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Sure woos up, beautiful people.
It is your baby Mama, Favorite baby

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Mama, Stormy Pe and this is
another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip The

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Modern Day Female Perspective, Dyn.
I'm so back at it again, back

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It didn't really go too well,
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Boom. Hell yeah, the second
part is good. First partor messed up,

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but whatever, we got it.
We got it. We got it.

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Listen, I just want to talk
to you about my week a little

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bit real fast. Don't want to
take up too much of the time.

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I just want to say, fuck
these kids. Now that Christmas is over,

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now that the holidays have passed,
fuck these kids, okay. And

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I'm gonna start this by saying,
my son want to be new, new

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from atl so bad. He want
to be new, new from atl so

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bad. And the reason I say
that is because my son has braids now,

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so right before Christmas, I'm braiding
this hair, and you know,

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I'm standing over him so I can
see what he's doing in his phone,

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and he is watching videos on YouTube
from the same man to back to back

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to back to back the whole time
I'm doing his hair. He's only watching

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one man's videos. And I'm gonna
start by saying, shout out to deta

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No. Okay, this man is
a YouTuber. He's very popular. His

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name is d ta No. Now, the reason that I say my son

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want to be new now from atl
so bad is because all of DTA Know's

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videos is him and his friend dressed
in a bonnet in a row pretending to

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be their mother's giving them whippings.
All of this man's videos is about how

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moms be whipping their kids. Ask
and he had variations. It was from

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the son's point of view, it
was from the mom's point of view.

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It was from you know, my
little sister be snitching on me, so

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fuck her two point of view.
Right now, here's the part that got

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me. My nigga, you only
had like two whoops is in your life.

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Now I'm offended. Now I'm offended, And I think I was even

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more offended because this nigga giggling and
shit, he having a good time.

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And all the videos are covers to
popular songs, like the one he ran

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back like four times. It was
called belt to Butt, but it was

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a cover of back in Bloody y'all. I feel offended. I feel offended

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because, like I said, my
nigga, you've only gotten like two whoopings

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in your father has never given you
a woman. They both came from me.

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So the fact that all these videos
is about the mom whoompan is ass.

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I'm like, bro, you want
to be down so bad? What

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is this you don't live this life
for real. And now I'm like,

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I gotta beat this nigga. Ass
h. No, the last time I

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even put my hands on them then
even whoo, I just yoked them up.

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You know what I mean. That's
a yoking up is not considered a

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whooping, y'all considered bruh. I
don't know what he considered a whooping.

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He really was going through this ship
like he being the trenches too, and

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it's like, yo, j j
X Anthony says, you got to point

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to prove. Now I'm not gonna
hold you. I said this niggas tested

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me. This niggas tested me,
Yo. He real ship. I'm like,

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yo, I've seen people in your
class get they ass whooped. They

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can watch these videos and left you
can't and ship punny to you. You're

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pussy for real, Like, oh
ship, bro Clever Corey says, Nah,

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yoking in a whooping, thank you, it's not a whooping. I'm

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not gonna lie. The part that
hurt the most is like him giggling you

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standing in littery with this shit like
no. I can tell. I can

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tell by the way his eyebrows was
lifting when he was laughing. My man

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felt like this ship was funny,
So should I whoop his ass or not?

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Y'all? Now I didn't. I'm
trying to get my words together because

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I want to figure out how I'm
going to say something to him, because

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it's like a part of me want
to know what's so funny. J X

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Anthony says, it ain't real until
the mom pull up to the school to

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whoop your ass and send you back
to class. That was that was one

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of the videos. I ain't gonna
hold you like. He had a bunch

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of videos and that was one of
them. Leo flex Fit said, Nah,

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he was like, it couldn't be
me. Okay, okay, okay,

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okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay,

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let's go back, Let's go back, Let's go back, because my man

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might have just pointed something mouse to
me because I I didn't think about it

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like that. In my mind,
he was calling me pussy okay. But

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maybe, like you said, he
was laughing because he was like, damn,

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my mother has way more control than
that. My mother doesn't partake in

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y'all abuse. Maybe maybe shot said
that. As Capitol says, that's good,

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just whooping. I used to get
two or three a day. Outfit

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says, you send him down like
Nino Brown at the long table? Were

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you okay? Okay? Right right
right, okay talking about somebody here.

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If y'all got kids, ask your
kids if they know detail? No,

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okay? And then I want y'all
to even look up on YouTube this guy

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and let me know and my tripping
for being offended. I'm I'm gonna take

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it as like the person said,
I'm gonna take it as he was looking

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at it like nah, couldn't be
me. But part two coming too.

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That's all I'm gonna say. I
think I still am going to ask him,

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yo, what the fuck is so
funny? But you know, yeah,

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stay tuned. My Bugsman five says, my mama has a lot more

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control than that. Sounds a like
like my mama is a pussy. This

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is why I'm scared of What if
you think I'm pussy? Y'all? What

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if I didn't went and talked to
the lady and now he think I'm pussy?

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Like can we that could be a
thing. That can be a thing.

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No money, Blue Fame Glue Gang
says, he's thinking you got it,

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you got it bad? Cut your
voice, y'all get on my nerves.

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Jay Horwitz PG says we should just
whoop dtailed ass. Hold on,

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I agree, you know what I'm
gonna send that nigga a D. I

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did shout him out. I did
show him out, and he has like

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a pretty large problem. So y'ah
we have an internet war. What we're

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doing. No, I'm just I'm
just showing you that's we're doing. That's

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not I say. I'm just yoking, but detail. I want you to

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know. If I talked to my
son this week and he says he thinks

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I'm pussy, we're gonna have to
have a talking just saying that right there.

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Listen, somebody gonna get this ass
whooping, right shot. It's deeven

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one on one says a light Mic
Tyson. Right hook won't hurt Leo flex

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Fint said, whoop that trick.
I just felt like he was trying to

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be normal from ato because like,
bitch, you not down, you don't

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get whoopings, Like the fuck you
should play the mom in one of his

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videos. That's a good idea of
my books. Mean five, let me

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see what happens, hey, sir, Rasha and I Lee, what's up?

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What's up? What's up? So
yeah, now let's get to the

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break of a podcast. I want
to talk to y'all a lot, because

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last week I talked about how it
was just so much neck activity on the

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Internet, and I really want to
see some more love. Like. I

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don't know if it's because I'm just
in a different season in my life or

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what, but like, the negative
shit just don't serve me no more.

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I don't want to hear about men
and women wanting back and forth talking about

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who not shit the most. I
don't want to do that, right,

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I just want to focus on a
good feeling. Some nineties are and b

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shit like, cause I know it's
still good women out there, it's still

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good men out there, like,
so let's just put more of that on

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our worst Internet. That's what I
want to see, That's what I wanna

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feel, That's what I wanna hear. Right, So I got thinking to

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myself, we're all in these different
phases of life, but we're still attracted

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to who we want to be attracted
to. People are still falling in love

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every day, People are still getting
married every day. So I ask myself,

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hmm, what do people like about
their partner? Whether you're married,

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single, friends with benefits like just
hooking up, dating, whatever, What

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is it about your person that made
you choose them as your person? We

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all have our different reasons. So
I went to al Gore's Internet and I

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asked them, and I'm not gonna
lie, y'all men be out here talking

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so heavy, but y'all is so
in love and I love it. I

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love it. The answers that I
got gave me so much joy, Like

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y'all really playing so for the internet, like y'all do in front of your

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friends, but y'all be loving on
these women real bad, real bad.

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Listen. Yes, So I wanted
to read y'all. Some of the answers

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I got that really, you know, gave me a tingle in my cringle.

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Okay, so the first one he
said, oh actually, this one

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was actually from a woman. She
says he's the most intentional man I've ever

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met, and I love that for
her. You ever ran into somebody who

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was just intentional with every move they
made, like everything they did they had

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a raison behind it. When you
have come from a long line of fuck

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boys, shit like that will set
your soul on fire. And I tell

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no lies, I tell no lots. Something like that will set you on

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fire. Out bruh, bruh.
Right, So the next one, I

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think the rest of these, the
rest of these are from me. The

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rest of these are from me.
So the next one. They matched the

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consistency and were consistent with their own
stated goals. Felis, did y'all hear

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me? Did y'all hear me?
This man said he chose his woman because

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they matched the consistency and were consistent
with their own stated goals. Because it's

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nothing like you get with a woman
and all of a sudden your goals become

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hurdles. It's nothing like you get
with a woman and all of a sudden

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your friends become her friends, your
plans become her plans, and everything that

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you do she gotta do. She
no longer has her own personality, she

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no longer has her own goals and
dreams. It's just whatever my man wanna

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do. Like y'all remember coming to
America when for Zykina was like, what

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do you like to do? And
she's like, whatever you like to do?

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Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, oh my

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god, oh my god. Okay, ladies, I know, y'all,

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be thinking that being compliant is what's
gonna get you chosen. But that shit

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is annoying. Bitch. What do
you wanna eat? Bitch? Where do

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you wanna go? Like? That's
not it, that's not it. I

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know you wanna make yourself a blank
palate so that you're open to more suitors.

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But trust me, that's not the
way to go. It's not the

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way i'm'a go. Uh. Aaron
Nash Chevin three says a consistent man makes

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her a cucci throw. A consistent
man makes any woman's cucci pulsate. Okay,

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it gives it a heartbeat. Just
that's what it do when you are

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consistent. That's what it does to
the women. Okay, it's what it

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does. Marlow b X says being
on the same page as a plus.

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Mike Evis two three says I have
such a question in you. Sorry I

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didn't read before I said it.
My bad, But yeah, man,

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consistency, because I'll be trying to
like, you know, shut up,

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all right? The next one.
Because I asked for a woman that would

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love me faults at all, then
God give bract her for me. Come

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on, somebody, come on,
somebody. I asked what made you choose

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the woman that you chose or the
man that you chose, And why are

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they your number one? And this
man says, because I asked for a

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woman that would love me faults in
all, and then God give for me.

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Congratulationships Tarry's voice, because God,
damn, God damn. He sounds

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like the type that be praying for
you too. Must be nice. No,

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really, because y'all ever had like
somebody pray for you, Like y'all

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ever had somebody who pray for you
and then stir your guts afterwards. The

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Lord knows my heart. The Lord
knows his heart. The Lord knows what

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we be doing when we don't be
in church on Sunday. The Lord knows

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what we be doing when we don't
be at Wednesday night service. The Lord

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knows what we be doing when we
don't be at Bible studies. So y'all

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just don't be doing okay, all
right? So so, but what I'm

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saying is like, have you ever
had somebody like you go to somebody with

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a problem and they intention only pray
for you, or like they intentionally like

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mention you and their talks with God
on a regular basis. Who I'm not

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gonna lie. That's why I had
to tell myself that my ex died.

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Seriously, okay, hold on,
let me hold can I I feel like

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I started that conversation, mam.
I'm serious, Like I was so happy

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with this man, Like I was
just thinking about how good he is to

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me, and I was like cry
and like every day I would thank God

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for him, like so bad,
so bad. So you know when we

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broke up, by it and tell
myself he died, so on the way

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to get over him and did it
work? Yes, wasn't the most healthy

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practice. No, but I've worked
through that. I'm won't have to do

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that again. I went to talk
to the lady. I would I'm better

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now, y'all. I'm better now, so I won't have to worry about

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that. But that's what I have
to do at the time. Marlow b

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X says too many single women and
not enough honest men with their ship together.

