1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:07,000 Hello everyone, Happy Wednesday, and welcome back to this week's episode of your 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:11,759 Manifesting Bestie podcast. I'm your host, Flora, and we are diving into 3 00:00:11,759 --> 00:00:16,440 all things mindset and manifestation like we always do on this podcast. This is 4 00:00:16,519 --> 00:00:21,920 actually our last episode that we're wrapping up season three with, but don't worry, 5 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,559 we're not digging too long of a break. We'll be back after the 6 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:28,839 holiday season in January, just giving it a little bit of a revamp when 7 00:00:28,839 --> 00:00:31,839 we come back. I am gonna miss you guys a ton though, Like 8 00:00:31,879 --> 00:00:34,399 I'm not gonna lie. It's gonna be a little bit hard without you guys, 9 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,399 But we'll be back with new material, new episodes, new content for 10 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:42,320 you guys, to inspire you more on your manifestation journey. Now, today 11 00:00:42,359 --> 00:00:46,119 I want to get into a topic that I think is so important. I 12 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,039 think it's all important. Every every episode I feel like is important. But 13 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:55,200 this is something about your worth and your value and how it turns you into 14 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,719 a complete magnet for your desires and just how to become more magnetic in your 15 00:00:59,759 --> 00:01:03,759 real how to become more valuable, how to attract in the things that you 16 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,519 desire based off of your energetic frequency that you're outputting within the quantum field. 17 00:01:08,159 --> 00:01:11,879 And the reason I want to go over this is because I think it's going 18 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,480 to make so much sense as the way that your self image looks in your 19 00:01:15,519 --> 00:01:21,319 own mind is a direct correlation to everything that you are creating in your reality, 20 00:01:21,359 --> 00:01:25,359 and how we can level up that self image, how we can increase 21 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,599 the strength of our self image, which is our self concept. More so, 22 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:34,159 I was talking to one of my girlies inside of the Self Concept Mastery 23 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:38,280 Academy, which is the online manifestation program that I run, and she recently 24 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,519 manifested her romantic relationship and she was working on it for a while, I 25 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,319 want to say, maybe over two years that she was calling in this person 26 00:01:46,359 --> 00:01:49,480 that she was once in a relationship with that she wanted to repair things with. 27 00:01:49,079 --> 00:01:53,200 And when we started to work together inside of SCMA, it happened for 28 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,719 her pretty quick. And what I want to go over and what happened with 29 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,680 her is just so like it just made so much sense. So her self 30 00:02:00,719 --> 00:02:05,519 image in the past was pretty low, so she would kind of see herself 31 00:02:05,599 --> 00:02:08,759 as not very valuable, not like a prize, not like a chosen individual, 32 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:14,199 not like anyone's dream girl. She would more so like devalue herself. 33 00:02:14,439 --> 00:02:17,199 That's the nicest way I can put it. So she had pretty lousy thoughts 34 00:02:17,199 --> 00:02:22,159 about who she was as an individual. She felt like she was always second 35 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,919 best, and she really believed these things to be true. You know, 36 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:29,840 she didn't feel necessarily worthy of like healthy love, of healthy companionship, healthy 37 00:02:29,879 --> 00:02:34,800 relationships. She felt like, you know, anyone would pick someone else over 38 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,280 her. That was her immediate self image. That was her mindset about herself. 39 00:02:38,319 --> 00:02:42,439 When we kind of talked through the issues that she was struggling with, 40 00:02:43,039 --> 00:02:45,919 so I told her, you know, one of the things that we work 41 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,639 on in the program is increasing the belief that we have about ourselves, increasing 42 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,120 our self worth. And when I spoke to her after she told me about 43 00:02:53,159 --> 00:02:57,759 her success with it, how she got her partnership, she got her relationship 44 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,479 with her person. I asked her, so, you know, outside of 45 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:05,159 the academy and the formula, what was something that you really did, Like, 46 00:03:05,199 --> 00:03:07,560 how did you know? I was just curious because she was at this 47 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,759 for two years and then out of nowhere, it happened for her within I 48 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,560 want to believe, a month and a half of her doing the program, 49 00:03:13,759 --> 00:03:15,840 and she says, she goes, I listened to everything that you said inside 50 00:03:15,879 --> 00:03:20,520 of the videos, and she goes, I had to increase my value. 51 00:03:21,039 --> 00:03:24,919 I have to see myself as a really valuable individual. I had to increase 52 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:30,680 my self worth because I felt very much unworthy. And she goes, not 53 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,400 just in my relationship, but this also stumbled into how I ran and operated 54 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,879 my business. She goes, I never was making sales. I kept discounting 55 00:03:38,319 --> 00:03:40,520 my program. I kept doing this and not to try to get clients to 56 00:03:40,599 --> 00:03:45,479 work with me. So she kept kind of looking at her reality and realizing 57 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:50,159 that she's always seeing herself as someone smaller, someone who isn't good enough. 