1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:16,120 Made a decision of face sunny sune on. I hadurdasion night. I guess 2 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:20,719 we're long. What's up, everybody, It's our Thursday episode with special guest 3 00:00:20,839 --> 00:00:28,359 in studio in studio from Palm Springs, Gina Kimmel. Whoay, my old 4 00:00:28,519 --> 00:00:31,719 friend, my old pal. How long have we known you? Gina? 5 00:00:31,839 --> 00:00:34,719 I known you well, let's say you were twenty five. Oh yeah, 6 00:00:34,799 --> 00:00:38,039 it's right even now, known you as long as I've known years, about 7 00:00:38,039 --> 00:00:43,200 two years, that's right. Yeah, I've known you like my whole adult 8 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:48,439 life pretty much. No, yeah, yeah, we were just talking about 9 00:00:48,439 --> 00:00:52,039 that. How freaky it is, Like the second half goes so goddamn fast, 10 00:00:52,119 --> 00:00:56,119 right, the first half is slow and miserable, I know, second 11 00:00:56,159 --> 00:00:59,280 half fly by. Next thing, you know, it's you're going to be 12 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:07,680 seventy I know, not well, I know, I know when you start 13 00:01:07,719 --> 00:01:11,799 taking advantage of that AARP stuff, Like at first you're like horrified, and 14 00:01:11,799 --> 00:01:18,879 then you're like, wait, fifteen percent off, it's fucking amazing. You're 15 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:23,560 like the movies were expensive, I know, right, yes, And I 16 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,359 can't eat the popcorn anymore because it gets caught in my dental work. It 17 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:34,560 gets win and win. I actually have not been to a movie since before 18 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,959 COVID. Oh really, Yeah, I used to go every Friday. I 19 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,040 saw everything that came out, good, bad, and ugly. Yeah. 20 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,560 And they used to go to movies all the time every Friday. That was 21 00:01:44,879 --> 00:01:48,760 like date night thing or whatever. And let me ask you this right right 22 00:01:48,799 --> 00:01:53,200 out of the gate, speaking of movies. Yeah, the Oscars were last 23 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:57,519 night. Yeah. Can you not watch it? Do you have to not 24 00:01:57,719 --> 00:02:00,719 watch it? Or has it has it been long enough that you can watch 25 00:02:00,719 --> 00:02:04,200 it? Or do would you start watching it? Like fifteen twenty minutes in? 26 00:02:05,079 --> 00:02:08,560 I don't watch it? Okay, understandable. Part of it is because 27 00:02:09,479 --> 00:02:21,199 the co host and I have a history and uh, and I don't really, 28 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,560 I don't know. I feel like television has gotten so much better than 29 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:30,000 movies lately, so I think that's more what I'm addicted to is the television. 30 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:35,199 Me too, so even though I don't watch the ems either. But 31 00:02:35,199 --> 00:02:38,599 but you do like a good Netflix. I do like a good Netflix. 32 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:43,159 A true crime, yeah, yeah, I do like true crime. Yeah. 33 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,599 Yes. If we used to go to the movies every Friday, I 34 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:50,000 remember seeing so many movies with Gina. One of them I really remember was 35 00:02:50,039 --> 00:02:54,919 that movie with Richard Gear and his wife cheated on she was his wife was 36 00:02:54,960 --> 00:03:00,639 having an affair and it was called unfaithful. Oh that was Diana Dan Lane. 37 00:03:01,159 --> 00:03:06,000 I don't remember, Gina. I totally remember sitting in the theater because 38 00:03:06,319 --> 00:03:09,800 you screamed at the screen because he was such a doting and nice husband and 39 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:17,400 you're like, oh, place, that doesn't it doesn't. I feel like 40 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:23,960 I remember somebody getting rolled up in a rug in that movie. Remember, 41 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:29,120 don't know Lane's having like all stop and watch the movie really quick, so 42 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,039 can't talk about it. Dian Lane is having an affair with Oliver. Yes, 43 00:03:32,159 --> 00:03:36,800 his name is Oliver something, and he's freaking hot, right, Okay, 44 00:03:36,919 --> 00:03:39,639 well I forgot his name. Kaylin is a young producer, yeah, 45 00:03:39,639 --> 00:03:45,199 because faithful. He's a young actor. We need to know he's been in 46 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,400 Actually who the guy named Oliver Well? Richard Dreyfus is Oliver Martinez. Oliver 47 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,680 Martinez. He was hot, hot, hot. You don't remember seeing them? 48 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,759 Who? I wonder what he looks like now Diane Lane's sleeping with him 49 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,560 and Richard Geared as her husband them, yes, because and then they have 50 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:09,120 to roll them up in a rug and Gear was it a comedy? Super 51 00:04:09,159 --> 00:04:13,199 funny. Yeah. Yeah, that was a great movie, wasn't it. 52 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,240 I loved that. Oh my god, Gina, you would love it. 53 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:26,560 I was on a plane once, was Richard Gear to Martha's vineyard. Yeah, 54 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:30,040 and I just happened to be on my honeymoon at the time. And 55 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:38,000 uh, that was when it dawned on my husband at the time that Jaws 56 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:44,480 was filmed there like that. That was the connection seeing Richard Gear. So 57 00:04:44,879 --> 00:04:46,600 and it was a little prop plane. There was six of us on it. 58 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:53,759 It was Richard Gear and Jaws. You're thinking of Richard dreyfe Ah, 59 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:59,720 you very very Who the hell would cheat on Richard Gear? I I know 60 00:05:00,319 --> 00:05:02,800 that's kind of like with the like we that's why we were. He was 61 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:08,560 a doting husband. He was because Richard short. Yeah, no, no, 62 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:17,240 it wasn't Richard Dreyfus, who oddly stupid, right, that's my boy. 63 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,120 Like you and Melissa, we were like you guys were yelling at the 64 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:25,480 screen like oh please, this is plait, Like he's kissing her goodbye and 65 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,600 like, you know, he was just a really sweet husband to her and 66 00:05:29,639 --> 00:05:32,079 then she goes off and cheats on him. Well, the guy was younger 67 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:36,480 and cuter Oliver, I mean Oliver Martinez. I don't know what he's done 68 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:43,199 lately, but he was really he was hot. I sound like a lunch 69 00:05:43,519 --> 00:05:46,639 I just keep going. He was so hot. But at the time, 70 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,879 at the time, yeah, yeah, then he I know, let's see 71 00:05:48,879 --> 00:05:51,079 what he looks like now. Is he got a dad? Bought in our 72 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:56,439 sitting Caroline. I mean they all do eventually, I know. That's what 73 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,040 it always gets me with the women. You know, they're always like, 74 00:05:59,079 --> 00:06:02,120 oh, I broke up with my wife because she put on twenty pounds or 75 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,720 whatever. I'm like, Okay, well when I met you, you had 76 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,160 a five inch forehead. Now it's seven. Okay, let's just say that. 77 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:13,319 Yeah that's true. Yeah, that's how did you meet your current guy? 78 00:06:14,959 --> 00:06:20,480 Great question? Great question. We met playing a video game? Wait 79 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:28,160 what like online? Yeah? Online? Like it was the Stems Online. 