Made a Saint John a pace sunny sun, I had nice everybody, what's
up? What's up? Was that it? Remember when that annoyed me?
I know, like a year. Yes, and now we're doing it again
to annoying you guys and bringing it back old school. Hey, Dick frolicker,
Oh, Dick's frolicking and ash frowling chic and Kelly lady done, and
Katie's rolling on the e and Aaron who is? And Nikki call your girl?
And Leslie was out by the seven eleven couple of blocks. Oh,
you're really trying to accost people. Oh no, yep. She got to
get her ban together, I know. And the other Leslie was behind her
coughing. When she's got TV. I was like, Jesus, girl.
Jacob is growley but so so sweet. And Rita's rocking a basinette chalk full
of Elizabeth Williamson's new baby. Oh she gave birth to another one? Wow?
Yeah? And atheneg insured we love your lipstick, your mac lipstick,
and you're gorgeous, and Polly, we love your pancakes. Valerie hits out
of the park, Katerina get that, Mueller checked Gabby and Missy they were
pumping gas at the gas station on the end of my flow service. Yeah,
yeah, they're bringing it back full service style. Pet Rebecca, nobody
is so cute. Kelly Brandt is not your aunt, but she'll help you.
Yeah, she'll tell you, take you wherever you need to go.
Yep. And Alicia Ascalante from the City of all Montana. Stephanie's a stinker
wrinker And let's just Trevor project. Why not donate some money there for the
month of July. It's my birthday month. Oh that happy birthday, staf
thank you. And Sarah Sefano, she's our Paisano. And Aaron is a
dirty Sanchez and Jennifer get up, Santra. It's not easy being green.
Christa. You make me want to streep. But yeah, when's your birthday?
July fifth? Oh it was close. I don't remember when anyone's birthdays
are. My kids were asking me, Mom, like, what do you
want for your birthday? And I swear to God and you, I don't
know. I think you're like me. I think he agreed on this.
I was like, I, honest to God, don't want anything. I
don't want you to buy me anything with buy money, right, I mean
yes, but also even with their money, I don't want them blank when
if I need something or want something, like I just get it. Yeah,
yeah, I know. It's but it's cute that your kids do that,
Like Natalia will do it for me, Sonny won't. Like Sonny just
like, yeah, happy birthday. You know, barely knows what day it
is, man Like, I think that that's normal. I think that kids
are can be very solid centered, you know. I think I was.
I don't think that I was big on like Mother's Day or Father's Day for
sure. Not. I didn't care. But it's just another thing that you
have to feel guilty about. Like you know, so it's nice that my
kids do that, but I'm like, let's just go to dinner. Yeah,
just go to dinner. That's it. Yeah, That's what will be
very enjoyable for me is having all my kids with me. It's right,
taking nice, taking time, but I don't need like, where do you
want to go to dinner? You know, sushi? Benny Hannah, Oh,
Benny Hannah. That's right. I thought for some reason, John was
the one that liked Ben. No, I'm the one that likes you force
everybody's on their birthday to want to go to Benny Hannah so that I can
make it happen. So you love that. I love Betty Anna. I
love the food. I love the shrimp, I love the I love the
salad with that ginger dressing. I can just drink that dressing. I love
that dressing. I know, I mean it's cheesy, but it's like I
like the I it. Yeah, it's fun. It's fun. It's so
overpriced for what it is. It's insane, but it's like, you know,
yeah, it's a special occasion, definitely, yeah type place. Then
I like this place that my and then I also always so my jew mom
friends. I think one of them is not Jewish. So I shouldn't say
I shouldn't say they're all Jewish. But the point is it's a big group
of Jewish moms that all go to temple. I don't we all celebrate each
other's birthdays. So remember I told you about going to this one friend's birthday
that was at this place called Red Ginger su she plays in the valley,
And I said they there was a guy and he was singing all like songs
from the seventies and it was really loving it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
So we make a big deal. The thing is, there's a big
group of us. There's like eight or nine of us, and we all
celebrate each other's birthdays because it's a good excuse to like get a bunch of
girls together and go out for their birthday. So that's happening, I think
on the sixth, for me, we're all going. I said, I
want to I don't want to cheat and use someone else's birthday place. But
it was so fun. Yeah, I want to go there too, Caroline
and yeah, yeah, so we're going there with the group of moms.
And then I have Julie Casam's birthday is July fourth, Oh, happy birthday,
Julie. Yeah. So Julie and me and then my friend Laura Wow
separately for our two birthdays. So that's crazy. That's celebrating. Well,
that's crazy because your birthdays are all your friend's birthdays pretty much or in July.
I all of them. Well, my birthday is in August. Dobbin's
birthday is July seventeenth. See, so for me, it's all June.
