I made a decision. I'll face sunny sad on I had a vision.
So what's up, everybody, It's Friday show. It's Friday. Welcome to
another A special edition of her crying out loud. I don't know why it's
special, but it's special because it's a post Thursday special. That's episode.
We had a great Thursday episode. If you didn't hear it, go back
and listen with Jonathan Brook and she was amazing and sang songs. Stephanie was
geeking out over her, and it was fun to watch. It was great.
I was like, really, really made my day. I'm still I'm
basking in the after I texted John I was like, oh my god,
we did our show with Jonatha was so good. I was so good.
Then he asked if we were best friends now and I was like, no,
she didn't even invite me to her to the November show, but that's
coming later, right right back the backstage. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah. You reach out to her and tell her you're going to be
at the show with me. Yep, yep. She's might write a song
about us. She said she would, but that's I'm holding her to it.
We're just when we see her in November, we're gonna say, like,
where's ourself this song? Is it out? Or where can we find
it on Spotify now, SoundCloud? Whatever, You're right, it's fine.
Where is it? Yeah, Jonathan, she was good and we had a
good Patreon this week, good Patreon this week, and a good Tuesday show
is really yeah, it was really funny cracking him anyway, it's who this
show is not going to be as good. So now let's we gotta set
the bar pretty low for ourselves. Let's say how to our people though,
Aaron, who is Rachel? Welcome, You're something different? Randy may Ames,
stop with it all, just Randy Aames, Nikki, call your girls,
Ashley, you're so she look at you? Leslie? Is it costing
people? She went to costcode this time? I mean, how many disguises
is she going to keep up? I know it's like you think it's a
sample person, but no, it's Leslie trying to get your kids into sex
trafficking. Right. Oh gosh. You know what I love is that we
our show could take a dark turn and we're not. We're like, we're
popular, but we're not so popular that we have to worry that like people
are going to be in an uproar and cancel us right, especially after you're
a comment on You either have to be like so I've yeah, yeah,
it's a it's a it's a nice like a comfortable place where we are where
we're not like we're not like Dave Chappelle big where you can be really problematic
but go like fucking try and cancel me night bitch, you know. But
we're also not small enough where like if we only have like fifteen listeners and
you pissed two of them off, then they're like by right like in the
middle where we could say really probably amatic things and people go, it's just
they don't know. They need to learn right anyway. I'm Jacob Crowley.
He's very crazy, adorable, so adorable. Rita rocks Elizabeth Williamson's kids in
her basinet and there's a lot of them to rock. Hero. All your
kids love you, Athena, We love your dancing. Kelly is a pancake
lady with the Missus Butterworth, Syrah, Valerie, Bubba Fenwick. She's there.
Katerina still with the maller not to fall out of her mouth, yep,
Gabby and Missy for shame, and they should be ashamed. Sean who
robe heute, Kelly Bryant, take you to plan parenthood. Alicia's gallante from
the city of El Monte. Leslie, stop coughing like Kylin. At this
point, you're spreading it around. I know, Sarah, Sarah, Jennifer
falls, Get up up, Sandra. It's not easy Green, Christy gets
the strap, and Stephanie's a stinker wrinker. So last week I get a
phone call, well, no, I get a text from Sonny. So
remember I don't know if you remember, but back in May, Sonny had
like a uti infection or something. Yeah, and I took him to urgent
care and they gave him antibiotics, but they said to follow it up with
the pediatrician. And but they also found a little bit of glucose, right,
I do remember that. But then they checked him again at the pediatrician.
He was fine, he didn't have any kind of infection, but the
urgent care gave him antibiotics. Anyway, Okay, that was back in May.
He felt better. The last few weeks he's feeling it again, like
he's got to go to the bathroom, urgency to go to the bathroom.
Not a lot comes out. It doesn't hurt. So the first time around,
I gave him those as E T A Z eos and and it didn't
do anything. You know, He's like, he goes, I don't have
any pain. So but I thought it would help with that urging, the
urgency, because it's yeah, it's the numbs it down there, right,
It numbs it and then you don't have the spasms the bladders, right,
But he said it didn't do anything for okay. So anyway, now fast
forward last few weeks kind of you know, so he texts me from school
and he's like, I cannot sit still. Every time I'm sitting for a
long period, putting pressure on my bladder, I feel like I have to
go. My teachers are getting mad at me. They you know, they
think that I'm just trying to leave class and I can't even He's driving to
school now and he's like, I can't even drive home. Like so I
was like, oh god, okay, So I go and pick him up.
I take him to urgent care again on Friday, No, no,
on Thursday, and they say that the doctor comes in and she says he
doesn't have a UTI And first of all boys having a UTI is very very
rare. They don't get They usually don't get them. Okay, she says,
I can tell you there's no infection, something else is going on.
