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Laura's here and we just 26 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,840 find out that her birthday's Monday, and Greg's coming in and there's a big 27 00:02:01,079 --> 00:02:05,400 birthday thing going on and I I'll be there. Yeah, I know, 28 00:02:05,719 --> 00:02:10,599 I know, and I'm out now and I wanted to talk about that. 29 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:15,800 And then just as we're coming on, I'm getting I must have gotten maybe 30 00:02:15,719 --> 00:02:23,159 maybe fifteen long messages from listeners asking about my opinion about the McQuaid situation. 31 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:29,439 And McQuaid is being sued by a former student for harassment that they said was 32 00:02:29,439 --> 00:02:31,680 swept under the rug. They were called names and bullied and pushed around, 33 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:36,639 and seen that episode a lot on her Rescue and they're gone, well, 34 00:02:36,879 --> 00:02:39,039 and they're saying to me, well, you know, these are schools for 35 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,840 privileged white kids. What do you say to that was one of the things, 36 00:02:42,879 --> 00:02:46,159 And I go, I'm not going to comment on shit. I had 37 00:02:46,199 --> 00:02:49,280 nothing to do with this kid graduated in twenty twenty two, it is now 38 00:02:49,319 --> 00:02:52,080 twenty twenty four. He is now suing. I don't know what that tells 39 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,400 you. I don't know. I have no idea. I can't say one 40 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:57,439 way or the other. You can have PTSD from things. I have no 41 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,120 idea. My son went to McQuaid, to me, was the best investment 42 00:03:00,199 --> 00:03:09,120 I made in my child, throwing yes, they were all literally not privilege. 43 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:13,240 We're all listed there. They were all listed there. You're a mercy 44 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,319 right. I was not. But my boyfriend went to Aquinas and he is 45 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:20,800 not a privileged Well, what they're saying is you got an opportunity, and 46 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,680 somebody else said, look, new York State. Uh, they can hide 47 00:03:23,759 --> 00:03:28,000 things from New York State and sweep this stuff under the rug. Well, 48 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,599 let me bring something to your attention, folks. Nobody knew about what was 49 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:35,759 happening in Wayne County where kid was getting drilled in the ass by a room 50 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,680 stick until it became a criminal complaint. The only way you found out about 51 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:44,199 that it was a criminal complaint. Therefore you get the information, you can 52 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,800 foil it, and you can get it. We can go back to Hilton 53 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,840 too. How long was that principle in terms of the school around the corner 54 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,800 from me before they said, hey, until it became a criminal complaint. 55 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:58,039 The school anywhere doesn't want that heat, they don't want that smoke. Baby, 56 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,919 they don't want it. So to say that McCay swept things under the 57 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,879 rug, I can tell you this. My kid went there. I know 58 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,800 a lot of things that went on, and I thought they handled every single 59 00:04:06,879 --> 00:04:14,120 thing during his tenure wonderfully. I couldn't think it was better. I saw 60 00:04:14,319 --> 00:04:17,279 somewhere that somebody said, well, they're just letting boys be boys. I 61 00:04:17,399 --> 00:04:23,879 disagree. I think they're teaching young men. But most of the people. 62 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,040 At a matter of fact, anybody who sits behind a microphone and has talked 63 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,800 about it, I guarantee has never had an experience with that school, has 64 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,240 never paid a tuition for a child to go to that school or Aquinas or 65 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:38,959 Mercy or anywhere. And so therefore, to me, what they say holds 66 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,160 no water. So if you want to get all swept up and have a 67 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,319 knee jerk reaction to what people say, fine, Look, this is a 68 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,519 private matter that I don't know enough about to really comment on, and I'm 69 00:04:48,519 --> 00:04:53,519 not going to tell someone that they shouldn't have trauma over something. But I 70 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,879 do think that it's curious that it's two years. I think that that's something 71 00:04:56,959 --> 00:04:59,319 that you have to take a little bit into concerner. Have I had concerns 72 00:04:59,319 --> 00:05:01,319 over things that have had into the coinas, Absolutely, when they handle some 73 00:05:01,399 --> 00:05:04,480 things, Yes, But at the end of the day, I'm glad both 74 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:10,360 of my children have are have graduated, or are currently attending. I'm glad, 75 00:05:10,399 --> 00:05:13,000 I went, yes, I'm pretty sure Carrie's glad, she went, 76 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,759 yep. The rest of our families glad, they went. I mean, 77 00:05:15,199 --> 00:05:20,040 yeah, I was not privileged in any no particular way. We just for 78 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,759 me, my boys went because when I looked at Greece and I saw thirty 79 00:05:24,759 --> 00:05:28,040 five to forty kids in a class, and I saw Aquinas and I saw 80 00:05:28,079 --> 00:05:30,560 fifteen kids to a class, I'm like, my kid's not the greatest student. 81 00:05:31,199 --> 00:05:35,079 And I figure with fifteen, he's going to be more noticeable than forty 82 00:05:35,399 --> 00:05:39,000 unless he's causing a ruckus, which he's not gonna do because he could get 83 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,279 his ass beat by me if he does. I'll just say one other thing, 84 00:05:41,319 --> 00:05:43,800 since you brought it up. My kids were in the Pittsford district, 85 00:05:43,879 --> 00:05:49,000 considered a fantastic district. I saw this one particular kid who just graduated college 86 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:55,600 as a student athlete. I saw him getting things like, dad, don't 87 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,199 worry about at Jordan Handlon and tomorrow you got a's. He got a's, 88 00:05:58,199 --> 00:06:00,959 he got ace and I go. I used to say to his mother all 89 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,759 the time, the margins need to be tightened on this guy, and McQuaid 90 00:06:02,879 --> 00:06:06,920 will do that. And the amount of work that he had was incredible. 91 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,399 I can't say that the work was any harder, but the amount of it 92 00:06:11,959 --> 00:06:15,000 I know by talking to other parents was significantly more, significantly more. To 93 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,000 the point, it's a prep school. I think I think I prepared had 94 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:21,639 more for colle I mean, yes, I never thought until last year Sam 95 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,279 was going to go to college. I just figured he'd go get a job, 96 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,639 which is fine, yep, but he's like, I'm ready to go, 97 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:32,240 and I mean going to Aquinas his grades from Greece elementary school to middle 98 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,879 school to high school they went up. Yeah, senior, not so much 99 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:41,319 senior, but you know, good education is so important. But like there's 100 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,680 going to be bullying no matter where you are, and it's learning, you 101 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:49,879 know, what's the lines with that? But going to Wane like family, 102 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:55,439 it's right year three and five, I am or the college bully. Yet 103 00:06:55,519 --> 00:07:00,959 my whole family went to Webster except for me, you loved in the exact 104 00:07:00,959 --> 00:07:03,560 same grade. One of the things that I still struggle with was because I 105 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:09,720 graduated high school in two thousand and three, was computer technology, because Webster 106 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:15,000 learned that Webster had computer ad classes in Wayne Dinner. And then when I 107 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,560 went to college, I felt like I was so far behind really my peers, 108 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:23,600 because I didn't know anything about technology and still like I'm in that age 109 00:07:23,639 --> 00:07:28,279 bracket that I should understand it. I hate it's changed. It's changed trans 110 00:07:28,439 --> 00:07:30,600 since I went. I mean just I would I was. I stuck with 111 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,279 band just because I can't draw. For shit, I was not gonna do. 112 00:07:33,319 --> 00:07:36,519 He comes home, I think I'm gonna do photography next year. If 113 00:07:36,519 --> 00:07:40,879 I had to take art, I would have loved photography. Sure, you 114 00:07:40,879 --> 00:07:44,800 would have just the things that they have there. That the photography they have, 115 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,560 printing and suff like that. I get the I I know the idea 116 00:07:48,759 --> 00:07:54,360 of and probably excuse me for saying it this way. McQuaid, more than 117 00:07:54,439 --> 00:07:59,360 in Mercy, more than other private schools, seen as elitist because it's there's 118 00:07:59,399 --> 00:08:03,279 no it's all boys, and then I whatever, you know it, You 119 00:08:03,319 --> 00:08:07,639 know it too well, that's why there's no stairs can fly. And then 120 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:11,920 Bishop Kearney. Bishop Carney tried to recruit me for soccer growing up. Huh, 121 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,319 but my mom couldn't couldn't afford. Yeah, but there's scholarships and things 122 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,480 whatever. But yeah, but bullying is going to happen no matter. Well 123 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,560 what I was gonna say. It's one of the things I always liked about 124 00:08:22,639 --> 00:08:26,639 McQuaid was there was no trying to impress a girl, right be you know, 125 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:30,399 making fun of someone to impress a girl at least in school it was 126 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,440 academic learning. Was there a competition, Yeah, it's it's testosterone, it's 127 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,799 boys. Shit goes on. I can tell you that something happened with my 128 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:43,519 son and it was not something that I would be very proud of. And 129 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:48,440 McQuaid called and said, let us handle it, and I said okay, 130 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:52,240 and he had what their version of detention they called it. It's not it's 131 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,679 called justice under God. And you don't sit in a room and write or 132 00:08:56,759 --> 00:09:00,720 do anything. You actually work. You have to set up assemblies, break 133 00:09:00,759 --> 00:09:03,360 stuff down. There are jobs and you're working the entire time. And I 134 00:09:03,919 --> 00:09:07,559 thought that was great, And I said to his mother, he's not in 135 00:09:07,639 --> 00:09:09,840 trouble when he gets home because it's being handled. So that's what got him 136 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:15,600 into McCarthy. Huh yeah, yeah, maybe setting up chairs, breaking down 137 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:20,799 chairs, doing all that stuff. Speaking of your birthday on Monday, Greg's 138 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,840 gonna be in here in a little while. There's a big party and it's 139 00:09:24,879 --> 00:09:28,600 open to everybody. Saturday Night, I said it wrong in a video I 140 00:09:28,639 --> 00:09:31,639 did. But it's Saturday Night an Iron Smoke Distillery with trist as the band, 141 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:37,759 and it is a fundraiser for autism up. I have some concerns about 142 00:09:37,799 --> 00:09:41,159 this a little bit, and I talked to Kevin about it earlier today and 143 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:43,799 it has nothing to do with anything. It's more logistics and things like that. 144 00:09:45,399 --> 00:09:52,440 But I'm getting the impression, at least from you, that Greg is 145 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,960 looking to be roasted a little bit. I don't know why that. I 146 00:09:56,039 --> 00:09:58,039 just kind of it was a message that I got. He didn't come out 147 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,200 and say it, but he kind of implied it a little bit when I 148 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:07,960 started being the I am, yeah, and I don't think he discarded it. 149 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:11,519 Okay, So let me just say that Tom Brady roast fantastic. Now 150 00:10:11,519 --> 00:10:16,919 everybody thinks they can roast. We've mentioned on this podcast that Greg wants to 151 00:10:16,919 --> 00:10:20,799 be roasted a little bit, but haven't said it a lot. I have 152 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:26,200 people emailing me roast jokes that they want me to throw in, and some 153 00:10:26,279 --> 00:10:28,279 of them are so fucking mean and horrible. I wouldn't say them. Do 154 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,440 they know, Greg? I might know a little bit like this one says 155 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,559 your employees must get sick of hearing you utter the phrase as a former defensive 156 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:39,120 back every morning after a Bill's loss. I mean, you don't hear Tom 157 00:10:39,159 --> 00:10:43,720 Ferris breaking down film of your commercials telling your employees as a former hair guy. 158 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,840 I like that. That's not mean, that's that's that's more a shot 159 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,440 at Tom. Okay, I think Tom can take it. Greg. If 160 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,720 every day is your birthday, then every day must also be Tom Ferriss having 161 00:10:54,759 --> 00:11:03,159 to clean up after a parade. Is that funny? That's very funny? 162 00:11:03,159 --> 00:11:07,879 Okay, all right. I don't think even Connors and Ferris would advertise everywhere 163 00:11:07,039 --> 00:11:11,919 until I saw Connors and Ferris badge on the wreckage of Steve Barnes plane. 164 00:11:13,799 --> 00:11:20,559 Yeah. Maybe it's so uncomfortable, that's deep, but that's funny. Yeah. 165 00:11:20,799 --> 00:11:24,480 In a roast setting, a proper roast setting, that's very fun I 166 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:30,240 understand that this is like an autism on fundraiser. It's not a com I'm 167 00:11:30,279 --> 00:11:33,480 saying, in a normal setting, that's very funny. If we were doing 168 00:11:33,519 --> 00:11:37,279 the roast of Greg Connors all night long, that would play if it was 169 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:43,159 all Remember the scene when OJ got off and Robert Kardashian was standing right next 170 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,919 to him. It must have felt real good. Watching the trial with Jim 171 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:50,399 Kelly when he nudged you and said, that'll be us someday. That's funny. 172 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,720 Yeah, I like that I like that. I think Greg would like 173 00:11:52,759 --> 00:11:56,200 that too. Greg. Your mom says family members try speaking to you and 174 00:11:56,279 --> 00:11:58,360 Irish, but you only hear them in Italian. I think it was the 175 00:11:58,399 --> 00:12:05,399 other way to round, but which makes your clients lives difficult when they hear 176 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,519 crickets in the court while you're hearing chiching. That's another one that I go. 177 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:13,679 I would never knew Danny had these kind of writings. You know this 178 00:12:13,879 --> 00:12:20,279 is him? Shut up? Yes these are Dan, Yes, yes, 179 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:24,519 yes, So I wanted to forgot here because some of them. I go, 180 00:12:24,639 --> 00:12:28,039 oh my god, congrats on your son Luke getting into Alfred. Now 181 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,600 you have to come to Fisher and watch the Saxons lose at least twice. 