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but whatever, we got it. We got it. We got it.
Listen, I just want to talk to you about my week a little
bit real fast. Don't want to take up too much of the time.
I just want to say, fuck these kids. Now that Christmas is over,
now that the holidays have passed, fuck these kids, okay. And
I'm gonna start this by saying, my son want to be new, new
from atl so bad. He want to be new, new from atl so
bad. And the reason I say that is because my son has braids now,
so right before Christmas, I'm braiding this hair, and you know,
I'm standing over him so I can see what he's doing in his phone,
and he is watching videos on YouTube from the same man to back to back
to back to back the whole time I'm doing his hair. He's only watching
one man's videos. And I'm gonna start by saying, shout out to deta
No. Okay, this man is a YouTuber. He's very popular. His
name is d ta No. Now, the reason that I say my son
want to be new now from atl so bad is because all of DTA Know's
videos is him and his friend dressed in a bonnet in a row pretending to
be their mother's giving them whippings. All of this man's videos is about how
moms be whipping their kids. Ask and he had variations. It was from
the son's point of view, it was from the mom's point of view.
It was from you know, my little sister be snitching on me, so
fuck her two point of view. Right now, here's the part that got
me. My nigga, you only had like two whoops is in your life.
Now I'm offended. Now I'm offended, And I think I was even
more offended because this nigga giggling and shit, he having a good time.
And all the videos are covers to popular songs, like the one he ran
back like four times. It was called belt to Butt, but it was
a cover of back in Bloody y'all. I feel offended. I feel offended
because, like I said, my nigga, you've only gotten like two whoopings
in your father has never given you a woman. They both came from me.
So the fact that all these videos is about the mom whoompan is ass.
I'm like, bro, you want to be down so bad? What
is this you don't live this life for real. And now I'm like,
I gotta beat this nigga. Ass h. No, the last time I
even put my hands on them then even whoo, I just yoked them up.
You know what I mean. That's a yoking up is not considered a
whooping, y'all considered bruh. I don't know what he considered a whooping.
He really was going through this ship like he being the trenches too, and
it's like, yo, j j X Anthony says, you got to point
to prove. Now I'm not gonna hold you. I said this niggas tested
me. This niggas tested me, Yo. He real ship. I'm like,
yo, I've seen people in your class get they ass whooped. They
can watch these videos and left you can't and ship punny to you. You're
pussy for real, Like, oh ship, bro Clever Corey says, Nah,
yoking in a whooping, thank you, it's not a whooping. I'm
not gonna lie. The part that hurt the most is like him giggling you
standing in littery with this shit like no. I can tell. I can
tell by the way his eyebrows was lifting when he was laughing. My man
felt like this ship was funny, So should I whoop his ass or not?
Y'all? Now I didn't. I'm trying to get my words together because
I want to figure out how I'm going to say something to him, because
it's like a part of me want to know what's so funny. J X
Anthony says, it ain't real until the mom pull up to the school to
whoop your ass and send you back to class. That was that was one
of the videos. I ain't gonna hold you like. He had a bunch
of videos and that was one of them. Leo flex Fit said, Nah,
he was like, it couldn't be me. Okay, okay, okay,
okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay,
let's go back, Let's go back, Let's go back, because my man
might have just pointed something mouse to me because I I didn't think about it
like that. In my mind, he was calling me pussy okay. But
maybe, like you said, he was laughing because he was like, damn,
my mother has way more control than that. My mother doesn't partake in
y'all abuse. Maybe maybe shot said that. As Capitol says, that's good,
just whooping. I used to get two or three a day. Outfit
says, you send him down like Nino Brown at the long table? Were
you okay? Okay? Right right right, okay talking about somebody here.
If y'all got kids, ask your kids if they know detail? No,
okay? And then I want y'all to even look up on YouTube this guy
and let me know and my tripping for being offended. I'm I'm gonna take
it as like the person said, I'm gonna take it as he was looking
at it like nah, couldn't be me. But part two coming too.
That's all I'm gonna say. I think I still am going to ask him,
yo, what the fuck is so funny? But you know, yeah,
stay tuned. My Bugsman five says, my mama has a lot more
control than that. Sounds a like like my mama is a pussy. This
is why I'm scared of What if you think I'm pussy? Y'all? What
if I didn't went and talked to the lady and now he think I'm pussy?
Like can we that could be a thing. That can be a thing.
No money, Blue Fame Glue Gang says, he's thinking you got it,
you got it bad? Cut your voice, y'all get on my nerves.
Jay Horwitz PG says we should just whoop dtailed ass. Hold on,
I agree, you know what I'm gonna send that nigga a D. I
did shout him out. I did show him out, and he has like
a pretty large problem. So y'ah we have an internet war. What we're
doing. No, I'm just I'm just showing you that's we're doing. That's
not I say. I'm just yoking, but detail. I want you to
know. If I talked to my son this week and he says he thinks
I'm pussy, we're gonna have to have a talking just saying that right there.
Listen, somebody gonna get this ass whooping, right shot. It's deeven
one on one says a light Mic Tyson. Right hook won't hurt Leo flex
Fint said, whoop that trick. I just felt like he was trying to
be normal from ato because like, bitch, you not down, you don't
get whoopings, Like the fuck you should play the mom in one of his
videos. That's a good idea of my books. Mean five, let me
see what happens, hey, sir, Rasha and I Lee, what's up?
What's up? What's up? So yeah, now let's get to the
break of a podcast. I want to talk to y'all a lot, because
last week I talked about how it was just so much neck activity on the
Internet, and I really want to see some more love. Like. I
don't know if it's because I'm just in a different season in my life or
what, but like, the negative shit just don't serve me no more.
I don't want to hear about men and women wanting back and forth talking about
who not shit the most. I don't want to do that, right,
I just want to focus on a good feeling. Some nineties are and b
shit like, cause I know it's still good women out there, it's still
good men out there, like, so let's just put more of that on
our worst Internet. That's what I want to see, That's what I wanna
feel, That's what I wanna hear. Right, So I got thinking to
myself, we're all in these different phases of life, but we're still attracted
to who we want to be attracted to. People are still falling in love
every day, People are still getting married every day. So I ask myself,
hmm, what do people like about their partner? Whether you're married,
single, friends with benefits like just hooking up, dating, whatever, What
is it about your person that made you choose them as your person? We
all have our different reasons. So I went to al Gore's Internet and I
asked them, and I'm not gonna lie, y'all men be out here talking
so heavy, but y'all is so in love and I love it. I
love it. The answers that I got gave me so much joy, Like
y'all really playing so for the internet, like y'all do in front of your
friends, but y'all be loving on these women real bad, real bad.
Listen. Yes, So I wanted to read y'all. Some of the answers
I got that really, you know, gave me a tingle in my cringle.
