 01:38:24,000
say it this way, but I'll
say it this way was rebound because he

1427
01:38:24,239 --> 01:38:30,920
was involved with I believe, a
professional athlete, and that he was engaged

1428
01:38:30,960 --> 01:38:34,880
with Caroline. What was Niaki?
What was Niaki? What was she a

1429
01:38:34,880 --> 01:38:41,039
press professional? I thought she was
a tennis star. Yeah, I thought

1430
01:38:41,079 --> 01:38:44,520
she was a tennis star, like
up there in the rankings and tennis,

1431
01:38:45,800 --> 01:38:48,520
but either way, but this was
so they met in twenty fourteen, they

1432
01:38:48,600 --> 01:38:53,399
married in twenty seventeen. So here
we are about eight years later. They

1433
01:38:53,399 --> 01:38:57,640
have a baby girl who's three years
old. So I know there's a prenup.

1434
01:38:57,840 --> 01:39:02,239
I don't know anything about prenups because
in the time that he was married,

1435
01:39:02,279 --> 01:39:05,760
in those eight years, he won
one hundred and ten point nine million

1436
01:39:05,800 --> 01:39:13,840
dollars in in Yeah, she's going
to see some of that. That well,

1437
01:39:14,199 --> 01:39:18,079
that that's what he made playing golf, plus anytime he won and I

1438
01:39:18,159 --> 01:39:24,319
think he's won three or four majors. The endorsements, oh, absolutely right,

1439
01:39:24,479 --> 01:39:28,279
and millions of dollars in endorsements during
that time. I don't know what

1440
01:39:28,760 --> 01:39:31,319
the prenup is. And then the
bad part. You know, it's got

1441
01:39:31,439 --> 01:39:38,000
to be really hard being married to
somebody famous. I watched a really dumb

1442
01:39:38,079 --> 01:39:42,359
movie on Prime and I forget I'm
gonna forget the name of it, but

1443
01:39:42,439 --> 01:39:46,399
it had uh was basically about this
woman who's in her forties winds up in

1444
01:39:46,439 --> 01:39:50,640
a relationship with a guy who's twenty
four and he happens to be in a

1445
01:39:50,720 --> 01:39:56,119
boy band, but like a world
renowned boy band. So she goes on

1446
01:39:56,319 --> 01:40:00,680
tour with him in Europe and then
things leak out and in her community in

1447
01:40:00,840 --> 01:40:03,359
the Los Angeles area, the moms
are finding out. She goes to pick

1448
01:40:03,439 --> 01:40:10,079
up her daughter who's seventeen or sixteen
at camp and parents are coming up and

1449
01:40:10,119 --> 01:40:14,279
taking pick because it's slowly leaked out. And I don't know, I mean,

1450
01:40:14,359 --> 01:40:16,119
this doesn't slowly leak out, but
there's a lot of pressure when you're

1451
01:40:16,119 --> 01:40:18,880
in the face. And Rory was
one of the few that stood up and

1452
01:40:19,000 --> 01:40:21,720
said, this live golf tour thing
is bullshit. I won't do it.

1453
01:40:23,119 --> 01:40:27,800
I won't take the money. Now
they're now they're trying to join. Well

1454
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:30,000
I think they are joined now.
So you know that kind of went because

1455
01:40:30,039 --> 01:40:32,640
people are like, well you lost
out of money. Well you don't know

1456
01:40:32,760 --> 01:40:36,119
that. You didn't know what was
going to happen. Yeah, he stood

1457
01:40:36,159 --> 01:40:40,399
up for himself and he's making like
you said, three million, how much

1458
01:40:40,439 --> 01:40:43,600
more? Hundred ten, one hundred
and ten, that's seven more than you

1459
01:40:43,680 --> 01:40:45,920
have. You understand what say,
I'm not picking on you. I'm just

1460
01:40:45,960 --> 01:40:48,920
saying like if someone had said to
you, Doug, I'm giving you seven

1461
01:40:48,960 --> 01:40:53,960
million dollars. That's pretty fucking nice. That is so one hundred and ten

1462
01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:57,640
point nine in earnings. I don't
know what happens. So I know that

1463
01:40:57,840 --> 01:41:00,359
Rory is a member at Oakhill.
Yeah, Now I don't know if that's

1464
01:41:00,560 --> 01:41:04,800
gratis or he's paying the dues or
whatever, or he practices there when he's