Like we have so many birthdays in June. My girlfriend Dawn, my friend
in need at like a lot of June birthdays and then Suzanne's May, so
it's pretty close. You're June, right, I'm August. Oh your August.
Yeah, okay, So I get my own time. Okay when like
a lot of times we'll go, hey, we'll go out and celebrate like
Anita and don and then get it, you know, and then so we
do two for one or whatever. Yeah, but then for me, I
get my own month. Nobody else is a month. That's nice. Yeah,
but we and I know we've talked about this a million times, but
I am just not I'm just not a person who cares about my birthday or
other people's birthdays that much. Yeah, I don't. It's such a like,
well get it. I know people love it. I know people love
it, So don't come for me. And I'm not trying to tell you
what to do, Okay, I'm not trying to tell you the listener like
you, I know, I have in the past been opinionated and been like,
if you're an adult and you're really into your birthday, stop it.
I'm not gonna say that. I know it's fun for people they like their
birthday, but like, can you not have a birthday month? Right?
Can that stop? When you're an adult, Like it's just enforced celebrating of
you and and for I don't like like a lot of my friends, we
just do no gifts. Yes, yeah, you don't have no candle like
I mean I do want a candle. Yeah, but if I want a
candle, I'll buy a candle. I don't want somebody to have to go
out of their way to get it. Yeah, do you know what I
mean? Yes, yeah, we don't. I can't remember the last time
we've given gifts to each other. We just we just go to dinner.
Yeah. Well, my group, it's like some people are very adamant,
like no gifts. Then a couple other people are like, no, I
like the gifts for your gifts. Yeah, but then I always feel pressure
to like find something they like. And I don't know some of these women
that well at all. Right, then you're like, oh, what is
Carol like you? Whoever's the closest to Carol will be like, well,
she loves puzzles, right, I want to go to Target, get her
a puzzle, you know, find a card. It's like why, yeah,
yeah, she's not a family, Let them buy her, I know,
you know, let our kids buy him, right, buy her a
candle, right, But I don't know. Listen, no offense. I
know some people just like that and it's fun. And some people love to
buy gifts for other people. I'm not one of them. I finish your
sentence. I'm not a good gift giver, I know me neither. Some
people are just the gift of giving gifts. It's insane. They love it,
they love it, and they're good at it. No. I wake
up the day of the event with like dread and yeah, I got to
Target, Gotta go to Target, make that target run. And I'm like,
they've seen, we're all moms, we've all been to Target rightly that
same day. They all know what's there at Target, Like they're not going
to be surprised by a graphic tea or some ear rings exactly yea. And
people's taste, especially as adults, it's very people have their own taste.
I don't want somebody buying me like jewelry that I'm not gonna wear. Yeah
you know, yeah, yeah, no, I agree. What are you
doing for the fourth anything? Well, that's your birthday? Or what I
mean, what are the kids gonna do? So Xander told me that he's
made some plans for the fourth. He's going to go to his friend's house.
I don't know what Sadie's gonna do. I yeah, no plans.
You know why years ago when we got pepo Is, when we kind of
stopped doing anything for the fourth oh a, we were like, well,
we don't know how our dog's going to react to fireworks, and if she's
scared, we don't want to leave her home alone. And we had just
gotten her like in May, so May, June, July, so she
was still kind of new to us and we didn't want to those like leave
her home getting scared. But then we kind of enjoyed not going out for
fireworks so much that we were like, well, let's make it a dread
not go see fireworks. Right. So I have a lot of friends that
are like, yeah, we don't go anywhere because of the dogs. Whatever.
Meanwhile, Phil's out there and somebody lit a firework like right in our
backyard pretty much, and it was one of those that goes like like professional
up into the sky and bloom out, you know, yeah, and loud
as shit, and I was like whoa. And they did it two nights
in a row. And Phil's just like saw on logs outside like yeah,
no, it doesn't even flinch. Didn't even flinch. And all the other
time Phil was in the house, Uh, something happened. I can't remember,
but the smoke alarm went off when we first moved in and it wouldn't
stop, and it was so loud and sending it to other like we're gonna
go outside, we can't take it. We're trying to figure out how to
stop it. And Phil's just laying there like, didn't even And my girlfriend
was there at the time. She's like, uh, I wonder if Phil
is deaf, and I'm like, no, watch this treat fucking jumps right
up. He ain't deaf. And I said it from the other room,
like he as soon as he hears that, like ears perk up and he's
honest hearing he's on his feet. Yeah. I don't know what it is,
understand the word stop, but ice cream right right exactly? So anyway,
yeah, so Phil is fine to be left alone for the fourth so
I decided to Natalia has been going to her friends since school got out,
so we don't have a pool, so she's been going to the country club
that's like in our area and it's it's pretty small, and I think we've
had like some Corolla drinks events there before. And it's actually where Olga's daughter
Paula got married. But it's really like it's it's got it's mostly for golf.
