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Made a decision. I've faced sunny
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What's that? Everybody? Hey,
what's going on Stephanie? Hey,

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I just got some good news.
Yeah, right before we hit record,

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I found out from my book company. I don't know if I've mentioned that

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I have a book coming out.
Yeah, I don't know if I said

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anything about that. Well, you
didn't promote it on last show. I

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did, I did, I didn't. Oh on Tuesday, I did not

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reprobout it. You're you're absolutely right. I didn't talk about it. So

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this is like the biggest thing that's
been going on in a long time.

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You guys, you guys suffered with
me when I was writing the book,

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and I complained about it constantly because
I hate writing. I like having written.

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But the book is coming out on
January sixteenth, mm hmmm, and

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my publishing company has been trying very
hard to get me. Besides all the

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lovely podcasts and anybody out there that's
a podcaster that's having me on their show

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and listening to this, thank you. But TV is also really important when

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you're promoting a book, and I
haven't officially booked anything until just now.

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I'm going to be on Drew Barrymore
show. What woo, Yeah, the

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week of the book coming out.
That's perfect. My publicist, that sounds

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so fancy. The person who works
for the publishing company my publish list with

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Simon and Schuster, who has been
working with me and really like going to

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bat for me, just emailed me
and said it's official, but she had

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the day she's not. The book
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she wrote, You're officially booked on
Wednesday the sixteenth, So I'm not sure

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if that means Tuesday seventeenth or on
the day the book comes out. I'm

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going to be on the show and
it's going to air like a few days

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later. But the exciting thing to
me is that I'm going to bring Elbe

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with me to New York Hey for
a ticket for Elbe because will already be

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put up, yes, like,
and then she can just be along with

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me and go to all the stuff
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super fun. I'd never ever.
I mean, years ago, when my

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first book came out, you know, I was flying in New York and

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doing like the Today Show, and
it was it was really exciting, but

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I was alone because John had to
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baby when Elbe was you know,
so Elbie was like one when the book

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came out. I started writing it
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so that would have been like in
two thousand and five, and the book

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came out in April of six,
so she was like a year and a

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half. Yeah, so John was
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going to fly out as a family. It's like I was flown out to

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do like it would It was a
very whirlwind. I flew. I was

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on the Today Show like early in
the morning, crack of dawn, and

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then like I think the next day
I was on like Fox and Friends and

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like a couple of little things and
then it's like fly you home. Yeah,

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you know, so was it would
not have been right feasible and yeah,

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and you have little kids, baby
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it's like a job. You just
go and you do it, you come

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back. And then when last time
came out, I think I had twins,

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so it was like forget it.
Also at that point I was like,

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oh, thank god, I get
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nights, you know, like bring
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Like no, this is my time. And then I was really enjoying

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being in the room by myself and
like, yeah, I wrote about this

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in the book because also that was
I was like, that was my time

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to like I'd have my wine,
I'd get my have the mini bar,

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or go get myself like a you
know. It was like I got to

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feel like an adult with no kids
for briefly. Yeah, anyway, every

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book has been that way. I've
gone by myself, but like now here

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I am with like an adult daughter
like you, and she can like she

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love her with me, she can
go do Drew barrymore with me, like

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meet people, Like yeah, that's
gonna be so fun. I guess I

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can bring her to like Simon and
Schuster, which really fun. You get

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it's you get a little spoiled.
So there's been a few times in my

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life where I've been like extra successful. You know, when I had my

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own TV show. I will never
forget you being like when you came to

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do the show with me, you
were like, oh shit, this is

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like a real show. I don't
know. You know, it's like because

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you think you don't know what you
think when it's like, oh, it's

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this little network, but it was
like Nickelodeon. Yeah, no, it

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was. It was a big tast
and crew, yes, director, and

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you can treat it nice and you
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hair and makings. Yeah yeah,
So that was like a real thing and

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you get kind of spoiled. Now. Luckily for me, I was in

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my mid forties already when that happened, so it was like, this is

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crazy and will never happen again.
So like when I first started, when

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I was doing stand up and I
got a little bit of success, but

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not really like I was. I
did a star search and I did like

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a few TV shows and like it
was nice, but like it wasn't building

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to anything, and it was kind
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when I worked my way up to getting

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actual gigs on the road, I
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had to do, you know,
twenty five minutes, and I hated it.

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And I was never a headliner and
I was never gonna be a headliner

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because god knows, I've told you
I'm never gonna be able to memorize an

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hour of material, stand up material, Like it's terrifying to me. I

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didn't like it and it wasn't that
fun, and I was like not I

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would go on auditions and not get
stuff. So it was like I wasn't

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going to be any kind of TV
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And then when I had Elbe,
I was like working my little TV writing

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jobs and you know, yeah,
it's fine. I honestly I appreciated my

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life. It was like I had
a fun such a fun job when I

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wrote on Hollywood Squares. I remember
sitting in my office and just being like,

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this is like a great job,
Like this is super enjoyable. I

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like my life. Yes, this
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And then when I got pregnant and
had a baby, I really thought

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like I don't know what the hell
I'm going to do with my life,

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because I don't know that I want
to be a like TV writing jobs,

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even shitty ones are ten hour days. Yeah, Like nobody cares that you

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have a baby at home to get
to Nobody cares that, Like you were

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spending forty five minutes in the car
to get there, forty five minutes to

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get home. So I was like, either I'm going to need a very

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full time nanny because even daycare wouldn't
have helped me because you can't leave daycare.

