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It's season four. Welcome to Bottle Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast,
hosted by a horny married couple with me Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man
Adam. Sex shouldn't be taboo or embarrassing, so let's talk about it,
bites. It's season four. Now, look at it is it is,
it is it is. You shouldn't practice. I don't know. I thought
it's a pretty good, but whatever. Welcome back everyone. It's been a
nice little break. I hope you've missed us as much we missed you.
I'm doing baby talk now. That's season four. Is the season of baby
talk. You worded here first? My baby talk is a little condescending a
little bit. Yeah, sorry about it. Well, I'm just super stoked.
I think that the break was much needed, even though we didn't get
hardly anytime off almost none actually zero. Um, but we got a little
break from interviews. UM, got to regroup, kind of rebrand a few
things. I'm super stoked. I'm you know. Season four is for the
Horse. You know, yeah that season four. That's a mouthful. Yeah,
but no, I'm super super duper excited. Um. We actually did
the interview with brittiny Um a few months ago actually, while we were recording
season three. And it's really funny that that happened because I typically send email
emails out to people that I really want to interview that I may never hear
from again, and you know, I have our link to book with us
in the email, and usually people either like you know, don't reply,
or they do reply and they're like not interested, that's ever happened. They
just don't reply um, or they reply and they're like, yeah, well
book soon. I have never had someone actually just immediately book yeah, and
they didn't even book a book us a few months out. They're like,
okay, talk next week. So I wasn't anticipating a season four interview to
happen Wild season three. Yea. I feel kind of bad for Brittin.
He sorry about that, Brittin. That usually doesn't happen, but that's the
context is usually people book us so far out because of their schedules and stuff
like that. So that one was such a whirlwind of wins. I was
like, oh my god, my gun. And I only did she reply,
but she booked next week. It was like it was a super fast
turnaround. Yeah. So we've been sitting on the secret for a while now,
so that's been nice. Yeah, going back and editing and relistening.
How are you feeling about it? I feel good. I really enjoyed the
I really enjoyed the interview. I think like I think, like you know,
we've had a lot of discussions with different types of people and like trying
to find your sexuality, but I don't know if we've had someone who kind
of has decided that their life purpose is going to help people with more of
their sensuality with themselves. I think that was very fun to listen to and
her going on this taking kind of taking this this weight of helping people feel
very confident in there in themselves and in a very specific way, because if
you think about it, you know, therapists and counselors, those are all
very important, but they're very big on helping you with your mind to your
mindset. And I think not only what she does is for mindset, but
what can be challenging as she's taking on is she's changing the way people feel
about their bodies as well. There's a lot of body work involved. You
know, I follow Big Pussy Energy, which is her company on the instagrams,
and she's got a masterclass coming up that I am going to be part
of, so I could take a class as well. But there's a lot
of feeling and looking at your body and feeling yourself and it kind of marries
obviously, like mental and physical. I feel like that's really hard. Yeah,
especially with us ladies, Like physicality is really hard to get over sometimes
if we're not feeling confident or we're feeling unsure of ourselves. So, you
know, big kudos taking on that kind of challenge because it's tough. Yeah,
No, for sure, as confident as we may be in our bodies,
like we're always going to have our down days, or we're gonna have
certain clothes that we don't like to wear because if we think it xince she
eats the wrong thing. You know, we all have insecurities. So the
fact that that's part of her training, yeah, you know, I think
that's really neat and really important and it can be really scary. So just
taking that on, I'm really proud of her. Yeah, it's she's out
there doing doing some good work, doing some good work. She was super
vulnerable with us, talks to us about her recent relationship that at that point
was recent at this point and is no longer as recent. And since it's
been a few months. I think we recorded with her in December. Yeah,
so it's been a whole quarter in some of new beginnings, they were
always evolving. Things change every single month. So yeah, it'll be fun
to listen back about her journey with old relationships and old feelings. I hope
she listens to this and it's like, wow, look at me evolved,
like she in the same place or she in a different place, you know
what I mean? Yeah, anything you want to add, I don't think
so. I'm just excited for people to hear this. So I think this
is the first one that we've done that was such that it has been done
in such a long time. How did I phrase? I phase that weird.
It's like we haven't had one that we've just been sitting on for this
long. That's so kind of like you said, like, I'm interested to
see kind of and I'm excited for Bertini herself to hear it, to see
kind of what changes have occurred, like if she's still like you, has
those same thoughts or any of that kind of stuff, if her life in
that amount of time has changed, or maybe I don't know what I'm trying
to say. I know what you're trying to say. But also I don't
think we gave her like a proper intro. Yeah, no, we did
not. I'm really sorry about that. We'll keep getting better at this.
So Brittini Brittini Burton is who she is, and you may know her from
Below Deck down under the Peacock one. I believe. I think it's a
Peacock exclusive. I might have made that up, might have just watched it
on Peacock myself, and now I'm labeling it. But we talk about her
journey after below Deck and what that goes into and the company that she started
and her new line of work of helping people with their sensualities. I know
I referred to her as a I think I recalled her a sensuality coach,
but that's incorrect. So, yeah, she calls herself a sensuality facilitator,
which is a really great way of putting it, instead of a sensuality foreman.
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think she. I think
in the episode she explains why facilitator is the more appropriate term. Yeah for
her. Yeah, I know. It's really fun, really cool. So
if you know her from those episodes, you know, you'll get to learn
about what she's been working on ever since then and what her goals are now.
Yeah. So I hope you guys enjoy this episode. I think this
is our first person that has been televised like on the show as far as
I know. I think so, so look at us goes. He's important
for the ladies. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. Brittany, she
is a complete treat, have so much fun. I actually found you on
it cracked me up because I found Big Pussy Energy and I was like,
oh, this is so cool. It's relatively new. I'm looking through it
and then your your handles in there and it's like found her and I'm like,
oh, I wonder who the founder is. I looked and I was
like, that's a very specific name, Routini. Why why do I why
is this sticking with me? Why do I know a Routini? And I'm
like oh. I started scrolling and I was like, I have seen two
episode and I was like, oh, do you look at that? And
that's the only one I've seen is the down Under one. It's been around
for all my friends watch it. They've always been like, you should watch
it. I see really good clips and such from different seasons, and I
just was like, yeah, I'll get around to it. But yeah,
I watched a few episodes and I was like, that's the only season I've
seen is your season. So I was like, this hilarious one, so
like blowdeck down Under that I was on the first season, So yeah,
that's so funny. It's I like don't get that often in Austin because like
the community and the people I magnetize and they magnetize me. Like most of
us don't have cable or a TV. And I was on Watch What Happens
Live like a month ago where I was flown to New York. I was
on a talk show of Andy Cohen and like, I wanted to watch it
and none of my friends had TV or cable, including myself, so we
had to go to a bar to watch it. Was like none of my
friends could watch it with me. That's amazing. Yeah, yeah, I
saw your outfit in that and I was obsessed with your shoes. Oh my
god. So that yea one. I was super bloated because of the gluten
in New York. So I'm just like, that's just like funny to like
look at myself and I'm like, that doesn't even look like me right now.
