1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:11,000 Made a decis John have pace Sonny sad on, I had a vision night 2 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:23,320 week. What's up everybody? Welcome? Hey? Hell? What's up? 3 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:29,719 Kaitlin? How you doing good? What's going on? Stephanie? Should we 4 00:00:30,039 --> 00:00:35,560 uh? Should we say hi to our people? Let's say hi? Okay? 5 00:00:35,719 --> 00:00:40,840 Ashley so shak who share bear? Do you want to hurshy bar Kelly 6 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:46,439 bloody? Dah Amy is a cunt? Katie's rolling on? E not Anna 7 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:53,159 Faris. We're so abusive to these guys and they love it. Aaron who 8 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,560 is? Did I say not? Anna Ferris? Already? Leslie is a 9 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,039 costing people? Still she's a costing people and the other one coughing all the 10 00:01:00,079 --> 00:01:04,840 time. Yeah, maybe she's got the COVID probably, Nikki call you girls, 11 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:11,400 Aaron? Who is? Jacob as Growley as fuck rito? Why are 12 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,200 you so sad? Why you got a sad bass on face? Why you 13 00:01:15,239 --> 00:01:18,760 look us so sad? Why do you look us so sad? Elizabeth Williamson, 14 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,359 You've got so many kids that must be a lot of birthday presents. 15 00:01:22,599 --> 00:01:26,400 Yes, you do you do it? I know, parties, just give 16 00:01:26,439 --> 00:01:29,319 a couple of kids away. I'm stressed out, I know, really. 17 00:01:29,599 --> 00:01:34,120 Athena We love your dancing and your makeup and your Nordstrum beauty product Chanelle products. 18 00:01:34,159 --> 00:01:38,879 Yeah, Ye're still using them. Yep, Polly, we love your 19 00:01:38,879 --> 00:01:42,680 pancakes, Syrup, Bubba Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Katerina, check your moler, 20 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:46,120 Gabby and Missy. You guys are out. They were at the playoff 21 00:01:46,159 --> 00:01:53,280 games yesterday and San Francisco. Yohan vaj Pega cute Kelly Brandt will give you 22 00:01:53,359 --> 00:02:10,199 a Mento's and take you for an abortion. It's a family podcast. Alicia, 23 00:02:13,159 --> 00:02:17,159 Sarah's the Funo, Paisano, Aaron, Dirty Sanchez, Jennifer Get up, 24 00:02:17,319 --> 00:02:20,840 Sandra, It's not easy being green, Chrisa get the strap, and 25 00:02:20,879 --> 00:02:29,599 Stephanie's a stinker wrinker man has this morphed? Yes, from a parenting podcast 26 00:02:30,439 --> 00:02:35,919 to just an edgy yeah, bullshit session talking about Dirty Sanchez is an abortion? 27 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,080 Uh? Did you guys? Are you guys watching anything on TV? 28 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:51,479 Have you seen Griselda? What's that Griselda on Netflix? Blanco? You know 29 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,719 Griselda blanco Is. It's with Sophia Vergara, right, she plays her. 30 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:01,759 It's the true story of the Godmother Nark go out of Miami in the seventies. 31 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:07,360 Oh, and the series starts out with a quote and it said something 32 00:03:07,479 --> 00:03:13,000 like, I'm the only man. I'm the only man I've ever been afraid 33 00:03:13,039 --> 00:03:20,159 of is a woman named Griselda. And you know who said that, Pablo 34 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:25,599 Escobar. Really, yeah, because she's ruthless and toothless man. It's so 35 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,520 it was so it was like, and it's done by the same people that 36 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,840 did Narcos. Wow. Yeah, and I just I couldn't stop watching it. 37 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:39,639 So how many episodes? I think there's like five episodes or six? 38 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:46,439 Okay, yeah, it's good. And so Sophia Vagaro plays her. She's 39 00:03:46,479 --> 00:03:50,639 not the most in real life, she's not the most attractive woman. And 40 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:58,000 oh she's beautiful. Oh woman, No, okay, okay, the real 41 00:03:58,039 --> 00:04:03,400 woman is not attractive. She's alive, the real woman is she still? 42 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:09,879 No? No, okay, she passed away. Okay, but you gotta 43 00:04:09,919 --> 00:04:13,280 watch it. But yeah, she was like the first she was like the 44 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,839 female huge. I mean, she took over Miami and the way she did 45 00:04:17,879 --> 00:04:26,560 it was like insane. She came from meddie Ian, Colombia, and her 46 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:31,680 husband at the time was abusive and he was a narco drug dealer, so 47 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,720 she got a little like you know, she took her like a you know, 48 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:40,759 a class on it. Basically like learned how to be a drug dealer. 49 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:45,959 And then she took her kids, her three boys, moved from Colombia 50 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:53,360 to Miami and stayed with a friend, a girlfriend of hers, and then 51 00:04:53,560 --> 00:05:00,120 just basically like she brought a brick of cocaine with her from Colombia and like 52 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,920 just basically you know, started from scratch. I mean, unbelievable. How 53 00:05:04,959 --> 00:05:10,319 this woman just a business woman, a total business woman. You can't believe 54 00:05:10,319 --> 00:05:14,000 the ship she did, Like the way she started up her business was crazy. 55 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,639 Like if you think about it, like the drug business is basically a 56 00:05:18,759 --> 00:05:25,720 illegal MLM. Yeah it is. You get people under you. Those people 57 00:05:25,759 --> 00:05:30,240 are distributing like you don't make money if they don't make money, right, 58 00:05:30,399 --> 00:05:34,040 yes, and murder people, you know, like Lulu Lemon, right, 59 00:05:34,399 --> 00:05:42,000 lularu lu lu lu lulaau. How they need to separate that from Lulu Lemon. 60 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,319 I know, I know, it's it's a lyrics. People people that 61 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,759 buy Luluau are like thinking they're getting Lulu Lemon and then they're like, oh, 62 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:53,959 my leggings have like devils on it. Right, I haven't seen that 63 00:05:54,079 --> 00:06:00,439 in the I know, leggings are so like just so gaudy and so loud, 64 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,720 I know, and just so unattractive I know. And then the part 65 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,800 where they were falling apart was pretty funny. I love that documentary. That 66 00:06:09,879 --> 00:06:12,680 was one of the best. Yeah, it was really good. Yeah, 67 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:16,399 I always love a documentary when they're bagging on the person but they are talking 68 00:06:16,439 --> 00:06:20,000 to the camera, you know, like right, you know, they're not 69 00:06:20,199 --> 00:06:24,519 bagging, but they're like you know, it's like, you know, they're 70 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:29,800 basically telling the story what shysters these people are, but they're sitting right in 71 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,920 front of the camera being interviewed. You know. The thing about MLMs and 72 00:06:33,959 --> 00:06:40,480 I know we're just digressing for a minute, is I I love the idea 73 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,519 of some of them, Like I remember I really wanted to sell Stella and 74 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:48,519 Dot because I was like, I love their jewelry so but the but the 75 00:06:48,759 --> 00:06:54,079 companies themselves, it is kind of like this glorified pyramid scheme. But you 76 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,720 remember I was saying, like I think being part of a pyramid screen would 77 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,639 be would be great, Like, yeah, I want to have I want 78 00:07:00,639 --> 00:07:04,879 to do I want to be the like I don't I don't quite see the 79 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:09,480 problem. And this is where maybe I'm a bit of a sociopath, but 80 00:07:09,519 --> 00:07:12,639 I feel like, okay, at the beginning, when you're like you get 81 00:07:13,319 --> 00:07:16,560 you get ten people and they all pay you like a thousand dollars, and 82 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,959 then they get people to pay them put in a thousand dollars, right, 83 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,519 Like, I don't know, no one's going to get hurt for a while. 