WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.520 All right, it's the Minnesota Goodbye, It's Jenny and Drake again today because 2 00:00:03.600 --> 00:00:07.000 Dave was shitting himself. I'm just kidding. He wasn't, actually, but 3 00:00:07.120 --> 00:00:10.039 he was about to. I don't know why he thought it was a good 4 00:00:10.039 --> 00:00:14.039 idea to come into work before a colonoscopy, because everyone's texted and they're like, 5 00:00:14.160 --> 00:00:17.399 Dave, you should not be doing anything but be right next to the 6 00:00:17.480 --> 00:00:22.079 toilet when you're at that point of your prep. So he is so dedicated 7 00:00:22.079 --> 00:00:25.960 to the show, like he is never never take sick days, like I 8 00:00:26.000 --> 00:00:30.199 know when I told him for my own selfish reasons, I need his ass 9 00:00:30.199 --> 00:00:33.119 to take six days because I don't want to get sick. And so I 10 00:00:33.200 --> 00:00:36.359 was like, Dave, like a couple of weeks ago, he should have 11 00:00:36.359 --> 00:00:38.960 taken a sick day, and he knows he should have. But we also 12 00:00:39.039 --> 00:00:43.359 had like a all staff meeting, he had an event that night, and 13 00:00:43.439 --> 00:00:46.479 he just was like, I don't want to miss out on all of this 14 00:00:46.560 --> 00:00:48.679 and then like take a sick day and whatever. So I was like, 15 00:00:48.759 --> 00:00:51.479 I get it, but I told him in the future, just like, 16 00:00:51.640 --> 00:00:54.119 don't feel like you need to come in if you're feeling like shit, stay 17 00:00:54.119 --> 00:00:57.560 home. You know. But yeah, So anyways, he is out again 18 00:00:57.600 --> 00:01:00.479 today. He made it about halfway through the show and he's like, Jenny, 19 00:01:00.520 --> 00:01:02.399 I gotta go, and I was like, I'll see you later. 20 00:01:02.719 --> 00:01:06.719 He also asked to use my sweatshirt to clean up his mess he might make 21 00:01:06.719 --> 00:01:08.120 in the car on the way home, and I was like, grab some 22 00:01:08.480 --> 00:01:11.439 crozy, grab some paper towel. Boy, you don't need my sweatshirt. 23 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:15.040 So he'll be back tomorrow. Though. All right, let's get into some 24 00:01:15.239 --> 00:01:19.000 emails. If you missed it on the Minnesota Goodbye yesterday, Dave decided to 25 00:01:19.040 --> 00:01:22.640 clear out all of the emails in our email box because it was starting to 26 00:01:22.640 --> 00:01:26.599 get a little bit clustered. And we not clustered cluttered is what I meant 27 00:01:26.599 --> 00:01:30.439 to say. We were kind of unsure what we had read what we hadn't 28 00:01:32.040 --> 00:01:34.280 because there'd be emails that are open and we're like, we don't know if 29 00:01:34.280 --> 00:01:36.120 we got to this or not. So just a has up on that. 30 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:38.319 But we'll get right into some here. This says, hi, friends, 31 00:01:38.359 --> 00:01:42.120 I love you all and consider you some of my friends actually, lol, 32 00:01:42.480 --> 00:01:47.159 so much so that I bring your names up in conversation frequently. So here's 33 00:01:47.159 --> 00:01:49.959 the funny story showing how frequent it has become. We had my parents over 34 00:01:51.000 --> 00:01:53.359 for the Super Bowl on Sunday and a commercial with some cast members of Suits 35 00:01:53.400 --> 00:01:57.400 came on. For context, I don't watch Suits. My dad started talking 36 00:01:57.400 --> 00:02:00.400 about the show, and my only way to really was by saying, Dave 37 00:02:00.439 --> 00:02:05.799 Ryan loves the show Suits and especially Donna, and my dad casually went on 38 00:02:05.920 --> 00:02:07.840 to talk about how much he loves Suits without missing a beat that I just 39 00:02:07.879 --> 00:02:13.759 brought up Dave Ryan didn't even bat a lash that I was talking about a 40 00:02:13.800 --> 00:02:17.120 local radio DJ loving the same show, because it is so normal for me 41 00:02:17.199 --> 00:02:21.719 to bring you up in conversation. Long story short, I should probably start 42 00:02:21.759 --> 00:02:24.639 making more friends outside of you guys. Probably won't, though. I love 43 00:02:24.719 --> 00:02:29.560 y'all. That comes from Kyliet Oh, I love that Kylie all right. 