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Left handed Jim and I said hey
now, Mike. EVAs two three

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said hey you Uh, it's Devon
one on one said sterring guts after blessing.

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The food is different, But do
we make it to heaven? Yes?

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We do? Okay, thank you
and thank you all right, thank

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you, shot, get on the
mic next time. But the family that

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prays together stays together. Marlo b
X says social media fucked the game up

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and did real bad, real real
bad. Blackbird three five seven says I'm

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still in that one. Not gonna
lie saying too much. Said, I

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say yes, thank you. So
yeah, you know that's life Outfie says

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God smashed a whole married woman Mary
and had a baby and made the husband

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Joseph take care of him. God
cool with guts. Sterring. You know

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what, don't don't you do it
over here? Don't you do it over

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care? Don't you do that?
Are this health that mar Love said?

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Church is not appreciating against homosexuality?
Now how do we get here? What?

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Okay? Okay, we're just we're
going to the next one. Okay.

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So I asked, what made you
choose the person you are with?

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Why are they? You're a number
one? This person said? She black?

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Okay, okay. I don't really
have a lot of pushback for that.

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I mean, you said what you
said. I'm happy that you were

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standing on business and none of my
business. I hope that you enjoy your

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black queen. That's it. That's
it. The next one, she helped

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me believe in love again when I
thought it was just a waste of time.

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I'll never forget that. Oh,
I'll never forget that. I'll never

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forget that. I'll probably like a
little two second falls too, like I'll

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never forget that. I'll never forget
that. It's crazy. You had a

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man say she helped me believe in
love again, and I thought it was

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a waste of time. In hell, ex hell, I'll never forget that.

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What what bro I don't care if
you are married, friends or benefits

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divorce. Like that woman right there, she did some of the U king

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and I love that for you.
I love that for you. I love

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that for you. Sah said that
man speak facts Hollywood, Anderson said niggas

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chatting Black lives matter. A four
said that no sex is fucked shut up.

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Marlo b X said seventy percent of
black women are single. Mother's good

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sex doesn't mean a good father.
Cool cool, And I think that that

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brings me to my next, my
next. I don't know how we got

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there, but I want to say
that they can't you get on the mic

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shot, Just pull the microphone back
to you, please. If you're gonna

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sit like that, just pull the
microphone back to you. I'm sorry.

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Sorry. So the next one,
I asked, what made you choose the

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person that you're with? What made
them you're a number one? And this

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man said, she all that and
the best had I ever got in my

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life, and I know she a
whore. I love her, And you

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know, I just want to repeat
that one more time. I want to

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repeat that one more time. This
man said, she all that and the

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best head I ever had in my
life, and I know she a whore.

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I love her. I commend this
king. I commend this king for

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his honor. I commend this king
for his honest steed. And you know

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what, I'm not gonna lie A
lot of y'all love a whore respectfully,

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respectfully? What this perfectly sums up
twenty twenty three. That's statement right there,

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right right there, Oh y'all,
y'all, I love a horror every

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look, and you know she a
horror and you still love her. I'll

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do the same thing with guys.
We call them boys, Brah, Why

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are we acting like y'all don't love
horse? Aaron n seven three ci they

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call a jabo yo, Like can
we be honest for a second. Big

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Drew says, we don't be knowing? Yes, the fuck y'all do Okay,

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excuse my language as if I have
a cursed nine times or nine thousand

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times, but like y'all do be
knowing. Y'all be liking to pretend or

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overlook or ignore. But y'all know
she hre y'all, homie told you you

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fucked her? Like what is crazy? She just ain't tell you that she

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fucked your homie. But you know, you know your hombie fucked her.

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You saw when you went to your
homie house her phone automatically connected to the

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Wi Fi. You saw that it
was the boy, like don't forget when

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he was wearing them. Geez hey, remember remember you remember when you when

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you saw your boy in the backyard? Brah, Yeah, you still put

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you there? No con right exactly
a free and class Oh no, you

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can we be Can we be honest
for a second and say go him to

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one and two sixs? Loving a
horror is egregious. I love when you

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used big words on here. It
thinks you at home. I love it,

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I love it, I love it. Hollywood. Anderson says, if

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she walk in the church and the
pastor smile. She who who said that

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maybe she on crack. Honestly,
that doesn't automatically mean she come by.

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We're supposed to be in love.
How did we get here? J Colorways

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said, oh, shak definitely loved
Who's marlow? B X says, not

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reading that, you are wilding my
guy. You gotta get it together,

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Get it together, bruh. It
says most horrores got bacterial vegetosis. Exactly.

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That's why I said, I read
it exactly, so I think from

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now on we just listened to Stormy
when she says what she said, thank

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you so the last one, this
one really touched me, y'all. I'm

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not gonna lie when I read this. When I read this, I'm just

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gonna read it. Okay, When
I read this, it feels like he

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touched me on the inside. I
feel like the drawing from fucking but love

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it touch me on the inside part. My man said, it's not who

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they are, it's how I feel
when I'm with them. They feed a

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nigga soul. Oh oh my god, oh my god. See the problem

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is a lot of y'all can cook, but some of y'all never fed a

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nigga soul. You ever fed a
nigga soul? Because that's different. That's

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different. Okay, You ever had
a nigga so fulfilled, so in love,

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so so over the top and full
of joy, happiness, everything that

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he and his mama kitchen yell and
talking about. Shut up, you don't

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know what I gotta do. A
lot of you haven't. A lot of

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you haven't. You don't know what
that feels like and the joy that comes

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with it and all of the things
that that man will do for you and

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how he will pour into you if
you make his cup overflow with Oh my

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god, it's amazing. It's amazing. Didn't stop recording or not. Okay,

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it's amazing, It's really amazing.
Louis B. Slim said, that's

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the worst kind of love. That
just means you got it from a toxic

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person. Honestly, honestly, honestly. J Colorway says, fed a soul?

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Yes, Banks and Banks said,
all about perspective, go hand to

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one two six is bars Hollywood.
Anderson said, basically, she is six

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with good pussy. Why are y'all
like this? What is wrong with y'all

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like today? Y'all are just off
the walls, Off the walls, off

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the walls. That's a good assumption. That's a good little subsuas said Krusty

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top Mech for the soul Hollywood,
Anderson says, talking like you grew up,

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listen to Vicky Wining's I did okay. The Winding Sisters were amazing.

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Thank you very much. Hey miss
the A seven. Uh yeah, man.

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So I do want to point out
though, a lot of these answers,

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especially if we're talking specifically about the
answers for men. When I ask

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like, how did you choose the
person that you choose? Why are they

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you're number one? I got a
lot of the same three answers. It

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was well, same four answers.
It was authenticity. It was authenticity,

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it was reciprocity. They provided a
vibe and they made me laugh. Like

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the majority of people, or men
rather, were more caught up with the

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way that this woman or man made
them feel. Imagine that women we be

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like so focused on our looks and
our body and all these other things.

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It seems like when the men are
choosing, they're choosing women who bring them

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peace. They're choosing women who reciprocate
their energy. They're choosing women who they

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can be themselves with. So,
like, you know, let's maybe not

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be so focused on looks. I
don't know, I'm not telling you to

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go out and let yourself go.
That's not what I'm saying at all.

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I'm just saying that from a woman's
perspective. I know a lot of times

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when we get dressed, we ain't
getting dressed for men. We getting dressed

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so that when we're in the bathroom, the bad bitch can say, oh

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yes hair, oh yes, shoes, Okay, I fit. Maybe we

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should start focusing on how we can
pour into our men as well. I'm

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not saying, you know, do
everything to the wayside. I'm just saying,

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maybe we can start paying attention to
some other things as all when we're

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working on ourselves and how we can
be a good partner, like listening,

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like letting your man get his point
across before you cut them to the folks

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off, like you know, So
just thanks, gleaning, just things to

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think about. That's it. So, you know, I really hate addressing

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these things, but certain things get
under my skin, especially when it's misconstrued,

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and I'm not able to articulate myself. So I just want to touch

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on one thing before we go on
with the rest of the show. So,

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and I'm laughing already because I know
it's just gonna go to the life

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really fast. Okay. So a
clip is going viral of me saying that

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I wouldn't be mad if my man
cheated on me if he came to me

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with the problem first and I didn't
fix it. I know, I know.

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So y'all already know what the internet
said, Okay, pick me,

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shut it's giving very much. Picked
me. But okay, y'all, I

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don't know why it's so hard for
y'all to grasp the concept of men deserve

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to be happy too. For whatever
reason, we're focusing on the cheating part,

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but we're not focusing on the making
your man happy part. Right,

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So a lot of my takes,
people are quick to say it's given very

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much. Pick me. But what
y'all don't understand is I'm a mom raising

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a sun. Okay. So when
my son comes to me and his father

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and says, well, every time
I try to talk to Shorty she cut

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me off, or every time I
come to her with a problem of something,

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she's not listening. Nothing's changing.
I just want her to cook maybe

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once a week. I just want
a nice bath front for me when I

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get home every once in a while. I just want to feel appreciated.

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Now, am I gonna tell him
to cheat? No? But you fucking

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right, I'm gonna tell him to
leave. If SIS isn't making you happy,

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leave, especially in the community where
women are out numbering single heterosexual men

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one of four. If she ain't
doing it, gets who the fuck will

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the next bitch? Okay? Now, am I gonna tell my man to

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cheat? No? I absolutely am
not going to tell my son cheat.

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I'm going to tell him to leave. But in a society where I'm already

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out here and a lot of these
mothers ain't telling they sons that, I'm

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telling you to get your shit together, because the next bitch will. All

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right, So before we jump into
this whole pigmy shit a, let's focus

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on men deserve to be happy too, be less focus on I can only

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control how I'm putting out information to
my son when he comes to me and

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his father with issues control how a
lot of these men was raised. But

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I'm telling you the reality of it. If you don't want to do it,

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there is someone who will, and
you either going step up or step

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off. And I don't think that's
hard to say. I'm taking accountability for

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my actions. My man is coming
to me with problems and I'm not fixing

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it, and now I'm acting surprise
when he's going stepping off. Number one,

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there's never a good reason to cheat, but there's also not a good

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reason to ignore your man's needs.
So where do we meet in the middle.

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We can't just jump straight to he
cheating. Let's also address my man

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isn't happy in this situation, and
that's that's trash. That's trash. I'm

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not saying men of the prize,
not saying women of the prize. A

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relationship is about compromise. You're not
bringing your hat, but you man when

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you want to get it from somebody
else. Make it make sense, Make

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it make sense. Block word three
five seven says female hate accountability. It's

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called accountability. Thanks for holding yourself
accountable. Marlow BX says not true.

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Boo Outfit says she says bitch with
love. I sure do. I always

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say bitch with glove. Yeah,
my bitch is. And if you don't

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like the word bitches, that's cool. But I don't know you personally.

