This is Later with Lee Matthews, the Lee Matthews Podcast more What You Here
weekday afternoons on the Drive. Great to have him back on the program.
Matt Frasier is America's top psychic medium and author of When Heaven Calls, also
his newest creation, We Never Die Secrets of the Afterlife, out now in
paperback. Matt Frasier, Great to have you along and back again. Thank
you so much for having me. So let's get to because I've just gone
through some of this a year ago we walked my brother in law to the
bridge as it were, a cancer survivor up until about a year ago,
and since then we've had some unusual experiences I attribute to what you deal with
in this book. It's amazing because when our loved ones passed on, there
is a way that we can get in touch with them. And that's the
reason why I wrote this book is to one help us to understand their world
right, because when we lose a loved one to us as humans, we
question where are they? Are they on the other side? Are they okay?
Did they make it the heavens? Are they at peace? And the
thing is is that the more that you learn about their world, meaning the
spirit world. The more that you learn that, yes, you loved ones
are at peace, they did make it to the other side, and you
also realize how you can communicate with them. You don't have to be a
psychic or a medium to sense your loved ones, feel your loved ones,
and get signs from your loved ones. It was earlier this spring we were
talking about the trip we were going to make to scatter his ashes in the
Colorado Rockies. We had one of the doors open to let some fresh air
in. Screen, door closed, and we were talking about it, and
about the time my wife said, yeah, it'll be great to get him
up there where my parents are. The door mysteriously closed. There wasn't a
lot of wind, there wasn't a lot of draft, and we thought,
oh, well, maybe that's David saying he approves. Absolutely. Listen,
the signs come in so many different forms. And what's really cool is that
the signs come when you least expect them, but when you most need them,
when you're thinking about a loved one's talking about a loved one, and
a sign can be anything. Just like you said, you know, with
the closing of that door, when when you have something out of the ordinary
happen, and right away it makes you think of a loved one that had
died. Know that that's the sign. It's their way of showing you,
Hey, I'm here with you and I'm part of the conversation. It could
be a dragonfly, butterfly repeating number, a reoccurring dream, a spenser,
or feeling. It's amazing the ways that our loved ones used to reach us.
And I like to think of the science as being like postcards from heaven,
because they're just a gentle reminder that tells you, hey, I'm here,
I was listening, and don't worry about me. I'm able to see
what you're going through right now. Later, when we hiked up the mountain
to scatter his ashes, I had marked with a GPS where we had marked
my other in laws. It was in the middle of June, past June.
The temperature was not unusually warm for that time of year, but low
and behold, about the time we are scattering as ashes, here came a
light snowfall. So we thought that was said postcard. Yeah, it's it's
amazing. It absolutely is, and you know, I'm glad that you're sharing
these experiences because I tell people all the time, you know, trust in
the signs that you're getting, not what somebody else is getting. What I
mean by that is this is that you know, so many times people will
come to me as a medium and say, now I didn't get signs and
I don't understand. You know, my dad passed away and my sister gets
you know, pennies, dimes and Nichols from my dad, and I get
nothing at all. Why is that? You know? I don't see any
pennies, I don't see any times, I don't see any Nichols. And
I'm like, well, that's not the way that your dad is reaching you.
It might be the way that he's reaching your sister, but not you.
You can't compare signs with one another. You have to look for anything
that you might think is them. You know, when you have those random,
reoccurring or out of the blue experiences and right away it has you scratching
your head and you're saying, could that be him? Could that be her?
Yes, that's exactly what it is. And so many times I see
people make that mistake where they receive a sign from their loved one, but
they write it off, They write it off as coincidence. Are they write
it off as wishful thinking, And that's so sad because when you do that,
what you're doing is writing returns to send around the envelope and shipping it
back to heaven. But when you go and you embrace the signs and you
acknowledge the signs, you show your loved ones that they can reach you in
that way, speak to you in that way, and that you're open to
the signs that they're sending. We Never die Secrets of the Afterlife, Matt
Frasier is with us. Yeah, and even if it is a coincidence,
I don't care. I'll take it as a sign. Well, listen,
what I can tell you is this, there are no coincidences, and it's
not in my world anyway, you know. To me, to me,
there are no coincidences, But there are amazing signs that are loved ones used
to get our attention, and there's other ways to know that your loved ones
are there as well. You know. I love when people come to me.