182 00:12:33,919 --> 00:12:37,759 It must have sucked hearing Terry Paula wants to sell a quarter of the bills 183 00:12:37,759 --> 00:12:43,519 for about the same price he paid four ten years ago. While the price 184 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,879 you offered won't even cover your season tickets in the new stadium. But I 185 00:12:46,919 --> 00:12:50,320 hear the Barnes family might be looking for some help in their personal injury case. 186 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,600 That may be your ticket. Jesus, that's too long. There's something 187 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,960 that I just was like, all right, I can't I wrote the one 188 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,919 that I felt like a dick. Danny just took it to the he took 189 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,360 it to the house, Gronk spiked it, clicked it up, and then 190 00:13:03,399 --> 00:13:09,519 spiked it again. I only wrote the one that I know we can't use. 191 00:13:09,919 --> 00:13:13,320 Yeah, and I said it to Greg because I want, because I'm 192 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,480 a dick and it's how I am. Are there people off subject I don't 193 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,120 talk about. Yes, yeah, there are, there are. And actually 194 00:13:20,159 --> 00:13:24,559 there was someone in this at this table, not me, wrote a really 195 00:13:24,759 --> 00:13:33,440 great, great roast joke for someone who's off limits. So so good, 196 00:13:33,639 --> 00:13:37,120 so good. Well, I got all right. I wasn't gonna use any 197 00:13:37,159 --> 00:13:39,519 and Danny's really because I thought that someone them hit too hard. And I'm 198 00:13:39,519 --> 00:13:43,960 not sure the first Barnes one it's not for that, it's not for that. 199 00:13:45,039 --> 00:13:48,320 But a plain one was my favorite. I don't know who's writing for 200 00:13:48,399 --> 00:13:54,559 Danny. It must be Beth. He wrote some good stuff. He writes 201 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,440 some good stuff. Maybe he can use him in the Times of Wayne County 202 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,399 as the training camp pre you. I don't know, but I get. 203 00:14:03,039 --> 00:14:07,240 My concern is that it's not really that kind of a setting. So that's 204 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,759 why it was dark with mine. I was trying to keep them a little 205 00:14:09,799 --> 00:14:13,039 bit lighter. I didn't go as dark. I didn't. I didn't bring 206 00:14:13,159 --> 00:14:16,759 murder in any of mind. No, So I, well, well, 207 00:14:16,879 --> 00:14:20,159 I'm excited for Saturday. Saturday will be a lot of fun. You're going 208 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:26,039 to do your set. Because I had been greg, I think like a 209 00:14:26,799 --> 00:14:28,879 fifteen and the Bangles out of the thirty. Yeah, because I know doors 210 00:14:28,879 --> 00:14:31,600 open at seven. Yeah, I'll be the big guy up front, hackling 211 00:14:31,639 --> 00:14:35,960 bill because I think the band is doing sound check. I was told right 212 00:14:37,039 --> 00:14:41,919 up to right up to their go time, so then I would see this 213 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,559 is where, this is where, Like I always just figured, tell me 214 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,480 where I need to be, and I don't. I don't want to sweat 215 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,080 this stuff. But at the same time, I don't. It's you know, 216 00:14:52,639 --> 00:14:54,480 well, and that's what my group of friends that's coming. I was 217 00:14:54,559 --> 00:14:56,559 like, They're like, what time do I get there? I was like, 218 00:14:56,679 --> 00:15:01,320 I don't know, bill O. If we're pushing a little later, 219 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,039 then I might not skip all. I was gonna skip part of Tyler's game 220 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,759 because it's going to be a ship show anyways. Yeah, but if it's 221 00:15:05,759 --> 00:15:09,679 going to be pushing, I would say go seven, show up by seven 222 00:15:09,759 --> 00:15:13,879 thirty. Yeah, yeah, when is the uh also the the uh Real 223 00:15:13,919 --> 00:15:20,600 Housewives of Webster coming? Oh yeah, really, I'm hearing a lot of 224 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:24,039 hoops. We getting hoops for what I guess Hooper's going to be in Canada. 225 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,840 Shit, we wouldn't allow her it anyways, Well not that hoop girl. 226 00:15:28,159 --> 00:15:31,519 Kerry started looking at hoops the other day in the store and we were 227 00:15:31,559 --> 00:15:35,679 in one of the stores in Connecticut. She's like like, no, yeah, 228 00:15:37,639 --> 00:15:41,039 come on, I will maybe I'll bust out some hoops. Yes, 229 00:15:41,279 --> 00:15:46,120 the Webster crew will be coming. Okay, all right. Uh messaging regarding 230 00:15:46,159 --> 00:15:50,600 the McQuay situation, how can you not say it's privileged white people? You 231 00:15:50,679 --> 00:15:52,480 know it is, Bill, You just don't want to admit it. I 232 00:15:52,519 --> 00:15:56,080 have I have nothing to admit. I just think if you're sitting behind a 233 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,720 microphone talking about this, you don't know all the facts, and it's people 234 00:15:58,759 --> 00:16:03,279 who have never had an experience with these schools. So they're just projecting their 235 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:07,919 bias that it's that and that's shitty. And they're the same people that are 236 00:16:07,919 --> 00:16:11,039 gonna bitch about the fact that the news is biased and this is biased, 237 00:16:11,039 --> 00:16:14,879 that you're coming with a bias automatically by saying it's privileged white kids and it 238 00:16:14,879 --> 00:16:18,440 gets swept under the rug. That's biased. Show me any school anywhere, 239 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:22,159 public or private, that wants to have a lot of smoke because something bad 240 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,720 happened. And there are two instances. We bought them, brought them both 241 00:16:23,759 --> 00:16:27,440 up one and Wayne County went up in North Greece, and neither one of 242 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,679 those wanted or Hilton that was Hilton, excuse me, U still the schools 243 00:16:30,679 --> 00:16:34,240 in North gree but they don't. Nobody wants that smoke. And it's not 244 00:16:34,279 --> 00:16:37,360 like they're trying to sweep it under the rug. These became criminal cases and 245 00:16:37,399 --> 00:16:41,879 they let the law handle it. If this was to that offense. Do 246 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:45,360 you think McQuaid is the power, No, they don't. They certainly would 247 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,000 bring it. Has a lot of kids from the inner city that just didn't 248 00:16:48,039 --> 00:16:51,679 want to go to the city school district. They have a number of kids 249 00:16:51,759 --> 00:16:55,320 that come in that it would be in the city schools, right, And 250 00:16:55,960 --> 00:17:00,440 I mean, you can't say privileged white kids when you've got what you're saying. 251 00:17:00,559 --> 00:17:02,879 I see what you're saying. All right, Well, we'll take a 252 00:17:02,919 --> 00:17:10,039 moment. There's an ad that has been circulating around social media and I'm curious 253 00:17:10,079 --> 00:17:12,880 to get I guess I already know what Laura's gonna say. She'll be cool 254 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,680 about it. She'll be like, it's fine, he mean prown with me. 255 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,839 But I think that this is an ad that well, we'll get into 256 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:25,960 the details of it, but it's for Aston Martin the car, but they're 257 00:17:26,079 --> 00:17:29,200 used cars. We'll get to that next, but first, how many of 258 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:33,440 the Carlson has me very excited because I'm going to go see the hilarious Joe 259 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:37,880 Dombrowski for the Late Show tomorrow night. Now, the only shows still available 260 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:41,319 are the late shows Friday at nine and Saturday at nine. He sold out 261 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:47,440 his early shows because the guy is absolutely hilarious. Okay, can I just 262 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,839 remind you all about old you are? We are sitting in the green room 263 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:55,119 just now and I was bitching to him about Melissa jon Hart being in a 264 00:17:55,160 --> 00:18:02,200 Lifetime movie playing Look at Me, and he had the audacity to say, 265 00:18:02,559 --> 00:18:07,240 who sat his little ass down? I was like, you better sit down. 266 00:18:07,279 --> 00:18:11,240 Plus Clarista's about to explain it all Joe Dombrowski. Only shows available are 267 00:18:11,279 --> 00:18:15,599 the late shows and limited tickets for Friday night at nine and Saturday night at 268 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:21,480 nine. You want to catch Joe Dombrowski, former teacher turn comedian and he's 269 00:18:21,599 --> 00:18:30,400 killing it comedy at the Carlson Lock your tickets down at Carlson Comedy dot com. 270 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,759 Ol Connors and Paramis had two six to two comp today Cobblestone on Main 271 00:18:33,799 --> 00:18:37,960 at one on nine West Main Street in the village of Webster. If you're 272 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:41,920 looking for a great spot for date night, it's perfect as intimate dining. 273 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,680 If you're looking for a fun place to hang out with friends or family, 274 00:18:44,759 --> 00:18:48,599 maybe you got some people coming into town, maybe a college graduation or in 275 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:51,920 a couple of weeks high school graduation. Will they have an upscale bar that's 276 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,839 fantastic. Matter of fact, This Saturday night, May eighteenth, from six 277 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:59,839 to nine, Lecy and Greg will be performing music right there in the main 278 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:03,160 area. It's always a lot of fun and they're fantastic. And if you 279 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,240 have an event, let's say you're getting together for I don't know, like 280 00:19:06,279 --> 00:19:10,319 a college graduation dinner. I had my sons at Cobblestone on Maine and it 281 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,920 was spectacular. And here's the best part, hard group of people to please. 282 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:18,759 Everybody loved the food and the service at Cobblestone on Maine and they're nachos. 283 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,880 They don't get snagy. Don't believe me. Trying for yourself at one 284 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:45,559 on nine West Main Street in the village of Webster. It's Cobblestone on Maine. 285 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:51,359 The only movie I can think of where Aston Martin's appear once in a 286 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:55,839 while is James Bond. Yes, yeah, so that's why I'm playing Skyfall 287 00:19:55,880 --> 00:20:02,039 by Adell. I know that you're playing privileged whit kid music. Well it's 288 00:20:02,039 --> 00:20:04,319 privileged white kid music. We got pretty fancy now, I mean they only 289 00:20:04,319 --> 00:20:07,359 show you can't get into a James Bond film and unless you have a McQuaid, 290 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:11,000 I d Did you know that you also have to have an Aston Martin 291 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,480 in the parking lot? That's all time, right, you do? That's 292 00:20:14,559 --> 00:20:17,799 right, God forbid. Your parents worked their ass off and tried to give 293 00:20:17,839 --> 00:20:21,000 you the best. Everybody else should just ship all over. That was that 294 00:20:21,079 --> 00:20:26,160 was your privilege. You're an asshole. You suck that. There was you 295 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,440 know, vapes and weed and aquinas, and it was you know, pills 296 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:33,920 and pills and cocaine at a McQuaid, same missions, just different, just 297 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:37,839 higher and drugs. What was his drink? Shaken that start? Yes, 298 00:20:37,079 --> 00:20:44,119 shaken. That was a Martini martine shaking us stirt. No dirty Martini shaking 299 00:20:44,599 --> 00:20:51,359 dirty martini was just a Martini. Well, apparently no one went to McQuaid 300 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:55,079 and knows this. Uh. This is an ad that's been going around for 301 00:20:55,200 --> 00:21:00,400 Aston Martin's newest advertisement for their pre owned cars. It's a print ad and 302 00:21:00,759 --> 00:21:03,799 I will show it to you and I'd like to know what you think of 303 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:18,839 this. Laura. Okay, oh wow, okay, all right, what 304 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:23,039 does it say? Laura? Come on? It says Aston Martin's newest advertisement 305 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:27,240 for pre owned cars. You know you're not the first, but do you 306 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:32,720 really care? It's a hot chick. It's a hot chick. Yeah. 307 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,599 Get her legs up as she's doing laundry too withal Hi. Yeah. So 308 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,720 this is a this story. By the way, it is fake. Aston 309 00:21:40,759 --> 00:21:45,200 Martin did not produce an ad like this. The ad was identified as a 310 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,599 fake because there's a typo in it. It says pre owed, not pre 311 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,640 owned. Harrison Butker put this one out. I think he might have. 312 00:21:52,559 --> 00:21:56,519 He's the kicker for the Kansases. You get a lot of pushback for his 313 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:02,039 commencement speech and further investigation review that the image used in the ad was a 314 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:07,359 Dutch Playboy model from uh or excuse me, Germany. I think she's a 315 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:11,480 Dutch model, but she was in Playboy Germany twenty twelve. Her name is 316 00:22:11,559 --> 00:22:15,279 Roseanne and I wouldn't even attempt to say her last name, Roseanne Barr. 317 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:21,000 And the ad is plagiarized by a tagline used by BMW in two thousand and 318 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:26,039 eight, so both Aston Martin and the Netherlands Playboy sent legal notices to remove 319 00:22:26,079 --> 00:22:30,480 the images associated with the ad immediately. But this is an actual ad, 320 00:22:30,519 --> 00:22:33,279 and Kevin, I'll let you see it, and then you can pass over 321 00:22:33,319 --> 00:22:37,000 to Laura from BMW, and it's kind of the same thing. It's a 322 00:22:37,079 --> 00:22:41,119 hot woman and they say basically to sell a pre owned car. You know 323 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,160 you're not the first, you know you're not the first, but do you 324 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:49,319 really care? And it's vodka martini shaken vodka martini. Yes, that's right, 325 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:57,440 that was miss Greg Okay, So this one was an actual ad that 326 00:22:57,519 --> 00:23:00,400 was an actual ad for BMW, actual ad. And then I think there 327 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,880 was a dealership in Canada in Ontario that used men and women kind of the 328 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:10,880 same premise, same idea, So I mean it kind of a brilliant. 329 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,839 I think it's brilliant marketing too. But let's go like, does it appeal 330 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,400 to the narcissist in like all of us? If it's going to make us 331 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,440 look good or make people notice us, will we do it? Will we 332 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,200 buy it? Will we wear it? Absolutely? Yeah, I think that's 333 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:27,039 true too. And does this person? So does this sort of take a 334 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:32,759 human being and put them as a status symbol and remove the human element to 335 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:37,839 a certain degree. Unfortunately, I think that that's part of humanity. Yeah, 336 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,359 because it kind of makes the person a material thing, you know, 337 00:23:41,519 --> 00:23:44,160 I mean, if you think about it. I'm just saying, like, 338 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,599 take it on a philosophical level. Look, I saw that, I burst 339 00:23:47,599 --> 00:23:49,559 out laughing. I loved it. I thought it was great, and then 340 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,599 I saw I noticed the typo, and I go, I wonder if this 341 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,920 is real? So I started doing some research and I fed out, No, 342 00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:00,119 that's fake, But there was a real ad in eight that BMW it 343 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,279 a little more tasteful, you're not saying, but still a young hot chick, 344 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,400 right, So you're seeing a young hot chick. And I start to 345 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,400 think this because you have to be physically attracted to somebody, but at what 346 00:24:12,519 --> 00:24:22,640 age does physical appearance matters slightly less than some other qualities. I don't know, 347 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,559 Like you're you're recycling, I would be recycling And I say that kind 348 00:24:26,559 --> 00:24:30,759 of tongue and cheek. Are you recycling? I submitted into evidence one Mick 349 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:34,359 Jagger. Yeah, how many not hot chicks has he been with in the 350 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:40,039 last thirty years? I don't think any exactly, so it never goes away 351 00:24:40,039 --> 00:24:42,400 from Yeah, no, I think but what age? Just like? Do 352 00:24:42,759 --> 00:24:48,160 more than looks in charge? Yeah? I wouldn't say your first marriage after 353 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:51,799 your first marriage? So what are you trying to say? You guy isn't 354 00:24:51,920 --> 00:25:02,279 good looking? I think it's husband. Oh, but like to me, 355 00:25:02,599 --> 00:25:07,160 looks don't don't play as important of a role anymore. When I was younger, 356 00:25:07,319 --> 00:25:11,000 like I was more attracted to look yes, but now it's like you 357 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,599 have to be you got to have something else, have to Yeah, when 358 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:22,480 has when has attraction been reversed? Looked hot until they open their mouth? 