1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:04,240 The deck Stephen. Good Day download with Doug and Jay Kirshner is made possible 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:07,839 in part by Kellatran, which is the safe way for you to lose weight 3 00:00:07,919 --> 00:00:12,400 and keep it off, and also by privigent keeping your brain healthy. All 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,679 right, So here we are easily working our way back into your life. 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,640 After you heard the news, we'll talk about some of the things in the 6 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:22,640 news, because that's what happens here on these conversations programs, the events of 7 00:00:22,679 --> 00:00:27,800 the day, the things that we can bring to you with the players and 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:34,240 what they're doing and how it's working. Here's something that's so wonderful. I 9 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:42,079 love this, this sort of a reality residents raising thousands of dollars for a 10 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:49,560 milkman who's retiring. He was a milkman for fifty years and he doesn't have 11 00:00:49,679 --> 00:00:56,079 quite enough money to survive, so his state pension will kick in next year. 12 00:00:56,759 --> 00:01:02,039 Meanwhile, he's been delivering jugs of milk to people in a particular neighborhood 13 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:07,840 since nineteen seventy six. Mick the Milk, that's what they call him. 14 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,560 His name is Mick Tutten, Mick the Milk. He decided to take the 15 00:01:11,599 --> 00:01:19,159 opportunity to retire after his electric milk truck broke down. See don't buy electric 16 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:23,159 anything. They break down right, couldn't fix the truck, so he decided 17 00:01:23,159 --> 00:01:27,319 he was going to retire. So there was a special fund raiser and a 18 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:34,439 local pub raised twenty thousand bucks and he got it as a retirement present, 19 00:01:34,519 --> 00:01:38,959 so that he is going to be okay until his retirement officially kicks in. 20 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:45,000 So this is the kind of thing that people do. It's all around the 21 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:51,280 world. People are good, people are thinking about others and not just themselves. 22 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:55,400 And that's just something that I came across that I thought was a great 23 00:01:55,439 --> 00:01:59,519 story. Visual it's a visualization much anything else. You can see everybody gathering 24 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,400 around and thrown a few bucks into the pot. That sort of thing. 25 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:08,360 It's a manifestation people will. We decide to do something and then we do 26 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:14,039 it. That's it. And as often as you think about something I wish 27 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:15,680 it were this way or that way, why don't you turn it around a 28 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:19,439 little bit and think, well, this is the way it is or this 29 00:02:19,479 --> 00:02:23,199 is the way I want it to be, And then you are better prepared 30 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:30,400 for what seems to be sometimes the impossible. There are miracles that happen every 31 00:02:30,479 --> 00:02:35,759 day. Here's the story of three people j who survived after a small plane 32 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,319 crashed into a home in Texas. Three people in the hospital, but they 33 00:02:39,319 --> 00:02:44,800 only had mild injuries. Who would have thought they would have survived after you 34 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:51,479 look at at the plane at the house and they walked away. Yeah, 35 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:57,360 they were able to walk away from the wreckage. And so is that a 36 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,479 miracle? Yep? Are there miracles every day? Yes? Uh, these 37 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:07,639 little planes, I don't I'm not really I wanted to learn. Yeah, 38 00:03:07,759 --> 00:03:10,759 right, exactly, nobody in the house, right, yep. So these 39 00:03:10,759 --> 00:03:16,759 folks say words cannot explain what happened. One of the people involved Monica's tense 40 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:23,199 and said, I just thank God that we're okay. Everybody's okay. And 41 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:29,400 so that's it when you're thinking that everything is awful and everything is falling apart. 42 00:03:29,879 --> 00:03:36,159 Yes, there are miracles. Here's another one and involves a helicopter pilot. 43 00:03:36,159 --> 00:03:44,039 This time who um this. He and two of his passengers were flying 44 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:53,240 over a volcano and just as it erupted, so it pushed them the helicopter. 45 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:58,680 You know, the boom pushes The helicopter lost control and the people in 46 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:05,039 the helicopter jumped out of it into the sea and they survived. There's a 47 00:04:05,199 --> 00:04:09,759 one of these tourism company. You know, they have the helicopters all over 48 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,280 the place. You can take a helicopter ride around Los Angeles, takeing a 49 00:04:13,319 --> 00:04:16,240 helicopter ride around most areas of the country. I know, they have a 50 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,800 lot of them. In Las Vegas, you get you can get a ride 51 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:26,000 and just and so and there are sometimes I remember thinking, I'm going to 52 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,920 take a helicopter ride today. I forget where it was, but it got 53 00:04:28,959 --> 00:04:31,560 to be really windy, and I thought, nah, maybe not. But 54 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,399 just you know, think about the chances going up in them. It's cool. 55 00:04:35,639 --> 00:04:39,439 A lot of people want to take a great ride, and there you 56 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:43,879 can see all kinds of things. When I was in Hawaii but a year 57 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:48,480 ago Thanksgiving, I took the helicopter ride around the island and it was it 58 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:54,519 was fabby, breathtaking, and you get down so close to some of the 59 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,240 things you know, again really see and almost feel like you're touching it. 60 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,639 And that's really the benefit of going out on a helicopter ride in some of 61 00:05:01,639 --> 00:05:08,519 these places. But in this circumstance, the pilot lost control and said, 62 00:05:08,519 --> 00:05:13,680 everybody jump out, So everybody jumped out and they all survived, so good 63 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:20,240 for them. Yep, that's another miracle. Right. I'm trying to decide 64 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:27,560 where I want whether I want to go negative here. Oh nah, Well, 65 00:05:28,879 --> 00:05:34,399 there's a whole big to do, and it's mostly political around the vaccines. 