84 00:07:23,639 --> 00:07:27,879 Yeah, first you're going to make a bunch of money. It seems 85 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,120 really fun just to have a party. Like the way I see it is 86 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,480 like you get a couple of bottles of like Trader Joe's wine for the people 87 00:07:33,519 --> 00:07:38,279 that drink. I get, you know, some coffee and bagels. You 88 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,319 invite people over and they bring cash. Yeah, and then the problem I 89 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,079 don't understand what the problem is. It seems like it takes so long for 90 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,040 the trickle down for somebody to not get their money back. But I feel 91 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,920 like they're still going to get part of their money back. And then I 92 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:55,079 go, well, it's up to you to be a go getter and find 93 00:07:55,160 --> 00:08:01,439 more friends, right, But I remember doing the like and people still do 94 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,879 this, but the book, you know, sometimes they do this around the 95 00:08:03,879 --> 00:08:07,759 holidays, the like you go, hey, who wants to be part of 96 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,839 like a gift exchange. You buy somebody a gift that's like ten dollars or 97 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:15,279 less, and then you put your name, goes to the top of the 98 00:08:15,319 --> 00:08:18,879 list, right and then and then the person at the bottom of the list 99 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:22,160 gets the person at the top of the list to give and people get so 100 00:08:22,399 --> 00:08:26,519 mad. So when you first start doing it, you're going to get a 101 00:08:26,519 --> 00:08:31,679 bunch of gifts, and it only starts dwindling down when you kind of when 102 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:35,679 somebody doesn't have a lot of contacts and they can't get people to do it. 103 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:39,120 This is a real thing, yes, but you're only out like ten 104 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:43,440 dollars. So the whole thing is you join this thing and it's like a 105 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:48,440 it's like a chain, huh, and you you're responsible to buy one person 106 00:08:48,519 --> 00:08:50,919 a gift for ten dollars, okay, And then the way it's supposed to 107 00:08:52,039 --> 00:08:54,799 work is because you get then you get put at the top of the list, 108 00:08:54,879 --> 00:09:00,120 and it goes out. However many people join up, you could get 109 00:09:00,159 --> 00:09:03,679 like thirty five people giving you a gift, but eventually somebody's not going to 110 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:09,159 get a gift. But okay, it sounds like you got like thirty gifts 111 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,320 that are ten dollars worth ten dollars each. That just sounds like a bunch 112 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,519 of junk. Correct. Correct. And I've done it before and been like, 113 00:09:16,639 --> 00:09:20,360 Okay, now I have a bunch of like but if you have like 114 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,919 a little regifting closet, those are good for like stuff like that, right. 115 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:28,120 But the ones that are fun that people get is our books. So 116 00:09:28,159 --> 00:09:31,320 what you get somebody a book, You send them me your favorite book, 117 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,519 and then a bunch of people are going to send you books. But again, 118 00:09:33,919 --> 00:09:37,600 I don't really read that much, so I don't want a bunch of 119 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,279 random books that I'm going to have to then put in a big box and 120 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:43,840 take to the library to donate, you know. So, but it's amazing 121 00:09:43,879 --> 00:09:48,480 how offended people get. They're just like, this is a pyramid scheme. 122 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,879 It's like, okay, but who's really Are you really getting hurt that bad? 123 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:56,600 People are just offended. So my point is I don't some MLMs. 124 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,720 Yes you, I get it, and I I love watching the documentaries about 125 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:05,559 it, and I see how it can really hurt people. And but that's 126 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,279 if you get super into it and start spending all your money going to conventions 127 00:10:09,279 --> 00:10:13,559 and buying all this product. I can see how brainwashing it is when you 128 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:18,840 but I'm not an easily brainwashed person, as you know from my stories about 129 00:10:18,879 --> 00:10:22,200 almost getting involved in cults. But then I'm like, I'm too lazy. 130 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,759 I'm too lazy. I'm not going to all your empowerment stuff, like, 131 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,639 I'm just not that interested. I'd rather be home listening to a podcast, 132 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:37,559 So I'm not My thing would be, I'd probably just burn out real quick, 133 00:10:37,919 --> 00:10:39,919 like you kind of did with Rodan and Field. Yeah, and I 134 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,440 loved I still use their products. So that's the thing. It's like, 135 00:10:43,519 --> 00:10:46,320 if you like I like their products, yeah, well that's the thing. 136 00:10:46,399 --> 00:10:48,679 That's how they get you, because I'm like, well, I really like 137 00:10:48,759 --> 00:10:52,559 Stella and Dot. Like I went to some stell and Dot party that somebody 138 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,919 had. Oh I saw a friend wearing this stellan Dot necklace and I was 139 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,600 like, oh my god, that is so cute. How did you get 140 00:11:00,639 --> 00:11:03,120 it? And she said, oh, my friend sells Stella and Dot and 141 00:11:03,159 --> 00:11:03,720 I was like, I want to buy one, and she was like, 142 00:11:03,759 --> 00:11:07,639 oh, let me give you my friend's number. So I got this woman 143 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:13,840 and then she she I got the necklace. And then I had this friend 144 00:11:13,879 --> 00:11:16,120 who'd been out of work for a really long time, and I was like, 145 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:20,000 you should sell Stella and Dot. I was going to do it, 146 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,399 but the problem was is they said that I had to buy a bunch of 147 00:11:22,399 --> 00:11:26,120 the products and have parties. And I was like, well, I'm not 148 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,279 gonna have parties. I was like, but can I This was before I 149 00:11:28,399 --> 00:11:33,120 really even understood what MLMs were, right and that they're kind of toxic. 150 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,039 I was just like, oh, this is interesting. You just you So 151 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:41,360 I said, well, can I just post the products like on my Facebook 152 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,320 wall? Right? This was many years ago, and they at the time, 153 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,480 they were like, no, can't you just have to buy? No, 154 00:11:46,639 --> 00:11:50,639 because how they make their money is you buy like two hundred and fifty 155 00:11:50,639 --> 00:11:54,799 dollars worth of worth a shit Stella and Dot and then you have to you 156 00:11:54,879 --> 00:11:58,360 resell it, right, but then you have to then you have to keep 157 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,759 doing it every month, and people lose a ton of money. And I 158 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,440 get why that's bad, and I was not wanting to do that in the 159 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:11,000 first place, but if but I was like, I thought it was a 160 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,919 good idea for my friend who hadn't been working in a long time. And 161 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,480 I was like, and then I had a stellin Dot party. This is 162 00:12:16,519 --> 00:12:20,240 when I was doing Perenal Discretion, I didn't realize it was bad. So 163 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,480 I had all of my people that I had all my writers come, like 164 00:12:24,519 --> 00:12:28,600 all the writers, all people that worked on the show, and they all 165 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,840 came because they were probably scared because I was like the boss. It was 166 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,840 a terrible thing. Like in retrospect, they all came and bought my friends 167 00:12:35,879 --> 00:12:41,159 Stell and Dot stuff. Oh you know what I'm saying. Like looking back, 168 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:46,960 I'm like, oh, they all felt pressured to buy stuff because it 169 00:12:48,039 --> 00:12:52,440 was almost like getting sexually harassed. They all got kind of me too, 170 00:12:52,639 --> 00:12:58,679 but em me too, like me mlmed because they because I because they what 171 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,480 were they going to do? Go, No, I'm not going to come 172 00:13:00,519 --> 00:13:03,639 to your party, like I'm the host of the show. So now in 173 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,279 retrospect, I feel really bad. They all bought something. Yeah, but 174 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:11,200 I'm guess I'm guessing they got a nice little like you know, charm necklace 175 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,879 out of it. Yeah. I mean their stuff was really cute stuff. 