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I mean, you can't leave your
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six o'clock. If you're writing on
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They're like ordering you dinner at that
point, you know, yes,

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They're like your day's just halfway done. Oh yeah, you know. Many

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times I had to stay at jobs
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I'm in no rush to get back
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got the book deal, it was
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like super exciting. It was like, oh, here's a new direction for

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my career. So now I'm like
a few years into that when I get

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this TV show, right, I
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written a couple of books. It
was like I never expected to have a

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TV show. So when that ended, it was also like it wasn't like,

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oh, well, now I'm going
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was like, oh, that was
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second of this. Oh you're bringing
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room, like I'm gonna savor every
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but like when it ended, it
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it was like Okay. It wasn't
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back to like writing on TV.
It was like, Okay, I had

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another book after that. So I
guess what I'm saying is every time something

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like this happens, I really enjoy
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the last time you don't. And
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enjoy being a podcaster, like I
really truly enjoy life, Like I love

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working with you, I love working
with Kaitlin, Like I look forward to

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this. It's not like, oh, what's next. So I guess what

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I'm saying is this is like the
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enjoyable. Yeah it is. I
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publicity, but I was kind of
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like I was saying, before I
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close and I'm up for like I'm
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I'm hoping for these things, but
I hadn't heard anything right. So it

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was like out there the holidays,
so I was like, it's probably not

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going to happen. And then I
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It's so amazing. And the best
is you can bring Elbe, which

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I love that I know, and
I told her and I was telling you

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right before we started recording role Model
too, you know, for her to

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see. And also like here,
I am really in my well into my

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fifties, and it's like you don't
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I know, and it's really cool. Like you just said, it's like

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nothing really impresses my kids that much
anymore. Like they they're believe me,

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they're proud of me. They're like
it's cool that you have a book coming

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out. You know, they're proud, but they're not like none of my

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kids are like, oh, I
want to read your book, like that's

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You're cool, Like nobody cares that
much. Liked being on the podcast.

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But so when Elbie, when I
told Elbe in text that I was going

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to be on Drew Barrymore, she
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her that much. She was like, oh my god, Oh my god,

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oh my god, I love Drew
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that's yes, that's everything. Absolutely, It's all the hard work,

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all the months you took and putting
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I got on Drew Berry right,
so so funny. That's great, I

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know. And what are we going
to do next week alone? She's in

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New York. Well, it's not
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you guys are going to have Matt
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far. You know, unless anything
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going to be zooming in kind of
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kind of host it, talk a
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that's his whole world now, and
you know it'll be fun. It'll

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be fun for I can get you
a or grab one of your pants to

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figure it out with you. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. They will have

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a surprise guest or something. We'll
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I have stuff like Tuesday's the day
the book comes out, I'll probably be

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there. So on Tuesday when the
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does the publishing company do anything or
you just like not really, Like no,

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I have a podcast that I have
to do remotely that they'll probably set

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me up at the at Simon and
Schuster. They there's some I might get

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interviewed for CBS Morning, like Saturday
Morning things. I think it's happening that

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they want to. If I was
coming to New York, they were going

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to do the interview there, there'll
be like a few things. But no,

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it's not like it's like if a
They're not going to like have a

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party for me, right, Like, I'm a very small author to Simon

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and Schuster. They have much bigger
people, much bigger fish to fry.

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But I will definitely go to the
public. I'll go there on the sixteenth

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and they'll be like happy to see
me, and yeah, I don't it's

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it's it's not going to be.
It's just that that's when the book comes

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out and they'll be watching the Amazon
numbers that yeah, I'll watching. The

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most exciting book release I ever had
was Sippy Cups. Because I was a

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first time author, they expected nothing
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I was like it was like a
funny you know what I mean. I

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was not a celebrity. I was
nobody anybody had ever heard of, you

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know, as I just said,
I was writing on Hollywood squares. Nobody

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knew who I was. So but
they liked the voice of the book.

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They hadn't been able to book me
on anything. But I got myself booked

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on the Today Show right because John
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me to Today's Show and Today's Show
said no, they passed. But then

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John had a friend who sent the
book to his friend who was really good

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friends with the book producer for the
Today Show. So I got booked on

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the Today Show. So then they
were like really excited. They fly you

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out for that. The Today Show
doesn't fly you out. Your book company

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has to fly you out. So
they flew me out for that. And

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then I went on the Today Show
and it was like the perfect out the

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prime time where you sell books back
then, this was a long time ago.

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This was like, you know,
like eighteen years ago. But if

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you were in the eight o'clock hour, like between eight and eight thirty,

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you sold some books. So I
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back to the Simon and Schuster and
we're all hanging out in the office and

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they're like checking Amazon. Oh,
that's cool, and they're like refreshing it

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and refreshing it. Like right after
the show is show book went up to

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number twenty one on Amazon Best of
the Amazon list, which is insane,

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insane, Like I've never had a
book do that. That's crazy, you

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know. But they were like,
oh, my god, this book is

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going to be huge because the book
went that high. They just know that.

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So then they started getting me booked
on other stuff. Mostly it was

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because I had the stand up background. I was really nervous to do the

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Today Show, like terrified, like
not eating or like a month before,

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I got so nervous live television.
Yeah, you know live. I'd never

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been on live TV, but I
already have that muscle to be funny.

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So even though I was nervous,
I knew in my mind what things she

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was going to ask me, and
I knew what I was going to touch

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on, and I didn't know enough
to like to not talk about all the

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breastfeeding crazies and how people pressure you, and so I said all the things

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before it was cool to say all
the things. I was like it's really

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hard. And I didn't love my
kid at first sight, and breastfeeding was

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ridiculous, and there's these lactavists out
there that all want I eat a breastfeed

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your kid till they're like sixteen.
I said all that. Well, it

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just went crazy, like people started
buying the book, and then I was

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being asked for more media. So
that was really fun because they got so

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excited about it. Yes, like
I didn't know. I wasn't an author,

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so I didn't know how that worked. So when they're telling you,

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like you don't understand your book is
number twenty one on Amazon, Like you

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don't understand this never happens, this
is like this is insane. Of course,

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I got super excited. And then
they were like taking me out for

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like you know, then I was
assigned my own publicist and you know,

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that's never happened again and won't be
happening this time either, but like,

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but it's exciting. Yeah, it's
exciting. So normally and including this time,

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no, nothing major happens. But
they bring you out, they give

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you like, they provide you dinner, give you a nice hotel. Yeah,

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and you know, yes, coach, Yeah, you know nobody's gonna

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go crazy over me. But you
know, yeah, but you know,

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it's perfect thing for you to bring, you know, for LB. Like,

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I think that's so great that you
can share that with her, you

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know, and she can like appreciate
She's at the age where she can appreciate

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it, you know, like it's
spent in all the hard work that you've

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done. You know, you should
like you should have a payoff, like

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this is great, Like, yeah, it's all worth it, Like this

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comes what it's what's what it's about. I know, I love that.

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Oh my gosh, we're already sixteen
minutes and I just talked to talk to

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talk. Oh my, I'm sorry
about that. Uh should we do some

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shout outs? Oh? Oh yeah, we didn't do our shout outs.