66 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:42,040 This is coming back to the surface again because there are now people who 67 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:46,079 are looking at if you can imagine you get nothing better to do, then 68 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,399 look at your party affiliation who died from COVID. There was a Democrat I 69 00:05:50,439 --> 00:05:56,120 mean believe this, who is a Democrat and who is a Republican, and 70 00:05:56,240 --> 00:06:00,360 did more Republicans who didn't want the vaccine die than Democrats who got the Missie 71 00:06:00,639 --> 00:06:06,319 who got got the vaccine. I'd probably talked to Ken Crona's about this this 72 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:10,639 week on his Good Day Health PROGRAMAG. You can here on a lot of 73 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:15,279 these same stations. So there's a report in the Journal of the American Medical 74 00:06:15,319 --> 00:06:25,519 Association which did just that and underscored the partisan divide over coronavirus vaccines and that 75 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:30,120 more people who are Democrats saved their life by having the vaccine than those people 76 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:34,519 who are Republicans who didn't. These people need to get a life. But 77 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:39,240 I just thought. The only reason I brought it up is because you can 78 00:06:39,319 --> 00:06:43,920 find this sort of thing no matter what where you look and what you're looking 79 00:06:43,959 --> 00:06:49,000 for. So this is a research paper done by somebody at Yale University finding 80 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:57,639 that registered Republicans had a higher rate of excess deaths than registered Democrats when vaccines 81 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:02,240 came out in April of twenty twenty one. Right, the study doesn't say 82 00:07:02,519 --> 00:07:10,079 that it's because you're a Republican that you died. But is this nonsense or 83 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,040 what do you get out of I would not have brought this up except I 84 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,879 kept looking at them, thinking to myself, who the heck decided that this 85 00:07:15,959 --> 00:07:19,000 was a study? Right? I mean, why is this important? Even? 86 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:26,040 By the way, this was a very extensive study of five hundred thousand 87 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:31,560 people who were twenty five years and older who lived in Florida and Ohio. 88 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:41,439 They took those two states and they linked party registration records to the death the 89 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:46,879 death the death reports death numbers. So anyway, I just find it. 90 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,000 But didn't we also hit nonsense? Did we also learn that some of those 91 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:56,439 numbers were inflated? Anyway, some people not from COVID you were maybe already 92 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,480 dying or had something else going on, and then it just they had COVID 93 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,079 at the time, and actually COVID wasn't actually what took them. I remember 94 00:08:03,399 --> 00:08:07,360 when we were talking about this as we were going through it, and it 95 00:08:07,399 --> 00:08:11,360 was revealed that the government was paying hospitals two thousand dollars ahead for everybody who 96 00:08:11,399 --> 00:08:18,079 died from COVID. So of course the hospitals are going to fudge their records 97 00:08:18,079 --> 00:08:20,680 and the numbers so they get more money out of the fence. There were 98 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:26,199 plenty of people who were and this has been pointed out by any Jack Stockwell 99 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,680 and I certainly have talked about this, and I think Ken and I talked 100 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:33,559 about it as well. He was, you know, Ken was much a 101 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:39,000 believer in the vaccines and silly is and Jack not the believer at all. 102 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,039 And so under the circumstances, it's back to who do you believe? And 103 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:48,399 it comes down to political stuff and why should you determine your health and well 104 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:52,519 being whether you're a Republican or Democrat on whether you're a Republican or Democrat. 