Andy, cancel the high cancer. It's not sorry, Andy. What's up?
Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode,
then you are meant to be here, So keep listening on that Bitch
Is Positive podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl,
we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive
bitch self that is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast,
we unbecome who we are not so we can fully step into exactly who we
came here to be. Today, we're gonna talk about five specific steps you
can take right now, right here to activate your magnetic energy. Your magnetic
energy is always available to you. Lower vibrational energy is also always available to
you. It's up to you to tune in, to turn on and activate
the energy you wish to embody. These five steps will help you tune out
of the lower vibrational energy that is keeping you stuck and in patterns, and
tune in to the energy from your future self that's already living her dream life.
If you have not yet pre ordered or ordered show up as her my
new book, which gives you ten laws on magnetic energy mastering manifestation. Embodying
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want, be sure to order show up as her. Now we are going
to be pulling topics from this book in this podcast, so it's really going
to be helpful that you have the physical book with you. You can follow
along and take notes. We are studying these concepts so that we're not just
learning about them, but also we're embodying them. We're actually putting them into
action. Because knowledge is great, but true power comes through using knowledge through
action. I keep getting questions, am I still doing one on one coaching?
Yes, I absolutely am. I believe it's really important to have someone
sitting directly across from you and pointing out your blind spots, the things that
are happening or that you're doing and you don't even realize you're doing it because
you're on autopilot. I am a certified Life and Energy coach and I do
offer one on one sessions. If you want more intimate guidance, you can
DM me now on Instagram at a vibe in with CC. Be sure you're
following me there for daily tips and tricks on magnetic energy. But of course
you can DM me and we'll talk about how I can help you. Without
further ADO, let's get into today's episode. The first thing I want you
to start doing to activate and increase magnetic energy is so simple. It's so
easy. You can do it while you're taking a walk, you can do
it while you're on the plane. You can do it in the car,
you can do it on a train, you can do it anywhere at any
time, with literally anyone. It's so simple, so easy, and it
will help you activate higher vibrational energies within your body. What is this technique?
It's literally just sending out love beams to other people, sending out positive
white light energy to other people. I recently did a trail the other day,
and while I was walking on my trail, anytime someone walked past me,
I would always give them a smile, even if they don't look,
even if they don't realize that I'm looking at them, I would smile and
send them a beam of positive energy. Now why am I doing this?
Well, let's think about the law of karma. If I am constantly sending
out negative energy because my brothers annoying me, my boss sucks. These coworkers
are always talking bad about me. If I'm constantly sending out frustration and anger
annoyance, that's the energy I'm also asking to come back into my life like
a boot mu rang. The law of karma, what we give out is
what we're going to get back, and karma knows our address. If you
want to increase positive magnetic energy, send out positive magnetic energy, and you
can do it to random people all the time, at the grocery store,
at the trail, anywhere you go at any time. I also think that
when you do this, you feel good about yourself. It increases your self
confidence. I feel good knowing that I'm sending someone love and positivity and they
don't even know that I'm doing that. It feels good in my bones that
I'm sending someone something so good, something so beautiful, something so light,
that it's actually helping them too one way. And I just saw four four
four on the clock. Hello stability. Hello maybe a new home, a
new job, new beginning. When we send out positivity, whether we're just
sending out love beams or loving light, or we're literally boots on the ground
doing charity work, when we're giving positivity to someone else, it raises our
self esteem Because simultaneously, as we're focusing on helping someone else, guess what
you're also doing. You're decentering your own insecurities. You're not thinking, oh
I don't look good today, Oh my hair, what a mess? Oh
my life, I don't even know what I'm doing anymore. You're not thinking
about anything like that. You're at a soup kitchen saying, oh my god,
this person literally doesn't have food on their table, and I'm helping them
get their next meal. You're sending out love on the trail and you're saying,
oh my god, what a blessing that I can give love and get
love. It shifts how you see yourself. And instead of your insecurities being