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Know you don't like the word bitches, So what's that bitch? Heavy EC

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says your takes be given accountability.
Nineteen eight six' four FC H seven

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says most females are narcissists. Uh
J. Colorwave says, yep, gotta

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leave. Marlow BX says, well, I'm raising an eighteen year old daughter.

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Heifra tell her to get her shit
together because there's a lot of eighteen

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year old daughters out here. So
if she's not willing to make her man

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happy, she will not have a
committed man. Respectfully. Respectfully Outfishers for

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a badge. Thank you baby,
thank you. Heavy EC says equal happiness

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is the goal. At least it
should be. Marlow b X says Cardi

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b getting cheated on by offset as
we speak. Maybe I'm not reading your

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comments no more. I love you, but I just don't know where you

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are in these conversations, like you
just be on another conversation. I don't

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really know how to interpret what you're
saying. Outfitz says, let me buy

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a badge for big Storm. She
said, fuck y'all. I said what

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I said, let me explain it, and fuck y'all again. From the

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back. Louis b. Slim says, yeah, but you probably should be

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mad if you do it though,
even if it's understandable, y'all, this

404
00:32:47.519 --> 00:32:53.279
is like saying I'm mad because I'm
going to jail because I robbed the bank.

405
00:32:54.640 --> 00:32:59.960
Maybe you rob the bank. You
rob the bank. I don't underst

406
00:33:00.720 --> 00:33:05.559
you knew that when you wrap the
bank, this was a possible consequence.

407
00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:09.799
Okay, and a lot of times
now I just want to say one more

408
00:33:09.880 --> 00:33:15.519
time, there's never a good reason
to cheat, all right, I'm just

409
00:33:15.640 --> 00:33:19.759
saying specifically, if you have a
good man and he's coming to you with

410
00:33:19.839 --> 00:33:23.000
an issue, and it's a reasonable
issue, my man just wanted to dig

411
00:33:23.079 --> 00:33:29.240
it uck every once a while.
Okay, it's not even nothing hard.

412
00:33:30.039 --> 00:33:31.640
My man just wants you to listen
to him before you cut him off and

413
00:33:31.680 --> 00:33:37.039
say it's not that deep. He
not asking for a lot. He not

414
00:33:37.240 --> 00:33:40.319
asking for a lot. At what
point do we acknowledge that men deserve to

415
00:33:40.400 --> 00:33:45.440
be happy too, and stop just
focusing on he cheated? When do we

416
00:33:45.559 --> 00:33:51.880
focus on the why he cheated,
not saying she didn't. Okay, but

417
00:33:52.079 --> 00:33:58.119
sometimes it is preventable. Sometimes sometimes
it's twenty three. Of course, you

418
00:33:58.200 --> 00:34:07.480
can't make sense, and I'm just
saying like no, no, no,

419
00:34:07.119 --> 00:34:14.920
I just and and it really puts
me up because under all like the posts

420
00:34:15.400 --> 00:34:17.159
or on all the tags that people
be giving me, it's like, you

421
00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:21.639
know, well, if you you
you're willing to deal with a cheaters like

422
00:34:21.880 --> 00:34:27.000
I'm not. I'm not talking about
that. I'm not talking about the cheaters.

423
00:34:27.559 --> 00:34:30.039
I'm talking about the man who just
asked you for something reasonable and you

424
00:34:30.079 --> 00:34:36.880
weren't able to provide it. Of
course it was always blurry ass android videos.

425
00:34:37.039 --> 00:34:45.079
Of course, what the fuck your
favorite holiday says? Some people cheat

426
00:34:45.159 --> 00:34:49.400
just to cheat the for real,
I'm not talking about the people who cheat

427
00:34:49.639 --> 00:34:52.639
just to cheat. I'm talking about
the man who's in love with you.

428
00:34:52.199 --> 00:34:55.199
I'm talking about the man who still
chose to marry you even though all his

429
00:34:55.280 --> 00:34:59.440
friends and family told him not to
because you already wasn't making him happy,

430
00:34:59.719 --> 00:35:02.039
because you already wasn't providing him piece, because you already couldn't show up to

431
00:35:02.079 --> 00:35:06.880
the relationship and be an equal partner
and love, honesty, compassion, x

432
00:35:07.000 --> 00:35:09.599
Y, and Z. I'm talking
about those men. I'm not talking about

433
00:35:09.599 --> 00:35:13.360
the one too cheap just to cheat, like you know what I mean?

434
00:35:15.000 --> 00:35:20.400
Through the word you responded to somebody
else, but I didn't see what did

435
00:35:20.440 --> 00:35:22.199
somebody else said? Let me try
to screw up. Let me try to

436
00:35:22.199 --> 00:35:28.280
screw up. What happens when they're
asking for more than they're giving. Hmmm,

437
00:35:30.119 --> 00:35:34.480
if they're asking for more than they're
giving, I'm going to say this

438
00:35:34.679 --> 00:35:38.519
goes back to the compromise being off
kilter. Okay, if they're asking for

439
00:35:38.639 --> 00:35:42.880
more than they're giving, this is
when you give them a chance to express

440
00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:46.159
themselves and then express your needs as
well. Say hey, I don't feel

441
00:35:46.239 --> 00:35:52.800
comfortable doing that for whatever reason.
And while we're here, I al still

442
00:35:52.840 --> 00:35:55.079
got this problem. Okay, how
can I help you? And how can

443
00:35:55.119 --> 00:36:00.000
you help me? How can we
get to a happier place in our relationships?

444
00:36:00.280 --> 00:36:04.880
Yeah? Like you know, like
I agree, let's reset expectations.

445
00:36:05.000 --> 00:36:07.599
I don't. I don't think that's
that's far. It's Devin one on one

446
00:36:07.719 --> 00:36:12.440
says, women get the ring and
forget about everything that comes with the marriage,

447
00:36:12.679 --> 00:36:15.199
sex, men's happiness, everything.
But we're the problem. What's a

448
00:36:15.280 --> 00:36:17.760
man to do? Then? And
I do want to say, like from

449
00:36:17.840 --> 00:36:23.960
a woman's perspective, and this is
even coming from someone who has married friends,

450
00:36:25.320 --> 00:36:30.320
sometimes we get married and we get
comfortable, we get so wrapped up

451
00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:36.440
in our new lives that we'll forget
to be the person whom our partner choose

452
00:36:36.519 --> 00:36:38.519
to spend the rest of our life
with. Am I saying it's right?

453
00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:43.920
Am I saying it's wrong. No, I'm saying that sometimes we forget to

454
00:36:44.000 --> 00:36:45.920
be the person that our partner fell
in love with. And that's fair.

455
00:36:46.119 --> 00:36:52.800
Right, I'm not saying you have
I know that different things come with marriage,

456
00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:58.559
different responsibilities, especially when you know
kids, mortgage, other bills come

457
00:36:58.559 --> 00:37:00.679
into play. I understand that.
Or we have to make sure that we're

458
00:37:00.719 --> 00:37:05.400
still making time to be the person
that our person fell in love with,

459
00:37:05.760 --> 00:37:10.880
because like that's just a part of
honestly growing, you have to sometimes tap

460
00:37:10.960 --> 00:37:16.199
back into that. You may evolved
from fucking Charmander to Chari's art, okay,

461
00:37:16.480 --> 00:37:19.639
but you still got a little chartmand
right there. You know what I'm

462
00:37:19.679 --> 00:37:24.519
saying, Like, come on,
shut up. Shot Outfit says, this

463
00:37:24.599 --> 00:37:28.880
show is about growth. God damn
it, We're all gonna love better from

464
00:37:28.920 --> 00:37:34.079
whichever side you identify as. I
agree. I agree. Big Drew says,

465
00:37:34.239 --> 00:37:38.159
the questions are complicated, but the
answers are simple. Your favorite Holidays

466
00:37:38.199 --> 00:37:42.400
says it's them in one on one. You gotta go, Bro just got

467
00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:47.119
out one of those Jay's Colorway says, oh yeah, the marriage comfort.

468
00:37:49.239 --> 00:37:53.599
I am so active. Anti KB
says I gave eleven years. I'm done.

469
00:37:53.880 --> 00:37:57.239
My man said he did it.
Ben, I'm fucking out of here.

470
00:37:58.679 --> 00:38:05.719
I'm fucking Patrick c. K Well
says, saying less address why he

471
00:38:05.840 --> 00:38:08.880
cheated is a woman's reasoning. If
you really want to solve why men cheat,

472
00:38:09.039 --> 00:38:15.079
understand that biologically men were designed to
have more than one Until you figure

473
00:38:15.159 --> 00:38:17.440
that you're lost. Okay, Well, if you are a man who feel

474
00:38:17.519 --> 00:38:22.400
like biologically, if you are a
man who feel like biologically you were set

475
00:38:22.480 --> 00:38:28.519
up to have more than one wife, find a woman who is comfortable,

476
00:38:28.559 --> 00:38:31.800
but you have more than one wife. And I think that's just reasonable because

477
00:38:32.199 --> 00:38:36.440
when you, in the back of
your mind know that you are not monogamous,

478
00:38:36.800 --> 00:38:42.039
but you choose to pursue, hunt
down, and settle down with a

479
00:38:42.119 --> 00:38:45.960
woman who is, that's not fair
to anyone. That's not accountability. In

480
00:38:46.159 --> 00:38:51.400
that case, you should get the
least amount of sex she wants to fucking

481
00:38:51.440 --> 00:38:54.159
give you, because you knew what
you signed up for when you chose to

482
00:38:54.199 --> 00:38:59.599
go against your innate ability, your
nurture, your nature, whatever the case

483
00:38:59.639 --> 00:39:01.599
may be, and be with this
one woman. That's it. If you

484
00:39:01.639 --> 00:39:07.039
don't want to be one woman,
don't pursue a woman who wants to be

485
00:39:07.159 --> 00:39:09.320
one man. That's easy. I
mean, I thought that was easy.

486
00:39:09.400 --> 00:39:12.480
I thought it was easy to me. I know a lot of people who

487
00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:15.519
do me on on one side,
and I know a lot of niggas.

488
00:39:16.719 --> 00:39:23.760
Mm hmm, no sense shut,
I said, y'all. Outfit says,

489
00:39:23.800 --> 00:39:29.960
where the funk is my rum punch? Because this episode tonight, yeah,

490
00:39:30.000 --> 00:39:37.079
that's probably gonna be the last one
year. Hevy Ac says, nothing wrong

491
00:39:37.119 --> 00:39:40.320
with finding someone that's messed with you
the same way you mess with them.

492
00:39:40.599 --> 00:39:49.559
I agree. Accountability equals love.
Long story short, where's the accountability?

493
00:39:50.239 --> 00:39:53.440
Where is it? Because accountability equals
love? Come on, shot, that's

494
00:39:53.440 --> 00:40:00.719
the pot accountability. Come on?
Count Let me ready down, hold on.

