WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:19.760 Andy, cancel the high cancer. It's not sorry, Andy. What's up? 2 00:00:19.760 --> 00:00:23.719 Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode, 3 00:00:23.800 --> 00:00:27.440 then you are meant to be here, So keep listening on that Bitch 4 00:00:27.480 --> 00:00:31.600 Is Positive podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, 5 00:00:31.679 --> 00:00:36.479 we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive 6 00:00:36.600 --> 00:00:43.719 bitch self that is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, 7 00:00:43.799 --> 00:00:48.479 we unbecome who we are not so we can fully step into exactly who we 8 00:00:48.560 --> 00:00:54.679 came here to be. Today, we're gonna talk about five specific steps you 9 00:00:54.759 --> 00:01:03.359 can take right now, right here to activate your magnetic energy. Your magnetic 10 00:01:03.479 --> 00:01:07.920 energy is always available to you. Lower vibrational energy is also always available to 11 00:01:07.959 --> 00:01:11.840 you. It's up to you to tune in, to turn on and activate 12 00:01:11.879 --> 00:01:18.560 the energy you wish to embody. These five steps will help you tune out 13 00:01:18.760 --> 00:01:22.840 of the lower vibrational energy that is keeping you stuck and in patterns, and 14 00:01:22.920 --> 00:01:27.239 tune in to the energy from your future self that's already living her dream life. 15 00:01:27.640 --> 00:01:33.959 If you have not yet pre ordered or ordered show up as her my 16 00:01:34.159 --> 00:01:40.959 new book, which gives you ten laws on magnetic energy mastering manifestation. Embodying 17 00:01:41.200 --> 00:01:46.359 your best energy, putting yourself on the pedestal, getting everything in anyone you 18 00:01:46.519 --> 00:01:51.120 want, be sure to order show up as her. Now we are going 19 00:01:51.159 --> 00:01:53.359 to be pulling topics from this book in this podcast, so it's really going 20 00:01:53.400 --> 00:01:57.439 to be helpful that you have the physical book with you. You can follow 21 00:01:57.480 --> 00:02:00.560 along and take notes. We are studying these concepts so that we're not just 22 00:02:00.719 --> 00:02:06.079 learning about them, but also we're embodying them. We're actually putting them into 23 00:02:06.159 --> 00:02:10.240 action. Because knowledge is great, but true power comes through using knowledge through 24 00:02:10.400 --> 00:02:14.800 action. I keep getting questions, am I still doing one on one coaching? 25 00:02:14.960 --> 00:02:17.439 Yes, I absolutely am. I believe it's really important to have someone 26 00:02:17.439 --> 00:02:22.080 sitting directly across from you and pointing out your blind spots, the things that 27 00:02:22.120 --> 00:02:24.439 are happening or that you're doing and you don't even realize you're doing it because 28 00:02:24.479 --> 00:02:29.039 you're on autopilot. I am a certified Life and Energy coach and I do 29 00:02:29.120 --> 00:02:31.400 offer one on one sessions. If you want more intimate guidance, you can 30 00:02:31.479 --> 00:02:36.520 DM me now on Instagram at a vibe in with CC. Be sure you're 31 00:02:36.560 --> 00:02:39.919 following me there for daily tips and tricks on magnetic energy. But of course 32 00:02:39.960 --> 00:02:44.000 you can DM me and we'll talk about how I can help you. Without 33 00:02:44.039 --> 00:02:49.280 further ADO, let's get into today's episode. The first thing I want you 34 00:02:49.360 --> 00:02:54.479 to start doing to activate and increase magnetic energy is so simple. It's so 35 00:02:54.719 --> 00:02:59.000 easy. You can do it while you're taking a walk, you can do 36 00:02:59.080 --> 00:03:01.560 it while you're on the plane. You can do it in the car, 37 00:03:01.680 --> 00:03:06.159 you can do it on a train, you can do it anywhere at any 38 00:03:06.240 --> 00:03:12.759 time, with literally anyone. It's so simple, so easy, and it 39 00:03:12.800 --> 00:03:19.840 will help you activate higher vibrational energies within your body. What is this technique? 40 00:03:19.879 --> 00:03:25.360 It's literally just sending out love beams to other people, sending out positive 41 00:03:25.400 --> 00:03:30.360 white light energy to other people. I recently did a trail the other day, 42 00:03:30.439 --> 00:03:36.439 and while I was walking on my trail, anytime someone walked past me, 43 00:03:36.800 --> 00:03:38.199 I would always give them a smile, even if they don't look, 44 00:03:38.560 --> 00:03:43.039 even if they don't realize that I'm looking at them, I would smile and 45 00:03:43.280 --> 00:03:47.400 send them a beam of positive energy. Now why am I doing this? 46 00:03:47.800 --> 00:03:53.360 Well, let's think about the law of karma. If I am constantly sending 47 00:03:53.360 --> 00:03:58.800 out negative energy because my brothers annoying me, my boss sucks. These coworkers 48 00:03:58.840 --> 00:04:03.120 are always talking bad about me. If I'm constantly sending out frustration and anger 49 00:04:03.960 --> 00:04:10.759 annoyance, that's the energy I'm also asking to come back into my life like 50 00:04:10.800 --> 00:04:15.879 a boot mu rang. The law of karma, what we give out is 51 00:04:15.919 --> 00:04:18.879 what we're going to get back, and karma knows our address. If you 52 00:04:19.040 --> 00:04:25.800 want to increase positive magnetic energy, send out positive magnetic energy, and you 53 00:04:25.839 --> 00:04:28.800 can do it to random people all the time, at the grocery store, 54 00:04:28.959 --> 00:04:33.319 at the trail, anywhere you go at any time. I also think that 55 00:04:33.560 --> 00:04:39.079 when you do this, you feel good about yourself. It increases your self 56 00:04:39.120 --> 00:04:43.480 