105 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,879 I'm not taking that thing. Trump chunk it. What kind of stupids thinking 106 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:03,799 is that because Trump took I'm not taking it huh, what's the matter with 107 00:09:03,919 --> 00:09:07,399 you? Well, the other people were like, it's bidens, why we 108 00:09:07,399 --> 00:09:11,519 don't trust it? The Democrats are trying to blah again. Trump was the 109 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:15,039 one in office when all of this happened. He's the one who pushed to 110 00:09:15,879 --> 00:09:20,799 actually he more readily available, right, yeah, And the ridiculous reality of 111 00:09:20,879 --> 00:09:26,480 people not wanting to take that simple I forget what the concoction was that it 112 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:31,080 was like, could cost thirty dollars versus the other Yeah, right, exactly, 113 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:35,440 thank you. That was ridiculous. But I just found this was the 114 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,799 height of something. We're going to study the people who died of COVID to 115 00:09:39,799 --> 00:09:46,879 find out whether they're Republicans or Democrats. Huh, good for you. All 116 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:52,360 right, here's a guy who's been charged with hate crimes, killed three people 117 00:09:52,399 --> 00:09:58,679 over a parking lots a parking spot. Is there any end to this kind 118 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,360 of stupid stuff? This guy now is charged with hate crimes as well. 119 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:07,399 He should be shot three people over a parking dispute in Annapolis. Merril and 120 00:10:07,519 --> 00:10:13,600 Charles Smith faces forty two counts, three counts of first degree murder, hate 121 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:20,679 crime counts killed. Let's see a twenty seven year old a twenty four year 122 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,480 old and a fifty five year old. So this guy I guess as a 123 00:10:24,519 --> 00:10:30,039 white guy and these people he killed were black, and yeah they attain. 124 00:10:30,279 --> 00:10:35,519 Yeah, Okay, So people are so angry that the fact that this isn't 125 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,720 just a one off. People are losing their lives over a parking spot, 126 00:10:39,759 --> 00:10:43,240 over cutting somebody off in traffic, or maybe going too slow over what was 127 00:10:43,279 --> 00:10:46,840 the one the child was shot in the head, who wasn't even part of 128 00:10:46,879 --> 00:10:52,039 anything. It just happened to be standing near when people were fighting over scooters 129 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:56,440 near a beach. Yeah, what does it matter with people? And it 130 00:10:56,519 --> 00:11:03,360 isn't just the heat, it's the anger creation did by social media and stupid 131 00:11:03,639 --> 00:11:07,960 television networks that only present one side of the story, and it's contorted, 132 00:11:07,039 --> 00:11:13,000 it's twisted, it's manipulated. You're being manipulated. You must like it because 133 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:18,480 you just support these networks and this thinking is some of these talk shows. 134 00:11:18,639 --> 00:11:20,879 Anyway, we just start to see just so much more bombastic. Anger isn't 135 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,799 shameful. It's okay to be angry. It's just what you do with that 136 00:11:24,879 --> 00:11:28,279 anger, how you work through that anger and identify it. And I think 137 00:11:28,279 --> 00:11:33,399 that there's a lot of people that either aren't being taught or it's one of 138 00:11:33,399 --> 00:11:37,919 those things that people that people get into a group and they stop acting for 139 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,879 themselves and they act in the group mentality, and you just become reactive instead 140 00:11:41,879 --> 00:11:46,679 of responsive. It's harp the mob mentality. It's mob mentality. It is 141 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:52,200 the whole world of social media and gossip. I have seen more stories in 142 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:58,360 the last twenty four to forty eight hours about Tom Brady and his ex wife 143 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:07,679 and the new girlfriend and what her old bow has to say about her being 144 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:13,240 with Tom. And so this is like Bradley Cooper is now in the mix, 145 00:12:13,639 --> 00:12:16,960 right, He was with this woman before, got a baby with her, 146 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:22,679 and he's not happy. And some of the gossip columns say that Giselle 147 00:12:22,799 --> 00:12:26,840 is not happy, and so is this something get all worked up about. 148 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,759 He's rumored Jay to be dating. I think you helped me pronounce her name 149 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:39,480 yesterday, Arena shake right? Okay, So Irena has a baby with Bradley 150 00:12:39,519 --> 00:12:45,519 Cooper. So apparently they were fairly close and they've been good friends in there 151 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:52,240 in touch sort of. And Tom as his former wife, the model that 152 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,720 looks they all look kind of the same, isn't it This This is two 153 00:12:56,759 --> 00:13:00,279 people have always said, I have a type? Do men have a type? 154 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:05,840 Do women have a type? If you had you know Tom Brady and 155 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:09,559 his type, he seems to like the same kind of woman. That's okay, 156 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:13,440 do you Jay, when you and Ryan got together, was he your 157 00:13:13,519 --> 00:13:18,720 type? I don't think we have types when you are if you're just specifically 158 00:13:18,759 --> 00:13:24,519 talking about vanity and looks kind of like a certain type. Yeah, we 159 00:13:24,519 --> 00:13:26,440 were friends for a long time before we got Oh we've seen, Yeah, 160 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:31,039 we've seen the people that we each other have dated, and I don't think 161 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:35,879 you can really even relate one to the next for either of us. So 162 00:13:35,919 --> 00:13:39,720 anyway, they had dinner at the Hotel bel Air on Friday, and then 163 00:13:41,159 --> 00:13:45,000 she jumped to his role into his Rolls Royce with him, and they went 164 00:13:45,039 --> 00:13:52,000 to his house in La and then the paparazzi followed them home, took pictures 165 00:13:52,039 --> 00:13:56,919 of him and her going into the house, and they camped out all night 166 00:13:56,960 --> 00:14:00,600 and got pictures of her leaving the next morning. No, how can that 167 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:05,639 be? Wow E, it's so silly. But anyway, it's something to 168 00:14:05,879 --> 00:14:11,279 people get their minds off of whatever. So page six is all full of 169 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:16,000 this stuff and DMZ or TMR or whatever that is, what is it TMZMC. 