on your paddle, instead of your insecurities being center stage, what center stage
your ability to give out and get high vibration magnetic energy. You focusing on
your insecurities, I don't like the way I look today. That's tuning into
the lower vibrational energies. You focusing on sending out positive energy and therefore receiving
positive energy. That's centering yourself as not an object but the subject of your
own life. Because really, even when we're focusing on our insecurities. We're
objectifying ourselves. We're looking at ourselves as something to be perceived, not a
whole living being. But when you center, look what I'm doing, the
positivity I'm giving into the world. Well, now you're valuing yourself not only
as the center of your own life, not only as a subject, but
as a being who can enact positive influence in the world. And not to
self esteem booster, it's a confidence booster. And remember you can do this
anytime, anywhere. You don't have to say anything, you don't even have
to smile. But it's something I personally like to do. Just intend to
send that person white light. When I'm walking next to someone or I pass
someone, I just say love beam. Just send it out. In my
head, I say it love beam, love beam, or light beam,
light beam, and I just send it out. And the crazy thing is,
you notice this sometimes in your reality. But I would give someone a
compliment of oh my god, you are glowing, and the next day someone
in my workout class literally said the exact same thing to me, Oh my
god, you are glowing. What you give out, you're gonna get back
If all you're giving out is negative things on social media, you're being negative
to your family and friends. You're constantly broadcasting that you're annoyed and upset.
Well, that's what you're going to attract too, And I'm not blaming you,
but also wake up and start changing your life by changing what you're broadcasting
and sending out. The second tool that you can use to magnify magnetic energy
and activate this magnetic energy is priming your body and mind with high vibration music.
There is so much music out there, and I think a lot of
the times we're not even paying attention to what the words are saying or how
they're making us feel. But I specifically remember when I was going through a
breakup. I think it was three years ago. I kept listening to one
of Billie Eilish's song which I really do like her, but the song was
called Barry a Friend, and the words were so deep and we can honor
that, but also quite negative. And every single time after I would listen
to that song, I always felt in my feelings, I always felt like
I was in a lower vibration. I didn't put two and two together at
that time. Every time I'm listening to the song, I'm feeling negative after.
It took me a little while to realize that. But when you're listening
to music, it puts you kind of in this hypnotic state where your subconscious
mind opens up a little bit more and you're really receiving the lyrics. It
is quite detrimental to us if we're listening over and over and over again to
music that has really harsh lyrics that is constantly talking about how much they missed
their ex because that is telling our subconscious mind, it's encoding it on how
we should feel and what we should think. You listening to music over and
over and over again, you're programming your subconscious mind. You're programming your energy,
You're programming your be What are you programming into your life? Because it
will and it does have an effect on you. I make sure that the
music I'm listening to is not dampening my mood, is not bringing me down.
If it's really sad and really negative, I'm not listening to it.
And I've become so sensitive to it at this point. If I go to
a mall or the nail salon and they have negative or sad music on,
I always bring headphones with me now, so I don't have to listen to
it, because that's how it gets into our mind. When we're not thinking
about it, it just absorbs into our mind and then we start thinking,
I'm at the mall, but why do I feel so sad? That literally
actually just happened to me. Like a month ago, I was at the
mall. I was not paying attention to the music at first, and I
started to feel so upset, so upset, so upset, and I'm thinking
to myself, well, I know I'm going through a breakup, so maybe
that's what's going on here, but like, what was the trigger that I'm
randomly feeling upset again? And then I intuitively said, wait, what song
is playing right now? And it was the most depressing song ever. But
we don't realize how much this music has an effect on us. Three years
ago, when I was going into this workout class, every single song this
guy played it was all EDM, but they were all like breakup EDM songs,
and I would start crying in the middle of the class because I'm like,
oh my god, this is too much for me to bear. Music
puts us into a hypnotic state, and then it encodes us on how to
feel. So if that's the case. You need to be so particular about
what you're listening to. What's a good song? Angel Energy my own song.
I purposely created it so we would not go to these lower vibrational places.
Listen to music that raises your vibration and does not rip it down.
