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Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thanks for telling a friend. That's how

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ship Mark, the Pirate Soldiers here,

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Kevin's here tonight and Sad News Today. The original The Godfather, the Godfather

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of being canceled and coming back passed
away. How you are one of them?

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I yeah, it sit exactly.
Oh you talk about Pube Herman.

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Yeah, oh, Hube Herman.
I would say he's the godfather of being

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canceled and coming back because yeah,
quietly it was him, and uh he

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didn't say anything really about the cancer
that he had. No, no,

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kept that quiet. He was seventies. Yeah, the other one just had

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had cancer and nobody knew about it. Um comic uh uh SNL made fun

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of the O J think so badly
that they came doing to go. If

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you don't stop, we're gonna fire
you. Oh nor Norm McDonald McDonald,

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Yeah, you didn't hear it?
He didn't know. No, that's awesome.

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I laughed, because, yeah,
like the Norm was sick and no

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one knew he didn't he did not
know. No, Norm didn't talk about

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it exactly. It kind of went
under the radar. And then they tried

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to do something because he was working
on a on a stand up special and

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he did like a dry run from
like his computer, and he filmed it,

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and so they took that it's like
him sitting at his desk in front

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of his his PC, and they
put that out on Netflix with different commentary

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at points from other comics and stuff. I didn't play that well because you

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know, it was still kind of
in its rough form, the special,

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and I think if he had done
it in the theater and then it probably

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would have killed. The tribute they
did to him was hilarious, and Jeff

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Ross and Sage had all sorts of
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I'm sure it was great. Yeah, But so pee wee Herman. So

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this is where they write. Last
night we said farewell to Paul Rumins,

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an iconic American actor, comedian,
writer, and producer who's beloved character Pee

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wee Herman delighted generations of children and
adults with his positivity, whimsy and belief

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in the importance of kindness. And
then they said, Paul bravely and privately

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fowk cancer for years with his trademark
to nacity and wit, A gifted and

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prolific talent, he will forever live
in the comedy pantheon and in our hearts

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as a treasured friend, a man
a remarkable character and generosity of spirit.

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Had everything is negotiable, pee wee. I wouldn't sell my bike for all

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the money in the world, not
for one hundred billion, million trillion dollars.

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Then you're crazy. I know you
are. But what am I?

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You're a near I know you are, But what am I? You're an

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idiot? I know you are.
I happen to be just slightly too old

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that I would This would fucking annoy
me when I would happen. Yeah,

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to watch the show, because I
always thought it was like the great acid

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dream, like he had. The
everything was zigzag doors, big bauffant hairs,

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the chairs, the talks. Yeah
yeah, Laurence Fishburn too, Yeah,

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Cowboy Curtis. Did you ever see
the movie Legend of Billy Jean?

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No, it's this do you ever
see it, Kevin, it's just seem

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it's uh, it's with Christian Slater
when he was young. It was it

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was a vigilanti movie. Well,
anyways, he came out at the same

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time as Pee Wee's Big Adventure.
Okay, it was the same fucking movie.

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It was the same story. He
gets his bike stolen, peewe herman

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gets his bike stolen. Yeah,
and the same thing in this In this

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movie, the kid gets his bike
stolen and that's what starts this whole war

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with with this town they live in. Okay, so did this Uh,

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did anybody get accused of ripping each
other off? Or no? Well,

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I can't remember Peter Pee's Big Adventure, but this one was all of a

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sudden they couldn't get the bike back
and turned it into something more and yeah,

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and the girl sounds like they took
a slightly different thing. It did,

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but it was just darker, a
little darker. But just the gist

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of the movie was the story was
kind of the same. So you know,

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he had that sex scandal in the
early nineties, which I always thought

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was one of the shittiest things to
do because he was in a private theater.

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Uh down in Saracel to Florida where
he was. He was ra down

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there and in nineteen ninety one detectives
went in. It was the Triple X

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South Trail Cinema. Okay, now, I don't know about you guys.

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Would you ever go to a movie
theater to watch porn? No? No,

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And but remember you got to get
out of your head. That is

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twenty twenty three, and you have
porn anytime you want it, on any

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device you want it. It's true, right, I mean it is.

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It's a it's prolific, it's available, it's there. But at the time

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it wasn't as But I still think
you could. You could go get a

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VHS, right, you could look
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of the stores. Yeah, back, I know, but even that's weird,

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right, even that I find weird. Boots, what about did you

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do a buddy booth to me?
No? No, Well they were like

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buddy booths because I once went back
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bunch of people waiting around, and
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It was Ontario Video News out in
Ontario and Root one oh four and

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I was in there a little buzzed, and I was looking for some props

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for my buddy's bachelor party. I
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So all of a sudden, I'm
walking around I don't know, and there

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was the booze in the back and
the light was red and when turned green

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or something like, another guy went
in. Well, there were two guys

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in there, Like, I didn't
know what was so I was like,

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man, I don't want to be
here. And then all of a sudden,

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some guy started kind of following me
around the store. So then I

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buy a video with the biggest boobs
I can find on it, like this

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woman, you just got the biggest
chest. And I'm like trying to go,

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hey, hey hetero like and I
buy it and then I'm leaving and

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I can hear him walking. So
I try to go out a different door

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and I get around in my car
and there he standing in front of my

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car. When I put on the
head lights mark, I fucking almost shit

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my pants. I mean I could
hear the gravel crunching as he's coming to

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me. I dropped my keys.
I had a little rabbit at the time

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I dropped my keys. I'm trying
to lock the door. I get in

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there, I turn on the lights
of guy stander. Probably nothing would have

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happened. I was so fucking scared. I should be. I spun out,

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kicked up all this dust, and
went the wrong way on one oh

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four. I was going east in
the westbound lanes, or so or I

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was going west in the eastbound lanes. So the you know one oh fours

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were coming at you. Yeah,
well they would have been. There was

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very little traffic at the time.
And when I finally realized that because somebody's

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beeping their horn and went because it's
two lanes, so they went the opposite

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lane. I just cut through the
guard rail where there was a break and

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got on the right way. But
I was so freaked out. See that's

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an old that I should have worked
it. I should have worked the show

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World. I wish I would have
worked there for a while, so I

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would add stories. I should have
taken that fucking job. He went to

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see you should have. He went
to see the movies Catalina five, Oh

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no, nothing of that Tiger Shark, Nurse Nancy, and Turn Up the

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Heat was the triple bill that night. But son, there's officers in there,

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and they got three guys for exposing
themselves in a dark theater. I'm

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like that, that's such a shitty
sting. So now it hits that rewere

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and Paul Rubins was honestly the first
guy to be canceled. He lost everything.

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I think it was NBC stop production
or CBS or whoever it was.

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It wasn't out long because I did
a little dive on us. Today he

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was back and had a big comeback
and like the next year MTV Awards,

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Right, yeah, yeah, I
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offered to perform children's benefits for the
Sheriff's offices if the charges were dropped.

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However, department spokesman said at the
time that the deputies did not feel they

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had enough probable cause to charge him
with attempted bribery. But I think he

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was trying to go, I'll do
you know, I'll do anything, And

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he then in a two thousand and
four interview said, well, obviously I

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wasn't thinking, you know, uh, the Peewee Herman Show, Pee's Big

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Adventure, pee Wee's Playhouse. I
certainly wasn't thinking to myself, you're a

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children's host, your your show is
still on television. I wasn't making those

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lists in my head. I felt
like they were insinuating, Like well,

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I was sitting in you know,
a darkened movie theater in my peewee suit.

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They didn't seem like a crime to
me. It didn't seem like anyone

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was anybody's business. And then he
got arrested. Almost to the day,

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today is July thirty, first that
we're taping this. He was arrested July

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twenty nine, nineteen ninety one.
Wow. Yeah, let me ask you.

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Let me ask you a question.
Could you jerk off in a dark

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movie theater? Uh? If there
weren't a lot of people around? Probably,

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Okay, probably, Yes, that's
a that's a good question. I

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mean, maybe it's not a good
question, but it's a valley question.

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I couldn't. You couldn't do it, like you'd have performance anxiety and there's

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no way in hell. Um,
yeah, I think I could. Please.

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I'm all right, I'll go ahead
and say I started. Only place

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did I ever jerked off was in
the bathroom at uh the radio station.

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We were on Winton Road. You're
kid there? Yeah, why because this

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girl came in before weeze went on. Yeah, and she wanted tickets,

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and I think it was tickets to
like Don Henley was doing some concert like

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Okay in a farm, and she
said she would take her clothes off for

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me if you got her tickets,
if I got her tickets. So I

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went right in probably your office,
still your tickets and game her. It's

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good. So I went in and
give you the shed show you. Oh

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yeah, she went totally she went
totally naked. Yeah. Yeah, and

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that was it. She put her
close back on, she got her tickets

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and left. Oh shit, what
time in the morning was this. This

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had to be five thirty, five
thirty because it was before weees was there?

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Oh my god. So in the
wake of this guy's arrest, Paul

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Rubens, CBS pulled Peewee's playhouse Disney
was doing. Uh he was suspended.

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He was the voice of like their
two studio tour. He was the narrator.

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They stopped that toys arrest, removed
all Pewee toys from the store.

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Like he was the original canceled guy. And guess who came to his defense?

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Oh no, bullshit. Think who
went from like the most beloved to

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the biggest villain? You got it, Bill Cosby, Bill Cosby said,

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whatever Rubens is done, this is
being blown all out of proportion. It

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probably jerked off together. Did you
know what was Cindy law Perry who sanging

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that theme song this is your true
colors all over my face? No?

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That that the theme song to uh
pee Wee's Playhouse. Really, yeah,

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that's her. This is her if
you listen, and she just said it

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was a victim list of Currence and
she's right, yeah, now you can

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hear it, right, you can
hear that. That is definitely her.

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Uh. Then he did go on
uh Conan show a bunch as Paul Rubens

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later on, and he sat down
and he was asked like, what would

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you do if you weren't Peewee?
Well, you know, what would you

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have done? I'm curious about you
know, you've had such a unique career.

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You create this character that caught some
people's imagination, and and and and

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and you're you're so good at what
you do. But do you ever think

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about what you would have done had
you not been an actor, if you'd

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gone a different way, if you
didn't go into acting, what would you

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do? This is going to sound
like I'm joking, but this is this

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is really what I thought I would
wind up doing. I grew up in

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Sarasota, Florida, which is the
old winter headquarters of Ringling Brothers, and

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I always thought I'd wind up in
the circus. That's what I thought I

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was going to really, Yeah,
well, what did you want to do

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in the circus? Did you have
a specific like? Did you see?

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Okay? This is I could do
a lot of circus acts. I could

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do trapeeze, I could do tight
rowe see. I thought I knew you

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were going to think did you really? Did you? I mean, did

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you seriously? We went to circus
camp. There's a circus camp. As

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a child, I went to circus
camp. About six weeks into the circus

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camp, we put on a big
show. My parents came there sitting in

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the bleachers, and I run out. I got on a little speedo bathing

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suit. I'm like maybe twelve.
I've got like I get up on the

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balance beam. I had a balance
beam act. It's fantastic balance beam.

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I wish you guys could have seen
it. And I had like fire.

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I had a ring like that had
fire around it. And I blindfold myself

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and skipped through the ring and I
looked out. My parents were like,

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I think it was then they knew. So I always feel like he was

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sort of targeted after that as being
a bit of a perv because in two

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thousand and four, I think they
did a whole thing where they went into

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his house and they accused him of
having child porn. But I believe it

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was magazines like an art collection that
he had and some of the pictures were

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like thirty years old inside these magazines
and he wound up having to pay a

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one hundred dollar fine. All the
charges got dropped, but originally, initially

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he was brought up on child pornography
possession. It was they couldn't fight enough.

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I was reading about that. Yeah, they waited till the last possible

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day they could charge him and gave
him when they gave him, Yeah,

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but because they didn't have enough stuffy. See this is the thing, Like

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I always feel like in some way
someone had it out for this guy.

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I don't know what the fuck he
did because the pee Wee Herman thing,

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like he tried to bring that to
Saturday Night Live, he didn't get on.

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It came out of the groundlings and
then he did. He did a

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series of sold out shows at some
theater in LA People loved it, and

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somebody goes, let's put this on
HBO. And that's where the first Pee

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Wee's Playhouse went so and it was
done for adults. So that would that

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would be the thing. Alex I
just didn't realize he was seventy more in

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his like late fifties, seventy years
old. Yeah, dead. So then

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he had one last post, one
last official post to Instagram. This is

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really him. He wanted to put
it out after he died. Please accept

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my apology for not going public with
what I've been facing in the last six

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years. I've always felt a huge
amount of love and respect for my friends,

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fans, and supporters. I have
loved you all so much and enjoyed

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making art for you. Good night. What would be your last post?

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Like? Fuck you all? I
see you know? That would be great?

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That would be great. Why wouldn't
be fuck you wall? What is

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wrong with you? Why? Where? Why? Why? Why would you

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get upset about that? What about
life? You're basically going fuck you all?

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You know? What else would you
want me to say? I want

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you to say something like you know, soldier on? You know? How

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about Mark the Soldier out? No, I like, I'm watching you.

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I see you, soldier watching you. I got you. I'm still watching

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watching from above. I think it'll
be cheap and having or looking probably would

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be sure. I think so too, looking or not having. How do

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they still have dirty movie theaters anywhere? Like anywhere? Remember there was one

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on Monroe Avenue. Yes, there
was for years. I always wanted to

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go check that out. To me, and we're playing on going there.

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We never did that, Yeah,
I never did either. I remember seeing

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it when I was in college.
I was always like intrigue because I heard,

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you know, when I heard dirty
ship went on in the basement,

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it was like the wild sex parties
would go on down. Yeah, I

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don't know if that was true or
not. I've heard about this town.

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It's more kinky people like where we
are Rochester, New York. I hear

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all kinds of shit. Maybe it's
every city has this. Maybe there's you

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know, people or people or people
wherever they are. But I have heard

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about all kinds of different parties.
I know people who have gotten invited to

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places and been told like, hey, you should uh you know, you

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wouldn't be you wouldn't believe who's here? And what's going on? All kinds

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of shit have you have? You
know? No, I'm well, I

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don't get invited because I'll talk about
it. You're not supposed to talk about

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it. You would learn to shut
your mouth. Well, you would learn

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to shut your mouth for that.
I don't know if i'd liked those parties

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to be quin I went to that. Now that okay, that I'm with

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you. I don't think you say
you couldn't jerk off in a in a

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dark in theater. I don't know
that I could go to a swingers party.

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I could go if I could just
sort of casually observe. They don't

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like that, I know, what
do you mean? They don't single?

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No, not single. But let's
say I went as a couple. Let's

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say I found somebody to go with
me and I went and I did that.

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Now, when I was on the
radio, a woman used to call

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in, and she was a unicorn. She was the single woman that would

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go to like swingers meetups and different
things, and she had a specific group

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that she would meet with and she
she kept saying to me, I should

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come and be the bull. So
my buddies that I hang out with,

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you didn't do it. No,
I don't see see I pussy it out

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because I pussy it out. I
could have been Here's here's what here's what

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it would have been with me.
Do you ever see these people that like

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they're gonna do some kind of thrill
seeking thing and they get right up to

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the edge and then they fucking they
just can't do it, no matter what

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if let's say it's bungee jumping.
I guarantee, if you talk to a

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guy who runs a bungee jumping operation, people get right up to the fucking

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edge mark they're, oh, yeah, come out with it, and then

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they look over and they go,
I can't fucking do it. I just

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can't do it. That's where I
go, fuck it and I would jump,

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But when it comes to this shit, I don't know why I would

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get right up to the ABBUTA yeah, right, we're gonna get a lot

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of abula. I can't. I
can't, I can't do it. Yeah,

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No, I don't know why it
is. I can you know,

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one on one school, even the
idea of a threesome. I go,

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I've never never even have you ever
had? You ever? Know? Really?