You should take them to a urologist. Immediately, I was like, okay,
okay, and I do need to take him because he can't sit like
in class. He's having a hard time and I don't want him missing school.
Yeah. So so so I call his pediatrician fucking pediatricians, and I
need to get them my kids doctors. Now it's time, Like pediatrician off
is like, they don't call you back. They call you at the end
of the day, they don't blah blah blah. Anyway, left them a
message they're worthless. Yet they still would like for I'm hearing more and more,
they still would like you to pay a three hundred dollars like administration fee.
Yes, oh yeah yeah yeah. So if we don't pay that fee,
then you just won't ever call though we hardly use you, okay,
right, So okay, So I get on Google and I google eurologists in
our neighbor in our area, and boom, and I was thinking, should
I get a pediatrician one no, fuck, you know, kids seventeen,
So find one. First one comes up. It's a group in Pasadena.
Call them up and they say, we can see him tomorrow. And I
was like, great, and tomorrow's Friday afternoon. We can see him tomorrow.
Awesome. So I took him and that the doctor was really cool.
And he comes in. He does go and pee in the cup, but
the doctor doesn't even look yet. He comes in. He goes, tell
me your symptoms. He starts talking to him. He asks him a bunch
of questions and then he says, okay. He says, I know what's
going on with you, and it's pretty typical. You have an overactive bladder
and it's telling your brain that you have to you know that you have to
go and eat, but you're not. You know, you're nothing's coming out.
So the problem is is you know, I said, what's what do
we do? Because he can't He's got to go to school and he can't,
but he can't sit. I mean, I'm having dinner with him at
night. He's not sitting at the table. He's standing up and eating.
He cannot sit. That sounds like more than an overactive blodder? Is that
really all it is. He says it when you sit, it puts the
pressure on the bladder and it's irritating it. Yea. So he says,
there's a medication for it, but you you have to take it for a
few months. It doesn't kick in for at least two weeks. You take
it once a day. The side effects are very like a little bit of
dry mouth whatever. I can't even remember, pretty much nothing. So but
it's not going to kick in for two weeks. Oh no. So anyway,
his his urine analysis comes back normal, no infection, no glucose,
no glucose. Now he's fine, and yeah, he's just he's gotten overacted
blast. So now the doctor wrote a note and said he's got to go
to the bathroom frequently. Let him go to the bathroom. But then he
went sunny and Italian went to a senior bonfire over the weekend for the It's
an annual thing, I guess the school does at the beach. And he
was miserable in the car all the way down there and all the way back.
He had to have a bottle with him in the car underneath, just
so he had so he could feel like, if I have to go to
the bathroom. I haven't out. I don't have to tell them to stop
every few minutes. Because he was worried about it, you know, sitting
in the car. I wonder if too, if once you get it in
your head, that's the thing that like you have this thing that then you
think about it all the time, and then you it's even more right,
right, Yeah, I know. So anyway, he started. So he
came back on Sunday from this bonfire thing and he's like, Mom, I
can't sit I it's better for me to stand. It's you know, when
we went to the doctor, he was supposed to be sitting down talking to
day. He couldn't sit down. He had to stand up. And he's
like, I don't know how I'm gonna I'm not gonna be able to go
to school. So I sent an email to the school last night with the
doctor's notes, you know, saying that he's being seen by a urologist,
and I said, you know, he's gonna have to miss a few days
until this medicine kicks and and he's only on day four of the medication,
so it's gonna yeah, it's gonna be a while. So anyway, while
we were recording to day. I got a call from the school and they're
like, you know, if he's gonna miss more than three days, we
can do a thing where he's on you know, doing everything online or he
has to check in every day. So that's what's going on with Sunny,
and that sucks. I know, that's crazy, I know, I know.
Is it? Does it have times when it's less bad? Like are
there times of the day where is he miserable? Like all day long,
he's all when he's walk he goes for walks. Now, I mean he's
always gone, but he goes for his walks because it gets his mind off
of it. If he's sitting, like sitting for a period, he can't.
Yeah, he's miserable, but if he's laying down or walking, he's
okay. So yeah, that's what's going on, was Sunny All right?
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this craziness? Yes? Okay, So where do we start? So Danny
Masterson, did she start there? Yeah? Or do we want to talk
about Flon first? Well, he just a little bit about Falon, like
I heard. I've been hearing that about him drinking and stuff for a long
time, haven't you. No, I didn't know that, but but yeah,
but I didn't know he was like I had heard that, I've heard
he had a drinking thing, but not oh really, maybe not. Maybe
I thought I had heard that he might have had maybe it's Jimmy Kimmel with
the cocaine. Maybe not. I thought i'd heard that. But I definitely
did hear that he had some drinking. But I it was shocking that he
was an asshole. That part was shocking. I never heard that. I
mean, do you think he's an asshole? Or do you think when he's
drunk or really hung over he's an asshole? That I think? I'm not
sure, Yeah, but I heard, I have I have a friend somebody
in the know who told me that they had to hire somebody at at the
show to follow him around basically because he would leave tapings and then just go
to a bar and just get like shit face drunk, and like nobody could
find him or keep track of him or he'd be out all night. So
they had to literally hire like it's the opposite of a sober coach how long
ago, I'm not sure the opposite of a sober coach, somebody to hang
out with you make sure. No, this was just somebody to like make
sure he's not like he's going to come to work the next day. Wow,
what she's about that? Stephanie getting excited over it there. Yeah,
Yeah, it's a it's I mean, do you have any inside scoop?