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You want to do this too?
Okay, Well let's say hi to share

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Bear and uh do you want a
Hershey bar? And Stephanie's a stinker drinker

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and Sandra s night he's being green
and Christa gets stroop yeah, and Jennifer

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get up and Sarah Stefano and Aaron's
dirty Sanchez. She likes that she approved

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that message, by the way,
and Leslie, don't be a Kaitlin and

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Alicias Galante and Kelly Brandt is not
your aunt, got a great ass out

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of my beach that peach though,
and Missy and Gabby, my god,

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get out of the streets. Lady, lady, you were I thought you

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were turning over a new lead for
twenty twenty four. Yes, and Katerina

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probably lost a moler over the break
it's our own, damn fall yep and

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biting down on some chestnuts, roasting
no over and open fire and Valerie Bubba

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Fenwick and Polly we love your pancakes, and Sina, we love your dancing.

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And Elizabeth Williamson we love each and
every one of your children, all

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of them. And Rita keep rocking
that Bassinette, Jacob, I heard that

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things are going great for you,
right God, Yeah, everything's good.

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And Leslie still growley though he is
still growley for sure. And Leslie is

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still accosting people, which is dangerous. And Nikki call you a girl?

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And Aaron who is? And not? Anna Faris and Katie Murphy and Amy's

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a cunt and Kelly Laddie, dam
that's it. I love you guys.

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If you haven't tried it, try
it, yep, you guys,

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Yes, I have watched so much
consumed so much content over the break.

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There were days where I was like, I'm not recording podcasts. I have

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nothing to do. I Am going
to lay in bed all day and watch

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TV. Yeah. I watched an
entire season of a Real Housewives Ultimate Girls

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Trip season two. Oh you did? Yeah? And then Cecily, my

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podcast partner of Rose Pricks, I'm
all, we need to talk about Derinda

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on season two and was like,
okay, that was like years ago.

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I was trying to tell you you
got to watch it. I know.

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And I didn't go crazy as she
Oh my god, she's a nice I

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like to make it nice. I
like to make it nice. Listen,

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you don't she goes crazy? And
when when uh, thank god, thank

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god, I have you to talk
to you about this. Do you remember

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when Tamar and uh Vicky. Vicky
was like had a had yoga or whatever,

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and then she was so mean to
Tamar about it that I'm like finding

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myself siding with Tamra, Like I'm
like, which of these bitches is worse?

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I know, I know she was
crazy, Yeah, she was bad.

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And then she's eating pizza in her
room. Yeah, Meanwhile, that's

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okay for her to do that like, yeah, I don't know, And

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why is she another Ultimate Girls trip? Like do we need to have another

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round of Derinda? No, we
didn't need it now, like I'm loving

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it. I am loving it.
And Kelly Bensimone is so cuckoo crazy?

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She is I like the Christian girl? Like how I mean, what is

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she like She's got to come up
with? Like is it she's jealous of

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her? I don't know. It's
like is she saying, like, you

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know, calling her a fan and
I haven't seen I've only seen the first

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three episodes. Yeah, yeah,
she's she's calling her like a super fan.

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And Kristen's like, why I just
watched some episodes so that I'm up

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on things right, Like I'm not
what And she was like why are you

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being the narrator? You're hosting the
show? Why are you doing that?

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What are you? Andy Cohen?
I know is she doing? I think

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I think that It's all how do
I put this? They all are seeing

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themselves from outside now. They're all
like, am I making good televisions?

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How about now? How about now? Oh I need to I'll take a

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villain arc eye. They're all trying
to start ship because they know what it

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takes to make a TV now right
right, but you can see right through

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it. But I'm still here for
it. I have to say, I

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used to not like her, but
now I like. I think I like

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Luyanne, Like she's like the more
the most normal one of all I would

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have got luayan the Countess is the
most down to earth normal voice of reason.

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And by the way, now seems
to me to be the least of

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the drinking problems on the show.
Yes, so that she was like at

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for a for a point, seem
to have the worst drinking problem, like

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the only one who was like I
don't know, getting sent to rehab and

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getting sober and getting arrested, you
know. But like I've got to say,

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if you watch the different ways they
drink. Not to sound judgmental,

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but I'm just saying, okay,
I want to get it sound judgmental.

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Derinda clearly has a drinking problem like
no one else besides Derinda to me,

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oh and Sonya and of course Sonya
yea Sonya, and but Sonya and Derinda,

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but you watch their drinking, and
you and I have talked about this,

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like there's been times where you've been
like, I don't know, maybe

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I drink too much, right,
Yeah, I really believe that you can

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abuse alcohol situationally. Like, and
this is not if anybody out there is

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worried that they have a drinking problem, you probably do. Don't let me

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talk you out of it. But
I'm just saying, like, sometimes people

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can really use substances to get through. And I think that I think Luanne

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was going through something right at the
time. Yes, it was going on

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divorce with Tom and like the whole
thing. And like, of course people

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sometimes get drunk, you know,
people that don't aren't alcoholics that, But

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I feel like Luanne was always like
I think I can still drink and use

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I used to kind of roll my
eyes like okay girl, like yeah,

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you got sober and now you're like
you keep slipping, right, But like

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when you watch her drink, you
don't see her personality change. You can

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you see her having drink. She's
not like seemingly like the most hung over

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one in the morning. She's not
like falling out of her chair right right.

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And I'm not saying I'm not just
comparing it. I realized that would

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be hypocritical since I compared my drinking
and you could easily go. Well,

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I don't do that. I'm not
just drunk as Sonya. I'm not like

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being mean to people like Derinda.
But it's just like you don't see Luanne

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constantly like girls we have to drink, right, She's just like and she's

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up the next morning doing yoga and
stuff, like it's the most normal she

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is. She's become the voice of
the reasons what I mean, like the

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Countess. Remember when she first came
on the scene. Oh, it didn't

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like you have the count Countess Luanne
and like, you know, oh,

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the only thing that bothered me is
her eggs, eggs, eggs La Francie,

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give me a freaking break, Like
I may scrambled eggs. I don't

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call it eggs a la francis right, but I think she was doing it

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like hamming it up, but whatever, Like it was cute. I like

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Luianne now, like she's totally she's
got, she's together. You know,

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she's got all her faculties. The
rest are what the They're just a hot

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mess, hot mess, fun to
watch, fun to watch. But I

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need to ask you if you saw
this movie May December, I've been wanting

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to watch it. Is it did
you watch it. This movie it's on

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Netflix because it looks like a chick
flick. Is it Christmas Holiday? No,

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it's a movie about the Mary Kay
Laturno story. Oh, that's what

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it's about. Yes, I didn't
know that. You didn't know that.

