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Hey, Hey, I'm back with
something for you to think about. I

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want you to wake up. Not
everyone is asleep, but most people are.

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I want you to wake up.
Listen. It does not matter.

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It simply does not matter what someone
has to offer. Their money, their

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honey, their titles, their status, their positions, their power, their

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authority. It may get you or
yours may get them, but theirs won't

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keep you, and yours won't keep
them. Did you catch that? So

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basically, what I am saying to
every one of you who's listening, what

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I'm trying to tell you is good
looks, money, possessions, titles.

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It may get them to include you, but it won't keep them. It

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will make them want you, but
not necessarily want to be with you.

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It may make a person start a
relationship with you, but that don't mean

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they love you or really want to
be with you. These are the situations

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millions are in right now. They
got into relationships though wrong way, for

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the wrong reason, with the wrong
person. I've talked about it so much,

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yet people are still doing it.
Sure they love what you have,

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and yes they want to be with
you because of what you have. Yes,

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what you have will definitely attract them. How you look will definitely attract

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them. Who you are would definitely
attract them. But that don't mean they

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want you or they gonna be loyal, committed, faithful, and dedicated to

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you. They just want what you
have to offer them, not you.

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Some of you are so easily manipulated, deceived. You're so easily fooled into

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believing that that person love you.
That person don't love you. You can

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give a cheater every single thing in
the world their hearts desire, whether that

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cheater is a man or a woman, you can give them every single thing

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their hearts desire, but it will
not prevent them from cheating. You can

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give a person who you love everything
their hearts desire, but it won't make

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them love you. It just the
facts. It's a hard pill to swallow,

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but it's still the truth. So
many of you are so easily easily

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convinced of a lie when the truth
is staring you right in the face.

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You know why, let me break
it down to you. The reason you're

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so easily convinced of a lie.
It's because of the mindset you have.

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It's because of how you think and
how you feel. You don't look at

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the big picture. It stops at
what you want, what you desire,

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your heart, your mindset, that's
where it stops at. You don't look

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at the big picture. That's why
you're with good looking people, I mean

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fine people, but they're not worth
a grain of salt. That's why you're

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with good looking people. But they
cheat on you all the time. That's

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why you are with people who have
great status and power, but they're beating

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your head and behind closed doors and
abusing you in every way, using you

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as a slave, and you are
their significant other, using you as a

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piece of property. Because you were
fooled because of what you wanted, what

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you desired. You saw with your
eyes, but you couldn't see beyond that.

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You looked over everything because she was
cute or he was cute, or

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they had a nice car, big
house, lots of money. But that

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don't mean nothing. Is it nice? Yes? What it means nothing,

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nothing at all. When it comes
to who people really are and having a

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good relationship, it means nothing.
Nothing. It's just those big houses.

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It's just hey, more room to
separate you over there, he over there,

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she's over there, just e you
know, more room to be separate.

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I mean people, you have to
wake up. You have to wake

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up. You want them because they're
powerful. They're in positions of power,

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they're in positions of status, and
you think that's oh, he's in a

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position of power and status. She's
in a position of power and status.

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But they treat you like crap,
or they treat other people like crap.

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If they treat other people like crap, you think they're not gonna treat you

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like crap sooner or later. Some
of you are with individuals who protray themselves

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as these great, sweet, nice, good people, and they are everything

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else, everything else. You know
it, but other people don't know it

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because they're food by that individual.
You know. Now, you thought you

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had it going on until you realize
who you really have, what you got

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yourself into. I mean, wake
up. You gotta start seeing beyond the

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superficial houses, land, property,
possessions, titles, looks. I mean,

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none of it matters when it comes
to a healthy, strong foundation relationship.

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None of it. None of it. Because it could look so good,

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it glitters and glows, but it
could be the worst thing you ever

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encountered. I'm just telling you fact. You gotta start looking farther than what

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your eyes can see because the truth
is there. There are no accidents or

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co coincidence. It is exactly what
it is. People show you at some

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point in time who they really are. Subtle or not, they show you,

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but we get so caught up in
the glitz and the glam, or

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not the glitz and the glam,
but the looks. What we want,

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what we desire, what we're trying
to get self gratification for that. We

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can't see beyond what we can see, if that makes sense to you,

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meaning you can't see beyond the superficial
those You can't see beyond those tangible things

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to who people really are, because
like I said, there are no surprises.

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They it's no whoops. No,
they show you. People show you

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who they really are. But individuals
fail to see the truth because of what

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they want. The individual, well, what he or she wants. I'm

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trying to tell you something. I'm
trying to give you some good, good,

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good nuggets here. A lot of
people just don't want to hear the

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truth from someone like me. But
it makes me no, never mind,

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truly it does not. I'm still
gonna do what I have to do because

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this is my ministry. This is
how I give back, so you know,

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I'm telling you it is. It
really is individuals who truly, truly,

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truly truly fail themselves by being so
far is and fixated on what their

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eyes can see versus seeing beyond that. When you can't see beyond the truth,

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I mean, when you cannot see
to the truth, beyond what's in

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your face, you're gonna find yourself
in a bad place every single time.