1465
01:41:04,880 --> 01:41:10,680
in the area, you know,
visiting in laws or whatever. So I

1466
01:41:10,760 --> 01:41:15,319
texted the president, said how much. I don't know. If it's sixty

1467
01:41:15,399 --> 01:41:18,439
five thousand dollars. It goes by
I think that's a yearly fee. Yeah,

1468
01:41:18,479 --> 01:41:21,640
it goes by your age to get
in. Yeah, it goes by

1469
01:41:21,680 --> 01:41:26,479
your age. It's crazy money for
only so like five months. Yeah,

1470
01:41:26,560 --> 01:41:29,119
so if you get in it,
well you're if you live here, you

1471
01:41:29,239 --> 01:41:31,720
go to the club for dinner and
your wines and different things. But they

1472
01:41:32,600 --> 01:41:39,000
if you it's very prestigious. Obviously. I have a friend that's lungs.

1473
01:41:39,319 --> 01:41:45,359
Yeah, so he's loaded. The
I thought it went by age, like

1474
01:41:45,439 --> 01:41:49,640
if you were to become a member
at twenty one, your initiation fees are

1475
01:41:49,720 --> 01:41:55,439
lower than if you become a member
of fifty one. Yeah, that's how

1476
01:41:55,479 --> 01:42:00,920
it used to be anyway, because
I knew I they used to hang out

1477
01:42:00,640 --> 01:42:04,640
people that were there, a lot
o bachelor's coatillion and all that stuff that

1478
01:42:04,800 --> 01:42:10,119
we did. But I don't know. So maybe she should have seen this

1479
01:42:10,199 --> 01:42:12,800
coming. I have no idea.
People are saying the writing was on the

1480
01:42:12,840 --> 01:42:15,079
wall. He came in twenty second
at the master's and she was not there.

1481
01:42:15,720 --> 01:42:19,880
She's normally there, she's normally as
the caddie. It's tough to say

1482
01:42:19,880 --> 01:42:24,520
what's going on relationships, especially with
a kind of lives. Maybe it's tough

1483
01:42:24,600 --> 01:42:27,880
enough to have a relationship with a
regular job and care, how's it going

1484
01:42:27,920 --> 01:42:32,520
for you over? Oh this is
a year. I gave this girl my

1485
01:42:32,560 --> 01:42:36,039
phone number Sunday. She has not
called you. Really, Yeah, should

1486
01:42:36,039 --> 01:42:40,600
we call her? Did you get
hers? I did not. Oh what

1487
01:42:40,800 --> 01:42:46,079
happened? Oh, we're out playing
cards and it was there's six guys.

1488
01:42:46,119 --> 01:42:49,039
We're playing uker. Three of the
guys on the other side of where I

1489
01:42:49,279 --> 01:42:55,359
was. I want match the place. This woman came in, probably between

1490
01:42:55,640 --> 01:43:01,560
in her forties early forties, and
just fantastic, fantastic, what fantastic chest,

1491
01:43:02,279 --> 01:43:10,840
great smile, and she came down. So I had made a couple

1492
01:43:10,840 --> 01:43:14,239
of jokes, got it laughing,
and at one point she was. She's

1493
01:43:14,640 --> 01:43:16,399
signing out, and she looks in
her purse and she's looking around, and

1494
01:43:16,439 --> 01:43:19,359
I know what she's looking for.
She's looking at for reading glasses. So

1495
01:43:19,600 --> 01:43:25,159
I went over and she couldn't find
my I says, it's seven dollars in

1496
01:43:25,319 --> 01:43:27,439
whatever sense she goes, I can't
read, I go, I know you

1497
01:43:27,560 --> 01:43:30,079
can. So I didn't get a
chance. I was hoping to get her

1498
01:43:30,119 --> 01:43:33,640
a loan or something. Never happened. So I leaned over. I fed

1499
01:43:33,720 --> 01:43:36,359
some paper and I put my name
on it and my number, and then

1500
01:43:36,439 --> 01:43:40,079
she was walking out to car and
I'll be right back, like they Hey,

1501
01:43:40,680 --> 01:43:43,079
you seemed like a cool chick.
You had a lot of balls coming

1502
01:43:43,079 --> 01:43:45,880
out by yourself to you know,
at a bar and had a few laughs.