Okay, so the first one he said, oh actually, this one
was actually from a woman. She says he's the most intentional man I've ever
met, and I love that for her. You ever ran into somebody who
was just intentional with every move they made, like everything they did they had
a raison behind it. When you have come from a long line of fuck
boys, shit like that will set your soul on fire. And I tell
no lies, I tell no lots. Something like that will set you on
fire. Out bruh, bruh. Right, So the next one, I
think the rest of these, the rest of these are from me. The
rest of these are from me. So the next one. They matched the
consistency and were consistent with their own stated goals. Felis, did y'all hear
me? Did y'all hear me? This man said he chose his woman because
they matched the consistency and were consistent with their own stated goals. Because it's
nothing like you get with a woman and all of a sudden your goals become
hurdles. It's nothing like you get with a woman and all of a sudden
your friends become her friends, your plans become her plans, and everything that
you do she gotta do. She no longer has her own personality, she
no longer has her own goals and dreams. It's just whatever my man wanna
do. Like y'all remember coming to America when for Zykina was like, what
do you like to do? And she's like, whatever you like to do?
Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, oh my
god, oh my god. Okay, ladies, I know, y'all,
be thinking that being compliant is what's gonna get you chosen. But that shit
is annoying. Bitch. What do you wanna eat? Bitch? Where do
you wanna go? Like? That's not it, that's not it. I
know you wanna make yourself a blank palate so that you're open to more suitors.
But trust me, that's not the way to go. It's not the
way i'm'a go. Uh. Aaron Nash Chevin three says a consistent man makes
her a cucci throw. A consistent man makes any woman's cucci pulsate. Okay,
it gives it a heartbeat. Just that's what it do when you are
consistent. That's what it does to the women. Okay, it's what it
does. Marlow b X says being on the same page as a plus.
Mike Evis two three says I have such a question in you. Sorry I
didn't read before I said it. My bad, But yeah, man,
consistency, because I'll be trying to like, you know, shut up,
all right? The next one. Because I asked for a woman that would
love me faults at all, then God give bract her for me. Come
on, somebody, come on, somebody. I asked what made you choose
the woman that you chose or the man that you chose, And why are
they your number one? And this man says, because I asked for a
woman that would love me faults in all, and then God give for me.
Congratulationships Tarry's voice, because God, damn, God damn. He sounds
like the type that be praying for you too. Must be nice. No,
really, because y'all ever had like somebody pray for you, Like y'all
ever had somebody who pray for you and then stir your guts afterwards. The
Lord knows my heart. The Lord knows his heart. The Lord knows what
we be doing when we don't be in church on Sunday. The Lord knows
what we be doing when we don't be at Wednesday night service. The Lord
knows what we be doing when we don't be at Bible studies. So y'all
just don't be doing okay, all right? So so, but what I'm
saying is like, have you ever had somebody like you go to somebody with
a problem and they intention only pray for you, or like they intentionally like
mention you and their talks with God on a regular basis. Who I'm not
gonna lie. That's why I had to tell myself that my ex died.
Seriously, okay, hold on, let me hold can I I feel like
I started that conversation, mam. I'm serious, Like I was so happy
with this man, Like I was just thinking about how good he is to
me, and I was like cry and like every day I would thank God
for him, like so bad, so bad. So you know when we
broke up, by it and tell myself he died, so on the way
to get over him and did it work? Yes, wasn't the most healthy
practice. No, but I've worked through that. I'm won't have to do
that again. I went to talk to the lady. I would I'm better
now, y'all. I'm better now, so I won't have to worry about
that. But that's what I have to do at the time. Marlow b
X says too many single women and not enough honest men with their ship together.
Left handed Jim and I said hey now, Mike. EVAs two three
said hey you Uh, it's Devon one on one said sterring guts after blessing.
The food is different, But do we make it to heaven? Yes?
We do? Okay, thank you and thank you all right, thank
you, shot, get on the mic next time. But the family that
prays together stays together. Marlo b X says social media fucked the game up
and did real bad, real real bad. Blackbird three five seven says I'm
still in that one. Not gonna lie saying too much. Said, I
say yes, thank you. So yeah, you know that's life Outfie says
God smashed a whole married woman Mary and had a baby and made the husband
Joseph take care of him. God cool with guts. Sterring. You know
what, don't don't you do it over here? Don't you do it over
care? Don't you do that? Are this health that mar Love said?
Church is not appreciating against homosexuality? Now how do we get here? What?
Okay? Okay, we're just we're going to the next one. Okay.
So I asked, what made you choose the person you are with?
Why are they? You're a number one? This person said? She black?
Okay, okay. I don't really have a lot of pushback for that.
I mean, you said what you said. I'm happy that you were
standing on business and none of my business. I hope that you enjoy your
black queen. That's it. That's it. The next one, she helped
me believe in love again when I thought it was just a waste of time.
I'll never forget that. Oh, I'll never forget that. I'll never
forget that. I'll probably like a little two second falls too, like I'll
never forget that. I'll never forget that. It's crazy. You had a
man say she helped me believe in love again, and I thought it was
a waste of time. In hell, ex hell, I'll never forget that.
What what bro I don't care if you are married, friends or benefits
divorce. Like that woman right there, she did some of the U king
and I love that for you. I love that for you. I love
that for you. Sah said that man speak facts Hollywood, Anderson said niggas
chatting Black lives matter. A four said that no sex is fucked shut up.
Marlo b X said seventy percent of black women are single. Mother's good
sex doesn't mean a good father. Cool cool, And I think that that
brings me to my next, my next. I don't know how we got
there, but I want to say that they can't you get on the mic
shot, Just pull the microphone back to you, please. If you're gonna
sit like that, just pull the microphone back to you. I'm sorry.
Sorry. So the next one, I asked, what made you choose the
person that you're with? What made them you're a number one? And this
man said, she all that and the best had I ever got in my
life, and I know she a whore. I love her, And you
know, I just want to repeat that one more time. I want to
repeat that one more time. This man said, she all that and the
best head I ever had in my life, and I know she a whore.
I love her. I commend this king. I commend this king for
his honor. I commend this king for his honest steed. And you know
what, I'm not gonna lie A lot of y'all love a whore respectfully,
respectfully? What this perfectly sums up twenty twenty three. That's statement right there,
right right there, Oh y'all, y'all, I love a horror every
look, and you know she a horror and you still love her. I'll
do the same thing with guys. We call them boys, Brah, Why
are we acting like y'all don't love horse? Aaron n seven three ci they
call a jabo yo, Like can we be honest for a second. Big
Drew says, we don't be knowing? Yes, the fuck y'all do Okay,
excuse my language as if I have a cursed nine times or nine thousand
times, but like y'all do be knowing. Y'all be liking to pretend or
overlook or ignore. But y'all know she hre y'all, homie told you you
fucked her? Like what is crazy? She just ain't tell you that she
fucked your homie. But you know, you know your hombie fucked her.