495
00:40:00.039 --> 00:40:10.639
Accountability equals love. All right?
Speaking of love, you know a

496
00:40:10.760 --> 00:40:16.440
lot of times we want what we
can't have. Okay. And with that

497
00:40:16.599 --> 00:40:21.320
being said, I got a very
interesting DM from a young man to day

498
00:40:22.079 --> 00:40:25.320
and it touched my spirit so hard
I felt like I had to go to

499
00:40:25.800 --> 00:40:29.880
outgors Internet and gets your take on
it, because you know, we all

500
00:40:29.960 --> 00:40:32.480
have our different views, our different
opinions, and sometimes how I feel might

501
00:40:32.559 --> 00:40:37.639
not be how y'all feel. Just
like me taking accountability for my man cheating.

502
00:40:37.679 --> 00:40:38.400
If he told me he wants his
dick stuff once the weekend, I

503
00:40:38.480 --> 00:40:42.960
was talking. That's not important.
It's not important. It's not important,

504
00:40:43.000 --> 00:40:50.440
not important. So this man says, I have a question. Is it

505
00:40:50.639 --> 00:40:55.239
bad for a guy at my age
still being a virgin without choice? I've

506
00:40:55.320 --> 00:41:01.079
never smoked crap. That's not what
I said. It says I don't know

507
00:41:01.079 --> 00:41:15.920
why crack was on my brain.
That's crazy, shine, Come on much

508
00:41:16.039 --> 00:41:23.760
rather shine? You say that much
bother crack? It says, yeah,

509
00:41:23.760 --> 00:41:30.840
I'm crying there. It tastes my
eyes. It says, give me how

510
00:41:30.840 --> 00:41:36.280
I grew up? Though? What
the us? It says I've never smoked,

511
00:41:36.840 --> 00:41:39.559
dranked, or slept with anyone,
and I feel embarrassed about it.

512
00:41:42.920 --> 00:41:45.000
I want you to know. I
put a typo there and it says cranked,

513
00:41:45.239 --> 00:41:51.960
So in my mind it read never
smoked crack. Let's read it again.

514
00:41:52.400 --> 00:41:55.760
It says, I have a question, is it bad for a guy

515
00:41:55.800 --> 00:42:01.320
in my age still being a virgin
without choice. I've never smoked, drank,

516
00:42:01.639 --> 00:42:09.159
or stuck with anyone, and I
feel embarrassed, y'all. First black

517
00:42:09.199 --> 00:42:15.199
word three five seven say, he's
definitely scaring those I just wanna say,

518
00:42:15.559 --> 00:42:19.800
I did aks some follow up questions
and he was saying too long answer,

519
00:42:19.920 --> 00:42:22.559
so I kind of stoped the page
and got the answer. So he's twenty

520
00:42:22.599 --> 00:42:29.159
seven. How do you feel about
this? Right? So of course I

521
00:42:29.239 --> 00:42:31.519
put it out set Internet, put
it on my stories, and the answers

522
00:42:31.559 --> 00:42:37.840
that I got were interesting. So
one says, nah, he gotta skip

523
00:42:37.960 --> 00:42:43.800
doing those things immaturely. He got
to skip doing those things immaturely, and

524
00:42:43.960 --> 00:42:47.039
now he can do them in a
healthy way on his terms. And I

525
00:42:47.199 --> 00:42:51.760
just wanna say, that's a really
good point, because no, t no

526
00:42:51.880 --> 00:42:57.760
shade. A lot of us smoke, drank and bump bellies way earlier than

527
00:42:57.800 --> 00:43:01.320
we should have, and we weren't
able to truly appreciate the things that come

528
00:43:01.360 --> 00:43:07.559
along with it, or don't honestly. The next one says, I'm glad

529
00:43:07.639 --> 00:43:13.480
he did. I wish I would
have valued my virginity better and not like

530
00:43:13.599 --> 00:43:16.119
something to just get rid of.
And this goes back to what I was

531
00:43:16.199 --> 00:43:22.360
just saying, Like a lot of
the answers were men saying they wish they

532
00:43:22.400 --> 00:43:25.679
would have waited, like not even
women. Not one woman said they wish

533
00:43:25.760 --> 00:43:30.039
they would have waited, but the
men, they all were like, yo,

534
00:43:30.559 --> 00:43:31.679
I just wish I would have moved
like I was surprised and I went

535
00:43:31.719 --> 00:43:34.480
and gave it up for X,
Y and Z, and I wish it

536
00:43:34.559 --> 00:43:39.079
was something I could have shared with
my special person like so as a weird

537
00:43:39.639 --> 00:43:45.000
as a weird. Jke Wade says
nothing wrong with trying to be healthy Money

538
00:43:45.039 --> 00:43:52.079
Blue Fame, Blue Gang says women
love a man with experience. Big Drew

539
00:43:52.159 --> 00:43:57.679
says, I wish I would have
waited, honestly, Kaminie no Nagere says

540
00:43:57.840 --> 00:44:01.679
true, I'm so active. E
n t KB says he's given me forty

541
00:44:01.760 --> 00:44:07.440
year old version vibes JX and he
says he's putting the pussy on the pedestal.

542
00:44:08.400 --> 00:44:13.239
Outfit says, who's pressuring this man? Who's making him feel embarrassed?

543
00:44:13.519 --> 00:44:17.599
It's like Big Mic from the wood
Picks not Taking says Yes, there are

544
00:44:17.719 --> 00:44:22.360
days I wish I would have waited. J Color says my timing was just

545
00:44:22.519 --> 00:44:23.880
right for me. I love this
for you. I'm happy for you.

546
00:44:24.760 --> 00:44:29.400
Only one sin says, not enough
people talking about how we should be waiting

547
00:44:29.480 --> 00:44:34.199
until marriage. Man, listen,
I feel like for all the regret that

548
00:44:34.360 --> 00:44:38.960
we see in these answers, it's
obvious that the wrong message will being applied

549
00:44:39.000 --> 00:44:42.199
to us at the time. And
you know, I blame them. Corney

550
00:44:42.239 --> 00:44:45.840
has spunky old heads that made it
seem like this shit was hot. It's

551
00:44:45.920 --> 00:44:51.760
not okay. The next answer,
let's be real and say he's noble,

552
00:44:52.119 --> 00:44:55.840
but my man wants some cat.
I agree, I agree. So if

553
00:44:55.880 --> 00:45:04.440
you're just joining this person says,
I have a question, is it bad

554
00:45:04.519 --> 00:45:07.360
for a guy in my age,
he's twenty seven to still be a virgin

555
00:45:07.440 --> 00:45:10.679
without choice. I've never dranked,
smoked, or slept with anyone, and

556
00:45:10.719 --> 00:45:15.960
I feel embarrassed about it. So
the next answer, this cat must not

557
00:45:15.079 --> 00:45:19.199
have friends. I couldn't let my
bro go out like that. We could

558
00:45:19.280 --> 00:45:22.800
hire him some cat, and you
know what, just hire him some plasity.

559
00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:28.800
This is just adds to our problem. This adds to a problem because

560
00:45:28.800 --> 00:45:30.599
a lot of y'all thought y'all was
the man when your old head, your

561
00:45:30.679 --> 00:45:35.519
dad, your big uncle, whoever
took you to a lady of the night

562
00:45:35.719 --> 00:45:38.440
to get your first piece of cat, not knowing that whole time you were

563
00:45:38.519 --> 00:45:43.760
being taken advantage of. You are
you are? And that's why instead of

564
00:45:43.800 --> 00:45:46.360
getting into a relationship, you're hopping
from woman to woman to woman, taking

565
00:45:46.400 --> 00:45:50.119
them for their sexual pleasures because it's
the only time you get to express yourself,

566
00:45:50.119 --> 00:45:52.199
because you don't have anyone pillow.
Talking is the only way you get

567
00:45:52.199 --> 00:46:01.800
to release. Right. Soone says, you're a man that has restraint and

568
00:46:01.880 --> 00:46:07.880
discipline, stay true to yourself,
nothing to be embarrassed about. First,

569
00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:14.159
I just wanna say, is it
really restraint? If he said without choice,

570
00:46:15.360 --> 00:46:17.480
that's a part that we're all missing
here. There were women in the

571
00:46:17.519 --> 00:46:22.719
answer saying, yo, drop a
pick. I can change that. I

572
00:46:22.800 --> 00:46:27.440
can make him feel good. I
can get him by right that. There

573
00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:30.880
were the men on the other side
saying, pay, you can pay,

574
00:46:30.400 --> 00:46:36.239
you can pay for the USAD Right
then there were other people on the other

575
00:46:36.360 --> 00:46:40.159
side saying, no, he's noble, he he knows his worth. He's

576
00:46:40.199 --> 00:46:45.000
not selling down with just anyone.
But we have to pay attention to the

577
00:46:45.079 --> 00:46:51.719
part where he said without choice.
Right now, I can sit here and

578
00:46:51.880 --> 00:46:55.320
acknowledge that I understand why he might
feel embarrassed about that. You know how

579
00:46:55.440 --> 00:47:04.360
much pressure society puts on promiscuality for
men, especially puts on promiscuality having a

580
00:47:04.480 --> 00:47:07.840
million sexual partners. Considered being the
man because you get to hit every bad

581
00:47:07.880 --> 00:47:12.239
bitch in the hood, because you
get to hit any hooch in any bitch

582
00:47:12.320 --> 00:47:15.760
in your hood. Right, So
I understand why he would say, like,

583
00:47:15.840 --> 00:47:17.679
yo, I feel embarrassed about it. I'm not getting I'm not getting

584
00:47:17.719 --> 00:47:23.079
what society says I have to be
the man to get or like what makes

585
00:47:23.199 --> 00:47:27.480
me the man? You know what
I mean. So I also want to

586
00:47:27.519 --> 00:47:34.320
say, my man wants some pussy, Like, yeah, he wants some

587
00:47:34.360 --> 00:47:37.079
pussy, Like he hear all that
shit I'm saying, Like he's noble,

588
00:47:37.199 --> 00:47:39.199
he's honorable, you know, he
has all the things going for himself and

589
00:47:39.280 --> 00:47:43.719
something special he could save for his
wife. My man wants some pussy,

590
00:47:43.800 --> 00:47:47.199
my man said, without choice,
which means he's not doing it because he's

591
00:47:47.199 --> 00:47:52.199
saving himself for the lord, or
he's saving himself for his wife. He's

592
00:47:52.400 --> 00:47:57.440
actively trying to get some poonanni and
it is not coming. That is frustrating.

593
00:47:57.920 --> 00:48:01.719
That is so frustrating to want some
thing that you can't grasp. That's

594
00:48:01.920 --> 00:48:07.119
wild. That's wild, right,
And I would like to say, does

595
00:48:07.199 --> 00:48:10.400
being a version make you weird or
something you should be embarrassed about? No,

596
00:48:10.920 --> 00:48:14.599
but I understand why you will be
frustrated if it's something you want and

597
00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:16.960
you can't get Like, I get
that. I'm a thought spera sick get

598
00:48:17.039 --> 00:48:22.360
that. I mean, do I
think you're weird? No? If we

599
00:48:22.480 --> 00:48:24.599
put a black light in your room, is the sheets and the walls probably

600
00:48:24.599 --> 00:48:28.800
going to light up like the fourth
of July? Yes, but I don't

601
00:48:28.840 --> 00:48:31.519
think that's weird, right, And
there are a bloody women who don't think

602
00:48:31.519 --> 00:48:42.320
they're rare. My suggestion to you
would be listen to the responses that the

603
00:48:42.400 --> 00:48:45.519
women you have approached, try to
build with, etc. Have given you.