confidence. I feel good knowing that I'm sending someone love and positivity and they 57 00:04:43.480 --> 00:04:46.879 don't even know that I'm doing that. It feels good in my bones that 58 00:04:46.959 --> 00:04:53.319 I'm sending someone something so good, something so beautiful, something so light, 59 00:04:53.439 --> 00:04:57.800 that it's actually helping them too one way. And I just saw four four 60 00:04:57.920 --> 00:05:03.279 four on the clock. Hello stability. Hello maybe a new home, a 61 00:05:03.319 --> 00:05:10.040 new job, new beginning. When we send out positivity, whether we're just 62 00:05:10.120 --> 00:05:14.959 sending out love beams or loving light, or we're literally boots on the ground 63 00:05:14.959 --> 00:05:19.000 doing charity work, when we're giving positivity to someone else, it raises our 64 00:05:19.040 --> 00:05:26.439 self esteem Because simultaneously, as we're focusing on helping someone else, guess what 65 00:05:26.439 --> 00:05:30.040 you're also doing. You're decentering your own insecurities. You're not thinking, oh 66 00:05:30.079 --> 00:05:33.199 I don't look good today, Oh my hair, what a mess? Oh 67 00:05:33.199 --> 00:05:36.079 my life, I don't even know what I'm doing anymore. You're not thinking 68 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:40.920 about anything like that. You're at a soup kitchen saying, oh my god, 69 00:05:41.199 --> 00:05:44.839 this person literally doesn't have food on their table, and I'm helping them 70 00:05:45.160 --> 00:05:48.120 get their next meal. You're sending out love on the trail and you're saying, 71 00:05:48.160 --> 00:05:51.879 oh my god, what a blessing that I can give love and get 72 00:05:51.959 --> 00:05:59.399 love. It shifts how you see yourself. And instead of your insecurities being 73 00:05:59.439 --> 00:06:04.399 on your paddle, instead of your insecurities being center stage, what center stage 74 00:06:04.759 --> 00:06:12.680 your ability to give out and get high vibration magnetic energy. You focusing on 75 00:06:12.720 --> 00:06:16.399 your insecurities, I don't like the way I look today. That's tuning into 76 00:06:16.439 --> 00:06:23.519 the lower vibrational energies. You focusing on sending out positive energy and therefore receiving 77 00:06:23.600 --> 00:06:30.759 positive energy. That's centering yourself as not an object but the subject of your 78 00:06:30.800 --> 00:06:33.879 own life. Because really, even when we're focusing on our insecurities. We're 79 00:06:34.000 --> 00:06:40.639 objectifying ourselves. We're looking at ourselves as something to be perceived, not a 80 00:06:40.680 --> 00:06:45.160 whole living being. But when you center, look what I'm doing, the 81 00:06:45.199 --> 00:06:49.079 positivity I'm giving into the world. Well, now you're valuing yourself not only 82 00:06:49.120 --> 00:06:53.519 as the center of your own life, not only as a subject, but 83 00:06:53.600 --> 00:06:58.759 as a being who can enact positive influence in the world. And not to 84 00:06:58.839 --> 00:07:02.839 self esteem booster, it's a confidence booster. And remember you can do this 85 00:07:02.959 --> 00:07:06.839 anytime, anywhere. You don't have to say anything, you don't even have 86 00:07:06.920 --> 00:07:14.079 to smile. But it's something I personally like to do. Just intend to 87 00:07:14.279 --> 00:07:17.639 send that person white light. When I'm walking next to someone or I pass 88 00:07:17.720 --> 00:07:20.920 someone, I just say love beam. Just send it out. In my 89 00:07:20.959 --> 00:07:25.279 head, I say it love beam, love beam, or light beam, 90 00:07:25.560 --> 00:07:29.399 light beam, and I just send it out. And the crazy thing is, 91 00:07:29.879 --> 00:07:32.120 you notice this sometimes in your reality. But I would give someone a 92 00:07:32.160 --> 00:07:36.279 compliment of oh my god, you are glowing, and the next day someone 93 00:07:36.279 --> 00:07:40.839 in my workout class literally said the exact same thing to me, Oh my 94 00:07:40.959 --> 00:07:45.079 god, you are glowing. What you give out, you're gonna get back 95 00:07:45.399 --> 00:07:48.959 If all you're giving out is negative things on social media, you're being negative 96 00:07:48.959 --> 00:07:53.879 to your family and friends. You're constantly broadcasting that you're annoyed and upset. 97 00:07:54.319 --> 00:07:58.319 Well, that's what you're going to attract too, And I'm not blaming you, 98 00:07:58.360 --> 00:08:01.800 but also wake up and start changing your life by changing what you're broadcasting 99 00:08:01.879 --> 00:08:09.560 and sending out. The second tool that you can use to magnify magnetic energy 100 00:08:09.639 --> 00:08:18.920 and activate this magnetic energy is priming your body and mind with high vibration music. 101 00:08:20.759 --> 00:08:24.800 There is so much music out there, and I think a lot of 102 00:08:24.839 --> 00:08:30.480 the times we're not even paying attention to what the words are saying or how 103 00:08:30.480 --> 00:08:35.320 they're making us feel. But I specifically remember when I was going through a 104 00:08:35.360 --> 00:08:39.639 breakup. I think it was three years ago. I kept listening to one 105 00:08:39.679 --> 00:08:45.960 of Billie Eilish's song which I really do like her, but the song was 106 00:08:46.000 --> 00:08:52.000 called Barry a Friend, and the words were so deep and we can honor 107 00:08:52.080 --> 00:08:58.759 that, but also quite negative. And every single time after I would listen 108 00:08:58.799 --> 00:09:03.200 to that song, I always felt in my feelings, I always felt like 109 00:09:03.240 --> 00:09:05.840 I was in a lower vibration. I didn't put two and two together at 110 00:09:05.840 --> 00:09:09.840 that time. Every time I'm listening to the song, I'm feeling negative after. 