58 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:54,719 She was always devaluing herself. In the past, she would be the first 59 00:03:54,800 --> 00:04:00,479 person to pretty much put herself up for sale because she would lower her value 60 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,680 to try to gain affection, try to gain love, trying to gain money, 61 00:04:03,719 --> 00:04:06,960 trying to do anything she could. She would devalue herself. So she 62 00:04:08,039 --> 00:04:11,360 would do these different things in her reality and by using the formula and other 63 00:04:11,439 --> 00:04:15,160 methods that she had going to increase her self worth. And as I was 64 00:04:15,199 --> 00:04:19,279 talking to her about that, I'm like, that is so crucial because as 65 00:04:19,319 --> 00:04:24,480 soon as we elevate our worth. We become more magnetic, we become more 66 00:04:24,519 --> 00:04:30,519 attractive, we become more valuable, we become someone that is recognizing their own 67 00:04:30,519 --> 00:04:33,560 self worth and therefore universal laws or like, oh okay, I see your 68 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:38,120 worth too, I also see your value. Because the universe doesn't judge, 69 00:04:38,519 --> 00:04:43,040 it's not taking score on what you've done in the past. It just agrees 70 00:04:43,079 --> 00:04:46,839 with you. That's all it does. It's just there for agreeance and to 71 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,920 support you. So if you feel shitty about yourself and you devalue yourself, 72 00:04:49,959 --> 00:04:55,000 the universe will agree with you. So it's going to bring into your reality 73 00:04:55,199 --> 00:04:58,600 events that correlate with that self image of not being good enough, of not 74 00:04:58,639 --> 00:05:01,199 being valuable. It's just going to agree with everything that you're doing and give 75 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,360 you more of it. So as she increased her value, increased her self 76 00:05:04,399 --> 00:05:10,079 worth, the universe once again agreed because it's loyal. The universe is extremely 77 00:05:10,079 --> 00:05:12,680 loyal. It's a faithful servant. It wants to serve you, wants to 78 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,000 support you. It will tend x anything that you make commands for. So 79 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,279 as soon as she began to pour, you know, more into herself and 80 00:05:19,319 --> 00:05:24,319 increase her value as an individual, the universe said, great, I'm going 81 00:05:24,399 --> 00:05:29,839 to give you very valuable circumstances and events and occurrences coming into your life that 82 00:05:29,879 --> 00:05:31,240 are going to bring you dooor that are going to make you feel worthy, 83 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,879 that are going to make you feel good and trusting the process and feeling more 84 00:05:33,959 --> 00:05:38,199 joy and feeling more abundance and feeling more love. And then the relationship came 85 00:05:38,199 --> 00:05:40,759 in really really quick, and then the money started to come in. Now 86 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,439 that she's operating her online business, it's going really well for her. So 87 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,959 the reason that I'm even bringing this up is because if you want to be 88 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:53,160 a person who is magnetic, a person who is attractive energetically, a person 89 00:05:53,199 --> 00:05:58,199 who just draws in good things, you need to increase your value. And 90 00:05:58,399 --> 00:06:02,399 just to note that you being born and you being alive is already making you 91 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:08,480 extremely valuable and extremely worthy. You just don't realize it. So you feel 92 00:06:08,519 --> 00:06:12,839 like you need to prove yourself more. You need to do things to manipulate 93 00:06:12,879 --> 00:06:15,839 your reality to gain more things, because you don't see that you were born 94 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,959 valuable and that you were born worthy of all the things that you want. 95 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:24,759 You forgot somewhere along the line, you adopted beliefs that made you forget how 96 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:28,279 important you are, and you diminish yourself and you start to play small, 97 00:06:28,319 --> 00:06:30,560 you start to cut corners. You started to become more of a people pleaser, 98 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,800 right. You started to apologize for everything. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 99 00:06:33,879 --> 00:06:38,120 Oh you say sorry about everything? Why what are you so sorry about? 100 00:06:38,439 --> 00:06:40,879 Why do you keep apologizing? There's nothing to apologize for. A Stop 101 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:44,759 apologizing for taking up space. Stop apologizing for having a voice, and having 102 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,720 needs and having desires and having one. Stop being sorry for being who you 103 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,879 are. The more that you diminish yourself, the more that you kind of 104 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:56,199 try to shrivel yourself up, the more you lose your magnetism, the more 105 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,480 you lose out on the desires that were meant for you, the more you 106 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,319 lose out on the reality that you were guaranteed and promised. Because you're not 107 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,439 being the authentic you, You're not being the valuable, worthy, bold, 108 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:12,279 powerful version of yourself. So I really want to talk about how to increase 109 00:07:12,279 --> 00:07:15,959 our value and our worth because this is the foundation of your self concept. 