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And now time for the Minnesota goodbye. Uh. Thank you for listening,

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Thanks for whether you listen first time
or many times. Thanks for being here.

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And if you've written in, thank
you very much. You've never written

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in, You're more than welcome to
But you don't have to is for you

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to enjoy and participate if you want
to. Here comes Rischell. You got

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a couple of different random questions.
First one's about music rights, and she

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goes on for a little bit about
the song stick Season, And then she

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listened to another version of stick Season, her version by Deeps, and they

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said it's the exact same music as
Stick Season, but different lyrics that tell

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the story of the other side of
the relationship. And he reuses the same

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lyrics but adds his own. I
know anybody can make music in their basement

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and probably put it online with no
repercussions since nobody's ever gonna hear it.

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But what are the responsibilities to the
original artists? If your basement version cover

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of a song hits it big,
do you have to ask retro permission?

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Have you heard this song? I
live musically under a rock. I mostly

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listen to kids stuff in the car. Now that most music has swearing in

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it. But maybe you already talked
about something like this. I don't have

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enough time to listen to the show
podcast much anymore, but I never missed

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the Minnesota Goodbye. That is a
mystery to me. I don't know.

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I think artists do get pissed.
Let's say, for example, that Beyonce

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comes out with a song and she
samples an old Stevie Nick song, which

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she did. What was the song, Kelly, do you limber this?

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Gosh? Hey, was she sampled? I think the Edge of seventeen?

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Oh okay, But I think that
when you're Beyonce, you get permission because

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you're Beyonce. If you are you
know, Alex from Saint Louis Park,

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and you sampled Stevie Nicks or stampleed
Beyonce, nobody's gonna stop you. It

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is free on the internet, but
once it goes big, I think once

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you make money off of it,
they can come after you. I don't

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know, but it's absolutely unfair that
if I wrote, you know, let's

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say that there's an old Stevie Nick
song and I sample it and I start

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making money off of it. Stevie
Nicks deserves part of that money, and

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a lot of people don't realize that
this song is sampled, Like people don't

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realize there's an old song Ghetto Superstar. Ghetto Superstar, that is what you

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are. That song was written by
the Beg's and it's Islands in the Stream

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by Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers.
Did you know that? No? And

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I know all of those songs,
but no, I did not know the

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connection there. Yeah, the original
song goes Island's in the Stream, that

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is what we Are? No,
and in between. But they redid it

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as Ghetto Superstar, and if I
remember right, they didn't get permission to

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use the melody until it got big, and then the publishing company that owned

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the rights of that song went after
whoever did Ghetto Superstar and said pay up.

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Yeah, but if I'm in my
basement and I use a Beyonce song

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sample, I don't know what point
I have to pay for it. I

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was saying, I feel like it, just as if it makes a lot

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of money at some point, then
the artist will be like, Okay,

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now I get a cut of it. You know what I mean? They

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probably don't care. They probably don't
care up until like a certain point,

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right and they absolutely should. I
remember there was one of the guys in

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the Eagles, and the Eagles have
been around for fifty plus years, and

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he was pissed because artists were using
his music as samples and to rewrite and

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he's like, just because it's on
the internet doesn't mean that it's free for

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the taking. We worked hard on
those songs and it took talent to write

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those songs. So it really sucks
when somebody comes along. But then you

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look at somebody like, what was
the guy that was at Boo Bash?

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Paul Russell? And that song is
a total ripoff of an old earth Wind

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and Fire song. At some point
he did it in his basement and at

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some point earth Wind and Fire and
their publishing company found out about it.

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And you know that Paul Russell had
to pay rights on it, and he

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probably didn't get that rich off of
it because most of the songwriting credit goes

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to earth Wind and Fire. Yeah, I didn't know that either. You

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didn't know that little boothang is a
ripoff of earth Wind and Fire. Yeah?