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Every single time, you're gonna stay
in that vicious cycle, and you're gonna

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find yourself right back in the same
place every single time until you grow and

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mature and be of a better mindset. If you have a better mindset,

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you become a better person. Most
people, I'm telling you, they're so

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caught up. They're so caught up
in everyone else other than selves. They're

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so worried about everyone else other thmselves. They're those individuals that you look too,

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that you love, you just got
to have, you want to be

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with. You find out you're in
a bad situation with a bad person.

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You find out that individual don't love
you, they don't even want you,

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they want what you have. And
for those who are the ones who you

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know yourself better than anyone you know, when you really don't want someone,

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you have an agenda. You know
it. You don't want that person.

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You want what they have to offer
you, and you will milk it until

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you can't milk it, just like
individual will nook you until they can't milk

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you. Milk you means get out
of you whatever they can until they no

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longer can. You have to stop
opening yourselves up to this type of crap.

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You have to stop inviting this mess
into your life. I've told you

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millions of times. People treat you
how you have allowed them to treat you,

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and they're gonna treat you according to
how they feel about self. They're

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gonna treat you according to what they
want, what they desire, because they're

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not yet at that place mentally to
really want to be in a relationship.

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Many will commit to a relationship,
but they're not committed to you. I

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mean, there's a lot, let
me repeat a lot of game playing out

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there, and if you don't know
game when you see it, they gonna

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play game with you. But I
just did an episode that said you played

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yourself because it does not matter how
much game they try to play, you

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don't have to partake in it.
If you partake in it, you play

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yourself. They played the game,
but you played yourself. Stop thinking that

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p that what people have, what
they possess, is going to make them

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want you and vice versa, because
it never will. A person will take

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what you have to offer all day
and all night long, but it does

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not mean they want you. They
may get with you, they may become

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that person that you choose to be
with, but that don't mean they feel

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about you how you feel about them. They just like what you have to

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offer. They like your looks,
They like what they can do to you.

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They like how you go alone with
anything they say. They like how

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you allow and accept them to do
whatever it is they want to do.

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It's so many things, but I'm
here to tell you a person only does

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to you what you allow them to
do. That's it. They may try,

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but if you don't let them get
away with it, they can't.

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They abuse you because you allow them
to. They cheat on you because you

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keep letting them. They talk to
you any kind of way because you okay

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it. They disrespect you because you
let them. I mean so on and

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so on and so on and so
on. You let them because either you're

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that person who want what they have, or you're that person who have what

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they want. But I'll say again, your possessions, your titles, your

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positions, how you look, who
you are, may get them, but

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it won't keep them. When I
say it won't keep them. They may

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stay with you physically. Please don't
get it misconscrewed. They may stay with

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you physically, but their hearts are
not with you. Their minds are not

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with you. But they'll stay with
you physically. Some of them they won't

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even stay with you physically. Some
of them will not, but many will.

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They will stay with you physical,
but their hearts and their minds are

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not with you because their agenda is
different than yours. So those things may

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attract them to you. You may
get them, but they won't keep them.

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You may get them, but those
things will not keep those people with

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you. Some of you, I
mean, you just out there, You

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just out there mentally, you think, because you have all of these things,

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Oh he'll want me, she'll want
me. No, they won't,

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I promise you they won't. They'll
act as if they do, but they

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don't want you. They want what
you have. They like the fact that

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you have access to people and things, So if you're a person who have

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access to people and things and there
with you, then they have access to

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people and thinks they love it.
But some of you think, oh it's

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you, they love you. No, they don't. So all I'm saying

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is start loving yourself enough to care
about what you have gotten yourself into.

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Love yourself enough to see beyond what
your eyes is showing you. Because what

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your eyes is showing you, I'm
telling you number one is not always what

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it appears to be. And number
two it could come with a whole lot

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of unnecessary baggage and drama. So
that's all I'm gonna say on that.

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Please share this episode. Thank you
so much for listening. Much love to

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each and every one of you from
my heart to yours with all sincerity I

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mean it. Thank you again.
I hope everyone is doing well. Know

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that you can be the best that
you can be. You just have to

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want to. If you have any
questions our concerns, reach out to me.

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Go to my podcast page to tell
you how to reach me. That

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my email is right there. You're
never alone. You always can reach out

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to me. I don't care,
I will always respond. Thank you again,

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much love you know I in every
episode the same and I hope you

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do it. Yes you, and
please share this episode, think on it,