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I knew. It was like Julian
o'dore plays Mary Mary Mary Kay, Mary

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Kay Laturno, Mary Kay. Yeah, and then Villy who was the one

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that Mary Kay. You know,
she was the teacher in thirteen student when

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they met. He was the student, he was in middle school and you

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know, and she was cuckoo crazy, right I remember she died like a

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year or two ago. Yeah,
yeah, they had just separated. Well,

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it's basically the aftermath. It's it's
it's not a documentary obviously, but

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it is based that is what it
is. I think all the facts are

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the same, their kids and the
how old, the age difference and when

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it happened and how old they were, and it's it's very interesting really,

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so it ends. But I really
wanted to discuss the ending with you,

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which obviously I'm not going to spoil
anything, but it's you're just kind of

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like, wait, what really,
Well, now I'm going to watch it.

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What movies did you guys watch over
the Break that you loved. I'll

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tell you one that I loved,
The Holdovers, Now The Holdovers. Yeah,

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that's Alexander Payne. That's yeah,
I like him. Yeah, that's

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the guy that did Sideways and what's
his name? From Sideways is the head

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is the what's his name? Uh? The uh? What's Paul gem so

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good? So he's in it.
He's excellent. So where a favorite movie?

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Yeah he is, there's nothing.
He's not great, right, I

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love the movie? But to call
the Holdovers? And where is it on

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Netflix or m I guess a Holdovers? Yeah. I had a screener of

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it, but I think it's out. It's out. Yeah, I loved

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it so much. It's it reminded
me of Dead Poet Society. Looks like

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it's on Peacock, Peacock Premium,
Peacock, Peacocks Peacock Premium. I don't

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know if that's I have Peacock.
I have regular Peacock, and I think

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it was available on there. Okay, how do you pay for but everybody

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pays for Peacock. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I really really

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loved it, but you guys didn't
see it, so we can't really discuss

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Maestro. Did you see Maestro?
I've been waiting to watch that with Amy.

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Okay, I've been waiting to get
feedback. It was terrible. No

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Oh. I heard him on Stern
and I was like, and I didn't

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even when I first heard that he
was upsie. When I first heard that

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he was making that movie, which
I guess he's been making for like the

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past six years, I was like, I'm a conductor. I don't know

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this doesn't I don't think I'm gonna
And then I heard him on Stern.

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I was like, oh, okay, now I want to see it.

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Yeah now, but he sold it. He sold it, but yeah,

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so that's disappointing. It was terrible
because there's no story like this is supposed

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to be the story of Leonard Bernstein
or Bernstein Leonard bern and you don't it's

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you know what, It's just it's
trying to be an oscar vehicle, but

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it's not a love story at all. They never the trailer makes right,

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that's what it's supposed to be.
But John and I were watching it and

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I was like, I feel like
I've just been dropped in the middle of

406
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,000
a story that people are already telling
and I don't know what's going on,

407
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,960
and it never catches you up,
and it never really it's like what you

408
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,039
know what it was like. It
was like watching a two hour long music

409
00:29:00,119 --> 00:29:04,599
video where you're like snippets and you're
supposed to kind of put it together yourself.

410
00:29:04,759 --> 00:29:12,200
And Bradley Cooper is very very manic
and and big and and everybody talks

411
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:17,039
like it's the foot you see.
You got me a cup of loud mouth

412
00:29:17,119 --> 00:29:19,880
soup? Yeah good, gather around
the piano and then talk to me,

413
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,680
big boy. Everybody talks like that
the whole fucking movie and it's so annoying,

414
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,039
and it's in black and white,
and I was like, can you

415
00:29:26,079 --> 00:29:30,880
please somebody kill me? And normally
John likes that kind of thing, he

416
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,079
doesn't mind it. And even he
was like, no, this is there's

417
00:29:33,079 --> 00:29:36,960
no story. I don't know what's
going on, because you know, normally

418
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,279
I'll be like John, what's going
on? I hate to know this and

419
00:29:38,319 --> 00:29:41,240
he's like, no, I have
no fucking idea what's going on. We

420
00:29:41,319 --> 00:29:47,359
watched the whole thing because we kept
waiting for to get better. Okay,

421
00:29:47,559 --> 00:29:49,480
good, well I will. None
of my friends have liked it either.

422
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:56,039
Yeah, I didn't hear good stuff
about it. No, no, yeah,

423
00:29:56,119 --> 00:29:59,400
like a lot of people fell asleep, like they and then never went

424
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:03,200
back to it. Yeah, so
yeah, And I knew you guys were

425
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,200
gonna watch it, so I was
waiting to see what you guys saw.

426
00:30:07,839 --> 00:30:12,920
What did you guys see? I
watched ninety Day Fiance. I heard this

427
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:17,759
is a good season. I'm watching
this ninety day, But the ninety Day

428
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:22,880
the Other Way just fit like it's
done, And that was fucking phenomenal.

429
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,720
Really, it was really good.
And usually there's a couple people that I

430
00:30:26,799 --> 00:30:30,039
fast forward like, and I don't
care about these two. No, I

431
00:30:30,079 --> 00:30:34,480
cared about everybody. It was a
lot of the most recent ninety Day the

432
00:30:34,519 --> 00:30:37,279
other Way. Yes, okay,
yeah, I'll go look that up.

433
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,559
Oh watch it all. Oh,
oh my god. This guy from Turkey

434
00:30:41,799 --> 00:30:45,359
is just an asshole, just such
a like, you know, I slept

435
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:51,400
with twenty four women and I've never
been faithful until I met you, you

436
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:55,839
know. And she's just like this
Kardashian want to be from Beverly Hills,

437
00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:02,400
and she talks like a Kardashian.
She drives me fucking and she's like moving

438
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:06,720
to Turkey for him, and he
just is like, I've never been faithful.

439
00:31:06,759 --> 00:31:08,519
You're the first person I'm going to
be faithful to. You know.