604
00:48:46.480 --> 00:48:52.960
Go to therapy and bring to your
therapists the responses that these women have

605
00:48:52.079 --> 00:48:55.639
at getten to you, because there
is something that you need to work through.

606
00:48:57.159 --> 00:48:59.239
It does not make you corny,
it does not make you weird,

607
00:48:59.280 --> 00:49:01.320
it does not make you a lane. There's just a block that you need

608
00:49:01.400 --> 00:49:06.119
to work through. That's it,
and it's all I mean. If you're

609
00:49:06.199 --> 00:49:08.800
moving with intentions because you're said,
it's something without choice, so it's not

610
00:49:08.880 --> 00:49:13.599
something you're saving for marriage. If
you work on yourself and move with intentions.

611
00:49:13.679 --> 00:49:15.719
I one thousand percent believe you can
get some cat. Sure, sure,

612
00:49:16.119 --> 00:49:23.199
sure bumping balliss just for you.
Go hand to one two six says

613
00:49:23.599 --> 00:49:28.280
tell him to watch How to Be
a Player. Don't watch that, don't

614
00:49:28.280 --> 00:49:32.440
watch that. Your favorite holiday says, is he looking for a woman out

615
00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:37.159
of his lead? That's why I
said, take the answers that the women

616
00:49:37.320 --> 00:49:40.400
that you've approached have given you and
take it to your therapist. Take the

617
00:49:40.519 --> 00:49:45.280
answers that the women who you have
approached or who you have tried to work

618
00:49:45.360 --> 00:49:47.800
with, Take the answers they've given
you, and take it to your therapist,

619
00:49:47.920 --> 00:49:52.159
because she will help he or she
will help you work through whatever this

620
00:49:52.320 --> 00:49:58.280
disconnect is that you may be having
block work three five seven says, tell

621
00:49:58.280 --> 00:50:00.880
them to start listening the future.
Don't that. Don't listen to that.

622
00:50:01.239 --> 00:50:07.480
Nope, not that. Aaron Nash
seven three says, damn son, getting

623
00:50:07.519 --> 00:50:10.960
pussy today is easy, and that's
why he feels embarrassed, honestly, because

624
00:50:12.039 --> 00:50:15.920
y'all are on the internet talking about
how getting pussy is so easy. But

625
00:50:16.079 --> 00:50:22.960
you know what, honestly, I
forget what the exact stats are, but

626
00:50:22.320 --> 00:50:29.159
we live in the lowest sexually active
society ever, Like if you compare this

627
00:50:29.679 --> 00:50:32.800
to like ten fifteen years ago,
our numbers are way lower than what the

628
00:50:32.880 --> 00:50:39.639
average is. So somebody's lying.
Somebody's lying. Bruh, y'all saying,

629
00:50:39.719 --> 00:50:43.599
y'all out here knocking if you bucking
bumping bellies till the sun come up.

630
00:50:43.639 --> 00:50:46.960
But somebody's lying, because the stats
show somebody's lying. I don't care how

631
00:50:47.000 --> 00:50:50.760
many babies you see being born every
day. Somebody lying. They're from the

632
00:50:50.800 --> 00:50:54.159
same tall people. It's Future in
the Cannon and Kiki Mining's that's it.

633
00:50:54.599 --> 00:50:59.800
That's it Wyat, her name's whir. And they're from the same tall people.

634
00:51:00.159 --> 00:51:02.440
Nick Cannon, Future and Keke Wyatt. That's it. That's it.

635
00:51:04.320 --> 00:51:09.079
They lion, They lion. Bertie. Bertie says, some woman like to

636
00:51:09.119 --> 00:51:14.920
get carried. It works, trust
me. Who what the fuck is calling

637
00:51:15.039 --> 00:51:23.360
me? Your favorite holiday says it's
gotta be more than this because so much

638
00:51:23.480 --> 00:51:28.400
coucy out here. Ain't no way
he's getting nobody. A lot of y'all

639
00:51:28.480 --> 00:51:31.559
getting nobody. Don't feel bad,
my guy. All these people talking about

640
00:51:31.559 --> 00:51:37.679
they bumping bellies, they not okay, It's just him and palmela. That's

641
00:51:37.760 --> 00:51:42.400
it. You definitely want to be
a quality of a quantity. Bruh.

642
00:51:42.920 --> 00:51:46.639
If getting if having interactions with the
opposite sex was so easy, you wouldn't

643
00:51:46.679 --> 00:51:52.719
hear men on the internet every day
complaining about the rules yes or no,

644
00:51:52.360 --> 00:51:59.280
yes or no exactly. So don't
be too worried on yourself. Just take

645
00:51:59.320 --> 00:52:02.599
your answers that you've gotten from women, take it to a therapist and work

646
00:52:02.679 --> 00:52:06.199
through it with a therapist. Don't
send a nothing nose on the internet except

647
00:52:06.239 --> 00:52:10.000
for me. All right, guys, So now we're going to get into

648
00:52:10.159 --> 00:52:15.239
our edible portion of the show.
So the edible portion is when we read

649
00:52:15.360 --> 00:52:19.400
questions, comments, stories that you
guys send, and usually on the day

650
00:52:19.440 --> 00:52:22.480
that we record, I put up
a prompt on my stories for you guys

651
00:52:22.519 --> 00:52:25.440
to send in your stories, your
questions, your comments. If whatever you

652
00:52:25.519 --> 00:52:30.400
have to say is too long,
you can always d M me or you

653
00:52:30.480 --> 00:52:37.039
can email me at inquiries at stormypea
dot com. So the first question,

654
00:52:38.840 --> 00:52:42.480
y'all get on my fucking mirrors.
First of all. I just want to

655
00:52:42.480 --> 00:52:45.639
say that, and I say this
with love. Y'all just get on my

656
00:52:45.679 --> 00:52:49.960
nerves. So the first question,
when females toss and turn and they sleep.

657
00:52:50.960 --> 00:52:58.840
Do that mean they cuchi itchin?
Uh? Who raised you? People

658
00:53:00.039 --> 00:53:05.800
who raised you? People like I
really need to know what w like?

659
00:53:06.000 --> 00:53:10.360
What did y'all go through in your
childhood that y'all be asking these questions.

660
00:53:14.800 --> 00:53:24.639
I'm gonna go to the next question
next. Hm. It's telling a girl

661
00:53:24.760 --> 00:53:32.159
happy birthday cheating while in a relationship, And I'm gonna ask that again.

662
00:53:34.559 --> 00:53:39.119
It's telling a girl happy birthday,
cheating while in a relationship. If you

663
00:53:39.360 --> 00:53:45.880
tell a woman happy birthday and your
girl says that you are cheating, leave

664
00:53:45.920 --> 00:53:58.480
her she's cheating on you, respectfully. Make sure that's not your ex's.

665
00:53:58.559 --> 00:54:01.280
Make sure there's not some girl that
if you texting and blaw large told not

666
00:54:01.360 --> 00:54:15.880
to that's fair, That's fair.
I'm sorry. Okay, So to clarify,

667
00:54:15.960 --> 00:54:20.480
if this is not someone you were
previously in a relationship with, if

668
00:54:20.519 --> 00:54:23.400
this is not someone you actually know, if this is a co worker,

669
00:54:23.880 --> 00:54:28.440
if this is someone you just seeing
in past it with a happy birthday balloon.

670
00:54:28.920 --> 00:54:32.880
If this woman is accusing you of
cheating and it's someone you have no

671
00:54:34.039 --> 00:54:37.840
personal connection with, more than likely
she's sheating and she has guilty conscience and

672
00:54:37.880 --> 00:54:40.320
she's putting on you, and I
don't care. I said what I said.

673
00:54:42.800 --> 00:54:45.239
Seriously, nine times out of ten, when you have a partner who

674
00:54:45.519 --> 00:54:52.960
is just wildly just accusing you of
cheating for no reason whatsoever, nine times

675
00:54:52.000 --> 00:54:55.920
out of ten they are cheating and
they have a guilty conscience. It's it's

676
00:54:57.079 --> 00:55:04.000
it's brain science, Google it,
it's real. The city man, it's

677
00:55:04.039 --> 00:55:08.480
city man. Jake Kelorways says,
I remember some ex's birthdays through the wire,

678
00:55:08.559 --> 00:55:14.280
said shots Fire. Kung stud says, it depends how many whys you

679
00:55:14.360 --> 00:55:16.920
put on that happy birthday? Is
that really a thing? Because I've seen

680
00:55:17.000 --> 00:55:21.400
that, Like, don't put no
extra wise on my man happy birthday?

681
00:55:22.480 --> 00:55:28.679
What the fuck? See, that's
why I'm singing exactly. That's why I'm

682
00:55:28.719 --> 00:55:31.719
single, because the nigga put nine
wives on a happy birthday for a bitch,

683
00:55:31.800 --> 00:55:36.880
and I'm like, I don't care. I don't care, Like I

684
00:55:37.000 --> 00:55:39.920
really don't care because guess who.
Guess guess who hugging his balls from the

685
00:55:39.960 --> 00:55:45.440
back at night? Me me,
me, me, Okay, So I

686
00:55:45.480 --> 00:55:47.159
don't care how many wives he put
in your happy birthday? Says all right,

687
00:55:47.920 --> 00:55:57.320
I don't I'll be seeing it on
Facebook. Girls, will be putting

688
00:55:57.360 --> 00:56:00.920
on their status, like before y'all
start, my man birthday coming up.

689
00:56:00.320 --> 00:56:06.360
Here are the rules. Don't put
no extra wise in his happy birthday.

690
00:56:07.039 --> 00:56:09.519
Don't tell him you hope he has
a good day. He's with me,

691
00:56:09.679 --> 00:56:13.519
so he's already going to have a
good day. Like I'll be seeing all

692
00:56:13.559 --> 00:56:19.320
this stuff and I'm like, y'all
crazy, you're crazy, You're crazy.

693
00:56:19.519 --> 00:56:22.760
Maybe I'm not crazy enough. Maybe
I'm single because I'm just not crazy enough.

694
00:56:23.079 --> 00:56:27.519
Maybe I got to de learn all
the things the lady taught me and

695
00:56:27.559 --> 00:56:32.280
then I'll find a man. Maybe
that's it. The next one, this

696
00:56:32.519 --> 00:56:37.159
was actually a good one. So
this one says, how do you talk

697
00:56:37.239 --> 00:56:45.280
to your partner about sexual needs like
how it's lacking consistency. It's a good

698
00:56:45.320 --> 00:56:47.960
one. It's a good one.
It's a good one. I wanna read

699
00:56:49.000 --> 00:56:53.039
it again. How do you talk
to your partner about sexual needs like how

700
00:56:53.159 --> 00:57:01.480
it's lacking consistency? This is a
and I say it's a hard one because

701
00:57:01.599 --> 00:57:07.559
we live in a society where instead
of telling your partner your needs aren't being

702
00:57:07.679 --> 00:57:12.039
fulfilled sexually, you tell your group
chat, you tell your homeboy, you

703
00:57:12.159 --> 00:57:15.960
tell your homegirls, and you know
who never finds out your partner. Okay,

704
00:57:16.519 --> 00:57:21.599
you just catch an attitude. You
start arguing about how the fucking microwave

705
00:57:21.719 --> 00:57:23.679
always on high when you come in
the house. You're a pressure cooker.