111 00:09:09.080 --> 00:09:13.679 It took me a little while to realize that. But when you're listening 112 00:09:13.720 --> 00:09:18.120 to music, it puts you kind of in this hypnotic state where your subconscious 113 00:09:18.120 --> 00:09:22.799 mind opens up a little bit more and you're really receiving the lyrics. It 114 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:31.600 is quite detrimental to us if we're listening over and over and over again to 115 00:09:33.080 --> 00:09:39.559 music that has really harsh lyrics that is constantly talking about how much they missed 116 00:09:39.600 --> 00:09:43.759 their ex because that is telling our subconscious mind, it's encoding it on how 117 00:09:43.799 --> 00:09:50.159 we should feel and what we should think. You listening to music over and 118 00:09:50.360 --> 00:09:56.279 over and over again, you're programming your subconscious mind. You're programming your energy, 119 00:09:56.600 --> 00:10:05.919 You're programming your be What are you programming into your life? Because it 120 00:10:05.000 --> 00:10:09.759 will and it does have an effect on you. I make sure that the 121 00:10:09.840 --> 00:10:16.879 music I'm listening to is not dampening my mood, is not bringing me down. 122 00:10:16.919 --> 00:10:18.960 If it's really sad and really negative, I'm not listening to it. 123 00:10:20.320 --> 00:10:22.919 And I've become so sensitive to it at this point. If I go to 124 00:10:22.960 --> 00:10:26.840 a mall or the nail salon and they have negative or sad music on, 125 00:10:28.039 --> 00:10:31.320 I always bring headphones with me now, so I don't have to listen to 126 00:10:31.360 --> 00:10:35.960 it, because that's how it gets into our mind. When we're not thinking 127 00:10:35.000 --> 00:10:41.120 about it, it just absorbs into our mind and then we start thinking, 128 00:10:41.759 --> 00:10:43.559 I'm at the mall, but why do I feel so sad? That literally 129 00:10:43.600 --> 00:10:46.320 actually just happened to me. Like a month ago, I was at the 130 00:10:46.360 --> 00:10:50.960 mall. I was not paying attention to the music at first, and I 131 00:10:50.000 --> 00:10:54.679 started to feel so upset, so upset, so upset, and I'm thinking 132 00:10:54.679 --> 00:10:56.879 to myself, well, I know I'm going through a breakup, so maybe 133 00:10:56.879 --> 00:10:58.799 that's what's going on here, but like, what was the trigger that I'm 134 00:11:00.039 --> 00:11:05.120 randomly feeling upset again? And then I intuitively said, wait, what song 135 00:11:05.200 --> 00:11:07.200 is playing right now? And it was the most depressing song ever. But 136 00:11:07.320 --> 00:11:11.879 we don't realize how much this music has an effect on us. Three years 137 00:11:11.919 --> 00:11:16.360 ago, when I was going into this workout class, every single song this 138 00:11:16.399 --> 00:11:20.159 guy played it was all EDM, but they were all like breakup EDM songs, 139 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:22.559 and I would start crying in the middle of the class because I'm like, 140 00:11:22.639 --> 00:11:26.559 oh my god, this is too much for me to bear. Music 141 00:11:26.679 --> 00:11:31.200 puts us into a hypnotic state, and then it encodes us on how to 142 00:11:31.240 --> 00:11:37.480 feel. So if that's the case. You need to be so particular about 143 00:11:37.519 --> 00:11:39.720 what you're listening to. What's a good song? Angel Energy my own song. 144 00:11:39.799 --> 00:11:45.320 I purposely created it so we would not go to these lower vibrational places. 145 00:11:45.879 --> 00:11:50.960 Listen to music that raises your vibration and does not rip it down. 146 00:11:50.360 --> 00:11:54.360 So Angel Energy is my song, and you can just search Angel Energy on 147 00:11:54.399 --> 00:11:58.840 any streaming platform. Sign is also one of my songs. You can search 148 00:11:58.840 --> 00:12:03.120 that. B Day is also one of my songs. All these songs will 149 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:07.480 help you heal and move on. But I did recently make a divine feminine 150 00:12:07.519 --> 00:12:11.000 playlist on my phone, and I just want to tell you some of the 151 00:12:11.039 --> 00:12:16.720 songs that have been helping me. Number one Espresso Sabrina Carpenter. That song 152 00:12:16.759 --> 00:12:20.440 puts me into the best mood. It is all about how you are on 153 00:12:20.559 --> 00:12:24.879 your own pedestal. Yes, people are into you, Yes they're gonna like 154 00:12:24.919 --> 00:12:30.759 you, but of course because you are this almost hypnotic drink that everyone wants 155 00:12:30.759 --> 00:12:35.279 a sip of. Not My Fault Renee Rap amazing. Also, Megan thee 156 00:12:35.279 --> 00:12:37.679 Stallion is in that Not My Fault. It's from the movie Mean Girls. 157 00:12:37.720 --> 00:12:43.120 It puts me into the best mood. Greedy Tate McCrae. I think that's 158 00:12:43.120 --> 00:12:46.120 how you say it. Amazing song puts me into the best mood. Energy 159 00:12:46.279 --> 00:12:54.759 by Morgan Saint Jean, Amazing, Breakfast by Dove Cameron, Amazing, Little 160 00:12:54.000 --> 00:13:01.600 Girl Gone by Chinchilla, Amazing, Prima Donna Marina, and then Diamonds Amazing. 161 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:05.919 Of course Woman by Doja Cat. That was before whatever she's going through 162 00:13:05.960 --> 00:13:11.039 now is happening, but Woman is a really good song. Feather another Sabrina 163 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:16.840 Carpenter and also man Eater the song, but the cover from Dana Harper, 164 00:13:16.879 --> 00:13:18.840 which was on the Voice. I don't know when, but apparently that happened. 