But um, I told this. I hired a stylist, and I
knew because I watched other episodes of Washhappens Live with fellow cast members that I
was with that they don't really ask anything outside of the show, like it's
only about the show, and for me, the show is a year ago,
so it's more just like interactive like games and whatever. And so knowing
that nothing about who I am now is going to be talked about, I
told my stylist. I was like, so, I'm the founder of Bi
the Energy, and I want to walk I want to look like the founder
Big Post the Energy because people already know me as the female Dackhand and I
know we're only going to be talking about what happened in my life a year
ago. So I want to come to this show as who I am now.
And so that's how we I told her the colors. I told her,
like the Energy that I wanted to represent. My hair was big,
like every little thing, every little like thing was actually really intentional with it.
I love it. That is incredible because it did it get it.
I resonate like those colors and that energy like with you and your brand.
So it's working. You know exactly what you're doing. Thank you. Shoes
are Versacchi. They were very like expanding like they just looked gorgeous. So
I was like, I love this shoes. I just like scroll down,
I'll just like these pink shoes are life there every fire? Yeah? Well
how fun? Well I ergy by the way, how did I find it?
Yeah? I was on Instagram and I think I looked up the words
sensual. Oh okay cool. Yeah. I wasn't even looking for Austin.
So when I saw that it was Austin based, I was like, what
how have I not heard this? This is so neat. So it was
just like one thing after another where I was like, amazing, Austin,
M who dad? That seems were familiar? What a what a name to
resonnate with me like Brittini And I was like I don't even know of Brittany
in life. So Brittini. I was like, why do I know this
name? And it took some stocking of yours to be like, ah,
I know who this is very neat, and then it just kind of all
fell together. And then when I saw like videos from Exposed, I was
like, we're just running around in the same circles and just missing each other.
By Bareley, Yeah, I love that. That's so Austin too.
It's like you think you meet people and then they like someone that you know
shows up to their party. That's like the weave and like the fabrics are
so intertwined here. When you like know who you are, you magnetize those
same people you know. Yeah. So you're originally from Michigan, right,
yep, originally from Michigan. I'm twenty eight now, but I basically left
Michigan when I graduate college and I just traveled for eight years. So I
I've haven't really lived anywhere other than like a van or a hostel or a
yacht in the in the eight year gap until I moved to Austin a year
ago. So Austin's the first place that I've lived in since I was nineteen.
Very cool. So you've been here for a while, yeah, which
is a weird transition because I was so used to like saying like, oh
I just moved here, but my year anniversaries on the twenty first of this
month. Oh my god, that's so exciting. So yeah, so it's
it feels really nourishing to be here, and like I said, my root
shock or like the to be grounded somewhere like I haven't really experienced in eight
years. And like I went to Tuloon last week and I realized, like
I'm not ready to travel yet. Still something I'm really like neat, Like
I love being rooted. That's amazing. And Austin's just such a fun place
for that I'm sure you've seen. I mean we've only been here for five
years. I'm from Houston originally and that's where we met. He's from Dallas.
Yeah, so just in this last five years, we've seen so much
change and how everything I'm like, all my favorite bars and restaurants are gone.
And it's funny because like Austin seems like this is not me complaining about
Austin by any stretch of the imagination, but it seems very more like your
kind of thing. And you're talking about like you don't own a TV and
all this, like it's very nature and hiking. And I heard like you're
like I don't own a TV or cable and I'm like, oh my god,
what do you do all day? How does that make any sense?
So I have Netflix, so okay, there you go. We have a
TV. But it's like I just use my laptop. Yeah, yeah,
that makes sense. Well it's because you're also just like a movie person,
so like she's obsessed with all things cinema. So people have lives and like
self discover Yeah you can go outside, doesn't make it sense to make Oh
my goodness. So something that really stood out to me seeing that you were
essential empowerment coach, which I would love to learn the definition of what exactly
the essential empowerment coach. Yeah, so I mean I really I that whole
journey of like finding who I was as a title was a journey, and
I've landed on central Empowerment Facilitator specifically because itsilitary. Yeah, because I am
a person that curates space. I love like the more people, the better,
Like one on one is something that I can do. However, I
feel the most aligned in the most me in a really large group setting,
and because of what I do which is like essentially empowering women through their bodies
through movement. It's honestly, what from my experience, the more women that
are there, the more permission they get from each other to embody their sensuality.
So yeah, I could do one on ones, but then it's easy
for them to compare themselves where they're at with me versus if they're in a
room of one hundred women and they're seeing women with all different sizes, different
age, different backgrounds doing this embodiment, it's practice. It just gives them
so much for permission. And so that's where I landed on facilitator because I
love it charges me up being in a group setting and events and retreats,
like that's where I feel the most nourished. And then like sensual empowerment is
really just yeah, I can like central embodiment is a tool that I use,
and then I also use t working and lap dancing, So sensual embodiment
is like the foundation. But really at the end of the day, I'm
empowering you through the path of sensuality. Because empowerment, when you think about
empowerment, like someone who's really empowered it's like they know three to sixty themselves.
