WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.799 All right, time to record the Minnesota goodbye. Yes, it is recorded, 2 00:00:02.919 --> 00:00:05.679 is not live. It's a podcast, so of course it's recorded. 3 00:00:05.719 --> 00:00:10.800 And here we go. Let's start off with one that says Minnesota goodbye. 4 00:00:10.919 --> 00:00:14.880 Lovey show, listen all the time, have been for about twenty years Tuesday 5 00:00:15.000 --> 00:00:18.839 Show. You were talking about what did you find in their apartment? So 6 00:00:18.879 --> 00:00:22.640 you're dating somebody, go back to their apartment and it's like, oh, 7 00:00:22.679 --> 00:00:25.679 I thought of one immediately. When I started dating a guy, obviously a 8 00:00:25.719 --> 00:00:29.359 rebound guy. I told him I would help him clean his room. No 9 00:00:29.440 --> 00:00:37.079 big deal, except I found a grocery bag full of homemade it says Fifee 10 00:00:37.079 --> 00:00:39.520 devices. I'm not sure of what they mean by that. This is, 11 00:00:39.560 --> 00:00:43.520 by the way, it's a woman Fifee devices. Let's read on inside. 12 00:00:43.520 --> 00:00:45.840 I was mortified, but I threw the bag away like it was nothing. 13 00:00:46.320 --> 00:00:49.479 Needless to say, that wasn't the biggest ick about this man. We only 14 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:55.079 lasted a month. He was a big meth head. That's from Kristen f 15 00:00:55.240 --> 00:00:59.640 if. I just what our fife device isn't it says? Do you mean 16 00:00:59.679 --> 00:01:03.000 what are Wi Fi devices? Yeah? Kind of sexual thing, yeah, 17 00:01:03.079 --> 00:01:06.079 some sort of a kink. Yeah, I don't know what it is. 18 00:01:06.359 --> 00:01:07.280 Kristian, You're gonna have to write us back and let us know what a 19 00:01:07.280 --> 00:01:11.799 fiefee device is. So now we're all curious. I'm thinking some sort of 20 00:01:11.920 --> 00:01:19.680 kinky something or other. But okay, let's see this one, says Dave. 21 00:01:21.640 --> 00:01:23.760 It's interesting that you brought up the topic of comebacks on the podcast, 22 00:01:23.760 --> 00:01:29.599 as today marks two years since I got divorced after an almost eight year marriage. 23 00:01:29.599 --> 00:01:32.040 I can't say it was a bad marriage, but I lost myself along 24 00:01:32.079 --> 00:01:34.359 the way, and I didn't realize it until I realized it. Toward the 25 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:38.879 end. I was so depressed that I felt suicidal and my self worth and 26 00:01:38.959 --> 00:01:42.599 confidence were basically non existent. I'm happy to say that after a ton of 27 00:01:42.640 --> 00:01:48.120 crime therapy, support from friends and family, finding a wonderful new partner, 28 00:01:48.120 --> 00:01:49.920 and other things, I feel confident again. I put myself on the front 29 00:01:49.959 --> 00:01:53.599 and burner more, and I use my voice more to advocate for myself and 30 00:01:53.799 --> 00:01:57.879 what I need. Honestly, two years ago and some change ago, I 31 00:01:57.920 --> 00:02:00.439 never would have imagined i'd be where I am today, especially mentally and emotionally. 32 00:02:00.480 --> 00:02:06.040 Life is funny, right Fallon you mentioned the Phoenix rising, I've actually 33 00:02:06.400 --> 00:02:12.240 debated getting that or a butterfly as my next tattoo due to how I've changed 34 00:02:12.240 --> 00:02:15.639 for the better over the last couple of years. Jenny, I hope your 35 00:02:15.680 --> 00:02:19.560 sister is doing well. Thank you all for being a bright light in my 36 00:02:19.639 --> 00:02:23.560 day. I think it would be cool, so I lean more towards a 37 00:02:23.599 --> 00:02:27.360 butterfly. But that's just my preference, So you do what you want to 38 00:02:27.400 --> 00:02:30.159 do, all right. Next one, another one says, don't say my 39 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:34.199 