1503
01:43:45,920 --> 01:43:49,640
And here's my number. And I
had dinner in a question mark best

1504
01:43:49,680 --> 01:43:53,600
I had. So I have not
heard from her. No, you might

1505
01:43:53,720 --> 01:43:56,800
be waiting three days. Do you
know where that is? What? Do

1506
01:43:56,880 --> 01:44:00,479
you know where that piece paper is? Right now? It's probably went right

1507
01:44:00,520 --> 01:44:06,680
in the garbage, right in the
You don't know that done? Done,

1508
01:44:06,920 --> 01:44:11,359
Dougie done. I gave it a
shot. I fear rejection like no other.

1509
01:44:11,640 --> 01:44:15,319
Why I just do fear rejection.
Yeah, I hate it. Then

1510
01:44:15,359 --> 01:44:17,079
are you talking about rejection? It's
in a dictionary. You've heard about it.

1511
01:44:17,399 --> 01:44:21,319
Yes, I got it. Stand
up, it's different. It's not

1512
01:44:23,760 --> 01:44:28,000
really well for me, it is, it's the same. I mean you,

1513
01:44:28,560 --> 01:44:31,199
what happens if you bomb on stage? I just basically rejection? Right?

1514
01:44:32,119 --> 01:44:35,880
So do you not put yourself out
there? I don't. I don't

1515
01:44:36,920 --> 01:44:40,039
know. I got to have a
little feeling of something. I felt a

1516
01:44:40,039 --> 01:44:42,359
little something with her. She got
her laughing, you know, a couple

1517
01:44:42,359 --> 01:44:50,239
of giggles. I'll give it a
shot. You're feeling the prosecco. Wow,

1518
01:44:50,319 --> 01:44:56,279
that's interesting. What happened? So
what do you If you don't put

1519
01:44:56,319 --> 01:44:59,399
yourself out there, how are you
ever going to get anyone? Exactly?

1520
01:44:59,680 --> 01:45:04,039
There's probably counterpart to me somewhere.
You know, guys and women, they're

1521
01:45:04,079 --> 01:45:06,760
on the websites. They are just
hoping to run into somebody and have a

1522
01:45:08,319 --> 01:45:13,119
click. So, hmmm, let
me ask you this. These are the

1523
01:45:13,319 --> 01:45:19,479
top dating red flags America has been
googling, according to Google Analytics. This

1524
01:45:19,720 --> 01:45:26,119
is it Google trends, I should
say, so these are the top ones.

1525
01:45:26,239 --> 01:45:28,840
Let mean, let me there's ten
of them. There's five of them,

1526
01:45:28,960 --> 01:45:30,880
five of them, five of these
are the top ones. Google released

1527
01:45:30,920 --> 01:45:34,000
the listener red flags. Let mean, let me guess. One. It's

1528
01:45:34,279 --> 01:45:43,279
on their phone all the time.
Let me see here, M sorta no,

1529
01:45:43,840 --> 01:45:46,880
I guess they talk about their ex
a lot. Okay, talking to

1530
01:45:47,039 --> 01:45:50,760
an X is number four? Is
it a red flag if they're still friends

1531
01:45:50,840 --> 01:45:55,279
with their axes or can that be
a good thing? I don't know.

1532
01:45:57,000 --> 01:46:00,159
They have kids, I know if
there's some people that are. They say,

1533
01:46:00,199 --> 01:46:01,600
we're better friends now than when we
were married. And it happens.

1534
01:46:01,600 --> 01:46:03,640
People are great friends. They get
married, you can't make it work,

1535
01:46:04,039 --> 01:46:06,520
a couple of kids, and then
they split up and they miss each other.

1536
01:46:06,600 --> 01:46:10,880
They could make it as friends.
But that his husband and wife.

1537
01:46:11,359 --> 01:46:14,399
All right, So you got number
four. There's five. Now these are

1538
01:46:14,479 --> 01:46:19,560
what people are googling. So red
flags that they're googling. They they switch

1539
01:46:19,680 --> 01:46:25,119
jobs a lot. No, no, No, they're on social media a

1540
01:46:25,199 --> 01:46:28,680
lot. That's not even one either. No. They do drugs a lot.

1541
01:46:29,279 --> 01:46:31,880
No. No, I don't know. So I'll give you the first

1542
01:46:31,920 --> 01:46:35,439
one is saying I love you too
soon. If they say it a month

1543
01:46:35,560 --> 01:46:39,920
in maybe, if they say it
on your first date, definitely, Yeah.