So Angel Energy is my song, and you can just search Angel Energy on
any streaming platform. Sign is also one of my songs. You can search
that. B Day is also one of my songs. All these songs will
help you heal and move on. But I did recently make a divine feminine
playlist on my phone, and I just want to tell you some of the
songs that have been helping me. Number one Espresso Sabrina Carpenter. That song
puts me into the best mood. It is all about how you are on
your own pedestal. Yes, people are into you, Yes they're gonna like
you, but of course because you are this almost hypnotic drink that everyone wants
a sip of. Not My Fault Renee Rap amazing. Also, Megan thee
Stallion is in that Not My Fault. It's from the movie Mean Girls.
It puts me into the best mood. Greedy Tate McCrae. I think that's
how you say it. Amazing song puts me into the best mood. Energy
by Morgan Saint Jean, Amazing, Breakfast by Dove Cameron, Amazing, Little
Girl Gone by Chinchilla, Amazing, Prima Donna Marina, and then Diamonds Amazing.
Of course Woman by Doja Cat. That was before whatever she's going through
now is happening, but Woman is a really good song. Feather another Sabrina
Carpenter and also man Eater the song, but the cover from Dana Harper,
which was on the Voice. I don't know when, but apparently that happened.
Illusion do a Lipa anything do Alopa really is probably pretty good and Exes
Tate McCray, Boss Bitch, Doja Cat, Make You Mine, Madison Beer,
I like the way you kiss me Artemis. That's all over TikTok right
now. But those are some of the songs that I've been listening to that
have really been making me feel amazing. And I'll play that before I start
my day, or on the way to yoga, or on the way to
the city, or before I go out, and it primes my mind and
body to place myself on the pedestal to remember that I'm the prize, to
remember my worth and my energy, and to remember that I came here from
my energy first, and I'm gonna enjoy my own energy. Number three,
we're now going to start pulling topics and concepts from my book show up as
Her again. Be short to order, and if you are enjoying the book,
if you could please leave a positive review on Amazon. They told me
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we're gonna be flipping to page fifty five here. Okay, So if
we want to activate our magnetic energy tool three is keep your mind held accountable.
If you had a friend who was always negative, you wouldn't feel good
around them. When we are always negative in our own head, it doesn't
feel good to be in our own skin. We give our power away when
we let our mind run wild. We must start taking accountability and responsibility for
the thoughts that we are allowing our mind to have on replay. Yes,
we will have a negative thought here and there, but That isn't the problem.
The problem is that after the initial negative thought, we are creating ten
more negative thoughts which are sending us spiraling. I invite you to start imagining
that your negative thoughts about yourself are no longer private, but instead they are
a necklace someone gifted you. Now that's a real statement piece, if you
ask me, imagine that the negative thought nobody likes me has solidified into a
physical silver necklace. It's heavy, and it weighs upon your neck. Every
day you look into the mirror daily and see this nobody likes me necklace,
And everywhere you go everyone can see how you are thinking about yourself too.
Every day you are reminding yourself of the same negative thought, and every day
you are strengthening that thought. Eventually, the fake silver from that necklace starts
to turn your neck green. You begin to have a neck ache because it's
oh heavy, and it doesn't even look good with any of your outfits.
So what would you do? You would take off the necklace and return it.
We do not need to hold on to the projections from others or thoughts
that are no longer serving us. They are not ours to carry. We
do not own them. We can take them off and return them to the
gifter. If our thoughts were physical jewelry pieces, we would be much more
concerned with them. We wouldn't want to lug around that heavy necklace. We
wouldn't want to look at it daily or show other people the truth of what
we thought about ourselves. We think that because something isn't physical, it doesn't
have a negative impact on us. Sometimes we try to forget about it altogether,
but these thoughts are weighing us down. Being in denial that you have
negative thoughts will not allow you to transcend to a positive mindset. We don't
have to go down because of our thoughts. We have to put our thoughts
down. We are so focused on the three D focus on shaping our bodies,
we have forgotten to shape our minds, which are influencing our whole reality.