110 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:20,240 You cannot create a strong and powerful self image if you keep playing small, 111 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:24,399 and if you keep seeing yourself as not good enough, and you keep seeing 112 00:07:24,399 --> 00:07:29,759 yourself as unworthy, and these things trickle into anxiety, depression, mental health 113 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,920 issues. You feel crippled in your own reality. You feel hindered and handicapped, 114 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,240 like you can't go out and just do the things that you want to 115 00:07:36,279 --> 00:07:40,839 do, because why why not? Why can't you start that thing? Why 116 00:07:40,879 --> 00:07:43,600 can't you talk to that person that you want to talk to, Why can't 117 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,000 you live out the dream that you want to know? Why? It's because 118 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,319 you just keep telling yourself you're unworthy for those things. You keep telling yourself 119 00:07:49,319 --> 00:07:53,079 you're not valuable enough. And I need you to know that you are valuable 120 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,160 enough. And then you need to add tax to that too, so know 121 00:07:55,279 --> 00:08:00,319 you're worth and then add tax. Make yourself expensive, okay, not for 122 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,439 sale. You are the Burken Bag of your reality. Okay, You're not 123 00:08:03,879 --> 00:08:09,279 the Michael Cores. You're the Burken No one can just walk into a store 124 00:08:09,319 --> 00:08:11,879 and buy a Burken bag when they go into Arimez. You have to build 125 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:18,000 a relationship with the sales associates. You have to show interest in other items, 126 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,319 and you have to make frequent visits to those really expensive stores, and 127 00:08:20,439 --> 00:08:24,360 then you're invited to view those type of bags it's really expensive. I don't 128 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:28,959 know, thirty thousand, forty thousand and sixty thousand dollars handbags. Be the 129 00:08:28,959 --> 00:08:31,919 burken bag of your reality. Know your worth and attacks you are not for 130 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:37,080 sale, okay, And this is gonna go all across the board of increasing 131 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,919 your value. So if we look at relationships and having boundaries, I need 132 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,840 you to know that having boundaries is so sexy, it's so attractive. It's 133 00:08:43,879 --> 00:08:48,200 like it makes a person irresistible. I'm like, damn, they're not lowering 134 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:54,960 their standards for me. They're unbreakable. Their self concept is bulletproof, their 135 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:58,679 self image is so powerful. They stand firm, ten toes deep in their 136 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:03,840 stay and they're not lowering them for anybody. Okay. So, if you're 137 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:09,000 somebody that's manifesting a relationship, for example, stand on your standards, stand 138 00:09:09,039 --> 00:09:13,399 on them, keep your standards high, know your value. If somebody messages 139 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,480 you at ten PM to meet up, Nope, you're not even getting a 140 00:09:16,519 --> 00:09:20,879 response from me. Why in the world where I lower my value and diminish 141 00:09:22,399 --> 00:09:26,960 my standards and my expectations and give into them for what to receive affection for 142 00:09:26,039 --> 00:09:31,240 one night? Is that really how I value myself? Or am I being 143 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,360 cheap about who I am? Am I putting myself out for sale? That's 144 00:09:35,399 --> 00:09:37,720 not okay. That is not how you develop a strong self concept. You 145 00:09:37,799 --> 00:09:41,399 have to set high expectations and high boundaries of who you are so that people 146 00:09:41,399 --> 00:09:46,879 in your reality come correct. They level up to those expectations. They have 147 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:48,840 to meet you where you are or else you do not engage with them. 148 00:09:48,879 --> 00:09:54,240 This is how you become like a repellent of low vibrational people. Okay, 149 00:09:54,279 --> 00:09:58,200 if you want to stop attracting narcissists and fuck boys and fuck girls and people 150 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,320 who are players and people who use in a use people, elevate your standards 151 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:05,120 and stand firmly on them. This does not make you a bitch. It 152 00:10:05,159 --> 00:10:11,000 doesn't make you lonely or anything like that or conceded. It means you value 153 00:10:11,039 --> 00:10:15,679 yourself. It means you know you're worth You add tax to it, and 154 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:20,360 you will only engage with people and respond to those who are willing to pay 155 00:10:20,399 --> 00:10:22,879 that price and meet you out at your standards. Right, So, you 156 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:28,600 really want to find ways in your reality to increase your value. If someone 157 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,919 speaks low about you or speaks down to you, would the highest version of 158 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:35,279 you even entertain that person, Would they engage, would they react? Would 159 00:10:35,279 --> 00:10:39,279 they start cursing them out and getting angry and getting furious and reacting. No, 160 00:10:39,759 --> 00:10:43,440 you know what your higher self would do if somebody speaks down on you 161 00:10:43,519 --> 00:10:46,759 and it like to your face, they would literally smile and walk away. 162 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,720 You're too good to interact with people like that. You're too good. View 163 00:10:50,759 --> 00:10:56,320 yourself as I'm way too fucking good for this. I'm way too valuable. 164 00:10:56,159 --> 00:11:01,200 I am not for sale. There's no discount code to access to my energy. 165 00:11:01,639 --> 00:11:05,320 Absolutely not. Okay, So ask yourself when it comes to like the 166 00:11:05,399 --> 00:11:09,399 dating world, what type of standards am I representing? Like? What is 167 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,759 the energy that I'm putting out there? Do I really see my own value? 