165 00:13:20.399 --> 00:13:26.360 Illusion do a Lipa anything do Alopa really is probably pretty good and Exes 166 00:13:26.399 --> 00:13:31.159 Tate McCray, Boss Bitch, Doja Cat, Make You Mine, Madison Beer, 167 00:13:31.240 --> 00:13:33.440 I like the way you kiss me Artemis. That's all over TikTok right 168 00:13:33.440 --> 00:13:37.200 now. But those are some of the songs that I've been listening to that 169 00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:41.720 have really been making me feel amazing. And I'll play that before I start 170 00:13:41.759 --> 00:13:45.120 my day, or on the way to yoga, or on the way to 171 00:13:45.159 --> 00:13:48.919 the city, or before I go out, and it primes my mind and 172 00:13:48.000 --> 00:13:52.519 body to place myself on the pedestal to remember that I'm the prize, to 173 00:13:52.639 --> 00:13:56.720 remember my worth and my energy, and to remember that I came here from 174 00:13:56.720 --> 00:14:01.240 my energy first, and I'm gonna enjoy my own energy. Number three, 175 00:14:01.360 --> 00:14:05.360 we're now going to start pulling topics and concepts from my book show up as 176 00:14:05.399 --> 00:14:09.279 Her again. Be short to order, and if you are enjoying the book, 177 00:14:09.519 --> 00:14:11.720 if you could please leave a positive review on Amazon. They told me 178 00:14:11.759 --> 00:14:15.679 it really helps the book and it would mean the world to me. So 179 00:14:15.759 --> 00:14:20.039 if any of my podcasts content has ever helped you and you're enjoying the book, 180 00:14:20.360 --> 00:14:24.039 please please please, it really helps the book. Apparently. All right, 181 00:14:24.080 --> 00:14:31.960 we're gonna be flipping to page fifty five here. Okay, So if 182 00:14:31.000 --> 00:14:39.559 we want to activate our magnetic energy tool three is keep your mind held accountable. 183 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:45.440 If you had a friend who was always negative, you wouldn't feel good 184 00:14:45.519 --> 00:14:48.080 around them. When we are always negative in our own head, it doesn't 185 00:14:48.120 --> 00:14:52.679 feel good to be in our own skin. We give our power away when 186 00:14:52.720 --> 00:14:58.000 we let our mind run wild. We must start taking accountability and responsibility for 187 00:14:58.039 --> 00:15:01.120 the thoughts that we are allowing our mind to have on replay. Yes, 188 00:15:01.519 --> 00:15:05.039 we will have a negative thought here and there, but That isn't the problem. 189 00:15:05.279 --> 00:15:09.440 The problem is that after the initial negative thought, we are creating ten 190 00:15:09.519 --> 00:15:15.720 more negative thoughts which are sending us spiraling. I invite you to start imagining 191 00:15:15.720 --> 00:15:20.480 that your negative thoughts about yourself are no longer private, but instead they are 192 00:15:20.519 --> 00:15:24.799 a necklace someone gifted you. Now that's a real statement piece, if you 193 00:15:24.840 --> 00:15:31.240 ask me, imagine that the negative thought nobody likes me has solidified into a 194 00:15:31.279 --> 00:15:35.480 physical silver necklace. It's heavy, and it weighs upon your neck. Every 195 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:41.480 day you look into the mirror daily and see this nobody likes me necklace, 196 00:15:41.759 --> 00:15:45.720 And everywhere you go everyone can see how you are thinking about yourself too. 197 00:15:46.320 --> 00:15:50.519 Every day you are reminding yourself of the same negative thought, and every day 198 00:15:50.559 --> 00:15:54.960 you are strengthening that thought. Eventually, the fake silver from that necklace starts 199 00:15:56.000 --> 00:15:58.919 to turn your neck green. You begin to have a neck ache because it's 200 00:16:00.120 --> 00:16:03.320 oh heavy, and it doesn't even look good with any of your outfits. 201 00:16:03.519 --> 00:16:07.799 So what would you do? You would take off the necklace and return it. 202 00:16:07.320 --> 00:16:11.480 We do not need to hold on to the projections from others or thoughts 203 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:15.240 that are no longer serving us. They are not ours to carry. We 204 00:16:15.320 --> 00:16:18.559 do not own them. We can take them off and return them to the 205 00:16:18.600 --> 00:16:23.759 gifter. If our thoughts were physical jewelry pieces, we would be much more 206 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:29.519 concerned with them. We wouldn't want to lug around that heavy necklace. We 207 00:16:29.519 --> 00:16:33.559 wouldn't want to look at it daily or show other people the truth of what 208 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:37.159 we thought about ourselves. We think that because something isn't physical, it doesn't 209 00:16:37.159 --> 00:16:41.360 have a negative impact on us. Sometimes we try to forget about it altogether, 210 00:16:41.759 --> 00:16:45.919 but these thoughts are weighing us down. Being in denial that you have 211 00:16:47.039 --> 00:16:52.799 negative thoughts will not allow you to transcend to a positive mindset. We don't 212 00:16:52.799 --> 00:16:56.039 have to go down because of our thoughts. We have to put our thoughts 213 00:16:56.120 --> 00:17:00.559 down. We are so focused on the three D focus on shaping our bodies, 214 00:17:00.720 --> 00:17:04.839 we have forgotten to shape our minds, which are influencing our whole reality. 