WEBVTT 1 00:00:06.320 --> 00:00:09.839 Who what's not beautiful people? It is your baby mama's favorite baby Mama, 2 00:00:09.880 --> 00:00:14.679 Stormy pee. And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern 3 00:00:14.759 --> 00:00:18.879 day female perspective. Damn Son, back at it again, Boom, back 4 00:00:18.920 --> 00:00:24.120 at it again. Shot is a little pissy today because we ordered food and 5 00:00:24.440 --> 00:00:27.559 I took my fries out the bag, and then I went in the bag 6 00:00:27.600 --> 00:00:30.399 and gave one of his fries to his dog, and now he got an 7 00:00:30.399 --> 00:00:33.560 attitude with me. I don't see how this is my problem. It is 8 00:00:33.600 --> 00:00:37.079 what it is in my opinion. I no, no, I can't hear 9 00:00:37.079 --> 00:00:39.119 you because you're not on the mic. First of all, then that sound 10 00:00:39.159 --> 00:00:44.320 like I got a burp. I personally feel like if I have been chosen 11 00:00:44.759 --> 00:00:49.439 to be the food delegator, when I'm holding the bag, I can delegate 12 00:00:49.520 --> 00:00:54.880 how I see fit your food. Okay, you just stop the fuck out 13 00:00:54.880 --> 00:00:58.200 your food. You don't delegate other people's food. Ty grind says, those 14 00:00:58.240 --> 00:01:03.239 are legally not your fries exactly, and then like that she say bad fries. 15 00:01:03.680 --> 00:01:07.840 She said she gave him shots fries, not the bag, not the 16 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:11.319 fries at the bottom of the bag, which your everybody's fries is whoever claims 17 00:01:11.359 --> 00:01:14.840 them. You don't know where I got the fries out. You cook yours 18 00:01:14.840 --> 00:01:17.239 out first, give him your ship. I lived with this nigga. He 19 00:01:17.280 --> 00:01:19.239 gets everything. First of all, he's just a baby. He gets whatever 20 00:01:19.280 --> 00:01:27.640 he wants, he gets. Okay, so ignore shot, all right, 21 00:01:29.599 --> 00:01:34.640 arm thank you? Yes, yes, Brian, I did read through the 22 00:01:34.640 --> 00:01:40.920 typo. I knew what he meant that aside. Okay, so let's catch 23 00:01:41.000 --> 00:01:46.400 up. So y'all know I was talking about trying to go outside and put 24 00:01:46.400 --> 00:01:52.200 myself out there, and a part of that came with a getting back to 25 00:01:52.200 --> 00:01:55.120 do all my hostings and do all my different shows and my different parties and 26 00:01:55.159 --> 00:01:59.319 things like that. So last weekend I did a gig with Bobby Flowers. 27 00:01:59.319 --> 00:02:02.560 Shout out the Bobby Flowers. We did hips. And let me tell you 28 00:02:02.640 --> 00:02:07.759 something. Okay, I'm not sure how, when or why, but for 29 00:02:07.840 --> 00:02:15.000 whatever reason, it seems like every man on my timeline saw me post that 30 00:02:15.039 --> 00:02:17.240 flyer and say, oh, here's my opportunity to go talk to her in 31 00:02:17.280 --> 00:02:22.759 person. I know where she's gonna be at. I'm gonna find her and 32 00:02:22.800 --> 00:02:24.479 shoot my shot. Right, And I'm not talking about the people I know. 33 00:02:24.639 --> 00:02:28.919 Okay, you know my friends came and supported me like it's all good, 34 00:02:28.960 --> 00:02:34.080 it's all love everything, But yo, so many of you literally came 35 00:02:34.199 --> 00:02:37.000 up to me and said, hey, I just saw you here and was 36 00:02:37.039 --> 00:02:39.719 like, Yo, I gotta shoot my shot. And my whole thing is 37 00:02:39.919 --> 00:02:44.639 what am I supposed to say to that? Because baby, I'm working, 38 00:02:45.120 --> 00:02:50.199 ain't shitting me to say like just he ain't Like, I don't know, 39 00:02:50.800 --> 00:02:54.199 I don't know what I am supposed to say to that, right, Tyris 40 00:02:54.240 --> 00:02:59.800 take me there, says going back to roots, like root's picnic. I'll 41 00:02:59.800 --> 00:03:01.000 be respecting this year. If you're coming to respect it, y'all can see 42 00:03:01.039 --> 00:03:05.719 me a respicnic, that's it. But yeah, it was wild to me, 43 00:03:05.879 --> 00:03:09.520 right, But I just wanted to keep you guys abreast because I said 44 00:03:09.639 --> 00:03:14.000 I was going to be committed to going outside, and I have done just 45 00:03:14.080 --> 00:03:20.919 that. Right now, it's funny because where are you laughing at? We're 46 00:03:20.919 --> 00:03:31.800 looking at my God. A part of me trying to be purposeful means or 47 00:03:31.919 --> 00:03:35.919 trying to be outside. A part that I don't want to miss is the 48 00:03:35.919 --> 00:03:38.960 being purposeful part. So I've been trying to do my due diligence, talk 49 00:03:39.000 --> 00:03:43.599 to people, make sure we're compatible, make sure, this is something I 50 00:03:43.639 --> 00:03:46.319 really want to invest my time and my energy to, especially because it's spread 51 00:03:46.439 --> 00:03:51.879 so thin right now, and really making sure I put my best foot forward. 52 00:03:52.360 --> 00:03:54.400 But no matter how much I try, and I want you guys to 53 00:03:54.520 --> 00:04:00.759 know, no matter how much you try, they're all always going to be 54 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:09.280 some uh, some characters that slipped through the crack. As a shot likes 55 00:04:09.280 --> 00:04:15.879 to say casualties of war. Okay, So I mean, oh't know, 56 00:04:16.439 --> 00:04:24.600 like just was not me? Just one wasn't me. What I'm about to 57 00:04:24.600 --> 00:04:27.120 say, wasn't me at all. You don't even know what I'm about to 58 00:04:27.160 --> 00:04:32.040 say. Okay. So I'm hanging out with this guy, and you know, 59 00:04:32.319 --> 00:04:36.160 every time, everybody that you meet don't deserve to see all of you. 60 00:04:36.639 --> 00:04:42.959 Okay, let's start there. Everybody that you meet don't deserve to see 61 00:04:43.000 --> 00:04:46.519 all of you. Right. So I'm hanging out with this guy and we're 62 00:04:46.560 --> 00:04:51.000 like smoking hookah in the backyard. Right now, I say, smoking hookah 63 00:04:51.040 --> 00:04:55.000 in the backyard. You're in the backyard. What do you want to do 64 00:04:55.959 --> 00:05:03.439 me? I'm gonna look up at the sky. I'm not looking about the 65 00:05:03.480 --> 00:05:16.319 sky to see the constellations. So me and my nerd ass, it's not 66 00:05:16.399 --> 00:05:20.480 funny. Me and my nerd ass. I'm like, oh yeah, come 67 00:05:20.480 --> 00:05:33.120 over here, let me show you Ryan's belt. Me and my nerd ass. 68 00:05:34.000 --> 00:05:36.560 I'm like, yo, look look right here, you can see Orion's 69 00:05:36.560 --> 00:05:41.439 belt. I mean, I ain't gonna hold you. I probably would have 70 00:05:41.480 --> 00:05:46.959 been like, that's a little weird. Ain't weird. I ain't weird at 71 00:05:46.959 --> 00:05:53.120 all. That's not weird for yourself? Would you save your truth? Queen 72 00:05:54.720 --> 00:05:58.800 bruh boy, that's not what he said at all. That's not what he 73 00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:00.959 said. I'm like, oh man, look over here, you can see 74 00:06:00.959 --> 00:06:05.000 a Raton's belt. This nigga looked at me and said, what you trying 75 00:06:05.079 --> 00:06:14.360 free the slaves and shit? Like? What you're trying free the slaves and 76 00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:17.199 shit? You Harriet? Some mean following the North snore, Yo, every 77 00:06:17.240 --> 00:06:20.560 since you started wearing your fro out, you've been on some da shiki shit 78 00:06:20.680 --> 00:06:28.759 and I don't really know what you oh man, what I said, I'm 79 00:06:28.800 --> 00:06:31.079 like, bro, okay, So if you don't follow me on social media, 80 00:06:31.240 --> 00:06:34.439 like I have been wearing my fro out like for the past few weeks, 81 00:06:34.759 --> 00:06:42.319 right, so you're gonna say every since you've been wearing your fro you've 82 00:06:42.360 --> 00:06:45.240 been on some dashiki shit and I'm not gonna lie shot. I kind of 83 00:06:45.240 --> 00:06:47.879 felt like he had that in a tuk to like just waiting to say that 84 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:50.360 shit to me, because it's like, bro, that rolled off your tongue 85 00:06:50.399 --> 00:06:55.800 a little bit too much, Like all because bruh, all, because I 86 00:06:55.800 --> 00:07:01.920 want to show you constellations like what, I can't help it. No. 87 00:07:02.040 --> 00:07:05.639 We were just in his backyard and like his neighborhood didn't have a lot of 88 00:07:05.720 --> 00:07:12.800 light pollutions, so you can see a lot of the constellations running. Is 89 00:07:12.920 --> 00:07:21.240 crazy, that's what it's called. Okaylick, Oh my god, y'all see 90 00:07:21.360 --> 00:07:25.800 this why I'm single? This why I'm single. They'll be trying to figure 91 00:07:25.839 --> 00:07:28.439 out why. And I'm trying to tell you because I'll be in the backyard 92 00:07:28.480 --> 00:07:31.879 trying to point out constellations to me and may be calling me Harriet tubman. 93 00:07:34.160 --> 00:07:39.319 Everybody who know you know you like that? Ain't right? People? I 94 00:07:39.360 --> 00:07:50.839 thought so, I thought, so I'm not a loser, yo, Yeah, 95 00:07:50.920 --> 00:07:56.519 Corney is a nigga. Y'all gotta relax. I don't know, man. 96 00:07:56.720 --> 00:07:59.079 Granted, y'all know me like I'm a clown. I don't take shit 97 00:07:59.160 --> 00:08:03.759 serious, you know, pay attention to what people be saying, so like, 98 00:08:03.959 --> 00:08:07.680 I kind of just laughed it off. I thought it was funny. 