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Yeah, Kevin A view, No, are you serious? Kevin's two

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and a half people already brings himself. You've had a threesome? Yeah,

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really like more than one? More
than one? Yeah, with U two

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women always or sometimes two guys.
Sometimes it's a couple of times two guys,

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a couple of times two guys.
And that doesn't weird you. Well,

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it did it? It did it
first? Well, so I don't

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understand this. You're telling me like
you can't because I know because the situation

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is a private situation. What we're
talking about is a group. Yes,

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yes, yes, that's that's the
difference. Yeah, but this would even

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be a private one. Two Because
so then this woman said to me,

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listen, if you went to one
of these things and there's a unicorn and

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the ball, sometimes they get together
if they didn't find anybody they wanted to

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be with. Right, I don't
know, un there's something about it just

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kind of sort of skips me up. Yeah. I mean that most people,

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most people our age of had threesomes. What are you talking about?

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I guarantee if I went out and
did a survey, Oh, I guarant

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fuck no way. How are you
so closed minded? R animals? You've

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been you've been, you out of
all people should know. I don't believe

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people. I'm gonna tell you what
I think. I think most people are

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full of shit. I think the
percentage that have actually had sex some good

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point, I think are pretty low. I think most people, especially when

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it comes to sex, and in
this country in particular, I think we

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are very like almost prudish and quite
Look, they're busting a guy in a

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fucking theater in the early nineties.
I mean, it's like shooting fish in

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a barrel. That was the biggest
bullshit trumped up charge, but got the

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guy canceled. They did all that
stuff and it meant nothing. Who got

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harmed, nobody, nobody. He
didn't do anything that. You know,

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I think there would maybe a smattering
of guys in different corners of the thing.

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Nobody, you know what I mean. It's not like there's no hooker,

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there was no gay activity. Nothing. Yeah, yeah, threesome.

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I can't believe this. Yeah,
how many times? I don't know,

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really, I don't know. People
you met through the radio, people you

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knew well, people everything. How
does that conversation go? Like I am

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curious, like, how does the
conversation I'm always that's always my thing.

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I'll always say to these guys,
I want to be there, Like when

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you know they were writing the song, it kind of goes, she's just

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sixteen years old. I'm going,
he had to start out of twelve,

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and somebody in the writers room was
going, heyyy, Benny Benny, Benny,

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Benny, Betty Bettybey, can we
say she's just eighteen eighteen? Please?

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And then finally they settle on sixteen. I'm going, how does this

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conversation happen? You have a few
drinks and then you're hanging out and now

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all of a sudden, it just
happens. I mean, it's not something

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I mean if you plan it,
or were you the third in or were

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you part of a couple and you
brought in a third both both? How

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do you have that conversation with your
significant other to say was it her idea?

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Because if it's her idea, most
guys, I think that's how it

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is always to make it was to
make me happy. This is like I'm

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talking, this is thirty years ago. Okay, So it was to make

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me happy, to make you happy? Did it make you happy? Yeah?

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See here's the other thing. I
think I would have like lost it

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quick and then I would have been
in a refractory period for the next fifteen

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to twenty minutes ago. I listen, you guys are gonna have to take

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care of yourselves for a while.
I'm out. I'm out, and then

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I would have been really embarrassed,
and then it would have been in my

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head and I would never been able
to come back. You wouldn't have if

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you think that. But I don't
think you would have been. Okay,

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not when I was younger. Yeah, because it's the nervousness stuff, Like

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what if I couldn't get it up
because I was so nervous. That happens.

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I'm sure it does. Does happen, I'm sure it does. How

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about the guys that I guarantee this
happens. What about penis envy from one

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guy to another that happens. I'm
sure it does. I've heard it.

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I've heard swingers say that it gets
it gets uncomfortable. Oh. I had

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some guy freaking walk out I'll put
stuff one time because you were so hung

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No, not me, What do
you mean all pissed off because we were

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with his we were with his girlfriend. Yeah, and he just all of

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a sudden backed out in the middle
of it. So it was just you

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and him. No, he backed
up the mill, he got pissed and

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he laughed. So it just was
over right. I'm saying, how many

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people were involved in this free so
you were? I was a third third

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and he got uncomfortable and laughs.
Yeah, did you continue the activity?

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No? No, no, you
still like ruins. The mood it did,

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the whole the whole thing was rocked. So let me ask you,

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the one that was doing this to
make you happy, how long did this

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relationship last afterwards? Well, not
really too long. I always think that

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these things can't work. I think
somebody gets jealous. That's just my thinking.

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I don't know. Maybe that's narrow
minded of me, but I do

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I think people get jealous. Yeah, yeah, I mean I have no

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jealousy in me at all, though, I don't, you know, And

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that's the problem. You get What
about like shyness or embarrassment or somebody's got

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a better body. Oh yeah,
of course, you know what I mean.

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And especially with especially with young you
know, if you're going with um,

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you know, people in their thirties. You know what I'm picturing that

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classic Saturday Night Live bit Chippendale's between
two people who are no longer on the

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planet anymore. Chris Farley and Patrick
swayze You got it, Chris Farley and

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Patrick swayzey and some guy who's ripped
and you're in there trying to bang even

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harder. I could see him.
Mark, what to answer your earlier question,

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Triple X Theater's closest ones are going
to be near Scarsdale and White Plains,

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so they still exist. There's a
whole bunch from down around New York

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City. There is they must have. I wonder how they make money.

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I mean, think about it.
It's it's the Popcorn's fantastic. It's all

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right there. I couldn't go into
one of those this just in. Did

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you know Hillman was Oh did you
know Mark watched Pee wee Hermann bang his

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wife twice? Doug Felds and that's
the funny And that's the funniest guy in

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Rochester. Stop, come on that
guy. I love that. You don't

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mean him a personal Okay, just
want to make sure, all right,

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we will uh, we'll take a
moment um. Mark was defending the show.

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It seems like the soldier came out
again. The soldier has risen.

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Thirty years later, the soldier has
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408
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409
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410
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411
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412
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413
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414
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Victor C. D jr dot com. Do you understand? But don't you

415
00:28:03,839 --> 00:28:25,839
know that what happened? Al old
On let me be misunderstood. So I

416
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,359
think I've been misunderstood you think so, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

417
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,839
yeah, I think so for sure, for sure from what I understand,

418
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,880
Uh, Mark was called Mark the
Soldier back in the day because Stern

419
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,680
came to town and Mark put on
a WE shirt. He wasn't even working

420
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,680
for the show, just a fan
and went out and like railed at some

421
00:28:44,039 --> 00:28:48,319
railler Dino. I don't know what
help me and Dino are our personal friends

422
00:28:48,359 --> 00:28:52,160
that now after that, so so
dumb radio thing is so dumb. But

423
00:28:52,799 --> 00:28:57,920
so that's how you became soldier.
And then I so I get wind up.

424
00:28:59,039 --> 00:29:00,680
Well, no, let me let
me start here. So Friday night,

425
00:29:02,559 --> 00:29:06,279
Kevin and I had a mandate and
we went to dinner in Cobblestone on

426
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:10,440
me Oh thanks for the invite,
fuckers, and we had to row out

427
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:15,079
some business. Okay, So we're
having dinner, and then I left there

428
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,000
and I was going to I said
to you, I'm going to drive right

429
00:29:18,079 --> 00:29:22,519
by maul Conres. And I drove. No, I told you I was

430
00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:25,599
going to probably go there. I
ended up driving right by maul Conres.

431
00:29:26,039 --> 00:29:30,039
And I had something, a family
issue that really took up most of my

432
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:36,079
time that night and the weekend and
everything so even into today. So I

433
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,680
was dealing with that stuff, and
during that time, I got a message

434
00:29:38,759 --> 00:29:44,200
from Rizzo, from the Rizzo and
Jeff Show. It came on Facebook and

435
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,400
I did see it, and I
was just one of those things that at

436
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,480
the timing of it, I thought, I'll get back to this because it

437
00:29:49,559 --> 00:29:55,759
wasn't of importance to me at that
moment because other things started to come up.

438
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,640
Saturday came around, I was involved
in a bunch of stuff. I

439
00:30:00,119 --> 00:30:03,240
taping a podcast for somebody else That
night was we're building a network, so

440
00:30:03,279 --> 00:30:07,640
I'm trying to do that. I
had other stuff going on and then and

441
00:30:07,839 --> 00:30:11,039
that Sunday was like Kevin knows,
and I can't go into some detail,

442
00:30:11,079 --> 00:30:14,839
but it was a lot of personal. This stuff was personal outside of there.

443
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,079
So it ate up all my time
and I did not get back to

444
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,200
these guys. But I didn't think
it was that big a deal. What

445
00:30:22,319 --> 00:30:25,119
did he What did he want?
I think he said something about, hey,

446
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:30,440
we'd love to come on your podcast
or whatever. So then, um,

447
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,799
now I have been talked about,
this podcast, has been talked about

448
00:30:34,039 --> 00:30:38,920
on other radio shows other than iHeart
radio shows, and I have gotten hundreds

449
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:44,319
of messages for this. I only
was getting like one person was sending me,

450
00:30:44,799 --> 00:30:48,960
but one person who's like deeply invested, because any closed that these guys

451
00:30:49,079 --> 00:30:55,480
Rizzo and Jeff do and in there, so I couldn't. I couldn't follow

452
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,599
any of this stuff. Well no, so I was trying to figure out

453
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,599
like okay, And again I didn't
go seek out the original video and maybe

454
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:07,359
that would have given me more context. I'm only looking at clips of videos

455
00:31:07,839 --> 00:31:12,319
that just one person was sending me
that that was it, and in it

456
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:18,480
they're saying things like he never liked
us, and I'm going, what now,

457
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,559
I learned a good lesson here,
and I'm serious, I learned a

458
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,480
lesson from this whole exchange with the
Rizzono and Jeff or I'm not really an

459
00:31:26,519 --> 00:31:32,039
exchange because I didn't do anything.
I haven't responded. I still haven't responded

460
00:31:32,079 --> 00:31:37,599
back. But what I learned was, so if you asked me about Rizzo

461
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,480
and Jeff when I was at iHeart
Er, even after, I would have

462
00:31:41,559 --> 00:31:48,440
said that they were talented and interesting. Is how I would have described talented

463
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,880
and interesting. And as I had
said to Weez, who then said it

464
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,400
on a microphone, I said,
these guys are hard working man. They're

465
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:00,559
out there all the time I had. I thought I talked them. I

466
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,599
thought I went into their studio.
I know I went into their studio and

467
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,000
said hello. I know I told
Rizzo that there was an open door policy.

468
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,519
I know that we used to have
Rizzo on for cross talk. I

469
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:15,079
probably didn't say coming up next Rizzo
when Jeff. That was something I did

470
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,720
hear in one of the clips that
was sent to me, and I thought,

471
00:32:17,839 --> 00:32:20,880
oh, yeah, I didn't say
that about any show. And it

472
00:32:21,039 --> 00:32:24,240
wasn't done to slight them in any
way, shape or form. It just

473
00:32:24,359 --> 00:32:29,000
wasn't it just it wasn't at all. I think that I had talked to

474
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,799
and I hope I'm not speaking,
but the way I remember it, and

475
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:36,759
I think people's memories change over time
of events, but the way I remembered,

476
00:32:36,799 --> 00:32:38,359
I thought Rizzo would come in and
I said something about Jeff and he

477
00:32:38,359 --> 00:32:42,160
goes, he doesn't like to he
doesn't really like to do that. So

478
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,279
so but I would have thought my
relationship with them was fine. I never

479
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:51,839
didn't not like them at all.
I actually spoke. I actually called their

480
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,200
show once on my way home.
I listened to them always on the way

481
00:32:54,279 --> 00:32:59,279
home, and anytime I saw them
Now I would say that when I was

482
00:32:59,359 --> 00:33:02,079
at iHeart, I was stretched I
will. I will say this, and

483
00:33:02,319 --> 00:33:06,200
somebody can challenge me on it if
they want to. Out of all the

484
00:33:06,359 --> 00:33:10,599
talent that iHeart had in that building, I was stretched the thinnest. I

485
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:15,960
don't think there was another radio on
air personality stretched as thin as I was.

486
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:20,039
I think there were people that were
stretched thin. But I was doing

487
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:24,720
stuff for Wham Weeze's show, the
Miranda di Tulio show, and then I

488
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,640
was doing all the national shows,
right, so so I was stretched thin.

489
00:33:29,839 --> 00:33:32,799
And I had talked to Rizzo and
Jeff in the hallway by the elevators

490
00:33:32,839 --> 00:33:37,599
outside the bathroom once, all about
voice tracking, and I think Jeff had

491
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,720
done a lot of that when he
was either in Philly or New York City.

492
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:44,559
I mean, these guys had worked
in big places. I had no

493
00:33:45,839 --> 00:33:47,920
I've never there was nothing. So
the only thing I took away from that

494
00:33:49,079 --> 00:33:52,200
is, you know what you never
know how you're perceived. And when I

495
00:33:52,759 --> 00:33:54,920
remember when my kids were little,
you always you know your first kids,

496
00:33:55,160 --> 00:34:00,119
you read books and different things how
to try to not be the parent your

497
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:04,359
parents weren't. Maybe I don't know, so I remember reading something that said,

498
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,599
you're never perceived the way you think
you are. If you're ever interacting

499
00:34:08,679 --> 00:34:13,119
with your kids or disciplining your kid, you should film yourself. I think

500
00:34:13,159 --> 00:34:15,119
I did it once and then never
did it again, but just to see

501
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:19,079
kind of from the kid's perspective,
what is the kids seeing? So my

502
00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:24,000
point being that no one ever sees
how they're being So I don't know,

503
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:30,320
I thought I this was like completely
caught me off guard with the he doesn't

504
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,440
like me, he doesn't like us, So that that surprised me. I

505
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:37,599
had no idea at all that that
surprised me. You better like us,

506
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,840
you better like me and Dan,
no, it doesn't like me. That's

507
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:44,599
not true at all. That none
of that's true. But I'm saying like,

508
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:45,480
so, so that made me I
go, boy, you know,

509
00:34:45,599 --> 00:34:49,400
and here are two guys who were
coming into a city. And I gotta

510
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:54,440
tell you, those guys stepped into
they were replacing a show that replaced the

511
00:34:54,519 --> 00:35:00,119
show. They were starting out underground. You know what I'm saying. They

512
00:35:00,159 --> 00:35:04,559
were starting out underground. They they
really got into a tough position, but

513
00:35:04,679 --> 00:35:09,320
they were out there. All I
used to tell them, like when they

514
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,880
did the what they would go interview, the what do they call them,

515
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,800
the guy, the natty daddy,
the natty daddies. And I used to

516
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:20,119
tell them like and they did natty
daddy football picks. I think we talked

517
00:35:20,159 --> 00:35:24,000
about that once. I had so. So No, I never dislike,

518
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:28,119
no, like, yeah, I
thought I thought that was it. I

519
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,440
did. No, It's not even
I thought I liked them. I thought

520
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,280
I made it clear that I did. I didn't know, you know what

521
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,559
I'm saying, like and and okay, you know I had and I have

522
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:43,480
kids and stuff and different things going
on and a you know, a wife

523
00:35:43,519 --> 00:35:45,639
I'm not with were separated, I
mean know, so there was just different

524
00:35:45,679 --> 00:35:50,320
things, that was all it was. So I never thought so. I

525
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,679
never thought anything of that at all. I just didn't so that that really

526
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:57,599
surprised me. Yeah, well we
were well I was gonna say, was

527
00:35:58,079 --> 00:36:00,639
you know, what are they doing? Are they doing a podcast or they

528
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:04,760
just doing feacebook left? I don't
know what they're doing. I wasn't.