44 00:02:29.599 --> 00:02:34.400 Next email says I'd like to bring up this topic because it came into my 45 00:02:34.439 --> 00:02:38.439 life last year and I haven't really talked much about it with anyone yet. 46 00:02:38.680 --> 00:02:42.159 Sorry, it's kind of long email. The topic is being friends with your 47 00:02:42.199 --> 00:02:45.599 exes. I was friends with this woman I dated for longer than we actually 48 00:02:45.680 --> 00:02:51.319 dated, but last year. Originally my now wife didn't like our friendships, 49 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:53.400 so she got on my phone one night while I was working and blocked my 50 00:02:53.479 --> 00:02:58.080 friend and deleted all our texts. This infuriated me because it wasn't her place 51 00:02:58.080 --> 00:03:00.599 to do that, and she said it's me or her, which actually ended 52 00:03:00.680 --> 00:03:04.960 up not going either way. I'm sorry, it's a little confusing how you 53 00:03:05.000 --> 00:03:07.000 wrote this. A few months later, the friend ended up in a new 54 00:03:07.039 --> 00:03:10.759 relationship, and our text with each other slowly got more scarce. Then one 55 00:03:10.840 --> 00:03:15.199 day I actually was able to confirm that she blocked me out of the blue, 56 00:03:15.599 --> 00:03:17.680 and we had never talked since because my number is blocked and I'm not 57 00:03:17.719 --> 00:03:21.319 on social media, and even if I was, she'd probably have been blocked 58 00:03:21.319 --> 00:03:23.280 there too. I guess my question is what's wrong with being friends with x'es? 59 00:03:23.319 --> 00:03:25.639 I don't see anything wrong with it. I mean, I get that 60 00:03:25.719 --> 00:03:29.800 we were romantic with each other, but like I said, we were also 61 00:03:29.919 --> 00:03:31.639 just friends for a longer amount of time than we were dating, so I 62 00:03:31.639 --> 00:03:36.439 don't know. I don't really understand why we can't be friends. Sorry again 63 00:03:36.520 --> 00:03:39.560 about the long email, but anyways, Love you guys. Dart lick, 64 00:03:39.639 --> 00:03:43.719 dark lick. Dart lick dark lick. That comes from me, Andrew, 65 00:03:44.199 --> 00:03:46.960 So is that like so I guess I am also a little confused with some 66 00:03:47.000 --> 00:03:50.479 of the Sorry, Andrew, I think there was some grammatical errors in there, 67 00:03:50.599 --> 00:03:53.000 or maybe I read it wrong, but it sounds like you were dating 68 00:03:53.039 --> 00:03:59.120 someone. You guys remained friends you then were still texting, and your wife 69 00:03:59.360 --> 00:04:02.479 you're now wife, was upset about it and tried to blocker didn't end up 70 00:04:02.520 --> 00:04:08.319 blocking her. And then your friend slash your ex got into a relationship and 71 00:04:08.360 --> 00:04:12.080 then that person blocked you. So it sounds like there was no relationship anymore. 72 00:04:12.080 --> 00:04:14.639 Maybe I summarized that wrong, but that's what I'm getting from that email. 