80 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,319 Do you remember that? Did you? Of course I didn't play it, 81 00:06:31,399 --> 00:06:35,199 No, but I do, of course I remember. Yeah. So I 82 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:40,519 was playing it because my ex mother in law, not no fault of her 83 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:45,279 own, but she just didn't understand the rating system of games, and so 84 00:06:45,439 --> 00:06:49,120 Kevin one day was playing Grand Theft Auto at the age of six. Yeah, 85 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,639 Mike son Kevin. So we had this rule in my house, right, 86 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,800 I had to play the game first, just to make sure there were 87 00:06:56,879 --> 00:07:03,079 no prostitutes and murder. And so Katie came home with this game that she'd 88 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:06,639 gotten her and wanted to play, and I was like, oh, here's 89 00:07:06,639 --> 00:07:13,199 a pedophile like hot Spot, right, So I played it and it was 90 00:07:13,319 --> 00:07:17,240 like a rack. I mean it for I was hiding in my house double 91 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,800 fisting rock Cookie Doke. I was depressed, right, And so I met 92 00:07:21,839 --> 00:07:26,079 him like and you had to like earn money or something, and I met 93 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,519 him. Of course in the game, I had a huge gambling brother, 94 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:36,279 not unlike reality, but uh, and so he, I don't know, 95 00:07:36,439 --> 00:07:41,399 he was the best at playing this game that earned you money. I had 96 00:07:41,439 --> 00:07:46,319 the Simmafia after me, so I needed so I latched onto him, and 97 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:50,600 then I know, we just started chatting and like the same day that you 98 00:07:50,879 --> 00:07:54,199 met him in the game or was it the kind of thing where you could 99 00:07:54,399 --> 00:07:59,399 log on it, yeah, and be in the same world. And he 100 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:03,879 was, you know, sloughing off at work, so it was like mostly 101 00:08:03,959 --> 00:08:09,839 during the day and we just you know, would like chat about well life 102 00:08:09,959 --> 00:08:13,360 and stuff. And he was also going through a divorce and oh so we 103 00:08:13,639 --> 00:08:16,160 like talked a lot about that, but you had no idea what he looked 104 00:08:16,199 --> 00:08:22,040 like. No, And I didn't want to know because I literally plucked him 105 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:26,519 off of a hill in Alabama. So you know, he was so smart 106 00:08:26,759 --> 00:08:31,519 and he corrected my grammar for typing. This is the days of aim. 107 00:08:31,639 --> 00:08:35,279 This is twenty years right, this is how I met my husband, by 108 00:08:35,279 --> 00:08:37,480 the way, on line on AOL. Yeah, instant messenger. Oh my 109 00:08:37,519 --> 00:08:41,080 god? Really yeah, isn't that crazy? And did all your friends John? 110 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:46,519 Right? But no, Chris? Oh okay, sorry, mine's John. 111 00:08:46,159 --> 00:08:48,759 Did all your friends think you were gonna get axe murdered and stuff? 112 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,320 Yeah? Yeah, so did you know? I was the aggressor by the 113 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,039 way too, Like he was not really flirting with me, he but so 114 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,200 I had to. I was the one who was like, do you want 115 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:03,279 to meet? And he said no at first? Oh really believe it? 116 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,159 But did he live local or did you pluck him off a hill to No, 117 00:09:05,279 --> 00:09:11,720 he lived local, But that's because I went on on AOL. There 118 00:09:11,799 --> 00:09:13,960 was like a search thing. This was in the very early days of AOL. 119 00:09:15,039 --> 00:09:18,519 You could be in your AOL community and you could put in other accounts 120 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:24,240 like you could search for accounts that were sort of in LA and I put 121 00:09:24,279 --> 00:09:31,440 in mail writers or TV like writers. Oh gosh, bring this back for 122 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,480 dating, by the way, why don't they just do that? It's the 123 00:09:33,759 --> 00:09:37,000 dating apps. Oh, I know. But I had no idea what he 124 00:09:37,039 --> 00:09:39,840 looked like or anything. But my whole thing wasn't really that. I wasn't 125 00:09:39,879 --> 00:09:43,519 trying to date. I was trying to like have fun, like mess with 126 00:09:43,519 --> 00:09:50,039 people. I thought it was funny to like send people odd and instant messages. 127 00:09:50,399 --> 00:09:52,279 You know, you could randomly instant message somebody. It would to just 128 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,720 pop up on your It would make a little ding and pop. Actually never 129 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:01,039 ever used AOL and I don't even think I well, I didn't download it 130 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:05,000 till I met him, and then we kind of started talking off the game. 131 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:09,720 Okay, so wait in SIMS did he have his Yeah, you make 132 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:11,720 a little character. But I mean back then, you know, it was 133 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,679 this head this. Yeah, there wasn't it. So it didn't Yeah, 134 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,519 and I didn't want to know what he looked like because you know, I 135 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:24,000 was in a down time in my life and I was like, oh my 136 00:10:24,039 --> 00:10:28,080 god, it'll be some Bubba with a crew cut and a gun rack and 137 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,639 you know, and like I just want to keep this fantasy alive and stuff. 138 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,919 And then he was doing something to his house and I was like, 139 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,120 oh, take a picture show me or what it was the outside of his 140 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:46,759 house, and he did, and the reflection was in the window member and 141 00:10:46,799 --> 00:10:50,519 I was like, holy fuck, this guy's good looking. Yeah. So 142 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:56,840 then I was like, hey, what a swap picture and stuff? And 143 00:10:56,080 --> 00:11:03,120 uh and then he so we did, and then then that's when it got 144 00:11:03,159 --> 00:11:07,279 flirty and stuff. And so then we decided he because what are the chances 145 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:13,320 that you're just on some random game and that the person is like semi age 146 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:18,799 a program. And I don't recommend this for people at home because I think 147 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:24,000 it's a fluke, like people are like start playing video games. You know. 148 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:30,519 I was. But when we decided to meet in Ohio, Uh to 149 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:35,120 where were you? I was in LA He lived in Alabama. Oh jeez. 150 00:11:35,399 --> 00:11:37,399 So I didn't really think it was going to go anywhere. But we 151 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:41,279 decided to meet. Why meet in Ohio? He had to go there for 152 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,559 like a work conference, because this is then I became the aggressor. He 153 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:48,480 had to be work conferences. Like I go to Ohio and one of my 154 00:11:48,519 --> 00:11:50,240 best friends from high school lived there, so I figured I had an out, 155 00:11:50,519 --> 00:11:54,600 you know, like a reason to go, like I'll go visit my 156 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,279 friend that I haven't seen it twenty years. And then meanwhile, you don't 157 00:11:58,279 --> 00:12:01,720 even contact your friend. You're like, that's all I'll contact her if things 158 00:12:01,759 --> 00:12:09,039 go so and I didn't, and so uh, but the best was he. 159 00:12:09,399 --> 00:12:11,639 So we decided to meet and I'm like, all right, I better 160 00:12:13,279 --> 00:12:18,200 tell him that I'm going through this divorce to somebody famous. So I tell 161 00:12:18,279 --> 00:12:22,679 him and he's like, well, who is it? And this is all 162 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:28,879 you know on a like whatever, And so I tell him and he's like 163 00:12:28,919 --> 00:12:31,960 I'm really embarrassed by this. And I was like what And he's like, 164 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:39,679 I don't know who that is? A I'm gonna fuck this guy right, 165 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,919 Oh my god. And then he told me he's like, I was really 166 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:50,159 afraid you were going to say it was al Pacino. Why he's a big 167 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,399 fan, I don't know, I get, I don't know. I never 168 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:56,759 asked him that. I was like, of all the people, boy, 169 00:12:56,759 --> 00:13:01,720 he's the same age as my dad that even back then basically looked homeless. 