170 00:14:16,159 --> 00:14:18,600 But it's always sources, like sources say Giselle is not happy, sources 171 00:14:18,639 --> 00:14:22,000 say Bradley Cooper's not happy, and then there's other ones where it's like, 172 00:14:22,159 --> 00:14:26,480 no, they're totally unbothered. Yeah, right, hey, he should be 173 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:30,919 happy, but don't be happy he were divorced. Right. I'm not sure 174 00:14:30,919 --> 00:14:33,559 Bradley Cooper's stating it that well, but I think Giselle doesn't give a damn. 175 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:43,759 So so the world goes on. Right, there's something for you to 176 00:14:43,799 --> 00:14:46,960 think about as you think your day is going to be a good one. 177 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:52,200 Listen. Once I began to realize that there were no new rules and my 178 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:58,360 path didn't have to look like everybody else's, I relaxed and my whole world 179 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,399 opened up. A philosopher wrote that, and I thought that was. I 180 00:15:03,519 --> 00:15:07,039 just grab onto these things from time to time because I think that they do 181 00:15:09,039 --> 00:15:15,039 set a tone. Once I began to realize that there were no rules and 182 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,320 that my path didn't have to look like everybody else's, relaxed and my world 183 00:15:18,399 --> 00:15:22,159 change opened up. So isn't that something you don't have to be like your 184 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:28,519 neighbor what's the old keeping up with the Joneses. Who cares what the Joneses 185 00:15:28,559 --> 00:15:31,639 are doing? Do your own thing, make your own kind of music as 186 00:15:31,679 --> 00:15:37,559 a mama is that mama cast of sang that song? Yeah? So anyway, 187 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,360 and one of those people is the guy named Kevin Bason, who is 188 00:15:43,399 --> 00:15:52,279 the first men's professional coach. He's a let me see what he's strength coach 189 00:15:52,799 --> 00:15:58,440 at the Jacksonville Jaguars. And he's come out as being gay, and so 190 00:15:58,559 --> 00:16:00,679 there's a big deal being made about this, and I wonder, hello, 191 00:16:00,799 --> 00:16:06,480 is anybody like the calendar it's twenty twenty three, but there's anytime there's a 192 00:16:06,559 --> 00:16:11,879 first. He's he's the first one to come out, and he's the first 193 00:16:11,919 --> 00:16:15,679 kay guy in football and oh no, he's the first, the first coach 194 00:16:15,879 --> 00:16:18,320 to come out. Yeah, but it's just one of those things of I 195 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:23,480 think people have to come out and live their truth and kind of help to 196 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:29,240 make other people feel comfortable to live their truth too. There's still that that 197 00:16:29,399 --> 00:16:33,000 a little bit of taboo part of society that's like, don't talk about it 198 00:16:33,759 --> 00:16:37,480 because you might, you might turn people off, you might lose a fan 199 00:16:37,519 --> 00:16:40,639 base, you might lose endorsement deals. You might leave money on the table 200 00:16:40,679 --> 00:16:44,240 like all of this stuff, and it's just who cares. Does it affect 201 00:16:44,279 --> 00:16:47,120 how he's who he loves? Is that affecting how he's coaching? No? 202 00:16:47,679 --> 00:16:48,919 Does it change who he is as a human human being? No, no, 203 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:53,120 not at all. So that's why I say, it's kind of like 204 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:56,559 your climate change. You know, if you're really good right down to it, 205 00:16:56,559 --> 00:17:02,000 it's no big deal. He said. The reason he came out is 206 00:17:02,039 --> 00:17:04,960 because he didn't want to feel like he had to think about it anymore. 207 00:17:06,039 --> 00:17:08,720 I don't want to have to lie about who I'm dating, who I'm with, 208 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:14,799 And that's kind of a good that's a good, Bill Weather. There's 209 00:17:14,799 --> 00:17:18,119 an inspiration there be who you are, kind of what I said a few 210 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:22,640 minutes ago. So there. You look around and see how many stories there 211 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:30,400 might be about various professional football players, let's say, or soccer players, 212 00:17:30,599 --> 00:17:36,079 or hockey players, or you name the sport, and the number of people 213 00:17:36,079 --> 00:17:41,400 who come out as gay, and it's just it seems again, look at 214 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:45,680 the calendar, it's twenty twenty three, and this is, by the way, 215 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:49,000 on both sides. Maybe does it feel like it's different if you're gay 216 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:55,000 as a guy in a sports arena versus a woman who's gay in a sports 217 00:17:55,039 --> 00:17:59,799 arena? Is that is there a difference? Do you think how people who 218 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:03,039 are not part of the LGBT community look at them? Do you mean that? 219 00:18:03,319 --> 00:18:08,440 Or how they feel? No about it? Maybe that's it more important 220 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,799 now they feel than how other people feel. That's a good point. Thank 221 00:18:11,799 --> 00:18:15,519 you Jay for bringing I was thinking about it with regard to what others thought. 222 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,720 But maybe again, why should you care what other people think? I 223 00:18:19,839 --> 00:18:23,160 know that that's easy to say and not so easy to live with sometimes because 224 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:30,799 of bullying and things that. Yeah, right, yeah, so let's fast. 225 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,359 Let me move that just thought just came into my mind. Let's move 226 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:40,119 this forward a little bit. People who are older, senior citizens, people 227 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:45,240 who are my age and older, who are gay or lesbian, whatever the 228 00:18:45,279 --> 00:18:52,039 designation from you just use the TERMINOLOGBTQ. What happens if you're a senior member 229 00:18:52,039 --> 00:18:56,839 of society. I don't think people pay much attention to what happens to folks 230 00:18:56,839 --> 00:19:03,279 who are in those groups as they get older, and one wonders whether they 231 00:19:03,519 --> 00:19:07,839 have found or can find a community, or is it necessary or are they 232 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:12,720 just lonely all by themselves? And if that's the case. Why would that 233 00:19:12,839 --> 00:19:17,000 be or is it just like with a lot of seniors, the older you 234 00:19:17,039 --> 00:19:19,240 get, the lonelier you