You saw when you went to your homie house her phone automatically connected to the
Wi Fi. You saw that it was the boy, like don't forget when
he was wearing them. Geez hey, remember remember you remember when you when
you saw your boy in the backyard? Brah, Yeah, you still put
you there? No con right exactly a free and class Oh no, you
can we be Can we be honest for a second and say go him to
one and two sixs? Loving a horror is egregious. I love when you
used big words on here. It thinks you at home. I love it,
I love it, I love it. Hollywood. Anderson says, if
she walk in the church and the pastor smile. She who who said that
maybe she on crack. Honestly, that doesn't automatically mean she come by.
We're supposed to be in love. How did we get here? J Colorways
said, oh, shak definitely loved Who's marlow? B X says, not
reading that, you are wilding my guy. You gotta get it together,
Get it together, bruh. It says most horrores got bacterial vegetosis. Exactly.
That's why I said, I read it exactly, so I think from
now on we just listened to Stormy when she says what she said, thank
you so the last one, this one really touched me, y'all. I'm
not gonna lie when I read this. When I read this, I'm just
gonna read it. Okay, When I read this, it feels like he
touched me on the inside. I feel like the drawing from fucking but love
it touch me on the inside part. My man said, it's not who
they are, it's how I feel when I'm with them. They feed a
nigga soul. Oh oh my god, oh my god. See the problem
is a lot of y'all can cook, but some of y'all never fed a
nigga soul. You ever fed a nigga soul? Because that's different. That's
different. Okay, You ever had a nigga so fulfilled, so in love,
so so over the top and full of joy, happiness, everything that
he and his mama kitchen yell and talking about. Shut up, you don't
know what I gotta do. A lot of you haven't. A lot of
you haven't. You don't know what that feels like and the joy that comes
with it and all of the things that that man will do for you and
how he will pour into you if you make his cup overflow with Oh my
god, it's amazing. It's amazing. Didn't stop recording or not. Okay,
it's amazing, It's really amazing. Louis B. Slim said, that's
the worst kind of love. That just means you got it from a toxic
person. Honestly, honestly, honestly. J Colorway says, fed a soul?
Yes, Banks and Banks said, all about perspective, go hand to
one two six is bars Hollywood. Anderson said, basically, she is six
with good pussy. Why are y'all like this? What is wrong with y'all
like today? Y'all are just off the walls, Off the walls, off
the walls. That's a good assumption. That's a good little subsuas said Krusty
top Mech for the soul Hollywood, Anderson says, talking like you grew up,
listen to Vicky Wining's I did okay. The Winding Sisters were amazing.
Thank you very much. Hey miss the A seven. Uh yeah, man.
So I do want to point out though, a lot of these answers,
especially if we're talking specifically about the answers for men. When I ask
like, how did you choose the person that you choose? Why are they
you're number one? I got a lot of the same three answers. It
was well, same four answers. It was authenticity. It was authenticity,
it was reciprocity. They provided a vibe and they made me laugh. Like
the majority of people, or men rather, were more caught up with the
way that this woman or man made them feel. Imagine that women we be
like so focused on our looks and our body and all these other things.
It seems like when the men are choosing, they're choosing women who bring them
peace. They're choosing women who reciprocate their energy. They're choosing women who they
can be themselves with. So, like, you know, let's maybe not
be so focused on looks. I don't know, I'm not telling you to
go out and let yourself go. That's not what I'm saying at all.
I'm just saying that from a woman's perspective. I know a lot of times
when we get dressed, we ain't getting dressed for men. We getting dressed
so that when we're in the bathroom, the bad bitch can say, oh
yes hair, oh yes, shoes, Okay, I fit. Maybe we
should start focusing on how we can pour into our men as well. I'm
not saying, you know, do everything to the wayside. I'm just saying,
maybe we can start paying attention to some other things as all when we're
working on ourselves and how we can be a good partner, like listening,
like letting your man get his point across before you cut them to the folks
off, like you know, So just thanks, gleaning, just things to
think about. That's it. So, you know, I really hate addressing
these things, but certain things get under my skin, especially when it's misconstrued,
and I'm not able to articulate myself. So I just want to touch
on one thing before we go on with the rest of the show. So,
and I'm laughing already because I know it's just gonna go to the life
really fast. Okay. So a clip is going viral of me saying that
I wouldn't be mad if my man cheated on me if he came to me
with the problem first and I didn't fix it. I know, I know.
So y'all already know what the internet said, Okay, pick me,
shut it's giving very much. Picked me. But okay, y'all, I
don't know why it's so hard for y'all to grasp the concept of men deserve
to be happy too. For whatever reason, we're focusing on the cheating part,
but we're not focusing on the making your man happy part. Right,
So a lot of my takes, people are quick to say it's given very
much. Pick me. But what y'all don't understand is I'm a mom raising
a sun. Okay. So when my son comes to me and his father
and says, well, every time I try to talk to Shorty she cut
me off, or every time I come to her with a problem of something,
she's not listening. Nothing's changing. I just want her to cook maybe
once a week. I just want a nice bath front for me when I
get home every once in a while. I just want to feel appreciated.
Now, am I gonna tell him to cheat? No? But you fucking
right, I'm gonna tell him to leave. If SIS isn't making you happy,
leave, especially in the community where women are out numbering single heterosexual men
one of four. If she ain't doing it, gets who the fuck will
the next bitch? Okay? Now, am I gonna tell my man to
cheat? No? I absolutely am not going to tell my son cheat.
I'm going to tell him to leave. But in a society where I'm already
out here and a lot of these mothers ain't telling they sons that, I'm
telling you to get your shit together, because the next bitch will. All
right, So before we jump into this whole pigmy shit a, let's focus
on men deserve to be happy too, be less focus on I can only
control how I'm putting out information to my son when he comes to me and
his father with issues control how a lot of these men was raised. But
I'm telling you the reality of it. If you don't want to do it,
there is someone who will, and you either going step up or step
off. And I don't think that's hard to say. I'm taking accountability for
my actions. My man is coming to me with problems and I'm not fixing
it, and now I'm acting surprise when he's going stepping off. Number one,
there's never a good reason to cheat, but there's also not a good
reason to ignore your man's needs. So where do we meet in the middle.
We can't just jump straight to he cheating. Let's also address my man
isn't happy in this situation, and that's that's trash. That's trash. I'm
not saying men of the prize, not saying women of the prize. A
relationship is about compromise. You're not bringing your hat, but you man when
you want to get it from somebody else. Make it make sense, Make
it make sense. Block word three five seven says female hate accountability. It's
called accountability. Thanks for holding yourself accountable. Marlow BX says not true.
Boo Outfit says she says bitch with love. I sure do. I always
say bitch with glove. Yeah, my bitch is. And if you don't
like the word bitches, that's cool. But I don't know you personally.
Know you don't like the word bitches, So what's that bitch? Heavy EC
says your takes be given accountability. Nineteen eight six' four FC H seven
says most females are narcissists. Uh J. Colorwave says, yep, gotta
leave. Marlow BX says, well, I'm raising an eighteen year old daughter.