359 00:25:22,799 --> 00:25:25,519 You ever have that? Yeah? All the twenty seven year olds I dated 360 00:25:25,559 --> 00:25:27,440 last year? Oh you dated? You dated? I thought you just made 361 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,160 out with them? Well yeah, I mean that I hung out with for 362 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,359 a couple of weeks, so they were hot until they opened their mouth and 363 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,440 then they were just kind of dumb, dumb, wasted time. Yeah, 364 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,680 so they were fun to ride around in, they were fun to go out. 365 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,359 Yeah, it was fun to get Martin. But then, you know, 366 00:25:45,279 --> 00:25:52,240 at least used cars come with a lemon law, though they don't have 367 00:25:52,279 --> 00:25:57,799 that new personal anymore. You know, you got to be physically attracted to 368 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,799 someone. I think that at any age you do, there's got to be 369 00:26:00,799 --> 00:26:06,160 physical attraction. But what other qualities do you want? Can you give me 370 00:26:06,279 --> 00:26:11,920 like three? Oh yeah, like uh I have a funny story about that. 371 00:26:12,039 --> 00:26:19,359 But like a caring heart, like you care more about others than yourself 372 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,480 is like my number one thing. How do you would you even prove that? 373 00:26:22,519 --> 00:26:26,119 Though? Uh So that's why I say, like Madi actually date Joe 374 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,559 Is. He works for the Inner City Rec Center. He manages one of 375 00:26:30,599 --> 00:26:36,039 the youth centers, and randomly he told me about how before he went to 376 00:26:36,079 --> 00:26:38,319 work that day, he went and bought some stuff for one of the kids 377 00:26:38,319 --> 00:26:44,440 whose birthday is it was that was homeless and it was just like that small 378 00:26:44,559 --> 00:26:48,160 act of like that, Oh yeah I was that day. I was like, 379 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:56,759 oh, you're the story. But then humor playfulness, like I need 380 00:26:56,759 --> 00:27:03,799 someone to send you humor. Yeah, adventurous, adventurous, like what's adventurous 381 00:27:03,799 --> 00:27:14,200 for you? Willing to do? Wondering beyond my voyeurism? Like beyond my 382 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,039 voyeurism? No, but like will you go for a hike with me? 383 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,920 Yeah? And then and then what baged me at the top of the mountain? 384 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:25,640 Absolutely, but just have that sense of, hey, let's let's go 385 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,000 away this weekend. I don't care where we go, but like, let's 386 00:27:27,039 --> 00:27:30,319 just go for a weekend. We don't have plans, Yeah, because I 387 00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:33,319 would, I would say I get what you're saying, Like I have like 388 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,480 independent people who are strong, intelligent, they have to have a sense of 389 00:27:37,519 --> 00:27:41,440 humor. And I like people who can just kind of roll with things. 390 00:27:41,759 --> 00:27:44,880 Everything's not too serious. We have a little bit of fun. There's nothing 391 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,759 too too bad there. Uh So what are what qualities would you be willing 392 00:27:48,799 --> 00:27:52,279 to give up to be with a hotter person? Is there any one of 393 00:27:52,319 --> 00:27:57,200 the three that you could drop to be with a hotter person? Of those 394 00:27:57,279 --> 00:28:03,200 three? Yeah, well there be any one of them? No? No, 395 00:28:03,759 --> 00:28:10,799 because I'm thinking that maybe BMW was really onto something. Because when you 396 00:28:10,799 --> 00:28:14,359 buy a car, like I love this car. It's got everything I want, 397 00:28:14,599 --> 00:28:18,400 except it's not an automatic. It's a standard you know what I'm saying. 398 00:28:18,759 --> 00:28:22,160 Right, So this chick is or this guy is so perfect in so 399 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,000 many ways, but you know their sense of humor is a little weak. 400 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,160 But you know what, I can make up for that. I can live 401 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,519 with that. And like, it's just like buying a car. I mean, 402 00:28:32,519 --> 00:28:36,400 I go, so we could say that this ad is sexist or rude 403 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,279 or whatever, and they've done it with men as well, right, you 404 00:28:38,279 --> 00:28:41,880 know somebody else has been there. It's a good way to look at it. 405 00:28:41,119 --> 00:28:44,720 And at the same time, I go, you kind of like buying 406 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,920 a car when you're picking a person. And it's funny dating when you're you 407 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:52,160 know, twenty, even if you go by who's hot, Yeah, that 408 00:28:52,279 --> 00:28:55,440 does not mean that they will age. Well, oh that's true too, 409 00:28:55,880 --> 00:29:00,880 that's true too. So dating eater high gride dating later in life, Like 410 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,519 you see someone at forty, like you know, okay, that man's going 411 00:29:04,599 --> 00:29:08,440 to age while compared to dating when you're twenty. Right, I love this 412 00:29:08,519 --> 00:29:11,960 car. It's everything I want, the color of the horsepower, the gas 413 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,720 mileage. But it's standard out automatic. I'll take it. Anyway, you 414 00:29:14,759 --> 00:29:17,359 know what I mean, it's the same thing. That's why I think these 415 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,279 ads are so perfect. And I know they're get They got a lot of 416 00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:22,200 pushback when they dropped the BMW one and O eight, but I go, 417 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:27,720 it's a it's a perfect ad because it picking a car is sort of like 418 00:29:27,759 --> 00:29:32,000 picking a person in a way, and you're not always going to get the 419 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:38,519 person. People people fluctuary brands all the time. What do they do? 420 00:29:40,079 --> 00:29:41,960 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So I think it's 421 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:48,079 genius for a car. Yeah, to marketed it is show greg the one, 422 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,759 the Aston Martin one is fake and they're actually being sued whoever created that 423 00:29:52,799 --> 00:30:00,440 ad by Playboy because that's a German Playboy model. She's from the No So 424 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:06,200 the Netherlands Playboy is suing as well as I think Ashton Martin is suing because 425 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,599 they did not create that ad. But in two thousand and eight, BMW 426 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,920 did a very similar ad and it's right there, and that was an ad 427 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:17,119 that I did. It made me laugh because I go, I could see 428 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,200 and there were a lot of people saying, oh, this is sexist, 429 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,039 this is rude, and I was just proving that, you know what, 430 00:30:22,519 --> 00:30:26,160 dating and finding a partner. Is kind of like buying a car. You 431 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,759 know it looks hot, but what's under the hood? Greg? How many 432 00:30:29,759 --> 00:30:33,200 horsepower am I dealing with? How many miles are on it? How many 433 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,960 owners? You know you're not the first, yes, oh for used cars, 434 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,480 for used cars, so it's for their used car. But the picture 435 00:30:38,559 --> 00:30:41,759 and everything, he's so provocative. Of course it's a woman, so it's 436 00:30:41,799 --> 00:30:44,839 going it's yeah, you know, you're not a picture of a woman. 437 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:52,279 You're not as provocative as that. That yes, the one that yeah. 438 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,400 No, I have never really been interested in Austin Martin's but I am now 439 00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,880 right And BMW did the same thing they do. So it's a woman going, 440 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,839 what do you really care? She's willing to spend the night with you. 441 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,640 Do you really care? You want to get in this car? You 442 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:08,880 do really care? And then I so I was just saying, what qualities 443 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,759 are you looking for and what would you give up to have a hotter person? 444 00:31:14,759 --> 00:31:17,000 Or are you willing to do that? And same thing with a car. 445 00:31:17,079 --> 00:31:19,000 You want this certain car, you want this model? Would you get 446 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:26,200 in it? But that was outside I should stay outside. I just say 447 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,440 it. That Aston Martin ad was everywhere. It was all over everything, 448 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,759 and I thought, this isn't interesting. I saw a lot of comments, 449 00:31:32,759 --> 00:31:36,119 people saying this is a bad, bad ad, bad representation, and I 450 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:41,200 went, hang on, it's fake yeh BMW did it for real? And 451 00:31:41,319 --> 00:31:45,640 when you actually think about it, picking a person is like picking a car. 452 00:31:45,119 --> 00:31:49,079 You know, sometimes they look great until you look under the hood and 453 00:31:49,119 --> 00:31:53,440 go, whoa, no, thank you. I need a little more intelligence, 454 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,559 a little more horsepower than that, a little more brain cells. Yeah, 455 00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,440 somebody with a good sense of humor something like that. Yeah. I 456 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,240 mean, well we I mean we all have seen the crazy meter for the 457 00:32:02,319 --> 00:32:07,319 guys, right crazy. Yeah, yeah, I got to ride the line, 458 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,920 you know. And so it's it's the same thing, same thing. 459 00:32:10,039 --> 00:32:16,880 Yeah, you know what we're talking about. You don't. Oh, it's 460 00:32:17,119 --> 00:32:22,640 Jimmy Danny's book. I'll explain it real quick. But to answer your question, 461 00:32:23,039 --> 00:32:27,400 I mean, for me, it's the entirety of the person, because 462 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,839 I think you can have someone who's beautiful on the outside and then they have 463 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:37,200 what you need on the inside as well. Right now, you can't settle 464 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,519 for that. I mean, if that's what you want in someone, you 465 00:32:39,519 --> 00:32:44,599 can't settle. You shouldn't settle right, you know people do, and then 466 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,160 you know what happens after a while, You're going down the road in that 467 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,759 car and you go, I really want to get out of this car. 468 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,200 This car no longer works for me to paint in the ass. It's a 469 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:57,559 gas guzzler. It's really sucking up all my money. It's in the shop 470 00:32:57,599 --> 00:32:59,880 every once in a while. I can't drive it when I want to. 471 00:33:00,359 --> 00:33:04,279 You know, it doesn't do well on back roads. Need just need a 472 00:33:04,319 --> 00:33:07,400 newer model. It just needs a newer model, new updated mod just needs 473 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,640 something with a little more a little more modern technology. So basically, what 474 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:20,160 this is saying that is the basis of anxiety. Come on for anxiety. 475 00:33:20,359 --> 00:33:23,119 I haven't seen that one, but I've heard that no woman is single, 476 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:29,799 sane and hot. That's true. That is true. No woman is single, 477 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,920 sane and hot. That's what the scale is. That's what that scale 478 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,880 says. The hot. Yeah, yeah, you be egal parts hot, 479 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:40,480 the egle parts crazy of every woman there at least. Actually, it was 480 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:44,119 like if you're over the age of thirty, yes, I was like, 481 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,880 then there was the age part and if you're over the age of thirty to 482 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:54,359 be single attractive and saying was it was not yeah right, Yeah, No, 483 00:33:54,519 --> 00:33:58,839 I don't necessarily subscribe to that because if you're have you, if you've 484 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:00,559 been in a long term relationship, we've been in a relationship, and you're 485 00:34:00,599 --> 00:34:04,599 older and you're attractive. I like to think that it's you know, you 486 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,319 kind of get a better sense of what it is that you want or what 487 00:34:07,359 --> 00:34:10,280 you don't want, and then you understand better so you can pick better. 488 00:34:10,519 --> 00:34:17,800 Right about this today, what were you saying? Because Joe had said, 489 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,239 like, you know, I wish I would have had the past ten years 490 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,239 with you. I was like, I wasn't that person ten years ago. 491 00:34:24,599 --> 00:34:30,519 He was like he was a minor then. No, I was like I 492 00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:35,159 needed to go through my divorce and I needed my two and a half years 493 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,039 of being single to get to where I want to be in life to be 494 00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:43,159 able to put that forward, like I think I put the best version of 495 00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:47,400 me out there. So yeah, but he says that I'm not saying. 496 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,760 He's like, yeah, you're a little crazy. Got a little crazy, 497 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:59,920 is okay. But the hearings we did, we asked if anybody I know 498 00:35:00,119 --> 00:35:04,840 I know. I remember we're asking her if because she's coming on Saturday night 499 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:12,519 over to Iron Small and go. She said that ego parts crazy and the 500 00:35:12,519 --> 00:35:16,599 ego parts crazy. I said to her, she's bringing a whole bunch of 501 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,559 friends, and I said, how many. Who's got the biggest hoops? 502 00:35:21,599 --> 00:35:24,639 Are they hoopy? She said, the biggest hoop girl is going to be 503 00:35:24,679 --> 00:35:29,039 out of town hoop honey? Oh? Is that the one that went to 504 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:34,400 Stephanie's No, Like, I haven't really talked to No. Her hoops are 505 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,000 so big. The boy do you got to walk around? Yeah? Yeah? 506 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:44,440 Like, yeah, you don't want to be before get completely screwed over 507 00:35:44,519 --> 00:35:47,320 with that one. Yeah, I really I think as you get older, 508 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,719 you know, you have your boxes. Oh, by the way, Kevin, 509 00:35:52,039 --> 00:35:55,239 I didn't meet anybody on that next day. Remember you said out the 510 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,519 next day, Grey's gonna come back. He's gonna tell us he met somebody 511 00:35:58,559 --> 00:36:00,760 and he's gonna be just that's right. Remember, I just wanted to let 512 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,320 you know that that didn't happen. What was this now, Well we remember 513 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,559 where Stephanie was in here that night? She met Mike the next day, 514 00:36:07,679 --> 00:36:10,199 Yeah said, maybe well this year, maybe a little Gregg's chance, And 515 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:15,880 you know why went home. Greg's got Greg's got a bad attitude, his 516 00:36:16,039 --> 00:36:20,719 anxieties, girl love, He's not true. What you want to know that 517 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:25,639 you gotta not look. I don't think i'm looking. I don't think i'm 518 00:36:25,679 --> 00:36:29,239 I don't I don't even know what the fuck I'm doing right now other than 519 00:36:29,599 --> 00:36:31,320 trying to have a good time, enjoying my life, living every day like 520 00:36:31,679 --> 00:36:37,239 every day like is my birthday? Yes, but you get to you know 521 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,519 what your boxes are? Well, do you get you know your boxes? 522 00:36:38,599 --> 00:36:40,920 You know what you don't like? Yes. Some of the most important things 523 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:45,280 I've learned last ten years is what I don't want right it's I and I 524 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:49,400 think that even goes with cars. And there was a little more roomy, 525 00:36:49,519 --> 00:36:52,960 a little more comfortable. I like the automatic. If I could have paddle 526 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,559 shift, I like that. I like things where I can, you know, 527 00:36:54,599 --> 00:36:59,920 control the vollume. This year, having maintenance absolutely breag a card. 528 00:37:00,079 --> 00:37:01,480 It might just be tend to get into a minivan, Greg little chovey, 529 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:07,000 your sick never hurt nobody. You know. It's funny the car that I 530 00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:09,480 drove tonight is not a minivan. I would think it's not It's not the 531 00:37:09,519 --> 00:37:14,639 minivan. No, is it something else? It spits my personality it's like 532 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,360 it's like the women then the boxes. I checked for a little wind. 533 00:37:16,519 --> 00:37:21,400 Is it convertible? It is? Yeah? Does your hair fail like the 534 00:37:21,599 --> 00:37:24,360 h is Italian? Yeah, it's like the pins that will kill. I 535 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:28,119 was gonna say the eighteenth fin and O'll kill. Your hair is floating in 536 00:37:28,159 --> 00:37:32,119 it? You pull right up? Got it? That's right. I like 537 00:37:32,199 --> 00:37:36,880 that car. It's passionate, it's got a little adrenaline going yeah, right, 538 00:37:37,119 --> 00:37:38,679 and gets tisty. You can get feisty a little bit, right, 539 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:44,800 Ken. Yeah. I feel like when we were talking about what three qualities 540 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:46,440 I would want, you would have the same. For one, I was 541 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:50,119 like, I need adventurous. I need like, let's go for a hike. 542 00:37:50,199 --> 00:37:55,039 Let's go away this weekend. Greg doesn't hike to get away? Yeah, 543 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,199 yeah, Greg wants to get away to a beach. Greg hike to 544 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,400 the bar and around. That's true. I will do that too. But 545 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,679 you like to travel, I do, yeah, And that's like traveling is 546 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,639 super important to me. Yeah. Well, we share the same birth then 547 00:38:07,639 --> 00:38:12,000 there should be a lot of commonality there, right, that's true, of 548 00:38:12,039 --> 00:38:15,519 course, tours butt heads. Well, we're both subborn, so we're both 549 00:38:15,599 --> 00:38:20,719 right. Yes, it's very interesting. All right, we'll take a moment. 