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This is Later with Lee Matthews,
the Lee Matthews Podcast more What You Here

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weekday afternoons on the Drive. Great
to have him back on the program.

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Matt Frasier is America's top psychic medium
and author of When Heaven Calls, also

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his newest creation, We Never Die
Secrets of the Afterlife, out now in

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paperback. Matt Frasier, Great to
have you along and back again. Thank

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you so much for having me.
So let's get to because I've just gone

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through some of this a year ago
we walked my brother in law to the

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bridge as it were, a cancer
survivor up until about a year ago,

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and since then we've had some unusual
experiences I attribute to what you deal with

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in this book. It's amazing because
when our loved ones passed on, there

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is a way that we can get
in touch with them. And that's the

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reason why I wrote this book is
to one help us to understand their world

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right, because when we lose a
loved one to us as humans, we

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question where are they? Are they
on the other side? Are they okay?

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Did they make it the heavens?
Are they at peace? And the

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thing is is that the more that
you learn about their world, meaning the

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spirit world. The more that you
learn that, yes, you loved ones

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are at peace, they did make
it to the other side, and you

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also realize how you can communicate with
them. You don't have to be a

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psychic or a medium to sense your
loved ones, feel your loved ones,

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and get signs from your loved ones. It was earlier this spring we were

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talking about the trip we were going
to make to scatter his ashes in the

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Colorado Rockies. We had one of
the doors open to let some fresh air

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in. Screen, door closed,
and we were talking about it, and

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about the time my wife said,
yeah, it'll be great to get him

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up there where my parents are.
The door mysteriously closed. There wasn't a

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lot of wind, there wasn't a
lot of draft, and we thought,

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oh, well, maybe that's David
saying he approves. Absolutely. Listen,

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the signs come in so many different
forms. And what's really cool is that

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the signs come when you least expect
them, but when you most need them,

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when you're thinking about a loved one's
talking about a loved one, and

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a sign can be anything. Just
like you said, you know, with

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the closing of that door, when
when you have something out of the ordinary

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happen, and right away it makes
you think of a loved one that had

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died. Know that that's the sign. It's their way of showing you,

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Hey, I'm here with you and
I'm part of the conversation. It could

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be a dragonfly, butterfly repeating number, a reoccurring dream, a spenser,

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or feeling. It's amazing the ways
that our loved ones used to reach us.

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And I like to think of the
science as being like postcards from heaven,

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because they're just a gentle reminder that
tells you, hey, I'm here,

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I was listening, and don't worry
about me. I'm able to see

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what you're going through right now.
Later, when we hiked up the mountain

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to scatter his ashes, I had
marked with a GPS where we had marked

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my other in laws. It was
in the middle of June, past June.

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The temperature was not unusually warm for
that time of year, but low

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and behold, about the time we
are scattering as ashes, here came a

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light snowfall. So we thought that
was said postcard. Yeah, it's it's

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amazing. It absolutely is, and
you know, I'm glad that you're sharing

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these experiences because I tell people all
the time, you know, trust in

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the signs that you're getting, not
what somebody else is getting. What I

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mean by that is this is that
you know, so many times people will

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come to me as a medium and
say, now I didn't get signs and

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I don't understand. You know,
my dad passed away and my sister gets

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you know, pennies, dimes and
Nichols from my dad, and I get

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nothing at all. Why is that? You know? I don't see any

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pennies, I don't see any times, I don't see any Nichols. And

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I'm like, well, that's not
the way that your dad is reaching you.

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It might be the way that he's
reaching your sister, but not you.

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You can't compare signs with one another. You have to look for anything

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that you might think is them.
You know, when you have those random,

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reoccurring or out of the blue experiences
and right away it has you scratching

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your head and you're saying, could
that be him? Could that be her?

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Yes, that's exactly what it is. And so many times I see

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people make that mistake where they receive
a sign from their loved one, but

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they write it off, They write
it off as coincidence. Are they write

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it off as wishful thinking, And
that's so sad because when you do that,

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what you're doing is writing returns to
send around the envelope and shipping it

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back to heaven. But when you
go and you embrace the signs and you

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acknowledge the signs, you show your
loved ones that they can reach you in

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that way, speak to you in
that way, and that you're open to

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the signs that they're sending. We
Never die Secrets of the Afterlife, Matt

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Frasier is with us. Yeah,
and even if it is a coincidence,

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I don't care. I'll take it
as a sign. Well, listen,

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what I can tell you is this, there are no coincidences, and it's

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not in my world anyway, you
know. To me, to me,

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there are no coincidences, But there
are amazing signs that are loved ones used

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to get our attention, and there's
other ways to know that your loved ones

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are there as well. You know. I love when people come to me.