73 00:04:14.919 --> 00:04:17.120 Well, I mean I feel like the wife is definitely, you know, 74 00:04:17.439 --> 00:04:20.319 it has a right to be mad if you're talking with your ex like 75 00:04:20.360 --> 00:04:25.759 that, because there could be like think about how many issues have arised by 76 00:04:25.839 --> 00:04:30.399 you talking with your ex, Like there's definitely still might be something there, 77 00:04:30.519 --> 00:04:32.160 especially if there was, like you know, it wasn't broken off in like 78 00:04:32.199 --> 00:04:36.480 a bad way or anything like that. So I mean, I get where 79 00:04:36.519 --> 00:04:40.319 the wife is coming from on that side. It's a wife right now, 80 00:04:40.360 --> 00:04:43.920 a golfriend. Yeah, I definitely can see that being an issue. Yeah, 81 00:04:43.959 --> 00:04:46.160 I'm gonna be honest with you, Andrew, I'm not really on your 82 00:04:46.199 --> 00:04:50.399 side with this one. I think that some relationships that were mild and barely 83 00:04:50.439 --> 00:04:55.160 anything, that's okay to remain friends with them. I mean I dated half 84 00:04:55.160 --> 00:04:58.399 the Twin Cities when I was single, Okay, So like I am still 85 00:04:58.439 --> 00:05:01.240 friends with quite a few people' and by dated I mean like probably just hooked 86 00:05:01.279 --> 00:05:04.879 up. But there are like a couple of people who I briefly, like 87 00:05:04.959 --> 00:05:10.399 a month long sort of dated and nothing that ever was official that I still 88 00:05:10.399 --> 00:05:14.759 remain friends with to this day because it was never like it never became love 89 00:05:14.879 --> 00:05:17.720 for me. And so I'm still friends with them and we just like hang 90 00:05:17.759 --> 00:05:20.319 out with a lot of the same people, like lots of different friend groups. 91 00:05:20.759 --> 00:05:25.439 So but I'm not texting that person, like I think that there is 92 00:05:25.480 --> 00:05:28.600 a line with that. Like those people, I'm not texting them consistently. 93 00:05:28.680 --> 00:05:31.079 It's more of a like like one of my friends moved out of town and 94 00:05:31.120 --> 00:05:33.519 when he comes back to visit, he'll be like, hey, if you 95 00:05:33.560 --> 00:05:35.360 want to grab a coffee, let me know, And every once in a 96 00:05:35.360 --> 00:05:40.759 while, sure I do. But like we briefly saw each other for like 97 00:05:40.800 --> 00:05:44.240 a month or two and that was it, and we catch up every once 98 00:05:44.279 --> 00:05:47.240 in a while, but it's not, uh, we're texting all the time. 99 00:05:47.480 --> 00:05:50.680 It's like, uh, we really respect our friendship because we were friends 100 00:05:50.680 --> 00:05:55.079 before too, kind of like Andrew was. But for the most part, 101 00:05:55.240 --> 00:06:00.160 no, I mean Andrew. My Andrew is the only really serious relationship that 102 00:06:00.240 --> 00:06:03.319 I've ever had. He's had other ones, and I wouldn't be okay with 103 00:06:03.439 --> 00:06:09.240 him talking to those other people. So I don't know if you feel differently, 104 00:06:09.319 --> 00:06:13.879 You're more than welcome to email us and tell us your thoughts. So 105 00:06:14.040 --> 00:06:16.480 we're going to move on to our next email. All right, gotta scroll 106 00:06:16.480 --> 00:06:19.480 a little bit because there's some pictures attached to this one. It looks like 107 00:06:19.519 --> 00:06:26.199 you got your Minnesota Goodbye staff Writer sticker. Okay, so has finally decided 108 00:06:26.600 --> 00:06:31.639 where to put my prized MN and goodbye stickers. Hold on tight, guys, 109 00:06:31.920 --> 00:06:36.120 I'm taking you to Africa with me tomorrow. Oh cool. So the 110 00:06:36.160 --> 00:06:42.240 picture is of the sticker on a suitcase, so you can So you're going 111 00:06:42.279 --> 00:06:46.040 to Africa. That's awesome. So I want to know where in Africa? 