Has I tell anybody in your circle evers had stories about Falin? No,
but I've seen like I've read like you know, there's you know, drinking
and stuff on this that, but or like at work or something I've read
about. But no, I've never heard anything now. No, And what
does it affect their Force five podcasts? Like you know how they're doing the
Strike Force five? Right? Have they been doing? I don't even know
if it's like I didn't read the article, but I don't know if it's
still like a current thing, or if it was like around from some time
ago, like writers from the past, like in the past, we had
these issues with him, Like I don't know if it's no, I think
it's current. I mean he had it seems like he's sober now it's not
like he got sober. And then people are like, thank god, because
the old Jimmy Fallon was like a nightmare. No he's he's not sober.
And it was a Rolling Stone article that came out. Yeah that's what happened.
Yeah, it's crazy, and but you know a lot of people came
forward. Yeah yeah, I know, but you it's like one of those
things like I knew that Ellen was a cunt right like long before other people
knew that because I know people that literally know her well and would tell me
crazy stories. So I knew that and was not surprised at all when word
got out. But this one, I'm like people that are like, wait,
what Ellen America's sweetheart. That's how I am. I was like,
Jimmy fam just comes across as like the night right. Yeah yeah, well
alisham all the best. Yeah he gets help. But now, speaking of
I don't know why that would be terrible Speaking of sexual assault. So Danny
Masterson, very famous scientologists we all know, is just a rape MC rapist.
I didn't know any of this, so you didn't know. I didn't
know he was a first of all, Danny Masterson, who like I mean,
I remember when I worked on Carcy Warner when that seventy show came on
the air, I was there. I know who he is. But then
he's kind of gone, right, like I haven't heard of him, like
you hear Ashton Kutcher, like he's around but like and Mila but not like
him. So anyway, I didn't know he was a scientologist or a Raby
Ray person. So he was convicted. So he had a trial and then
I think it was a hung jury maybe or yeah, because then he had
a second trial, and now he was convicted on at least two of the
counts, and now he got thirty years in jail by bye. But yes,
But then this came out that Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunists who are married,
right, came out and it came out that they had written a letter
to the judge to like, please go easy on Danny Masterson because he's just
such a good guy, like his character he's got great character, which is
like, all right, it's not the most unheard of thing. And I'm
sure if we had Mark garrigos Here, a famous a defense attorney, he'd
say, like I oftentimes have to ask people. I'm sure OJ had people
going like, I just can't believe he could kill his wife like that.
That's crazy his ex wife, I can't believe it. Like right, OJ,
not the OJ we know. But this is the thing. It's like
different people. It's not sitting well with people because like fuck you Ashton.
Yeah, and by the way, fuck you're you're not believing women? Then
this isn't like just this isn't just his word against one others. This is
a violent, horrible rape. Was it one girl or who? It's several
girls? It's a lot. There's been a lot. He was convicted for
two of them, so I think there was three. But his sentence that
he just got was fifteen years for each of the convicted. So he was
convicted for two. And they're they're not concurrent, they're consecutive. What does
he do like meet them at a bar? Like bring him that? Like
I mean, it's really graphic, like what he did. I mean he
roofied them basically and brought them. Yeah. I don't even want to get
in there's gory details, but yeah, but suffice it to say that he's
sodomized these women. They they came to they basically got them unconscious, He
raped them, they came to being raped. And it is horrible, wow,
awful for these women. But that's disappointed he was convicted. There was
obviously enough evidence. I hate it when people go like, well, it's
their word against his. Well, it's several different people's words and not people
that knew each other. You know, this is what is like ridiculous.
It's like if somebody has different women, what is in it for women to
come forward and root and like have to put themselves out there. Especially these
women were scientologists, and the scientology community told them, don't don't say anything,
like we'll take care of this like internally, which they didn't. And
also when there's smoke, there's you know, like Klin's not gonna happen.