name. Actually, I'm gonna skip her because she has written several times and 40 00:02:34.520 --> 00:02:38.520 I don't think we're actually use that one. So they are a regular emailer 41 00:02:38.599 --> 00:02:42.759 and they have Yeah, yeah, I definitely appreciate that. Don't care if 42 00:02:42.800 --> 00:02:45.639 you use my name or not. I know this might be an old topic, 43 00:02:45.639 --> 00:02:46.879 but it made me think of you guys. I listened to the Minnesota 44 00:02:46.879 --> 00:02:51.039 Goodbye and the Show podcast on my way to work, and I thought i'd 45 00:02:51.039 --> 00:02:53.000 finally email in and say hello to Dave and the crew. But anyway, 46 00:02:53.000 --> 00:02:57.159 I was out doing errands and noticed a couple of sign and speaker systems. 47 00:02:58.919 --> 00:03:04.000 A couple with a sign and a speaker system playing a violin outside of target. 48 00:03:04.560 --> 00:03:07.840 Didn't think i'd see this scam, but I waved and kept about my 49 00:03:07.960 --> 00:03:12.639 day. Made me wonder if they really needed help or not. Sneaky picture 50 00:03:12.879 --> 00:03:17.840 because I stopped to type this before forgetting to send it in. She says, 51 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:22.039 sneaky picture. Oh, I see she attached a picture. Let me 52 00:03:22.159 --> 00:03:28.919 zoom in and describe this to you. Okay, Yeah, they look like 53 00:03:28.960 --> 00:03:32.960 a young couple. They've got some equipment set up there and it looks like 54 00:03:34.080 --> 00:03:38.680 she is. Yeah, I mean you would fall for it. And the 55 00:03:38.719 --> 00:03:42.800 next Minnesota Goodbye email to Ryan Show at Katie dot Com says, hope you're 56 00:03:42.800 --> 00:03:46.759 doing well. I've been listening for twenty five years. I was recently diagnosed 57 00:03:46.800 --> 00:03:49.759 with autism at the age of thirty eight. Wow, I feel like I've 58 00:03:49.759 --> 00:03:53.120 heard more and more people being diagnosed later in life. Yeah, your show, 59 00:03:53.400 --> 00:03:57.039 especially the quick hit of the Minnesota Goodbye, actually like a warm, 60 00:03:57.039 --> 00:04:00.639 calming blanket to my spicy brain and can call down an anxiety spiral. It 61 00:04:00.639 --> 00:04:05.199 doesn't matter what mix of you happened to be hosting that day. Listening snaps 62 00:04:05.319 --> 00:04:09.599 my brain back to a calm place. I really appreciate all the hard work 63 00:04:09.639 --> 00:04:12.479 you do and wanted to let you know how much it helps. Thank you 64 00:04:12.520 --> 00:04:15.800 from Kristen. Well, thank you, Kristen. Yeah, I wonder what 65 00:04:15.160 --> 00:04:20.639 symptoms or what it would be like to have autism at thirty eight years old. 66 00:04:20.680 --> 00:04:24.720 What were the symptoms that made Kristen go in or have her family go 67 00:04:24.800 --> 00:04:27.160 Kristen, you should go and get checked out. Well, she described it 68 00:04:27.279 --> 00:04:30.319 just even in that her spicy brain, So there must be a lot going 69 00:04:30.360 --> 00:04:34.240 on. But I bet it made her feel finally like, oh my god, 70 00:04:34.279 --> 00:04:38.639 it's so I bet she was so happy to finally get a diagnosis to 71 00:04:38.759 --> 00:04:43.040 understand, because that's what I hear from so many people, like with people 72 00:04:43.079 --> 00:04:46.399 acknowledging that more and more because I didn't. I had never heard of that 73 00:04:46.399 --> 00:04:48.519 when I was growing up, you know what I mean? Like I feel 74 00:04:48.519 --> 00:04:53.160 like add and ADHD had just started kind of when I was growing up that 75 00:04:53.240 --> 00:04:59.199 people were talking about that. Definitely hadn't heard of autism growing up. And 76 00:04:59.279 --> 00:05:01.800 now I feel like so a lot of those people are getting diagnosed older, 77 00:05:01.800 --> 00:05:05.839 and I felt like they