168 00:11:13,759 --> 00:11:16,039 Do I engage with people who just want to hook up? Do I 169 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,759 engage with people with low effort who just want to text me and just say 170 00:11:18,759 --> 00:11:20,879 what are you doing? But they don't know how to plan anything for me? 171 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,960 Do I engage with people who don't put me first, they actually put 172 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,960 me last and only hit me up when it's convenient for them. Am I 173 00:11:28,039 --> 00:11:33,559 going to continue engaging with these people and increasingly lowering my own value? Like? 174 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,600 Why the world would I even do that to myself? Why would I 175 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,200 play myself like that. I'm over here trying to manifest a new reality, 176 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,879 and I'm over here putting myself on a fucking discount for people for what? 177 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,360 Why would I do that? This goes for everything, for clients, for 178 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,279 your business, for your love life, for your friendships. How do your 179 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,600 friends treat you? Do your friends value you? Do they respect you? 180 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,759 Or do they only call you when they want a gossip? Do they only 181 00:11:56,759 --> 00:12:00,759 call you when they want to go drinking? Do they actually value you and 182 00:12:00,799 --> 00:12:03,879 your mental health and your well being? Do they support you? Right? 183 00:12:03,039 --> 00:12:07,360 Like? Figure out what are the things I'm reacting to and engaging with? 184 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,720 Because that is the standard I'm setting for myself. That is the value of 185 00:12:09,759 --> 00:12:15,840 myself that I'm holding myself too. So if you saw yourself from an external 186 00:12:15,919 --> 00:12:20,279 view, would you respect your own behavior? Would you respect your own actions? 187 00:12:20,279 --> 00:12:22,519 Would you look at you and be like, damn, that is a 188 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,960 worthy, valuable, honorable individual. I look up to that person. They're 189 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,279 sexy and fucking magnetic because they honor themselves so much that they do not bend 190 00:12:31,279 --> 00:12:35,679 over backwards for anyone. They do not lower their standards for anyone. And 191 00:12:35,799 --> 00:12:39,240 they hold they stand true to who they are. So back to the girl 192 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:43,799 who, after two years, finally manifested that specific person that she wanted. 193 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,759 What was actually happening in the past is this guy that she was trying to 194 00:12:46,799 --> 00:12:50,919 attract them was giving her hot and cold behavior all the time. He was 195 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,159 literally treating her like a fuck boy. He was coming in and out. 196 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,000 He only wanted to hook up. He only wanted late night stuff. No 197 00:12:56,080 --> 00:13:00,679 commitment. I'm not ready for commitment, right, We've all heard that story. 198 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,320 So I told her when she first started the program, is why do 199 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,759 you keep engaging with this person? Why do you keep offering a reaction and 200 00:13:07,799 --> 00:13:13,240 offering your energy to a person who clearly doesn't see and doesn't respect your value 201 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:18,519 because you don't see it yourself. So you're expecting someone to change, but 202 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:22,000 you have not changed yourself. How can that be? That doesn't make sense. 203 00:13:22,039 --> 00:13:26,840 That's illogical, right, that's insanity doing the same thing over and over 204 00:13:26,879 --> 00:13:30,600 and over and expecting another person to change. Why. Because you're being nice 205 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:33,759 to them, because you're letting them in, you're giving them your energy. 206 00:13:33,759 --> 00:13:37,399 You think that's gonna make them want to commit to you. No, that's 207 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,399 gonna make them look at you as a fucking joke, no offense, But 208 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:43,279 I'm being serious, right, you don't want to be a joke. You 209 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,879 want to be a person who holds true to their own standards and their own 210 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:50,320 values. Okay, Now let's look at this from an abundant standpoint too, 211 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,279 because I know we all want more money. We want to manifest success and 212 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,759 everything. That's, you know, my favorite thing to always talk about. 213 00:13:56,279 --> 00:14:01,279 I was working with somebody and she had the eight coaching program, but I 214 00:14:01,279 --> 00:14:05,320 believe she does fitness and nutrition in like a holistic way. And she was 215 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:09,480 putting out a program for two hundred and fifty dollars, which is affordable. 216 00:14:09,639 --> 00:14:13,200 Right, the average person should be able to afford that for their health and 217 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,120 well being if they're really serious about it. Now, she got no sales, 218 00:14:16,279 --> 00:14:20,080 no leads, no clients coming, nothing, and I was like, 219 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,080 okay. So when she was asking me about manifesting, She's like, should 220 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:28,960 I offer a discount? Should I put my program and make it cheaper? 221 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,720 Maybe people just can't afford it. I was like, are you kidding? 