Some chick come up and surface and go, oh the producer for crying out
loud roofied me and blah blah blah. You know what I mean, It's
not in his character, right, if somebody's accusing you of that stuff,
unless there's some sort of nefarious thing going on, then yes. So,
but the thing that's disappointing with Ashton is when he was married to Demi Moore,
she they were like outspoken with for oh yeah they have some foundations for
trafficking and with me really yeah, they're still very very much in the yeah
human trafficking organization, like trying to solve that and yeah, they're very active
in that stuff. Well then shut the fuck up, so let me read
let me read you something. So Okay, a lot of people, even
like our friend Meredith Lynch member who is on our show, love her.
I'm on her back. We need to get her back. Let's get her
back, and we should get garaghost. Yes, we should get ghost will
come on. Yeah. So Meredith on her TikTok to plug her did a
whole thing, like a whole like talking about Ashton Kutcher's shitty apology which was
not really an apology. But yes, so there's everyone online is saying that
their their apology quote unquote is very like the language is very much like from
a lawyer, yeah, very legal, just like they're like sorry if you
guys are bothered by Sorry, if it like bothers you guys that we were
like sticking up for our friend. No, they didn't say it like that,
but it's very like we just didn't mean to retrigger victims. But we're
just you know, we just know him. Okay, but listen to this.
I got a little little hot gossip for you. Okay. So there's
a woman named Chrissy Bixler, and this woman, Chrissy Bixler, took to
her Instagram and wrote this. It's in response to It's there's a picture of
Ashton and Mila that says letters of support for Danny Masterson. Okay, so
this is Chrissy Bixler. You ready, Dear Ashton, I know the secrets
your role model keeps for you. Okay. So she's saying because he called,
he called Masterson. Ashton Kutcher referred to Danny Masterson as a role model,
and Mila Kunis, a guest, described him as exceptional character. Okay,
so she writes, Dear Ashton, I know the secrets your role model
keeps for you, ones that would end you. Did you forget? I
was there, you were on speaker phone that night you called Danny on February
twenty first, two thousand and one. I heard everything. I heard the
plan. In my opinion, you're just as sick as your quote mentor.
Oh. Then then she goes on, Dear Mila, I pray you begin
to process what you experienced as a child on that set. Your old interviews
are very telling, and in parentheses, she writes, I encourage everyone to
watch them and decide for yourself what you hear and see. Do so before
they get scrubbed from the internet. I also know what happened in Toronto,
and after question, if that's what you view as normal, a normal relationship
with a quote big brother figure that, I feel very sad for you,
and I hope you consider getting into therapy. You all must forget. I
was there the whole time, those first five years of that seventies show.
I remember everything. Holy shit, what's her name? Her name is Chris
is Chrissy c h R I S s I E Bixler bi x l e
R. Wow, she worked on the show. She was on the show
an actress. Oh, holy shit. Wow. Ashton on the speaker makes
you wonder, makes you wonder why he's worked in that overtime to like stick
up for Danny Masterson, like why why do you need to stick up for
Dan? Like, but then you know you'll hear other people that are like,
well, that's just typical that the lawyer will ask people to be character
witnesses. But but a lot of people are saying, including Meredith, like,
if you're asked by a lawyer, can you write a letter about this
guy? How about going like, no, I can't. Yeah, I
believe, I believe the women. I'm sorry it sucks. And he was
a he was a good friend of ours and I didn't see him this way,
but if but he was convicted so there was obviously enough evidence against him,
and knowing that that's horrible and no, I'm not willing to write a
letter. Why would you write a letter? Right? Right? I'm also
saying that she's one of Danny's ex girlfriends. Oh interesting, Wow, this
is some tea man, Right, this is disappointing, Like I thought,
like Ashton was you know, and Mila, I don't know, like you
know advocates for this stuff. That's well, you know what's funny which has
come out too because I haven't looked deep into any of this, but I've
just seen, you know, kind of what's popping up. Apparently Toefor Grace,
who was the lead on that seven year show, he was always he
had this reputation of being kind of like stuck up and like like he was
almost too good to hang out with the rest of the cast, Like he
didn't really get along with the rest of the cast because he didn't want to
hang out with them because he was like, quote unquote too good for them.
And now this is coming out and people are saying, oh no,
Tofer's the one who could see what was going on and was right, I
want no part of this. And because of that, he got his like
reputation damage as like a prima donna, right right, it wasn't like a
good hang but as it turns out, he might have seen it all along.
Yeah, but I feel and I don't want to get in trouble for
this, So all this is just a I feel like tofor Grace is supposed
to be pretty bad because isn't he one of the ones that was like played
poker with Ben Affleck and and all those guys, And he's supposed to be
horrible. He well, he's a really bad reputation of being an asshole and
like awful to women. I know that one of the people in that group
because they were depicted in that movie. That right, and the one that's
depicted by Molly's Game is Toby McGuire. Oh, Toby McGuire. Okay,
sorry, sorry Tofur, Sorry tof No hard feelings, bro, Toby McGuire.