706
00:57:23.760 --> 00:57:28.400
You're certing arguments that don't make sense
because you're not resolving their original issue.

707
00:57:28.679 --> 00:57:30.599
Every time there's beef in my store, I have to ask my employee.

708
00:57:30.960 --> 00:57:34.400
So when you went to Miss Jameson
told her to dra have a problem with

709
00:57:34.440 --> 00:57:37.880
her? What she said? They're
always looking and be like go to missis

710
00:57:40.639 --> 00:57:45.039
maybe you should go to Miss Jane's
and talk to her. Yeah. Yeah,

711
00:57:45.639 --> 00:57:50.280
And a lot of times these are
things that can be fixed so easily,

712
00:57:50.719 --> 00:57:52.400
so easily. Now, just to
give context, this question was sent

713
00:57:52.480 --> 00:57:57.079
in by a man. So I
know talking to women isn't the easiest thing

714
00:57:57.159 --> 00:57:59.760
to do all the time. I
have noticed it. I hear you,

715
00:58:00.599 --> 00:58:06.679
I receive it. I understand right. But I one thousand percent will bet

716
00:58:06.760 --> 00:58:10.559
my life that having this conversation with
her now is better than the conversation you're

717
00:58:10.599 --> 00:58:14.960
gonna have with her after you cheat, because you're not getting consistent sex.

718
00:58:15.280 --> 00:58:20.119
And if she's a row on,
then she's gonna understand. She's gonna be

719
00:58:20.199 --> 00:58:22.119
on the same page. You're not
gonna have to worry about that. That's

720
00:58:22.159 --> 00:58:25.559
how you find out, actually this
may be a touch from God. Outfit

721
00:58:25.719 --> 00:58:30.119
says, turn to them and yo, be good. And that's as far

722
00:58:30.159 --> 00:58:36.920
as it goes. That's not,
that's not that's not as far as Kungstun

723
00:58:36.960 --> 00:58:40.800
says, approach it from a place
of care, ask questions. House inspector

724
00:58:40.880 --> 00:58:45.320
says, sit down and have a
grown up conversation. Jake Callaway says,

725
00:58:45.840 --> 00:58:52.119
damn dry dick syndrome, money,
Blue Flame, Blue Gang says a guy

726
00:58:52.239 --> 00:59:00.400
putting massive amounts of Why that must
have been a heavy birthday. So when

727
00:59:00.440 --> 00:59:05.440
we talk about how do we approach
these conversations, right, approach it from

728
00:59:05.480 --> 00:59:09.760
a place of care, understanding and
compassion. Right? Am I telling you

729
00:59:10.320 --> 00:59:13.400
that you should just go up to
him, be like, yo, bitch,

730
00:59:13.440 --> 00:59:15.440
we ain't had sex in three days? What the fuck is going?

731
00:59:15.559 --> 00:59:21.039
No? Nope, that's not it, that's not it. All right?

732
00:59:21.800 --> 00:59:28.159
Instead say hey, how are you
feeling? Are we good? Is there

733
00:59:28.239 --> 00:59:31.360
any way I can step up and
do something that I'm not doing? Are

734
00:59:31.440 --> 00:59:36.119
you satisfied? Are you happy?
Are you being taken care of? If

735
00:59:36.159 --> 00:59:40.280
she responds yes, then you respond
with Okay, do you have space for

736
00:59:40.440 --> 00:59:45.000
me to talk to you about something? Okay? If she says yes,

737
00:59:45.840 --> 00:59:51.400
then you go into hey, I
would like more of? That's it just

738
00:59:51.480 --> 00:59:54.239
that simple. Is there a way
that we can get to a place where

739
00:59:54.320 --> 00:59:58.440
I can have more of? Is
there a way where we can get to

740
00:59:58.480 --> 01:00:04.559
a place where we can do more? Like? Always give her the opportunity

741
01:00:04.639 --> 01:00:07.559
to express herself because you don't know
she might not want to bump bellies with

742
01:00:07.639 --> 01:00:12.320
you because she mad about something you
did two weeks ago. You're oblivious to

743
01:00:13.079 --> 01:00:15.760
give her a chance to explain herself. Not on the flip side of that,

744
01:00:16.360 --> 01:00:24.119
ladies, I know that when men
don't initiate sometimes it attacks our womanhood

745
01:00:24.400 --> 01:00:28.840
and it makes us not want to
participate. We can't live in that space.

746
01:00:29.360 --> 01:00:31.480
We can't live in that space.
We can't live in that space because

747
01:00:31.519 --> 01:00:37.760
you know what, men like to
get moist too, mkay. Sometimes they

748
01:00:37.880 --> 01:00:42.400
want you to initiate. Now,
what if you're in a space where you're

749
01:00:42.480 --> 01:00:44.559
in your head like, oh,
he must don't want me x Y and

750
01:00:44.719 --> 01:00:46.159
Z. When sometimes I ye,
oh, my brother don't want to start

751
01:00:46.159 --> 01:00:52.480
at all the time. Sometimes you
want you to start it like huh,

752
01:00:53.280 --> 01:01:00.880
Okay, like it's hard because when
women think of some women think of them

753
01:01:01.000 --> 01:01:07.119
initiating sex, like just pull it
out. That's not it, that's not

754
01:01:07.280 --> 01:01:09.840
it. Don't just women out like
people herman in a movie theater. Don't

755
01:01:09.880 --> 01:01:14.679
do that. Don't do that.
Sometimes men want to be like you know,

756
01:01:21.159 --> 01:01:24.559
men like four plate two you know. Yeah, like am I saying

757
01:01:24.599 --> 01:01:29.119
that's what's happening in this situation.
Now, I'm just saying, ladies,

758
01:01:29.119 --> 01:01:34.320
please remember that. Gimme it likes
to be you know, touched felt.

759
01:01:35.400 --> 01:01:45.199
Yeah. Through the wire says please, ma'am, Matt have some more yo

760
01:01:47.079 --> 01:01:52.559
through the wire? Uh yo,
come on, not all the Oliver twists?

761
01:01:52.639 --> 01:01:58.159
Can I have some more? Y'all
are crazy, crazy, loaded Caralone

762
01:01:58.199 --> 01:02:01.360
says, give her more of your
money. You will get more of y'all

763
01:02:01.480 --> 01:02:05.519
know how that goes. Not all
the time, not all the time.

764
01:02:05.639 --> 01:02:10.559
Because if that was the case,
money's gonna buy a good If that was

765
01:02:10.599 --> 01:02:15.280
the case, you went and hear
so many men calling other men sense for

766
01:02:15.400 --> 01:02:17.599
giving out money but not getting kuccy. So I just want to say that's

767
01:02:17.639 --> 01:02:22.400
not always case. The money doesn't
always do it respectfully. J Colorway says

768
01:02:22.519 --> 01:02:29.400
say in Hope Face War Search now, y'all get on the nerds out there

769
01:02:29.480 --> 01:02:32.400
says, write a letter shows commitment
and you took time to get your emotions

770
01:02:32.440 --> 01:02:36.360
out, and it prevents you from
saying things that you don't realize. It's

771
01:02:36.559 --> 01:02:40.280
nothing more in words and text messages
we've say. But here's my whole thing,

772
01:02:40.440 --> 01:02:44.880
right, that's a lot. Writing
a letter is a good way to

773
01:02:45.039 --> 01:02:49.119
get all of your thoughts, emotions, and feelings out. Even if you

774
01:02:49.159 --> 01:02:52.760
don't give it to her, writing
a letter is still a good therapeutic exercise

775
01:02:53.000 --> 01:03:00.920
one thousand percent. What if you
found the letter? What if you found

776
01:03:00.960 --> 01:03:04.480
the letter that he was gonna write
to you about your inconsistent sex but he

777
01:03:04.599 --> 01:03:07.960
never said it to you? Would
you would you bring it up? I

778
01:03:07.000 --> 01:03:12.480
would be so, But you know
what, I'm a poem like with you

779
01:03:12.639 --> 01:03:14.840
just work through it and then he
didn't need to feel they need to bring

780
01:03:14.880 --> 01:03:16.679
it up. Or maybe he just
said what you said. He just had

781
01:03:16.760 --> 01:03:20.519
it as a let me get my
thoughts together, and then he just never

782
01:03:20.840 --> 01:03:23.400
maybe worked yourself out, he never
had to up there. I still would

783
01:03:23.400 --> 01:03:27.000
be sad because I'm a pomee.
It's like, Babe, I wasn't making

784
01:03:27.079 --> 01:03:30.800
you happy. I would be so
sad, like my man wasn't happy,

785
01:03:30.920 --> 01:03:34.440
y'all, And then in my mind
it's like, yo, my man not

786
01:03:34.599 --> 01:03:37.000
happy. It's a bit y'all,
dear who got a one up on me?

787
01:03:37.519 --> 01:03:40.400
Like I would internalize that so bad, like seriously, like if my

788
01:03:40.519 --> 01:03:45.639
man is ever not happy, please
come tell me. Okay, if my

789
01:03:45.840 --> 01:03:51.480
man is not happy, please come
tell me when your man over there kick

790
01:03:52.280 --> 01:03:58.679
bruh, bruh. Seriously, I
would be so upset, like and don't

791
01:03:58.719 --> 01:04:01.159
let me fould out you told another
woman, Oh my god, oh you

792
01:04:01.320 --> 01:04:06.280
letting these women get a one up
on me? What? I would be

793
01:04:06.519 --> 01:04:11.719
so sad. I would internalize that
and I would throw a fit, like

794
01:04:11.840 --> 01:04:15.679
I would eat so much ice cream
because like, damn baby, what hot

795
01:04:15.719 --> 01:04:23.880
make you feel safe? That's wow? Like that's wow to me, Like

796
01:04:24.000 --> 01:04:28.159
that's crazy because I really be trying. I think it's more so because I'd

797
01:04:28.159 --> 01:04:31.159
be trying. Maybe that goes into
like my perfectionalism or just like you know,

798
01:04:33.119 --> 01:04:39.079
I'm just saying I would be so
sad. I would be so saying

799
01:04:40.000 --> 01:04:45.440
my next question, next question,
next question, how do you feel about

800
01:04:45.599 --> 01:04:57.800
star gazing slash picnic for our second
or third date? I'm gonna say it

801
01:04:57.960 --> 01:05:09.840
again, right, how would you
feel about stargaze and slash picnic for our

802
01:05:09.960 --> 01:05:16.000
second third date? Y'all, I
will be wet. I'm not gonna I

803
01:05:16.239 --> 01:05:19.000
would be wet. I would be
wet, right, Like, first of

804
01:05:19.000 --> 01:05:23.920
all, I'm a nerd and I
know about constellations. So like if you