The first thing that they say is NAT, You're gonna think I'm crazy,
and I know, and they say that to be followed by something that's
not crazy. At all. Right, Like this woman had lost her husband
and she came to She goes, NAT, You're gonna think I'm crazy,
But I send my husband at night, I swear I felt him sit on
my bed. You know, there was another man that came to me.
Is then, Nat, you're gonna think I'm crazy. But I could have
swore that after my dad's path, his soul leave the room. I've just
felt this wolsh of energy go by me. And anytime somebody says that you're
gonna think I'm crazy, they're really not. These are all real experiences.
And that's the reason why I wrote this book as well, because so many
people are afraid to talk about these experiences. They're afraid to talk about their
signs. They're afraid that someone is going to shoot them down or not be
open or shut down you know what it is that they've experienced. And when
I was a little kid, I thought that as well. You know,
my grandmother and my mom grew up at a time when you couldn't talk about
the signs, you couldn't talk about sensing your feeling your loved ones with you.
So I wrote this book to really show people, no, you're not
crazy. This is the reason these are the answers. This is why you're
feeling the way that you're feeling. This is why you're getting those signs.
It's the reason why you know those things are happening within your life. Matt.
Frasier's with us. We never die. Secrets of the afterlife. Let's
talk about dreams, Matt. It happens to me all the time. I
dream of a loved one, most recently a friend of mine that I worked
with for many years. She passed away about a year ago, and the
circumstances of her death were that she really didn't take very good care of herself,
and that was what I always bothered about. She came to me in
a dream and she says, Hey, I know you've been worried about me,
don't Everything's so great here? Yeah, I kind of wish I took
better care of myself too, but here we are. And that was basically
the cruxt of the dream. I think she was communicating with me. She
definitely was. Dreams are the number one way for your loved ones to come
in in to reach you. And it's funny because people ask me all the
time, Matt, what do our loved ones look like in heaven. What
does a spirit look like. Well, if you've ever had a dream of
a loved one, if you've ever seen a loved one in a dream,
then you know what a spirit looks like. You've actually seen them. You
know. Sometimes when you're fast asleep, the spirit world can open a door
and come and visit you in a dream. These are called spirit visitations or
dream visitations, and these are real. They're very real experiences. And many
times your loved ones will come into dream and do a couple of different things.
Maybe you'll just see your loved ones standing there. They won't say anything,
but they're not sick anymore. They're healthy. They're looking so good.
They're looking the way that they looked before they got sick or before they had
the issue here in this world. Maybe it is that your loved one comes
through and shares a message like you received when that message comes, when that
message comes when you most need it, and that person tells you on the
other side that they're no longer sick and that they are fine. And other
times your loved ones and a spirit will come through in a dream and deliver
a message to you. Maybe it is that there's a new baby being born
in the family. Maybe it is that you know, they want you to
know that so and so made it to the side with them in heaven.
You know, dreams are so important because they're the number one way that we
can channel a spirit that it passed on while we're fast asleep. And that's
what makes us all mediums too. When you ever wonder how a medium connects
with the other side, it's the same way as dreaming, the way that
a medium connects with spirit. It's almost like for us like we're dreaming while
we're awake, because that's the best way I can put it. Mat Frasier.
We never die. Secrets of the afterlife. What is the most unnerving
experience you've ever had with a spirit? So I think the most unnerving experiences
that I have is that every soul communicates differently, right, And as a
medium, I try my best when I'm connected with someone on the other side.
I want to do a really good job, you know. I know
that people come to me and they trust me and they want answers, and
my whole goal is to get as much information as possible. So when I'm
connecting with the soul, I'm going to ask them, their name, how
they died, where they are, who they're with, you know, what
messages you have for your family. You know, I ask them all of
these questions. But the thing is is that every soul communicates differently. Some
souls will come through and tell me everything, their name, the data,
birth, how they had died. And other souls who are more quiet here
in this world, more reserved, maybe more private when they were living here
in the physical might come through and they might be hard to talk to.
And that's always really tough for me because I want to get through as much
information as I possibly can. And you know, like I said, some
souls are just not talkers. On the other side, Matt Frasier, we
Never Die. Secrets of the Afterlife out and paperback now everywhere you get books.
I could talk to you all day, but thank you for joining us
and giving us a few minutes. Well, thank you listen I talked to
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