feel finally like relief, like they finally understand what's 78 00:05:05.879 --> 00:05:12.600 going on. I heard you all talking about what you overcame on the podcast 79 00:05:12.639 --> 00:05:15.120 today, and I wanted to share mine. I graduated high school in twenty 80 00:05:15.160 --> 00:05:17.879 eleven and I went to a religious college. After I first my first semester, 81 00:05:17.920 --> 00:05:21.639 I became very ill with an eating disorder and I was asked to leave 82 00:05:21.720 --> 00:05:26.480 as the college didn't have the resources to help me at the time. I 83 00:05:26.600 --> 00:05:29.519 came home, I landed an adult job, and I had troubles dealing with 84 00:05:29.560 --> 00:05:33.199 food, unfortunately alcohol too. My mom really helped and encouraged me to get 85 00:05:33.199 --> 00:05:39.240 healthy and go back to college. Unfortunately, she unexpectedly passed before I could 86 00:05:39.319 --> 00:05:43.959 Holy buckets. After grieving her death and getting sober, I'm now thirty years 87 00:05:44.000 --> 00:05:46.560 old and entering my final year of college. I'm on track to graduate next 88 00:05:46.560 --> 00:05:51.040 spring in surgical technology. I turned my life completely around and came back from 89 00:05:51.079 --> 00:05:55.600 a complete mess. Thank you for giving me opportunity to share my story. 90 00:05:56.000 --> 00:05:58.240 I don't know what I do without the Morning Show to get me through the 91 00:05:58.319 --> 00:06:00.439 day and the Minnesota Goodbye to get me through. I work out. Love 92 00:06:00.560 --> 00:06:05.040 y'all. And her name is Aaron, she said, because y'all can know 93 00:06:05.360 --> 00:06:11.160 my name. L L. Yeah, we were talking to yesterday about we 94 00:06:11.240 --> 00:06:15.399 started with Kevin Spacey about how Kevin Spacey's wants to make a comeback, and 95 00:06:15.439 --> 00:06:17.639 we said, well, whether you're rooting for Kevin Spacey. Let's forget about 96 00:06:17.680 --> 00:06:21.279 Kevin Spacey. Let's make it about you. And what did you come back 97 00:06:21.319 --> 00:06:26.480 from? This one is long, and I I'm gonna be real honest with 98 00:06:26.519 --> 00:06:31.120 you. I'm gonna stay away from some of the longer emails because there's there's 99 00:06:31.199 --> 00:06:36.600 just I think that sometimes we do the same thing when we write an email, 100 00:06:36.920 --> 00:06:41.560 or even sometimes when we talk on the radio, we lose track of 101 00:06:41.639 --> 00:06:46.160 how long we've talked. And I think that, you know, some some 102 00:06:46.279 --> 00:06:51.839 emails are necessarily long, but I think some emails are therapeutic. I have 103 00:06:51.879 --> 00:06:55.439 a friend who leaves me. Do you know what a Marco polo is? 104 00:06:55.480 --> 00:06:58.079 I use them quite a bit. I mean I only know because of you. 105 00:06:58.199 --> 00:07:01.439 I've never used it. Marco polo it is basically it's a video text 106 00:07:01.439 --> 00:07:05.040 message. So I would record a Marco polo it's an app and I would 107 00:07:05.079 --> 00:07:08.920 be like, hey, fallon, it's Dave. I just sitting here, 108 00:07:08.959 --> 00:07:11.399 got Josie clip. I want to show you Josie. Josie, come say 109 00:07:11.480 --> 00:07:13.759 hi, all right, have a good day, see tomorrow at work, 110 00:07:14.000 --> 00:07:17.040 and then I would hit send and it would it would sit in your app 111 00:07:17.079 --> 00:07:20.160 waiting for you to watch it. Then you would watch it and go, 112 00:07:20.199 --> 00:07:23.759 oh, Josie looks really cute. Okay, have a good day. See 113 00:07:23.759 --> 00:07:26.319 tomorrow at work. And then I would watch it when I when I wanted 114 00:07:26.360 --> 00:07:30.839 to. So it's not FaceTime, it's a text message app. So a 115 00:07:30.839 --> 00:07:33.560 friend of mine lives in Ohio. I used to date her thirty five years 116 00:07:33.560 --> 00:07:40.279 ago. I haven't seen her in thirty five years, and she is in 117 00:07:40.360 --> 00:07:46.720 a moderately unhappy marriage, and she's got a kid about Carson's age. So 118 00:07:46.800 --> 00:07:49.439 she will send me a Marco polo that goes eighteen minutes long. Wow, 119 00:07:50.120 --> 00:07:56.800 eighteen fucking minutes, and I don't I don't want to listen to her. 120 00:07:57.560 --> 00:08:01.720 Basically, she's not even talking to me. She's talking to herself therapists. 