But they do have a nice gym, like a nice gym, and
they have a nice pool. And Italian's been going there as a guest of
one of her friends and I'm like, do they have tennis courts? Now,
this one doesn't, okay, but they do have like classes like yoga
class and stuff like that, pilates and I'm like, okay, now you're
kind of talking, you're singing my tune. So I think I'm gonna join.
It's not that it's not that expense. It's just like almost like having
a family membership kind of thing, and it's really close and convenient, So
I think I'm gonna join. I went there over the weekend and checked it
out, and I'm supposed to call chick back today, So I don't know.
I think it would be a good nice thing to have around, you
know, especially have a nice restaurant. Yeah they do there. Yeah,
they have lunch, Yeah, they have they have restaurant. Yeah, they
have a locker room. They have everything you need, you know, because
I even go to the y MCA and it's like, you know, that's
for Sunny. You know, he likes it there, like that's all like
all teenage boys. Mostly. I'm intimidated to go in the workout room,
like it's just like all dudes, you know, and they don't have classes
of things and stuff like that. So I was like, I wanted to
join another gym, like like find something better, and I think, like
this is good. So I think I'm gonna have my friends over for the
Fourth of July too if I join. Oh, they can come by the
pool. That's nice. Yeah yeah, treat it like it's your home by
the pool. Yeah yeah, why not. That's watch fireworks, you know,
like you you need to really start thinking about what life is going to
be like without the two of them, and then you're gonna have to help
me. It's kind of crazy to me that I'm so old and I have
sixteen year olds, Like I feel old. I mean, I'm close.
I'm going to be sixty in few years. It's like the new fifty.
It's weird though, because sometimes I like look in the mirror and I just
go, oh my god, like I'm my mom, Like you don't.
I mean no, I don't see. I don't feel that way in my
head and feel young right, But I am getting older and then I think,
like, but it's still like like to have my life, yes,
and I think when the but you know, I think that you and I
for so many years, I mean our life is like about our kids.
Yea, still live vicariously through them. When good stuff happens to them.
It feels like good stuff is happening to us. Like when they're all off
living their own lives, then what are we going to do? Right,
And it's gonna be for me. It's just gonna be me and you know,
Phil and I just the two of us, Phil and I. Well,
you're gonna have a boyfriend. Yeah, you're gonna get to with anybody,
Yeah, you might. You might end up moving in with somebody if
you like, if it's the right person, and then you'll take trips with
that person and go do stuff and like discover stuff that you like to do.
Yeah. Yeah, I don't know if I want to live with anybody
really. Yeah. I think like once you get older and you get set
in your ways, It's like I can't imagine like going to having somebody like
or maybe I don't know, we'll see, I'll see. It would have
to be somebody for you that you feel super comfortable with that likes your quirks
and likes you know what I mean, that's the same stuff you do right
and then and has their own life too, before you think about like merging.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll see, but you know, I
yeah, so it's going to be an adjustment having you know, both kids
gone. That's the problem with twins. Double on the apps, Linnette,
You're gonna have to get on the apps and you're gonna have to like go
on some dates. Yeah. I think you were waiting for like everything to
really settle down, settle down. Yeah, I'm sure it doesn't sound that
tempting right now to go on first dates. I mean, I'm open to
it, like I don't have a problem with it, but I'm not.
Yeah, I have to get through like the next stage of getting the kids
settled and you know, going to both of their places and getting them settled
and getting them you know, set up, and then you know, well
then I can start to like think about that. Yeah. Yeah, are
you are you I mean, I know you were before, but are you
scared about them leaving? About them about them leaning leaving? Yes, I
am like, because they're going to be two at the time, two at
the same time, in two different places. You know, he's Sunday,
just stay home for one more year. I know, No, he wants
to go. It's going to Oregon and she's going to be in Santa Barbara
and that you know, luckily she's going to be close by like her roommates.
That is not a far drive, right, No, it's you made
the drive. Oh yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's like it's like two
and a half. Yeah, it's like two. It depends though, because
sometimes there's traffic can be really bad. Yeah, not as bad though as
San Diego. No, Santa Barbara is so much than driving solved. Yes,
and it's a prettier yes, And it's a prettier drive. Yeah,
it's down there. You know, it feels closer. Santa Barbara feels close.
Yes, san Diego absolutely, I feel like I mean, when I
thought Albi was going to go to Santa Barbara, and I was really into
the idea because I was like, this is the kind of thing where you
could drive in, go have lunch your daughter, and no take a train.
You could take the train, Oh you can't. Yeah, yeah,
her roommates have been doing that. They just they they've been taking the train
down there. Yeah, because not a lot of parking spots out there.