They know all themselves and they're they're owning it even though the spaces that
right, like what I talk about centuality, so the space of being exiled
or shamed or put down, we bring that up and a really soft and
loving and like my groups are women based, so like you, a very
like like comfortable space for women to really explore, so that you can bring
out something that we have been told of exile and look at it and love
it. And then you have this piece of the pie that naturally we're told
not to look at, and you look at it, and that's where this
empowerment just naturally comes through, because you are seeing a part of yourself that
you've been told for so long not to ever look at, and we're bringing
it out and loving it fully. So that's where empowerment comes from. I
don't really teach empowerment like a mindset. It's like a natural antidote to like
coming to BP. Yeah. Yeah, And I would love to hear more
about your journey if you would like to share it, because on specifically a
belowdeck you said something about how you didn't have romantic or physical connections in high
school, and I loved that because I was a little hoe that's all I
had. And so I was like, that's all because I met him and
I was nineteen. So like I call my high school years my hoeing years
because that's where I did when I did all my hookups and this, that
and the third, and then I settled down with this one. You know,
we're here like almost ten years later. So when you said that,
I was like, oh, now she's like in this space. I want
to know what was that aha moment to like finding your sensuality because my finding
my sexuality I think has happened in the last five years, and it was
taking dance lessons. I stripped for a while. I that was a big
part of it. Was like I just want to explore my sensuality. Lap
dances were very interesting for that reason. It was specifically with women, though
I loved giving women lap dances, neither here nor there, but it was
just a different experience. And yeah, lots of little things of just like
feeling comfortable and confident in my own body and that kind of just like led
into it. So I just wanted to hear about what that journey was like
for you. Yeah, thank you, And I love that angle that you
are giving it like high school, and it's interesting you saying that. It's
like it's a great zoom out reflection of like who I am as an adult
too, like to be completely like honest and transparent. Like sex for me,
like the physical act of sex is something that even I would quote unquote
saying my whole years wasn't something I chased after I go through really long periods
of like not having penetration. So funny enough, I haven't like publicly said
this, but like when I launched BP in September, I was like ten
months cell of it, and like I like, I think it's been like
eleven months, you know, so it's like and I'm not cell of it
on purpose. It's just it's not like where I'm like I'm not having sex.
It's just like I haven't found the person I want to open myself too.
And so for me, like that's been like a big like mirror of
just like how I've always been. I mean, we can go deep into
like inner child and like my mom and all that. But yeah, so
sex is never driving force. However, that was something that woke me up
to my journey because I started my whole journey started to years ago a few
facets because in my whole years, I would call it is when I was
in yachting in twenty seventeen and I was like meeting all these people and we're
young and we're honestly making a shit ton of money at like twenty one,
and we're like people in Australia and South Africa, like you're just me a
shit ton of people. So that was like when I like really explored my
sexuality. But however, sex was so draining and no matter who the partner
was, it was the same experience of just so much mental like I need
to come to validate him and how he is and his ego, and it
felt just like I remember, There'll be times where I would orgasm, but
I would get a headache because I was concentrating. It was like a mental
orgasm where I just like was like any organ and I would like puff it
out, like straight it out from my head. And so I recognized that
and I was like, Okay, maybe I'm just not someone that wants to
do like friends of benefits or like surface level sex. So then I thought,
okay, I need to get in a relationship ship so that I can
experience emotional intimacy so that it flows into it more intimate sex life. So
of course I get into a relationship. And this is like a few years
later, and I'm traveling the world by myself and in Columbia and I meet
someone and he lives in the UK and we start a long distance relationship.
I eventually moved to the UK with him and for like five months, and
it was during COVID, and in that I completely lost myself. There was
like in the sense of like codependency, tendencies and a meshment and like just
really wanting he was a partner. So I thought, if I have a
boyfriend, that means I love him, and that means sex will be better.
Like I just thought, I have the person that means I love him,
But like that's not true. And I had to like, for me,
that was something that I got to like physically experience for myself to recognize
A plus B does not equal C. Right, you can't force yourself to
love someone. And once I left that relationship and came back to the US,
I recognized, oh my god, like even in a partnership, sex
still felt pretty much the same, Like the undertone of it. And that's
when I realized, Okay, this the only consistent thing is me. And
I was already on a pretty spirit like I've pretty much always been on a
spiritual journey. There was no like crazy awakening. It's kind of just always
been an undertone in my life. So I had the awareness that I was
pointing outwards and looking for sex and men and my orgasm and men. And
so that's when I pointed the finger to myself and I created this whole like
hibernating, dormant stage for five months when I was living my mom in Michigan
in between travels, and I just really got into like feminine energy. It
was more of a feminine energy journey that turned into a centual journey, and
I read books from David Data, which explains the masculine feminine energies. And
that's where I intunively found sensual movement in front of a mirror. I just
intunively stood in front of a mirror, lights diem cadles On and like started
moving for myself and touching my body not in a sexual way, but in
a very sensual way. And that's what really woke me up to Holy crap,
I've never felt so desired by something and it being myself, let alone
in my life, Like I never felt so turned on, and to know
that I could do it within myself for myself was a whole experience, which
you know, fast forward two years is basically what I do for other women
is to create that space. And like what really allowed me to wake up
to that was giving myself the permission to touch myself and be slow and like
their word voices of like, what are you doing and this is inappropriate?
You're not supposed to do that when I'm in a room by myself. However,
I allowed myself to just like buy like not pay attention to those voices.
And the same thing when I taught myself how to twork. I taught
myself how to twork in the hotel room in Australia when I ask quarantine before
I got on below deck, we had to be quarantine in a whole about
ourselves or two weeks. So I literally went on, you just love that
work. Yeah, So all those little pockets where it wasn't like, oh
I know how to twork, it was me giving myself the permission to look
like a fucking idiot in front of the mirror and not judge myself for it
and just be playful and give curiosity. And that's exactly what I bring into
BPE is just this. I don't teach woman how to twork, like I'm
like, you can do that on YouTube. There's so many videos. I
literally just give you the space and like the energy of like you like,
girl, you got it, Like who gives a fuck? Your booty is
moving. That's all that tworking is. It doesn't look a certain way.
And so that's basically my journey. If that answers it. No, that
was everything, everything and more they could have asked for. So that's thank
you so much for sharing because it's almost it's a very scary thing, like
finding that feminine energy in yourself or essensuality in yourself, because it is such
a repress no, no thing, like I don't I don't know, especially
growing up where just even just the act of like, uh, female has
sex, like that's not great. And then when guys was their virginity,
it's like praised, so like you know, from such a young age,
we're all just kind of told to put that aside and don't talk about it.
Yeah, And I think that was a big moment for me, even
in high school. I think by my senior year, I was like,
I don't care if people know that I have sex because everyone else is doing
it, and if they're going to judge me for it, I mean,
I guess that's fine, but everyone's doing I'm not doing anything different than what
the guys are doing or what other girls are doing. But for some reason,
I'm being I'm being targeted about it. So like just giving your your
self permission was the best way you could have put it up. Just like,
I'm just gonna live, I'm gonna feel good, I'm gonna feel great.