get. Because that's what I was thinking. Yeah 235 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:25,039 regardless if you're yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, well again it always 236 00:19:25,079 --> 00:19:29,599 have interested in food for thought here and a little quizzing goes a long way. 237 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:33,880 And also think about people who are older who are part of the lgbt 238 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:40,279 QIA community and it didn't come out until much later in life. Maybe they 239 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:44,440 came out privately with family or close family and friends, but didn't come out 240 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,880 with their work or whatever, or didn't come out to anyone because of just 241 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:53,960 the fear of losing those relationships, being abandoned. And how lonely that must 242 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,720 be to live so much of your life not being able to live your truth 243 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:03,079 and share your truth. Well, the thing that's hard, I think is 244 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:08,680 realizing what your desire is. I don't I don't need I have some friends, 245 00:20:08,759 --> 00:20:11,880 good friends, I'm close, My family and I are close. I 246 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:17,759 have the people I work all day every day on various projects, and so 247 00:20:17,839 --> 00:20:22,039 I don't I make friends or we have relationships with the people who we have 248 00:20:22,079 --> 00:20:26,039 a family on the farm. We certainly have a family on the radio program. 249 00:20:26,079 --> 00:20:30,400 I have a family in this group that maybe it's because I desire to 250 00:20:30,559 --> 00:20:33,720 create those things, and maybe that's what happens. I don't know. Just 251 00:20:34,319 --> 00:20:40,839 I think that you attract what it is that you're putting out right, if 252 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:44,079 you have the ability, If you have it's a magnet, or you can 253 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:48,559 be a magnet if you want to be for certain lifestyles. Just you know, 254 00:20:48,799 --> 00:20:52,039 let yourself be. If you're yourself, you will be attractive in and 255 00:20:52,079 --> 00:20:57,119 of yourself. You'll be attractive to somebody, some group, right way of 256 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:03,559 thinking. They're all kinds of clubs and groups. Yeah, exactly. And 257 00:21:03,599 --> 00:21:10,400 there's also a different glow in a different way you carry yourself when you have 258 00:21:10,599 --> 00:21:15,519 that validation from within and not reliant upon the validation from others. Right, 259 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:22,839 Okay, let's talk about something that's flashing around the summertime brings people to thinking 260 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,920 about how they look and whether or not they want to lose weight. Do 261 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,799 you want to feel a certain way? And if you do, then take 262 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:37,599 this product or take that product, or do this thing exercise? Why wise? 263 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:45,680 Then? So I was this comes about as me thinking last night watching 264 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,319 a television program before I went to bed, and there was another ad for 265 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,440 ozempic. Oh, and then we have them here too. So I you 266 00:21:52,519 --> 00:21:56,640 know, I say to people, why do you make fun of people to 267 00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:00,599 advertise? I say what I think about stuff, and they pay to say 268 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,400 what they want to say, and I'll say what I want to say about 269 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:08,119 it. I don't like these drugs. There's nothing about the drug culture. 270 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,359 We talk about drugs in our society and what a scourge they are. What 271 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:17,680 the heck is the difference between getting a loading up, loading up on marijuana 272 00:22:17,839 --> 00:22:22,839 or something else and loading up on ozempic or some of these other drugs that 273 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:26,279 are being pushed on us, sold to us, if you will, as 274 00:22:26,319 --> 00:22:30,599 the way to fix a problem, like you want to lose a lot of 275 00:22:30,599 --> 00:22:36,039 weight fast, take ozempic. Yeah. However, if you look around, 276 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:41,799 this is a Amy Schumer did a podcast with Andy What's's face Cohen and they 277 00:22:42,279 --> 00:22:47,759 started this ball bouncing and so it makes you know she's been up and down 278 00:22:47,759 --> 00:22:52,519 like a yo yo on her weight programs. And then there's there are a 279 00:22:52,599 --> 00:22:56,200 number of stories you can find about people in their thirties and forties, and 280 00:22:56,440 --> 00:23:02,680 this particular lady is talking about how zempic made her life. L it cost 281 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:07,599 her money, it cost me stress, it costs me days and nights with 282 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,680 my family. It's cost me a lot, and she says the price is 283 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,880 too high. And then you can keep googling all of this sort of thing, 284 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,400 and you come up with story after story after story after story, so 285 00:23:19,079 --> 00:23:25,599 you wonder, and I don't know that it's just ozempic, although that's the 286 00:23:25,599 --> 00:23:26,720 one that comes to mind because it seems, well, I think, what 287 00:23:26,839 --> 00:23:32,079 is it? We govi has actually been approved to be used for weight loss, 288 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,759 where I think it's great. Yeah, where ozembic really hasn't been. 289 00:23:36,799 --> 00:23:41,319 It's just people are doing it kind of off label. But it's with most 290 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,160 medications. If you don't need it for the for what it's actually supposed to 291 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,839 be used for, you have certain side effects. And with ozempic it's for 292 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,759 diabetes