So I don't know what she's going to do about her car, and like
I don't know, so, you know, yeah, so it'll be It
will be so nice to have her like and she tells me like her other
like her roommates that have been there, like they come down for the weekend
to like go to their eyebrow. Girl, you know, you know,
they always are coming down doing their laundry, you know, whatever it is.
So they're always leaving on the weekend. It's going home, which is
nice. So but Sonny will be but he'll be in Oregon. So what's
the plan. Are you gonna go fly out there and help him? Like,
are you going to drive out there and move him in? Well,
we have to again figure out the car situation for him. But I talked
to Wendy and I was like, you know, I'm going to have a
hard time with Sonny. Like for Natalia, it'll be easier. She's a
girl and I know what she needs and I know what she you know,
for Sonny, it's a little different. You know, he's a he's a
guy and so and Wendy like she loves Sonny just like you know, I
mean, she's his aunt. And I said, can you maybe you come
out and meet me in Oregon when I get him set up? And she's
like, I'll definitely come out and we'll spend like a couple of days out
there and get them all set up, get them everything you need, you
know, So that'll be nice. Yes, that'll be nice. So I
don't have to be like do it on my own because I'm just gonna be
second guessing everything. And like Adam wouldn't take him out there. Oh,
I didn't even think about that now, No, so cause I mean I
feel like you'd have to drive to bring stuff, unless you just start him
over, unless you just go out there and then just go locally and get
him stopped. There's one of the moms. There's a lot of people out
there that I know that their kids are there or older siblings are there.
And so I talked to one of the moms and she's like what she did
is there's like a rental. You can rent dorm furniture or whatever. Oh
and then you know, and that way you don't have to go and like
buy furniture, you know, buy a bed and all this stuff. So
you know, there's like a rent like she knows, like there's some good
places that can help you, you know, get you set up that way.
Okay, So he is his plan to do two years at the community
college and then transfer into the University of Oregon or one year. He I
think he's going to have to do two years, yeah, yeah, to
get or maybe he's gonna do it in one year. I don't know,
but I think it's going to be two years. But we'll see. And
for both of them, I think, mm hmm. But that that's the
plan for she might want to go to you see, Santa Barbara. She
does want to go to Santa Barbara does Yes, Oh god, I could
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I wanted to talk about. Yeah, so we don't have to get super
sad about our kids lining although I do want to say that, No,
I don't want to like, yeah nah, but Elbe's only gonna be like
twenty minutes away. I know, I know, so happy. I know
that's awesome. And might I also add that Elbe's little Elbe's been having some
really good times lately. She seems to be moving on from a couple of
the things that were dragging her down before, and she's been in really good
spirits and she but so she got her housing at UCLA. Yeah, and
it is not what it's not what she put in for. So apparently the
housing is very impacted at the school, sort of like majors used to be
impacted. But they do get UCLA guarantees housing for kids for all four years,
including transfer students. So that's good the good news. But the bad
news is she wanted to be an a door so that she could have that
sort of that freshman experience and meet a bunch of people on her floor.
But she was given her housing assignment is an apartment building that is not even
on campus. It's basically off campus, but it's UCLA housing, but it's
just it's a little bit far. And at first she was just like,
oh my gosh. So she put in with these roommates that she found on
Instagram and they all got the same building, but they're not even they haven't
assigned the actual apartment yet, so they're going to have to figure it out
and switch with people and it's like a whole cashaw. But I have to
say that at first she was like, Oh, I'm so upset and this
isn't what we wanted and this is not the experience I wanted to have.
And then the other day I was asking her. I was like, oh,
so did you try to argue for the housing that you wanted? And
she was like, she goes, you know what, We're going to make
the best of it. Yeah, it's going to be fine. She's like,
I was looking at some videos and we're in a really new apartment building,
Like the apartments are pretty nice, they only built like two years ago,
and I'm going to be in an apartment with there's eight kids in the
apartment war bedroom apartment, two kids per bedroom, and she was like,
it's kind of roomy and we have our own closet. And she was like,
you know, it's fine, it's fine. I'm not that mad.
And she was like, we'll figure it out. I'll make friends. Yeah.
I was like, there she is, there you go. Yeah,
but I'm I'm like, she's not gonna be that far. Yeah, you're
so lucky. I know you're going to be that mom that shows up.
Yes, yes, I'm going to join a sorority with her. Yeah,
it's going to be so cringey. And then Sadie and Xander, I feel
like I have one year, like junior year they have to like aim for
college, but you don't have to do that much right junior year. Yeah,
it all kind of happens senior year. So I'm like, all right,
they're going to be juniors. Oh my god. Wow, I know
that's crazy. You know, I don't have that much longer with them,
Oh my gosh. Yeah, but this summer they don't really have a lot
to do. But anyway, but you know what I wanted to we wanted
to talk about, Yeah, Sherry Peppini, Oh about my god, because
there was a what was it a date line? It was a twenty twenty.