529
00:36:05,079 --> 00:36:10,079
I wasn't sure either. So I'll
say this when um, when things change

530
00:36:10,119 --> 00:36:15,280
for me, and uh, from
what I understand, they have a different

531
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:20,159
interpretation of it. I only say
this. I go, look, I

532
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,760
have talked at nauseum in the beginning
here as to why I was doing the

533
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:28,559
podcast. I've said it was a
contract issue. According to the person that

534
00:36:28,639 --> 00:36:30,880
message me. They say he said
it was another issue. Yet they say

535
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,480
that that's not true. And I'm
going, okay, well put it.

536
00:36:34,559 --> 00:36:37,639
Where where is it in writing?
Show me? Show me what would be

537
00:36:37,559 --> 00:36:43,320
a definitive state? Who has ever
said that? Do you understand what we're

538
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,800
saying? Who have authority? Has
ever said that? Right? No?

539
00:36:45,079 --> 00:36:50,920
No one, So that that's that's
not true. And again but okay,

540
00:36:51,159 --> 00:36:53,199
that's I don't care why you thought
I'm not there. I didn't. I

541
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:58,400
didn't. Wait. So when those
those guys couldn't have been nicer. Uh,

542
00:36:58,599 --> 00:37:01,079
they are very connected. Rizzonn Jeff
were very connected, and they were

543
00:37:01,119 --> 00:37:02,880
sending me, hey, if you
need anything, blah blah, And all

544
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,280
I wrote back was thanks because I
knew what I was gonna do, and

545
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,199
I also believe this, if you're
gonna do something like I was taking the

546
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:14,960
risk to do this and build this
studio and now start to build this network

547
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,320
and sell it and do all the
things that I'm doing. That right,

548
00:37:17,559 --> 00:37:22,119
and it's going well, right,
Okay, So in order to do that.

549
00:37:22,559 --> 00:37:24,880
I wasn't telling anybody. And the
only reason I wasn't tellingybody, And

550
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:29,000
it wasn't like I'm not telling rizzone
Jo, I'm not telling anybody. I

551
00:37:29,039 --> 00:37:32,239
didn't even really think about those guys. I wasn't telling anybody because everybody else

552
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:37,199
was gonna tell me how it wasn't
gonna work, and I was already starting

553
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,880
to see that. I went to
do I got hired to do like a

554
00:37:40,159 --> 00:37:44,800
voice job for a couple of airports
around the country, and I went into

555
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,000
the studio and all I heard was, no one can monetize a podcast.

556
00:37:47,119 --> 00:37:50,639
No one's been able to do it. I haven't seen it. This was

557
00:37:51,079 --> 00:37:53,800
five minutes before I even started reading. Because the person said, what are

558
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:55,199
you gonna do? I said,
I think I'm gonna do. But I

559
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:59,440
heard about how. That's why I
don't tell anybody, because people aren't telling

560
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,599
you that to be mean and shit
all over your dreams. They're telling you

561
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:06,360
that because they think they're being helpful. Hey man, that's it. You

562
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,079
know, I've never seen that work. I wasn't gonna listen to anybody then,

563
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:14,320
I will tell you this. When
I started the podcast, Rizzo sent

564
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,880
me something and said here's all the
places you should go. And because of

565
00:38:19,039 --> 00:38:22,159
Rizzo and Jeff, and this is
absolute fact, I use Spreaker, which

566
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,360
is owned by iHeart. And the
reason I use it and I pay for

567
00:38:25,519 --> 00:38:30,519
it through my company is because it
distributes everywhere, and so all the podcasts

568
00:38:30,519 --> 00:38:34,400
are on this network. I use
Spreaker, and I used it at the

569
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,679
recommendation of Rizzo. There you go, I'm not even kidding. Yeah.

570
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:43,719
So the fact that I didn't get
back, I'm like, none of it

571
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,800
okay, So none of that made
any sense. And the other thing I

572
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:51,960
would say is this when someone doesn't
respond to us. And this is a

573
00:38:52,119 --> 00:38:54,440
lesson for me. I'm not talking
about anybody else. The only way we

574
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,800
can see life is through ourselves.
So the second lesson I learned, the

575
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,960
first one being you never know how
you're perceived. I really thought that I

576
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,679
not. I didn't feel like I
went out of my way. I thought

577
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,800
I naturally was like cool with these
guys you were, I really did.

578
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,840
I thought I was naturally cool with
them, and I never gave them any

579
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,639
reason to think I didn't had nothing. Risen would come to the liquor store

580
00:39:14,639 --> 00:39:16,519
because he lived close to there.
We stand there and talk about radio for

581
00:39:16,599 --> 00:39:20,519
hours. He loved you and another
great things to say. So I don't

582
00:39:20,679 --> 00:39:23,639
understand what this is about. So
then I would say this. Then it

583
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:28,239
was like all of a sudden,
immediately I'm getting other things where they're going.

584
00:39:28,559 --> 00:39:31,519
We're not going on there, we're
not talking something about somebody that was

585
00:39:31,599 --> 00:39:36,360
this Only again, it was only
one person that I've heard this stuff from.

586
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,000
I didn't go seeking it out because, like I said, and most

587
00:39:39,039 --> 00:39:45,119
of my day today was tied up
with a personal issue involving family and U.

588
00:39:45,119 --> 00:39:47,880
I did not go seeking this stuff
out. But the person sent me

589
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,360
it, and in it they're like, we're not going to kiss Moran's ring.

590
00:39:52,199 --> 00:39:53,480
When the fuck did I ever say
kiss? What do you do?

591
00:39:53,559 --> 00:39:58,920
What is that to you? Out? I mean, I like, hold

592
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,679
on a second. So I never
said anything. So then it was he

593
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:05,440
didn't respond, he to do this. Here's what I would say, and

594
00:40:05,599 --> 00:40:08,360
I learned this too, was you
never know what's going on with somebody else

595
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:13,199
that if they don't get back to
you, it's not probably about you.

596
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,199
You didn't get back to me into
No, but do you understand what I'm

597
00:40:16,199 --> 00:40:20,239
saying? I think that a lot
of times if someone doesn't get back to

598
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,639
you, and I will tell you
that probably the best people get back to

599
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:29,079
you immediately. I'm not and I
that is an absolute character flaw for me.

600
00:40:29,199 --> 00:40:32,320
I will not deny that I said, but but but it's not it's

601
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:37,239
not it's not a fair excuse.
But the other thing is it I did

602
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,239
have and I will not go into
detail on it, something that is pretty

603
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:45,440
extreme that I'm dealing with. UH. And because of that, it just

604
00:40:45,639 --> 00:40:51,239
became my priority. This wasn't my
priority and it but it had nothing to

605
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,559
do with you. It wasn't because
I don't like you, and I would

606
00:40:53,599 --> 00:40:59,159
say that, So that changed taking
it back to myself, which because I

607
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,000
do that with everything, UH,
I would say like now I go,

608
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:07,639
I will touch somebody three times,
meaning I'll send a message. Let's say

609
00:41:07,679 --> 00:41:09,199
I send a message on Friday and
I don't hear from them throughout the weekend,

610
00:41:09,199 --> 00:41:12,519
I'll wait till Tuesday. I'll send
another message. If I don't hear

611
00:41:12,519 --> 00:41:14,679
again by Thursday, I'll send a
third. If I don't hear again,

612
00:41:15,079 --> 00:41:19,679
then I go message message received.
But I didn't do anything but in the

613
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,599
video and things, this was all
what was very very confusing to me,

614
00:41:23,679 --> 00:41:28,519
uh, and again I only saw
clips, and it was one person who's

615
00:41:29,039 --> 00:41:31,719
clearly invested spent time chopping these their
videos up. I don't even know how

616
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,280
you do that. I don't know
how they downloaded their videos. But I

617
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,280
didn't see the whole video. I
just saw segments because it was it was

618
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,880
chopped like pick up in a mid
sentence. And that's how you know it

619
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:43,920
was editing to be friend defend you
though there's times Danny Night work on this

620
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,280
show and you don't respond. That's
that's yeah, I and and that,

621
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,840
and that's wrong and that's wrong too, and I should do that, and

622
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:58,440
I watch you guys cute, but
if you put everybody chats, I'm sure,

623
00:41:58,599 --> 00:42:01,440
I'm sure, I'm sure. Just
so, then then the other side

624
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:06,559
of this is that So now I'm
watching a little bit of the video and

625
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:12,000
Rizzo's saying we should go over there, and Jeff says, you know,

626
00:42:12,079 --> 00:42:14,960
I'm not a fan of this,
and then they went on about how if

627
00:42:15,039 --> 00:42:19,239
they go, they want to be
able to do their Facebook live because I

628
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,880
tape, well, we're on Facebook
Live right now, and I do tape

629
00:42:23,039 --> 00:42:29,960
and download. I don't pay attention
to the live stuff because my advertisings inside

630
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:36,280
the recorded podcast that gets downloaded tomorrow
from Spreaker on Apple, on iHeart,

631
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,360
on Spotify, on Google, on
Amazon, everywhere, right, And so

632
00:42:39,639 --> 00:42:43,320
I don't really pay attention to you
know, who's watching, not watching.

633
00:42:43,599 --> 00:42:47,079
I take those videos, those are
put into with my team teases and stuff.

634
00:42:47,119 --> 00:42:52,079
So so this was like, I
go, so they're going that way

635
00:42:52,199 --> 00:42:54,400
because I don't want him editing.
When have I ever? I thought?

636
00:42:54,559 --> 00:42:59,159
I was like, where did this
distrust come from? And what all of

637
00:42:59,199 --> 00:43:01,159
a sudden he can tell his truth
my truth? What is my truth?

638
00:43:02,559 --> 00:43:07,039
What the fuck? What is my
tru I don't know what my truth is?

639
00:43:07,559 --> 00:43:09,800
And then uh, they're going and
we're gonna tell our truth and you'll

640
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,920
be able to see it if we
do this. We want to be Facebook

641
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,400
live so that way nothing can come
out wrong. And I'm going. So

642
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:22,280
that became a threat to me.
And all I can say is this at

643
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:27,320
that at that point, and I
didn't see those videos until I was in

644
00:43:27,519 --> 00:43:30,599
here. We taped a podcast.
It was late last night. I didn't

645
00:43:30,639 --> 00:43:35,800
I didn't leave this studio last night
until about midnight, UM, and I

646
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,639
didn't. And I saw their videos
kind of just before that because somebody had

647
00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:40,840
sent them and then was at that
point, I'm like, well, I'm

648
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,719
not looking to do any kind of
hostile thing. I have nothing bad to

649
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,079
say about you guys. I have
nothing bad to say about my heart.

650
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:52,039
I'm I'm moving forward. I don't
want to go back and rehash anything to

651
00:43:52,119 --> 00:43:54,440
do with I heart, because I've
moved on. My life is this way.

652
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:59,079
If my heart were to come back
to me and say something, I

653
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,920
don't know, but I'm not looking
for that. I'm doing my thing and

654
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:07,840
doing it well and just going forward. It's about forward momentum. I didn't

655
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:12,960
want to rehash anything to be I
don't stay stuck somewhere. Do you understand

656
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,480
what I'm saying? Right Like,
I felt like if you could be angry

657
00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:19,000
about something and you'll wind up staying
stuck there, I decided that, all

658
00:44:19,039 --> 00:44:21,079
right, fine, I'm gonna go
do this and that, and that's what

659
00:44:21,159 --> 00:44:24,039
I've done so that I don't know
what they're my truth and their truth.

660
00:44:24,199 --> 00:44:28,480
I think there's another reason that you
got fired. That's what they're saying.

661
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,480
You know, there was tons of
reasons people thought you got fired. Yeah,

662
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:36,760
well, first episode about they know
it's called rumors and I'll tell you

663
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:42,840
how fair what it is. I
know, I know exactly what. I'm

664
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,559
sure too. But so the point
is, okay, so why why why?

665
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:51,920
What? What good does it do
to bring those rumors to what to

666
00:44:52,039 --> 00:44:54,280
my face? So I can have
to say that's not true, and then

667
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,360
they can go, well, it
is true, and I'll say, okay,

668
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,079
how do you prove that? And
I'll go, right, do you

669
00:45:00,159 --> 00:45:05,519
understand something like to me, it's
a circular, ridiculous argument. It has

670
00:45:05,599 --> 00:45:08,840
nothing to do it has absolutely nothing
to do with anything. And I thought,

671
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:13,199
wow, this is It made me
feel bad because I'm like I.

672
00:45:13,639 --> 00:45:16,000
First of all, I like those
guys, but clearly I was perceived.

673
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:20,440
I didn't realize how I was perceived. Second, I did learn that just

674
00:45:20,519 --> 00:45:23,199
because somebody doesn't get back to you
has no bearing on you necessarily at all.

675
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,119
Right, I really don't think it
does. Maybe from time to time,

676
00:45:27,159 --> 00:45:30,840
but but but probably not. And
then and then the other is,

677
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:36,239
I'm not weighing into some back and
forth about something that that doesn't exist or

678
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,719
benefit anybody. It doesn't benefit anybody. And if they want to response,

679
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:43,639
send it to me bellified that producer
at Gmail. No, send me all

680
00:45:43,679 --> 00:45:46,119
your all your hate, okay,
But my point is, like their truth,

681
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,519
my truth, I don't. I've
never gone on about my truth.

682
00:45:50,639 --> 00:45:52,360
All I said was there was a
contract issue. That's what it was.

683
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:57,559
That's what it was. There was
something in the contract, and that's what

684
00:45:57,679 --> 00:46:00,599
it was. So I don't know
where else you want to go with that.

685
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:04,440
Do you want to say that I
was fired for some kind of inappropriate

686
00:46:04,559 --> 00:46:07,320
behavior? I know that that's exactly
I know that's what they want to say.

687
00:46:07,559 --> 00:46:10,280
But that's not why I was fired. And I wasn't fired. It

688
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:15,039
was a it was a parting of
the ways and that that that's absolutely true.

689
00:46:15,119 --> 00:46:16,760
How did that? How did someone
start that? Because I heard that?

690
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:22,360
Fuck? But who cares? Here's
the other thing is, like I

691
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,760
truly believe most people don't care.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

692
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:29,760
And if you do, all right, you know, there's so many things

693
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:35,960
going on right now that I cannot
talk about that will blow. If things

694
00:46:36,159 --> 00:46:38,840
go the way they could go,
it'll fucking blow people's minds and you'll all

695
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:44,800
go, wait a second, they
were saying, why so don't even like

696
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,360
he just but my point is,
how did he get there? Why?