99 00:08:07.720 --> 00:08:11.600 But yeah, I don't know. If y'all want to know something more about 100 00:08:11.639 --> 00:08:16.720 consolations, hit me up and tell me what part of the country or where 101 00:08:16.759 --> 00:08:20.560 you're from, so I can tell you what you can see currently, because 102 00:08:20.560 --> 00:08:24.639 you can't see everything at the same time. Shot, what I can see 103 00:08:24.720 --> 00:08:28.600 may not be what you know people in Florida can see or people in Alaska 104 00:08:28.639 --> 00:08:31.480 can see. So that's why I was like, Yo, let me know 105 00:08:31.519 --> 00:08:35.679 where you at so I can tell you what you can see. Nobody can 106 00:08:35.759 --> 00:08:39.759 hear you're not on the mic. He's just not on your level, that's 107 00:08:39.840 --> 00:08:46.360 all you know. Sometimes exactly. Sometimes I don't think that it be people 108 00:08:46.360 --> 00:08:48.639 don't be on my level. Sometimes I think that people don't expect me to 109 00:08:48.679 --> 00:08:52.639 say the things that I say, like they just expect me to be on 110 00:08:52.679 --> 00:08:56.919 something different type. Yeah, I think that's what it is. I think 111 00:08:56.919 --> 00:09:03.279 it just takes people by surprised. No thanks, I'm a dicator. What 112 00:09:03.399 --> 00:09:07.720 can I see and don't get me shot, Yo, come on, look, 113 00:09:07.960 --> 00:09:13.000 let me tell you what to look like. Just look up, huh. 114 00:09:13.120 --> 00:09:18.240 If you cross the if just look out your window, you could be 115 00:09:18.279 --> 00:09:22.240 in your house and look out the window. Yeah, Decatur does have a 116 00:09:22.240 --> 00:09:28.840 lot of light pollution, y'all. Come on, I'm trying to be serious. 117 00:09:28.200 --> 00:09:31.279 I'm trying to tell you something. I'm trying to see y'all. Some 118 00:09:31.320 --> 00:09:39.279 stuff y'all don't care about me. I hate here. Okay, So all 119 00:09:39.360 --> 00:09:45.679 that aside, today's topic. I feel like for the past few weeks, 120 00:09:45.720 --> 00:09:48.440 you know, we always have a theme for the show. So today's theme, 121 00:09:50.440 --> 00:09:52.919 I feel like, let's talk. You know that's gonna be the theme. 122 00:09:54.039 --> 00:09:58.039 Let's talk. I feel like there are some certain topics that we don't 123 00:09:58.120 --> 00:10:05.720 talk enough about, we don't have enough conversations about. And everybody that's on 124 00:10:05.759 --> 00:10:07.200 a live I really want you all to chip in because you know, I 125 00:10:07.240 --> 00:10:11.440 want to hear your input too, because SHOT's going to tell me something embarrassing 126 00:10:11.679 --> 00:10:20.480 or something that means me, so I so I want to make sure you 127 00:10:20.519 --> 00:10:24.919 guys step in as well. All right, So the first topic, right, 128 00:10:26.200 --> 00:10:31.200 and I feel like there absolutely is not enough conversations about this at all. 129 00:10:31.360 --> 00:10:39.519 Right, So I have a question, what is the male equivalent to 130 00:10:39.639 --> 00:10:45.039 buying a female flowers? Right? Like, you know, if you have 131 00:10:45.039 --> 00:10:48.080 a girl that you really like, or a date went really well, or 132 00:10:48.200 --> 00:10:52.600 you know, you just wanted to show your appreciation. If it's a female, 133 00:10:52.679 --> 00:10:54.639 nine times out of ten, you'll send her flowers. So I wanted 134 00:10:54.639 --> 00:11:01.279 to ask what is the male equivalent of sending a female flowers? So, 135 00:11:01.360 --> 00:11:03.559 shout, I wanted to ask you for you, what would be the male 136 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:09.200 equivalent for sending a female flowers? If she give me, like, like 137 00:11:09.240 --> 00:11:13.600 I said, work gloves, or if she like, pack my lunch something 138 00:11:13.639 --> 00:11:15.879 like that, just like you know, I'll be working, I don't really 139 00:11:15.919 --> 00:11:18.480 take breaks off. If she just does something like regular to help me out 140 00:11:18.519 --> 00:11:22.120 throughout my day, my day easier, and you know, you won't think 141 00:11:22.159 --> 00:11:26.120 about packing lunch or taking clothes or anything like that or anything like that. 142 00:11:28.879 --> 00:11:33.000 So I saw on a live a home Depot gift card. I want the 143 00:11:33.039 --> 00:11:37.080 flowers too, uh? Someone said, Lol, you don't want to know 144 00:11:37.120 --> 00:11:43.559 that. Someone said, send me some wings dry well with bourbon dipping sauce. 145 00:11:43.159 --> 00:11:50.159 Okay, uh yeah right limit Pepper Home Depot gift card. Cologne is 146 00:11:50.240 --> 00:11:56.240 usually the first gift. I got a bad feeling she's gonna use an Yeah, 147 00:11:56.240 --> 00:12:00.559 why are you like this? You get all my nerves, genuine interests, 148 00:12:00.879 --> 00:12:09.000 sincere compliments, uh special, really telling telling your randomly that he's fine? 149 00:12:09.320 --> 00:12:13.840 Really so y'all like to be gassed too? But would that be the 150 00:12:13.000 --> 00:12:15.919 question? We're not with you? What do you think? What do you 151 00:12:15.919 --> 00:12:20.240 think is happening? Mm? Okay, okay. They don't need to be 152 00:12:20.279 --> 00:12:24.519 every day. Is that the equivalent of like sending a female flowers, like 153 00:12:24.679 --> 00:12:28.080 to her job or to her house like just or just popping up at her 154 00:12:28.120 --> 00:12:31.639 house with some flowers, like just so you know that I'm thinking of you. 155 00:12:31.919 --> 00:12:37.039 What is the male equivalent of sending a female flowers? Hmm okay okay. 156 00:12:39.480 --> 00:12:43.879 Bud is a good call literal flower, y'all, O my neck, 157 00:12:45.159 --> 00:12:50.000 I hate it here. So I feel like, you know, when you're 158 00:12:50.000 --> 00:12:54.000 feeling a girl and when you enjoy the company of a female, you want 159 00:12:54.000 --> 00:12:58.480 to say yo, like I appreciate you, like congrats on your such and 160 00:12:58.559 --> 00:13:03.279 such, like how do we do that for men? Like yo, you've 161 00:13:03.279 --> 00:13:07.480 been doing a really good job, like congratulate your promotion like damn, bae, 162 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:13.279 you hit a new pr like what okay, Like damn I see you 163 00:13:13.360 --> 00:13:16.600 bae, Like oh, just so you know what I'm thinking about you? 164 00:13:16.720 --> 00:13:26.840 Like what are something? Shine? Come on, come on, come on, 165 00:13:28.120 --> 00:13:30.720 I'm saying, like, how do you tell your man like, m 166 00:13:31.559 --> 00:13:33.559 you've been doing a good job, babe, Like, damn, you cleaned 167 00:13:33.559 --> 00:13:39.399 your car? Okay, Like what can we say to let men know that 168 00:13:39.480 --> 00:13:43.279 doing a good job? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I won't even say 169 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:46.960 words. I'll say acts because you know, I say, like, what's 170 00:13:46.000 --> 00:13:50.360 the male equivalent of sending a female flower? Even if it's like something like 171 00:13:50.679 --> 00:13:54.159 if you know that he's on a video game all the time and he's talking 172 00:13:54.159 --> 00:13:58.240 to the same guys and you're literally gonna have the same conversation, Hey, 173 00:13:58.320 --> 00:14:03.360 how is Andrew doing today? Yeah? Yeah, I paid attention to your 174 00:14:03.679 --> 00:14:05.720 like like stuff like that, even though it's like little things like you know, 175 00:14:05.799 --> 00:14:09.720 girls, they y'all like little ship for you. Sure, things like 176 00:14:09.759 --> 00:14:13.000 that's the same thing. It's just like, yeah, you don't need all 177 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:16.519 the time, but that random Hey so so so I saw you did that 178 00:14:16.559 --> 00:14:22.799 today. This is no good. You got a haircut? Yeah? Without 179 00:14:22.120 --> 00:14:24.480 how about this? How about you just say we're cute when we get a 180 00:14:24.480 --> 00:14:28.200 haircut. It's insulting us. I mean it's cool. I mean I don't 181 00:14:28.240 --> 00:14:33.440 know the insults. They just I don't know the insult. Oh you think 182 00:14:33.440 --> 00:14:35.720 you're cute now because you got I mean it's cool, but you know, 183 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:39.000 do your man favorites Shara? So days coming up? You know at least 184 00:14:39.000 --> 00:14:45.279 you could do. You can lead this a low after his haircut. So 185 00:14:45.519 --> 00:14:50.159 I asked, you know, what's the male equivalent of sending a female flowers? 186 00:14:50.480 --> 00:14:52.960 How can you show up for your men? Ladies? You may be 187 00:14:54.159 --> 00:14:56.600 out of ideas, but don't worry about it. I got you, okay, 188 00:14:56.039 --> 00:15:00.799 first one, and and this might not make sense, but just hear 189 00:15:00.840 --> 00:15:03.759 me out. Okay, Now, this might not work for everybody, but 190 00:15:03.799 --> 00:15:09.960 it's gonna work for a lot. Okay, First thing, agree with your 191 00:15:09.039 --> 00:15:16.000 man when he say the game cheating. I know, I know, I 192 00:15:16.039 --> 00:15:20.320 know, I know. First one, the first one. Agree with your 193 00:15:20.320 --> 00:15:24.240 man when he say the game cheating. I know, I know, I 194 00:15:24.279 --> 00:15:26.240 know, I know. Okay, but when he be talking all that shit, 195 00:15:26.480 --> 00:15:30.519 I know it don't make sense. I know, it's just an algorithm 196 00:15:30.559 --> 00:15:33.000 based on ones and zeros. Hey don't make sen I know. But what 197 00:15:33.039 --> 00:15:37.159 I'm telling you is when he slammed that fucking controller down and say they always 198 00:15:37.279 --> 00:15:41.240 cheating, you rub his back and say, Babe, I know, I 199 00:15:41.279 --> 00:15:45.360 know they always on that bullshit. I know sing, I know I got 200 00:15:45.399 --> 00:15:48.559 you, I fucking got you. Let him know that you're there with him. 201 00:15:48.799 --> 00:15:54.360 Okay, that's the first thing. Now the second, ladies, I 202 00:15:54.360 --> 00:15:58.360 know, y'all really don't be y'all really don't be on this shit, and 203 00:15:58.399 --> 00:16:02.440 y'all really don't be feeling like it, and y'all feel like this whole soft 204 00:16:02.440 --> 00:16:07.360 guy era is so sassy. But hear me out when I say, just 205 00:16:07.399 --> 00:16:10.600 send him money for a haircut. Okay, I feel like, if we're 206 00:16:10.600 --> 00:16:14.440 talking about the equivalent of flowers, just send them money for a haircut. 