and to keep insulin low. So if you don't have diabetes in your 293 00:23:53,839 --> 00:23:57,160 use aunt to lose weight. Oftentimes more than not, you're going to feel 294 00:23:57,319 --> 00:24:03,160 nauseous and that kind that really makes you not want to eat. So it 295 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,319 does its purpose, But is it really worth it to just go through your 296 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,960 day being completely sick? Well, that's it. What it's more important to 297 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,279 you how you live your life. There are a bunch of doctors around now 298 00:24:14,279 --> 00:24:18,960 who are warning about ozempic and the side effects of taking it, especially if 299 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,440 they're using it to take weight, to lose weight. But it doesn't even 300 00:24:22,759 --> 00:24:27,160 it doesn't matter whether it's being used for weight or the purpose for which it's 301 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:33,200 intended. Apparently it's a nightmare no matter what you're using it for. The 302 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:37,519 vomiting that goes on. There are people who have been taking this thing to 303 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,720 throw up all day long. And so what the hell are we being sold 304 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,839 and why and how come the FDA says this stuff is okay if it has 305 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,920 all these side effects. And then we get down to do you trust the 306 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,000 government? And we go back to the COVID thing? Or you can use 307 00:24:52,079 --> 00:24:59,119 that question for almost anything that's around it. What are we doing to ourselves? 308 00:25:00,079 --> 00:25:07,319 We've become addicted to drugs, We've become addicted to quick fixes. Okay, 309 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:12,000 better it goes even past the drugs. It's for everything. We are 310 00:25:12,039 --> 00:25:18,079 addicted to quick fixes and not hearing root calls and prevent prevention care. Yeah, 311 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:22,519 that's yeah, right, what's the Yeah, that's very good. That's 312 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:26,000 well put. Thank you Jay. All Right, So telling the story. 313 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:30,640 Then, I guess it's an obvious because people who listened to this program in 314 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,640 the past seven eight years have heard me talking NonStop about Caldron. We've had 315 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,839 this program as a sponsor to this program, and we've focused on them, 316 00:25:37,839 --> 00:25:41,279 and we have some folks from there that come on the program and talk about 317 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:48,319 how valuable it is. And it is a counter So is it appropriate for 318 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,519 me to tell you about it? I suppose if you don't know, maybe 319 00:25:51,519 --> 00:25:56,519 this is support for all the people who want to do something about their weight 320 00:25:56,559 --> 00:26:00,720 but they don't really know how to do it. If you want to take 321 00:26:00,759 --> 00:26:04,759 your time because the success taking something like this, and actually this is the 322 00:26:04,799 --> 00:26:10,519 only thing around honestly that I know of that's all natural, So taking it 323 00:26:10,559 --> 00:26:12,559 is not gonna get in the way of your health and well being. So 324 00:26:12,599 --> 00:26:17,119 maybe you should check it out at toploss dot com. It's called Calatron. 325 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:22,319 It's all natural and you can get on the program and use it and there's 326 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:26,640 no side effects. Help yourself. Okay, the good stuff is Calatron at 327 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:33,240 toploss dot com. Celebrity News Department trending things from social media about Dolly Parton 328 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,799 and Kevin Costner. Oh wait a minute, are they together? This is 329 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,759 no together at all. I'm just putting it is happily married. Yeah, 330 00:26:41,759 --> 00:26:45,359 that's right. I'm putting two stories together that I think are very interesting as 331 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:51,440 our first one has to do with Dolly and the cover of a very famous 332 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:56,519 song, a cover of We Are the Champions. So she's Freddie Mercury. 333 00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,759 Basically she's fantastic. I mean, I tell you, do you remember the 334 00:27:00,759 --> 00:27:06,079 whole thing of She was nominated to potentially be inducted into the Rock Hall, 335 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,079 and she wanted to bail out, and they were like, no, you're 336 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,519 a nomination. That it is what it is, We've already sent out the 337 00:27:11,519 --> 00:27:14,119 ballots. And then she got inducted. She's like, okay, well, 338 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,039 I don't consider myself a rock star, so I better earn this. And 339 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:22,000 immediately she's putting out a She decided to put together a thirty track album of 340 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:26,400 rock music. I think twenty of the tracks are going to be covers, 341 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:30,720 ten originals, and it's due out in November, and she has just been 342 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:36,599 busting her tail to feel like she earns that spot in the Rock Hall. 343 00:27:37,079 --> 00:27:42,720 She's really on. Its a long way from nine to five, but at 344 00:27:42,759 --> 00:27:48,200 any rate, good, I've always been a big fan Dolly Parton. Could 345 00:27:48,279 --> 00:27:49,880 for a let her keep going. She and I are the same age, 346 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:55,839 and let's keep pushing, Dolly. Let's keep going. Meanwhile, Kevin Costner 347 00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:00,680 continues his war with his ex wife. I don't know they divorce has been 348 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,160 completed yet, but his wife got one hundred and ninety two grand a month 349 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:10,279 out of him for child support last week with a judge. And now she's 350 00:28:10,319 --> 00:28:14,880 gone to Hawaii with her family to spend one hundred and ninety two thousand a 351 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:21,920 month, and she's been seen with another man. No, how could that 352 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,559 be? This is a big time backer named Josh Connor. How come all 353 00:28:26,559 --> 00:28:32,519 of these women and the men we were talking about Tom Brady earlier and who 354 00:28:32,519 --> 00:28:36,200 he's hanging around with? Now, is it? Do they ever just find 355 00:28:36,319 --> 00:28:44,119 somebody yellow like down the farm? Oh well, I think it's also just 356 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,839 their lifestyle and based on who they hang around, how they meet people. 