697
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:52,599
I don't care? I honest to
god, I don't care. But now

698
00:46:52,679 --> 00:46:57,840
it's things like I'm a dick or
I'm old, or I do this or

699
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,480
I do that, and I'm going, where do fuck does this ship come

700
00:47:00,559 --> 00:47:05,519
from? So now you think I
want you in my studio after I've been

701
00:47:05,639 --> 00:47:07,320
nothing but nice. I thought I
was nice when we worked together. I

702
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,960
liked you guys, and now that
now I'm supposed to be like, oh

703
00:47:12,039 --> 00:47:14,360
my god, I'm supposed to come
running. And by the way, it

704
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,960
was one person then I heard from
when other radio Shay shows talking to me,

705
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,239
it was hundred. So I don't
know what the fuck to believe or

706
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,840
not believe, and they don't care. I wish you guys a lot of

707
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:25,639
luck. I will say it again. You're talented, you're very interesting,

708
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:30,000
and you're some of the hardest working
guys I've ever seen. That's it.

709
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,679
That's it, yea, And thank
you for teaching me two lessons. One

710
00:47:35,199 --> 00:47:37,880
that none of us really know how
we're perceived. Clearly, I thought I

711
00:47:38,079 --> 00:47:42,639
was cool with you guys, and
from your aspect, I was not okay.

712
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:47,119
Eye opening. Second, I should
probably respond a little quicker to things.

713
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:52,639
But sub to that is when people
don't respond to me, I'm not

714
00:47:52,679 --> 00:47:55,679
going to take it as personally.
I'm not because I realize the reason that

715
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:59,840
I didn't. I will not get
into it. I will never talk about

716
00:48:00,119 --> 00:48:02,199
but it's a deep, deep thing
that's going on right now, and you

717
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:06,320
know, it's not fair to people
in my family. So that's it.

718
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,000
But I was like, wow,
that So that bothered me, and I

719
00:48:08,079 --> 00:48:12,000
thought, but it says more I
think about these guys than it does me.

720
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:15,199
I had never done anything right,
right right, And by the way,

721
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:22,400
they weren't involved in any of it. None of it had anything nothing,

722
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,280
not my bilified, not my time
at iHeart, had nothing to do

723
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:29,960
with them. So I don't understand, like exactly like So to me,

724
00:48:30,039 --> 00:48:31,679
it just seemed like it was made
up and it came out of the oblivion,

725
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:36,480
and I don't understand it. And
if they get upset about me saying

726
00:48:36,519 --> 00:48:40,079
these things, that's fine. I
just it made absolutely zero sense, and

727
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:45,199
maybe I didn't see the full context
of it. Again, one person sent

728
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,280
me a series of videos that were
chopped up. One person, I don't

729
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,599
know what else to do, and
I didn't have the time to go looking,

730
00:48:51,039 --> 00:48:53,079
and I've got I've got a bunch
of projects and this show is as

731
00:48:53,159 --> 00:48:55,639
real as it gets. I mean, I think in the one hundred and

732
00:48:55,679 --> 00:48:59,880
seventy episodes, or don't think we've
edited once outside of just a commercial.

733
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:07,039
I have edited commercials. Yeah,
because you and I think we've edited one

734
00:49:07,119 --> 00:49:10,800
time. I have edited when um, someone called me and said please take

735
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:15,320
that out. I don't want my
name. Somebody else said something called me

736
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:16,920
and said please take that out.
I don't want to have said. We

737
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:21,159
don't edit anything. No, except
for the promos. No, those are

738
00:49:21,199 --> 00:49:23,159
just audited down. So it's thirty
seconds instead an hour and a half.

739
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:29,320
Sorry, long time, too long
conversation. That was good, but but

740
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,599
but true. Yeah everything, I
mean there's nothing that nothing made up?

741
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:35,400
Right, Okay, yeah, nothing
made up? So there you go.

742
00:49:35,559 --> 00:49:37,920
Okay, there it is. That's
it. If you can't reach Bill,

743
00:49:37,159 --> 00:49:39,000
send it to me. I'll take
care of it. Yeah, say that

744
00:49:39,079 --> 00:49:43,119
again, what is it? They'll
find that producer, they'll find send me

745
00:49:43,199 --> 00:49:45,679
out your filth. There you go, and if you can't find me,

746
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:50,880
I'll probably be at mul Connery's Irish
pub. Let's touch Ireland right on the

747
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:52,639
other side of the canal. Go
in there and look for me and Damian.

748
00:49:52,679 --> 00:49:55,719
We'll be hanging out, just having
a good time, laughing and drinking

749
00:49:55,760 --> 00:50:00,599
a couple of did you call me? Call me back? But I mean

750
00:50:00,679 --> 00:50:02,119
even those guys I don't get back
to all the time, they don't get

751
00:50:02,159 --> 00:50:05,960
back to me all the time.
I didn't take it personally. And I

752
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,360
will say again, we're on Spreaker
because it Rizzo and they were. They

753
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:13,119
could not have been cooler when uh, there was a parting of the ways.

754
00:50:13,159 --> 00:50:15,360
They couldn't have been right. And
I hope that they know that I

755
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:21,519
appreciated that. Well, hopefully they
listen and they know I don't know someone

756
00:50:21,599 --> 00:50:23,760
someone's gonna tell them, of course, so you know, I mean,

757
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:28,400
but I'm not looking to start,
but this is this is what they wanted.

758
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,719
Though they might have this like war
and you just kind of war,

759
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:35,519
right, but it's they will trying
to start. But I will say something.

760
00:50:35,559 --> 00:50:37,679
They taught me a lesson. I'm
not kidding. You never know how

761
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,840
you're perceived. I thought I was
cool with these guys. Clearly they didn't

762
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:46,159
feel the same way. I don't
get back to people that Obviously that rubs

763
00:50:46,199 --> 00:50:49,679
people the wrong way. I need
to get better at that. And on

764
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:52,320
the other side, if someone doesn't
get back to me that I want them

765
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:55,039
too. I shouldn't. I shouldn't
be upset. I should give them a

766
00:50:55,079 --> 00:50:58,719
little bit of room because I don't
know what else is happening in the world,

767
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,559
right, I really don't. They
want a war. One of them

768
00:51:00,599 --> 00:51:02,800
is chubby, right, him and
the chubby one and I can have a

769
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:06,719
water balloon what T shirt contest war. We'll see who wins that one.

770
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:13,360
They seem like nice guys. Was
cool and Jeff I wish though I never

771
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,960
met all right mul conres, Like
I said, you get over there.

772
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:21,079
You can have some delicious eats.
You could sit out on the on the

773
00:51:21,159 --> 00:51:24,639
patio upstairs. I had their Cajun
chicken sandwich salad over there once and fantastic,

774
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:29,960
so good. If you're looking for, let's say, a little Irish

775
00:51:30,039 --> 00:51:31,480
fair. You want to have a
shepherd's pie, you can have that.

776
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,840
They even have an Irish burger.
It's an open faced burger almost with like

777
00:51:36,039 --> 00:51:39,159
mushrooms and like a steak sauce on
there. So good. Yeah, every

778
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:45,639
menu item there pairs with either Jamison
or Guinness perfectly right. That is true.

779
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:49,119
And I don't know that it's necessarily
by design, but I don't know

780
00:51:49,199 --> 00:51:52,280
that it's not. And there's all
of course, they have Kraft cocktails,

781
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,199
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782
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812
00:53:59,079 --> 00:54:37,159
shipping. That's code Bill twenty at
manscaping dot com. R side wind.

813
00:54:44,079 --> 00:55:14,039
I hate to reach mouse too.
About the clo thank you, that's all

814
00:55:14,119 --> 00:55:16,639
right. Happen to this band.
I liked him. They're good kid Joe.

815
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:21,960
I liked him. I had two
heads. It's about it has a

816
00:55:22,039 --> 00:55:24,960
cover on his cover. Yeah's the
creative. It's hard to have hit it

817
00:55:25,079 --> 00:55:29,360
all, you know what I mean. I haven't hit it all. I

818
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:30,920
didn't like you at one time too, so I know, I know,

819
00:55:31,159 --> 00:55:34,840
so I understand what's all right?
And did I've always loved you? No,

820
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,960
Mark really didn't like it was misled
and I don't. But did I

821
00:55:37,079 --> 00:55:39,960
react? No? You were coolest
shit. I ended up having beers with

822
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:44,760
you over a freaking I don't know
why. I don't know what it's wrong

823
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:49,000
with me, but I just I
don't care about a lot of ships.

824
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,960
Well, I used to be.
I used to be really think skinned it.

825
00:55:52,119 --> 00:55:53,960
It's a sensitive it's the radio station, like I screwed up your showing

826
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,239
you were mad and you were talking
shit, would you should up? I

827
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,400
mean, right now I don't remember
that, but I probably I screwed.

828
00:56:00,599 --> 00:56:04,880
But I screwed your show up bad? Okay, I'm sure no worse than

829
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:07,239
I did. Maybe you know what
the big thing is. Here's what I've

830
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:10,400
come to realize. There is nothing. I don't give a fuck who you

831
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:15,039
are, what you're doing. There's
nothing serious going on here for the most

832
00:56:15,119 --> 00:56:16,679
for most of us. I guess
we could say, like if you're in

833
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:20,840
a nuclear artist treaty. Maybe if
you're performing surgery, I guess you are

834
00:56:21,199 --> 00:56:23,079
if you can find in the care
to cancer. But what percentage of the

835
00:56:23,159 --> 00:56:30,960
world is doing that? Less than
one percent. So there's nothing serious going

836
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,760
on. And even when shit seems
like it's so bad, it's not.

837
00:56:34,159 --> 00:56:37,000
And when shit seems like it's so
good, it's not. It's somewhere in

838
00:56:37,079 --> 00:56:38,920
the middle. But if you could
always feel good and go for the better

839
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:44,480
feeling thought and keep positive and keep
picturing things happening for you, they will,

840
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:46,880
And that's it. You're not a
drama You are not a drama guy.

841
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,320
No, you never have been.
No. I mean I could get

842
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:52,360
down and dirty, and I did
for a long time, and I would

843
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,360
get down, but it never did
me any good, never made me feel

844
00:56:55,440 --> 00:57:00,199
good, made me feel shitty,
and it just never worked. You know

845
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:04,000
what, I'll give you one from
radio that that really got to me for

846
00:57:04,039 --> 00:57:08,079
a while. Um, So I
was doing I was doing like afternoons,

847
00:57:08,119 --> 00:57:12,320
but they were leting me do whatever
I wanted. I was going four until

848
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,000
nine, and after six, I
was allowed to do whatever I wanted.

849
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:20,840
So I did whatever I wanted.
I just put on I was allowed to

850
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,320
just talk, and I had people
in the studio and we did strip trivia

851
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,920
and we did all this weird stuff. I just had a lot of fun

852
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:30,519
and it was kind of a cool
training ground to do talk and do FM

853
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:37,800
radios them. Yeah. So during
that time, though ninety five one,

854
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:42,079
which is now Radio ninety five one
where I worked at in our city,

855
00:57:43,119 --> 00:57:49,400
they had an alternative station and they
brought they had two guys, Kramer and

856
00:57:49,519 --> 00:57:52,960
Twitch, who they put on in
the afternoon, and Kramer and Twitch decided

857
00:57:53,039 --> 00:57:57,280
to just start coming at me and
coming at me and making fun of me.

858
00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:00,800
And I had just had my first
child and I wore sweater vest and

859
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:05,639
they made fun of me and they
did all this shit and if they went

860
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:07,440
hard at me, hard heart,
heart, and it was getting under my

861
00:58:07,519 --> 00:58:10,159
skin. And it was actually getting
under my wife's skin at the time as

862
00:58:10,199 --> 00:58:14,880
well, so you you dealt with
it here. And then you know,

863
00:58:15,039 --> 00:58:16,920
she was in the radio business too, and she heard some of this stuff

864
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:21,400
and it was bothering her and they
were making fun and then one day they

865
00:58:21,599 --> 00:58:27,800
called me from wherever they were in
America because they were piped in from somewhere,

866
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,400
but they were doing it just a
specific Rochester show, and they called

867
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:34,639
me and they said, hey,
they're making fun of me. And I

868
00:58:34,719 --> 00:58:37,239
said, I'll talk to you guys. But much like you know, the

869
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,079
guys who we just talked about,
said, I want to be able to

870
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:44,320
be live as well. I don't
want you to talk to me. I

871
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:45,679
want to be able to tape you
guys. So I said, call me

872
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:51,599
through the regular board, and they
did, and I aired what they said,

873
00:58:51,679 --> 00:58:53,280
and I go, I guarantee,
because they were like a day later

874
00:58:53,599 --> 00:58:58,039
everything would come in because they were
West Coast, I go, I guarantee

875
00:58:58,039 --> 00:59:00,880
you won't hear this since sure enough
they had edited it up. And much

876
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:02,039
like you know, these guys were
saying, I may do to them,

877
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:07,800
And it turned out that there was
a radio personality named Eman who was also

878
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:12,159
the program, and it was just
feeding shit to these guys to try to

879
00:59:12,159 --> 00:59:15,800
get under my skin. And I
didn't sleep one night, and I was

880
00:59:15,239 --> 00:59:17,719
at one point, I'm like,
I'm gonna buy a plane ticket and I'm

881
00:59:17,719 --> 00:59:22,000
gonna go out. I'm gonna go
to that radio station. And I think,

882
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,360
I don't remember. When I'm driving
to work and I'm thinking about it

883
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:28,039
and to eat me up, eating
me out, eating me up, And

884
00:59:28,239 --> 00:59:32,039
I look in the in the rearview
mirror and I'm and there's my kid in

885
00:59:32,159 --> 00:59:36,199
his in his car seat facing you
know, the other way, because they're

886
00:59:36,239 --> 00:59:37,559
too little, and he's just kicking
his little legs. And I go,

887
00:59:38,519 --> 00:59:42,760
the fuck am I doing? I
could go who gives a shit? But

888
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:46,599
the who gives a shit? Who
cares? Who cares? And I thought,

889
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:50,920
it's just a joke. It's all
just a joke. You're an entertainment.

890
00:59:51,079 --> 00:59:53,159
It's a joke. It doesn't mean
anything. It doesn't mean anything.

891
00:59:53,599 --> 00:59:55,960
And that was it and that and
from that point on, I thought,

892
00:59:57,039 --> 01:00:00,800
I gotta just be me and and
that and that's not me. I mean,

893
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:02,519
I can be a real asshole.
Ask anybody, ask people I was

894
01:00:02,559 --> 01:00:05,840
married to that they'll tell you I
can. I can. I know I

895
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,039
can. I have been told that
I can, like on a on a

896
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,719
dime. Just it just like the
air turns cold in the room when I

897
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,280
get really pissed. I understand that. I try not to do that anymore.

898
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:21,639
I don't know. But yeah,
so yes, I got down and

899
01:00:22,039 --> 01:00:23,519
I wanted to fight, and I
wanted to go, you know, and

900
01:00:23,679 --> 01:00:27,559
I've always been around boxing, and
I want to fight, I like,

901
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,480
you know, but it does no
good comes of it, so I'd rather

902
01:00:30,559 --> 01:00:34,960
have fun. There you go.
Weird story in the news today and I

903
01:00:35,039 --> 01:00:37,920
don't I don't get this, and
maybe somebody can explain this to me.

