Hey, Hey, I'm back with something for you to think about. I
really, really, really hope and pray that you really think about the words
that I'm gonna say in this episode. No one, and I do mean
no one is exempt from life struggles. No one is exempt from life struggles.
Most of the things you go through you bring upon yourself most. So
many of you are so focused on hurting someone your mother, your father,
your sibling, your friend, your neighbor, your coworker, voss and so
on. You're so focused on hurting someone or getting back someone, that all
you're doing is hurting yourself. Any time you're giving so much time and energy
to hurt someone because you mad, you don't like what they did to you,
or whatever the situation is, you're giving all of your time and energy
to hurting that person back. You lose. You lose. So many people
are carrying around hurt, bitterness, anger, pain, unresolved issues that is
decaying them, decay in them mentally, physically, mind, body, and
soul, just decay and riding them from the inside out because you're so full
of that negative energy, and all it does is hurt you. You carry
around all of this inside and the person that you trying to get or you
hate, or whatever the situation is. They're going on by their business.
They're not thinking about you, But you're spending all of this time and energy
thinking about that person or those people. It doesn't make sense, but people
are doing it every day. You cannot even live a functional life because you
got so much pen hurt inside of you. You think if you hate someone
or you don't like someone, that's going to affect them. They're not affected
by your feelings and your thoughts. You are. You're the one carried around
the negativity. They going on by their business. And I've told you before
in an episode, some of you are holding on to old pain and the
people that hurt you are dead and gone. It is sad, it's very
sad. It's unfortunate, but it is reality for many people. You live
your life year after year after year holding on to hostility, just being totally
toxic. But you are the one who's hurting. Is self inflicted. Self
inflicted. Some of you meet people and you instantly don't like them because you
don't like yourself. So you take it out on that new person because you
see something in them that you wish you had in yourself. You don't like
yourself, so you projected onto that individual. All of this that I'm talking
about are things that people bring into their own life, that people cause unnecessary
self inflicted pain because you don't choose to change. No one is exempt from
struggles. I don't care if you want from rag to riches, because you
carry you everywhere you go, and you cannot separate yourself from yourself. From
rag to riches, You're gonna take those unresolved issues. If you do not
change, you're gonna take that same negativity from rag to riches. Because I've
already told you. People can obtain greatness. They can obtain many things in
life, they can have many great accomplishments, but they're still internally struggling because
and mentally because they haven't healed from the inside. It takes inside work for
the outside to work. No one can do it for you, only you
can do it for yourself. We've seen people who have attained a lot in
life, who have become even rich, struggling with alcoholism, drugs, weight,
sex, addictions, all types of things. Got all the money in
the world, but they're still struggling. Because no one is exempt, No
one, no one gets away. We all go through life struggles. Sometimes
people bring the struggles into our life because we open ourselves up to it.
If someone brings struggles into your life, you don't have to accept it.
You may feel the effect of something, but you don't have to let it
change or all to your life in a negative way. You accept whatever it
is. It is what it is, but you keep on moving when you
do not let negative people affect your life. But most people can't do that
because negativity is what they gravitate towards. And that is why I say no
one is exempt. Because if you have not dealt with who you are now,
who you pretend to be, but who you really are, you have
not dealt with that individual, that man or woman in the mirror, You're
gonna keep going through life with the same negative mindset. I've always told you
people who have not healed, listen to me. Now healed from their past
pains. You're gonna always be the prey or the predator. And some of
you have went and become the prey, and now you're the victim who victimizes.
And I've talked about that many times on episodes. You're once was the
prey and now you're the predator, and then you have those who are either
or. But it's that mindset, and it's because of what you're holding on
to. You can't expect to go through life with the peace of mind when
you're full of negativity, when you have not healed from past pains. You
can put on a good show pretending, but you know for yourself what the
truth is. You know that in a termo that you have. You know
the mental struggles that you have because you holding on to negativity. And guess
what, Sometimes people are holding on to things that are not even true.
They've made them up in their heads. And because they made them up in
their head, and they repeat the same stories they believe that. Some of
you will have other people hating a person because of the lies you told on
that person. All of this stuff is happening for real. But what I'm
trying to tell you is you're not exempt. You're not exempt from struggles in
this world. We all until the day we die, gonna go through those
hills and valleys, in and out of situations that don't feel so good sometimes,
because that's just life. You gotta take the good with the bad,
because the bad is coming, and the good is coming. As wall people
struggle the most because us they already have negativity that they have not dealt with,
and then when their storms come, they can't handle the handle the storms
because of the negativity that's already there. But you're not exempt. Some people
think because they get to a certain status they are exempt from the things.