550 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:22,280 I'm not sure I think Danny is coming. I was going to hold 551 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:27,519 off on any bill stuff with the schedule because I know he had some thoughts 552 00:38:27,519 --> 00:38:29,960 too me. We went through it a little bit last night, but we 553 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:35,960 haven't asked Laura segment and people did write in. I asked for text messages 554 00:38:36,039 --> 00:38:39,199 or emails, and we have questions for Laura and everybody can comment on them 555 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,960 because I think some of these are a little more general. 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Yeah, the 582 00:40:52,440 --> 00:41:00,960 only white people know this. I don't know. No, get ready, 583 00:41:01,199 --> 00:41:13,599 that's gonna make with this ought to be anyone who takes it was like Stevie 584 00:41:13,599 --> 00:41:29,639 Wonder Marson, old Steve, it's Stevie you that that's instead aside, here 585 00:41:29,639 --> 00:41:38,679 we go. That's right and be what couldn't this? Chris is gonna play 586 00:41:38,679 --> 00:41:47,480 this Saturday night and iron shod kid me. I know now the first part 587 00:41:47,599 --> 00:41:53,239 I've never heard, never never heard the first she never paid attention prelude to 588 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:58,159 it. Yeah, I would have an attention spending listen to the prey lude 589 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:05,159 the so Saturday night iron smoke come on in. All the money is going 590 00:42:05,159 --> 00:42:09,199 to autism up which stays locally and helps really build a better community in my 591 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:15,119 in my opinion, and uh, Greg is it's his birthday, It's it's 592 00:42:15,199 --> 00:42:19,119 lived like every day is your birthday. It's the theme. It's not my 593 00:42:19,199 --> 00:42:22,760 birthday. No, Saturday is not my birthday. No, everybody thinks it 594 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:27,280 is. It's not. Yeah, who's gonna who do we have popping out 595 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,119 of the cake? Do we know who's gonna pop out of the cake? 596 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,079 That would be awesome, It was gonna be. It was gonna be Stephanie 597 00:42:37,119 --> 00:42:42,960 and Mike, but I wanted to be a complete surprise and uh, come 598 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,320 in, there'll be T shirts you can get right, Yeah, it's for 599 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,199 sale. It's your birthday t shirt. It's your birthday T shirt. All 600 00:42:49,199 --> 00:42:52,079 the proceeds, the ten dollars donation at the door goes right directly to Autism 601 00:42:52,119 --> 00:42:55,199 Up. And then the whatever you pay for the T shirt is that donation 602 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:59,320 directly Autism Up as well. There's they have no overhead, no costs. 603 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:05,679 There is is drinks. A drink a drink. So you know, Tommy 604 00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,239 and Jen his wife John are just phenomenal great people. So I said, 605 00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,599 I was like, we got we should have a specialty cocktail drink for the 606 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,679 night for it's your birthday. And so I talked to Tammy, who's one 607 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:20,400 of the bartenders who's really good friends with Rachel Dolan and Billy Dolan, and 608 00:43:20,559 --> 00:43:24,519 so her and Jen made a birthday cocktail, and the question came down to 609 00:43:24,679 --> 00:43:28,639 what is the name? WHI should the name be? So I gave them 610 00:43:28,679 --> 00:43:37,719 some quirky you know, and device, oh, yeah, that was terribly 611 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,440 mean. Why would you say that, Kevin? Yeah, because I just 612 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:46,079 took your I just took your set and spiked. Blame me, Blame Canada. 613 00:43:46,559 --> 00:43:50,840 So yeah, so there's gonna be a especially birth birthday cocktail. I 614 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,599 can't wait. Don't you know yet? I do know. It's gonna be 615 00:43:53,639 --> 00:44:00,480 called Gregg's Birthday juice. Oh, birthday juice. Wow, that's kind of 616 00:44:00,519 --> 00:44:04,639 like later out of the night. That's kinda be careful because yeah, you 617 00:44:04,679 --> 00:44:07,559 know, I didn't even think of it. I did not think Michael Jackson 618 00:44:07,599 --> 00:44:10,559 and Jesus juice. So you know, it's all good, it's all good 619 00:44:10,639 --> 00:44:20,199 there. I was excited for this now because I really wasn't sure what what 620 00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,199 my role was supposed to be, not as an MC, because a lot 621 00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:24,559 of times as an MC, you just go up, you introduce people, 622 00:44:24,679 --> 00:44:28,639 maybe say a few things, and move on. But I think that I 623 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:36,559 think I'm gonna whip out. I'm gonna dust some ship off. I'm coming 624 00:44:36,679 --> 00:44:42,159 dressed for this party. I'm coming dress birthday. Yeah. Yeah, I'm 625 00:44:42,199 --> 00:44:45,280 going to dress up Craig's birthday. Juice. Send the people in the front 626 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,719 row. Yeah, I'm gonna have a lemon in my pocket. It's gonna 627 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:52,199 be like a Gallagher show. Oh my god. I'll be wearing the birthday 628 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,119 T shirt. Okay, all right, well I should probably do that, 629 00:44:55,119 --> 00:44:59,559 but I was my birthday. I'm gonna come. I'm gonna come dressed and 630 00:44:59,599 --> 00:45:02,679 I'm gonna do uh fifteen or twenty minutes for the right price, it just 631 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:07,000 goes brit Chreser shirtless. Pay me to put it back out. O my 632 00:45:07,119 --> 00:45:10,679 god, that would be fantastic. That would that would be hilarious. So 633 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:14,440 this will be a lot of fun. I'm very excited. Trist is a 634 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:19,079 really popular band. They have a big following in the area and they're fantastic 635 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,559 and come on out, let's get a birthday drink and let's celebrate. And 636 00:45:22,679 --> 00:45:25,519 last Saturday we did the gall you were missed? Yeah and bother where did 637 00:45:25,559 --> 00:45:29,159 that go? It was great. They do such a great job and it 638 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,599 was fantastic and the messaging that they had and the services they continue to provide, 639 00:45:32,599 --> 00:45:37,400 not just for for the kids or families that are affected with autism, 640 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:42,480 but I mean the whole the whole caregiver community. And the Galla was fantastic. 641 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,840 It was a great time, great night, and now this weekend it's 642 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:50,280 everybody who didn't necessarily know about the gala or couldn't afford to go to the 643 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,800 galla, now you can go. It's ten dollars donation. That's it. 644 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,639 Where your jeans, bring your cowboy boots. We were a cowboy hat or 645 00:45:54,679 --> 00:45:58,320 whatever you want. It's low key. It's it's just lowy. It's a 646 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:02,039 very casual. Everyone's like reressed up. I'm wearing jeans. I'm wearing jeans 647 00:46:02,039 --> 00:46:05,400 and a T shirt. I'm not I'm coming. I'm coming. I might 648 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,719 even have a baseball hat. I'm going to make this like it's a set. 649 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,320 This is going to be a warm up for a set for me. 650 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,880 I'm gonna I'm gonna use it. I'm gonna write new material. I have 651 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,760 new materials. I had people messaging me that were at the gala. Oh 652 00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,119 really, Yeah, They're like, why are you here because I was supposed 653 00:46:19,119 --> 00:46:22,119 to go one. Yeah. It was great. That is one of my 654 00:46:22,159 --> 00:46:28,320 favorite events of the year in terms of Gallows because when you see the production 655 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,199 they put on in terms of like the families and the people that are affected, 656 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:35,159 and what they provide in terms of services, you can't get anything more 657 00:46:35,199 --> 00:46:38,800 motivating and inspiring that's local and stays local, right, I mean that's true. 658 00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,719 You have the Equi Center, you know, we did the Equi Center 659 00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:46,239 fundraiser, and they provide all the care for people that have are not to 660 00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:50,480 stay on the spectrum, but have all special needs. And that's great because 661 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:54,000 they're local. They're in mended it's the Horse Farm or the Very Horse Ranch, 662 00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:58,119 and that's phenomenal. Charlie Fox is the chair of the board for that 663 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,400 and Deb's part of that. So when you see get organizations like this that 664 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:04,159 are local and you know, the money stays local and provide services to the 665 00:47:04,159 --> 00:47:07,480 local community, it truly does enhance the entire community. I mean, in 666 00:47:07,519 --> 00:47:09,800 touches enhance the entire community, which is fantastic. And Autism up was one 667 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:15,599 that there was not a lot of services at all anywhere when these moms were 668 00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:20,719 kind of getting together and trying to figure things out, and it came from 669 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,800 I guess you could call it a coffee clutch to what it is now. 670 00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:28,599 And they did a lot of things and I one of my boys took social 671 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,440 classes there, you know, how to and now he's a waiter, and 672 00:47:31,519 --> 00:47:35,880 so those were things that he struggled with on the spectrum. And I think 673 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,920 that they do a lot of great work and they are modeled around the country. 674 00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,199 Now, yeah, you know, I mean Sarah and Lisa. It 675 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:45,000 was starting the coffee shop with moms that just want didn't know how to handle 676 00:47:45,159 --> 00:47:47,599 was to do things with their kids, and they tried to use best practice. 677 00:47:47,639 --> 00:47:52,719 I think the problem that they face now is aging out. Well, 678 00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:54,719 what happens with kids when they get older. So these moms are really trying 679 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:59,440 to figure that out. And I think some of the moms that had started 680 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:04,000 this, you know no longer may not even live in the area. Yeah, 681 00:48:04,039 --> 00:48:06,480 I think there's one or two that don't live in there. But actually 682 00:48:06,519 --> 00:48:08,719 the messaging at the Gallas Saturday night was exactly that. It's like, you 683 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,639 know, now, one of the women's son I think is twenty four, 684 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,920 right, and and the theme was you know, when they get to a 685 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:20,440 certain agent might have been twenty where they they you can't spill out. Tracy 686 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,400 Taylor the age, I don't care. I don't remember. The woman's name 687 00:48:22,519 --> 00:48:27,159 was, Yeah, I think she was blowing was one of because she was 688 00:48:27,159 --> 00:48:30,519 one of the founders. That's yeah, okay, Yeah. Tracy's son I 689 00:48:30,559 --> 00:48:34,280 think does really well. He's got his at twenty four, just took his 690 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:37,039 first out of town trip. Yeah. And she was telling me because she 691 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:43,079 is on how I'm on the board for epilepsy. She's on the committee with 692 00:48:43,119 --> 00:48:45,880 me, and so her and I have talked a lot about, like, 693 00:48:45,079 --> 00:48:52,119 you know, the cross paths of autism and having epilepsy. Ah, I 694 00:48:52,159 --> 00:48:55,760 got you, yeah, sort of the yeh inner circle that vent diagram. 695 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,239 And her remarks are really eye opening because she's like, you know, they 696 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,239 get to an age where they they age out of school even with their needs, 697 00:49:02,679 --> 00:49:05,880 and she's like, you know what happens when the school bus stops coming 698 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,159 together and it stops coming by. And I was just like, you know, 699 00:49:08,519 --> 00:49:10,719 holy shit, you're right. You know those are things. I mean, 700 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,880 I don't think of it because I'm not in it, but they are. 701 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:15,400 And one of the things that one of the challenges that they talked about 702 00:49:15,559 --> 00:49:21,639 was getting programming and services to help that transition because that's so important because now 703 00:49:21,679 --> 00:49:24,239 these kids are getting older and it doesn't stop. The needs don't stop because 704 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:30,199 you're year. I realized that Roberts Wesley and has something called the Bell Program, 705 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:34,800 which teaches kids people on the spectrum survive like I was going to say 706 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,440 survival skills, and I don't think that's really the accurate term, but skills 707 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:42,239 that they'll need everyday life skills, that sort of thing. And there were 708 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,039 graduates at the graduation of that program, and I think it's a two year 709 00:49:45,079 --> 00:49:50,719 program they have over there. So interestingly I learned at my board meeting last 710 00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:58,559 week for ALFRED is that they have special programming or special counselors to help with 711 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,840 kids that are in our engineering programs, and RIT has one as well, 712 00:50:01,599 --> 00:50:05,599 because a lot of kids that are in engineering and have that acuity and that 713 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:10,000 superior intellect or within the spectrum, but then they have other sensory needs that 714 00:50:10,079 --> 00:50:14,400 most kids don't have. And before they were just like, you know, 715 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:19,719 what's wrong with you? But we we at the university are providing services for 716 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,559 pet you know, students that fit into that spectrum just as well as they 717 00:50:23,559 --> 00:50:28,880 do it. RIT, which didn't exist five years ago, not at all. 718 00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,199 I have a friend who's the head of the psychology department at Saint John 719 00:50:31,199 --> 00:50:35,800 Fisher and he works with a lot of kids on the spectrum and has even 720 00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:39,599 written a book about some you know, some practices to help kids. And 721 00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:45,320 he thinks that autism is really part of evolution and that you're seeing some brilliant 722 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:50,559 minds, right, minds that are coming up with things as we evolve further 723 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,559 along. It's just it's a theory, right, Yeah. Who has said 724 00:50:53,679 --> 00:50:57,079 I'm I'm on the specrum. Yeah, right, I mean, and it's 725 00:50:57,119 --> 00:51:01,559 getting more. It's getting diagnosed later in life. I guess. Excester in 726 00:51:01,639 --> 00:51:05,599 law got diagnosed at forty one last year. She's a librarian, and he 727 00:51:05,639 --> 00:51:08,960 went, oh, that's why she's so well. Well yeah, but it 728 00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:13,199 was like, oh, well obvious. It's sort of obvious to me. 729 00:51:14,159 --> 00:51:19,840 But yeah, it's just it's that continuing lifelong skill. I almost feel like, 730 00:51:20,519 --> 00:51:22,360 you know, labels, a lot of times they help get services when 731 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:28,079 you're young. Sometimes I also see them as a way to putting