I think also like finding that sexuality and sensuality within yourself. I think
like a lot of us find it through other people or that's how we kind
of get that. Like I feel sexy because as us or other person thinks
I'm sexy, and for you to be able to kind of just like take
a moment and go, no, I want to feel sexy because I think
I'm sexy or i think I'm sensual, you know. I think is a
great way to go about it. It's a tough way to go about it,
but it's a great way to go about it. Yeah, a few
things that I like felt through that is like when you picture like, oh,
come with your cup full so that the other cup isn't like so that
they don't have to drink or like fill your cup up. That's exactly what
this is. So like in two three years ago, when I was just
having sex, like I energetically was having them fill up my cup to make
me know that I'm sexy or worthy or enough. And of course, I'll
be honest, like there are still flavors of that I'm not like this like
overly healed human like sure, different flavors in that. However, like now
I'm coming with my cups so filled of like I am fucking sexy, and
I know that not from an outside at this point, but like because I
feel so like attack like attuned to my body and I know what my body
like looks and feels like. And I worship her so that means you get
to worship her too, And so that's like I've been a really big journey
and so for me, these two like these two years of my journey where
actually, like like I mentioned softly, like sex hasn't been a huge thing
and like, yeah, I've had sex in those two years, but it
wasn't a huge part of the my sensual journey honestly, not too much.
And that's like where I am like teaching women right now is like sensuality for
you and self pleasure and I like don't even really call it masturbation. It's
like a self pleasure ritual. And it's interesting because now my personal life,
I'm energetically now opening myself up to experiencing myself in sex with a man now,
like I'm like open to it. And so it's really cool because I
know in like two years or like the year that's gonna be BPE as well.
But it's cool to see like how BPE shows up and it's like showing
what I've been doing. And now right when I start a BP, I'm
like, Okay, now I'm ready for the next phase, which is like
showing up for me but in a space with the masculine as well, because
the past two years it's really just been me. Right, I love this,
this thinks He's so happy. This conversation fills my cup. Do you
think in the times in the past two years where you have had sex and
kind of you've had this journey, do you think it's taken some of the
pressure off of sex. Um Like Okay, so that's a really good question
because it's really interesting. In the two years, like every person that I've
had sex with has been like a very like conscious decision as well, Like
I mean, yeah, sure, I think I've had like two one night
stands in the two years, and those weren't super conscious, but you know,
it is good. But they each have showed me where I'm at my
journey, honestly, Like the man that I chose show me where I'm at
in my journey, and then how I related to myself in sex, show
me where I'm at my journey. And up until like very recently, I
still felt the undertones of like needing to perform, which is a huge and
that's something I like symbol and code into BPE, like this is not performance,
Like when I teach lap dancing, we are not performing. We're not
doing this for the person the chair. This is for you and the person
the chairs is witnessing you. So there's a lot of like when I teach
lap dancing and tweking, like there's so much symbolism and like coding frequency underneath
it. But when it comes to me and how I relate to sex,
like, honestly, like the reason why I'm doing this is because sex and
like intimacy is a huge pain pain point in my life. Not huge,
but like it is the pain point in my life, and which is why
I'm so passionate about it and why I'm like constantly like growing and searching for
it. Because if it was such it was an easy thing for me,
I probably want to go so deep and like make a business about sensuality,
you know. So yeah, it's definitely it's helped. And it's amazing to
experience myself insects now because it is showing me how much sensual embodiment and being
a tune to myself has helped me in the bedroom. And it's not a
mental thing, like I haven't like mentally changed my mental patterns. It's more
like I'm just so in my body and like there's no need for a certain
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I really appreciate you sharing all of this because I know, at least for
us, in this situation of having a sex podcast, people will be like,
oh, you must have been raised like in a super open type of
home and like making a lot of different assumptions about how I must have been
raised to be so open, and I'm like, no, majority of that
is not true. And in your case as well, I you know,
I think people would make an easy assumption that, oh, if you're essensual
empowerment facilitator, like oh, you must either have lots of sex or you're
very experience and you're the most confident and you're all these different things like you
like you were just born this way and so you've been so vulnerable. Is
saying like, no, y'all, this is tough. It is so important
because you know, a big piece of this podcast is I want friends to
be able to have conversations with their friends. I've been in friendships where I
can't even talk about my sex life without someone being uncomfortable, and so teaching
people to be comfortable with themselves doing it in a space with other women can
be so scary. So there's teaching people how to be vulnerable with themselves and
with each other. That the shit's just so important. Yeah, and I've
definitely felt that pressure. I didn't know, like I no one told me
that, but it just felt like that. And I can just like energetically
feel that, like the assumptions that people would make, and like I've said,
like sex is something that like isn't the thing that I chase after,
right, and so and like how I experience like they're like literally the reason
why I started this is because like sex was so shitty and dull, so
like that was like my driving force. And so in feeling that pressure,
I was like, this is me. And then like also feeling like if
I show up in the bedroom of a man, they're going to assume.
But yeah, like the best thing to alcimize any like like this is anyone
with anything, like to alcimize any pressure just to be super vulnerable and like
open and honest and like, yeah, people will assume like I am an
expert and what I do in ways, and I'm also like a student,
like a very humble student. I'm just like maybe a few steps ahead of
my clients and that's all that needs to be done. And I'm on this
journey just a few steps ahead so that I can like help and like so
I can still relate to people, because if I was someone who was like
was orgasms were so fucking easy for me. And I'm teaching women how to
orgasm, I probably wouldn't know how to teach them, or like I wouldn't
know how to relate to their like challenges or the mental blacks given I'm not
teaching. That's not what I teach. I don't teach women will rise.
However, like good organ good better orgasms, and like experiencing yourself insects can
be as all to being essentially embodied, so they are LinkedIn ways. But
yeah, I'm on this journey like so humbly, and the more I the
more I expose it, the more I feel like bigger and more empowered,
because like feeling the pressure just makes me want to crunch and feel like feel
small. Yeah, uh, this is my favorite. That's incredible. I
because I didn't start orgasming until I was twenty three and I was already married,
so like it's my favorite thing to be. Like I put a lot
of trust in him because I was not I was not finishing when I was
married. But what taught me, Like what what got me there was I
had I was so scared of toys, so like I introduced a toy and
that was so scary because I really had to just like sit there with myself
and I was like, well, I have to set the mood for myself,
Like what do I find sexy? How do I find myself sensual?
Like I have to be really vulnerable with myself in this moment win and I
also have I know Adam struggles with this too, Like we both have like
this really intense like pressure in mind even that we've been together for eight years,
Like just being vulnerable with ourselves and not letting our mind wander of like
in my sexy year is this is this going well? Or what are we
eating for dinner later? But having to be vulnerable with yourself is is a
complete journey no matter how or what way you go about it. It's insane.
