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We're going to Vernon today. Second
date up date. We've got Kevin on

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the line to tell us about a
great first date we had. Good morning

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Kevin, Hey, good morning guys. Welcome to the show. Thank you,

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thank you, thanks for having me. Yeah, tell me about this

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great first date because obviously you're getting
ghosted. I need to know how the

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date was. What'd you do?
Where'd you go? How was it?

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I went on a day with Zoel
Christina. I actually took her bowling,

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which is a lot of fun.
She was a great date, Like,

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we bowled for hours, we joked
around, we had a couple of drinks.

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I hit a couple of strikes,
you know, nice, so nice,

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And I thought, like, for
sure we're going to go out a

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couple times at least after that.
And she's not responding to my texts and

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calls. And it's really confusing because
I thought we had really great chemistry that

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night. It sounds like a very
classic date. I kind of like it.

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I have a question because I have
I've experienced through my friends. They've

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gone on bowling dates and the guys
won't let them use the bumpers like in

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the gutters, and it's like a
real game changer. Now, that's not

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a guy or girls, that is, unless you're twelve. What are you

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talking about, Savannah? You disregard
that, Kevin, unless you're like a

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toddler. Why do you need bumpers
because you don't want to be shooting gutter

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balls all night long? That's not
no whatever, Kevin. You didn't make

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any inappropriate ball jokes, did you? But there I could have? But

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yeah, all right, gotcha?
All right. Anyway, so you've reached

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out to her and you're getting ghosted. Yeah, okay, so we're gonna

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call her. I'm just gonna be
honest with her and tell her that you

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told us it was a great date, and I want to ask her you

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know why she's ghosting. Are you
ready to get some answers? Oh?

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Yeah, I'm ready, Savannah.
All her girlfriends use bumpers when you're bowling?

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What It takes the pressure off.
You can have a couple of drinks

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and not worry about missing like it's
fun. It's bowling. You guys are

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no fun. I literally can't.
That is hysterical. Hello, Hi is

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Christina there? Hi Yah seeking Hey
Christina, it's Courtney. Hey, it's

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Walmart. Jeff, what's up bit, Savannah, we're calling from Kiss ninety

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five to seven. Hey, you're
on the radio this morning. Okay,

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all right, well listen, you're
on second date update. Hopefully you're familiar

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with it. It means somebody went
on a great first date. They're getting

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ghosted and they need answers, and
that's why we're calling you. Okay,

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okay, Well all of refresher memory
just in case. Kevin called us.

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He said he took you bowling or
you guys went bowling. He said it

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was amazing, you guys bold for
quite a long time. You guys had

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cocktails. I think he said the
conversation was great. He felt like a

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connection and that he's reached out to
you. Although he did tell us he

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called and he texted you like three
times, and you're ghosting him. I

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don't know if it's like why excessive
texting? How is the date for you?

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Not good? And the stamming didn't
either. But the guy would just

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not stop talking about karate okay all
the time? Wait wait wait wait wait,

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he wouldn't stop talking about karate.
You wouldn't stop talking or showing or

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like insisting that he practiced moves on
me. It was it was awful.

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Wait what has karate got to do
with bowling? I don't know, but

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he was like, I'm gonna be
a black belt soon. Just you wait,

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like you have to learn this move
like in the bowling alley. It

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was really embarrassing. Wait, and
he was trying moves on you, like

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trying karate moves on you. That's
horrible. Yeah wait wait, I was

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doing that teach your self defense.
I don't know. You were okay,

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fine, but he's he's on the
line. Go ahead, Kevin, Hey,

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Christina. Yeah, one, you
thought it was annoying. I thought

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you were into it, and I
was teaching you a useful art form.

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Like I might have laughed it off
like the first time, but I was

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definitely not into it. And I
think I'm pretty okay at defending myself.

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No, sure, but like it's
it's an art form, you know,

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it's a like self defense art form. And I don't think one people were

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thinking it was weird that we were
doing it. I thought people thought it

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was cute and I was teaching you
something that I think is very important.

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And look, I'm actually really proud
of myself because I excelled in karate a

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lot faster than a lot of my
peers did. And there's a lot of

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moves that I'm really good at.
There's a lot of forms I'm really good

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at. So I wish you would
have respected me for that instead of looking

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down on it. It's not that
I'm looking down her. I just think

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that, like the date should have
been a little bit more than a foreign

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practice. Hey, Christina, at
any point, did Kevin pull on a

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block of wood and make you karate
chop it? We were one step away

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from that, Kevin. You tried
karate moves on her on your date.

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She said, you were practicing some
of your moves or showing them to her

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on your date. Yeah, but
I was not like a way that I

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was hurting her in a way that
I was showing her like what, look,

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it's like a dance, Like karate
is like a dance. And you

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know, I thought it was nice
that we were able to touch and like

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move together, and I was showing
you things of like there are possibilities and

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variations. You know, if someone
comes to your left, what do you

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do if someone comes to you if
someone's using their fists in a certain direction,

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Like what do you do with your
hand? That what things are instinctual?

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I'm you know, I think things
like that are important, like a

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chemisthetic awareness and you're on a date
with someone's bragging now I get it,

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all right? All right? So
is there any any is there any thought

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of a second date if you just
leave your karate your leave your karate gee

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at home, like you don't put
on the you know, you don't practice

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the moves. Would you, guys, would you consider going out with him

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again? Christina? I don't know. I think it's just to show body

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and not enough self awareness for me. I don't really think I'm into it,

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Okay, not a connection? Do
you understand where she's coming from?

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Kevin? Yeah, sure, sure, all right, well listen, it

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obviously is not a love connection,
and you will fee maybe you'll meet a

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black belt or something. Kevin and
you guys love more in common. I

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appreciate you calling and Christy, and
I appreciate you being honest as well.

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Yeah, thanks for having me