112 00:06:46.160 --> 00:06:48.160 Well I might have that answer. Hold on, oh, so, says 113 00:06:48.160 --> 00:06:51.120 my sixteen year old son. Laughed at me because I got stickers for writing 114 00:06:51.120 --> 00:06:55.199 into a radio station and he thinks that it is the lamest thing ever, 115 00:06:55.279 --> 00:06:58.800 and I'm such an old lady. Then a commercial came on with a white 116 00:06:58.800 --> 00:07:01.439 haired lady at the airport or digging for her printed boarding pass and I have 117 00:07:01.560 --> 00:07:06.639 never felt so seen as I printed my passes because I don't trust technology for 118 00:07:06.680 --> 00:07:11.040 contacts. I'm only thirty six, but I have an old soul. Do 119 00:07:11.120 --> 00:07:15.720 you have any old people tendencies? God, I know I probably do, 120 00:07:15.800 --> 00:07:19.360 but I don't want to. I mean, I complain about my back hurting 121 00:07:19.399 --> 00:07:24.199 and my body hurting all the time. Ever since I turned thirty. I'm 122 00:07:24.199 --> 00:07:28.399 always like, oh my back, I can't I can't walk up these stairs. 123 00:07:28.800 --> 00:07:31.600 I gotta take the elevator. I really am trying to think, like, 124 00:07:31.800 --> 00:07:35.079 what what kind of tendencies I have? I don't know. I'd have 125 00:07:35.079 --> 00:07:39.240 to think about that one. I guarantee you if I spent like today thinking 126 00:07:39.240 --> 00:07:41.800 about it, I probably wouldn't be able to figure it out. I'm not 127 00:07:41.879 --> 00:07:44.920 quite at this point yet, but I always it amazed me because my grandma 128 00:07:45.040 --> 00:07:47.560 was always up so early, sipping on coffee at like five six in the 129 00:07:47.600 --> 00:07:51.720 morning. And I've started to kind of become like that on like, obviously 130 00:07:51.720 --> 00:07:55.360 we're in at work at that time during the week, but on weekends I 131 00:07:55.439 --> 00:07:58.399 start to get up way earlier than I used to, and I almost like 132 00:07:59.360 --> 00:08:01.639 there's like a guilt in me if I sleep in too late anymore. And 133 00:08:01.680 --> 00:08:05.600 so I think that that's kind of one of my old lady tendencies is I'm 134 00:08:05.639 --> 00:08:09.839 starting to like get up on the weekends a little earlier. But I don't 135 00:08:09.879 --> 00:08:13.160 know, I think that's that's all I can think of right now. This 136 00:08:13.240 --> 00:08:16.720 might be one for me. I write a lot of things down, and 137 00:08:16.759 --> 00:08:18.600 I feel like, you know, that's a little bit of like an older, 138 00:08:20.040 --> 00:08:22.439 older tendency type thing is because you know, I could just write it 139 00:08:22.439 --> 00:08:26.360 down in my notes on my phone. But yeah, I just feel like 140 00:08:26.680 --> 00:08:28.399 for me, I like writing it down so that it's like in front of 141 00:08:28.439 --> 00:08:33.919 me physically for sure. So I guess I feel like that's a I wouldn't 142 00:08:33.000 --> 00:08:37.240 put that as an old person, No, I mean I write everything down 143 00:08:37.240 --> 00:08:39.759 to I don't. I think it's much more convenient in certain situations than getting 144 00:08:39.799 --> 00:08:43.519 in my phone, and it's in my opinion, it's quicker. I mean, 145 00:08:43.600 --> 00:08:46.639 Dave does voice at text all the time, so he'll write his notes 146 00:08:46.639 --> 00:08:50.360 are always like he's talking to his apple watch and like saying something. If 147 00:08:50.360 --> 00:08:52.600 he has an idea, he'll talk into his apple watch and do it that 148 00:08:52.639 --> 00:08:54.200 way. But yeah, I write a lot of things down too, Okay. 149 00:08:54.639 --> 00:08:58.200 She goes on to say, switching gears. I think everyone has at 150 00:08:58.320 --> 00:09:01.559 least one strange thing that they eat or way they eat it. What are 151 00:09:01.600 --> 00:09:05.360 