904
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:40,119
No, no, it's not as
weird as you think. We'll get to

905
01:00:40,199 --> 01:00:45,119
that in a little bit. But
the State Police, the State Police are

906
01:00:45,239 --> 01:00:51,559
asking for the public's health help health
in finding William Zany Junior, who went

907
01:00:51,679 --> 01:00:55,679
missing in two thousand and five.
It is two thousand and twenty three.

908
01:00:57,639 --> 01:01:02,159
This guy just vanished October over twenty
fifth, two thousand and five. I

909
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:07,679
believe this guy would be fifty nine
years old today. So if you go

910
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:12,960
back, what is two thousand and
five, eighteen years ago? Yeah,

911
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,840
eighteen years ago, so fifty nine
was that making forty two at the time

912
01:01:17,079 --> 01:01:22,480
when he goes missing two. So
but this is all on all the news

913
01:01:22,559 --> 01:01:27,440
stations. They have his picture,
They've aged him, so he had kind

914
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,840
of scraggly hair and now he looks
like a caveman in their aging renditions of

915
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,880
this guy. And I'm going,
why is this back up? What's going

916
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:37,480
on? So they don't think he's
dead. I don't know. He just

917
01:01:37,719 --> 01:01:40,559
this is the weirdest thing hit the
lotto on the left. So I had

918
01:01:40,599 --> 01:01:45,079
a few minutes, I go,
let me type this guy's name into the

919
01:01:45,199 --> 01:01:50,440
thinking box called Google, and it's
here's where I found at four or five

920
01:01:50,599 --> 01:01:54,599
pm. Okay. So Zany was
lasting in Victor October twenty fifth, two

921
01:01:54,639 --> 01:01:58,719
thousand and five. He had his
car, a gray two thousand Toyota,

922
01:01:59,199 --> 01:02:01,360
repaired at the East Few Mall that
morning and I know where he was.

923
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:06,679
Sears had the Sears Auto where the
New Dicks is now. Yeah, that's

924
01:02:06,679 --> 01:02:09,559
where Sears was. At four or
five pm that same day, Zanney's car

925
01:02:09,679 --> 01:02:15,119
was found abandoned on Walworth, Ontario
Road, north of Root four forty one

926
01:02:15,159 --> 01:02:21,559
in Walworth, Okay. Although it
was raining heavily. The vehicle's windows were

927
01:02:21,679 --> 01:02:24,639
rolled down, It had three quarters
of a tank of gas and was in

928
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:30,079
operable condition. It had been driven
about twenty five miles that couldn't be accounted

929
01:02:30,119 --> 01:02:34,320
for. I guess from where they
were, maybe twenty five miles from East

930
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:37,360
few Mall to Walworth where they found
the car, I don't know. An

931
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:42,039
hour after the car was found,
someone matching Zaney's description was seen walking along

932
01:02:42,119 --> 01:02:46,119
the road. He was never heard
from again. That's it weird. This

933
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:52,280
motherfucker disappeared. I think he probably
is alive. He fucking disappeared. That's

934
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:55,679
what I want to want to do
sometimes. I know I've had the same

935
01:02:55,760 --> 01:03:00,559
thought. Wouldn't it be great to
just disappear? And I think it's way

936
01:03:00,639 --> 01:03:04,360
harder today because of all the cameras. But I don't think it's impossible.

937
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,400
I continue. Zanny lived alone in
East Rochester. At the time of his

938
01:03:07,519 --> 01:03:12,760
disappearance. He was under supervision from
a local group home. I don't know

939
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:19,199
why. Usually a group home would
be for people who have some mental disabilities,

940
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:23,079
adults who can't fully live alone.
I don't know. No, it's

941
01:03:23,159 --> 01:03:27,840
kind of getting weird. It is
because they didn't say halfway house, not

942
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:29,920
like he was in prison. This
is coming out. This is a group

943
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:31,519
home, but they're not saying why
he was there, because it'd be like

944
01:03:31,559 --> 01:03:36,119
a rehab facility. Maybe it could
be. It's a great point because those

945
01:03:36,159 --> 01:03:38,519
are considered those are called group homes. He is described as a loaner with

946
01:03:38,639 --> 01:03:44,559
few friends. He divorced two years
before his disappearance, but was still unfriendly

947
01:03:44,639 --> 01:03:46,159
terms with his ex wife. He
has two young children. This not from

948
01:03:46,199 --> 01:03:50,719
the news, by the way.
I found that on some other website at

949
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,679
the time of his disappearance. Here's
where it gets interesting. Zany was due

950
01:03:53,800 --> 01:04:00,280
to inherit inherit a substantial sum of
money in a trust from his mother,

951
01:04:01,719 --> 01:04:05,360
who had recently died. He normally
pays for everything with a credit card,

952
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:11,800
but it has not been used since
his disappearance. Could this guy have plotted

953
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:15,639
figured out, with the help of
somebody, how to get that money into

954
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:21,800
I don't know what I'm thinking,
like a well, wouldn't they know if

955
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:26,199
the money was the money taking before
he went missing? It doesn't say,

956
01:04:26,679 --> 01:04:29,480
at least in this article. Who
doesn't say? And I think this was

957
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:35,079
written around the time that he originally
went He disappeared, But today all three

958
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:40,719
networks did NBC affiliate, CBS and
ABC. If all three of them had

959
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:44,840
this guy missing since ZO five?
What the fuck is going on? And

960
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:46,599
how did he disappear? If someone
I want to talk to this guy,

961
01:04:46,679 --> 01:04:49,280
I want to go, dude,
how did you do it? If you

962
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,719
were if you were to talk to
that, that's my first question. He

963
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:54,760
got you do it? Now?
Why did you do it? Who gives

964
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,760
you shit? Why? I get
why? How? Wow? I just

965
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,960
want to freak. You just walked
away? Did you wait? Did you

966
01:05:00,079 --> 01:05:03,199
check the weather because it was pouring? Did you leave the windows down and

967
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:08,280
just go fuck it and just walk? I can't imagine they'll not calling my

968
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:11,039
brothers or you know what I mean. I don't know. It doesn't say

969
01:05:11,079 --> 01:05:15,039
that he has any siblings or anything's
kids. Zanny loved well, he does

970
01:05:15,119 --> 01:05:18,400
have kids, that is true.
He has two young children at the time

971
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:21,880
of oh five, So now eighteen
years later, that is a weird one.

972
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:27,400
This is a strange thing. Zanny's
loved one stated he would not have

973
01:05:27,559 --> 01:05:32,480
willingly abandoned his vehicle. He worked
part time at the plant Corporation in Masterthon,

974
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,320
but now he's back in the news. Well, they do that every

975
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:40,800
now and then. I've never seen
this. Yeah, there used to be

976
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:45,599
a kid that got remember the kid
that got by Burger King over on Scottsville

977
01:05:45,679 --> 01:05:49,800
Road, ste No, Yeah,
and they used to bring him up all

978
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:53,800
of a sudden his mom would Yeah. But that was on an almost a

979
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,960
consistent basis for a long time.
I remember this was in the news.

980
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,800
This I've never I don't ever remember
seeing, says. At the time of

981
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:05,360
his disappearance, investigators believe Zanny is
missing under suspicious circumstances. His case remains

982
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:10,480
unsolved. So did someone know he
had this money and try to go get

983
01:06:10,599 --> 01:06:13,280
him. Did somebody lie to him
and say, I'm going to help you

984
01:06:13,599 --> 01:06:15,760
get to the gaming irons? How
much money is a substantial amount of money?

985
01:06:17,639 --> 01:06:20,280
Man? You know what I mean? Somebody once used the example to

986
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:24,360
me if I had one hundred dollars, what to you is if I said,

987
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:27,360
take a substantial amount of this,
what would it be for you?

988
01:06:27,599 --> 01:06:29,960
If I had one hundred bucks?
You said, Bill, you got to

989
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,000
give me a substantial amount of that. What what is the number you expect

990
01:06:32,039 --> 01:06:38,760
out of that hundred to be a
substantial amount at least seventy five. Honey,

991
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:42,800
Kevin would probably want ninety seven,
So that's okay, ninety five.

992
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:45,800
Do you see what I'm saying?
Like substantial is in different people's minds.

993
01:06:46,159 --> 01:06:49,199
Is depends, it's subjective. So
I don't know, I don't want a

994
01:06:49,199 --> 01:06:51,920
substantial amount of Where the fuck is
this guy? What happens? See if

995
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:55,639
you watch soap operas like I do. Okay, this happens all the time,

996
01:06:56,400 --> 01:07:00,000
does missing Yeah, some of the
someone they think will been dead for

997
01:07:00,119 --> 01:07:04,039
ten years all of a sudden shows
back up again. It's not that I'm

998
01:07:04,159 --> 01:07:09,679
not your twin brother. I am
Ricardo, right, it just happened.

999
01:07:09,719 --> 01:07:12,599
I'm young on the wrestlers. Would
this be one of those things where they're

1000
01:07:12,599 --> 01:07:15,119
putting it out there now to try
to get one of these true crime podcasts

1001
01:07:15,159 --> 01:07:17,559
that are all over the place.
They could pick it up and say,

1002
01:07:18,719 --> 01:07:21,159
if this y'all want to take a
look at it. This is a true

1003
01:07:21,199 --> 01:07:26,360
crime podcast. But I think some
of these crimes have been solved by internet

1004
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:30,480
sleuths or people who responded to true
crime podcast I really did that whole,

1005
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,079
I whole whole, Ida hope,
all right, I did. I don't

1006
01:07:33,119 --> 01:07:35,960
mind to say this, but I'm
going to But I love when you say

1007
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:39,039
that because I know you really do
want to say, Well, why why

1008
01:07:39,159 --> 01:07:41,880
I even waste the energy because it's
gonna you know, it might sound come

1009
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:45,519
out wrong. Um, I don't
think he's alive. That could be,

1010
01:07:45,159 --> 01:07:49,599
that could very well be. Nobody
can nobody, nobody can go away kids?

1011
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:53,760
Yeah, do you disappear with no
kids? That That's where it kind

1012
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:57,719
of like gets me. I mean, I was just thinking I would still

1013
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:00,559
if I was to go missing,
if I just I had to do this

1014
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:04,880
myself. Yeah, how I would
still want to contact people? Yes,

1015
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:09,280
you know I can't imagine, not
right, even though I really wanted to

1016
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,480
do this. You got all that
money, you gotta contact. What would

1017
01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:14,239
you do it? Like, if
you were gonna go disappear? Okay,

1018
01:08:15,119 --> 01:08:20,359
would you go so far as to
surgically alter your face so you were not

1019
01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:24,079
recognizable? Do you understand what I'm
saying that? And I'm not saying like

1020
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:28,319
anything too drastic, but just enough
to go, oh, that's not mark.

1021
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:30,479
You don't have Like you see somebody
from behind and go hey I've done

1022
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:33,800
this before. Hey man, I
did it here, I'm in this studio.

1023
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:38,920
I see somebody walking into the the
Fairport Town Hall. I think it's

1024
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:41,920
Berkeley Breen. I'm screaming from here. I opened the door, go hey,

1025
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:44,479
man, what's going on? Hey? It turns around and goes,

1026
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:46,960
yeah, that's not me, and
it wasn't. So you can have one

1027
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:49,600
of these where people say Mark and
then you turn around and they go,

1028
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:51,760
oh, that's not Mark. But
man, question is, how do you

1029
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:58,520
go about getting a license and getting
a passport? In dark web baby,

1030
01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:00,640
dark Webb, they can find all
kinds of should go really? Yeah?

1031
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:04,600
You go really? Yeah? But
what's the dark web available on oh five?

1032
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:06,920
I don't know. No, but
you would go to somebody, Yeah,

1033
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:10,399
you would that. You go to
somebody you know, yeah, really

1034
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,840
dirty and they would do that.
I would love to do that. I

1035
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,319
still might just for like what for
Let's say you disappear for how long would

1036
01:09:17,319 --> 01:09:19,439
you go because you said you would
miss people? How long would you go

1037
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:23,560
go? A decade? Could you
go ten years? I could probably a

1038
01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:28,079
long weekend? No, no,
could you go a decade? A decade

1039
01:09:28,159 --> 01:09:32,279
underground? That would be something completely
different. No one would know your past.

1040
01:09:32,359 --> 01:09:35,920
You show up, Let's say you
want to stay because you only really

1041
01:09:36,279 --> 01:09:40,279
do you speak any other languages.
No, do you think he could learn

1042
01:09:40,319 --> 01:09:43,159
another language? Creasily? You do, all right, I don't know that

1043
01:09:43,279 --> 01:09:45,399
I could Spanish. Spanish is not
a hard language. No, I don't

1044
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:48,680
think it's hard, but I don't
know that I could do it. Probably,

1045
01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:51,880
but I don't even want the challenge. So I would go to like

1046
01:09:53,079 --> 01:09:56,800
I would try to blend into a
cool city, San Diego, Austin,

1047
01:09:57,079 --> 01:10:00,960
Vegas. You know Vegas, Vegas. A you go to Vegas. I

1048
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,399
would go somewhere like Austin or San
Diego, and I would work. I

1049
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:08,000
would do something like, I don't
know, coffee, some stress free fucking

1050
01:10:08,119 --> 01:10:11,199
job, or I could just laughing, especially if I knew I had an

1051
01:10:11,279 --> 01:10:14,920
inheritance. I was tucked away.
I got my money. I don't need

1052
01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,800
to sweat. My bills are covered
luck. Basically I'm living in the dirt

1053
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:23,279
anyway, don't matter, not living
high in the hog. But weather's nice

1054
01:10:23,319 --> 01:10:26,920
every day. I fuck, we
got a plan here, it sounds great.

1055
01:10:27,399 --> 01:10:30,560
Here's here's something today that I did. I went, I had one

1056
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:33,159
of my kids with me, and
I said, let's go grab lunch.

1057
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:36,000
And I don't know what goes on
in the village of it. You worked

1058
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:40,560
in the hospitality industry, like,
no fucking restaurants are open on a Monday.

1059
01:10:41,119 --> 01:10:44,560
Well fucking Chinese restaurant over here pisses
me off, so they're not open.

1060
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:47,560
I went to try the new taco
joint. They weren't open. Then

1061
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:50,039
it's like, I'm like, then
you're kind of hitting here or there.

1062
01:10:50,079 --> 01:10:54,119
I'm not sure what's open. So
we went and every day I drive down

1063
01:10:54,199 --> 01:10:58,640
this place and I see Vinnie's Delhi, so I go into. I go,

1064
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:00,239
hey, let's try this. So
let's go to Vinnie's Deli. So

1065
01:11:00,279 --> 01:11:03,399
we go into Vinnie's Delhi. There's
not a lot on the shelves, there's

1066
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,960
not a lot. Vinnie's his old
guy from Italy. But he made a

1067
01:11:08,039 --> 01:11:12,279
great probably a great sandwich. My
son had a great sandwich. Actually ran

1068
01:11:12,359 --> 01:11:15,119
into there was only one other person, one other customer in there, and

1069
01:11:15,159 --> 01:11:17,159
as a guy who used to work
within radio, someone I know, Jp

1070
01:11:17,359 --> 01:11:23,319
Hastings. So but then I say
to Jordan, why don't we just sit

1071
01:11:23,399 --> 01:11:25,800
in this window will eat? And
then we had to go somewhere. So

1072
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:30,199
we're sitting there and Vinnie the guy
who comes over and goes heys from Italy.