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No, you got the best to
my love? Whoa you got the

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best of my love? I'm a
little booth thing? Is that probably the

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best of my love. Whoah,
You'm a little booth thing and were listened

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to the song and you'll be like, oh shit, I didn't know,

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So let's move on. Allsos in
the grocery store looking at water of the

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all the water available, and got
to wondering why people buy such large amounts

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of water. I'm talking about the
gallon or larger jugs that you can buy

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a refill in the store. I
live in Aton Prairie. The water is

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good here flavor wise, definitely me. It's all the safety criteria. I

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can't imagine more than a handful of
houses in this suburb have lead pipes or

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issues with safe water coming from the
faucet. A while back, I had

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a beta fish that needed spring water
for his bowl. But I can't think

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of other reasons to buy water when
it's perfectly free and clean from every faucet

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in my house. I don't know. I think that some people like bottled

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water, like Culligan water, because
it does taste better and you know it's

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purified, and you know it's drinking
water specifically. But I agree with you.

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We used to have a Colligan water
dispenser in our house, and the

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Colligan guy would come by every couple
of weeks and give us new jugs.

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But we don't have it anymore.
We've got a water tap here at the

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station that's like purified water out of
a bottle or out of a faucet or

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whatever. But and I use that. But at home, I just drink.

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Susan drinks water filtered from the fridge
tap, saying I don't I just

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get it. You get it from
the fridge tap. Yep, Andrew does

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it just from the sink? Yeah, I do it from the sink t

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Yeah, I know, I don't. I've never really been like a dug

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water person either. But aren't certain
ones at the store aren't they for like

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a steamer or a iron or something
that is? Yeah, deionized water is

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for your steamer or your iron or
purified whatever. But I put regular water

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in my iron. Yeah, I
just put regularly. If it breaks,

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the iron, irons are nineteen bucks, you know what I mean. So,

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but I don't know why some people
want to buy We don't buy bottled

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water. We just don't. We
don't buy bottled water. I think it's

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a horrible waste of resources. I
think bottled water is one of the biggest

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fucking scams out there. I don't
like it because people that drink bottled water

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a lot of the time they're environmentally
conscious. It is one of the biggest

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kicks in the balls on the environment
because you have a truck that's getting a

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half a mile to the gallon bringing
this bottled water in from a plant that

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uses tons of power, tons of
energy to bottle this water. And then

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you have a plastic bottle at the
end of it that goes in a landfill

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most of the time goes in a
landfill. So bottled water is a fucking

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kick in the balls to the environment. And what kills me is that people

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go, oh, the environment global
warming while they're sipping on a dessani and

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I'm like, okay, you mean
well, but you can't have it both

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ways. Yeah, I don't get
it either. All right, Next one,

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since I don't catch much of the
main show lately, what's the story

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with Vant? I thought he was
on the night show and at one point

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Dave said it to be a step
down for vant to leave his own show

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and join as a third or fourth
chair on the morning show. Is he

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still doing the other show? I
think that we have put vont in more

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of a present role in up front
roll because it would be a step down.

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And I used to tell e White
wanted to leave the night show to

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be on our show, and I
said, no, don't do that.

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I said, we don't have enough
room for you to stand out on our

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show. That was back when Fallon
was here, So that would have been

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like a fifth person on the show. Yeah, and so but with there's

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three of us, and so there's
more room for him now since Drake is

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not here. Does he sleep,
Yeah, he does, he does fine.

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And last one, I love this. It's so freaking random. How

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is Jenny's hair so straight and shiny
that early in the morning? You know,

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thank you for the compliment. I
don't really know. I think it's

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just shining because it's very blonde.
I don't do anything super particular to it

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though. I did, however,
get a Brazilian blowout a handful of months

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ago, which really like straightens out
your hair. So maybe that's what it

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is for this time, But that's
faded. So Jenny does have nice hair,

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and it is long and thick and
blonde. Can I ask you a

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question, is that natural? Do
you color your hair at all? I

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do color my hair. I didn't
yeh that, yes, I do,

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but I am very I used to
be this blonde when I was younger,

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and then it started getting a little
bit more dirty blonde as I got older.

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So I've always had blonde hair.
It's just at this point I have

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to diet to keep it quite as
blond as what it is. Okay,

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because I know a lot of kids
like Ava, my granddaughter, her hair

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is blonde. It's about your color, maybe a little bit darker. A

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lot of kids have blonde hair when
they're little, and then it turns darker

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as they get older. I don't
know why that is, but I think

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it's true. Alyssa says, hello, favorite people. Graduation seasons coming.