God, okay, yes, I'm so sorry Tofur. Yeah, okay,
so now you're that makes sense? Yes, yeah, okay, maybe
we should edit that out now. It's kind of funny. Yeah, we
solved it right away. We solved it. It's not like we had to
put a disclaimer on the episode. By the way, we tore apart tofor
Grace's character for no reason was supposedly Toby McGuire. I don't know if that
was ever confirmed or well, we'll wait a minute. Molly's Game is based
on some real people. Yeah, yeah, I know it was a truth,
but I didn't know it was like them, the ben at one of
the one of the characters. Don't know about the ben Affleck group, but
I think Michael Sarah, the Hollywood actor who's like the dude. Oh,
it's totally based though on Ben Affleck. On those guys is. I didn't
know that. Now you gotta watch it, you know anybody else that was
involved. But I mean I do know Ben Affleck plays a shitload of poker
like he's Amber, so it doesn't surprise me. But yeah, but yeah,
Toby maguire is supposed to be just discussed like the Nass Yeah yeah,
yeah. Now I women and like making them like throwing money on the floor
and like making them pick it up, like just just have a terrible reputation.
Well, I mean I used to hang out with them. No,
I'm just kidding, but when I did work on the studio lot. Yea,
these were all character Ashton, her Mila, Toby or Tofur. Sorry,
these are people that Danny masters. They were all newbies. Nobody knew
who they were. They were a cast of and it was called that seventies
show because they didn't have a work. That was the working title. They
couldn't come up with a name, and then they ended up just calling it
that. But I just remember that there the cast was like very It was
in the environment where Roseanne was part of Carcy Wanner and she was on the
Stame studio lot doing her show on Friday nights. Then there was Grace under
under pressure or under Grace under fire. Yeah pants, not Brett Michaels,
Brett Butler. Brett Butler who was showing her tits to everybody that would look
like drunk out of control. And then like Roseanne's throwing a coke can and
her line producer in front of the studio audio. I mean, those two
are out of control. So now we have these darlings on the studio lot
that are so grateful to be there, blah blah blah, and then I
just, you know, you watched them their careers explode, you know,
So I just think of them always as these kids that were so grateful to
get this job, and I always thought like they were going to be you
know, they were on a nice path. They were grateful. So to
hear now like about Danny Masterson and now like Ashton and Mila, it's just
so disappointing and so gross. I mean, I remember reading Demi Moore's book
and not being too pleased with Ashton, Like it was like, you know,
I mean, maybe she was a bit of an unreliable narrator, who
knows, but like I did not get a good feeling from Ashton Kutcher from
that book, but same. We've talked about this before, but I interviewed
Ashton Kutcher when I was working on that show Pajama Party, when Oxygen came
out, and he was like nineteen years old, just come here from like
cornfields, yes, and he was so like so I wept behind the ears
and just like wow, I'm so happy to be here. He sat for
a whole show. It was like a shitty new show. I'm sure he
was like cool like so, but I remember just being so utterly charmed by
him, like yeah, my god, he's so down to earth, He's
like so sweet, like so, you know, yes, yes, yeah,
I don't find it hard to believe that these people like get in Hollywood.
And and then that's that steing up for Danny Masterson. That's disgusting,
that's gross. Yeah. Wow. So I feel like Moore is going to
be revealed. Yeah, yeah, so he was sentenced last week. Yeah,
he's in jail thirty years and his wife, he's his wife, Biju
Phillips is his Wife's his wife? Yes, And she was like crying.
I'm sure she's a scientologist too, and was you know, I mean,
bies you like I don't understand how these women can stand by like these serial
rapists like and wife, like all with the denial, just like, oh
my god, like a hundred people accused Bill Cosby, like are all one
hundred lying? Right? And he had jokes about like Spanish fly and giving
women they you know, I mean, and you're you're Camille and you're just
like nope, not buying at all. These women just want money, Like
no, they don't write exactly like I said, Klin if he was RAPI
ray person, you know, I'm sure Amy would be like what the fuck?
You know? Yeah, I don't know. I'm just saying, you
know, there's there's smoke, there's fire, you know, and there's talk
about somebody who kind of start going like, oh really, you know,
I mean, it can't all be rumors. It's just like at a certain
point you have to go like, maybe I'm married to a monster, but
I'm saying she's also a scientologist. Yeah, oh yeah for sure. But
a lot of it too with the Ashton and Mila, their whole thing is
like, come on, that was thirty years ago. It's like I'll play
look off thirty years ago. Oh okay, so he's he's changed. He
doesn't he doesn't have to rape anymore because he's so famous that he can actually
get women. Like, what are you talking about? Are you sick in
the head like that you think that that takes away from the fact that he
ruined women's lives and traumatize them, Like, oh, it was a Why
that was so long ago for a dick? Can we all just move on
and let him, let him be? Yeah? No, no, we
can't. Well, let's do it. Should we take another break? Yeah,
let's take a break and talk about Quince. I love my quince.