170 00:13:01,919 --> 00:13:05,720 Yeah, right, like al Pacino was not. I don't know. Look, 171 00:13:05,759 --> 00:13:07,200 oh, my god, what is it? Yeah, maybe he was 172 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:13,879 trying to say something about you. He was cute in like this late sixties 173 00:13:13,919 --> 00:13:16,039 and probably early seventies, seventies, and then my father and then that, 174 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,639 Yeah, very tell you that. I ran into him at like an agent's 175 00:13:20,759 --> 00:13:24,480 office, and I mean I thought it was a person, like a bum 176 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:28,120 walking around. It was like William Morris or something. And I'm like, 177 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,600 what is this guy Who's wearing like a leather trench coat but not nice, 178 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:37,320 like a really tattered and his hair was crazy and he just looked so unkempt, 179 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:41,840 and I'm like and then somebody that I was with was like, that's 180 00:13:41,879 --> 00:13:43,919 al Pacino and I was like, oh geez, what happened? I think 181 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:48,080 that's there incognito decide right, yeah, well they really commit to it, 182 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:54,799 then they're incognito in their own mirror. I never understood that. Yeah, 183 00:13:54,879 --> 00:13:58,759 okay, go on. Oh yeah, so you guys are talking back and 184 00:13:58,799 --> 00:14:01,600 forth and then you see said at the picture. Yeah, well yeah, 185 00:14:01,639 --> 00:14:05,799 and then we met in Ohio and so was he acting excited to meet you? 186 00:14:05,799 --> 00:14:07,639 Though? But yeah, yeah he was. I mean, he's a 187 00:14:07,639 --> 00:14:13,759 little bit younger than me, and he's cute, he's a very handsome guy. 188 00:14:13,919 --> 00:14:18,279 Handsome guy. Uh yeah, he is the first guy I've ever been 189 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:22,080 with this better looking than me. That sounds bad. I usually like him 190 00:14:22,559 --> 00:14:30,200 not that attractive, don't we all? Yeah, so tell us tell me 191 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,480 about so when you first met Okay, so you get to Ohio. Well, 192 00:14:33,519 --> 00:14:35,720 so he at any point where you're like, oh my god, I'm 193 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:39,879 well everybody remember you were like, oh my god, she's gonna die. 194 00:14:39,039 --> 00:14:41,840 I know, we were like, you know, we were calling you the 195 00:14:41,879 --> 00:14:46,960 devil woman because his ex yeah and so yeah, because his ex wife is 196 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:54,799 very religious and uh so we but we were. But I remember, like 197 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:58,240 I had to call one of you guys like every fifteen minutes, like, 198 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,600 so I had to check in with somebody to make I was alive. So 199 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:05,480 that made it awkward while we were having sex, like to call a friend. 200 00:15:07,159 --> 00:15:09,200 Okay, So he picks you up at the airport, pick me up 201 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:18,720 at the airport, and then we had a romantic dinner at White Castle of 202 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:22,679 course, and then you so did you have chemistry right away? Oh? 203 00:15:22,759 --> 00:15:24,840 Yeah, right away? But by them, weren't you guys on the phone 204 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,039 talking? Yeah? By then we yeah, we had been on the phone. 205 00:15:28,519 --> 00:15:31,200 Yeah, so you don't know what the chemistry is going to be like 206 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:37,039 a person. Yeah, and it is like it is awkward because like especially 207 00:15:37,399 --> 00:15:41,000 as you probably know, Like so I don't know about how long before you 208 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:45,679 met, but like this was months months of chatting and you know, and 209 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:46,879 then you feel like, oh, I'm never I don't need this person. 210 00:15:46,919 --> 00:15:50,320 Don't even know who I am or what I look like. Like that was 211 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:54,320 the cathartic part because I was going through this trauma, so here was somebody 212 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,519 I could like spill my guts to and he didn't know who I was or 213 00:15:58,759 --> 00:16:03,720 you know, and all that kind of stuff and so he so it was 214 00:16:03,759 --> 00:16:07,279 a little it was awkward at first, but then it did just slip right 215 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:11,639 into like total comfort. Yeah. Yeah, it's that you too. Like 216 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:15,759 then, No, mine was a little bit different because I had built it 217 00:16:15,879 --> 00:16:19,120 way like I had never seen him and he had never seen me, but 218 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:23,279 I knew because we talked and we lived near each other, we were in 219 00:16:23,279 --> 00:16:27,879 the same industry. He knew a couple of people that I knew in common, 220 00:16:27,919 --> 00:16:30,320 one in particular, and I asked this guy and he was like, 221 00:16:30,759 --> 00:16:34,000 oh, JT, I haven't seen it in like four years, but like 222 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,039 he I think he's like a good looking guy. I think he'd probably like 223 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:40,799 him. So then I had in my mind that he was cute. He 224 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:45,039 didn't know anything about me, but when so when we met, I literally 225 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,519 hadn't seen a picture. He just told me I'm going to be carrying a 226 00:16:48,559 --> 00:16:55,759 red backpack. And when I saw him, I was I was kind of 227 00:16:55,799 --> 00:16:59,759 disappointed, but it was not because he's a very good looking guy. But 228 00:17:00,039 --> 00:17:04,720 it to me, you built up built I built up like Lynette and I 229 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,920 have talked about this, like kind of ethnic I like I liked kind of 230 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:12,880 like Jewish looking guys and like brown hair, br and he he was very 231 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:19,039 waspy looking. He like like like brown hair kind of and like blue eyes 232 00:17:19,279 --> 00:17:23,400 and looked really young even though he's two years older than me. But and 233 00:17:23,519 --> 00:17:26,519 he says my first words to him, which I don't remember this were just 234 00:17:26,559 --> 00:17:30,920 like, oh my god, you're a baby, because he looked young and 235 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,920 he and he was kind of skinny, and I was like, oh, 236 00:17:34,039 --> 00:17:37,920 this is not gonna work out. But and all, but I think also 237 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:42,400 I was just really nervous, and because I'd been the captain of this ship. 238 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:48,440 So and then he had no expectations. He thought that I was. 239 00:17:48,599 --> 00:17:52,640 He always tells me he thought I was gonna look like fran Lebowitz because I 240 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,440 was really funny because I was being funny with him because I had it was 241 00:17:56,480 --> 00:18:00,920 so low stakes. I kind of flirt with him but wouldn't flirt back, 242 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,000 so I would just say I was just being funny all the time. And 243 00:18:03,039 --> 00:18:07,839 he liked that, but like for a friend, like he could not that 244 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,200 he didn't. He really liked that I was funny, but he didn't think 245 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:19,640 he thought funny like home all the time, like I'm probably like like very 246 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:25,880 not attractive like somebody that he but he kind of had a pity date with 247 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,720 me because he was like, well, he was like, well, maybe 248 00:18:27,799 --> 00:18:32,200 she'll make a good friend. I'm saying he wasn't thinking I was the one 249 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,079 going like should we meet and he was like, yeah, you know, 250 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,039 I'll meet this girl, like maybe we'll I'll make a friend. But he 251 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:41,720 so he says that when he saw me, he was very shocked because he 252 00:18:41,799 --> 00:18:45,920 was like, oh gosh, like you're you're pretty, Like I mean, 253 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,759 this is also ours was a different situation because at this point we had like 254 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,680 told each other all our sex fantasies and all that oh. Sorry, So 255 00:18:53,759 --> 00:18:57,440 we were basically meeting to have sex and go our separate way. Oh, 256 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,920 is not meant to be like a relationship. It was meant to be, 257 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:06,119 right, remember, I like, yeah, I was waxed and sprayed in, 258 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,960 I had all the underwear. I was ready to go. Hold on, 259 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:15,920 let's take a quick break and then get to that. So you were 260 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,960 thinking this isn't gonna be a relationship. No not. I mean he lived 261 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:25,160 in Alabama, he had really little kids, and uh, you know I 262 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:32,240 was going through this divorce and uh no, we didn't, and so so 263 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:36,160 you know, like and then we had this weekend that was ten days long, 264 00:19:36,759 --> 00:19:41,599 and then we just so did he extend his work trip? No, 265 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:48,359 I extended my trip. Oh I missed my flight. And so then, 266 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:52,759 uh, but then it just went back to what it was like, just 267 00:19:52,839 --> 00:19:56,240 chit chatting. I mean, it was definitely more flirty and stuff. It 268 00:19:56,279 --> 00:20:00,039 was, but chit chatting, and I was still kind of dating, I 269 00:20:00,039 --> 00:20:03,039 guess, for as much dating as you can do in l A. And 270 00:20:04,559 --> 00:20:07,480 so, because but did you, okay, who liked to more? Though? 