222 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:35,720 Are you crazy? You need to increase your pricing because the return on the 223 00:14:35,759 --> 00:14:39,159 investment of what a person is buying into is a brand new body, a 224 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:41,159 brand new lifestyle, brand new health, brand new mindset. You're changing their 225 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:45,039 whole life. You really think two fifty is the right price and you want 226 00:14:45,039 --> 00:14:48,840 to lower it. I'm like, you should double it, maybe even triple 227 00:14:48,879 --> 00:14:52,399 it, honestly, because she's really good at what she does, and I 228 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:56,360 know that we want to accommodate everybody. We want to be accessible, we 229 00:14:56,440 --> 00:15:01,799 want to people please. But that doesn't make you valid. That decreases your 230 00:15:01,799 --> 00:15:05,559 own value. So she increased her pricing, she changed her mindset, she 231 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:11,159 did the program with the business module that we have inside of SCMA. Now 232 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,600 she's getting leads, and she doubled her price. I'm like, you say, 233 00:15:13,639 --> 00:15:18,120 you don't put yourself on discount. You don't decrease your value. You 234 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:22,279 never put your worth lower than what it is. You're honestly way better off 235 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:26,039 increasing your prices when it comes to business, because people believe in something that's 236 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:31,200 more valuable. If I saw a program that told me it's going to change 237 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,360 something about my body, or if I saw a program it says it's going 238 00:15:33,399 --> 00:15:37,080 to turn me into a millionaire, and they were pricing it at five hundred 239 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,720 bucks, I wouldn't even buy it. I wouldn't even take the person seriously, 240 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,240 How are you selling me a program for five hundred bucks If it's going 241 00:15:43,279 --> 00:15:45,279 to change my whole life? That should be one thousand bucks, that should 242 00:15:45,279 --> 00:15:48,440 be two thousand bucks. Know your worth and then at tax. Okay, 243 00:15:48,519 --> 00:15:52,759 this goes on everything. Stand firmly on who you are and develop the right 244 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:56,960 mindset that I know who I am. I'm authentic to who I am. 245 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,720 I'm not a people pleaser. I'm not bending over backwards to please other people 246 00:15:58,759 --> 00:16:03,960 for what for what? That's lowering my authenticity, it's lowering my value. 247 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:08,159 That's not who I am. I'm not here to play small, no way, 248 00:16:08,799 --> 00:16:14,080 Like, absolutely fucking not. I'm not for sale. I have a 249 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,919 business client of mine who's inside of my academy, and she messaged me and 250 00:16:17,919 --> 00:16:22,360 she was like, I don't know why you price your monthly subscription so low? 251 00:16:22,879 --> 00:16:26,000 Like it's a sixty nine dollars offer that anyone can access. Why do 252 00:16:26,039 --> 00:16:29,440 you price it so low? And I understood where she was coming from because 253 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,279 her return on investment from using the program, I believe she manifested like roughly 254 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:37,480 forty five thousand dollars in the first two months, which is insane, right, 255 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,440 it's incredible. So in her mind as a business order, she's like, 256 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:41,759 Flora, your prices are way too low. And I get where she's 257 00:16:41,799 --> 00:16:47,320 coming from, But my pricing for my subscription goal is gonna keep going up 258 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,559 month by month, not for the people who are already in it, but 259 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,440 for new members. Right, the price always goes up because I add more 260 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:56,840 into it. We do group coaching, this more that evolves throughout the program. 261 00:16:56,159 --> 00:16:59,360 But I listened to what she was saying, and she was like, 262 00:16:59,639 --> 00:17:03,720 for people who are manifesting money, like you need to create programs for them 263 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,400 that are in the thousand dollars ranges because they're going to increase their belief in 264 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:11,400 the outcome more. And she was so right. I'm like, I love 265 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,799 how you're schooling me on my own business. You're absolutely right. And she 266 00:17:14,839 --> 00:17:18,519 said this at the perfect time because I am working on a program strictly for 267 00:17:18,759 --> 00:17:22,279 entrepreneurs, like a blueprint for making money online, and I've been struggling with 268 00:17:22,319 --> 00:17:27,519 how to price it because I've made everything super affordable for people, and this 269 00:17:27,599 --> 00:17:30,519 episode that I'm creating, like, I'm literally talking to myself right now, 270 00:17:30,559 --> 00:17:34,599 Like, know you're worth and then attacks like, know what the result of 271 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,920 a person who has access to you can gain, and then attacks to that. 272 00:17:40,079 --> 00:17:42,400 Really, so you need to start doing this all across the board in 273 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:47,519 every area of your life. I was I was gonna go out with a 274 00:17:47,559 --> 00:17:49,720 couple of friends and I asked one of my girlfriends to come and I was 275 00:17:49,759 --> 00:17:52,480 like, Hey, we're going to go grab drinks after whatever. She's like, 276 00:17:52,519 --> 00:17:56,160 oh, I didn't plan on that, and I have pilates in the 277 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,640 morning, and then I have a meeting that I have to get to. 278 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,640 So she turned down the invite to come out for a fun night. And 279 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:04,920 instead of me getting mad at her or being like feeling some type of way 280 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,839 that she didn't want to come hang out, my respect for my friend grew 281 00:18:10,279 --> 00:18:14,480 ten times more because I'm like, she values her time, she values her 282 00:18:14,519 --> 00:18:18,880 boundaries, She respects herself so much to stay true to her fitness goals, 283 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,160 her health goals, her business goals, that she will say no to anything 284 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,400 firmly if it does not align with the outcome that she wants for her life, 285 00:18:26,599 --> 00:18:30,319 if it doesn't honor the way that she sees herself, if it contradicts 286 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:34,319 her own self image, she will not bend over backwards for anyone, and 287 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:40,119 I fucking love that about her. I respect her so much it makes her 288 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:45,079 more attractive, more magnetic. Like if I think of myself and I'm like, 289 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:48,119 what can I improve about myself, it's my own boundaries, it's sticking 290 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:52,440 true and keeping promises to myself. Right, That's what makes you magnetic. 