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I have a high school student.
We're starting to receive some invites. My

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son is in the tenth grade this
year, so they are not classmates.

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Some are family friends or sports friends. My question is my questions how much

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do I give? Do you two
have any gift ideas When my son is

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a senior, do I give more
that year? Can I give more to

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his close friends? I don't want
to be insulting by giving too low of

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an amount, but money is tight. I also don't want to be over

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zealous and give too much and then
get less than the family in return and

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make them feel bad. I hope
this makes sense. It does. Thanks,

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as always, you all get me
through the day. Thoughts, Jenny,

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what do you think? Hey?
How much do I give? Do?

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Okay? Gift ideas? What do
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money is the best gift for graduation
because for me, all my money went

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towards college tuition, So I think
that money is the best gift. And

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I would say somewhere between thirty to
seventy five dollars, depending on your relationship

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with them. I don't know.
I probably I haven't had graduations like since

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I graduated high school, so I
don't and I wasn't the one giving money

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back then. It was probably my
mom helping me out give people money,

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and we didn't have a lot,
so I'm pretty sure we probably gave people

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like thirty bucks at their graduation parties. I, boy, you're more generous

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than me. Carson went through this
a couple of years ago, and I'm

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not remembering what we sent his friends, but I remember what he got.

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He had a lot of Chipotle gift
cards, a lot of twenty five dollars

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Chipola gift cards, I think that
that's great. If you want to give

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cash, that's great too. I
think as long as you're giving something,

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nobody is going to say, God, a listener kid only gave me twenty

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five bucks. I think it's pretty
generous. I think that's a good amount.

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Yes, And a Potely gift card, I think that's fine. If

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you want to give cash, that's
fine too. But a Chipotly or McDonald's

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or Caine's or Chick fil A,
I'm thinking of all the places Carson loved.

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Caribou maybe, but I think a
gift card is fine. When my

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son is a senior, do I
have to give more that year? No?

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Absolutely not? And can I give
more to his close friends? Sure?

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But again, I think I'll go
back to the idea. Not once

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did Carson or me or Susan ever
open up an envelope that Carson got from

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anybody relative or friend or anybody and
say, God, they only gave you

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ten dollars, because you go,
well, at least they gave me something.

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That's cool, because it's a gift, not a requirement. Am I

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wrong? No, You're completely right. I just like I said, I've

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been out of that graduation party game
for a long time, so I don't

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know what the appropriate amount is.
God. I remember when I was a

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kid, I mailed out a graduation
card to everybody that I a graduation announcement

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to everybody that I knew, every
relative that I could think of. I

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mailed it out and I watched that
mailbox like it was a slot machine.

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And I'm watching that thing and it's
like, oh, I remember opening up

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cards and got nothing, nothing,
nothing, nothing, five dollars nothing,

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nothing, ten dollars nothing. And
I was like God, And really I

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was being a little dick because I
was using it as a way to get

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paid and it didn't really work out
that way. But it's fine. Thank

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you, Melissa. I really liked
that one. Here we go. This

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is from Mike, who calls himself
a senior staff writer and show BFF.

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Hello Radio Faves, Dave Jenny Vaught
listening to the show podcast on Monday,

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Dave, what you said about your
mom and her hands was beautiful to hear.

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How real you were when you talked
about her touched my heart. I

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was talking about I don't want to
get emotional, but I probably will.

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But I was talking on the show
the other day about how my mom would

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have been one hundred this past Sunday, and I was telling the story about

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how when she grew up, she
grew up with I don't even know the

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extent of the abuse and the neglect
and what a rotten childhood she had.