440
00:31:08,599 --> 00:31:12,039
It's just like, give me a
break. And then she doesn't want to

441
00:31:12,039 --> 00:31:17,240
have kids because she already had kids
and he does. And and then then

442
00:31:17,319 --> 00:31:23,720
there's this Indian couple where I she
I don't know, like she's kind of

443
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:27,319
entitled, she's the American the moves
to India for him and all they do

444
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:33,720
is fucking argue NonStop. That's all
they do. And then she argues with

445
00:31:33,279 --> 00:31:37,880
this with his family. It's just
drama after drama. And then there's the

446
00:31:38,079 --> 00:31:41,279
gay couple, the two guys that
I like, that's been on before and

447
00:31:41,319 --> 00:31:45,839
now they're like relocate. I would
say they they're the most mellow out of

448
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:51,200
the everybody. You know. But
it was really good and they did the

449
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:56,519
reunion and that was fine. And
then what else? But what else did

450
00:31:56,559 --> 00:31:59,960
I watch? Well? I watched
Our Go Again with Wendy when we were

451
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:02,400
and I rewatched that like a couple
of months ago. It was good,

452
00:32:02,559 --> 00:32:06,519
really good. Yeah, we were
like, let's watch this again. We

453
00:32:06,559 --> 00:32:10,559
watched Chris Rock and then we watched
Argo does Chris Rock have a news the

454
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:15,839
last special that came out now,
the the the O g One like that

455
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,519
we used to watch back in the
day. Oh okay, we like,

456
00:32:17,599 --> 00:32:22,480
let's love Chris Rock. Yeah,
so we watched that and then personally still

457
00:32:22,519 --> 00:32:27,680
find Chris Rock really funny. I
love Chris Rock. Yeah. A lot

458
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,839
of people feel like he's like his
last special wasn't as funny, but I

459
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,880
was like, I have a lot
I did too. I liked it.

460
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:42,880
Yeah yeah. And then oh,
I was telling you that the Natalia Grace

461
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:51,039
Oh yes, yeah, yeah,
there's two episodes out. It's unbelievable.

462
00:32:51,319 --> 00:32:57,039
Like you remember when we watched season
one and I was arguing with people,

463
00:32:57,559 --> 00:33:00,880
like, like, what are you
talking about that you think that she was?

464
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:05,039
That they those those crazy I mean
that was remember that was like watching

465
00:33:05,079 --> 00:33:09,000
abducted and plain Sight. Yeah,
you're watching that crazy dad and he's in

466
00:33:09,079 --> 00:33:13,119
it too, And then you have
that Jinx moment at the end where like

467
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,039
he and his son are discussing the
fact that they like threw her down the

468
00:33:15,079 --> 00:33:20,359
stairs, and like you're like,
if anybody actually believes that she was an

469
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,640
adult she had baby teeth and make
pictures and they did the DNA test and

470
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,960
it was the mom's baby, and
they knew when she had the baby in

471
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,480
the hospital. There was no question. Wow, they makes they make they

472
00:33:31,559 --> 00:33:37,680
make it. In the first two
episodes I watched, they pretty much solidify

473
00:33:37,839 --> 00:33:40,519
that she was not an adult.
She was a bait, She was a

474
00:33:40,599 --> 00:33:44,519
kid. What would be in it
for her to be like an adult,

475
00:33:44,559 --> 00:33:47,240
Like they tried to make her so
sinister. The truth was that she was

476
00:33:47,319 --> 00:33:52,400
being abused as family she was,
she was being abused, and it's it's

477
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,960
pretty clear in season two, like
you hear her side, but you also

478
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,880
hear sides from experts that have really
gotten in there and dig to the to

479
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,000
get to the truth. Yeah,
and you'll see why. You know,

480
00:34:04,119 --> 00:34:07,159
I used to be an expert in
I do genealogy and all that kind of

481
00:34:07,199 --> 00:34:14,800
stuff, genetics, genial whatever.
Ilway did that for a while. Yeah.

482
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,639
I didn't go to a schooling,
but I watched a lot of shows

483
00:34:16,679 --> 00:34:20,920
about it, right, and listened
to a lot of podcasts, So I

484
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,639
got kind of good at it.
Just you know, I don't look at

485
00:34:23,679 --> 00:34:28,199
like the research do researchers stuff,
just my opinions, right, But I

486
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,760
feel like I, yeah, you
know this one, Yeah, I nailed

487
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,960
this one. I told everybody,
and people were like, well, I

488
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,239
still kind of think she might be
an adult. I was like, mabe,

489
00:34:37,559 --> 00:34:44,920
what evidence, because okay, because
in the original, the first show,

490
00:34:45,159 --> 00:34:49,400
they didn't get that expert in there
until I saw the baby teeth.

491
00:34:49,599 --> 00:34:52,079
But they didn't bring the one ex
the legal expert in there until like like

492
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:57,480
episode four, and she was like, guys, everybody fucking relaxed. She

493
00:34:57,519 --> 00:35:00,960
had baby teeth in there, like, here's the real story. But they

494
00:35:00,039 --> 00:35:04,159
kind of scare other people were like, yeah, no, never mind with

495
00:35:04,199 --> 00:35:07,760
the baby teeth. Baby teeth,
like face, oh, you can't fake

496
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:13,039
that. Nobody has baby teeth at
sixteen, and they they talk about it.

497
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,119
Yeah, and she's yeah, So
she tells her side of the story.

498
00:35:16,199 --> 00:35:19,559
She confronts the dead. What I
want to know is, where's this

499
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,519
mom? How come she's not in
any of it, Like so far,

500
00:35:22,639 --> 00:35:25,920
she's not been in jail. She
didn't go to jail. They both didn't

501
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:31,480
go to jail. I know.
But yeah, it gets crazy these Yeah

502
00:35:31,519 --> 00:35:35,719
you gotta watch it. Oh my
god, I'm so like, I'm so

503
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,039
excited that, like I want to
end this early and just just go home,

504
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:44,280
like that's how that's how my whole
body is filled. Everybody. We

505
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,320
will totally understand if you stop what
you're doing and you go watch it.

506
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:51,199
Right, But I'll tell you so
far episodes there's only been I don't know,

507
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,719
but there's there's more to come.
Because the episode two ended on a

508
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:59,320
cliffhanger. I just came. I
know, it was like to be continued,

509
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,360
and I was like, no,
what I've left you wanting more?