you in 732 00:51:28,119 --> 00:51:30,519 that pocket. But at the same time, if it helps people be a 733 00:51:30,559 --> 00:51:35,000 little more patient and kind to you and give you a chance, you start 734 00:51:35,039 --> 00:51:38,000 to see the person for what they who they are, and not so much 735 00:51:38,039 --> 00:51:42,159 of why they act this way as kids. Like people would look at my 736 00:51:42,599 --> 00:51:45,400 younger son and be like, he's wild, and I was like, he's 737 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:52,800 diagnosed ADHD almost odd oppositional defiance disorder. Like he's wild, but he has 738 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:58,559 diagnosis and he's on medicine now. So and that's you know, from when 739 00:51:58,599 --> 00:52:00,840 we grew up. You know, if you're pretty nine teen eighty five again 740 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,639 going back to the eighty five number. Uh, it's mindfulness, right, 741 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,199 It's a matter of now understanding and appreciating and just being more patient, under 742 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:13,079 in kind and being mindful that just because something doesn't it just because they may 743 00:52:13,119 --> 00:52:15,440 look like you but they don't act like you, right, you know, 744 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:20,599 don't be intolerant to it, right, and you know, and then teenage 745 00:52:20,679 --> 00:52:22,480 kids are just hard on it. I mean you could be you know, 746 00:52:23,159 --> 00:52:28,920 not within it or normal and you get picked on and ricked on cours that 747 00:52:29,119 --> 00:52:32,559 have those noticeable differences or even worse, and it affects them even more because 748 00:52:32,599 --> 00:52:37,000 they have a lot I don't remember. And I was a kid who loved 749 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,400 ball busting, but when there were kids, but when they were but it 750 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:45,079 was with people that were equal, Ina, do you understand what I'm saying, 751 00:52:45,119 --> 00:52:49,719 Like when there were kids that seem like they a they didn't really like 752 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,000 that or they didn't tolerate it, we didn't mess with them. And the 753 00:52:52,079 --> 00:52:57,679 kids that were clearly on the spectrum or weren't special classes, you didn't pick 754 00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:00,000 on them. It also looked true for them. But to think about the 755 00:53:00,079 --> 00:53:06,960 thing about because there are two or three kids in Hornell when I was in 756 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:12,239 school that were really smart that would like rip on me. They were smarter, 757 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,519 I mean, they were uber smart people and I wasn't and so they 758 00:53:15,639 --> 00:53:16,960 used to love to make fun of me. Well I would then get after 759 00:53:17,039 --> 00:53:21,519 them. Well now that I've now that I'm older and I get exposed to 760 00:53:21,559 --> 00:53:24,239 this. They were on the spectrum, yes, and I was not a 761 00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:29,360 nice kid necessarily. They weren't always nice to me. But I should have 762 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,840 known better. I mean, so when you but well, my point was 763 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:36,559 like with my kids is you know in their mom who was who was a 764 00:53:36,599 --> 00:53:39,719 special ed teacher. She always makes them aware of these things just because you 765 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:43,599 can't see it. She can like look at someone and how they stand and 766 00:53:43,599 --> 00:53:46,159 be like, well that person is whatever, and so I think I think 767 00:53:46,199 --> 00:53:51,679 today's society is much more educated and aware. I mean, last month was 768 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:55,400 February was Autism Awareness Month, and it's just talking about it like now. 769 00:53:55,519 --> 00:53:59,519 So when you see it, people that can listen will actually kind of have 770 00:53:59,559 --> 00:54:01,960 a little more patients are a little more understanding. That goes a long way. 771 00:54:02,159 --> 00:54:07,079 We're talking to someone who might have some of those special needs, and 772 00:54:07,119 --> 00:54:09,320 but just being kind and nice and polite to them, just saying hello, 773 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,360 ask them how they're doing, right, I mean, you know, because 774 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,480 a lot of times are isolated and sort of like you see that that's a 775 00:54:15,519 --> 00:54:20,840 little weird guy or whatever, but it's someone who could have been brilliant and 776 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:24,119 love You would love talking to them and learn things from them and this sort 777 00:54:24,119 --> 00:54:28,800 of thing. But we isolate and don't and avoid. And it's different when 778 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:32,760 it's not a physical disability. Yes, like if you sort of along that 779 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:37,199 lines, if you see someone with Down syndrome, like you right, you 780 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,119 know it's right, yeah, visible, and so you sort of treat them 781 00:54:39,119 --> 00:54:45,119 with a little more kindness. You can't tell when someone has autism or even 782 00:54:45,159 --> 00:54:50,880 anxiety like anything. I mean, Nie, why can they usually walk around 783 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,559 with the gray boot couldn't get it out. The greatest bottle. H niece 784 00:54:54,639 --> 00:54:59,960 has tourettes, and you think that tourette says like the vocal texts and every 785 00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:05,599 she has raised. She is a beautiful seventeen year old who punches holes in 786 00:55:05,679 --> 00:55:13,239 her walls like wow, yeah in the day time, but she doesn't like 787 00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:17,119 people don't understand, like it's a true disability. I learned a new term 788 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:22,199 last Saturday night as well, what's a neuro deficient. I'd never heard that 789 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:27,519 term before, neuro deficient And that's part of the you know, I guess 790 00:55:27,599 --> 00:55:32,679 moving away from the term autism spectrum and the neuro deficiency and I was just 791 00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:36,800 like, oh, you know what, that makes it even more understanding. 792 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:38,920 And you know, the sensory needs, you know, those are things that 793 00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:44,559 that you can't you know. Jennifer helps out and you see the kids, 794 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:49,079 her friend's kids, and they all look like normal kids, right, but 795 00:55:49,199 --> 00:55:53,039 they have neural deficiencies and they have sensory and you can't look at somebody and 796 00:55:53,119 --> 00:55:58,480 know that no, And so most people and this is where people of our 797 00:55:58,519 --> 00:56:02,039 generation and older have that intolerance, you know, and then you suck it 798 00:56:02,119 --> 00:56:05,280 up and they deal with it and all that. It's like, well, 799 00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:09,079 you know, how about being a little more understanding. There's a book, 800 00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:15,760 Oh God, I forget the name of it. But this guy had was 801 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:20,920 on the spectrum but obviously not diagnosed early on. And this is where I 802 00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:24,920 always I always worry a little bit sometimes when we start like classifying or trying 803 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:30,000 to sometimes fix some things. I think tolerance needs to be taught. I 804 00:56:30,039 --> 00:56:32,440 think the sensory stuff is really good. I think that the spectrum is a 805 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:37,039 spectrum that you can be on it and at one level, and you could 806 00:56:37,039 --> 00:56:39,880 be on it at another, and we have different things. But this was 807 00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:45,280 what was interesting to me is this kid's parents were both professors at MIT, 808 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,960 but they were like drinkers and kind of not, you know, a little 809 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:53,039 absent from life. And he took off and lived in the woods for a 810 00:56:53,039 --> 00:56:59,119 while, and he would break into the MIT labs using his dad's card and 811 00:56:59,199 --> 00:57:04,239 invent all kinds of things. So the band April No, it's like that, 812 00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,000 but the band April Wine, this is it's all true. April Wine 813 00:57:07,039 --> 00:57:12,639 was coming around and they needed somebody who could fix amps and stuff. So 814 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:16,239 this guy loved doing that and he wound up fixing amps and they wound up 815 00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:22,880 going down and rehearsing for a big tour and an airplane hangar in Long Island, 816 00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:28,079 and right after him was Kiss coming in. So Kiss comes in and 817 00:57:28,119 --> 00:57:30,599 this guy's fixing stuff and some of the guys and Kiss ask him, well, 818 00:57:30,639 --> 00:57:34,519 can you do this? So he makes the guitars that shoot off, 819 00:57:35,039 --> 00:57:37,880 like the sparks and the flames and all that shit, and he's making all 820 00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:39,960 this money. He would go on tour with them, and then when there 821 00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:44,480 was no tour, he was making no money. And it was just this 822 00:57:44,679 --> 00:57:47,639 brilliance that he had that was never stifled, you know what I mean. 823 00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:52,199 And he was allowed to explore at his own level and his own rate. 824 00:57:52,639 --> 00:57:55,840 And I don't think anybody's trying to discourage anyone, but I sometimes feel like, 825 00:57:57,679 --> 00:57:59,800 you know, water, I'll seek its own level. There's a certain 826 00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,840 things this guy really had an interest. Let him go and he did amazing 827 00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:07,360 stuff and then went on and later on, uh I was diagnosed and somebody 828 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:09,400 said to him, hey, you never make eye contact. You don't do 829 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:14,159 this, and he now had at last I knew he had one of the 830 00:58:14,199 --> 00:58:20,880 biggest import dealerships used car dealerships in the northeast, and he would I know, 831 00:58:21,679 --> 00:58:23,840 Aston Martin, but he would rebuild. He could fix all the engines 832 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:28,119 and stuff. And he wound up building and building and making a ton of 833 00:58:28,199 --> 00:58:32,679 money and doing that sort of thing. Er keyword of tolerance is is so 834 00:58:32,719 --> 00:58:37,760 important. But every single person to learn something, you just got to, 835 00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:42,199 you know, you let him go and do that sort of thing. Should 836 00:58:42,199 --> 00:58:46,760 we do well? 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Yeah, So it's gonna be good weather, it's gonna be 874 01:01:35,639 --> 01:01:44,079 out. Oh, it's gonna yeah. I get lawn seats you're in I'm 875 01:01:44,199 --> 01:01:46,079 envisioning. If it's gonna be brunal where I'm envisioning it, there won't be 876 01:01:46,119 --> 01:01:52,599 a lawn but really yeah, alright, awesome, but it'll be a brand 877 01:01:52,599 --> 01:01:58,760 new, nice, beautiful stadium. Oh you get turf seats, Dan, 878 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:02,119 I can't imagine, like, can't imagine, Laura. We have the ask 879 01:02:02,239 --> 01:02:05,960 Laura, Yes, yes, and people can now hear us online. I 880 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,960 think we last segment something I fat fingered something over here, So I apologize 881 01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:14,079 these So I put it out on social media that you were going to be 882 01:02:14,079 --> 01:02:16,079 in That's why I even called. I texted you to make sure that A 883 01:02:16,199 --> 01:02:20,159 you're going to be here and you're okay with this, I'm all right. 884 01:02:20,239 --> 01:02:23,559 So Laura, this person says, I absolutely adore when there is a woman 885 01:02:23,639 --> 01:02:29,519 on the podcast. It's like adding a sprinkle of fairy dust to the usual 886 01:02:29,559 --> 01:02:37,440 banter. Bill has mentioned he's keen on starting an asked Laura segment. Now 887 01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:43,840 here's my burning question. Do names come with built in with a built in 888 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:47,960 personality manual? I mean, are all Karen's naturally? Karen asked? Are 889 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:53,039 all Bills just to tad well? Quirky? I'm pondering this because brace yourself. 890 01:02:53,199 --> 01:02:58,400 Both my ex wife and my current on again off again flames share the 891 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:02,079 moniker Laura, and while they don't resemble each other physically. They share this 892 01:03:02,239 --> 01:03:07,599 uncanny ability to take charge, boss around and occasionally make me question my manhood. 893 01:03:09,519 --> 01:03:13,320 Was a question coming in from yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, 894 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:17,119 okay, okay, I know where you were going. I knew what 895 01:03:17,159 --> 01:03:21,800 he was thinking. Dear Laura, I'm laying it all out. Do you 896 01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:25,039 possess the same traits? They really bother me? Should I wave the white 897 01:03:25,079 --> 01:03:30,320 flag on Laura's and set sails for the shores of gens or Ashley's Helpable fund 898 01:03:30,559 --> 01:03:43,360 Soul and George and SODA's Connor and mended, Well, it's funny because I 899 01:03:43,519 --> 01:03:46,679 was my ex husband's third Laura on the row. Really, yeah, third 900 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:52,119 Laura in a row. That's always good in case you say the wrong name, 901 01:03:52,639 --> 01:03:54,840 like in a fight, even just even in a fight, Jesus Christ. 902 01:03:55,719 --> 01:04:01,000 I definitely think names have nothing to do with it unless you get into 903 01:04:01,079 --> 01:04:08,599 the like mmmm, like if it ends in like a I don't know, 904 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,519 well, would you Let's say, is there a name of a guy you 905 01:04:11,519 --> 01:04:14,960 would avoid? Do you have a bad experience with a twenty seven year old 906 01:04:15,039 --> 01:04:20,320 Kyle or Kyle's are out or I don't feel like I feel like a Keith 907 01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:26,559 would be a little old school for Yeah, so I don't think generationally. 908 01:04:27,039 --> 01:04:30,159 But a Kyle, Yeah, like a Kyle is going to be fine. 909 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:36,440 I mean, you have the ones, the all of you guys, Bill 910 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:44,039 like that, Danny, like those names are they're old and they're new, 911 01:04:44,239 --> 01:04:48,639 like you know. So, but like if you go, if you go 912 01:04:48,719 --> 01:04:55,079 with one of the newer names, then I'm going to say, like an 913 01:04:55,119 --> 01:04:59,119 Olivia, you're gonna feel like they're gonna be a little more entitled. I 914 01:04:59,119 --> 01:05:03,719 would say Mackenzie. I don't disagree with that. Like, when we were 915 01:05:03,719 --> 01:05:09,320 thinking about names for the boys, I wanted it to be simple right now. 916 01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,480 I wanted to name you could get outside. It had to be multi 917 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:17,960 salable so I could go Geordan, goddamn alarm and I didn't. I wanted 918 01:05:18,079 --> 01:05:24,400 to be I could just yell it and and so and will will is my 919 01:05:24,519 --> 01:05:27,239 dad is a legacy name, So it was William. But I didn't want 920 01:05:27,239 --> 01:05:30,159 to call him Bill because I didn't want my dad was Bill. And then 921 01:05:30,159 --> 01:05:33,239 I had a brother, Billy, so we wanted it was like Will or 922 01:05:33,679 --> 01:05:36,760 ultimatelyater on Liam, but I'm like, yeah, he's I don't know, 923 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:40,320 he's not. He doesn't really like a Liam. He's not a, he's 924 01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:43,440 more of a will. And then with Luke, I just wanted a four 925 01:05:43,559 --> 01:05:46,039 letter name. I wanted it simple. We had Matthew, Mark, and 926 01:05:46,199 --> 01:05:48,480 John. We didn't have Luke. So I was like, I got to 927 01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:54,079 complete it. So I named But I thought about it, and you talk 928 01:05:54,119 --> 01:05:56,840 about so I thought, I'm like, Okay, is there anybody that's named 929 01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:00,159 Luke that I don't like? And everybody that I knew Luke I really liked. 