271 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:12,440 Were you like into did you want more from it? Were you really? 272 00:20:12,519 --> 00:20:17,359 Because usually the woman I mean, no, I had a stereotype, 273 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,640 but like I feel like we women get attached. Yeah, and it's hard. 274 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:30,799 Well, I mean he was really nice every aspect. One thing is, 275 00:20:30,839 --> 00:20:33,799 though he does not think I'm funny. I tell him all the time, 276 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,160 like I am the funniest person I'm going to meet, and he's like, 277 00:20:37,759 --> 00:20:42,240 I don't see it. Oh my god, can you Oh that's insulting. 278 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,920 Yeah, I know, I just think he just I don't think. 279 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:56,440 I don't think I could see that different. He's very analytical and so uh 280 00:20:56,480 --> 00:21:00,640 so. No, but what it was was like this relief that like you 281 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:06,559 think, oh my god, I'm never going to be like in a relationship 282 00:21:06,599 --> 00:21:08,559 again. I'm already alone for the rest of my life. Oh I may 283 00:21:08,559 --> 00:21:11,920 never have sex again, you know that kind of stuff. So it was 284 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:17,519 also because also I was my whole life was serial monogamous, right, so 285 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:21,880 this is the first time in my life like I'm alone, and so it 286 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:26,680 took that pressure off, like, Okay, here's somebody I can have sex 287 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,680 with and whatever. But then I have to clean my own house, right, 288 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,720 I have to take care of myself. So we didn't see each other 289 00:21:34,759 --> 00:21:40,119 again for a little while, and then he came here. Remember he came 290 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:45,039 fourth of July. Then we kind of got on this routine where every like 291 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:51,640 three to four weeks we would meet in Atlanta. Oh right, that's pretty 292 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:56,920 frequent, yeah for a not relationship. But I started, Yeah, but 293 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,279 I mean it was still no real future talk. It would more be like 294 00:22:00,519 --> 00:22:07,440 the next trip or whatever. And it was a lot of you know, 295 00:22:07,839 --> 00:22:11,440 because he was also going through a divorce. So I feel like we were 296 00:22:11,039 --> 00:22:15,160 like using each other as a bad term, but you know that, like 297 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,799 it was just nice to each other. Yeah, and that's just what it 298 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:23,160 was, right like, and we didn't really let too much of the outside 299 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:27,200 world in during you know, the weekend and stuff. And then it just 300 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:32,799 sort of slowly progressed from there. But when he did move to l A, 301 00:22:32,839 --> 00:22:37,599 I made him leave all his clothes behind. He needed a makeover. 302 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,200 I gave a little bit of a makeover. And that's what I say, 303 00:22:41,279 --> 00:22:45,559 girls, you can change anything but his personality and keep them. That's my 304 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:52,640 hot tip. So yeah, so, like, how how soon into it 305 00:22:52,759 --> 00:22:57,039 was there like I love you, like, let's do this. Gene is 306 00:22:57,039 --> 00:23:03,920 not very warm and fuzzy. Have you noticed? It was probably a year 307 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,079 and maybe wo Yeah, like I said, it was like, we were 308 00:23:07,079 --> 00:23:11,680 pretty upfront that this is you know what it was. But you're both going 309 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:18,519 through our like divorces, and he his daughter was like two, you know, 310 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,279 I mean he was very yeah, committed to being with his young children 311 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:27,160 and like that kind of stuff. So I didn't meet his kids for years. 312 00:23:29,039 --> 00:23:32,279 Oh wow, okay, and he didn't meet mine either, Like it 313 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:36,559 really this that's this is what it was like a little it's kind of like 314 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,759 having an affair but not really having an affair. Right, It's nice and 315 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,279 it was nice because it felt the relationship built. Yeah, it was very 316 00:23:45,319 --> 00:23:52,000 slow. We had to cut that some pepper this morning. No, my 317 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:59,119 sneezes are adorable, GENI cut them out. They're a lot better than mice. 318 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,000 So then, was it smooth sailing from then on? Or have you 319 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:07,279 guys had any huge fights? No? Really get along really good yet along? 320 00:24:07,279 --> 00:24:11,400 Pretty yeah? Yeah, I mean we've been living in a car for 321 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,440 the last three year. Tell us about that. Yeah, so I last 322 00:24:15,599 --> 00:24:21,160 how long have you guys been together? Now? Twenty one years almost they've 323 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,160 been together, Okay, And I mean we were pretty upfront, like neither 324 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,319 one of us every want to get married again. We hated it neither one 325 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:33,759 of I mean, and so we you know, we spent so much time 326 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:40,519 in the beginning dissecting our marriages and what went wrong, right, So I 327 00:24:40,559 --> 00:24:44,599 feel like when we decided to go forward, I don't know, we like 328 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,519 worked out a lot of that stuff, but I don't know. What'd you 329 00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:51,519 ask me? So, well, how long you guys have been together? 330 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:55,680 Like twenty one years? But then now you guys are traveling the country we 331 00:24:55,839 --> 00:24:59,400 have been. Yeah, yeah, that was a COVID. I think everyone 332 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:04,240 has their co god stories and that was ours. That his company didn't go 333 00:25:04,319 --> 00:25:07,480 back and so he can work remote. We're like, oh my god, 334 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:14,440 we could totally do this. Oh his company never went back. They're all 335 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:18,319 remote, I think eighty five percent remote or something like that. Wow, 336 00:25:18,519 --> 00:25:22,599 he's a tech guy. Yeah, he's a tech guy. So we sold 337 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:26,640 the sims, yeah, sold thet yeah, sold the house, sold everything 338 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:32,480 we own and got an r an RV and we've been traveling for like three 339 00:25:32,559 --> 00:25:36,720 years. It's been fun, but I mean we're getting ready to that also 340 00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:40,720 hybrid Yeah yeah, yeah, three years. You guys have been traveling the 341 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:45,000 country in the RVY three years. Wow, What are some great cities and 342 00:25:45,039 --> 00:25:51,759 what are some bad cities. Well, so everybody always asked me, like, 343 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:55,119 what was your favorite? So I don't really have favorites. I have 344 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,680 stuff I hated more than I thought I was. Well that's right up my 345 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,400 alley. Yeah, like I like so I'm a huge, like history buff, 346 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,680 like I love westerns. Okay, so I was very excited to go 347 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:11,359 to Virginia City used to do the Civil War reenactments. What that's right, 348 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:18,039 Yeah, that's so cute. I did it for my son, and she 349 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:22,440 used to sew costumes for it. Yeah, Oh my god, what a 350 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:33,319 go getter. No, the absolute opposite. I don't think sewing costumes for 351 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:41,839 your kid's Civil War reenactment is no getter, right, trust me, Gina 352 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,000 is a little bit of a no getter, but she could be a go 353 00:26:44,039 --> 00:26:48,240 getter though. That's a new term. No getter. That's what we say. 354 00:26:48,279 --> 00:26:53,039 That's that's what we call. Yeah, we caught every trade market. 