215 00:17:06.319 --> 00:17:10.480 Our thoughts affect how people perceive us, not just bodily, but energetically 216 00:17:10.519 --> 00:17:15.079 too. We all have met someone who was stereotypically good looking, but because 217 00:17:15.119 --> 00:17:18.799 of their energy, we didn't find them attractive, or something was just off 218 00:17:19.640 --> 00:17:23.559 on paper. They're great, but in person, ugh not so much. 219 00:17:25.319 --> 00:17:27.759 Then there are people who aren't our usual type, but we have found them 220 00:17:27.960 --> 00:17:32.920 attractive. What is this all about. Not only does our body communicate what's 221 00:17:32.960 --> 00:17:37.279 held in our mind, our energy talks for us a second we step into 222 00:17:37.400 --> 00:17:41.000 a room. If you want to activate magnetic energy, you can't have non 223 00:17:41.039 --> 00:17:45.079 magnetic thoughts. And in order to not have non magnetic thoughts, you have 224 00:17:45.119 --> 00:17:49.119 to hold yourself accountable. If I was on here every Thursday telling you crazy 225 00:17:49.200 --> 00:17:52.079 things and nothing ever worked, you would be like CEC, I think you 226 00:17:52.160 --> 00:17:55.640 need to, you know, maybe try something else because this is not working 227 00:17:55.680 --> 00:17:59.599 out for you. You would hold me accountable as you should. But the 228 00:17:59.640 --> 00:18:04.559 person and we seem to overlook oftentimes in our reality is ourselves. You have 229 00:18:04.599 --> 00:18:08.319 to hold your own mind accountable and say, wait a damn minute, I'm 230 00:18:08.319 --> 00:18:12.119 not gonna keep letting these negative thoughts run wild in my mind. I'm not 231 00:18:12.119 --> 00:18:18.880 gonna keep letting these thoughts that are so ugly make my reality ugly. I 232 00:18:18.039 --> 00:18:22.599 know, I know, as a positive bitch, you would never pick an 233 00:18:22.599 --> 00:18:27.319 outfit or a necklace that you knew clashed with your overall look or did not 234 00:18:27.359 --> 00:18:32.200 look so cute. I know you wouldn't do that. So if in your 235 00:18:32.240 --> 00:18:37.559 mind you're holding onto an ugly necklace, get put it down, return it. 236 00:18:37.880 --> 00:18:41.680 Where's the gift for see? Return it. It is not meant for 237 00:18:41.799 --> 00:18:45.160 you to hold forever. You were not born with these ugly negative thoughts. 238 00:18:45.240 --> 00:18:48.400 You were not born with a chain around your neck. Put it down, 239 00:18:48.920 --> 00:18:55.079 Put it down. Now, how can we actually interrupt these negative thoughts? 240 00:18:55.119 --> 00:18:57.440 Because maybe you're thinking, well, I'm not really sure exactly how to do 241 00:18:57.480 --> 00:19:02.799 that. Well, I'm just gonna give you one little tool really quickly so 242 00:19:02.920 --> 00:19:07.200 that you can have it, and it's on page one thirteen. To readjust 243 00:19:07.240 --> 00:19:12.519 your energy, say positive bititude activate, activate activate three times allowed wile clapping 244 00:19:12.519 --> 00:19:17.799 your hands using this mantra while clapping your hands will shake up the energy and 245 00:19:17.880 --> 00:19:21.400 allow you to act from a new standpoint, a higher vibrational standpoint to be 246 00:19:21.519 --> 00:19:25.359 exact. So what this looks like is I'm having a negative thought weight. 247 00:19:25.519 --> 00:19:27.759 I don't want to create that. I want to get back into my magnetic 248 00:19:27.839 --> 00:19:36.240 energy. Okay, positive bititude activate activate activate, positive bititude activate activate activate, 249 00:19:36.519 --> 00:19:41.480 positive bititude activate activate activate. I mean, whoa, you just feel 250 00:19:41.519 --> 00:19:47.480 better, You just feel so much better. Clapping your hands is an ancient 251 00:19:47.640 --> 00:19:51.480 shamanic tool to shake up your energy. Using your voice box is a tool 252 00:19:51.640 --> 00:19:56.160 to shake up your energy. Moving around, you're shaking up your energy and 253 00:19:56.200 --> 00:20:00.359 it will allow you to flip flop into a new energy, which is what 254 00:20:00.359 --> 00:20:03.240 we need when we feel like we're stuck in that kind of rut. So 255 00:20:03.279 --> 00:20:07.319 we're gonna realize that our private thoughts are actually public. They're having an effect 256 00:20:07.319 --> 00:20:11.960 on our body and how people perceive us. And if they're an ugly necklace, 257 00:20:11.960 --> 00:20:15.279 we're gonna put them down because we would never as a positive bitch where 258 00:20:15.319 --> 00:20:18.079 an ugly thing. No, we would not. And in order to get 259 00:20:18.079 --> 00:20:22.079 out of that energy, we're gonna clap our hands and say positive bititude activate. 260 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:29.960 Next step four, I want you to magnify positive energy around you by 261 00:20:30.000 --> 00:20:37.119 looking for evidence that you have shifted your reality. When you're out dating and 262 00:20:37.200 --> 00:20:41.440 you attract someone, even if they're not your Prince Charming or whatever, if 263 00:20:41.480 --> 00:20:45.240 you attract someone who's better than your ex, I want you to have a 264 00:20:45.279 --> 00:20:48.920 come to Jesus moment and be like, you know, that is proof, 265 00:20:49.160 --> 00:20:53.200 even if they're not my prince Charming, that I am getting to a better 266 00:20:53.480 --> 00:21:00.119 vibrational state, I'm attracting better, I'm getting better. This is a thank 267 00:21:00.200 --> 00:21:06.000 you for me to celebrate myself. There is evidence for everything in your reality, 268 00:21:06.079 --> 00:21:08.440 and you will find what it is you look for. If I'm looking 269 00:21:08.440 --> 00:21:11.960 for evidence that I suck, I will find it. If I'm looking for 270 00:21:11.000 --> 00:21:15.200 evidence that I'm attracting better, I will find it. What you seek, 271 00:21:15.559 --> 00:21:19.319 you shall find. Knock on the door and it will