357 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,000 Yeah, yes, it's probably because sometimes people are also like they've gotten to 358 00:28:52,039 --> 00:28:56,160 a relationship so quickly after their relationship was over. Their relationship was over long 359 00:28:56,319 --> 00:29:00,680 before the divorce was finalized, of course, Like let's be yeah exactly. 360 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:07,559 Anyway, So there are photos that Barbarazza, you know, like following Brady 361 00:29:07,599 --> 00:29:11,680 around with his girlfriend to his house in LA. They're following her, the 362 00:29:11,759 --> 00:29:15,880 wife of Kevin Costner around, They're following him around. Who's he hanging around 363 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,759 with? Come on, I mean it's I suppose there's a pleasure in it 364 00:29:18,799 --> 00:29:22,920 for something, but it seems kind of like a waste of energy. I'm 365 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,960 Greg I'm sixty eight years old. I grew up in Cleveland, Ohio, 366 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:30,759 major in business administration. I do motivational speaking in addition to substitute teaching. 367 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,440 Part of the reasons for my motivational speaking is um I kind of feel like 368 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,680 I have a calling or giving back to the younger generation. You know, 369 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,960 the golden rule is doing to others you'd have them doing to you. My 370 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:45,559 wife, Wanda, is a senior flight attendance. She's been flying for over 371 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,960 thirty years. We do laugh quite a bit. I think most adults will 372 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,480 start realizing that they don't recall things as quickly, say used to, or 373 00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:57,720 they don't remember things as vividly as they once did. I've been taking privilege 374 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:02,319 in for about three years now. People say to me periodical, Man, 375 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:07,880 you got a memory like an alpha It's really really helped me tremendously, providing 376 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,640 healthier brain, a better life. Brig Freeley is a paid testimonialist and real 377 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:17,559 privileging user. Based on the clinical study of subgroups of individuals who were cognitively 378 00:30:17,599 --> 00:30:19,960 normal or mildly imperative. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, 379 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,880 cure, or prevent any disease. Okay, one of my favorite times during 380 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,359 the week as when we entertain the thoughts of Warren Xtein, who's the host 381 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:32,119 of the Pet Show. Find out about him at the Pet show dot com. 382 00:30:32,119 --> 00:30:36,519 He's here to talk about Joe Biden's dog, And let's see, we 383 00:30:36,559 --> 00:30:40,559 could probably spend the entire the time that we have set aside for you to 384 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:45,720 talk about how stupid this whole thing is. The story, if you have 385 00:30:45,799 --> 00:30:51,920 not heard it, Joe Biden's dog, named Commander, has apparently bitten Secret 386 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:56,480 Service agents about ten times so far. So what is there about this after 387 00:30:56,519 --> 00:31:00,680 the first bite that you leave the dog with the Secret Service or what. 388 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:08,000 I'm sure that some of the the right wing radio programs are loving this and 389 00:31:08,359 --> 00:31:14,319 interpreting it any number of ways. So what's your interpretation of this? First 390 00:31:14,319 --> 00:31:17,640 of all, First of all, it's not the dog's fault. Let's get 391 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,359 that off the record. This has been my profession for almost fifty years and 392 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,799 one of the most common things I deal with is dogs that show aggressive behavior. 393 00:31:23,839 --> 00:31:26,359 Because a lot of the dogs I deal with or rescued or abused, 394 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:32,799 a lot of the dogs had aggressive behavior, and someone professionally ego aside can 395 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,599 help resolve those issues. Now, this dog bit ten times in four months, 396 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:41,160 you would assume you would assume that someone would get involved with a behaviorist 397 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,480 or a trainer. But according to the reports that I'm reading, dog Amazing 398 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,559 that the president was unaware of the bad habits of the dog, and his 399 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,440 wife had no control over the dog, and the groundskeeper has been seen walking 400 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,440 the dog over the place. What this dog needs. If you have a 401 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:59,279 dog, and I've trained dogs for senior citizens in nursing homes and hospitals, 402 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,039 if you have a dog that's showing aggressive behavior early on, what you need 403 00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:07,880 to do is really socialize the dog, educate the dog, and really work 404 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,119 on the behavior. So a lot of people are saying, well, if 405 00:32:10,119 --> 00:32:13,000 my dog bits, so many times I put him to sleep, or for 406 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,079 another dog bit so many times I put him asleep. Why is the dog 407 00:32:15,119 --> 00:32:19,559 biting? Dogs are not born aggressive. Why is the dog biting? There's 408 00:32:19,559 --> 00:32:22,400 a reason for it. Kind of my opinion is he named the dog command 409 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,839 or he might be more assertive anyway. But the bottom line is this is 410 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:30,240 a problem that could be resolved working with a behaviorist. However, there is 411 00:32:30,279 --> 00:32:32,079 a lot of stress at the White House. I don't think a dog belongs 412 00:32:32,079 --> 00:32:37,400 at the White House unless it's a guard dog with an officer walking around. 