Heifra tell her to get her shit together because there's a lot of eighteen
year old daughters out here. So if she's not willing to make her man
happy, she will not have a committed man. Respectfully. Respectfully Outfishers for
a badge. Thank you baby, thank you. Heavy EC says equal happiness
is the goal. At least it should be. Marlow b X says Cardi
b getting cheated on by offset as we speak. Maybe I'm not reading your
comments no more. I love you, but I just don't know where you
are in these conversations, like you just be on another conversation. I don't
really know how to interpret what you're saying. Outfitz says, let me buy
a badge for big Storm. She said, fuck y'all. I said what
I said, let me explain it, and fuck y'all again. From the
back. Louis b. Slim says, yeah, but you probably should be
mad if you do it though, even if it's understandable, y'all, this
is like saying I'm mad because I'm going to jail because I robbed the bank.
Maybe you rob the bank. You rob the bank. I don't underst
you knew that when you wrap the bank, this was a possible consequence.
Okay, and a lot of times now I just want to say one more
time, there's never a good reason to cheat, all right, I'm just
saying specifically, if you have a good man and he's coming to you with
an issue, and it's a reasonable issue, my man just wanted to dig
it uck every once a while. Okay, it's not even nothing hard.
My man just wants you to listen to him before you cut him off and
say it's not that deep. He not asking for a lot. He not
asking for a lot. At what point do we acknowledge that men deserve to
be happy too, and stop just focusing on he cheated? When do we
focus on the why he cheated, not saying she didn't. Okay, but
sometimes it is preventable. Sometimes sometimes it's twenty three. Of course, you
can't make sense, and I'm just saying like no, no, no,
I just and and it really puts me up because under all like the posts
or on all the tags that people be giving me, it's like, you
know, well, if you you you're willing to deal with a cheaters like
I'm not. I'm not talking about that. I'm not talking about the cheaters.
I'm talking about the man who just asked you for something reasonable and you
weren't able to provide it. Of course it was always blurry ass android videos.
Of course, what the fuck your favorite holiday says? Some people cheat
just to cheat the for real, I'm not talking about the people who cheat
just to cheat. I'm talking about the man who's in love with you.
I'm talking about the man who still chose to marry you even though all his
friends and family told him not to because you already wasn't making him happy,
because you already wasn't providing him piece, because you already couldn't show up to
the relationship and be an equal partner and love, honesty, compassion, x
Y, and Z. I'm talking about those men. I'm not talking about
the one too cheap just to cheat, like you know what I mean?
Through the word you responded to somebody else, but I didn't see what did
somebody else said? Let me try to screw up. Let me try to
screw up. What happens when they're asking for more than they're giving. Hmmm,
if they're asking for more than they're giving, I'm going to say this
goes back to the compromise being off kilter. Okay, if they're asking for
more than they're giving, this is when you give them a chance to express
themselves and then express your needs as well. Say hey, I don't feel
comfortable doing that for whatever reason. And while we're here, I al still
got this problem. Okay, how can I help you? And how can
you help me? How can we get to a happier place in our relationships?
Yeah? Like you know, like I agree, let's reset expectations.
I don't. I don't think that's that's far. It's Devin one on one
says, women get the ring and forget about everything that comes with the marriage,
sex, men's happiness, everything. But we're the problem. What's a
man to do? Then? And I do want to say, like from
a woman's perspective, and this is even coming from someone who has married friends,
sometimes we get married and we get comfortable, we get so wrapped up
in our new lives that we'll forget to be the person whom our partner choose
to spend the rest of our life with. Am I saying it's right?
Am I saying it's wrong. No, I'm saying that sometimes we forget to
be the person that our partner fell in love with. And that's fair.
Right, I'm not saying you have I know that different things come with marriage,
different responsibilities, especially when you know kids, mortgage, other bills come
into play. I understand that. Or we have to make sure that we're
still making time to be the person that our person fell in love with,
because like that's just a part of honestly growing, you have to sometimes tap
back into that. You may evolved from fucking Charmander to Chari's art, okay,
but you still got a little chartmand right there. You know what I'm
saying, Like, come on, shut up. Shot Outfit says, this
show is about growth. God damn it, We're all gonna love better from
whichever side you identify as. I agree. I agree. Big Drew says,
the questions are complicated, but the answers are simple. Your favorite Holidays
says it's them in one on one. You gotta go, Bro just got
out one of those Jay's Colorway says, oh yeah, the marriage comfort.
I am so active. Anti KB says I gave eleven years. I'm done.
My man said he did it. Ben, I'm fucking out of here.
I'm fucking Patrick c. K Well says, saying less address why he
cheated is a woman's reasoning. If you really want to solve why men cheat,
understand that biologically men were designed to have more than one Until you figure
that you're lost. Okay, Well, if you are a man who feel
like biologically, if you are a man who feel like biologically you were set
up to have more than one wife, find a woman who is comfortable,
but you have more than one wife. And I think that's just reasonable because
when you, in the back of your mind know that you are not monogamous,
but you choose to pursue, hunt down, and settle down with a
woman who is, that's not fair to anyone. That's not accountability. In
that case, you should get the least amount of sex she wants to fucking
give you, because you knew what you signed up for when you chose to
go against your innate ability, your nurture, your nature, whatever the case
may be, and be with this one woman. That's it. If you
don't want to be one woman, don't pursue a woman who wants to be
one man. That's easy. I mean, I thought that was easy.
I thought it was easy to me. I know a lot of people who
do me on on one side, and I know a lot of niggas.
Mm hmm, no sense shut, I said, y'all. Outfit says,
where the funk is my rum punch? Because this episode tonight, yeah,
that's probably gonna be the last one year. Hevy Ac says, nothing wrong
with finding someone that's messed with you the same way you mess with them.
I agree. Accountability equals love. Long story short, where's the accountability?
Where is it? Because accountability equals love? Come on, shot, that's
the pot accountability. Come on? Count Let me ready down, hold on.
Accountability equals love. All right? Speaking of love, you know a
lot of times we want what we can't have. Okay. And with that
being said, I got a very interesting DM from a young man to day
and it touched my spirit so hard I felt like I had to go to
outgors Internet and gets your take on it, because you know, we all
have our different views, our different opinions, and sometimes how I feel might
not be how y'all feel. Just like me taking accountability for my man cheating.
If he told me he wants his dick stuff once the weekend, I
was talking. That's not important. It's not important. It's not important,
not important. So this man says, I have a question. Is it
bad for a guy at my age still being a virgin without choice? I've
never smoked crap. That's not what I said. It says I don't know
why crack was on my brain. That's crazy, shine, Come on much
rather shine? You say that much bother crack? It says, yeah,
I'm crying there. It tastes my eyes. It says, give me how
I grew up? Though? What the us? It says I've never smoked,
dranked, or slept with anyone, and I feel embarrassed about it.
I want you to know. I put a typo there and it says cranked,
So in my mind it read never smoked crack. Let's read it again.