open for you. 272 00:21:22.359 --> 00:21:26.160 If you're looking for evidence on why you're not good enough, on why you 273 00:21:26.200 --> 00:21:30.440 suck, on why the world is against you, yep, have fun. 274 00:21:30.880 --> 00:21:34.559 You'll be sure to find it. I don't look for that evidence. I 275 00:21:34.720 --> 00:21:38.880 don't. In fact, I think evidence is even more powerful at times than 276 00:21:38.920 --> 00:21:45.000 affirmation, because when you see evidence in your reality, it's proof positive that 277 00:21:45.079 --> 00:21:51.640 you are shifting your standpoint vibrationally. It is proof positive that the work that 278 00:21:51.680 --> 00:21:56.759 you're doing is literally manifesting before your every eyes. To me, it's more 279 00:21:56.799 --> 00:22:00.759 powerful than anything. If I were you, I would take out a piece 280 00:22:00.759 --> 00:22:03.279 of paper and a pen and I would start looking, Well, you know 281 00:22:03.319 --> 00:22:06.839 what, I got a free coffee today, Well you know what the doctor. 282 00:22:06.880 --> 00:22:10.799 Instead of me waiting five hours right on time, when I got to 283 00:22:11.200 --> 00:22:15.960 the place I needed to go, I walked right in. Notice the miracles 284 00:22:15.400 --> 00:22:22.960 and write them down. Notice the positive shifts in your life and write them 285 00:22:23.480 --> 00:22:32.559 down. Notice when you're manifesting better. If you manifest a good looking businessman 286 00:22:32.720 --> 00:22:34.880 out in the dating world, girl, write it down. Write it down, 287 00:22:34.880 --> 00:22:38.359 and your ex was a bum. Let's realize that I saw this post 288 00:22:38.359 --> 00:22:41.680 and I just wanted to read it to you. I figured I would share 289 00:22:41.200 --> 00:22:47.160 with my positive bitches attracting better. To attract better, you need to become 290 00:22:47.200 --> 00:22:51.680 better. To become better, you need to understand the code behind what's making 291 00:22:51.720 --> 00:22:56.440 you you. Your subconscious mind controls ninety to ninety five percent of your life. 292 00:22:56.759 --> 00:23:00.000 Other people aren't luckier than you. They simply have different subconscious programming that 293 00:23:00.119 --> 00:23:04.519 generates a different reality for them. Get curious about the programming that causes you 294 00:23:04.599 --> 00:23:08.559 to experience life the way you do. Be patient as you heal, unlearn, 295 00:23:08.640 --> 00:23:12.839 and relearn in alignment with what's in your highest good. Eventually you will 296 00:23:12.839 --> 00:23:17.960 get so good at this that your conscious mind, that is what is controlling 297 00:23:17.960 --> 00:23:22.400 your subconscious mind, will run for you, supporting all of your wildest dreams, 298 00:23:22.440 --> 00:23:27.160 allowing them to come true. Moral of the story is, as you're 299 00:23:27.200 --> 00:23:32.039 shifting, you're gonna get better results. If you've not yet gotten better results, 300 00:23:32.079 --> 00:23:37.440 you're not attracting better. Who is the common denoma nator. It's you. 301 00:23:37.799 --> 00:23:41.039 It is you, you, you, you you, So you can 302 00:23:41.039 --> 00:23:45.079 get show up as her to understand the subconscious programming behind your reality. But 303 00:23:45.119 --> 00:23:48.319 you gotta change something, baby girl, because looking for negativity will just bring 304 00:23:48.359 --> 00:23:52.480 you down more. Start looking for positivity and then we got to work on 305 00:23:52.519 --> 00:23:56.079 those blind spots so we can shift into a better state. But at the 306 00:23:56.160 --> 00:23:59.720 end of the day, we know law of correspondence. You shift your reality 307 00:23:59.720 --> 00:24:04.559 shit as above so below. Your internal world will always be reflected in your 308 00:24:04.680 --> 00:24:11.359 external Now, I cannot talk about magnetic energy without talking about God. Yeah, 309 00:24:11.359 --> 00:24:15.880 I can't. I can't ignore gonfidence. If you want to walk into 310 00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:18.160 a room like God sent you, baby girl, you need to know who 311 00:24:18.160 --> 00:24:23.519 God is. Let's start there now. Disclaimer. Okay, I don't care. 312 00:24:25.599 --> 00:24:29.000 It's two to two on o'clock. Now. I don't care what wealcal 313 00:24:29.039 --> 00:24:32.000 life you come from. I don't care what you think you know. I 314 00:24:32.000 --> 00:24:34.880 don't care what you think I know. I don't care. I literally I 315 00:24:36.319 --> 00:24:40.200 don't. Nothing matters right now besides you and me, baby girl, you 316 00:24:40.279 --> 00:24:42.759 and me. You don't have to agree with me. Take this with a 317 00:24:42.759 --> 00:24:48.279 grain of salt. You make your own conclusions. All I ask is that 318 00:24:48.480 --> 00:24:52.720 you are curious about what I'm about to say. If you do have the 319 00:24:52.759 --> 00:24:56.720 book, show up as her, I invite you to turn to page two 320 00:24:56.960 --> 00:25:03.720 thirty three. Got faith Faith means you trust in something that is unseen, 321 00:25:03.400 --> 00:25:08.599 unheard, or unrealized. We all got faith. However, what we have 322 00:25:08.720 --> 00:25:14.680 faith in varies. Some of us have faith that only bad things will happen 323 00:25:14.720 --> 00:25:18.640 to us, that nothing ever goes right, and that we lose more than 324 00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:25.039 we win. Others have faith that only good things unfold for them, everything 325 00:25:25.119 --> 00:25:29.440 is always going according to schedule, and that they can only win or gain 326 00:25:29.599 --> 00:25:34.319 information to level up. Positive bitch