176 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,279 Yeah, I remember seeing their stuff. Their stuff was so if you like 177 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:20,159 something, I can totally see why you'd be Like, let's say you love 178 00:13:20,519 --> 00:13:24,919 Lularo leggings, Right, They're like those are so cute and they are just 179 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,200 so soft. I want to sell them. But then like all your fucking 180 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:33,159 neighbors are doing it too, and then that's when they start messing with your 181 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,960 head and they're like you gotta buy more, and you have to make a 182 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,879 new and you have to get the ones that are different. And then people 183 00:13:37,879 --> 00:13:41,799 get really obsessed with right, and they lose all their money, and then 184 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,879 they lose their money and then but like where are they now? Like they 185 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,360 have to burned out? Right? Well, I listen to a lot of 186 00:13:48,399 --> 00:13:52,919 podcasts about the MLMs, and a lot of them just move on to other 187 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:58,840 MLMs, like they get really disillusioned with whatever. Let's say it's Lularo, 188 00:13:58,039 --> 00:14:03,759 and then all that anymore? Right, Oh you mean people that are doing 189 00:14:03,799 --> 00:14:05,879 it, Like yeah, they move out about companies like what you know, 190 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,799 like a stellon Dots Is that still going? I think it's still going. 191 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:16,279 Well yeah, yeah, like I guess Rodana Fields is still going. Yeah, 192 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,519 I just don't I remember there was a time where on Facebook there was 193 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:22,759 a constant like you know, my you know, my my aunt is doing 194 00:14:22,799 --> 00:14:26,679 this new company, you know, blah blah blah, Like you know, 195 00:14:26,879 --> 00:14:30,279 anybody want to join up. Like you don't see that as much anymore. 196 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,759 I feel like they burnt out. But sadly, I always felt like I'd 197 00:14:33,799 --> 00:14:37,519 be good at sales. You would be good at sales, I know, 198 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,639 And that didn't seem that negative to me because I'm like, I think if 199 00:14:41,679 --> 00:14:46,919 I was in sales, you know, I would just be going out networking 200 00:14:46,919 --> 00:14:50,080 all But like I say that first, if I was actually doing it, 201 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:52,919 I'm sure it would be a I would be like a god night would come 202 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,200 and you'd be like, wait, I gotta go where Yeah exactly, watch 203 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:01,080 bactly. But the idea of it's like my eye are bigger than my stride. 204 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,960 I think a lot of jobs sound fun, right, like I think, 205 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,960 see being a lawyer sounds really fun. But I'm sure if I does 206 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:11,600 sound fun, first I'd have to, you know, go to college. 207 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:16,559 Then i'd have to go to law school. Then i'd have to be like 208 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:20,279 work for lawyers, Like I'd have to bring them their coffee and I'd be 209 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,799 like, I'm sixty, I'm not bringing you ship, you know, and 210 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,039 then they you know, what I thought would be fun is if you know, 211 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:30,879 we we joke around about starting a cult, like we should start a 212 00:15:30,919 --> 00:15:33,279 cult. It sounds like so much work. Oh my god. What about 213 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:39,039 if we did like a reverse cult where people came to us and told us 214 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:45,480 what to do? That is genius, Like yeah, like you can't like 215 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,240 I don't my wardrobe, yes, we don't pay for it, and I 216 00:15:48,279 --> 00:15:52,879 need to update my wardrobe. So let's have you guys tell me what what's 217 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,919 cool out there? Get me like, you know, you guys come to 218 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,919 me with new wardrobe, like a reverse right right right, you come to 219 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,759 my house and try to brainwash me into tell me where I'm getting a better 220 00:16:03,799 --> 00:16:07,039 wardrobe? Yes, tell me how to like wear the you know how to 221 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:11,919 cook? Like, tell me how a healthy way of cooking? Yeah, 222 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:17,519 tell me? You know you people tell us what to do to reverse cult. 223 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:22,519 Well, instead of us being in charge of it, in charge of 224 00:16:22,639 --> 00:16:26,879 your mental health. Yeah, they're always preachy telling you like you know who 225 00:16:26,919 --> 00:16:30,519 to marry or you know what, you know what to do, like constantly 226 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:34,200 like we need somebody telling us what to do. Yeah yeah, well I 227 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:38,840 kind of do feel like our podcast is a what not to do podcast. 228 00:16:38,919 --> 00:16:45,360 It's like, do not come to us like we're just making mistakes and sharing 229 00:16:45,399 --> 00:16:52,120 them with you. We're not. We have no advice, none, except 230 00:16:52,159 --> 00:16:56,200 for starting how to start a reverse cult. I feel like Kaylin, like, 231 00:16:56,279 --> 00:16:59,399 now Kaylan has little kids, and I mean, I'm sure that you 232 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:03,159 don't ever think about anything Lynette and I have ever said and go like, 233 00:17:03,279 --> 00:17:06,519 I'm so glad I worked on a parenting pipe. Well that's very funny because 234 00:17:06,559 --> 00:17:07,200 people were laughing, like, oh, what do you do for a living? 235 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,319 I go, I produce podcasts? They go, what about? I 236 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:15,720 go, well, it's a parenting podcast. But it's like, you know, 237 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,359 not like serious, Like it's like it's kind of like what not to 238 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:23,200 do. It's like a relax It's like a relaxed yeah podcast, It's like 239 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:29,519 very relaxed. It's like, if you don't like breastfeeding, don't do it. 240 00:17:29,559 --> 00:17:34,440 We exactly right. We got no tips, right, no, no, 241 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:40,720 yeah, see you've never taken any of our tips. There's there's grains 242 00:17:41,079 --> 00:17:42,359 in there every once in a while. Yeah, you drop a good one 243 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:45,160 every once in a while. Like you know, if you go on a 244 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,480 long road trip, just go to the dollar store and buy like a bunch 245 00:17:47,519 --> 00:17:48,960 of little ones and then you can just hand them out like handy throughout the 246 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:52,839 trip. So there's little tips in there every now I go, okay, 247 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,480 well that makes me feel better. Yeah. We're like, here's a tip 248 00:17:55,519 --> 00:17:59,440 when your kids ask for just never say no. It's so much easier. 