It was a twenty twenty on Friday night. And yes, there was
the Hulu one, which I don't know. We watched. We watched it
and talked about it. Yes, we watched. Yes, so the twenty
twenty wasn't that much different. But let me hold on because I wrote some
things down. So did you watch it or did you listen to me?
I listened to it, Kaylin. You were up on this story, right,
No, I don't think so. What Well, he didn't. We
asked him last time and he didn't, but then he remembered once we told
him the story, the hoax. She ran away but I don't know.
She was missing, gone girl, Yes, and they accused her. They
really accused her husband of it, and he was and he seemed okay.
One thing that I did think about that I think we forgot to talk about
was how guilty he did kind of seem. So she's missing and she's kind
of planted the seed that her husband was abusive, right, So now the
friends are like, yeah, I don't know. She says her husband's like
abusive and it's super controlling and then they're talking to him about the fact that
she's got and he's making jokes. Remember that he's kind of laughing. He's
like, yeah, I mean, I don't want to seem like I did
it or and it's like, that's not really how I feel like you would
act if your wife was missing. But truly, yeah, she was missing,
and he didn't have any idea and he's making all these kind of nervous
jokes and he's not really he's kind of cute by the way, he's super
handsome. Yeah, yeah, I feel like, you know, you get
him like to a TGIF and give him a beer, like, you know,
you can probably loosen them up. And I think that he no,
because I think that he when he said I didn't realize he said this,
But when he said when he walked into the emergency room to see her for
the first time and she he looked into her eyes, his first instinct and
I'm thinking, is that, you know, he's so happy to have her
back. No, his first instinct was she's lying, yes, right,
And then he felt guilty for even because he because he's like, but then
once I really saw all these bruises and the branding and how much weight she'd
lost, he said, I instantly felt guilty, Like, right, she
obviously couldn't do that to herself, right, But imagine how fucking psychotic you'd
have to be to do that to your insane It's insane. But I think
that she's one of these people that are you know, that pathological liars just
lie just for the heck of lying when you don't need a lie, you
know what I mean, or just very attention seeking, you know. And
I think that he totally coddled her, you know. I think that maybe
he was a little codependent in that area. I don't know, but I
feel like he probably like babied It seems to me that he babied her a
lot, you know, and like kind of fed into her, you know,
stupid lies and stuff like that. You know. I don't know,
But why, like what was the purpose of doing all that, like just
to get attention? You know. Yeah, I feel like, to this
day, we're not one hundred percent sure what she was up to. His
theory is that she wanted him to find her, Yes, yeah, but
how would he be to find her at her ex boyfriend's house that he's not,
which, by the way, is nine hours away and did you catch
it when she's when she told Okay, so she tells the ex boyfriend to
come pick her up. Okay, how what kind of pussy is this guy
that's gonna drop everything drive nine hours? Not to mention she told him leave
your phone at home, so he had to drive nine hours with no phone.
No phone he wants and listen to AM radio like yeah, nothing that
like this guy's dedicated to to have to do that. And then when he
gets her there, he she's like, you know, you got to go
to home depot and get some boards to board up the windows. And he's
like dutifully getting his tools out, you know, putting the boards up on
the window. Like what's wrong with this guy? And then her excuse was
that her boy that her husband's abusive. So the ex boyfriend thinks he's saving
her from this abusive situation, but like, at what point are you?
Like, wait, so I'm supposed to hit you in the face with shockey
poppy like and was he was he across the room like was he really?
Like okay, I want way, and then I wanted to naturally hit me,
Yeah, knock out my teeth, Like what isn't he going to be
like, well, hold on a minute, if you're if you're abused,
wouldn't you come that way? Like why are we manufacturing this? You should
have been I should have picked you up with all these bruises and right hockey
cut and he doesn't even so, so here's what I'm wondering. Okay,
So she she leaves, he leaves, he has to leave her by the
side of the road. She gets discovered by the police, right she and
she calls somebody and she's like, oh, I was trying to get away
from my abusive boyfriend, right that she kind of slipped, yes, so
the the the car, I got that the collar. That's like, there's
this girl and she's saying she's trying to get away from her abusive boyfriend.
And she's like no, no, get du bid, get the story right,
yes, no, bitch right right? And he's like, I was
kidnapped. I was kidnapped. SI script. And then the girl's like,
oh, sorry, yeah, I guess I don't know she kidnapped. She
just know there are two Hispanic ladies, right, Okay, but if you're
the boyfriend, right, there's boyfriend who I don't think even had sex with
her this whole time. No I don't either, just hiding her out.
Okay, So now she's telling everybody that, like, these kidnappers did it.