It says, I have a question, is it bad for a guy
in my age still being a virgin without choice. I've never smoked, drank,
or stuck with anyone, and I feel embarrassed, y'all. First black
word three five seven say, he's definitely scaring those I just wanna say,
I did aks some follow up questions and he was saying too long answer,
so I kind of stoped the page and got the answer. So he's twenty
seven. How do you feel about this? Right? So of course I
put it out set Internet, put it on my stories, and the answers
that I got were interesting. So one says, nah, he gotta skip
doing those things immaturely. He got to skip doing those things immaturely, and
now he can do them in a healthy way on his terms. And I
just wanna say, that's a really good point, because no, t no
shade. A lot of us smoke, drank and bump bellies way earlier than
we should have, and we weren't able to truly appreciate the things that come
along with it, or don't honestly. The next one says, I'm glad
he did. I wish I would have valued my virginity better and not like
something to just get rid of. And this goes back to what I was
just saying, Like a lot of the answers were men saying they wish they
would have waited, like not even women. Not one woman said they wish
they would have waited, but the men, they all were like, yo,
I just wish I would have moved like I was surprised and I went
and gave it up for X, Y and Z, and I wish it
was something I could have shared with my special person like so as a weird
as a weird. Jke Wade says nothing wrong with trying to be healthy Money
Blue Fame, Blue Gang says women love a man with experience. Big Drew
says, I wish I would have waited, honestly, Kaminie no Nagere says
true, I'm so active. E n t KB says he's given me forty
year old version vibes JX and he says he's putting the pussy on the pedestal.
Outfit says, who's pressuring this man? Who's making him feel embarrassed?
It's like Big Mic from the wood Picks not Taking says Yes, there are
days I wish I would have waited. J Color says my timing was just
right for me. I love this for you. I'm happy for you.
Only one sin says, not enough people talking about how we should be waiting
until marriage. Man, listen, I feel like for all the regret that
we see in these answers, it's obvious that the wrong message will being applied
to us at the time. And you know, I blame them. Corney
has spunky old heads that made it seem like this shit was hot. It's
not okay. The next answer, let's be real and say he's noble,
but my man wants some cat. I agree, I agree. So if
you're just joining this person says, I have a question, is it bad
for a guy in my age, he's twenty seven to still be a virgin
without choice. I've never dranked, smoked, or slept with anyone, and
I feel embarrassed about it. So the next answer, this cat must not
have friends. I couldn't let my bro go out like that. We could
hire him some cat, and you know what, just hire him some plasity.
This is just adds to our problem. This adds to a problem because
a lot of y'all thought y'all was the man when your old head, your
dad, your big uncle, whoever took you to a lady of the night
to get your first piece of cat, not knowing that whole time you were
being taken advantage of. You are you are? And that's why instead of
getting into a relationship, you're hopping from woman to woman to woman, taking
them for their sexual pleasures because it's the only time you get to express yourself,
because you don't have anyone pillow. Talking is the only way you get
to release. Right. Soone says, you're a man that has restraint and
discipline, stay true to yourself, nothing to be embarrassed about. First,
I just wanna say, is it really restraint? If he said without choice,
that's a part that we're all missing here. There were women in the
answer saying, yo, drop a pick. I can change that. I
can make him feel good. I can get him by right that. There
were the men on the other side saying, pay, you can pay,
you can pay for the USAD Right then there were other people on the other
side saying, no, he's noble, he he knows his worth. He's
not selling down with just anyone. But we have to pay attention to the
part where he said without choice. Right now, I can sit here and
acknowledge that I understand why he might feel embarrassed about that. You know how
much pressure society puts on promiscuality for men, especially puts on promiscuality having a
million sexual partners. Considered being the man because you get to hit every bad
bitch in the hood, because you get to hit any hooch in any bitch
in your hood. Right, So I understand why he would say, like,
yo, I feel embarrassed about it. I'm not getting I'm not getting
what society says I have to be the man to get or like what makes
me the man? You know what I mean. So I also want to
say, my man wants some pussy, Like, yeah, he wants some
pussy, Like he hear all that shit I'm saying, Like he's noble,
he's honorable, you know, he has all the things going for himself and
something special he could save for his wife. My man wants some pussy,
my man said, without choice, which means he's not doing it because he's
saving himself for the lord, or he's saving himself for his wife. He's
actively trying to get some poonanni and it is not coming. That is frustrating.
That is so frustrating to want some thing that you can't grasp. That's
wild. That's wild, right, And I would like to say, does
being a version make you weird or something you should be embarrassed about? No,
but I understand why you will be frustrated if it's something you want and
you can't get Like, I get that. I'm a thought spera sick get
that. I mean, do I think you're weird? No? If we
put a black light in your room, is the sheets and the walls probably
going to light up like the fourth of July? Yes, but I don't
think that's weird, right, And there are a bloody women who don't think
they're rare. My suggestion to you would be listen to the responses that the
women you have approached, try to build with, etc. Have given you.
Go to therapy and bring to your therapists the responses that these women have
at getten to you, because there is something that you need to work through.
It does not make you corny, it does not make you weird,
it does not make you a lane. There's just a block that you need
to work through. That's it, and it's all I mean. If you're
moving with intentions because you're said, it's something without choice, so it's not
something you're saving for marriage. If you work on yourself and move with intentions.
I one thousand percent believe you can get some cat. Sure, sure,
sure bumping balliss just for you. Go hand to one two six says
tell him to watch How to Be a Player. Don't watch that, don't
watch that. Your favorite holiday says, is he looking for a woman out
of his lead? That's why I said, take the answers that the women
that you've approached have given you and take it to your therapist. Take the
answers that the women who you have approached or who you have tried to work
with, Take the answers they've given you, and take it to your therapist,
because she will help he or she will help you work through whatever this
disconnect is that you may be having block work three five seven says, tell
them to start listening the future. Don't that. Don't listen to that.
Nope, not that. Aaron Nash seven three says, damn son, getting
pussy today is easy, and that's why he feels embarrassed, honestly, because
y'all are on the internet talking about how getting pussy is so easy. But
you know what, honestly, I forget what the exact stats are, but
we live in the lowest sexually active society ever, Like if you compare this
to like ten fifteen years ago, our numbers are way lower than what the
average is. So somebody's lying. Somebody's lying. Bruh, y'all saying,
y'all out here knocking if you bucking bumping bellies till the sun come up.
But somebody's lying, because the stats show somebody's lying. I don't care how
many babies you see being born every day. Somebody lying. They're from the
same tall people. It's Future in the Cannon and Kiki Mining's that's it.
That's it Wyat, her name's whir. And they're from the same tall people.
Nick Cannon, Future and Keke Wyatt. That's it. That's it.
They lion, They lion. Bertie. Bertie says, some woman like to
get carried. It works, trust me. Who what the fuck is calling
me? Your favorite holiday says it's gotta be more than this because so much
coucy out here. Ain't no way he's getting nobody. A lot of y'all
getting nobody. Don't feel bad, my guy. All these people talking about
they bumping bellies, they not okay, It's just him and palmela. That's
it. You definitely want to be a quality of a quantity. Bruh.