207 00:16:14.759 --> 00:16:18.720 It's the same thing. Now, am I saying? It's hard because I 208 00:16:18.759 --> 00:16:23.240 feel like when guys send us money for our nails, they like to do 209 00:16:23.320 --> 00:16:29.399 weird shit like put in a note of green pink please. Like, I'm 210 00:16:29.440 --> 00:16:33.159 not telling you to send him money for his haircut and say a number two 211 00:16:33.200 --> 00:16:36.000 with a birth's fade. I'm not saying that. Okay, that's a little 212 00:16:36.080 --> 00:16:38.519 much, But what I am saying is the least you can do. It's 213 00:16:38.559 --> 00:16:41.440 just like, yo, you hear them say like, yeah, I'm going 214 00:16:41.440 --> 00:16:44.080 to go get my haircut today. Just just send him some money for a 215 00:16:44.159 --> 00:16:48.919 haircut, Send him some money for a haircut. It's it's the least. 216 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:52.960 It don't got to be all of it. You out here trying to pay 217 00:16:52.960 --> 00:16:56.039 for my shit. You I don't want to pay for anything anywhere. But 218 00:16:56.080 --> 00:16:59.080 it's the gesture exactly. So you know, well, how much do you 219 00:16:59.120 --> 00:17:03.920 think haircut cuts? Sixty dollars? I thought you're gonna say twenty five. 220 00:17:06.279 --> 00:17:10.680 He thought she was gonna say twenty five. Like, okay, yo, 221 00:17:11.039 --> 00:17:15.759 beginning twenty five haircuts. The complaining that got be in a barbecuer. If 222 00:17:15.839 --> 00:17:19.200 you are complaining about your twenty five dollars haircut, you deserve the twenty five 223 00:17:19.200 --> 00:17:23.119 dollars. Let them fuck you up, okay, because you're signing up for 224 00:17:23.200 --> 00:17:29.359 that. It's nothing. Unfortunately, what's what's the lowest amount you feel like 225 00:17:29.400 --> 00:17:33.599 you can safely play without the risk of getting your hairline push back? Fair 226 00:17:33.720 --> 00:17:40.839 enough? Fair enough, fair enough without the fixing. So someone saying I 227 00:17:40.839 --> 00:17:45.799 need a tip for the barber half a haircut is crazy. A haircut is 228 00:17:45.839 --> 00:17:48.640 sixty dollars without the tip. I said, sixty dollars, yeah, like 229 00:17:48.640 --> 00:17:56.440 like forty five, but fift okay. So next I asked what would be 230 00:17:56.559 --> 00:18:00.640 the male equivalent of sending a female flowers. Right now, ladies, this 231 00:18:00.720 --> 00:18:03.799 is another one we struggle with. And I know I'm saying this in solidarity 232 00:18:03.839 --> 00:18:10.880 with you, and it's so simple, but it's so hard. Be quiet, 233 00:18:11.400 --> 00:18:18.000 Okay, just be quiet sometimes, just sit with your man and be 234 00:18:18.119 --> 00:18:22.599 quiet. And I know because in my mind I always had this feeling like, 235 00:18:22.680 --> 00:18:25.759 yo, like if you don't annoy the fuck out your boyfriend, like 236 00:18:25.759 --> 00:18:30.079 do you even love him? Yes? Apparently yes, unbeknownst to me, 237 00:18:30.720 --> 00:18:33.880 apparently yes. All right, So what I'm saying is another way you can 238 00:18:33.960 --> 00:18:40.759 show up for your man is just sitting and being quiet. Sometimes all you 239 00:18:40.799 --> 00:18:44.519 gotta do is show up. Okay, it's okay. We're gonna learn together. 240 00:18:44.559 --> 00:18:47.400 We're gonna work through this together. I promise you. Just just just 241 00:18:47.440 --> 00:18:48.839 hear me out, hear me out, let me get it out. Okay. 242 00:18:49.480 --> 00:18:56.680 Now, another way that you can show up for your man, and 243 00:18:56.720 --> 00:19:00.359 it's another one that me, myself, I struggle with. Okay. Another 244 00:19:00.400 --> 00:19:06.160 thing that you can do is honestly, just listen. Just let him talk. 245 00:19:06.759 --> 00:19:12.240 Like when people speak, sometimes they speak to get a response or advice, 246 00:19:12.920 --> 00:19:18.039 and sometimes they speak just to then, like depending on what type of 247 00:19:18.079 --> 00:19:21.640 woman you are. When your man comes to you with the issue, you're 248 00:19:21.680 --> 00:19:23.079 one thousand percent go and try to figure out how the fuck can we fix 249 00:19:23.119 --> 00:19:25.920 it? Like, what can we do now? What's the next move? 250 00:19:26.000 --> 00:19:29.960 What's the next step? Sometimes just sit and let him get his shit off, 251 00:19:30.240 --> 00:19:33.720 No, diddy, he will go. Stop sitting in a cart. 252 00:19:33.720 --> 00:19:36.880 That's what we're doing yet, real shit. If you want to know why 253 00:19:36.920 --> 00:19:40.519 your man comes home from work and sits in the car for forty five minutes 254 00:19:40.640 --> 00:19:44.599 before he comes in the house, he's trying to decompress this. Let him 255 00:19:44.599 --> 00:19:48.640 come in the house and just let him talk and get all that out without 256 00:19:48.640 --> 00:19:52.359 you having to jump in and say what you think? What happened to you? 257 00:19:52.519 --> 00:19:53.559 And I know you're trying to relate, You're trying to let him know 258 00:19:53.599 --> 00:19:56.160 that you're in it with you. You don't have to all the time. 259 00:19:56.519 --> 00:20:00.920 Sometimes you can just sit and let him talk and that could be it, 260 00:20:00.440 --> 00:20:03.680 And that could be it. I wanted to ask, like, you know, 261 00:20:03.799 --> 00:20:07.519 what are some other reasons, Like what are some other ways? How 262 00:20:07.559 --> 00:20:10.640 can your girl, your lady, your woman, your wife, whoever? 263 00:20:11.039 --> 00:20:14.480 How can she show up for you? What's the male equivalent of flowers? 264 00:20:14.480 --> 00:20:15.519 How can she lets you know, like, damn, bay, I appreciate 265 00:20:15.559 --> 00:20:18.880 you. You been doing a good job. Like, how can I let 266 00:20:18.960 --> 00:20:23.920 you know you are appreciated? Let me know? Hell man half man five 267 00:20:23.960 --> 00:20:30.880 amazing said getting the whip detailed? Ew yes, yes, or she compliments 268 00:20:30.880 --> 00:20:36.279 me in front of her friends. Yeah yeah, hell yeah, I agree? 269 00:20:37.480 --> 00:20:44.160 Yeah what the fuck? I feel like I feel like, get his 270 00:20:44.279 --> 00:20:48.200 car detailed, compliment him in front of his friends, your friends, whoever? 271 00:20:48.480 --> 00:20:51.000 Like, there are other ways to do it, And I just wanted 272 00:20:51.039 --> 00:20:52.720 to ask you, like, fellas, what are some ways a woman can 273 00:20:52.759 --> 00:20:56.680 show up for you? How can she lets you know that you're appreciated, 274 00:20:56.000 --> 00:20:59.640 Like, yeah, let's do it. I don't argue with the water. 275 00:20:59.680 --> 00:21:02.799 When he my food wrong, God damn. As soon as I look at 276 00:21:02.799 --> 00:21:06.799 the live it says, eat my butt, sweet baby, Jesus, God 277 00:21:07.279 --> 00:21:15.200 damn. But uh b Sorbo says Alan not wrong, but still out of 278 00:21:15.240 --> 00:21:22.799 pocket. I think that was my butt. You. I think that was 279 00:21:22.160 --> 00:21:26.519 still out of pocket, still wild, not wrong, but still bothering. 280 00:21:30.279 --> 00:21:45.119 Bruh. Solar flaring is crazy. I hate it. Here someone said way 281 00:21:45.160 --> 00:21:49.200 out of pocket. Someone says, get him a few things he likes hats, 282 00:21:49.440 --> 00:21:53.559 glasses, fits et cetera. I like that too. I think it's 283 00:21:53.640 --> 00:21:56.480 definitely should be situational. And I think if you're taking the time to sit 284 00:21:56.519 --> 00:22:00.480 and listen to your man, you'll hear what he actually likes, what he 285 00:22:00.519 --> 00:22:04.160 would enjoy, because I don't think men realize how much they If you really 286 00:22:04.200 --> 00:22:07.279 sit and let them talk, they'll tell you exactly what to get them. 287 00:22:07.559 --> 00:22:11.119 Like It's it's easier than females because females will say something like oh, I 288 00:22:11.240 --> 00:22:15.319 want this certain bag, but not be specific and saying it has to be 289 00:22:15.720 --> 00:22:18.319 this model from this collection and this color. Where you can tell a man 290 00:22:18.599 --> 00:22:22.039 or a man can tell you like, oh, I just want this one 291 00:22:22.119 --> 00:22:23.440 fucking thing, and you can get it and it's easy. You don't even 292 00:22:23.519 --> 00:22:26.599 worry about it. You don't worry about the color, you don't worry about 293 00:22:26.559 --> 00:22:27.559 none of that. He just wanted that, like that's all he wanted. 294 00:22:29.559 --> 00:22:33.839 We're just saying it because we're playing on flying ourselves exactly now. I'm like, 295 00:22:33.920 --> 00:22:36.119 yeah, I'm get this. I'm get like just like this to bah 296 00:22:36.200 --> 00:22:41.640 bah more months save a fortune. Okay, So I told y'all. Theme 297 00:22:41.640 --> 00:22:47.680 in today's episode was a let's discuss things that you know we don't usually talk 298 00:22:47.680 --> 00:22:52.960 about. So this is another topic that always struck a chord in my spirit 299 00:22:53.759 --> 00:23:00.799 because I felt like the thought process and the ideology didn't make any sense. 300 00:23:00.839 --> 00:23:04.960 So, and I want you all to think before y'all answer this on a 301 00:23:06.039 --> 00:23:15.920 live too. How long before you give the person you're dating your Netflix password? 