If you're him, aren't you just like, hold on a minute,
that is not what happened. How do you keep that secret for years?
Right? I don't get that? Do you not go? Like, this
girl's bullshitting and hear the ex boyfriend when she's like, when they're all thinking
that the husband did it, wouldn't you just be like or are you just
scared and thinking? Oh, I say I did? I was. I
was yah scared that they're going to arrest me, right, but they didn't.
They went and talked to him, you know, and and then you
know, they said to him, bound him. They found he never came
forward. They tracked him down with his DNA from the manacles and they still
believe him, right, And it was like six years later, right yes,
yeah, yeah? Crazy? And then when they're talking to him,
they go one of the guys, one of the detectives, goes, so
did you would you think like did you think you were gonna have a relationship
with him? And he was like, well, slow down, I'm not
just yet, Like I wasn't there yet, is what he said. I
wasn't there yet. You're hitting she's asking you to hit. You hit her
with the hockey puck and she's smacking herself in the head with a fucking hockey
stick and you're not there yet, Like, what's with this guy? It's
crazy. Yeah, it was such an insane story. And then they get
the detective, then the best. At the end, they show her in
the interrogation room and they're like, you know, so like as if it's
good news, like we found the house, and she's like the best.
Yes, and she's like and she's like, oh my god, oh my
god, tell me everything, tell me. And the detective even did it
too, with a wave in his hands. He's like, okay, okay,
we'll get there. We'll get that. Let's go one thing at a
time, yeah, you know. And then her husband, Keith, he's
sitting next to him going like he's like all excited and he's rocking, he's
rubbing his hands back and forth. He's like jumping up and down, like
all right, we're catching these people. And she's like, wait a man,
and hold on. That child doesn't really look like exactly the same.
Yeah, but then she goes. They're like, look at this picture.
This is like, this is the closet. This is exactly what you described
with the cable going through it that you were tied to. And she's like
yeah, yeah, yeah, and then she goes. She goes pretty fucking
close. Yeah, she goes, don't pardon my language, right, pretty
fucking close. And then she goes but not exactly. Yes, the detectives
totally know that she's lying. Yes, yes, I know, and then
they're like okay, and then they start to break They then they go,
well, we even know who did it. We even caught the people behind
this, and she's like you did and then they're like yeah, it's your
ex boyfriend and she was like, oh no, not him behind Yeah.
I can't believe he was behind it. I can't believe it, right,
dow Des is not true. He can't be the one behind it. Yes,
the detectives must be going like, oh, what the hell? What
in the hell. And then they're like, do you want your husband to
step out? And she's like do you want to step out? Like please
get out? Yeah, and he's like no, I want to stay.
Yeah, I want to watch this shit go down. And then I wonder
if everything in his head is starting to click and go. I fucking knew
it. I knew it. I should have had it was my instinct.
I knew she was lying, you know. But remember, and we talked
about this last week. He still didn't leave her after that, but it
was another eighteen months, which think about that, that's a long time.
That's almost two years that he stayed with her while she tried to gaslight him
into going like, oh my god, I can't believe my ex boy did
this, Like, no, it's not, it's this is this is of
course I didn't do this, while the detectors are like, we have all
this evidence, and she's meanwhile doing stuff like going, I'm so traumatized the
twenty two the well, the twenty two days, the twenty Yes, no
matter how bad she behaves, she'd be like, wow, I'm stressed out
because of the twenty two days. Six years later, so he just feels
God the whole time. And then towards the very end, remember she says
to him, well, because he's like I can't believe you would do this
to me or whatever, and she's like you never found me, yes,
right, Like it's forging like that's a mic drop. Yes, like yes,
I know this poor guy had on like I just feel for him,
like it's got to be like just a mind fuck his dating life has I
was just going to say, like I wonder like yeah, like who's Yeah,
it's gotta be hard, right, you got to be like, well,
you probably don't remember this movie Modern Romance with Albert Brooks, but where
she gambles away all their money and it's like you're not allowed to say nest
egg you can't say nest or eggs birds living around twig. He's probably like,
no, the number twenty two does not exist exactly in this relationship.
Yes, yes, and don't ask me to brand you. You can say
two, or you can say two unrelated, but not twenty two did.
We can never say that I had an assful of that. Yes, I
mean the just I cannot. I mean the guy, like the boyfriend going
to a home depot and getting the branding tools and everything. He's got to
be thinking like what's with this chick. Yeah, he's like I've never branded
anybody before, and yeah it's like right, hurt, Yeah, that's but
he does it. He does it, and I don't know why but for
some reason, I pictured the branding thing happening at the same time all the
letters, but I think they did it one letter at a time, which
is even I don't know. Well, that's what they showed in the reenactment.