yours? Like? Things that make people think that you are an are mentally 152 00:09:05.440 --> 00:09:09.960 unstable and they side I you for it? Mine. I drink pickle juice 153 00:09:09.960 --> 00:09:11.799 from the jar, And if I ever have leftover ranch on my plate, 154 00:09:11.879 --> 00:09:18.480 I grab lettuce off the head. I grab lettuce off the head. Tame 155 00:09:18.519 --> 00:09:20.720 in comparison to some of my gal pals one. So it sounds like she 156 00:09:22.039 --> 00:09:26.879 puts grabs lettuce and then uses the leftover ranch on her plate. What And 157 00:09:26.919 --> 00:09:30.679 then she goes on to say, some of her gal pals one eats raw 158 00:09:30.759 --> 00:09:35.799 potatoes a whole like an apple. Okay, crazy, I have seen people 159 00:09:35.879 --> 00:09:39.720 like I think I've seen it on TikTok where someone grabs a potato and just 160 00:09:39.720 --> 00:09:45.639 starts eating it like an apple, and another eats the bones. When she 161 00:09:45.799 --> 00:09:50.759 eats ribs, aren't bones really thick? On ribs. Just stop immediately stocked. 162 00:09:50.840 --> 00:09:54.279 Oh, your friends are wild. I don't think I have any The 163 00:09:54.360 --> 00:09:58.879 one weird thing that Andrew this is a constant. This is an almost every 164 00:09:58.960 --> 00:10:01.480 other day me for him. He makes this big bull of ramen, like 165 00:10:01.559 --> 00:10:05.360 kind of fancier ramen, not just like your package of ramen. So he 166 00:10:05.399 --> 00:10:09.360 makes his big bull of ramen, and then he does peanut butter on a 167 00:10:09.399 --> 00:10:13.600 tortilla and either like dips it in sometimes or just eats it alone, but 168 00:10:13.639 --> 00:10:18.360 it's always like his side to his ramen is a tortilla with peanut butter wrapped 169 00:10:18.399 --> 00:10:22.879 up pia. So that's something he does. Oh, this might be a 170 00:10:22.919 --> 00:10:24.360 weird one. I don't think it's weird, but it's so good. If 171 00:10:24.360 --> 00:10:28.519 you've never tried this before, we always grew up with like summer sausage, 172 00:10:28.519 --> 00:10:31.679 not salami. We grew up making summer sausage sandwiches and we lathered it and 173 00:10:31.799 --> 00:10:35.720 ketchup, and a lot of people think that that's weird, but my sisters 174 00:10:35.720 --> 00:10:37.559 and I still eat it all the time to this day. I think my 175 00:10:37.759 --> 00:10:43.759 older sisters posted it on her Instagram before and everyone's like, you are strange, 176 00:10:43.879 --> 00:10:46.519 So that might be a weird one, but it's super good, so 177 00:10:46.639 --> 00:10:50.360 try it if you haven't. Oh my god, the Summersage one doesn't sound 178 00:10:50.360 --> 00:10:52.840 that bad, but the tortilla dipping in ramen with peanut butter, and it 179 00:10:52.919 --> 00:10:56.759 is weird wild. He's a weird wild. Do you have any weird things? 180 00:10:58.360 --> 00:11:05.080 Uh? Some times I'll do like like a peanut butter and mayo sandwich. 181 00:11:05.919 --> 00:11:07.240 Peanut butter and mayo. I feel like I've heard that one before. 182 00:11:07.240 --> 00:11:09.720 I've never tried it myself. It's not bad, it's not bad. I 183 00:11:09.759 --> 00:11:13.440 got to put onto it like a year ago when when somebody on my stream 184 00:11:13.519 --> 00:11:16.799 was like, you need to try this because they say it's like literally what 185 00:11:16.840 --> 00:11:18.799 they give for lunch every day. It's what they make and bring to work. 186 00:11:20.080 --> 00:11:22.600 And I was like what. It sounded so gross at first, but 187 00:11:22.600 --> 00:11:24.240 then I tried it and I was like, you know, it's like a 188 00:11:24.279 --> 00:11:28.000 perfect mixture. But I don't know, it's just they just blend so well 189 