302 00:23:15.680 --> 00:23:21.160 Yeah? Yeah, think about it, think about it. I want 303 00:23:21.200 --> 00:23:26.640 you to ask yourself, how long before you give out your Netflix password to 304 00:23:26.680 --> 00:23:30.359 your bill, to the person you're dating to your sneaky link? Does a 305 00:23:30.400 --> 00:23:34.480 sneaky link even get it? Okay? Shot? Shot said absolutely not? 306 00:23:34.880 --> 00:23:42.279 How long? How long? Someone says at least a month? A month? 307 00:23:45.519 --> 00:23:52.160 Bully gang skinny Pimp says you don't please says I look at them sideways 308 00:23:52.240 --> 00:23:59.160 for not already having a Netflix connect at our age? Come on yo. 309 00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:06.359 Tygrind says that's marriage type shit. W Judge six one nine says never you 310 00:24:06.480 --> 00:24:11.640 only watching it together? Sneaky links don't get shit? Love Forherever the thirteenth 311 00:24:11.720 --> 00:24:15.160 says six months to a year. Got to see how long you going? 312 00:24:15.400 --> 00:24:21.279 Right? Someone says not a time limit, more of a vibe limit. 313 00:24:21.400 --> 00:24:26.640 I like that depends on your energy. Next person says, I'll just jail 314 00:24:26.680 --> 00:24:33.799 break you a firestick. That's crazy. J Pender three three four says when 315 00:24:33.839 --> 00:24:41.759 we she put me under the I can't see the Rennigan. Oh my god, 316 00:24:41.079 --> 00:24:45.960 oh my god, three to six months is crazy. Once you get 317 00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:52.640 the girlfriend's title, you get the password. Hum. So the reason I 318 00:24:52.680 --> 00:25:00.000 wanted to talk about this is because y'all don't realize that y'all value y'all Netflix 319 00:25:00.160 --> 00:25:04.039 password more than sex. Like you will fuck somebody before you give them your 320 00:25:04.079 --> 00:25:08.400 Netflix password. Y'all don't think that's weird at all. No, I'm the 321 00:25:08.440 --> 00:25:14.960 only person that think that's strange. That's crazy. I mean because sex is 322 00:25:14.960 --> 00:25:17.240 something that we both want, some something I want to I don't want to 323 00:25:17.240 --> 00:25:19.839 give you my shit like that. I feel like whenever we talk about giving 324 00:25:19.839 --> 00:25:23.119 somebody your Netflix password, it's like whoa wa, whoa, whoa, that's 325 00:25:23.119 --> 00:25:26.240 too personal, Like what you mean, Oh my god, you mean my 326 00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:33.279 mom? Like what Sead said. It's like you me and my mom, 327 00:25:33.039 --> 00:25:37.759 You get me, get my girlfriend, Like that's girlfriend shit. They all 328 00:25:37.799 --> 00:25:41.799 said marriage girlfriend. Yeah, my mom, you're gonna be my girlfriend. 329 00:25:41.960 --> 00:25:45.039 You get my passwords, you have access to my life like that, you 330 00:25:45.079 --> 00:25:49.400 get some dick. Listen, my whole thing is bro. You've you My 331 00:25:49.440 --> 00:25:53.240 whole thing is, bro. You've already been inside me. You could literally 332 00:25:53.680 --> 00:25:59.000 go on that bitch and watch nothing but bullshit and change my whole rhythm. 333 00:25:59.079 --> 00:26:00.359 Up. I can start my own pro foul now, next question, next 334 00:26:00.400 --> 00:26:03.960 problem. I can start my own profile and not fuck your algorithm up. 335 00:26:04.319 --> 00:26:07.880 My whole thing is, bro. You've already been inside me, Like, 336 00:26:07.920 --> 00:26:11.720 why were we acting? My problem? Work is more imperive my problem. 337 00:26:11.759 --> 00:26:17.440 You should have thought you can't break that ship up down? You should have 338 00:26:17.440 --> 00:26:25.720 thought about that. Yes, I can't to your table that like what the 339 00:26:25.720 --> 00:26:27.640 bulls said? Why would you have your old The fact that you're making this 340 00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:37.480 a conversation is weird. But passwords over pussy is crazy. Niggas my passwords 341 00:26:38.400 --> 00:26:44.480 for past words passwords, It's like it's crazy. It's like letting your niggas 342 00:26:44.519 --> 00:26:48.720 borrow your card. Absolutely not, but you nigga, absolutely not yo. 343 00:26:49.000 --> 00:26:55.519 And you know what I really hate past words. It's passwords. My whole 344 00:26:55.519 --> 00:26:57.720 thing is. And we were talked about this earlier and Set said this too. 345 00:26:57.759 --> 00:27:02.799 It's like I hate when in biggas be like no because it's my family 346 00:27:02.839 --> 00:27:06.680 account, it's my mom doing really I can't really get. It's like a 347 00:27:06.880 --> 00:27:15.119 it's it's personal, like it's intimate bro, my couchie, not dog. 348 00:27:15.160 --> 00:27:23.160 But what what passwords over pussy is crazy? Crazy? Someone said, uh, 349 00:27:23.319 --> 00:27:27.799 I agree with shot. When we say you're pushing p that means passwords. 350 00:27:30.079 --> 00:27:37.920 You why purpose of your passwords having that? That's something you gotta say, 351 00:27:37.960 --> 00:27:40.519 like, yo, you know I expect one of those to be done 352 00:27:41.079 --> 00:27:47.480 on your Netflix past word on your mom's account. How you gonna say, 353 00:27:48.359 --> 00:27:49.839 look, what's that? Mom? You? All right? Yeah, who's 354 00:27:49.920 --> 00:27:56.039 Victoria? I'm not going to start my own profile. That's the problem. 355 00:27:56.240 --> 00:28:00.000 So on top of that, we locked in what you watching without me saying 356 00:28:00.119 --> 00:28:02.240 not hold on? Would you watch it without me? State? Let's go 357 00:28:02.319 --> 00:28:04.880 back? Question, let's go back because just like the person on the live 358 00:28:04.960 --> 00:28:07.799 set, now, I'm worried why you don't got your own account? That's 359 00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:11.920 your big age? Why are you stole on your mom Netflix account? Stop 360 00:28:11.400 --> 00:28:19.880 people, because you're talking about at your big age, why you don't have 361 00:28:19.960 --> 00:28:22.960 your own account at your big age while you're stole on your mom account. 362 00:28:23.680 --> 00:28:30.400 This conversation if you place, oh my god, if you work from the 363 00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:36.000 ship from the first place, you would never had this conversation again. Yeah, 364 00:28:36.039 --> 00:28:41.880 you're not about to love us blind my good action movie recommendations. Exactly, 365 00:28:45.240 --> 00:28:51.880 a Discovery channel. Let you need way more sci fi and true crime 366 00:28:51.960 --> 00:28:53.279 up in here. Let me fuck your algorithm up. You don't got it, 367 00:28:53.319 --> 00:28:56.000 you don't need it, like some ship in your bathroom, leave all 368 00:28:56.160 --> 00:29:00.400 your house and you know, take care of your dog and change your defliogghithm. 369 00:29:00.799 --> 00:29:04.039 So someone says, ship, I be bothering with these Netflix passwords? 370 00:29:04.119 --> 00:29:08.000 You got HBO Max. I'm not mad at this. I'm not mad at 371 00:29:08.000 --> 00:29:15.680 this. So that's and then another question is what if exactly? Yeah, 372 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:19.079 this this is and this is when we get into these other conversations like okay, 373 00:29:19.119 --> 00:29:22.599 you want my Netflix password? Well, what you bring it to the 374 00:29:22.640 --> 00:29:25.960 table? Baby? You got Hbo Max, you got Disney, you got 375 00:29:26.079 --> 00:29:27.680 Hulu. I feel like if you got t mobile, you already got Hulu. 376 00:29:27.839 --> 00:29:30.920 So I guess it would be just with or without the ass But like, 377 00:29:30.000 --> 00:29:33.000 yo, what do you what do you bringing to the table? Sticks? 378 00:29:33.079 --> 00:29:37.119 Yeah, do you know how to gel break? Fire sticks? What 379 00:29:37.240 --> 00:29:40.319 we got? You got sling? You got Sling TV? What is it? 380 00:29:40.400 --> 00:29:42.799 What do you bring to the table? Really? I want paramount anybody 381 00:29:42.839 --> 00:29:45.960 got Paramount Plus, I'm willing to trade for a Paramount Plus. I want 382 00:29:45.960 --> 00:29:49.079 to write drag Race All Stars. So if you got Paramount plus, hit 383 00:29:49.119 --> 00:29:56.920 me up drag Race All Stars. No, what the fuck? I didn't 384 00:29:56.920 --> 00:30:00.599 hear race? I thought drag Race? Why are you watching that? Did 385 00:30:00.640 --> 00:30:03.839 I come up to American Chopper? Now, speaking of trading, I do 386 00:30:03.880 --> 00:30:07.480 want Paramount plus to watch RuPaul's Drag Race All Star. So if you got 387 00:30:07.480 --> 00:30:10.480 the Paramount plus pass word, hit me out, we can switch. I 388 00:30:10.519 --> 00:30:15.279 got a lot. Okay, thank you, thank you? Yeah, No, 389 00:30:15.400 --> 00:30:21.519 it's mine is my brother. We came up the same cushi as mine. 390 00:30:22.759 --> 00:30:26.920 All right. So we were talking about having conversations that we don't usually 391 00:30:26.960 --> 00:30:30.599 have. Let's discuss we need to get the tough stuff out the way, 392 00:30:30.920 --> 00:30:37.359 right. So I feel like, okay, another conversation that we need to 393 00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:41.440 have. This is one that really dwells in my spirit. It does, 394 00:30:41.720 --> 00:30:47.400 okay, And I feel like every woman, can you know? And I'm 395 00:30:47.400 --> 00:30:51.559 not gonna say every woman, I'll say every person. Everybody should be able 396 00:30:51.599 --> 00:30:56.279 to relate to this, right, don't tell me I'm moving too fast and 397 00:30:56.319 --> 00:31:02.920 then expect the same level of access to me. Now we ain't doing that. 398 00:31:03.279 --> 00:31:04.880 We ain't doing that. No, no, no, no, let 399 00:31:04.880 --> 00:31:07.680 me say it again, cause you didn't hear. Okay, don't tell me 400 00:31:08.079 --> 00:31:12.559 I'm moving too fast and then expect the same level of access to me. 401 00:31:14.440 --> 00:31:19.799 Hell no, hell no. Right, And it's my It gets under my 402 00:31:19.839 --> 00:31:23.720 skin because someone be quick to tell you like whoa whoa, whoa whoa whoa. 403 00:31:23.880 --> 00:31:26.839 We've only been dating for three years, You're moving too fast? What's 404 00:31:26.880 --> 00:31:33.839 your mean relationship? Baby? What? What's you mean? Relationship? Like? 405 00:31:34.319 --> 00:31:41.279 It just baffles me? Right, But I feel like we have to 406 00:31:41.319 --> 00:31:48.079 be honest and discuss everything that goes into these conversations because and all actuality. 