Yeah, Like when like a big thing that I relate to and I
haven't like is people say performance anxiety, and they usually relate it to like
man and like the erection and how long they can last. But I relate
to performance anxiety in the sense of being a woman, Like they're like,
okay, I need to come, or like if I'm not coming fast enough,
So performing anxiety, I like really relate to that, and I get
it. It's a very like, um, it's like not for me.
It was like not giving myself the space to like experience pleasure. I like
I could orgasm, but what I used to do is just like bypass and
be like, oh no, I'm fine, I don't need it. Like
I just wouldn't even have it because I didn't want to. Like it was
like there was too much pressure that I put on myself to orgasm ing and
then like also feeling like I'm being pressured to go quicker. So I just
like would like excuse myself from it. Which now it's like being essentially embodied
like through my journey. It's not like that at all, but I've been
there where I like just told a guy. I know I don't need it.
Yeah, do you find out that you've you're going through this journey and
that you're feeling very confident that you're attracting the right type of whether it's a
relationship, a friendship, people in your life. Do you feel like you're
attracting better people that you're surrounding yourself with or um. Yeah, I feel
like in general, I've pretty I've always like had I feel like that wasn't
a huge thing, like an issue, but it's been really interesting to like
now, like recently, I'm in this phase like I kind of woke up
when I was in Tuloom last week where you know, I start a BP
because it's a passion, it's a I have a vision. I'm like,
this is an impact, this is a movement, Like we need this,
we meaning women, the US UK, like we all need it, I
say, as a world experience in the next five years. But I didn't
realize, like, Okay, this is actually a business and I need to
put a business hat on and like actually figure out how to make it a
business so that the impact can be created. And when I put that hat
on, like man, I like woke up to like if it's not aligned,
if it's not a full fuck, yes, I'm not doing it.
And so this past week has been a huge theme of that. So I'm
like, recently it's been this time of like really recognizing what is in alignment
with me and my vision, and so that has been you know, I
want to call it burning bridges, but like making putting, letting people down
because I knew it wasn't in alignment with me, and the people I have
attracted in Austin have been like amazing, amazing, an amazing community. I
don't vp would not be where at all if it wasn't for the support that
I've had here, Like truly, it's it's at my launch party, I
like cut a ribbon with big gass scissors, Like I'm like a double leo.
I'm like, we're doing the ribbon cutting. And when I cut the
ribbon, I was upstate, I was on a stage by myself, but
I said, like, this is not just me cutting a ribbon. This
is the hundred of women that came to all my classes, and then the
few women who were in the front lines with me when I felt like I
couldn't do it or like who am I to do it like there's a whole
army energetically behind me, and so yeah, I do feel like you know,
I of course I've magnetized really powerful people in my life because of essential
environment, but also just like who I am. Yeah, yeah, I
feel very similar. You know, sometimes you just realize that people are in
different seasons and you're like, that was really great and it doesn't make sense
anymore this does, you know? Figuring that out, I think is also
a big part of finding self confidence because I feel like, whether it's in
a relationship or a friendship, people have we all have a tendency to stay
in things that no longer serve us for way too long, just because either
we're afraid of change or we're afraid of letting somebody down or making them feel
bad. I used to stay in relationships for too long because I was like,
their parents are going to hate me. I still always think about the
parents, and that's like why I would stay in a relationship long, because
it's like other parents really like me and they'll be really upset that they find
out I broke up with their son. Yeah. I think that's a big
trust muscle exercise. Like, you know, I like I saw I was
seeing someone a year ago. I knew he wasn't my person, and but
we were exploring sex together and we both stated, okay, we're not going
to ever date, like we knew that. However, there was something that
we knew was really that we were meant to experience together through sex, like
he was really healing in like a divine masculine archaetype, I would say,
and like the first man that I feel like it could be called a divine
masculine that I've experienced in my life. And knowing that he wasn't my person,
you know, causes anxiety of like oh my god, like what's the
point that you get in your head? But there was this natural knowing of
like after six weeks where I felt like there was this culmination of like all
the lessons that I learned from him felt complete, and if we were going
to continue seeing each other, it would only be for sex, but it
wouldn't like we were seeing each other for sex. But it was like in
a very healthy like every time we came to each other, like we were
learning more and going deeper. Whereas there was this moment of like, Okay,
this is where the plateau is this is a natural end, and so
we both chose to end it. And that's the season thing that you're saying,
Like, I learned so much in that experience, and I also showed
up for myself and saying like knowing when it was going, like when we
were meant to end. And I think that's such a valuable tool to show
yourself that like I don't need to know the outcome of this, I just
need to trust that, like I will know when I will know. You
know, yeah, I think we all feel it, and it's a matter
of having that internal mindset to know it's okay, it's okay for things to
run its course. That doesn't make them a bad person. It doesn't make
you a bad person. It just doesn't make sense anymore. And it's ran,
it's ran, it's time, and you know, yeah, I think
there's also that fear of like, well I have it again or or I
mean that's me because I go long stent without sach. So I'm like,
you know, so like that's that I could see that being something that would
hold people too is like lack almost like what's the next one. But it's
just like trusting in yourself and like since then I've done. I mean that
was like a year ago, and since then, I've done so much.
I started business and done so much. And I recently started seeing someone now,
and so there was like a year of like like completely no sexual like
energy with another person. And so to be able to compare who I was
a year ago to who I am now with a man, it's like a
completely different experience. I bet, I bet it feels much different, but
in the best way. Yeah, I mean, and this person is someone
that I wouldn't I don't see myself with either, and so I and I
told him that, like he's very understanding, and it's me coming back to
the trust of Okay, I will know when this is going to be done
and when it's going to end, you know, because of course there's we
go through all these fears of like, oh, in the past whatever,
But yeah, showing up for myself and this experience has been I mean super
powering because I'm like patting myself on the back of how like I am the
woman that I wanted to be two years ago, and of course I saw
more and more, but like, um, yeah, I'm just it's been
a really beautiful, like journey to be a part of that's on growth.
That's on growth right there. We'd love to see it, yeah, to
clarify, to kind of understand your journey and where you're at. When you
said, like, I'm the person I'm with now is not someone I see
myself. Are you saying that you are at this point acknowledging that, like
you're you're currently not seeing yourself with this person long term, or are you
like doing that like this is someone I couldn't have seen myself with two years
ago. No, No, oh, well I know my old self maybe
two years ago might have wished like even though I knew, even though I
know my two year ago self would know, Okay, this is not my
person. However I would want I would want him to be in person just
because pulls up this this hole. Yeah. However, now I'm like,
Okay, he is not my person. And I also want to experience myself
with insects because it's been a while, and I want to experience myself like
being in my feminine while being held by the masculine, you know, and
honestly, like there's been triggers that have been brought up because in a healthy
way where I could feel the energetic currents of like, oh I need to
come fast and like those old patterns, those old beliefs from two years ago,
and the whole reason why I started this journey came back and I was
like, I went through this whole week of like, oh my god,
imposter syndrome, like I didn't learn anything those two years or just awash.