If getting if having interactions with the opposite sex was so easy, you wouldn't
hear men on the internet every day complaining about the rules yes or no,
yes or no exactly. So don't be too worried on yourself. Just take
your answers that you've gotten from women, take it to a therapist and work
through it with a therapist. Don't send a nothing nose on the internet except
for me. All right, guys, So now we're going to get into
our edible portion of the show. So the edible portion is when we read
questions, comments, stories that you guys send, and usually on the day
that we record, I put up a prompt on my stories for you guys
to send in your stories, your questions, your comments. If whatever you
have to say is too long, you can always d M me or you
can email me at inquiries at stormypea dot com. So the first question,
y'all get on my fucking mirrors. First of all. I just want to
say that, and I say this with love. Y'all just get on my
nerves. So the first question, when females toss and turn and they sleep.
Do that mean they cuchi itchin? Uh? Who raised you? People
who raised you? People like I really need to know what w like?
What did y'all go through in your childhood that y'all be asking these questions.
I'm gonna go to the next question next. Hm. It's telling a girl
happy birthday cheating while in a relationship, And I'm gonna ask that again.
It's telling a girl happy birthday, cheating while in a relationship. If you
tell a woman happy birthday and your girl says that you are cheating, leave
her she's cheating on you, respectfully. Make sure that's not your ex's.
Make sure there's not some girl that if you texting and blaw large told not
to that's fair, That's fair. I'm sorry. Okay, So to clarify,
if this is not someone you were previously in a relationship with, if
this is not someone you actually know, if this is a co worker,
if this is someone you just seeing in past it with a happy birthday balloon.
If this woman is accusing you of cheating and it's someone you have no
personal connection with, more than likely she's sheating and she has guilty conscience and
she's putting on you, and I don't care. I said what I said.
Seriously, nine times out of ten, when you have a partner who
is just wildly just accusing you of cheating for no reason whatsoever, nine times
out of ten they are cheating and they have a guilty conscience. It's it's
it's brain science, Google it, it's real. The city man, it's
city man. Jake Kelorways says, I remember some ex's birthdays through the wire,
said shots Fire. Kung stud says, it depends how many whys you
put on that happy birthday? Is that really a thing? Because I've seen
that, Like, don't put no extra wise on my man happy birthday?
What the fuck? See, that's why I'm singing exactly. That's why I'm
single, because the nigga put nine wives on a happy birthday for a bitch,
and I'm like, I don't care. I don't care, Like I
really don't care because guess who. Guess guess who hugging his balls from the
back at night? Me me, me, me, Okay, So I
don't care how many wives he put in your happy birthday? Says all right,
I don't I'll be seeing it on Facebook. Girls, will be putting
on their status, like before y'all start, my man birthday coming up.
Here are the rules. Don't put no extra wise in his happy birthday.
Don't tell him you hope he has a good day. He's with me,
so he's already going to have a good day. Like I'll be seeing all
this stuff and I'm like, y'all crazy, you're crazy, You're crazy.
Maybe I'm not crazy enough. Maybe I'm single because I'm just not crazy enough.
Maybe I got to de learn all the things the lady taught me and
then I'll find a man. Maybe that's it. The next one, this
was actually a good one. So this one says, how do you talk
to your partner about sexual needs like how it's lacking consistency. It's a good
one. It's a good one. It's a good one. I wanna read
it again. How do you talk to your partner about sexual needs like how
it's lacking consistency? This is a and I say it's a hard one because
we live in a society where instead of telling your partner your needs aren't being
fulfilled sexually, you tell your group chat, you tell your homeboy, you
tell your homegirls, and you know who never finds out your partner. Okay,
you just catch an attitude. You start arguing about how the fucking microwave
always on high when you come in the house. You're a pressure cooker.
You're certing arguments that don't make sense because you're not resolving their original issue.
Every time there's beef in my store, I have to ask my employee.
So when you went to Miss Jameson told her to dra have a problem with
her? What she said? They're always looking and be like go to missis
maybe you should go to Miss Jane's and talk to her. Yeah. Yeah,
And a lot of times these are things that can be fixed so easily,
so easily. Now, just to give context, this question was sent
in by a man. So I know talking to women isn't the easiest thing
to do all the time. I have noticed it. I hear you,
I receive it. I understand right. But I one thousand percent will bet
my life that having this conversation with her now is better than the conversation you're
gonna have with her after you cheat, because you're not getting consistent sex.
And if she's a row on, then she's gonna understand. She's gonna be
on the same page. You're not gonna have to worry about that. That's
how you find out, actually this may be a touch from God. Outfit
says, turn to them and yo, be good. And that's as far
as it goes. That's not, that's not that's not as far as Kungstun
says, approach it from a place of care, ask questions. House inspector
says, sit down and have a grown up conversation. Jake Callaway says,
damn dry dick syndrome, money, Blue Flame, Blue Gang says a guy
putting massive amounts of Why that must have been a heavy birthday. So when
we talk about how do we approach these conversations, right, approach it from
a place of care, understanding and compassion. Right? Am I telling you
that you should just go up to him, be like, yo, bitch,
we ain't had sex in three days? What the fuck is going?
No? Nope, that's not it, that's not it. All right?
Instead say hey, how are you feeling? Are we good? Is there
any way I can step up and do something that I'm not doing? Are
you satisfied? Are you happy? Are you being taken care of? If
she responds yes, then you respond with Okay, do you have space for
me to talk to you about something? Okay? If she says yes,
then you go into hey, I would like more of? That's it just
that simple. Is there a way that we can get to a place where
I can have more of? Is there a way where we can get to
a place where we can do more? Like? Always give her the opportunity
to express herself because you don't know she might not want to bump bellies with
you because she mad about something you did two weeks ago. You're oblivious to
give her a chance to explain herself. Not on the flip side of that,
ladies, I know that when men don't initiate sometimes it attacks our womanhood
and it makes us not want to participate. We can't live in that space.
We can't live in that space. We can't live in that space because
you know what, men like to get moist too, mkay. Sometimes they
want you to initiate. Now, what if you're in a space where you're
in your head like, oh, he must don't want me x Y and
Z. When sometimes I ye, oh, my brother don't want to start
at all the time. Sometimes you want you to start it like huh,
Okay, like it's hard because when women think of some women think of them
initiating sex, like just pull it out. That's not it, that's not
it. Don't just women out like people herman in a movie theater. Don't
do that. Don't do that. Sometimes men want to be like you know,
men like four plate two you know. Yeah, like am I saying
that's what's happening in this situation. Now, I'm just saying, ladies,
please remember that. Gimme it likes to be you know, touched felt.
Yeah. Through the wire says please, ma'am, Matt have some more yo
through the wire? Uh yo, come on, not all the Oliver twists?