805
01:05:24.039 --> 01:05:28.480
took me, like to some big
open part with like blanket on the ground

806
01:05:28.760 --> 01:05:33.159
and like a laser pointer, Like, Bro, what I guess who's getting

807
01:05:33.199 --> 01:05:42.079
it? Dick sucked? Wow?
Okay, and I'm gonna tell you why

808
01:05:42.239 --> 01:05:45.599
right A, you're listening. B
you took the time to craft something specifically

809
01:05:45.679 --> 01:05:50.599
catered to me. One thing women
love is things that are specific to them,

810
01:05:51.199 --> 01:05:58.840
Like brow much you cost pack me
a laser pointer? Let me show

811
01:05:58.840 --> 01:06:01.639
you the big differ? What you
know about the Queen's chair? Let me

812
01:06:01.719 --> 01:06:05.400
show you like what time of year
is it? Let me show you what

813
01:06:05.519 --> 01:06:11.079
constellations are out right now? Bruh, bruh, Like what let me show

814
01:06:11.079 --> 01:06:13.639
your Mayan's belt. It's cool.
All you gotta do is just go off

815
01:06:13.679 --> 01:06:16.159
the different like, Bro, I
am going to nerd out and I'm gonna

816
01:06:16.159 --> 01:06:20.159
have an amazing time, right,
and just want to give a few little

817
01:06:20.199 --> 01:06:25.440
protests. Okay, First, if
you live in a city, this probably

818
01:06:25.480 --> 01:06:28.719
wouldn't be a good date because there's
so much light pollution. I told you,

819
01:06:28.800 --> 01:06:30.360
I'm about to nerd out real quick. If you live in a big

820
01:06:30.480 --> 01:06:33.440
city, it's probably not going to
be a good date because there's so much

821
01:06:33.519 --> 01:06:36.760
light pollution you can't really see everything. But if you live in like the

822
01:06:36.880 --> 01:06:41.400
suburbs, the mountain is like somewhere
where you don't have a bunch of street

823
01:06:41.480 --> 01:06:44.239
lights. This is so romantic and
so cool, Like, I love this

824
01:06:44.360 --> 01:06:46.000
idea. Maybe even get like a
little bit of glass a line or something.

825
01:06:46.039 --> 01:06:51.159
I'm like, bro, what guess
who's getting sucked off under the stars?

826
01:06:51.880 --> 01:06:56.119
You my guy? You my guy
do some shit. I like like

827
01:06:56.199 --> 01:06:59.679
that. Hell yeah, hell yeah, hell yeah. He won't to get

828
01:06:59.719 --> 01:07:03.599
married. What's just too But like, come on, I liked it.

829
01:07:04.239 --> 01:07:14.280
I like that a lot, so
guarant Keith Harris says, orian don't have

830
01:07:14.440 --> 01:07:18.320
nothing on this belt I'm wearing,
y'all. Come on, come on,

831
01:07:18.800 --> 01:07:23.159
y'all. J color Away says,
y'all will need to be in the country.

832
01:07:23.239 --> 01:07:27.320
Can't do that in Philly. Yeah, I agree. Kami No Nigars

833
01:07:27.480 --> 01:07:32.000
says some champagne is better some cheese, little tsunami with some crackers. Loaded

834
01:07:32.079 --> 01:07:35.960
Carleone says, you can't take a
space cadet to look at the night sky.

835
01:07:36.119 --> 01:07:41.360
They won't understand A breezy two three, five seven says, damn it,

836
01:07:41.400 --> 01:07:49.920
where my pointer at a Loaded Carleon
says there's levels to this. H

837
01:07:50.360 --> 01:07:57.800
J Colorways says picnic under the stars. Loaded Carleon says that's something I have

838
01:07:58.000 --> 01:08:02.880
done, but you can only do
that with a smart woman. Guarantkee Parris

839
01:08:02.960 --> 01:08:10.719
says it stars in Philly, y'all
so annoying, comming. Non gard says

840
01:08:11.079 --> 01:08:15.760
I've done it, and it's a
great date. Through the wire says Shark

841
01:08:15.800 --> 01:08:20.800
qchi board and he spelled it shark, just so you know, shark shark.

842
01:08:23.680 --> 01:08:26.239
Hold on, I'm trying to read
in the north. Fest toomy Man

843
01:08:26.359 --> 01:08:31.720
says from essay and you like morning
radio Halla, Uh yeah, okay,

844
01:08:31.880 --> 01:08:34.840
So yeah, that's that's a good
idea for me. If you are in

845
01:08:34.960 --> 01:08:38.880
the country and you're in a space
where there aren't a lot of street lights

846
01:08:38.920 --> 01:08:43.840
slash like pollution, I think this
is a really good idea, especially if

847
01:08:43.920 --> 01:08:45.600
she's a nerd. I love it, and I don't only say nerd,

848
01:08:45.680 --> 01:08:53.399
just if she's into learning things like
even like google what constellations are like in

849
01:08:53.520 --> 01:08:58.520
your area for you to see for
that time of year, and like research

850
01:08:58.600 --> 01:09:01.399
them, identified them on your own, and then when you go out to

851
01:09:01.600 --> 01:09:05.279
like said little date, little picnic, little eunder a night star, azing

852
01:09:05.479 --> 01:09:09.840
right, take your little pointer where
you be pointing ambitious, I'll yo,

853
01:09:10.640 --> 01:09:14.560
even if you're not intelligent, she's
going to think you're the smartest fan in

854
01:09:14.640 --> 01:09:16.319
the world. Like you're gonna get
so many cool points for that, Like

855
01:09:16.840 --> 01:09:20.119
I don't care if you graduate high
school. Get me under the stars and

856
01:09:20.159 --> 01:09:23.640
you pull your point around and you
start like, oh, let's make a

857
01:09:23.680 --> 01:09:31.840
bill nye. Okay, I know
bill n y'all seriously, so yeah,

858
01:09:32.119 --> 01:09:40.880
pay attention. Next one, how
do you plan to ring in the New

859
01:09:40.960 --> 01:09:45.560
Year? What? Oh? How
do you plan to ring in the New

860
01:09:45.640 --> 01:09:53.000
Year? Y'all? Want to kiss? I want to kiss? I'm gonna

861
01:09:53.079 --> 01:09:58.600
kiss. I haven't. I haven't
had a kiss on the New Year since

862
01:10:00.560 --> 01:10:04.920
I don't know. I don't know
if me and my last boyfriend ever stayed

863
01:10:05.119 --> 01:10:09.359
up to New Year's cause we was
like grown ups, real bad, like

864
01:10:09.439 --> 01:10:14.800
we had a responsibility and shit.
The boyfriend before that, like in twenty

865
01:10:15.239 --> 01:10:18.520
fifteen, twenty sixteen. We went
to like a New Year's party one year

866
01:10:18.600 --> 01:10:21.680
and I got a kiss. Okay, so I just wanna pivot real fast.

867
01:10:23.199 --> 01:10:25.840
Never mind, I'm not gonna pivot
real fast. I'm not gonna pivot

868
01:10:25.840 --> 01:10:30.640
real fast. I'm gonna save that
for shot after the show. So mm

869
01:10:30.319 --> 01:10:33.960
yeah, man, I didn't get
my Mansion pajamas this year, so I'm

870
01:10:34.000 --> 01:10:38.039
hoping to at least get a kiss
on New Year's Eve. I'll be at

871
01:10:38.119 --> 01:10:41.560
U, MEI and R and B. So if you over six two and

872
01:10:41.640 --> 01:10:45.039
you got a pretty small and gold
chain finding the the ball driver, no,

873
01:10:45.159 --> 01:10:47.399
don't do that. That's not consent. I did not give consent.

874
01:10:47.439 --> 01:10:49.720
Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that.

875
01:10:49.800 --> 01:10:53.319
Don't do that. But yeah,
I didn't get my mans of jamas

876
01:10:53.319 --> 01:10:55.560
this year, so I'm hoping I'll
a least get it. I kiss at

877
01:10:55.600 --> 01:11:00.920
midnight, and you know what,
speaking of massion pajamas, Speaking of matching

878
01:11:01.079 --> 01:11:09.640
pajamas, I seen y'all in y'all
funky ass matching pajamas. I don't hit

879
01:11:09.680 --> 01:11:13.359
me up. Don't hit me up. I seen you and your funky little

880
01:11:13.399 --> 01:11:16.039
family and your magic pajamas. Don't
hit me up, Okay, please don't.

881
01:11:16.520 --> 01:11:20.079
I'm good. I'm good. I
don't care what you would just maybe

882
01:11:20.239 --> 01:11:25.399
working through I don't care. I
was just there for my kids. I

883
01:11:25.640 --> 01:11:28.640
just spent the night for my kids. I don't really mess with her like

884
01:11:28.760 --> 01:11:31.840
that for real. I don't care. Get out my face, Get out

885
01:11:31.920 --> 01:11:44.279
my face. Please? Thank you. Next one, uh, what are

886
01:11:44.399 --> 01:11:48.720
things to get my wife back comfortable
after a year of toxicity and one year

887
01:11:48.840 --> 01:12:02.239
separation? I felt like me and
sho one back to basics. Oooh,

888
01:12:02.760 --> 01:12:10.359
all right, let's let's start say. Okay, what are things to get

889
01:12:10.439 --> 01:12:15.520
my wife back comfortable after a year
of toxicity in one year separation? My

890
01:12:15.640 --> 01:12:17.840
boy, you gotta start over.
Yeah, you gotta start over. And

891
01:12:17.960 --> 01:12:21.720
you know what, I see people
on a live talking about why divorce that

892
01:12:21.840 --> 01:12:28.399
woman gone counseling. Respectfully, if
whatever you went through in this past year

893
01:12:28.560 --> 01:12:30.680
chose you to realize that your wife
is the one for you, and you

894
01:12:30.800 --> 01:12:33.800
may have worked on yourself in this
year x Y and Z, I commend

895
01:12:33.840 --> 01:12:38.920
you for that, but I want
you to know you have to start from

896
01:12:38.920 --> 01:12:41.399
the beginning. You are not been
gard fathered in. I don't care what

897
01:12:41.560 --> 01:12:46.399
y'all have went through during your marriage. This one year is one year starting

898
01:12:46.479 --> 01:12:50.079
back over your ag zero. My
guy, you are courting from the beginning.

899
01:12:50.439 --> 01:12:55.920
You have to go back to sending
good morning texts, dating with intention,

900
01:12:56.439 --> 01:13:00.159
being consistent, making plans, and
following through with the plans. Don't

901
01:13:00.159 --> 01:13:01.640
care how many kids y'all get.
I don't care if y'all have mortgage together.