00:11:28.000 --> 00:11:31.559 together. It's so weird. Have you ever done just mayo on a piece 190 00:11:31.600 --> 00:11:35.360 of bread like a piece of white yead? Okay? Because I was gonna 191 00:11:35.360 --> 00:11:37.440 say I we did that a little bit growing up. My uncle Mark always 192 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:41.759 did that and so I think I kind of learned that from him and would 193 00:11:41.799 --> 00:11:43.080 do that every once in a while. It wasn't like a meal for me, 194 00:11:43.200 --> 00:11:46.679 but every once in a while I do that so good. I don't 195 00:11:46.679 --> 00:11:50.000 know a lot us know your weird food combos, we love those, all 196 00:11:50.080 --> 00:11:52.799 right. So that and I apologize if I'm going to say your name wrong, 197 00:11:52.840 --> 00:11:56.080 but I think it's Alana that comes from Alana, and she is going 198 00:11:56.159 --> 00:12:03.080 to be going to Namibia. So it's in southern like not South Africa because 199 00:12:03.080 --> 00:12:07.080 that's its own country, but in like the southern parts of oh my gosh, 200 00:12:07.120 --> 00:12:11.120 southern parts of Africa. Sorry, guys, Drake and I are both 201 00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:13.240 pretty tired today. And then when Dave left, we were like, oh 202 00:12:13.279 --> 00:12:18.679 my gosh, we got a takeover. Great. Maybe probably to go on 203 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:22.720 a really cool vacation. I really, really really want to go to Africa. 204 00:12:22.720 --> 00:12:26.679 I would love to go to Cape Town. I know there's a bunch 205 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:31.399 of amazing islands off of the coast of Africa, But the travel to Africa 206 00:12:31.519 --> 00:12:37.159 is extreme. You're usually doing in like three layovers at a minimum, and 207 00:12:39.120 --> 00:12:43.759 that's the hard part of if you want to travel internationally. That is the 208 00:12:43.879 --> 00:12:48.720 hardest part is if you can handle the travel days because they are brutal. 209 00:12:48.799 --> 00:12:54.039 Sometimes. Coming back from Tahiti for us, actually felt a little bit harder 210 00:12:54.039 --> 00:12:58.440 than coming back from Thailand, which doesn't seem like it would make sense because 211 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:03.279 the Thailand flight in total was about out twenty one hours and Tahiti was closer 212 00:13:03.320 --> 00:13:09.919 to twelve, but it was because we were going what was it back in 213 00:13:09.039 --> 00:13:16.039 time or wait, no, no, I'm confusing it. So Thailand we 214 00:13:16.039 --> 00:13:20.200 were twelve hours ahead. Yeah, yeah, Tahiti we were like four hours 215 00:13:20.240 --> 00:13:24.080 behind, and it was like that weird four hour difference, and then going 216 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:28.600 forward in time almost messed with us more than like gaining the time back as 217 00:13:28.600 --> 00:13:31.480 we were coming back from Thailand. Yeah, I believe that. I think 218 00:13:31.519 --> 00:13:35.000 the longest light I've ever been on is like a six hour flight, Like 219 00:13:35.039 --> 00:13:39.960 I think that's that was like probably the longest I've done, so six Yeah, 220 00:13:39.000 --> 00:13:41.879 I mean, and that's a decently long flight, like that's it's not 221 00:13:41.919 --> 00:13:46.360 like that's short. I'm I it's like I always want to do different trips 222 00:13:46.399 --> 00:13:52.279 in the winter than snowboarding because Andrew it's very hard sometimes to convince him to 223 00:13:52.279 --> 00:13:54.240 want to go anywhere else because he loves snowboarding so much. Right, But 224 00:13:56.080 --> 00:13:58.840 