249 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,279 Bend to your child's will, like they know, they probably know best. 250 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:07,119 Yeah, exactly. Put them in front of a TV if they want ice 251 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:08,880 cream for breakfast, like, let them follow what they want, Like that's 252 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,880 it's their body. Like you got to respect them, right, respect their 253 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:19,799 wishes. Yeah, I'll never forget talking about that. When Sadie was, 254 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:25,519 I was like, this was back in blogging days and I Sadie was, 255 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:29,400 you know, she didn't eat and this she was on a feeding tube. 256 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,000 And I remember right before she was on a feeding tube. I mean she 257 00:18:32,079 --> 00:18:34,640 was a little baby. Well, no, she was probably on the feeding 258 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:38,559 tube. An my stories today are like I think it was this, No, 259 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,079 it was this? No was this? And everyone's like who cares? 260 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:47,960 The bottom line is that I was trying to get Sadie to eat and she 261 00:18:48,079 --> 00:18:52,079 was saying no to everything, and I would just be like anything, Like 262 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:56,119 I was always trying to get her to eat high caloric content foods. I 263 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,640 had a nutritionist, right. They would go shopping with me to Trader Joe's 264 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:03,160 and we would look at labels. Patricia Novak, that's her name. She 265 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,599 doesn't do this anymore, but she was like a mom. She was so 266 00:19:07,799 --> 00:19:11,839 she was my favorite of all the therapists I had. She literally we went 267 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:14,839 to Trader Joe's together and she was like, Okay, here's what we look 268 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:18,279 for. We want this amount of calorie. You want the biggest amount of 269 00:19:18,319 --> 00:19:23,039 calories for your per bite. Because Sadie would eat like a bite of food 270 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:30,640 and then be done. So I remember telling a story about just letting her 271 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,119 have ice cream for breakfast because she wanted it was the only thing that she 272 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:36,880 would eat. She wanted to eat the only thing that sounded good to her. 273 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,920 And I was like, well better than nothing. Sure, I mean 274 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:44,039 a scoop ice cream. It's got calcium, it's got like some fat, 275 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:45,880 you know. So yeah, I gave her a big bowl ice cream and 276 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,079 let her eat it. And she didn't. I'm sure she didn't even finish 277 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:53,359 that. Who didn't finish? I was just listening to your book about it 278 00:19:53,559 --> 00:19:56,640 sneading, and yeah, I'm like, you know, need to sneak sure 279 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:02,440 for breakfast. I remember how much backlash I got though from people that were 280 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,160 like, that's terrible. What are you teaching or you're gonna teach her? 281 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:10,599 You know? And I was like, how fuck? I know, like 282 00:20:10,799 --> 00:20:15,720 I'm sharing with you. Yes, I know, I'm not suggesting that everybody 283 00:20:15,799 --> 00:20:19,720 give their kids ice cream for breakfast. I'm telling you that I'm struggling right 284 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,480 right, I know. And even if I did, like, people just 285 00:20:22,559 --> 00:20:26,559 don't. Like. I think a lot of times people just see what they 286 00:20:26,599 --> 00:20:30,240 want to see and they're not really paying attention to what you're actually saying, 287 00:20:30,759 --> 00:20:33,440 Like, they're not really they just see ice cream for breakfast and then they 288 00:20:33,599 --> 00:20:36,839 you know, and they're mad. Yeah, they get mad. Thank god 289 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,240 it was but pre Reddit days, I think, yeah, people could like 290 00:20:40,799 --> 00:20:45,799 make Reddit posts about it, right, could you imagine fucking losing? People 291 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,039 just want to be mad? Yeah, let's take a let's take a break. 292 00:20:49,519 --> 00:20:56,680 What were we talking about? People and Reddit? And hey, oh 293 00:20:56,799 --> 00:20:59,559 that people want to be upset? I just people want to get yeah, 294 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:04,519 pissed off. Yeah. My friend Bonnie Bonnie McFarlane who has a podcast called 295 00:21:04,519 --> 00:21:11,440 My Wife Hates Me with her husband. That's really funny. She was on 296 00:21:11,559 --> 00:21:14,839 another podcast. She was just telling me this story this morning. She's on 297 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:19,400 another podcast and she said she made the comment and she's a comedian, like 298 00:21:19,599 --> 00:21:25,480 she was being funny, but also just she said, I don't think being 299 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:29,200 a mom is as hard as like some people make it out to be. 300 00:21:29,759 --> 00:21:33,359 That was her comment. But then she was trying to be funny by saying, 301 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:37,720 like at the beginning, it's basically like having a potato and you know, 302 00:21:37,839 --> 00:21:45,039 she was just talking about and people went crazy. Why crazy? Uh, 303 00:21:45,319 --> 00:21:51,880 Like because the person whose podcast it was and I can't remember who put 304 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:56,519 it out as a clip, just that part, and because people just want 305 00:21:56,559 --> 00:21:59,920 to be so mad. It's like, why are you so mad that she 306 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,279 read that it's not as hard as people make like, Okay, if it 307 00:22:03,319 --> 00:22:08,799 was hard for there's so many podcasts and myself included to tell you that parenting 308 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,599 is hard and you can feel like you relate. But one person comes along 309 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,039 and goes, that wasn't really that hard for me, and you're gonna be 310 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:19,079 that mad? Yeah, I don't get a comment after comment, somebody told 311 00:22:19,079 --> 00:22:26,079 her basically that she should like kill herself. Oh my god, what is 312 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:30,839 wrong? I don't know why do people get so mad? I don't, 313 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:34,279 I don't, I don't. I have no idea, but I think that 314 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:41,160 people want to, like with social media and like people think that they everybody 315 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,119 wants to hear their opinion. You know, they feel like they can comment. 316 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,000 Now you can comment about anything now, you know, so like you 317 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:52,960 know, before you can never talk to these people like I'm radio or TV. 318 00:22:52,279 --> 00:22:56,880 But now they you know, you piss them off. They think, 319 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,480 oh, they're going to read it, so I'm gonna give them a piece 320 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:03,640 of my mind, right, you know. And it's like not really like 321 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:08,279 you're like, there's just there's just some people like that I think they know 322 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,559 like with you know, like with my divorce, Like people just think they 323 00:23:11,599 --> 00:23:17,720 know everything. All the comments that Adam is made throughout the year must be 324 00:23:17,799 --> 00:23:21,680 true in real life. You know. It's like like really, you know, 325 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,759 and they just that's got to be so hard, Like what do you 326 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:30,160 do about that? Because I have read some of the comments about you that 327 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,519 are because I won't read comments about myself because that was my feeling is I'll 328 00:23:33,559 --> 00:23:38,720 read them about you. But I'm like these people are insane, Like the 329 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:45,519 thoughts that they have from like ah, there's a nanny right, like you 330 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:51,039 know nothing about it and it's so far in the feud, like your kids 331 00:23:51,079 --> 00:23:56,039 are turning eighteen years old, right, like and everybody's fine, yes, 332 00:23:56,039 --> 00:23:59,359 but like you're stuck in this old but like, how do you even do 333 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,119 just not read? You read some of that? Oh yeah, I mean 334 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,519 