407 00:31:48.680 --> 00:31:51.960 You want what you want. That's cool, right, but you don't want 408 00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:56.920 a relationship, but you still want all the perks that that person gives you 409 00:31:56.960 --> 00:32:00.279 because you know they want a relationship. Na da da da da da says 410 00:32:00.279 --> 00:32:02.880 where you get me? This is where you get me? Okay, I've 411 00:32:02.880 --> 00:32:07.519 had enough, right, It's like, what you mean I can't have the 412 00:32:07.559 --> 00:32:13.799 Netflix password? Well? What you mean? Wow? Now you can't pop 413 00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:19.119 my ingrow hairs? No more? That's crazy, bro, You're crazy. 414 00:32:20.880 --> 00:32:34.880 Yeah, I like it. I'm not I like it. I'm not gonna. 415 00:32:35.039 --> 00:32:37.440 I used to think that ship was so weird, right, so so 416 00:32:37.559 --> 00:32:45.559 weird, but now like it. I like it. It's like it's like 417 00:32:45.119 --> 00:32:52.039 the satisfaction that you get from watching the pimple popping videos and the satisfaction that 418 00:32:52.119 --> 00:32:55.480 you get from watching the carpet cleaning videos. Like bro, I watched the 419 00:32:55.559 --> 00:33:00.039 ear I watched. I never really got into that earwax. You gotta send 420 00:33:00.039 --> 00:33:06.480 me some, but watching the videos and then doing it in real life, 421 00:33:07.279 --> 00:33:13.039 what come on? Come on, you know what. I've taken a couple 422 00:33:13.079 --> 00:33:15.640 of wee's out exactly after a while, like you know what, a little 423 00:33:15.680 --> 00:33:22.519 rhythm exactly, hair from string. Now, come on now taking out? 424 00:33:22.559 --> 00:33:28.039 So yeah, I'm a professional. Oh okay, was locked in. Okay, 425 00:33:28.160 --> 00:33:36.359 he was locked in. Yeah. Man, all that soil soil is 426 00:33:36.599 --> 00:33:39.599 crazy. I found out because I said something smart one day. You call 427 00:33:39.680 --> 00:33:45.079 them soil. No. I was talking about the slickbacks, and she was 428 00:33:45.119 --> 00:33:50.640 like, well, actually we wear this protector hair. Actually, you know, 429 00:33:50.759 --> 00:33:53.559 she schooled you. Humbly. I respect it, but now I understood 430 00:33:53.559 --> 00:34:00.839 that she respects on ship. But it's that's why white people here be Nancy. 431 00:34:00.920 --> 00:34:04.599 I can't okay, all right, all right, we're moving on watch 432 00:34:04.640 --> 00:34:12.840 it every day. But yeah, like y'all be so offended, y'all be 433 00:34:12.880 --> 00:34:15.760 so offended. Like what you mean you can't be my emergency contact? No 434 00:34:15.840 --> 00:34:22.119 more, baby, No, I can't. No, I can't remember when 435 00:34:22.119 --> 00:34:24.960 you said we was moving too fast. Baby, I'm finna slow this ship 436 00:34:25.039 --> 00:34:29.480 all the way down, Okay, all the way down, because at all, 437 00:34:29.519 --> 00:34:31.320 like you, Riley, it's nothing wrong with someone moving too fast. 438 00:34:31.440 --> 00:34:35.880 You're like, yo, Bro, I understand that this is how you're moving. 439 00:34:35.920 --> 00:34:38.440 But Bro, I told you I didn't want a relationship. Cool. 440 00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:43.039 But what I'm saying is I don't want to pop in grow hands for nobody. 441 00:34:43.159 --> 00:34:49.199 That's not trying to be in a relationship everybody. Yeah, yes, 442 00:34:49.840 --> 00:34:59.360 like I'm respecting you never respect me, respect my story time seriously, Like, 443 00:35:00.320 --> 00:35:05.920 you gotta be realistic with yourself. And I feel like when we had 444 00:35:05.920 --> 00:35:08.880 these conversations, you know, we have to tap in and realize, Yo, 445 00:35:09.519 --> 00:35:13.400 if they move funny, move off their way. Don't let these people 446 00:35:13.480 --> 00:35:15.519 keep taking advantage of you. They don't want what you want. Cool, 447 00:35:15.679 --> 00:35:20.440 move accordingly. That's sit in that Saul, and I feel like when we 448 00:35:20.480 --> 00:35:23.079 had these conversations, we really need to have a conversation of my favorite a 449 00:35:23.199 --> 00:35:36.599 word ain't no, no, it's not it no accountability all right, because 450 00:35:36.599 --> 00:35:42.039 the same way we say yo, like men and women should continuously do check 451 00:35:42.039 --> 00:35:46.679 ins. And I feel like that's where you know, conversations and uh interpretations 452 00:35:46.719 --> 00:35:52.239 get lost. But I feel like on both sides we need to continuously through 453 00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:58.360 do check ins throughout the course of us dating, courting, talking phase situationship 454 00:35:58.599 --> 00:36:04.960 relationship like check ins are so important but even more important to recognize, like 455 00:36:05.519 --> 00:36:07.519 baby, we got to take that accountability. Yeah, you keep telling him 456 00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:13.039 or her that you don't want something serious, but you also are continuously taking 457 00:36:13.079 --> 00:36:17.440 advantage of that person because you know they what's up that serious? Come on? 458 00:36:19.400 --> 00:36:22.039 Come on now? And the first thing you say is will I told 459 00:36:22.119 --> 00:36:34.519 him will looking for no relationships? Yes, the fuck y'all do, cause 460 00:36:34.599 --> 00:36:37.159 y'all be sounding dumb and you put your shoulders up to your ears and you 461 00:36:37.159 --> 00:36:43.119 put your like you're dumb, you're stupid, dumb. Okay. I feel 462 00:36:43.119 --> 00:36:47.000 like we always talk about ancis. Well, he said he didn't want nothing 463 00:36:47.199 --> 00:36:52.320 serious, Yeah, but he also kept taking advantage of me knowing I did, 464 00:36:52.920 --> 00:36:55.400 Like, cannot be a conversation. Can we talk about that like, 465 00:36:55.519 --> 00:37:01.679 baby, you think I'm making crusty top mac and Cheek's for every fucking body 466 00:37:01.800 --> 00:37:05.920 I'm making it. Guess I like you. And because even though you said 467 00:37:05.960 --> 00:37:08.960 you didn't want a relationship, now we're raw dogging, So I'm thinking we're 468 00:37:09.000 --> 00:37:14.920 building when we're actually not. And I want to say this isn't to take 469 00:37:15.519 --> 00:37:19.000 the heat off of either party, because at the end of the day, 470 00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:22.000 we gotta be fair on both sides. Sis, he said he didn't want 471 00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:25.360 to I'm not gonna say. Sis. One party said they didn't want a 472 00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:30.440 relationship and the other party continuously took advantage of the other one knowing they did. 473 00:37:30.800 --> 00:37:34.559 And neither one of y'all are right in this situation. And my opinion 474 00:37:34.639 --> 00:37:37.159 what you think, Yeah, it's a fact. That's why I don't even 475 00:37:37.159 --> 00:37:40.199 get involved in situations because I'm just going to come down to that. It's 476 00:37:40.239 --> 00:37:45.519 always gonna come to that coin. And I'm like mm hmmm, because I 477 00:37:45.519 --> 00:37:47.840 don't really think that we were meant to get down like that in the first 478 00:37:47.880 --> 00:37:51.480 place. That's why I'm heavy on marriage, Like I don't. I can't 479 00:37:51.480 --> 00:37:55.119 be around somebody on that type of time and not Yeah, like we're gonna 480 00:37:55.119 --> 00:37:59.679 mix somehow. Yes it's raw dogging if now I'm used to you being in 481 00:37:59.719 --> 00:38:01.639 my big now you're not there anymore, Like, oh no, I gotta 482 00:38:01.639 --> 00:38:05.239 sleep in my own bed. Like what you mean that that's when term that's 483 00:38:05.280 --> 00:38:07.559 gonna get me? Like what you mean you're gonna sleep? You mean when 484 00:38:07.599 --> 00:38:09.199 I have to sleep? No, since you're not taking it serious, you 485 00:38:09.199 --> 00:38:13.639 gotta sleep different beds. Like I just want to put a pin in this 486 00:38:13.679 --> 00:38:15.599 conversation and circle back to it because I want to have another part. You're 487 00:38:15.639 --> 00:38:21.039 real fast, like when you sleep in your bed? How you sleep? 