930 01:06:00,199 --> 01:06:04,960 There you go. Now, there are some names that kind of resonate 931 01:06:05,039 --> 01:06:09,440 that the person. You know, if you have a bad experience with somebody 932 01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,840 that has a name, you tend to stay away from that. YEA like 933 01:06:13,039 --> 01:06:16,719 Ashley. I always thought it was a hot name until I met somebody Ashley 934 01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:19,199 and she ruined it for me. Ashley, it's sort of a hot name. 935 01:06:19,239 --> 01:06:23,360 It was a hot name. But then I met somebody Ashley and she 936 01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:26,920 wasn't she was attractive, she really pretty faced. She was just big and 937 01:06:27,079 --> 01:06:30,199 uh just got rude and obnoxious. I go, fuck you just ruined an 938 01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:33,079 entire name for my girl. Name was always Lauren. If I ever had 939 01:06:33,079 --> 01:06:36,039 a daughter, it was gonna be Lauren. Lauren, Lauren, Oh, 940 01:06:36,159 --> 01:06:42,400 Lauren, not Laura. Lauren similar and it was for me for a girl, 941 01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,920 it was Julia. Really it was Julia. I wanted, uh, 942 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:51,960 white trash background. My parents like were split before I wasn't even practically born. 943 01:06:54,039 --> 01:06:58,159 My dad wantn't to name was Tom Brady. Yeah, my mom got 944 01:06:58,199 --> 01:07:03,360 fat. Sorry, wow, wow, they don't It's okay. Yeah, 945 01:07:03,599 --> 01:07:06,519 but my dad wanted to name me Laurie and my mom wanted to name me 946 01:07:06,559 --> 01:07:11,519 Laura. And because they were never together when I was born, I went 947 01:07:11,559 --> 01:07:17,079 by Laurie and Laura. Oh yeah, so by both. Wow, depends 948 01:07:17,159 --> 01:07:27,840 on who. Now. I was gonna name jameson Uh, I was gonna 949 01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:30,599 name him Seamus, but I and he probably would have fit as a shamous, 950 01:07:30,719 --> 01:07:36,880 which means Jamison basically. And I don't remember why. And then if 951 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:41,079 I'm told it would be that I didn't want it, but I think I 952 01:07:41,159 --> 01:07:45,679 did. I don't. I don't know, my memory gets it. Sometimes 953 01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:51,840 I got hit with that men in black stick and I don't remember that whatever 954 01:07:53,199 --> 01:07:57,559 I called the men in black I would just say to George that if there's 955 01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:05,320 a more your name again, they're going to be more a little stuck up, 956 01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:10,159 little stuck up. Contrary to Kevin. It doesn't mean a fucking thing. 957 01:08:11,039 --> 01:08:14,199 No, you're Oero for two or over four. Wear your fucking name. 958 01:08:14,719 --> 01:08:17,560 It's the goddamn person, it's not. The goddamn names were very different, 959 01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:20,800 yes, yes, all right, Uh here's another one, Laura, 960 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:31,119 fucker him. Yes it was in your opinion, Mark Anthony Ken. A 961 01:08:31,199 --> 01:08:35,880 woman and a man maintain a rock solid friendship while they're both hits to other 962 01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:40,840 people. Here's why, I ask. My wife and this dude, Dave 963 01:08:41,119 --> 01:08:46,079 have been inseparable since they're pimply middle school days, and Dave has his own 964 01:08:46,159 --> 01:08:51,840 misses too. Absolutely. But here's where it gets interesting. She's spilling her 965 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:56,439 life story to Dave like he's the human equivalent of a Locke diary, leaving 966 01:08:56,479 --> 01:09:00,279 me feeling like the third wheel in our own marriage. I know this because 967 01:09:00,359 --> 01:09:04,199 Dave's dropping uh the sly hints my way, like he's some kind of relationship 968 01:09:04,279 --> 01:09:09,800 yoda, and I'm in dire need of his sage advice. So is this 969 01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:13,800 freaking normal? Or have I stumbled into a sitcom level plot twist where I 970 01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:18,680 may be visiting my ex Dave and our kids dat. Laura, Yeah, 971 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:24,880 I can't wait you Okay? I think fulheartedly? A man in a female 972 01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:28,840 can be friends, especially if it goes back to their preteen ways. But 973 01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:33,239 this man needs to take his wife to therapy, take his wife to they 974 01:09:33,239 --> 01:09:36,760 because she's not telling him, because they need to go to marriage's therapy together. 975 01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:41,600 Because she's totally holding back on him. She doesn't feel comfortable, So 976 01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:45,720 why is she talking to this guy. She's definitely breaking some boundaries, like 977 01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:50,119 emotional guy is then going to her. Oh my god, I really think 978 01:09:50,279 --> 01:09:56,640 I think a man and a woman can absolutely be friends. But she is 979 01:09:56,760 --> 01:10:00,119 sort of I don't know, she's sort of like playing some weird type of 980 01:10:00,159 --> 01:10:06,239 game and she just needs to be forward with her husband. She's not going 981 01:10:06,319 --> 01:10:09,920 to talk to him in person and be like, do we need to go 982 01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:13,720 to therapy so that whatever you're saying to Dave, you'll say to me. 983 01:10:14,199 --> 01:10:15,640 Yeah, why do you feel more comfortable saying that to Dave than you? 984 01:10:16,159 --> 01:10:20,560 Yeah? Right, there's either there's a trust issue there or there is something 985 01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:28,560 that she doesn't feel comfortable with right or and now from a man's perspective, 986 01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:30,479 yeah, that would bother the well, from a man's perspective. On the 987 01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:35,640 other side, because I have many friends who are women who I have zero 988 01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:42,560 interested in and and so I've had that friendship for years. Some of them 989 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:44,600 have been for twenty plus years, some of them have been for five or 990 01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:46,960 six years. But I have zero interest in them. But I never felt 991 01:10:47,039 --> 01:10:50,319 like there was a threat to any relationship. But it's not about what I 992 01:10:50,359 --> 01:10:54,239 think. It's about what does the other person think. So if he's feeling 993 01:10:54,279 --> 01:10:57,479 that he's threatened in any way or feels left out, he needs to then 994 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,760 make sure that there is or I think give sage advice and says, you 995 01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:04,199 need to go talk to somebod about us so you can facilitate it. Now 996 01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:09,600 I had to seek out the woman whisperer so you could translate the woman. 997 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:13,239 I'm calling him the woman whisperer. And who would that be? He's a 998 01:11:13,359 --> 01:11:17,079 personalized dude, Yeah, okay, who's And it was like, okay, 999 01:11:17,119 --> 01:11:19,600 when when somebody said, when a woman says, it's whether it be? 1000 01:11:20,119 --> 01:11:26,359 You know, sometimes even at work in terms of figuring out different ways people 1001 01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:29,760 communicate, what does it mean? So people says, people say things, 1002 01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:33,720 but they don't necessarily what they say isn't what they mean. You have to 1003 01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:38,199 figure it out. And when it's a man and a woman, we communicate 1004 01:11:38,279 --> 01:11:43,439 so differently that you need to have a different mindset of Okay, when somebody 1005 01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:45,399 says this, I'm hearing this, but what are they actually meaning? And 1006 01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:48,840 having somebody on the outside looking in translating, I think is very helpful. 1007 01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:54,920 Yeah, actual therapy is usually a couple's therapy is usually good if it's helping 1008 01:11:54,960 --> 01:12:00,560 the communication, and I think that that's a big thing happen if say the 1009 01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:03,199 wife is going to her best friend one name, did we say, Julia, 1010 01:12:03,399 --> 01:12:06,199 like and telling Julia, and then Julia is going to the husband. 1011 01:12:06,279 --> 01:12:13,000 If the wife is complaining about her husband to someone else, like she should 1012 01:12:13,039 --> 01:12:17,199 feel comfortable talking to her husband. So there's definitely there's issues there. So 1013 01:12:17,279 --> 01:12:20,960 no matter what gender, it could be her mother that she's talking to. 1014 01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:25,479 Like, if there's something, do you think anybody outside of the marriage that 1015 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:29,239 you're taking marital problems to that's a problem within the marriage. There's a difference 1016 01:12:29,279 --> 01:12:35,640 between venting and then having someone go in, like getting those nudges towards the 1017 01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:42,119 husband. The husband, it's going to make you feel awkward, like threatened. 1018 01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:45,760 I'm gonna feel threatened, ye, Like why dude came to me Like, 1019 01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:48,479 oh, you know, I'm your I'm the Yoda of your relationship. 1020 01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:53,840 Yeah, I'm going to kick the living ship out right now when you're manning 1021 01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:55,920 the grill and he's like, hey, it's time to flip those stakes. 1022 01:12:56,199 --> 01:12:59,359 That's it, We're done. If I was, I was like, hey, 1023 01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,960 maybe you should should try this with Beth, or maybe you should maybe 1024 01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:10,880 you should you know, like evaborated milk. It really brings out the glow 1025 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:15,359 of it helps those calf muscles to get up tomorrow. Yeah, like you 1026 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:20,319 you know that there are in the air. So Danny made his comment earlier. 1027 01:13:20,359 --> 01:13:26,079 I think it went unnoticed to many of us. To many I didn't. 1028 01:13:26,119 --> 01:13:30,199 To me, emotional adultery, Yes, I thought that was bullshit. 1029 01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:35,119 No it's not. I thought it was bullshit. As a person who you 1030 01:13:35,119 --> 01:13:42,319 know, my emotional side was stunted or is stunted or was stunted is I 1031 01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:45,680 never for me, emotional adultery didn't exist. How could you have emotional adultery? 1032 01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,760 I mean for me, it was, you know, my emotions were 1033 01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:54,840 tied into my to to the person you're with in the physicality of the relationship 1034 01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:58,159 and all that. So the emotional adultery to me was like I mean, 1035 01:13:58,359 --> 01:14:00,479 I'm connected to a lot of people for a lot of different reasons. Well, 1036 01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:04,920 I'm not cheating. I'm not cheating on someone in my mind in that 1037 01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:10,520 context. But in a relationship, it's not about what I think. It's 1038 01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,239 about what the person I'm with things. Yeah, I think, And so 1039 01:14:13,319 --> 01:14:16,479 that the adultery, sorry, be the adultery for me, isn't what I 1040 01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,479 think is adultery. It's what the other person thinks is adultery. Yes, 1041 01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:23,279 because somebody said to me, oh, have you ever cheated? You know, 1042 01:14:23,359 --> 01:14:25,960 did you ever cheat on someone? I'm like never. They're like, 1043 01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:28,000 well, how about you have this friend and that friend, and you would 1044 01:14:28,039 --> 01:14:29,840 do this with this friend and that with that friend. You wouldn't do it 1045 01:14:30,119 --> 01:14:32,279 with your your partner. And I was like, well, I wasn't cheating. 1046 01:14:32,279 --> 01:14:35,159 They're like, WHOA, Well she didn't want to go, she wasn't 1047 01:14:35,199 --> 01:14:39,960 interested. I was like, okay, well then sometimes she's not interested though, 1048 01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:43,479 because you didn't make her feel wanted or welcomed or this isn't what I 1049 01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:45,760 do with you. So there, and you don't think anything I get. 1050 01:14:45,760 --> 01:14:49,079 I don't think anything of it. No, I think it's also a problem 1051 01:14:49,159 --> 01:14:54,439 to like this guy, Laura, and I think it's emotional adultery in a 1052 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:58,079 way. When you start talking about the problems in your relationship with somebody else, 1053 01:14:59,039 --> 01:15:02,520 you start forming a bond that's kind of like a creepy bond, and 1054 01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:08,319 you've got an intimacy there. There's an intimacy to that, right, these 1055 01:15:08,319 --> 01:15:11,720 are problems I don't talk about with anybody else. Hey, I've never told 1056 01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:16,960 anybody this. That's an intimacy and it can become problematic if it's you know, 1057 01:15:17,039 --> 01:15:23,640 your marriage and you're not you're not doing else once. Yeah, venting 1058 01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:29,039 about something is different than asking, and I think that's emotional adultery. I 1059 01:15:29,079 --> 01:15:30,760 do. I think like leaning on somebody else that when you should be well, 1060 01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:33,920 this is your gender. This is a gender issue to me now these 1061 01:15:34,039 --> 01:15:38,640 days, it's a gender issue to me. If it's a if if I'm 1062 01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:43,359 talking with my buddies and I'm complaining or venting about this and that with one 1063 01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:47,279 of my guys, I don't that to me is a guy thing that guys 1064 01:15:47,399 --> 01:15:51,199 just do. And if if if she's venting with one of her girlfriends or 1065 01:15:51,279 --> 01:15:57,800 someone of that nature. But when you cross the line and you include a 1066 01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,800 male into that, and if you're a female or if you're a male, 1067 01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:02,680 and then as you bring in the female, I think that to me, 1068 01:16:03,359 --> 01:16:06,359 at this stage of my life where I'm at now, you just that that 1069 01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:12,359 is a recipe for absolute disaster. So to you know, it's just interesting 1070 01:16:13,199 --> 01:16:17,600 that this is coming up and you're saying that I follow somebody on TikTok because 1071 01:16:17,640 --> 01:16:23,600 I was so interested. It's this pretty woman and she's talking she has an 1072 01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:28,199 open marriage, So right, okay, I'm with you because I go, 1073 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:31,760 I don't know, I don't think I can handle that. But it was 1074 01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:38,479 really interesting. They have kids, and they were monogamous for like a year 1075 01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:42,279 and a half after the kid was born and all that, and then she 1076 01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:47,279 was talking about how she had she was dating, like several other people like 1077 01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:53,119 Greg, and you got to see this woman unassuming, like just this pretty. 1078 01:16:53,199 --> 01:16:56,079 She looks like she stepped out of an Ivory Coast commercial. You know 1079 01:16:56,159 --> 01:16:59,079 what I'm saying, like very wholesome, all American. I know that that 1080 01:16:59,279 --> 01:17:01,800 sounds bad, but that's that's what I saw. And she's talking about how 1081 01:17:02,319 --> 01:17:05,399 he wanted her, and he's like, look, I need you to be 1082 01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:10,439 monogamous for a while with something's going on, and she's like, if our 1083 01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:15,439 base isn't good, she said, So I wasn't monogamous immediately because I wanted 1084 01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:20,359 time to say goodbye to all these other people I know. I want so 1085 01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:26,000 badly in her, so bad I'm fascinated. It's all over TikTok. It 1086 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:30,880 could be complete bullshit, but it could be. But she's she's just talking 1087 01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:34,399 to the camera in her backyard. So I'm from the king Society said she 1088 01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:39,720 had just gotten married and she had a date with another Yeah of oz. 1089 01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:45,640 Yeah, dude, I get so that's adultery. Adultery, but then yeah, 1090 01:17:45,680 --> 01:17:47,800 you get jealous. What I guess, it's a matter of how comfortable 1091 01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:51,680 you are with yourself, and so I guess if you're that coming with yourself. 1092 01:17:53,159 --> 01:17:57,359 But I just I, yeah, there's a weird thing, right, 1093 01:17:57,640 --> 01:18:01,920 an open relationship and an open marriage. And then somebody may have seen her 1094 01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:05,079 on TikTok and outitor to her parents, so she had to sit down and 1095 01:18:05,479 --> 01:18:10,880 yeah, it's really interesting to me from the psychological factor, like if you 1096 01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:14,520 didn't want to out there, she wanted to put it on, but I 1097 01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:17,239 think or maybe somebody who knew said I'm going to tell your parents in that 1098 01:18:17,399 --> 01:18:20,039 and then she went on TikTok, so maybe they knew. Now I don't 1099 01:18:20,079 --> 01:18:29,239 remember exactly how that went. I haven't watched enough of them, but yeah, 1100 01:18:29,399 --> 01:18:32,680 I'm ready. If he's questioning his wife, though, confront her and 1101 01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:38,439 if you really think that there's an as you fight for it, well maybe 1102 01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:43,199 that's what she wants to right there. There could be a whole thing about 1103 01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:47,319 I'm not saying you can, speaking from experience, like wanting your spouse to 1104 01:18:47,399 --> 01:18:53,079 like actively put an effort and playing for you, honey, I'm not saying 1105 01:18:53,239 --> 01:18:57,279 you can't be friends with Charles, but I'd like you to share your thoughts 1106 01:18:57,279 --> 01:19:00,560 with me. First. I know a couple that I know, A guy 1107 01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:05,159 who he is, he's got he's got a wife, and they both are 1108 01:19:05,239 --> 01:19:10,840 good friends with his like high school best friend who's a girl for years and 1109 01:19:10,880 --> 01:19:13,239 it's like it's no big deal, dude, I got it just a way. 1110 01:19:13,279 --> 01:19:15,840 It's just the way it's always been, and that's never been a problem. 