291 00:18:52,599 --> 00:18:57,519 That's what draws in the money, the opportunities, the right friendships, the 292 00:18:57,599 --> 00:19:03,799 right relationships. That's what creates more blessings in your reality. The more valuable 293 00:19:03,839 --> 00:19:07,720 you see yourself as, the stronger your self image becomes, the better the 294 00:19:07,759 --> 00:19:11,160 reality becomes. Because everything is a mere image of you. So if you 295 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:15,039 feel lousy about yourself, if you don't respect yourself, if you don't honor 296 00:19:15,079 --> 00:19:18,599 your boundaries, if you don't set super high standards and keep promises to yourself, 297 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:25,480 your universe is reflecting your poor self image back to you. Okay, 298 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:30,960 So this could look like a low quality of life, low income, low 299 00:19:30,039 --> 00:19:36,640 value friendships, low value partners, right do you want that? No? 300 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:41,119 Absolutely not? And you don't have to fight your way out of those lifestyles 301 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,759 right now. If that's where you are, If you're in a low state 302 00:19:44,799 --> 00:19:47,279 in your life, you don't have to fight your way out of it. 303 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:51,359 You have to see yourself as a new person. You create a brand new 304 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:56,519 self image and you stay true to it. Your actions, your thought patterns, 305 00:19:56,519 --> 00:20:00,839 your beliefs about yourself will need to represent that new self image. Then 306 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:04,559 the reality must shift. Then the money comes, then the opportunities come, 307 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,960 then the right people come. You can't really expect things in your reality to 308 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:15,160 change until you have changed, until you are the new identity, until you 309 00:20:15,319 --> 00:20:19,640 view yourself through the eyes of a higher standard and you stay true to it. 310 00:20:19,799 --> 00:20:26,400 Okay, So respecting yourself and honoring yourself and knowing your value, this 311 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:30,960 is the fundamentals of your self concept and manifestation. It's the fundamentals of conscious 312 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,759 creating in your reality. So really take inventory of where your life is. 313 00:20:37,279 --> 00:20:40,440 Do a little scan. How do I feel about this? Does this honor 314 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,599 my beliefs about who I am and who I want to become? What am 315 00:20:42,599 --> 00:20:45,680 I doing in this area of my life? Does this represent who I am 316 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,680 and what I want to become? Or is this the old me that it's 317 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:53,079 representing? Like, really take inventory, because we don't do this enough. 318 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:57,240 We don't stop and realize like we really are responsible for everything. We don't 319 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:00,400 do it enough, or we're like, Okay, let me make the change. 320 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,079 I am the problem and I am the solution, and I have all 321 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,200 the power. And this is a huge relief to know all this right. 322 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,880 It's good to know that I don't have to beg anyone for change. I 323 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,279 don't have to move to a new city and pray for a better lifestyle. 324 00:21:15,559 --> 00:21:18,680 I just created internally. I create the environment internally. I create the higher 325 00:21:18,839 --> 00:21:25,319 standards and expectations and boundaries and value and worth internally, so my universe must 326 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:29,400 reflect it back. It's a natural cause and effect of universal law. I 327 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:33,440 noticed this in my sister too, my older sister. She's super disciplined. 328 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,039 And I'll be like, oh, I want to go to this restaurant, 329 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:37,960 or I want to try this, and I want to go here, and 330 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,599 she's like, I can't go because I can only eat X, Y and 331 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,279 Z. She has like a strict diet, vegetarian. She has to go 332 00:21:45,279 --> 00:21:48,640 to the gym at nine thirty for like a super vigorous workout, and then 333 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,839 she goes swimming practice. She does all these different things. She's so disciplined, 334 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,480 and I realize that that people around her respect her for that. They 335 00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,720 see that as a valuable trait, and I'm like, these are the things 336 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,720 that make a person magnetic and attractive. Like, you want to become more 337 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:08,000 attractive to your specific person or to attract and high value individuals. It's not 338 00:22:08,039 --> 00:22:14,119 about posting more thirst traps on Instagram. It's about changing the internal environment and 339 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,440 then everybody externally changes too, and they see you in a new light, 340 00:22:17,759 --> 00:22:21,559 so that when you do post something on social media, you draw on the 341 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:26,400 right crowd. You don't draw in the low vibrational people who just want to 342 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,640 like hook up and link up and like, you know, just dm you 343 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:30,960 talk about what you're doing. No, you want to attract the type of 344 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,200 people who are like I want to court this woman, or I want to 345 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,200 court this man, or I want to you know, please them. I 346 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:41,119 want to satisfy them. I want to accommodate them. I want to show 347 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:45,319 them how special that I see them. I want to take note of who 348 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,799 they are and make them feel really good. Like that's the type of person. 