488 00:38:22.000 --> 00:38:24.440 And I'm gonnak y'all listening to when you sleep in your bed? How do 489 00:38:24.519 --> 00:38:29.400 you sleep? Yeah, like when you sleep in your bed, how do 490 00:38:29.480 --> 00:38:31.199 you sleep? Because I only sleep on one side of the bed, like 491 00:38:31.239 --> 00:38:35.239 I got a nigga, even though I don't got a nigga. Sometimes I'll 492 00:38:35.280 --> 00:38:38.480 sleep and then I'll like turn my back, but then I extinctively turn it 493 00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:43.480 back around because I remember girl just always like why you on me? Like 494 00:38:43.559 --> 00:38:50.559 yeah, so I turn around like because nobody h that's the worst. Remember 495 00:38:50.639 --> 00:38:52.840 last week we were talking about like ship that you was used to like ye 496 00:38:52.920 --> 00:39:00.639 jeans yo after breaking up that was like one of the hardest sleeping long still 497 00:39:00.679 --> 00:39:04.039 to this day, to this day, I keep telling my bed, like, 498 00:39:05.519 --> 00:39:07.639 shut up my back. I woke up all bad, like it should 499 00:39:07.679 --> 00:39:14.519 just feel warmed good as hell, Like, yo, seriously, seriously, 500 00:39:16.079 --> 00:39:20.039 I don't really care, Like if I'm sleeping with a guy and he turns 501 00:39:20.039 --> 00:39:22.880 his back on me, and I won't even say a guy because like my 502 00:39:22.920 --> 00:39:24.039 friends, like if I sleep over my friend's house when we sleep in the 503 00:39:24.079 --> 00:39:27.159 same bed, I do the same ship to them, like if they turn 504 00:39:27.239 --> 00:39:30.000 their back on me, I instinctively throw my leg on them and just on 505 00:39:30.039 --> 00:39:37.480 the back. Let's go back to the conversation, right, bed, I 506 00:39:37.519 --> 00:39:43.000 do I like sharing beds. I see, I don't like you know, 507 00:39:43.199 --> 00:39:47.400 I like, I understand, I get you. Okay, great, oh 508 00:39:47.480 --> 00:39:53.480 my god, oh my god. But going back to our original conversation, 509 00:39:55.119 --> 00:40:00.119 I think check ins are important, but so is not being a piece a 510 00:40:00.119 --> 00:40:06.639 ship, Like can we talk about that, because you always continuously have to 511 00:40:06.679 --> 00:40:07.880 be like, yo, Hey, I know we talked about not being in 512 00:40:07.840 --> 00:40:12.239 a relationship, and I know that we are now, you know, locked 513 00:40:12.280 --> 00:40:14.360 in a little bit further than we were in the beginning, But I still 514 00:40:14.360 --> 00:40:16.360 don't want a relationship. Yes, that is important, but you know what 515 00:40:16.400 --> 00:40:21.960 else is also important? You not continuing to let this grow into something that 516 00:40:21.960 --> 00:40:23.679 it shouldn't be because you know you don't want a relationship. When she lies 517 00:40:23.719 --> 00:40:29.719 to you about going on dates with niggas, right, you know, you 518 00:40:30.960 --> 00:40:34.960 know, good and damn well, she ain't showing everybody that her pussy is 519 00:40:34.960 --> 00:40:37.599 pink and her bootyoles brown except for you, because she wants to be in 520 00:40:37.599 --> 00:40:43.960 a relationship social media, you know, good and damn well with them, 521 00:40:43.960 --> 00:40:50.159 somebliminal posts on her story or his fucking page is about when she stopped stop 522 00:40:50.239 --> 00:40:54.239 it, stop it. You know what they're doing, Okay, you know 523 00:40:54.400 --> 00:40:59.239 for a fact he is continuously paying to get your nails done and taking you 524 00:40:59.280 --> 00:41:01.519 out to expense of restaurants because even though you told him you don't look for 525 00:41:01.559 --> 00:41:05.719 a relationship, his feelings are just growing and growing and growing. You think 526 00:41:05.719 --> 00:41:07.800 people really have the power to be like, oh, I'm sorry, let 527 00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:13.960 me just turn my feelings off. No, bruh, you know why I'm 528 00:41:14.000 --> 00:41:21.320 here exact. Stop playing with me and stop playing with these people wasting everybody 529 00:41:21.440 --> 00:41:29.039 time, And then why are your clues off? And then you gonna turn 530 00:41:29.079 --> 00:41:31.760 around and tell people I don't know why they acting like that. They so 531 00:41:31.960 --> 00:41:36.679 crazy. Now you're downtown at the courthouse trying to get a protection or talking 532 00:41:36.719 --> 00:41:38.880 about I don't know why they called me a hundred and thirty two times in 533 00:41:38.920 --> 00:41:44.840 a span of a half an hour. That's fun, you do. Bruh, 534 00:41:45.079 --> 00:41:49.840 right hand on, bruh, you know exactly why. You know, 535 00:41:50.000 --> 00:41:52.599 good and well you was in there rearranging her guts. You know that, 536 00:41:53.079 --> 00:41:57.760 you know that, you know you was in there stirring her guts like Kyla 537 00:41:57.840 --> 00:42:01.360 Greens on Thanksgiving Day. Stop playing what us, Stop playing with us like. 538 00:42:01.559 --> 00:42:05.199 I feel like checkings are important, but not being a piece of shit 539 00:42:05.320 --> 00:42:07.800 is equally as important. That's why I ain't making scene. That's why I 540 00:42:07.800 --> 00:42:15.679 told you, oh my god, engaging, Do not engage, Like, 541 00:42:15.719 --> 00:42:22.239 what's the point of having the conversation. I think that we're quick to we're 542 00:42:22.280 --> 00:42:25.920 so quick to fall into these conversations up. I don't know why they keep 543 00:42:25.960 --> 00:42:30.199 my car. I don't know why they popped my tires. I don't know 544 00:42:30.239 --> 00:42:32.480 why they called my job and said I'm a sex offender. Yes the fuck 545 00:42:32.559 --> 00:42:37.079 you did, Okay, yes you did. They did it because even though 546 00:42:37.079 --> 00:42:40.840 you said you didn't want a relationship, you were still giving them bomb ass 547 00:42:40.920 --> 00:42:45.199 sex, you were still taking advantage of them, home cooked meals, you 548 00:42:45.280 --> 00:42:49.039 were still taking advantage of them, free dates to stake forty eight and all 549 00:42:49.039 --> 00:42:53.320 these other fucking places. Stop playing with people. Okay, checkings are important, 550 00:42:53.320 --> 00:42:57.880 but not being a piece of shit is equally as important. And we 551 00:42:57.920 --> 00:43:01.519 can stop so much miss understandings by just being honest and saying, Hey, 552 00:43:02.039 --> 00:43:06.039 I feel like I told you I don't really want the same things you do, 553 00:43:06.440 --> 00:43:07.599 but it doesn't really seem like we're on the same page, and it 554 00:43:07.599 --> 00:43:10.679 seems like you're still progressing. I think you're a really good person, but 555 00:43:10.760 --> 00:43:14.960 I think we should just be friends or better yet, I think this is 556 00:43:14.960 --> 00:43:19.079 where our journey ends. Stop it, just stop and cease communication, all 557 00:43:19.119 --> 00:43:22.199 of it. I didn't ask you to do all that, Yes, just 558 00:43:22.320 --> 00:43:28.000 do yourself before you do this. Yes, because the first thing you're gonna 559 00:43:28.000 --> 00:43:30.000 say is, well, if you don't want to be with me, why 560 00:43:30.000 --> 00:43:31.760 did you have me co sign on the car? Ke gonna turn around and 561 00:43:31.800 --> 00:43:38.440 say, but I didn't ask you to do that. Rage. Bruh, 562 00:43:38.639 --> 00:43:43.599 bruh. That's just the type of facts niggas be using I'm trying to figure 563 00:43:43.599 --> 00:43:46.559 it out. But that's yes, yes, because as soon as he say 564 00:43:46.639 --> 00:43:53.199 that, what you're gonna say run yes, yes, yes, that is 565 00:43:53.280 --> 00:43:58.880 exactly how it begins. Protect your piece and protect that person's piece as well, 566 00:43:58.920 --> 00:44:01.599 regardless of which side you. Accountability is so important. We gotta get 567 00:44:01.599 --> 00:44:04.519 back to it. We gotta get back to it. We gotta get back 568 00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:07.519 to it. You gotta for sure, for sure, for sure, for 569 00:44:07.559 --> 00:44:12.079 sure at the end of the day. We've said it before, and I 570 00:44:12.119 --> 00:44:15.679 want to say it again. When somebody says they don't want the same things 571 00:44:15.679 --> 00:44:24.480 that you believe them. God damn shine will oh. I mean I was 572 00:44:24.480 --> 00:44:30.000 just trying to be down by bad sea kids, to be down it's crazy. 573 00:44:31.159 --> 00:44:35.559 Yeah, all right, guys, So now we are going to get 574 00:44:35.559 --> 00:44:38.360 into the edible portion of the show. So the edible portion of the show 575 00:44:38.480 --> 00:44:44.159 is when I read you all questions, comments, concerns that you send in 576 00:44:44.239 --> 00:44:47.320 on the day that we record, I always put a prompt up and say, 577 00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:51.760 ask me anything, ask me a question, get your ship off all 578 00:44:51.880 --> 00:44:54.039 right now. If what you have to say is too long to fit in 579 00:44:54.119 --> 00:44:58.800 the prompt, or you have to ask a question or tell a story on 580 00:44:58.880 --> 00:45:01.360 a day that we are recording, so there is no prompt. All you 581 00:45:01.480 --> 00:45:07.199 have to do is email inquiries at stormy p e a dot com. And 582 00:45:07.199 --> 00:45:13.280 I'm gonna say it again, inquiries at stormy p e a dot com. 583 00:45:13.360 --> 00:45:16.159 Boom. Let's get it all right, and I want you to know whatever 584 00:45:16.239 --> 00:45:21.079 we discuss, it's very anonymous. Okay. I ain't gonna tell everybody that 585 00:45:21.159 --> 00:45:23.960 you had questions about you know, what did your smell like? Yeah, 586 00:45:24.079 --> 00:45:28.320 I ain't gonna tell everybody that you want to know how you should go about 587 00:45:28.440 --> 00:45:31.239 telling your mate that you don't want to be here anymore. I ain't gonna 588 00:45:31.280 --> 00:45:36.880 tell nobody, okay, that your guard got repoked and that's why you can't 589 00:45:36.920 --> 00:45:38.119 link up with old girl. But you really want to let her know that 590 00:45:38.239 --> 00:45:40.360 she still want to take her out for a date. But she thinks you 591 00:45:40.400 --> 00:45:43.760 ain't shit because you keep giving a run around. Ain't gonna tell her no 592 00:45:43.800 --> 00:45:47.639 body, all right. All you have to do is email inquiries at stormy 593 00:45:47.719 --> 00:45:52.000 pe a dot com or fill out the problem when I put it up. 594 00:45:52.039 --> 00:45:55.239 Shot you had