Hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to think about.
It so early in the morning, so forgive my voice, but I
want to get on here quickly and talk about something. Don't worry yourself when
people are doing you wrong, when people are saying mean things to you,
are about you, always remember it is that individual who has those inner issues
that he or she has not resolved. One thing that urged me is for
people to be on the job and just have an attitude. You try to
ask them something, they go off. You send them an email, they
go off. I mean, just rude and disrespectful. Don't let it get
you down. Know that that person has inner issues that he or she needs
to work out. By no means, am I saying a loud person to
treat you any kind of way. I will never tell you that cause I
don't do it, and I don't expect for you to do it. It's
always a way to get a person off your back in a respectful way.
But just know that person is dealing with some inner issues. When people lie
and connive and manipulate to try to make others think a certain way, don't
worry about it. Don't worry about it. I believe in confrontation. When
I say confrontation, I mean I believe in calling you out. A spade
is a spade. I believe in telling you the truth. So don't worry
about what people are saying. Just remember it's coming from that dark place inside
of them. You don't have to take mistreatment, disrespect, or any of
that from anyone, but you should not take on the ownership of that pain
that stems from it because it hurts you on the level that you allow for
it to hurt you. And if you keep pondering over something someone else did
or say it, then you need to look at yourself. Why are you
pondering over it something somebody else said or did. It may be hurtful,
it may sting, but you should not just keep reliving it in your mind.
You should not. So many people do. They take the ownership of
other people's pain. Let me tell you, in my profession, I deal
with it all of the time, and even before what I was doing before
this current position. I've always dealt with people for as long as I can
remember. I've always dealt with people to some capacity, especially dealing with their
mental issues. So I can read people like a book. I can see
what's not saying, and it's not always a good thing. It's not always
a good I don't know talent or ability, but I have it because I
have put in the time and it's always been important to me to know myself
first. But also no other know when they're coming to you sideways, know
when it's the devil who's standing before them and they're the puppet. So you
can let people get you down because remember they are individuals who have their own
unresolved issues. People go so long with their unresolved issues because they're familiar,
they're comfortable, they have become complacent. They go so long that they deceive
themselves. And the Bible tells us it happens. People lie, connive,
manipulate so long until they deceive themselves. They don't even realize the person that
they've turned into. So don't worry about them, don't take their crap by
no means, but don't let it fester inside of you and make you feel
a certain type of way. Deal with it and move on. Because you're
dealing with a lot of broken people. You can't fix them when they're not
trying to work on self. You certainly cannot fix them, but you can
cause yourself unnecessary druma by taking on their pain. People lie, they have
words sweeter like a honey comb. And the sad part is so many people
believe what they say because they sound so good saying it, They sound so
believable saying it. But like I always say, the devil have words sweeter
than a honey comb. I mean, he knows the Bible back and forth,
he know everything to say and do. But he's the devil, He's
a snake. He's the greatest manipulator, deceiver, author of confusion. But
because of the words screwed out of the mouths of people, many millions fall
for it because they don't have eyes to see. And that's dangerous because it
leads you down path that you should never be on. You open yourself up
to people who should never be in your life. See, God already have
set the path, He's already made the way. But millions go on their
own. They don't choose to follow God's path. They want to do things
on their own. And that's why you have so much problems. You have
so much going on in your life. It's just very tumultuous. By the
way, the first time I use that word tumultuous. I didn't even know
what it was. God just dropped it in my spirit and I said it.
Then I went to look it up. But people open themselves up to
so much unnecessary drama and chaos because of their hearts and their minds, because
of that unhealed part of self. So all I want to say to you
is stop taking on the pain of other people making it your own. Stop
it. You don't have to live your life that way. If you're taking
on the pain of other people, taking in their negative energies and all of
that foolishness, you have to look at yourself. You look at yourself because
something is going on inside of you that's making you do that. That mindset
that you have is causing you to be that type of person. Just like
those individuals who's trying to hurt you, who's picking with you, who's manipulating,
who's lying, who's deceiving. Those people have unresolved issues inside of them.