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The first thing that they say is
NAT, You're gonna think I'm crazy,

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and I know, and they say
that to be followed by something that's

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not crazy. At all. Right, Like this woman had lost her husband

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and she came to She goes,
NAT, You're gonna think I'm crazy,

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But I send my husband at night, I swear I felt him sit on

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my bed. You know, there
was another man that came to me.

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Is then, Nat, you're gonna
think I'm crazy. But I could have

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swore that after my dad's path,
his soul leave the room. I've just

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felt this wolsh of energy go by
me. And anytime somebody says that you're

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gonna think I'm crazy, they're really
not. These are all real experiences.

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And that's the reason why I wrote
this book as well, because so many

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people are afraid to talk about these
experiences. They're afraid to talk about their

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signs. They're afraid that someone is
going to shoot them down or not be

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open or shut down you know what
it is that they've experienced. And when

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I was a little kid, I
thought that as well. You know,

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my grandmother and my mom grew up
at a time when you couldn't talk about

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the signs, you couldn't talk about
sensing your feeling your loved ones with you.

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So I wrote this book to really
show people, no, you're not

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crazy. This is the reason these
are the answers. This is why you're

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feeling the way that you're feeling.
This is why you're getting those signs.

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It's the reason why you know those
things are happening within your life. Matt.

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Frasier's with us. We never die. Secrets of the afterlife. Let's

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talk about dreams, Matt. It
happens to me all the time. I

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dream of a loved one, most
recently a friend of mine that I worked

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with for many years. She passed
away about a year ago, and the

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circumstances of her death were that she
really didn't take very good care of herself,

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and that was what I always bothered
about. She came to me in

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a dream and she says, Hey, I know you've been worried about me,

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don't Everything's so great here? Yeah, I kind of wish I took

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better care of myself too, but
here we are. And that was basically

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the cruxt of the dream. I
think she was communicating with me. She

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definitely was. Dreams are the number
one way for your loved ones to come

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in in to reach you. And
it's funny because people ask me all the

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time, Matt, what do our
loved ones look like in heaven. What

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does a spirit look like. Well, if you've ever had a dream of

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a loved one, if you've ever
seen a loved one in a dream,

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then you know what a spirit looks
like. You've actually seen them. You

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know. Sometimes when you're fast asleep, the spirit world can open a door

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and come and visit you in a
dream. These are called spirit visitations or

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dream visitations, and these are real. They're very real experiences. And many

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times your loved ones will come into
dream and do a couple of different things.

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Maybe you'll just see your loved ones
standing there. They won't say anything,

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but they're not sick anymore. They're
healthy. They're looking so good.

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They're looking the way that they looked
before they got sick or before they had

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the issue here in this world.
Maybe it is that your loved one comes

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through and shares a message like you
received when that message comes, when that

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message comes when you most need it, and that person tells you on the

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other side that they're no longer sick
and that they are fine. And other

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times your loved ones and a spirit
will come through in a dream and deliver

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a message to you. Maybe it
is that there's a new baby being born

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in the family. Maybe it is
that you know, they want you to

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know that so and so made it
to the side with them in heaven.

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You know, dreams are so important
because they're the number one way that we

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can channel a spirit that it passed
on while we're fast asleep. And that's

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what makes us all mediums too.
When you ever wonder how a medium connects

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with the other side, it's the
same way as dreaming, the way that

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a medium connects with spirit. It's
almost like for us like we're dreaming while

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we're awake, because that's the best
way I can put it. Mat Frasier.

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We never die. Secrets of the
afterlife. What is the most unnerving

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experience you've ever had with a spirit? So I think the most unnerving experiences

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that I have is that every soul
communicates differently, right, And as a

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medium, I try my best when
I'm connected with someone on the other side.

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I want to do a really good
job, you know. I know

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that people come to me and they
trust me and they want answers, and

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my whole goal is to get as
much information as possible. So when I'm

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connecting with the soul, I'm going
to ask them, their name, how

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they died, where they are,
who they're with, you know, what

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messages you have for your family.
You know, I ask them all of

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these questions. But the thing is
is that every soul communicates differently. Some

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souls will come through and tell me
everything, their name, the data,

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birth, how they had died.
And other souls who are more quiet here

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in this world, more reserved,
maybe more private when they were living here

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in the physical might come through and
they might be hard to talk to.

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And that's always really tough for me
because I want to get through as much

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information as I possibly can. And
you know, like I said, some

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souls are just not talkers. On
the other side, Matt Frasier, we

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Never Die. Secrets of the Afterlife
out and paperback now everywhere you get books.

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I could talk to you all day, but thank you for joining us

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and giving us a few minutes.
Well, thank you listen I talked to

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the dead old days by what am
I? Matt? Thanks for listening to

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