tip. Whether we have faith in the 327 00:25:34.359 --> 00:25:38.720 good or the bad, we are having faith. You don't necessarily need to 328 00:25:38.839 --> 00:25:45.200 develop faith because you already have faith in something, but you may need to 329 00:25:45.240 --> 00:25:51.559 shift what you're focusing on and trusting in. What we practice having faith in. 330 00:25:51.960 --> 00:25:56.519 We will get good at having faith in. If I practice having faith 331 00:25:56.599 --> 00:26:00.480 that negative things will happen. Not only am I attune myself to that frequency 332 00:26:00.559 --> 00:26:06.160 I do not wish to experience, but I'm on the lookout for negativity because 333 00:26:06.200 --> 00:26:10.480 it's already within my mind. If you want to shift your point of attraction, 334 00:26:11.079 --> 00:26:17.680 try switching your prescription from your human eyes to your soul or your higher 335 00:26:17.759 --> 00:26:22.599 self's eyes. This will help you understand that your current point of view is 336 00:26:22.839 --> 00:26:29.119 not all there is, and all is still unfolding according to plan. Remember, 337 00:26:30.440 --> 00:26:37.240 what is directly in your view is not all that is unfolding for you. 338 00:26:37.000 --> 00:26:42.119 Our senses limit us, and just because we can't see the miracle on 339 00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:48.680 the horizon, just because we can't see that our desired reality is right in 340 00:26:48.720 --> 00:26:52.640 front of us, it doesn't mean that it's not unfolding for us. I 341 00:26:52.799 --> 00:26:56.880 can't see the sun in the sky at night, but that doesn't mean it's 342 00:26:56.920 --> 00:27:00.880 not going to rise the next morning. I can't see the moon at ten 343 00:27:00.960 --> 00:27:03.359 i am during the day, but that doesn't mean that I'm not going to 344 00:27:03.440 --> 00:27:10.559 see it that night. Just because you don't see something directly in your line 345 00:27:10.599 --> 00:27:15.279 of vision does not mean that it's not unfolding for you in the exact way 346 00:27:15.599 --> 00:27:18.839 that you have been wanting. Instead of trusting your ego, what about trusting 347 00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:22.920 your intuition? What about trusting your higher self? What about I don't know, 348 00:27:23.319 --> 00:27:30.200 trusting God, the all loving energy that we all stem from the all 349 00:27:30.200 --> 00:27:33.119 loving energy that lives within every single one of our vessels. I see God 350 00:27:33.440 --> 00:27:37.960 as the ocean, and we are the waves. We are all deeply connected 351 00:27:37.000 --> 00:27:41.000 to God, this loving energy, and to one another as well. If 352 00:27:41.039 --> 00:27:45.079 you have faith that all things are not working out for you, how could 353 00:27:45.160 --> 00:27:49.680 you be in your own magnetic energy that doesn't make any sense. It's very 354 00:27:49.720 --> 00:27:55.839 hard to look for the bad and to feel good and attract good. It's 355 00:27:55.880 --> 00:28:03.000 so hard that it actually is impossible actually work that way. The more you 356 00:28:03.039 --> 00:28:08.000 interrupt seeing your circumstances from your human eyes and switch to seeing your circumstances from 357 00:28:08.039 --> 00:28:14.599 your soul's eyes, the more curiosity and positive faith will come around. Positive 358 00:28:14.680 --> 00:28:19.039 bitch tip Your journey may take longer, so we're not comparing. Your journey 359 00:28:19.039 --> 00:28:22.279 may take longer, it may be harder, but you will always end up 360 00:28:22.279 --> 00:28:27.039 with the exact people, places, opportunities, and tools that are necessary for 361 00:28:27.160 --> 00:28:33.359 your growth and expansion. When you have faith in yourself, God would not 362 00:28:33.400 --> 00:28:37.880 grant us a desire and then deplete us of any and all resources needed to 363 00:28:37.920 --> 00:28:44.119 make that desire physically manifest. You're in the process, so keep going. 364 00:28:44.880 --> 00:28:48.279 If you don't feel God's presence in your life. It doesn't mean that God 365 00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:52.079 isn't in your life. It means you just don't have the awareness of it. 366 00:28:53.119 --> 00:28:56.880 I always say this, but there's a TV in my room. Just 367 00:28:56.880 --> 00:29:00.599 because I don't tune into it doesn't mean that the TV disappears. It means 368 00:29:00.640 --> 00:29:06.119 I'm not tuning into it. Tune into God, date the divine. Just 369 00:29:06.160 --> 00:29:10.039 start speaking to God, reading the Bible or whatever religious texts you want. 370 00:29:10.319 --> 00:29:12.759 Even just reading about angels, how to connect to your spirit guides. These 371 00:29:12.799 --> 00:29:18.039 are all ways to connect deeper to that bigger energy that is around you and 372 00:29:18.119 --> 00:29:23.559 surrounds you and is within you. I think that what allows me to stay 373 00:29:23.559 --> 00:29:27.319 in my divine, feminine energy is I see God as that husband. So 374 00:29:27.480 --> 00:29:30.000 I'm not worried. Oh my God, I got to do this. I 375 00:29:30.039 --> 00:29:32.440 have to do that. Everything is all on my shoulders. I know that 376 00:29:32.480 --> 00:29:37.319 I'm in a partnership with God, and my life is a co creation with 377 00:29:37.559 --> 00:29:41.880 God. And I can rely on God. I can rely on my energetic 378 00:29:41.960 --> 00:29:48.759 husband to help provide for me in all these different ways. When you live 379 00:29:48.839 --> 00:29:52.039 from your ego, you're thinking, well, there's not enough to go around. 