However, those were just showed me to remind me like, Okay, this
is where you once were. And then a week later we met up again
and I showed up super just like in my fullest expression and like showed up
as who I am now, and it just allowed me to see the contrast
and so you can do for me. I feel like I have done so
much on my own and now I get to like this is my my period
where I really get to practice and like use the tools out in life now.
Yeah. Yeah, growth doesn't happen in a straight line, so there's
always going to be these weird little divots and dips of refiguring something else out
that you haven't had to deal with the fact. But I also, very
selfishly, I love that you're almost using, not using, but like the
experience of this person that you're with that you recognize like this isn't long term
for me, that you're using this as like a tool, as like an
learning opportunity, and it makes me so happy. You're like, I've been
very honest, like I don't know this is this isn't the this isn't gonna
last forever. But I've got some things to figure out, so let's just
figure this out together. It's great and he knows, Like, man,
he knows. I told him day one. I was one day one,
like day two, right when I was able to fill into our dynamic mix.
But him being in my life has just really like shown me and like
it's like it's been a beautiful practice of me speaking my needs because I mean,
I don't know how this is going to come across, but there's a
low it's a low cost, or it's a low like I know he's not
my person and I'm not his person, and I know that like we are
not we're on two different levels. But he's someone that is open to learning
and open to experiencing something different because I know I'm giving I'm offering that to
him, and it's just been I've been able to really show up for myself
in ways that I never showed up for myself before, like speaking my needs
and being blunt. Like there's a point where I was like, this is
what I need and if you can't show up like that, then like we're
gonna end. And I literally said that to him, and he invited me
for dinner and we talked it out and it was great. So I've just
been able to really show up for myself from this experience and have someone like
reflect to me my own journey and growth practice makes perfect. You give me
like for science vibes, we're gonna do this so for science. Yeah.
I was kind of curious about that too, Like you know, you start
kind of seeing someone and you decide, hey, this is not like my
long term purpose. What is the what is the reasoning to like stay with
that person as opposed to like, hey, I don't think this is gonna
go a long term let's just like call it here not quote unquote waste our
time and whatever I aspect that is, So like, what's the purpose of
hanging around this guy? Yeah, I feel there's a few ways, like
I am not like, so there's a thing called solo polyamory. I don't
really like connect to the term, but I know that's exactly what I'm like,
like the definition of it is what I'm experiencing where I'm my primary partner
and I'm not seeing multiple like more than one right now, but like I'm
open to it. But it's where you like are you're like dating other people,
and my intentions aren't to find my life partner. Instead there to witness
myself in different dynamics and see what I actually really want because I know the
list, because of course I want to I want to find my partner,
and I also know I'm not ready yet. I do know that like energetically
I don't have the tools yet for that soon. But what I'm learning through
other people is what I want. So it's to experience myself in different ways
and to really understand what I do want and to like have this like knowing
of the person I do want to call in and so basically I'm just you
know, what I'm experiencing is like what a lot of people do, like
unconsci where you're just like dating a lot of people and like your experience yourself
through other people. But I'm doing it from a very conscious space of like
I'm doing this for me to experience myself and really like get to know someone
else and get to know another human. And it's like I'm not just taking
there's there's it's a giving and it's really beautiful. And knowing from the start
my expectations and my intentions makes it a really like nourishing experience. Like I'm
not like I'm not leaking my energy like know where you're just like oh,
she says she doesn't want to be a partner, but like you're kind of
leaking that like undertone, it's like no, like this is what I want.
And if this is not something that you want to be a part of,
it's fine too, you know. Yeah again for science, it's just
like it's like yeah, like you don't know what you want until you like
put yourself out there. Yeah. I love this. I really I don't
know if you're doing this, but I think you should. You need to
write all these things down, need to write all these experiences down, Like
this is something I would read people would read, or I love about it
because that's like I get into my psyche really like quickly, and I don't
really have any like off limit topic, so it's really fun for me.
Yeah, I love having the conversation it's it's so good. So I live
for and this is what the kind of conversations that like to have with my
friends. And they're either like good or they're like not good. I'm like,
oh yeah, but why Well? So, um, what is next
for BPE? I note that you have some different things you've announced recently and
there's some new things, So what is next? Yeah? So um the
past few months BP has been like a weekly offering in Austin, and I'm
I've chosen to end that with the new year. Um, so BP's really
stepping into like its own space, its own U experience. So I see
doing monthly events for women to come to and to experience themselves. I'm going
to do a co ed event in February for men and women to come and
do central embodiment, so that'll be really powerful. But in general, I
am announcing a three month program for women to do like at home with me,
like on zoom, and that's gonna be really powerful because it's going to
be a whole journey of you know, I didn't just step into BP.
I'm not like, oh okay, big puss the energy. It was this
two year journey right, So I'm bringing out all those tools and all the
practices that woke me up to this like bigness and to like owning my power
and constantly choosing to own my power. And so that's going to be a
really poem program for women. And then I have a retreat in March as
well in Austin, like a little bit outside of Austin. Is that the
Marble's Fallow one? Yeah, yeah, I did go on the one on
the website. Oh amazing. Yeah, A lot of like little like this
is like we're putting it out. I'm putting it out, and like the
big vision for a Big Pussy Energy is to have it be like a world
tour essentially, where like my launch party was a four hour event where I
facilitated sixteen women through central embodiment, tworking and lap dancing and so bringing that
experience to different studies across the country and to different countries across the world.
That's so fun. I love this. I want to know more about this
coed situation because that is so amazing. Because I know that we've been calling
the season. The season three that we're on has been m We've been calling
it like Adams Adams Journey because we've had conversations with um sex coaches and different
like therapists and such. In the entire time it's Adam. Everyone feels Adams
like for learning and also he's like discovering all these things very therapeutic and cathartic,
and he's like learning learning all the things, and it's very it's very
into it. Yeah, you've been learning a lot about yourself and about Like
he's like, I have anxiety. I'm like, you have anxiety about with
your performance or about this or about feeling used to talk about how masturbation was
like shameful to him. I was like, oh no, I didn't know
this was a thing. So I love I love men going on the journey
as well, because that one is also just like extra foreign. Yeah,
I mean it was like a co creation idea because when I started, I
mean before even Big PUSSI Energy came out, I was already I was teaching
my torque shop class in Austin, and so I already was like in sentual
embodiment outwardly, and I was like hosting lady nights. I would call it
men's nights, So ladies would come over once a month, and we would
talk about SAX, so essentially this and then once a month I'd have men
come over and we talk about sex and I'd be the only woman in the
room. And so like men have been asking me like, Okay, how
do I become centraally embodied? Like what does that journey look like? And
to be honest, like I don't know. I BPE is literally the birth
of my own personal journey that I'm I'm sharing with other women to walk along.