413 00:32:37,559 --> 00:32:39,519 But there's too many things going on, too many people, too many commands 414 00:32:39,519 --> 00:32:42,799 being given to the dog, too many different voices, too many people are 415 00:32:42,839 --> 00:32:45,640 running around, too many cents, too many yelling, too much screaming. 416 00:32:45,759 --> 00:32:49,359 It's enough to make a person crazy, let alone a poor dog. So 417 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,880 my heart goes out too, Commander. It's not his fault. I hope. 418 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,119 I just hope that someone gets involved in terms of working with him on 419 00:32:55,160 --> 00:33:00,519 behavior to resolve these issues. There are people in the secrets is they want 420 00:33:00,559 --> 00:33:04,759 him put down. And one of the guys that leads the White House group 421 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,119 said, of it had been anybody else's dog, you would have been already 422 00:33:07,119 --> 00:33:14,000 put down. He needs a muzzle, that's what somebody is well, see 423 00:33:13,279 --> 00:33:16,000 the worst thing you can do for an aggressive dog. Let me just go 424 00:33:16,039 --> 00:33:20,039 back for a second. Years ago, when I would be called in with 425 00:33:20,119 --> 00:33:23,440 a very very aggressive dog, I would teach the dog guard dog training. 426 00:33:23,559 --> 00:33:28,119 It's like teaching an aggressive kid karate. You teach him when to be aggressive 427 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,200 and when not to be aggressive. The same procedure works with a dog. 428 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,640 If you have an aggressive dog, you take that aggression and you control it 429 00:33:34,759 --> 00:33:37,839 in different directions. That's what the dog needs. He doesn't need to be 430 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,519 killed. It's not the dog's fault. He was brought to the White House. 431 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:43,920 It's not the dog's fault he was undersocialized. It's not the dog's fault 432 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,119 of the topper environment that he lives in. Bottom line is, let's get 433 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:51,200 off this thing of blaming the dog. Let's blame the real situation. It's 434 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,799 the lack of exposure. The dog had the proper training and education early on. 435 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:58,480 So this is a German Shepherd. Are they more likely, less likely 436 00:33:58,599 --> 00:34:02,640 or the same as any other dog? Most incredible dogs in the world. 437 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:07,200 When I was stationed in Europe, dog I worked with advanced training, something 438 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:13,679 called shut hunt training, Belgian ringsport training, POLITZI hunt training. These dogs 439 00:34:13,679 --> 00:34:19,079 are incredible dogs. In fact, German shepherds are probably probably the most mellow 440 00:34:19,119 --> 00:34:22,079 dogs, the most great family dogs, if they're brought up properly and socialized. 441 00:34:22,119 --> 00:34:24,960 The bottom line is, I don't believe this dog was brought up properly 442 00:34:25,039 --> 00:34:29,440 or socialized or educated early on, and just let be. And if you 443 00:34:29,519 --> 00:34:31,199 just let a dog be like a child, let them be, they develop 444 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:39,320 bad habits. Okay, So for those of you who are politically in step 445 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:45,119 for these things, Warren won't tell you this, but I'll tell you this. 446 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,880 There are in my mind, the dog's gonna be just like I say 447 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,119 this on the farm all the time when people ask me about the cows and 448 00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:55,159 weathers so friendly. They're going to be exactly how you treat them. They're 449 00:34:55,159 --> 00:35:01,079 going to grow up to be sweet dogs, sweet sweet children if you treat 450 00:35:01,119 --> 00:35:07,000 them with love and or sweet to them. If you are an a hole 451 00:35:07,119 --> 00:35:12,280 with him, if you're nasty, if you are treating them, you know, 452 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,079 with the muzzles and whips and whatever else it is, then the dog's 453 00:35:15,119 --> 00:35:20,199 going to be as this dog is. So you can to do whatever you 454 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,800 want. The Republicans will say, yeah, see, I told you Joe 455 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:27,000 Biden was no good. Whatever it is, you can draw your own conclusions. 456 00:35:27,039 --> 00:35:30,440 This dog didn't get this way naturally. This dog has been either mistreated 457 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:37,280 or not trained. This dog deserves to be someplace else. Actually, there's 458 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,800 somebody said, wouldn't it be good if the local Washington dog officer went in 459 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:45,079 and took the dog away from him? Or mistreatment? There's a story and 460 00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:49,920 a half there you go. So anyway, that's the latest on the on 461 00:35:50,039 --> 00:35:53,119 the Command of the Dog story at Joe Biden's White House. The Deck Stephen 462 00:35:53,199 --> 00:35:58,760 Good Day download with Doug and Jay Kirshner is made possible in part by Kellatran, 463 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,239 which is the safe way for you to lose weight and keep it off, 464 00:36:01,519 --> 00:36:05,239 and also by Previgent keeping your brain healthy.