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All the Hands, Kiss ninety five
seven Courtney and Kiss in the Morning,

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Savannah walmart Jeff, are you guys
ready for second date updates? Absolutely?

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Let's do it. Oh oh,
okay, I guess. So. See,

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you go on a great first date
and you really want to see that

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person, you make a connection,
you'd like to go on a second date,

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but you're getting ghosted. Call us. It happened to Michael in Farmington.

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He's on the line to tell us
about a great first date he had

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and we want to find out why
he's getting ghosted. Good morning, Michael

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Marten. It's second date update.
Obviously you know what second date update is

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all about, because you called us
tell us about this great first date.

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Well, um, I mean we
pretty much you know, went to the

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movies, which was great, you
know, just like a classic date,

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and you know, I don't know, it's just we have said a really

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good time. You know, I
really like her and I thought we were

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gonna see each other again. So
I'm, you know, not sure why

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she's just totally ghosting me and just
not responding at all. Just pretty much

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it. I mean, like I
can't think of what happened that didn't go

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well. You know, yeah,
okay, and you're obviously attracted to her.

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Do you feel like she was attracted
to you a little bit of flirting

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going on? Definitely definitely was attracted
to her, and I thought it was

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mutual. And yeah, let me
ask you a question. Do you own

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a boat? No? Okay,
See that's the problem. You don't own

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a boat. A lot of girls
right now this time of year, they

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like to get into relationships with guys
with boats so they can bring their friends

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on the boat and have an enjoyable
summer. Now, it's nothing against you

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that you don't own a boat.
I'm just saying this is probably the reason

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she didn't call you back. Wow, Okay, Well listen, I will

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say Walmart Jeff is not far off, because I mean, that's sounds pretty

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amazing to me. I don't think
that's the reason. I don't think there's

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a reason you're getting ghosted. But
a guy with a boat, yeah,

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definitely definitely a plus. All right, Well, listen, Michael, since

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you have no idea why you're getting
ghosted, We're gonna call up Lauren.

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We're gonna ask her about the day. We're gonna ask her why she's ghosting

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you. Okay, okay. You
know, if they agree to a second

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date, we should send him a
little sailor that for his new boat.

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You know what, maybe I'll give
him my boat. I got a boat.

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I'm not gonna take it out.
Hey, can we go? No?

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I don't. I Actually it's perfect
dinghy. I'll give him my dinghy.

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Hi. Hello is Lauren there?
Yes, this is Lauren. Hey

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Lauren, it's Courtney. What's up? It's a Walmart Jeff. Hey,

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Lauren, it's Savannah. Hi.
Hey, you're on Kiss ninety five seven

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this morning, Laura, I probably
want to know why. Oh my gosh.

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Well, here's the deal, Lauren. We do something called second date

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update. That's when if somebody goes
on a first date and they have a

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great time, but they're getting ghosted
after reaching out for a second date,

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we get answers. And you were
on second date update because Michael called us

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and told us he took you on
a great date. He told us it

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was fabulous, and he wants in
a he's getting ghosted? Oh did he?

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Okay? Um, no, we
did not have a good date.

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Oh okay, what happened? He
said you went to the movies, went

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out for drinks after what happened.
Yeah, we went to the movies and

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then he sat in the theater right
next to me on his phone the entire

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movie. He was playing some sort
of card game or something. It looked

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like he was gambling or something,
and he was, you know, and

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the lights on, Like I was. I was so so annoyed. I

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should have just walked out right down
and there, but I wanted to give

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him another chance because afterwards we decided
we were going to go get drinks at

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the place next door, and we
ended up getting over there, and I'm

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thinking, Okay, he's gonna you
know, engage with me a little bit

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more. He might hold my hand
a little bit. Nope, he was

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on his phone again the whole time. And then the other person that he

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talked to was the bartender. He
went over and they were talking, you

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know, more gambling stuff, and
like this weird I don't know, card

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app or something. Okay, okay, I can't even Lauren, you're telling

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me he sat on the phone and
played games or gambled through the whole movie

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even yep, yep. It was
like he wasn't even watching the film,

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Like I was, like, why
did you even take me if you didn't

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on and goes like sit and do
this thing together. Okay, Oh,

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not a good first date. Well, since he was gambling the whole time,

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I at least hope he picked up
the tab he's making money on the

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date. Hopefully he did. Um, but I have fire standards for that.

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I'm not doing that again. That's
right, Lauren, you know what.

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Michael's on the line listening in.
Michael, what do you I mean

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seriously, you were gambling the entire
night while you were on a date.

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Absolutely not. That sounds like I
can't believe that's what you're saying. That's

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like not at all, Like I
don't I don't even know what you're talking

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about. Like I was watching the
movie, and I mean I don't know,

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like I might have checked like my
draftings like like a couple of times,

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just because I don't know Michael the
whole time. What the heck?

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No, you totally worry. You
were on your phone, like the entire

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time, you were not watching the
film. You never like grab my hand

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or anything. And then then when
I was ready to give you a second

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chance and like continue the date,
you didn't want to continue it. You

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didn't talk to me over dinner and
drinks talking to the bartender over about gambling

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and you're and you're getting I can't
and your cards and your apps. Come

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on, Michael, I don't remember
that at all. I that it was

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like said like one thing to the
bartender. I that's so crazy, Like

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that's not what I remember at all. Okay, Well you know what.

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Here's Lauren. Usually we offered to
pick up the tap for a second day.

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Would you like to go on a
second day with Michael if you leaves

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his phone at home? No?
What about if you had a boat,

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would you consider it? If?
If if if you owned the boat getting

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it or no? If he sorts
out his gambling stuff and then got a

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boat, maybe Okay, all right, that's the goals for you, Michael.

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Forget the gambling and get a bow. Walmart was right on the whole

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time. Oh my god, all
right, this is not how I thought

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it was gonna go. Well,
this is how it went, Michael.

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I'm so sorry. I'm glad you
reached out to us, and now i'd

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get your answers. Lauren, thank
you for being honest with us, and

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good luck, good luck out there
dating. He's out