349 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,640 You want to attract them to your reality. But you have to do 350 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:56,000 the internal work first. You have to know your value and you got to 351 00:22:56,039 --> 00:23:00,240 stand on it. Okay, and throughout your day. There are so many 352 00:23:00,319 --> 00:23:03,240 ways that you can increase your value and honor yourself more. Okay, this 353 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:08,200 turns you into a very valuable person. So finding different routines like a morning 354 00:23:08,279 --> 00:23:12,000 routine, right, maybe this involves some breathwork and some meditation. Maybe it 355 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:18,759 involves outdoor walks or a workout. Maybe this involves proper skincare routines, taking 356 00:23:18,799 --> 00:23:22,200 care of your hair and your hygiene. I don't know about you, guys, 357 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,480 but when I see a person and like, they smell really good, 358 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:33,160 that increases like my attraction to them, like sexually, energetically everything. Why 359 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,759 Because subconsciously, when someone smells really good, I'm like, oh, they 360 00:23:34,839 --> 00:23:37,759 must really take good care of themselves. They must take really good care of 361 00:23:37,799 --> 00:23:41,799 their home, they must be great in bed. Like literally, these are 362 00:23:41,839 --> 00:23:45,680 the subconscious thoughts I have of a person who smells incredible. So like, 363 00:23:45,839 --> 00:23:49,279 finding routines that ups your hygiene also a really great way to honor and value 364 00:23:49,279 --> 00:23:55,119 yourself and poortant to yourself. Finding routines that pour into your mental health. 365 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:59,839 That might be reading, listening to podcasts, proper self talk practices. Okay, 366 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,119 learning how to say no to people is a great way to honor and 367 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,640 value yourself too, because some people that bend over backwards for others, other 368 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,960 people don't value them. They just look at them as like a lower tier. 369 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,440 Literally, they look at you like you're kind of cheap because you're always 370 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,160 bending over backwards for people. You're constantly trying to people please so you can 371 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,200 control everyone's idea of you. And that's not how we do that. That's 372 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,000 ass backwards. It's totally wrong, like totally wrong. You're you're looked at 373 00:24:26,039 --> 00:24:32,400 as lower when you are constantly pleasing others. So don't do that to yourself. 374 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,240 And as you guys know, like my favorite way I've talked about this 375 00:24:34,279 --> 00:24:38,359 on multiple episodes is understanding your own love language. This is so potent and 376 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,519 so energetic to do this. So if you guys go on like Google and 377 00:24:41,559 --> 00:24:45,960 you take the love language test, there's five love languages. I believe it's 378 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:51,039 physical touchwards of affirmation, receiving gifts, acts of service, and quality time. 379 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,640 Understand what is like the highest form of love that you like to receive, 380 00:24:55,039 --> 00:24:57,160 and then you want to give that to yourself. So I like physical 381 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,640 touch, So I like having like a weighted blank, I like getting massages 382 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,960 every other week. I love getting facials and reflexology on my feet. Self 383 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,880 pleasure practice also a great way to honor your physical touch needs. Right, 384 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:15,759 if your style is words of affirmation, do mirror work. Pour into yourself 385 00:25:15,759 --> 00:25:18,880 in the mirror. Tell yourself the beautiful things about you, even if you 386 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:22,279 don't believe them yet. Okay. Acts of service. Go out and find 387 00:25:22,319 --> 00:25:26,480 ways of people giving you, providing the type of service that you like, 388 00:25:26,519 --> 00:25:29,839 whether it's at a restaurant or at a salon, getting your nails, don 389 00:25:29,839 --> 00:25:34,240 your lashes on whatever, receiving gifts. Honor yourself by being like, I'm 390 00:25:34,279 --> 00:25:38,880 worthy enough to purchase this thing, whether it's a handbag, new furniture, 391 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,279 a little sweet treat yourself thing on the way home, whatever it is. 392 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,880 Stop restricting yourself and telling yourself, I'm not good enough to spend that money 393 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:52,960 on myself. Yes, you are, honor yourself, Okay, value who 394 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,880 you are. You come first. You need to be up on that fucking 395 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,240 pedestal. No one else in your reality belongs on a pedestal but you. 396 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:02,519 You're the creator. You are the operant power, You are the literally the 397 00:26:02,559 --> 00:26:06,160 almighty. You're up on a throne, but you don't see yourself that way, 398 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,640 so you don't give yourself the power. You're giving your power away to 399 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:14,319 everyone. You keep discounting yourself and lowering your worth. Stop it, please 400 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:18,480 stop. If your love language is spending quality time, you can do this 401 00:26:18,519 --> 00:26:22,680 by spending quality time with friends or spending quality time with yourself, like some 402 00:26:22,839 --> 00:26:26,400 people find so much relaxation and meditation by taking themselves on a drive and listening 403 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,920 to their music and talking to themselves kindly, or going to the beach by 404 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,599 themselves, going for a swim, just doing anything that allows you to have 405 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,839 peace and serenity internally. Take I love to take myself out on dates. 