However, I did do. I co facilitated an event with my friend
Layola, and it was like a sensual party where everyone like I guess you
can call central play party, but there was no like sex. It was
more just like ever you could be naked if you want it, but it
was more just like sensual and like just being like seen. And I taught
a lap dance class or a lap dance workshop, and before I taught the
lap dance like in the co ed space, which that's the only time I've
ever taught co ed so far. Even this is like three months ago.
I led the men and women in a central embodiment ten minute routine. Usually
do thirty minutes to embodiment, but I did a really short ten minute,
just so you get into your body. And one of my friends, who
was a man, he was there and the whole night was like four hours,
and he came up to me and he said, the best experience of
that whole night was the ten minutes that you were guiding us in the sensual
embodiment practice. So not even the lap dance, not the whole night where
you're like feeling sensual and you're with others, and you know, that ten
minutes was the most eye opening experience that he had. And in how I
guide sensual embodiment, all of our eyes are closed, even my own,
So it's a very inward experience. It's for you to experience yourself, to
experience your body and your sacral shaka, which is where your sensual sexual energy
is. And he and I didn't change the movements. I did the same
exact movements I teach women. And so it also opens up the whole like
how men are supposed to move or if I move my hips like that,
does that mean I'm like gay? Like I don't even know what goes through
it, but like the whole like yeah, being feminine and a man like
that, shaming and like the cultural norms when it comes to like expressing yourself
and more of a feminine energy. So he brought up that experience to me
and he said, like he had tears coming through because our hip store emotions,
like our hips are like the nober one space where emotions are stored,
and so I guide you removing your hips. And I think that really opened
him up and opened his body, and so his feedback from that experience and
he's a great dear friend of mine and he's a really heart open person,
like helped me realize that, like I don't need to change anything about sensual
embodiment to curate it for men. If anything, it's inviting the men into
their feminine energy and into being slow and into being exploratory, which is like
the feminine like going slow and being present. So that's what brought up the
idea. So I'm literally just going to teach the same thing I teach to
women, just with men in the room as well. Yeah, I love
that, and I know, I know we got to wrap up, but
I did want to say this real quick that, Uh, I do think
I love that like having men be a more feminine role because I do think
like that's such a struggle for men. Um, we talk about this all
the time. You'll always see pictures of guys dressing up for Halloween and they'll
be dressed as a woman. They'll have the dress on, and you're always
like, oh, look at them. They're not afraid to dress as women.
And I have to be like, no, here's what's happening, because
I think, like any time a man is feminism, it's always in this
very ironic like look at me, I'm a dude with a skirt on.
Like I grew up in College Station where Texas A and m Is, So
like every Halloween it was just every like guy was out there with a skirt
because it's because you see the good in people. But when I know these
guys and there is a little bit there is, Yeah, there's a there
can be a negativity too when people are doing it with the wrong mindset.
Yeah. So I love you. Like having this opportunity for men to actually,
like in a very genuine, earnest way, dig into their looking in
feminism. Yeah yeah, yeah, looking masculine femine energies. And so it's
really just allowing the feminine and all of us to be seen, not by
others, but by yourself. Yeah, because if you think about it,
I feel as a as a female, when we have tendencies to have masculine
energy, it's like an empowered thing. It's like you go, girl,
you work hard for that money, you do the things. But when it
comes to men honing it on a feminine energy, it's still something that is
scary and isn't at a point where society and culturally we're looking at that as
like this crazy positive thing. It's still something that people are very on defensive
out still. So that's really important that you're doing that. Yeah, thank
you, Yeah, I'm excited. Well, Brittini, where would you like
people to find you in BPE? Well, Instagram is a great space.
So I have my own personal account which is at Brittini Burnan and then BP
she has her own account too, So that's a Big Pussy Energy with one
S for pussy. Instagram doesn't allow it. I got around, and then
I also have a website which is Big Pussy Energy dot co. So those
are the great spaces to look into it more perfect and all that's going to
be linked in the show descriptions. Everyone can hyperlink it there, alrighty guy
as well. It was such a blast talking with you, Brittini. And
until next time, I'm sure you'll catch me in a retreat or stocking you
at yoga one or the other, because I think we should be friends.
But until next time, thank you so much for talking with us today.
Thank you. It's so fun. I just aired out all of my shadows
and it feels really I hope it was artic. Wow. Wow wow.
So for the first time ever, the end of the interview is not the
end of the episode. How do you feel about that? Oh? Oh,
or have we started? We're starting? Oh? Okay, cut it
um. We're introducing something new. We're introducing something Yeah. No, it's
very exciting. Sorry, I was pulling it up. I wasn't I wasn't
prepared. I was also pulling it up, but I can multitask. Wow.
Well, well, I just wasn't aware to start. Well, welcome
guys. I hope you enjoyed um that interview and I call more conversations than
interview, but I do hope you enjoyed the time with Brittany and learning about
her. Make sure you go follow her and big Pussy energy on everything Lincoln.
The descriptions, but we introduced. We're introducing something new that we did
during the break. So if you don't keep up with us on social media
um or you're not one of our Patreon members, you may not know that
we participated in the Tucson Erotic Art Show over the break. We introduced a
little interactive exhibit called the Hotline at the Tucson Erotica Art Show and it is
a sex confession booth, an anonymous sex confession booth where people can provide advice,
talk about their fantasies, leave a confession, a favorite moment, a
least favorite moment. It's pretty open forum, but it's a way for people
to be part of the conversation of making sex less taboo and intimidating, you
know, just like we try and do every single week. So we wanted
to introduce something like that, and we are also going to share that information
with you guys, our listeners, so you can also leave an anonymous sex
confession even if you weren't in Tucson. Yeah, so people are going to
leave these they already have and we're just gonna listen to them. It's all
as anonymous as you want it to be. We're going to listen to them
and discuss them at the end of the episodes. And if you want to
be part of the show and you want to leave one of these, you
can do so by calling the phone number five one two nine one zero,
five to seven, nine to six, and you can leave a voicemail and
then it'll get played on this show and we'll talk about it, talk about
it, and that phone number will be in the description as well. So
I don't feel like you need to run and find a piece of paper at
this very moment. But okay, we've got quite a few to pick from.