510
00:36:04,599 --> 00:36:08,639
Okay, okay, well I cannot
wait for that. Yes, and also

511
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,800
let's not forget what's her face?
Just got out of jail. I know

512
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:20,280
she Rose Blanchard. Yes, yes, think like why was she in jail

513
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,159
in the first name is the most
Yes, the people they get off for

514
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:32,400
like way worse stuff, and like
this girl was horrible passively criminally like tragically

515
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:39,079
abused and put through medical all these
treatments, or she killed her freaking mom

516
00:36:39,559 --> 00:36:45,039
that if any if anything has ever
been self defense, it's that. Yes,

517
00:36:45,599 --> 00:36:47,639
well they were going to give her
the death penalty, but because she

518
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:53,000
pled guilty and because of all these
mitigations, because of all of the shit

519
00:36:53,039 --> 00:36:57,880
they put her through, then she
got you know, ten years and she

520
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,840
got out at eight. You know, are they going to give her the

521
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,639
freaking death penalty. Hey, we're
going to give her the death penalty because

522
00:37:02,679 --> 00:37:07,159
I watched the whole thing all over
again. I watched the act on on

523
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:14,159
Hulu with what's her name? She
was so good arquette, Patricia arc was

524
00:37:14,159 --> 00:37:17,320
it Patricia Arcatt or the other Archette? I don't think Rosanna Arcat's done anything

525
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:22,719
in a while. I was Patricia. She was so forgot how good she

526
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:28,639
was playing that mom Like, oh
my dear, oh you look so tad.

527
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,599
You know, They're like she had
that act like Patricia, Yeah,

528
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:37,119
you're doing a lot of accents.
I'm enjoying it. Thank you. You

529
00:37:37,159 --> 00:37:44,039
did? You did your skippy doo
twenty two oh twenty fall scanoo? Yeah,

530
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:45,480
yeah, yeah, yeah yeah,
but yeah, she was so and

531
00:37:45,559 --> 00:37:52,039
the way she was actually twenty two
scoooy two skandoo. Yeah, she was

532
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:57,039
so good and I forgot it,
like because Sonny was asking me about he

533
00:37:57,079 --> 00:37:59,079
goes, what is it? What
did her mom do? And blah blah

534
00:37:59,079 --> 00:38:01,280
blah. Know what, I'm gonna
watch it. I'm gonna watch it again.

535
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:06,159
Why not? So? I watched
it and it's called what's it called?

536
00:38:06,519 --> 00:38:09,360
The Act? You've seen it?
I haven't seen it. What I

537
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:13,199
didn't see that? No, I
think because I knew the story so well

538
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,679
and i'd seen like, oh my
god, Stephanie, you got it.

539
00:38:15,679 --> 00:38:20,880
It's on Hulu. Okay, oh
my god, it's so good. Okay,

540
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,880
it's like eight episodes. Watch it. Yeah, she plays the mom

541
00:38:24,199 --> 00:38:30,199
and the girl that plays her is
really good. Oh it's awful. Yeah.

542
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,360
There was a point in time where
she pulled her teeth out. She

543
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:36,599
took it to the and took her
teeth out of her mouth. How like,

544
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,840
how how did she was gonna be
getting the death penalty for that?

545
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:46,199
But how I know? Well,
because she conspired in killing her her mom.

546
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,800
Yeah, that's why you got to
see it. Like she meets the

547
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,639
guy online, like the whole thing. It's eight episodes, it's so good.

548
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:57,840
But how is it not understandable that
like her mom has been abusing her

549
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,599
her whole life. Well, I
mean that's what the argument was. And

550
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:05,760
he got the kid that did it
got you know, he got life without

551
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:09,239
parole. The kid that killed her, that actually did the killing. Wow.

552
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:13,840
But because she you know, planned
it, and there's text messages of

553
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,599
her, you know, like meet
me at the door she went and bought

554
00:39:16,599 --> 00:39:20,920
the knife when she was at the
mall with her mom. She went to

555
00:39:21,159 --> 00:39:24,039
I would have bought it for her. I know she like snuck away and

556
00:39:24,079 --> 00:39:28,760
went to the hunting hunting store,
Yes, you need a weapon. We

557
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:30,599
are you gonna kill her with your
bare hands? Well, I would think

558
00:39:30,599 --> 00:39:32,840
they would have a kitchen knife.
I don't know why I spend money on

559
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:37,480
it. I probably hadn't been sharpened
a while. Probably, I guess,

560
00:39:37,559 --> 00:39:38,960
Yeah, it'd be the worst.
Like you're gonna go kill your mom,

561
00:39:39,159 --> 00:39:43,119
Yeah, you got it planned out. You're like, I'll just grab a

562
00:39:43,159 --> 00:39:45,159
knife. Like when when it comes
down to it, like I'm sure the

563
00:39:45,199 --> 00:39:49,159
knife is fine. Then you go
to try to do the killing and you're

564
00:39:49,199 --> 00:39:53,000
like, oh my god, this
knife is any tomatoes? Like, yeah,

565
00:39:53,599 --> 00:39:57,679
I should have tried to cut something
first, like a piece of like

566
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,559
salamie or something that I would have
seen that this is going to be.

567
00:40:00,599 --> 00:40:02,559
I'm gonna be like hacking with this
knife, right, It's like not gonna

568
00:40:04,119 --> 00:40:07,079
slice. Yeah, you know when
the knife that doesn't slice, Yes,

569
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,519
you can't do that right, right? And she had to make sure like

570
00:40:10,599 --> 00:40:15,280
when at the store, like the
guy that's selling the knife to her and

571
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,599
she's saying she's buying it for her
dad, who's a fisherman or a hunter.

572
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,800
Good cover story. Yes, And
he's like, you know, you

573
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,039
want to get a good handle so
your hand doesn't slip. Good. She's

574
00:40:23,039 --> 00:40:29,199
like, yes, I'll take it. Got to get a grip on that

575
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,280
thing. He's like, when you're
doing like this, like you're hacking.

576
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:37,280
Yeah, like the hunting stife.
Oh and Chloe Savani Savan's in it.

577
00:40:37,519 --> 00:40:42,679
She's good. She's the neighbor.
Let us see it. It's so good.

578
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,800
Zloe Savigny is a very good action
She's very good. Yeah, she

579
00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:50,400
pronounce her name. Yeah, she's
good. Yeah, save self. Yeah.

580
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,400
But Patricia arcat Man really good,
really good. I think she won

581
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:58,400
an Emmy for it or something.
Oh have you seen it? No,

582
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:04,639
calin an Emmy for Escape from Dana
Mora. She was good at that.