121 00:08:03.000 --> 00:08:05.639 I feel like I am, and she'll be like, oh, she'll go 122 00:08:05.720 --> 00:08:11.240 on and on and on, and I don't criticize her. I don't say, 123 00:08:11.439 --> 00:08:15.639 and don't leave me such long Marco polos. I don't want to hear 124 00:08:15.680 --> 00:08:18.879 them because sometimes I just fast forward, and I'm honestly, sometimes I skip 125 00:08:18.920 --> 00:08:22.240 them. I look at the timestamp to see how long it is before I 126 00:08:22.240 --> 00:08:26.879 watch it. It's eighteen minutes long. I'll skip through a little bit anyway. 127 00:08:26.040 --> 00:08:31.240 So I'm going to start asking to not do long emails because I think 128 00:08:31.320 --> 00:08:35.200 sometimes, like I said, I would do the same thing. Tell me 129 00:08:35.240 --> 00:08:37.519 whether you what you think of that idea, because a lot of time we 130 00:08:37.519 --> 00:08:43.120 read a long email and it's it's not as powerful as sometimes a shorter email. 131 00:08:43.159 --> 00:08:45.440 What do you guys think I think? I mean, I think it's 132 00:08:45.440 --> 00:08:48.559 fine. I think I think you've said that a lot actually on the podcast. 133 00:08:48.559 --> 00:08:50.120 This isn't like the first time, and people still keep sitting, So 134 00:08:50.159 --> 00:08:54.600 I think you're right. I think that it must be therapeutic. So I 135 00:08:54.639 --> 00:08:58.840 don't think it's going to stop by us saying that. Um I don't, 136 00:08:58.120 --> 00:09:03.840 but I don't think it hurts to say it. Okay, I will say, 137 00:09:03.840 --> 00:09:05.120 I just got one here that I'm gonna read part of it, and 138 00:09:05.159 --> 00:09:09.399 it is entertaining. Their name is Damante, and I'm just looking about how 139 00:09:09.440 --> 00:09:13.679 they were chopping up a bunch of halapenos and they needed a pee, they 140 00:09:13.720 --> 00:09:20.279 didn't wash their hands. Their balls caught on fire, and so we thought 141 00:09:20.279 --> 00:09:24.919 I had an STD or something until it dawned on me that it was halapino 142 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:28.399 juice on my balls. I soaked a few paper towels in cold water, 143 00:09:28.559 --> 00:09:30.840 put them on my balls, and went back to work. It hurt pretty 144 00:09:30.840 --> 00:09:33.360 bad for like twenty minutes. Llol, have a nice weekend all now, 145 00:09:33.399 --> 00:09:37.840 see Davante, I your email could have been shortened to just that part, 146 00:09:39.759 --> 00:09:41.799 so I didn't want to. I wouldn't want to skip your email and miss 147 00:09:41.879 --> 00:09:46.320 the balls in Halapino Juice. I'm actually naming the episode balls on Fire, 148 00:09:46.440 --> 00:09:50.200 so I think that's a good idea. So Davante, thank you for the 149 00:09:50.399 --> 00:09:52.879 email. And that's it. Hey, listen, I love the fact that 150 00:09:52.919 --> 00:09:54.279 you send emails. If you listen to the show enough and you are a 151 00:09:54.279 --> 00:09:56.919 big enough supporter of the show to send an email, I love you for 152 00:09:58.000 --> 00:09:58.960 that. So I want to be able to read your email, I guess 153 00:10:00.080 --> 00:10:01.320 is what I'm saying, and the longer ones are going to get kind of 154 00:10:01.320 --> 00:10:05.759 pushed aside a little bit. So have a great weekend. We will see 155 00:10:05.799 --> 00:10:09.279 you next time on the Minnesota. Goodbye.