You know, this was up all month, so they've got quite a
few. Any rhymer way you want me to pick these? Do we want
to do them in order? Do we want to mix them up? I
think we shouldn't mix them up. Okay, I am going to just pick
a random one. How about that? Yeah, sounds good? Okay,
And four people to know we have not listened to any of them. We've
not listened to any of them. This is all blind listening, blind listening.
I'm gonna play it and we're gonna we're gonna talk about it. I
like to list ask I like all different colors, of us. I like
mail asks, one like thee mail asks. I like to like ash,
I like to like blooky hue. But sometimes when I'm with a fan,
if I look an ass, it's like looking at I think about looking a
poky boil and looking on fans and it's so good when they moan, oh,
they moan, you want that acts like don't you? Yeah, you
do? You like that song? Grin sobbing you going round and round and
round and oh inside slipping the slip, Oh you know it. I like,
ah. So what what I like about this voicemail is how doctor sees
it sounds it's giving green eggs and ham poetry slam. It really does.
Yeah, it really did. That was quite a That was quite a performance
in that voicemail. And for context, you know that was um I don't
know what day, but these are in the evening, so people are at
the bar, they're drinking, they're enjoying themselves, so you know they're they're
clearly having a good old time. I love. I don't think we talk
enough about ladies looking ass, sure, I do think it's more when we
think about it, it's thought of as the men doing it to the ladies.
Sure. I think it has to do with like masculinity and everyone afraid
of their sexuality, that men aren't going to talk about it as much.
And I can even see ladies being afraid to talk about it as well,
because it can come off almost like a cleanliness thing, you know what I
mean, Like it's cue when guys do it. But it could be like
grown man ass could be gross. It could be very gross. Yeah,
because you specifically won't even get near me if you haven't showered, if I'm
like trying to put a finger on anything. Yeah, and I got a
Harry, but you do have a Harry. But I like your hairy butt,
so yeah, but no, I mean good for her. Yeah,
I'm curious, like how I want to know the strategy behind that, because
not every man will That's what That's what I was trying to about to say,
Yeah, like how how she goes about how does she introduce introducing that?
And like is it difficult to find people? Because I mean the way
she phrased it, it sounded or they phrased it. I don't want to
yeah, gender them. Um, the way they phrased it, it sounds
like they like it's something that they genuinely try to make happen like it's for
them. Yeah, So I'm curious how difficult it is to find someone that
is willing to take that go down that road, especially like if they don't
you know, if if they're not in a committed relationship and doing a one
night stand, whether they are not, I don't know that information wasn't prevalent
in there. I would argue for someone could be easier. You think,
hmm, like, all, I'm never gonna see this person again, sure,
getting these cheeks, maybe I could see it either way. But I
do not condone. I do not condone non consent. Like let's see,
let's be fair. But like let's say I was with you where you and
I have been married for four years together for eight you and I don't really
consent anymore. Sure we have, well we consent, but we don't have
like conversations. Correct, you and I are very much like I consent to
try and think whatever happens, I happened. Yeah, and so in that
situation, maybe this is a question for you. Would you rather us talk
about that ahead of time or would you rather me ask for forgiveness later?
Because if you're because I could see you overthinking it, being nervous, actual
sheets are clenched. You know. Is it better just in the heat of
the moment, when I'm like whether I'm giving you a sloppy toppy I'm making
my way down to your giblets, I'm making my way down to your chili
ring. I know I love saying that to you. I always say it
only makes my ass pucker and my my dick shrivel up. I only say
it because you don't like it. Um, you know what I mean?
Is this a good thing to work our way into in the heat of the
moment. I think, like a part of me is like no, because
I don't want to be surprised. But I think if I looked at it
realistically, that would probably be the best way to do it for you,
for me, Yeah, in a committed, consensual relationship correct, Yes,
yes, if you have that kind of relationship with whoever you are involved.
Yeah, Because I could just see guys overthinking it. Yeah, I think
I would, because from my perspective, I think I would get nervous.
And we talked about this in the podcast. I want to say season two
where where I've brought up to you that when it comes to ass play,
it is a conversation for the women to have with the men about the men
in their ass yes, whereas vice versa. In the heat of the moment,
guys are constantly like, sure, ass play. It's very rare that
I've ever unless it was straight up penetration, unless it was anal sure,
I have never had a guy asked me if they could do anything in my
butt. They just so. I think that's an interesting takeaway too, that
you know, whether we need to have more conversations with women or also men
just need to like get over themselves. I would say probably the former.
Yeah, yeah, but yeah, it is interesting that with men, you
never asked me when you look my booty hole. No, I feel like
there was probably a conversation early on about it. I don't think we had
conversations in the beginning of our relationship. I was a hoedown and you were
very excited. We were nineteen and twenty one and especially eight years ago,
so conversations are also very different in regards to consent um. And you know,
I just liked each other and you just didn't number on me. Yeah,
we never talked about it. I think conversation again, it's always a
conversation when it's full penetration. Yeah for sure. Yeah, I don't think
requires prep work on both their ends. That doesn't mean you could just slip
in. Yeah, and that's like that is a shocker. Yeah, if
you're not expecting it. Um, but good on her, Good on her
bird to be excited and proud about it. Yeah. I think I think
women should be more open to it because men aren't going to be historically.
Yeah, And I also think, like I think it's interesting, um,
like you know the idea that like physically, I mean it's like physically scientifically
whatever, like anal on a woman does not like there's no there's no part
of the body that that makes feel good, you know what I'm saying,
Like as opposed to men have a prostate right women have like the clutorists and
like their sensitive parts in their in their volva, Like women doesn't don't have
that like gland or whatever in their asshole that feels good whenever it's it's being
touched. Um. Such scientific Well, so there's the idea that like,
you know, anal is for whoever is when it comes to a man and
a woman having sex, anal is more for the man for the woman than
the woman because of that theoretically right, but like there is the but they
like some women even though there's not maybe a physical but they can still be
really entered. And I feel like this is a similar thing where like,
yeah, she just like really enjoys it. It's more of a it feels
like a more mental and emotional turn on. Yeah no, absolutely, yeah,
yeah, so good for her. Kudos to her for being our first
on air confession. Yeah, shout out to you, friend, shout out
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