583
00:41:04,639 --> 00:41:07,000
That was good. And don't forget
she was the star of Medium. Oh

584
00:41:07,079 --> 00:41:10,320
yeah for like a long time.
She's had a pretty good career. Yeah

585
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:15,039
she has. Yeah, she's actually
she's very very good in that the Apple

586
00:41:15,079 --> 00:41:21,960
TV. That's right, when is
that coming back? I like that got

587
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,039
hit by the rider straight kind of
hard. Yeah, need to get her

588
00:41:24,079 --> 00:41:30,199
on our show episode. Ah,
she can zoom in. Yeah right,

589
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:37,239
that'd be great. Anybody know her. Let's talk about Bombas h We love

590
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591
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592
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593
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and and Sonny gets the socks that

594
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604
00:42:45,559 --> 00:42:47,679
else you guys have watched? What
have you watched, Caitlin, I'm sure

605
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:51,519
you watched a bunch of it did, but you're not going to be into

606
00:42:51,639 --> 00:42:53,840
the things that I watched. Well
maybe our audience will. Okay, Well,

607
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:58,679
if you thought I was nerdy before
with my Doctor Who shows, I

608
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,000
finally got into something that people have
been recommending to me for a while,

609
00:43:01,039 --> 00:43:07,800
which is anime. Oh yeh,
I started this great anime show called Attack

610
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:13,119
on Titan, and I've been just
binging that. I've been rather obsessed with

611
00:43:13,159 --> 00:43:15,239
Attack on Titan. Oh, okay, a little while now. The one

612
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,519
movie I did watch, which you
might have seen, was that Leave the

613
00:43:17,559 --> 00:43:21,719
World Behind. Oh yeah, I
saw that? Oh you did? Did

614
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,119
you guys like it? It was
long? It was long, It was

615
00:43:24,159 --> 00:43:28,159
all right, It wasn't like anything. That's what I was hearing. I

616
00:43:28,199 --> 00:43:30,159
was hearing that people were like it
was too long and slow. Yeah,

617
00:43:30,159 --> 00:43:36,079
it kind of was. Yeah yeah. Well it's kind of like a not

618
00:43:36,199 --> 00:43:40,239
apocalypse, but like like a fault
a collapse of society story. But it

619
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,639
all takes place in just one location, So you know, you expect a

620
00:43:45,679 --> 00:43:49,159
movie like that to be a lot
bigger in scale. But it's not so

621
00:43:49,679 --> 00:43:52,440
I could understand that part. I
wasn't expecting it to, you know,

622
00:43:53,159 --> 00:43:58,320
be that grand. But even still, like it was just so slow.

623
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,440
I really enjoy the first hour and
a half and I was super into it,

624
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:06,320
and I really liked it because I
heard I heard bad things about it,

625
00:44:06,559 --> 00:44:09,039
but I think the Rotten Tomatoes audience
score was really bad. But I

626
00:44:09,079 --> 00:44:13,000
watched it anyway, and after like
an hour hour and a half, I

627
00:44:13,039 --> 00:44:15,239
was like, oh, I'm super
into this. And then I was like,

628
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:16,679
oh shit, I still have like
another hour left in this movie.

629
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:22,400
Yeah, and then rehearschel Ali and
what's her face start like dancing in the

630
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:23,360
room together, and I go,
okay, I'm fading out of this,

631
00:44:23,679 --> 00:44:30,519
right, I know, I know. And the like the director, like

632
00:44:30,599 --> 00:44:35,320
the camera work just bug the crap
out of me. It was like he

633
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,880
would like take the camera and like
spin it around on its side and he

634
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,559
kept doing it over and over.
Go right, why are you doing this

635
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,840
so annoying? Right? But it
was okay, it wasn't It was okay.

636
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,760
It was at best. Okay.
Yeah, I mean if I had

637
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,639
Hawk is great, Oh yeah,
Ethan Hawk was good? Yeah, yeah,

638
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,639
I mean if I had to see
it in a movie theater, i'd

639
00:44:54,639 --> 00:44:58,800
be pissed. But because I got
to watch it on the comfort of my

640
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:04,239
home, I was like, all
right, that's that right now, Like

641
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,320
not any I wouldn't. I didn't
think about it after I watched it.

642
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,880
It didn't sit with me nothing.
Right. Everybody's talking about, you know

643
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:15,679
who produced the movie? Who Obama? The Obamas? Oh yeah, yeah

644
00:45:15,679 --> 00:45:19,159
I saw that, No idea,
Yeah, I saw executive produce Michelle and

645
00:45:19,199 --> 00:45:24,480
Barack Obama's like what yeah, now, yeah, wow, their first movie

646
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:30,800
is a Julia Roberts movie, right. I guess they like talk to the

647
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:36,320
filmmaker about, you know, the
scenario in which society is falling apart.

648
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,000
You know, he kind of gave
his he weighed in on like how that

649
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:43,639
could actually go down in real life, Like I was talking that sort of

650
00:45:43,639 --> 00:45:46,519
thing. So, yeah, it
was a little scary. So I read

651
00:45:46,519 --> 00:45:50,800
that somewhere. Oh wow, well, what else did you guys watch?

652
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,519
And then everybody's talking about Saltburn?
Is that the name of it? Yes?

653
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:59,079
Did you watch that? No?
I watched the trailer for it's on

654
00:45:59,199 --> 00:46:01,400
Amazon. Yeah. I still don't
really know what it's about, Like I

655
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:05,719
can't figure everyone keeps talking about it, but I'm waiting for somebody to watch

656
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,039
it to tell me how it is. It's like, I like the actor

657
00:46:07,079 --> 00:46:09,760
in it. I forget his name, but he's really good. I think

658
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,880
he's supposed to be supposed to be
the new No, not that guy,

659
00:46:14,039 --> 00:46:17,920
the other guy. He was in
what's that call Inferral movie that came out

660
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:23,320
last year where they were in Scotland
or they're in Scotland or England. Oh

661
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:27,840
the Banshees of in Shearing. Oh
yeah, he was in that. He

662
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,519
was in Eternals. He's supposed to
be the new joker, I think.

663
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:35,159
But yeah, he gets like lured
to a mansion by the guy from Euphoria

664
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,760
and they have a bunch of sex
parties. It's kind of the vibe I

665
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,880
got from that movie. But I
don't that's I don't know really what.