1544
01:46:41,319 --> 01:46:45,680
Why would people google that what does
it mean? Because it happened,

1545
01:46:45,960 --> 01:46:47,479
it happened to them and they don't
know how to take it. So what

1546
01:46:47,600 --> 01:46:50,399
do you think You're giving a fucking
advice from Google? Talk to your parents,

1547
01:46:50,760 --> 01:46:55,199
to talk to a buddy, right, yeah, I'll tell you what.

1548
01:46:55,800 --> 01:47:03,359
Fucking run? Uh? Watching true
crime is number two? Really watching

1549
01:47:03,439 --> 01:47:10,199
true crime? I don't know.
If they love true crime shows doesn't mean

1550
01:47:10,279 --> 01:47:13,680
they might try to murder you.
And this is what people are googling.

1551
01:47:14,439 --> 01:47:17,560
A psychologist recently said that being overly
obsessed with it could be a sign of

1552
01:47:18,079 --> 01:47:21,359
unresolved trauma. I haven't looked at
any of the true crime I don't look

1553
01:47:21,359 --> 01:47:24,720
at any of this. Somebody watches
a lot of porn? What that mean

1554
01:47:25,279 --> 01:47:27,880
that'd be ready for a lot of
sex and that, and that you might

1555
01:47:27,960 --> 01:47:30,119
still be working through some issues.
So that's why people were googling it.

1556
01:47:30,199 --> 01:47:32,920
I think if you watch a lot
of porn, it means you're your fear

1557
01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:39,520
rejection and you can't really get intimate
and you just look at something and go,

1558
01:47:39,720 --> 01:47:43,239
oh, if only, if only, if only, and then but

1559
01:47:43,319 --> 01:47:45,800
you're really good at cleaning up spills. What about midget porn? Does a

1560
01:47:45,840 --> 01:47:49,880
short term relationship it's a short term
relationship and it means that you like to

1561
01:47:49,960 --> 01:47:59,039
go to the circus. Are you
familiar with the term love bombing? No?

1562
01:47:59,479 --> 01:48:04,640
Okay, all right, see now
just bombing. I get bombed more

1563
01:48:04,680 --> 01:48:10,399
than Hiroshima. Oh sorry. That's
when someone praises you or showers you with

1564
01:48:10,479 --> 01:48:15,520
gifts early on and then turns psycho. Oh. The Cleveland Clinic defines it

1565
01:48:15,600 --> 01:48:19,319
as a form of psychological and emotional
abuse. It's also something cult leaders do,

1566
01:48:19,880 --> 01:48:24,640
like I guess love bombing to me
was where all of a sudden,

1567
01:48:24,640 --> 01:48:30,439
you're getting like cards and love you
and flowers and all that. I never

1568
01:48:30,520 --> 01:48:33,319
knew it turned psycho after that.
Well, I guess controlling would be a

1569
01:48:33,399 --> 01:48:36,840
form of trying to control somebody.
How early would it be to have a

1570
01:48:36,920 --> 01:48:40,840
gift on the first not a gift, but it's all of a sudden,

1571
01:48:40,920 --> 01:48:45,199
like you're sending like flowers every day
or sign them up for a Flower of

1572
01:48:45,239 --> 01:48:50,239
the month or whatever like that.
Talking to and actually said and then double

1573
01:48:50,439 --> 01:48:55,000
texting, which I don't know what
that is, And according to Google trends,

1574
01:48:55,079 --> 01:48:58,760
that's when they send a follow up
text before you've even replied to the

1575
01:48:58,880 --> 01:49:01,119
first one. Not always a red
flag. It could be a sign they're

1576
01:49:01,159 --> 01:49:06,800
obsessive or controlling. Hello, my
name is doug. Yeah. You don't

1577
01:49:06,960 --> 01:49:10,479
text. No, No, you
don't even get to text. I don't

1578
01:49:10,479 --> 01:49:16,000
even get to text. My numbers
in the trash. I don't have any

1579
01:49:16,039 --> 01:49:19,239
followers on Facebook. It's a lonely
life, an old school dog. I

1580
01:49:19,359 --> 01:49:24,960
still right now, still right,
exactly? What's your number? Got a

1581
01:49:25,039 --> 01:49:29,479
pen? No? Love, I
have a phone. I lost my number

1582
01:49:29,520 --> 01:49:32,079
and I have yours. Oh yeah, I don't tell Did you try that?