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I don't know the extent, but
I do know that when she was about

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six years old, her mother ran
off with her boyfriend. They lived in

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Idaho. It was the middle of
winter, and left my six year old

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mom and her four year old sister
alone to fend for themselves. Now you

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can't even imagine that's something that would
make headlines today. My mom was so

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confused, where's my mom where?
And so she wandered outside to look for

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her mom, as if she was
going to find her, like you know,

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across the street. She wandered around, and she froze her her hands

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in the freezing cold, and she
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an Indian reservation. And I know
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anymore, And somebody, you know, butchered me the other day because I

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said Indian. But I'm so used
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that way. So she lived nearer
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her and they took her inside and
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water, and it saved her hands. But her hands were all gnarled the

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rest of her life, and her
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my mom's hands, and I can
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they wouldn't straighten up, and they
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my friends once in a while would
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They were the hands that, like
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me or gave me a spoonful of
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beautiful, and I never thought anything
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So that's what he's talking about.
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a huge reason I listened to y'all
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think you're portraying characters. I believe
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during your job, which just happens
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I will agree with you Mike.
I will say that there are radio people

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that I know that are playing a
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who they pretend they are, and
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it's like, I know that person
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and it's frustrating, just kind of
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one it was like a mom fluencer
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be a wonderful mother influencer. You
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you're talking about there was one recently
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also someone who just like I don't
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and all kinds of crazy stuff and
then like I think she had a divorce

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from her husband, Like I think
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it was like a me behind the
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are kind of the same way.
Celebrities will show you this. First of

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all, we look at a beautiful
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give them so much credit for being
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treated like the boss's little pet because
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I see how they really are,
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that halo effect and they got treated
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like they are not a good person
anyway. Goes on to say, appreciate

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what you do for so many of
us. Make us realize to take life

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appropriately. Life has meant to be
lived. There are times to be serious,

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but not all the time. Enjoy
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it right from Mike, how we
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time? Do you want any more? Yeah? Are you bored yet?

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Are you done? No? I'm
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this one from Charise or Charise every
time we say it, we say it

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wrong. It is Sharise, one
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you, guys, I'm in a
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I'm gonna be forty six in September. Things are going great, going on

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five months now. I was wondering
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to my children. Now here's an
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year old girls. We have discussed
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us that includes marriage one day.
I just wonder how much longer I should

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wait to introduce them to each other. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

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I think you're ready, I say, I think you got to take that

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one, because I'm not a parent, so I don't know. Like I

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know, it's mostly like you want
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you probably aren't introducing a new person
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ma, I think the kids will
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loyalty to the other partner, so
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anybody to replace dad, and you're
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I know somebody right now who is
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died. Dad got remarried, and
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to be a good person and they
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it because I think they feel guilty, almost a betrayal of their dead mother

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by accepting the new wife into the
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fourteen. It's as long as I
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genuine and don't let him be fakey, fakey nice and bring them gifts and

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take them out to ice cream and
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not really him, if he's going
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really wants to and he's not trying
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Yeah for sure. Uh Okay,
next one. Okay, that's a little

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bit of a long one, so
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shorter one because we might not.
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you guys about dogs off the leash. I got an almost four year old

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beagle. She is a brat.
She is very reactive to people and other

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animals. While she wasn't always this
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unknown people or pets approach her.
For that reason, she is on a

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leash at all times. If you
do not have your dog on a leash

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and it approaches mine, I am
fully aware that my dog will react,

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and likely very poorly. For that
reason, keep your dogs on a leash

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when it is not in a fenced
area. There is no wiggle room for

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what ifs on this topic. For
your dog safety, keep them on a

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leash. We live in a town
home for the time being, so maybe

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one day she'll experience the off leash
lifestyle when we move to a house with

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a fenced inn yard where we can
control the environment. Till then, our

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dog will remain leashed and yours should
too. That's from page. I've gotten

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no argument with you on that one
at all. Page totally agree, and

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I think that's gonna do it for
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If you got any comments on graduation
gifts, that's a really interesting topic,

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I'd love to hear what you think
about that one. Send those emails to

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Ryanshow at KDWB dot com. I
say that so many times that but people

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still go, what's the address again? So I'm happy to tell you it's

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Ryan Show at kadiwb at dot com. Thank you for listening to the Minnesota

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Goodbye. You know what I'm gonna
do right now, I'm gonna go pee.

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I haven't peed since I got up
this morning, and we've been so

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busy today I haven't had a chance
to pee, So I'm gonna go do

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that right now. Bye,