1111 01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:18,960 I have guy friends, It's who I am. But I'm not going 1112 01:19:19,039 --> 01:19:26,039 to cheat on my boyfriend so favorous last words, what so one of my 1113 01:19:26,199 --> 01:19:30,199 high one of my college best friends, uh in, one of the women 1114 01:19:30,239 --> 01:19:33,359 who he knew we knew in high school, and she went to college with 1115 01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:40,800 us. They reconnected down in southern Pennsylvania and northern Maryland and they and they 1116 01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,479 had kills kids the same age, and they played sports together, so they 1117 01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:47,279 became friends, and and him and his wife and he and I were roommates 1118 01:19:47,279 --> 01:19:51,760 in college, and one of our mutual friends and her husband hung out together, 1119 01:19:53,079 --> 01:19:56,000 and they got out together for a while and it was all fun games 1120 01:19:56,039 --> 01:20:02,239 whatever. The kids got older got older. His wife is now married to 1121 01:20:02,279 --> 01:20:06,840 her at hosband. So my buddy, I'm not gonna use his name because 1122 01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:13,479 some people I know who I go to college would listen. His wife cheated 1123 01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:17,600 on him with our good friend's husband and they got divorced and then they got 1124 01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:23,239 married. I was like, are you fucking kidding me? And they were 1125 01:20:23,279 --> 01:20:25,319 just like tips, like yeah, we were friends, were all hung out 1126 01:20:25,359 --> 01:20:30,039 together. We can fire, we can somebody just took that far and they 1127 01:20:30,079 --> 01:20:33,399 went too far. And it was like and he trusted her and she trusted 1128 01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:38,279 him, and they broke that trust, and it was I'm just like, 1129 01:20:38,359 --> 01:20:40,640 so when I heard that story, the first thing that came to my mind 1130 01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:44,399 was him, and I just thought to myself, I'm and again, I'm 1131 01:20:44,399 --> 01:20:49,680 a people I'm insecure about those types of things. Can't find Oh my god, 1132 01:20:53,720 --> 01:21:00,520 of course it's called webster. Oh Staten island of our area. I 1133 01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:04,119 mean, yeah, what So swingers are just people who have just broken up 1134 01:21:04,159 --> 01:21:11,640 and reconnecttions to have swapped, not even necessarily swat, but one partner yeah 1135 01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:15,439 and the other yeah, and they are they still together? Sometimes those things 1136 01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:19,600 don't work out. Some the grass greener for minutes, yeah, and then 1137 01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:25,640 you then you say hot factor. The other thing I would say that George, 1138 01:21:25,680 --> 01:21:29,960 is that I'm a firm believer in evolution. Everybody evolves in a seven 1139 01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:32,000 to ten year process, right, and if you look back, if you 1140 01:21:32,039 --> 01:21:34,640 look back seven years, you're different today than you were seven years ago. 1141 01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:39,520 And in relationships, as you change, that person changes, and depending how 1142 01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:42,279 long you're together in a relationship, and so sometimes you got to check that 1143 01:21:42,359 --> 01:21:45,640 with that person to make sure you guys are evolving and you're on your same 1144 01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:48,479 on the same path forward. And so this may be an opportunity for him 1145 01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:51,960 to reconnect with his wife to say where are we evolving in the same direction? 1146 01:21:53,279 --> 01:21:56,479 Data again, if you're going if he if she's going to him, 1147 01:21:56,720 --> 01:22:00,279 that's like a dating thing, right, maybe you need to reach out to 1148 01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:04,119 her and say, hey, I see this going on, I want I 1149 01:22:04,159 --> 01:22:08,079 want to be a part of it. And and I think if if he 1150 01:22:08,159 --> 01:22:13,439 initiates that and creates that that environment, that they'll figure out either you're on 1151 01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:16,960 the same path or you're not. And if you're not speaking from experience, 1152 01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:21,439 you know it's best to the person that you love and respect if you're not 1153 01:22:21,479 --> 01:22:25,319 on the same path, that you take that at that time, rather than 1154 01:22:25,359 --> 01:22:31,399 waiting too long and work becomes absolutely miserable and separate rooms, you're always arguing, 1155 01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:34,079 you can't stand around each other. Who comes to battle action? And 1156 01:22:34,119 --> 01:22:38,960 look, we all we we all know the opposite of love is not hate. 1157 01:22:39,159 --> 01:22:42,760 No, it's not. That's indifference. That's exactly what it is. 1158 01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:46,279 And hate. There is one last one for you, Laura. I am 1159 01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:51,199 recently the recently divorced woman. I met a nice man, we hooked, 1160 01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:56,720 we hooked up after just a couple of dates, and planned to meet again. 1161 01:22:57,199 --> 01:23:05,640 Should I still be dating other men? Absolutely? Absolutely absolutely, Unless 1162 01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:11,560 you're in a committed relationship like you're you hook up with the fucking guy. 1163 01:23:11,600 --> 01:23:14,760 How is that not being committed? Because now I found I sound like the 1164 01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:19,399 chick. Don't Jesus Christ, how's your man? China? I told you 1165 01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:24,800 off there? I listen. Wait, that's a fair opinion, because I 1166 01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:29,359 think that the unspoken thing. Uh. Here, here's the according to studies 1167 01:23:29,399 --> 01:23:32,520 that I did a little research. I had these earlier. So, uh, 1168 01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:38,640 it takes approximately two years from the end of a relationship to completely get 1169 01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:42,720 over somebody, to completely get that person sort of out of your system. 1170 01:23:43,039 --> 01:23:45,319 Uh. Sometimes less if you were the one who initiated it, according to 1171 01:23:45,319 --> 01:23:50,600 the study, and sometimes more if you're the person that had the relationship ended. 1172 01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:59,279 Yeah. Uh, proper dating etiquette requires no assumptions. I know that 1173 01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:03,760 if we hooked up, it does. Don't assume that we're exclusive unless it's 1174 01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:11,159 said we're exclusive, Because do you get where I'm coming from? Don't be 1175 01:24:11,159 --> 01:24:17,720 a I gotta tell you, I don't. Should we make a tender profile 1176 01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:25,159 for Greg? And so? Is hell out there trying to count the number 1177 01:24:25,159 --> 01:24:30,119 of rescue my brothers he has right now? I don't know what that means? 1178 01:24:30,600 --> 01:24:32,279 No, no, no, no, I want Laura to tell him 1179 01:24:32,319 --> 01:24:39,319 that she just went what you don't know? Brother? Okay, say you 1180 01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:48,239 sleep with a woman named Danielle and I just went through my mind. I 1181 01:24:48,279 --> 01:24:50,199 was like, don't take that. Yeah, right, right right, So 1182 01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:56,720 Kevin, Kevin also has slept with this Daniel And are you kidding? I 1183 01:24:57,079 --> 01:25:00,960 lose my mind? I would lose my mom. I would never. I 1184 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:05,079 would never. I would never the first one in it. But are you 1185 01:25:05,199 --> 01:25:10,720 gonna say no? I mean, depending on the proximity, if it were 1186 01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:15,079 like close, I would years. Yeah, that's fine. But I mean 1187 01:25:15,079 --> 01:25:18,800 if you're talking about like within with we're talking about, I mean, haven't 1188 01:25:18,840 --> 01:25:23,039 run on the trade with somebody then like the next week or a month late, 1189 01:25:23,159 --> 01:25:26,359 I'm like, I'm fucking gone. I'm running out of that fucking thing 1190 01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:29,560 like nobody's business. No fucking road runner. I'm gonna call me the road 1191 01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:31,119 run. It's Saturday night, Greg, We're gonna we're gonna, yeah, 1192 01:25:31,119 --> 01:25:33,319 we're gonna have a good time Saturday night. Well, I'm gonna get have 1193 01:25:33,399 --> 01:25:38,399 good time every night like tonight. So there are a lot of my friends 1194 01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:44,399 and I all were divorced and single around the same time. Sister No even 1195 01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:47,319 like like you guys all know Renee, Renee if she were to go on 1196 01:25:47,359 --> 01:25:50,359 a date with someone, would like text me and make sure I never went 1197 01:25:50,399 --> 01:25:56,600 on a date with that guy, like because it's just awkward to be in 1198 01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:01,039 the same and we've had me Renee Jamie like other people. We've all had 1199 01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:05,800 some of the same people message us and message you try to hook up. 1200 01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:13,399 Here we go. What was that fucking website? I hated christ all right, 1201 01:26:13,439 --> 01:26:17,319 but now that that website? Was it you who told us that you 1202 01:26:17,399 --> 01:26:21,279 knew someone who sued it? No? No, who told us just the 1203 01:26:21,319 --> 01:26:27,840 other day? Oh there was another woman in here when they get your gig 1204 01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:30,359 on people were here. I'm wearing their T shirt and this woman said I 1205 01:26:30,439 --> 01:26:39,359 have a friend who got sued for defamation of character for fuck yeah, way 1206 01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:43,479 too many people on there. And by the way, it's somebody who if 1207 01:26:43,840 --> 01:26:48,680 if that somebody had said something which was not true about in that situation talking 1208 01:26:48,720 --> 01:26:51,560 all over that. I mean, I know a lot of people on there. 1209 01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:57,479 I've commented on them because trying to help them out. Yeah, like 1210 01:26:57,680 --> 01:27:00,279 being like, oh I went on a really bad day, or I I 1211 01:27:00,359 --> 01:27:02,319 knew someone who I went on a couple dates with and he was really nice. 1212 01:27:02,800 --> 01:27:05,800 He was just quiet, not my type. But like somebody posted him 1213 01:27:05,800 --> 01:27:09,399 and I was like, oh, he's a nice guy. Like but then 1214 01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:14,960 I also know someone whose wife was pregnant. It was posted on oh yeah 1215 01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:20,479 there are guys. He's a cop and greet let's get back the wawer's response, 1216 01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:27,199 she said, oh she did. If you hooked up with someone, 1217 01:27:27,239 --> 01:27:30,760 if you did not have the we are going to be exclusive, then I 1218 01:27:30,800 --> 01:27:36,039 still think she has freedom to date because I know so many people who have 1219 01:27:36,439 --> 01:27:42,039 hooked up with someone once the guy immediately moves on or ghost them, and 1220 01:27:42,079 --> 01:27:45,560 they get so mine. Okay, okay, so I want that's a whole 1221 01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:50,479 don't like just be so attached to this person. I think if you're asking 1222 01:27:50,520 --> 01:27:55,039 the question, the answer is yes, you should keep going because in your 1223 01:27:55,079 --> 01:27:58,840 head there's a doubt there's any Again, I think there are a lot of 1224 01:27:58,840 --> 01:28:02,479 guys, but the eye off man, give the guy you're not interested. 1225 01:28:03,479 --> 01:28:08,800 If you're with somebody and you have that, if that happens and it wasn't 1226 01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:13,479 what you wanted, or you're not like totally head over heels and thinking that 1227 01:28:13,560 --> 01:28:15,600 this is your guy, then fucking say, hey, look this this isn't 1228 01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:18,159 working. I'm looking for something different. Hey, thank you very much. 1229 01:28:18,359 --> 01:28:23,000 I had a great time, but I'm looking for something else. Don't freaking 1230 01:28:23,000 --> 01:28:26,359 string the person and any guys don't do that to freaking women either. Yeah, 1231 01:28:26,399 --> 01:28:29,119 I mean that's bullshit. Well, I think in my opinion, no, 1232 01:28:29,399 --> 01:28:31,800 I think you're right, and I think the problem is being a man 1233 01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:35,720 is owning up to it. I think that the dating scene has changed, 1234 01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:40,239 Like a lot of people say the dating scene has changed when you after you've 1235 01:28:40,279 --> 01:28:42,640 been married for a certain period of time, But I think you've changed. 1236 01:28:43,039 --> 01:28:47,199 I think you've had a major life event dissolving, you know, dissolve a 1237 01:28:47,199 --> 01:28:53,600 marriage. I think that, uh, communication is absolutely the key, and 1238 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:57,520 just ducking things tells you a lot about a person, right, they aren't 1239 01:28:57,600 --> 01:29:00,960 up front, but here the thing is you have the hey are we exclusive? 1240 01:29:01,119 --> 01:29:04,279 Or can I date other people? Or what are we doing here? 1241 01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:09,159 I think it's a fair question. But I think to Greg's point, don't 1242 01:29:09,279 --> 01:29:13,079 you know if she slept with this guy and he reached out the next day 1243 01:29:13,119 --> 01:29:16,119 and was there was continual communication? She wanted to be asking this. So 1244 01:29:16,159 --> 01:29:21,119 in my opinion, she slept with him, maybe she's heard from him once 1245 01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:25,800 in the next week, and so she's like, what do I do I 1246 01:29:25,880 --> 01:29:30,439 pursue him or do I And like that's where it's like don't get so entangled 1247 01:29:30,439 --> 01:29:35,159 into one person, because if you if he was showing you that he wanted 1248 01:29:35,199 --> 01:29:39,199 you, you would know. I always think that maybe, Okay, Now 1249 01:29:39,279 --> 01:29:43,640 that's I can appreciate that that answer is not the same. My initial response 1250 01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:45,000 is I'll tell you why kid, he didn't tell you what? Though, 1251 01:29:45,039 --> 01:29:47,800 if you hadn't pushed, I don't think we would have gotten that answer. 1252 01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:51,119 Yeah, I think because I think that was assumed in her head, but 1253 01:29:51,279 --> 01:29:55,960 wasn't Maybe Yeah, No, I mean for me because if you're if I'm 1254 01:29:56,279 --> 01:29:59,680 if I'm dating someone, yeah, and it gets to that point that means 1255 01:29:59,680 --> 01:30:02,239 I'm in interested, And if the sex is great and everything else is great, 1256 01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:06,479 why am I not? I'm not looking for someone else because everything is 1257 01:30:06,520 --> 01:30:10,399 good. Why would I look for something if i'm if I'm good with what 1258 01:30:10,479 --> 01:30:14,119 I have? Why am I looking someplace else? Now? Why am I 1259 01:30:14,119 --> 01:30:20,319 looking at the boy? I love my Italian? But like, if you 1260 01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:25,039 would you follow up with the girl like immediately? Or are you going to 1261 01:30:25,079 --> 01:30:28,560 do? I don't. I don't subscribe. I do not subscribe by I 1262 01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:30,640 subscribe by my rules, which is, if I'm interested, I'm interested. 1263 01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:32,880 If I'm not, I'm not. And if I'm not interested. I will 1264 01:30:32,920 --> 01:30:36,600 say, hey, everything's you know, you're a great person, you're nice. 1265 01:30:36,600 --> 01:30:39,279 It's just not what I'm looking You're not what I'm looking for. I 1266 01:30:39,279 --> 01:30:43,840 think that's generational because I like, I don't like to play games like I 1267 01:30:43,880 --> 01:30:48,840 didn't and so like, like when a guy is straightforward with me and I 1268 01:30:48,920 --> 01:30:54,359 was like, I want to be with you, you know so, But 1269 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:57,319 what if he says I don't want to be with you, That's fine. 1270 01:30:57,640 --> 01:31:00,399 I wouldn't want to be with you, because like, I about that, 1271 01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:03,399 and I value myself, so I would want to be with someone who value 1272 01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:06,600 wants to be with me. First of all, I don't care who you 1273 01:31:06,680 --> 01:31:10,920 are. I would much rather have the bandit ripped off to say Okay, 1274 01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:15,079 I'm not interested and then get over it. Then have to string me along, 1275 01:31:15,279 --> 01:31:17,279 right, I mean, don't string me along, because if I care 1276 01:31:17,319 --> 01:31:20,199 about you, or if you're in a relayer or you like someone, then 1277 01:31:20,239 --> 01:31:26,439 you you reserve a spot for that person and you then miss other opportunities. 