666
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,079
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I will watch it though, I'm

667
00:46:45,119 --> 00:46:51,360
gonna watch it, and I'm gonna
watch it. I don't know. I

668
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,559
like the documentaries, you know,
like the the Natalia Grace, like I'm

669
00:46:54,559 --> 00:46:58,440
always looking and then I watched it, and then of course I watched the

670
00:46:58,519 --> 00:47:01,800
doc I rewatched the document Henry on
the Gypsy Rose, Mommy, Dearest Daddy

671
00:47:02,199 --> 00:47:07,920
Dead Mommy, Dead, dearest,
dearest dead Mommy. Okay, so that's

672
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,880
the documentary because I think I watched
that yet. No, that's boring,

673
00:47:12,639 --> 00:47:15,159
boring, Okay, No, you
got to watch the act. This is

674
00:47:15,199 --> 00:47:20,519
like when I watched The Staircase and
then there were like two at the same

675
00:47:20,599 --> 00:47:24,400
time. There was a real documentary, but then there was like the drama,

676
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:30,679
the dramatization. I think I like
the dramatization. One of them was

677
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:34,519
on HBO. I think that was
the dramatization. Yes, yeah, I'm

678
00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:42,119
pronouncing that correctly. The dramazation.
Yeah. Yeah. The act is on

679
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,559
Hullo's so much better. Okay,
Okay, well it's hard to know because

680
00:47:46,119 --> 00:47:50,079
we like documentaries. Yeah, yeah, like I like it. If it's

681
00:47:50,079 --> 00:47:52,719
a true story, I don't want
to say, but yeah, but then

682
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:58,320
I guess you can do more with
the acted out version. Yeah yeah,

683
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:02,760
So I mean that's I think pretty
much what I was watching. I think

684
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:07,880
you might like, you might like
the May December. I'm going to watch

685
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,960
that because a lot of people,
you know, you forget that Mary Kay

686
00:48:12,039 --> 00:48:16,320
Laturno was like nutty, like she
left her husband and she had kids to

687
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:21,400
go be with this guy. And
remember that he was thirteen. She met

688
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:27,400
him when he was twelve, and
then she got pregnant, right, and

689
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,800
then she got sent to jail.
She had the baby, and then she

690
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:35,119
went to jail, and then she
got out of jail and got pregnant again

691
00:48:35,559 --> 00:48:38,920
and then went right back to him. I mean she was nuts, yeah,

692
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:43,519
but then you know, I mean
that was like full on real grooming,

693
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,440
because she always defended it like,
well, no, we were in

694
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:50,440
love. It's like this Romeo and
Juliet story, and they were together for

695
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,400
a really long time. So I
think some people, I feel mistakenly think

696
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,239
oh, well it must have worked
out. Then they guess they were just

697
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,519
really in love. But no,
she groomed him and then he was dependent

698
00:49:01,599 --> 00:49:06,920
on her, and he you know, had kind of a weird home life

699
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,440
and so you know, and then
he eventually left her. But also and

700
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,000
she was very manipulative and like cried
a lot. It was kind of childlike

701
00:49:15,199 --> 00:49:21,719
and needy and like, you know, yeah, so she definitely was had

702
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:28,360
a mental problem, yeah, or
personality. Then they raise these kids,

703
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:34,679
like so this movie takes place when
he's like thirty five and she's like fifty

704
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,679
seven. That's when it takes and
their kids are graduating. Yeah, their

705
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:42,760
kids they had together are graduating high
school. That's when it takes place.

706
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,760
It's not a replay of like what
happened of the old story, it's like

707
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:51,960
a where are they now? Like, ooh, what happens later? What's

708
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:59,199
the relationship like? And the story
is that Natalie Portman plays this actress who's

709
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:04,400
going to be so it's like fictionalized
it. It's not a docudrama. It's

710
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,360
like a fictionalized account of where are
these people now? But it's one hundred

711
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:12,199
percent her, And there's all this
stuff where they're looking at the tabloids from

712
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:15,119
when. So the point of it
is that now Mary Kay. They don't

713
00:50:15,119 --> 00:50:17,599
call her Mary Kay, she has
a different name. But then like one

714
00:50:17,639 --> 00:50:22,400
of their kids is named Mary.
So it's like it's all very okay wink

715
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,199
wink. Yeah. I mean,
if you read the abstract to what the

716
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:29,679
movie's about, it's about Mary Kay
Laturno. But anyway, uh, what's

717
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:34,400
her name that I just said?
The Actually Natalie Portman plays this movie actress

718
00:50:34,559 --> 00:50:38,320
who's going to be playing Mary Kayla
Turno in a movie about her life.

719
00:50:38,599 --> 00:50:44,719
So she's studying her and come to
visit to like learn all about her and

720
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,639
learn her mannerisms and how she does
her makeup, and like, yeah,

721
00:50:47,639 --> 00:50:53,159
it's just how she gets kind of
involved who the family and which she sees

722
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:58,039
no idea, that's what it was
about. So I'm gonna watch it.

723
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,119
Yeah, it's easy. It's just
like yeah, yeah, all right,

724
00:51:01,599 --> 00:51:06,920
this has been so fun, so
needed. Yes, by the way,

725
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:12,719
in case you don't know, Kaylan
is engaged, I am, yes,

726
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:19,400
and we're so excited for him.
Congratulations And so he told the whole story.

727
00:51:19,599 --> 00:51:24,440
It gave me and Lynette chills on
our Patreon this week. It's a

728
00:51:24,639 --> 00:51:29,360
very good, very sweet Patreon to
start the year. Yeah, so if

729
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,920
you're not a member of Patreon,
please join up. We would love your

730
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,440
support for this upcoming year twenty twenty
four. Lynette is on her own.

731
00:51:38,199 --> 00:51:43,679
I'm on my own as always,
Kaylin's on his own. And now yeah,

732
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,000
well I was going to say not
anymore now that I'm engaged. Yeah,

733
00:51:46,119 --> 00:51:51,199
yeah, So it would be so
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734
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:57,159
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735
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736
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737
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738
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739
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740
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741
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742
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I love that. Yeah, he's
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743
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744
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745
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746
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747
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help you. He will also just
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748
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don't know if I want to lease, if I want to buy, if

749
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I want to get a new car, use car like you can talk it

750
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751
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boys, Adam Lerner's got a car. Yeah, go to Adam's got a

752
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753
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,920
Well, we love you guys,
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754
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love and support and yeah, thank
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755
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you guys. You're a parent,
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