when we do have a snowboarding trip, I am hyped because it's almost it's 225 00:13:58.840 --> 00:14:01.639 not always, but a lot of times it's to Denver, and a Denver 226 00:14:01.720 --> 00:14:05.960 flight is the easiest flight ever. It's like an hour and a half in 227 00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:09.000 the air, probably two hours two and a half hours total on the plane, 228 00:14:09.360 --> 00:14:13.840 and it just feels so simple when everywhere else, like you want to 229 00:14:13.879 --> 00:14:15.759 go to the West coast, the East coast, it's going to be at 230 00:14:15.799 --> 00:14:20.919 least a couple hours. So that's always like a nice little easy flight. 231 00:14:20.039 --> 00:14:22.840 All right. We have one more email. This comes from Rinita. It 232 00:14:22.840 --> 00:14:26.840 says, Hi, guys, can I take a second event about something I've 233 00:14:26.840 --> 00:14:30.360 been holding in? Yes, Rinita, you can. So. My husband 234 00:14:30.440 --> 00:14:33.960 is super attractive, but over the years he has stopped shaving every day. 235 00:14:33.000 --> 00:14:35.960 He literally shaves Sunday night now and that's it for the whole week. I 236 00:14:37.000 --> 00:14:39.759 do not like it. Could you imagine if I only shaved once a week? 237 00:14:39.799 --> 00:14:41.559 He could not be a fan of that. He would not be a 238 00:14:41.600 --> 00:14:45.519 fan of that. On Valentine's Day, my daughter and I got all dolled 239 00:14:45.600 --> 00:14:48.320 up for our dinner dates with my husband, and then he picks us up 240 00:14:48.360 --> 00:14:50.799 after work and looks scruffy and like he doesn't care anymore. It's not a 241 00:14:50.840 --> 00:14:56.279 look he necessarily desires. I truly think it's laziness because he works very long 242 00:14:56.279 --> 00:14:58.600 hours at work and once he's home he doesn't want to do a dang thing. 243 00:14:58.679 --> 00:15:03.440 So my husband is super sensitive to criticism. So how can I bring 244 00:15:03.480 --> 00:15:05.200 this up to him so he shaves more? Or do I just deal with 245 00:15:05.240 --> 00:15:11.240 it? Also, what has your significant others stopped doing or started doing that 246 00:15:11.480 --> 00:15:16.440 just irks you? Thinks rinita make it sexy? Make what sexy? Make 247 00:15:16.480 --> 00:15:18.960 it sexy? Just the beard? Yeah, it'd just be like, hey, 248 00:15:18.960 --> 00:15:20.919 come here, baby, let me let me shave that beard and then 249 00:15:22.000 --> 00:15:24.559 just like you know that that's the right way to go out. Well, 250 00:15:24.600 --> 00:15:28.840 yeah goes. You know, it's worth a try. You know, maybe 251 00:15:28.960 --> 00:15:31.440 he might surprise him, you get it. It's like it's like a it's 252 00:15:31.440 --> 00:15:33.399 like a mental thing. You got to like get in his head about it. 253 00:15:33.440 --> 00:15:35.600 Like if he thinks that it's like a sexy thing, then it'd be 254 00:15:35.639 --> 00:15:39.320 like wanted to do it more. You know. Oh you mean when he's 255 00:15:39.440 --> 00:15:41.200 shaved. Yeah, okay, I was like what you're saying, his beard 256 00:15:41.240 --> 00:15:45.039 is sexy, and she doesn't want him to think that the beard's sexy. 257 00:15:45.360 --> 00:15:46.639 Rinita, I don't have an answer for that. In my opinion, I 258 00:15:46.639 --> 00:15:50.000 think that you just have to deal with it, especially if he's working really 259 00:15:50.000 --> 00:15:52.960 long hours and he doesn't have the time to and you said that he'd be 260 00:15:54.000 --> 00:15:56.799 upset if you didn't shave it like more than once a week. Man, 261 00:15:56.879 --> 00:16:00.759 I don't shave for two weeks, and Andrew deals with it. I do 262 00:16:00.840 --> 00:16:03.360 not care. I know that not everyone has relationships like that, but I 263 00:16:03.399 --> 00:16:07.600 do not care. He can deal with and he also is like, come 264 00:16:07.639 --> 00:16:10.600 over here, my little bear, you know, like he doesn't care. 265 00:16:11.759 --> 00:16:15.720 It's I don't know. I will say. Shaving is just I don't know. 266 00:16:15.960 --> 00:16:19.399 Imagine female and having to shave your leg. I know it is exhausting. 