Stop feeling down, sad and bad about what other people are doing when
you know where it's coming from. It may be directed to you. Because
that's what undehealed hurt people do. They try to hurt others. I see
them every day on my job. And then, let me tell you,
A couple have tried me, but they found out quickly. I'm not the
one. You will never hear me say a cuss word. You will never
see me going crazy. But let me tell you, baby, I know
how to get people off of my back. I don't mess with anyone,
and I do not tolerate it from anyone else. I don't disrespect anyone,
and I don't tolerate it from anyone else. I had a couple people try
me, not to my face, but through email. They still found out.
They found out not me, not today or ever. Because I don't
give it, I certainly won't take it. I know who I am,
I know who I serve. Therefore not happening, and I mean I don't
take it from anyone. I don't care who they are, what position they
hold. I deal with a lot of high ranking people, high high high
ranking, and I don't care who who they are. You have a way
to approach me, just like I have a way to approach you. You
have a way to speak to me, just like I have a way to
speak to you. And I'm not gonna sit around all day being mad about
what you've said or done. Because I've handled the situation and I've moved on
from there. One thing about me, I have no grudges. I hate
no one. I don't hold in negative things that people have done to me.
I just don't. I mean, what's the point. It don't benefit
me? And I know where it's coming from. I know when people are
hateful, mean, envious, and jealous. I know where it's coming from.
People look at you and they feel a certain way, but it's really
not you. It's them what they're lacking inside of self. They see what
you've chosen to do and it angers them, and that envy and jealous turns
into anger. So you cannot be bothered by anyone else's pain. And when
I say not be bothered by anyone else's pain, what I'm saying specifically is
not taking it in and allowing it to affect you. I wanna make that
clear, because I'm not saying if a person come to you and they are
grieving or they have some type of burden, I'm not saying not to listen
to people and assist where you can. I'm not saying that. I'm saying
those people who are negative, who's trying to bring negativity in your life,
who's trying to make you feel a certain I'm talking about those people don't take
in their pain. They haven't dealt with their own. It's not yours to
deal with. That's what I'm trying to tell you. Because people will do
it. They do it every day all over the world, just projecting their
pains in different ways onto people all of the time. I mean, it
don't matter what position they hold, people from high ranks down to low ranks.
And when I say high ranks, I'm talking about military, civilians,
all people. It does not matter what walk of life you come from.
All people do it because all people all around the world have unresolved issues.
You just cannot take here in their pains and hold it in. And the
reason I tell you that it's because so many in this world have unresolved issues
that's causing them so much grief in their lives, so much unnecessary pain,
because they will not let go of the baggage. And those are the people
who are projecting their pains most of them, not all people do it that
have unresolved issues. They may not project their pain, but their pain still
affects their lives. It affects how they think, It affects how they feel,
it affects how they act. They have insecurities on great levels. They
have all types of things going on because although they're not projecting it out on
others, they taking it. They've taken it, they're taking it in,
holding it in, and we're seeing it play out in different decisions and choices
and and lifestyles and different things like that. So I want you to truly
understand what I'm saying today. Stop surrounding yourself with negativity. Stop allowing negative
peace people to come into your life and recab it. Stop taking on the
pains of others because it is not yours to take. Every last one of
us individually must be willing to deal with those unresolved issues. Yours don't belong
to me, and mine don't belong to you. I like to think that
I have dealt with those things that I've gone through. That's why I don't
even think about them. Really. Every now and then when a certain conversation
or something may make me think about things, but it quickly goes boom just
as quick as it can. You just cannot give power to people and things
you just can't. Life goes on whether you roll with it meant or not.
It's going to keep on going. Just because you don't want to move
forward, life still goes on. So many people are trapped in their mental
states of negativity because they have come become so comfortable and familiar with the way
they've always been that it's normal to them when it's actually not normal and it's
definitely not healthy. It's not a good place to be mentally, but many
stay in that mental state because that's what they're used to being. That go
through life, either projecting that pain onto others or holding it in and just
living a life that their cause and self sabotage and self inflicted pains, causing
themselves all types of unnecessary issues and stress. So this episode is not long,
but I just had to get on here. It's early in the morning,
my voice is going in and out, but I needed to say this.
I needed to tell you, so thank you for listening. Please share
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