406 00:26:37,839 --> 00:26:41,279 I don't mind going out to lunch by myself. It to me it's fun. 407 00:26:41,319 --> 00:26:42,960 I get to people watch, I get to eat what I want. 408 00:26:44,039 --> 00:26:48,440 I run on my own time. I can take things slowly like honor yourself. 409 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,480 You're good enough for that, You're worthy enough for it. You're valuable 410 00:26:52,599 --> 00:26:56,839 enough. So find ways throughout the day to pour into you. The universe 411 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,640 is going to ten exit through the law of increase. It must. The 412 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,920 more you pour into self, the more you see that your value is so 413 00:27:03,079 --> 00:27:08,119 fucking high. You're increasing your energetic frequency in the quantum field. So the 414 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,920 higher that you start to vibrate, the higher that you feel about yourself, 415 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,920 the higher that you see yourself, the higher the circumstances and the events and 416 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,559 occurrences that come into your life, as well as the people, places, 417 00:27:18,559 --> 00:27:22,799 and things that enter your life. You are. You're not operating at a 418 00:27:22,799 --> 00:27:26,359 lower frequency anymore. So you do not attract low vibrational people. You do 419 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,039 not attract low vibrational money, which is the lack of money. Okay, 420 00:27:30,079 --> 00:27:33,240 you don't attract the car accidents and the losing your house and getting fired from 421 00:27:33,279 --> 00:27:37,880 a job and getting sick and having to live off a prescription medication your whole 422 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,680 life. You're not operating in that frequency anymore. You've elevated yourself. You're 423 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:48,640 shifting timelines by increasing your self worth and your value. Okay, So make 424 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,240 this not a chore, not like a fuck another thing I have to do. 425 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,200 This should be fun. How can I please myself today? How can 426 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,559 I stand and honor my boundaries today? How can I live like the highest 427 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,960 version of myself today? How can I think like her? How can I 428 00:28:03,039 --> 00:28:06,680 be like him? What are my actions stating about me right now? Like? 429 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,079 What type of energym I'm putting out into the field that is being reflected 430 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,880 back to me in my three D reality. I have to recognize these things 431 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,079 and elevate level the fuck up. It's time. Okay, it's about to 432 00:28:18,079 --> 00:28:22,920 be twenty twenty four, guys, it's time. The old you dead and 433 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,759 gone. We're done with them. Draw the line in the sand and step 434 00:28:26,799 --> 00:28:30,440 over it. Say goodbye, say a little prayer, thank you for serving 435 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,519 your time here. But the new me is here. Okay. Bad bitch 436 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:38,720 energy, boss, bitch energy. Please, I'm begging you to stand firmly, 437 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,960 stand up with your head held high. See yourself as the fucking prize. 438 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,680 Honor yourself. Okay, know your fucking worth and then add some text 439 00:28:49,759 --> 00:28:52,480 to it, and then double your value. The more you increase your value, 440 00:28:53,039 --> 00:28:57,960 the priceer it costs to access your energy. Okay. The days of 441 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:04,079 you playing small and lowering your standards for others is done. That does not 442 00:29:04,119 --> 00:29:10,359 resonate with you anymore. Okay, So make this commitment to yourself and watch 443 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:15,920 how your reality pays you back. Watch how the energy you pour into yourself 444 00:29:15,039 --> 00:29:21,200 is the entire universe pouring into you as well. It's a beautiful mirror reflection 445 00:29:21,359 --> 00:29:25,640 of the way that you see yourself now. Thank you guys so much for 446 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:30,400 tuning in to our last episode of season three. We will be back again. 447 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,000 I hope you guys have a wonderful holiday season. I love you all 448 00:29:33,079 --> 00:29:34,599 so much. Make sure you are following me and keeping up with me on 449 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:41,000 social media at Flora Siebo's on TikTok on Instagram, possibly soon on YouTube as 450 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:45,599 well. And if you want more coaching, you can join the Manifestation Academy. 451 00:29:45,599 --> 00:29:48,559 The link should be on my socials as CMA as well as here on 452 00:29:48,599 --> 00:29:52,240 my podcast. That way you can have access to me at all times within 453 00:29:52,279 --> 00:29:56,799 the community board, get the lesson plans, change your entire reality. It's 454 00:29:56,839 --> 00:30:00,240 really all in your hands. You guys, I love you so much much. 455 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:00,240 Have a wonderful week.