267 00:16:19.440 --> 00:16:22.200 I can't Yeah, I can't even imagine. I have to to just 268 00:16:22.240 --> 00:16:23.759 work with my face. The reason why I don't do it so much is 269 00:16:23.759 --> 00:16:27.279 because I have to be like precise with mine, because I have to keep 270 00:16:27.279 --> 00:16:30.960 like a line on my head, and if I screw it up even a 271 00:16:32.039 --> 00:16:34.279 little bit, then I have to like basically adjust my entire beard and like 272 00:16:34.360 --> 00:16:38.720 reshave it, line it up again, and it gets it gets like a 273 00:16:38.720 --> 00:16:41.759 lot of work, and I think that's why I I only do mine like 274 00:16:42.320 --> 00:16:45.159 once once a week, maybe twice, depending on it, like if I'm 275 00:16:45.200 --> 00:16:49.039 going out or something. But yeah, I get it. It's it's it's 276 00:16:49.120 --> 00:16:53.360 sucks, dude. Body hair maintenance is exhausting. It's like you already have 277 00:16:53.440 --> 00:16:56.799 to shower and then you have to also maintain your body hair. It's like, 278 00:16:57.919 --> 00:17:00.519 let's all just go back to men and women days and let it. 279 00:17:00.559 --> 00:17:04.200 I'll just be free and grow and some people do and that's that's great. 280 00:17:04.359 --> 00:17:10.599 Yeah, But then they asked what is something that you're significant They Rinita asked, 281 00:17:10.599 --> 00:17:12.799 what is something your significant other stopped doing or started doing that just irks 282 00:17:12.839 --> 00:17:21.039 you. Gosh, that's hard. I don't know if it stops or started. 283 00:17:21.400 --> 00:17:23.279 The number one thing for me is he leaves Andrew leaves the lights on 284 00:17:23.319 --> 00:17:26.839 all the time, and it drives me insane. But that's like, that's 285 00:17:26.880 --> 00:17:30.359 just a habit. Yes, he lives the lights on all the time. 286 00:17:30.839 --> 00:17:36.119 And I like the first couple of months of living together, I was upset 287 00:17:36.160 --> 00:17:38.039 all the time about it, and then I just realized that that is his 288 00:17:38.119 --> 00:17:41.960 personality. And I watch my brother in law do it. And I know 289 00:17:42.039 --> 00:17:47.400 that my sisters and I we grew up in a household that we could be 290 00:17:47.519 --> 00:17:51.039 in the basement and my mom would be right next to the light switch in 291 00:17:51.079 --> 00:17:53.799 the hallway upstairs, and she'd yell at us and make us come upstairs and 292 00:17:53.839 --> 00:17:59.039 turn it off instead of her just flipping it off herself. So it's ingrained 293 00:17:59.039 --> 00:18:02.759 in us from child that we turn lights off. And I know that it 294 00:18:02.960 --> 00:18:07.519 just wasn't how Andrew grew up. So you really learn a lot about how 295 00:18:07.559 --> 00:18:11.119 someone grew up when you start looking with them. You really learn a lot. 296 00:18:11.200 --> 00:18:12.640 So all right, thanks for your email, Rinita, and thanks to 297 00:18:12.640 --> 00:18:17.039 everyone else. Like I said earlier, send us some new ones because we 298 00:18:17.079 --> 00:18:21.160 are clearing out this email box so we are starting over fresh. Send those 299 00:18:21.160 --> 00:18:25.200 into ryanshow at katieweb dot com and day will be back tomorrow. Have a 300 00:18:25.200 --> 00:18:25.720 great day.