They're not exempt. Pain, the desire for love, you know, sadness,
happiness, all of those things are universal. Everybody experienced them to some
degree at some point or another. People are seeking after the same things,
even though individuals are on different levels. They're seeking after the same things money,
love, recognition of validation, etc. Etc. And you will forever
do that until you know who you are as a person. Some of you
cannot even live a day without so many people around you, or you want
to be around certain people, you just got to be around them. But
that's telling me something about yourself. You have a void in you, and
too many people are trying to fill voids within self. A lot of people
go to work every day to feel voids, looking for love, looking for
friendships, looking for marriage, looking to move up, so they'll do things
they know that are lone. I mean to fill all types of voids.
But all it does is open doors to more problems in your life. That's
why you gotta get to know yourself, love yourself, figure you out,
and the rest will follow. But people, for the life of living,
they can't do it. They can't do it because most people live their lives
to try to please other people. They live their lives wanted to be other
people. It's sheer madness, that's what it is. Madness truly, because
your focus is on the wrong things. You think that you're not gonna go
through. You're gonna go through. We all go through, and we're gonna
forever go through until the day we execut natural body. It's just life.
Troubles and trials don't come to break you. They actually come to make you,
make you stronger and stronger. But people can't see it because they focus
on that negativity because of their mindsets. Now, you can believe whatever you
want to, But all I do is challenge you to just think about what
I'm saying and think about your life, what you've experienced, what you're going
through right now, how you're handling things, how have you perceived things.
A lot of you just react, you act or react, but you don't
think through to the consequences. You act or react immediately because of your mindset.
You want to go off. You just want to go off. But
that is because of your mindset. That's not a good thing. That's not
a good thing. You're always angry, just ready to explode. That's not
a good thing. And some of you have been this way all of your
life and you still refuse to change. But all it does is cause you
issues. You're so worried about hurting someone that all you're doing is hurting yourself.
All you are doing is hurting yourself. When you hold on to negativity,
you're hurting yourself. When you're jealous and envious, you're hurting yourself,
When you're full of bitterness, hate, rage, anger, you're hurting yourself.
I mean, I can go on and on and on and on about
this. Many people are like this, many holding on to negativity, thinking
they're doing something. Because I'm not speaking to my mom. I'm not speaking
to my dad, or my sister or my un to you know, my
cousin, my friend. I'm not gonna talk to them. You're only hurting
yourself. God want us to love one another, but instead, many hearts
have waxed cold. Families are not families anymore. But no one, no
one know, no one on the face of the earth is exempt. Now,
how you, whether you're storms totally told me, told me something else,
But it is according to your mindset. How you whether you're stories,
because they are going to come. I really really wanted to talk about it
because people are struggling. We're seeing how people are struggling. Look at all
the craziness people are doing. Brothers shooting sisters, moms killing their kids,
dads killing their kids, husbands and wife killing each other, boyfriend and girlfriend
are killing each other. I mean, just so much reactions and actions.
But people are not thinking through to what's gonna happen after they make the decision
to act. And it comes from all of the unresolved and people. All
of your experiences in life forms your mindset, and unfortunately most of the population
around the world hold on to that negativity. Trying so hard to get back
at people, You're only getting back at yourself, holding yourself back, holding
yourself down for a lifetime over something that may or may not be true,
even if it's true, even if you went through hell serious trauma. That
is no reason to sign up for a life sentence of negativity. You're you're
doing even worse to yourself than what was done to you. But it all
goes back to the mindset and the one you heard of the most, no
matter what you think, is yourself. Some people are so stagnant. They've
been stagnant for years and years and years and years and still no signs of
change, not even wanting to entertain the thought is really really unfortunate, but
it's the case for millions of people. Don't take my word for it,
just look around and research all of the foolishness and the unfortunate events that have
taken place. It comes from unhealed hearts and minds, no matter how people
got there, unhealed hearts and minds, and no one is exempt, no
one. If you carry around that negativity, you're only hurting yourself. And
that is the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
You may not want to hear it, but it's still the truth, and
I'm here to tell you all about it. If you want to be a
better person, don't look at me. Anyone is to make you better.
You have to make you better. Some of you compare yourself to other people,
only to end up feeling even worse about yourself. Don't do that.
Stop doing that to yourself. Stop torturing yourself over past pains. Some of
you just want to whole on to negativity and it's just chipping away at you.
You can't love anyone because you don't even love yourself, but you wanna
blame other people from whom you have chosen to become as an adult. So
that's it on this episode. That's all I'm gonna say. I hope it's
enough for you to understand what I'm saying. If you don't reach out to
me, go to my podcast pace. It'll tell you how to reach me.
We can talk about it. I'm willing, so thank you so much
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