1583
01:49:32,359 --> 01:49:36,760
No? No? What else has
been happening with Dougie Fresh? You

1584
01:49:36,920 --> 01:49:40,279
met a chick, you gave her
a number, she threw it in the

1585
01:49:40,319 --> 01:49:43,279
trash. It's my guess. I
got a wedding this weekend for two very

1586
01:49:43,319 --> 01:49:48,640
nice people. One you're making Alex
djingjing Alex's wedding. Okay, think I

1587
01:49:48,760 --> 01:49:53,520
never called me back. I tried
to get reached on heat wedding. Yeah,

1588
01:49:53,840 --> 01:49:57,079
and then you you remember, after
six months of him asking you,

1589
01:49:57,479 --> 01:50:00,199
you finally gave me them. No, yes, six months. I did

1590
01:50:00,239 --> 01:50:04,279
Whiskey River last week. That was
fantastic. On Sunday Sunday Frindays to nine,

1591
01:50:04,479 --> 01:50:08,920
every every Sunday, every Sunday Bob's
got bands down there. I think

1592
01:50:08,960 --> 01:50:12,560
Friday, Saturday, Sunday. They
got a wonderful outdoor pavilion that's gonna be

1593
01:50:12,640 --> 01:50:15,880
rocking, all right. Golf to
sam Creek Golf, to Braemar Golf,

1594
01:50:15,920 --> 01:50:19,800
to my league man. Yeah,
just living the life. You don't have

1595
01:50:19,920 --> 01:50:24,359
time for a relationship. I would
make time for somebody. No. No,

1596
01:50:25,159 --> 01:50:27,319
you can sit in bed and watch
a movie together, fall asleep.

1597
01:50:27,359 --> 01:50:30,079
I mean that's what it's all about. Have some dinner, talk a little

1598
01:50:30,800 --> 01:50:32,840
uh huh. Yeah, ladies,
you're hearing this. This is what you're

1599
01:50:32,880 --> 01:50:38,600
missing out on. You know,
someone who's chival rolling and loving. And

1600
01:50:39,039 --> 01:50:42,199
we'll give When I'm at the dollar
store picking up a jarp, I'm gonna

1601
01:50:42,199 --> 01:50:45,520
get your card. There you go. I got some very great romantic ideas

1602
01:50:45,720 --> 01:50:47,479
with nobody to use them for,
and I'm not gonna give them up.

1603
01:50:47,520 --> 01:50:51,520
Here. Give me one, No, give me one shitty romantic idea that.

1604
01:50:51,640 --> 01:50:54,960
Yeah, I know it's gonna be
it. Come on, you can't

1605
01:50:55,039 --> 01:51:00,279
think about it. You just said
I don't think Wait, you just yeah,

1606
01:51:00,359 --> 01:51:04,079
I haven't romantic ideas. I go
give me one home. Yeah,

1607
01:51:04,119 --> 01:51:12,159
okay, ladies. This then,
and thus we have a lonely Doug steaming

1608
01:51:12,279 --> 01:51:15,520
pile of No, You're not a
steaming pile of loneliness. You're just a

1609
01:51:15,760 --> 01:51:18,520
pile of loneliness. The forty nine
ers are opening up with the jets of

1610
01:51:18,560 --> 01:51:23,039
money. Well, I did see
that the they released five games. Yes,

1611
01:51:23,159 --> 01:51:28,279
so you fans lay it down because
I know the Bills have a Thursday

1612
01:51:28,359 --> 01:51:31,960
night game Week two, Yes,
Week two against Miami in Miami. Yeah,

1613
01:51:32,720 --> 01:51:36,720
and Week one. I hate when
they do the Miami game in Miami

1614
01:51:38,000 --> 01:51:41,479
early in the season. It sucks
for people up here because they only play

1615
01:51:41,520 --> 01:51:45,600
twice a season. That means they're
going to play in Buffalo in December.

1616
01:51:45,159 --> 01:51:50,920
Not necessarily, it could be two
weeks later. They well, they usually

1617
01:51:50,960 --> 01:51:56,239
put that game. I'm telling you, they usually wait that AFC East game

1618
01:51:56,399 --> 01:52:00,199
later. And the only reason it
may be good is if it's playoff and

1619
01:52:00,279 --> 01:52:02,960
it's up here and the and the
weather becomes a factor. But if when

1620
01:52:03,000 --> 01:52:06,880
the Bill sucked for years, it
was fun to go to Miami in December.