1278 01:31:26,479 --> 01:31:29,560 But if you're cutting nobody, you're not interested. I don't care if you're 1279 01:31:29,560 --> 01:31:32,600 a guy or a girl. You have a higher tendency or rate a tendency 1280 01:31:32,640 --> 01:31:39,359 to then seek other opportunities because you know, look, nobody wants. You 1281 01:31:39,399 --> 01:31:42,279 can't force someone to like you. No, you can't force someone to make 1282 01:31:42,319 --> 01:31:45,279 the decision you want them to make. You know, if you've made your 1283 01:31:45,279 --> 01:31:47,800 decision, let me know, right. So, I'm gonna I'm gonna sort 1284 01:31:47,800 --> 01:31:53,880 of preach about this are we Dating the Same Guy? Website real quick because 1285 01:31:54,119 --> 01:31:58,640 I know someone who was talking to a guy for again. I have a 1286 01:31:58,720 --> 01:32:01,279 lot of single friends right now, so good men, reach out. I 1287 01:32:01,319 --> 01:32:05,840 will put you in contact with some of them. Guys. Wait a second, 1288 01:32:06,119 --> 01:32:11,800 did you say single friends meaning single guy friends or female? But a 1289 01:32:11,800 --> 01:32:13,960 lot No, A lot of them are good. Some of them are hoop 1290 01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:19,199 chicks, I won't. Okay, So this a friend was dating this guy 1291 01:32:19,239 --> 01:32:21,680 for like two weeks, looks him up on the are we Dating the Same 1292 01:32:21,720 --> 01:32:27,640 Guy? Website? And he had he loved bombs. As soon as he 1293 01:32:27,720 --> 01:32:33,560 sleeps with you, you will run. Yeah. So she she was like, 1294 01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:38,079 I'm going to give him a chance, like she confronted him. Women 1295 01:32:39,159 --> 01:32:42,760 not with me. She ain't. He's not going to do that with me, 1296 01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:45,960 because you know what, I'm that good. I'm not good. I 1297 01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:50,680 met him. I confronted him about it. No, he was like, 1298 01:32:50,760 --> 01:32:54,279 because he did, because he slept one of your friends and did that to 1299 01:32:54,319 --> 01:32:58,000 her. She was afraid he was going to do it first saw this about 1300 01:32:58,079 --> 01:33:02,199 him on that website. Are you sticking your because I don't want my friend 1301 01:33:02,239 --> 01:33:05,439 to get hurt because she's a very emotional girl. So why didn't you tell 1302 01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:09,520 her about it rather than go to him? No, she had talked to 1303 01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:12,520 him about it already. She's the one who told me. She was like, 1304 01:33:12,800 --> 01:33:15,560 so then Laura's got to step in there. So I said something and 1305 01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:19,039 run. I was like, so you're on this website. He's like, 1306 01:33:19,119 --> 01:33:21,920 yeah, I was. He's like after my divorce. I was a little 1307 01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:25,840 crazy. He's like, but I'm ready to settle down now. And he 1308 01:33:25,920 --> 01:33:29,159 gave me a great explanation, and I was like, go for it to 1309 01:33:29,199 --> 01:33:39,479 my friend practiced mirror doesn't hear from him. He did exactly what That's called 1310 01:33:39,479 --> 01:33:42,960 the pattern. Now, that is a pattern, and that's bad. I 1311 01:33:42,960 --> 01:33:45,520 do love patterns. I love the pattern. Like he fooled her, He 1312 01:33:45,560 --> 01:33:49,319 fooled me. Yes, he said nice things right and we saw it was 1313 01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:56,920 charming. Was he a construction Was he a contractor? I don't even want 1314 01:33:56,960 --> 01:34:00,079 to know. Why where did that come from? Now? There in my 1315 01:34:00,159 --> 01:34:02,920 business, you have people that oh, I got you, I got you, 1316 01:34:03,119 --> 01:34:05,279 say things to say what they need to do to get the job, 1317 01:34:05,359 --> 01:34:08,880 but they never finished the job, and then they never really have what they're 1318 01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:12,279 supposed to have. But they have a great line, but they have a 1319 01:34:12,279 --> 01:34:17,880 great pipe fitters. Yeah, that I always think. Hold on, he 1320 01:34:17,960 --> 01:34:27,760 wasn't legal, he was law William Attire. I don't. Uh, that's 1321 01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:30,840 interesting because I sometimes think that guys, maybe more than women, will date 1322 01:34:31,039 --> 01:34:36,119 somebody and jump in too soon after a divorce, right, jumping almost too 1323 01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:42,640 well, yeah, probably, And it's almost because you're more more comfortable having 1324 01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:45,399 somebody coming home. It's what you're used to. It's your pattern for lack 1325 01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:49,079 of a better turn, and I think that sometimes had some mistake and that's 1326 01:34:49,079 --> 01:34:53,920 why some of these don't work. Just don't give yourself some time, right 1327 01:34:54,079 --> 01:34:58,560 Yeah, yeah, I mean that's scary. You can do it. You 1328 01:34:58,560 --> 01:35:01,600 can do that, all right, Love to that girl real quick. The 1329 01:35:01,600 --> 01:35:05,560 the schedule, So have you heard the Taylor Swift conspiracy? I have, 1330 01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:10,359 all right, because Taylor is going to be in Toronto for three shows and 1331 01:35:10,399 --> 01:35:16,720 then the bills tail gate. I'm not joking. Ay, I always heard 1332 01:35:16,760 --> 01:35:20,520 that. Yeah, she's got a block of shows then in Toronto. Then 1333 01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:24,439 there's that the game, and then a few days later a few more block 1334 01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:28,560 of shows in Toronto. And by the way, that's not the only time 1335 01:35:28,840 --> 01:35:32,319 that the Chiefs are playing in near a city where Taylor is playing. So 1336 01:35:32,560 --> 01:35:36,640 Danny, Yeah, being the conspiracy theorist on the on the podcast, do 1337 01:35:36,720 --> 01:35:43,760 you believe that in the NFL kind of walked around and did that. I've 1338 01:35:43,760 --> 01:35:45,520 read that they have. I mean, to be honest with you, it's 1339 01:35:45,880 --> 01:35:49,000 if I could. I couldn't care less if they did or not. But 1340 01:35:49,039 --> 01:35:55,159 if they did, then I guess I don't know. I don't know what 1341 01:35:55,279 --> 01:35:59,359 that means anything. I really, come on, it seems like it would 1342 01:35:59,359 --> 01:36:02,399 be way too they figure all that out. There's a team in the NFL 1343 01:36:02,439 --> 01:36:05,399 that works on the schedule. Yeah, for the whole year. Yeah, 1344 01:36:05,479 --> 01:36:09,680 I mean they go through all the different scenarios. I mean, so the 1345 01:36:09,680 --> 01:36:14,000 schedules, schedule is just released and unfortunately then now they have a computer that 1346 01:36:14,039 --> 01:36:16,199 does it. Before it was all done by hand and index cars. Yeah. 1347 01:36:16,279 --> 01:36:21,199 Yeah, And so to think about something of that nature, now, 1348 01:36:23,159 --> 01:36:26,439 there may have been some in terms of the meetings like with Goodell, and 1349 01:36:26,479 --> 01:36:29,399 you get to the upper level once everything is worked out, and then they 1350 01:36:29,439 --> 01:36:32,680 have all these different scenarios. You know, they might say things like, 1351 01:36:32,800 --> 01:36:36,600 Okay, what's going on and what's going on in the other areas? You 1352 01:36:36,600 --> 01:36:39,960 know, can can we make this a multi factor event? You know, 1353 01:36:40,000 --> 01:36:43,800 if you're gonna play a game at Monday night in Buffalo, what is going 1354 01:36:43,840 --> 01:36:49,119 on Sunday night in Toronto? What's going on Monday in Cleveland or whatever? 1355 01:36:49,199 --> 01:36:53,479 So then you can people can use that proximity to kind of build up the 1356 01:36:53,520 --> 01:36:56,560 event. So it's like a multi factorial thing, you know. And they 1357 01:36:56,560 --> 01:37:00,640 did it, the Bills. The Bills did u. The rules just bought 1358 01:37:00,640 --> 01:37:04,439 the team. They had a they had a hockey game on sat on Saturday, 1359 01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:08,920 and then they did a football game on Sunday and they called it like, 1360 01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:12,359 you know, Buffalo's Weekend, Buffalo Sports Weekend or something. So they 1361 01:37:12,359 --> 01:37:16,039 do try to coordinate. Yeah, so they tried to court anything, but 1362 01:37:16,039 --> 01:37:20,439 but to have that concerted effort to say we're going to do it intentionally for 1363 01:37:20,479 --> 01:37:25,279 this reason, there's too many other factors that are invariables at it. Because 1364 01:37:25,399 --> 01:37:30,680 look, Thursday night football, they were all over the NFL this year because 1365 01:37:30,720 --> 01:37:34,319 every freaking game they had last year sucked. So what's the first what's the 1366 01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:40,319 very first football game? Thursday night football game on Prime? Bills, Bills, 1367 01:37:40,359 --> 01:37:43,600 Dolphins. What was one of the highest rated games last year at the 1368 01:37:43,680 --> 01:37:45,479 end of the year for the regular seasons, Bills, Dolphins. Yeah, 1369 01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:49,319 so you're right. I mean the Prime games did stink, didn't they They 1370 01:37:49,359 --> 01:37:55,640 were not. But I'll love what Prime does because they do another side channel 1371 01:37:55,720 --> 01:38:00,680 that the Analytics channel. Analytics Channel. It's really well done. But the 1372 01:38:00,760 --> 01:38:05,600 games they have a Spanish channel. But by the way they were. They 1373 01:38:05,640 --> 01:38:08,840 used to have the rule where like every team must to play at least one 1374 01:38:08,880 --> 01:38:12,159 primetime game. This year there were six, like the Carolina's not playing one. 1375 01:38:12,600 --> 01:38:15,079 Six teams don't have to play a Thursday night game this year. I 1376 01:38:15,079 --> 01:38:15,800 don't know if you saw that. I didn't see that. Yeah, there's 1377 01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:17,960 six teams that aren't going to play a Thursday night game, which is kind 1378 01:38:17,960 --> 01:38:21,640 of fair to them, but unfair to everybody else because they all have to 1379 01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:26,760 play a short schedule. But the Carolina Panthers have all one o'clock games, 1380 01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:30,199 like what the Bills were ten years ago. I can say this, and 1381 01:38:30,239 --> 01:38:32,560 I don't I don't know what six teams are, but I would say to 1382 01:38:32,600 --> 01:38:38,039 you, of the thirty two, the six that don't have it are probably 1383 01:38:38,720 --> 01:38:41,920 projected to be the lowest six teams in the NFL. Because if you have 1384 01:38:42,000 --> 01:38:45,159 any team that's going to be in a that's vuying for a playoff spot, 1385 01:38:45,199 --> 01:38:48,319 they're gonna want to be on TV. Right I mean Houston, Yeah, 1386 01:38:48,319 --> 01:38:51,039 I mean the Texans, they're going to be there. The way, they're 1387 01:38:51,039 --> 01:38:55,319 already favored to beat the Bills. They are Texans by by one. Now 1388 01:38:55,359 --> 01:38:57,800 it's a it's a Texans home game, it's a one point game, so 1389 01:38:57,840 --> 01:39:00,159 it's really a pick them. But they are already favored beat Buffalo, so 1390 01:39:00,840 --> 01:39:04,800 believe it or not. Yeah, it's funny how they but like so and 1391 01:39:04,880 --> 01:39:08,159 so when you look at the way they set up the Bills schedule. So 1392 01:39:08,239 --> 01:39:11,039 when I when I found out that the Dolphins game was gonna be the Thursday 1393 01:39:11,119 --> 01:39:14,199 night game, so you're like, okay, what are the Bills? So 1394 01:39:14,279 --> 01:39:17,520 the kickoff weekend is the first two games, right, so each team will 1395 01:39:17,560 --> 01:39:20,000 have a home game of the first two weeks. So when we saw that 1396 01:39:20,039 --> 01:39:24,000 Buffalo is going to Miami on that Thursday Night Set Week two. You knew 1397 01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:26,399 Buffal's gonna have a home game. It's like, Okay, who's gonna be 1398 01:39:26,399 --> 01:39:29,520 that first home game? It's gonna be a team that the NFL thinks the 1399 01:39:29,520 --> 01:39:32,279 Bills will win. Why because it then sets the stage because Prime wants to 1400 01:39:32,319 --> 01:39:35,479 have The Bills at want to know, yeah, and the Dolphins at want 1401 01:39:35,479 --> 01:39:39,359 to know because that's what they're gonna want. Why the Bill. Who's the 1402 01:39:39,399 --> 01:39:44,000 home opener Arizona Cardinals. I was just thinking they're one of the six. 1403 01:39:44,520 --> 01:39:47,239 They don't have any cards. I don't know, I don't remember, but 1404 01:39:47,439 --> 01:39:50,279 I mean that is an interesting matchup. Greg, Greg, Greg's right. 1405 01:39:50,359 --> 01:39:55,039 By the way, you see the super Bowl logo, no super Bowls in 1406 01:39:55,039 --> 01:39:58,680 New Orleans. I guess who the colors are. There's no I think the 1407 01:39:58,760 --> 01:40:00,520 NFL went out of its way said if we land this film as a super 1408 01:40:00,520 --> 01:40:04,479 Bowl this year, everyone's gonna think it's conspiracy. There's the last time there's 1409 01:40:04,479 --> 01:40:09,079 been a back to back Super Bowl is Bill's Cowboys in twenty seven and twenty 1410 01:40:09,079 --> 01:40:13,520 eight. The super Bowl logo is the colors of the Chiefs and the Niners 1411 01:40:13,920 --> 01:40:15,600 in the games in New Orleans. So the NFL's got to be thinking, 1412 01:40:15,640 --> 01:40:19,159 there's no way it's gonna happen three times in five years. There's just no 1413 01:40:19,239 --> 01:40:23,239 way. So let's use these colors so nobody could say, ah, we 1414 01:40:23,279 --> 01:40:26,720 got a conspiracy here. Thenfcause last year, remember every it's like, oh, 1415 01:40:26,720 --> 01:40:30,560 it's gonna be Baltimore, Yeah, and uh in San Francisco and it 1416 01:40:30,680 --> 01:40:33,079 was. It ended up being the Chiefs, which is even worse. We 1417 01:40:33,119 --> 01:40:38,279 would wish, we wish there was a conspiracy. Yes, but I mean 1418 01:40:38,319 --> 01:40:41,880 I think the Bill schedules pretty fair and pretty even. Yeah. I mean 1419 01:40:41,920 --> 01:40:44,600 my look at the Bill schedule is that when you look at what they have 1420 01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:46,079 to play, who the teams they have to play from last and you look 1421 01:40:46,079 --> 01:40:50,560 at last year's performance, you look at what the teams have done through free 1422 01:40:50,640 --> 01:40:55,680 agency as well as to the draft. You know, you want the Bills 1423 01:40:55,680 --> 01:41:00,439 to go. You want the Bills to co you know, win the AFC 1424 01:41:00,880 --> 01:41:05,520 and and go like you know, fourteen and three would be nice. But 1425 01:41:05,520 --> 01:41:10,239 but I think the Bills with their schedule, if if we go twelve and 1426 01:41:10,319 --> 01:41:12,920 five, that's good. I think that's very good. If the Bills go 1427 01:41:12,960 --> 01:41:15,760 eleven and six, I think the AFC East is I think the AFC East 1428 01:41:15,800 --> 01:41:19,239 champion is gonna be either eleven and six and it's gonna be like last year, 1429 01:41:19,319 --> 01:41:21,680 or it's gonna be twelve and five. But there's gonna be two teams 1430 01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:26,680 right on their heels, So I think it's gonna be Look, you got 1431 01:41:26,680 --> 01:41:29,840 the Jets. The Jets have more prime time games in the six six. 1432 01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:33,119 Wow. The Jets of the Niners lead the NFL with six primetime games. 1433 01:41:33,239 --> 01:41:35,680 And if you look at if you look at the projections of who's gonna win 1434 01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:40,600 the AFC East right now, there are more people, more experts out of 1435 01:41:40,680 --> 01:41:45,920 Vegas picking the Jets. There. I like that. I'll say I'll say 1436 01:41:45,920 --> 01:41:48,199 this too, because the Jets strength of schedule was what they call it so 1437 01:41:48,359 --> 01:41:53,079 weak, a fourth place schedule, okay, and the Bills is a first 1438 01:41:53,079 --> 01:41:56,399 play schedule and there's a huge gap petit percentages. But here's the thing that 1439 01:41:56,439 --> 01:42:00,399 everybody has to remember about the Buffalo Bills. They lost six game games last 1440 01:42:00,439 --> 01:42:01,800 year in the regular season. Five were the teams that missed the playoffs. 1441 01:42:02,720 --> 01:42:05,479 So to strike the schedule and take that out that the Bills played down, 1442 01:42:06,560 --> 01:42:10,399 I think the stronger the team, the better they'll play. Oh, Okay, 1443 01:42:10,560 --> 01:42:14,239 I think that we plus you had a freaking shitty offensive coordinator for her 1444 01:42:14,359 --> 01:42:17,279 for those freaking losses. Yeah, but but yeah, I mean I I 1445 01:42:17,760 --> 01:42:20,880 go back to that Monday night game and it was like it wasn't Dorsey putting 1446 01:42:20,920 --> 01:42:25,079 the ball on the carpet and Dorsey took the ball out of Allan's heads when 1447 01:42:25,119 --> 01:42:27,960 they've scored in that final drive and just ran down the field. Hey, 1448 01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:30,079 let's fire you. Oh wait, wait, what did I do? Well? 1449 01:42:30,119 --> 01:42:32,479 I didn't do anything for the first you know, twelve games. Well 1450 01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:35,119 then why did you fire me that? Or a first ten games? So 1451 01:42:35,279 --> 01:42:38,640 well, I think they're better off. I don't know. I don't know 1452 01:42:38,640 --> 01:42:42,600 if they're better off. There's a right now that they're that they're they're they're 1453 01:42:42,600 --> 01:42:47,399 looking like the twenty seventeen Panthers, all right, the offensive coordinator building everything 1454 01:42:47,399 --> 01:42:51,720 around me, a big party to get ready for out let go. It's 1455 01:42:51,760 --> 01:42:58,920 it. Yes, every day, live every day like at your that's he 1456 01:42:59,000 --> 01:43:03,800 didn't do that. That's a thought though. I had live every day everywhere. 1457 01:43:03,880 --> 01:43:10,600 We will see everybody Saturday night, Iron Smoke Distillery doors open at seven, 1458 01:43:11,079 --> 01:43:14,199 come on down. Tryst will be on stage. We'll have a nice 1459 01:43:14,239 --> 01:43:19,119 little uh comedy set beforehand. I get nervous because I don't know that everybody's 1460 01:43:19,119 --> 01:43:24,239 there to watch comedy. But we'll see what we can do. So if 1461 01:43:24,239 --> 01:43:29,800 we could make it work. For Greg Connor's Happy Birthday, Happy Birthday, 1462 01:43:30,039 --> 01:43:34,319 Wow, her birthday is the same day as Greg's. Yeah Birthday, Buddies. 1463 01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:39,720 For Dan Barillo, who's all fired up about the bill schedule. For 1464 01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:48,800 Kevin Buhr, who's just loving happiness everywhere he goes. Will see you on Monday,