1073
01:11:30,239 --> 01:11:33,079
Everything good, you know, other
places. They judge you so much.

1074
01:11:33,079 --> 01:11:36,279
They say, gourmet everything here is
gournemet. I make the bread,

1075
01:11:36,359 --> 01:11:40,800
I make it the minute. And
then he starts going on about how he

1076
01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:45,000
also was a contractor. He did
framing, he did paving, he does

1077
01:11:45,119 --> 01:11:49,279
all the work around there. And
then he says he's a world class opera

1078
01:11:49,319 --> 01:11:54,239
singer. No way, this is
what he says. He says, So

1079
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:57,600
then he goes, I was in
an opera group. I joined an opera

1080
01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:00,560
group that was so good. It
was so good in the opera group.

1081
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:01,880
They told me you're too good.
You gotta go, you gotta go.

1082
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:06,359
I said, I'm not going anywhere
you gotta go. So the next thing

1083
01:12:06,399 --> 01:12:09,920
I know, they tell me you're
going to Vegas, and I go,

1084
01:12:10,039 --> 01:12:13,239
oh the show girls. Oh you
know. Well, I say, I'm

1085
01:12:13,239 --> 01:12:15,960
not going anywhere. I'm not going. I should forget it. I quit.

1086
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,640
He goes, But then I had
an opportunity to sing with Pavaratti.

1087
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:24,119
Me Pavaratti. We sang together.
Afterwards, he says to me, Vinnie,

1088
01:12:24,399 --> 01:12:27,880
you're coming with me, we'll go
I'm going. Is this all bullshit?

1089
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:32,560
It sounds like complete bullshit. Growing
up, there was a guy who

1090
01:12:33,039 --> 01:12:36,760
moved in two houses down on a
very rural street where I grew up.

1091
01:12:38,399 --> 01:12:44,840
He says that he is a famous
French chef. Guys now about eighty eighty

1092
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:46,840
one years old, says he ran
one of the ten best restaurants in the

1093
01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:50,119
world. He was a private chef
to Orson Wells. He was, I

1094
01:12:50,319 --> 01:12:57,680
believe, the private chef for Nixon
or Ford or somebody. He had done

1095
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:00,520
all this stuff and he had a
cookbook. And I remember my father on

1096
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:03,920
this guy is so full of shit. It's turn out all to be true,

1097
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:08,880
all true. We went in his
house. He had pictures of him,

1098
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:13,680
he had with Orson Wells, He
had pictures with him with the presidents.

1099
01:13:14,079 --> 01:13:15,920
He did. It was one of
the ten best renstaurants, called Mable

1100
01:13:16,079 --> 01:13:19,359
Song. It was up in the
Pine Plains area where I grew up,

1101
01:13:19,399 --> 01:13:23,039
and ran it there for a decade. It was one of the most like

1102
01:13:23,119 --> 01:13:26,840
It was a five star restaurant.
And he had a cookbook that was all

1103
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:29,840
published and he would sign. And
then my mother made the mistake of making

1104
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:31,319
a Myrisota bread for Saint Patrick's Day
one year, and he called up and

1105
01:13:31,359 --> 01:13:35,520
said, hello, I'll work on
the recipe with you, because it was

1106
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:39,560
terrible and he was going to fix
it. But so I'm going Could this

1107
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:45,279
vinny guy who runs his deli on
Route thirty one A in Fairport be full

1108
01:13:45,319 --> 01:13:47,239
of shit? Or could he have
been a world class opera singers? When's

1109
01:13:47,279 --> 01:13:51,359
he coming in? I don't know. I didn't happen. He's just an

1110
01:13:51,399 --> 01:13:55,119
old man. I didn't know.
If it sounds interesting, he does sound

1111
01:13:55,159 --> 01:13:58,560
interesting. That's great? Does all
right? We'll take a moment. What

1112
01:13:59,199 --> 01:14:03,520
to do when you're partner's sex fantasy
freaks you out? What to do when

1113
01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:08,039
your partner's sex fantasy freaks you out? It's affording to ask men. I

1114
01:14:08,199 --> 01:14:13,000
tell this story every almost every week, the donkey punch. I still don't

1115
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:15,439
believe that. Why would I fucking
make it up? I don't know.

1116
01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:17,880
I mean that too. I don't
know why. Why would you lie to

1117
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:20,760
me? If she would talk to
me, I would call it that she

1118
01:14:21,079 --> 01:14:25,840
has ever done it. I'll tell
you what. If you want to go

1119
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:30,880
have a great experience, maybe see
an opera singer, or maybe go up

1120
01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:32,760
Blend into a cool city for a
while. You're gonna need something. Why

1121
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:38,359
not home on wheels? Why not
get yourself an RV at Myers RV you

1122
01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:45,199
could take that and go anywhere blend
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1123
01:14:45,359 --> 01:14:47,319
Oh right, your home on we
rather running in mine. A couple of

1124
01:14:47,359 --> 01:14:50,560
weeks ago for a for a wedding, they took one and they said it

1125
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:54,079
was unbelievable. It is. It's
cool. It's the best use of space

1126
01:14:54,119 --> 01:14:57,600
you're ever gonna see. They're comfortable
and when you go in there, it's

1127
01:14:57,640 --> 01:15:00,239
like you can you feel like you're
in your home. Nobody can really peek

1128
01:15:00,279 --> 01:15:03,359
in your windows or anything. It's
nice. You got your own space,

1129
01:15:03,399 --> 01:15:06,520
a hotel room too, enough to
deal with the bullshit people with him.

1130
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:11,680
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1131
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,640
favorite food, your sheets, right, that's a big one. You go

1132
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1133
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1134
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1135
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1136
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1137
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1138
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1139
01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:45,520
in Brockport, right there in Main
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1140
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:48,319
and get the bird is the word, and any kind of shake. I

1141
01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:51,920
like their vanilla chocolate shake, like
the half and half. They even do

1142
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:56,079
a chocolate strike. They did do
whatever you want. You could make one

1143
01:15:56,159 --> 01:15:58,880
up on the spot. Jimmy,
Jimmy's brilliant. He'll fix it for you.

1144
01:15:59,319 --> 01:16:02,840
But they all so have the food
truck. How about that for a

1145
01:16:03,079 --> 01:16:10,279
backyard banger, a corporate picnic,
a graduation party, maybe just hey,

1146
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:13,640
I love my neighbors. Let's have
a block party and have Jimmy Z come.

1147
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:15,840
That would be pretty cool. How
do you find out about getting the

1148
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:17,239
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1149
01:16:17,279 --> 01:16:21,840
also find out about Poppies, drop
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1150
01:16:23,079 --> 01:16:53,680
dot com. Oh okay, Christian
McCaffrey f you what's to do when your

1151
01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:58,039
partners sex fantas see freaks you out? A little of the weekend earned it?

1152
01:17:00,039 --> 01:17:06,680
You know this song? I think
it was in fifty shapes. Did

1153
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:12,800
you see those little you know what
they were? They were just a dubble

1154
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:16,399
movies of Twilight. Well that was
Twilight fan fiction. I didn't see Twilights,

1155
01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:26,520
so I don't know. So I
saw this article on askman dot com

1156
01:17:27,119 --> 01:17:30,640
and the title was what to do
when your partner's sex fantasies freak you out?

1157
01:17:30,279 --> 01:17:38,680
And you my friend we at the
beginning today tonight's I started podcast No

1158
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:43,159
you did you said that you threesomes, which I think I might get a

1159
01:17:43,199 --> 01:17:45,159
little freaked out. I think that
if my partner said to me, I

1160
01:17:45,239 --> 01:17:49,199
really want to have a threesome and
I want to do like one time with

1161
01:17:49,279 --> 01:17:54,239
a woman and one time with a
guy, that I would be so distracted

1162
01:17:54,439 --> 01:17:57,359
and apparent and fucked up in my
head, like I wouldn't be able to

1163
01:17:57,399 --> 01:17:59,880
think of anything, especially if she
goes, hey, this Friday, I've

1164
01:18:00,039 --> 01:18:04,640
invited whatever friend over, or Hey, I really think you're your friend SO

1165
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:10,079
and so is good looking. I
don't think I would be like. I

1166
01:18:10,199 --> 01:18:14,800
think I would turn into a ken
doll, smooth plastic park. I think

1167
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:16,640
I would freak out. Man,
I don't know where to put what and

1168
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:19,960
when and where and why? You
know that would be my thing. I

1169
01:18:20,079 --> 01:18:23,520
just I would I have I think
I would get confused. I'd have to

1170
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:26,479
get so you don't want to get
too drunk to where nothing can happen,

1171
01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:28,800
but you want to get like slightly
buzzed. Like I don't know if I

1172
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:32,319
could do that. Yeah, I
mean I think you'd be fine. I

1173
01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:35,840
do. I think you'd be okay. So it's expert Park says you'll be

1174
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:40,000
good. What happens if someone you're
sleeping with, whether it's a new hookup

1175
01:18:40,119 --> 01:18:43,840
or a partner of many years,
springs a fetish you haven't quite wrapped your

1176
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,439
head around on you, something you
feel is too kinky, too racy,

1177
01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:49,279
too risk? Ay, what would
that be? Could you mind if I

1178
01:18:49,319 --> 01:18:53,039
ask this question, like, what
would that? Because I honestly I'm going

1179
01:18:53,159 --> 01:18:56,920
I don't know what that would be
for me, because I think that if

1180
01:18:57,039 --> 01:19:01,720
if the person that I'm partner with, okay, if I was partnered with

1181
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:06,640
somebody, uh and they were really
into this, I might go, all

1182
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:11,520
right, I'll try it. So
I don't know that there's anything that's too

1183
01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:16,279
risk. Gay, I just said
it. What the docupond or the docupon?

1184
01:19:16,319 --> 01:19:18,560
I don't what is the documentar?
She wants you to punch her in

1185
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:23,680
the face. No, you put
her on all fours and you want to

1186
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,920
see and you're supposed to hit her
in the back of the head and the

1187
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:28,479
back of the head, yeah,
and the while you're banging her. Yeah.

1188
01:19:29,359 --> 01:19:32,520
So okay, sounds so stupid,
But okay, I mean, I

1189
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:35,239
don't know. I've never done it, I never will. So so they

1190
01:19:35,279 --> 01:19:39,359
say, here, suppose your partner
opens up to you with a particular fetish

1191
01:19:39,399 --> 01:19:43,840
that you view as a turn off. Before your grimace and shame them stop,

1192
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:47,520
do your best to react in a
neutral way. This is according to

1193
01:19:48,079 --> 01:19:49,960
Uh, well, have I got
to see if I get one of these

1194
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:54,640
people on They have a podcast called
Loving BDSM. Oh, it sounds great,

1195
01:19:55,359 --> 01:19:59,439
let's get them. I would like
to just to only because what are

1196
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:02,079
they talking about? I said,
instead of saying you gross or that's crazy,

1197
01:20:02,119 --> 01:20:06,399
we're disgusting. Is the fastest way
to make your partner never feel comfortable

1198
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:10,680
being vulnerable with you in the future. It's extremely difficult for many people to

1199
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:15,159
overcome shame and fear to share their
kinks, So be aware that it was

1200
01:20:15,199 --> 01:20:18,640
a big deal for them to say
anything in the first place. Huh,

1201
01:20:19,359 --> 01:20:24,159
Yeah, I don't. Maybe maybe
I'm determined to Vanilla. I mean,

1202
01:20:24,239 --> 01:20:27,680
I I'd like to think I get
a little freaking just thinking though. When

1203
01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:30,239
she told me she wanted to men
want my reaction was it was so long

1204
01:20:30,319 --> 01:20:33,199
ago what she said, I want
to be documented and I go and she

1205
01:20:33,239 --> 01:20:35,319
had explained to me what it was, and I'm like, I'm like,

1206
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:40,119
no, okay, so yeah,
I mean so my reaction was like,

1207
01:20:40,399 --> 01:20:42,920
you know what am I supposed to
do? Go? Oh, all right,

1208
01:20:43,159 --> 01:20:45,880
let's discuss this disgusted me smashing you
in your head while I'm fucking you

1209
01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:51,920
know? What if you said,
what if we got really close to the

1210
01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:55,079
headboard that way, I don't have
to touch you, but I'll just keep

1211
01:20:55,119 --> 01:20:58,439
pounding from biagon just to we knock
you out. I've never punched anybody in

1212
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:00,439
my life. How about a little
and he got asked by a chick to

1213
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:03,600
lightly choke him, and he that
he found that to turn off. I

1214
01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:08,079
can't do that either, yeah lightly
so no, so nothing of physical pain,

1215
01:21:08,319 --> 01:21:10,359
no, because we taught, we've
taught before. I don't even I

1216
01:21:10,399 --> 01:21:14,600
don't like bondage, dren that stuff
either. So yeah, yeah, see,

1217
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:16,039
I think I think I don't think
there's anything. I think I could

1218
01:21:16,039 --> 01:21:19,079
get talked into anything with the right
person. I'm starting to think that as

1219
01:21:19,079 --> 01:21:21,720
I'm sitting here thinking, I I
I could probably get talked into anything.

1220
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:26,279
I don't know, like the bondage
stuff I could see. I don't know,

1221
01:21:26,399 --> 01:21:30,079
like kids. Oh, I just
no, no, no, no,

1222
01:21:30,159 --> 01:21:31,279
no no. I don't want to
be tied up, but I could

1223
01:21:31,279 --> 01:21:33,720
see, like if someone said to
me, I like to be tied up,

1224
01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:38,279
and I would go, all right, it's been a little while since,

1225
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:44,399
uh, I forgot my my slipknotting
going Matt coming mack cage and with

1226
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:46,119
me. Yeah, but okay,
well, el see, now that might

1227
01:21:46,199 --> 01:21:49,399
be paddling might be a little weird
for me, like Danny kind of beating.

1228
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:51,760
You're right, see, that's but
the light choking. I think I

1229
01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:55,000
could do. I don't. I
don't think that. I think I could.

1230
01:21:55,039 --> 01:21:58,159
I think I could do that.
I think I could do stuff on

1231
01:21:58,319 --> 01:22:03,319
you. No, no, nope, couldn't agree up though. Nah,

1232
01:22:05,319 --> 01:22:09,239
you just said you could talk into
anything. Yeah, I don't think so.

1233
01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:13,039
I don't think I would on that
one, because I know I don't

1234
01:22:13,079 --> 01:22:15,039
think I could either. Yeah,
I don't think I could. Now I

1235
01:22:15,199 --> 01:22:20,640
did hear about about a guy that
UM used to like to have his partner,

1236
01:22:21,319 --> 01:22:26,359
a woman, put on a strap
on and take him. People like

1237
01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:29,960
that, you do like that's fucking
weird to me. It is weird.

1238
01:22:30,119 --> 01:22:32,800
But okay, now it's a big
extreme from a pinky to a strap on.

1239
01:22:33,079 --> 01:22:35,560
Yeah, I know it's a huge
extreme. But but let's say that

1240
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:39,800
at some point that had to become
a conversation. There was a point where

1241
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:43,880
that person didn't know that. The
next words out of your partner's mouth was

1242
01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:45,800
I gotta strap on it, like
you to put it on? Like,

1243
01:22:46,159 --> 01:22:48,640
do you understand what I'm saying?
Yeah, sometimes I want to heat at

1244
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:51,439
the moment. You might do something. You ever do something you regret it?

