Hey, Hey, I'm back with something for you to think about. I
want you to wake up. Not everyone is asleep, but most people are.
I want you to wake up. Listen. It does not matter.
It simply does not matter what someone has to offer. Their money, their
honey, their titles, their status, their positions, their power, their
authority. It may get you or yours may get them, but theirs won't
keep you, and yours won't keep them. Did you catch that? So
basically, what I am saying to every one of you who's listening, what
I'm trying to tell you is good looks, money, possessions, titles.
It may get them to include you, but it won't keep them. It
will make them want you, but not necessarily want to be with you.
It may make a person start a relationship with you, but that don't mean
they love you or really want to be with you. These are the situations
millions are in right now. They got into relationships though wrong way, for
the wrong reason, with the wrong person. I've talked about it so much,
yet people are still doing it. Sure they love what you have,
and yes they want to be with you because of what you have. Yes,
what you have will definitely attract them. How you look will definitely attract
them. Who you are would definitely attract them. But that don't mean they
want you or they gonna be loyal, committed, faithful, and dedicated to
you. They just want what you have to offer them, not you.
Some of you are so easily manipulated, deceived. You're so easily fooled into
believing that that person love you. That person don't love you. You can
give a cheater every single thing in the world their hearts desire, whether that
cheater is a man or a woman, you can give them every single thing
their hearts desire, but it will not prevent them from cheating. You can
give a person who you love everything their hearts desire, but it won't make
them love you. It just the facts. It's a hard pill to swallow,
but it's still the truth. So many of you are so easily easily
convinced of a lie when the truth is staring you right in the face.
You know why, let me break it down to you. The reason you're
so easily convinced of a lie. It's because of the mindset you have.
It's because of how you think and how you feel. You don't look at
the big picture. It stops at what you want, what you desire,
your heart, your mindset, that's where it stops at. You don't look
at the big picture. That's why you're with good looking people, I mean
fine people, but they're not worth a grain of salt. That's why you're
with good looking people. But they cheat on you all the time. That's
why you are with people who have great status and power, but they're beating
your head and behind closed doors and abusing you in every way, using you
as a slave, and you are their significant other, using you as a
piece of property. Because you were fooled because of what you wanted, what
you desired. You saw with your eyes, but you couldn't see beyond that.
You looked over everything because she was cute or he was cute, or
they had a nice car, big house, lots of money. But that
don't mean nothing. Is it nice? Yes? What it means nothing,
nothing at all. When it comes to who people really are and having a
good relationship, it means nothing. Nothing. It's just those big houses.
It's just hey, more room to separate you over there, he over there,
she's over there, just e you know, more room to be separate.
I mean people, you have to wake up. You have to wake
up. You want them because they're powerful. They're in positions of power,
they're in positions of status, and you think that's oh, he's in a
position of power and status. She's in a position of power and status.
But they treat you like crap, or they treat other people like crap.
If they treat other people like crap, you think they're not gonna treat you
like crap sooner or later. Some of you are with individuals who protray themselves
as these great, sweet, nice, good people, and they are everything
else, everything else. You know it, but other people don't know it
because they're food by that individual. You know. Now, you thought you
had it going on until you realize who you really have, what you got
yourself into. I mean, wake up. You gotta start seeing beyond the
superficial houses, land, property, possessions, titles, looks. I mean,
none of it matters when it comes to a healthy, strong foundation relationship.
None of it. None of it. Because it could look so good,
it glitters and glows, but it could be the worst thing you ever
encountered. I'm just telling you fact. You gotta start looking farther than what
your eyes can see because the truth is there. There are no accidents or
co coincidence. It is exactly what it is. People show you at some
point in time who they really are. Subtle or not, they show you,
but we get so caught up in the glitz and the glam, or
not the glitz and the glam, but the looks. What we want,
what we desire, what we're trying to get self gratification for that. We
can't see beyond what we can see, if that makes sense to you,
meaning you can't see beyond the superficial those You can't see beyond those tangible things
to who people really are, because like I said, there are no surprises.