Our thoughts affect how people perceive us, not just bodily, but energetically
too. We all have met someone who was stereotypically good looking, but because
of their energy, we didn't find them attractive, or something was just off
on paper. They're great, but in person, ugh not so much.
Then there are people who aren't our usual type, but we have found them
attractive. What is this all about. Not only does our body communicate what's
held in our mind, our energy talks for us a second we step into
a room. If you want to activate magnetic energy, you can't have non
magnetic thoughts. And in order to not have non magnetic thoughts, you have
to hold yourself accountable. If I was on here every Thursday telling you crazy
things and nothing ever worked, you would be like CEC, I think you
need to, you know, maybe try something else because this is not working
out for you. You would hold me accountable as you should. But the
person and we seem to overlook oftentimes in our reality is ourselves. You have
to hold your own mind accountable and say, wait a damn minute, I'm
not gonna keep letting these negative thoughts run wild in my mind. I'm not
gonna keep letting these thoughts that are so ugly make my reality ugly. I
know, I know, as a positive bitch, you would never pick an
outfit or a necklace that you knew clashed with your overall look or did not
look so cute. I know you wouldn't do that. So if in your
mind you're holding onto an ugly necklace, get put it down, return it.
Where's the gift for see? Return it. It is not meant for
you to hold forever. You were not born with these ugly negative thoughts.
You were not born with a chain around your neck. Put it down,
Put it down. Now, how can we actually interrupt these negative thoughts?
Because maybe you're thinking, well, I'm not really sure exactly how to do
that. Well, I'm just gonna give you one little tool really quickly so
that you can have it, and it's on page one thirteen. To readjust
your energy, say positive bititude activate, activate activate three times allowed wile clapping
your hands using this mantra while clapping your hands will shake up the energy and
allow you to act from a new standpoint, a higher vibrational standpoint to be
exact. So what this looks like is I'm having a negative thought weight.
I don't want to create that. I want to get back into my magnetic
energy. Okay, positive bititude activate activate activate, positive bititude activate activate activate,
positive bititude activate activate activate. I mean, whoa, you just feel
better, You just feel so much better. Clapping your hands is an ancient
shamanic tool to shake up your energy. Using your voice box is a tool
to shake up your energy. Moving around, you're shaking up your energy and
it will allow you to flip flop into a new energy, which is what
we need when we feel like we're stuck in that kind of rut. So
we're gonna realize that our private thoughts are actually public. They're having an effect
on our body and how people perceive us. And if they're an ugly necklace,
we're gonna put them down because we would never as a positive bitch where
an ugly thing. No, we would not. And in order to get
out of that energy, we're gonna clap our hands and say positive bititude activate.
Next step four, I want you to magnify positive energy around you by
looking for evidence that you have shifted your reality. When you're out dating and
you attract someone, even if they're not your Prince Charming or whatever, if
you attract someone who's better than your ex, I want you to have a
come to Jesus moment and be like, you know, that is proof,
even if they're not my prince Charming, that I am getting to a better
vibrational state, I'm attracting better, I'm getting better. This is a thank
you for me to celebrate myself. There is evidence for everything in your reality,
and you will find what it is you look for. If I'm looking
for evidence that I suck, I will find it. If I'm looking for
evidence that I'm attracting better, I will find it. What you seek,
you shall find. Knock on the door and it will open for you.
If you're looking for evidence on why you're not good enough, on why you
suck, on why the world is against you, yep, have fun.
You'll be sure to find it. I don't look for that evidence. I
don't. In fact, I think evidence is even more powerful at times than
affirmation, because when you see evidence in your reality, it's proof positive that
you are shifting your standpoint vibrationally. It is proof positive that the work that
you're doing is literally manifesting before your every eyes. To me, it's more
powerful than anything. If I were you, I would take out a piece
of paper and a pen and I would start looking, Well, you know
what, I got a free coffee today, Well you know what the doctor.