1245
01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:56,840
Oh? I no, probably not. Story. There's a story about

1246
01:22:56,840 --> 01:23:00,960
of life. Everything I do,
I usually there's no I regretted. There's

1247
01:23:00,399 --> 01:23:04,600
situations I regretted. Yeah, there's
moments I was involved in I regret.

1248
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:08,359
Yeah. So yeah, there's a
lot of regret in there. All they're

1249
01:23:08,359 --> 01:23:12,119
saying here is, you know,
be curious instead of acting negatively to stuff,

1250
01:23:12,199 --> 01:23:15,399
try to be a little more open. Now there's some kink stuff that

1251
01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:17,520
I don't get at all. Because
I told you guys. Or I told

1252
01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:21,359
these guys that the King Society,
remember she came in. Yeah, she's

1253
01:23:21,359 --> 01:23:23,960
gonna come back in. At the
end of the month. They have an

1254
01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:28,079
auction to raise money, and they
had an ad going and it's two people

1255
01:23:28,119 --> 01:23:30,840
who are baby fetish, and they
go, if you're looking for adult sized

1256
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:32,199
diapers, we're gonna have him at
the auction on whatever. And I go,

1257
01:23:32,399 --> 01:23:35,800
that's something I don't get. I
just can't imagine. I don't get

1258
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:40,560
that. Okay, if someone said
to you, I'd like to use you

1259
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:45,239
as a urinal mark, would you
be okay with that? No? If

1260
01:23:45,279 --> 01:23:49,560
someone said to use me like a
urinal No, okay, absolutely, Now

1261
01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:54,119
because I do know somebody who liked
that. I yeah, there's always somebody

1262
01:23:54,159 --> 01:23:58,479
that like, like, get's bragged
about it. Someone I know, no,

1263
01:23:59,039 --> 01:24:02,560
damn it. But I was always
like, okay, I know,

1264
01:24:02,760 --> 01:24:05,359
I don't I don't find do not
write it down, do not write it

1265
01:24:05,359 --> 01:24:13,920
down. I do know the person, Oh I oh yeah, yeah,

1266
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,479
yeah that one. I asked him
that one. Huh ask him that one

1267
01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:19,880
because I don't I don't know what
it is cream pie, Yeah, I

1268
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:25,119
don't. I don't fully understo what
that one has the cream pie videos they

1269
01:24:25,199 --> 01:24:29,439
talk about. Yeah, it's just
so disgusting. I can't even really say,

1270
01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:31,880
yeah, I'm trading. I'll tell
you what, it's not that unnatural.

1271
01:24:31,920 --> 01:24:34,800
It's probably a traditional sex and it's
where the person the man finishes,

1272
01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:39,720
and then they show you that and
so they call it a cream pie.

1273
01:24:40,239 --> 01:24:46,479
There, just like eating disgusting,
just eating like okay, okay, okay,

1274
01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:51,479
cake okay, okay. Jesus Christ. See, I guess there are

1275
01:24:51,640 --> 01:24:55,439
things I couldn't do. There's a
lot you can't just a lot I can't

1276
01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:57,960
do. It was just more of
the you've done than I did. I

1277
01:24:58,119 --> 01:25:00,600
know. But so I remember,
I'm just if these things were naming right

1278
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:03,560
now, I would never do.
Yeah. I mean there's people a poop

1279
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:08,039
on each other. No, yeah, I've never done that either. I

1280
01:25:08,039 --> 01:25:11,239
couldn't do blumpkins. Oh well,
oh oh you know, you know,

1281
01:25:11,720 --> 01:25:14,560
you know somebody my buddy used to
hang out with me all the time.

1282
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:16,600
I can't. He probably wouldn't care. He used to his girl. His

1283
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:19,840
girlfriend used to do with a bumpkin
all the time. So a blumpkins word

1284
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:25,479
of the man is going number two
and she's blown up. Can you imagine

1285
01:25:27,439 --> 01:25:30,840
my dad listens to it makes me
sick. And he just got a nice

1286
01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:36,000
he likes words. Yeah, he
he actually had he actually had a shirt

1287
01:25:36,279 --> 01:25:41,119
he said, I get I get
blumpkins and it's a it's a stick figure,

1288
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,439
stick figure. Well, how do
how do you do that? When,

1289
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:49,720
like I've been around we I used
to in college. We had a

1290
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:55,079
fisher where my senior year I stayed. I lived on campus, rare for

1291
01:25:55,159 --> 01:25:59,319
a senior, but I did.
And we had our own bathroom. It

1292
01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:03,119
in our sweet like our own room
with its own bathroom. And I used

1293
01:26:03,119 --> 01:26:06,159
to go into our bathroom and I
would take a dump, and I would

1294
01:26:06,239 --> 01:26:11,439
open up the door and the door
to the hallway and see how far you

1295
01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:15,439
can get this smell to travel like
I would. That's what I would do.

1296
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:17,199
I would. And you weren't allowed
to use a fan or anything.

1297
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:21,279
And people will get just disgusted,
but they could always tell. So imagine

1298
01:26:21,359 --> 01:26:25,520
that smell, right, and you
got to do this And there are people

1299
01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:31,720
that like that. Yes, she
liked it. Yes, you gotta like

1300
01:26:31,800 --> 01:26:36,439
a you know, a girl who
knows what she wants that's disgusted. I

1301
01:26:36,479 --> 01:26:39,520
would look at it. It's one
way to put your phone down here in

1302
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:47,399
the bathroom. I guess I mean
the phone. What Okay, go ahead,

1303
01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:53,760
what what would be the like,
the the edgiest thing you think you've

1304
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:59,760
ever done other than the threesome?
Is there anything edgy? Oh? Let

1305
01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:02,680
me think about that and we'll talk
about that next week. Okay, and

1306
01:27:02,760 --> 01:27:05,039
we'll really talked about all right,
think about that, think about that.

1307
01:27:05,079 --> 01:27:08,319
That's an interesting question. I don't
know off the top of my hand,

1308
01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:12,000
because I think everything I've done is
I think everything I've done it's just been

1309
01:27:14,159 --> 01:27:16,680
no. No, I don't think
anything's I've done is zgi no, you

1310
01:27:16,760 --> 01:27:19,119
know, and stuff like that.
Ever pick up a complete stranger, not

1311
01:27:19,119 --> 01:27:21,039
another person's name, not anything,
and the next thing, you know,

1312
01:27:23,159 --> 01:27:26,399
I never have anything like that?
Why didn't? I was like, yeah,

1313
01:27:26,640 --> 01:27:29,720
just a complete stranger. We were
driving down me and me and my

1314
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:32,640
buddy Chance were driving down Lake Avenue
and two girls were standing in front of

1315
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:38,479
Nazareth Academy when it used to be
on as With Academy over by Flower City

1316
01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:42,640
Park and park driving park right,
and two girls were just this is night.

1317
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,479
Two girls are standing out there,
and we went and picked them up.

1318
01:27:45,520 --> 01:27:47,640
We brought them back to Chance's house. And how old were they they

1319
01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:53,039
were a couple of years younger than
we were. Yeah, they were what

1320
01:27:53,239 --> 01:27:59,359
are called mark Well, we didn't
pay for anything cavs, so obviously that's

1321
01:27:59,399 --> 01:28:01,560
what I said. That's way strangers
strangers. And they were okay looking,

1322
01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:04,399
they were head tuckers and training.
And they never saw him again. They

1323
01:28:04,479 --> 01:28:08,239
got up and now they got up
left. They never saw him again.

1324
01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:13,760
How do you not run into somebody
ever? Again, I don't know.

1325
01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:16,520
They've been looking for this one guy
since two thousand and five, everybody.

1326
01:28:18,319 --> 01:28:21,640
That is the thing that that's a
strange thing because you do in this It's

1327
01:28:21,920 --> 01:28:25,800
it's a city where we are,
but it's kind of a it's a small

1328
01:28:25,960 --> 01:28:28,720
right, So if you're out,
Yeah, I run into people all the

1329
01:28:28,920 --> 01:28:30,920
all the time. Then I don't
want to run into Yeah, I don't.

1330
01:28:31,920 --> 01:28:35,920
I don't, but I don't go
very many places and I'm I'm very

1331
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:39,760
focused these days, so I don't
see I saw. I saw the same

1332
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:42,399
car twice, and it was the
only reason I know it was the same

1333
01:28:42,439 --> 01:28:45,000
cars because it was a very distinctive. It was like a it was Pittsburgh

1334
01:28:45,000 --> 01:28:48,520
Steeler colors and had Pittsburgh Steeler rims. Okay, And I saw it in

1335
01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:53,640
Greece and then I saw it going
out to Webster the other night Friday,

1336
01:28:53,800 --> 01:28:57,560
they saw it going up Lake Avenue
like towards the city. I'm that's odd.

1337
01:28:58,079 --> 01:29:00,560
That same year, I remember like
when I used to do diamonds.

1338
01:29:01,399 --> 01:29:06,720
Oh my god, yes, and
there were I something happened there and with

1339
01:29:06,880 --> 01:29:12,079
a chick and was that in the
c Yeah, yeah, I was with

1340
01:29:12,319 --> 01:29:14,720
you. No you weren't, yes, I was. No, you weren't,

1341
01:29:14,840 --> 01:29:15,840
yes, I was. Why would
I? How would I? How

1342
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:18,720
would I know that? I was
your freaking intern. I was your intern

1343
01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:24,800
whatever I was then I don't remember, but um and then uh, things

1344
01:29:24,880 --> 01:29:29,000
went so far And then she said
I have a boyfriend yes, and I

1345
01:29:29,159 --> 01:29:33,520
was like what he's like yeah,
she felt all guilty and something and then

1346
01:29:33,600 --> 01:29:36,920
she laughed and then I didn't I
then I I think I ran into her

1347
01:29:38,079 --> 01:29:42,640
everywhere, like everywhere for like the
next year. I random played like the

1348
01:29:42,680 --> 01:29:45,640
ballpark or or or Wagmans. I
would turn down the empty aisle and I

1349
01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:49,600
was like, oh my good.
I mean you're like no, no,

1350
01:29:49,760 --> 01:29:53,039
no, never say anything. It
was just good because she was usually with

1351
01:29:53,159 --> 01:29:56,159
that guy. Well she was probably
drunk and doesn't made me remember either though.

1352
01:29:56,199 --> 01:29:58,880
You know, Oh, that's a
beauty of back in the day,

1353
01:29:59,239 --> 01:30:00,560
back in the day. All right, we slept in the van two for

1354
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:04,720
a while, so we will get
wi. I don't remember that too,

1355
01:30:05,079 --> 01:30:11,119
Yes, okay, I drove.
I drove the girlfriend's house in the city

1356
01:30:11,239 --> 01:30:14,560
off Monroe Avenue. You got in
and you took the van. I don't

1357
01:30:14,640 --> 01:30:18,000
remember this, okay, all remember
the night I got really drunk somewhere in

1358
01:30:18,039 --> 01:30:20,760
the city and I ended up I
ended up waking up next morning in one

1359
01:30:20,800 --> 01:30:27,520
of Frenchick's extra bedroom. I think
all of us have Frenchicks. I think

1360
01:30:27,520 --> 01:30:30,920
all of us have done that.
All right, well we will. We'll

1361
01:30:31,000 --> 01:30:35,000
take a moment when we come back. It's Mark's favorite game, cheez.

1362
01:30:35,079 --> 01:30:39,319
Come on, Mark one, last
one? No, you said last one,

1363
01:30:39,560 --> 01:30:41,880
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I will tell you right now that
I have a guilty pleasure. Oh yeah,

1400
01:33:21,720 --> 01:33:25,239
I'm a fan of George Michael.
Oh I am too. I am

1401
01:33:25,279 --> 01:33:31,920
a documentary now. I saw Prime
or somebody has a competing documentary, and

1402
01:33:32,000 --> 01:33:36,000
I'll say it's competing, and I
didn't think these it would be. But

1403
01:33:36,119 --> 01:33:42,840
it says the real George Michael documentary. But I watched the Netflix one I'm

1404
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:45,520
Wham. I watched the one I'm
wha wham. This is supposed to be

1405
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about. I guess on Prime it
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1406
01:33:47,640 --> 01:33:50,960
know which. I didn't watch it. I didn't watch it. I want

1407
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to. I want a best friend
like Andy Ring. Danny was fucking cool

1408
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because man, he bowed out and
he gave him. He knew, and

1409
01:33:58,640 --> 01:34:00,279
he started the band and he was
the brains behind it. And then the

1410
01:34:00,399 --> 01:34:04,359
reason he's he's George Michaels became this. Yes, so yeah that yeah,

1411
01:34:04,399 --> 01:34:11,239
he supported it and yeah you're right, yeah, and Andy's still alive and

1412
01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:15,119
George snotts. That's true. That's
christmased to give you as her Yeah,

1413
01:34:15,199 --> 01:34:18,840
another various buddybirds. But I don't
know why I've always thought this guy was

1414
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:25,880
super talented. I would get mocked
merciless see too. But I never told

1415
01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:29,880
people, well as I was another
one. I just didn't give a shit.

1416
01:34:30,279 --> 01:34:31,319
Yeah, I didn't care. You
know, when you're when you have

1417
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:35,359
long hair earrings, you're listening to
metal, No saying you like George Michaels

1418
01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:39,279
and Wayam's kind of well, that's
why you had earrings and ship, didn't

1419
01:34:39,319 --> 01:34:42,000
you. Yeah, I didn't have
any of that. No tattoos, no

1420
01:34:42,079 --> 01:34:45,000
piercing. No. I just said
I hadn't nothing. I was always like

1421
01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:49,399
a bitch since nineteen ninety three.
He looked like a bitch, sincetead.

1422
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:57,439
But here's the but here's the thing
is they always, uh the I've become

1423
01:34:57,479 --> 01:35:00,239
friendly now with the people that work
around in our studio, they always when

1424
01:35:00,239 --> 01:35:03,199
they walk by here, like really
late at night now because I don't figure

1425
01:35:03,279 --> 01:35:05,279
I'll do everything here and then I
just go home and go to bed.

1426
01:35:05,640 --> 01:35:09,920
And the tailors down the street they
make clothes down there. Yeah, they're

1427
01:35:09,960 --> 01:35:12,640
here to light there all the time, fucking midnight. I came in this

1428
01:35:12,760 --> 01:35:15,199
morning. I was here by eight
thirty. Those guys were there already started

1429
01:35:15,479 --> 01:35:19,319
workers man and to be fair,
you have not changed since I've known you.

1430
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:24,000
I agree, You've had the same
get up and everything. You haven't

1431
01:35:24,039 --> 01:35:28,159
really changed. He's right, you
didn't go sad. Oh yeah, it's

1432
01:35:28,239 --> 01:35:30,720
kind of sad. I need to
know what the fuck is wrong with me?

1433
01:35:30,960 --> 01:35:33,479
Try to get a dangling airing in
the same since the nineteen ninety I

1434
01:35:33,560 --> 01:35:39,520
did? Yeah, pretty much pretty
much. Yeah, it's fucking disgusting.