By the way, I want to audition for those reenactments. Oh my
gosh. First of all, well, my husband John used to work for
on a bunch of shows where they had to hire people to do those dramatic
reenactments, and I was always like, what did you look for? Like
I want to do it? How did I get into that? Yeah?
It seems so fun? Yeah, totally so Elbe when she was little,
like I think she was like four, she was in she they needed a
child actor for really or reenactment, and she did it. It was she'd
been kidnapped, she'd been abducted, and then she had to run to the
police, who found her right, and then they and she had to run
to safety. I know, like this policeman's arms. And she totally did
it, and she looked like she was gonna cry. Oh cute. I
know I would love that. I would love to do that. Fun right,
Yeah, Okay, let's figure out how to get into that. After
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your empty nester future, I'm seeing a boyfriend and full time gig doing background
work. Yes, creations. Yes, and I'll get you into yes.
And you know it doesn't have to be just to you know, for crime
docs. Like I could do like you know, like when you watch Survivor
and they, you know, Jeff Probes is like, you know, here's
how the challenge is going to go, you know, like you walk across
the tight rope or whatever. Like then I can get like an island vacation.
You know, somebody's got to be doing like when he's describing the challenges.
That would be cool. I think that would be a really cool job.
It'll be a full time actor doing that stuff and you don't have to
remember lines, memorized line. That's the best part. Yeah. I have
a friend or I'm friendly with a woman who has a whole company where basically
what she does is higher background actors. I wonder if part of that is
like for dramatic recruit. Oh maybe, yeah, why not? Yeah?
I ask my husband about that. So while I was I want to know
other things that you guys are watching. Yeah, but this is a retread.
But while I was recovering from my eye surgery, I couldn't really look
at much. So I listened re listened to the entire book you as an
audible Now the first time I ever read that book. I just read the
book. Yeah, so this time and you raved about listening to it on
audible. Oh my god, because the actor Dantino something so so freaking good.
He's a Broadway actor, but he sounds like Joe the character. Yeah,
doesn't he? I mean, so, I didn't know how I was
how much I was going to like it. Like you never listened to The
Eye. I had never listened to it. I'd only read the book,
which I loved. So I was like, I don't know if that's going
to ruin it for me, But I remember that you were saying how good
it was. Yes, from page one, I was hooked in. Oh,
I want to listen to it again. Such a good book it is.
It is so voicy, it's so it's humorous and like the fact that
you can love this guy who's just a fucking murderer right right, rooting for
him. Yeah, and you're rooting for him and he's funny and there's like
current references. Yeah. It took me back to when we got obsessed with
it and needed Carolyn Keptniz to come on our line, I know, and
she came on our show. Yeah. So you and by the way,
you sent me the text and I was like driving and I was and you
said, I just listened to you and I was like, what, what
was she listening to me for? Yeah? But uh, and so that
book came out first, right because then, and also there's a TV show
about you know, there's a TV show called You which is based on the
book. Yes, have you ever seen it? I think I saw the
part of the first season. Yeah, me too. I think it was
good. Yeah it was. And also, you know it's so crazy,
Stephanie, is that you and I had the same vision of what Joe should
look like. Remember that, Yes he said it should be. Who was
that guy that we liked, Lucas Kirby. Yes, we love him,
love Lucas Kirby because he was in that movie. Take Take this Waltz take
this Waltz. Yes, Yes, Yes, with Caroline or no Michelle Williams.
Yes, such a good movie. The guys haven't seen it. It's
it's a chick flick. It's kind of a chick flick. It's so good,
so good, And Lucas Kirby is so cute. He is so cute,
And I don't remember what happens. So I'm going to rewatch the movie.
You should, I know, I'm going to rewatch it too, because
it's so weird that you and I got pictured the same person in our head
what we thought Joe should look like. And Sarah Silverman has like a little
part she does. It's like the Alcoholics sister. Yeah, yeah, I
want to say, yeah, yes, it's such a great movie. Yeah.
So then I also listened to the Book of Daisy Jones and the Six
which I previously read that book, and then I listened to it on audible.
So good? Isn't it great? On Artis and Jessica or not?
Jessica Jennifer Beals right. Doesn't she play the voice of one of them in
the book. I don't know. I can't remember who voices it, or
maybe I was paid. There is some actresses. Yeah, but it's really
good. It's really good. And that's also a show which have you seen
what? Oh, you have not seen it. It's on amaz Oh my
god, Stephanie, it's so good. Okay it Oh my god. Is
it one season? Yeah, it's just one season, but there's like twelve
episodes or something. Okay, And Elvis Presley's granddaughter. What's her name?