something to say, Okay, all right, sorry, you're 595 00:45:55.320 --> 00:46:05.719 leaning in now, misunderstand I apologize. Oh okay, all right, see 596 00:46:05.800 --> 00:46:12.239 I have to burp again. The monkey is every time we get here trying 597 00:46:12.239 --> 00:46:17.800 to get to you and that monkey. Y'all remember that song? Boy? 598 00:46:19.000 --> 00:46:28.679 What? Okay? First question, what's your biggest turn on in a guy 599 00:46:28.840 --> 00:46:35.760 that's non sexual? Hhmm hmmm. I don't know. Like when I be 600 00:46:35.760 --> 00:46:37.159 reading these questions, I want you all to think about it and answer it 601 00:46:37.159 --> 00:46:40.480 to yourselves first before we get into it, because I felt like it's always 602 00:46:40.480 --> 00:46:46.519 something that you're like, right, So Max again, what's your biggest turn 603 00:46:46.559 --> 00:46:50.519 on in a guy non sexual? First of all, I feel like this 604 00:46:50.599 --> 00:46:53.920 should say like in a non sexual way, or like what's your biggest non 605 00:46:54.000 --> 00:46:58.440 sexual turn on in that app? But you know what I digress. I 606 00:46:58.440 --> 00:47:01.800 feel like we've talked talked about it before, but I'm burros you before I 607 00:47:01.840 --> 00:47:06.760 say my answer. I don't give a fuck what you think. Okay, 608 00:47:07.000 --> 00:47:09.599 this is my thing, It's what I like. It is what it is. 609 00:47:09.679 --> 00:47:14.199 Let me tell you something. Maybe there ain't nothing more attractive, there 610 00:47:14.239 --> 00:47:22.239 ain't nothing more sexual. Well I guess it would be non sexual. There 611 00:47:22.360 --> 00:47:28.599 is nothing more attractive than a guy cleaning his sneakers. I don't care. 612 00:47:29.199 --> 00:47:32.679 I don't care. Once my biggest non sexual turn on in the guy. 613 00:47:34.119 --> 00:47:37.599 There is nothing more attractive than watching a man clean his sneakers. Baby, 614 00:47:37.800 --> 00:47:43.400 what, especially if they white? Oh my god, baby, I'm as 615 00:47:43.440 --> 00:47:52.039 moist as this brush. Okay, what the couch is crazy? I don't 616 00:47:52.280 --> 00:47:59.480 care. Okay, It's something about watching a grown man clean his sneakers and 617 00:47:59.599 --> 00:48:02.480 don't him have like the full kitten shit. He take that zipper off and 618 00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:06.880 he pull out the brush and the little foam and the cloths and all this 619 00:48:06.920 --> 00:48:14.400 other shit and hit this motion right here? Baby? What? Baby? 620 00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:25.039 What? And a wife bear? Oh my god, like baby what? 621 00:48:25.679 --> 00:48:30.280 It's something about the way them traps be sitting in their wife beater where he 622 00:48:30.360 --> 00:48:43.639 hit the yo. Baby seriously, the traffic, come on, come on, 623 00:48:44.199 --> 00:48:52.280 It's something about the motion nineteen ninety eight, baby, what is it? 624 00:48:53.079 --> 00:48:55.599 Let's just say two thousand and three. I don't know. I don't 625 00:48:55.599 --> 00:48:58.639 know. I don't know. Nellie was popping around at time, so I 626 00:48:58.679 --> 00:49:00.199 feel like I had to be somewhere around at time. But man, listen, 627 00:49:00.480 --> 00:49:06.800 it's something about the persition, the lass, the discipline, like, 628 00:49:06.840 --> 00:49:09.480 oh, you like your sneakers? Wait? Huh okay, Like, oh 629 00:49:09.559 --> 00:49:15.320 my god, what, I don't know. What's your biggest non sexual turn 630 00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:20.440 on in the person. I guess I'll say all that to say, what's 631 00:49:20.480 --> 00:49:23.039 your biggest non sexual turn on in the person? Because me, I'm gonna 632 00:49:23.039 --> 00:49:28.719 say, watching the man clean his sneakers, Oh my god. And you 633 00:49:28.760 --> 00:49:31.599 don't even have to like to go through your whole shoe wall. I just 634 00:49:31.760 --> 00:49:35.440 like watch it, like we getting dressed, were about to go out to 635 00:49:35.480 --> 00:49:37.119 eat, and you're like, hold on one second, like, let me 636 00:49:37.119 --> 00:49:40.559 eye my clothes and clean my sneakers. Baby, what let me dry off? 637 00:49:40.880 --> 00:49:46.559 Okay because I am wet. Okay, yes, yes, I don't 638 00:49:46.599 --> 00:49:53.639 know, but that's just me. Okay, thank you so much. Next 639 00:49:53.719 --> 00:50:01.920 question, Thanks, Next question? All right, this one was really funny 640 00:50:01.960 --> 00:50:06.679 to me, and I'm with this is another one that I'm really curious to 641 00:50:06.719 --> 00:50:13.039 get y'all answers on. Right, So, should you google any meds of 642 00:50:13.079 --> 00:50:20.159 a romantic interest that you see on a bathroom counter? Oh, I'm if 643 00:50:20.159 --> 00:50:23.280 you go looking for trouble, you're gonna go find it, period, period, 644 00:50:23.760 --> 00:50:27.360 period. I'm gonna ask it again, think about it, talk to 645 00:50:27.400 --> 00:50:30.960 me what we're doing, what we're doing. I don't remember if it's iHeart 646 00:50:30.079 --> 00:50:35.280 or Spotify, but like you can respond to the questions and I can see 647 00:50:35.320 --> 00:50:37.519 them there too. Just so y'all know, I know it's not Apple, 648 00:50:37.719 --> 00:50:39.199 it's iHeart or Spotify. You can respond to the question. So I would 649 00:50:39.239 --> 00:50:45.320 love to hear some of you guys takes on this and it says, should 650 00:50:45.440 --> 00:50:50.239 you google any meds of a romantic interest that you see on a bathroom counter? 651 00:50:50.920 --> 00:50:55.760 Now here's my whole thing. I'm just saying, like, fool me, 652 00:50:57.360 --> 00:51:01.480 right, not for everybody, but for me. Two things right. 653 00:51:01.920 --> 00:51:07.280 First, I'm not gonna go looking through the cabinets when I go use the 654 00:51:07.280 --> 00:51:10.360 bathroom. That's not me. I'm not gonna open the mirror and scroll and 655 00:51:10.400 --> 00:51:13.440 see what else you got, what type of toothpaste you use it on. 656 00:51:13.719 --> 00:51:16.440 I'm not gonna do that. That's not me. Right. However, right 657 00:51:16.960 --> 00:51:21.239 if I happen to be in a bathroom and I see you got some men 658 00:51:21.360 --> 00:51:24.480 sitting out on the counter, oh baby, I'm taking mental pictures. I'm 659 00:51:24.519 --> 00:51:30.679 standing in front, like blinking, take it all the pictures, Okay, 660 00:51:30.119 --> 00:51:34.880 I need to see it. I need to memorize the spelling, how often 661 00:51:34.880 --> 00:51:37.639 you need to take it, what's the dose at? How many milligrams? 662 00:51:37.719 --> 00:51:43.840 I need it all? I need it all because hold on one second. 663 00:51:44.039 --> 00:51:49.960 It's a difference between I'm not gonna say it's a difference between long story short. 664 00:51:50.320 --> 00:51:52.760 I need to know if you got high blood pressure, the clap, 665 00:51:52.960 --> 00:51:58.039 or schizophrenia. Okay, I need to know it all, and I don't 666 00:51:58.079 --> 00:52:00.719 care. Right, once again, I'm not gonna go through the cabinets. 667 00:52:00.920 --> 00:52:05.000 But you out your goddamn mine if you think I'm not blinking my ass off 668 00:52:05.079 --> 00:52:08.079 taking mental pictures, trying to remember all the spelling for this ship, because 669 00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:12.679 I need to know. I need to know, all right, So staying, 670 00:52:12.679 --> 00:52:17.559 you're in the bathroom, you finished the counter, you game over right. 671 00:52:19.480 --> 00:52:22.800 Then you reach over to draw your draw your hands, and you see 672 00:52:22.119 --> 00:52:28.559 that there's a bag full of medicine sticking out of the cabinet. You didn't 673 00:52:28.599 --> 00:52:34.719 see it from the but it's in a bag. But there's a bag full 674 00:52:34.760 --> 00:52:37.639 of but it's in a bag. I'm not going to open the bag. 675 00:52:37.440 --> 00:52:40.800 I'm not gonna open the bag. I'm not gonna put the cabinet. It's 676 00:52:40.880 --> 00:52:45.480 only what I can see. I'm not going to be intrusive, but I'm 677 00:52:45.480 --> 00:52:51.119 going to be observative. Okay, there's a difference. I will not I 678 00:52:51.159 --> 00:52:53.760 will not open any cabinets. I will not go through any bags and do 679 00:52:53.840 --> 00:53:00.000 none of that. There is a difference between being intrusive and being observed. 