They it's no whoops. No, they show you. People show you
who they really are. But individuals fail to see the truth because of what
they want. The individual, well, what he or she wants. I'm
trying to tell you something. I'm trying to give you some good, good,
good nuggets here. A lot of people just don't want to hear the
truth from someone like me. But it makes me no, never mind,
truly it does not. I'm still gonna do what I have to do because
this is my ministry. This is how I give back, so you know,
I'm telling you it is. It really is individuals who truly, truly,
truly truly fail themselves by being so far is and fixated on what their
eyes can see versus seeing beyond that. When you can't see beyond the truth,
I mean, when you cannot see to the truth, beyond what's in
your face, you're gonna find yourself in a bad place every single time.
Every single time, you're gonna stay in that vicious cycle, and you're gonna
find yourself right back in the same place every single time until you grow and
mature and be of a better mindset. If you have a better mindset,
you become a better person. Most people, I'm telling you, they're so
caught up. They're so caught up in everyone else other than selves. They're
so worried about everyone else other thmselves. They're those individuals that you look too,
that you love, you just got to have, you want to be
with. You find out you're in a bad situation with a bad person.
You find out that individual don't love you, they don't even want you,
they want what you have. And for those who are the ones who you
know yourself better than anyone you know, when you really don't want someone,
you have an agenda. You know it. You don't want that person.
You want what they have to offer you, and you will milk it until
you can't milk it, just like individual will nook you until they can't milk
you. Milk you means get out of you whatever they can until they no
longer can. You have to stop opening yourselves up to this type of crap.
You have to stop inviting this mess into your life. I've told you
millions of times. People treat you how you have allowed them to treat you,
and they're gonna treat you according to how they feel about self. They're
gonna treat you according to what they want, what they desire, because they're
not yet at that place mentally to really want to be in a relationship.
Many will commit to a relationship, but they're not committed to you. I
mean, there's a lot, let me repeat a lot of game playing out
there, and if you don't know game when you see it, they gonna
play game with you. But I just did an episode that said you played
yourself because it does not matter how much game they try to play, you
don't have to partake in it. If you partake in it, you play
yourself. They played the game, but you played yourself. Stop thinking that
p that what people have, what they possess, is going to make them
want you and vice versa, because it never will. A person will take
what you have to offer all day and all night long, but it does
not mean they want you. They may get with you, they may become
that person that you choose to be with, but that don't mean they feel
about you how you feel about them. They just like what you have to
offer. They like your looks, They like what they can do to you.
They like how you go alone with anything they say. They like how
you allow and accept them to do whatever it is they want to do.
It's so many things, but I'm here to tell you a person only does
to you what you allow them to do. That's it. They may try,
but if you don't let them get away with it, they can't.
They abuse you because you allow them to. They cheat on you because you
keep letting them. They talk to you any kind of way because you okay
it. They disrespect you because you let them. I mean so on and
so on and so on and so on. You let them because either you're
that person who want what they have, or you're that person who have what
they want. But I'll say again, your possessions, your titles, your
positions, how you look, who you are, may get them, but
it won't keep them. When I say it won't keep them. They may
stay with you physically. Please don't get it misconscrewed. They may stay with
you physically, but their hearts are not with you. Their minds are not
with you. But they'll stay with you physically. Some of them they won't
even stay with you physically. Some of them will not, but many will.
They will stay with you physical, but their hearts and their minds are
not with you because their agenda is different than yours. So those things may
attract them to you. You may get them, but they won't keep them.
You may get them, but those things will not keep those people with
you. Some of you, I mean, you just out there, You
just out there mentally, you think, because you have all of these things,
Oh he'll want me, she'll want me. No, they won't,
I promise you they won't. They'll act as if they do, but they
don't want you. They want what you have. They like the fact that
you have access to people and things, So if you're a person who have
access to people and things and there with you, then they have access to
people and thinks they love it. But some of you think, oh it's
you, they love you. No, they don't. So all I'm saying
is start loving yourself enough to care about what you have gotten yourself into.
Love yourself enough to see beyond what your eyes is showing you. Because what
your eyes is showing you, I'm telling you number one is not always what
it appears to be. And number two it could come with a whole lot
of unnecessary baggage and drama. So that's all I'm gonna say on that.
Please share this episode. Thank you so much for listening. Much love to
each and every one of you from my heart to yours with all sincerity I
mean it. Thank you again. I hope everyone is doing well. Know
that you can be the best that you can be. You just have to
want to. If you have any questions our concerns, reach out to me.
Go to my podcast page to tell you how to reach me. That
my email is right there. You're never alone. You always can reach out
to me. I don't care, I will always respond. Thank you again,
much love you know I in every episode the same and I hope you
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