Instead of me waiting five hours right on time, when I got to
the place I needed to go, I walked right in. Notice the miracles
and write them down. Notice the positive shifts in your life and write them
down. Notice when you're manifesting better. If you manifest a good looking businessman
out in the dating world, girl, write it down. Write it down,
and your ex was a bum. Let's realize that I saw this post
and I just wanted to read it to you. I figured I would share
with my positive bitches attracting better. To attract better, you need to become
better. To become better, you need to understand the code behind what's making
you you. Your subconscious mind controls ninety to ninety five percent of your life.
Other people aren't luckier than you. They simply have different subconscious programming that
generates a different reality for them. Get curious about the programming that causes you
to experience life the way you do. Be patient as you heal, unlearn,
and relearn in alignment with what's in your highest good. Eventually you will
get so good at this that your conscious mind, that is what is controlling
your subconscious mind, will run for you, supporting all of your wildest dreams,
allowing them to come true. Moral of the story is, as you're
shifting, you're gonna get better results. If you've not yet gotten better results,
you're not attracting better. Who is the common denoma nator. It's you.
It is you, you, you, you you, So you can
get show up as her to understand the subconscious programming behind your reality. But
you gotta change something, baby girl, because looking for negativity will just bring
you down more. Start looking for positivity and then we got to work on
those blind spots so we can shift into a better state. But at the
end of the day, we know law of correspondence. You shift your reality
shit as above so below. Your internal world will always be reflected in your
external Now, I cannot talk about magnetic energy without talking about God. Yeah,
I can't. I can't ignore gonfidence. If you want to walk into
a room like God sent you, baby girl, you need to know who
God is. Let's start there now. Disclaimer. Okay, I don't care.
It's two to two on o'clock. Now. I don't care what wealcal
life you come from. I don't care what you think you know. I
don't care what you think I know. I don't care. I literally I
don't. Nothing matters right now besides you and me, baby girl, you
and me. You don't have to agree with me. Take this with a
grain of salt. You make your own conclusions. All I ask is that
you are curious about what I'm about to say. If you do have the
book, show up as her, I invite you to turn to page two
thirty three. Got faith Faith means you trust in something that is unseen,
unheard, or unrealized. We all got faith. However, what we have
faith in varies. Some of us have faith that only bad things will happen
to us, that nothing ever goes right, and that we lose more than
we win. Others have faith that only good things unfold for them, everything
is always going according to schedule, and that they can only win or gain
information to level up. Positive bitch tip. Whether we have faith in the
good or the bad, we are having faith. You don't necessarily need to
develop faith because you already have faith in something, but you may need to
shift what you're focusing on and trusting in. What we practice having faith in.
We will get good at having faith in. If I practice having faith
that negative things will happen. Not only am I attune myself to that frequency
I do not wish to experience, but I'm on the lookout for negativity because
it's already within my mind. If you want to shift your point of attraction,
try switching your prescription from your human eyes to your soul or your higher
self's eyes. This will help you understand that your current point of view is
not all there is, and all is still unfolding according to plan. Remember,
what is directly in your view is not all that is unfolding for you.
Our senses limit us, and just because we can't see the miracle on
the horizon, just because we can't see that our desired reality is right in
front of us, it doesn't mean that it's not unfolding for us. I
can't see the sun in the sky at night, but that doesn't mean it's
not going to rise the next morning. I can't see the moon at ten
i am during the day, but that doesn't mean that I'm not going to
see it that night. Just because you don't see something directly in your line
of vision does not mean that it's not unfolding for you in the exact way
that you have been wanting. Instead of trusting your ego, what about trusting
your intuition? What about trusting your higher self? What about I don't know,
trusting God, the all loving energy that we all stem from the all
loving energy that lives within every single one of our vessels. I see God
as the ocean, and we are the waves. We are all deeply connected
to God, this loving energy, and to one another as well. If
you have faith that all things are not working out for you, how could
you be in your own magnetic energy that doesn't make any sense. It's very
hard to look for the bad and to feel good and attract good. It's
so hard that it actually is impossible actually work that way. The more you
interrupt seeing your circumstances from your human eyes and switch to seeing your circumstances from
your soul's eyes, the more curiosity and positive faith will come around. Positive
bitch tip Your journey may take longer, so we're not comparing. Your journey
may take longer, it may be harder, but you will always end up
with the exact people, places, opportunities, and tools that are necessary for
your growth and expansion. When you have faith in yourself, God would not
grant us a desire and then deplete us of any and all resources needed to
make that desire physically manifest. You're in the process, so keep going.