902
01:13:01.640 --> 01:13:04.479
I don't care about nothing of that. You have to start from the

903
01:13:04.560 --> 01:13:14.760
beginning and show proof and give her
your consistity, your consistency, consistency it

904
01:13:14.960 --> 01:13:18.119
is we've been for a while.
Fuck yup, I can stutter. Okay,

905
01:13:18.399 --> 01:13:21.680
this is a long ass episode.
You have to give her your consistency

906
01:13:23.760 --> 01:13:27.399
like you were someone she has never
dated before. I also think that you

907
01:13:27.479 --> 01:13:30.760
guys can benefit from therapy. Hopefully
during this year you have going to therapy

908
01:13:30.840 --> 01:13:34.680
on your own, and now you
can move into therapy with her. I'm

909
01:13:34.840 --> 01:13:41.960
always team get your family back,
but you also have to acknowledge there may

910
01:13:42.000 --> 01:13:44.680
be things that she went through in
this year. They may cause her to

911
01:13:44.840 --> 01:13:47.039
not want your asspect. I don't
know what happened, but it was a

912
01:13:47.119 --> 01:13:49.640
year full of toxicity. I don't
know if it was on you or her.

913
01:13:50.159 --> 01:13:55.920
All I'm saying is you want to
start from beginning. You wanna start

914
01:13:55.960 --> 01:14:02.039
from beginning. The Hungry HDC says, gotta stay to it, regardless of

915
01:14:02.119 --> 01:14:06.079
the rejection and lack of response.
Grit. Yeah, you gonna have to

916
01:14:06.119 --> 01:14:09.159
try, My boy, You're gonna
have to stick in there, stick in

917
01:14:09.239 --> 01:14:14.439
there. That's hayvy Ac says,
it's fourth quarter you down sixty. Got

918
01:14:14.600 --> 01:14:18.800
she from the parking lite? Uh
Lorder Carlyone says, just let her go.

919
01:14:19.000 --> 01:14:21.479
No, don't let her go.
Don't let her go. If that's

920
01:14:21.520 --> 01:14:25.479
your if you want your woman,
fight for your woman. Am I saying

921
01:14:25.479 --> 01:14:28.319
you're gonna? Am I saying you're
gonna get your woman? No, but

922
01:14:28.439 --> 01:14:32.720
you're gonna have to fight. Yeah, yeah yeah. J Callawaye says,

923
01:14:33.039 --> 01:14:36.600
Lol is he willing to do all
that? I don't know. I don't

924
01:14:36.640 --> 01:14:41.439
know. Hungry HD says it's a
long road ahead, my boy. A

925
01:14:41.560 --> 01:14:45.560
Breezy two three five seven says marriage
is forever, plenty of ups and downs.

926
01:14:45.640 --> 01:14:49.000
I agree, I agree. U
A Breezy two three five seven says

927
01:14:49.039 --> 01:14:55.319
if you really love her, try
marriage ain't gonna be easy. Lord of

928
01:14:55.359 --> 01:14:59.560
Carleone says, a good therapist clever. Cory says, time and more time.

929
01:15:00.119 --> 01:15:04.279
See man were here standing behind you. Jake Cowaway says, hello,

930
01:15:04.359 --> 01:15:10.920
Well, chis the ring like a
yeah, man, from one lover to

931
01:15:11.000 --> 01:15:14.560
another. If you want your woman, go get your woman. But it's

932
01:15:14.600 --> 01:15:17.840
gonna be a long road ahead,
so typen up your bootstraps and get ready

933
01:15:17.840 --> 01:15:20.000
to go through the trenches, because
my boy, you are starting from the

934
01:15:20.079 --> 01:15:25.279
beginning, all right, and she
won't give you some pushback, and you

935
01:15:25.399 --> 01:15:29.119
just gotta love her through it.
Love her through it as long as there

936
01:15:29.199 --> 01:15:33.279
is not a PFA involved, Love
her through it for sure, all right.

937
01:15:33.319 --> 01:15:38.800
So that's recap. Today we talked
about a lot and talk about a

938
01:15:38.840 --> 01:15:42.680
lot of love, you know what
I'm saying, and how accountability equals love,

939
01:15:43.039 --> 01:15:45.520
and how a lot of y'all be
frightening like y'all want these women on

940
01:15:45.680 --> 01:15:48.680
our wards Internet. The thing y'all
was in my story today telling me how

941
01:15:48.760 --> 01:15:54.199
much y'all love these women, and
I love that for you. My son

942
01:15:54.239 --> 01:15:58.479
wants to be new new from atl
so bad, okay, And you gotta

943
01:15:58.479 --> 01:16:00.720
listen to the beginning of the episode. If you're hear I'm hoping you did

944
01:16:00.800 --> 01:16:10.680
already. Authenticity reciprocity and providing a
vibe is what a majority of the men

945
01:16:11.880 --> 01:16:15.640
noted as why they chose the person
that they are with. I'm not a

946
01:16:15.720 --> 01:16:19.199
pick me. And when I tell
y'all that men deserve to be happy to

947
01:16:19.760 --> 01:16:24.239
it's because I have a son.
And when he tells me his woman isn't

948
01:16:24.279 --> 01:16:28.079
treating him right, I'm gonna tell
him to leave. Now. I can't

949
01:16:28.119 --> 01:16:30.920
control how a lot of the men
out here was raised, but I'm just

950
01:16:30.960 --> 01:16:33.359
telling you how I'm bringing the next
generation step up. Or your man that's

951
01:16:33.359 --> 01:16:38.920
going to leave, that's it,
and that's all. Or cheat. Not

952
01:16:39.039 --> 01:16:41.439
my son, though, not my
son, Not my son. These niggas

953
01:16:41.479 --> 01:16:44.159
out here, These niggas out here
going cheap. My son gonna leave,

954
01:16:44.199 --> 01:16:48.600
but these niggas out here going cheap. Next, we helped a twenty seven

955
01:16:48.680 --> 01:16:55.439
year old version. We probably didn't
help a twenty suit We probably didn't have

956
01:16:55.520 --> 01:16:58.359
a twenty seven year old version.
But we gave a lot of our opinions.

957
01:16:58.479 --> 01:17:01.279
And hopefully he understands that he isn't
weird, but he just has some

958
01:17:01.439 --> 01:17:08.800
work to do. Next. Oh, I also want to say last week

959
01:17:09.199 --> 01:17:12.279
that guy who I said I was
gonna buy him some red wings. Y'all,

960
01:17:12.279 --> 01:17:15.079
remember that he didn't DM me.
I told him to d m me

961
01:17:15.359 --> 01:17:19.439
his shoe size and his address so
I could send him a pair of red

962
01:17:19.479 --> 01:17:29.079
wings, and he didn't. So
no shy. It was crazy, y'all

963
01:17:29.119 --> 01:17:30.560
be talking all the ship one alive. And then when I'd be like,

964
01:17:30.680 --> 01:17:34.720
yo, okay, dm me to
get your ship, d m me to

965
01:17:34.880 --> 01:17:39.359
like do your stuff, and y'all
never do what's up with that? Because

966
01:17:40.199 --> 01:17:43.199
scammers low key, but I'm sending
you something. I'm not asking you for

967
01:17:43.279 --> 01:17:49.359
anything. I'm sending you something well
whatever. Just know I was looking for

968
01:17:49.439 --> 01:17:55.640
it because I low key wanted to
using for content because y'all be thinking I

969
01:17:55.680 --> 01:17:58.279
don't be sending people slept but people
really just be scared to give me the

970
01:17:58.319 --> 01:18:02.439
address or po box or whatever the
case. Maybe HAA A breezy two three

971
01:18:02.520 --> 01:18:05.840
five seven says wait, you got
a kid? When I missfaed Yeah,

972
01:18:05.880 --> 01:18:09.600
fuck y'all, Fuck y'all, fuck
y'all. I'm gonna be posting my son

973
01:18:09.640 --> 01:18:11.960
because people, yo, real fast, did I'll tell you why I don't

974
01:18:11.960 --> 01:18:15.479
post my son. Somebody popped up
on my son at school in his school.

975
01:18:16.119 --> 01:18:18.880
So like when I started getting popular, I know. I know.

976
01:18:19.399 --> 01:18:25.000
When I started getting popular, I
developed a code system with my son.

977
01:18:25.119 --> 01:18:28.079
We have a phrase. If somebody
says they know me or they try to

978
01:18:28.159 --> 01:18:30.479
take you, asks them what the
phrase is. If they don't know the

979
01:18:30.479 --> 01:18:35.760
phrase, they don't know me.
Right. So it was a nigga who

980
01:18:35.840 --> 01:18:41.079
worked at my son's school and he
was like, Yo, I know your

981
01:18:41.119 --> 01:18:43.600
mom blah blah blah blah blah.
And my son is like, oh word,

982
01:18:43.680 --> 01:18:45.119
what's the phrase. He's like,
ain't no phrase, Like you know,

983
01:18:45.199 --> 01:18:47.439
I just know her. Just this, I did not know this man.

984
01:18:48.000 --> 01:18:53.039
Didn't know this man from a canda
fucking pay. So my son goes

985
01:18:53.079 --> 01:18:58.520
on haywire and tells like one of
the lunch aids and the school like calls

986
01:18:58.600 --> 01:19:00.399
me like, hey, I just
want to you know, somebody approached LEVI.

987
01:19:00.920 --> 01:19:03.199
He told us he didn't feel saved
blah blah blah blah blah. And

988
01:19:03.319 --> 01:19:06.560
yeah. So now I very rarely
post my son. You might see him

989
01:19:06.600 --> 01:19:12.520
like on his birthday, but don't
post no wrong. But y'all gonna get

990
01:19:12.560 --> 01:19:18.199
these stories cause he ain't shit.
That's crazy. So yeah, Also,

991
01:19:18.359 --> 01:19:24.199
a boy did not DM me for
his shoes his red wings. We also

992
01:19:24.479 --> 01:19:30.079
decided that a stargazing date is so
cool and so lovely and I hope everyone

993
01:19:30.119 --> 01:19:35.920
gets experienced. And yeah, man, talking to your partner instead of going

994
01:19:35.960 --> 01:19:40.760
to your friends is very important as
well as well. And yeah, that's

995
01:19:40.800 --> 01:19:45.560
it also alone forget February seventeenth,
Philly. We are at World Cafe Live.

996
01:19:45.920 --> 01:19:48.479
Clicked the link in my bio for
tickets. I'm bringing some of my

997
01:19:48.600 --> 01:19:53.159
friends and it's going to be crazy. And stay tuned because the next two

998
01:19:53.239 --> 01:19:56.720
weeks, well the next one week
now, we're gonna be releasing more dates

999
01:19:56.720 --> 01:19:59.079
and I can't wait to see you
guys. You also can see me pop

1000
01:19:59.159 --> 01:20:03.439
up on tonight's convers Stations tour.
I didn't get my Sydney ship, so

1001
01:20:03.520 --> 01:20:05.479
I can't really give you all information
but that. But yeah, we're gonna

1002
01:20:05.479 --> 01:20:09.359
say damn, you gonna send me
to the other ship, and yeah,

1003
01:20:09.359 --> 01:20:11.840
my message is always gonna be the
same. Follow me on the Gram at

1004
01:20:11.880 --> 01:20:15.680
Story, p p e A at
Chocolate Chip and sip. I am fighting

1005
01:20:15.760 --> 01:20:17.439
a burp so bad right now.
And if you don't remember anything else,

1006
01:20:17.520 --> 01:20:25.000
please remember uh fuck these kids.
I love you and I see next. Peace U