so crazy and just from reality. I read it and some of it, 335 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:11,200 yeah, like some there's some of it, like you know, that are 336 00:24:11,279 --> 00:24:15,559 just just redundant, like oh my gosh, she does to go see Bruce 337 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,839 Ringstein and blah blah blah. It's like, wow, that's all I know. 338 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:26,000 That's just every weekend, Bruce. Yeah, yeah, you nailed it. 339 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,039 That's it. Yeah, that's all I do is just spend money, 340 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,799 and the nanny raises the kids, and it's like they just they because and 341 00:24:33,839 --> 00:24:37,799 you have twelve broken back right right right? All these people have ever But 342 00:24:37,799 --> 00:24:41,279 but the thing is I don't feel I don't know because I haven't listened to 343 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:47,200 Adam's podcast, But would he say like the nanny's raising the kids or Lynette's 344 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,720 never with the kids? No, he because you're always with your kids, 345 00:24:49,799 --> 00:24:55,720 right, But because like he would say, he would talk about Olga or 346 00:24:55,759 --> 00:24:59,799 whatever, or he'd say like yeah, he would complain that like he's on 347 00:24:59,839 --> 00:25:03,279 the road working and I took the kids to Disneyland. It's like, well, 348 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,440 shoot me, like I'm alone with the kids for the weekend, like 349 00:25:06,519 --> 00:25:08,279 I'm going to do something with them, or I took them when he's home. 350 00:25:08,319 --> 00:25:11,079 It's not like he would be like, let's take the kids to Disneyland 351 00:25:11,839 --> 00:25:15,079 to be there for that, right, No, exactly, yes, right 352 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,559 right? So like who's going to take the kids to Disneyland? Like so 353 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,559 anybody that's taking their kids to Disneyland is like, oh great, your husband 354 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,559 works and you took your kids to Disneyland, right, And so he would 355 00:25:26,599 --> 00:25:29,200 say, like, you know, he would make jokes like you know, 356 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,960 when I come home, I see you running in place and stuff like that, 357 00:25:32,079 --> 00:25:37,839 or you know, I mean he would like make jokes or exaggerate or 358 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,279 whatever like because like he said, radio it's radio talk or whatever, like 359 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:47,240 radio talk it's radio talk. Right, So but people literally take it like 360 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,720 his word like you know, well he said it, He's been saying it. 361 00:25:49,759 --> 00:25:55,559 That's what he says, you know, Like it's just it's insane that 362 00:25:55,599 --> 00:26:00,240 people just really truly believe, like they just make up the scenario in their 363 00:26:00,279 --> 00:26:03,559 head that they think they know and it's like, no, you don't fucking 364 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,799 know, like you weren't fucking there, you know, like you were you 365 00:26:07,839 --> 00:26:12,400 guys don't have any clue, right, you know. I think that like 366 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:17,759 has Adam ever said, oh, Linette has a burken bag? Because I 367 00:26:17,759 --> 00:26:21,200 don't know where they all get this idea that you're buying like fancy that you're 368 00:26:21,279 --> 00:26:23,400 like out that you're like a real housewife of Beverly Hills. I think that 369 00:26:23,519 --> 00:26:29,200 some people took it seriously. I think that somebody heard some for crying out 370 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,799 loud about us joking about burken bags, and it's like, nope, I 371 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,839 heard it. She said it, and it's like that's what I'm saying. 372 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,119 Adam says something and it's like, well he said it, you know what 373 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:45,279 I mean. People don't understand context, They don't understand. They just they 374 00:26:45,319 --> 00:26:49,440 want to believe a scenario in their head, you know, lazy wife that 375 00:26:49,799 --> 00:26:53,680 you know whatever, or just doesn't doesn't cook, doesn't clean or whatever. 376 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,839 It's like that's what they want to That's what they want to believe. Is 377 00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:02,519 somebody that they're listening to that that this character that he's created, you know, 378 00:27:02,559 --> 00:27:04,599 he's created a caricature, you know what I mean, Right, And 379 00:27:04,599 --> 00:27:12,119 it's like they like it's ridiculous to say like I'd never worked or I am 380 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:17,200 Like all I did was just spend money and like that. You know, 381 00:27:18,079 --> 00:27:22,359 Uh, the only time I would spend money is once in a while if 382 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:26,440 I traveled, like I would want to, you know, go somewhere with 383 00:27:26,519 --> 00:27:30,319 the kids or whatever. That's it because the kid we never took family vacations. 384 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,200 I mean we we took like two years in a row we went to 385 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:37,079 Hawaii because other people went, not just us, but as far as us 386 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:41,039 four going on a family vacation, we never did, you know, and 387 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,559 it was always Adam was working whatever. But like I would do that with 388 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,000 my family, go meet them. I'd take the kids. You know. 389 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,160 It's like the fact that all I do is spend money. But who it's 390 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,519 so weird that you would have to defend that. Like nobody else that's such 391 00:27:55,519 --> 00:28:00,279 a podcast thing, right, right, Like nobody would be like I can't 392 00:28:00,279 --> 00:28:03,279 believe how much but Melinda Gates, Why how come she's not working? Right? 393 00:28:03,599 --> 00:28:07,799 Oh, all she does is give money to like charities and like travel, 394 00:28:07,079 --> 00:28:12,279 right, nobody, it's only if the guy had a podcast, right 395 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:17,200 right. It's just it's such a weird concept that you would care that much 396 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:21,240 about what somebody else's what somebody's wife is doing. I I know, I 397 00:28:21,279 --> 00:28:25,599 don't. I guess it's because they think they know him and they know us 398 00:28:25,799 --> 00:28:29,920 or whatever, and it's like they don't. They don't, they don't. 399 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,400 They they don't even have any idea what really goes on. Like it's just 400 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,000 but I don't care, like it doesn't. I mean, yeah, of 401 00:28:37,039 --> 00:28:41,000 course there's like some you know, comments or whatever. I really don't read 402 00:28:41,039 --> 00:28:45,680 him that much, but but there are like just there's like this, there's 403 00:28:45,759 --> 00:28:48,279 this, there's like just some people and that's you could see it's the same 404 00:28:48,319 --> 00:28:52,559 person over and over and over, that's beating the same drum for years. 405 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,759 You know. It's like, dude, get a fucking life. By the 406 00:28:55,759 --> 00:28:59,880 way, this is all you do. Like it's just dissect you know, 407 00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:03,559 like people's lives and think, you know, you know what I mean. 408 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,000 It's like it's pathetic, like do you, like, my god, don't 409 00:29:07,039 --> 00:29:11,039 you have anything else to do? Is don't get it. I find it 410 00:29:11,079 --> 00:29:12,799 a bit amusing actually, I mean, don't get me wrong, it does 411 00:29:12,839 --> 00:29:15,799 suck when people are going after you and attacking you and whatnot. But being 412 00:29:15,839 --> 00:29:21,400 on multiple shows and seeing multiple comments over the years. I always find it 413 00:29:21,519 --> 00:29:26,200 super funny when you see that, like really hardcore fan that is so sure 414 00:29:26,279 --> 00:29:30,400 that this is what's happening behind the scenes and these people and he's telling all 415 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,720 the other fans know this is how it happened. And I just read it 416 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:37,720 knowing what's happening, knowing what happened, and it's just so wrong and so 417 00:29:37,839 --> 00:29:40,559 off face. I just laugh at it. Right, You're such an idiot, 418 00:29:40,599 --> 00:29:42,640 You're just wasting your time. Was You're so sure that this is