If you don't feel God's presence in your life. It doesn't mean that God
isn't in your life. It means you just don't have the awareness of it.
I always say this, but there's a TV in my room. Just
because I don't tune into it doesn't mean that the TV disappears. It means
I'm not tuning into it. Tune into God, date the divine. Just
start speaking to God, reading the Bible or whatever religious texts you want.
Even just reading about angels, how to connect to your spirit guides. These
are all ways to connect deeper to that bigger energy that is around you and
surrounds you and is within you. I think that what allows me to stay
in my divine, feminine energy is I see God as that husband. So
I'm not worried. Oh my God, I got to do this. I
have to do that. Everything is all on my shoulders. I know that
I'm in a partnership with God, and my life is a co creation with
God. And I can rely on God. I can rely on my energetic
husband to help provide for me in all these different ways. When you live
from your ego, you're thinking, well, there's not enough to go around.
I only know my past experiences. There's not enough resources, Why would
I even start? Who am I to start? Your ego is based in
in fear, so that's not gonna help you be in your magnetic energy,
it's not gonna help you get started. It's not gonna help you do anything.
But when you live from your higher cells perspective, you're not just looking
at what's exactly in front of you. You're remembering weight. I have desires
in my heart, and just because I can't see this desire right now,
right here, doesn't mean that God can't see it. Doesn't mean that it's
not three days away, doesn't mean it's not a couple months away. Things
have to unfold, and like a flower, they take time to blossom,
and not everything is meant to blossom overnight. I actually speaking of Sabrina Carpenter.
I heard her saying that she would always get so frustrated that her mom
said she had the career path of that of a turtle. It's slower,
but it wins in the end. It's slower at her own page. She's
not an overnight sensation, but she will win great success in the end.
And she said that used to frustrate her, but now she realizes it's so
much better, because what would you, honestly, rather you blow up overnight
fifteen minutes of fame and then you're gone, or you build a sustaining career.
When we think about the law polarity, it tells us this, the
more energy and years in time you spend building up your career or whatever it
is you want to do, the greater that career will be over time.
The more successful you will be over time. But if you're just an overnight
success, an overnight sensation, oftentimes that flame dies out really quickly. There's
something to be said about being the turtle. I also feel that my lessons
in life is very much that of the turtle. It's slower in a lot
of ways, and I'm enjoying it. Of Course, I've had moments where
I'm like, oh, I wish this would just go viral, or this
would just happen blah blah blah. But then I realized I would never have
been and ready for that circumstance at that time. I would not have the
tools at that time that I need to stay focused and anchored in myself and
in God. I could have been whisped away by the public opinion or whatever
it may be. Trust that how things are unfolding for you are unfolding for
you in a way that's for your highest good, so you can actually handle
your blessings when they come in. Because how many times do we have to
see someone get exactly what they thought they wanted and then it's too heavy for
them to carry. Think about most of these lottery winners, it's all they
want to win the lottery, They win the lottery, and they spend it
all within a couple of years. Just because you get what you want doesn't
mean you have the strength to hold on to it. But a positive bitch
understands that her journey has been curated specifically for her and it's perfect for her.
And even if it's that of the turtle instead of a faster moving animal,
she has this so she can understand the lessons and integrate. Learning is
one thing. Integrating the energies is another thing. I was talking about this
with one of my clients. Yes, you're learning, but you also have
to integrate. You can't just learn information and then never apply it, because
what would be the point of that. You're not gonna get anywhere. Take
time to trust, to relax, to integrate. Positive bitches I love you
so much as always a sparkle in Me honors of Sparkle in You. If
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