Can I have some more? Y'all are crazy, crazy, loaded Caralone
says, give her more of your money. You will get more of y'all
know how that goes. Not all the time, not all the time.
Because if that was the case, money's gonna buy a good If that was
the case, you went and hear so many men calling other men sense for
giving out money but not getting kuccy. So I just want to say that's
not always case. The money doesn't always do it respectfully. J Colorway says
say in Hope Face War Search now, y'all get on the nerds out there
says, write a letter shows commitment and you took time to get your emotions
out, and it prevents you from saying things that you don't realize. It's
nothing more in words and text messages we've say. But here's my whole thing,
right, that's a lot. Writing a letter is a good way to
get all of your thoughts, emotions, and feelings out. Even if you
don't give it to her, writing a letter is still a good therapeutic exercise
one thousand percent. What if you found the letter? What if you found
the letter that he was gonna write to you about your inconsistent sex but he
never said it to you? Would you would you bring it up? I
would be so, But you know what, I'm a poem like with you
just work through it and then he didn't need to feel they need to bring
it up. Or maybe he just said what you said. He just had
it as a let me get my thoughts together, and then he just never
maybe worked yourself out, he never had to up there. I still would
be sad because I'm a pomee. It's like, Babe, I wasn't making
you happy. I would be so sad, like my man wasn't happy,
y'all, And then in my mind it's like, yo, my man not
happy. It's a bit y'all, dear who got a one up on me?
Like I would internalize that so bad, like seriously, like if my
man is ever not happy, please come tell me. Okay, if my
man is not happy, please come tell me when your man over there kick
bruh, bruh. Seriously, I would be so upset, like and don't
let me fould out you told another woman, Oh my god, oh you
letting these women get a one up on me? What? I would be
so sad. I would internalize that and I would throw a fit, like
I would eat so much ice cream because like, damn baby, what hot
make you feel safe? That's wow? Like that's wow to me, Like
that's crazy because I really be trying. I think it's more so because I'd
be trying. Maybe that goes into like my perfectionalism or just like you know,
I'm just saying I would be so sad. I would be so saying
my next question, next question, next question, how do you feel about
star gazing slash picnic for our second or third date? I'm gonna say it
again, right, how would you feel about stargaze and slash picnic for our
second third date? Y'all, I will be wet. I'm not gonna I
would be wet. I would be wet, right, Like, first of
all, I'm a nerd and I know about constellations. So like if you
took me, like to some big open part with like blanket on the ground
and like a laser pointer, Like, Bro, what I guess who's getting
it? Dick sucked? Wow? Okay, and I'm gonna tell you why
right A, you're listening. B you took the time to craft something specifically
catered to me. One thing women love is things that are specific to them,
Like brow much you cost pack me a laser pointer? Let me show
you the big differ? What you know about the Queen's chair? Let me
show you like what time of year is it? Let me show you what
constellations are out right now? Bruh, bruh, Like what let me show
your Mayan's belt. It's cool. All you gotta do is just go off
the different like, Bro, I am going to nerd out and I'm gonna
have an amazing time, right, and just want to give a few little
protests. Okay, First, if you live in a city, this probably
wouldn't be a good date because there's so much light pollution. I told you,
I'm about to nerd out real quick. If you live in a big
city, it's probably not going to be a good date because there's so much
light pollution you can't really see everything. But if you live in like the
suburbs, the mountain is like somewhere where you don't have a bunch of street
lights. This is so romantic and so cool, Like, I love this
idea. Maybe even get like a little bit of glass a line or something.
I'm like, bro, what guess who's getting sucked off under the stars?
You my guy? You my guy do some shit. I like like
that. Hell yeah, hell yeah, hell yeah. He won't to get
married. What's just too But like, come on, I liked it.
I like that a lot, so guarant Keith Harris says, orian don't have
nothing on this belt I'm wearing, y'all. Come on, come on,
y'all. J color Away says, y'all will need to be in the country.
Can't do that in Philly. Yeah, I agree. Kami No Nigars
says some champagne is better some cheese, little tsunami with some crackers. Loaded
Carleone says, you can't take a space cadet to look at the night sky.
They won't understand A breezy two three, five seven says, damn it,
where my pointer at a Loaded Carleon says there's levels to this. H
J Colorways says picnic under the stars. Loaded Carleon says that's something I have
done, but you can only do that with a smart woman. Guarantkee Parris
says it stars in Philly, y'all so annoying, comming. Non gard says
I've done it, and it's a great date. Through the wire says Shark
qchi board and he spelled it shark, just so you know, shark shark.
Hold on, I'm trying to read in the north. Fest toomy Man
says from essay and you like morning radio Halla, Uh yeah, okay,
So yeah, that's that's a good idea for me. If you are in
the country and you're in a space where there aren't a lot of street lights
slash like pollution, I think this is a really good idea, especially if
she's a nerd. I love it, and I don't only say nerd,
just if she's into learning things like even like google what constellations are like in
your area for you to see for that time of year, and like research
them, identified them on your own, and then when you go out to
like said little date, little picnic, little eunder a night star, azing
right, take your little pointer where you be pointing ambitious, I'll yo,
even if you're not intelligent, she's going to think you're the smartest fan in
the world. Like you're gonna get so many cool points for that, Like
I don't care if you graduate high school. Get me under the stars and
you pull your point around and you start like, oh, let's make a
bill nye. Okay, I know bill n y'all seriously, so yeah,
pay attention. Next one, how do you plan to ring in the New
Year? What? Oh? How do you plan to ring in the New
Year? Y'all? Want to kiss? I want to kiss? I'm gonna
kiss. I haven't. I haven't had a kiss on the New Year since
I don't know. I don't know if me and my last boyfriend ever stayed
up to New Year's cause we was like grown ups, real bad, like
we had a responsibility and shit. The boyfriend before that, like in twenty
fifteen, twenty sixteen. We went to like a New Year's party one year
and I got a kiss. Okay, so I just wanna pivot real fast.
Never mind, I'm not gonna pivot real fast. I'm not gonna pivot
real fast. I'm gonna save that for shot after the show. So mm
yeah, man, I didn't get my Mansion pajamas this year, so I'm
hoping to at least get a kiss on New Year's Eve. I'll be at
U, MEI and R and B. So if you over six two and
you got a pretty small and gold chain finding the the ball driver, no,
don't do that. That's not consent. I did not give consent.
Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that.
Don't do that. But yeah, I didn't get my mans of jamas
this year, so I'm hoping I'll a least get it. I kiss at
midnight, and you know what, speaking of massion pajamas, Speaking of matching
pajamas, I seen y'all in y'all funky ass matching pajamas. I don't hit
me up. Don't hit me up. I seen you and your funky little
family and your magic pajamas. Don't hit me up, Okay, please don't.