1435
01:35:39,880 --> 01:35:43,079
What a lamo? How bad is
that? I tried to get to grow,

1436
01:35:43,239 --> 01:35:45,520
tried to get you to girl go
tea on. I had to not

1437
01:35:45,680 --> 01:35:47,319
No, I didn't want to go
to I grew a bet I did.

1438
01:35:47,359 --> 01:35:50,239
I had a beard for a for
like a hot minute. I did,

1439
01:35:50,439 --> 01:35:53,439
and we started the show. You
had one for a little bit at the

1440
01:35:53,479 --> 01:35:56,840
beginning. Yeah, I probably because
I just didn't shave, That's all I

1441
01:35:57,039 --> 01:35:59,840
was. Seriously, you were sitting
in your underpantstore. We had cameras too,

1442
01:36:00,159 --> 01:36:04,239
um, but I had That's true. I did. Uh drill,

1443
01:36:04,399 --> 01:36:11,600
sex is good, everybody should,
that's right. I'm thinking if you put

1444
01:36:11,680 --> 01:36:15,439
porn in other parts of the world
that I think women would get better treatment

1445
01:36:15,920 --> 01:36:20,560
and some like no, like you
know what, please send me for a

1446
01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:24,640
fucking Second, what I'm trying to
say is that some of those guys beat

1447
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:29,159
off to porn in some of these
places where they're just awful to women and

1448
01:36:29,279 --> 01:36:31,600
women have no rights and stuff,
that maybe they'd be a little more relaxed

1449
01:36:32,199 --> 01:36:35,520
and we could move forward. That's
all I'm saying. There's got some pent

1450
01:36:35,640 --> 01:36:41,199
up frustration because they're not They don't
they outlaw, they outlaw porn. So

1451
01:36:41,279 --> 01:36:44,000
who's George from the tongue he wants
to sex from in this cell? Because

1452
01:36:44,119 --> 01:36:46,600
I don't know if it's just really
hot chicks. There was a really hot

1453
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:50,520
chick? Was this city, Crawford? I don't remember. I didn't see.

1454
01:36:50,560 --> 01:36:53,680
I've been talking to you guys,
not paying attention to the video.

1455
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:57,520
All. I apologize, But I
was a George Michael fan, and I

1456
01:36:57,640 --> 01:37:01,199
haven't changed my style since Society three
three. I don't think I've probably changed

1457
01:37:01,199 --> 01:37:04,279
it since high school. I'm not
kidding, Like I went to Fisher.

1458
01:37:04,439 --> 01:37:06,840
I'm you're right, I'm wearing a
button down today. I would have wore

1459
01:37:06,920 --> 01:37:11,439
this to fit at Fisher. I
mean the same way. No, No,

1460
01:37:11,680 --> 01:37:15,720
I'm not. Unfortunately, I'm not. I am. I'm way heavier

1461
01:37:17,439 --> 01:37:23,079
fuck off man. Yes, me
bigger, but no, not that either.

1462
01:37:23,279 --> 01:37:26,840
Yes, a little bit, No, a little bit. I was,

1463
01:37:27,039 --> 01:37:31,159
uh, well I've noticed through to
you my weight, Uh yeah right,

1464
01:37:31,439 --> 01:37:36,520
it probably is. Um my weight
has has certainly fluctuated a little bit.

1465
01:37:38,439 --> 01:37:41,319
I'm working on that. I'm working
on that though. I need to

1466
01:37:41,399 --> 01:37:45,640
be but I need to be down
like twenty pounds. And I was headed

1467
01:37:45,720 --> 01:37:49,039
that way, and and then the
weekend came and it went all right back

1468
01:37:49,119 --> 01:37:57,840
up Jesus, all right, Mark, this is easy. All on this

1469
01:37:58,039 --> 01:38:01,079
date? What everything August first?
Okay, August first, everything August first.

1470
01:38:02,800 --> 01:38:08,359
On this date, August first,
Rush Limbaugh began his national radio show

1471
01:38:08,840 --> 01:38:15,600
What Year Something? Radio? Guys? Okay, Rush Limbaugh. So I

1472
01:38:15,039 --> 01:38:18,359
a date popped into my head,
and I think it's wrong. So I'm

1473
01:38:18,359 --> 01:38:24,520
gonna write down two and side as
I before, Yeah, before we release

1474
01:38:25,319 --> 01:38:29,119
on this date August first, the
I thirty five West Bridge in Minneapolis,

1475
01:38:29,279 --> 01:38:33,000
Minnesota, collapsing into the Mississippi River. Shit during the rush. Remember remember

1476
01:38:33,039 --> 01:38:39,119
that driving to work you're thinking about
I mean, let's say you just got

1477
01:38:39,199 --> 01:38:42,359
in turn arguer all. Coming home
from work, you had a fight with

1478
01:38:42,439 --> 01:38:44,640
your wife that morning, You're thinking
of what am I gonna do. What

1479
01:38:44,720 --> 01:38:45,840
am I gonna do? You don't
have to do anything. It's all over,

1480
01:38:45,960 --> 01:38:48,880
buddy, you I think, I
think, not only do I want

1481
01:38:48,920 --> 01:38:53,239
to go missing, I want to
freaking go off for bridge to collapses in

1482
01:38:53,319 --> 01:38:56,279
the water. I remember we were
at a concert and we got a little

1483
01:38:56,359 --> 01:38:58,560
over surgeon. Me and my wife
got a room and we were turned on

1484
01:38:58,640 --> 01:39:01,079
the TV and that was on.
Wow. What year? What year was

1485
01:39:01,119 --> 01:39:09,760
that? What year? Uh?
A lot of years this time? Okay?

1486
01:39:11,399 --> 01:39:15,279
On the state August first, the
US and Canada create North American Air

1487
01:39:15,359 --> 01:39:19,279
Defense Command NORAD. What year was
NORAD created? Come on, Mark,

1488
01:39:19,439 --> 01:39:25,199
don't look so blank, Norad.
It was the same year as the plumpkin

1489
01:39:26,039 --> 01:39:39,640
created Norad. Uh, I don't
know. His questions get nice, questions

1490
01:39:39,720 --> 01:39:45,479
get dumb and dumb every week every
week. You learned something every week?

1491
01:39:45,199 --> 01:39:47,520
No, I really don't, because
usually there's gonna pay attention, you know.

1492
01:39:47,680 --> 01:39:53,399
Usually they're rock once or twice.
The answers not not often, not

1493
01:39:53,560 --> 01:39:58,279
often? Stuff all right. Born
in nineteen fifty two, turning seventy one

1494
01:39:58,319 --> 01:40:01,199
today, Nancy Lopez has been favorite
among the golfing scene here in Rochester.

1495
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:11,920
How many times did Nancy win at
Locust Hill? That was fast, Mark,

1496
01:40:11,960 --> 01:40:13,840
you knew the answer that I think, I'm might. I don't know.

1497
01:40:13,920 --> 01:40:17,239
I'm gonna write down two numbers.
Today is also the birthday of legendary

1498
01:40:17,319 --> 01:40:23,520
musician and lead singer The Grateful Dead
Jerry Garcia. What year was it,

1499
01:40:23,720 --> 01:40:35,640
Jerry Barne, not Cherry Garcia,
Mark, Jerry Garcia? And the last,

1500
01:40:35,680 --> 01:40:40,680
but not least in seventeen ninety one, Robert Carter the Third, a

1501
01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:45,000
Virginia plantation owner. Freeze, how
many of his slaves and the largest private

1502
01:40:45,079 --> 01:40:49,520
emancipation in US history? How many
slaves did he? How many slaves did

1503
01:40:49,560 --> 01:41:02,600
he free of his own? Good? Okay, yeah, those are the

1504
01:41:02,640 --> 01:41:04,279
questions. Now we got to come
up with the answers. Now. The

1505
01:41:04,319 --> 01:41:08,920
first one was Rush Limbaugh, And
for some reason, I was thinking nineteen

1506
01:41:09,000 --> 01:41:11,479
eighty four, but I go,
there was no way that that's true.

1507
01:41:11,600 --> 01:41:14,920
I got eighty three. But I'm
saying that it is naturally syndicated show.

1508
01:41:15,359 --> 01:41:17,760
I think if oh, I don't
know, maybe he did start before Stern,

1509
01:41:18,199 --> 01:41:20,520
because then I go, could have
been ninety four. I don't know

1510
01:41:20,560 --> 01:41:23,800
why eighty four was in my head. And then I'm going, is that

1511
01:41:23,920 --> 01:41:29,560
on Orson Wells the Orwellian you know
what I mean? What's when are you

1512
01:41:29,640 --> 01:41:34,159
going? With nationally syndicated show.
I'm gonna say nineteen ninety four. He

1513
01:41:34,359 --> 01:41:41,640
chose Poorley shit nineteen eighty eight,
fucking shit, well eighty three. So

1514
01:41:41,760 --> 01:41:46,479
you're five years off, and i'm
I'm more than ninet two sixteen. I

1515
01:41:46,920 --> 01:41:51,479
I thirty five west Bridge at Minneapolis
thirteen killed Injuring one hundred and forty five.

1516
01:41:51,640 --> 01:41:56,039
What year did the bridge go down? Nineteen ninety seven? I said,

1517
01:41:56,119 --> 01:41:59,960
twenty sixteen, two thousand and seven, now two thousand and seven.

1518
01:42:00,000 --> 01:42:03,800
Then he's him off by nine?
Somebody score so far? Yeah, I

1519
01:42:03,800 --> 01:42:09,880
would just fucking crush you. Yes, Norad? What year was Norad?

1520
01:42:10,079 --> 01:42:15,680
Created? Nineteen ninety five? Set
three nineteen fifty seven. That's why it's

1521
01:42:15,720 --> 01:42:18,800
a dumb question. It's not a
dumb question. We're just dumb people.

1522
01:42:19,359 --> 01:42:24,600
You can't blame the question for being
dumb when you're the dummy. I fiddled,

1523
01:42:24,640 --> 01:42:28,359
but I blame the question. Don't
forget it. No, I lost

1524
01:42:28,399 --> 01:42:30,560
my train of thoughts of the filing
because you're dumb. Yes, how I

1525
01:42:30,640 --> 01:42:38,800
am How many times did Queen Nancy
win at Locust Hill once? Nice?

1526
01:42:38,880 --> 01:42:45,000
At eight three? Oh? I
almost went to three. Fuck what year?

1527
01:42:45,520 --> 01:42:49,039
Jerry Garcia born nineteen forty one.
I said, forty seven, nineteen

1528
01:42:49,199 --> 01:42:56,239
forty two, Oh wow, Mark
on fire? And how many of his

1529
01:42:56,439 --> 01:43:00,840
slaves in the largest private emancipation in
US history? Did mister Robert Carter the

1530
01:43:01,039 --> 01:43:05,880
third? Would you say over one? Two? I said three hundred and

1531
01:43:05,880 --> 01:43:10,960
thirty two. Okay, there you
go. I was gonna say it had

1532
01:43:10,960 --> 01:43:13,760
to be under a thousand for some
reason. Close one, Yeah, it

1533
01:43:13,920 --> 01:43:15,760
is close. I think this goes
to Mark because Mark ripped up his paper.

1534
01:43:15,800 --> 01:43:17,439
No, but I think Mark.
I think it goes to Mark.

1535
01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:20,800
Seriously, was off on a couple
so was I. But I think you

1536
01:43:20,880 --> 01:43:26,760
know that's good Mark. Anyboddy,
you're coming around, Pat Matt wasn't here,

1537
01:43:27,560 --> 01:43:30,760
That wasn't here to ruin it when
that would have crushed us. By

1538
01:43:30,800 --> 01:43:33,079
the way, today was the first
day in pads for the Buffalo Bills a

1539
01:43:33,119 --> 01:43:38,960
training camp or yesterday, and uh, DeMar Hamlin was out there and he

1540
01:43:39,039 --> 01:43:42,520
kept saying it's his faith. I
gotta think in the back of your head,

1541
01:43:43,199 --> 01:43:45,399
you know what. I have no
idea what it would be like to

1542
01:43:45,439 --> 01:43:47,479
be DeMar Hamlin. I can only
imagine what it would be like to be

1543
01:43:47,600 --> 01:43:51,800
DeMar Hamlin's parents. Do you know
what I'm saying? Family? Family?

1544
01:43:51,920 --> 01:43:55,760
But I'm thinking like if you're his
mom, team or his dad, And

1545
01:43:55,880 --> 01:43:58,600
that's the only perspective I could probably
come from because it's not you know,

1546
01:43:59,000 --> 01:44:02,119
I go, that's a fucking that
would you be holding your breath? I

1547
01:44:02,159 --> 01:44:04,720
don't know if I could watch I
don't know if I could watch him play

1548
01:44:04,760 --> 01:44:08,720
football again. Any I can tell
you a story after I'll blow your mind,

1549
01:44:08,800 --> 01:44:13,199
just like that, Um Vinny Testaverdi
when he his father wasn't um had

1550
01:44:13,239 --> 01:44:15,720
a heart attack watching one of his
games. Was never watched the football game

1551
01:44:15,800 --> 01:44:19,199
for ten years. If any Testaverdy
was in when the Jets went to the

1552
01:44:19,279 --> 01:44:24,600
championship in ninety eight, I think
it was, Yeah, is that was

1553
01:44:24,640 --> 01:44:28,039
the first game his father watched was
the championship, which they lost. Yeah,

1554
01:44:28,359 --> 01:44:30,800
thanks a lot, dad, Yeah, thanks thanks for coming around.

1555
01:44:30,960 --> 01:44:33,560
Right, But his dad had a
heart attack while watching a game because he

1556
01:44:33,600 --> 01:44:39,680
got so excited. Yeah, couldn't
watch his game. Yep, that's that's

1557
01:44:39,760 --> 01:44:43,039
kind of a heartbreaker. I couldn't
watch test forty for other reasons. Why,

1558
01:44:45,399 --> 01:44:49,000
pretty good he got he got the
right when Parcels got him, they

1559
01:44:49,079 --> 01:44:53,680
turned him into a good quarter though. Yeah he was well, they put

1560
01:44:53,760 --> 01:44:58,399
him in a Tampa Bay was a
shit team for twenty Testaverdy and Bernie Kozar.

1561
01:44:58,920 --> 01:45:02,600
Yeah, two guys I always thought
were They don't get enough credit.

1562
01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:06,000
They don't because they were playing at
a time when the quarterbacks got their ship.

1563
01:45:06,079 --> 01:45:11,000
Kidding right, man. Vinie was
a big man. Yeah, yeah,

1564
01:45:11,000 --> 01:45:14,000
they were big guys. But that
was it all right, well for

1565
01:45:14,399 --> 01:45:19,119
um Martha Soldier excuse me, brought
it tonight, Mark, But I had

1566
01:45:19,199 --> 01:45:24,199
fun guys, all right, I
told you what happened last week. Yeah,

1567
01:45:24,319 --> 01:45:26,319
yeah, no, no, no, yeah. They started started to

1568
01:45:26,399 --> 01:45:30,600
my uh, you know, my
vacation down period, my vacation for Kevin

1569
01:45:30,720 --> 01:45:34,319
Muir coming up with a great question. I do think I like closest to

1570
01:45:34,399 --> 01:45:39,239
the pen. I don't care what
Mark says. I don't know. I'll

1571
01:45:39,680 --> 01:45:41,720
see you tomorrow. We'll see you
tomorrow.