Uh, she's playing she plays Daisy Jones. Now what's her name? Oh,
that's not god. She's got a Silla Presley's daughter. Yeh, Priscilla
Silla is the wife was his wife, Priscilla Presley's daughter. Yes, she
plays Daisy Jones. Okay, it's so good. Okay, I'm gonna watch
it and it it kind of it was a slow burn at first because if
you read the book, you know, you kind of know. But then
it just was great. Loved it. Yeah, you're gonna like it.
It's so good because the the guy who plays Billy or Billy, I don't
know who plays Billy, but the character Billy, it was such I thought
it was such a good representation of what it's like when you have just such
a bad crush on somebody and you think you're in love with them, but
they're married or they have a significant other, and you're like spend so much
time imagining like what it would be like if they would leave their you know.
But yeah, I just that feeling of just where it's just so painful,
right and you can feel like you can't have the person. Yeah,
they really did that. Well? Yeah, who wrote that book? Taylor?
Oh my gosh, can you look? I forgot her last name.
She's written a lot of books. She wrote The Seven Husbands or The Ellen
of eleanor She's she's written a lot of books, and her name is Taylor.
Have you read any other Daisy Jones and The Six? What's Taylor Jenkins?
Yeah? Yeah, okay, I have read other books by her,
but I can't remember off the top of my head. Because I looked at
it. I was thinking, like, was after I watched the show?
I was like, was this based on like Fleetwood Mac? It's supposed to
be very loosely based on Fleetwood Mac, but it doesn't really follow it.
Okay, And then there's a Fleetwood Mac video. What's that song? Oh
god, I can't think this song? Oh silver Springs? Yeah? Yeah,
yeah, that's my favorite, My favorite song too, and if have
you seen the video to it, because after I Daisy Jones is Six,
somebody else that watched it told me you should watch that video because you know,
she's like singing at him, like because you know the lyrics, like
you know she I'll know, you know, you'll yeah, you know.
So she's like singing that and then you can see the look in both of
their eyes how they're looking at each other, and you can feel like the
tension. It's it's really cool interesting, yes, because then I started listening
to that song over and over after I watch Daisy Jones and the Six.
I can't believe you haven't seen that. Okay, well I'm gonna watch it.
Yeah, I have something to watch, Halen, any recommendations before we
rap. I've just been watching a lot of horror movies. Honestly, a
lot of horror money horror movies. Yeah. I think me and Sonny are
gonna best friends. You should be best friends. Come over anytime and see
him horror movies The Boys on Amazon. Sonny loves The Boys. Man,
he cannot what he was telling me about that too? Really? Oh yeah,
he's like Mammy comes out tonight. I can't wait, what's that about.
It's about it's about superheroes, except except say no more. Well,
the things Unlike other superheros, they're all like degenerates and fucking and drugs.
Like it's superheroes were like real people and they're all assholes and so it's like
it's very graphic, it's very violent. It's based on a comic book.
It's yeah, yeah, it's like if superheroes were just normal people and they're
all assholes. What scary movie have you been watched? Like? Any?
I go pretty deep into just there's one that I watch called Terrified, which
is really good. Another the First Omen, which is on Hulu. That
one I watched. That one is pretty good too. Yeah, and then
I watched some South Korean one yesterday. I didn't really like this, Yeah,
he was like there was another. There was one, oh, a
Japanese one that's all subtitled, and he really liked it. I'll text you
and tell you. And then The Bear of course, new season of The
Bear. So I've been waiting because I didn't want to watch it until my
eyes felt better. But I've I've read some bad reviews. Oh no,
don't say that. Yeah, you know the first episode is really weird.
It's it's very slow. It's it's it's getting very slow. Like I got
through I think three or four episodes, and I think I was on maybe
the third episode of the fourth episode where they kind of start getting into everyone's
backstories as opposed to being in the kitchen, and I felt myself being like,
I'm kind of bored, and I just kind of stopped watching it and
I haven't gone back since. Oh no, see I had that problem in
the first season. I feel like sometimes they get a you know, they
get a little too big for their breeches. You know, they swept the
Emmys, and then they try and over then they try and you know,
you know, go a little more over the top. I don't know,
or maybe not because I'm scared. Well, I'm gonna watch it anyway.
Okay, me too, because I love that as those actors I love I
like the shell well, Jeremy Allen White, I'm so hot. Bruce Springstein.
I think he's there's this new thing. Maybe it's not even that new
where they say men are like rodent hot. Oh really, that's a new
Jeremy Allen White is supposed to be, like wrote like kind of like a
mouse face. I could see that. I could see. That's really cute.
Yeah, the little mouth, yeah, pointy nose. Yeah, like
I could see that road and hot but I like but yeah, count me
in hot. Barry Keegan is another one that's one of those rodent hot from
Sulburn. Yes, yes, yes, all right, yeah, I don't
know. I can't quite picture what I mean, but you know, rodents
are adorable. I see not in my house. So all right, killing
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