355 00:26:53,559 --> 00:26:56,839 Well years ago, Stephanie was making we were making fun of my mom, 356 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:02,000 and you were saying like, oh, saying like my mom was making fun 357 00:27:02,039 --> 00:27:03,599 of the guy was dating like he's a brick layer, he's going to be 358 00:27:03,599 --> 00:27:08,960 a nobody, he's a and you said, he's a no ghetter. And 359 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,599 just think how you'd be happily divorced from a brick layer right now. Follow 360 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:18,440 up your dreams, now, miss. That's what I always say. I 361 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:22,559 could be happily divorced from a firefighter right now if I had just not followed 362 00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:26,720 your dreams. Yep. But I just followed my dreams. So okay, 363 00:27:26,759 --> 00:27:33,000 So some cities you hated. Oh so we went to Virginia City and it 364 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:40,200 was like Maga land. Oh yeah, and uh so we left like I 365 00:27:40,279 --> 00:27:44,880 think we were there like twenty after like a horrible long drive up a windy 366 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,799 road. I think we're there like twenty minutes because you have to find an 367 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:53,039 RV park right to go. Yeah, Chris does all that stuff. Yeah, 368 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,240 so then you meet the people in the RV park. Yeah, so 369 00:27:56,279 --> 00:28:02,400 we've met. Yeah, and not a great crowd. Not always. There 370 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,880 is a support group for liberal r V yers that we are there. We 371 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:11,839 joined, I've Chris found it actually, and it's a and we have a 372 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,279 secret sticker that we put on our r V so you can recognize. Uh 373 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,480 my god, god, that's like that's like the upside down pineapple for swingers. 374 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:26,000 You could be just a secret liberal that's our v thing too, upside 375 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:32,200 down pineapple and their sticker. Then a lot of swingers in the art a 376 00:28:32,279 --> 00:28:36,079 rocket don't come a knock or do come a knock in? Yeah, that 377 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,920 one means coming knocking, right, So there have you, Like, have 378 00:28:40,039 --> 00:28:47,480 you ran into swingers? And uh no, No, maybe an urban legend. 379 00:28:47,519 --> 00:28:51,720 I don't know. I have personally not seen the pineapple, but people 380 00:28:51,759 --> 00:28:53,720 tell me to keep a lookout for it. Okay, so you're in a 381 00:28:53,759 --> 00:28:59,039 secret liberal society? Are more people liberal than you would think? Or less 382 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,559 less? Okay? Okay? Interesting? I mean it depends on where you're 383 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,599 at. So, like last summer, we did the whole Northeast, like 384 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,359 up to Maine and so that was very liberal and we met a lot of 385 00:29:11,599 --> 00:29:18,680 lovely Canadians and stuff. And then and then we've been down like in Florida 386 00:29:18,119 --> 00:29:23,680 and Texas and yeah, that's a lot of not a lot of liberal, 387 00:29:23,839 --> 00:29:27,279 not a lot of liberals down there. No, so we sort of stick 388 00:29:27,319 --> 00:29:34,359 to ourselves. Yeah. But but like I loved like Asheville, North Carolina, 389 00:29:34,359 --> 00:29:40,880 I had no idea, Wow, you love beat. I have friends 390 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,000 that have. I have several friends that have moved there and love it. 391 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:51,359 Yeah, it's very liberal. But I was just like surprised that I would 392 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:57,680 like anything in North Carolina and then but otherwise it's just been you know, 393 00:29:57,839 --> 00:30:00,839 what was the city you told me to go to? Savannah? Savannah, 394 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:06,119 Yeah, which I knew I would love. But it's a good shopping eating 395 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:11,119 city. Yeah, two things I like. Yeah. So now you're settling 396 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,559 into Palm Springs. Yeah, now we're gonna rent. We rented a house 397 00:30:14,599 --> 00:30:17,839 in Palm Springs and we're gonna do like a hybrid thing. So yeah, 398 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,680 six months on, six months off, go see Woman frieda our pals. 399 00:30:22,039 --> 00:30:26,960 That is my favorite restaurant there. They make the best eggs Benedict I've ever 400 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:32,160 heard. Yes, tell tell you that's our friend. I know. I 401 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,480 was very excited about that. Yeah, I was like, can I get 402 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:37,200 a tape because sometimes it's hard to get a table. Uh huh. So 403 00:30:37,599 --> 00:30:42,119 I'm hoping for some pull. You just say, col you're crying out loud, 404 00:30:42,319 --> 00:30:45,720 They'll give you a free mimosa or a free the pop. There are 405 00:30:45,759 --> 00:30:49,440 pop tarts. Oh, they do have pop makes they're homemade pop tarts. 406 00:30:49,519 --> 00:30:55,519 Yeah delacious. Yeah. Yeah, So Gina and I were talking, should 407 00:30:55,559 --> 00:30:59,279 we take another Okay, Gina and I were talking right before the show, 408 00:31:00,039 --> 00:31:04,759 tell us the story about throwing a baby shower for our friend Melissa without Melissa 409 00:31:04,759 --> 00:31:08,680 there. Yeah, so has Melissa been on your show? No, but 410 00:31:08,759 --> 00:31:12,640 people know Melissa. She's my friend I talk about So this was our third 411 00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:18,720 friend and well I guess she still is. But uh so this was her 412 00:31:18,839 --> 00:31:23,400 second kid and she I was, you know, I was the party thrower 413 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:29,599 in our group, so I was baby shower. She's like, You're not 414 00:31:29,839 --> 00:31:33,119 throwing me a baby shower for a second baby. That's so techy. I'm 415 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:37,319 not doing that. And I was like, don't fucking tell me what to 416 00:31:37,359 --> 00:31:45,359 do. So I threw one without her, and I registered her for everything 417 00:31:45,519 --> 00:31:51,599 that I would want if I was having a baby and everybody came to my 418 00:31:51,759 --> 00:31:56,880 house and did you invite her? No? No, We printed off a 419 00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:01,319 picture like a picture of her page to a pillow her face. I feel 420 00:32:01,319 --> 00:32:04,839 like, though, if somebody if I said no, I don't want a 421 00:32:04,839 --> 00:32:07,559 baby shower, and somebody through and anyway, I still want to be invited, 422 00:32:07,839 --> 00:32:10,799 it gets better. Never mind, I want to come so that everyone 423 00:32:10,799 --> 00:32:14,839 had to come all dressed up. I feel like we had a theme, 424 00:32:14,839 --> 00:32:17,400 but I can't really remember. Of course always I am a theme sort of 425 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:22,759 a I can't really get through life. I need to think just to get 426 00:32:22,759 --> 00:32:29,160 through the day. And so, uh so she registered reis. We opened 427 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,279 all We played the poop you know where you eat the chocolate out of the 428 00:32:31,319 --> 00:32:36,160 diaper and you have to guess what candy barre it is. And we opened 429 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,960 all the presents and all that kind of stuff. Videotape videotaped. I think 430 00:32:40,039 --> 00:32:44,440 Sal, no, Sal wasn't. I think Jimmy did. Jimmy videotape the 431 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:49,400 whole thing. And then like a few weeks later I invited her over and 432 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,279 she comes over with like a buck and a Kentucky Fried chicken and stuff. 433 00:32:52,319 --> 00:32:58,400 Oh to watch movies, and then everybody started coming. That was at the 434 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,359 first shower, the original the shower, And then I was like, oh, 435 00:33:01,559 --> 00:33:06,680 I got this new movie. And so we played her shower for her. 436 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,440 Oh, we just handed her all her open gifts and then said, 437 00:33:09,519 --> 00:33:15,440 fuck you bitch, don't never tell me what to do. And to this 438 00:33:15,559 --> 00:33:19,960 day I think she will say it's the best baby shower. She hates that 439 00:33:20,119 --> 00:33:22,920 she doesn't like. So she got all the stuff as you didn't have to 440 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:28,640 participate right right. You see when I imitate Gina by the way, you 441 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,000 hear her voice, Like, I can't talk about Gina about imitating her voice. 