680 00:53:00.519 --> 00:53:04.800 And maybe I'm gonna be observed. I'm an observe and report. Yes, 681 00:53:05.400 --> 00:53:07.320 baby, I'm finna observe and report. Okay, I'm doing it all. 682 00:53:07.840 --> 00:53:10.119 I'm doing it all. So I don't know what about you? What would 683 00:53:10.119 --> 00:53:15.880 you do? Oh? No? Cool? Google is the devil? Yes, 684 00:53:16.119 --> 00:53:22.079 indeedthing crazy part is I remember, like maybe five six years ago, 685 00:53:22.559 --> 00:53:25.559 I was chilling with this guy and I went to his house and he had 686 00:53:25.639 --> 00:53:30.199 medication sitting out on his dresser. Right, So he went to the bathroom 687 00:53:30.679 --> 00:53:34.039 and I did get up and go look and see what it was and put 688 00:53:34.079 --> 00:53:36.920 it in my phone that likes maybe you got to clap you burning? Like 689 00:53:36.960 --> 00:53:38.320 what is it? Like? Is it Jack? What is it? I 690 00:53:38.360 --> 00:53:44.480 need to know what's taking place? Right? Turns out he tore muscle and 691 00:53:44.519 --> 00:53:51.519 it was some muscle relax so worked out. But leave out all willy nilly, 692 00:53:51.639 --> 00:54:02.360 right, Yeah, you just like message. So like medicine. The 693 00:54:02.360 --> 00:54:07.559 only medicine I even halfway had was not halfway head, but the only medicine 694 00:54:07.559 --> 00:54:08.440 I had was birth control. And I don't do that shit no more. 695 00:54:08.960 --> 00:54:15.679 M I'm just trusting the Lord. No, I'm not. I ain't having 696 00:54:15.719 --> 00:54:20.239 sex. I'm having sex, So I don't worry about that ship, all 697 00:54:20.280 --> 00:54:25.320 right. Last question, last question, last question. I was definitely about 698 00:54:25.360 --> 00:54:36.239 to go down myself got there. I had a scorpion. Yeah yeah, 699 00:54:36.239 --> 00:54:40.960 okay, thank you. I really did scorpion myself get over here? I 700 00:54:40.960 --> 00:54:49.280 did. I didn't thank you. Next question, and I really am curious 701 00:54:49.280 --> 00:54:52.079 to see what I had to say about this, only because it kind of 702 00:54:52.079 --> 00:54:59.599 applies to us. So it says, where do you stand on women that 703 00:54:59.679 --> 00:55:08.840 have male friends that they go on solo outings with. I mean personally, 704 00:55:08.880 --> 00:55:12.639 everybody just start playing in position. So I don't really have those type of 705 00:55:12.639 --> 00:55:15.000 issues, like if if everybody know I got a girlfriend, which they will 706 00:55:15.280 --> 00:55:21.559 mm hmm, there's no reason for the view randomly calling you got a great 707 00:55:21.599 --> 00:55:23.440 idea, I mean for the first time, Okay, cool, gonna let 708 00:55:23.480 --> 00:55:28.920 a slide, but you just keep doing it like things like that, they 709 00:55:29.000 --> 00:55:30.559 literally just just diicipate, So I don't really have those type of issues. 710 00:55:30.880 --> 00:55:37.840 However, However, however, it's very important that you vet people in your 711 00:55:37.840 --> 00:55:43.599 life because I just feel like I'm a nice guy. But if you're dating 712 00:55:43.599 --> 00:55:45.519 one of my friends and they happen to be girls and you're a bitch, 713 00:55:46.239 --> 00:55:51.000 what how do we get here? I'm just saying like, and you start 714 00:55:51.039 --> 00:55:54.039 acting like insecrast niggas because I'm the guy friend and you have to worry about 715 00:55:54.039 --> 00:55:57.840 me. You are going to have to work. Okay, Okay, you're 716 00:55:57.840 --> 00:56:01.679 going to start getting compared. I'm stupid when I'm literally just chilling, just 717 00:56:01.719 --> 00:56:06.159 mind of my business. It's not even that deep. So I wanted you 718 00:56:06.199 --> 00:56:10.360 guys to ask yourself, sys where do you stand on women that have male 719 00:56:10.440 --> 00:56:15.639 friends that they go on solo outings with. My whole thing is are you 720 00:56:15.719 --> 00:56:21.000 invited? Do other people go? Okay, the solo outings that you mentioned 721 00:56:21.079 --> 00:56:22.920 is it's just them to all the fucking time, and when anyone else tries 722 00:56:22.960 --> 00:56:25.320 to come, they act like it's the end of the world. And people 723 00:56:25.360 --> 00:56:30.840 are imposing on their friendship because if so, baby, they fucking that's the 724 00:56:30.880 --> 00:56:32.719 first thing that's weird, and it's probably something more than that, right, 725 00:56:34.119 --> 00:56:37.559 But for me personally, I don't give a fuck. I don't care, 726 00:56:37.679 --> 00:56:42.159 Like, even like you know, guys I'm dating they have female friends. 727 00:56:42.239 --> 00:56:45.199 You know it doesn't bother me, and I know there's a large population of 728 00:56:45.239 --> 00:56:50.559 people who think men and women can even be platent eight friends. All right, 729 00:56:50.840 --> 00:56:52.079 When you say shit like that to me, that just lets me know 730 00:56:52.199 --> 00:56:57.400 you've never been comfortable enough with a person of the opposite sex to where you 731 00:56:57.440 --> 00:57:00.639 felt like you could actually be their friend. You were worried about you taking 732 00:57:00.639 --> 00:57:02.840 advantage of them, or them taking advantage of you, or maybe you've just 733 00:57:02.840 --> 00:57:07.679 come from a past where you've grown up around predators, where it was impossible 734 00:57:07.679 --> 00:57:10.199 for people of opposite sex to be friends. Because when you say shit like 735 00:57:10.239 --> 00:57:15.280 that to me, my first thought is what about people you grew up with? 736 00:57:15.719 --> 00:57:20.800 What about your siblings? What about your friends' siblings and people that they 737 00:57:20.840 --> 00:57:25.519 grew up with. What about people who you genuinely know are trash ass partners 738 00:57:25.559 --> 00:57:29.360 so you would never want to be in a relationship with them, but they 739 00:57:29.400 --> 00:57:32.480 happen to be good friends. Like there are other things that go into male 740 00:57:32.599 --> 00:57:36.360 and females being plus high of friends. Now, am I gonna sit here 741 00:57:36.400 --> 00:57:39.239 on Outgore's Internet and tell you that people who of opposite sex who are friends 742 00:57:39.239 --> 00:57:45.119 have never hooked up and done things that are inappropriate. Absolutely not. I'm 743 00:57:45.159 --> 00:57:50.800 just simply asking you to expand your thinking. Okay, that's it in that 744 00:57:50.920 --> 00:57:55.719 soul. As long as you or other people are not specifically being excluded from 745 00:57:55.760 --> 00:58:00.320 their private outings, I really don't say a problem with that. It's just 746 00:58:00.360 --> 00:58:07.599 me. That's just me, okay. And I feel like me personally the 747 00:58:07.639 --> 00:58:13.639 guy friends that I have of opposite sex. Here's another thing, right, 748 00:58:14.559 --> 00:58:16.000 you know how, And we're going to go on a tangent real fast. 749 00:58:16.559 --> 00:58:21.760 Come with me, just follow me, right, if you are a man 750 00:58:22.239 --> 00:58:28.639 or a woman, you are not automatically attracted to every person of the opposite 751 00:58:28.719 --> 00:58:30.840 sex that you meet. Y'all know that's a thing, right, Like the 752 00:58:30.880 --> 00:58:35.360 same way we say, like, oh well, I don't want them around 753 00:58:35.400 --> 00:58:37.760 me because they're gay. Just because they're gay doesn't mean they automatically like you, 754 00:58:37.760 --> 00:58:40.840 you know what I mean? So I feel like we have to have 755 00:58:40.880 --> 00:58:45.840 that same mindset when it comes to people who are heterosexual, Like, just 756 00:58:45.880 --> 00:58:49.559 because I am a female doesn't mean I'm automatically gonna be attracted to you a 757 00:58:49.599 --> 00:58:52.480 male. First of all, you might not be my type. Can we 758 00:58:52.480 --> 00:59:01.199 talk about that? Yes? Can we die into the fact that you might 759 00:59:01.239 --> 00:59:06.519 not be my type. Bruf. That's why we're friends because you're You're not 760 00:59:06.639 --> 00:59:10.639 my type and you never will be physically, mentally, aesthetically, spiritually, 761 00:59:10.719 --> 00:59:16.199 financially, you might not be my type. Bruh. You just make a 762 00:59:16.239 --> 00:59:21.840 bumb ass friend. Okay. Everybody can't be a firefighter. Somebody gotta be 763 00:59:21.880 --> 00:59:23.920 a paramedic. Okay, now I feel like that was astray. I'm sorry, 764 00:59:23.920 --> 00:59:27.559 we're gonna strike that. That was astray. I apologize that was so 765 00:59:27.679 --> 00:59:30.280 unnecessary. That wasn't a good example. But you get what I'm saying, 766 00:59:30.480 --> 00:59:35.559 right, So I feel like we have to acknowledge, like yo, and 767 00:59:35.599 --> 00:59:39.599 then when you are really somebody's friend, you see the best and worst of 768 00:59:39.639 --> 00:59:45.119 them. Okay, I'm not gonna lie. I got some friends that I 769 00:59:45.159 --> 00:59:49.480 would never be with because I know they are trash ass partners and I can 770 00:59:49.480 --> 00:59:52.719 tell them that ass a friend, But as an actual friend, they are 771 00:59:52.760 --> 00:59:57.760 phenomenal and they will show up for you one thousand percent the ones of the 772 00:59:57.800 --> 01:00:01.239 same and opposite sex. But as far as us actually being in a relationship, 773 01:00:01.519 --> 01:00:04.960 absolutely not. I know, three months and you're gonna tell me you 774 01:00:04.960 --> 01:00:07.360 miss you, Granny. Now we gotta pop your tires. Hell no, 775 01:00:07.800 --> 01:00:13.559 hell no, hell no, So I don't know we best behavior in your 776 01:00:13.679 --> 01:00:16.800 interview. Come on, somebody, come on and honestly, like, I'm 777 01:00:16.800 --> 01:00:21.400 real heavy personally, I'm real heavy on friendship even in my relationship, Like 778 01:00:21.440 --> 01:00:24.440 me and I need to be friends. But the chips are down you. 779 01:00:24.920 --> 01:00:29.400 Yeah, yeah, Like that's just weird to me that you just think that, 780 01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:32.199 Like, well, how did you think me and you you're gonna get 781 01:00:32.199 --> 01:00:37.480 anywhere? Not? Yes, I'm gone the ship mm hmmm without friends, 782 01:00:37.480 --> 01:00:40.320 Like mm hmm, Like you think just me knowing your favorite colors enough that 783 01:00:42.119 --> 01:00:45.119 it's really not crazy. I don't know you like I know everybody else. 784 01:00:45.400 --> 01:00:50.400 That means I A'm really into you. It's weird, Like all right, 785 01:00:51.119 --> 01:00:54.880 well let's recap what did we learn today? If you were paying attention, 786 01:00:54.920 --> 01:01:00.440 it's very similar to the lesson we learned last week. Absolutely nothing. Okay, 787 01:01:00.719 --> 01:01:05.039 follow me on the ground at stormy p p e A at chocolate chip 788 01:01:05.119 --> 01:01:10.199 and sip and if you don't remember anything else, please remember I have a 789 01:01:10.280 --> 01:01:15.519 vagina. I don't know Orlando Brown? Is that Orlando Brown? I have 790 01:01:15.599 --> 01:01:22.360 a vagina? Okay, boom, yeah listen boom, And I don't know. 791 01:01:22.400 --> 01:01:22.239 I'll see y'all next week,