what's 419 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,519 happening, and it couldn't be farther from the truth. Right now, it's 420 00:29:45,559 --> 00:29:48,960 kind of amusing if you look at it that way, like, yes, 421 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,599 you just couldn't be more wrong. But yeah, whatever, I do get 422 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,400 amused. I do get it. It's like, take Giovanni, Okay, 423 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,920 when we were talking about him, I think, off the air, Giovanni 424 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,759 has been listening Adam. You know, he's since he was a kid. 425 00:30:02,839 --> 00:30:06,119 You know, he didn't have I don't know, I think he didn't have 426 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:11,200 much parents growing up whatever, So you know, Adam became like a father 427 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,799 figure to him, listening to him all the time religiously, and then he 428 00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:19,039 would listen to the morning show that Adam, the morning radio show that Adam 429 00:30:19,079 --> 00:30:26,359 did, and he I remember one time, like Adam and Bill Simmons because 430 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,400 I love Bill Simmons. I thought he was funny. Bill would come on 431 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,440 Adam's morning show and all they did was break down fucking karate kid, you 432 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:37,519 know. And I so I called in because I would listen to the morning 433 00:30:37,559 --> 00:30:41,960 show when the kids were little, making him breakfast and stuff. So I 434 00:30:41,039 --> 00:30:45,599 called in. I was like, enough with the fucking karate kid talk like 435 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,079 I want to hear Bill Simmons talk, like can we like enough you guys 436 00:30:48,079 --> 00:30:55,160 with the fucking karate kid and fucking Geovanni lost his ship. He like posted 437 00:30:55,200 --> 00:31:00,480 on who the fuck does she think she is calling a fuck? We are 438 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,359 hardcore fans and we love the karate kid talking blah blah. Fuck her and 439 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,599 her fucking entitled life and love blah. God he went off Giovanney Ivanni, 440 00:31:08,839 --> 00:31:12,599 I know, and then dude, I know. But then fast forward like 441 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:19,039 a year later, we did a charity event, Shakespear charity event for Shakespeare 442 00:31:19,039 --> 00:31:23,839 Festival at LA and he flew out for the event because he wanted to meet 443 00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:29,319 Adam. And I went and introduced myself and I was like, hey, 444 00:31:29,319 --> 00:31:30,839 I know, I know that, I'm I know you're my biggest fan. 445 00:31:32,079 --> 00:31:34,279 So I had to come over and say hi, you know. And after 446 00:31:34,359 --> 00:31:40,240 that we've been like very close, Like I love the kid. He sends 447 00:31:40,279 --> 00:31:42,519 emails to me once in a while, like telling us how great that she's 448 00:31:42,559 --> 00:31:47,279 probably gonna get an email after this show, like how great the show was, 449 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:52,400 Like he loves me. I love him like I adore him, and 450 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:56,319 it's like, okay, you see like once you get to meet you know 451 00:31:56,359 --> 00:32:00,799 what I mean. But in his brain it was like this fucking bitch ruined 452 00:32:00,319 --> 00:32:06,079 the bit. I love that bit. It's like, you know, you 453 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,640 think people think they know who they and I was used to be like that. 454 00:32:09,759 --> 00:32:13,160 I used to listen to Kevin and Bean in the morning and I used 455 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,599 to hear like their wives call it and be like, oh god. But 456 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,880 then I met then I met Adam, and then I met Kevin and Bean 457 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,359 and I met their wives, and I was like, you could not be 458 00:32:22,799 --> 00:32:24,680 furthest from my what I thought you were. You know what I mean, 459 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:30,960 right right? So you know, I just people think that they they Yeah, 460 00:32:30,119 --> 00:32:32,920 I don't know why I get all the shit. I guess it's because 461 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:38,160 Adam is portrayed me as you know, this caricature like narrative, you know, 462 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:43,799 and people took it literally, you know, like out of context literal 463 00:32:44,279 --> 00:32:47,759 like you know, and uh, but it's just like interesting to me that 464 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,240 some of the things they say on Reddit. I don't read it that often, 465 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:57,720 but every once in a while when I do, it's like if you 466 00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,960 even look at what they're saying, like maybe they're reporting that like you took 467 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:07,400 the kids to go see colleges or whatever that you're like, uh, traveling, 468 00:33:07,799 --> 00:33:09,519 Oh, she took her kids here. But it's like, how is 469 00:33:09,759 --> 00:33:15,720 that neg Like how is that not parenting? Are you taking the kids on 470 00:33:15,799 --> 00:33:21,160 a college visit? Which is what every fucking normal period does when their kids 471 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:27,359 are looking at college, and Adam's not taking the kids to look at college? 472 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,440 But how does Adam? How's he the winner? How are you the 473 00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:36,559 anti hero? Right? Because I don't get I know. I Reddit is 474 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,039 especially rough too, Like I love Reddit, I go on Reddit all the 475 00:33:40,079 --> 00:33:43,359 time, but when it comes to all the shows that I work on, 476 00:33:43,559 --> 00:33:46,039 like I won't I won't go to any threads on any shows that I work 477 00:33:46,079 --> 00:33:50,079 on. It's just it's especially rough. On Reddit, and there was even 478 00:33:50,119 --> 00:33:52,799 like a thread I made some like minor mistake when I first started working for 479 00:33:52,839 --> 00:33:55,480 Adam years ago, and I remember the next day it was like, why 480 00:33:55,519 --> 00:34:00,880 isn't this kid fired already? Like you know what I'm it's best to just 481 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,119 stay off redit when it comes to yeah fan comment. So I don't even 482 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,519 bother with that anymore, but I still used read it all the time. 483 00:34:06,599 --> 00:34:08,519 Yeah. No, I won't read anything that has to do with f cool 484 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:15,800 because mostly it's it's being yeah, it's about my child. So if I 485 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:20,599 see F cool, I just hide, like I don't. I don't look 486 00:34:20,599 --> 00:34:22,880 at any of that. But it's it's only because every once in a while 487 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:29,000 I want to see if somebody figured out something, right, which is the 488 00:34:29,039 --> 00:34:32,039 reason we were talking about Giovanni, right, Yeah, he figured out something 489 00:34:32,039 --> 00:34:37,679 that we were talking about in Patreon last week. Yeah, so just so 490 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:42,119 he knows, he's probably listening. We were all talking about how much we 491 00:34:42,159 --> 00:34:45,119 adored Giovanni before the shift started, how much we love oh yeah, it 492 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,119 was no, he's always complimentary, you know. I was just saying how 493 00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:53,760 funny it was that he immediately he wrote a Patreon comment that I screenshot and 494 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,199 said to Lynette because she doesn't go on our Patreon page. And I was 495 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,119 like, oh gosh. He was like he there's a list of who I 496 00:35:00,159 --> 00:35:05,360 think she's talking about, and this one in particular is who I'm pretty sure 497 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,320 it is. And I was like, how did he do that? That's 498 00:35:08,519 --> 00:35:15,719 crazy and made some pretty funny jokes about like one of them I forgot being 499 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:20,159 John Taylor from Duran Duran like he really yeah. He was just like, 500 00:35:20,199 --> 00:35:23,440 Okay, I'm just being a dick, and then but he yeah, yeah. 501 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:30,599 It is interesting crazy how people dissect somebody on Reddit. Once let's take 502 00:35:30,639 --> 00:35:35,280 a quick break. I will tell you somebody on Reddit was like spent a 503 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:39,400 