442 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,680 I do have a distinctive she does that's at high voice, though she 443 00:33:37,079 --> 00:33:43,359 does sometimes when I drink and I have the worst Chicago accent. Heard the 444 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,039 Chicago a little bit. Yeah, awful, that's so funny. Though. 445 00:33:46,119 --> 00:33:51,319 I do not like baby showers either. I hate them, so I didn't 446 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,480 I had one, but I was like, no games. I did not 447 00:33:54,519 --> 00:34:00,000 allow anybody to do. I wouldn't fly by me. Gina loves a game. 448 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,440 I love a game. My friends were fine with it. Chelsea Handler 449 00:34:02,519 --> 00:34:05,960 was one of the people that threw my baby shower. Yeah, okay, 450 00:34:06,279 --> 00:34:07,920 she's edgy too, so she was like, yeah, that's fine with me. 451 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:12,400 I don't want to play any fucking games. You know, different circles. 452 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:16,039 I see, we're not friends anymore. Oh, I'm not on my 453 00:34:16,119 --> 00:34:21,320 account. She's just not. It was just back in the day. She's 454 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:27,079 just not interested in me. No, it's fine. Yeah, But at 455 00:34:27,119 --> 00:34:30,960 the time it's funny because it was so it was my friend that i'd been 456 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,079 friends with for like twenty well, I hadn't been friends with her that long 457 00:34:34,119 --> 00:34:39,039 at that point, but you know whatever, fifteen years and then uh Chelsea, 458 00:34:39,159 --> 00:34:43,199 and my mother was supposed to take part in it, and my sister 459 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,639 in law since your first my mother in law was late. My mother was 460 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:50,400 late. This was my first kid, yeah, my second kid. I 461 00:34:50,519 --> 00:34:54,400 had a little baby shower because my friend insisted, and it was just really 462 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:59,239 casual at like with different different friends. It wasn't like a big deal. 463 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,920 She invited up on from my comedian friends to like this Italian restaurant and she 464 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,719 ordered a couple some pizza and people brought me little gifts. It was yeah, 465 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:12,639 but I was also having twins for the second one, so I do 466 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,360 think I needed like more stuff. Well, I feel like every I mean 467 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:22,199 it, pregnancies. It's tough, so everybody deserves a party, That's true. 468 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:28,199 Gina threw my baby shower surprise surprise, and my bridal shower and so 469 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,960 but my baby shower because I was having twins. The invite had the picture 470 00:35:34,559 --> 00:35:38,960 of the twins from Royal ten and bombs because Adam with the curly hair, 471 00:35:39,119 --> 00:35:44,760 that black curly hair, and then she connected their eyebrows like made one long 472 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,599 eyebrow in between both of them and they were wearing like the track suits because 473 00:35:47,599 --> 00:35:52,360 Adam wears the tracksuits. Put your head on the oh you did put our 474 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:57,039 head. We put our our face with the afro with the two mine and 475 00:35:57,119 --> 00:36:01,519 Adam's faces with the afro one long eyebrow and track suit. And it was 476 00:36:01,559 --> 00:36:05,159 like, you know, come have you know, come to Gina's and she 477 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,199 threw me the baby shower, which was nice, and then she threw me 478 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:14,000 my bridle shower at the Beauty Bar. Is that still there? It is, 479 00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:15,960 but I don't think it's called the Beauty Bar anymore. In West Hollywood 480 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:21,760 on coin that was like a fifties That was a fifties thing and it was 481 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,320 very I met her cake. I remember it was the barbie cake, you 482 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:28,559 know the little girls where the dresses the cake and the barbies in the middle. 483 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,480 Yes, very hard to find really yeah back then, I know, 484 00:36:32,119 --> 00:36:36,400 I wish I had a picture of that, but I should We should take 485 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,679 another quick break at this point where kaylen okay, So, was that a 486 00:36:40,679 --> 00:36:43,960 big was it? That was? That was fun? That was a big 487 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,639 one. Yeah, that was at the bar even I mean it was during 488 00:36:46,679 --> 00:36:51,199 the day, so it was kind of I remember you had a signature cocktail. 489 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,079 We did have a signature cocktail. Everybody was dressed like fifties housewives. 490 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,960 Yeah, yeah, because I like that era. That was. That was 491 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:05,119 fun. Everybody take Black Beauties, what is that? Remember that speed? 492 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:09,920 It was as housewife I think dolls, Yeah, and Valuum. Yeah. 493 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:15,920 Black Beauties speeded you up in volume. Black Beauties was more of a West 494 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:19,719 Coast thing. Really, we didn't take that in Chicago. Nobody wants to 495 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:24,159 speed up in Chico. No, I much preferred downers. I'm not a 496 00:37:24,199 --> 00:37:29,760 speed person. Yeah, I want to I want to relax. Yeah. 497 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:35,599 So did you also have a bachelorette party? Oh? Yeah, well we 498 00:37:35,639 --> 00:37:38,159 tried to recreate it. We went, we had we recreated it a few 499 00:37:38,159 --> 00:37:43,159 times. We did. We went to Vegas and we stayed at We had 500 00:37:43,199 --> 00:37:47,599 a double bachelorette party because Melissa got married a month before me. Okay, 501 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:53,039 so we stayed at the hard Rock Hotel and stayed at the hard Rock. 502 00:37:53,199 --> 00:37:57,719 We always stayed at the hard Rock because across the street from the hard Rock 503 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:02,239 is the Paradise of Paradise, the Strip club, of which every time we 504 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:07,960 went, Lynnette would go. My name is Paradise for Free and no one 505 00:38:08,079 --> 00:38:15,000 thought that a person thought she should get shipped because her last name is right, 506 00:38:15,599 --> 00:38:19,559 even if she was born with the stripper name La La Paradise, Like 507 00:38:19,559 --> 00:38:22,360 can you see it, Oh my god, coming up on the stages La 508 00:38:22,519 --> 00:38:30,159 La main stage, mainstage. You know what though, to Bruce Springsteen, 509 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:37,000 all dancing, Yes, but Paradise is not a common name. So I 510 00:38:37,039 --> 00:38:39,440 feel like I would like to go back in time and grant you free admission. 511 00:38:39,519 --> 00:38:43,360 Thank you, because it was twenty five bucks to get into that place, 512 00:38:43,559 --> 00:38:45,480 I know. But we love it for women, yeah, because I 513 00:38:45,599 --> 00:38:50,440 never learned crazy girls out here in La and they would let the women in 514 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,519 for free, and a lot of times there'd be people lined up outside and 515 00:38:52,559 --> 00:38:55,400 if you were a woman, even if you were with guys, they would 516 00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:00,840 let the girls in. They loved having women there. And in Vegas they 517 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,320 gave it sh Yeah. But yeah, we would go there and we would 518 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:09,440 sit I think that we would try to find a bachelor party to you know. 519 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,840 It's kind of like the girls sorority, the boy fraternity. You got 520 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,119 to find a group to hang with, right, Yeah, So did you 521 00:39:16,159 --> 00:39:20,320 do the whole thing for your for the bachelorret party? Did you go there 522 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:25,960 and have like penis, lollipops and sash. We never we didn't wear anything 523 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:30,480 like that, but we did do games. We were sitting by the pool 524 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,960 and I remember they were making me and Melissa play games. And one game 525 00:39:35,039 --> 00:39:37,559 is I had to go up to a bunch of guys and say real or 526 00:39:37,599 --> 00:39:45,000 fake. Oh yeah, that was a good one. Yeah, that's funny. 