I have a cardigan. It's high quality items. There's they make kid clothes,
they make women's clothes, men's clothes. And the thing is is that
they partner directly with top factory, so that the Quince cuts out the cost
of the middleman and passes the savings on to us. And Kaylin's got some
clothes that he loves by them. I'm wearing the shirt right now. It
fits so well, it's so comfortable, it feels like a luxury shirt.
It's twenty bucks. It's so reasonably priced. Seriously, go to the website
and look at it. It's very, very reasonab place. And very comfort.
They have Kashmere that starts at forty five dollars. Like, this is
not one of those things where you're going to go on there and it's like
three hundred dollars. Was like, no, it's actually completely reasonably priced where
you're gonna be like, oh, shoot, I'm gonna get a bunch of
stuff. And it's I mean, it is. It's like a high quality
sweater that I have that I wear all the time. I had to give
my sweater to LB and get another one because she was like, oh,
that's like a really pretty color. It's a bubblegum pink, and yeah,
okay, you can have it at that price. I'll just buy myself another
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sixty five day returns Quince dot com slash Fco. So I took a deep
dive into TikTok the other day. I'm never on TikTok, but I do
follow Nonapia. She's this little Italian woman. She's the cutest old. She's
in her she's just turned eighty six. Her grandson comes in every day,
No Napia. She's got like two million followers. Really they want no Napia
on our show. Oh my gosh. Yes, her grandson every day comes
in like, no, Napia, what are you making today? I'm making
the egga plant barba jan And she's using her hands and like she is like
you know, she's cutting shit up, like she's making chicken cutlets, or
she's doing a sponsored ad like oh, I'm using my swift or it's easy.
It just does. So anyway, I start watching Nona because I get
the email like, hey, no, Napia just posted a new thing.
Because I follow like Nonapia Teresa Strasser and that's about it it. So I
get in my email like TikTok, oh they just posted whatever. So then
I'm like, you know, I was home over the weekend, kids are
out, you know, bored, just me and all sitting around, sitting
outside. So I took a deep guide and I'm like, let me check
out this TikTok and how do people make TikTok's Like I don't get it.
No, we have a lot to learn, we need to learn. I
don't know, like like they're you know, they're talking around, they're talking
along with some audio or you know, or they're dancing to a song with
their daughter or what. I'm like, I want to do that, but
I have no clue at all. You gotta get the kids to show us.
First of all, there's got to be a thing that's like maybe the
eyemovie where you can make the clips and then you just post them on TikTok,
like you don't have to record it on to TikTok. Like using TikTok,
I think, I don't know, you're asking the wrong person. Like
I'm almost seventy. So is there a dummies for TikTok's TikTok for dummies?
Yeah? I mean maybe just google how to make like how to edit video
clips. It's really about the editing and then you add the music. Well,
I asked Dylan to show me, and Dylan showed me once, not
that long ago. I was like, how the hell do you use it?
And he's like, no, it's kind of like you push this button
and you just record yourself. But that okay, I'm not gonna sit here
and record what am I saying? First of I talk on my podcast.
But then if I want to do like a dance or something, then how
do I put the music to the video? Like how douse you're doing it?
Yeah? But I use I use like a like a software. It's
like the editing software that I used to. It's called Adobe. It's called
Adobe. I use Adobe Premiere, which is the which is what a lot
of video editors use. It's Adobe's pretty much the standard for editing, whereas
Audition is the sound editing. But they have a lot of like third party
apps and websites that you can go to or TikTok, Yeah, and a
lot of them. They kind of like use AI and different things too,
like when it's when you're editing in a third party like that versus just taking
a video on your phone. Yeah, they have a lot of programs that
kind of like you know, it'll zoom in on your face and it'll you
know, change the colors of the text below. Oh and I think you
have to sign up and pay money for those kind of apps. So is
it an app you get on the app store. There might be some,
and I don't know whether they're free or whether you have to pay for them.
But the one that I use to post our videos on FCO podcast on
our socials, that's just the kind of very basic Adobe editing software and you
have it on your phone for that one. No, Okay, TikTok is
like, isn't it TikTok talk talk talk isn't it? Isn't that what it
is? Like? It's all there and the few can stop and start.
I know because I remember when the kids were doing like you can like you
can make clips because you can like, oh, here's me and Lenna introducing
the video, and then you pause that basically and then you're we're doing something
else and you keep it going, so you can like do it like that
and then it edits it together. Listen, Stephanie, you and I could
be doing like TikTok's where we're incorporating ourselves right from home, making it look
like we're in the same seen it like like you're in the same room,
but you're not, you know, like I want to win musicians when they
do duets. People do duets, but they're not together, right. That's
so cool, But duet, I know that that seems so crazy, like
like inventing like the telephone. To me, it's like how does that all?