long time, this was a while ago dissecting how much money I make and 504 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:45,679 how much what jot like, And I was like, that is very interesting 505 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:51,159 that somebody would care enough about, like in a negative way, be that 506 00:35:51,519 --> 00:35:54,519 like what to try to figure out every what how I make money? Like 507 00:35:54,920 --> 00:36:00,400 who cares? I know you care? Well, like who has the time 508 00:36:00,519 --> 00:36:02,519 to do all this? I have no idea, Like who has the time 509 00:36:02,559 --> 00:36:07,920 to just be investigating or you know, thinking, you know, all these 510 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,079 comments, all these looking into people's lives, thinking that like how do you 511 00:36:10,079 --> 00:36:14,360 have the time to do all that? Right, you don't. I don't 512 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,599 get it, especially if it's negative, if it's hateful, because I could 513 00:36:17,639 --> 00:36:22,920 not survive if I was so full of resentment about people that I listened to, 514 00:36:22,199 --> 00:36:25,719 Right, I don't really hate listen to anything. No, I if 515 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:30,400 I'm going to follow somebody like like I like them, right, and then 516 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:35,039 I want what's I want to support them or want things to go well for 517 00:36:35,119 --> 00:36:37,320 them, like I would never be actively just like, god, I hate 518 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:43,760 this person and I never miss an episode. Yeah, I know, God, 519 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,000 I don't get it. I just don't. And then that sounds like 520 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:52,559 that that scene in Private Parts where they're they're talking about Howard Stern and they're 521 00:36:52,599 --> 00:36:54,280 like, well, how long does the person who likes Howard Stern? Oh 522 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,320 they listen for an average of like an hour and a half. Well how 523 00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,880 long does the person who hate Howard Stern? Oh? Well they listened for 524 00:37:00,079 --> 00:37:04,960 three and a half hours, right, right? Yeah, that's so interesting. 525 00:37:05,519 --> 00:37:08,719 Yeah, it's just bizarre. And also like how fast Like when our 526 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:13,679 divorce was like it was just all of a sudden, it was like it's 527 00:37:13,679 --> 00:37:16,760 like sign the papers and then and then there was like online like how fast 528 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:22,960 it hit, you know, so are people try like are people looking for 529 00:37:22,079 --> 00:37:27,519 court documents or I think are they? Or is it just because somebody reports 530 00:37:27,559 --> 00:37:30,159 it in the news, somebody whose job it is to look at court documents? 531 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,679 Like, how do they can't find out that? I think that there's 532 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:37,400 from what I was told that there's people that like that work at the courthouse 533 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:40,960 that that put it out there as soon as they find out it's out. 534 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,599 But then, like, I'm sure there is, I mean with every yeah, 535 00:37:45,679 --> 00:37:50,559 I mean there has to be people just wanting making all this information public. 536 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:52,920 Yeah, yeah, there has to be a bunch of people working on 537 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:59,400 that. Yeah. I'm just not sure why people care. I know, 538 00:37:59,519 --> 00:38:04,360 I don't if they don't care about the divorce, I'm sure that's interesting to 539 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:08,360 them or whatever, how much money you're getting whatever, but like to be 540 00:38:08,599 --> 00:38:13,800 so invested in it that you've determined like what Adam's should exact, what you 541 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,000 should do, and like how is this fair? And then and then they 542 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,880 get shit wrong all the time, you know, like, ash, you's 543 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,199 getting this much and that it's like no, you know, it's like and 544 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:28,559 by the way, why can't people really like understand I don't know I don't 545 00:38:28,559 --> 00:38:30,920 want to get too much into it, but they just they don't I think, 546 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:35,800 well, not so much the sleuthing or looking into the info, but 547 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:39,599 they're kind of being angry and the rage listening and the rage comments. You 548 00:38:39,639 --> 00:38:44,480 know, I know how much you two love your boyfriend al but I'm afraid 549 00:38:44,559 --> 00:38:47,599 that in today's world, it's the algorithms that are just feeding. You know, 550 00:38:47,679 --> 00:38:52,039 as soon as they hate post a comment, the algorithm goes, oh, 551 00:38:52,159 --> 00:38:54,079 they are engaging with this call, I'm going to give them more of 552 00:38:54,119 --> 00:38:58,639 this, So they just get fed more and more things that make them angry 553 00:38:58,639 --> 00:39:04,920 and want to argue. So it's just feeding back into them doing that and 554 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:12,480 it's just like a cycle, right yeah. But like people will get like 555 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,559 on Reddit, I've seen like they get they get ship wrong all the time. 556 00:39:15,639 --> 00:39:22,719 And the worst part I I did, but yes, well I'm like 557 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,800 for me, like for what what you know? With me and Adam they 558 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,880 get they get shipped wrong all the time. But then what I love is 559 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,559 the other idiots that go, oh really, I didn't know that she had 560 00:39:32,119 --> 00:39:36,559 a collection. I didn't know that. Oh wow, that's even me, 561 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,360 Yeah, like you what what? And then it gets going like oh, 562 00:39:40,679 --> 00:39:44,679 then it just becomes a thing. It's like, you know, and then 563 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:49,639 the soul cliche of the Springsteen and then like yeah, do you guys have 564 00:39:49,679 --> 00:39:52,360 anything else? Funny kids? Like does anybody go to concerts? Like it's 565 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:57,480 just such a weird thing to latch onto that. Oh my Godlinette went to 566 00:39:57,559 --> 00:40:01,840 another concerts, Like many regular people and not that you're not a regular person, 567 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:07,639 but many everyday people that don't have podcasts go to a lot of concerts. 568 00:40:07,679 --> 00:40:09,159 Not that you go to a lot of concerts, but you have one 569 00:40:09,159 --> 00:40:14,519 particular artist that think to me, it's just like I don't even understand how 570 00:40:14,559 --> 00:40:17,679 that's like a know, oh my god, she went to another Bruce Springsteen 571 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:22,159 concert. It's like, okay, so you I guess you never know, 572 00:40:22,679 --> 00:40:24,480 you never leave your house, you never like, to me, that's not 573 00:40:24,599 --> 00:40:29,079 that much different than if it was like she went to Magic Mountain again. 574 00:40:29,159 --> 00:40:31,920 It's like, oh, I know, okay, I know, yeah, 575 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:38,559 she likes roller coasters. God crucify her, I know. And that's the 576 00:40:38,599 --> 00:40:42,599 thing, Like it goes back to like Adam, you know, like one 577 00:40:42,679 --> 00:40:45,239 time he said something and it's like they will never for you know. It's 578 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:51,119 like she took them kids to Catalina Island while I was working, you know, 579 00:40:51,199 --> 00:40:52,559 and then that was like that was it, you know, like all 580 00:40:52,559 --> 00:40:55,719 she does is go to Catalina Island or you know. I mean, it's 581 00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:00,400 just it's so like, do you guys not have a brain? Do you 582 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:05,920 not like really like think about like but or they don't care a shit. 583 00:41:06,039 --> 00:41:08,400 They're just they're just you know, they like the sound of their own you 584 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:12,960 know, right, and they like to read their own shit and raw things 585 00:41:13,039 --> 00:41:15,360 up like I don't know, Oh, they all think you're like addicted to 586 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:20,360 vicodin still, right, that's another thing. Yes, I didn't even know 587 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,800 this one. This is to fcl in like twelve years