I'm good. I'm good. I don't care what you would just maybe
working through I don't care. I was just there for my kids. I
just spent the night for my kids. I don't really mess with her like
that for real. I don't care. Get out my face, Get out
my face. Please? Thank you. Next one, uh, what are
things to get my wife back comfortable after a year of toxicity and one year
separation? I felt like me and sho one back to basics. Oooh,
all right, let's let's start say. Okay, what are things to get
my wife back comfortable after a year of toxicity in one year separation? My
boy, you gotta start over. Yeah, you gotta start over. And
you know what, I see people on a live talking about why divorce that
woman gone counseling. Respectfully, if whatever you went through in this past year
chose you to realize that your wife is the one for you, and you
may have worked on yourself in this year x Y and Z, I commend
you for that, but I want you to know you have to start from
the beginning. You are not been gard fathered in. I don't care what
y'all have went through during your marriage. This one year is one year starting
back over your ag zero. My guy, you are courting from the beginning.
You have to go back to sending good morning texts, dating with intention,
being consistent, making plans, and following through with the plans. Don't
care how many kids y'all get. I don't care if y'all have mortgage together.
I don't care about nothing of that. You have to start from the
beginning and show proof and give her your consistity, your consistency, consistency it
is we've been for a while. Fuck yup, I can stutter. Okay,
this is a long ass episode. You have to give her your consistency
like you were someone she has never dated before. I also think that you
guys can benefit from therapy. Hopefully during this year you have going to therapy
on your own, and now you can move into therapy with her. I'm
always team get your family back, but you also have to acknowledge there may
be things that she went through in this year. They may cause her to
not want your asspect. I don't know what happened, but it was a
year full of toxicity. I don't know if it was on you or her.
All I'm saying is you want to start from beginning. You wanna start
from beginning. The Hungry HDC says, gotta stay to it, regardless of
the rejection and lack of response. Grit. Yeah, you gonna have to
try, My boy, You're gonna have to stick in there, stick in
there. That's hayvy Ac says, it's fourth quarter you down sixty. Got
she from the parking lite? Uh Lorder Carlyone says, just let her go.
No, don't let her go. Don't let her go. If that's
your if you want your woman, fight for your woman. Am I saying
you're gonna? Am I saying you're gonna get your woman? No, but
you're gonna have to fight. Yeah, yeah yeah. J Callawaye says,
Lol is he willing to do all that? I don't know. I don't
know. Hungry HD says it's a long road ahead, my boy. A
Breezy two three five seven says marriage is forever, plenty of ups and downs.
I agree, I agree. U A Breezy two three five seven says
if you really love her, try marriage ain't gonna be easy. Lord of
Carleone says, a good therapist clever. Cory says, time and more time.
See man were here standing behind you. Jake Cowaway says, hello,
Well, chis the ring like a yeah, man, from one lover to
another. If you want your woman, go get your woman. But it's
gonna be a long road ahead, so typen up your bootstraps and get ready
to go through the trenches, because my boy, you are starting from the
beginning, all right, and she won't give you some pushback, and you
just gotta love her through it. Love her through it as long as there
is not a PFA involved, Love her through it for sure, all right.
So that's recap. Today we talked about a lot and talk about a
lot of love, you know what I'm saying, and how accountability equals love,
and how a lot of y'all be frightening like y'all want these women on
our wards Internet. The thing y'all was in my story today telling me how
much y'all love these women, and I love that for you. My son
wants to be new new from atl so bad, okay, And you gotta
listen to the beginning of the episode. If you're hear I'm hoping you did
already. Authenticity reciprocity and providing a vibe is what a majority of the men
noted as why they chose the person that they are with. I'm not a
pick me. And when I tell y'all that men deserve to be happy to
it's because I have a son. And when he tells me his woman isn't
treating him right, I'm gonna tell him to leave. Now. I can't
control how a lot of the men out here was raised, but I'm just
telling you how I'm bringing the next generation step up. Or your man that's
going to leave, that's it, and that's all. Or cheat. Not
my son, though, not my son, Not my son. These niggas
out here, These niggas out here going cheap. My son gonna leave,
but these niggas out here going cheap. Next, we helped a twenty seven
year old version. We probably didn't help a twenty suit We probably didn't have
a twenty seven year old version. But we gave a lot of our opinions.
And hopefully he understands that he isn't weird, but he just has some
work to do. Next. Oh, I also want to say last week
that guy who I said I was gonna buy him some red wings. Y'all,
remember that he didn't DM me. I told him to d m me
his shoe size and his address so I could send him a pair of red
wings, and he didn't. So no shy. It was crazy, y'all
be talking all the ship one alive. And then when I'd be like,
yo, okay, dm me to get your ship, d m me to
like do your stuff, and y'all never do what's up with that? Because
scammers low key, but I'm sending you something. I'm not asking you for
anything. I'm sending you something well whatever. Just know I was looking for
it because I low key wanted to using for content because y'all be thinking I
don't be sending people slept but people really just be scared to give me the
address or po box or whatever the case. Maybe HAA A breezy two three
five seven says wait, you got a kid? When I missfaed Yeah,
fuck y'all, Fuck y'all, fuck y'all. I'm gonna be posting my son
because people, yo, real fast, did I'll tell you why I don't
post my son. Somebody popped up on my son at school in his school.
So like when I started getting popular, I know. I know.
When I started getting popular, I developed a code system with my son.
We have a phrase. If somebody says they know me or they try to
take you, asks them what the phrase is. If they don't know the
phrase, they don't know me. Right. So it was a nigga who
worked at my son's school and he was like, Yo, I know your
mom blah blah blah blah blah. And my son is like, oh word,
what's the phrase. He's like, ain't no phrase, Like you know,
I just know her. Just this, I did not know this man.
Didn't know this man from a canda fucking pay. So my son goes
on haywire and tells like one of the lunch aids and the school like calls
me like, hey, I just want to you know, somebody approached LEVI.
He told us he didn't feel saved blah blah blah blah blah. And
yeah. So now I very rarely post my son. You might see him
like on his birthday, but don't post no wrong. But y'all gonna get
these stories cause he ain't shit. That's crazy. So yeah, Also,
a boy did not DM me for his shoes his red wings. We also
decided that a stargazing date is so cool and so lovely and I hope everyone
gets experienced. And yeah, man, talking to your partner instead of going
to your friends is very important as well as well. And yeah, that's
it also alone forget February seventeenth, Philly. We are at World Cafe Live.
Clicked the link in my bio for tickets. I'm bringing some of my
friends and it's going to be crazy. And stay tuned because the next two
weeks, well the next one week now, we're gonna be releasing more dates
and I can't wait to see you guys. You also can see me pop
up on tonight's convers Stations tour. I didn't get my Sydney ship, so
I can't really give you all information but that. But yeah, we're gonna
say damn, you gonna send me to the other ship, and yeah,
my message is always gonna be the same. Follow me on the Gram at
Story, p p e A at Chocolate Chip and sip. I am fighting
a burp so bad right now. And if you don't remember anything else,
please remember uh fuck these kids. I love you and I see next. Peace U