527 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:50,199 It's funny how one big titted girls to make fun of another big titted 528 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:55,559 girl. True. Yeah, trauma share trauma. Yeah. And then we 529 00:39:55,559 --> 00:40:00,360 almost got kicked out of a casino because we didn't almost kick I got kicked 530 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:06,360 out because I was swearing, how do you not? We were playing craps 531 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,760 and I was calling her by her mafia name, Gina fucking Ah. She 532 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:14,199 was rolling high, was winning, she was winning, and I was like, 533 00:40:14,559 --> 00:40:17,239 yes, Gina fucking a. And they kept going like, man, 534 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:22,519 stop swearing. What's the bellagio? Yeah? Like what this is Vegas. 535 00:40:22,599 --> 00:40:27,239 So then they took her chips off and she flipped die. I go, 536 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,400 okay, okay, we're all leaving. Then she's like that's fine, we're 537 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:36,360 all leaving. No, I am winning, turned around, just talk all 538 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:42,719 by herself and were like, see see if the pool tomorrow. I'm up 539 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:49,920 twenty seven dollars for godsakes, I can't leave now. Yeah. So yeah, 540 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,079 and then we got kicked out. Oh my god, I remember we 541 00:40:52,119 --> 00:41:01,159 got kicked out of uh in Vegas. Yes, what was the oh the 542 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:07,320 Russian restaurant. No, the it was at the Top and House of Blues 543 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,880 and the private club at the House of Blues, Yes, foundation room. 544 00:41:10,039 --> 00:41:14,360 Yes, and you got us in I think, yes, I did get 545 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:19,840 called or whatever. And I was wearing sneakers. Yeah, yeah, And 546 00:41:20,599 --> 00:41:22,440 but then they had a dress code. They had a dress code, they 547 00:41:22,679 --> 00:41:27,559 know. Yeah, they were like no jeans, no sneakers. They were 548 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:34,000 very expensive sneakers, and I felt like they should take an exception. They 549 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,679 were weren't they Boomas, No, they were the other ones. I can't 550 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:44,480 remember. No Gucci, Gucci snoos. I got kicked out of a casino 551 00:41:44,559 --> 00:41:47,639 ones. I feel like I've brought this up recently. Remember when it was 552 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,920 very in style to wear shirts that had logos like Coca Cola, but it 553 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:58,639 would say something else. It would look like it says Coca Coke. Mine 554 00:41:58,679 --> 00:42:00,440 looked like it said coke. It was the sat looked like the logo, 555 00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:06,039 but it said cunt. And it was a white shirt with red like swirly 556 00:42:06,159 --> 00:42:08,599 lettering and it said cunt. And I was in a casino and they were 557 00:42:09,039 --> 00:42:13,480 I guess somebody complained about me because they're like, ma'am, your shirt is 558 00:42:14,079 --> 00:42:17,119 there's an obscenity on your shirt. You can't wear that in here. And 559 00:42:17,159 --> 00:42:22,599 I was like taking it off and turned it inside out right then and there. 560 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:28,599 But I think I got mad and was just like, you can't tell 561 00:42:28,679 --> 00:42:30,440 me how to dress, Like, you can't even tell that it says. 562 00:42:30,679 --> 00:42:35,119 You have to be staring at my tits to know that it says figure. 563 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,440 But I guess enough people, but if you're staring at my tits, you'd 564 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:42,719 think you wouldn't be the type of person that would be offended seeing the word 565 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,880 cunt on there. Well it could have been the wife of the person. 566 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:52,079 Yeah, true, Well anyway, I was booted. That sucks. Yeah 567 00:42:53,079 --> 00:42:57,840 yeah at the time. Now, were you winning? I'm sure not? 568 00:42:58,119 --> 00:43:00,079 No, vega, Yes, he's a gambler too, Yes, yeah, 569 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:05,800 what's your game at poker? Like, oh, that's a lot of in 570 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,519 your head. Can't you have to keep track of like too much math? 571 00:43:09,159 --> 00:43:14,400 Well? The math is there is a blackjack That's why I can't like back 572 00:43:14,559 --> 00:43:19,039 because I can't add in my head and I get I'll cry if someone accuses 573 00:43:19,079 --> 00:43:22,280 me of stealing their car. You know they do that like you hit on 574 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:27,760 a twelve right right, and then you duck my ten and I'm like, 575 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:32,440 oh so uh. And then poker, I can never remember what beats what? 576 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,400 Yeah, so I have to have like the cheat sheet on my hand. 577 00:43:36,519 --> 00:43:37,880 Like I've just been playing it for a really long time. I started 578 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:44,320 playing with a group of comics like in my twenties, so I've just been 579 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:49,679 playing it forever. So it's yeah, I like that poker thing. It's 580 00:43:49,679 --> 00:43:52,480 actually mostly guys. Oh there's been a few women have played. Yeah, 581 00:43:52,519 --> 00:43:59,360 that's fun. Yeah. And then I love craps. I do love craps, 582 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,159 but I mean I have have played craps in a long time because poker, 583 00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:07,880 I can play online, you can play well, we played craps VR. 584 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,519 Yes, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah the story? 585 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,960 Did you tell the story of the v R? Yes that we got our 586 00:44:14,079 --> 00:44:16,880 VR. But it doesn't work anymore. I know you. I can't help 587 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,800 you with that. You have I know, you have to come over to 588 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,639 my son's house. Yes, he has to help me updated. Yeah. 589 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,599 Yeah, I was just telling my daughter. I was just only ILB the 590 00:44:27,679 --> 00:44:30,800 other day that because she was talking about Vegas, because there's some big, 591 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:35,639 huge music festival, but not music. It's like a house music. It's 592 00:44:35,679 --> 00:44:39,280 like the Coachella of it's like a rave, a giant, and it's happening 593 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:44,360 one Vega guy? Was that? Which guy? That was the country music? 594 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,199 Oh? Vegas? No? No, no, this is like a 595 00:44:49,079 --> 00:44:53,920 DC. What's it called DC? It's very famous. It used to be 596 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,960 out here actually, and then I think a girl overdose and died and they 597 00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,239 moved it to Vegas the US to have it at the coliseum. I know 598 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:05,559 I used to go. Really, so, what do you do like mash 599 00:45:05,639 --> 00:45:08,079 pit stuff? No, you just take ecstasy and give out a lot of 600 00:45:08,159 --> 00:45:15,519 hugs. Is that dating me? No? They don't watch pit it raise. 601 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:21,519 It's actually the exact opposite. Stands in the corner. They all give 602 00:45:21,559 --> 00:45:24,800 each other hugs instead of throw fists at one another. Yeah, well everyone's 603 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:30,360 in ecstasy, so oh yeah, well I'll be like, well, first 604 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,440 of all, she really likes house music. Well she's she's nineteen, she'll 605 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,039 be twenty this year. She does what she wants to do. But she 606 00:45:37,199 --> 00:45:43,559 went to one called I can't remember, but it was in sam Bernardino that 607 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,320 was like a month ago or two months ago whatever, and a lot of 608 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,679 people stayed overnight. It was like a two day It's a big one. 609 00:45:50,679 --> 00:45:55,719 I mean there's thousands of people there and they ubered and then ubered home as 610 00:45:55,760 --> 00:46:01,519 a group. And now she's going to one called Oneunderland you can in Vegas. 