because like that's real 588 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:30,880 old news. And also the idea that you can't say anything like I think 589 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:37,280 for me, it is especially about like my children, you know, like 590 00:41:37,679 --> 00:41:42,800 if you don't know better at the beginning, then to go through things like 591 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:46,840 you have been very honest about things, right, and I have been very 592 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:51,000 honest about things, and then you start to realize, oh, I guess 593 00:41:51,039 --> 00:41:54,039 I can't talk about that because you're just going to use it against me forever 594 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:58,400 exactly, which is and I mean the thing is, I don't I don't 595 00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,280 care because I don't read it. The reason I don't talk about like Xander 596 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:06,559 anymore obviously is because now he's a full on teenager living his own life and 597 00:42:06,599 --> 00:42:10,480 that's none of anybody's business. But it's like, it's sad that we can't 598 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:15,679 share about things openly for fear of people coming after you for things that are 599 00:42:16,079 --> 00:42:22,960 human right, the human condition, And if we can't like talk about these 600 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,679 things, then nobody can feel better and nobody can feel less alone. We're 601 00:42:25,679 --> 00:42:29,880 not allowed to you know, I guess you're not allowed to share that you 602 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,360 had a problem with vik it in, which is a very fucking normal thing 603 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:38,079 that happens to a ton of people because people see it asn't are gonna like, 604 00:42:38,199 --> 00:42:42,159 yeah, use it against you. Yeah, I know. And it's 605 00:42:42,199 --> 00:42:45,880 like sad, I did that mental illness Happy Hour like so many years ago, 606 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:50,880 and I'm like, was proud of that episode because I was so honest 607 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:54,719 about everything and what I went through. And it's like, you never leave 608 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:59,519 now on Reddit. You know, it's apparently still going on to this day 609 00:42:59,599 --> 00:43:04,480 that I'm hopping pills, you know, So even if you were the fact 610 00:43:04,519 --> 00:43:08,840 that you're talking about it should be comforting to people that you know, we're 611 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:13,079 all going through. Like all these people that are on Reddit, are they 612 00:43:13,159 --> 00:43:15,599 I guess their lives are pretty magical. They're making a lot of money, 613 00:43:16,119 --> 00:43:22,519 they are raised their perfect parents, like they're they've never experienced, like they 614 00:43:22,519 --> 00:43:25,559 haven't ever had any thing go on with their kids, or their kids struggle 615 00:43:25,599 --> 00:43:30,360 in school or like nothing. They must be living these amazing lives that they 616 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,400 can like. But that's why I don't. Yeah, that's why I don't 617 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,400 read it very often. It's so negative. I was had a Facebook post 618 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:45,760 for my CBS appearance and like, of course, so many people incredibly supportive. 619 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:50,039 I've been overwhelmed by the amount of people that are telling me how much 620 00:43:50,079 --> 00:43:53,039 they love the book, and they just being so nice. So I'm not 621 00:43:53,079 --> 00:43:57,719 trying to be somebody that's like the one comment. It's just funny though, 622 00:43:58,159 --> 00:44:02,199 that somebody on my personal Facebook wall I on my CBS thing, I was 623 00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,400 like, don't look at my arms because I was like, oh my gosh, 624 00:44:06,519 --> 00:44:10,199 my arms, I'm getting old. But whatever, some guy wrote like, 625 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:20,159 oh uh something about my her woke political takes or something her he called 626 00:44:20,159 --> 00:44:24,239 me woke, said that I look sixty four. What they age shamed me, 627 00:44:24,599 --> 00:44:28,559 or like they look shamed me said that, oh yeah, you don't, 628 00:44:28,639 --> 00:44:30,920 let you look sixty four or something and you have shitty, like woke 629 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:37,079 political takes. Okay, that's fine, Oh my god. They're a follower 630 00:44:37,159 --> 00:44:40,920 of mine on my book, Like, so the thing is you follow me 631 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,639 and obviously listen, must listen to the podcast to hear my woke political takes 632 00:44:45,679 --> 00:44:51,800 because on the CBS News I didn't talk about politics at all, Right, 633 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:59,599 so you hate me because I'm woke woke, So I was like, woke 634 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:06,159 me, like I care about oppressed people, like I don't know what, 635 00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:09,960 like what take in particular do you disagree with? And also you're like, 636 00:45:10,159 --> 00:45:14,760 you follow me, they're a follower of mine, which is like, you 637 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,440 don't have to follow me to comment. By the way, my posts are 638 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:21,159 public, so if you heard about me some like whatever, if you saw 639 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,840 CBS News and you keen to my Facebook page, you could just comment and 640 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:29,559 say something mean without being a follower. Right, So you are you hate 641 00:45:29,599 --> 00:45:32,320 me, hate my views and think I'm old and ugly, but can't wait 642 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:36,559 for the next thing that I'm going to say. I don't understand. I 643 00:45:36,599 --> 00:45:40,159 know, I know it's crazy and I don't get it, and isn't it's 644 00:45:40,199 --> 00:45:45,119 insane, Like it's just I just really feel bad. Who I feel bad 645 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:51,920 for is people that are big stars or people you know like that just you 646 00:45:52,159 --> 00:45:55,639 must have to have the thickest skin and just tune everybody out. Yeah, 647 00:45:55,880 --> 00:46:01,679 talking about people who aren't out there trying to social media influencers like and are 648 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:06,559 kind of asking for that, like want their every bit of their lives to 649 00:46:06,559 --> 00:46:09,800 be on display. I'm talking about somebody like a Drew Barrymore yes right, 650 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:15,000 who came up as a child star, is just trying to like make a 651 00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:19,039 living, isn't trying, you know, and struggles like we all do, 652 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:25,880 and has to constantly be judged or their looks right or you know for all 653 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:31,559 that stuff, right right right? Anyway, Hey Alli, Well this was 654 00:46:32,119 --> 00:46:36,480 our our guest is here and we're about to record with her. But before 655 00:46:36,519 --> 00:46:43,519 we wrap completely, let's say thank you to Adam Lerner. Adam's got a 656 00:46:43,639 --> 00:46:49,039 car dot com or you can call him at three one zero nine nine eight 657 00:46:49,119 --> 00:46:52,079 seven zero four eight. Why not let him help you get a car if 658 00:46:52,119 --> 00:46:54,960 you live in California. There's no fee for that, and he's going to 659 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:59,800 get you a better price than you can find yourself because he has deals with 660 00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,599 the dealerships, right, so you whatever price you see on a car, 661 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,519 he can get you a lower price than that. You don't have to haggle. 662 00:47:06,559 --> 00:47:08,599 He's the broker. Yeah, it's a great deal. And like I 663 00:47:08,639 --> 00:47:12,039 said, he got me a car. He's gotten so many of my friends 664 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,239 their cars. And check them out. And thank you all to our listeners 665 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:22,360 and go go follow us on social media at fcol podcast on TikTok, Instagram. 666 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:28,440 We put up all clips and our YouTube channel is fcol Podcast and our 667 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,760 Alison episode will be up on our our YouTube channel. Yay, put all 668 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:36,880 of our guest episodes up the whole video. Yeahs all right, love you 669 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:46,840 guys. Your left down, don't f it up. It's many