Does this work? It's like space travel, you know, it's like,
wow, what how are you doing? How? Like question over?
But he's in another state and then you guys are on my screen at the
same what. I don't get how does this work? Why can't we know
how to do? Taketok, we're gonna learn. We're gonna learn. How
long has it been since we've been saying this? I want to learn.
I'm going to have Xander teach me. Okay, my kids don't want to
spend day. I don't want to spend two seconds. I think i'd have
to pay doesn't know how to do it? Yeah, I would maybe have
to pay an attality. I think Xander probably knows how to do it.
He doesn't do it, he knows show us. He's a researcher. Like
when he wants to know something, he just like figures it out. So
he I'm sure he could show me on my phone. Okay, it's a
bunch of bullishit, I know. I mean, there's people older than us
that are doing TikTok. Anyway, we have Adobe, so I could take
video and edit it on the computer, and Elbid actually knows how to do
that. But that seems so long to just make right. You know,
who should we should ask? Is Meredith? Exactly? I wanted to ask
her last time she was here, but we got caught up. Oh my
god, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna have Meredith come back as
a guest, yes, to talk about whatever. Okay, you know she's
got a million things to talk about, and we'll have her come like an
hour early. Yeah, and like give us a TikTok tutorial. Yeah,
and then we can post our tutorial for other idiots like us. Yes,
I don't know how to do it. Yes, yeah, okay, I
will charge him obviously, let's do it. Uh Yeah. So I like
fell down this thing and I'm okay. So I was like, oh,
bored, Like who can I like hate? Watch? So I watched Bethany
Frankel and she's just so obnoxious and so unhung freaking full of herself and la
and then but then when you're scrolling, it's not just Bethany Frankel, it's
anybody talking about Bethany Frankel comes up and then it's like they talk about the
lawsuit and stuff that she's got with with Bravo and NBC. And apparently she
pitched a reality show or like two reality shows to Bravo and they like months
before, just months before she announced that she's suing them or whatever that uh,
and because they passed on it. So I don't know. I don't
know. Every hypocritical. She's very hypocritical, but she tries to act like
she's super. You know, I go low, I go high, I
have high, I have high taste. I have looked and she talks like
she's so condescend And by the way, almost every video she looks like she's
shine, like she's got shit all over her face, like it's shiny.
I don't know if you've seen it. I have her videos like there,
what's on her face? Is she? Like? I don't know, but
I also told you that if you go look up some of her cameos,
if you go look at there, it's like crazy. I mean, she
just like rolls out of bed and it's just like her eyes are barely open.
She's just like, hey, Sarah, happy birthday. Here I heard
you love me and you love my shows. I heard you just go like
telling your friends all the time, like I love Bethany. It's all about
her and how much people love her. And then she's like so thank you,
right, and then that's it, and like she charges like three hundred
and fifty dollars. Oh god, who the hell we should have them on
our show? Who's paying for Stephanie's or Bethani's. And then the other thing
is like she's she's well was she she was talking about? Uh shoot,
I just blanked. She's talking about the lawsuits. Oh. And then yeah,
she does this thing where she was like, so if you're gonna get
every other video, it's like somebody's coming after her. So if you're gonna
come after me, you better come after me. You better come, you
better bring it if you're coming for this beat, like who's coming for you?
By right? Coming back? Wasn't in her tagline? Didn't Meredith tell
us she's always trying to She's always trying to make new taglines happen. Yes,
like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, the
trademark uh something, I forgot what her thing was, but she's but yeah.
Then then Meredith went and looked and it was like, no, you
didn't start that or whatever. Yeah, right, but it's something like so
sue me or was it was something right now? But it's like, yeah,
you're coming after this beat. And then the other thing, it's like
she's talking about like body issue. She's got a teenage daughter, but yet
hello missus skinny girl with the If you look at the logo, the bitch
is like skinnier than than Barbie and her head's huge. It's just it's just
like, I don't know, she's just out of control. And she got
in trouble years ago because she was taking pictures putting him on her Instagram or
whatever, wearing her daughter's clothes, Brin, who at the time time was
like six years old, right. She was like, look at me,
I'm wearing I'm wearing my five year old's pajamas. Yea. And people were
like, bitch, that's nothing to be proud of, right, Like that's
eating disorder right right. And I follow some of her recipes, like she's
making a breakfast in the morning and she's she's like it's so juicy and so
yum. It's so like Ali's And I was like, they just turned me
off. Yes, it's like like yummy, I don't like it so yum.