611 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,760 No, this is the same place in San Bernardino, but she's just 612 00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:12,079 telling me about this one that's in Vegas. That anyway, The point of 613 00:46:12,119 --> 00:46:14,599 that is just to tell you that I was. I was like, oh 614 00:46:14,599 --> 00:46:16,079 my gosh, I used to love to go to Vegas, I said when 615 00:46:16,119 --> 00:46:22,599 I was when I first moved to La I mean, I had like crappy 616 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,840 jobs, but we would save up like one hundred dollars and we would drive 617 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:30,519 to Vegas with our little like one hundred dollars and we would stay at I 618 00:46:30,519 --> 00:46:35,719 don't know if you remember this. I mean some of these hotels were super 619 00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,280 cheap back in the day. You could because they had all these specials and 620 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:42,000 it was not a popul it was not as popular, so you could go 621 00:46:42,079 --> 00:46:45,639 stay at like this. There was this one Asian themed. Most of them 622 00:46:45,639 --> 00:46:49,480 are not there anymore, but the Barbary Coast, some of these places had 623 00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:53,960 hotels station yea pastation and you could literally stay for like nineteen dollars a night, 624 00:46:54,599 --> 00:46:58,920 and at binions you could get a steak in shrimp dinner. Yeah, 625 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:05,000 I was just going to say yes. So we would go and we did 626 00:47:05,039 --> 00:47:08,400 this thing which we called chip hustling, which was basically like you'd look cute, 627 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:13,800 you'd go to a craps table, and inevitably some guy would be like 628 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,519 here, like you, pretend you're out of money, and then some guy 629 00:47:16,519 --> 00:47:21,239 would be like, here, here's twenty, here's twenty dollars and chips or 630 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,360 whatever. And at those days they were five dollars tables. I even had 631 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:28,559 one dollar table so you could pay play five dollars, five dollars on the 632 00:47:28,599 --> 00:47:31,039 line, then like five dollars on you know, the hard ways or whatever, 633 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:35,719 and a guy would be kind of right, giving you some money, 634 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,840 a little bit of money, right, bill, a bit of a different 635 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:43,800 experience. But so then you would if you won, what you would do 636 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,599 is you would chip hustle yourself, so you would take you would sneak the 637 00:47:46,639 --> 00:47:51,280 money. Usually the guys would be drunk, so you would keep enough money 638 00:47:51,559 --> 00:47:55,679 to continue playing, but you'd squirrel away that some of your winnings, so 639 00:47:55,719 --> 00:48:00,639 that so that then you could pretend that you're like, oh no, I'm 640 00:48:00,679 --> 00:48:02,239 out of money again, and then the guy would either give you more money 641 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:06,719 or you'd be finished. But then you'd get back to your hotel room and 642 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,039 you'd we'd look at all of our chips that we chip hustled. Right. 643 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:17,320 We used to go play bingo because for ten dollars, it was forty five 644 00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,159 minutes long, but you got free drinks. And that's how we would get 645 00:48:21,159 --> 00:48:27,639 our buzz up. Bingo, Oh bingo, Wow, bingo, Hall bingo. 646 00:48:28,119 --> 00:48:30,360 Then we would hit the casino, right, Oh, that's how we 647 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:35,639 would get drunk, well in those days too, And I'm sure maybe it's 648 00:48:35,639 --> 00:48:37,920 still the same way. I haven't been to Vegas in so long, but 649 00:48:37,039 --> 00:48:43,639 like if you played a like for a long five percent video poker machine, 650 00:48:43,639 --> 00:48:46,760 they would come bring drinks. Yeah, but they're not that they're not Johnny 651 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:52,199 on the spot and especially now, but even then, like, yeah, 652 00:48:52,639 --> 00:48:54,280 you know it's kind of hard. Yeah, I like to get down, 653 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:59,000 you know, shif faced, not ten dollars, right, right, because 654 00:48:59,039 --> 00:49:04,000 you could drink a lot in forty five minute bingo. Yeah, a lot. 655 00:49:04,519 --> 00:49:07,840 We gotta go to Vegas again, I know, although it's not quite 656 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:12,079 as much fun when you're not going to strip joints. That's true, trying 657 00:49:12,079 --> 00:49:15,800 to get laid. But I don't drink anymore, so I can't I can't 658 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:20,760 picture it being as fun for me. Well, we like to go buy 659 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,239 the pool and go to the d I mean we had a whole like we 660 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:29,239 had for a formula, right, Like we would start at the Burbank airport, 661 00:49:29,679 --> 00:49:35,400 Yeah, with our Bloody mary right. Then we would drink Bloody Mary's 662 00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,159 on the plane to the point of being almost getting kicked off there. Then 663 00:49:39,079 --> 00:49:45,719 somebody would lose their luggage. Then we would Then Gina would bring like the 664 00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:52,280 Cosmopolitan Quiz Sex quiz on the plane and make play. Yeah, excuse me, 665 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:57,239 sir, do you get a heart on your wife is cleaning or if 666 00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,079 your wife is cooking? Like whatever the quiz was. Yeah, I mean 667 00:50:00,119 --> 00:50:04,320 I don't remember the answers now, but it was fun though. People were 668 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,199 like, Yeah, on a Friday night a plane on Southwest, a Vegas 669 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:12,679 iverybody was always like the five o'clock flight and then we would go to the 670 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:20,239 hard rock all up a little bit and then hit the craft tables, then 671 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:25,920 the club Paradise. Then uh, breakfast somewhere, Yeah, breakfast early morning, 672 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,599 and then go to sleep. Then we'd go to sleep. Then we 673 00:50:29,599 --> 00:50:31,400 would wake up, and then we would go to the rent a cabana at 674 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:37,599 the pool and uh, get some sort of detox massage or something. Right, 675 00:50:38,039 --> 00:50:42,079 he all hung over, and then go home and take a disco disco 676 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,559 nap and then start it all over again. Yeah, and then and then 677 00:50:45,599 --> 00:50:50,199 be miserable. And then I could tell you all the best places to throw 678 00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:57,519 up at the Vegas Airport. Oh god, yeah, I've thrown up just 679 00:50:57,559 --> 00:51:01,760 about everywhere there. There's a good bath room. It's nothing worse coming home. 680 00:51:02,599 --> 00:51:05,840 Well, Gina, this has been so nice. So where are you 681 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,400 off to? You're going to Ikea. I'm going to Ikea next. Yeah, 682 00:51:08,519 --> 00:51:15,280 this is she just drove here changed. I told her she might get 683 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,360 sex trafficked, and she was like, bring it. Yeah, I know 684 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:23,559 nobody ever wants to sex traffic me. She's tried. You've tried. You're 685 00:51:23,599 --> 00:51:28,800 just lingering outside of it. Put it on my LinkedIn, on my LinkedIn. 686 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,760 You and you can't look it up that way like you did on AM. 687 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:40,639 You can't look up like sex traffickers, only right, try to narrow 688 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:45,280 it down to some appropriate partners. Yeah, this has been so fun fun. 689 00:51:45,519 --> 00:51:49,960 She drove up from Palm Strings. Thank you for driving up this morning. 690 00:51:50,119 --> 00:51:54,440 It was fun. I listened to Stephanie Miller okay nice on AM Radio. 691 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:59,920 No I'm serious, Oh okay nice. I was wondering, like, 692 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,480 why am I not hearing from Gina. She's in the car for two and 693 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:06,039 a half hours, and I'm always afraid to call you in the morning. 694 00:52:06,079 --> 00:52:09,440 I know, but that's not a morning person. Gina's up early. I'm 695 00:52:09,519 --> 00:52:13,960 up early, but she goes to bed early. Yeah yeah, she's an 696 00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,960 old lady. But anyway, No, I love you so much. It's 697 00:52:19,039 --> 00:52:22,119 so funny. This is funny. You show. Oh we love the course, 698 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:28,000 super funny anytime. Yeah, all right, guys, he's everybody. 699 00:52:28,079 --> 00:52:35,000 You're a parent now, don't have it up. Let Al