1621
01:52:08,199 --> 01:52:12,039
Yeah, we would do a trip
and nobody would go to the game,

1622
01:52:12,640 --> 01:52:14,920
right, just get rocked out.
But it was like, yeah,

1623
01:52:14,920 --> 01:52:16,279
but it was kind of cool because
it's December. It was warm, it

1624
01:52:16,399 --> 01:52:18,520
was you know, it was kind
of it was fun. Well, I'm

1625
01:52:18,520 --> 01:52:23,439
guessing the last game year will be
Bills, either Jets or Miami. They'll

1626
01:52:23,439 --> 01:52:27,920
set it up the way because playoff
implication. Right, sure, Kansas City

1627
01:52:28,039 --> 01:52:32,760
I believe opened up with the Ravens
Thursday night since they won the Super Bowl,

1628
01:52:32,960 --> 01:52:35,920
right, forty nine didn't, Right, we will be back in the

1629
01:52:35,920 --> 01:52:39,479
Super Bowl. And then the forty
nine ers are the Monday night game,

1630
01:52:39,560 --> 01:52:42,359
Monday night game. And who are
they playing? The Jets? The Jets

1631
01:52:42,479 --> 01:52:45,560
Monday night, Monday Night. And
maybe Aaron Rodgers playing with the five downs

1632
01:52:45,680 --> 01:52:49,439
maybe? And is that game in
New York No, it's in San Franz.

1633
01:52:49,560 --> 01:52:53,640
Yeah, they want to Uh.
They said that you're gonna hear this

1634
01:52:53,680 --> 01:52:57,520
about thirty thousand times that the forty
nine ers back in the day passed on

1635
01:52:57,640 --> 01:53:00,079
Aaron Rodgers, and Aaron Rodgers still
has a chip on it shoulder. Okay,

1636
01:53:00,119 --> 01:53:04,920
get picked up, all right.
So the full schedule I believe comes

1637
01:53:04,960 --> 01:53:09,920
out tomorrow Wednesday night, Tomorrow night. When we're taking this on Tuesday at

1638
01:53:10,000 --> 01:53:13,199
eight pm, I think little things
are gonna be leaking out. I think

1639
01:53:13,239 --> 01:53:15,159
we'll be leaking all day. Yeah, yeah, just like your dates depends

1640
01:53:19,880 --> 01:53:23,359
all the primetime games. Now.
I think the Bills are going to be

1641
01:53:23,439 --> 01:53:27,279
in at least four primetime games.
Oh, I easily. I think so.

1642
01:53:27,520 --> 01:53:30,520
Even though they lost Diggs. I
think Josh Allen is just fun to

1643
01:53:30,600 --> 01:53:31,800
watch. Yes, you know,
And I think they're going to make it,

1644
01:53:31,840 --> 01:53:33,720
and I think that's part of it. I think there's going to be

1645
01:53:34,079 --> 01:53:38,920
I think they played the Texans and
I think that'll be a primetime game.

1646
01:53:39,359 --> 01:53:45,000
I think Kansas City will be a
primetime game. I think the are in

1647
01:53:45,079 --> 01:53:48,800
Buffalo. I will be going to
that game with Jeff Connors. Did you

1648
01:53:48,840 --> 01:53:51,319
get the group text that he's taken
all of us? No? Oh,

1649
01:53:51,399 --> 01:53:55,119
you get the wrong name? Yeah, you know how I know you didn't

1650
01:53:55,119 --> 01:53:59,800
get it because his name is Greg
waiting Jeff. I'm think of his cousin,

1651
01:54:00,880 --> 01:54:03,760
wait to get see Jeff. Yes, you did way to screw up

1652
01:54:03,800 --> 01:54:09,760
your own joke, Douggie Fresh.
Yeah that's right, Yeah, my own

1653
01:54:09,840 --> 01:54:13,680
joke. June twentieth, that's a
joke. Fingerlo finger legs. June twentieth.

1654
01:54:13,760 --> 01:54:15,880
We'll have more information as we get
a little close. Actually next week,

1655
01:54:15,920 --> 01:54:18,760
we'll have more information next week.
That'll be for sure. Fun night

1656
01:54:18,800 --> 01:54:23,119
tonight, but it was a fun
night tonight. I'd love for backing the

1657
01:54:23,199 --> 01:54:28,840
bobcat boat Cats for the sideburns,
for get your gig on dot org for

1658
01:54:29,000 --> 01:54:32,199
Dougie Fresh. I'm Bill Moran.
We'll see you tomorrow.