It gives me the ich yeah, like and then she likes to make
the crunch sound. It's as there's this weird thing because I do like to
watch just cooking videos. I get stuck watching those, but there's this weird
thing where they're not just cooking videos. They like emphasize the sound. Yeah
like asmr. Yeah, it's like cooking videos, and I'm like, it
grosses me out. And I like the other ones that are just fast,
easy boom, here's a quick trader, Joe's blah blah blah. But these
ones where they focus on the sound and the knife spreading the butter over there,
get out of Yeah, it making me uncomfortable. Yeah, it makes
my skin crawl. I don't know where you guys are finding this stuff,
because mostly what's what seems to be curated for me is like just dog videos
or ape videos, gorilla videos, like we're hey, this person helped raise
this gorilla, but now he hasn't seen him in twenty years, and here
he's coming by in a boat and then the gorillas like and then jumps in
his arms and I'm crying and then there's like fourteen more of those. I
know, Oh I will watch the ship out of those, and then that
and gymnastics. Really, like everything I see is just a girl's doing gymnastics
and or for some reason, people diving off of high dives. A lot
of those would be so interesting to look at different people's like curated curated videos
that they get on their social media. Like line is mostly just like sports
and fantasy football and cooking cook hacks. Right, that's right. I'm all
Italian stuff because I follow Nonopia. So there's just like these guys on the
East Coast. Do they do a podcast. I think it's called shit,
it's called like being Authentic Italian or so, I don't know. They had
Vinni on recently, and they have all these guts they have, like Chazz
Palmentary came on. They have a big following, and they're on the East
Coast and they're on video and they're talking about being Italian. I'm like,
oh, okay, so there's a lot of Italian stuff, and now it's
gonna be all Bethany Frankel stuff. That's what you're gonna get Bethany Frankel all
the time. And you know, I don't know. And then what else
did I like? I get? I get a lot of singer songwritery,
Like I get all like this person who's just like singing in their bathroom or
whatever, and it's like, oh, that's really good. And then the
next there's like another twenty of those yes, just like people. But they'll
but they'll they'll have big followings, right so they're But then I'm like,
these people have good social media marketing skills because you know, I'll see the
same one because because of our buddy Owl algorithm, I'll see one for like
some girl who wrote a song that you're like, oh, that's cute,
that's like a pretty song. She's got a good voice. And then I'll
see her and every like my TikTok comes on my Facebook. Now suddenly I'm
following her on Facebook. I'm like, what happened? Like I and it's
the same song. It's like her singing the song. It's like, here's
me doing an acoustic version. Here's me And I'm like, I didn't like
the song that much to begin with it. I'll get back to work.
It stopped at the redundancy exactly the worst one that they send me that I
I do click on and I hate that I watch them. Are these people
that just eat in their cars and rate like different fast food meals. Oh,
I'm a guy junior today trying the new blah blah blah thing. And
then they'll eat it and go mmma, not very good. And they all
it's the same guy over and over there. Yeah, and I gotta don't
click on it. Don't click on it. Today there's a guy that I
he's Italian, but he's on East Coast and he goes to all the like
Dali's like in Brooklyn Staton Island. He goes and tries all the authentic Talion
and he eats it and he's you know, and he always ends like take
care brush your hair. Like he's I like him. He's funny. I'd
like to get him on our podcast. But like, there are a couple,
Like there's the ones that are very obviously like hey, here's my video
and I'm doing a claud with us. But then there's a couple just like
like older guys that are very cute about it. You know. They're just
like sixty five year old older gentleman just in their car eating a Costco hot
dog like I love that. Yeah, I like that. Speaking of social
media, you guys, we're working really hard to bring you the content.
So but we're at a different place now. We're a fcol podcast, Yes,
on all socials, on all socials, So we are on the TikTok
and the Instagram and the Facebook. We have a the Facebook page. This
is where all of our video contents. So yes, I saw some people
on Facebook that we're asking about it, like where's your video? I heard
about these videos. Yeah, we have a bunch of clips that Kaylin's been
putting together like a math, like a boss, and they're fun and funny
and they feature our guests like Lisa Limp and Nellie's anyone so go follow that
should put up the first song that Jonathan Brook did that So hopefully that one's
already up today as you're listening to this, because I'm hoping that's gonna mary
so good our show. We're kind of we're kind of killing it all.
Yeah, we are like doing good. Nobody knows about it, but hey,
tell your friends also a word. This is really sad. But before
we go, I want to I want to say that we see you.
Kristin Fletcher she's a long time listener of our show, and she lost her
daughter, Megan a few days ago now I believe on September tenth, and
so sad, and we've been with her. If you're listening, we've been
with you since you started telling us about met what you've been going through with
her, and we're just our hearts go out to you. Love you,
and I'm so glad you have the fcol community to talk about this and to
hopefully and obviously I hope you have people in your life that are helping you.
I know you do. But we love you and we're so sorry.
We're sending our love definitely. Yeah, thoughts and prayers, yep. Okay,
And before we go, we let's give a plug to Kelly from Wilman
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