380 00:29:52.480 --> 00:29:56.640 I only know my past experiences. There's not enough resources, Why would 381 00:29:56.680 --> 00:30:00.079 I even start? Who am I to start? Your ego is based in 382 00:30:00.079 --> 00:30:03.599 in fear, so that's not gonna help you be in your magnetic energy, 383 00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:06.279 it's not gonna help you get started. It's not gonna help you do anything. 384 00:30:06.440 --> 00:30:11.160 But when you live from your higher cells perspective, you're not just looking 385 00:30:11.200 --> 00:30:15.640 at what's exactly in front of you. You're remembering weight. I have desires 386 00:30:15.640 --> 00:30:18.920 in my heart, and just because I can't see this desire right now, 387 00:30:18.960 --> 00:30:22.880 right here, doesn't mean that God can't see it. Doesn't mean that it's 388 00:30:22.920 --> 00:30:29.039 not three days away, doesn't mean it's not a couple months away. Things 389 00:30:29.440 --> 00:30:33.640 have to unfold, and like a flower, they take time to blossom, 390 00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:38.960 and not everything is meant to blossom overnight. I actually speaking of Sabrina Carpenter. 391 00:30:40.000 --> 00:30:44.000 I heard her saying that she would always get so frustrated that her mom 392 00:30:44.079 --> 00:30:48.559 said she had the career path of that of a turtle. It's slower, 393 00:30:49.079 --> 00:30:53.839 but it wins in the end. It's slower at her own page. She's 394 00:30:53.880 --> 00:30:59.319 not an overnight sensation, but she will win great success in the end. 395 00:30:59.799 --> 00:31:03.400 And she said that used to frustrate her, but now she realizes it's so 396 00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:07.839 much better, because what would you, honestly, rather you blow up overnight 397 00:31:07.880 --> 00:31:11.440 fifteen minutes of fame and then you're gone, or you build a sustaining career. 398 00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:15.839 When we think about the law polarity, it tells us this, the 399 00:31:15.359 --> 00:31:22.200 more energy and years in time you spend building up your career or whatever it 400 00:31:22.240 --> 00:31:25.720 is you want to do, the greater that career will be over time. 401 00:31:25.759 --> 00:31:29.319 The more successful you will be over time. But if you're just an overnight 402 00:31:29.400 --> 00:31:36.839 success, an overnight sensation, oftentimes that flame dies out really quickly. There's 403 00:31:36.880 --> 00:31:41.720 something to be said about being the turtle. I also feel that my lessons 404 00:31:41.759 --> 00:31:48.079 in life is very much that of the turtle. It's slower in a lot 405 00:31:48.119 --> 00:31:52.799 of ways, and I'm enjoying it. Of Course, I've had moments where 406 00:31:52.799 --> 00:31:56.279 I'm like, oh, I wish this would just go viral, or this 407 00:31:56.279 --> 00:31:59.759 would just happen blah blah blah. But then I realized I would never have 408 00:31:59.839 --> 00:32:05.240 been and ready for that circumstance at that time. I would not have the 409 00:32:05.400 --> 00:32:09.119 tools at that time that I need to stay focused and anchored in myself and 410 00:32:09.160 --> 00:32:14.759 in God. I could have been whisped away by the public opinion or whatever 411 00:32:14.799 --> 00:32:19.440 it may be. Trust that how things are unfolding for you are unfolding for 412 00:32:19.519 --> 00:32:22.880 you in a way that's for your highest good, so you can actually handle 413 00:32:22.200 --> 00:32:25.480 your blessings when they come in. Because how many times do we have to 414 00:32:25.519 --> 00:32:30.599 see someone get exactly what they thought they wanted and then it's too heavy for 415 00:32:30.720 --> 00:32:34.160 them to carry. Think about most of these lottery winners, it's all they 416 00:32:34.160 --> 00:32:36.559 want to win the lottery, They win the lottery, and they spend it 417 00:32:36.599 --> 00:32:39.319 all within a couple of years. Just because you get what you want doesn't 418 00:32:39.359 --> 00:32:44.720 mean you have the strength to hold on to it. But a positive bitch 419 00:32:44.799 --> 00:32:51.400 understands that her journey has been curated specifically for her and it's perfect for her. 420 00:32:52.000 --> 00:32:54.920 And even if it's that of the turtle instead of a faster moving animal, 421 00:32:55.519 --> 00:33:00.240 she has this so she can understand the lessons and integrate. Learning is 422 00:33:00.279 --> 00:33:04.920 one thing. Integrating the energies is another thing. I was talking about this 423 00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:07.279 with one of my clients. Yes, you're learning, but you also have 424 00:33:07.359 --> 00:33:12.880 to integrate. You can't just learn information and then never apply it, because 425 00:33:12.920 --> 00:33:15.440 what would be the point of that. You're not gonna get anywhere. Take 426 00:33:15.480 --> 00:33:21.440 time to trust, to relax, to integrate. Positive bitches I love you 427 00:33:21.480 --> 00:33:24.279 so much as always a sparkle in Me honors of Sparkle in You. If 428 00:33:24.319 --> 00:33:29.200 you enjoyed this podcast episode, please leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts and 429 00:33:29.240 --> 00:33:31.440 Spotify. If not for me, do it for you. Helloa love beam 430 00:33:31.559 --> 00:33:35.480 a light beam, good Garma. And of course, if you've not yet 431 00:33:35.519 --> 00:33:37.680 grabbed your copy of Show Up as Her, you can get it in the 432 00:33:37.680 --> 00:33:40.240 show notes. Follow me on Instagram at vibue and CC, and I will 433 00:33:40.240 --> 00:34:02.559 see you in the next one. Energy Cancer. Don'ts to cancel spates be 434 00:34:09.840 --> 00:34:12.960 kiss me, kiss me,